1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine, Hey besties. 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: Today on the bright Side, We've got a pair of 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: best selling authors and hosts, the trail blazing and downright 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 2: hilarious rough and sisters Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar. It's Thursday, 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 2: June twenty seventh. 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 3: I'm Simone Boyce, I'm Danielle Robe and this is the 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 3: bright Side from Hello Sunshine. 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: Okay, Danielle, we have some really exciting news to share 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 2: with our bright Side besties. 10 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 3: Yes, we are so excited to announce the return of 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 3: shine Away, connected by AT and T. 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 2: Listen y'all if you don't know, shine Away is an 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 2: unforgettable weekend event that brings together the Hello Sunshine community 14 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: with two days of programming and inspiring activations aimed at 15 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 2: empowering women to reclaim their joy, connect with their passions, 16 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 2: and just transform their lives. And this year, I hear 17 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: it's going to be bigger and better than ever. 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: Transformative is the word. I felt so connected when I 19 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 3: was there last year. It was one of my favorite 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 3: days of the year, and it just feels really motivating. 21 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 3: You walk away having met these ambitious, curious, thoughtful. 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: Just like minded women. It was so fun. 23 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: So here are the details, y'all. This year's event will 24 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 2: take place in Los Angeles on October fifth and six 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: at NYA Studios and Reese Witherspoon. Our Boss Lady is 26 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 2: going to be kicking off the program for fans come 27 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: hang out with us. 28 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: We cannot wait. 29 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: Tickets are available now at Hello, Dash Sunshine dot com 30 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 3: slash shine away. All Right, today feels like a day 31 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 3: that's going to be full of laughter and sisterly love. 32 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 2: Oh you just wait, Danielle. Our guests are New York 33 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: Times bestselling authors and sisters Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar. 34 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: They're critically acclaimed books entitled You'll Never Believe What Happened 35 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: To Lacey, Crazy Stories about Racism and the World Record 36 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: Book of Racist Stories. They make readers cry, laugh and 37 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: then cry laughing. 38 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 3: That's the best type of laughter when it's uncontrollable. 39 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: Mm hm. That's my favorite too. And here's the thing. 40 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: I mean, they grew up together, so they're sisters, and 41 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: they decided to compile all the stories that they collected 42 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 2: from their childhood into adolescence, into adulthood and put them 43 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 2: into these books. So they're sharing the outrageous things that 44 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: they've experienced growing up in Nebraska as smart black women, 45 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 2: but they're adding so much humor and heart to all 46 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: of it. They're so brilliant, both individually and as a duo. 47 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 3: You know, I remember in twenty fourteen when Amber was 48 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 3: hired by Late Night with Seth Myers, making her the 49 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 3: first black woman ever to be a writer on a 50 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 3: late night network show. It's wild because twenty fourteen was 51 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: not that long ago, but I do think it's really 52 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: cool that she made history. And you know, I missed 53 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 3: this conversation because I was out with food poisoning. I 54 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 3: had one too many burritos at the airport. I think 55 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 3: it was a little risky. 56 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 1: Girl. Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. It was hard. 57 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: We've got to watch out for those airport burritos. It 58 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: was really terrible. 59 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: But I've followed Amber's career for the last few years, 60 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: and I was really a fan of her late night 61 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 3: show on Peacock. She was a writer on it, and 62 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: of course the host of The Amber Ruffin Show. And 63 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 3: she also just wrote on the revised book for the 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 3: new Broadway adaptation of The Whiz. And what I'm really 65 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 3: excited about today is that we get to know her 66 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: and her sister together because they were born in Omaha, 67 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 3: Nebraska and now they both live in New York. So 68 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: Lacey is the older sister, and I'm wondering if she 69 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 3: gives older sister energy. 70 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: What do you think? 71 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, She's totally giving responsible older sister energy. 