1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 3: All at all, So. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 4: Don't given them. 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: Black all bu bussy. 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 4: Ye listening to. 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 5: Show? 8 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 6: I don't joy? 9 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, joy, you know you. 10 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 4: Love? 11 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 7: You gotta turn. I can't. 12 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 8: Got to turn them. 13 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: Out turn probably got to turn mouth turn the water 14 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: of the money up. 15 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 3: Come come out your. 16 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 9: Huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You all listening 17 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 9: to the voice, come on dig me now. One and 18 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 9: all is Steve Harvey Man got a radio show. How 19 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 9: good is God? 20 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: Huh? Think about it? 21 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 9: Just take a slight inventory of your own life and 22 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 9: say it to yourself when you get through, how good 23 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 9: is God? Think of all the small things all because 24 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 9: that's him. You breathing, that's him. You still here, that's him. 25 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 9: You got another chance? 26 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: That's him. You ain't out of here. That's him. 27 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 9: Got any measure of health, that's him. You think it's 28 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 9: more to it than it really is than it already 29 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 9: showed up to be. That's him. 30 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: All of that. You got, any dreams and aspirations you 31 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 2: dream of other things. 32 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 9: That's him. All that, that's him, that's him. Him, clothes 33 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 9: you got, that's him. Every time you eat. That's why 34 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,839 Speaker 9: they had this thing called you say your grace. That's him. See, 35 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 9: that's him, man, that's him. It's amazing when you take 36 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 9: a small inventory how you find out how big God 37 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 9: really is in your life. Now, the more you turn 38 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 9: yourself over to him, the bigger he can be for you. See, 39 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 9: he'll only be as big as you let him. It's 40 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 9: one thing about God. Now, he's a gentleman. He can 41 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 9: make you do anything. You know, you get too big 42 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 9: for him, you know you you lose your humbleness. He 43 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 9: can humble you. 44 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: Now. 45 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 9: God created man with the power of choice. We're the 46 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 9: only creature he created that. He gave us the total 47 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 9: power of choice when we mate, who we mate with. 48 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 9: You know everything, all of it. Man, it's a choice 49 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 9: what we want to be, how much we want to make, 50 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 9: where we want to live, with climate we want to 51 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 9: live in. We can live in cold climates, hot climates. 52 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 9: You know, we speak different languages. You can go learn 53 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 9: another language. A bear can't do nothing but be a bear. 54 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 9: Is he can't go learn how to be a fox. 55 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 9: He can't go learn how to be an otter. 56 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: He just can't. 57 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 9: And ostrich is an ostrich man he can't come out 58 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 9: here and fight like a lion. A lion is a lion. 59 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 9: A lion eat meat. He can't eat vegetables. I don't 60 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 9: care how much meat ain't around. He'll lay down and 61 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 9: pull up out of here and die because he can't 62 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 9: eat grass. 63 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 2: He just a lion. 64 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 4: Man. 65 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: You understand this that God gave us. 66 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 9: We are the one creature he created that has total 67 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 9: power of choice. You can make every decision in your life. 68 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 9: What kind of watch you like? That's the one you 69 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 9: can buy. You want to live in Switzerland, go ahead. 70 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 9: You don't like Switzerland, you can move to Miami. You 71 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 9: want to live your life for crime, go ahead. 72 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 2: That's you. He gave you the power choice you want 73 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: to do? 74 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 4: Right? 75 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 2: Come on, So now look at this thing. We are 76 00:04:54,200 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: all the results of a series of decis visions that 77 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: we have made. 78 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 9: If we could just identify that the problem is us, 79 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 9: we could began the solution. 80 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: See that's the problem, y'all, it's us. It's what we do. 81 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 9: I threw my life down the hill. I can't tell 82 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 9: you how many years based on some decisions that I 83 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 9: was making. Now I can justify my decision where I 84 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 9: wasn't happy and I was doing this and I was 85 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 9: in miserying y'all. On name, ain't yes to you? When 86 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 9: you get through you made the decisions though, And you 87 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 9: can look at this anyway you want to, y'all. But 88 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 9: at the end of the day, I'm just talking to 89 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 9: people that's really really wanting to improve their position in life. 90 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 2: And how do you do that? You got to have 91 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: a solution. How do you come up with a solution? 92 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 2: You got to identify the problem to even began to 93 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 2: solve it. But if the problem ain't ever you, how 94 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: you gonna solve something that? Ain't you? See? 95 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 9: Okay, let me look at this one. If somebody say, 96 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 9: like I got a child of mine, man, I just 97 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 9: do right here. Man, I don't even wanna get into 98 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 9: it this morning. Boy, I'm struggling with this this boy. 99 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 9: But man, you go to people, you ask them why 100 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 9: they do so I just did. I just wasn't taking 101 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 9: care of business? Why I just didn't take care of business? 102 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 2: Boy? Do you understand that your life is gonna be 103 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 2: filled with you got to take care of business? So 104 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: when you're gonna start, you know what I mean? 105 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 3: You can't. 106 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 2: You can't. You can't go through life blame it everybody. 107 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 2: It's got to be you. See, you can fix you. 108 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: You can't fix. 109 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 9: Nobody else if you keep getting married and the marriages 110 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 9: don't work. Hello, Hello, Hello, Could it be you? So 111 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 9: I founally had to sit down and just make that decision. Ain' 112 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 9: don't need to be coming on the radio talking about 113 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 9: nobody else and what they did to me, and y'all 114 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 9: just don't no, no, no, man, what about the part 115 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 9: you played in it? Cause see, if you got a 116 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 9: good marriage, you got a part to play in that. 117 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 9: If you got a bad one, you got a part 118 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 9: to play in that. Even if it just get down 119 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 9: to you the one pick them, how about that? Mister, mister, 120 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 9: I made a decision. The problem is usually within yourself. 121 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 9: Do you know that's the quickest and easy way to 122 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 9: fix your life. That way, you ain't got to check 123 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 9: with nobody. Here's the beauty of going on and admitting 124 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 9: that it's you. You don't have to check or clear 125 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 9: it with nobody to start the repair process. You don't 126 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 9: need anybody's permission. You ain't got to put it before 127 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 9: the review board to see if it will pass. It 128 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 9: ain't got to go through Congress. You ain't got to 129 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 9: hope that your local politician get their hands on it 130 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 9: and make a phone call for you. You ain't got 131 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 9: to ask any counselors to come. 132 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: In and sit with you. 133 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 9: You don't have to check in the rehair. All you 134 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 9: got to do is decide the problem is me. I'm 135 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 9: gonna start change. Identify the problem, and start with the 136 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 9: part that you can own up to. Once you identify 137 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 9: the problem, you can start planning on how to fix 138 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 9: this or how to get to accomplishing something. But remember 139 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 9: this plan and is important. If you fail to plan, 140 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 9: then please plan to fail. If you don't know how 141 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 9: to make a plan, let's just start with the basics. 142 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 9: Just make a list of what you want. Make this 143 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 9: list and then go to God in prayer with an 144 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 9: open mind and open your mind up to all the 145 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 9: clean opportunities that are available. Hear why a lot of 146 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 9: people won't succeed because certain opportunities come along you don't 147 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 9: want to do them. 148 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 2: That kills me. 149 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 9: Man, when I hear here, I ain't doing that. I 150 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 9: know young comedians that come to me all the time 151 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 9: talking about Man. What you and I say, Man, just 152 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 9: take every gig you can, no matter what it pay. Well, 153 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 9: listen to me, son, you can go make that money 154 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 9: that they pay, or you can make the decision to 155 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 9: sit at home and make no money. It's a comedy, 156 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 9: hard business. They ain't paying but one hundred dollars. You 157 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 9: gotta drive fifty miles. But if you drive fifty miles 158 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,839 Speaker 9: and you make the hundred and you stand on that 159 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 9: stage for thirty minutes, you are now thirty minutes better 160 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 9: than you was the last time you went on stage. Oh, man, 161 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 9: they ain't man, they don't pay me. I ain't coming. 162 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 9: You ain't finna be a comedian, man, not not like 163 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 9: this here. A lot of people just don't want to 164 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 9: do what's necessary to do. So when the opportunity presents 165 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 9: itself and you open up your mind to it, man, 166 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 9: then get ready to go on and do it. Man, 167 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 9: identify your problem today. Start with the part dash. 168 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,559 Speaker 10: You you're listening. 169 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 2: The show, Ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, it is time. 170 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 2: It's moaning time. 171 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 6: Come on. 172 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 2: No, we gather today. 173 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 9: Six o'clock or so with uh intentions of our lightening 174 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 9: intentions of coma daril comness. We come to you with 175 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 9: the intention of informatization. We are here in the moaning time. 176 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 9: I'm right away. In spite of the crisis that's going 177 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 9: on around the world, we that are here are blessed 178 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 9: and highly favored. 179 00:10:55,960 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 5: Right walking, that walk, yes, talking that talk, yeah, and 180 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 5: jaywalking when I walk. 181 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 2: Sermons ain't got to have no meaning. They just got to. 182 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 2: Soiund like it's one. 183 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 9: I say, look at here, welcome to the the badest 184 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 9: morning short in the lad I know there's others but 185 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 9: them his imitations. I know folks with radio shows, but 186 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 9: they ain't got us on it. I know of some 187 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 9: shows I think is pretty good. My damn self. I 188 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 9: had a radio and I had turned to one station. 189 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 9: Come on, I would pick the same one you just picked. 190 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 9: I know you picked it because I'm on it and 191 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 9: you hear me. Like I said, other choices, But why 192 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 9: make the wrong choice every day? That's right, knowing that 193 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 9: we are here and they are there, ladies and gentlemen. 194 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 9: Let me introduce him to you. A man with a 195 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 9: large note, great big old lips, m H bring yourself out. 196 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 9: Face has grown in with over the years, mustache world famous. 197 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 9: That's got more more credits, uh than than Equifax. 198 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 4: He he. 199 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: Has told more jokes. 200 00:12:58,520 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that need. 201 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 9: These other radio shows have attempted. Yes, ain't nobody own 202 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 9: any morning more funny than me. And when I come back, 203 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 9: I'm gonna introduce me to you and the rest of 204 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 9: the morning crew. 205 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 4: There are he. 206 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,199 Speaker 2: Just standing by. 207 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 9: But I done took off down the road of foolishness, 208 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 9: and I didn't know how to get off. Sometime when 209 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 9: you go down the road of foolishness, it ain't no exit. 210 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 9: So we own the road and I'll be back at 211 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 9: the bottom of the hour. Any name for the Steve 212 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 9: Harby Money Show. 213 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 2: We beat right back? 214 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: Right you're listening, Morning show. It is time now to 215 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: run that prank back? What you got for us? 216 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: Nef Well, it was about to get said Shirley. 