Speaker 1: Welcome. It is horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b
Speaker 1: a k A that bitch a k A pet Stallion,
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting across from my co host with her
Speaker 1: and Haller. What's your name? Charge up? And y'all heard
Speaker 1: a third voice in the building and many of you
Speaker 1: may have already guessed, well not only by the title,
Speaker 1: because your name and the title, but we have another
Speaker 1: part of our family in the building today. Are very
Speaker 1: good friend dasty. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm happy to be here.
Speaker 1: I'm a whore. I want to see at the table, baby, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to be here. I ain't gonna hold People
Speaker 1: were like, well, doesn't want to talking about like what's
Speaker 1: the nastiest ship you ever done? Um to who you?
Speaker 1: What have I ever done to somebody? Like the nastiest
Speaker 1: thing last name? Like I did like the nastiest the
Speaker 1: one where you were like I need a shower. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I had done if I did it
Speaker 1: to somebody else, if they did it to me your
Speaker 1: sexual experience, yeah, because one time, like I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, gay niggas sink, so you know I'm gay
Speaker 1: on the weekends and ship you know. Yeah, so like
Speaker 1: niggas think like, you know, well, some gay niggas I
Speaker 1: shouldn't be used. Some gay niggas thinking sexy, like you know,
Speaker 1: for you to be sweaty and athletic and ship. And
Speaker 1: one time I met this guy at the gym who
Speaker 1: you know, it's just we had a friendly rapport or whatever,
Speaker 1: and we left the gym and got to pop in
Speaker 1: and like, no shower before. That's interesting because I think
Speaker 1: women it's the Yeah, like most gay male friends that
Speaker 1: I have discussed all types of ship with, like the
Speaker 1: gym meet ups, on the room ship like I don't
Speaker 1: do that. I feel like that's for people that look
Speaker 1: like virgins, you know what I'm saying. That's the people
Speaker 1: who you know what I'm saying, like they're going there
Speaker 1: to be sneaking as que quote and that's a big thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the way your sexual orientation. By the way, when I
Speaker 1: first met a sante like years ago, I had always
Speaker 1: thought you were by Yeah, he made me, gave me
Speaker 1: a little gay, So that really don't compliment. You ain't
Speaker 1: say like, oh I thought you were straight on the
Speaker 1: years ago. He was like, I thought you was fine.
Speaker 1: That he didn't say that be a compliment. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't know how much you did, though, why like you
Speaker 1: knew that means you just thought he up here. I
Speaker 1: would never ever, ever say someone's appearance would be a compliment.
Speaker 1: I don't like you're passing. I don't like you look
Speaker 1: you know, like you're not gay. I hate saying ship
Speaker 1: like that. The reason I thought you were by was
Speaker 1: because I had gay friends. No. I was talking about
Speaker 1: it and m fantasy and was like, do it, that's
Speaker 1: me And I was like, oh well, if he'll do it,
Speaker 1: he must be fine. Me up to the nasty ship.
Speaker 1: And it's because sci is not ship, but what's crazy
Speaker 1: is and I ain't even gonna hold you. So I
Speaker 1: was with I was with y'all, Darren. I was with
Speaker 1: Dustin and the scient side weekend. First off, dustint know
Speaker 1: the finest niggas in all of the land, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: look at first off, they bow with your feet when
Speaker 1: we walk. I'm sorry, listen with Dustin. First of all,
Speaker 1: first off, dust't has them vibes. And Carl even said
Speaker 1: it just straight fu nigga vibes like he walked around like,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I think I love the fact
Speaker 1: that it's connected, like he got beady eating all them
Speaker 1: niggas because they'd be like, oh Dustin, hey, Dustin Dustin
Speaker 1: like everybody though, can't you imagine, like I need that
Speaker 1: beat Dot. You do like the perfect gay, Like you're
Speaker 1: the perfect gays model, right, so like wanted to be
Speaker 1: black gay. You already could get all the niggas, right
Speaker 1: because you're like got the podcast, so you're popular in
Speaker 1: that way. Like, who can't you fuck um Republicans? That's
Speaker 1: a lie, you know. I don't want to. I don't
Speaker 1: even want that spirit jumping off on me. I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I say it's the studio just in case there was
Speaker 1: one in here, and you see how they'd be looking
Speaker 1: to all the Republicans inside. I think that was shade
Speaker 1: because I think we got a white cameraman. You thought
Speaker 1: he was a Republican? No are you? Are you white? Okay?
Speaker 1: You had dark hair. I didn't know you even, Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just don't assume white people in New
Speaker 1: York went against us like that much. But but this
Speaker 1: is red lad, it ain't it. But no flagrant be
Speaker 1: bringing on up. That's a Muslim dude who fucking like
Speaker 1: Trump and ship. Yeah, just a bunch of weirdos. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you never know who's but we did. We did have
Speaker 1: fun when we went to the club and ship. Oh
Speaker 1: you know, I'm so so I like to give hugs
Speaker 1: and say hi to everybody that you know I want
Speaker 1: to doesn't just tell you. It was actually a spot
Speaker 1: where I thought, oh, I'm gonna dance, bitch. I wasn't
Speaker 1: just giving a quick little um lot dance. This nigga
Speaker 1: picked me up over threw me on the couch. I said,
Speaker 1: I am not at dance hall vibes. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I wasn't all of that. This nigga literally picked me
Speaker 1: up like like nothing. It was like dancing on me
Speaker 1: like he was Chris Brown. And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: damn okay. So I'm guessing you've heard the show before
Speaker 1: if you're listening right now, and you would know that.
Speaker 1: Literally every nigga in my phone is game. So all
Speaker 1: I do is go to the gay club. And one
Speaker 1: thing that I have learned is like, hey, you need
Speaker 1: the right shoes and be you need good because when
Speaker 1: do you think for a fucking second that I didn't know,
Speaker 1: make sure you show your ass out, like look at
Speaker 1: everything around us. That's amazing, right, architecture, clothing, style, fashion
Speaker 1: TV shows. Bitch, do you think that you could just
Speaker 1: give a mediocre dance? No, you can't, danglings nothing. And
Speaker 1: that's why I get hugs because I believe when you,
Speaker 1: you know, spend time with people, you shouldn't leave them
Speaker 1: with a mediocre impression. So that's why they was everybody
Speaker 1: hug You didn't spend time. That's all entertaining, Nick, That's
Speaker 1: that's what I knew. Beard Bay was a fucking ho
Speaker 1: that one told me. I was like, yeah, where you working?
Speaker 1: He was like, I mean we entertain each other, but yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how I was like, Wow, you dog sum It
Speaker 1: was hot though, and at that honesty it it's funny
Speaker 1: because we're talking about sexuality and not to make this
Speaker 1: get deeper. Um, I did want to bring up because
Speaker 1: this is recent a lot of you guys maybe seeing
Speaker 1: the r I p. Reese hashtag. Um. I wanted to
Speaker 1: quickly talk about that because for a lot of people
Speaker 1: who listen to this show, we do actually have a
Speaker 1: lot of six hetero men who tune in, and I
Speaker 1: want to talk about kind of what happened. Um. This
Speaker 1: is a black man who recently killed himself after being
Speaker 1: bullied by other black men because he was openly outdating
Speaker 1: his transwoman partner. Um, this is actually big because I
Speaker 1: saw a a tweet that because we're in an era
Speaker 1: where a lot of trans women are dying because people
Speaker 1: are um not comfortable with what they like and being
Speaker 1: out at or whatever. I hate that he took his
Speaker 1: own life, but this could have also been another instance
Speaker 1: where he was pushed to possibly kill his partner because
Speaker 1: of the shame that's associated with it. And I just
Speaker 1: don't understand why we have And I don't want to
Speaker 1: bring up Black Lives Matter because I see a lot
Speaker 1: of people doing that, um comparison of how we're all
Speaker 1: together for Black Lives Matter, but we're not together in
Speaker 1: the sense of black people in their sexualities. And I
Speaker 1: just want to say that for the six hetero listeners
Speaker 1: or even some of you who may still have some
Speaker 1: sort of homophobic tendencies, like who someone dates is none
Speaker 1: of your mother fucking business and something really important to
Speaker 1: this story. Yes, I thought you would say at first.
Speaker 1: So the reason that this one is kind of crazy
Speaker 1: is because and actually go back to five minutes ago
Speaker 1: where I said I don't like saying things like straight
Speaker 1: or passing identified a straight right because he was straight
Speaker 1: get quote unquote is more so white people are saying
Speaker 1: that he got bullied, right because they're like because very
Speaker 1: few times, I guess, are we gonna think, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we see a gay nigga with a trans woman, Like
Speaker 1: that's not as crazy as seeing someone who's quote unquote
Speaker 1: super straight, right, But trans women are women, right. The
Speaker 1: guy is may not have ever been with someone trans before.
Speaker 1: He may not have ever been with a man before.
Speaker 1: He may not have ever been We don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: I told y'all of the story of um, a good
Speaker 1: friend of mine and he's the person who I took
Speaker 1: to fairy tales and things like that. Um, he's into
Speaker 1: trans women. And he said that his trans women has like,
Speaker 1: like liking trans women and knowing that that's him has
Speaker 1: led him down through like alcoholism and even pushing his
Speaker 1: self away from his family because he's like, Yo, I
Speaker 1: brought a white woman home one time. Do you know
Speaker 1: the look my mom gave me? Do you know the
Speaker 1: look I would get to bring a trans woman home? Like,
Speaker 1: so like even just just the hate that you have
Speaker 1: in your own household, he feels like now I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose my family if I come out saying
Speaker 1: that this is what I like. But it's literally what
Speaker 1: he likes, and he knows it's what he likes. So
Speaker 1: it's just it just sucks that like people are hiding
Speaker 1: this part of themselves because of things like this. Your
Speaker 1: own family members, people that look just like you, were
Speaker 1: supposed to be brothers and sisters and root for each other.
