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Speaker 1: Welcome. It is horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b

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Speaker 1: a k A that bitch a k A pet Stallion,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sitting across from my co host with her

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Speaker 1: and Haller. What's your name? Charge up? And y'all heard

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Speaker 1: a third voice in the building and many of you

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Speaker 1: may have already guessed, well not only by the title,

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Speaker 1: because your name and the title, but we have another

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Speaker 1: part of our family in the building today. Are very

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Speaker 1: good friend dasty. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm happy to be here.

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Speaker 1: I'm a whore. I want to see at the table, baby, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to be here. I ain't gonna hold People

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Speaker 1: were like, well, doesn't want to talking about like what's

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Speaker 1: the nastiest ship you ever done? Um to who you?

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Speaker 1: What have I ever done to somebody? Like the nastiest

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Speaker 1: thing last name? Like I did like the nastiest the

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Speaker 1: one where you were like I need a shower. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I had done if I did it

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Speaker 1: to somebody else, if they did it to me your

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Speaker 1: sexual experience, yeah, because one time, like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: you know, gay niggas sink, so you know I'm gay

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Speaker 1: on the weekends and ship you know. Yeah, so like

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Speaker 1: niggas think like, you know, well, some gay niggas I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be used. Some gay niggas thinking sexy, like you know,

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Speaker 1: for you to be sweaty and athletic and ship. And

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Speaker 1: one time I met this guy at the gym who

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Speaker 1: and like, no shower before. That's interesting because I think

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Speaker 1: women it's the Yeah, like most gay male friends that

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Speaker 1: I have discussed all types of ship with, like the

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Speaker 1: like virgins, you know what I'm saying. That's the people

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Speaker 1: who you know what I'm saying, like they're going there

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Speaker 1: to be sneaking as que quote and that's a big thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the way your sexual orientation. By the way, when I

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Speaker 1: first met a sante like years ago, I had always

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Speaker 1: thought you were by Yeah, he made me, gave me

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Speaker 1: years ago. He was like, I thought you was fine.

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Speaker 1: That he didn't say that be a compliment. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know how much you did, though, why like you

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Speaker 1: knew that means you just thought he up here. I

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Speaker 1: would never ever, ever say someone's appearance would be a compliment.

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Speaker 1: I don't like you're passing. I don't like you look

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Speaker 1: you know, like you're not gay. I hate saying ship

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Speaker 1: like that. The reason I thought you were by was

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Speaker 1: it and m fantasy and was like, do it, that's

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Speaker 1: me And I was like, oh well, if he'll do it,

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Speaker 1: And it's because sci is not ship, but what's crazy

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Speaker 1: is and I ain't even gonna hold you. So I

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Speaker 1: was with I was with y'all, Darren. I was with

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Speaker 1: Dustin and the scient side weekend. First off, dustint know

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Speaker 1: the finest niggas in all of the land, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: first off, dust't has them vibes. And Carl even said

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Speaker 1: it just straight fu nigga vibes like he walked around like,

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Speaker 1: like everybody though, can't you imagine, like I need that

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Speaker 1: beat Dot. You do like the perfect gay, Like you're

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Speaker 1: because you're like got the podcast, so you're popular in

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Speaker 1: that way. Like, who can't you fuck um Republicans? That's

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Speaker 1: even want that spirit jumping off on me. I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I say it's the studio just in case there was

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Speaker 1: thing that I have learned is like, hey, you need

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Speaker 1: make sure you show your ass out, like look at

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Speaker 1: everything around us. That's amazing, right, architecture, clothing, style, fashion

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Speaker 1: TV shows. Bitch, do you think that you could just

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Speaker 1: that's what I knew. Beard Bay was a fucking ho

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Speaker 1: him man and funk all them niggas that was talking

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Speaker 1: over something that you can't control. Yeah, I just said

426
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 1: that about my friend. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

427
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 1: If his mom would just own him, that's the real ship.

428
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 1: And I thank God for like my brother, my sister.

429
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 1: Really my brother and my sister. I thank God for

430
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: them because from just our siblings are bond as siblings

431
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,199
Speaker 1: like nothing matters, and it's never mattered. My sister been

432
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 1: to the gay club with me, my brother. You know, Meg,

433
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: people have dated kicked it. We talked every day all day.

434
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying is a real relationship. So

435
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: I don't that's why you can miss me with that bullshit,

436
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I'm not I'm not

437
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: having not having to having experience like watching your mom.

438
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: One of my best friends came on our Patreon episode

439
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 1: has told his coming out story shout out to Christopher

440
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 1: where his parents like prayed over him and ship. Yeah.

441
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 1: Of course. It's like when you're turning your twenties and

442
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: you live living this life and you know who you are.

443
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: It's hard and to experience you're literally it's hard. You're

444
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 1: praying over me, Gonna stop my dick from getting hard?

445
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: If I see a fine nigger? This is ridiculous. I

446
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: at a certain point, you know what I'm saying, What

447
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: are we doing here? This is? This is I'm like,

448
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: what are we doing? Way? You want to? We can

449
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: go to camp and get that ship. Yeah, no, that's

450
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 1: a bull remember the movie. But I'm a cheerleader. Yeah,

451
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: we talked about that before. Yeah, anyway, let's talk about

452
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 1: we get into Nancy because I actually want to know

453
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: this because I have mine in my head already. So

454
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 1: the kick of the week for this week is torontophilia.

455
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: What that's a spider? I say so. Torotophilia is a

456
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,880
Speaker 1: sexual fetish that involves being attracted to people with physical deformities.

457
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: There are many subsets of torontophilia, specifically to different types

458
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: of human deformities. For instance, acrotomophilia involves sexual attraction to amputees.

459
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: As stigmatophilia refers to deriving sexual pleasure from people whose

460
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: bodies are marked or scarred in in some way, like

461
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 1: little Wayne. So I was gonna say, fella, you got

462
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: a scar on his face and it's kind of cute.

463
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: Uh oh yeah, right here do men just like rub

464
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 1: on your scar from time man, Grandmama's motherfucking aunties nieces everybody.

465
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: Hell really, and I'll make up a new lie every

466
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 1: time when I think of a story that I got

467
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: a really bad car accident and that's not sexy, Like

468
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: when my nigga was like yo, like these niggas came

469
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: up behind me and jail. Not everyone has a scar

470
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: from a car accident. It's really light now, but I

471
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: feel like you don't want me to touch you, like

472
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 1: then don't touch Oh, I've been skipping around it when

473
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: I touch your face. When I thought of physical deformities,

474
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: I thought of maybe things that look like abnormal, like

475
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: the American horror story freak Show. No not, no, I

476
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't know. I went a little bit more vanilla than that.

477
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: Like I really like ears that are like really big

478
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 1: in this stick like I like I like ears that

479
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: look like, oh, your ears are like they grab attention.

480
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 1: I liked here, maybe like dumb bolt type ears, like

481
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: I really like ears or ones that are either really

482
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 1: small or really big or I do okay, you know

483
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: what I like, you know what I like so weird

484
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: how you got to it? So you know how something

485
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: like something I don't. We'll fun, you know how like

486
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: some Dominican they just have like the real big nail bid.

487
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? You like, do you

488
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about? Okay, you know what I'm

489
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: talking about. Do you know what I'm talking about? They know?

490
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: The people know what I'm talking about. What I met

491
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: somebody I met somebody specific that had no this is

492
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 1: a thing on God. Watch watch the emails you get.

493
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: Watch the emails you get, and they's some people have

494
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: an exaggerated nail bid like hands, so you know, okay,

495
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: so okay, and then the other one. And I brought

496
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: this up on the podcast before. I really like protruding

497
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: Adam's apples. Oh yeah, but that ship is that that's

498
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: a physical deforming. You're not all men. It's something. It's

499
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 1: really big. I don't be licking. I just like to

500
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 1: never have you tap it. Yeah, like I just like

501
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: to like my hand. Well I kind of like the

502
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: finger it, but I'm not. I just like to go over.

503
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: I hate you so much. Do you like any physical

504
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: deformities of people? I'm trying to think. But the only

505
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: thing I know that's kind of weird. They're like his ankles.

506
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: I like ankles too, but that's not a deformity. You

507
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: just like ankles. Actually, when XT was when I was

508
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: like when niggas wear them joggers, and I could see

509
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: their ankles like a deformity. Bro, though it's just weird

510
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: and big nails ankles, that's a deformity. I'm informity, bro.

511
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 1: But I'll take a ank You said you'll take an ankle,

512
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 1: want a cank? I don't want to cank because I

513
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: like to see the little what's this part called ankle?

514
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: You like to see the ankle? The that's the ankle. Okay,

515
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 1: there's an ankle, bolly okay. The more you know, right,

516
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: we need learning some real elementary as this show looks

517
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 1: like a science anatomy, which it doesn't matter. Shut up,

518
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: my god. So you don't like any deformities, we're gonna

519
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 1: get into our horrible s. I met a deaf nigga

520
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: on the train that was so this ain't a deformance.

521
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: That's a real thing as well, but I forgot the

522
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: name of it. But there's a there's a thing to

523
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: that I was literally First of all, I was on

524
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: a New Jersey transit, which let's start there. But but

525
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: when I was and he was deaf, but he was

526
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: so cute and we just had a connection. You like, no,

527
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: I just kept it moving, You didn't. How do you

528
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 1: know he was that hand motion him. He wasn't he

529
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: wasn't talking that he was signing you know what I'm saying, yeah, yeah,

530
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: but to you, I mean yeah, I knew how to

531
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,239
Speaker 1: weigh yeah. And then plus I knew how you know,

532
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: like like my my facial expressions and ship. You know,

533
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: I knew how to communicate to the nigga without talking

534
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 1: to would nigga? Yes you would, well, I bet you,

535
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: he relied. I would really actually prefer to fuck you

536
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: got to go with his hands. Remember when some more

537
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 1: said if Stevie Wonder was her man, he would have

538
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: one outfit and all the clothes in the clothes that

539
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: would be her. She'd be like, look at all this

540
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: all this ship is yours. You'd be so shocked. This

541
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: ship is Remember that what we really be saying. Okay,

542
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: why like the rest thing, Ray Charles, that ship was hard.

543
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: Remember he was touching her wrist. Is ship to know

544
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: if they was pretty. And then on top of that,

545
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: I feel like the senses are heighting more with like

546
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 1: a blind man than the death that you think he

547
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: would come hard to see. You think they come harder.

548
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: You say, real nasty ship to a blind nigga. Yeah,

549
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: you gotta because he got to be able to imagine it, right. Yeah,

550
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: So what do you say? How do you say? You

551
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? I mean, he's still donna like

552
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: you sucking his dig where he can see you or not.

553
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, he can feel that you talk.

554
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: What are you saying? If you fucking a blind man?

555
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: What are the things you're gonna go out of your

556
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: way to say? What? Area so big? We should see

557
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: the way my mother fucking ass shake. When you're saying,

558
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: not slap it, you feel a vibration? Bang, you should

559
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: see a shade? Oh god damn. So I think that's

560
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: gonna make it feel bad when you say you should

561
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: see it you can okay, well okay, so how would

562
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: you It would be more about like my clothes, like

563
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what the dress looks like.

564
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: Oh you mean the material like it's smooth? Would touch

565
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: me right here it's black. It's black, but everything is black.

566
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,239
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You just gotta fun, which I

567
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, okay, you shouldn't talk. You got a

568
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: little birthmark on this dick right here. What you do

569
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: and I'm liking it? Okay, that's cute, that's okay. So

570
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: what was so different? You know? That's what you got

571
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: to say? You were so different? I would never do

572
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: my hair if I had a black again, he can feel.

573
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: He'd be like, bitch, you ain't been a nough. I

574
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: know I can count. You didn't put the money. I

575
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: could also smell how long you have to break? Feel? So?

576
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: And you know they said to this heightened bit, so

577
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: you definitely can't. I'm saying, hey, I'm a sucking date,

578
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: so I abody to get the front box praise read tonight.

579
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking of what, like, yo, if I had

580
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 1: a blind niket, this would be so easy. So what

581
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: would you different? What would you do different with the

582
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: nigga was deaf? Because then you really ain't got a mown.

583
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: Yes you do, because they can feel that vibration. That's

584
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: why they go to concerts and dance all that. You

585
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: gotta bann extra low. No, you just gotta smack into it.

586
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: You gotta really give, like a good one, like okay,

587
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: now I really think about it, right when you moan

588
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,479
Speaker 1: your mouthing like but like you probably have to let

589
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: like so the whole time, does he have to hold

590
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: my throat so he could feel it? To me? It

591
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: would be so much more beautiful because I could just

592
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: touch you and that's how I could let you know,

593
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it just would be high. But

594
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: like how deaf do you mean like you can't hear

595
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: a bit? Not like motherfucking I literally was about to say,

596
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: like no, like everything is just off like okay, like

597
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: sounded off, it's on completely mute. Okay, I'm with it.

598
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: You gotta do more faces in because see my orgasm

599
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: face is really ugly. So I just like to get

600
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: a nigger right here so I could just moan in

601
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: their ear and then that's not gonna so I just

602
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: gotta find a fact right here, gonna be like okay,

603
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: like you had the one sense I do got you

604
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: take it over here, Yeah, yeah, yeah, we we got

605
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I was because we got it. We

606
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: got it. We're gonna get get through this horrible decision,

607
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: and I like this. So for this week, we are

608
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: going to define dating terms. And I think that we

609
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: all have a different sense of what dating means, how

610
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: we define the head. But I know it's stressful and

611
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: we need to get through this because I think everyone

612
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: I listened to the show I want to learn. So

613
00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna start with something easy. Talking what doesn't mean

614
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: to talk to someone? Sit here and tell somebody, Yeah,

615
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: me and her talking what doesn't mean? Because I have

616
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: an idea of what it means. Talking means that number,

617
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: but it never went anywhere. No, that means we had

618
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: each other number. No, it don't. Talking means. All talking

619
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: means is that you and another person have established that

620
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: y'all are both attracted to and interested in each other,

621
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: and you're in communication. That's what you mean to be

622
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: talking to somebody. Y'all both know, y'all like each other.

623
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: So here's my thing. Let's let's put us let as

624
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: you can fun and then start talking. We're talking no words.

625
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: So here's here's where I find this dilemma. And maybe

626
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: it's a Florida thing because talking to me yes means

627
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: because here is the scenario, you me, you and your

628
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: friend are chilling with each other or whatever, and you

629
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: go to show them a picture of the person that

630
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: you're currently talking to and your friend says, oh, we

631
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: used to talk. That means that if you hear that

632
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: from even one of your home girls, that's on someone

633
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: A girl say oh yeah, man, he used to talk.

634
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: That to me still gives me the inkland that at

635
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: some point or another, y'all may have had sat absolutely

636
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: as when I've heard it that way. But when I

637
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: say I'm talking to someone, but when you hear someone

638
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: else say that was me, yes, So when I'm fucking

639
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: someone and I don't have a definition behind it and

640
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: maybe not be dating to be like, oh, yeah, we

641
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: used to chill. We used to chill. Yeah, chill definitely

642
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: means I used to fuck. Yeah, it was a sex thing.

643
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: But is that not a damn shame? When I put

644
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: that scenario, y'all all went from oh, yeah, talking could

645
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: mean I want to be clear, it doesn't mean that talking.

646
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: Don't mean that y'all are fucking. That means that you're

647
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: in a situation where for you to have fun. What

648
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: is chilling me? Chilling Chilling means you Because Netflix and

649
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: chill is the whole thing. Now we know fucking is

650
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: included with Netflix and part of the nine that I'm

651
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: now the as moved it up the twelve and I'm

652
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: still are gonna pay it. No, I'm starting to kick

653
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: people off. I'm like, y'all pay your own twelve, nine

654
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: and nine. I'm kicking everybody off, especially because they don't

655
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: got no part where, like if they start watching the

656
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: same show I watched. These motherfuckers don't even make their

657
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: own profile. So now you're talking up where I was

658
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: when I was watching this, like I was on episode two,

659
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: not seven, Like now I gotta go back. It's it

660
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: sucks me up. So I like this to lead into

661
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: the next. Okay, dating, what is a date to you?

662
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: And what makes it a date? We talked about this recently,

663
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: plan where you didn't know if it was a date

664
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: or not with the person you were going out with.

665
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: So what makes something a date when you could say, oh,

666
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: we're going on a date, or what makes it too

667
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: when you are dating somebody? What does the word date mean?

668
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: So I didn't know it was a date because there

669
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: was no like I would like to take you to

670
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Didn't I feel like that kind of plan.

671
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: He was like, Yo, you midtown, I work midtown. Let's

672
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: let's say let's eat at twelve. Like okay, So that

673
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: was too casual to me. A date to me is

674
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: when someone makes a plan with me, not same day.

675
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: That's a seraily. When they say they use words like

676
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: I want to take you out, I want to take

677
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: you to blah blah blah. You agree with that? I mean,

678
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 1: I guess you don't even to box me in no corner.

679
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: Speaking for the Nigga delegation, you know what I'm saying.

680
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: First of all, the date is the most literal sense

681
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: of that word. We're spending some time together exclusively doing

682
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: an activity. That's a date. It's funny that she said

683
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: exclusively because I literally when I don't want a guy

684
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: to think it's a date, that's when I'll invite a friend. Yes,

685
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: because if a guy invites you out and he wants

686
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: it to be on some exclusive solo the easiest way

687
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: to make it not a date is to invite a friend,

688
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: or to make it even if she's the third will like,

689
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: because you can't go on a double date. That's different.

690
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: As soon as I invite a home girl, it's no

691
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: longer a date. So that's a day I want to

692
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: take you to catch and be like, okay, I'm bringing Susie.

693
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: If it's a nigga that I don't want interested in

694
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: me or feel like, I'll be like, oh, well, I'm

695
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: with my homegirl. Do you mind if she joins? Like

696
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: as soon as I don't want you to think we're

697
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: on an intimate setting. That's why all of my business stuff,

698
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: I bring friends along, or I'll have friends pull up,

699
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: or I ask them if they have anyone else they

700
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: can bring your business stuff. No, like things where I

701
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: feel like people might not really have been misunderstood misunderstanding.

702
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: So even if we're linking on that sense, like I

703
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: want to know the other people involved, are you bring

704
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: other people because I don't want anyone to ever think,

705
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: you know, what makes sense a business meaning bring like

706
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: oh I bring I bring paper laps and like a

707
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: notebook and let them know like I'm ready to talk. Yeah. Yeah,

708
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: So to me, that's like my my way of making

709
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 1: a nigg and not confused what we're doing. If you're dating,

710
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: that means that we ain't working with nobody else. We're

711
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 1: dating each other like we are dating. That doesn't mean

712
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: that for me A thousand people, well I can't. I

713
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: mean I'm there. We all with like okay, right old

714
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,479
Speaker 1: Bay season and like are's probably sucking other people other people,

715
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: But I'm definitely dating him right now, Like we're have

716
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: a date with him tonight, like we make plans to

717
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: see each other. We're in because in time, I'm dating

718
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: Muslim Bay but we didn't even have sex yet that

719
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm dating now. There's a difference to

720
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 1: me and saying I'm dating this person and saying we

721
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: date to me like like to me, like, if I'm

722
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: dating you, that means that, like we're kicking it, Like

723
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: it's me and you and we're dating and we're about

724
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship now. But if if we date,

725
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: that means you know, like you live in l A.

726
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: I live in New York. When we be together, we

727
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,240
Speaker 1: be together when we now we now we still flirt

728
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 1: over from something we date. You know, here's the next

729
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: here's the next dating term. Curve. What does it mean

730
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: to curve someone? And it's curving and ghosting the same thing? No, okay,

731
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: so what does curve mean? You actually responded in a

732
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: way that was less than favorable. Ghosting means you don't

733
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: even respond, you just I agree with that. Ghosting to

734
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 1: me is actually when something has happened and like whether

735
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: it be a date, whether it be sex or whatever,

736
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: and you've completely like went away, because I don't think

737
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: you can go someone that you were just talking to,

738
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: like I think you like it really has to be

739
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,760
Speaker 1: weld in some sort of way and we no longer

740
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: involved ghost you my friend. Y'all know who it is,

741
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: but I don't want to say her name. He told

742
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 1: me he fucked someone else raw that's why he ghosted.

743
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: That's what she just said. That's that's the thing. I

744
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if now there was a

745
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: dude that I knew. They hadn't hit her up for

746
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: a few days, and she was like, what then just goes?

747
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: So I wanted to know what what time is ghosting?

748
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: And so what happened next? What did she say? No,

749
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: so you you knew him, and she had to out

750
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: I was doing. So they were talking. So they were talking,

751
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: she met this dude, they started sucking right Basically, she

752
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: told him that she kissed him to do in the

753
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: club and she wanted to be open with him about it. Now.

754
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: What happened was after she told him that he ghosted,

755
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 1: she did and hear from him. He wasn't texting her

756
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: every day. He just totally disappeared on her after they

757
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: were making plans to see each other, texting and talking

758
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: all the time. Right, she told him she kiss another

759
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: nigga she expect and was about not everyone is okay

760
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: with the truth. You mean you think you can call

761
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: me and tell me, Oh, I kiss another niggat, But

762
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: I just want to be open with you. But okay,

763
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: thanks for telling me so now I can't be like

764
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: some people aren't okay with that. But something, which is why,

765
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,919
Speaker 1: why the hell did she feel obligated to tell him? Yeah,

766
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: she said they did them molly together. It might have

767
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: came out. Maybe she needs to learn how to tighten

768
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: her ship up and be honest. Or maybe he goes

769
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 1: because she don't like he don't like girls that do

770
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 1: drugs like he did it with her. Oh he did

771
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: it with her. Still he still might not like girls

772
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: like literally, you know how many niggas like I'm either

773
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: like hooked up with girls as I say I do,

774
00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: and I'll be like Dann don't to her no more,

775
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: and that's like one of the main things they go

776
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: to Liken. Man, she got on some ship and started

777
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: acting crazy. I don't do that drug ship like niggas,

778
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: especially niggas who were just weed smokers. Well, I wouldn't

779
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: do drugs that do drugs that judge this phone call

780
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 1: I had literally two weeks ago. White girl used to

781
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: work with. She calls me. We're talking catching up thirty

782
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: minutes in and she's like telling me about the story.

783
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, we at the cloud like doing blow

784
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: all night and blah blah blah. So then she's like,

785
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: he's like so much fun, but like he does so

786
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: much coqueasy. And I was like, did they did it

787
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: with them? She was like yeah, but like I can

788
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: stop a white woman, go ahead if you take them.

789
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: Did she just asked to speak to the manager and

790
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: this is the same ship. Is like, I'm not that

791
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: much of a hope because I've only done this all

792
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: the time. Hierarchy of drugism Um. The next one, which actually,

793
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: of course I co care. The next one I think

794
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: actually came from Facebook. I would say, what does it's

795
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: complicated me from Facebook to the real world. What does

796
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: this word mean in terms of relationships. You don't use it.

797
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: It's complicated aint. Nobody trying to identify the gray area.

798
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: That's why it's called the gray area. But you just

799
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: want to know you've got something going on equal to

800
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: the situation ship. It to me, I don't know what

801
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: it's complicated as a situation ship. I've met married people

802
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: that have told me it's complicated that you could be separated.

803
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: It just means you're could be single and then it's

804
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: complicated your right or it could be towards the end,

805
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: it could be it might not be working. You never know.

806
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: It could just be complicated what I'm saying. I think

807
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: that's interesting. I think that so many people use it.

808
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: Though I do believe it's complicated means that you don't

809
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: have a definition for what you're currently in. But you

810
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: just said married people being a it's complicated. They're still married,

811
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: but maybe they're separated divorce, you may not be living together. Um.

812
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: I have used the term it's complicated in two times

813
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: that I can remember. When I knew I was kind

814
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: of about to break up with someone, like it was

815
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:05,280
Speaker 1: right towards the end. We are now complicated. No, no, no,

816
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: it's complicated. Okay, okay, that's complicated and then complicated. I

817
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: also have described when like I've had a situation ship

818
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: that maybe we weren't sucking other people, but we had

819
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: to tell each other about something dumb. Ship see like

820
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: to me because even even though I have someone that

821
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: I fun on the regular, I wouldn't consider that it's complicated.

822
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: But I also still do feel kind of the need

823
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: to let them know that he's there, which is like

824
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: sexual life, that's semantic dating life. These are dating terms

825
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: you're trying to figure out. That's why you wouldn't use

826
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: it's complicated. You wouldn't use a sexual partner to define

827
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 1: a relationship. But I feel like a lot of people

828
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: do like bring up like their sex, Like if they

829
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: have someone that they're sucking, the sex that you'll be

830
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: talking about you have, Ain't that Why are they asking

831
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: in the first place? They want to know if someone

832
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: else Yeah, and to me, I don't think he's in

833
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: the picture. So when they know if you fucking somebody else,

834
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: that's why. But that's where the question comes in dating.

835
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: They want to know are you. They don't give a

836
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: funk if you're going to eat motherfucker apple beets two

837
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: taking you to catch they want to know. They don't

838
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: want to catch nothing. That's all they want to know.

839
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: Are you Is there somebody you fucking? When? When when

840
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 1: someone asked, are you talking as someone else in the picture?

841
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: To me, it's not are you texting someone else? No,

842
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: it's do you have someone you're sucking right now? When

843
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: I say are you seeing somebody else? I mean, like

844
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 1: are you saying? I think we need to be more

845
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: just like actual with our words. When you have a

846
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: girlfriend and girlfriend, I mean, does she call you her boyfriend?

847
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: Do you have a bitch that you raw? Do you

848
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 1: have a bit? That's what I'm saying. Are very different questions.

849
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: Do you have a bitch that you and do you

850
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend? Or two? Differently different? I know, And

851
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like that, that's I'm saying, maybe

852
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: we need to be more upfront like that when we're

853
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: having these conversations and we ain't telling you no, Dad,

854
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: So you might want to get creative with the way

855
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: you're asking us so that we can I guess have less.

856
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. A girl starts right, let's just say

857
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,240
Speaker 1: it happens. They just stopped sucking with condoms, it just happens.

858
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: It happens often. Right, How does she then in turn

859
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: say are you sucking anyone else raw? After she's already

860
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: been working with this just like that, it's because she's

861
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: sucking them wrong. Now, you were just saying, you feel

862
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: like I'm part of the delication. You can't ask that way, absolutely,

863
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: I'm just answering your question. You don't agree with the

864
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: way that you could, Sam, I asking to get that, Yeah,

865
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 1: and it would be by straight shoot him a fair one,

866
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 1: like look, I know we just did or whatever. I

867
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: respect my sexual health and so I'm asking you, like, respectfully,

868
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 1: is there anything I need to know so that maybe

869
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: I can make a different choice or we're gonna go

870
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: back to using condoms now? If you are having sex

871
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: with someone else raw, I want the I want to

872
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: make the choice whether I continued sucking you roll or

873
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: if we now have to bring back condoms. And so

874
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: I have had to say once with the dude, I

875
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: was sucking raw And I only said this because I

876
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: was fearful that he would lie to me. So I

877
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: asked him if he was sucking someone else wrong, and

878
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: he said no, And I was like, look, I'm not

879
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: gonna stop sucking you. I just want us to use

880
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: condoms and I need you to understand, like my pussy

881
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: is really important to me. Bro. I'm not gonna ask

882
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: you nothing about this, bitch. Just tell me if you

883
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: sucked another bitch raw. Since you sucked me raw, that's

884
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: all that I care about, because if you did, we

885
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: are about to have an argument. We just we're still

886
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: sucking it. I know it's crazy. I wouldn't believe that,

887
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: but she just did this. It's like her text messages

888
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: when she write me that should be a whole paragraph

889
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: to say one thing, and that's what you just did.

890
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: Let me let me tell you, let me tell you something,

891
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: let me let me, let me tell you something. Let

892
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: me tell you something for the story. Let me tell

893
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: you something about having a game though, let me tell

894
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: you about something about having game. Though you're telling me

895
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: all that and wrapping it in all that package in

896
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,959
Speaker 1: that bowl, that's cool. I don't give a funk about

897
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: none of that, because at the end of the day,

898
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: are you are you asking me? It's some ship that

899
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 1: you can react off of afterwards. I know what you

900
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: want to know. I also know because I know what

901
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: you really want to know. No, you don't because you

902
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: didn't have to suck me in the first place. You're

903
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: asking me on the back end of some risky ship

904
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: we already then did. So don't be trying to come

905
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: to me. Don't come to me on principle now that

906
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: expect me, don't know, don't expect I shouldn't say, don't

907
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: come to me on principle, but don't expect me to

908
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: have an automatic you know, in a respect for the

909
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: way you're stepping to me now about how much how

910
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 1: worthwhile yo good pussy was because I just had it wrong.

911
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm a partner that shares results and expects them back

912
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: when wrong. But I ain't going to be fair. You

913
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: need to share that up front before you period. But

914
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: even I've been already there at the point in the conversation,

915
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: but I had him. We're not we're talking about this

916
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: pathetical situation. It's been so long, which was why I

917
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 1: felt like I had a I mean, I ain't gonna

918
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: hold you. I suck this one like and you know

919
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: him from back in Orlando, but we used to fuk

920
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: very intimately. I was like, very like he's one of

921
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: the only special but in like within us fucking He

922
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: came at me. Do you know this nigga didn't ask

923
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: if I was on birth control until after he came

924
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: in me. And that's when you think that's kind of

925
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 1: wasn't worried about it. He didn't have a reason, literally

926
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: as if you have a dog. That question came kind

927
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: of late, like but come kind of late. Okay, we're good,

928
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: funny sometimes so Beard day and I will do cream

929
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: possh it because they tracked my opulation, I mean saying ship.

930
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: So anyway, I remember we were sucking one time and

931
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: like he knows the calendar because I'll send it to him,

932
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: and like he knows when I'm opulating. Oh yeah, I

933
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: respect that time with my pussy, right organized puss, but

934
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 1: the best pussy you're like super like when you're obulating

935
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: because it's all white and like creamy and like it's

936
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: sucking hot and it's super well. But that he can't

937
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: get in there in that tight So I remember he

938
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: was saying to me always sucking me, like damn your pussy,

939
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 1: what is fun? And then he was like you know right,

940
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: and I'm like uh, and I don't want to ruin it.

941
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, just come in my mouth. I

942
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: really want to taste it. Oh my god, I don't

943
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,959
Speaker 1: do the apps and ship. You already know. We talked

944
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 1: about that. Honestly, I haven't gotten pregnant yet. Knock on wood,

945
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: but you knock, but it's not just that right there

946
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: in between them there, Yeah, there you go. You just

947
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 1: knocked on everything that wasn't would before get into the

948
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: wood like long as she made it there would I

949
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: don't know. What's the one who said he picks and

950
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: rules and ship. Of course we're gonna we're gonna talk

951
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: about this last topic because as we're talking about terms

952
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: and dating. Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, no, no no, no,

953
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 1: I am She get on at three fifteen, I got Um,

954
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: we'll talk about this last one. Um. And this goes

955
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: back to kind of talking dating and defining things. How

956
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: long do you talk to someone before you ask if

957
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: there's something more or what the title is? Well? Who

958
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: asked what the title is? Everybody? You just wake up

959
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: one day and be like, damn, I guess we're together.

960
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 1: And that's how I go down. Yeah, that's happened to me.

961
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: That's that word. It's like literally wake up and be like, bitch,

962
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: we live together. Like, what that's not okay, not like god,

963
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,720
Speaker 1: that's a little extreme, but like when you've been hiking

964
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: for sime so long. I had a person asked to

965
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: be my boyfriend a long time, but I think you

966
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: got the note they said circle one yes or no.

967
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: But but not the case. But it happens when you

968
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: meet friends and meet family, like this girl where a

969
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: girl says someone his boyfriend, but to everyone else that's

970
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 1: not his girlfriend. They lying on, they dick and pussy

971
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: all the time. But there's a I think what you're

972
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: saying is a very accurate gauge. A lot of times

973
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: when you're introduced to people, that's the way of having

974
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: that awkward conversation without having it. So like they'll meet

975
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: your family and you'll be like, so this is my friend.

976
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: This is my girlfriend, man, and you look at you

977
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: in the eyes while you say like, this is my girlfriend. Man,

978
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna do. You ain't gonna do that,

979
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say, friends gonna roll whatever a family

980
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: And sometimes yes, the introduction that I've had, we weren't.

981
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: But if you win it, if you win it and

982
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 1: you are in that same page and they do that,

983
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying to like the conversation of even

984
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: talking because I have been introduced in a way where

985
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm just like, am I really? And I wasn't there

986
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: with that person, So then it becomes an awkward conversation like, Oh,

987
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: this is how you're viewing me, this is why you're

988
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: bringing me around. But that's not what we're talking about.

989
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: We're talking about with somebody who you are already dating into,

990
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: gonna put me in a relationship one who you're already into. Yeah,

991
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna say this one thing about meeting family too.

992
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: This is not just meeting family. This is like, Yo,

993
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: this Sunday, my mom is going to have dinner and

994
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: I want you to come and meet Like at that

995
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: point in the relationship, theely what I'm saying, I mean,

996
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: I guess that has a dude then with planning to

997
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: meet family, because I'm saying I've been brought around family before,

998
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: but now we're talking about it. If it was your

999
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: boyfriend that you had been with for three years, say,

1000
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: I go to say, this is where also why y'all

1001
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: are saying the planned thing, because there's the delusion with

1002
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: dating that if a guy brings you around family or friends.

1003
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: That now it means more when technically just because you

1004
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: brought around friends and family isn't necessarily tell I bring

1005
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: people out casually. That I would bring a personize casusy

1006
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: day into a family function that I knew it was fun,

1007
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: and the whole conversation, Mom, it's like, we're funking it.

1008
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 1: Now you're bringing me around family. I haven't Wrott Castle

1009
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: partners around my mom, but they were at least some

1010
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 1: SEMII came a funk about him. Maybe there was potential

1011
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: later They weren't nothing to me. But I brought Felling

1012
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: Bear around my mom and it was like it wasn't

1013
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: he was, but my mom was still there. So I

1014
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: brought him around my mom and my sister. That's a

1015
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: circuit like and in no way could he be like damn, yo,

1016
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: but I met your mom sister. Dates don't count. Like

1017
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 1: if I had somebody just you know, roll through that

1018
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: night or whatever. My sister is see him and Shi

1019
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: in the morning all that ship. I had a conversation

1020
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: about your lover. No, she was just like that was

1021
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: I feel like that was her way of like checking

1022
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: on make sure I was all right. What I'm saying

1023
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: she would be friendly to my dates. So okay, I

1024
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: can dig that. Like. So it is well, y'all know,

1025
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: I know y'all want like to our episodes, but we

1026
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: ain't that podcast. So um no bit, So we're gonna

1027
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: go ahead. We're we're we are going to give you

1028
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: the homemail. Dustin has to get up out of here

1029
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: and myself I gotta rush up to Harlem. So before

1030
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: we leave, can you let our listeners know where they

1031
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: can find you if you got something coming up, and

1032
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: where they can find your social You can find me

1033
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: at Bank of America, Wells Fargo, Chase Bank, UM cash

1034
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: app now I'm just playing. You can find me on

1035
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: all social media platforms that look at Dustin look at

1036
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: them to y'all. I appreciate all the love this week.

1037
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: I'm one. I'm doing horrible decisions, which I love. UM.

1038
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: Shout out to Star Brim. I was on the first

1039
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: episode of her podcast That's My Home Girl keeping it

1040
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: um and yeah, you can catch me that all things

1041
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 1: look at Dustin. That's you can keep up with what's

1042
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 1: going on ship um. And I do want to thank

1043
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 1: you as well because you brought me on to your

1044
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: live show. So with the friend Zone. That was super fun.

1045
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: I got to come on there and I played our game.

1046
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: I know what you said kind of early. I don't

1047
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: know if you had. I know you came to our show.

1048
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen our game? Oh no, he came

1049
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: late because he went to Caroline's first and said, of guy,

1050
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: he didn't. Honestly, I didn't know. Assante hit me up

1051
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: the week before and he's like, you're out of town.

1052
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, nigga, if you would have told me at

1053
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 1: a time, y'all know, first of all, I didn't know

1054
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: what I was doing. So he's like, just come on.

1055
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: I said, okay, let me let me ship I had.

1056
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: I said, what are we doing? He was like, I

1057
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all figured it out. He said, we're handing

1058
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: out sex toys. I'm about to go up there. Who

1059
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: want to deal Dove? Who want to clip Rubber? Who

1060
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: shout out? Tahoe was so shameless. We'll be there this well,

1061
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 1: last one of these fridays. Posting this episode, I'm probably

1062
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: already in Vegas sucking dick. I hope I'm in Costa Blanca,

1063
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: smoking in a sick right at the top of the rocking,

1064
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: fucking Pyradid while they're like, bitch, you know you can't

1065
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 1: have your arms out right, Um boy, y'all that definitely

1066
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: make sure y'all check out Destin And we're gonna go

1067
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: ahead and take a break before you guys listen to

1068
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: this week's homemail back. Yeah, we're gonna go ahead and

1069
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 1: get into our homemail. If you guys want to send

1070
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: homemail to us, please go ahead and send it to

1071
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. You guys are sending

1072
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: us a ton of homemail to our d M, and

1073
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: we all know what to do with that ship. No,

1074
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 1: there's just a lot you need to email it to

1075
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: us because we we found an organized way of starring

1076
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 1: it and all this other stuff. So I actually picked

1077
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 1: this one because I want to talk to you because

1078
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 1: we just had a recent conversation about this, I think

1079
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: with Bridget Kelly. Um, so this one is titled just

1080
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: because I get paid? Am I a sex worker? Yes?

1081
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: Hold on, So I met a guy on fet life

1082
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: one thing to another and I was invited to my

1083
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: very first gang bang. Now I'm going to my third

1084
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: gang bang as a co host and getting paid for it.

1085
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 1: Does this big host as a co host. Yeah, maybe

1086
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: like hosting the party. Maybe maybe hosting the party? Does

1087
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: this make me a sex worker? Okay, maybe not if

1088
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: I do it just once. But if this becomes a

1089
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: regular thing, maybe even to the point where I decided

1090
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 1: to host my own, then am I answering sex worker territory?

1091
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 1: Technically I'm being paid for my time, not for sex.

1092
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't even have to have sex if I don't

1093
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: want to. She also provided an update. So I must

1094
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 1: really be good at this gang bang thing because the

1095
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: guy I've done parties with, the host that asked me

1096
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: to co host, has now offered me a trip to Chicago,

1097
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: paid flight, paid for my work days I'll be missing.

1098
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: And I know he's hosted these parties for ten years now,

1099
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: but holy shit, my fete dude says to go for it.

1100
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: So now I'm really thinking I'm a paid home I

1101
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: brought this up because in the episode, I've recently been

1102
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,720
Speaker 1: talking about maybe figuring out where I want to store

1103
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: my feet, um either patron, which he was like, no,

1104
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: you should be the only fans. Then I'm thinking of

1105
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: coming up with like an Instagram page where they have

1106
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: to pay to become like to follow me. But I

1107
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: really am trying to sell these feet because I'm really

1108
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: making a lot of money on these feet that I'm

1109
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: not even trying to sell. So I really want to,

1110
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: I really how much I can. Only fans is a

1111
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: good way because one Instagram, you're doing that Instagram thing

1112
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: that can't shut down easily, especially for like making money

1113
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: and like during that exchange. Okay, only fans, in my opinion,

1114
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: is a better marketplace, like especially like a lot of

1115
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: like girls that make videos like be Nasty is one

1116
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: of my favorites. But I feel like you found it

1117
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 1: through me. But I'm gonna lit rock because she's been

1118
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: my girlfriend for a long time, my girlfriend in my head.

1119
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: Maybe she just followed even she does the car videos

1120
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: that bit. Okay, Yeah, so anyway, Um, you know, she

1121
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: was his only fans and I heard she used to

1122
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 1: be in the military, which I found supera she's she

1123
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:02,840
Speaker 1: actually gave her a whole story about how she started

1124
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: doing those other women and she's great for that. Like

1125
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 1: not every girl is like this, by the way, not

1126
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: every podcast will shout out other podcasts people don't like

1127
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: given up people. Ops, you know what I'm saying. But um,

1128
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: she does with only fans though a lot of people

1129
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: share each other in that way, and you'll just make

1130
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 1: more money that way. Like it's Patreon is lesser known

1131
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: as a sex community as only Fans is, and like,

1132
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: I just feel like it would make more sense if

1133
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: you really trying to make money. But I understand the

1134
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: stigma around only Fans, which I also think is silly

1135
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: for you and this girl, because I know's just horror phobia.

1136
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: I know, here you go, bitch, it's not horror phobia,

1137
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: but I know, but um no, I think it's more

1138
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: so even even with this podcast, we said when it

1139
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: comes to dating, um, when they find out or even

1140
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: see the cover art and the content that we discuss,

1141
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: it does become harder to communicate or have someone see

1142
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: us in a different light. And so I will say

1143
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: in in in the state where I am looking for

1144
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: a partner, it's just like, okay, it's knowing that a

1145
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 1: lot of how a lot of men view only Fans

1146
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,479
Speaker 1: and only is viewed as sex work and I don't

1147
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: want to be so if you do that your feet,

1148
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: you feel like it wouldn't be this because it's content creating,

1149
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: and I'm a content creator. I want to ask thinking

1150
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 1: about your feet So if money is the goal from it,

1151
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: why don't you just not make Do you want to

1152
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 1: sell your feet off of Mandy Be's name? I mean no,

1153
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: I will because I feel like I'll make more money

1154
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: attaching it to myself, especially people who listen to the show.

1155
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, absolutely, Like I'm even thinking of putting

1156
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo on my foot just so that when

1157
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 1: they see the foot they know it's mine. But I

1158
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: heard it hurts like you got a lot of bones

1159
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: in your foot? Is wrong with you? Why are you

1160
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: judging me right now? Judge? No, no, Judge talked about tones.

1161
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: She's like, she was just like, are you fucking getting

1162
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: it out? This was the judgment came from your own

1163
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: foot in the street. Mandy what then, I don't know.

1164
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm thinking the sun cute. I'm like, you just edit

1165
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: it with like you know what I'm saying. Maybe maybe

1166
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: put a little microphone or something on it on your ankle. No,

1167
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't go all the way down to my ankle.

1168
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: I have a tap on my calf out on my foot.

1169
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 1: I thought I could see it when looking at your funeral.

1170
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: So yes, bitch, I'm thinking of branding my feet a

1171
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: little bit but where would you put it on your foot?

1172
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: Like on the side of it, like like right here,

1173
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: what does this say? You don't do that? You see?

1174
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: You see what I'm talking about. You see how she'd

1175
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 1: be trying to be funny with these little jokes. It's

1176
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: gonna be a cute tattoo. Ho you a little puss

1177
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: out anyway? Really high? Right now, I'm so really thinking

1178
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 1: of like what, let's come up with tattoo idea for

1179
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: my foot? I'm sorry to whoever? What do you think?

1180
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: What I mean a couple like you know, like I

1181
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 1: really be liking music, so maybe some music notes or

1182
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: something like that. Um, I was thinking of us a

1183
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: saying or like a saying saying a saying like a quote.

1184
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: I don't know which quote yet. I ain't thought that

1185
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: far time. I don't know I was. I don't know.

1186
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: I want something. I want something nice, Like I am

1187
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo right here. Actually it's a tattoo that

1188
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: me and my friend were supposed to get over the summertime. Um,

1189
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: but I'm getting to State of Florida with a heart

1190
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 1: over Orlando, so I'm gonna get a little flow to tap. Bitch,

1191
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 1: why don't you get something that's like kind of cheesy

1192
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 1: but cute. No, because, for example, there's nothing cheesy about

1193
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: the girl. A girl in my improv class has a

1194
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: left wrist like it says left on her wrist, um,

1195
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: and it says right on her right wrist. You could do.

1196
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: That's not cool. I kind of like that. That's almost

1197
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: as corny as like these fucking Balenciaga shoes that have

1198
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: the size of the shoe on the outside, Like I

1199
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: hate that ship. I don't need to know that you're

1200
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: a thirty eight. We don't even use those numbers. I

1201
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: think I left the other West size it. Get it

1202
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: in another language, like left in like Japanese, and like right,

1203
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: and like yeah, no, no, bitch, this is a this

1204
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: is a hard note for me. Um. The reason is

1205
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: totally a good idea. The reason, Um, you just said

1206
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: you want to get a tattoo with a heart over

1207
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 1: at Landa the state of Florida, tat on you, And

1208
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: I can't get to stay to Florida tatted on me?

1209
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: Are you really coming for me? About to stay to Florida?

1210
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: All I'm telling you it's a look like a gun.

1211
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: That's kind of hard, bitch, I got a gun on

1212
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 1: me already right on my left. I'm alright here. You

1213
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,919
Speaker 1: are nuts? Why my nuts? I just want to say,

1214
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 1: this is coming from someone who used to shade me

1215
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: for my big gass tattoos because she had these little hearts.

1216
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: You have fucking corny ass tats. I do you a

1217
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: little heart? And now she comes five years later with

1218
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: a whole goudda have half sleeve so which I'm not

1219
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: listening to you when it comes to tattoo because you

1220
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: change your mind. Okay, you have a gun shooting hearts out.

1221
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: I do because this is now, I have a corny tattoo.

1222
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: You have revolvers? Are your forearm? What's the pro So

1223
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:08,920
Speaker 1: we really about to regrets? What's wrong? What's wrong with?

1224
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: Have no no regrets? Something? Bitch you? What's the whole? No?

1225
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: And it's weird. It's regret nothing not no regrets? Thank you?

1226
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: Do you regret that? How to I do? I'm covered up,

1227
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 1: but like I don't want to get it covered up

1228
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: because like I be hide it. But now that I

1229
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 1: a bitch right here, I'm a forearm bitch. So now

1230
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it covered up. I think I'm gonna

1231
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: do like a whole elephant, like because I'm gonna keep

1232
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: my little Asian vibes going. Um but yeah, I'm gonna

1233
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 1: yea um. But any who, It's funny because when I

1234
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: read this, the first thing that came to mind was

1235
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: not only the fact that she is seeing some sort

1236
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: of stigma around sex work, but that, um, I'm just

1237
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: making a note about I've had fuck you, I've had

1238
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: stigma around the fact that my kinks. I have friends

1239
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: that feel like I should charge for them. So it's

1240
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: weird that she seems to really be enjoying these gang bangs.

1241
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: She met a guy on fat Life, which means she

1242
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: was interested in the gang banging prior to even receiving

1243
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: money for it, and now that she's getting money for it,

1244
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, damn, am I a sex worker? So

1245
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: this comes up a lot. When I talked to my

1246
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 1: friends about like the things I like to do, of course,

1247
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 1: including pegging, They're like, damn, you'd be pegging these niggas

1248
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: for free, And that comes to me like where I

1249
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: come to them immediately like why that? Okay, I feel

1250
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: like I didn't get it, but it's gonna because that's

1251
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: unusual to them. For example, like if we could take

1252
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: it to like something basic to me, which is like

1253
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: eating ass. Right, you eat Nigga's asses for free, Like,

1254
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: I guess I'm sucking for free too, You're right, right,

1255
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 1: But it's crazy, like the shame that comes around sucking

1256
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: for free and then sucking for money, and I feel

1257
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 1: like that's what she's bringing up, Like damn, now I'm paid,

1258
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: So I guess that does make me a sex worker,

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Speaker 1: But like why do you care? Why are we not

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Speaker 1: all sex workers if we have sex? Because that's a workout, bitch,

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01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: I'd be hurting. We all be working out. I have

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01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: to X or working out during this is there's so

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01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 1: much shame around women and like sex and like having

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01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 1: too much of it, being good at it, not being

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01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: good at it, being paid for it, not being paid

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01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: for it, and pegging like like pegging. Period. It's just

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01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 1: looking as period. I honestly, yes, what you're doing is

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01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 1: considered sex work. Hoasting sex parties is considered is considered

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Speaker 1: sex work. Apparently, even we talked about it before, we're

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Speaker 1: considered sex workers because we have a podcast about sex,

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Speaker 1: So I mean I would think so. But then I

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Speaker 1: think we had on a guest that said something like

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Speaker 1: we're not we're adjacent, Like it doesn't sex work adjacent

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01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: because working making the way we make money is off advertisement.

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01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: We don't make money off of someone's like pleasure technically,

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01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: why so, like until you guys jerk off to this, which,

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01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 1: to be honest, weight they jerked off to us, Like

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01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: I've had messages say that people jerk off to us

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01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: when we talk, so we get real educational. They'd be like, damn,

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01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 1: I couldn't jeck off to this one. Anyways, Guys, if

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01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: y'all have more homemale gone hay this and for listening

1282
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 1: to the show today. If you want more holy ship,

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01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: join our patreon. Our feet are on there. Maybe you

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01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: could kick it off with a notch though and just

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01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: do a little you know, if you guys have tattoo

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01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: ideas and you're on our Patreon, let's start a thread

1287
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 1: and figure out what will be good on Mandy's foot.

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01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, y'all give me some foot foot tattoo ideas also,

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01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: And I could even send me the feet. I want

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01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: to see what they look like. That's a that's a

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01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Let me also, on a more serious note,

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01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 1: hate tre and the foot mood. Um, I need a

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01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: tattoo done with ashes, and I heard it's not illegal,

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01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: but like kind of but people do. It's called a

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01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,520
Speaker 1: ceremonial tattoo. So if you live in New York and

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Speaker 1: you can do that tattoo, email me at the Wheezy

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Speaker 1: w t F at gmail dot com. I just don't

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01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: want to take it to like anybody. But I did

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Speaker 1: walk into a tattoo shop and he was like, yeah,

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01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: we do it all the time. But then like there

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01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: was no black people in there, and I was like,

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01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 1: I feel like I want like my aunt as black

1303
01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 1: as fuck. Like it's just barely let white people even

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01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: in the house, no matter if they like did the cable.

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01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: Now She's like, I don't trust them, So I feel

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01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 1: like I just can't give somebody white the ashes to do.

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01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: So if you live anywhere and you can do those tattoos,

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01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 1: hit me up Patreon enjoy this clip. I don't know

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01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 1: what it's going to be about. And this has been

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01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: yet another episode of Horror Decisions. By that episode, she

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01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: talks about being taken out to Olive Garden on a

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01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: date and then going to Michael's and fucking the cashier.

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01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: That was some wild ship. I really like Kristin. So

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01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: I met her through James because she wants to funck

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01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: James's sister. They're best friends and she's been trying for

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01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 1: like years, but now she has a girlfriend. But every

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01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 1: time I meet Kristen, she'd just be talking about wild

1318
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: ash Ship and I'd be like, Yo, this bitch is crazy,

1319
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 1: And I knew she was gonna say some crazy shit.

1320
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: And she told us a story about the employees she

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01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: fucked in Michael's Kraft and she got their discounts. So

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01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 1: I want to know Nandy first, if you had to

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01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 1: make a porn in any store, what store would it be? Set?

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01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: The scene would be in it, who would start in it?

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01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 1: It could be anybody? I mean, does that have to

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01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 1: be a point star? Could be anybody? I was thinking

1327
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: about that two point star celebrity. Anybody? Okay. So if

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Speaker 1: I had to have a porno in any store or restaurant, okay, West,

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01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: we can't do restaurant if you're thinking of that, Okay, Boom.

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Speaker 1: Set the scene right, So I'm gonna do it because

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01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 1: that's where these thinks be. Anyway, we at Felipe Chow right,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, they do. So Felipe Chow has a

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Speaker 1: special place, like you have to walk through the kitchen

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01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 1: and walk downstairs, so you get to see away from

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01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 1: you get to sit away from everybody. So there was

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Speaker 1: like this whole downstairs secluded dining room. It's like super cool.

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01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 1: You have to walk through there. Yes, yes, so we

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01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 1: would be in this private room. Mind you. They let

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01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: you put the ox. Course, you get to pick whatever

1340
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: music you want. So ideally I'm thinking of a three

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01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 1: Sime scenario, right, So I'm thinking of of course with Khalifa,

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01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: because I want to fund that nigga. And then I'm

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01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 1: thinking maybe a more sensual guy two man of course,

1344
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: So boors coojo he and they're doing business by himself.

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01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 1: So meal whizz we you know, eating all motherfucking chickens

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01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:22,760
Speaker 1: to tea or whatever. And then you know, I just

1347
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:26,679
Speaker 1: he catches me. He catches me looking at at Boars coujo.

1348
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:29,799
Speaker 1: And then so I started rubbing with his dick underneath

1349
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: the table, and that ship is growing, and Boards looks

1350
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: over and see that I'm rubbing this nigga dick and

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01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: the next thing, you know, I don't know how we're

1352
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 1: gonna get there, but bitch, I'm bent over wanted feeding

1353
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: me chicken to tea while the other is giving me

1354
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: back shots and are you eating? And yes, bit secure

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01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: when she does getting so then I'm also thinking they

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01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 1: we're done with the chicken, but they're still leftover peanuts sauce.

1357
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,759
Speaker 1: So he pours it on my titties and started licking

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01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 1: my titties with the peanut sauce on that ship and

1359
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,040
Speaker 1: now it's like a whole thing. This is some real

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01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 1: fat bit ship. I just like that peanut sauce but

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01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: as good as fun like I don't know if that

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01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: is a slurb. Is it everybody like store and you go,

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01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 1: can it be a restaurant? But yeah, I want boards

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01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: coojo and with Khalifa in a threesome at Philippe Chow

1365
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 1: where we licking peanut sauce off each other. I'll lick

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01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: it off they dick too. I've been trying to think

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Speaker 1: of a store, and all I could think of is

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01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: there's a story in my neighborhood called Bond Bond. It's

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Speaker 1: a candy shop, too small, but maybe like a Dylan's

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Speaker 1: candy bar, and I would work at the candy shop

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Speaker 1: and it would be okay. So I live in l

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Speaker 1: s right so when I'm coming home, there's a court

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01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 1: where everyone plays soccer. So I'm thinking that the soccer

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01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 1: guys would come in for the happy hour that Bond

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01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 1: Bond has, which is a happy hour for ice cream,

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01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: and then you know, I would like survey and they

1377
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: would be like, Yo, how does it taste? And maybe

1378
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 1: like this flavor is really good, and they would like

1379
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,240
Speaker 1: eat it off of me, and then like the entire

1380
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 1: team would like sucked me. And then my manager would

1381
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:04,880
Speaker 1: come out and catch me sucking all these soccer player guys,

1382
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: and then she would be like, Yo, what the funk

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01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,560
Speaker 1: are you doing without me? Exactly? Okay, you got to

1384
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: add her in there because you can't get fired because

1385
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,759
Speaker 1: basically you're like, don't fire me, I'll eat your pussy.

1386
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: But I want to be like totally dominated, even by

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01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: the woman, so I would want her to like force

1388
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 1: me to like suck dick. I think this goes back

1389
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 1: to the right fantasies, but we're not. No, it's not

1390
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: a rapist's not consensual consensual fantasy of her being like, bitch,

1391
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 1: suck this dick and eat my pussy. I'm already chosen

1392
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: them and I got caught, so I wanted to stop

1393
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 1: because I was embarrassed. No, she's like, now you're gonna finish.

1394
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: It's not as I'm sorry, You're right, you're right, you're right, right,

1395
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 1: you're right. Mainly I wanted to result in so when

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01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: I watched Bukocky, because my faith, they're always like sometimes

1397
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: there's a woman holding another woman's face open, Like that's

1398
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about, Okay, I actually like that. When

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01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: I had my threesome, my homegirl held my cheeks open

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01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 1: for anal sex. I'm gonna send this to Erica. It

1401
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: was really nice. I'm gonna send the story. Yeah, send

1402
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 1: her what like our fucking fantasy. I'm gonna make this.

1403
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: I want this clip to be the one that's at

1404
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: the end of the episode, and I'm gonna send her

1405
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 1: that and tell her to reference that clip and then

1406
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 1: be like, hey, those are ours. Because Ericalluster's platform is

1407
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: like stories and she makes the love that well, let

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01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 1: me tell you, we're going to Felippe Chow and all

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Speaker 1: started