72 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: Well, I love that because I love getting to know 73 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 3: talented siblings. What I didn't know is that Amber grew 74 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 3: up doing theater, and her improv and her comedy talents 75 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 3: took her to Chicago, Amsterdam, and La all places where 76 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: she honed her craft. And now Lacy and Amber are 77 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 3: making waves together with their comedy pop culture podcasts, The 78 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 3: Amber and Lacey Lacey and Amber Show. I'm really bummed 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: I miss this one, simone, but I am excited to 80 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: hear your interview with them. 81 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 2: Oh, we missed you so much, Danielle. It's so cool 82 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: to see all these powerful sister duos teaming up. You know, 83 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: we had Regina and Reina King on the show, now 84 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: Amber and Lacey. It's just good vibes all around, and 85 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: so much talent girl power for real. Yes, Well, I'm 86 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 2: so pumped to share this conversation with you and all 87 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 2: of our bright Side besties. Prepare yourself because there will 88 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 2: be laughs. And now my conversation with Amber Ruffin and 89 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 2: Lacey Lamar. Amber and Lacey, welcome to the bright Side. 90 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 2: We're so happy to have you. 91 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: Yay, thank you. We're happy to be here. 92 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: So, Amber, I am currently in New York right now 93 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 2: and I just drove by the Marquis Theater where The 94 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: Whiz is back on Broadway, and you actually wrote for 95 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: this latest adaptation. Congratulations. What does it mean to you 96 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 2: to lend your voice to such an iconic. 97 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 4: Growing up, I absolutely adored The Wiz, and I feel 98 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 4: like the Wiz did for me what it did for 99 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 4: a lot of people was it made it seem possible 100 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 4: to become a performer and to have your story told 101 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 4: and you know, honored and enjoyed by the masses. So 102 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 4: when I was tasked with rewriting The Wiz, I just 103 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 4: wanted to make sure to do that for the next generation. 104 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 4: So hopefully I have And when kids go and see it, 105 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 4: you know, when adults go and see it, they feel 106 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 4: seen represented and they feel like everything is a little 107 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 4: more possible. 108 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: What's your earliest memory of The Whiz. 109 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 4: My earliest memory of The Whiz is like it has 110 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 4: always existed, So I just feel like it is everywhere 111 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 4: all the time, like the news. You know, like you 112 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 4: don't remember the first time time you saw the news. 113 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: It just you always were rare that it existed. 114 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's like the whiz, It's just always always around. 115 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: How about for you, Lacey? 116 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 4: We used to reenact scenes from it and Amber probably 117 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 4: doesn't remember, but remember the scary scene from the movie 118 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 4: where it was like little dude and we still like 119 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 4: be in the basement and like chase each other, doing 120 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 4: that to terrify us. 121 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: So was this kind of what it meant to be 122 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: a rough in sister? Were you both super imaginative growing up? 123 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:36,239 Speaker 4: Reenactments all the time, singing, making up songs. We sang 124 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 4: everything like Mom, what's for dinner? And then she'd singing back. Yeah, 125 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 4: we were over the time. 126 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: Did you did you drive your parents crazy? I mean, 127 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: where they like stop with the singing and the performances 128 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: or did they embrace it? 129 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: They were used to it. My parents will even join 130 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: in and they'll join into this day. I love it. 131 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: Well, you channeled all of that imaginative little girl energy 132 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 2: into this incredible career now as adults and sisters. I 133 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 2: mean you have written two best selling books together, you 134 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: have a podcast, your two books, You'll Never Believe What 135 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 2: Happened to Lacey and the world record Book of Racist Stories. 136 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: I mean, you tackle so many outrageous experiences with heart 137 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 2: and humor. Take me into that shift when you went 138 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: from sisters to creative partners. 139 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 4: The shift was pretty painful, and thank you for asking 140 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 4: Lacey's a monster to work with the truth, it was like, 141 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 4: you can't eat yet, we need more chapters. 142 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: Put that hamburger down. That's not true. We only always 143 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: ate and don't forget we had a couple of drinks. 144 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: That's true. 145 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 4: Well yeah, it was literally nothing. 146 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like, yeah, we just realized 147 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: every time we hang. 148 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 5: Out the people would pay us for this, and then 149 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 5: it was just figuring out what to get people to 150 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 5: pay as saying out because we're going to be talking 151 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 5: about Lacey's racist stories. 152 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,679 Speaker 4: We're going to be talking about her and it's going 153 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 4: to be funny, so we might as well write it down. 154 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 2: Lacey, we were wondering if you could tell us about 155 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 2: the time that you got mistaken for whoop be Goldberg. 156 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 4: Oh yes, okay, okay, So I was on vacation in 157 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 4: Colorado and I was up in the mountains and we 158 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 4: were stopping by these little trinket shops. 159 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: They got a million different little trinket shops. 160 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 4: And I walk into this trinket shop and the lady 161 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 4: yells whoop bee, and I yelled back whoop bee because 162 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 4: I'm just like, hey, I just thought that's how she. 163 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:37,839 Speaker 1: Was greeting people. 164 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 4: And she comes up to me, and then the another 165 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 4: lady comes out the back and they're like, oh my god, 166 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 4: thank you for. 167 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: Coming into this store. 