Speaker 1: And we're bringing each other down just off of who
Speaker 1: we like to have sex with. Bros like come. It's ridiculous,
Speaker 1: and um, it's actually something that's a lot more common
Speaker 1: than people realize. And I wish people would just wake
Speaker 1: up and understand that this is a part of life
Speaker 1: that they've been really adjacent to, knowingly or unknowingly. Um,
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many beautiful trans women I
Speaker 1: know who live a normal life just like you and
Speaker 1: I and everybody else, have healthy relationships, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and people just don't know. I can't tell
Speaker 1: you how many people I know who have had experiences
Speaker 1: with trans women and don't know that I know, but
Speaker 1: I know because I know that trans women they've had
Speaker 1: experiences with you know what I'm saying. This is something
Speaker 1: that is literally hidden in plain sight kind of. And
Speaker 1: it's just sad that, you know, people get to a
Speaker 1: point where they can't take um, the effects of quote
Speaker 1: unquote bullying or whatever, and it becomes an issue where
Speaker 1: they kill themselves. That's heartbreaking. Um And I God bless
Speaker 1: him man and funk all them niggas that was talking
Speaker 1: about him, who probably all have had experiences with either
Speaker 1: a man or a trans woman. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: just it's it's all about to me, like what I've
Speaker 1: noticed from homophobia most of the time, like the niggas
Speaker 1: that I've sucked with, fuck with, fucked with, like my besties.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not like you. I can't call my
Speaker 1: home girls to go on a hoe trip. It's like
Speaker 1: my niggas is really right, and the men that I
Speaker 1: deal with know that, and they know that. Sometimes if
Speaker 1: you want to link up with me and night I
Speaker 1: am at the Gate Club and you don't have to come,
Speaker 1: and you have to be cool about the ship. And
Speaker 1: if you're not cool about the ship, we need to
Speaker 1: talk about why, because that is an issue for me, right.
Speaker 1: I need to know what's going to make you uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I need to know when my best friend gets married,
Speaker 1: that you're gonna be hyper as we're about to see
Speaker 1: him and his nigga get married and we all love
Speaker 1: each other. I need you know that our kids are
Speaker 1: gonna have a uncle and maybe his god Mama I
Speaker 1: won't have a vagina? Is that crazy for you? Is
Speaker 1: she not a woman anymore? And this is why socially
Speaker 1: conscious men are just really important to me, and in
Speaker 1: terms of Black lives matter and people thinking that these
Speaker 1: people are exempt, It's all about the shame that we
Speaker 1: feel right being bullied for wanting to kill yourself over
Speaker 1: that is because internally you think you're doing something wrong.
Speaker 1: You're not confident enough in choice. And in my opinion,
Speaker 1: men that tease other men for their choices aren't confident
Speaker 1: in their heterosexuality. I just don't feel that way at all.
Speaker 1: When I watched the men that I deal with embrace
Speaker 1: my gay friends and feeling comfortable and not feeling like
Speaker 1: this gay ass nigga because you know you like pussy.
Speaker 1: You know this nigga about to fuck you. We're not
Speaker 1: tripping at There's a confidence that certain hetero men have
Speaker 1: that leads them to not be ashamed of having relationships
Speaker 1: and friendships with gay men. That's shame is about feeling bad.
Speaker 1: That's where killing your off comes from. And we are
Speaker 1: perpetuating that stigma every day. See. I stopped the shift
Speaker 1: to even get rolling because to me, why it's sex
Speaker 1: even a part of the conversation. Why are you worried
Speaker 1: about who I fucked? You know what I'm saying, So
Speaker 1: why are you thinking about saying? Why are you thinking
Speaker 1: about gay sex? Weirdo? You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: wish you would let me tell you something. Ain't no way,
Speaker 1: Ain't no motherfucking way that I'm about to walk outside
Speaker 1: in this world after paying rent, working hard to be
Speaker 1: a good person and ship, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: being a stand up nigger, being there for my friends,
Speaker 1: ain't no way, no go on the street fit the
Speaker 1: funk with me for who I fucked. It just ain't happening.
Speaker 1: And also, I understand that if you know that I'm
Speaker 1: gay and you want to disrespect me, that should be
Speaker 1: your first move. So's so going to say it, so
Speaker 1: now we can get it popping, because I guarantee you
Speaker 1: you're never gonna forget what happens next. That's what sex
Speaker 1: a part of this conversation. I'm a human being and
Speaker 1: I live like a godparents and you're not Finn disrespect
Speaker 1: me period, whether it's about my sexuality or not. I'm
Speaker 1: you just not fin to disrespect me. It's so they
Speaker 1: can't be homophobic with me. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you can't do that with me. People are so weird
Speaker 1: about sexuality. It's so weird. There's there's so many um
Speaker 1: pictures and things that go around with even fathers and
Speaker 1: their daughters, and they create whole narratives. Is the way
Speaker 1: they kiss? Is this celebrity that was on top of him?
Speaker 1: I don't remember, but they everybody was like they turned
Speaker 1: everything sexual and it's just like why why why is
Speaker 1: the father do you think his daughter? Why are you
Speaker 1: thinking sexual? Because that's why I don't like when videos
Speaker 1: of kids doing something silly and people start sexualizing it.
Speaker 1: That is weird. It's weird as me and one, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's weird, Like I get the joke with
Speaker 1: this weird you know what I'm saying, It's weird, and
Speaker 1: it's crazy that like we have all of these different
Speaker 1: thoughts surrounding sex, but that sex, while it is still
Speaker 1: so taboo to even bring up in certain setting some
Speaker 1: things that everything becomes fucking sexualized. Even but we just
Speaker 1: talked about even the god damn vegetables were eating. Now
Speaker 1: they all dick shaped, the cue coumber. We can all
Speaker 1: ship cucumbers and just creating, and now we're look at vegition.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't even want a dick that looked like a
Speaker 1: cute cover. You know, cucumbers got them bumps all the
Speaker 1: way down, up and down. The motherfucker if you are
Speaker 1: right with putting a bumpy dick all the way up.
Speaker 1: We just talk about conversation. You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Worn and ship did we talk about? Did we talk
Speaker 1: about corn? There was something we just something we did
Speaker 1: talk about. You only talked about it or ate it. Well,
Speaker 1: I hadn't thought just now about curious to know how
Speaker 1: you guys think we could normalize. There's no normalizing ship.
Speaker 1: No, no no, no for other people. So for example, yes, um,
Speaker 1: not to say my father is or was transphobic, but
Speaker 1: I watched something happened to him when it became someone
Speaker 1: close to him. Right, So a lot of people have
Speaker 1: not met trans people or gays or whatever. Right, so
Speaker 1: my father is Israeli and my aunt this was maybe
Speaker 1: ten years ago, canceled a long time. They don't now
Speaker 1: my mother right, Like I said, my my godmother was
Speaker 1: a drag queen was growing up like I was born
Speaker 1: in San Francisco. It's case, so ten years ago, my
Speaker 1: kind of hys directed me. She had cancer for a
Speaker 1: while on and off, and when we went to the
Speaker 1: area to talk to the surgeon, the surgeon was a
Speaker 1: trans woman. And I remember looking at my dad's face
Speaker 1: and it was like just the wheels are turning while
Speaker 1: he's thinking, and I'm maybe I was old enough and
Speaker 1: not old enough, and I was like okay, And my
Speaker 1: dad hugged her for a long time and kept telling
Speaker 1: her thank you and how happy that she was there,
Speaker 1: like happy is that she was there, and blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: and like the whole card right home. I know he
Speaker 1: was thinking like wow, like this saved my fucking sister.
Speaker 1: And it's weird because what instance is this person? Okay,
Speaker 1: Like maybe my dad might have looked different from her
Speaker 1: on the street, but I know you kept her alive.
Speaker 1: I know you saved her. I have to think, what
Speaker 1: does it really hit you? Family? Friends, like, how do
Speaker 1: we normally family and friends to hit you when when
Speaker 1: it hits you, When it hits you, when it becomes
Speaker 1: a reflection of some sort to you, about you, because
Speaker 1: it's really internal. Really, it don't matter. It doesn't matter
Speaker 1: if you adjacent to me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But if you my mama, if you use my mama, man,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you my mama or whatever, you feel
Speaker 1: some kind of way about how I live, you know
Speaker 1: you feel like it's a reflection on you. And that's
Speaker 1: where it comes. Happened in my household as well. Um,
Speaker 1: for a lot of you guys that do listen to
Speaker 1: the show, you guys know that I'm have Jamaican, So
Speaker 1: of course Jamaicans are very like homophobic in a sense,
Speaker 1: and my very homosexual too, but go ahead that too,
Speaker 1: Yes that too, um. But my cousin left Jamaica because
Speaker 1: he was gay and felt he feared his life. But
Speaker 1: also my sister came out as lesbian maybe when she
Speaker 1: was around eighteen nineteen, and she was always my dad's favorite,
Speaker 1: and my dad actually removed himself from her for quite
Speaker 1: some time because she was lesbian and he didn't understand
Speaker 1: that and also was like, so you'll never give me
Speaker 1: a granddaughter? Like it turned into of course now like
Speaker 1: just different things as lesbians have to deal with. And
Speaker 1: so luckily they do have a relationship now. But I
Speaker 1: think because they both hate me, but whatever, But I
Speaker 1: love you too. But I do feel like even to
Speaker 1: have experienced that with my own dad kind of distanced
Speaker 1: himself from my sister because of her sexual orientation. That's
Speaker 1: just the whole thing. Like, that's still your daughter. You
Speaker 1: love her as a person. Why does who she have
Speaker 1: sex with matter to you? Even as a father? Why
Speaker 1: does that matter? Parents think this made you gay? My
Speaker 1: mama was literally laid out on the floor and her
Speaker 1: walk in closet when she found out about me and ship,
Speaker 1: and my father told me not to tell her. Really,
Speaker 1: that's actually opposite. Did with like a religious family? Yeah,
Speaker 1: my parents are devout Christians. Yes, when what they found
Speaker 1: out I was gay? You were in your twenties, Yeah,
Speaker 1: when they found enough to say that, I'm thirty seven?
Speaker 1: What did you think I was seven? Right? So wait, okay,
Speaker 1: so you when your mom finds out that, yes, when
Speaker 1: did your dad know? Since he said don't tell her?
Speaker 1: My father found out before that because someone in my
Speaker 1: family went and told him. So. One of my family
Speaker 1: members was living with me at the time because they
Speaker 1: were about to get married and they had kind of
Speaker 1: been envious of I've always had a close relationship with
Speaker 1: like my siblings, money and my parents always been cool.
Speaker 1: I've done what I want to do. You know, I
Speaker 1: never really once I decided not to kind of follow
Speaker 1: the program of what they wanted for me as far
Speaker 1: as like the religion and all that. Ship, I still
Speaker 1: maintained some sort of like you know, good rapport with
Speaker 1: them and so, um, but I was still doing my thing.
Speaker 1: And so once I had started like hanging out and
Speaker 1: really actually going to gate clubs and ship or whatever. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: you know that glory day. So but uh manbe it's
Speaker 1: so stupid. But um, so, long story short, my family
Speaker 1: member was living with me, saw I saw that I
Speaker 1: had been coming back and forth to New York. Actually
Speaker 1: had met this guy here named Kareem. He was so fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was like it was just different. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I wasn't. I had just started working with
Speaker 1: niggas or whatever. So anyway, my family member saw that
Speaker 1: saw something like that on my computer and ship about me,
Speaker 1: you know whatever. I went and told my father, okay,
Speaker 1: and so my father one day, this was actually right
Speaker 1: around new It was New Year's Eve, New Year's Eve.
Speaker 1: I was out party and in the next morning I
Speaker 1: was supposed to go help my father repair like some eaves,
Speaker 1: traffic like gutters on my grandfather's house because you know,
Speaker 1: my father told me how to do all that kind
Speaker 1: of it. So um so, but I overslept because I
Speaker 1: was out party and I really never even came back
Speaker 1: to my apartment or nothing, and so my father called
Speaker 1: me kind of upsetting. He was like, YO, come meet
Speaker 1: me at Bob Evans or whatever so we can like,
Speaker 1: you know, I guess go do it. I'm assuming, But
Speaker 1: what he really wanted me to do was come up
Speaker 1: there and talk to him. Because I overslept and ship,
Speaker 1: he knew I was doing something he didn't know, you know,
Speaker 1: specifically where I was. I think that that kind of
Speaker 1: just made him think, you know, that something else was
Speaker 1: going on, and he might as well just talk to
Speaker 1: me about what he had heard. And so that's what
Speaker 1: he did, and he wasn't disrespectful. Um Surprisingly, my dad
Speaker 1: was like he just kept it a buck from the
Speaker 1: from the beginning. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's
Speaker 1: your life to live. He was like, you're gonna face
Speaker 1: a lot of adversity for that. Make sure every area
Speaker 1: of your life is on point. Get money, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Work hard, do your thing because you're
Speaker 1: gonna need all that to balance out the negative ship
Speaker 1: You're gonna get it. Like that's your story tale. I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you that quick before we get onto
Speaker 1: our kink of the week. As a gay black man,
Speaker 1: do you do you fear your on the weekends? Do
Speaker 1: you fear for your life anymore than if you feel
Speaker 1: like you weren't gay? Oh? No, but I'm very well
Speaker 1: aware of the fact that I'm walking. So you know
Speaker 1: how we black We walk out every day and you
Speaker 1: know you're gonna face certain adversities, right, So add another
Speaker 1: layer on top of that same layer, but even a
Speaker 1: broader spectrum, because it's not just from people who are
Speaker 1: against you because of your skin color. This can be
Speaker 1: people that look like you, people that don't look like you,
Speaker 1: family members that don't want to funk with you. It's
Speaker 1: all those sort of things you have to think about.
Speaker 1: The men of mental turmoil and trauma that gave people
Speaker 1: face think about the most critically important relationships to your
Speaker 1: life being a jeopardy. You know what I'm saying, just
Speaker 1: over something that you can't control. Yeah, I just said
Speaker 1: that about my friend. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If his mom would just own him, that's the real ship.
Speaker 1: And I thank God for like my brother, my sister.
Speaker 1: Really my brother and my sister. I thank God for
Speaker 1: them because from just our siblings are bond as siblings
Speaker 1: like nothing matters, and it's never mattered. My sister been
Speaker 1: to the gay club with me, my brother. You know, Meg,
Speaker 1: people have dated kicked it. We talked every day all day.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying is a real relationship. So
Speaker 1: I don't that's why you can miss me with that bullshit,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I'm not I'm not
Speaker 1: having not having to having experience like watching your mom.
Speaker 1: One of my best friends came on our Patreon episode
Speaker 1: has told his coming out story shout out to Christopher
Speaker 1: where his parents like prayed over him and ship. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Of course. It's like when you're turning your twenties and
Speaker 1: you live living this life and you know who you are.
Speaker 1: It's hard and to experience you're literally it's hard. You're
Speaker 1: praying over me, Gonna stop my dick from getting hard?
Speaker 1: If I see a fine nigger? This is ridiculous. I
Speaker 1: at a certain point, you know what I'm saying, What
Speaker 1: are we doing here? This is? This is I'm like,
Speaker 1: what are we doing? Way? You want to? We can
Speaker 1: go to camp and get that ship. Yeah, no, that's
Speaker 1: a bull remember the movie. But I'm a cheerleader. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we talked about that before. Yeah, anyway, let's talk about
Speaker 1: we get into Nancy because I actually want to know
Speaker 1: this because I have mine in my head already. So
Speaker 1: the kick of the week for this week is torontophilia.
Speaker 1: What that's a spider? I say so. Torotophilia is a
Speaker 1: sexual fetish that involves being attracted to people with physical deformities.
Speaker 1: There are many subsets of torontophilia, specifically to different types
Speaker 1: of human deformities. For instance, acrotomophilia involves sexual attraction to amputees.
Speaker 1: As stigmatophilia refers to deriving sexual pleasure from people whose
Speaker 1: bodies are marked or scarred in in some way, like
Speaker 1: little Wayne. So I was gonna say, fella, you got
Speaker 1: a scar on his face and it's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Uh oh yeah, right here do men just like rub
Speaker 1: on your scar from time man, Grandmama's motherfucking aunties nieces everybody.
Speaker 1: Hell really, and I'll make up a new lie every
Speaker 1: time when I think of a story that I got
Speaker 1: a really bad car accident and that's not sexy, Like
Speaker 1: when my nigga was like yo, like these niggas came
Speaker 1: up behind me and jail. Not everyone has a scar
Speaker 1: from a car accident. It's really light now, but I
Speaker 1: feel like you don't want me to touch you, like
Speaker 1: then don't touch Oh, I've been skipping around it when
Speaker 1: I touch your face. When I thought of physical deformities,
Speaker 1: I thought of maybe things that look like abnormal, like
Speaker 1: the American horror story freak Show. No not, no, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't know. I went a little bit more vanilla than that.
Speaker 1: Like I really like ears that are like really big
Speaker 1: in this stick like I like I like ears that
Speaker 1: look like, oh, your ears are like they grab attention.
Speaker 1: I liked here, maybe like dumb bolt type ears, like
Speaker 1: I really like ears or ones that are either really
Speaker 1: small or really big or I do okay, you know
Speaker 1: what I like, you know what I like so weird
Speaker 1: how you got to it? So you know how something
Speaker 1: like something I don't. We'll fun, you know how like
Speaker 1: some Dominican they just have like the real big nail bid.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? You like, do you
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about? Okay, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. Do you know what I'm talking about? They know?
Speaker 1: The people know what I'm talking about. What I met
Speaker 1: somebody I met somebody specific that had no this is
Speaker 1: a thing on God. Watch watch the emails you get.
Speaker 1: Watch the emails you get, and they's some people have
Speaker 1: an exaggerated nail bid like hands, so you know, okay,
Speaker 1: so okay, and then the other one. And I brought
Speaker 1: this up on the podcast before. I really like protruding
Speaker 1: Adam's apples. Oh yeah, but that ship is that that's
Speaker 1: a physical deforming. You're not all men. It's something. It's
Speaker 1: really big. I don't be licking. I just like to
Speaker 1: never have you tap it. Yeah, like I just like
Speaker 1: to like my hand. Well I kind of like the
Speaker 1: finger it, but I'm not. I just like to go over.
Speaker 1: I hate you so much. Do you like any physical
Speaker 1: deformities of people? I'm trying to think. But the only
Speaker 1: thing I know that's kind of weird. They're like his ankles.
Speaker 1: I like ankles too, but that's not a deformity. You
Speaker 1: just like ankles. Actually, when XT was when I was
Speaker 1: like when niggas wear them joggers, and I could see
Speaker 1: their ankles like a deformity. Bro, though it's just weird
Speaker 1: and big nails ankles, that's a deformity. I'm informity, bro.
Speaker 1: But I'll take a ank You said you'll take an ankle,
Speaker 1: want a cank? I don't want to cank because I
Speaker 1: like to see the little what's this part called ankle?
Speaker 1: You like to see the ankle? The that's the ankle. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's an ankle, bolly okay. The more you know, right,
Speaker 1: we need learning some real elementary as this show looks
Speaker 1: like a science anatomy, which it doesn't matter. Shut up,
Speaker 1: my god. So you don't like any deformities, we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into our horrible s. I met a deaf nigga
Speaker 1: on the train that was so this ain't a deformance.
Speaker 1: That's a real thing as well, but I forgot the
Speaker 1: name of it. But there's a there's a thing to
Speaker 1: that I was literally First of all, I was on
Speaker 1: a New Jersey transit, which let's start there. But but
Speaker 1: when I was and he was deaf, but he was
Speaker 1: so cute and we just had a connection. You like, no,
Speaker 1: I just kept it moving, You didn't. How do you
Speaker 1: know he was that hand motion him. He wasn't he
Speaker 1: wasn't talking that he was signing you know what I'm saying, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but to you, I mean yeah, I knew how to
Speaker 1: weigh yeah. And then plus I knew how you know,
Speaker 1: like like my my facial expressions and ship. You know,
Speaker 1: I knew how to communicate to the nigga without talking
Speaker 1: to would nigga? Yes you would, well, I bet you,
Speaker 1: he relied. I would really actually prefer to fuck you
Speaker 1: got to go with his hands. Remember when some more
Speaker 1: said if Stevie Wonder was her man, he would have
Speaker 1: one outfit and all the clothes in the clothes that
Speaker 1: would be her. She'd be like, look at all this
Speaker 1: all this ship is yours. You'd be so shocked. This
Speaker 1: ship is Remember that what we really be saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: why like the rest thing, Ray Charles, that ship was hard.
Speaker 1: Remember he was touching her wrist. Is ship to know
Speaker 1: if they was pretty. And then on top of that,
Speaker 1: I feel like the senses are heighting more with like
Speaker 1: a blind man than the death that you think he
Speaker 1: would come hard to see. You think they come harder.
Speaker 1: You say, real nasty ship to a blind nigga. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta because he got to be able to imagine it, right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So what do you say? How do you say? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? I mean, he's still donna like
Speaker 1: you sucking his dig where he can see you or not.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, he can feel that you talk.
Speaker 1: What are you saying? If you fucking a blind man?
Speaker 1: What are the things you're gonna go out of your
Speaker 1: way to say? What? Area so big? We should see
Speaker 1: the way my mother fucking ass shake. When you're saying,
Speaker 1: not slap it, you feel a vibration? Bang, you should
Speaker 1: see a shade? Oh god damn. So I think that's
Speaker 1: gonna make it feel bad when you say you should
Speaker 1: see it you can okay, well okay, so how would
Speaker 1: you It would be more about like my clothes, like
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what the dress looks like.
Speaker 1: Oh you mean the material like it's smooth? Would touch
Speaker 1: me right here it's black. It's black, but everything is black.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You just gotta fun, which I
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, okay, you shouldn't talk. You got a
Speaker 1: little birthmark on this dick right here. What you do
Speaker 1: and I'm liking it? Okay, that's cute, that's okay. So
Speaker 1: what was so different? You know? That's what you got
Speaker 1: to say? You were so different? I would never do
Speaker 1: my hair if I had a black again, he can feel.
Speaker 1: He'd be like, bitch, you ain't been a nough. I
Speaker 1: know I can count. You didn't put the money. I
Speaker 1: could also smell how long you have to break? Feel? So?
Speaker 1: And you know they said to this heightened bit, so
Speaker 1: you definitely can't. I'm saying, hey, I'm a sucking date,
Speaker 1: so I abody to get the front box praise read tonight.
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking of what, like, yo, if I had
Speaker 1: a blind niket, this would be so easy. So what
Speaker 1: would you different? What would you do different with the
Speaker 1: nigga was deaf? Because then you really ain't got a mown.
Speaker 1: Yes you do, because they can feel that vibration. That's
Speaker 1: why they go to concerts and dance all that. You
Speaker 1: gotta bann extra low. No, you just gotta smack into it.
Speaker 1: You gotta really give, like a good one, like okay,
Speaker 1: now I really think about it, right when you moan
Speaker 1: your mouthing like but like you probably have to let
Speaker 1: like so the whole time, does he have to hold
Speaker 1: my throat so he could feel it? To me? It
Speaker 1: would be so much more beautiful because I could just
Speaker 1: touch you and that's how I could let you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it just would be high. But
Speaker 1: like how deaf do you mean like you can't hear
Speaker 1: a bit? Not like motherfucking I literally was about to say,
Speaker 1: like no, like everything is just off like okay, like
Speaker 1: sounded off, it's on completely mute. Okay, I'm with it.
Speaker 1: You gotta do more faces in because see my orgasm
Speaker 1: face is really ugly. So I just like to get
Speaker 1: a nigger right here so I could just moan in
Speaker 1: their ear and then that's not gonna so I just
Speaker 1: gotta find a fact right here, gonna be like okay,
Speaker 1: like you had the one sense I do got you
Speaker 1: take it over here, Yeah, yeah, yeah, we we got
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I was because we got it. We
Speaker 1: got it. We're gonna get get through this horrible decision,
Speaker 1: and I like this. So for this week, we are
Speaker 1: going to define dating terms. And I think that we
Speaker 1: all have a different sense of what dating means, how
Speaker 1: we define the head. But I know it's stressful and
Speaker 1: we need to get through this because I think everyone
Speaker 1: I listened to the show I want to learn. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna start with something easy. Talking what doesn't mean
Speaker 1: to talk to someone? Sit here and tell somebody, Yeah,
Speaker 1: me and her talking what doesn't mean? Because I have
Speaker 1: an idea of what it means. Talking means that number,
Speaker 1: but it never went anywhere. No, that means we had
Speaker 1: each other number. No, it don't. Talking means. All talking
Speaker 1: means is that you and another person have established that
Speaker 1: y'all are both attracted to and interested in each other,
Speaker 1: and you're in communication. That's what you mean to be
Speaker 1: talking to somebody. Y'all both know, y'all like each other.
Speaker 1: So here's my thing. Let's let's put us let as
Speaker 1: you can fun and then start talking. We're talking no words.
Speaker 1: So here's here's where I find this dilemma. And maybe
Speaker 1: it's a Florida thing because talking to me yes means
Speaker 1: because here is the scenario, you me, you and your
Speaker 1: friend are chilling with each other or whatever, and you
Speaker 1: go to show them a picture of the person that
Speaker 1: you're currently talking to and your friend says, oh, we
Speaker 1: used to talk. That means that if you hear that
Speaker 1: from even one of your home girls, that's on someone
Speaker 1: A girl say oh yeah, man, he used to talk.
Speaker 1: That to me still gives me the inkland that at
Speaker 1: some point or another, y'all may have had sat absolutely
Speaker 1: as when I've heard it that way. But when I
Speaker 1: say I'm talking to someone, but when you hear someone
Speaker 1: else say that was me, yes, So when I'm fucking
Speaker 1: someone and I don't have a definition behind it and
Speaker 1: maybe not be dating to be like, oh, yeah, we
Speaker 1: used to chill. We used to chill. Yeah, chill definitely
Speaker 1: means I used to fuck. Yeah, it was a sex thing.
Speaker 1: But is that not a damn shame? When I put
Speaker 1: that scenario, y'all all went from oh, yeah, talking could
Speaker 1: mean I want to be clear, it doesn't mean that talking.
Speaker 1: Don't mean that y'all are fucking. That means that you're
Speaker 1: in a situation where for you to have fun. What
Speaker 1: is chilling me? Chilling Chilling means you Because Netflix and
Speaker 1: chill is the whole thing. Now we know fucking is
Speaker 1: included with Netflix and part of the nine that I'm
Speaker 1: now the as moved it up the twelve and I'm
Speaker 1: still are gonna pay it. No, I'm starting to kick
Speaker 1: people off. I'm like, y'all pay your own twelve, nine
Speaker 1: and nine. I'm kicking everybody off, especially because they don't
Speaker 1: got no part where, like if they start watching the
Speaker 1: same show I watched. These motherfuckers don't even make their
Speaker 1: own profile. So now you're talking up where I was
Speaker 1: when I was watching this, like I was on episode two,
Speaker 1: not seven, Like now I gotta go back. It's it
Speaker 1: sucks me up. So I like this to lead into
Speaker 1: the next. Okay, dating, what is a date to you?
Speaker 1: And what makes it a date? We talked about this recently,
Speaker 1: plan where you didn't know if it was a date
Speaker 1: or not with the person you were going out with.
Speaker 1: So what makes something a date when you could say, oh,
Speaker 1: we're going on a date, or what makes it too
Speaker 1: when you are dating somebody? What does the word date mean?
Speaker 1: So I didn't know it was a date because there
Speaker 1: was no like I would like to take you to
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Didn't I feel like that kind of plan.
Speaker 1: He was like, Yo, you midtown, I work midtown. Let's
Speaker 1: let's say let's eat at twelve. Like okay, So that
Speaker 1: was too casual to me. A date to me is
Speaker 1: when someone makes a plan with me, not same day.
Speaker 1: That's a seraily. When they say they use words like
Speaker 1: I want to take you out, I want to take
Speaker 1: you to blah blah blah. You agree with that? I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess you don't even to box me in no corner.
Speaker 1: Speaking for the Nigga delegation, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: First of all, the date is the most literal sense
Speaker 1: of that word. We're spending some time together exclusively doing
Speaker 1: an activity. That's a date. It's funny that she said
Speaker 1: exclusively because I literally when I don't want a guy
Speaker 1: to think it's a date, that's when I'll invite a friend. Yes,
Speaker 1: because if a guy invites you out and he wants
Speaker 1: it to be on some exclusive solo the easiest way
Speaker 1: to make it not a date is to invite a friend,
Speaker 1: or to make it even if she's the third will like,
Speaker 1: because you can't go on a double date. That's different.
Speaker 1: As soon as I invite a home girl, it's no
Speaker 1: longer a date. So that's a day I want to
Speaker 1: take you to catch and be like, okay, I'm bringing Susie.
Speaker 1: If it's a nigga that I don't want interested in
Speaker 1: me or feel like, I'll be like, oh, well, I'm
Speaker 1: with my homegirl. Do you mind if she joins? Like
Speaker 1: as soon as I don't want you to think we're
Speaker 1: on an intimate setting. That's why all of my business stuff,
Speaker 1: I bring friends along, or I'll have friends pull up,
Speaker 1: or I ask them if they have anyone else they
Speaker 1: can bring your business stuff. No, like things where I
Speaker 1: feel like people might not really have been misunderstood misunderstanding.
Speaker 1: So even if we're linking on that sense, like I
Speaker 1: want to know the other people involved, are you bring
Speaker 1: other people because I don't want anyone to ever think,
Speaker 1: you know, what makes sense a business meaning bring like
Speaker 1: oh I bring I bring paper laps and like a
Speaker 1: notebook and let them know like I'm ready to talk. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So to me, that's like my my way of making
Speaker 1: a nigg and not confused what we're doing. If you're dating,
Speaker 1: that means that we ain't working with nobody else. We're
Speaker 1: dating each other like we are dating. That doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that for me A thousand people, well I can't. I
Speaker 1: mean I'm there. We all with like okay, right old
Speaker 1: Bay season and like are's probably sucking other people other people,
Speaker 1: But I'm definitely dating him right now, Like we're have
Speaker 1: a date with him tonight, like we make plans to
Speaker 1: see each other. We're in because in time, I'm dating
Speaker 1: Muslim Bay but we didn't even have sex yet that
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm dating now. There's a difference to
Speaker 1: me and saying I'm dating this person and saying we
Speaker 1: date to me like like to me, like, if I'm
Speaker 1: dating you, that means that, like we're kicking it, Like
Speaker 1: it's me and you and we're dating and we're about
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship now. But if if we date,
Speaker 1: that means you know, like you live in l A.
Speaker 1: I live in New York. When we be together, we
Speaker 1: be together when we now we now we still flirt
Speaker 1: over from something we date. You know, here's the next
Speaker 1: here's the next dating term. Curve. What does it mean
Speaker 1: to curve someone? And it's curving and ghosting the same thing? No, okay,
Speaker 1: so what does curve mean? You actually responded in a
Speaker 1: way that was less than favorable. Ghosting means you don't
Speaker 1: even respond, you just I agree with that. Ghosting to
Speaker 1: me is actually when something has happened and like whether
Speaker 1: it be a date, whether it be sex or whatever,
Speaker 1: and you've completely like went away, because I don't think
Speaker 1: you can go someone that you were just talking to,
Speaker 1: like I think you like it really has to be
Speaker 1: weld in some sort of way and we no longer
Speaker 1: involved ghost you my friend. Y'all know who it is,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to say her name. He told
Speaker 1: me he fucked someone else raw that's why he ghosted.
Speaker 1: That's what she just said. That's that's the thing. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if now there was a
Speaker 1: dude that I knew. They hadn't hit her up for
Speaker 1: a few days, and she was like, what then just goes?
Speaker 1: So I wanted to know what what time is ghosting?
Speaker 1: And so what happened next? What did she say? No,
Speaker 1: so you you knew him, and she had to out
Speaker 1: I was doing. So they were talking. So they were talking,
Speaker 1: she met this dude, they started sucking right Basically, she
Speaker 1: told him that she kissed him to do in the
Speaker 1: club and she wanted to be open with him about it. Now.
Speaker 1: What happened was after she told him that he ghosted,
Speaker 1: she did and hear from him. He wasn't texting her
Speaker 1: every day. He just totally disappeared on her after they
Speaker 1: were making plans to see each other, texting and talking
Speaker 1: all the time. Right, she told him she kiss another
Speaker 1: nigga she expect and was about not everyone is okay
Speaker 1: with the truth. You mean you think you can call
Speaker 1: me and tell me, Oh, I kiss another niggat, But
Speaker 1: I just want to be open with you. But okay,
Speaker 1: thanks for telling me so now I can't be like
Speaker 1: some people aren't okay with that. But something, which is why,
Speaker 1: why the hell did she feel obligated to tell him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she said they did them molly together. It might have
Speaker 1: came out. Maybe she needs to learn how to tighten
Speaker 1: her ship up and be honest. Or maybe he goes
Speaker 1: because she don't like he don't like girls that do
Speaker 1: drugs like he did it with her. Oh he did
Speaker 1: it with her. Still he still might not like girls
Speaker 1: like literally, you know how many niggas like I'm either
Speaker 1: like hooked up with girls as I say I do,
Speaker 1: and I'll be like Dann don't to her no more,
Speaker 1: and that's like one of the main things they go
Speaker 1: to Liken. Man, she got on some ship and started
Speaker 1: acting crazy. I don't do that drug ship like niggas,
Speaker 1: especially niggas who were just weed smokers. Well, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: do drugs that do drugs that judge this phone call
Speaker 1: I had literally two weeks ago. White girl used to
Speaker 1: work with. She calls me. We're talking catching up thirty
Speaker 1: minutes in and she's like telling me about the story.
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, we at the cloud like doing blow
Speaker 1: all night and blah blah blah. So then she's like,
Speaker 1: he's like so much fun, but like he does so
Speaker 1: much coqueasy. And I was like, did they did it
Speaker 1: with them? She was like yeah, but like I can
Speaker 1: stop a white woman, go ahead if you take them.
Speaker 1: Did she just asked to speak to the manager and
Speaker 1: this is the same ship. Is like, I'm not that
Speaker 1: much of a hope because I've only done this all
Speaker 1: the time. Hierarchy of drugism Um. The next one, which actually,
Speaker 1: of course I co care. The next one I think
Speaker 1: actually came from Facebook. I would say, what does it's
Speaker 1: complicated me from Facebook to the real world. What does
Speaker 1: this word mean in terms of relationships. You don't use it.
Speaker 1: It's complicated aint. Nobody trying to identify the gray area.
Speaker 1: That's why it's called the gray area. But you just
Speaker 1: want to know you've got something going on equal to
Speaker 1: the situation ship. It to me, I don't know what
Speaker 1: it's complicated as a situation ship. I've met married people
Speaker 1: that have told me it's complicated that you could be separated.
Speaker 1: It just means you're could be single and then it's
Speaker 1: complicated your right or it could be towards the end,
Speaker 1: it could be it might not be working. You never know.
Speaker 1: It could just be complicated what I'm saying. I think
Speaker 1: that's interesting. I think that so many people use it.
Speaker 1: Though I do believe it's complicated means that you don't
Speaker 1: have a definition for what you're currently in. But you
Speaker 1: just said married people being a it's complicated. They're still married,
Speaker 1: but maybe they're separated divorce, you may not be living together. Um.
Speaker 1: I have used the term it's complicated in two times
Speaker 1: that I can remember. When I knew I was kind
Speaker 1: of about to break up with someone, like it was
Speaker 1: right towards the end. We are now complicated. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's complicated. Okay, okay, that's complicated and then complicated. I
Speaker 1: also have described when like I've had a situation ship
Speaker 1: that maybe we weren't sucking other people, but we had
Speaker 1: to tell each other about something dumb. Ship see like
Speaker 1: to me because even even though I have someone that
Speaker 1: I fun on the regular, I wouldn't consider that it's complicated.
Speaker 1: But I also still do feel kind of the need
Speaker 1: to let them know that he's there, which is like
Speaker 1: sexual life, that's semantic dating life. These are dating terms
Speaker 1: you're trying to figure out. That's why you wouldn't use
Speaker 1: it's complicated. You wouldn't use a sexual partner to define
Speaker 1: a relationship. But I feel like a lot of people
Speaker 1: do like bring up like their sex, Like if they
Speaker 1: have someone that they're sucking, the sex that you'll be
Speaker 1: talking about you have, Ain't that Why are they asking
Speaker 1: in the first place? They want to know if someone
Speaker 1: else Yeah, and to me, I don't think he's in
Speaker 1: the picture. So when they know if you fucking somebody else,
Speaker 1: that's why. But that's where the question comes in dating.
Speaker 1: They want to know are you. They don't give a
Speaker 1: funk if you're going to eat motherfucker apple beets two
Speaker 1: taking you to catch they want to know. They don't
Speaker 1: want to catch nothing. That's all they want to know.
Speaker 1: Are you Is there somebody you fucking? When? When when
Speaker 1: someone asked, are you talking as someone else in the picture?
Speaker 1: To me, it's not are you texting someone else? No,
Speaker 1: it's do you have someone you're sucking right now? When
Speaker 1: I say are you seeing somebody else? I mean, like
Speaker 1: are you saying? I think we need to be more
Speaker 1: just like actual with our words. When you have a
Speaker 1: girlfriend and girlfriend, I mean, does she call you her boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Do you have a bitch that you raw? Do you
Speaker 1: have a bit? That's what I'm saying. Are very different questions.
Speaker 1: Do you have a bitch that you and do you
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend? Or two? Differently different? I know, And
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like that, that's I'm saying, maybe
Speaker 1: we need to be more upfront like that when we're
Speaker 1: having these conversations and we ain't telling you no, Dad,
Speaker 1: So you might want to get creative with the way
Speaker 1: you're asking us so that we can I guess have less.
Speaker 1: I don't know. A girl starts right, let's just say
Speaker 1: it happens. They just stopped sucking with condoms, it just happens.
Speaker 1: It happens often. Right, How does she then in turn
Speaker 1: say are you sucking anyone else raw? After she's already
Speaker 1: been working with this just like that, it's because she's
Speaker 1: sucking them wrong. Now, you were just saying, you feel
Speaker 1: like I'm part of the delication. You can't ask that way, absolutely,
Speaker 1: I'm just answering your question. You don't agree with the
Speaker 1: way that you could, Sam, I asking to get that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it would be by straight shoot him a fair one,
Speaker 1: like look, I know we just did or whatever. I
Speaker 1: respect my sexual health and so I'm asking you, like, respectfully,
Speaker 1: is there anything I need to know so that maybe
Speaker 1: I can make a different choice or we're gonna go
Speaker 1: back to using condoms now? If you are having sex
Speaker 1: with someone else raw, I want the I want to
Speaker 1: make the choice whether I continued sucking you roll or
Speaker 1: if we now have to bring back condoms. And so
Speaker 1: I have had to say once with the dude, I
Speaker 1: was sucking raw And I only said this because I
Speaker 1: was fearful that he would lie to me. So I
Speaker 1: asked him if he was sucking someone else wrong, and
Speaker 1: he said no, And I was like, look, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna stop sucking you. I just want us to use
Speaker 1: condoms and I need you to understand, like my pussy
Speaker 1: is really important to me. Bro. I'm not gonna ask
Speaker 1: you nothing about this, bitch. Just tell me if you
Speaker 1: sucked another bitch raw. Since you sucked me raw, that's
Speaker 1: all that I care about, because if you did, we
Speaker 1: are about to have an argument. We just we're still
Speaker 1: sucking it. I know it's crazy. I wouldn't believe that,
Speaker 1: but she just did this. It's like her text messages
Speaker 1: when she write me that should be a whole paragraph
Speaker 1: to say one thing, and that's what you just did.
Speaker 1: Let me let me tell you, let me tell you something,
Speaker 1: let me let me, let me tell you something. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you something for the story. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you something about having a game though, let me tell
Speaker 1: you about something about having game. Though you're telling me
Speaker 1: all that and wrapping it in all that package in
Speaker 1: that bowl, that's cool. I don't give a funk about
Speaker 1: none of that, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: are you are you asking me? It's some ship that
Speaker 1: you can react off of afterwards. I know what you
Speaker 1: want to know. I also know because I know what
Speaker 1: you really want to know. No, you don't because you
Speaker 1: didn't have to suck me in the first place. You're
Speaker 1: asking me on the back end of some risky ship
Speaker 1: we already then did. So don't be trying to come
Speaker 1: to me. Don't come to me on principle now that
Speaker 1: expect me, don't know, don't expect I shouldn't say, don't
Speaker 1: come to me on principle, but don't expect me to
Speaker 1: have an automatic you know, in a respect for the
Speaker 1: way you're stepping to me now about how much how
Speaker 1: worthwhile yo good pussy was because I just had it wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm a partner that shares results and expects them back
Speaker 1: when wrong. But I ain't going to be fair. You
Speaker 1: need to share that up front before you period. But
Speaker 1: even I've been already there at the point in the conversation,
Speaker 1: but I had him. We're not we're talking about this
Speaker 1: pathetical situation. It's been so long, which was why I
Speaker 1: felt like I had a I mean, I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you. I suck this one like and you know
Speaker 1: him from back in Orlando, but we used to fuk
Speaker 1: very intimately. I was like, very like he's one of
Speaker 1: the only special but in like within us fucking He
Speaker 1: came at me. Do you know this nigga didn't ask
Speaker 1: if I was on birth control until after he came
Speaker 1: in me. And that's when you think that's kind of
Speaker 1: wasn't worried about it. He didn't have a reason, literally
Speaker 1: as if you have a dog. That question came kind
Speaker 1: of late, like but come kind of late. Okay, we're good,
Speaker 1: funny sometimes so Beard day and I will do cream
Speaker 1: possh it because they tracked my opulation, I mean saying ship.
Speaker 1: So anyway, I remember we were sucking one time and
Speaker 1: like he knows the calendar because I'll send it to him,
Speaker 1: and like he knows when I'm opulating. Oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: respect that time with my pussy, right organized puss, but
Speaker 1: the best pussy you're like super like when you're obulating
Speaker 1: because it's all white and like creamy and like it's
Speaker 1: sucking hot and it's super well. But that he can't
Speaker 1: get in there in that tight So I remember he
Speaker 1: was saying to me always sucking me, like damn your pussy,
Speaker 1: what is fun? And then he was like you know right,
Speaker 1: and I'm like uh, and I don't want to ruin it.
Speaker 1: And I was like, just come in my mouth. I
Speaker 1: really want to taste it. Oh my god, I don't
Speaker 1: do the apps and ship. You already know. We talked
Speaker 1: about that. Honestly, I haven't gotten pregnant yet. Knock on wood,
Speaker 1: but you knock, but it's not just that right there
Speaker 1: in between them there, Yeah, there you go. You just
Speaker 1: knocked on everything that wasn't would before get into the
Speaker 1: wood like long as she made it there would I
Speaker 1: don't know. What's the one who said he picks and
Speaker 1: rules and ship. Of course we're gonna we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about this last topic because as we're talking about terms
Speaker 1: and dating. Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: I am She get on at three fifteen, I got Um,
Speaker 1: we'll talk about this last one. Um. And this goes
Speaker 1: back to kind of talking dating and defining things. How
Speaker 1: long do you talk to someone before you ask if
Speaker 1: there's something more or what the title is? Well? Who
Speaker 1: asked what the title is? Everybody? You just wake up
Speaker 1: one day and be like, damn, I guess we're together.
Speaker 1: And that's how I go down. Yeah, that's happened to me.
Speaker 1: That's that word. It's like literally wake up and be like, bitch,
Speaker 1: we live together. Like, what that's not okay, not like god,
Speaker 1: that's a little extreme, but like when you've been hiking
Speaker 1: for sime so long. I had a person asked to
Speaker 1: be my boyfriend a long time, but I think you
Speaker 1: got the note they said circle one yes or no.
Speaker 1: But but not the case. But it happens when you
Speaker 1: meet friends and meet family, like this girl where a
Speaker 1: girl says someone his boyfriend, but to everyone else that's
Speaker 1: not his girlfriend. They lying on, they dick and pussy
Speaker 1: all the time. But there's a I think what you're
Speaker 1: saying is a very accurate gauge. A lot of times
Speaker 1: when you're introduced to people, that's the way of having
Speaker 1: that awkward conversation without having it. So like they'll meet
Speaker 1: your family and you'll be like, so this is my friend.
Speaker 1: This is my girlfriend, man, and you look at you
Speaker 1: in the eyes while you say like, this is my girlfriend. Man,
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna do. You ain't gonna do that,
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say, friends gonna roll whatever a family
Speaker 1: And sometimes yes, the introduction that I've had, we weren't.
Speaker 1: But if you win it, if you win it and
Speaker 1: you are in that same page and they do that,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying to like the conversation of even
Speaker 1: talking because I have been introduced in a way where
Speaker 1: I'm just like, am I really? And I wasn't there
Speaker 1: with that person, So then it becomes an awkward conversation like, Oh,
Speaker 1: this is how you're viewing me, this is why you're
Speaker 1: bringing me around. But that's not what we're talking about.
Speaker 1: We're talking about with somebody who you are already dating into,
Speaker 1: gonna put me in a relationship one who you're already into. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna say this one thing about meeting family too.
Speaker 1: This is not just meeting family. This is like, Yo,
Speaker 1: this Sunday, my mom is going to have dinner and
Speaker 1: I want you to come and meet Like at that
Speaker 1: point in the relationship, theely what I'm saying, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess that has a dude then with planning to
Speaker 1: meet family, because I'm saying I've been brought around family before,
Speaker 1: but now we're talking about it. If it was your
Speaker 1: boyfriend that you had been with for three years, say,
Speaker 1: I go to say, this is where also why y'all
Speaker 1: are saying the planned thing, because there's the delusion with
Speaker 1: dating that if a guy brings you around family or friends.
Speaker 1: That now it means more when technically just because you
Speaker 1: brought around friends and family isn't necessarily tell I bring
Speaker 1: people out casually. That I would bring a personize casusy
Speaker 1: day into a family function that I knew it was fun,
Speaker 1: and the whole conversation, Mom, it's like, we're funking it.
Speaker 1: Now you're bringing me around family. I haven't Wrott Castle
Speaker 1: partners around my mom, but they were at least some
Speaker 1: SEMII came a funk about him. Maybe there was potential
Speaker 1: later They weren't nothing to me. But I brought Felling
Speaker 1: Bear around my mom and it was like it wasn't
Speaker 1: he was, but my mom was still there. So I
Speaker 1: brought him around my mom and my sister. That's a
Speaker 1: circuit like and in no way could he be like damn, yo,
Speaker 1: but I met your mom sister. Dates don't count. Like
Speaker 1: if I had somebody just you know, roll through that
Speaker 1: night or whatever. My sister is see him and Shi
Speaker 1: in the morning all that ship. I had a conversation
Speaker 1: about your lover. No, she was just like that was
Speaker 1: I feel like that was her way of like checking
Speaker 1: on make sure I was all right. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: she would be friendly to my dates. So okay, I
Speaker 1: can dig that. Like. So it is well, y'all know,
Speaker 1: I know y'all want like to our episodes, but we
Speaker 1: ain't that podcast. So um no bit, So we're gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead. We're we're we are going to give you
Speaker 1: the homemail. Dustin has to get up out of here
Speaker 1: and myself I gotta rush up to Harlem. So before
Speaker 1: we leave, can you let our listeners know where they
Speaker 1: can find you if you got something coming up, and
Speaker 1: where they can find your social You can find me
Speaker 1: at Bank of America, Wells Fargo, Chase Bank, UM cash
Speaker 1: app now I'm just playing. You can find me on
Speaker 1: all social media platforms that look at Dustin look at
Speaker 1: them to y'all. I appreciate all the love this week.
Speaker 1: I'm one. I'm doing horrible decisions, which I love. UM.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Star Brim. I was on the first
Speaker 1: episode of her podcast That's My Home Girl keeping it
Speaker 1: um and yeah, you can catch me that all things
Speaker 1: look at Dustin. That's you can keep up with what's
Speaker 1: going on ship um. And I do want to thank
Speaker 1: you as well because you brought me on to your
Speaker 1: live show. So with the friend Zone. That was super fun.
Speaker 1: I got to come on there and I played our game.
Speaker 1: I know what you said kind of early. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you had. I know you came to our show.
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen our game? Oh no, he came
Speaker 1: late because he went to Caroline's first and said, of guy,
Speaker 1: he didn't. Honestly, I didn't know. Assante hit me up
Speaker 1: the week before and he's like, you're out of town.
Speaker 1: I'm like, nigga, if you would have told me at
Speaker 1: a time, y'all know, first of all, I didn't know
Speaker 1: what I was doing. So he's like, just come on.
Speaker 1: I said, okay, let me let me ship I had.
Speaker 1: I said, what are we doing? He was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all figured it out. He said, we're handing
Speaker 1: out sex toys. I'm about to go up there. Who
Speaker 1: want to deal Dove? Who want to clip Rubber? Who
Speaker 1: shout out? Tahoe was so shameless. We'll be there this well,
Speaker 1: last one of these fridays. Posting this episode, I'm probably
Speaker 1: already in Vegas sucking dick. I hope I'm in Costa Blanca,
Speaker 1: smoking in a sick right at the top of the rocking,
Speaker 1: fucking Pyradid while they're like, bitch, you know you can't
Speaker 1: have your arms out right, Um boy, y'all that definitely
Speaker 1: make sure y'all check out Destin And we're gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and take a break before you guys listen to
Speaker 1: this week's homemail back. Yeah, we're gonna go ahead and
Speaker 1: get into our homemail. If you guys want to send
Speaker 1: homemail to us, please go ahead and send it to
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. You guys are sending
Speaker 1: us a ton of homemail to our d M, and
Speaker 1: we all know what to do with that ship. No,
Speaker 1: there's just a lot you need to email it to
Speaker 1: us because we we found an organized way of starring
Speaker 1: it and all this other stuff. So I actually picked
Speaker 1: this one because I want to talk to you because
Speaker 1: we just had a recent conversation about this, I think
Speaker 1: with Bridget Kelly. Um, so this one is titled just
Speaker 1: because I get paid? Am I a sex worker? Yes?
Speaker 1: Hold on, So I met a guy on fet life
Speaker 1: one thing to another and I was invited to my
Speaker 1: very first gang bang. Now I'm going to my third
Speaker 1: gang bang as a co host and getting paid for it.
Speaker 1: Does this big host as a co host. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: like hosting the party. Maybe maybe hosting the party? Does
Speaker 1: this make me a sex worker? Okay, maybe not if
Speaker 1: I do it just once. But if this becomes a
Speaker 1: regular thing, maybe even to the point where I decided
Speaker 1: to host my own, then am I answering sex worker territory?
Speaker 1: Technically I'm being paid for my time, not for sex.
Speaker 1: I don't even have to have sex if I don't
Speaker 1: want to. She also provided an update. So I must
Speaker 1: really be good at this gang bang thing because the
Speaker 1: guy I've done parties with, the host that asked me
Speaker 1: to co host, has now offered me a trip to Chicago,
Speaker 1: paid flight, paid for my work days I'll be missing.
Speaker 1: And I know he's hosted these parties for ten years now,
Speaker 1: but holy shit, my fete dude says to go for it.
Speaker 1: So now I'm really thinking I'm a paid home I
Speaker 1: brought this up because in the episode, I've recently been
Speaker 1: talking about maybe figuring out where I want to store
Speaker 1: my feet, um either patron, which he was like, no,
Speaker 1: you should be the only fans. Then I'm thinking of
Speaker 1: coming up with like an Instagram page where they have
Speaker 1: to pay to become like to follow me. But I
Speaker 1: really am trying to sell these feet because I'm really
Speaker 1: making a lot of money on these feet that I'm
Speaker 1: not even trying to sell. So I really want to,
Speaker 1: I really how much I can. Only fans is a
Speaker 1: good way because one Instagram, you're doing that Instagram thing
Speaker 1: that can't shut down easily, especially for like making money
Speaker 1: and like during that exchange. Okay, only fans, in my opinion,
Speaker 1: is a better marketplace, like especially like a lot of
Speaker 1: like girls that make videos like be Nasty is one
Speaker 1: of my favorites. But I feel like you found it
Speaker 1: through me. But I'm gonna lit rock because she's been
Speaker 1: my girlfriend for a long time, my girlfriend in my head.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just followed even she does the car videos
Speaker 1: that bit. Okay, Yeah, so anyway, Um, you know, she
Speaker 1: was his only fans and I heard she used to
Speaker 1: be in the military, which I found supera she's she
Speaker 1: actually gave her a whole story about how she started
Speaker 1: doing those other women and she's great for that. Like
Speaker 1: not every girl is like this, by the way, not
Speaker 1: every podcast will shout out other podcasts people don't like
Speaker 1: given up people. Ops, you know what I'm saying. But um,
Speaker 1: she does with only fans though a lot of people
Speaker 1: share each other in that way, and you'll just make
Speaker 1: more money that way. Like it's Patreon is lesser known
Speaker 1: as a sex community as only Fans is, and like,
Speaker 1: I just feel like it would make more sense if
Speaker 1: you really trying to make money. But I understand the
Speaker 1: stigma around only Fans, which I also think is silly
Speaker 1: for you and this girl, because I know's just horror phobia.
Speaker 1: I know, here you go, bitch, it's not horror phobia,
Speaker 1: but I know, but um no, I think it's more
Speaker 1: so even even with this podcast, we said when it
Speaker 1: comes to dating, um, when they find out or even
Speaker 1: see the cover art and the content that we discuss,
Speaker 1: it does become harder to communicate or have someone see
Speaker 1: us in a different light. And so I will say
Speaker 1: in in in the state where I am looking for
Speaker 1: a partner, it's just like, okay, it's knowing that a
Speaker 1: lot of how a lot of men view only Fans
Speaker 1: and only is viewed as sex work and I don't
Speaker 1: want to be so if you do that your feet,
Speaker 1: you feel like it wouldn't be this because it's content creating,
Speaker 1: and I'm a content creator. I want to ask thinking
Speaker 1: about your feet So if money is the goal from it,
Speaker 1: why don't you just not make Do you want to
Speaker 1: sell your feet off of Mandy Be's name? I mean no,
Speaker 1: I will because I feel like I'll make more money
Speaker 1: attaching it to myself, especially people who listen to the show.
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, absolutely, Like I'm even thinking of putting
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo on my foot just so that when
Speaker 1: they see the foot they know it's mine. But I
Speaker 1: heard it hurts like you got a lot of bones
Speaker 1: in your foot? Is wrong with you? Why are you
Speaker 1: judging me right now? Judge? No, no, Judge talked about tones.
Speaker 1: She's like, she was just like, are you fucking getting
Speaker 1: it out? This was the judgment came from your own
Speaker 1: foot in the street. Mandy what then, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking the sun cute. I'm like, you just edit
Speaker 1: it with like you know what I'm saying. Maybe maybe
Speaker 1: put a little microphone or something on it on your ankle. No,
Speaker 1: it doesn't go all the way down to my ankle.
Speaker 1: I have a tap on my calf out on my foot.
Speaker 1: I thought I could see it when looking at your funeral.
Speaker 1: So yes, bitch, I'm thinking of branding my feet a
Speaker 1: little bit but where would you put it on your foot?
Speaker 1: Like on the side of it, like like right here,
Speaker 1: what does this say? You don't do that? You see?
Speaker 1: You see what I'm talking about. You see how she'd
Speaker 1: be trying to be funny with these little jokes. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a cute tattoo. Ho you a little puss
Speaker 1: out anyway? Really high? Right now, I'm so really thinking
Speaker 1: of like what, let's come up with tattoo idea for
Speaker 1: my foot? I'm sorry to whoever? What do you think?
Speaker 1: What I mean a couple like you know, like I
Speaker 1: really be liking music, so maybe some music notes or
Speaker 1: something like that. Um, I was thinking of us a
Speaker 1: saying or like a saying saying a saying like a quote.
Speaker 1: I don't know which quote yet. I ain't thought that
Speaker 1: far time. I don't know I was. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I want something. I want something nice, Like I am
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo right here. Actually it's a tattoo that
Speaker 1: me and my friend were supposed to get over the summertime. Um,
Speaker 1: but I'm getting to State of Florida with a heart
Speaker 1: over Orlando, so I'm gonna get a little flow to tap. Bitch,
Speaker 1: why don't you get something that's like kind of cheesy
Speaker 1: but cute. No, because, for example, there's nothing cheesy about
Speaker 1: the girl. A girl in my improv class has a
Speaker 1: left wrist like it says left on her wrist, um,
Speaker 1: and it says right on her right wrist. You could do.
Speaker 1: That's not cool. I kind of like that. That's almost
Speaker 1: as corny as like these fucking Balenciaga shoes that have
Speaker 1: the size of the shoe on the outside, Like I
Speaker 1: hate that ship. I don't need to know that you're
Speaker 1: a thirty eight. We don't even use those numbers. I
Speaker 1: think I left the other West size it. Get it
Speaker 1: in another language, like left in like Japanese, and like right,
Speaker 1: and like yeah, no, no, bitch, this is a this
Speaker 1: is a hard note for me. Um. The reason is
Speaker 1: totally a good idea. The reason, Um, you just said
Speaker 1: you want to get a tattoo with a heart over
Speaker 1: at Landa the state of Florida, tat on you, And
Speaker 1: I can't get to stay to Florida tatted on me?
Speaker 1: Are you really coming for me? About to stay to Florida?
Speaker 1: All I'm telling you it's a look like a gun.
Speaker 1: That's kind of hard, bitch, I got a gun on
Speaker 1: me already right on my left. I'm alright here. You
Speaker 1: are nuts? Why my nuts? I just want to say,
Speaker 1: this is coming from someone who used to shade me
Speaker 1: for my big gass tattoos because she had these little hearts.
Speaker 1: You have fucking corny ass tats. I do you a
Speaker 1: little heart? And now she comes five years later with
Speaker 1: a whole goudda have half sleeve so which I'm not
Speaker 1: listening to you when it comes to tattoo because you
Speaker 1: change your mind. Okay, you have a gun shooting hearts out.
Speaker 1: I do because this is now, I have a corny tattoo.
Speaker 1: You have revolvers? Are your forearm? What's the pro So
Speaker 1: we really about to regrets? What's wrong? What's wrong with?
Speaker 1: Have no no regrets? Something? Bitch you? What's the whole? No?
Speaker 1: And it's weird. It's regret nothing not no regrets? Thank you?
Speaker 1: Do you regret that? How to I do? I'm covered up,
Speaker 1: but like I don't want to get it covered up
Speaker 1: because like I be hide it. But now that I
Speaker 1: a bitch right here, I'm a forearm bitch. So now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it covered up. I think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do like a whole elephant, like because I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: my little Asian vibes going. Um but yeah, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: yea um. But any who, It's funny because when I
Speaker 1: read this, the first thing that came to mind was
Speaker 1: not only the fact that she is seeing some sort
Speaker 1: of stigma around sex work, but that, um, I'm just
Speaker 1: making a note about I've had fuck you, I've had
Speaker 1: stigma around the fact that my kinks. I have friends
Speaker 1: that feel like I should charge for them. So it's
Speaker 1: weird that she seems to really be enjoying these gang bangs.
