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It is Strawberry. 10 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 1: Letter thanking a for you subject Where should I sit? 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: Dear Steven Shirley, I'm a fifty five year old married 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: woman and my husband is currently going through a very 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 1: disrespectful stage of life. He thinks he's a scholar and 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: a comedian, and he is flirtatious with younger women, my 15 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: son's girlfriend in particular. I've heard my husband congratulate my 16 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: son on pulling someone so fine and asking questions like 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: where does she work work out? And is her mama 18 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: as fine as she is? I thought it was father 19 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: son bonding, but he has gotten worse. We had Memorial 20 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: Day get together and my son's girlfriend came over with 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: her little girl. Excuse me, The little girl was attached 22 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: to me because she said I reminded her of her grandmother. 23 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: The girlfriend was walking around with the plate on the 24 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: patio and all the seats were taken, and she asked 25 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: my husband where should I sit. My super ignorant husband 26 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: said I know where you can sit, and I almost 27 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: jumped up and tackled him. He had a dirty old 28 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: man look on his face and the girlfriend was smiling 29 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: from ear to ear, so I loudly told him to 30 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: sit his ass down somewhere. Immediately, he got bristly with 31 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: me and we had a screaming match in front of 32 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: our guests. He said he wasn't flirting and it was 33 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: a joke. I took a lot. I take a lot 34 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: of mess from him, but I don't have to tolerate 35 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: this in my house. My son is in support of 36 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: this father because maybe he doesn't know my husband was 37 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: implying something nasty when he said that to his girlfriend. 38 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: My husband is waiting for me to apologize, and I 39 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: did not do anything wrong. The girl was at our 40 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: house again last night and she was acting funny too. 41 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: What's going on with my husband? Did I overreact or 42 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: is my husband playing me for a fool? Please help well, 43 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: I don't think your husband's playing you for a fool. 44 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: I don't think that. Did you overreact? Well maybe you did, 45 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: but you know, I just tell you don't second guess 46 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: yourself if you think something was going on, if you 47 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: were feeling something. You know how we are with our 48 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: intuition and all of that. We know how with other 49 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: women are at our house and if they're flirting with 50 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: our men and all of that. I mean, you know, 51 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: you probably were right about your husband's response to his 52 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: son's disrespectful girlfriend. Where do I sit? And he goes? 53 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: I know where you can sit? Did he show her 54 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: a seat or did he just say that? You said 55 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: he had a dirty old man look on us. I 56 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: just think you know it was too bad your husband 57 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 1: was flirting with this young lady and allowed this kind 58 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: of foolishness to go down. And the fact that you 59 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: guys got into a screaming match at the house. What 60 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: was that about? No, I mean, I think he was 61 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: feeling guilty at this point because he knew that he 62 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: was flirting with this young girl. I don't think there's 63 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: no other way for you to take it except that 64 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: he was low key, I don't know, kind of hitting 65 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: on her. I just say, who does this type of 66 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: thing in front of their wife at the house. I 67 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: think he was out of order, and no, you shouldn't 68 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: be expected to apologize to him. You weren't the one 69 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: who said this to the guest. Your husband was, and 70 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: he flipped it. Now you're feeling guilty. Now you're feeling 71 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: like you should apologize, and you overreacted. I think you're 72 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: dead on your spot on and I think you need 73 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: to talk to your son too, because he sided with 74 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: his dad, your husband, against you on this one. 75 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: Steve Sladad agree with a lot of things, and Shirley 76 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 3: has given some answers that I have been in total 77 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 3: agreement with. I think she does a fine job with 78 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: her segment on the Strawberry Letter, but sometimes she fails 79 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 3: in her obligation miserably, and this is the one time 80 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 3: that I think she has failed. Surely you made some 81 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 3: statements in this I can't believe you made it. The 82 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: girl has not been disrespectful in here at all. 83 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: The girl ain't did nothing. 84 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 3: Nothing by saying where should I sit with not being disrespectful? 85 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 3: Let me go through this letter so I can save 86 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: this marriage before surely end another one. 87 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: To break up. You might as well. 88 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 3: Uh you fifty six years old lady, And she says 89 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 3: her husband's currently going through a very disrespectful stage of life. Yes, 90 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: sir has a girlfriend. And you've heard your son, your 91 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 3: husband congratulate your son. I'm pulling somebody so fine, asking 92 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: questions like where she work out, and that's her. Mama's 93 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 3: fine as she is. Now, let me say something. When 94 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 3: my sons come home with a fine one. You know, 95 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 3: I'm on their I'm on their Instagram with them. Dad, 96 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: don't want you to meet this girl, well what she 97 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 3: look like, because I know they know so that they 98 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 3: got an ig page and all this heit And I'm 99 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: looking at me and I'll live vicariously through my boys, 100 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 3: because I mean, boy, I'm talking about who come on, 101 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 3: Come through, boy, come through songs. You know I've said 102 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 3: stuff like you better be a Harvey showing what you're 103 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 3: working with. Come on, boy, I see you lord, and 104 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 3: have mercy. 