168 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 4: And I'm like you're welcome, and they're like you can, 169 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 4: you know, have whatever you want and I was like, 170 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 4: oh okay, grab t shirts, trinkets, necklaces and stuff. 171 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: And I was like thank you. 172 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 4: And then after a while when they were talking to me, 173 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 4: they're like, oh my god, we love you on this, 174 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 4: this this, And I was like, they think I'm would 175 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 4: be Goldberg and listen, did that correct them? 176 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: When we talk about reparations? This is what this is 177 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 2: what we're talking about. There was no way I was 178 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 2: not going to tell them. Plus it would have made 179 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 2: them feel sad they got to meet with Goldbert. This 180 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 2: still doesn't that's true. 181 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm ruining that day. Do you still have the shirts? 182 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: My mom does, and she hated them. They weren't the best. 183 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: Listen, this was hey, the price was right, The price 184 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 2: was the price was right. All right, We got to 185 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: take a quick break, but we'll be right back with 186 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: Amber and Lacey. Stick with us, yell, and we're back 187 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: with Amber and Lacey. What I love about your work 188 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: together is that it's so subversive because I think a 189 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: lot of people who let's say, are not minorities, non POC, 190 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: they look at racist experiences that we all have and 191 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 2: think that we all have to carry it with a 192 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 2: lot of sorrow and a lot of pain. And trust me, 193 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: I do carry it with that as well. But you 194 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: are normalizing humor in all this. You're normalizing like it's 195 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 2: okay to find a way to laugh at these horrible 196 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: things that happened to us. Why was it important for 197 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 2: you to process these stories with humor. 198 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 4: I think that that's the way our family is. If 199 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 4: someone falls down, there is a song instantly written and 200 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 4: we're gonna laugh. 201 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. We like to laugh all the time. 202 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 4: And in telling stories, even though they're really painful, there's always. 203 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: A little giggle at the end. We're like yeah, but 204 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: then this happened. 205 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 4: But also like little racist things can't be painful forever, 206 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 4: Like you really got if you want to make a sting. Ah, 207 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 4: I mean, at this point, we've really got to be 208 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 4: doing some crazy stuff. 209 00:10:55,960 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. But also in this book, the joke is the racist. 210 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: It's how stupid and ignorant and ridiculous they are. And 211 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 4: it's people think like we're making fun of racism, like oh, 212 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 4: slaves are funny. That's not what we're doing. We're saying 213 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 4: this person did this and they're a complete idiot, and 214 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 4: they thought that that was okay to do and what 215 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 4: I do. One of the things that I really loved 216 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 4: about writing the book is I did not think this 217 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 4: was going to happen. But people contacted me and they 218 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 4: were like, oh my god, I do that. I do 219 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 4: that every day at work, or I do this. I'm 220 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,719 Speaker 4: a teacher and I'm one black student and I do this, 221 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 4: and I'm going to stop doing it. I didn't realize 222 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 4: how terrible, And I'm like, great, it. 223 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: Snuck in a little lesson. While you were giggling. You 224 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: were like, huh, oh I do that, Yeah, you do 225 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: you do it all the time. Yeah, is there a 226 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: story that people come up to you and talk to 227 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: you about the most when I'm in Omaha. 228 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 4: It is the art teacher story, because that art teacher 229 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 4: was very well known, and it will be other old 230 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 4: white teachers that come up and go, was it blah 231 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 4: blah blah, And I'm like, yep, you know it was. 232 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 4: You know what I'm talking about, Like that is to me, 233 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 4: that's crazy. But I've had a lot or all of 234 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 4: these students like, oh my god, was that so and so? 235 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had her in the fourth grade. She was terrible. 236 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: So I'm like, yeah, for any of our listeners, we 237 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 2: call them our brightside besties who haven't heard that story, 238 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: would you tell us the art teacher story? 239 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 4: I will, and it's this one is not a funny one, 240 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 4: and not every story in the book is funny. 241 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,839 Speaker 1: But I was a renowned artist in the fifth grade. 242 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: I was amazing. My artwork was great. It's really true. 243 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 4: I had a life size drawing of leif Ericson that 244 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 4: won an award. 