WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Trust Fails

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date. We haven't been to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of offsite team bonding events at our radio station,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've heard.

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<v Speaker 2>That we don't want to give management any ideas.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't know what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I have heard that other companies do that they do okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and one of the big events that they do is

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<v Speaker 1>the trust fall, where you stand with your arms crossed,

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<v Speaker 1>either on top of a desk or on a tree

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<v Speaker 1>stump out in the woods, and you fall back and

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<v Speaker 1>just trust that your team likes you enough to catch you.

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<v Speaker 3>There is no way I would trust any of you

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<v Speaker 3>to catch me.

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<v Speaker 1>The only good part of that is the part where

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<v Speaker 1>you get to close your eyes for a secon. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I do know the one person in

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<v Speaker 1>this room that I would accidentally let slip through my fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you'll just have to fall and see. It

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<v Speaker 1>all comes down to trust, and unfortunately, our listener Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>recently asked his date to just trust him. It wasn't that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was possibly the worst thing that could have

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<v Speaker 1>happened when she said yes, No, Kevin, you came to

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<v Speaker 1>the right place because we were just voted the least

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<v Speaker 1>trusted morning show in North America, So welcome brother.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's congratulations of meta word everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like from jess description that you should be

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<v Speaker 2>part of our show sounds very untrustworthy, sir.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's not my fault, but I still feel

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<v Speaker 4>terrible about what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Never is I trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's start at the beginning. Tell us about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you met and how you met her.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, so her name is Purtney. Met her online

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<v Speaker 4>and it's obviously online, so I generally do off the pictures.

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<v Speaker 4>But in the pictures, you know, she had a great smile,

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<v Speaker 4>and she was sport and bangs, which to me is

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<v Speaker 4>usually a red flag, but she brought them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, now you're not trustworthy and I'm offended. What

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<v Speaker 2>don't you like about bangs?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is that a red flag?

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<v Speaker 4>Like bangs look good on certain people, it looked good

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<v Speaker 4>on her. It's that usually when a girl decides to

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<v Speaker 4>get bangs, that's after something traumatic happened in their life, got.

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<v Speaker 2>Married, and then right away that kind of checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, what did you and Courtney decide to do for

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<v Speaker 1>your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, we were talking a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it seemed like we were getting along sign

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<v Speaker 4>and she said, I get to pick where we go

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<v Speaker 4>on the first date. We decided to do dinner. I

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<v Speaker 4>love wings. That's my favorite food.

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<v Speaker 3>It give me a questionable first date food though, because

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<v Speaker 3>it's so messy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but here's the thing, that's actually why I love

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<v Speaker 4>wings on a first date, because it is messy. You like,

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<v Speaker 4>put your guard down, like you could tell a lot

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<v Speaker 4>about someone about how they eat their way. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so she tells me she doesn't normally eat wings, but

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<v Speaker 4>I told her about this place I love, and she

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<v Speaker 4>said she trusted me, which I did. I feel really

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<v Speaker 4>bad that she did trust me.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's where the trust Why what I mean, what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, we we sit down, we start look

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<v Speaker 4>at the menu, and she admits to me that she's

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<v Speaker 4>never had bone in Waynes before. She's only ever eaten

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<v Speaker 4>boneless ways.

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<v Speaker 2>I married a man who doesn't want to know that

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<v Speaker 2>animals have bones for some reason.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get it. Better for sure, you're just eating

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<v Speaker 3>chicken nuggets though. Perfect?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So did you want to end the date right there?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you keep going?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Because here's like I said, that was like red flag

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<v Speaker 4>number two for me.

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<v Speaker 3>But a red flag it should be.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think it shows that she's adventurous and

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<v Speaker 2>that she's open to try new things, like she's never

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<v Speaker 2>tried it before, but she's there, she's ready to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's what I liked about her though. She said

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<v Speaker 4>that she's never had boneless wings, and I said, tell

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<v Speaker 4>you what, why don't you order some and you can

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<v Speaker 4>have some of my bone in wings. I can sort

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<v Speaker 4>of show you how to eat them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, that's a green flag instead of a red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually I think it red flag not only one.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also showing he does compromise. Right, she's bordering

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<v Speaker 2>bone free.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a yellow flag. So now we have we have

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<v Speaker 1>a green flag, two red flags, and a yellow flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Which I think means we're at purple.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we have a rainbow flag, which we love

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Yeah. Sure, it's all kinds of color. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we approve bottom line so far, Kevin. What happens next?

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<v Speaker 4>So the food gets there? And I did her one

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<v Speaker 4>of my bone in wings, and she, honestly, I thought

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<v Speaker 4>it was adorable. She like genuinely did not even know

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<v Speaker 4>how to approach the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think people can see that again Okay, how was it?

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<v Speaker 4>She loved it. She was like, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 4>is so much better, and I said, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>It does taste so much better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I did. For a chuple of my bone

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<v Speaker 4>in wains, I take some of her chicken nuggets and

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<v Speaker 4>legit the third wings she bites into. She actually just

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<v Speaker 4>bit into it. I don't know if like she forgot

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<v Speaker 4>that the bone was in there or something.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just hurt my mouth.

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<v Speaker 4>She yes, straight up chipped her front tooth, front tossing.

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<v Speaker 4>She sees on my face that I'm freaking out, and

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<v Speaker 4>she starts freaking out. She likely I had to leave.

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<v Speaker 4>I try.

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<v Speaker 1>That and bangs together. Imagine just horrible.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, here's the thing. There's like something of a

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<v Speaker 4>happy end in here. I told her a friend of

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<v Speaker 4>the family is like a dentist and hauled them up,

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<v Speaker 4>and she said that she could see her right now.

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<v Speaker 4>So we jumped in an uber. We went over there

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<v Speaker 4>like it was after hours, but she opened up just

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<v Speaker 4>to see her and actually fixed it up, like you

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<v Speaker 4>really couldn't tell that anything did even happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you are a problem solver.

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<v Speaker 2>At you and you just maybe maybe she's not called

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<v Speaker 2>you back because you got the dentist bill.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's gonna be four thousand dollars. Is that true?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have to pay for it?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, my friend said it was free of charge.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, you're coming off actually looking really good here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's amazing and he found the one nice dentist

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<v Speaker 2>in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that where the date ended? I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye after that.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you want to call it a date.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like we were on a date for about

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<v Speaker 4>twenty something minutes and another like two to three hours together,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're more on a medical emergency exactly. And I've

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<v Speaker 4>been in contact with her. You know, it's like we

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<v Speaker 4>still talk, but whenever I asked, like if she's busy

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<v Speaker 4>or if she wants to hang out again, that's when

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<v Speaker 4>she doesn't respond.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting, We're going to hit her down and make her answer.

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<v Speaker 1>We're at an orange flag with her right now. We've

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<v Speaker 1>got to get to the green again, so we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to play a song, come back, and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update right after this. All right, all right, thanks?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold one. You know there's that famous saying,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't no saying a chicken wing yes turns out chicken

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<v Speaker 1>wings are a little more dangerous than we originally thought. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners, Kevin, encouraged his date, Courtney,

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<v Speaker 1>to taste a bone in chicken wing for the very

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<v Speaker 1>first time in her life, which was great except for

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<v Speaker 1>the part where she chipped her front tooth on the bum.

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<v Speaker 3>Not worth it. I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she was eating boneless and bone in at

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<v Speaker 2>the same time, so I could see her and when

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<v Speaker 2>she bit down, she just wasn't thinking to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get a look confused, And luckily Kevin had a family

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<v Speaker 1>connection with a dentist and got it fixed for her

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<v Speaker 1>that night free of charge.

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<v Speaker 3>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Still, though she's been acting a little bit different, he said.

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<v Speaker 1>Still cordial between them, but not much else going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to redo.

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin, the one thing I didn't ask you, was she

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<v Speaker 2>like super grateful for the dentist or was she kind

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<v Speaker 2>of blaming you for having to go get her tooth fixed.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she was super duper nice about it. She said,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe I did that, so thank god you

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<v Speaker 4>do someone get at help. So she much she was

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<v Speaker 4>in good spirits, so it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>For me to believe no one's in good spirits after

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<v Speaker 1>visiting the.

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<v Speaker 3>Doctor, maybe laughing at she had.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was high for sure. Well, let's just call her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we'll see if she even picks up, but

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully she does and we can get a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more of an explanation from her. All right, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully she's not like whistling through her too little at

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<v Speaker 1>her number. Right now here we go. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 1>this Courtney? Yeah speaking Hey Courtney. My name is Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't gag her.

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<v Speaker 3>Just say hi, just can'tinue the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Hia him, Jeff, I'm sorry. Who is Jeff from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, as per

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned previously.

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<v Speaker 5>And we're all here too, I'm I oh okay, it's

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<v Speaker 5>like a conference call kind of Yeah, we're.

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<v Speaker 3>All in a radio studio just calling you.

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<v Speaker 5>Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why Because one of our listeners went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you recently and afterwards things have cooled down

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<v Speaker 1>between the two of you. He's hoping that it could

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<v Speaker 1>heap back up. It's weird. What like a chicken wing?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know we were talking about? After he said

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<v Speaker 3>chicken wing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, we're talking about Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to be clear, he sounds darling, I mean when

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<v Speaker 2>we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, No, she's a nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 5>Just that whole date was just like pretty much like

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<v Speaker 5>the worst date of my life. But not his fault,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think we assume that he agrees. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was out of his control. But obviously getting rush

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<v Speaker 1>to the dentist is not like your dream date.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, and I I don't really know exactly what

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<v Speaker 5>you told you guys, but yeah, it just didn't leave me,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, feeling too comfortable about Well, I can fill you.

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<v Speaker 1>In on the parts that we do know, which is

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys went to a chicken wing place. He

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<v Speaker 1>encouraged you to try a bone in chicken for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, which caused you to chip your tooth. But

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<v Speaker 1>then he said he had a family connection.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well that part was really wonderful and he was

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<v Speaker 5>really awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>To do that.

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<v Speaker 5>But there was like a whole situation at the dentist.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you not like the doctor?

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<v Speaker 5>No, she was really sweet. It's just it felt like

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<v Speaker 5>it took longer than it should have you know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a chip tooth.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't believe, honestly, I couldn't believe they could even

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<v Speaker 2>just fix it in one visit.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, no, they were this one. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I think her name is like Claire. She was really nice.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not the issue. And I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 5>told you, but like she's really beautiful hot. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 5>just she's a really hot dentist.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a bad girl. Is it a bad thing?

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<v Speaker 5>No, except for the fact that Kevin was just openly

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<v Speaker 5>flirting with her the whole time, like fight in front

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<v Speaker 5>of me, just like saying like all this she didn't

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<v Speaker 5>me too, how nice she looks, how she's so sweet

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<v Speaker 5>and all this like family from who knows when?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that she was doing him a favor, right, like

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<v Speaker 2>she stane Ley.

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<v Speaker 3>He's probably just trying to compliment her.

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<v Speaker 5>I was there. I know what it was. She's flirting back,

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<v Speaker 5>and there was a lot of chemistry. And don't get

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<v Speaker 5>me wrong, it was chemistry between me and him too.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're just sitting there with a broken front.

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<v Speaker 5>Tier seriously, like I couldn't even open my mouth, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>forget about talking, and he's over there talking about how

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<v Speaker 5>great she looks Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why you say that it took so long

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<v Speaker 1>that he was just flirting with her the whole time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, really literally she would stop and they would

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<v Speaker 5>talk and laugh, and then she's like, oh ha, let

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<v Speaker 5>me change my gloves and blah blah blah, and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just there, you know, like you want to get her coffee.

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<v Speaker 5>They drank it, Shen coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you kind of felt like you were

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<v Speaker 1>watching another date happen on your.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly right, That is exactly right.

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<v Speaker 3>They came in with martini. Where do you get those from?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you remembering this correctly? Were you on any anesthesia

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<v Speaker 1>or anything?

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<v Speaker 5>Or you No, I didn't have any anesthesia.

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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, Just are you sure you didn't hallucinate?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, obviously, she's really cool and it was great that

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<v Speaker 5>she did this, But I just felt like maybe they

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<v Speaker 5>have some emotions there that they need to kind of

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<v Speaker 5>figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>You're making a lot of assumptions like it. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just like it's a family friend.

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<v Speaker 3>I would assume she's hard because.

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<v Speaker 5>She is not older. She's not she is his age,

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<v Speaker 5>and he couldn't like keep his eyes or his attention

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<v Speaker 5>off of her, Like he literally did talk to me

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<v Speaker 5>until we were leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean I can I can understand why you may have

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<v Speaker 1>felt that way that night, but I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>hear how Kevin actually felt because he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening right now. I wants to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>unless I don't know he's on a second call with Claire.

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<v Speaker 5>You're joking, I'm not Kevin.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, sorry to surprise you. Is it okay if I

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<v Speaker 4>asked you a few things about this?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? Sure, what do you want to ask me?

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<v Speaker 4>I just I don't even know where to begin, Like

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<v Speaker 4>this is just very weird to me, that's how you

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<v Speaker 4>saw it. I just want to let you know the

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<v Speaker 4>bad story with me. Player. She's literally my mom's best

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<v Speaker 4>friend's daughter, so she's like my god sister essentially.

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<v Speaker 3>That doesn't make it.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't really.

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<v Speaker 4>But here's the thing. Like we were literally just catching up.

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<v Speaker 5>I hadn't seen her, Yeah but I get that, but

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<v Speaker 5>like catching up about how you have the most amazing eyes.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh and that smiles, like when you complimented her smile,

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<v Speaker 5>And I literally wasn't sure if I was gonna have

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<v Speaker 5>a fun too It's just wasn't the right time. You know.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I didn't mean to be in considerate. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>like she is beautiful, you know, like she has literally

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<v Speaker 4>completely okay. But I feel like just because she's beautiful,

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<v Speaker 4>you can't hold that against me. I feel like that's you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it wasn't how she looks. No, it wasn't how

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<v Speaker 5>she looks. It's how you gave her so much attention

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<v Speaker 5>during a really difficult moment for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just ask Kevin?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 3>Why would you compliment her eyes? You know, like I

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<v Speaker 3>could even say.

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<v Speaker 2>Smile because she's a dentist, I could maybe see that,

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<v Speaker 2>But like.

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<v Speaker 1>That, you ever sat in one of those dentist chairs

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<v Speaker 1>with those bright lights shining on you, It makes your

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<v Speaker 1>eyes pop.

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<v Speaker 3>She wasn't sitting in the chair.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole room, the whole room, everybody in the room

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<v Speaker 1>is instantly gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's not like a friendly compliment. It's a flirty compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly to ask this question, Kevin, have you ever hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up with Claire before?

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<v Speaker 3>But do I want this answer?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that was I think we did.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll tell you straight up, no, we never have. And look,

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<v Speaker 4>yes we have like some sort of like vibe or

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<v Speaker 4>chemistry or whatever. But here's the thing, Like I heard

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<v Speaker 4>you asked you didn't know if she was single. She

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<v Speaker 4>is single. She's been single for a while. I just

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<v Speaker 4>never wanted to go down that road with her because,

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<v Speaker 4>like I said, I see her almost like a family member,

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<v Speaker 4>but not really.

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<v Speaker 3>This is so hard. I can understand both their points.

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<v Speaker 3>I really can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, Courtney, I don't want to invalidate your feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>But they've known each other going way way back. There's

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<v Speaker 1>already like just an established friendship there. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's fair to have a beauty contest in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of your oral example.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's it. I think it's about the

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<v Speaker 3>way he made her feel.

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<v Speaker 1>He promises to call you beautiful at least one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>times on your next date that he will send you

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<v Speaker 1>on and pay for if you're still up for it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Corney.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys, I'm just enjoying my new tooth.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I like it new tooth life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a gorgeous tooth. By the way, Yeah she is too.

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever seen good job. Jeff Kevin, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to throw in some compliments about her pretty teeth.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I literally said, I thought you had a

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<v Speaker 4>great smile when they asked me about you, and he

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<v Speaker 4>did still do. I'm happy about that. I'm just disappointed

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<v Speaker 4>that apparently we're not going to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>But what you'll learn never be friends with women. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel you, man, I support.

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<v Speaker 5>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the part of the second date that I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't wrap my head around is, like, I get

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<v Speaker 1>she felt a little ignored, you know, but what is

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<v Speaker 1>a guy supposed to say to a girl who's propped

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<v Speaker 1>up in a dentist chair for two hours to make

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<v Speaker 1>her feel special?

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<v Speaker 3>Anything but complimenting another girl? Yeah? I mean, honestly, he

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<v Speaker 3>could find memes. He could find YouTube videos to show

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<v Speaker 3>you get on TikTok and be like, look at this,

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<v Speaker 3>this is funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he actually doesn't even have to say anything. He

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<v Speaker 2>just has to feign interest in her.

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<v Speaker 1>That was good, just sit there and shut up for

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<v Speaker 1>two hours. Well you this?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, are you serious that you would actually compliment

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<v Speaker 2>a family friend by telling her she has beautiful eyes

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<v Speaker 2>if they looked beautiful?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think people like compliment.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's not a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I don't think it's fair, like if you

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<v Speaker 1>went somewhere you wouldn't be allowed to talk to a

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<v Speaker 1>family friend in front of your husband.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he admitted they had a thing, like they

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<v Speaker 2>had a vibe, right the dentist.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just he hadn't acted on it. I mean I

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<v Speaker 3>could see his side.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand why he wants a date and he's still

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<v Speaker 2>interested in Courtney. I don't know you can both sides again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I can put he put effort into going

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<v Speaker 2>out with Courtney again.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she should have said yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he said to too many compliments? Okay, too many?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was gonna tell Brooke when I thought about

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<v Speaker 1>her eyes, but forget it.

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<v Speaker 3>You cannot see him behind these glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, never mind, then I won't say anything. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just say, if you ever want to get a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>update email the show. We'll call the person wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning