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Speaker 2: I am pregnant a virgin in sixteen, So my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: thinks I cheated.

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Speaker 1: Fucking immaculate conception. We got Mother Mary over here.

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Speaker 2: You know Mary, you know, big shout out to Mary.

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Speaker 2: You know, having burthen the goats, the goat world. You know,

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe this baby is gonna save us all that's

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Speaker 2: really the only hope, our only hope.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to you, Opie.

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Speaker 2: All right, So yeah, pretty much exactly what the title says.

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Speaker 2: I am sixteen female, a virgin. So is my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: sixteen male? Said the two guys who you know or

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Speaker 2: just kidding, maybe you don't get to know. We're both

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Speaker 2: young and neither of us were ready for sex.

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Speaker 1: Personally.

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Speaker 2: It's never been high on my radar, and from what

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Speaker 2: he's told me, he's the same way.

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Speaker 1: Tell me a sixteen year old boy as a sex

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Speaker 1: high on his radar, sweetheart girl, yo, listen, listen. Riley

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Speaker 1: has a sign for things that I can't say. When

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Speaker 1: I was sixteen, I had a boner every hour for three.

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Speaker 2: Years, every time I turned a page every time I

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Speaker 2: turned a page. A gust of wind of a few

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Speaker 2: molecules pushing through the air would cause me.

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Speaker 1: A curvy piece of drift wood would be enough to

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Speaker 1: get me going. Bro. There, your boyfriend is lying. I

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Speaker 1: am so sorry.

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Speaker 2: You might not be lying, but he I believe you

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Speaker 1: Let me say that much. That's asexual. That's a good point.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 2: That being said, we've been together for a couple of

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Speaker 2: years now, so things have still happened. I'd rather not

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Speaker 2: go into detail on that, but you can get the picture.

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Speaker 2: Think third base. No, we will not get the picture.

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Speaker 2: Illegal illegal, illegal, no pictures.

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Speaker 1: Nice try, nice try, Yes. Anyways, ladies and gentlemen, we

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Speaker 1: got them.

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Speaker 2: A couple of days ago, I went to the doctor

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Speaker 2: because I've been feeling really sick lately. I did a

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Speaker 2: urine test and a fingerprick, and my doctor told me,

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Speaker 2: oh jeez, that I was pregnant. But how but how

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Speaker 2: but how but how? What's the answer? Riley look it up?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you can't because there isn't an.

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Speaker 1: Answer, because the only answer is in this story. That's correct.

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Speaker 2: Of course, I laughed it off at first, because I

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 2: Just just to imagine for five seconds being in that scenario, could.

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Speaker 1: You possibly You've literally done.

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Speaker 2: Nothing in your whole life, and you go to the

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Speaker 2: doctor and they're like, yeah, you have a baby.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I would even come close to having sex ever again, No,

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Speaker 1: you would be pregnant, virgin. Yeah, you wouldn't come close.

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Speaker 1: It would be nowhere. There would be nowhere.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Riley, I know, I know, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: I love that song. After that, I felt kind of silent.

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Speaker 2: She started talking about things like ultrasounds, prenatal vitamins, et cetera.

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Speaker 2: But I cut her off and told her that wasn't

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Speaker 2: possible because I've never had sex therefore have never conceived.

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Speaker 1: Bro, if I was that nurse, I'll be like, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 2: The thing you tell people, and that's that is the

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Speaker 2: reaction they're probably going to give you.

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Speaker 1: Never you did do a little Mormon soak, like come.

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Speaker 2: On, come on, you know, she explained to me, this

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Speaker 2: is crazy. She explained to me that very very few

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Speaker 2: women can get pregnant by outer course.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean, Oh, like rubbing up against the

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Speaker 1: the things and yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 2: Could you google that for us, Riley? I thought we'd

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Speaker 2: get more of a definition.

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Speaker 1: Is it like like I feel like going into the

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Speaker 1: then it's like it's like oh, right in the belly button,

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Speaker 1: and then it drips down. I would guess it's like

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Speaker 1: just like anything that's not actual true, like it's not

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Speaker 1: we do it?

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Speaker 2: We are can seep through cracks, Riley. We're talking all feelings,

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Speaker 2: no facts right now.

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Speaker 1: The facts.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, here the here are the facts.

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Speaker 3: What does outer course sex mean? Sexual activity between individuals

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Speaker 3: that does not evolve vaginal or anal intercourse? And I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna look and see. Can you get pregnant from outer course?

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's like a little like you know, hot

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Speaker 1: dog between the thighs action. I think it's anything that's

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Speaker 1: near but isn't truly fully there. Right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So that said, pregnancy can happen rarely if you

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Speaker 3: don't actually have vaginal sex if semen actually gets in

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Speaker 1: Man, I don't even know how to say these words. Dude,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Be want to be so much all of these yes,

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Speaker 3: fulvum uh sperm can swim up in the vaginal and

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Speaker 3: fertilized an egg.

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Speaker 2: Damn wow, bro, Bro, forget Michael Spelps. You're just an alien,

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Speaker 2: otherworldly being due just crawling crazy cavern. Arnold Schwartzenegger of

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Speaker 1: The original Splunkers over here. God, you gotta all terrain sperm.

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Speaker 2: You gotta submit your specimens for science, my dude, because

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Speaker 1: I mean like he's sixteen, he's like his his sperm

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Speaker 2: You know that's it's it's oh, it's activated. Yeah, It's

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Speaker 2: like it's like fully there. Wow, dude, you know it

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Speaker 2: hasn't been brought down by the way of the world.

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Speaker 2: Shout shout out to to OPI's horses, you know, all

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Speaker 2: his horses and all his men. Yep, could put that

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Speaker 1: I think they could get right in that thing.

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Speaker 2: But the doctor said it's still possible due to the

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Speaker 2: incomplete and utter shock. That sucks, dude, So I kind

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Speaker 2: of just left without any further explanation.

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Speaker 1: Oh what can I mean, dude. That's why sex ad

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Speaker 1: is important, dude. I mean, honestly, they told me the

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Speaker 1: only save sex is no sex, No sam.

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Speaker 2: You have to exist in a box. Breeze, eat the air.

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Speaker 2: That's all you can do. Nothing else, that's all you

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Speaker 1: I really, yeah, that sucks, dude. I feel like we

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Speaker 1: Think we do.

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Speaker 2: I think we do because I am learning things today

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Speaker 1: Oh jeez, just maybe.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait what John story just kidding, not this time, guys,

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Speaker 2: I have a child.

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Speaker 1: What.

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Speaker 2: I went straight to my boyfriend's house and he was

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Speaker 2: he would think that I cheated, which I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: to be fair.

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Speaker 1: If you were like a sixteen year old boy who

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Speaker 1: also doesn't know anything about sex. It's just like, wait,

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Speaker 1: we didn't have sex, so what's the deal?

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Speaker 2: Blow deal versus like, you know, not magically as we

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Speaker 2: now know, but like if we aren't educated on this,

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Speaker 2: a sixteen year old boy probably well I have you

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Speaker 2: heard of olter? Course No, probably not. Unfortunately, Yeah, he's tripping. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I would never do something like that. I explained everything

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Speaker 2: we got really close and stuff can happen. He seemed

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Speaker 1: Damn, bro, if my girlfriend said she was pregnant at sixteen.

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Speaker 2: That's are you so young that you're like too naive

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Speaker 2: to even comprehensibly Like, dude, if you had a kid

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Speaker 2: at sixteen, that kid would be twenty now.

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Speaker 1: Bro, I am quitting this fivecast. Bro almost got me

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Speaker 2: Wow, dude, eleven, that's how old that kid would be.

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Speaker 1: He'd be in freaking little league, not in college. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that was good. I prop my you know what game

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Speaker 1: recognized game? That's Respect's a millennial by the way, for

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Speaker 1: all of us, a Gen Zeers.

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Speaker 2: Millennial, Like seven months older than Sam. How did this happen?

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Speaker 2: Bro oh Man got to love it from the youngest

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Speaker 2: of the oldest of the room, just in an instant.

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Speaker 2: You close your eyes. All right, Well, back to the story.

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Speaker 2: Get it out, guys. That's right, that's right. Enjoy it

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Speaker 2: now while it lasts.

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Speaker 1: You're young, inspri it's first to wait seven months with

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Speaker 2: because how the f does that even happen without us

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Speaker 1: So fast, I know, and like, I don't necessarily fault

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Speaker 2: you know, so this is a terrible situation. He looked

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Speaker 2: If he wants to break up, but I need him

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Speaker 2: They're like, literally everyone loses like you.

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Speaker 1: You just can't. She just needs he just needs to

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Speaker 1: do the like the paternity test to regain At least

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Speaker 2: That would at least let let the boyfriend know, like,

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Speaker 2: oh what OPI's saying is actually true? So that is

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Speaker 1: But he has told people that I.

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Speaker 2: Point of my life, and it seems to only be

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Speaker 1: So tough. I mean they're both so young, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: Let's get it. I cheated on my wife with her sister.

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Speaker 1: I went to work for my dad. My dad's company

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00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 1: is big. I was able to make a lot of

439
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 1: money and yes, when we got married, we agreed to

440
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: sign a pre marital agreement. So this is prena foreshadowy. Yeah,

441
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: I guess to protect daddy's money. Oh big, big Daddy

442
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: got that hip of war Bucks.

443
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 3: Cool.

444
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: We went on dates very often, and our bedroom life

445
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: was amazing. Yeah. I showered her and our kids with

446
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: gifts and flowers three times a week. Damn, that's gonna

447
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: have a whole flower budget, dude, tri weekly. Baby, we

448
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: had a big house. I was able to give her

449
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: her dream life, the one we would always talk about

450
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 1: when we were teens. Sweet. We were happy, thought, Yet

451
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: she cheated on me. Oh where I thought it sucks.

452
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: I found out she had a hookup app. When I

453
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 1: confronted her about it, she didn't deny it. She said

454
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: I was always absent and she didn't have a way

455
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: to be fulfilled. How about the flowers three times a week? Man,

456
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: how about the craziness and the petrol? Yeah? Well, maybe

457
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: OP thought it was. Yeah, he's like another great one tonight. Hey, Yeah,

458
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: thirty seconds enough for you, Babey, Sure Bob, sure, Bob.

459
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: Let me just go on my phone really quick. I

460
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 1: gotta leave. It's my personal trainer. I wanted to leave,

461
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: but didn't for the kids. Even though my pain was

462
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: too much to even look at her. We went to counseling,

463
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: and we did okay for a while. But one day,

464
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: maybe two months later, she said she was hooking up

465
00:24:54,880 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: with guys every night. Oh my, she even had a

466
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: few guys over at the house and in our bed

467
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 1: and the house I paid for.

468
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: Mmmm.

469
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: Oh. My kids were now at this point eight and seven.

470
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: We knew divorce would be very hard on them, since

471
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: they loved us both so much. I didn't want them

472
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: to have a tainted image of her through my grief

473
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: and pain. I stayed, but I moved her into the

474
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: guest bedroom, and I couldn't sleep through all the love

475
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 1: making that I heard through the walls. Please please, I

476
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: was like, no, my god, No, you're probably wondering where

477
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: her sister, thirty female comes in. Well. Throughout all this

478
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: she was my rock. My family wouldn't have understood my pain.

479
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: My wife's family always favored her because her sister was

480
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: the mistake baby. Yikes. I still loved her, but I

481
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: didn't know she made her sister's life. Hell, my wife

482
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 1: was barely home when she moved into the guest room. Damn, yeah,

483
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: she wasn't. Now our kids barely saw their mom whenever

484
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: they spoke to her. She was either rude, cold, or them.

485
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: When she came home, she would get something to eat,

486
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: drink and go to her room and stay there. It

487
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like she's even sorry. No, and like, is

488
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: this really better for the kids. Yeah, I don't think so.

489
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think I feel like an avor,

490
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: especially if they have a prenup, like makes it a

491
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: little bit easier. Yeah, with the kids, it obviously like

492
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: makes it messy that you have to figure out custody.

493
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: But it seems like the mom doesn't even care about

494
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: the kids. Yeah, it seems like she just wants to

495
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: live her life and do her Yeah, I would get

496
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: a divorce. Oh. So, my sister's wife was there for

497
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: our kids. She would be at the house a lot.

498
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: She picked up the kids and did things with them.

499
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: She was also home when my wife was home, but

500
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: my wife didn't care. After two years of this, so

501
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: two years of the sister coming and helping out with

502
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: the kids, yeah, my kids started to call her mom.

503
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: Wait what Like the kids are seeing so much of

504
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: the sister that they just think that's mom instead of

505
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: there mom. She didn't want them to if they didn't

506
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: want to, but they wanted to which made me happy.

507
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: I'd only spoken a handful of times to their mom

508
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: by now they were used to it, and so was

509
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: and so was I. A handful a handful, dude. Me

510
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: and my wife's sisters would spend a lot of time

511
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: together and I loved it. So did she. Now this

512
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: leads me to the current situation. So I had booked

513
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: a trip to Fiji for me, my wife and the kids.

514
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: Why are you still going on trips with this woman, dude?