245 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: She's quite old. First me a leaf man. 246 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 4: We said, whole nother story, leaf and lacy, and it 247 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 4: was hung in the front of the classroom. My teacher 248 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 4: loved it so much that she permanently hung it. So 249 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 4: the day our new art teacher started missus stinky pants, 250 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 4: She's like writing some stuff on the board and then 251 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 4: she's like, what's this? And I raised my hand and 252 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 4: I'm like, I drew that and won an award and 253 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 4: it's Leif Erickson. And she took it off the wall 254 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 4: and ripped it in half and said, no, you didn't 255 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 4: your parents did this? 256 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: Okay? And I walked home. 257 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 4: Which was only a block away. We are right down 258 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 4: the street from our elementary school. My mother was watching 259 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 4: Young and the Restless, and I was like, our teacher 260 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 4: ritten she came up there and then ripped her a 261 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 4: new one. Never never said that one for me and 262 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 4: that teacher. People are like, oh, is that really racism? 263 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: She was racist. She had proven herself to be racist 264 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: several times. 265 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 4: She was a teacher that told me, you know what, 266 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 4: slavery wasn't about racism. 267 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 1: It's about pure pressure. So if you had a. 268 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 4: Slave and then you saw your neighbors had, well you'd 269 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 4: want to get a slave too. 270 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: Okay, and listen, stick to art. 271 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 4: You didn't need to tell a three lessons failed its. 272 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: Street street teachers for that were good, but there's an 273 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 2: end to the story. 274 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: Okay, let me hear the end. So that's the beginning 275 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: of Middle Amber. Tell theia at the end. So Lacey 276 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: used to work at an old resentment home. 277 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 4: So they wheel this lady in and I'm like, man, 278 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 4: she looks really familiar. And I'm sitting across from her, 279 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 4: and I'm like, did you what did you do for 280 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 4: a living? And she's naming all this stuff but art teacher, 281 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 4: And finally I go, did you use me art teacher? 282 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 4: The law? 283 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: And she's like yes, And I all came flooding back. 284 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 4: And this woman had no visitors, no family, no friends. 285 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, at the end of her life. Wow, this is 286 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: so poetic. Just had a miserable, liable life. 287 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 4: To the point where I was checking on her all 288 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 4: I felt sorry for this woman. Nothing now, no one 289 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 4: ever came, no one not just not a nice woman. 290 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 2: I'm curious how, I mean, you've collected all of these 291 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 2: experiences growing up in Nebraska and you've put them into 292 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: these best selling books. I'm curious, like how growing up 293 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: in this environment shaped your views on the world. 294 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: Both of you probably made us quite skeptical, But I 295 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 4: don't know, growing up in a place where we were 296 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 4: discriminated against so thoroughly, probably made us more insistent on 297 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 4: our greatness, more consistent of our greatest because honestly, like 298 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 4: you could have like Lacey, you could be the best 299 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 4: artist in the school, and this lady will rip up 300 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 4: your painting. So you have to like triple down on 301 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 4: who you are. And I think we do have a 302 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 4: healthy helping of that. 303 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: You must have had parents who reinforced that. Definitely. 304 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 4: My mom's like, you're the best, You're the cutest, your 305 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 4: hair is cute, your everything's cute. 306 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: We thought we were unstoppable. 307 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 4: She did say, you're the smartest in your class, and 308 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 4: anyone who thinks they are is mistaken. 309 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: She said that to all. 310 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 2: Of us Amber growing up, What kind of possibilities did 311 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 2: you see in comedy? 312 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 4: None? Growing up as a zero possibilities and comedy none 313 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 4: not one. Everything I certainly wasn't like one day, I'm 314 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: gonna make it, absolutely not. I always thought that I 315 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 4: would be delivering the mail and in community theater shows. 316 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: And I also was like, these. 317 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 4: White people aren't going to let me do these shows, 318 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 4: but maybe I can have a small part in some 319 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 4: of them. And as a child, that's one hundred percent 320 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 4: I thought would happen to me. I certainly didn't think 321 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 4: I would leave Omaha at all, And then I didn't 322 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 4: think i'd have any type of like special good job. 323 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 2: I was stunned when I came across this amber fact 324 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: that you became the first black woman to write for 325 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 2: a network late night show in twenty fourteen. 326 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 327 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 2: I still can't even wrap my head around that fact. 328 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 2: How do you process that now a decade later? 329 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 1: If you have ever seen a late night so pretty 330 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: obvious that's the case. It's not exactly a bastion of diversity. 331 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 4: No, So when I found that out, I didn't think 332 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: anyone would care because to me, it had been extremely 333 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 4: obvious and like, it is really sad, and it's really 334 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 4: shocking because. 