217 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 11: Sometimes you got to make these awkward type of phone calls, 218 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 11: you know, sometimes you rarely got. 219 00:13:58,440 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 4: To do it. 220 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 11: The title today is your wife gave me a disease? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 221 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:15,719 Speaker 11: your wife gave me a disease. Okay, y'all want to 222 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 11: know what it is a disease? Yeah yeah, what she 223 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 11: gave me diabetes. Let's go catch up. Let's go catch 224 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 11: they give that if you if you, if you give 225 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 11: me too much to eat? Yes you can let's go 226 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 11: catch out too many sweets. 227 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 2: Yes you can. 228 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach Dante. Yeah, 229 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 4: this is him. Who is Hey? How you doing? Man? 230 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 4: Just to be sir, your Dante is married to Sammy? 231 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 5: Right? 232 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, cool? 233 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 6: Cool? 234 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 4: So listen man. Uh so you've heard about me, you know, 235 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 4: maybe heard my name before because I used to day 236 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 4: sad me way before you guys got married. Uh you 237 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 4: know my name is, My name is Marcella. So I 238 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 4: just want to call and say how you doing? 239 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 8: But I need to Oh okay, yeah, I know. 240 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 6: So she mentioned you mentioned y'all used to be. 241 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 12: Together before we Yeah, okay, I've heard about you. 242 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 4: What's what's the phone call for? I needed to talk 243 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 4: to you, man. And I've been holding this back at 244 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 4: least four years. You know, I haven't said anything. And 245 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 4: you know I can't hold it no more. Man, I'm 246 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 4: going through so many issues right now. I just gotta 247 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 4: I gotta get this thing. I got to get some 248 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 4: grips on this thing that I'm going through. But you 249 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 4: know I wanted to come to you man, to man, 250 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 4: talk to you about this situation. I you know, I 251 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 4: hate to bring it to you like this, but with 252 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 4: be and Tammy work together, man, I ain't say when 253 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 4: we were together, Tammy gave me a disease. Man. You know, 254 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 4: I've been holding this, you know, and I was like, 255 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 4: I say, I wanted to hit you up. I thought 256 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 4: about it two years ago, I want. But it's like, 257 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 4: what do you mean, like she gave you a disease. 258 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 4: She gave me a disease about four plus years ago, 259 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 4: this way before y'all got married. I'm from I understanding 260 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 4: y'all been married about the. 261 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 8: Year right, Yeah, Oh my god, Okay, okay, and you're 262 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 8: calling me, you're calling me to give me the heads up. 263 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 4: Oh man, I'm calling because, dude, these damn the medical 264 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 4: bills and all this that just completely out of control. 265 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 4: I can't even you know, I can't take care of 266 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 4: myself no more with this, you know, and I don't 267 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 4: feel like I have to because she the one that 268 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 4: gave me the damn desease. 269 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 8: Okay, So you're calling because you want you want. 270 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 4: Me to pay you want you want us to pay 271 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 4: for your medical bills. Dude, I'm like you, I mean, damn, dude, 272 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 4: I mean put yourself in my position, mare, I mean 273 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 4: what's some brother supposed to do? You know, I'm sitting 274 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 4: over here with a disease somebody gave me, and you 275 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 4: know they going on with they. 276 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 8: Like bro, yeah, but this is so you're calling me 277 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 8: telling me my wife gave you a disease. First of all, 278 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 8: she would have told me that. Secondly, now you're telling 279 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 8: me like I might have some You gotta be kidding me, Well, 280 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 8: what does she give you? What disease are you talking about? 281 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 4: Man? At this point, you know, I don't even want 282 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 4: to discuss it. I just want to get on board. 283 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 4: Let's can we get some kind of understanding with the 284 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 4: medical bills that I can't out? It's out of control. Man. 285 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 8: I'm not paying Okay, I'm not gonna pay for your 286 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 8: medical bills, especially when I don't even know what the 287 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 8: you mean when you mean she gave you a disease. 288 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 4: Now I'm over here freaking out. Dude, Dude, I understand, 289 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 4: you know, brouh. I hope you good. I really you know, 290 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, man, dude, I don't know what 291 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 4: to do no more. Man, I really don't you know. 292 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 8: Like I said, okay, yo yo, you need to tell 293 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 8: me all right, you talk in this circle. You're telling 294 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 8: me something you have you caught four or five years ago? 295 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 4: Well, what is it? Something? It's uncurable? What the diseasey 296 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 4: you're talking about? Man, dude, I'm I'm trying to dude 297 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 4: with regardless of what it is, I'm trying to handle 298 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 4: the medical bills on it. Man, That's what I'm trying 299 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 4: to do do. But what kind of medical bills could 300 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 4: you have for some you. 301 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 8: Caught four years ago? 302 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 6: Like four years ago, you should have. 303 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 4: Been able to six sss? What is it? So she 304 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 4: gave me the disease and now I need somebody to 305 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 4: play these damn bills. That's all I'm saying to you. 306 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 4: All right, That's all I'm saying, Dante, Yo, Why I'm 307 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 4: telling you what I'm telling you, Marcello is quit playing 308 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 4: and telling me what the disease this is? It's Marcellos, man, 309 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 4: it's marcellous. Okay, I don't tell what your name is. 310 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 4: I'm getting there, y'all. Y'all want gave me diabetes? 311 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 5: What though? 312 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 4: Diabetes? Your wife gave me diabetes? Man? Man, you want 313 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 4: to be coming hell, you can't. Can't somebody give you diabetes? 314 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 13: What you mean? 315 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 8: She gave you diabetes. 316 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 4: Man, Your wife be cooking up. He was cooking all 317 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 4: them cakes and pies, and you know all that sugar, 318 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 4: you know. And just man, you cannot bron have me 319 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 4: thinking my wife gave you her bees or something. Man, 320 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: you just don't know how to work out, you know 321 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 4: how to eat? That's on you, man, paying no bills 322 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 4: for that diabe? 323 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:56,719 Speaker 11: Evil? 324 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 4: What's wrong with you? Man? 325 00:18:58,840 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 6: Oh? 326 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 4: So now nah nah, Now that's funny. You laughing at friend, 327 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 4: You're laughing at me. Dante's yes, I'm laughing at you 328 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,479 Speaker 4: call my phone talking about my wife gave you diabetes? Bro? 329 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 4: For rel was it? Bro? 330 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 14: Hey? 331 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 4: Can I say something else? No, Dante? 332 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 8: What what you want to say? 333 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 4: I want to say this, Dante? You just got frank baby. 334 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 4: This nephew signed me from the sea offy morning. So 335 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:37,360 Speaker 4: your wife tell me got me the frank folk. Oh damn. Oh, 336 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 4: I got you, babe, I got you. 337 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 7: Wow. 338 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 8: Okay, See she told me about She told me about Marcello, 339 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 8: but I never heard his voice. 340 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 4: Bro, I was on fire. Oh my god, Oh you're 341 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 4: good man, Oh my god. 342 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 8: Oh you have me some here, dude, talking about a. 343 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 4: Disease, especially a disease that the four years lingering. That's 344 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 4: like whoa, whoa, whoa. 345 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 6: Oh my god, man, I was when she got home. 346 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 6: I was about to be man bo. 347 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 4: Hey man, you gotta tell me this man. Come on, 348 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 4: don Jay, what is what is the baddest? And I'm 349 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 4: talking about the bad radio show in the lane? 350 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 8: All funny, dude, this is Steve Harvey Morning. 351 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 4: Are you eating right? You ain't got no dicretor now 352 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 4: I'm worried. Bro. You could catch it right there. 353 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,439 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our 354 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officers, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It 355 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: is time for the Chief Love Officer, the c l O, 356 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey to answer your love questions. Here we go 357 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: from Sandra and Indiana. Sandra writes, my youngest brother is 358 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 1: twenty four and he lives with me. He had a 359 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: long term girlfriend, but she recently broke up with him 360 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: because I won't allow her new puppy inside my house. 361 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 1: My brother said it's their dog together, so he should 362 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 1: help care for the dog. I told him it's a 363 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: firm no, and he said, I'm ruining his life. I 364 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: think that's a bit dramatic, But do you think I 365 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: should bend my rules. 366 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 9: Now I think it's a damn dog that's ruined your life. 367 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 9: Don't put this off on your sister. It's that damn 368 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 9: dog is your sister's house. She lives that she paid 369 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 9: the risk, she bought that she let you live with her. 370 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: You didn't move this girl in. 371 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 9: Now she want a puppy, Well, she can't handle. She 372 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 9: get a puppy when she get her own place. You 373 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 9: can't bring no puppy in over woman's house. Saw in 374 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 9: the carpet and puppy gotta get part of trained. Anybody 375 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 9: saidn't do that. You put your brother out? 376 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 2: What a why name? 377 00:21:58,880 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 4: Wait? 378 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 9: Wait wait, wait out they take their twenty four year 379 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 9: old grown ans somewhere and get their own apartment. 380 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: Nah, and they ain't have all the puppies. 381 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: They won't. 382 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 2: No, you ruined in my life. You're stupid boy. 383 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 9: Okay, Now she'd done broke up with you because wait 384 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 9: a minute, hold of dog, lady. 385 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 2: It's not you that has problems. He thatne has problem. 386 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 9: A woman then broke up with you because you won't 387 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 9: let her bring a puppy in her sister house, in 388 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 9: your sister house. 389 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 2: So she broke up with you you got the wrong 390 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:33,239 Speaker 2: chick though. Next question Shirley all right? 391 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 1: Moving on. Tara in South Haven, Mississippi, says I gave 392 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: my husband a Hall pass because I had two surgeries 393 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: back to back and he was so sweet to me 394 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: while I was healing. 395 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 15: That was a year ago. 396 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: My best friend found out in the streets about his fling, 397 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: and without talking to me first, she confronted my husband 398 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 1: and tried to fight him. I don't want her in 399 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: my personal business, but she's in it now, and how 400 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: should I explain her? 401 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 2: See? 402 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 9: I tell y'all all the time, when you see a 403 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 9: man somewhere, you find out something about a man that 404 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 9: ain't your business. 405 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 2: Now, she'd have confronted this man about fooling around. 406 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 9: On her girlfriend, well her girlfriend, and gave him a 407 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 9: Hall pass because he was so kind to her doing surgery. 408 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 9: If you could get a Hall pass for kindness doing surgery, 409 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 9: you know how many passes I'd have? How many times 410 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 9: I been kind? And better not go in here talking 411 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 9: about no damn Hall pass. Better not bring it up ever? 412 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: And lady, why do you pass? How Hall passes for kindness? 413 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 4: What what is that? Oh? 414 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 2: You were kind to me? You get a hall passed? 