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Speaker 1: It's your second Ay podcast and today with Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning, we have an awkward Tuesday phone

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Speaker 1: call because.

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Speaker 2: It's it's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: But I was just looking through the stats on our

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Speaker 1: podcast and I always think it's fascinating to see where

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Speaker 1: people are listening from. And I always look at like

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Speaker 1: the top five countries. It's like the US, Canada, the UK, Australia,

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Speaker 1: the Philippines, which is amazing. But I scrolled all the

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Speaker 1: way down to see where we get the least amount

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Speaker 1: of listeners.

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Speaker 2: There's like one person. Yeah, I love doing that.

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Speaker 1: We've got one listener in Sri Lanka, if that's you,

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Speaker 1: please leave a comment, yes, and one in Equatorial Guinea.

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Speaker 2: All right, I know we need to look it up.

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Speaker 2: Comment please. Yeah. So anyway, that's your update. But we

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Speaker 2: do love to look at the comments and learn more

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Speaker 2: about you all. So what do you got, Alexis.

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Speaker 3: I saw one from Uie who said, I'm not sure

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Speaker 3: whether I should thank you guys or stop listening to

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Speaker 3: the show. The level of cringiness I can tolerate has

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Speaker 3: increased tremendously. At the beginning, I would pause a segment

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Speaker 3: just to breathe and get myself together. But now I

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Speaker 3: can in two to three segments in a row, no

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Speaker 3: matter how cringey the conversation is. That's right, Thanks, I

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Speaker 3: guess love from Miami.

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Speaker 2: We're breaking you.

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Speaker 4: Down, We're moving your bar lower and lower.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that's exactly right.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to keep doing it too, because right now

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Speaker 1: it's your awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: What's the toughest conversation that you could ever have with

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Speaker 5: your significant other?

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Speaker 2: Break up?

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Speaker 5: Good thing I don't have one, Jeff. Well, I mean,

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Speaker 5: the first one would probably be it's not yours?

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Speaker 2: WHOA?

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Speaker 5: The second one is it mine?

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Speaker 2: It's not yours? And it has to be Well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you're a guy, maybe you wouldn't know,

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Speaker 1: But if you're a woman, it's a weird question to ask.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but maybe more important than any of those, is

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Speaker 5: are you going to finish that question?

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 2: That was an extra guest. Can we get some oxygen?

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Speaker 5: Well, you can believe it. One of our listeners has

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Speaker 5: a looming conversation even more cringe than all of those combined.

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Speaker 5: It's about to happen with his longtime girlfriend. You're gonna

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Speaker 5: hear what it is and see if we can help

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Speaker 5: him out in your awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 7: Next, It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: On this segment, we've helped listeners tackle all sorts of

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Speaker 5: big pivotal moments in their love lives. We've helped people

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Speaker 5: ask somebody out, We've helped somebody propose before even help

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Speaker 5: someone on where to install the swing? What room is

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Speaker 5: it going to fit best in?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember that segment.

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Speaker 8: I do.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying we've been there for all of our

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Speaker 5: listeners through all of their struggles. But today, I don't

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Speaker 5: think we've ever dealt with this particular issue in a

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Speaker 5: relationship before. It might be one of the biggest conversations

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Speaker 5: a couple could have. But good news is I've got

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Speaker 5: two of the best aes around, account a vice experts.

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Speaker 2: Oh selling.

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Speaker 5: I wonder they're waiting to hear from Drew. So, Drew,

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Speaker 5: welcome to the show. How can we help you not

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Speaker 5: screw up your relationship?

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Speaker 6: What's up? Guys?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely need some help here.

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Speaker 2: Okay? Can we start with who the relationship is with?

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Speaker 6: Sure?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 6: Her name is Kelsey?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, and do you already have a swing? Installed

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Speaker 5: is that what this is?

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Speaker 6: We're not there yet, but we're talking about it.

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Speaker 5: Call back when you need help with that. But what

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Speaker 6: So I've been dating Kelsey now for the last couple

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Speaker 1: Yeah you guys, do you guys live together?

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Speaker 6: So she's this great, amazing woman, so much in common.

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Speaker 6: She loves camping, she drives a jeep. She's like this

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Speaker 5: Good. She's a different type of gal totally.

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Speaker 6: I met her because I'm in real estate. So I

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Speaker 1: And Okay, so she's got money too, right, that means

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Speaker 5: Okay, what's the problem. Why why did you email us

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Speaker 6: Well, so it's why I need you guys help, because

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Speaker 6: I asked her and straight up said, would you move

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Speaker 5: No, why would he ask that if he thought that

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you didn't have a Yeah, he did

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Speaker 5: To start or maybe the place that you live kind

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Speaker 6: Well, she's explained. She gave me the reason she doesn't

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Speaker 5: Oh, you know, I can see that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I didn't live with anybody until I met

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about? You with your husband before

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Speaker 2: You know, when I married him, he's the only guy

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Speaker 5: This is what she's saying. She doesn't want to live

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Speaker 6: Mari No, I mean she doesn't necessarily want it to

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Speaker 5: So she wants something that says that marriage is going

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Speaker 6: Basically, Yeah, I mean we talked about it, we didn't

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Speaker 5: Whoa, whoa, that's like even more serious than marriage.