335 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: There are no people funnier than black women. They don't exist. 336 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 4: Find a black lady librarian, she will have you rolling. 337 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 4: You can't find anyone funnier. So to me, it's quite perplexing. 338 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 2: So what do you think needs to happen in order 339 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 2: for these statistics to change? 340 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 4: Society has to move to a point where they can accept, 341 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 4: you know, writing from black women. You know, I think 342 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 4: when people receive anything from a black woman and they 343 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 4: know that's where it came from. 344 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: Then they're like yuck. 345 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 4: Also, we have been exposed to one another's experiences, so 346 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 4: not us them, but them us. 347 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: That comedy is quite segregated, and so just. 348 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:12,439 Speaker 4: How we are funny is so different that you know, 349 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 4: usually the head of a show is white, and they 350 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 4: can't deliver those jokes. You know, they can't. They can't 351 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 4: honor the structure of your comedy. They simply can't. It 352 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 4: would sound crazy coming out of their mouths. So you 353 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 4: either have to shift and become less funny or they 354 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 4: have to shift and appropriate. So there are a million 355 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 4: reasons why, but it boils down to discrimination. 356 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 2: Okay, it's time for another short break, but don't go 357 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 2: anywhere because we've got more laughs plus a little game 358 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 2: after the break. All Right, we're back with dynamic duo 359 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 2: Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar. Lacy, you are in your 360 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 2: New York era now, girl, but back when you're a 361 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: Nebraska era you are a really important figure in your community. 362 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 2: I mean, you were helping immigrants find jobs, working with 363 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 2: younger folks. Are you continuing that work in New York 364 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 2: or are you an Amber just going to be taking 365 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,439 Speaker 2: your comedy duo to New Heights. I mean, what is 366 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 2: going to happen in this New York era? 367 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: Amber and I are working on some projects together. We are. 368 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 1: Can I talk about the dating? Nope? 369 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 4: Okay, so no, I can't talk about that, but we 370 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 4: are working on some projects. 371 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: You can talk about that secret. 372 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 4: Oh okay, sorry, we're working on a project about Okay, 373 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 4: Lacey and how horrible it is to date her. 374 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: That was hard, guys, and that's racism. Want to know 375 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: that's racism? 376 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 4: No? 377 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: We are. 378 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 4: I So on our podcast, The Amber and Lacey Lacy 379 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,880 Speaker 4: and Amber Show, we have a segment called slide out 380 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 4: of Lacey's d MS where I just read message. 381 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 1: So slide out, not slide in. 382 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 4: It's not dates, it's not relationships. It is a one 383 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 4: time deal where someone sends me a message and that's 384 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 4: going to turn into something. It's going to turn into something. 385 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 4: And I will give you an example of one. One 386 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 4: is hello, would you like to have dinner sometime? And 387 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 4: he sent me a picture of him standing in a 388 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 4: freshly dug grave with a shovel. 389 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: These are the types. Get them now? 390 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 4: Are they all that horrifying? Absolutely not? Are they hilarious? 391 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 4: Absolutely that the messages that I have gotten. 392 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,239 Speaker 2: Of I simultaneously have chills and want to throw up 393 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 2: at the same time. There's like a lot of bodily 394 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 2: reactions that want to happen. It's giving saltburn. It's definitely 395 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 2: giving saltburn energy. 396 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: Ton't finish it. Don't tell me anything else. I did 397 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 1: not finish saltburn, but I will find well. 398 00:20:55,760 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 2: Spoiler alert, there's a grave and romance. I'm sorry. I 399 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 2: feel like I owe you an apology, even though it 400 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 2: wasn't me. I just want to apologize for that happening 401 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 2: to you. 402 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,120 Speaker 1: Wait look at it. Let me look at you. Wait, 403 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful looking man. 404 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 2: It's been great having you guys on the show. We 405 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 2: gotta go, No, I'm kidding, g Yeah, all right. We 406 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 2: have a quick little we have a quick little game 407 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: that I'd love to play with you too before we go. 408 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 2: So it's no secret this is a family affair. Clearly 409 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 2: the funny bone runs in the rough and family DNA. 410 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 2: So we're gonna put your sister knowledge to the test 411 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: in a little game that we like to call sister superlatives. 412 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna ask you which sister is most likely 413 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 2: to do x y Z thing and then just give 414 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: us your most honest answer. 415 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 1: We want honesty. Okay, we got it. I got it. 416 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna win. 417 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: So first up, when you were younger, who was most 418 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,719 Speaker 2: likely to get in trouble? 419 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 4: Me? Amber Lacy does not get in trouble. She'll tattle 420 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 4: on you in all tell on everybody, everybody's mom. Wow, 421 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 4: you are snitching. 422 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:05,959 Speaker 1: What are you doing over there? Right now? Look at it? 423 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: Look at me? Stop? I got in trouble. 424 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 4: Wow. 425 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 2: Okay, this one is actually particularly salient based on our 426 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 2: most recent conversation. Who's most likely to stalk someone on 427 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 2: social media? Lacey me, Okay, you got some good detective 428 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: skills there. 429 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 4: Yes, I will find out who you are married to, 430 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 4: how many kids you have, because I'm dating. I gotta 431 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 4: find out before I go on that date. I will 432 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 4: know your blood type. 433 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, totally normal. 434 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: Who is most likely to hog the ox cord during 435 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 2: a road trip? Lacy me, what's your road trip playlist? 436 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: Is it smooth Jazz? 437 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 4: Is it it's baby Face, baby Face, It's Tony Braxton, 438 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 4: it's Anita Baker. 439 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: I mean that sounds like a great road trip to me. 440 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: It's wonderful and a little hood, just a little little gangster. 441 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 2: A little ratchet in there, But like what kind of 442 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 2: like what brand of ratchet are we talking? 443 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:05,959 Speaker 1: Juvenile? Uvinile? Like PD Poblo, the five oh four boys, 444 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 1: hot boys. You gotta have a mix. You gotta do 445 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 1: a high low mix. Okay, who is most likely to 446 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 1: keep a secret? 447 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 4: Me? 448 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: Lacey. 449 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 4: I'm still telling embers because from twenty years ago chosen. 450 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: I don't tell her all at once. 451 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 4: Lacy tells me something new every day, every day day, 452 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 4: every daw because now I'm old enough to know the secrets. 453 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: So now she's still. 454 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 4: Not old enough to know everything. You don't know everything, 455 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 4: but I'll let her know every couple of weeks I 456 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 4: give her. It's really good, guys, it's really good. That 457 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 4: should be another book, the Secrets. I can take a 458 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 4: secret to the grazy kids, put it in the lock bags. 459 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 2: As we wrap up, I want to ask you both, 460 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: after having worked together on all these projects, how have 461 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: you grown together as sisters? 462 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 4: I feel like you never get to work with people 463 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 4: you're related to, you know, and you don't know who 464 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 4: you gonna get. Well, that's not true, because I knew 465 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 4: who Lacey was gonna be I knew Laser was gonna 466 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 4: do all her work on time and be easier and easy. 467 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know, it's nice. 468 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 4: And then the result is we have these lovely accomplishments 469 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 4: that feel great and they are you know, they feel 470 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 4: a lot like vacations we went on. But it's like we, 471 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 4: you know, did a book tour and like sold this 472 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 4: show and wrote another book and podcast and it feels 473 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 4: like this list of cool accomplishments and really quick, we're 474 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 4: all of our accomplishments hosted. 475 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 1: The accomplishment bathroom or all in the bathroom say more. 476 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 4: If you come over, can go to the bathroom and 477 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,360 Speaker 4: you'll be surrounded by accomplishments of us staring at. 478 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 2: You, Hey, genius, and more homes across America should adopt this. 479 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 2: What is the accomplishment that's hanging in the bathroom that 480 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: you are most proud of? 481 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 4: The mine is the book, Amber, I don't know, it's 482 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 4: got all of them in there. They're all in there. 483 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 4: I'n say the Emmy nomination for the Amber Ruffin Trow. 484 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: Yay, yay, good answer. Hey Amber Lacey, thank you so 485 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 1: much for bringing your rough and energy to the bright side. 486 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 5: Yay. 487 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 4: For a sum it's too much, but you seem to 488 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 4: roll with it and we appreciate that. 489 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: Hey, I feel like I would do pretty well on 490 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 2: a rough and road trip like it sounds great, You 491 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: can do it. 492 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. 493 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 2: Amber Ruffin and Lacy Lamar are sisters, writers, podcast hosts, 494 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 2: and authors. 495 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 3: That's our show for today. Thanks so much for listening. 496 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow to pop off with People's Style 497 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 3: and Beauty director Andrea Labenthal. Listen and follow the bright 498 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 3: Side on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 499 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 3: get your podcasts. 500 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm Simone Boye. 501 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: You can find me at Simone Voice on Instagram and TikTok. 502 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 3: Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok. 503 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: That's r O b A. Y. See you tomorrow, folks. 504 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 1: Keep looking on the bright side.