415 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 3: What who are you? 416 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 12: And can I be? 417 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 5: You know? 418 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 4: How can I be? 419 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 6: No? 420 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 9: That don't make no sense. Now your girlfriend is simple. 421 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 9: I don't I don't know what you should say to 422 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 9: her except this is not your business, but she in it. 423 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 9: Now do you want to tell her how stupid you 424 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 9: were by awarding him a hall pass that you said 425 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 9: it was okay? And I'm gonna tell you something else. 426 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 9: She ain't keeping it to herself. She's telling other people. Wow, 427 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 9: and your husband didn't have to watch his step because 428 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 9: his wife gave him permission. 429 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:24,400 Speaker 2: M yep. 430 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 10: Facts. 431 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 15: Yeah, it's not your business. It's not her business anyway. 432 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 9: It's not her business. But it ain't no woman's business. 433 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 9: But y'all always make it y'alls because she my girl. 434 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 9: Because I would want to know, well, now here you go. Now, 435 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 9: I'll tell you what. Let's let the women tell him 436 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 9: what to do, because y'all always talking about I would 437 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 9: want to know. I would tell her, well, now she 438 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 9: trying to whip her husband's ass, what would you do, Shirley. 439 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: It's not my business. I wouldn't do anything. I honest 440 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: to god, I wouldn't do a thing. 441 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 2: This is that My business is a bold face. 442 00:24:56,440 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: No, it's not this particular situation. I wouldn't do it anything. 443 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on in their house. 444 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 7: Okay, Carlin, what would you do, Fellowship, try to fight 445 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 7: the husband? Carla my best friend, my best friend. 446 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so Charlotte, Shirley, you wouldn't tell your girlfriend. 447 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 4: I would. 448 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 3: I'm not in this. 449 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 10: I'm really not in this one. 450 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: I'm not in this. 451 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 9: So if your husband is, if this happened, but your husband, 452 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 9: you wouldn't want to know from your girlfriend. 453 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 1: No, I would kill him. 454 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 2: But I'm asking you if you want your girlfriend to 455 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 2: tell you. 456 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 9: Okay, that's contrary to everything you've ever said in every Strawberry. 457 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 9: Lee just wanted to point that there's no changing on 458 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 9: this show. Oh no, no, no, you don't. You stayed 459 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 9: that damn same on this show. We're not interchanging on 460 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 9: this show. We ride or Dow'll be here. 461 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 2: My best. 462 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: Your bestie, your best not in it. 463 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 15: My best friend just got married. I'm not in their marriage. 464 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 7: No, okay, and you see her husband cheating, you ain't 465 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 7: gonna say nothing. 466 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 9: I ain't mad at the answer. I like Shirley's answer, 467 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,159 Speaker 9: but that's not what she's ever said, and. 468 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 7: I've always said that I would say something just like 469 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 7: I just said, I'd probably be all in it. 470 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 10: I'm not in this one with. 471 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 9: A Hall Well but yeah, Shirley, but see, Shirley, you 472 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 9: don't know about the Hall past all. 473 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 14: You know. 474 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 4: I know that. 475 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 15: But I'm just not in anybody else's relationship. I don't 476 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 15: have time. 477 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 2: I don't have time for nobody else. I don't have 478 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 2: nothing to say. 479 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, I saw my partner's girl somewhere in a little 480 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 9: strange looking position. I'm not going to tell his man 481 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 9: this here. Yeah, well, you know, in a weird you know, 482 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 9: it looked like something was going on. 483 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 2: But I couldn't. 484 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 9: But I already knew if I went to tell him 485 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 9: that he was going to jail. I already knew that 486 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 9: if I tell this food. 487 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 2: Case. 488 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 7: Yeah, like I said, it depends on who it is. 489 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 7: Best friend though, that's that's like my sister to me. 490 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 1: Sorry for me, Okay, all right, Moving on, Caedra and 491 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: Topeka says, my boyfriend has a habit of sending several 492 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: women a good morning text before he starts his day. 493 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: He does it freely and doesn't think it's a problem. 494 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: I think it's the first step in cheating. And I'm jealous? 495 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 15: Am I overthinking it? Or is this cheating? 496 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 5: Man? 497 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 3: Come on? 498 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 2: How does word? 499 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 14: What? 500 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: What are y'all doing nowadays? 501 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 1: What? 502 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 4: What? 503 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 2: What relationships y'all got? What y'all allowing up in here? 504 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 7: What? 505 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 4: What? 506 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 9: What is these new rules that you can text three 507 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 9: women in the morning wish them good morning whatever? 508 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 2: I don't know who can do that? 509 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 9: Surely texts me every single day, strawberry. She texts me 510 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 9: scriptures every morning. I asked Shirley. I said, Shirley, do 511 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 9: me in a favor, text me a scripture every morning. 512 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 9: Shirley texts me a scripture every single morning. I was 513 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 9: on vacation and didn't quite see the name Shirley because 514 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 9: Shirley's text comes with a strawberry next to her name 515 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 9: and a heart. 516 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 2: I deleted it. 517 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 1: For safety purses, because I was blurried. 518 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,719 Speaker 2: And I didn't know it said, Shirley looked like Sheila, 519 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 2: And I deleted it, and I don't know what a 520 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 2: heart and a strawberry. 521 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 4: This thank you see? 522 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 2: And the scripture. 523 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 15: Right after this? 524 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: You're listening. 525 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 10: Morning show? 526 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here's a question, what product or what 527 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: brand reminds you of your childhood home. All right, here's 528 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: an email from Tea from New Orleans. It says, hey, morning, crew. 529 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: Every time I see the Quaker oatmeal the box, I 530 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: think of my mom's house when I was a kid. 531 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: She always had a box of it on top of 532 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: our refrigerator. When I go to visit my pop's house, 533 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: he always had a box of frosted flake cereal in 534 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: his pantry. In fact, he probably does right now. What 535 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 1: brand or product did your childhood home always have in stock? 536 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: I got a bunch of I knew it ready for me, 537 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: Like what like what Steve? If you go first comic comment? 538 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 2: Okay? 539 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 9: Oh yes, comments at green asshole can a comet with 540 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 9: the peel off top with the eight holes in the top. 541 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and washed all your sinks in your bathtub out. 542 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: But let us sit there, let us for a minute. 543 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 2: Yeah to the change the color. I'll tell you another. 544 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 9: Ain't open the refrigerator while seeing an open box of 545 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 9: arm and hamm. 546 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: A baker So yes, yes, yes, keep taking you. 547 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 9: Back sitting stove that Maxwell Orfolder's coffee can with the 548 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 9: grease singing, Yes, sir, Yes, it's real things. Memory in 549 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 9: the in the bathroom cresh toothpaste. You were crass people, No, 550 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 9: we wasn't really crushing it. Yeah, yeah, we had that too. 551 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 9: We was whatever was on sale. 552 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 2: People. 553 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: You got to talk. 554 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 9: Can jump in here and say this though. That one 555 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 9: two paste though ultra brighten. I thought that was just 556 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 9: the greatest thing. 557 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 6: Go ahead. 558 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 11: If we ran out of that two paste, then we 559 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 11: go to that fridge with that bacon soda wood and. 560 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: Go in there and get you there, yeah, and dip 561 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: that tooth yeah. 562 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 2: And I actually brush my teeth better with bacon hell. 563 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 564 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 565 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: All right, how about this tide laundry detergent tied tide 566 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: had to have some times ivory. 567 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: Powder? That ain't that liquid? That's washing powder. We have 568 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 2: that right, foul and ox. It's a lot in the 569 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 2: big blue box of damn fast. 570 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 15: But did you have ivory soap though? 571 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: Did you have ivory soap to take your bath? 572 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 10: Die? Dial you die ivory? 573 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 2: Had we had ivory soap? 574 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? 575 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: It floated in the water ivory. 576 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 577 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 11: Okay, let's go in the bathroom and up underneath that counter. 578 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 11: It's a little red crank can got some grease. 579 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: In it called raw crown. All your scalp with that 580 00:31:59,480 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 2: right there. 581 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: That's how I got my hamput. 582 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 2: We're in the bathroom. Were in the bathroom. 583 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 16: Yeah yeah, we're in the bathroot single ply. You had 584 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 16: to be careful wiping yourself. We get damn single play man. 585 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many times I miss jewish. 586 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: And pushed my frankle. 587 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we got it. 588 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 4: We got the. 589 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 9: Single single plot. My dad in loved that more than 590 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 9: a thousand sheeps. 591 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wait, do you remember aim. 592 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 2: The striking? 593 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we strike bleame. 594 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 10: Uh huh, I got one. 595 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 9: Okay, get that bottle that hung on the back of 596 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 9: the door, looked like a hot water bottle with a 597 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 9: tube on it and a spring offer. Boy, me and 598 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 9: my nephew got the ass whooping our life one time, 599 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 9: we feel that my mama had went on and we 600 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 9: found it on the back of the door. 601 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: We'd always wonder what it was, so we put. 602 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 9: Water in it, and we found out that it's that 603 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 9: the water squeezed through the little holes on that white temper. 604 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 2: So we chasing each other around the house like water, 605 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 2: hurting each other. 606 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 9: Okay, then he filled up the bag and it was 607 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 9: my time to had it, and then he'll have it. 608 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 2: Under his arm. My mama came in that house. My 609 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 2: mama said, it's all this vinegar in hire. 610 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 4: Now we didn't even know. 611 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 9: We didn't know nothing about no vinegar smell. She said, 612 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 9: what is all this vinegar? I smelled in this house? 613 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 9: Now we sawing about. 614 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 2: Oh that ain't not cool. We were squirting water or 615 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 2: we set said. 616 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 9: My mama got to do in the math and went 617 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 9: back in now and touched that hot water bottle with 618 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 9: the holes on it. 619 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:15,400 Speaker 2: And boy, we got our ass. And then so we 620 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 2: didn't even know why we got beat. And then my 621 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 2: brother was talking to it. 622 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 12: What it was? 623 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 2: Hey, man? Yeah, let me ask you something, Steve. What 624 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 2: do she and the only in that grab mama's water 625 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 2: bottle for today? Said now we was playing water. 626 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 9: Gun with it. 627 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,840 Speaker 2: He said, boy, you know what that right there? I 628 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 2: don't know what it is? He said, that's a lady's bag. 629 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 2: And then I said, I don't what what what what? 630 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 2: Because I clueless what you mean? It's a lady's bag. 631 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 2: That's a douche bag. Still I'm clueless. Boy, When my 632 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 2: damn brother told me what that bad was? Fun this 633 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 2: yodd you man, I'm shooting water in my mouth full glass. 634 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 9: I got the bag under my arm, mouth wide over time, 635 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 9: that's what I said. That's when I first found out 636 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 9: water a little in there. Wow, oh my god, because 637 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,240 Speaker 9: you know, because you know, they had a special solution. 638 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 2: They put it in and you put vinegar in it too, 639 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 2: and that's you know, and I had no idea. 640 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on, man, you're listening. 641 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 10: Morning show. 642 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 2: All right. 643 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 1: So Steve, when we left off, you were telling me. 644 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 9: We was talking about conversation. But that's all a man got. 645 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 9: Hen doesn't compare to. 646 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: Late, absolutely not. I don't ever again, Well for us, 647 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 1: don't close thing. 648 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 2: That's all. We got two centimats. I don't know what that. Yeah, 649 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 2: I need and we can stop some of this. Two 650 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,320 Speaker 2: centimeters is all I need to hit some of this 651 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 2: fresh office. Have you ever been sitting up there? 652 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 9: You ever been sitting up there sweating so band like 653 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 9: your ass had been running the marathon sweat just a. 654 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: Poet, you guys, hold up the man this ship. 655 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 9: Have you ever reached over and told a shower curtain down, 656 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 9: see a doctor. 657 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 2: I'm talking about the brand. I'm talking about rod and 658 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 2: everything coming down. You in there fighting? 659 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 9: Yeah, now you got that plastic curtain on you. Now 660 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 9: you really hot. You were you and there conciprating. Now 661 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 9: you got on the sad suit. 662 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 10: You ain't here. 663 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 1: Catching man suffocating yourself. 664 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 2: You ain't ever had your eels. You ain't even had yeah, yeah, no. 665 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 1: No, in that room, the elevator, in the bathroom. 666 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 15: When you go up to years, Papa, you really need something. 667 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 9: You don't never lean back, and you ain't never lean 668 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 9: back and knocked everything off the back of the tarlet, 669 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 9: flow candle in the float, glade in the float, everything, 670 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 9: all that flow. 671 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:26,880 Speaker 2: You ain't never done that. 672 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 7: I told the hot water heat the nib off one time, 673 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 7: come old boy, the whole hot water. 674 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: Come on, come on, no hot wos so hard? Yeah 675 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 1: you got okay. 676 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 9: I reached over and grab a toothbrush out the cup 677 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 9: one time and just snapped it in hand. 678 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 1: With your teeth. 679 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 2: Couldn't take it no more. Sure I didn't reach over 680 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:53,439 Speaker 2: and grab the plunge and let that do yeah, yeah, 681 00:37:54,360 --> 00:38:00,760 Speaker 2: plunge it just yourself yourself. 682 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 9: Hey dog, you ever kicked a hole in the handle 683 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,959 Speaker 9: and have somebody to come and get it off your. 684 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 4: Well. 685 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell. 686 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: You that we have this all started because you were 687 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: supposed to be helping Tommy by gifts for his wife. 688 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:17,800 Speaker 2: We're not. 689 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 9: We were just talking about one last one, don't see. 690 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,279 Speaker 9: I'm talking about back in the day when we when 691 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 9: the only thing in the bathroom was at Jacon Pitty 692 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:33,680 Speaker 9: catalog and you have a toe catalog in half. That's suppressions, suppression, that. 693 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 1: A whole catalog in half. 694 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 695 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm seriously go see a doctor. You guys, you're 696 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:50,919 Speaker 1: listening morning show, all right, So Steve, here's the here's 697 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 1: the funny stories. 698 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 8: Uh. 699 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 1: A guy on Facebook said that he heard someone call 700 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,239 Speaker 1: an old car a geloppe, and he said he knew 701 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: right away that that guy was old. 702 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 15: So I gotta ask you. I got to ask Tommy 703 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 15: and Jr. 704 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 1: What are some of your favorite old person words or phrases. 705 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: Things you've been hearing all your lives. You know that 706 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 1: old people say, like jealoppe for instance. 707 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 11: Actually, Ji, when Steve called somebody on drugs a junkie, you. 708 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:27,760 Speaker 10: Know my favorite. 709 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 2: I love it that word. 710 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: Oh you're comfortable with Steve. 711 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 712 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 9: I was talking to my brother the other day, and 713 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 9: my brother saying, man, I can't stand in a giant 714 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 9: ass turkey. 715 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 15: Damn, that's right out of the seventies. 716 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,400 Speaker 2: Turkey still saying that. 717 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 15: What about you, junior? 718 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: When old people say, these old players, they say, boy, 719 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: if I had your hand, got mine off. 720 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 7: They got that from They all say it, though your 721 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 7: hands block up mine off. 722 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 2: I'll tell you another one right here. Y'all want some 723 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 2: hot water corn bread? 724 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: Hot water corn. 725 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's old as hell. Hot water. You want you 726 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 2: like you like red eye gravy. Y'all still doing that. 727 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 15: Either your favorite old people sayings or phrases. 728 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 2: Mean between me and you and the fence post. I'm 729 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 2: gonna tell you something between me. 730 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: What, oh know, like make yourself there timing the old 731 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: people saying said, look at that, looking at me like 732 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 1: a new calf standing at a goat for that offense. 733 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 2: What they were saying that what. 734 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 1: They said, look at it, looking at me like a 735 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,800 Speaker 1: new calf at a new game. Say where can you 736 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:01,399 Speaker 1: get that from? 737 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 15: I've never heard that one before. 738 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: The new Gate move down in Brentham, Texas. 739 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 2: Let me go down there. 740 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: That's say it. That's it. 741 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 10: I just go down. 742 00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 2: My daddy brother, my daddy brother, uncle lewis h. You know, 743 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 2: I've been the hell in jail. They both the same. 744 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 2: I put the orange jumping in. I didn't put the 745 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 2: orange jump in the flip flop down. 746 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:30,600 Speaker 9: What, Yeah, you've been the hell in jail. I'm gonna 747 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,320 Speaker 9: tell you something. I'm gonna tell you something. Don't do nothing, 748 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 9: no nothing be the hog head. 749 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 15: Cheese said, you're gonna stick with food, you. 750 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 9: Know, because that's oh you, you can't even say that. 751 00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 9: My children have no idea what that is? No hog 752 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 9: head cheese. 753 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 2: Boy, you can't beat the hog head cheese. 754 00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: Said, that's the fastest way to raise your blood pressure. 755 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 9: My children have never had that. My children have never 756 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 9: had chip litters. Never for what, well, they've never been 757 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 9: par Let's just start that. 758 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: You go, when old people say one a hand, be 759 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 1: two in the bush, what does that mean? 760 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 2: That means better go with what you got. Don't gonna 761 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,359 Speaker 2: mess with something over there? You go with what you got? Yeah, 762 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 2: a bird herd in the hand the bush. 763 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 9: See if you let the one in your hand, go 764 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 9: and stick your hand in that bush and the birds 765 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 9: fly if you ain't gonna handle damn. 766 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 2: Bro I never got nothing. Yeah, okay, that mean. 767 00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 7: And you know we used to hear it mark my words, 768 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 7: Mark because I said, mark my words, what does that mean? 769 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 2: Mark my words mean? Write this down because this's been 770 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 2: to happen. If I can get you to use your 771 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 2: head for moreing a hat wreck, we're gonna be Yeah. 772 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:55,680 Speaker 1: My mom used to say something about a chicken and 773 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 1: a pot and a window to throw it out? Up? 774 00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 10: Have you heard that? 775 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 2: Saying they got a pot, see it out? 776 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 10: That's it chicken? 777 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,480 Speaker 2: He was bog y'all. 778 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,359 Speaker 3: Hell and the chicken at the bos Like what Mom? 779 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,760 Speaker 1: What do you saying? 780 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 4: All right? 781 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,960 Speaker 2: All right, coming up, I'm all that piddling round? Yes, 782 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 2: what is piling? The same thing as you can see 783 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 2: you come on shore, let's go. We got to go 784 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 2: see a man by the horse. 785 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 10: I thought it was a dog. 786 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Coming up next, the nephew will be here with 787 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 1: the prank phone call right after this. 788 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:39,319 Speaker 2: What did you grow up? 789 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,440 Speaker 1: You're listening. 790 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 10: Morning show? 791 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,919 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour right about 792 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and 793 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: the subject my ex wife made my son hate me. 794 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that and find out what 795 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 1: that's all about in just a few because right now 796 00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 797 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:02,839 Speaker 10: What you got for us, Nave? 798 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 11: How deep you want me to go with it? Knee 799 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 11: deep and stupid all the way just up to your 800 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 11: neck and stupid. I feel you want to go with it. 801 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 8: Here's that. 802 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 1: I'll have this question for you. How deep can you go? 803 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,320 Speaker 10: Can you go deep? 804 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 4: Go? 805 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,799 Speaker 2: You just tell you how many time I've been asked 806 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,280 Speaker 2: that before we go deep? Stupid? 807 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go? 808 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 2: All right? 809 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 11: This right is called get a drumma some give the 810 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 11: dramas thumb, all right, give the druma something cat dog 811 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 11: if you would, Hello, I'm. 812 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:40,359 Speaker 14: Trying to riach uh Richie, Hey, Richie, how you doing? 813 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 14: You the drummer for the for the band. 814 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,399 Speaker 12: It's saying, it's saying, all right. 815 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 4: And you all show the guy that you're the manager 816 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 4: of the band. 817 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:52,680 Speaker 2: T right? 818 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,360 Speaker 6: Correct? Correct? Correct? 819 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 3: What's all right? 820 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 6: All right? 821 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 4: We want to book you guys for I think it's 822 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 4: gonna be in February. All right, all right, February sixteen. 823 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 4: That's yeah. I mean my name is Carter. 824 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 14: They told you I was gonna be calling I think so. 825 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:11,759 Speaker 12: Yeah. 826 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 4: Okay, let's tell you what. We're gonna go through a 827 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 4: little check minus list here and make sure we. 828 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 14: On the same page, and we got everything's gonna be 829 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 14: good that night. But I hear you guys, you got 830 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 14: I'll tell you something. You guys come highly recommended. 831 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 4: You know that, don't you. 832 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,839 Speaker 6: I appreciate that, we know that we were the best 833 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:34,800 Speaker 6: out there. Yeah, it's all good, sounds all good, sounds perfect. 834 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,240 Speaker 4: All right, Now let's talk about money, because that's always 835 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 4: the most crucial thing to talk about. Now, you guys, 836 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,800 Speaker 4: sounds good. Uh, you guys are supposed to be what 837 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 4: about what thirty five hundred? From what I understand? 838 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 6: Correct? All right? 839 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 14: How many hours do I get you to thirty five hundred? 840 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 4: So? 841 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 6: What time is starting that we're gonna start that. 842 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 4: We're gonna start seven, probably seven thirty, you know, get that, 843 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 4: get that things jumping off about seven. I think that's 844 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 4: gonna be good. 845 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, we can play till like I guess put out 846 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:05,880 Speaker 6: ten o'clock, seven. 847 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 14: Thirty ten, I'm correct. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you something. 848 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 14: They not gonna get going good till about ten. So 849 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,640 Speaker 14: I'm gonna say I'm gonna say this to you right now. 850 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 14: You think you guys could probably go to midnight, maybe 851 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,200 Speaker 14: twelve thirty if I if I make that thing a 852 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:22,960 Speaker 14: nine five. 853 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 4: Thousand dollars sounds good to me. 854 00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 6: You could definitely work with that. 855 00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:27,360 Speaker 4: You can work with that. 856 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, Well we'll accommodate. 857 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,320 Speaker 6: It's gonna be an awesome party. 858 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 12: We're gonna we're gonna bringe this. 859 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 4: Okay, we got that out of the way. I'll tell 860 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,439 Speaker 4: you what I think. The main thing that we haven't 861 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 4: gone over is we haven't gone over the songs. And 862 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 4: that's what that's what's gonna be important for this showdown. 863 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 4: Now you can you got a pen and a pad, 864 00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 4: you can write this down. 865 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,160 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I write it down, all right. 866 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 6: Down, Give me a second, go ahead, all right? Did 867 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 6: you got it all right? 868 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 869 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, I got all right, buddy. 870 00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 14: I just want to be clear you guys when you go, 871 00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,320 Speaker 14: when you guys go do gigs, you do have people 872 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 14: that want certain uh songs of right or wrong? 873 00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 4: Yeah. 874 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,200 Speaker 12: Usually yeah, if you got a request, definitely let us know. 875 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:09,920 Speaker 6: We can commodate. 876 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 4: All right, Well, here we go, Uh, here we go. 877 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,399 Speaker 4: I want you right just down. I got I got 878 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 4: some that we gotta make sure this is gonna be 879 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 4: doing the hide of the party. Here we go. Okay, 880 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 4: Friends in Low Places by Garth Brooks right, Tennessee whiskey. 881 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:31,759 Speaker 4: That's Chris Stapleton. You know that. Okay, my time part, 882 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 4: that's Jason all things. 883 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,600 Speaker 6: Hold off for a second. Is that country music? 884 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 4: That's country music? 885 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 14: Well, that's that's that's that's that's everything. We gonna do everything, 886 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,320 Speaker 14: we gonna do that said, that's gonna be country. 887 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, bro, I gotta tell you right now, man, R 888 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,120 Speaker 6: and B. That's our specialty. Did you not know that? 889 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. We were playing R and B. 890 00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 4: He did not know that. 891 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,319 Speaker 14: All I know is you guys come highly recommend. Tell 892 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 14: me you guys can say anything in the world. I 893 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 14: know is I want a gun country. I want some 894 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 14: gun country music going on roady. I know that. 895 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,239 Speaker 6: But you know our specialty is an R and B. 896 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,399 Speaker 6: That's our specialty. You know what I'm saying. 897 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,359 Speaker 12: It's it's not like we're trained monkeys where we could 898 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 12: just learn something new last mint like that. 899 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Let's. 900 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,359 Speaker 14: Let's get let's get one, let's get one thing. 901 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 4: Understand you're the person that's said monkey ain't yo yo, 902 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 4: I'm just no. 903 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 6: And you know that we're an R and B band. 904 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:36,399 Speaker 4: That's our big thing. 905 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 6: That's what we promote ourselves as. 906 00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 14: Let me ask you something, Richie. Something do you not 907 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 14: Do you not want to make the five town knowledge 908 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 14: that you and I have already negotiated. 909 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 6: I don't like being disrespected though. 910 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,719 Speaker 14: You know what I'm saying, and about disrespecting you, You're just. 911 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 4: We're an R and B band. 912 00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:58,760 Speaker 6: We don't country. 913 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. It on here, Richie, you 914 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:02,439 Speaker 4: got something. 915 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 14: Here's trench of music. 916 00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 4: I have no problem with country music. 917 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 12: It's just that we have a full horn section, which 918 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,839 Speaker 12: doesn't really work with country music. 919 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:10,359 Speaker 6: You know what I'm said. 920 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 4: We play R and D. 921 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 14: It's not our genre. 922 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 4: Well, I got I got what year used to doing. 923 00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 4: But if I don't hear uh, let me see your girner, 924 00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:27,520 Speaker 4: Oh my Cole swim. They all didn't didn't that. It 925 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 4: ain't gonna work for me. I gotta get that. 926 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 14: I gotta get slow burned by Tim Heats. I gotta 927 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,359 Speaker 14: get all my aroty friends who coming over by. 928 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 4: I ain't Williams. 929 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:38,360 Speaker 14: I mean that, yo. 930 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,319 Speaker 4: You know what? Waitny wait, wait wait wait. 931 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 14: Kevin over at the bank is telling me that you 932 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,800 Speaker 14: guys can sing anything in the world. 933 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 4: Now. I know you ain't telling me that Kevin's line. 934 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 12: I mean, he's maybe he should have told you explicitly 935 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,480 Speaker 12: what we do and what we play. 936 00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,399 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, I've never met even matter 937 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 4: in my life. I playing problem playing Guardbrooks, Chris Staple, 938 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:05,839 Speaker 4: Jason now name Brooks and Nuns, Blake Shelton, Cole swin Dale. Lady, ay, 939 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 4: you donna sit here and tell me you can't play 940 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,320 Speaker 4: none of these songs. I want you to get on 941 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 4: the stage and sing these songs that we won't do. 942 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 4: We ain't got time to find another group. Everybody don't know. 943 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,360 Speaker 12: I don't get about your stupid party. 944 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:21,879 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 945 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,759 Speaker 6: You came to us to play music, and then. 946 00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 4: We told you what we do right now. You know, 947 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 4: right now, I feel like I feel like we had 948 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 4: a stand off. I'm Okayer rail. 949 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 6: All right, all right? 950 00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 12: Let me let me talk to my band, all right, 951 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,839 Speaker 12: because this is going this is going unnecessary too far. 952 00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 953 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 12: Maybe we could make it work, all right. 954 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 4: Let me let me ask you something. Is Drey the 955 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,959 Speaker 4: bass player? Yeah? Correct, Okay? Can I tell you something 956 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 4: about Drey? 957 00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 6: What about him. 958 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:57,920 Speaker 4: Drey got me to playt phone call you. This is 959 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:01,319 Speaker 4: nephew Tommy from the Steve hall off In Morning Show. Baby, 960 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 4: you just got pranked by your boy in the band Dre. 961 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 6: Damn, damn damn. 962 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 14: Okay, I gotta ask you something, man, What is the 963 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 14: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land, 964 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 965 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 15: Come on, come on at Tennessee Whiskey. I love that 966 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 15: song though, come on. 967 00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 1: Country music. 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All right? 988 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:34,520 Speaker 7: Encouraging and awareness, that's what you Yes, yes, sir, yes, yes, yes, yeah, 989 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 7: that's awesome. 990 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 2: Thank you? 991 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:41,000 Speaker 1: All right, all right, thanking if you coming up next 992 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,200 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. The subject is my ex wife made my 993 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 1: son hate me. We will get into that right after this. 994 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 10: You're listening hard morning show. 995 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And 996 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:59,080 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 997 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 998 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:06,160 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 999 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the. 1000 00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 15: Air, just like we're going to read this one right here. 1001 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 3: Right now. 1002 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 2: Bugle up and hold on tight. We got it for 1003 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 2: what you here. It is letter. 1004 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 1: Subject my wife made sure my son hates me. Dear 1005 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm going to jump right on end. I 1006 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,600 Speaker 1: cheated on my wife two years ago with a woman 1007 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 1: that constantly threatened to call my wife when she didn't 1008 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: get what she wanted. This one on two years until 1009 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 1: I ran out of money and decided to end the affair. 1010 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: This woman called my wife a few days later. I 1011 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,399 Speaker 1: was out cutting the yard when my wife when when 1012 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,320 Speaker 1: she called my house and my wife answered. I walked 1013 00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 1: in and my wife was on the speaker phone listening 1014 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 1: to my side chicks, with my son sitting there listening 1015 00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,839 Speaker 1: to everything. He was twelve years old at the time, 1016 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,719 Speaker 1: and I made him leave the room, but he had 1017 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,120 Speaker 1: already heard enough. 1018 00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,560 Speaker 15: My relationship with him was ruined after that day. 1019 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,000 Speaker 1: My home life was terrible too, so I moved out 1020 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:15,840 Speaker 1: after my wife served me with divorce papers. We are 1021 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,800 Speaker 1: in the process of discussing who will get custody of 1022 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 1: our son, and I haven't seen him in months. His 1023 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 1: mother's brainwatched him to think I'm a no good cheater 1024 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,280 Speaker 1: and liar. She has him in the middle of grown 1025 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:32,279 Speaker 1: folks business, and when we talk, she's always on speakerphone 1026 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,360 Speaker 1: so my son can hear all of the conversation. She 1027 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 1: sends me text messages with our son on the text thread, 1028 00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 1: and she's usually calling me names and cursing me out. 1029 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,120 Speaker 1: She's brought up all kinds of things that have happened 1030 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 1: in our marriage, and my son. 1031 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 15: Doesn't need to know all of that. 1032 00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 1: I'm dying to see him, so I sent him a 1033 00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,439 Speaker 1: text asking him to have dinner with me one day soon. 1034 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:59,959 Speaker 1: He sent me the most disrespectful reply a child could 1035 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:00,799 Speaker 1: send a father. 1036 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 15: I wanted to go snatch him up real quick, but 1037 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 15: I can't. 1038 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 1: This is not the boy I raised. He needs his 1039 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,480 Speaker 1: father back in his life. How can I reverse all 1040 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 1: of this brainwashing? Please advise? Well, I don't know if 1041 00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna be able to do that. And I have 1042 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,960 Speaker 1: to say this, Everything in this letter is just terrible. 1043 00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 10: Everything in this letter, I. 1044 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 1: Mean, you cheat it for the lamest excuse ever, I mean, 1045 00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 1: in the history of cheating. 1046 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 15: Just say you cheated or wanted to cheat. 1047 00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 1: Cheating because this woman was gonna call your wife if 1048 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 1: you didn't cheat with her is about the stupidest thing ever, 1049 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:39,720 Speaker 1: I mean. And then you cheated with her for two years. 1050 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,959 Speaker 1: She scared her for two years. Okay, that's just dumb. 1051 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,000 Speaker 1: You know you should have told your wife about the 1052 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,400 Speaker 1: threats when they started, and then call the woman's bluff 1053 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,880 Speaker 1: and not cheat it since she ended up calling your 1054 00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:56,000 Speaker 1: wife anyway. 1055 00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 4: You know. 1056 00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,759 Speaker 1: I also, this is what I don't hear in this. 1057 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 1: I don't hear any remorse from you. I hear no 1058 00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: remorse from you about what she did. I mean, did 1059 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,200 Speaker 1: you try to fix it, did you try to apologize? 1060 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 1: Did you try anything anything? 1061 00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:11,399 Speaker 4: I mean? 1062 00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,200 Speaker 1: And of course your wife wanted to hurt you, and 1063 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,920 Speaker 1: she knows your son is a way to get at you. 1064 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 1: I mean, what she did is beyond wrong. What she 1065 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:24,520 Speaker 1: did is beyond wrong. There's no way your son should 1066 00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 1: have been in the middle, as you say, grown folks business. 1067 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 1: If she needed an ally, she could have talked to 1068 00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:30,280 Speaker 1: another adult. 1069 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:30,759 Speaker 14: You know. 1070 00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:35,120 Speaker 1: She tainted the boy now, made herself look like a victim, 1071 00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 1: and yeah, made you hate him, made your son hate 1072 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 1: you and disrespect you. I'm not blaming your wife. I'm 1073 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,720 Speaker 1: not blaming her for anything. This is your fault. 1074 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 10: This is you. 1075 00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 1: And of course your son doesn't want to see his 1076 00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: mom hurt and going through because of you. People get 1077 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 1: divorced every day and parents do get joint custody of 1078 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,920 Speaker 1: a kid. So hopefully during the divorce. That'll work itself out. 1079 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:04,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, you, sir, created all of this because of 1080 00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,640 Speaker 1: your cheating. Now the family's broken. But you got to 1081 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 1: get to your son some kind of way. You gotta 1082 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 1: apologize to him. You gotta do something. You got to 1083 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,680 Speaker 1: talk to your son and not say anything bad about 1084 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:20,360 Speaker 1: his mom like you tried. 1085 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 15: To, you know, allude to in the letter. 1086 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 1: None of that. I don't agree with anything she's done either. 1087 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 1: And your son is already damaged by what she did, 1088 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 1: you know, letting him hear everything. 1089 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,120 Speaker 15: So you got to get to a counselor. 1090 00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 1: You got to talk to him, a therapist, a pastor, 1091 00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 1: Jesus someone to heal this relationship. Hopefully, like I said, 1092 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: the divorce. When you get that, when you get custody, 1093 00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,160 Speaker 1: you know, he can begin to understand that you do 1094 00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: love him. 1095 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 2: Steve. 1096 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 9: See, I don't think this is a letter at all 1097 00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 9: about reconciliation. I don't think it is at all. And 1098 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,960 Speaker 9: I think the man came right on when he said, 1099 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 9: and I'm gonna just jump right on it. I cheated 1100 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:06,600 Speaker 9: on my wife two years ago. He already noticed his fault. 1101 00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:08,080 Speaker 10: He hit that. 1102 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, he know it. 1103 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 9: This is his fault with a woman who constantly threatened 1104 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,480 Speaker 9: to call my wife when she didn't get what she wanted. 1105 00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,640 Speaker 2: See, now that's not a threat. If you don't stay 1106 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:21,800 Speaker 2: with me, I'm gonna call your wife. 1107 00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:26,280 Speaker 9: It could be anything she wanted, because he said, like 1108 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 9: he was buying her stuff, getting her stuff, probably helping her, 1109 00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 9: you know, with the bills and all this hit. And 1110 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:35,160 Speaker 9: when she don't give something, she want her way or 1111 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,280 Speaker 9: him to come over at a certain time, then I'm 1112 00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 9: gonna threaten to call your wife. This went on for 1113 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,200 Speaker 9: two years, and this is the killer part, he says, 1114 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,640 Speaker 9: until I read out of money and decided to end 1115 00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:51,480 Speaker 9: the affair. See, this affair was based around the money 1116 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 9: he was giving the mistress. So when the mistress couldn't 1117 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 9: get what, she won't and with threat out need this, 1118 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 9: you need to buy me? That did shit threaten to 1119 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 9: call the wife. He kept it going for two years. 1120 00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,680 Speaker 9: He liked the little sideline stuff, but it was costing 1121 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,440 Speaker 9: him too much, so then he decided to end the affair. 1122 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 1: What what should he didn't have to do any of this. 1123 00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 9: I'm just he was cheating with the woman. He was 1124 00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:21,720 Speaker 9: buying her stuff. She wanted more when he didn't have 1125 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 9: the money to give or wall. She threatened to call him. 1126 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 9: He tried to keep it until he ran out of money. 1127 00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 2: All right, what is is that? 1128 00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 1: We'll come back with part two of your response. Girl 1129 00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes. 1130 00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,480 Speaker 2: After you went straightened her letter and her out, come 1131 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 2: on back. 1132 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 15: You straightened him out. 1133 00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 2: He needs to send you out. 1134 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 1: My ex wife made sure my son hates me is 1135 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:43,920 Speaker 1: the subject. We'll be back right after this. 1136 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,320 Speaker 10: You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1137 00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1138 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: The subject my ex wife made my son hate me? 1139 00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:57,280 Speaker 9: All right, man writes a letter that said he gonna 1140 00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,840 Speaker 9: jump right on it. Cheated on his wife two years ago. 1141 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 9: He admitted that he know he wrong with a woman 1142 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,400 Speaker 9: that constantly threatened to call my wife when she didn't 1143 01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,160 Speaker 9: get what she wanted. That could be I want you 1144 01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 9: to come over now. That could be I want a 1145 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,439 Speaker 9: new dress. That could be I want you to fix 1146 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:16,200 Speaker 9: my car. That could be I need help with these bills. 1147 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:19,160 Speaker 9: It could be anything she wanted, but she would threaten 1148 01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:19,720 Speaker 9: to call wife. 1149 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 2: Now. 1150 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 9: He tried to keep it up, and he said this 1151 01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 9: went on for two years until I ran out of money, 1152 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:29,560 Speaker 9: and I said, man, now, I got to end this 1153 01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 9: affair because that affair he was in, it might have 1154 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 9: been sexual, but it was tied to money. 1155 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:36,360 Speaker 2: Sugar. 1156 01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 9: Daddy ran out of sugar. He just daddy now, So 1157 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 9: that's what happened. I was out cutting the yard when 1158 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 9: she called my house and my wife answered. 1159 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,760 Speaker 2: Walked in. Wife on the speaker phone listening to my side. Cheick, 1160 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,280 Speaker 2: he know he's wrong. My son was sitting there listening 1161 01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 2: to everything. 1162 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 9: He was twelve years old at the time, and I 1163 01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:58,320 Speaker 9: made him leave the room, but he had already heard 1164 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 9: enough relationlationship when him was ruined. After that day, my 1165 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:06,919 Speaker 9: home life was terrible too, so I moved out after 1166 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,040 Speaker 9: my wife served me with divorce papers. 1167 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,280 Speaker 2: So this isn't about a reconciliation. It's over. He caused it, 1168 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,120 Speaker 2: his fault. Bam. Here the problem. 1169 01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,320 Speaker 9: We are in the process of discussion who will get 1170 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,600 Speaker 9: custody of our son? 1171 01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 2: Dog. 1172 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 9: You not getting custody. You could get joint custody. You 1173 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 9: know you might get knocked down to visitation, but you 1174 01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 9: not getting custody. You can stop this argument right now. 1175 01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,040 Speaker 9: I haven't seen him in months. His mother has brainwashed 1176 01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,360 Speaker 9: him to think I'm a no good cheetah and liar. 1177 01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 9: She has him in the middle of grown folks business, 1178 01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 9: and when we talk, she's always on speakerphone, so my 1179 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,920 Speaker 9: son can hear all of the conversation. Sureley and I 1180 01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:51,160 Speaker 9: both agree she's wrong for this. I'm gonna tell you 1181 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 9: at the end. Sends me text messages with our son 1182 01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 9: on the text thread. Oh she wrong, man, But I'm 1183 01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 9: gonna tell you why she's doing this too, calling your 1184 01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 9: names and cussing me out. She's brought up all kinds 1185 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 9: of things that happened, and I marriage my son don't 1186 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 9: need to know all that. I'm dying to see him. 1187 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 9: So when I send him a text ask him to 1188 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,960 Speaker 9: have dinner with me one day soon, he sent me 1189 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,600 Speaker 9: the most disrespectful reply a child could send her father. 1190 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:18,960 Speaker 9: I want to go snatch him up real quick, but 1191 01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:22,280 Speaker 9: I can't. This is not the boy I raised. He 1192 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 9: needs his father back in his life. How can I 1193 01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:28,439 Speaker 9: reverse all the brain washing? Please advise? Well, see, here's 1194 01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 9: a deal. She has accomplished what she wanted to do. 1195 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:38,640 Speaker 9: But here's the problem. She won, but he lost. Not 1196 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:39,680 Speaker 9: you have lost. 1197 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 2: Her son has lost because. 1198 01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,600 Speaker 9: See, not only does she not have a husband. But 1199 01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,439 Speaker 9: now she got her son thinking he ain't got a father, 1200 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,960 Speaker 9: And it don't have to be because here's my opinion 1201 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 9: in this whole thing. When your husband doesn't prove to 1202 01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:03,360 Speaker 9: be a great hub, it doesn't mean that he's not 1203 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:04,440 Speaker 9: a good father. 1204 01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:08,919 Speaker 2: Those are two different roles. 1205 01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 9: Completely, And when I say that, I meaning that the 1206 01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:17,360 Speaker 9: two roles can be separated and each can be performed 1207 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:21,400 Speaker 9: extremely well. You can be a great husband and never 1208 01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 9: have any children. You can be a great father, but 1209 01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 9: you don't necessarily make you a great husband. So the 1210 01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:33,280 Speaker 9: man is not a great husband, got that, But that 1211 01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:37,200 Speaker 9: don't mean he ain't a great father. But as a 1212 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:42,760 Speaker 9: scorn woman or man, tying the two together only hurts 1213 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:47,200 Speaker 9: the child, the childish crush. Oh, you whipping the fathers behind? 1214 01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,400 Speaker 2: But do you know that? You know in the long 1215 01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,200 Speaker 2: run that man is still a man no matter what 1216 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 2: you say about him. 1217 01:03:55,120 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 9: But you are hindering your son's development into manhood because 1218 01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 9: the one person that can teach him how to be 1219 01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:09,640 Speaker 9: a man, you've discredited him because he wasn't a good husband. See, 1220 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,880 Speaker 9: y'all just wasn't it for each other? For whatever the reason? 1221 01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,520 Speaker 9: Was he wrong for cheating one hundred percent, one hundred percent. 1222 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 9: But because he's not a good husband, don't make him 1223 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 9: not a good father. So now you've brainwashed the child 1224 01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,439 Speaker 9: and hating his own father, and you win. But guess 1225 01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:30,360 Speaker 9: what your child loses. And y'all got to stop that 1226 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:34,360 Speaker 9: this knowledge. If you are out there, you have to 1227 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:37,760 Speaker 9: stop that. If you're in the process of using your 1228 01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,800 Speaker 9: child as upon and your divorce or your relationship, you 1229 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 9: have to stop that. I am speaking from experience. You 1230 01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:50,920 Speaker 9: have to stop that. It's not for you to do 1231 01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,960 Speaker 9: this to this boy, because I have news for you. 1232 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 9: One day, this boy's gonna grow up and he gonna 1233 01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,680 Speaker 9: know the truth. And as this boy grows up, this 1234 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,680 Speaker 9: boy is gonna make mistakes of his own and he's 1235 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 9: gonna start to understand that mistakes happen in life. But 1236 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 9: because he wasn't a great husband to you, don't mean 1237 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:13,840 Speaker 9: that he wasn't a great and that he wasn't a 1238 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 9: great father to this boy. 1239 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,400 Speaker 2: And you're doing nothing but damaging the boy. And they 1240 01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 2: tell you all the time. 1241 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:24,000 Speaker 9: Listen, I don't let my children hear me say nothing 1242 01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 9: about their mother's dispattage. 1243 01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:26,760 Speaker 2: Nothing. 1244 01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:31,120 Speaker 9: Oh I could, but I don't now them on the 1245 01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 9: other hand, Oh, they ain't done me, done me like 1246 01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 9: like a damn book. But guess what, at the end, 1247 01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,320 Speaker 9: the truth comes out hanging that dog. I support the 1248 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 9: man in this letter, surely. 1249 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:51,480 Speaker 1: I support the child. All right, well, wow, okay, Well 1250 01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:55,040 Speaker 1: we'll continue this conversation when we come back. My ex 1251 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,280 Speaker 1: wife made sure my son hates me. Steve and I 1252 01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,680 Speaker 1: agree on that that that is definitely wrong. And we 1253 01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 1: have some personal experiences to talk about when we come back. 1254 01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:07,439 Speaker 1: All right, after this, you're listening. 1255 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:09,200 Speaker 10: Morning show. 1256 01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 1: All right, see this, this strawberry letter was was interesting. 1257 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:18,560 Speaker 1: My ex wife made sure my son hates me. You know, 1258 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, we can relate to it. We can relate 1259 01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,280 Speaker 1: to it. We've both been divorced on the show. You know, 1260 01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 1: full disclosure. My first marriage didn't go well, didn't end well, 1261 01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,720 Speaker 1: but we had a beautiful child out of that relationship. 1262 01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:36,160 Speaker 15: And you know, I'm not ashamed to admit. 1263 01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 1: That I was very bitter. I was very very bitter 1264 01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:39,920 Speaker 1: when we broke up. 1265 01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:41,640 Speaker 10: Uh. 1266 01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:44,680 Speaker 1: You know, you get to a dark place sometimes you're angry, 1267 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:49,000 Speaker 1: you're bitter, and you know, I was on the radio. 1268 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:50,160 Speaker 15: I was on the radio in LA. 1269 01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:52,680 Speaker 1: A lot of people who listened during that time. Probably 1270 01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,760 Speaker 1: well hopefully they don't remember so long ago, but yeah, 1271 01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 1: I used to bad I used to really bad mouth 1272 01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:04,360 Speaker 1: my ex husband on the air constantly, because you know, 1273 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,880 Speaker 1: something would happen that it would remind me or you know, 1274 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,920 Speaker 1: trigger me or something like that, and I just go in, 1275 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,280 Speaker 1: you know, or say one thing, Yeah, call him a 1276 01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:17,600 Speaker 1: deadbeat dad or whatever whatever, and uh, just just not 1277 01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:18,720 Speaker 1: a good look, you know. 1278 01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,360 Speaker 2: So when you look back, you look back for now 1279 01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:22,960 Speaker 2: what you think, Oh. 1280 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,160 Speaker 1: It was horrible. I mean I had to stop myself. 1281 01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,200 Speaker 1: You know, you grow, you change, people change, they do. 1282 01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:32,480 Speaker 1: I had to forgive him that. It started with that forgiveness, 1283 01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 1: because forgiveness is not for the other person. We talk 1284 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,040 Speaker 1: about that a lot on the show. Forgiveness is for you. 1285 01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 1: Once I forgave him, then I could start to heal. 1286 01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,760 Speaker 1: And I stopped, and I apologized on the air. I 1287 01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,360 Speaker 1: apologize to him for saying that because we had a child, 1288 01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: I never wanted her to grow up. And you know 1289 01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 1: have people saying, well, your mom used to do this, 1290 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,680 Speaker 1: talk about your I never wanted that. 1291 01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:56,000 Speaker 2: So you know mine ain't feel that way. 1292 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:00,640 Speaker 1: I want. 1293 01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:03,320 Speaker 10: She wouldn't do that. 1294 01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:05,080 Speaker 15: You're too much of a gentleman to do that. 1295 01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 9: Well, I would never talk about my sons and daughters 1296 01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 9: mothers in a disparaging way publicly. 1297 01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:15,560 Speaker 2: I would never do that. You know. 1298 01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:19,360 Speaker 9: I have my comments aware in my own personal life 1299 01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 9: because I'm human, but never on the air, because I 1300 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:26,559 Speaker 9: taught my sons. I raised my sons to honor their 1301 01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,720 Speaker 9: mothers like I was raised to honor mind and to 1302 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:31,519 Speaker 9: defend her at all costs. 1303 01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 2: I can't they can't see me talking about it. Then 1304 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 2: I asked them not to honor them. 1305 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:41,800 Speaker 9: But you know, my my, Yeah, but my ex went 1306 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 9: on a complete and total smear campaign out of out 1307 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,679 Speaker 9: of her anger and scoring for years. I understand, for years. 1308 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,880 Speaker 9: I mean just attack, attack, attack, attack. You're so you know, 1309 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 9: and you know, I thank god I had Marjorie, you know, 1310 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:02,519 Speaker 9: a strong woman who knew me. 1311 01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can say no. 1312 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,320 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1313 01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1314 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 10: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1315 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:17,760 Speaker 15: All right, guys, here's something we saw on Facebook. 1316 01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:20,960 Speaker 1: Now, there was a boss who asked five coworkers who 1317 01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,559 Speaker 1: were in a meeting if they had any spare change. 1318 01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,880 Speaker 1: So this guy said, my friend was about to reach 1319 01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:29,519 Speaker 1: into his pocket and a coworker grabbed his hand to 1320 01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:33,680 Speaker 1: quickly step to quietly stop him from offering change. A 1321 01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:37,000 Speaker 1: different coworker who was eager to kiss but said hey, 1322 01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:40,760 Speaker 1: I have eighty cents. The boss said, great, I heard 1323 01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:44,080 Speaker 1: your change jingling throughout the meeting. Please don't bring any 1324 01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 1: change into the meetings anymore. Yes, yes, yes, So Steve, 1325 01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:52,920 Speaker 1: I got to ask you. 1326 01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,439 Speaker 15: I know you have a crazy horrible boss story. 1327 01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:57,880 Speaker 2: I know you do. Please she yes. 1328 01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,599 Speaker 9: I mean, you know, just in my life, I thought 1329 01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:03,519 Speaker 9: all my bosses was horrible because first of all, my 1330 01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:06,800 Speaker 9: problem as an Yeah, every last one of them. I 1331 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,679 Speaker 9: never none of my boss because I didn't I didn't 1332 01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:11,400 Speaker 9: think none of them should be in charge of me. 1333 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:15,599 Speaker 2: That was my whole Damn Yeah, I had this. I had. 1334 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:18,680 Speaker 2: I had a boss named Bob Cook in Cleveland at 1335 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,320 Speaker 2: the Ginery Electric Huh. 1336 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 9: And he was he was chastising me one time because 1337 01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:26,240 Speaker 9: he didn't like the way I had unloaded this truck 1338 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:28,559 Speaker 9: with the tobo. So it pulls me in the office 1339 01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 9: and talk to me, little fat, little dude, real big 1340 01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:33,280 Speaker 9: ass stomach. He leaned back, had his foot up on 1341 01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 9: the desk. He said to me, you know something Harvey. 1342 01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,720 Speaker 9: If you could just change your work habits. I've been 1343 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 9: at this company thirty years. If you following my footsteps, 1344 01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:45,840 Speaker 9: you could be me. 1345 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:46,519 Speaker 2: One day. 1346 01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:51,639 Speaker 9: WHOA, I got up and was walking out that door. 1347 01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:54,080 Speaker 9: He said, where are you going? I said, man, I 1348 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,439 Speaker 9: don't want to be you, and walked out that door 1349 01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:04,200 Speaker 9: and shut that door. Two weeks later I was gone, okay, yeah, 1350 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:08,559 Speaker 9: that costs me right there, a walk out moment, shut 1351 01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:10,680 Speaker 9: the door. I said, man, I don't want to be you. 1352 01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:17,679 Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I'm agreeing with Steve. 1353 01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:21,280 Speaker 13: Quitting takes a toll on your life, and it only 1354 01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 13: hits you when you're sitting in that car. I mean, 1355 01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:28,040 Speaker 13: you quit inside and then you gotta go outside, and 1356 01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:29,519 Speaker 13: you have already quit it. 1357 01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:30,519 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1358 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:33,720 Speaker 13: I'm saying inside, Well I'm not. Well, the hell with it, 1359 01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:36,439 Speaker 13: damn it. You take your job and you know what. 1360 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:37,240 Speaker 2: You can do with it. 1361 01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:39,760 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm out this, and you add and then you 1362 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:40,360 Speaker 3: walk out. 1363 01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:43,040 Speaker 2: Now you in the car, and then that's. 1364 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:52,400 Speaker 9: That's when it all hits you, Jay Jay, when you 1365 01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 9: realize they fit to send you your last check. 1366 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,760 Speaker 2: Ain't too many people with a job. I've got enough 1367 01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 2: savings and last you know what I mean. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1368 01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 2: six months. Very few people got six months of savings 1369 01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:09,680 Speaker 2: set up. 1370 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 1371 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:15,880 Speaker 13: When you realize that you're off, when you realize that 1372 01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:19,800 Speaker 13: you're off from work that day, real early, I mean 1373 01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:23,519 Speaker 13: you are real early, like whoa, I'm off, like. 1374 01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:30,519 Speaker 2: Like eleven thirty a m you off? Yeah, you ain't 1375 01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:34,720 Speaker 2: making lunech. You off calling nobody because everybody else is there. 1376 01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,439 Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, and then when you call back, they all 1377 01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,519 Speaker 13: of a sudden whispering to you, and you not even 1378 01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:43,439 Speaker 13: now they whispering. 1379 01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,439 Speaker 3: Mann, I heard you, I heard you laugh. 1380 01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:47,920 Speaker 6: I can't come. 1381 01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:48,680 Speaker 2: I gotta go over. 1382 01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:50,680 Speaker 3: I mean, like what we were just funny? What the 1383 01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 3: hell happened? 1384 01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1385 01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah yeah man. 1386 01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,840 Speaker 11: I got into work. I worked at the gap. I 1387 01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 11: worked at the gap, and I'm aneath. I'm a neat 1388 01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:07,320 Speaker 11: from that, y'all know that. So my job was surelet 1389 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:08,360 Speaker 11: baby gap. 1390 01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:14,720 Speaker 2: I worked at the gap. I'm over the sweat wall. 1391 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:16,920 Speaker 11: I got the sweat wall immaculate, and I mean everything 1392 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:19,560 Speaker 11: folded just it's pitching purpose. And I got into it 1393 01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:21,800 Speaker 11: with a customer that just started pulling stuff out the 1394 01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,240 Speaker 11: sweat wall, trying to try and stuff your yanking stuff 1395 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,880 Speaker 11: out and the manager came up and said, hey, you 1396 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:28,560 Speaker 11: just do what you're supposed to do. You sweat, you 1397 01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:30,320 Speaker 11: fix it, and you put it back. I said, what 1398 01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:32,639 Speaker 11: the hell are you talking too? I had this wall 1399 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,160 Speaker 11: thick over here, But what are you gonna do? 1400 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:35,439 Speaker 4: Man? 1401 01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,200 Speaker 11: I'm finna go down here. I went down there the 1402 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:40,080 Speaker 11: windows and got me a Burger cameras. I just couldn't 1403 01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:40,280 Speaker 11: take it. 1404 01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:50,760 Speaker 2: A perfect wall the world for him to get all 1405 01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 2: them sweats up that high. 1406 01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 4: On that wall. 1407 01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:58,599 Speaker 1: Today's trending stories coming up in twenty minutes after right after. 1408 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:02,040 Speaker 10: This You're listening Hard Morning show. 1409 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:08,720 Speaker 1: An iPhone repair technician got a strange request recently and 1410 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:11,639 Speaker 1: told the social media followers about the request. A couple 1411 01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:14,760 Speaker 1: came in to get the husband's phone fixed, but he 1412 01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:18,559 Speaker 1: left a note hidden inside for the repairman. The note said, 1413 01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:23,920 Speaker 1: please tell my wife the phone is unfixable. She wants 1414 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:26,719 Speaker 1: to check the phone history. And there was a CRISP 1415 01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:30,360 Speaker 1: one hundred dollars bill folded up with the note inside 1416 01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:33,800 Speaker 1: the phone. The phone repair guy asked his followers, what 1417 01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:35,160 Speaker 1: do you guys think I should do? 1418 01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:35,880 Speaker 6: So? 1419 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:36,599 Speaker 2: What do you think? 1420 01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:36,960 Speaker 5: Guys? 1421 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:40,840 Speaker 2: Shut up, take the hunted and go to dimmis. 1422 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,920 Speaker 3: What broke the man coat? He broke the man coat. 1423 01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 2: He broke the right there. Pardon he broke it? Oh, 1424 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:52,120 Speaker 2: for real, dog, you also take the hundred. 1425 01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:56,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, chill man, Will, We shouldn't been talking about this, 1426 01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,160 Speaker 11: don't well, yeah, this ain't nothing to do with matter 1427 01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:00,560 Speaker 11: of fact, if I was to do it, I'll go 1428 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 11: back in and add for my phone. 1429 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 2: They lost it. 1430 01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:08,560 Speaker 13: We're talking about the cold, Chilly Will, Now that's not 1431 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:09,719 Speaker 13: We're talking about the cold. 1432 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:10,000 Speaker 4: Now. 1433 01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:13,000 Speaker 2: I don't care what he did. Dog. You know you 1434 01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,559 Speaker 2: spos would take that hundred and say you can't be fixed. 1435 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:18,760 Speaker 7: They mad at the repair man, but not at the 1436 01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:20,080 Speaker 7: man at the husband. 1437 01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:22,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, there is a cold. 1438 01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:25,719 Speaker 2: Ladies were gonna fix what we can fix call them. Okay, 1439 01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,680 Speaker 2: We'm right being mad at the repair man. 1440 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,360 Speaker 1: There's some honest people in the world. Mark Steve Robey 1441 01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:32,000 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 1442 01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:36,120 Speaker 2: I hope they steal his car, take it to go 1443 01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 2: vote and then sh. 1444 01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harby Morning Show and some trending news coming up 1445 01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:43,920 Speaker 1: at thirty three. 1446 01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:46,719 Speaker 15: Minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're. 1447 01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:49,000 Speaker 10: Listening Hardy Morning Show. 1448 01:15:49,760 --> 01:15:53,439 Speaker 1: It is time now for would you rather? Would you 1449 01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:56,320 Speaker 1: rather win the lottery jackpot or would you rather live 1450 01:15:56,439 --> 01:15:58,600 Speaker 1: in good health and live to be one hundred and 1451 01:15:58,680 --> 01:15:59,519 Speaker 1: twenty years old? 1452 01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 2: We broke though at. 1453 01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:02,320 Speaker 10: One hundred and twenty. 1454 01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:04,679 Speaker 1: And old. 1455 01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:10,360 Speaker 9: Give me fifteen good years of this billion, so you 1456 01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:14,680 Speaker 9: only get fifteen years. No, no, no, I'm just saying, no, 1457 01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:20,360 Speaker 9: give me this money, and God has for me exactly exactly. 1458 01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, He's give me this money and whatever my riot is, 1459 01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,240 Speaker 2: I had worked out with the line. I was looking 1460 01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:25,920 Speaker 2: for one oh four. 1461 01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:31,920 Speaker 1: Anyway, you are a health proponent now, you like I'm 1462 01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:32,719 Speaker 1: a big. 1463 01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:36,160 Speaker 2: Proponent of health. Yeah, well, health is more important than wealth. 1464 01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:38,200 Speaker 2: Yeah money in. 1465 01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,599 Speaker 1: Your statement, yeah you were You could be health, right, Carlo, 1466 01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:42,840 Speaker 1: You could be healthy. 1467 01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:44,599 Speaker 15: And lived till one hundred and twenty years old. 1468 01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:49,000 Speaker 2: I'm healthy. Now give me this billion and watch this health. 1469 01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:52,040 Speaker 2: I'm healthy now. 1470 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:55,719 Speaker 9: It's not saying you've got to be unhealthy with the billion. 1471 01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:58,600 Speaker 9: It's just you're guaranteed one hundred and twenty years of 1472 01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 9: good health or you can get this billion right now. 1473 01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:03,600 Speaker 2: I want to be healthy. Yeah, okay, because I'm a 1474 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 2: thing I want to do before one twenty. Anyway, I'm 1475 01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,920 Speaker 2: gonna do it. A couple of issues, but just billion. 1476 01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:10,840 Speaker 1: Gotta get you straight. 1477 01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:13,719 Speaker 2: All right, all right, movie, I want take that billion. 1478 01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:16,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna make myself sick by saying nothing. 1479 01:17:20,479 --> 01:17:21,639 Speaker 1: Here're just stupid? 1480 01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,439 Speaker 2: All right, here we go straight now, man, come on. 1481 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:29,960 Speaker 1: Would you rather think about this when you were single? Okay, 1482 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:32,080 Speaker 1: I gotta put that in there. Would you rather get 1483 01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,120 Speaker 1: a text from from a one night stand that says 1484 01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:38,519 Speaker 1: I'm pregnant? Or I have an s t D? Which one? 1485 01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:39,360 Speaker 4: Well? 1486 01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:42,519 Speaker 2: Which damn STD is it? I mean, we gotta talk this. 1487 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:50,960 Speaker 2: It's just a helble. STD can Yeah, we might. You know, 1488 01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:53,560 Speaker 2: the baby might be bad because you just got some 1489 01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,360 Speaker 2: insects on me. We can work through that. 1490 01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:01,240 Speaker 3: What kind of a scripture if we talk? 1491 01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:01,599 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1492 01:18:03,040 --> 01:18:09,519 Speaker 9: Actually we're talking about what are we talking about? Which 1493 01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:13,600 Speaker 9: were talking about? Some which somebody is shoked off his penosilla? 1494 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:15,600 Speaker 1: Anybody? 1495 01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:22,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, we just peninsilla, I go and take shots. 1496 01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:30,040 Speaker 3: All right? 1497 01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:34,599 Speaker 1: All right, you guys, that's today's round of would you rather? 1498 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:37,400 Speaker 1: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, our 1499 01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:40,439 Speaker 1: last break of the day and some closing remarks from 1500 01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:43,479 Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're. 1501 01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:45,840 Speaker 10: Listening Harvey Morning Show. 1502 01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:48,760 Speaker 1: All right, here we are, guys, our last break of 1503 01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:53,360 Speaker 1: the day. And Steve, you have some closing remarks. 1504 01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:54,479 Speaker 4: You know what. 1505 01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:56,840 Speaker 9: I'm just on this tip right now because I want 1506 01:18:56,880 --> 01:19:06,600 Speaker 9: to just remind people really really focus on yourself. And 1507 01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:09,719 Speaker 9: I'm not meaning to the point where you don't consider 1508 01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:13,120 Speaker 9: other people, That's not what I'm saying. But in order 1509 01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:16,560 Speaker 9: to be successful, I really want you to focus on yourself, 1510 01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:20,439 Speaker 9: because in order to get you to the next level, 1511 01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:24,639 Speaker 9: nobody should know you better than yourself, and the best 1512 01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:27,679 Speaker 9: way to know yourself is to be true to yourself. 1513 01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:32,400 Speaker 9: Do the things that feel right to you, Do the 1514 01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:36,160 Speaker 9: things that motivate you, do the things that put you 1515 01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 9: in a better position. Do the things that you know 1516 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:44,840 Speaker 9: in your heart are right. If it don't feel right, 1517 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:49,679 Speaker 9: it's probably cause it's not. If what you are doing 1518 01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:54,280 Speaker 9: is at the expense are the cost of somebody else, 1519 01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:58,360 Speaker 9: You're going to have to pay for that, because that's 1520 01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:02,120 Speaker 9: not how it's done. You don't have to use anybody 1521 01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:04,439 Speaker 9: to get to where you're trying to go in life, 1522 01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:08,000 Speaker 9: especially if it's in the same place God has for you. 1523 01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 2: God don't need no help. 1524 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:15,760 Speaker 9: God don't need you using nobody, stepping on nobody, abusing nobody. 1525 01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:20,920 Speaker 9: He doesn't need that help. So if you are doing 1526 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:23,559 Speaker 9: something and you know what's wrong. You have to pull 1527 01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:25,800 Speaker 9: yourself up, pull yourself together. 1528 01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:26,600 Speaker 2: Now, listen to me. 1529 01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:29,720 Speaker 9: When you make a mistake, and you will and you 1530 01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:33,400 Speaker 9: get it wrong, and you will get up and go again, 1531 01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:38,719 Speaker 9: Get up and go again. You have to keep moving forward. 1532 01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 9: God is not looking for your perfection. He is only 1533 01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:47,200 Speaker 9: looking for your persistence. You are not going to be perfect. 1534 01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,920 Speaker 9: I don't care how hard you try. That's what Grayson 1535 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:53,960 Speaker 9: Forgiveness and mercy is all about. Because he put it. 1536 01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:58,160 Speaker 9: He implemented a system where he knew that we were 1537 01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:01,880 Speaker 9: going to fail so many times along the way trying 1538 01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:06,680 Speaker 9: to get it right. So he created grace, mercy and forgiveness. 1539 01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,760 Speaker 9: So when you make a mistake, stop laying in it. 1540 01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:13,760 Speaker 9: It's okay. You made a mistake. It's no big deal. 1541 01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:18,840 Speaker 9: Everybody makes them. But know yourself and know what you do. 1542 01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,160 Speaker 9: If you don't really care to drink, nothing says you 1543 01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:25,599 Speaker 9: have to drink. If you're the person that really ain't 1544 01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:28,120 Speaker 9: in the weed, just because it is legal don't mean 1545 01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:32,479 Speaker 9: you got to do it. Alcohol is legal, cigarettes is legal, 1546 01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:35,479 Speaker 9: But if it's not for you, it's not for you. 1547 01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:41,760 Speaker 2: Know yourself and lock in after you know yourself. Lock 1548 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:42,839 Speaker 2: in on your purpose. 1549 01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:45,400 Speaker 9: You know I say this all the time, the two 1550 01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:47,519 Speaker 9: greatest days in your life or the day you're born, 1551 01:21:47,560 --> 01:21:50,400 Speaker 9: in the day you discover why. But listen to me, man, 1552 01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:56,400 Speaker 9: that why is critical? That why is your purpose? That 1553 01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:01,960 Speaker 9: why is your meaning your service? That why is everything? 1554 01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:05,759 Speaker 9: You've got to lock in on your purpose and stay 1555 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:12,200 Speaker 9: there and stop allowing everything to sidetrack you. So many people, man, 1556 01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:15,280 Speaker 9: we are so easily distracted in this world because the 1557 01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:18,560 Speaker 9: distractions are everywhere. But you got to get tuned in 1558 01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,479 Speaker 9: to your purpose. Why are you on this earth? Are 1559 01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:23,760 Speaker 9: you really on this earth to live the way you 1560 01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 9: live in? 1561 01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:26,160 Speaker 2: I mean, you have to just come to it that. 1562 01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:28,439 Speaker 9: I had to just sit myself down one day and go, 1563 01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:32,160 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey, are you really in this world to live 1564 01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:33,000 Speaker 9: the way you live it? 1565 01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 2: Do you think that God. 1566 01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:38,080 Speaker 9: Took all this time bring you through all the stuff 1567 01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,479 Speaker 9: he brought you through for you to act like this, 1568 01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:46,560 Speaker 9: for you to continue living like this? And when I 1569 01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:49,560 Speaker 9: had that honest conversation with myself, the answer was no, 1570 01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:52,280 Speaker 9: And so I had to start. 1571 01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:52,920 Speaker 2: Pulling it together. 1572 01:22:53,479 --> 01:22:56,439 Speaker 9: But I couldn't pull it together by myself. I had 1573 01:22:56,479 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 9: to ask God for some help. You know, why would 1574 01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:02,839 Speaker 9: I not go to God for the health? He's my creator. 1575 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:07,680 Speaker 9: If you're driving a car and you got a car 1576 01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:11,720 Speaker 9: and your car breakdown, there's an owner's manual in the 1577 01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:15,479 Speaker 9: glove compartment, and you know why is there because it 1578 01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:19,400 Speaker 9: helps you troubleshoot what's wrong with the car. Now, if 1579 01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:23,439 Speaker 9: you're driving a Toyota, that manual that you're looking for 1580 01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:26,320 Speaker 9: in the glove compartment is going to be a Toyota 1581 01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:31,120 Speaker 9: manual specific to the type of car that you're driving. 1582 01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:34,880 Speaker 9: That way, you know exactly how to fix what's wrong. 1583 01:23:36,280 --> 01:23:40,160 Speaker 9: So when something is wrong with you, you have an 1584 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:45,679 Speaker 9: owner's manual. It's your Bible, it's your Koran, it's your Terror, 1585 01:23:45,800 --> 01:23:50,479 Speaker 9: it's whatever you read for your religious faith. You have 1586 01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:56,200 Speaker 9: an owner's manual that specifically can fix your ailment. And 1587 01:23:56,320 --> 01:24:00,960 Speaker 9: it comes in chapters and verses. God don't care what's 1588 01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:04,519 Speaker 9: wrong with you. There is an answer in those pages. 1589 01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:09,000 Speaker 9: And if you don't have the book, all you got 1590 01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:12,320 Speaker 9: to do is ask God for help. But you have 1591 01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:15,680 Speaker 9: got to get tuned in you your purpose. And when 1592 01:24:15,720 --> 01:24:18,360 Speaker 9: you make mistakes and you fall, it doesn't mean it's over. 1593 01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:23,160 Speaker 9: I have fallen thousands of times, but The blessing that 1594 01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:26,479 Speaker 9: I have that God has given me is I have 1595 01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:32,000 Speaker 9: the will, the desire and the faith to get back up. 1596 01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,760 Speaker 2: Over and over and over again. And you can do 1597 01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:40,439 Speaker 2: it too. You have that same thing in you. In 1598 01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:43,080 Speaker 2: order to get up. You simply have to look up. 1599 01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:46,840 Speaker 9: Every time I fall, I look to my heavenly Father 1600 01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:49,479 Speaker 9: and he gives me the strip to go on to tomorrow. 1601 01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:51,320 Speaker 2: And you got it. 1602 01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:55,800 Speaker 9: All you got to do is get home, go to sleep, 1603 01:24:55,880 --> 01:24:59,360 Speaker 9: wake up and go again. Come on, y'all, this is 1604 01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:02,040 Speaker 9: the year. You can change a lot of things. It's 1605 01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:04,639 Speaker 9: gonna take some effort on your part, but you can 1606 01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,000 Speaker 9: do it. It's just take some faith. The faith with 1607 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:11,880 Speaker 9: our works is dead. You got to get busy, stay 1608 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:16,440 Speaker 9: true to yourself, identify your purpose and stop getting distracted. 1609 01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,599 Speaker 2: Let's go my clothing man. Y'all have a great day, 1610 01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:21,920 Speaker 2: all right. Talk to God. He loved to hear from you. 1611 01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:42,559 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1612 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:46,120 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1613 01:25:46,240 --> 01:25:50,000 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1614 01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:54,200 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show