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Speaker 1: I wore a wedding dress to a wedding? Am I

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Speaker 1: the agh wall?

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Speaker 2: This is okay, whole of the.

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Speaker 3: Craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Perry is ov

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Speaker 3: the Annual.

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Speaker 4: I love dresses, I love weddings. I love wedding dresses.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know about wearing a wedding dress to

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Speaker 4: someone else's wedding. Yeah. So I don't really know how

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Speaker 4: I feel about that. But that being said, there's only

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Speaker 4: one way to find out.

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Speaker 2: Spill that tea.

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Speaker 5: All right, So Dan wants death, says.

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Speaker 2: After the wedding. He wants death after the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So.

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Speaker 3: My friend twenty female and I'm it Mail have been

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Speaker 3: friends for a few years and she recently got engaged.

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Speaker 3: A week ago, I got a DM from her for

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Speaker 3: a small costume party she was hosting as a celebration

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Speaker 3: for getting engaged.

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Speaker 1: I asked if there was a theme, and she said

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Speaker 1: there wasn't. I'm a cosplayer, so I have a lot

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Speaker 1: of choices.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to rock up and an anime cost

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Speaker 3: so I thought it would be funny to go to

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Speaker 3: an engagement party, asked the corpse fride.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that does make sense.

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Speaker 3: I don't rides at her house yesterday and everything seemed normal.

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Speaker 1: A few people complimented my costume, and I was having

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Speaker 1: a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: After ten, then it's my friend's beyance walked out in

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Speaker 5: a black tuxedo and announced this was actually their wedding.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's bad.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, okay, that's not their that's just awkward.

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Speaker 2: That's like awkward.

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Speaker 4: First of all, the Corpse Bride cosplayer had no contacts.

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Speaker 1: They didn't know. They didn't know. You didn't know you

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Speaker 1: were set up.

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Speaker 4: So I you know, if it was the other way

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Speaker 4: around and it was like a whole wedding and they

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Speaker 4: were all prepared and you decided to wear a wedding dress,

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Speaker 4: and I'd be like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, yea, but yeah, this is it is different.

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Speaker 6: But their parents are Is it just friends?

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Speaker 1: We don't know.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't know.

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Speaker 1: Wait what no? No, So nineteen female I twenty. So

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Speaker 1: the twenty female friend just got engaged and this is

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Speaker 1: nineteen male wore the Corpse Fride engagement dress.

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Speaker 6: Oh or about the couple wed couple? Yeah, I'm just worried.

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Speaker 1: About if their parents had an engagement party, so presumably

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Speaker 1: their whole family was there.

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Speaker 4: Oh, so they decided to surprise everyone and be like, Hey,

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Speaker 4: instead of an engagement party, we're just getting freaking married.

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Speaker 1: This is actual marriage.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why people would do that, because I

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Speaker 4: would rather plan for the wedding, but.

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Speaker 1: I would rather let people. Oh no, I don't think

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Speaker 1: you can be mad about people's attire if you don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you didn't give people the heads up that

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Speaker 4: it was an actual wedding, Like, I can't even blame

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Speaker 4: opia at this point.

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Speaker 1: But there's more So. Apparently my friends saw a video

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Speaker 1: of someone doing this and wanted to do the same.

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Speaker 1: He asked us all to go to the backyard for

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Speaker 1: the ceremony to begin. I went straight to him. I

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Speaker 1: asked him if I should quickly go home and change

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Speaker 1: my outfit and then I would get back before it started.

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Speaker 2: Op he's being so considerate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't tell him, and then he's like, okay,

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Speaker 1: should I change? Yeah? Okay that Opie, you're not You're

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Speaker 1: in the clear. You're fine. He told me it was

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Speaker 1: I trusted him and followed everyone outside. They got married

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Speaker 1: and everything seemed good. The reception was just in their

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Speaker 1: up where they left off. I tried talking to my

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Speaker 4: Ooh, this is passive aggressiveness coming in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not good.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I assumed it was just because she was tired from

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Speaker 1: this is not on OP at all.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm starting to realize, like right from the get go,

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Speaker 4: they wanted to dress up as a corpse bride as

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Speaker 4: a cosplay.