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Speaker 2: Can you do that before you're married? You know, I

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Speaker 4: I have money, like we were talking about, and she

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Speaker 6: You to take it. Well, I kind of have the money.

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Speaker 4: So she's saying it's not about the money.

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Speaker 5: She loves you for you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And the problem is now it never feels like

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Speaker 1: He's met with lawyers and he's he's drawn up the

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Speaker 5: That's so romantic, it is, so you have to get

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Speaker 2: And she wanted right, I'm your idea?

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Speaker 6: So I want to mention it before I propose, not after.

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean, And I need help bringing

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Speaker 5: You know it's not weird, okay, So you want our

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Speaker 4: And even could have been not joking, but she could

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Speaker 2: That's another level. Just feel like it'd be a red

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Speaker 5: I think it's a very romantic move. I don't know

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Speaker 5: I know what we're going to go to work here

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Speaker 5: for you, okay, Drew. We're going to find out the

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Speaker 5: most romantic, over the top way to tell somebody I

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Speaker 2: So many you could like dot your eyes with a

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Speaker 5: The ideas are already flowing. We're gonna start your happily

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Speaker 5: ever after when we do your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 5: right after this.

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Speaker 7: It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: I think we need to clarify something here before we

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Speaker 5: move on, because the listener on the phone, Drew asked

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Speaker 5: She said no because she wanted to have proof of

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Speaker 5: in that conversation she said the words I'll even sign

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Speaker 5: a prenup.

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Speaker 5: to me, that's a serious thing. What do you think,

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Speaker 5: Now, so Drew needs our helped to bring it up

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Speaker 2: Those long relationshipesus?

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Speaker 4: Okay, one time it lasted eight months, Broke, don't make

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Speaker 5: You need to.

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Speaker 4: Hide it in between the wedding and ring shopping and

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Speaker 2: Seriously, think have important news.

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Speaker 5: Distract her with shiny promises that will only work on Jose, Okay,

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Speaker 6: Sure it sounds kind of sneaky, I don't know, man

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Speaker 4: But legally you still mention it.

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Speaker 5: It's a terrible idea like that A little bit about

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Speaker 2: You say, listen, you said that you wanted this done.

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Speaker 1: I'm a doer and that's how I'm gonna be in

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Speaker 2: If you want something done, I'm the guy to get

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Speaker 5: Look it, I'm doing stuff for you. What have you

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Speaker 5: ever done for me? Maybe you should sign this prema.

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Speaker 5: That's a good idea.

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Speaker 2: Me to frame it that it's her idea.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, guilter into signing it? All right? What do you think, Drew?

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Speaker 6: No, that actually makes a lot more sense because ultimately

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Speaker 5: Okay, if she gets mad about you bringing up tell

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Speaker 2: That's not going to end well for him.

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Speaker 5: But sure, that was Brooks advice. So here we go.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna call Kelsey your girlfriend for you, and see

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Speaker 2: I'm so romantic.

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Speaker 6: I'm so nervous.

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Speaker 5: We wish you a lot of luck. You don't be nervous.

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Speaker 5: We're all here to support you. Okay, yes, thanks, all right,

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hey, cal.

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Speaker 8: Hey, what's that babe?

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Speaker 6: How's your day? Your work?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was fine. It was just some normal you know,

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Speaker 6: Are you visier?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I can take a second.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 6: I wanted to ask you something. Remember that day we

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Speaker 6: remember that vague? Yeah? I think I said no, right, yeah,

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I was like more than cute. I

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Speaker 6: Mm hmm, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 8: Why are you being so weird? What do you mean

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Speaker 8: you agree? No?

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Speaker 6: I mean I just I just wanted to bring up

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Speaker 8: You might have said, well, I just said I don't

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you said another word?

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Speaker 8: Also, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Can you just say you know what? You know the

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Speaker 6: word I'm talking about? Can you just it just helps me?

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Speaker 8: And I don't right now, So I'm gonna need.

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Speaker 6: You to say it. It's it starts with the P,

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Speaker 6: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 8: What's it ends with.

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Speaker 6: Uprea?

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Speaker 8: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so you did say that. Great, Okay, is

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Speaker 6: there other No? No, no, no, no, it's you. I'm just

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Speaker 6: like outside, there's like a lot of people outside running

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Speaker 8: Just say lawyers. You hired a lawyer.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know it's it's not legal beagle stuff, you

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Speaker 6: know what I mean? Like you kind of have to

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Speaker 8: I don't know what you're talking about right now. Can

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Speaker 8: you get to the freaking point?

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Speaker 6: So I don't want you to get upset. This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: So I I wanted to prove my commitment to you,

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Speaker 8: What do you mean you want me to sign it?

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Speaker 6: This is your idea? Remember, this is your idea. This

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Speaker 8: This is just like a weird phone call. I feel

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Speaker 6: I didn't know how to bring it up. You have

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Speaker 6: no idea. I've been losing sleep about this whole damn thing.

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Speaker 6: And I asked this radio station to help me rest.

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Speaker 8: The radio station, what.

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Speaker 2: Team radio people? I always wanted to hang up at

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Speaker 5: I feel like it probably went just about as well

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Speaker 8: I don't understand what's happening right now, lawyers.

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Speaker 2: That makes it sound like a joke. We don't want

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Speaker 2: to do that.

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Speaker 5: We're reading show. This segment is called an Awkward Tuesday phone.

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Speaker 1: Call, oh man, and we really emphasized that title today.

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Speaker 5: We were trying to help our listener here, Drew have

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Speaker 5: what he knew was going to be a little bit

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Speaker 8: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Apparently he thought that you wanted a prenup, you know,

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Speaker 1: because like he wants to move in with you and

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Speaker 1: move forward and go down the marriage road.

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Speaker 8: Well yeah, I said that, but he never like talk

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Speaker 8: to me about pursuing it and hiring lawyers and filling

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Speaker 8: out paperwork.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he should have written it all up himself. I

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Speaker 5: do agree with that, But no, Jeffery, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I mean I can't tell what your emotion is right now.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's just shocked.

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Speaker 5: Didn't you want this?

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Speaker 2: Maybe you don't care, maybe you're mad. Where are you at?

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Speaker 8: I'm just like in the middle, really because I just

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Speaker 8: could have looked on it together.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, all right, So that's not bad.

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Speaker 6: I mean that's I mean honest. This wasn't one hundred

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Speaker 6: sent my idea to do it this way. The radio

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Speaker 6: is your idea, you people, you people talking microphone whatever,

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Speaker 6: you radio people, It was your idea to do this way.

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Speaker 1: What it wasn't our idea for you to hire a

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Speaker 2: You called us way after that, you.

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Speaker 5: Emailed us, Drew.

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to do a love shout out to

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Speaker 7: Oh right.

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Speaker 5: You know what, did I screw that one up again?

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Speaker 2: The world's longest shutout.

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Speaker 5: It's three hundred and eighty seven mistakes since yesterday. I'm

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Speaker 5: never going to get this job right. I'm sorry, Drew,

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Speaker 5: My bad for misunderstanding your awkward Tuesday phone request. Shout

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Speaker 5: out yes, excuse me again? Three?

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Speaker 8: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Does that mean you're still wanting her to sign the prenup? Drew?

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Speaker 6: I don't want you guys to pressure her to go

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Speaker 6: ahead and want to sign it, that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry about that.

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Speaker 2: I was actually on the other band. I sign it,

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Speaker 2: but Alexis's fault. Yeah, I know so much about preanup.

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Would we hire a twenty four hour I love she

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Speaker 2: brought it up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we thought we would roll with it as long

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Speaker 5: as you two are good, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I think we'll figure it out.

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Speaker 5: Maybe have a couple more talks about this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll go on a camping trip and ride the

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Speaker 6: jeep top down or something.

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Speaker 5: Everything's better top down in a jeep.

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Speaker 2: Seems way more chill than you, Drew.

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Speaker 5: I think she's confused.

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Speaker 2: Love, that's something we can shout.

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Speaker 5: Out successful awkward.

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Speaker 6: Tuesday, freaking Jeffrey in the morning, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, then, who said romance wasn't dead? Greenups before moving in?

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Speaker 2: That's a lot for anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think in today's society this is good for legalities.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put this in my tender bio.

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Speaker 5: If you swipe right, you agree to a prenup.

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Speaker 1: A lot of problems and then you could put in

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you're like, you didn't read the terms and conditions.

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Speaker 1: That's on you, my man or my friend or Mike girl,

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Speaker 1: whoever you end up datingbody. And we did get a

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Speaker 1: lot of comments already from this Awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, prenups always have mixed responses. Yeah, but I just

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Speaker 2: threw my wedding ring offs. Oh just have his own

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Speaker 2: will my bad? I'm not a prenup later Awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, anyways, a lot of people saying prenup before proposing.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. In the place of it, it.

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Speaker 5: Should be a long conversation.

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Speaker 2: Were moving in a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of red flags, you know, yeah, a little words.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to read that. There's mean words. It's

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Speaker 2: hard already.

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Speaker 1: All right, leave your comments, thank you for being here,

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Speaker 1: and we'll be back tomorrow with another second date update

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Speaker 1: right here on. You know, we're going to call it

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Speaker 1: your favorite podcast, just because we want to lie to ourselves.

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Speaker 1: in the Morning

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,