515
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: Maybe it was before, maybe, maybe, maybe, but no, it's

516
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: been two years. Uh yeah, two years. My wife's sister

517
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: wanted us to try and fix things, which I tried

518
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: to do for the first year, but I stopped trying

519
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: since she wasn't So I went to my wife and

520
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: told her about it. She just yelled at me and

521
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: told me to f off and that she wasn't coming.

522
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: And I kid, you not refer to her own kids

523
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: as those little shits. Oh this is terrible, bruh. This

524
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: sounds like she knew about our kids calling their Auntiam mom.

525
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: If she did know, she would have thrown a fit.

526
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: She said they weren't hers anymore and it was a

527
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: mistake to even have them. This threw me off, but

528
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: I did not persist. It's crazy. So I asked my

529
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 1: wife's sister and told her what happened. She said yes,

530
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 1: and we arrived last week. So it's now the sister

531
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: op and the kids in Fiji. I've been to Fiji,

532
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: and let me tell you, it's great. I went to

533
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 1: with my first girlfriend. Yeah, yea that it was great.

534
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: Not with not with any kids, no kids, not with

535
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: any ex wives, no kids, and no kids in the

536
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: oven sisters and no sisters stories. Guys, it's been amazing me.

537
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: My wife's sister and my kids have had a blast.

538
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: They love her and this makes me so happy knowing

539
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: they have a mother figure throughout all the drama of

540
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: the past three years. So this leads me up to tonight. Ooh,

541
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: my kids met another family with kids, so they spent

542
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: the night, which left me and my wife's sister alone. Oh.

543
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: We talked about the kids, in life in general. With

544
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: the mood and atmosphere, you can both tell us something

545
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: that's going on between us, and I kissed her. Oh.

546
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: She stopped me, asking if I really want to do this?

547
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: Do you want to do this? I told her I did. Oh,

548
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: and I feel like we could both feel it. Oh,

549
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: we didn't share a room. My kids shared a bed

550
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: and I had one next to them. My wife's sister

551
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: had the master bedroom, so we ended up sleeping together.

552
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: Oh yes, I know it's bad, but nothing had happened

553
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: like this before. The setting really set us up. It's

554
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: not me or her, it's Fiji. It's so beautiful, babe.

555
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: So right now I'm lying in bed next to her,

556
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: typing this out, about to text my lawyer. She's still sleeping.

557
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: I just needed to get this out. I know not

558
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: many people will read this, but it would be good

559
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: to know. If one person does. Thanks, And there is

560
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: another juicy the update. But John, what do you think

561
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: so far? Like, what should Opie do? Divorce, stay with

562
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: his wife, tell his wife, tell the family, tell the kids.

563
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: What do you think?

564
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: I'm curious to hear what everyone everyone thinks Opie should do.

565
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, I definitely think divorce. I mean, the current

566
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 2: wife just seems so it's interested and doesn't care at all,

567
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: like sack of poop. Yeah, so so sad and awful

568
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 2: of her, and it gets dicey though. With the sister,

569
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: that is definitely like a less clear cut situation. I

570
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 2: think that OP needs to sit down with the sister

571
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: and they need to like talk about the complications of

572
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 2: maybe what could happen. I mean, it seems like this

573
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: is like burgeoning and blossoming into the possibility of relationships.

574
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: So just having that starting conversation, I feel like at

575
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: a bare minimum, right.

576
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: I think it should. I feel like the order to

577
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: go divorce of course. Yeah, yeah, I'm in love with

578
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: your sister. Hey, kids, you have a new mom. Yeah yeah, kids,

579
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: probably kid's probably very last. And yeah, so he hasn't

580
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: officially gone through with divorce until he's axing his lawyer

581
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: as he's sleeping in bed with his wife's hot sister.

582
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, Oh man, let's get into this update.

583
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: Let's do it. So I deleted my original account because

584
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: I realized how wrong I am for not divorcing my wife.

585
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't know who's going to see this, but it's

586
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: worth a shot, I guess, so I'll clear up a

587
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: lot of confusion. Yes, I let my kids stay with

588
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: a family they just met, because, like I said, there

589
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: were other kids, not just mine in the family. I

590
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: guess I didn't like look into that. That's kind of

591
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: weird that you just dropped your kids off with a

592
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: family you just met. I've done that. I've I've had that,

593
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: the family as people we just met. Yeah, really honest

594
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: sleep over.

595
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, you regrets, but it could be weird.

596
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe besides weird, as I thought. Yes, my wife

597
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: stayed with us, but because she didn't really have anywhere

598
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: else to go when she cheated. And what I meant

599
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: by my kids being born a month apart, I mean

600
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: to say my other kid was conceived a few months

601
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: after my daughter. Sorry for the confusion. So, because of

602
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: my infidelity and hers as well, I am entitled to

603
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: give her a some of my money, which I don't

604
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: give two lying f's about, because I'm very well off,

605
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: all right, opie wow, unlike her because she doesn't really work.

606
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: If there's any more confusion, I'll clear it up. So

607
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: I got home this morning right now, it's in the afternoon.

608
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: We went straight back to my house. Well, when we

609
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: walked in, my wife was waiting on the couch and

610
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: she was very upset. She asked why the f I

611
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: brought her sister to the trip, because I could have

612
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: just discarded her ticket. Well, no, I couldn't have. They

613
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: cost a e fing fortune, and even though I'm well off,

614
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: I teach my kids the value of money, and I

615
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: thought she knew that too. I thought wrong, obviously. Well,

616
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: I told her this, and I asked if she could

617
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: calm down so we could talk. She wouldn't calm down

618
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: unless her sister was gone, so I told them to

619
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: wait in the car. So I sat down with her

620
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: and asked her if she had guys over when we

621
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: were gone. Of course she did. Oh, thanks God. At

622
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: this moment, what a few of you said about my

623
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: kids maybe not being mine sprung into my head. Boh.

624
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: So I asked her. She said that she had slept

625
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: with one guy a little bit before my daughter was born.

626
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: My stomach dropped. She said she didn't think it was

627
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: his because of how much my daughter looked like me.

628
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: Also said, the guy she slept with kind of looked

629
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: like me. So I'm planning to get DNA tests done

630
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: on both my kids.

631
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 2: Why did you just stick with the Oh, he looked

632
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: just like you? Why didn't you stick with the original.

633
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: Oh, my God's imagine with all the guys she's bringing

634
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: home are just like different variations of looking like obi.

635
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: I told her after that, I want a divorce, and

636
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: to my surprise, she got upset, Not the kind of

637
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: upset when you get up and start crying, the kind

638
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: when she lowered her head in disappointment. I saw in

639
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: her eyes she realized what she had done. Just now, yeah,

640
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: just now, yes, you did this? Hello, how badly she

641
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: screwed up her relationship with me and her kids. Not

642
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: to forget her sister as well. She said she was

643
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: so sorry for how she treated me and hopes we

644
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: can work through it. What, no, way, you lost your chance? Way? No,

645
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: I thought about it, because I saw the girl I

646
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: fell in love with again, the girl whose laugh brought

647
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: me happiness, the girl who knew how to make me smile,

648
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: the girl who fucking cheated on you a billion times

649
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: and j times. Shit, this is.

650
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: Divorce, divorce, devorse, devorse, that's right.

651
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: Don't lose the fucking plot, my guy. But then I

652
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 1: remembered what she put me through and the kids through.

653
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: There we go, we go. So I stood up, told

654
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: her there's no way and help. She's getting another chance,

655
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 1: and if she really wants to see the kids, she can,

656
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: but on their terms. I told her my lawyer would

657
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: be in touch and I would be open to renting

658
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 1: her a temporary room until the divorce is done. She

659
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: said she would like that. Let her grab a few

660
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: of her things and watched her to make sure she

661
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: didn't take anything of mine. I called her an uber

662
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: wherever she wanted to go in the meantime, I also

663
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: told her i'd let her know where she'd be staying.

664
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: She left rather peacefully, but kept her head down. On

665
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,840
Speaker 1: the way to the car, my kids came out and

666
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: asked me what happened. I told them, Mummy's not staying

667
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: with us anymore, but if they want, she can come

668
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: and visit whenever they want to see her. I told

669
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: them to go upstairs and unpacked, So this gave me

670
00:34:55,080 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: time alone with their aunts. Oh. The wife's sister sat

671
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: down and basically talked about everything, what happened on the

672
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: trip and what will happen now. We agreed to try

673
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: and start dating. Wow, wow, after my divorce is finalized,

674
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,840
Speaker 1: which is best for the kids to cool down. Smart.

675
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: They will see their aunt whenever they want, but she

676
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: is not going to live with us. Also, she isn't married.

677
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be doing this with a married woman. So yeah,

678
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: that leads to now we just finished up attorney test

679
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: at the clinic. I'm so nervous to find out the result.

680
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: I'll update when I get them. Thanks. Second update is

681
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: two days later. We're gonna this is the last and

682
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: final up. Heart is pumping, heart is pumping. But basically,

683
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 1: we're going to find out whether these kids are actually

684
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: hit Oh please please God minds that they aren't. Does

685
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: that change anything? I mean, he seems like a good guy.

686
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: He raised the kids. I don't know. I mean, I

687
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: think he's.

688
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: The kind of guy that would be like, Hey, these

689
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: are kids that I've been raising and that I love

690
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: that I want to care for, like him talking about

691
00:35:59,040 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 2: like the money and how he says.

692
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: I feel like he's a good parent. I want to

693
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,439
Speaker 1: continue parent. Let's see, I got the paternity results back

694
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: and both kids are my Oh my god. I'm over

695
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: the moon that these kids I love so much are

696
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 1: one hundred percent my blood. My kids and I have

697
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: all started counseling with two sessions a week. Their first

698
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: session was after school and it already seems to be helping.

699
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: Now on the topics that I think everyone wants to

700
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: know about my ex wife and ex sister in law

701
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: all start with my ex. I got her studio room

702
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: last night. I don't know what she does during the day,

703
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: and I don't care. We have only had a little conversation.

704
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: I'll post if Reddit allows me to, since I am

705
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: allowed to. I guess with the divorce proceedings. Wherever the

706
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: just was about our kids and divorce. She has signed

707
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 1: the papers my Laurie sent her. She told me she

708
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: will fight me if I want to keep her kids

709
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,439
Speaker 1: away from her. She has been harassing me, my mom,

710
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: dad's siblings, and their children when I ended our conversation,

711
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: I have proof, like a few of you suggested. With

712
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: how everything is going at the moment, looks like I'll

713
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: be getting full custody of the kids. To the person

714
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: who messaged me about my ex may be having a

715
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: mental health issue. There's none I'm aware of, but she

716
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: may need to get a test done due to the

717
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: way she's been acting. My kids don't want to see

718
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 1: her right now, and I don't blame them. I will

719
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: try to get a protective order in place before the

720
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 1: court date, which will be decided on in the next

721
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: few weeks, but the actual date will most likely be

722
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: in a few months. I've taken all the money out

723
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: of her joint account and have sent her some to

724
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: live off of and enough to hire a lawyer. Now

725
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: onto my ex sister in law. Wow, good guy. So

726
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: we've talked once. That was before I wrote this. My

727
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: kids really want to see her, so we have planned

728
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: a day for them to hang out with her Friday

729
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: after school. I read all the comments about not getting

730
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: into a relationship with her. I did say I wanted

731
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: time to see what I want to do. But again,

732
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: we've spent the night together and I don't want her

733
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: to feel used. So I told her my feelings and

734
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 1: she was extremely supportive and understood. She told me how

735
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,959
Speaker 1: she feels happy, and I am happy she doesn't feel used.

736
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: We will not be hanging out, but I will see

737
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: her if I come to collect my kids and she's there,

738
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: which is fine. She's a great influence on them and

739
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: she is helping them through their mom and I divorce.

740
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: So I guess they aren't kind of in a relationship

741
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: right now, right yeah, right now, I'm sitting outside on

742
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: the deck. We order their favorite takeout and I'm watching

743
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 1: them goof around. It's great to see them so happy.

744
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't know when my next update will be but

745
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 1: I will as soon as I am. Everything's going decently well,

746
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: going decently more drama. The drama rating is hiring on

747
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: each of these stories. Yeah, it's getting a little bit

748
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: more intense. But dang, I I kind of wish like

749
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 1: the relationship with this ex sister in law, continued like,

750
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: I don't know why he handed that.

751
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 2: I mean, is it officially over? Are they in kind

752
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: of a cool off?

753
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 1: I think it seems like they're in a cool off period,

754
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: but like what if it cools all the way off?

755
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 1: It could cool all the way off to cool all

756
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: the way off, which.

757
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 2: Like it's so sad because it's like, hey, they the

758
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: kids already, like literally they literally call her mom, Like

759
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: and I want Op to have someone that's great in

760
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 2: his in his life. But maybe it's not the worst

761
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 2: thing in the world old for Op to have time

762
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 2: with himself, time with his kids and kind of just

763
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: like learn and grow in that first.

764
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: That's true. So yeah, freaking rough for OP. I get

765
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: what you want.

766
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 2: One question is would you go back and try to

767
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: have a relationship with the sister?

768
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: I would for sure. Yeah, Yeah, I'm curious what everyone

769
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: in the comments put your answers to the comments. But

770
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: what we got to do. Oh that's the waters of

771
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: this next story. Oh really, let's get into it. Boom