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Speaker 1: Is cosplay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like especially to like a reception, not like a reception,

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Speaker 4: but like an engagement Party'd be cute, it'd be.

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Speaker 2: Funny, be goofy.

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Speaker 4: But then the problem is the other person didn't inform

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Speaker 1: So well, even after that, OP was like, hey, checking

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Speaker 1: in and they still told him. So, Like I'm wondering

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Speaker 1: if maybe that, like the husband didn't check in with

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Speaker 1: his friend who got the.

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Speaker 4: Wife Like that is such like look at the fit,

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Speaker 4: like he's pulling it up right now.

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Speaker 2: It is such a fit, like.

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Speaker 1: Such a fit. Ok, you looked really cool? Do you pictures?

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Speaker 4: No, that is actually very slid. I respect it. It

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Speaker 4: is not your fault, especially if the husband was like, oh, it's.

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Speaker 1: Cool, And honestly, I think it's kind of on the

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Speaker 1: husband to have checked into with wife been like, hey,

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Speaker 1: are you okay with this? Should your friend go and change?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, there's more. I got home and a half an

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Speaker 1: hour passed when my phone started getting notifications. I checked

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Speaker 1: and it was my friend texting me. She was cussing

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Speaker 1: me out and telling me how I ruined her wedding.

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Speaker 1: I was really confused and asked what I did. That

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Speaker 1: only made her more angry. She told me it was

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Speaker 1: basic knowledge not to wear a wedding dress to a wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, wasn't so much knowledge that it

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Speaker 1: was a wedding. We have so much unpack and they

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Speaker 1: didn't tell it anyone. You can't be mad, Sorry, you

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Speaker 1: can't be mad. And oh. P reminded her that they

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Speaker 1: had no idea it was a wedding, and they had

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Speaker 1: asked her husband if they should change, and he said

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Speaker 1: it was fine, which he did.

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Speaker 6: What she looked better than the bride.

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Speaker 1: Oh, guy, guy, guy, it's nineteen mail and everybody looks

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Speaker 2: I bet you that's awesome. Yeah, that's awesome. You keep

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Speaker 2: doing what you killed it.

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Speaker 1: And she was jealous.

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Speaker 2: She there crazy, she was mad over.

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Speaker 6: That side note. That's what I use a line at

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Speaker 6: weddings whenever. Yeah, I see a cute girl and like, hey,

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Speaker 6: you're not supposed to be looking better than the bride.

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Speaker 6: I thought. I thought it was one of those situations.

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Speaker 1: You go to a lot of weddings. Actually I do same.

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Speaker 1: Actually I told a couple of them, like, your wedding

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Speaker 1: in like ten years, A really big family, yeah, a

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Speaker 1: lot of friends, Yeah, a lot of friends. Damn, a

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Speaker 1: lot of friends. Dude, I want to go to a wedding.

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Speaker 1: I'll invite you to right now.

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Speaker 6: Man, who do we know find your backyard? Boy?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, apparently Riley. Riley says that I have to

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Speaker 1: look in the backyard for what.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't understand.

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Speaker 3: What is that?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Riley, break it down?

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Speaker 6: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Or is this an okay? Story time?

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Speaker 6: It is okay? Story time? Okay, okay, story okay, story okay, cool, cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, story time, Getting back to it. I reminded

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Speaker 1: her I had no idea it was a wedding, and

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Speaker 1: that I asked her now husband if I should change,

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Speaker 1: and he said it was fine. She didn't respond, but

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Speaker 1: I got a text from her husband, but he didn't

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Speaker 1: respond to respond. Wait, I'm curious to hear what, so

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Speaker 1: her husband says, So he asked why I would tell

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Speaker 1: her he said it was fine. I told him he

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Speaker 1: said it was fine. Then he said how I should

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Speaker 1: have changed anyways, And it's my fault that the two

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Speaker 1: are now finding over this. Oh that just doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to get into trouble even though he knows.

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Speaker 2: Guys, you know what that's called. That's called gas lighting?

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Speaker 2: Gas lighting right there?

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Speaker 6: Called gas lamping. I'm pretty sure it's gas lamping.

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Speaker 2: It's gas lighting.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing. You're gas lighting right now.

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Speaker 1: Fun fact, gas lighting comes from this story I can't

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Speaker 1: actually remember. I think it's called gaslight. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what's the story called. There's this like old old story

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Speaker 1: where this guy basically makes gas lights his wife or

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's a play called gas light.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there's an actual play and human Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: He manipulates his wife into believing she's crazy by changing

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Speaker 4: Oh so you weren't gaslighting about the gaslamp.

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Speaker 1: This is a red flag for Riley and the husband.

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Speaker 2: Literally literally, that's so true.

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Speaker 1: All right, back into it. Yeah, I've tried texting her

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Speaker 1: her and her husband have blocked me on everything. That's

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Speaker 1: so not cool. That's not really messed up. That's really

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Speaker 1: messed up because the husband's not taking responsibility for anything.

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Speaker 2: And she's siding with the husband.

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Speaker 4: The husband communicated that I was fine, asked.

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Speaker 1: The husband, double checked and still no. So am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole for not changing out of the wedding

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Speaker 1: dress when I found out it was actually a wedding edit.

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Speaker 1: I am a guy. I cosplayed the character Emily from

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Speaker 1: The Court Dride and had blue paint all over. I'm

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Speaker 1: also Australian. I've never heard a costume party meaning fancy.

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Speaker 1: Everyone was dressed up in funny costumes.

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Speaker 2: What I supposed to do with it?

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Speaker 1: And we don't have fancy parties.

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Speaker 6: If it was American, he wouldn't get away with it.

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Speaker 6: That's probably what it was.

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Speaker 2: Wait, really away with it?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: I think he was just trying to like give himself

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Speaker 6: anything that he could.

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Speaker 1: I think you're still in the clear though. I think

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Speaker 1: regardless of whether or not you're Australian, I think you're

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Speaker 1: still Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Also, like he's a guy, Like if I had a

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Speaker 6: guy that dressed up as in a wedding dress at

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Speaker 6: my wedding, that'd be fucking hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm dying, Okay, I actually think it should be normalized. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it's normalized. And I think he probably looked

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Speaker 1: really cool on it.

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Speaker 4: No, like I'm trying to be in the shoes of

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Speaker 4: the person the late the woman that was getting married.

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Speaker 2: Why would she get so pissed?

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Speaker 1: I just don't think that you can be pissed if

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Speaker 1: you haven't told people that it's one that's your wedding, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and two that your husband talked or like like when

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Speaker 1: they asked, when they double checked.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a bullet dodged.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No one's asked for mine, but I'm offering for you.

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Speaker 1: Literally, two days ago I was blocked by my friend,

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Speaker 4: When you turned it into all wedding without people's like knowledge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no. All I knew was the no

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Speaker 6: Hand, wait, oh my god, all right, so put your

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Speaker 1: I think, actually, I don't have a thought.

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Speaker 2: No thought is this is like about to fall off

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're gonna be ruining my hats. They had so much.

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Speaker 1: It worked me looks like a berette.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, this looks like a like an egg Like

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Speaker 6: You know, what's the husband going to say?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the husband is gonna still be pissed because OPI

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Speaker 6: Yeah, good point.

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Speaker 2: That's my theory.

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Speaker 1: I don't actually have the theory. I'm going to payback

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Speaker 4: Like there there married, Yeah, this is any indicator of

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Speaker 6: Like yeah, like you're gonna lie to her like the

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Speaker 2: I'm colorblind, so this looks red. No, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: This is the first time. This is the first day

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is like the first time we're actually for

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Speaker 6: Yeah, to see their friendship blossom camera.

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Speaker 1: So we like, yeah, we were like we're not allowed

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Speaker 2: No, we can't talk to each other.

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Speaker 1: Look, no at all.

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Speaker 6: It was just weird. It just silence of Christmas music

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Speaker 1: We were playing christ because Riley doesn't like Christmas music.

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Speaker 6: I just don't want to be like, listen, I've listened

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Riley likes Christmas music and the husband is

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm worried if this is the first time.

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Speaker 1: This is not a This is not voting well for

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Speaker 1: Turns out he's hated me since I met them five

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Speaker 2: Wait, what are you just on raveling?

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Speaker 1: Some like das floor clashed behind the surface. They had

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Speaker 4: Well, he's nineteen, they've been together five years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so they met when they were fifteen. I guess somewhere.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but you always I mean, okay, if you're the

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Speaker 6: that's probably why he never really liked he sucks that too,

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Speaker 6: but like he probably couldn't trust him, so that's why

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Speaker 4: No, I don't know, Riley, No, I mean I guess

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Speaker 4: because people have told me that before.

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Speaker 6: Wait, was she friends with him first? Or him first?

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Speaker 1: OPI first?

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Speaker 6: So the guy, like the husband was friends with op.

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Speaker 1: First, was friends with the wife first?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so the wife was friends yeah, yes, Okay, so

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Speaker 6: it's a friend of the wife, yes, yes, and then

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Speaker 6: and that's why he's always didn't like him.

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Speaker 1: But also he sounds kind of immature, which makes sense

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Speaker 1: You call I called it, really called it.

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Speaker 6: God damn there before.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I did to make can feel

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Speaker 2: That is crazy by him wear a corpse. He was like,

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Speaker 1: Way he saw op show up in the corpse, dried

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Speaker 1: is the moment I've been waiting for. You've been what's

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Speaker 1: the it's that pitch perfect? Yeah, you've been.

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Speaker 4: You've been elimined, You've been aka aka aka cut acha

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Speaker 1: Perfect like nobody I thought. I was, like, you've been

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Speaker 1: I don't remember, sorry guys.

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Speaker 6: And that doesn't help.

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Speaker 1: No, it's okay. I'm not really sure what's going to

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Speaker 1: talk about it. That's not good already. I doubt i'll

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Speaker 4: That's very opa, that's really fair, sounds really good for you.

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Speaker 1: Good for you again. Thanks to everyone for all the

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Speaker 1: Have a good day or night. Thank you, have a

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Speaker 1: good night.

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Speaker 4: First of all, Damn, Australians are nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, have a good day or night.

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Speaker 4: After Reddit thread, you never hear anyone saying hey, thanks guys,

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Speaker 4: see y'all later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I met a lot of Australians when

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Speaker 1: They're they're all very nice. Not really, I am actually Australian.

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Speaker 4: I have an okay op story with an Australian.

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Speaker 1: Two okay, storytimes, okay edit. My friend's doing a lot

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Speaker 1: She told me she'll decide based on what he does

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Speaker 1: It's up to her. She's an amazing person and I

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Speaker 6: Friend, good guy friend.

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Speaker 1: That's a good guy friend's guy friend.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, first of all, I understand if like

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Speaker 4: But really, if you love your girlfriend or your potential life,

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Speaker 4: if you trust them, you trust them, you would just

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Speaker 4: tear them down. Yeah that's bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, unless you have like you your act like actually

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Speaker 1: It's nothing you can do. But guys, there's a juicy update.

445
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Speaker 1: Keeps on juicy updates?

446
00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:58,640
Speaker 4: Right?

447
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,280
Speaker 1: Is that our second juicy update? That's crazy.

448
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,480
Speaker 6: By the way, By the way, the one you just

449
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 6: read was in March, and this is now May the first,

450
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,119
Speaker 6: May the first.

451
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,720
Speaker 1: Wow first, Okay, no, this is May fourth.

452
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,120
Speaker 2: The time has passed, time has.

453
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,000
Speaker 1: Passed, progression of time. My friend has told me I

454
00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 1: can post this if I wanted to, and I thought,

455
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Speaker 1: I'm not you o B that's very nice. My friend

456
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,159
Speaker 1: did try to work things out with her husband, but

457
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,400
Speaker 1: she started getting fed up of how he treated her.

458
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,400
Speaker 1: They had gone to a restaurant for a date, had

459
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,359
Speaker 1: an argument, and he told her she had to walk

460
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 1: home at eight pm. That is not a guy.

461
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Speaker 6: Oh that is it's dark hours.

462
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 1: It was a half an hour walk.

463
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, that's not cool.

464
00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,719
Speaker 1: That's not cool, that's unsafe. Instead of going back to her,

465
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 1: she called up a friend. It was her final straw.

466
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,119
Speaker 1: She decided to apply for an annulment and they've broken up.

467
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,440
Speaker 2: Wow, that's.

468
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,400
Speaker 1: Her ex. Try to convince her to think about it more.

469
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 1: He's once again blaming me and her friends for putting

470
00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,360
Speaker 1: crazy ideas in her brain. Safe to say, you've all

471
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 1: blocked him, So the blockie has become the blocked Yeah.

472
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 6: No, Wow.

473
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: She's been upset over it all, but she's also been

474
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: excited to experience single life. She's been dating him since

475
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 1: they were fourteen, so she's never had certain experiences. She

476
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 1: told us she wasn't even sure if she loved him

477
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 1: like she thought she did. It's all been quite a lot.

478
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: That's literally fair. Yeah, when you've only been with one person,

479
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 1: like since you were fourteen, that's yeah.

480
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 6: Like like having the same ice cream flavor for yeah,

481
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 6: you gotta know seven how many six years straight? Yeah?

482
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Speaker 4: And I feel like at some level, when you're like

483
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 4: in your thirties mid twenties, it's okay to have the

484
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 4: same ice cream.

485
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Speaker 2: You're settled, not you, I shouldn't say settled.

486
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: You're settled, but you like ice cream that you know

487
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 1: what you like? Yeah, but like before yeah, test the flavors, Yeah,

488
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 1: you heard across test your flavors. I feel like we've

489
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 1: become better friends because of all this. She's been able

490
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,919
Speaker 1: to go clubbing with us and has gone home with

491
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Speaker 1: some people. The legal age for drinking here is eighteen.

492
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Speaker 1: That's true, it's Australia reminder. I feel like she's actually

493
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 1: getting to live out her young adult life without feeling

494
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 1: tied down. Very cool.

495
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 2: That was a little quick though, nineteen.

496
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Speaker 6: No, like she's already gone home with some people.

497
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, so when her little story happened and it's may or.

498
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 6: It's might not be healthy though, Like she's like.

499
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: No, I think she needs to test the flavors after

500
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Speaker 1: like a few.

501
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Speaker 6: More months, Like this is like nah did two months

502
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Speaker 6: after getting broken up, after she.

503
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Speaker 1: Wasn't saying two months after he was saying, this is

504
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Speaker 1: the update.

505
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Speaker 6: After two months?

506
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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on. I think it's fine.

507
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 4: I think this is a symptom of a bigger question

508
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 4: and I'm actually curious to hear what you guys think.

509
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 4: And also, okayop fans, I'm curious to hear what you think.

510
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, how early is.

511
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: Too early to move on?

512
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 6: I have to get it.

513
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 1: Hold on, Riley, it's actually been what did you say?

514
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 1: How many months did.

515
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 4: You say so this whole thing happened initially in February.

516
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: No, it happened what in it happened in July the

517
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: first juicy update. Because you're I think you're thinking American?

518
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: How they because in Australia and other Europeans. Well, okay,

519
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 1: maybe this is because it's it's no day no.

520
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 6: Go ahead, go ahead ahead?

521
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 1: No, okay, okay, maybe day month year?

522
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,400
Speaker 6: No, okay, then this doesn't make sense then because this

523
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 6: is the day, month year?

524
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 3: They three?

525
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe maybe maybe three three?

526
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Speaker 6: And then he traveled back in time to January five one,

527
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Speaker 6: twenty three year.

528
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: Right, you're right, you're right, you're right. Okay, maybe they yeah,

529
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 1: never right never rhine.

530
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 6: Never end. Sorry, Yeah, that's a great question to answer.

531
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Speaker 1: Wait we where were you looking? Second is, Oh, you're right,

532
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right.

533
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 6: I know how this goes.

534
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 1: You're right, Riley's right. Where was I sorry? I was

535
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: trying to I was trying to figure out the time.

536
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 1: Where What were we saying? Here?

537
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 6: Do you see my little head?

538
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I I disagree with you, Riley. I think

539
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 1: I think she's she's ready to get out. Let's we've

540
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: been looking out for her since she doesn't know certain things,

541
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: and making sure she isn't reckless if she gets really drunk,

542
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: we make sure we don't take our eyes off of her.

543
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: She looks way more alive, figuring out who she really is,

544
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: and I couldn't be more proud of her. She's also

545
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,719
Speaker 1: been planning another party as a celebration to her new future.

546
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: She asked me to help make her into Emily from

547
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: the Corpse Bride No Way Circle so we could both

548
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: go as it for this party this time. I'll definitely

549
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: put be getting loads of photos. I won't post them though,

550
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: for privacy reasons. Why would you tease us? Yeah? You

551
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: really do like.

552
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 4: The fact that you op dressed up as an awesome

553
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 4: character from Corpse Bride, Like, that's.

554
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: Really really cool.

555
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 2: I really wish I could see.

556
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: I'd love to see. And what if you just like

557
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: sent like, okop the email and we promise not to

558
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 1: share it.

559
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true, a.

560
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: Pinky promise not to share it. Okay, I'll probably just

561
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: go back to being a Reddit lurker. Thank you everyone

562
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: who's given me advice and helped me out when I

563
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: first posted about all of this. Thank you very much.

564
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: I'm still bullet, yeah, you know, dog bullets. And I

565
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: hope that your friend is living her life as a

566
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 1: twenty year old.

567
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, twenty year old.

568
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that's crazy. That's hard to like get married and

569
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: then have an annulment.

570
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 4: Yeah at twenty oh you can't even can you not

571
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 4: divorce in Australia?

572
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: No you can. I think that they were just trying.

573
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 6: To get if you get married then and then after

574
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 6: actually working normal annulment rather than a divorce.

575
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 4: Really, yeah, you don't just get divorced right away.

576
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really know. I'm not a lawyer.

577
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 4: Because like so, I'm from the Philippines, right and in

578
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 4: the Philippines, because of pretty strict religious laws, you can't

579
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 4: ever divorce, so you can you can annull.

580
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 6: Well, we might be religious when a judge says in

581
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,959
Speaker 6: a core order that your marriage or domestic partnership is

582
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,439
Speaker 6: not legally valid. So like they were like, oh they

583
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 6: were only together for a short amount of time.

584
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 2: Okay, gotcha, gotcha, gotcha?

585
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 4: Gotcha?

586
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Well wait, what was the original question?

587
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 6: Is of evil?

588
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: I think I feel like we've had a he.

589
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 6: Was the butterfly to the butterfly effect.

590
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, sounds like Opie was respectful, was considerate,

591
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 4: was cool, was awesome, dressed Well, I just.

592
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: Think, yeah, his friend dodge bullet by showing her ex

593
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,719
Speaker 1: husband's true colors.

594
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, which are red red.

595
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 4: Flags, literal red flags.

596
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 2: Not a good thing.

597
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 4: If your husband is demeaning you for having guy best friends,

598
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 4: it's very very odd behavior.

599
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: It just shows a lack of trust in the relationship.

600
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 6: No literally, Okay, back to your question, Okerrie, how long

601
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 6: should this person Opie's friend wait until they get back

602
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 6: out there?

603
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, so this was this was kind of inspired from

604
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 4: the story right where you were like, oh, two months

605
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 4: is too quick to be moving on.

606
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 2: So, like, the general question.

607
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 4: I'm trying to figure out here is, according to your

608
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 4: guyser's perspective, how soon is too soon to move on?

609
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 6: I have my own opinion that your relationship married for

610
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 6: a few months.

611
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: However, it was a seven year relationship when like started

612
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: when she was fourteen and now she's twenty. So it's

613
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: like I kind of get the desire to be like,

614
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: I haven't lived my life at all. I've been with

615
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: the same person when I was fourteen, and like want

616
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: like wanting to kind of overcorrect maybe we're not overcorrect,

617
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: but just.

618
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 6: Like you know, yeah, yeah, I mean I see where

619
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 6: you're coming from.

620
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: Because I think it would be different if it was

621
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 1: seven year relationship, from like maybe twenty five to you know,

622
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: oh yeah, like I think I think yeah, I think

623
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: that changes it. I think the age changes it for me. Yeah,

624
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 1: because then I'd be like, oh, maybe you know at

625
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: least six months.

626
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, like figure out like what went wrong, what you

627
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 4: can do better in the next relationship.

628
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: But like for me, it's the two things.

629
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 4: They were fourteen when they got together and then the

630
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 4: husband was an asshole.

631
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

632
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 4: So I'm like, if the husband was an asshole and

633
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 4: people are like, well, clearly the wife, the ex wife

634
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 4: wasn't doing anything wrong.

635
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she has.

636
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 4: A better foot on a better step towards getting over

637
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 4: it and moving on super quickly. Sounds like she got

638
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 4: over it quickly because she realized how.

639
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 6: Yes, I just don't want to do it unhealthily, you know,

640
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 6: like trying.

641
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,239
Speaker 1: To fill your friends are you know there for her?

642
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 6: Yeah.

643
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 4: But at the same time, I was also going to

644
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 4: say they're so young, they're twenty yeah, like, uh, for context,

645
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 4: I've I've had this happen to me, and I've made

646
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 4: mistakes where I moved on too quickly. But I think

647
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 4: it's also up to the ope and the other person

648
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 4: in the story to figure out like how.

649
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: They move on best.

650
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you know, maybe for us, like we're a

651
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 4: little older now, we can be like, oh that's not

652
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 4: you know, that's a little quick.

653
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 2: But yea, Honestly, in my case.

654
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 4: It's like they're twenty. They can just do whatever and

655
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 4: move on.

656
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: Like that's I feel like that's college life.

657
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's literally college life life.

658
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, we have some okay story times.

659
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: Story time first first.

660
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I thought Sophia, I was she just moved in,

661
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 6: like how long are it, like like a couple of

662
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 6: days ago? A couple of days ago, and she was

663
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 6: like setting him around and I was like, oh, like

664
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 6: that's a nice view of the backyard. She's like, yeah,

665
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 6: that's super cool. And I was like, you need to

666
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 6: get a boy back there, like a guy or whatever

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Speaker 6: so you can sing him backyard boy. It's a song

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Speaker 6: by Claire or something I really was famous on. So

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Speaker 6: that's what I'm like, you could sing that, like open

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Speaker 6: up the room and sing them back yard boy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, is that what you meant by backyard boy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I didn't get that. That makes sense, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I understand.

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Speaker 4: I thought you meant backyard and like a guy that

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Speaker 4: like does the grass or like knows the lawn.

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Speaker 1: Gardener.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a gardener, I guess.

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Speaker 6: Anyways, what was your So you had an okay story

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Speaker 6: telling about Australian.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I dated an Australian once.

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Speaker 4: What Yeah, that's my okay, okay op story time.

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Speaker 2: But it wasn't really a good relationship.

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Speaker 4: It's more it's kind of like one of those stories

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Speaker 4: now that I realized would end up on Reddit and

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Speaker 4: you guys would end up reading. It's definitely a story

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Speaker 4: time in the sense that I was fifteen and I

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Speaker 4: met this guy and he was older.

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Speaker 2: He's way older, as in like our age, like our age.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine like being our age right now?

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Speaker 1: Never looking out of fifteen, You're right at my age.

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Speaker 2: So I'm over it. I can talk about it reely.

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Speaker 4: I processed it in therapy and stuff, but like the

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Speaker 4: big thing is, I'm twenty three, so I can't for

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Speaker 4: my life imagine like looking at a fifteen year old

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Speaker 4: that way. So I don't hate Australians, but.

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Speaker 2: It's definitely warmed my perception.

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Speaker 6: Ara.

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Speaker 4: So that's my OKOP story time. But I mean it

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Speaker 4: worked out. I grew up and I was like, this

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Speaker 4: is fucked up, and I.

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Speaker 2: Like, but Carrie, you have something for me, and what

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Speaker 2: is that. You guys might think.

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Speaker 1: We'll do it one more time, but Carrie, you have something.

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Speaker 2: For me, and what is that?

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Speaker 1: Another story? Let's do it