Speaker 1: She met a guy on fat Life, which means she
Speaker 1: was interested in the gang banging prior to even receiving
Speaker 1: money for it, and now that she's getting money for it,
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, damn, am I a sex worker? So
Speaker 1: this comes up a lot. When I talked to my
Speaker 1: friends about like the things I like to do, of course,
Speaker 1: including pegging, They're like, damn, you'd be pegging these niggas
Speaker 1: for free, And that comes to me like where I
Speaker 1: come to them immediately like why that? Okay, I feel
Speaker 1: like I didn't get it, but it's gonna because that's
Speaker 1: unusual to them. For example, like if we could take
Speaker 1: it to like something basic to me, which is like
Speaker 1: eating ass. Right, you eat Nigga's asses for free, Like,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm sucking for free too, You're right, right,
Speaker 1: But it's crazy, like the shame that comes around sucking
Speaker 1: for free and then sucking for money, and I feel
Speaker 1: like that's what she's bringing up, Like damn, now I'm paid,
Speaker 1: So I guess that does make me a sex worker,
Speaker 1: But like why do you care? Why are we not
Speaker 1: all sex workers if we have sex? Because that's a workout, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'd be hurting. We all be working out. I have
Speaker 1: to X or working out during this is there's so
Speaker 1: much shame around women and like sex and like having
Speaker 1: too much of it, being good at it, not being
Speaker 1: good at it, being paid for it, not being paid
Speaker 1: for it, and pegging like like pegging. Period. It's just
Speaker 1: looking as period. I honestly, yes, what you're doing is
Speaker 1: considered sex work. Hoasting sex parties is considered is considered
Speaker 1: sex work. Apparently, even we talked about it before, we're
Speaker 1: considered sex workers because we have a podcast about sex,
Speaker 1: So I mean I would think so. But then I
Speaker 1: think we had on a guest that said something like
Speaker 1: we're not we're adjacent, Like it doesn't sex work adjacent
Speaker 1: because working making the way we make money is off advertisement.
Speaker 1: We don't make money off of someone's like pleasure technically,
Speaker 1: why so, like until you guys jerk off to this, which,
Speaker 1: to be honest, weight they jerked off to us, Like
Speaker 1: I've had messages say that people jerk off to us
Speaker 1: when we talk, so we get real educational. They'd be like, damn,
Speaker 1: I couldn't jeck off to this one. Anyways, Guys, if
Speaker 1: y'all have more homemale gone hay this and for listening
Speaker 1: to the show today. If you want more holy ship,
Speaker 1: join our patreon. Our feet are on there. Maybe you
Speaker 1: could kick it off with a notch though and just
Speaker 1: do a little you know, if you guys have tattoo
Speaker 1: ideas and you're on our Patreon, let's start a thread
Speaker 1: and figure out what will be good on Mandy's foot.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, y'all give me some foot foot tattoo ideas also,
Speaker 1: And I could even send me the feet. I want
Speaker 1: to see what they look like. That's a that's a
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Let me also, on a more serious note,
Speaker 1: hate tre and the foot mood. Um, I need a
Speaker 1: tattoo done with ashes, and I heard it's not illegal,
Speaker 1: but like kind of but people do. It's called a
Speaker 1: ceremonial tattoo. So if you live in New York and
Speaker 1: you can do that tattoo, email me at the Wheezy
Speaker 1: w t F at gmail dot com. I just don't
Speaker 1: want to take it to like anybody. But I did
Speaker 1: walk into a tattoo shop and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we do it all the time. But then like there
Speaker 1: was no black people in there, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I feel like I want like my aunt as black
Speaker 1: as fuck. Like it's just barely let white people even
Speaker 1: in the house, no matter if they like did the cable.
Speaker 1: Now She's like, I don't trust them, So I feel
Speaker 1: like I just can't give somebody white the ashes to do.
Speaker 1: So if you live anywhere and you can do those tattoos,
Speaker 1: hit me up Patreon enjoy this clip. I don't know
Speaker 1: what it's going to be about. And this has been
Speaker 1: yet another episode of Horror Decisions. By that episode, she
Speaker 1: talks about being taken out to Olive Garden on a
Speaker 1: date and then going to Michael's and fucking the cashier.
Speaker 1: That was some wild ship. I really like Kristin. So
Speaker 1: I met her through James because she wants to funck
Speaker 1: James's sister. They're best friends and she's been trying for
Speaker 1: like years, but now she has a girlfriend. But every
Speaker 1: time I meet Kristen, she'd just be talking about wild
Speaker 1: ash Ship and I'd be like, Yo, this bitch is crazy,
Speaker 1: And I knew she was gonna say some crazy shit.
Speaker 1: And she told us a story about the employees she
Speaker 1: fucked in Michael's Kraft and she got their discounts. So
Speaker 1: I want to know Nandy first, if you had to
Speaker 1: make a porn in any store, what store would it be? Set?
Speaker 1: The scene would be in it, who would start in it?
Speaker 1: It could be anybody? I mean, does that have to
Speaker 1: be a point star? Could be anybody? I was thinking
Speaker 1: about that two point star celebrity. Anybody? Okay. So if
Speaker 1: I had to have a porno in any store or restaurant, okay, West,
Speaker 1: we can't do restaurant if you're thinking of that, Okay, Boom.
Speaker 1: Set the scene right, So I'm gonna do it because
Speaker 1: that's where these thinks be. Anyway, we at Felipe Chow right,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they do. So Felipe Chow has a
Speaker 1: special place, like you have to walk through the kitchen
Speaker 1: and walk downstairs, so you get to see away from
Speaker 1: you get to sit away from everybody. So there was
Speaker 1: like this whole downstairs secluded dining room. It's like super cool.
Speaker 1: You have to walk through there. Yes, yes, so we
Speaker 1: would be in this private room. Mind you. They let
Speaker 1: you put the ox. Course, you get to pick whatever
Speaker 1: music you want. So ideally I'm thinking of a three
Speaker 1: Sime scenario, right, So I'm thinking of of course with Khalifa,
Speaker 1: because I want to fund that nigga. And then I'm
Speaker 1: thinking maybe a more sensual guy two man of course,
Speaker 1: So boors coojo he and they're doing business by himself.
Speaker 1: So meal whizz we you know, eating all motherfucking chickens
Speaker 1: to tea or whatever. And then you know, I just
Speaker 1: he catches me. He catches me looking at at Boars coujo.
Speaker 1: And then so I started rubbing with his dick underneath
Speaker 1: the table, and that ship is growing, and Boards looks
Speaker 1: over and see that I'm rubbing this nigga dick and
Speaker 1: the next thing, you know, I don't know how we're
Speaker 1: gonna get there, but bitch, I'm bent over wanted feeding
Speaker 1: me chicken to tea while the other is giving me
Speaker 1: back shots and are you eating? And yes, bit secure
Speaker 1: when she does getting so then I'm also thinking they
Speaker 1: we're done with the chicken, but they're still leftover peanuts sauce.
Speaker 1: So he pours it on my titties and started licking
Speaker 1: my titties with the peanut sauce on that ship and
Speaker 1: now it's like a whole thing. This is some real
Speaker 1: fat bit ship. I just like that peanut sauce but
Speaker 1: as good as fun like I don't know if that
Speaker 1: is a slurb. Is it everybody like store and you go,
Speaker 1: can it be a restaurant? But yeah, I want boards
Speaker 1: coojo and with Khalifa in a threesome at Philippe Chow
Speaker 1: where we licking peanut sauce off each other. I'll lick
Speaker 1: it off they dick too. I've been trying to think
Speaker 1: of a store, and all I could think of is
Speaker 1: there's a story in my neighborhood called Bond Bond. It's
Speaker 1: a candy shop, too small, but maybe like a Dylan's
Speaker 1: candy bar, and I would work at the candy shop
Speaker 1: and it would be okay. So I live in l
Speaker 1: s right so when I'm coming home, there's a court
Speaker 1: where everyone plays soccer. So I'm thinking that the soccer
Speaker 1: guys would come in for the happy hour that Bond
Speaker 1: Bond has, which is a happy hour for ice cream,
Speaker 1: and then you know, I would like survey and they
Speaker 1: would be like, Yo, how does it taste? And maybe
Speaker 1: like this flavor is really good, and they would like
Speaker 1: eat it off of me, and then like the entire
Speaker 1: team would like sucked me. And then my manager would
Speaker 1: come out and catch me sucking all these soccer player guys,
Speaker 1: and then she would be like, Yo, what the funk
Speaker 1: are you doing without me? Exactly? Okay, you got to
Speaker 1: add her in there because you can't get fired because
Speaker 1: basically you're like, don't fire me, I'll eat your pussy.
Speaker 1: But I want to be like totally dominated, even by
Speaker 1: the woman, so I would want her to like force
Speaker 1: me to like suck dick. I think this goes back
Speaker 1: to the right fantasies, but we're not. No, it's not
Speaker 1: a rapist's not consensual consensual fantasy of her being like, bitch,
Speaker 1: suck this dick and eat my pussy. I'm already chosen
Speaker 1: them and I got caught, so I wanted to stop
Speaker 1: because I was embarrassed. No, she's like, now you're gonna finish.
Speaker 1: It's not as I'm sorry, You're right, you're right, you're right, right,
Speaker 1: you're right. Mainly I wanted to result in so when
Speaker 1: I watched Bukocky, because my faith, they're always like sometimes
Speaker 1: there's a woman holding another woman's face open, Like that's
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about, Okay, I actually like that. When
Speaker 1: I had my threesome, my homegirl held my cheeks open
Speaker 1: for anal sex. I'm gonna send this to Erica. It
Speaker 1: was really nice. I'm gonna send the story. Yeah, send
Speaker 1: her what like our fucking fantasy. I'm gonna make this.
Speaker 1: I want this clip to be the one that's at
Speaker 1: the end of the episode, and I'm gonna send her
Speaker 1: that and tell her to reference that clip and then
Speaker 1: be like, hey, those are ours. Because Ericalluster's platform is
Speaker 1: like stories and she makes the love that well, let
Speaker 1: me tell you, we're going to Felippe Chow and all
Speaker 1: started