105 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: Girl. 106 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 3: I've asked a little girl, girl, you ever had thanks 107 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 3: giving us and some well off people house? 108 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: You know, stuff like that. You know, But so I 109 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 2: know what he's doing. Uh. 110 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 3: I thought it was father's son bonding, but he has 111 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 3: gotten worse. I had a mamoil day gathering. Son's girlfriend 112 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 3: came over with her little girl. The little girl was 113 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 3: attracted to me because she said, you reminded her of 114 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: her grandmother. The girlfriend was walking around with a plate 115 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 3: on the patio and all the seats were taken, and 116 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: she asked my husband, where should I sit? That wasn't 117 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 3: being disrespectful, you said. She was walking around the patio 118 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: and all the seats were taken. She said where should 119 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 3: I sit? My superdiggaant husband said, I know where you 120 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 3: can sit. God, though I almost jumped up the taculty, 121 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 3: we come back. 122 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 2: I straightened it. 123 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: Out at twenty three minutes after the hour. We'll come 124 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: back to recap the Strawberry letter right after this. You're 125 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: listening Morning show, All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap 126 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is where should I. 127 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 3: This woman who's fifty five is married to this man, 128 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 3: she said, going through a very which what does she 129 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 3: call it? Disrespectful stage of life, and especially when it 130 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 3: comes to his son's girlfriend. 131 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 2: He bought over to the house and she banged. 132 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 3: She fined, so he asked her questions like where you 133 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 3: work out? 134 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 2: You know. Uh you know, is your mama as fine 135 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: as she is? 136 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 3: Hell yeah, hell yeah, I tell you right now, Yeah, 137 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 3: I can tell you right now here. Yes, she find 138 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 3: And daddy thought that, and you thought it was father's 139 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,239 Speaker 3: son bonding but didn't. 140 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 2: Got worse. 141 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 3: The girl came over from memorw They bought a little girl. 142 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 3: The little girl was attracted to her mother because the 143 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 3: lady wrote the letter, because your mind of her grandmama. 144 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 3: And the girlfriend was walking around with a plate on 145 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 3: the patio and all the seats were taken. The lady said, 146 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: all the seats was taken, so she asked my husband 147 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 3: where should I sit? My super ignorant husband said, I 148 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: know where you can sit. Oh, I know where you 149 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: can sit. I know how I said it, sit, So 150 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: you want to sit? 151 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: Huh? I almost jumped up and tackled him. 152 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: He had a dirty old man look on his face, 153 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 3: and the girlfriend was smiling from ear to ear. He's 154 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 3: flattering his son's girlfriend publicly in front of everyone. Now 155 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 3: it's this bad judgment. Yep, it's just being done in portaste, yep. 156 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 3: But he's doing it in front of everybody, so he 157 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: don't really see the harm in it. So I loudly 158 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 3: told him to sit his ass down some way. Immediately 159 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 3: he got bristly with me, hold up, nod, Hell are 160 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: you hollering at? And we had a screaming match in 161 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 3: front of our guests. He said he wasn't flirting and 162 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 3: it was a joke. Now I believe that he wasn't flirting, 163 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 3: but it was a joke. 164 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: Now. Was it in poor taste? Yes? 165 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 3: Was the timing of it bad, yes, But this joke 166 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 3: was done in front of everybody. He ain't pulling off 167 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,439 Speaker 3: to the side trying to meet up with the girl. 168 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 3: He did this in front of everybody. I take a 169 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 3: lot of mess from him, but I don't have to 170 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 3: tolerate this at my house. My son is in support 171 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 3: of his father because maybe he don't know my husband 172 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 3: was implying something nasty when he said that to his girlfriend. No, 173 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 3: he wasn't implying something nasty. He was implying something riscal. 174 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 3: He not being nasty with his son's girlfriend. Your husband 175 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 3: shouldn't have said it that way, and his poor taste 176 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 3: and bad timing. But I know people that tell bad 177 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 3: distaste for jokes all the time, and I really think 178 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 3: this is one of those times. And he ain't upset 179 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 3: with his father because he know where his father coming from. 180 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,839 Speaker 3: And plus you don't know what you you're not pretty too. 181 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 3: It's a conversation to him and his daddy have when 182 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 3: you ain't around, because father and sons conversation is not 183 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 3: for the mothers. I can just tell y'all that right now, 184 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,599 Speaker 3: what I say to Winter, Jason and Stevie that this 185 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 3: cannot be said in front of his sisters and his mama. 186 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: So he didn't let one out in front of you. 187 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 2: That's what happened. 188 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 3: Now, Shirley says, trust your heart and everything, and this 189 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 3: disrespectful girl walking around your house. The girl has done nothing. 190 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 3: She just walking around straight up fighting. And if you 191 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 3: got to be penalized. 192 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: For being f. 193 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 3: No, you now that's exactly what you said. 194 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 2: Yeah I did. 195 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: I did because she asked. She didn't have to. She 196 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 1: walking around with a plate, flouncing around all the seats 197 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 1: are taken. 198 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: No, she flounce around because she fine, it ain't flouncing 199 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 3: it just do what it do. 200 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: It's shaped like that, couldn't move like that. 201 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: He flirts with younger women, and his girlfriend in particular, 202 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: so he was flirting. 203 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 2: No, Sureley, listen that's what. 204 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 4: Said. 205 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 2: He wasn't flirting and it was a joke. I take 206 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 2: a lot of mess for him, but I tolerate this. 207 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 3: To mi, my son is a part of his father 208 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 3: because he don't know my husband applying something nasty when 209 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 3: he said that to his girlfriend. My husband is waiting 210 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 3: for me to apologize, and I did not do anything wrong. 211 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 3: The girl was at our house again last night and 212 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 3: she was acting funny too. 213 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: The reason she. 214 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 3: Acted funny was because the last time she was over there, 215 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 3: y'all had a screaming and shouting match, and she feels 216 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 3: like it was at her because everything was directed at her. 217 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 2: Oh whatever we're doing that, she's sitting up. 218 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 3: All the barbecue. Now, little fine mama that came up 219 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 3: in there, you know, see his mama. 220 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 2: The girl that wrote the letter, she' been. 221 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 3: In fifty five, mamul day outing. There was all jealousy. 222 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 3: Fifty five look good on a lot of. 223 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show? All right, so here we are, 224 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: We're back. The Strawberry letter subject today was where should 225 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: I sit? It was from a fifty five year old 226 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: woman who wrote in because her husband is currently going 227 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: through She called a disrespectful, very disrespectful stage of life. 228 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: He's being very flirtatious with younger women and his son's 229 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: girlfriend in particular, they had a barbecue. The young lady 230 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: was there carrying a plate and she asked where could 231 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: she sit, and the woman said her super ignorant husband said, oh, 232 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: I know where you can sit. 233 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 3: And it started a very loud fight and argument in 234 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 3: front of all the guests guests, and I realized, I said, 235 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 3: I know the guy. That was distasteful what he said 236 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 3: in the time it was all but people make distaste 237 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 3: for jokes all the time, they just don't know it. 238 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 3: But I don't think this man is trying to make 239 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 3: a pass at the girl. I think he's just like 240 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 3: doing a dirty old man joke and it's just a 241 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 3: wrong place in time. 242 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, his house, in front of his wife is his 243 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: son's girlfriend, and in front of everyone, he said it. 244 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 3: And in front of everybody. But then she jumped up 245 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 3: and went off on the man in front of everybody. 246 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 3: They had a loud screaming match, and I think that 247 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 3: she should have said, excuse me, can I talk to 248 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 3: you for a second and pull him to the side 249 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 3: and check him. 250 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: But I was going to say he said what he 251 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: said in front of everyone, right, but she got. 252 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 2: Pull him to the side, Listen to me, Listen to me. 253 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 3: His intent he thought he was being funny in a joke, 254 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 3: bad timing, poor choice of jokes, distasteful, but the way 255 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 3: to check him was not in front of everybody. 256 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: She was wrong, respected her, she felt disrespected. 257 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:16,479 Speaker 2: The wife did in front of the son is not offend, okay. 258 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 4: Sekund So if the married couple had a daughter who 259 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 4: came with a fine boy and the boyfriend said where 260 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 4: should I sit? 261 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: And the wife said, I know where you can sit? 262 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: Then how with the That's not what this story is. 263 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 2: That's not what this story is. 264 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: This you guys trying to flip it it. 265 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 3: Flip it from y'all flipping it. 266 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: We're not shut up, tommy, We're not flipping. 267 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: It at all. 268 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 3: There's no such thing as a dirty old woman, has 269 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 3: a such thing as a dirty old man. 270 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 2: Y'all don't. 271 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: In this letter. 272 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: That's not what y'all do. So you do, though, what 273 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: was the I know where you could sit? 274 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: Exactly? That's why she got it right there in front 275 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: of everybody coming up at the top of the hour. Crap, 276 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: CARDI B and her husband offset ran into neo at 277 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: a strip club. We'll talk about that right after this. 278 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning show