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Speaker 1: I can talk to my girl like, damn, bitch, you

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Speaker 1: got something from my kitchen. Even talking about hair products,

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Speaker 1: that's when my hair used to be fucked up, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. I'm over hair using trusting a la

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Speaker 1: La you need some just for me?

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Speaker 2: You know what was that other one?

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Speaker 3: Aussie? Why black ass using you? Why you need someone

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Speaker 3: got you, Laurel? You need all r hello, you need

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Speaker 3: a little doctor miracle.

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Speaker 1: And mind you, this was during the time now Laurel

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Speaker 1: and all these products they have the black lines that

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Speaker 3: Now now, then I wasn't a thing before. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: you need some moisture, bitch.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just doing. If I'm going to my friend's house,

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Speaker 1: I gotta use their products. I stayed the night. We

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Speaker 1: just got out the pool. I get out the pool

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Speaker 1: look like Martin Luther King.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know I ain't had no hair back then.

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Speaker 3: It was a little short little thing he was giving

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Speaker 3: Florida is God.

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Speaker 1: Damn day, damn. What's up y'all?

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Speaker 3: It's your girl lex Pete and it's your girl's draining

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Speaker 3: a corn and you were tuned into another episode of

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Speaker 3: Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where drunk Mine speaks. So we ain't got no guests today.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got no guess today.

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Speaker 1: How you doing coin, I'm good. I'm a little sleepy.

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Speaker 3: Damn.

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Speaker 1: I took a little nap. I love a nap, bro,

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Speaker 1: and that's what I make. That's what I'll be telling people.

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Speaker 1: Y'all need to get into the business of napping.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it.

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Speaker 3: It makes me more sleepy, especially if it's like a

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Speaker 3: short nap, like I need long naps.

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Speaker 1: Nap is supposed to be twenty minute.

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Speaker 2: I've heard that, but I need a long one.

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Speaker 3: If I'm gonna take one twenty minutes, don't do nothing

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Speaker 3: for me but make me pissed off even more.

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Speaker 1: Se Yeah, I'm ready to go now. I got that

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Speaker 3: I want to stay sleep I feel it's better for

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Speaker 1: Bro, I'm going through it right now. Why because like,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like social media, all the apps y'all

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Speaker 1: I didn't I always doing. I posted a meme. Oh

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Speaker 1: Just like that's what I'm saying. Yeah, but they probably

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Speaker 1: to us on TikTok. How are y'all flagging our account

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Speaker 1: and saying we stole content? It's our to begin with.

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Speaker 1: All these apps are doing too much, but guess what.

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Speaker 1: Guess what they can do? Call us the N word

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Speaker 1: as soon as you say something. You know how many

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Speaker 1: Did you block them? I mean, did you report them? No?

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Speaker 1: Because what they're gonna make another account? That's hate speech.

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Speaker 1: It's hate speech. But they're nobody's so they can continue

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Speaker 1: to make accounts. See, I don't I comment what I

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the internet is, it'd be alive. That's why

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Speaker 3: Everybody is too enamored with social media these days, Like

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Speaker 1: That's why people clip our stuff. Title it with the

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Speaker 1: definitely nice to say. I'm like, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, I don't know what it was. I know

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Speaker 1: What is it? Unique? It was unique. Renaissance was an era.

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Speaker 3: I just be feeling like people just need to.

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Speaker 3: Like everybody just be on the internet too much, like

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Speaker 3: So I feel like we have to kind of stay

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Speaker 1: So one it's coming. They just trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: Like I said, the rage baby, all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a little tired. I see you need some

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Speaker 1: You ain't wrong, Queen, you ain't wrong. Be a little

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Speaker 1: Wake up? I have a date later. I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it for this second sex and time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get into the first topic. Okay, topic one, what

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Speaker 1: like or what would you Would you ever participate in

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Speaker 1: a tell all documentary about somebody else, Like you had

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Speaker 3: I'm night No, No, I probably wouldn't. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 3: think I don't know. I kind of be thinking that's

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Speaker 3: it's like you should have just told your story.

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Speaker 1: Back to day. But what if they like try to

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Speaker 1: Now if they have a chance to be on Netflix,

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like a lot of times, I

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Speaker 3: is gonna accomplish real But me personally, no, I just

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Speaker 3: I'm too private of a person, like I'd be handling

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Speaker 3: my affairs in privy. So I don't think I will

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Speaker 3: ever do like no Hotel All documentary because to me

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Speaker 1: What was yours? My documentary would be a thousand percent,

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Speaker 1: Like you know how Magic City had the documentary Dreams

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Speaker 2: I mean, Because to me, that's two different things.

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Speaker 3: Like it's so things have come out of our people

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Speaker 3: Other than I was thinking like maybe something about going

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Speaker 3: Yes, always the family, they gotta they gotta.

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Speaker 3: We talked about this on another episode. My family got

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have the questions ready, and I be the

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Speaker 3: I documentaries be an interesting thing to me sometimes though,

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Speaker 1: I'm a documentary girl, from true crime to history, whatever

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Speaker 3: What was about supporting that just did not give a

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Speaker 3: having a ball now certain ship. It is like, looking

439
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 3: back on it, I'm like, damn, that was fucked up,

440
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,119
Speaker 3: But it ain't no more fucked up than anything that

441
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 3: they be doing on any other reality TV show even

442
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: still to this day, Like that situation with that girl

443
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 3: I can't remember her name, the it was the white

444
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 3: girl and she was in that relationship with the dude,

445
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 3: and then she was making out with They was in

446
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 3: Italy and she was making out with one of.

447
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 1: The models, Shandy Shandy.

448
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 3: She was making out with one of the male models

449
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 3: in a jacuzzie and I guess they ended up having

450
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 3: six or whatever. Definitely they shouldn't have recorded that. They

451
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 3: shouldn't have They should have aired the whole thing. Yeah,

452
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 3: my opinion, you know what's drinking. Yes, they shouldn't have

453
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 3: aired it. It was the yikes. But at the same time,

454
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 3: that's probably one of the very few moments when I

455
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 3: watched the documentary where I was like, Okay, this was

456
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 3: a little extra, this was a little overboard. Some of

457
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 3: that ship was a reach in my opinion, because in

458
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 3: the modeling world they do they do do a lot

459
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 3: of like strange stuff for the arts, you know what

460
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 3: I mean, like even with the women dressing up in

461
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 3: different cultures, like them making a black girl white and

462
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 3: a white girl black and all this.

463
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 1: So I feel like it was but exactly, I wasn't

464
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 1: offended on like this makeup is actually actually awful.

465
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 3: But at the same time, if y'all trying to do

466
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 3: it for as certain you know, editorial look or you're

467
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 3: trying to do it for.

468
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: A certain campaign whatever.

469
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 3: I get it, but it wasn't like offensive to me,

470
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,400
Speaker 3: but I think some people were very offended by. Yes,

471
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 3: Now what was kind of weird was the domestic abuse.

472
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, the photo that.

473
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 2: Was kind of strange.

474
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: And so so that's what I'm saying.

475
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 3: It was certain stuff where I'm like, Okay, I get it,

476
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 3: but at the same time, it's like twenty years ago.

477
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: Just let the sheet die where it's it. But I

478
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 1: also don't like how they made it seem like this

479
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: was all Tyra's either, because Tyra was showing up as

480
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 1: a whole. She eventually came on as producer, but y'all

481
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: was giving her a lot more power than she really

482
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: really had. Because if y'all don't think that this was

483
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: these white people behind her that was pulling them strings,

484
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: y'all are insane. But at least Tyra had the balls

485
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: to show up and sit in front of them cameras

486
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: and say, you know what, this is what was going on.

487
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,640
Speaker 1: This is what happened because none of them executives wanted

488
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: to talk.

489
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they was one, Like you said, they were

490
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 3: the ones pushing her to keep doing it for the ratings,

491
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 3: because at one point in time, that was like the

492
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 3: number one reality.

493
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: Thousand plue Top Model because it was American Idol first.

494
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: I think it was a mare, and I don't know

495
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 2: it was Real World for no.

496
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 1: Well, I'm talking about competition competition reality shows. I think

497
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: American Idol was first, so Top Models was shown. I

498
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 1: remember when Top Model came out, because y'all know, I'm

499
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: reality staying because Top Model came out afterwards, But that

500
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: was when people really started getting too the competition reality.

501
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: Then what was the Survivor? And then the Big Brother?

502
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 1: I mean it spawned so much ship and then making

503
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: the band came. Then everything else in Flavor of no

504
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: Classic now I would watch. I know they got some

505
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: not even about flavor. I know them girls in them

506
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: houses probably whooping each other's ass, and they was like editing, editing,

507
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: editing that shit out.

508
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: Y'all remember Charm School Charms.

509
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I know all of them got some stories one

510
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: thousand percent, but.

511
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 2: This was in there.

512
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 3: It was one of the starting three. It was so

513
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 3: basically you were right. American Idol was first in two

514
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 3: thousand and two. Then America's next Time Model two thousand

515
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 3: and three, then The Apprentice, but the brother was the

516
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 3: one that kicked it off in two thousand.

517
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: Oh well, so a big brother was okay, cool, that's damn,

518
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 1: I remember it. Brothers come out basal, I want to

519
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 1: say with oh okay, around time, it's.

520
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 3: Like this whole buzz, like big boom of reality TV at.

521
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: That yes, because they were saying reality TV killed TV

522
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 1: because people you know, was starting to watch that over

523
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: watching like a sister sister or you know whatever we

524
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: were watching at the time. But I can't agree with

525
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: you on that point. I think what I took away

526
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: from that documentary was I didn't like how they blamed

527
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: Tara and in the moment, you know when you're so

528
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: you want your dreams so bad, and they made you

529
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: feel like if you didn't do something, you would be bad.

530
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: But I also think that also goes to like, you know,

531
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: you got you do have to stand for something. It's

532
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: been a lot of times where I've been in a position

533
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: where I feel like, damn, I should have stood a

534
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: little firmer and not did something or like collaborated or

535
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: did something like I know I didn't want to do.

536
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 1: And so that's why I kind of give I give

537
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: them a little grace, you know, because it's hard. But

538
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: at the same time, I'm not gonna tell a story

539
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: about it because I did it. I have to take

540
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: a little bit of accountability, Like because I participated, you

541
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I participated.

542
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean y'all was a doll.

543
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody on that show was eighteen place, And I

544
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 3: mean I get it, at eighteen and twenty one, you

545
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 3: don't have the same mindset.

546
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 1: That you have at thirty and thirty five.

547
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,199
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, y'all could just

548
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 3: say no to certain stuff if y'all didn't feel comfortable

549
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 3: with it. But I think coming back all of these

550
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 3: years later and then even like a lot of them

551
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,360
Speaker 3: was trying to blame I guess Tyra for them not

552
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: ever having a modeling career.

553
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: Eva did, Takara did. That's what I'm saying.

554
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe you just didn't have Maybe you just

555
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 2: wasn't that.

556
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: You was in the top. Maybe you don't lie even

557
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: still strutting down that red carpet. Yeah, they strutting that shit, you.

558
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying on TV and not even just

559
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 3: you know, doing real Housewives, like doing reality TV and

560
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 3: Top Model like she was on TV shows and remember

561
00:26:59,520 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 3: she used to.

562
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 2: Be on the Game. Yeah back in the day's vixen.

563
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, yah, y'all, y'a, y'all is still acting to this day.

564
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 3: It's still beautiful still.

565
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: And like I said, I'm not saying people's experience. You know,

566
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: they deserve to speak about it if they want to.

567
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: But to me, after watching it, I thought it was

568
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: going to be like way more scandalous, and I guess

569
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: that's what I was all in all trying to say.

570
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 3: I think sometimes with all of these documentaries and stuff

571
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: that people be coming out with, sometimes I do feel

572
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 3: like it be to exploit people who need to be exploited,

573
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 3: and it do be too exposed people they need y

574
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 3: I it's not exploited, but exposed people that need to

575
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 3: be exposed.

576
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 2: But sometimes it also be like people trying.

577
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 3: To come back for their fifteen minutes yeah yeah, that

578
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 3: they needn't get Yeah.

579
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: And it also and they don't realize too like a

580
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: lot of this time it be a money grab for

581
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: a lot of these you know, directors and producers, yeah,

582
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: and things like that. And like I said, I don't

583
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: think I don't think Tyr is necessarily innocent. She's not guilty,

584
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: like they were trying to trying to crucify her, but

585
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: they said she's suing for that edit, they said that

586
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: she is suing. I mean she should.

587
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 3: I would, because, like you said, it's not to say

588
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 3: that she was. It's not for the fact, thank you,

589
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: that she was one hundred percent innocing. But at the

590
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 3: same time, sometimes you don't it just don't be you

591
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: don't be taking oli.

592
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't be taking oli.

593
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: But I will say I don't like how her relationship

594
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: with mister J and Miss Jay, Like, I didn't like that,

595
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: you know, it seemed very weird, you know.

596
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 3: But I also feel like it's always two sides to

597
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: a story, and it's easier saying somewhere in.

598
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: The middle is the truth. You know what else? I

599
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: was watching out a documentary. I would watch an American

600
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: Idol documentary because when Nicki and Mara was going at it,

601
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: I need to know what was really going on. I

602
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: was watching a TikTok about that this morning. I was like, damn,

603
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: I remember that they was going addy.

604
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: They wasn't fucking with each other.

605
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: It was so bad that like It was one moment

606
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: where royn Seacrests had like crack a joke. He was like, hey, y'all,

607
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: we's still going to Diniter tonight, and everybody was like

608
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: and Marian and Nicky were sitting there like this, Yeah,

609
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: I want an American Idol documentary now. It was life. Yeah,

610
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: but they say them contracts was nasty work too, like

611
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: like after like you won, they basically had like everything

612
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: you had to pay them, like everything, Like Kelly Clarkson,

613
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: like it took her a long time to get out

614
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: of that American Idol umbrella. So like when they would

615
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: go and do the tours, like she would never be

616
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: a part of them. Like a bunch of them were

617
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, like it was like hard to get

618
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: out that contract and a lot of them were stuff.

619
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: They were forced to go and do that tour. They

620
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: didn't want to do the tour. So yeah, I need

621
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: I need that documentary. Sorry, I'm nosy, I don't do it,

622
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: tell all, but y'all need to keep going. I need

623
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: to know.

624
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't do one. I mean it'd be interesting

625
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: to watch.

626
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: So yes for sure. All right, right, so.

627
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: Topic too, yes, Well, actually, before we get into topics,

628
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: So we need to ask taw what we drink drinking.

629
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: So we're gonna call this one the final Sip in

630
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: the UK, and it's gonna be their last stop on

631
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 3: a tour.

632
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: Do y'all feel victorious? Yes? Yes, all right?

633
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 3: So for this one, you have your spirit of choice.

634
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 3: We did go spicy a little bit on this one

635
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 3: as well.

636
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: Spirit of choice. You got tequila, you have vodka.

637
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: You could even do a little rum or gin if

638
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 3: I also added some apricot liquor. That's what's giving us

639
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 3: some of that fruitfulness. I use some lemon juice and

640
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 3: then I use an exotic citrus syrup so it's not

641
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 3: too sweet. You're gonna get more of that citrus, a

642
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,959
Speaker 3: little bit of that tartness through that syrup. And then

643
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 3: I also use some Hobernaro shrub as well, so that

644
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: has a little bit of vinegar.

645
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: Base to it.

646
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: It's also giving us some spiciness.

647
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 3: We garnished it with some lime wheels and some fresh

648
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 3: peppers inside.

649
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: And that is the final sip, y'all. Ooh tasty.

650
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that, because I was trying to figure.

651
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: Out what it was.

652
00:30:58,320 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 2: At first, I thought it was like I'm auretto.

653
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, that exotic citrus or the apricot, probably the aprikie.

654
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 3: Like I couldn't put my finger on it, but I

655
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: was like, it tastes kind of sweet within it. Something

656
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: tastes kind of like caramel, you know, like amoretto, kind

657
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 3: of taste tequila.

658
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it is.

659
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to breathe out my nose because that's

660
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: when I taste amaretto. When I so you taste it too,

661
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: I don't, you don't, but I can see why you

662
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: think that. Okay, I don't taste it, but I can

663
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: see why she thinks that because her repo maybe being

664
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: in there because I'm picking up that apricot. I'm picking

665
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: it up. I'm picking up what you're putting down. But

666
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: this is really good, it's really good. I can see

667
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: why you're tasting the amaretto. Okay, what we got. What

668
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: we got.

669
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 3: So for topic number two, we're going to talk about tokenism.

670
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 3: How do you feel about being the only black person

671
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: in social or professional setting? So, you know, recently the

672
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 3: passing of Nolan Wills, Miss Sputine, who was just found

673
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: after hanging out on a boat with an all white

674
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 3: group of friends. Many people are talking about black people

675
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 3: who are off, you know, usually the only black person

676
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 3: in these white spaces. How hard easy, how dangerous do

677
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: you feel it is? And how negatively or positively do

678
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 3: does it affect us as black people when we are

679
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: the only black person in white spaces.

680
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: Well, first, I do want to send my condolences to

681
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: Nolan Wells family. It's extremely tragic to lose, you know,

682
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: somebody so young and something that I mean, we weren't there,

683
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: but you know, you would hope that things like that

684
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: can be prevented. And you know I can speak on

685
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: this because if you look at all my pictures in

686
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: middle school, high school, I was the token, you know,

687
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: and I never understood while my mom would say certain

688
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: things and do certain things. And I always say this.

689
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out to my two

690
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: of my closest friends, Lindsey her mom Renee, and my

691
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: other best friend, Jasmine her mom Susan. You actually met

692
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 1: with Susan, she was at my mom's memorial, but they

693
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: always did a very good job of making me feel

694
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: at home. Hillary's mom as well, Miss Elane. And I

695
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: think what it is is that you know, you don't

696
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: really see what adults see. Like we were just talking

697
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: about earlier as a child. Yeah, so a lot of

698
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: times these children are in their parents' home and their

699
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: parents are racist. They're saying things, and they're making them

700
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: feel like a black life is less than. So when

701
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: you're in a dangerous situation, I would always think, oh,

702
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: let me save myself, save Drea, save you, save you.

703
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: But if you see, oh, well he's gonna be okay,

704
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: he can find for himself, let me save us, or

705
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. So I think that tokenism

706
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: is always dangerous. It's never good. You're always gonna be

707
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: last in line. You're always gonna be last pick, you're

708
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: always gonna be paid less, you're always gonna be And

709
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: I was raised to make it feel like, oh, I'm

710
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: special because you're this for a black girl, you talk

711
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: well for a black girl, you're pretty for a black girl.

712
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: So when you don't know any better, it makes you

713
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: feel special until you really be around some real people

714
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: that educate you. No, it's not, but they do that

715
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: very well to make you feel like you're special. You're

716
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: not like them. But it's never been a good situation.

717
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 1: Like I said, to be the only one, because I

718
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: look back at a lot of situations I was in

719
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: in middle school in high school when adults said things

720
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: to me, treated me a certain way, and I didn't

721
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: think nothing of that because I'm like, nobody's racist here,

722
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: it's a good time. But I'm like, as an adult,

723
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn when she said that she was picking

724
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: on me as an adult, as a teacher, pointing me out,

725
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: separating me, and what would have happened if I wasn't

726
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: protected by my mother, by my other friends' mothers and

727
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: things like that.

728
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: So unfortunately, we're seeing what America really is. This is

729
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 3: how it's always been. I mean, I definitely think that's

730
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 3: just the effects of for sure, living here in America

731
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 3: because as young black people were taught that that's like

732
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 3: a great thing to be the only black person that's

733
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 3: accepted into these spaces, when in reality, like it's really not.

734
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 3: It's very dangerous actually to be the only black person

735
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: in spaces where it's only white people.

736
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: And I always say this, especially now.

737
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 3: As an adult, because even looking back to like my

738
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 3: childhood and stuff, like I went to an all black

739
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 3: private school from the time I was like three up

740
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: until I was fourteen, and then when I went to

741
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 3: high school, I went to a predominantly white high school,

742
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 3: but it was still it was still like a decent

743
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 3: amount of black people that went there, but it was

744
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 3: predominantly white. And so my mom she just really wanted

745
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 3: me to go to these school because she was like,

746
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 3: Alhwa's such a good school. And it was like in

747
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 3: the richest neighborhood. If y'all are familiar with Houston, river

748
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 3: Oaks is like the richest neighborhood in Houston, and it

749
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 3: was in river Oaks, and my mom was just like, oh, well,

750
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 3: if you're going to go to any public.

751
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: School, it's going to be there.

752
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: And getting older now and looking back on it, I

753
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 3: feel like, when I have children, I'm never gonna put

754
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 3: my children in a situation where they're at a school

755
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: where it's only white people or they're like the only

756
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 3: black person, because I think it's so important for us

757
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,399
Speaker 3: to grow up around other people that are like us. Yes,

758
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 3: and you don't really realize the importance of that until

759
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 3: you do get older. And I think because I did

760
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 3: have that experience in my adolescent years when I got

761
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 3: to high school and I was kind of submerged in

762
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 3: a situation where I was around way more white people.

763
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 3: It wasn't awkward for me because I was confident in

764
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 3: myself and I knew who I was. But I can

765
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 3: only imagine what it's like to be in those spaces

766
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: in your formative years when you're really impressionable and you're

767
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 3: trying to figure out who you are, and you're constantly being.

768
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: Compared to them, and you kind of like the eyeball.

769
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 2: I don't think.

770
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 3: I think like black parents and black families do their

771
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 3: children more harm than good when they put them in

772
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 3: those type of environments. But they think they're getting you

773
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 3: an advantage. Yeah, but sure, really not, you're not at all.

774
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 3: And I think that's why I always say I give

775
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 3: our parents and grandparents.

776
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what they're taught. Oh, if it's a

777
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: bunch of white people there, it's good, it's safe, it's smarter,

778
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: it's better money, because that's what they still do that

779
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 1: the p wis are getting all the money. They do,

780
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: got the better books they do, have the better education

781
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: system and all that stuff. But I think now that

782
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: we're being aware of like what's really going on and

783
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 1: the psychology behind it and the effects that it has,

784
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: like they're dying, Like your children are being put in

785
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: positions where they could like literally lose their life. And

786
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: what's even scarier about it, it's like the friends parents

787
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: is a judge there. They're doctors, not like their high

788
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: profile people, and it's terrifying. Now do I want my child?

789
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: The main thing I want I want if I have children,

790
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: I mainly want them to be in a diverse school. Yeah.

791
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: I want you to be able to learn about, you know,

792
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: Nigerian people, people from Ghana, Asian people like. I want

793
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: you to be around all types of cultures because to me,

794
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: if I see just like a whole bunch of like

795
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: American white people, like, that's not gonna teach you anything

796
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: about the world. And when I had to learn so

797
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,919
Speaker 1: much because of I'm thinking that I'm at a white

798
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: school and I know so much, but I didn't know

799
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: shit about anything. I'm moving to Houston offending everybody because

800
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: I don't know shit, you know what I'm saying. So

801
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: I just think that that mentality of oh, you know,

802
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: my biggest pet people. I hate when people be like

803
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 1: I need some white friends. I want to go to

804
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: the white party.

805
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 3: The reason I picked that they white friends. They don't

806
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: want you, they don't want you there. They really don't

807
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 3: like they gonna be like when I tell you the

808
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 3: best thing. When I went into my neighborhood.

809
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: I remember the first day when Medina showed me that

810
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: house and the guy who's now my neighbor was walking

811
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: out of his house and his wife thought. I was like, ooh,

812
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: this is a good sign because that were black. Then

813
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: I've seen the people on the other side of the house.

814
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: They was black. I've seen a lot of black kids

815
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: run around. I said, okay, you know, of course, you know,

816
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: I got some like the neighborhood, and they're really nice.

817
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm not I'm not like an all

818
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: white people are bad. I'm not that type of person.

819
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: But because they're not. But again, I like to be

820
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: in mixed spaces and mixed company. Like I didn't go

821
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: to a school where it was a good amount of

822
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: black people. It wasn't It was literally like ten of us. Seriously,

823
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: So for me, it's like my neighborhood being all black.

824
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: That's how I feel comfortable because if I know, if

825
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 1: I go beating on my neighbor's door because something is

826
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 1: going on, He's not gonna shoot me through the goddamn

827
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: door because oh, I just saw a black person beating

828
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: on my door. He's gonna be like, oh, what's going on?

829
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: Because she's usually quiet, keeping to herself. Obviously something's going wrong.

830
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: So I honestly, I feel safer around my people, and

831
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: I feel accepted. I can talk to my girl like, damn, bitch,

832
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: you got something from my kitchen. Even talking about hair products,

833
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: that's when my hair used to be fucked up, bitch,

834
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I'm over hair using trusting la La.

835
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: You need some just for me? You know what was

836
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: that other one? Aussie?

837
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why black ass using you?

838
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: Why you need someone got you, Laurel?

839
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: You need all r Hello, you need a little doctor miracle.

840
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: And mind you, this was during the time, now Laurel

841
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: and all these products they have the black lines that

842
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: they later now ye now then I wasn't a thing before.

843
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: It wasn't You need some moisture, bitch, But I'm just doing.

844
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: If I go to my friend's house, I gotta use

845
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: their products. I stayed the night. We just got off

846
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: the pool. I'll get out the pool look like Martin

847
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: Luther King. Yeah, because you know I ain't have no hair.

848
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 3: Back then it was a little short little thing was

849
00:40:53,200 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 3: given Florida, damn, da damn. But you know, but you

850
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 3: know how good it would have been to have a

851
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 3: little black friend or going to a black girl's house

852
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: and a mama could have helped do my hair and

853
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 3: things like that.

854
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: I come home my mom, like, this is why you

855
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: stay your ass at own. Yeah, you know, but my

856
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: mom rarely, like I said, she used to let me

857
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: go to them three houses, and I used to get

858
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: so mad at her. But now as an adult, I

859
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: understand why she's like, oh, you're not going to the house.

860
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 1: I don't know their parents like that, and it didn't

861
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,479
Speaker 1: be happening to adults. There was a woman, Yeah, rest

862
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 1: in peace to her. She went and had a summer

863
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: party with her friends as an adult, like you know,

864
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: like we had a New Year's Hey Joe, we had

865
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: New Years at your house. They celebrating something. One black

866
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: lady ends up dead. Oh she died in her sleep.

867
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 3: Oh I did see, dad, I did see that. That

868
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: was crazy.

869
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

870
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: Nobody can sell you what.

871
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: Nobody knows what happened. That's why whatever happened to that

872
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: boy to Nolan Wells if it was an accident, didn't

873
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 1: tell us what happened, lowering up.

874
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 2: Everybody being quiet, eladed.

875
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: Their social medias, or like scrub their social media accounts,

876
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,240
Speaker 3: like it's just very strange.

877
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: It happened to my friend. I'm immediately being like, this

878
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: is what happened, and it was truly an accident. They

879
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: trying to cover up something, and I get it. They

880
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 1: under age. It was probably out there drinking and stuff

881
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: like that. It was something sinister going on that went wrong.

882
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: It was something nasty and we get into the bottle.

883
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: Somebody needs to go to jail because I'm tired of

884
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: seeing people getting away with stuff and it's tiring. You know.

885
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,439
Speaker 3: It is very interesting because as a kid, I grew

886
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: up in the suburbs of Chicago, and Chicago is already

887
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 3: a segregated city.

888
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that until I was an adult too.

889
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 3: But like when I was in the suburbs, all my

890
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 3: best friends were black girls, Like I would attract myself

891
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 3: to the other black girl in my class, and like

892
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 3: that would become my best friend. I never felt it

893
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 3: was just something where I just did not feel comfortable.

894
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 3: I hated going to their houses. It was just weird

895
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 3: and my parents knew that too. But that's why I

896
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 3: wanted to go to an HBCU because I felt like

897
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: all of my childhood I was around diversity, and I

898
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 3: appreciate it, but I wanted to just go somewhere where

899
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,720
Speaker 3: it was like Krem dela krim of the black people.

900
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: And I learned so much about our diaspora where we

901
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 3: came from. Like you, even in classes you would learn things,

902
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 3: but like hearing it from people fresh off the boat

903
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 3: or their first generation American.

904
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, their parents had.

905
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 3: To bust they ass to get here, or their royalty

906
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 3: in Africa. They're a country that they came from. Like

907
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 3: to me, that was just so beautiful because we don't

908
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 3: hear about that here.

909
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: No we don't. We don't.

910
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 3: And like even just like you said, I'm sure going there,

911
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: and then realizing how many people like parents are black doctors,

912
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 3: are black lawyers, all of these things that we think

913
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 3: like the things that our parents and our grandparents taught us.

914
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 3: This is the reason why we need to be around

915
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: white people and become friends with them, because their parents

916
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 3: are these things. It's so many black people who have

917
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 3: been affluent who come from like generational yeah, and have

918
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 3: come from generational wealth for.

919
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 2: You know, a long time.

920
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 3: But I don't know why we're not taught that because

921
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 3: some of us aren't brought up in those spaces and

922
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: it's newer for us. It's newer. Like my parents didn't

923
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 3: they didn't go to college officially. They did it like

924
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 3: as adults later on. So like they didn't have no

925
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 3: friends that were lawyers, politicians and like high ranking.

926
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: Officials and stuff like that.

927
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 3: They met them through me, like because these are my friends'

928
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: parents that I'm introducing them to. So even that their

929
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: first generation now, maybe second rig now.

930
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, and that's one thing, like I always say

931
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: I love about being in Atlanta. Like I had to

932
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: go to the dentist yesterday, shout out to doctor Jared

933
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: at JLM Dentistry. It's nothing but black women when I

934
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: walk in there, and I'd be having a ball every time.

935
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: It just it feels at home. Yeah, So yes, I

936
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: love to be around my people. And you know what,

937
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: another funny thing is of all the white friends I

938
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: had growing up, the ones I would attach myself to

939
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: when all the stuff was coming out with like the

940
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: cops were killing everybody and Trump getting in the office.

941
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: When I tell you Facebook, you get to see who

942
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: voted for Trump and they was being real. I said, oh,

943
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 1: this is why my mama didn't like you. And my

944
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: friends that were my friends in my circle, they were

945
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: being very vocal about, you know, black lives matter. They

946
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 1: didn't mind posting the Black lives matter. But the people

947
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: that were quiet and the people that were throwing reposting

948
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: memes about Obama being shady and shit, my mama was

949
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: right about you, which very motherfucking right. And I made

950
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: it very clear with the post still to this day,

951
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with y'all. They all know who they are.

952
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with y'all, and I made it very

953
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: fucking clear. My mama didn't like you, and I don't either.

954
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta let it be known because they

955
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: get Yes, you're poor. Did you see them You're no,

956
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying like you are. You're literally poor in Orange Texas.

957
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 1: And you're thinking that Trump and all of this these

958
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: things is helping you. You think that these black people

959
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: you're calling and talking bad about people is gonna help you.

960
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,800
Speaker 1: These are people that could literally hire you, but you

961
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: rather call them the N word. And be nasty and

962
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: ugly and you were living in the Deep South and

963
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: you're literally I'm serious, No, you're right.

964
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 3: I just think it's an interesting topic because, like me

965
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 3: and Lynn was actually talking about this the other day,

966
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 3: because I can't remember how we got on this topic,

967
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 3: but we were just talking about how like some you know,

968
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 3: white people, they'll feel like we don't deserve to be here,

969
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 3: and I'd be like, have y'all forgotten the motherfucking history

970
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: of how we got Every year? Can we here because

971
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: of y'all? Y'all came and got us, maybe we would

972
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 3: have still been in Africa proliquin around having a ball.

973
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: Y'all came and got us from where we was at

974
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 3: and disturbed our motherfucking peas and brought us over here.

975
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 3: And now y'all always trying to make us feel like

976
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 3: we don't belong. But if we be in technical, nobody

977
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 3: belongs but the Native Americans. That's why they called Native Americans.

978
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 3: They're the only native people. Y'all came in rapes and

979
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 3: pillaged these people all their land and took yes and

980
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 3: took what y'all thought was y'all's, but it wasn't. Y'all

981
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 3: stole these shep and then y'all came and brought a

982
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: whole bunch of diseases and sheep over from Europe for me, honest,

983
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 3: And then y'all brought our ass over here. And now

984
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,839
Speaker 3: y'all mad that we hear and feel like we don't

985
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: deserve equality, but mad that we.

986
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: Came here and flourished. That's what they really mad at

987
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,479
Speaker 1: because they wanted to keep us oppressed, and that didn't happen.

988
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: They did not have even us doing this. This was

989
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 1: not in their plan, of course, for none of this

990
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: to happen. If it was up to a lot of

991
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: these people, we would still be in the field, to

992
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 1: be honest, And they're showing it. And anybody that supports Trump,

993
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: I don't care. Y'all are allowing that shit. And y'all

994
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 1: are they feel bold to come out with their racism again.

995
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: They feel like they have a right to say these things.

996
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 1: Black people are still in these small towns. Oh, they're

997
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: committing suicide. They're still lynching people.

998
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 3: And even in DC, did you see the freedom well

999
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: not the freedom right, what do you call them? They

1000
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 3: have the mask on, Yes, it's on the bus. I

1001
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 3: saw that black girl just sitting there, just sitting there.

1002
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 3: It was like a Filipino guy, same thing. They're like,

1003
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 3: we were petrified, we know what they were gonna do,

1004
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 3: and at this point they can do.

1005
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: They're the problem. It's like something like that. They're like

1006
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: the problems. They cover their faces and there, and they're like,

1007
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: what's scary about this? These are your doctors, yes, these

1008
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 1: are your lawyers, these are your policemen, but they're covering

1009
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: up their identity. Then they're going back home, taking the

1010
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: mask offs and clocking into work like nothing fucking happened.

1011
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: And then y'all are gaslighting us and treating us like

1012
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: we're crazy when we're in spaces. Literally, you know what's crazy.

1013
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: I went to a restaurant last night. I'm not gonna

1014
00:48:55,640 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: put them on blasts. I went to eat and I'm

1015
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: walking in. It's just so crazy. I'm paying attention when

1016
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: I tell you. A bartender walked past me. Another waiter

1017
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: walked past me, just walking past me. I'm just trying

1018
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: to sidney. The black waiter finally came up to me

1019
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 1: and sat me down. Whatever, ate my food, whatever. Then

1020
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: the girl ends up. One of the girls that I

1021
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: didn't see had came up because she recognized who I was.

1022
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: But I'm like, damn, it's so crazy because if I

1023
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: sat here and really put the restaurant on blast, made

1024
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 1: a big deal about it, made a hoopla I could

1025
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: have because I'm standing there and nobody is talking to me,

1026
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, damn, this is crazy. Y'all. Still just

1027
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: don't be wanting to talk to people, speak to people

1028
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: because the color of there. There was no reason I

1029
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been greeted, no reason at all. And like

1030
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,399
Speaker 1: I said, I've waited tables before. Even if you say, hey,

1031
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna be right with you. Hey, I'm sorry, ma'am,

1032
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: just give us one second. We're kind of swamp right now.

1033
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: You can't even say I don't even need that. That's

1034
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: how you acknowledge me. Yeah, I said, okay, but again

1035
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: that's why it's like, just treat people fairly, but they don't.

1036
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:06,280
Speaker 1: So whatever. That's why I remove myself from that space.

1037
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: And I'm glad I did.

1038
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 3: They me and sister great. So now it's time to

1039
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 3: get into the bed bow, the b bow, the bed bow. Okay,

1040
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:23,720
Speaker 3: So for the bed type of we're gonna talk about

1041
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 3: are you or would you be embarrassed after making a mess.

1042
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: In the bed. Hmm, you know, I'm not gonna lie.

1043
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: I think you should not be embarrassed about anything you

1044
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:37,919
Speaker 1: do in the bed because you're sharing an intimate moment

1045
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: with somebody you obviously like. I think I'm not gonna lie.

1046
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 4: Like.

1047
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: It depends on the occasion where I'm at, because we

1048
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: gotta go to sleep. If I'm making a mess in

1049
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: the band, I'm being performed. I hope I'm in a

1050
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 1: hotel room. But at my house, I gotta change the sheets.

1051
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: If I don't have any other clean sheets, we gotta

1052
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: wait for them to wash. Now we're sitting on the

1053
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: couch butt naked. That's waiting, damn. So honestly, I don't like.

1054
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna have a little you know, you're

1055
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: gonna have that little whisp, but you can't help that.

1056
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: That's gonna happen. We can put a little towel on

1057
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 1: that and go to sleep. But the spraying, the waterworks

1058
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: and all that he nothing. I do not like when

1059
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: niggas get all crazy with that nut. Either you need

1060
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: to aim and get it in one spot. Do not

1061
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,840
Speaker 1: be nothing all crazy on this bitch. You know what

1062
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, so, No, I don't like. I don't get

1063
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: it very much. Nut he got sometimes that be backed

1064
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 1: up a nigga be do not be nothing all crazy? Yeah,

1065
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: I mean it's been some instances where Big Daddy been

1066
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 1: backed up. Mama had to take it on. U. Sorry,

1067
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: I had to unback my baby. It is very nasty.

1068
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: Who freaking in the sanctuary. But I say all that

1069
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: to say, if you backed up like that, if I'm

1070
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: backed up like that, I don't like a miss That's

1071
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: why I said I'm very vanilla in the bedroom as

1072
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 1: far as like, let's just you know, make sweet sweet love. Yeah,

1073
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 1: I don't need all that now. If we're in the

1074
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 1: hotel room, I ain't gonna I know, the w hotel.

1075
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: It's tired of me.

1076
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 3: I'm never I'm never embarrassed of like Makouci being with Why.

1077
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 1: Would I embarrassed by that? Yeah, you know what I mean.

1078
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 3: When I think of like missies, I think of like

1079
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 3: other stuff happening, Like what I remember back in the day,

1080
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 3: we had heard a story about somebody shitting while it

1081
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 3: was getting fucked in the bag.

1082
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know they call it, they call

1083
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: it painting.

1084
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so I remember we heard the story about that.

1085
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 3: That's the type of stuff that I been thinking about

1086
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: that I feel like maybe could be embarrassing. Yeah somebody, Okay,

1087
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 3: you're right, you shit on a nigga. That's embarrassing. I

1088
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 3: would assume if you pee too, because sometimes you pee

1089
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 3: on something because let's say like it because like you know,

1090
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 3: when you having sex, you really can't like I think

1091
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,240
Speaker 3: you're I think you kind of can't pee the closes.

1092
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 2: I think so right, No, you can tell you while

1093
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 2: the is inside O.

1094
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 1: You know ta Okay, I've never really yeah, I did

1095
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: not know that. I don't know. Yeah, you can definitely

1096
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: pee because you know, like sometimes this is what I say, Like,

1097
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: you know, as a woman, when you're about to orgasm,

1098
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: sometimes it feels like you got a peek, dude, and

1099
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I know now the difference, but

1100
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: I think sometimes like coming up in the game and

1101
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: you learn in your body, sometimes you might push you're

1102
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: trying to push yourself to nutting orgasm.

1103
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 3: You pee and you accidentally pee, yes, yes, yes, control. Yeah,

1104
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 3: I've I've had some flatulence before. Yeah, okay, but i'd

1105
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 3: be like you did this. I don't know, like I

1106
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 3: don't feel embarrassed. Yeah, and I can tell you to

1107
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 3: stop if I feel like, Hey, I genuinely don't know

1108
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 3: what's gonna come out next.

1109
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why sex is so crazy. If you really

1110
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: think it's a lot of fluid, it is. It's spit,

1111
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: it's nut, it's puss juice. Sometimes bussies be leaking, you make.

1112
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 3: Any sound really fucking nasty beach and don't let it

1113
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 3: leaking to at the end of the day, Why is

1114
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 3: your bus leaking?

1115
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: You're leaking out? No, I love you no, like you

1116
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,280
Speaker 1: know how like if you like I say this because

1117
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: I had a conversation with my friends shot out to Clay,

1118
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: but he was like, you know, sometimes people bootyhole be

1119
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: creaming when they be doing so sometimes that bootyhole will like,

1120
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: you know, I mean it do but i'my No, But

1121
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: I'm but I'm saying the way you said leaking.

1122
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, like, I don't know.

1123
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: My mom just be going to some crowd. I don't

1124
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: mean like that.

1125
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 3: I'm thinking you mean like a girl like she riding

1126
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 3: beacon in her booty leaking.

1127
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 1: No I'm not like, No, I didn't mean it like that,

1128
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: but I'm saying it's just a lot of fluids involved.

1129
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: They probably do heapy for some people do, especially if

1130
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: that booty lose, If that booty hole is lose, it's

1131
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: gonna some something might slip on.

1132
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 2: The might slip out.

1133
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, your little lunch might slip out too, Oh my goodness.

1134
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying, Like, that's so going back

1135
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 3: to making a missing big that's what I be thinking about.

1136
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 3: That's more so the type of embarrassing she that I

1137
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: be thinking about that be happening to people like people do.

1138
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: Be sheeting on accident during stax and says she's like anal.

1139
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, little corn might come out.

1140
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: Oh I have a story about some corn, but it's

1141
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 1: not my story to share. I think I know the

1142
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: story already. No you don't, I promise you don't. It's

1143
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: about one of my homeboys that he told me. But

1144
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna tell it just because it's not like

1145
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: I said, it's not he gonna beat my it's oh

1146
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: my goodness. But yeah, like yeah, but I do feel

1147
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: like even if that happens, if you're doing anal with somebody,

1148
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: it should be with somebody you trust, so you're not embarrassed.

1149
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times though honestly, these moments

1150
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: are set up for a lot of times for us

1151
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,439
Speaker 1: to be embarrassed. You know what I'm saying, for women

1152
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 1: to be embarrassed, Conna, you know what I'm saying, Like

1153
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: when you hear horror stories about message, it's always kind

1154
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 1: of like, well, I'll say, like straight women in bed

1155
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: dealing with me in with straight men. So I think

1156
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: a lot of time that's why we gotta stop giving

1157
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: up our bodies to people that we don't trust and

1158
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: that we don't feel safe with, because if there's anything

1159
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: that happen in bed that he's gonna make you feel

1160
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 1: embarrassed about it, you feel like, oh my god, he's

1161
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 1: not gonna talk to me again. Don't fuck him. Ask

1162
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 1: your tonight, ladies, if you have a date tonight tomorrow,

1163
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:32,399
Speaker 1: ask yourself if I accidentally sharked in this nigga bed,

1164
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: is he gonna still talk to me? Or I Am?

1165
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: I gonna feel some type of way, Cause if I

1166
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,919
Speaker 1: shardened my nigga bed, I'll be like, fuck, you're gonna

1167
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 1: clean mine up? Yeah? Yeah, he gonna be like, why

1168
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,439
Speaker 1: you did that? And he gonna crack a little joke

1169
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: and we're gonna keep it bush yet. Yeah, so agree,

1170
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: we need to ask yourself. Does this nigga care if

1171
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 1: I shark before you fuck him? Yeah, that's gonna help

1172
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: you out. No more embarrassing moments in the bedroom. I

1173
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 1: don't want my ladies. It's time to bring back fun

1174
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: and sex. Have a hoot and holler, let's laugh, let's you.

1175
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: It don't have to be all like I love you

1176
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,240
Speaker 1: and love you too quick. A little joe damn squirting,

1177
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 1: ain't she though? Bring back the fun?

1178
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also feel like if I had sex

1179
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 3: with somebody for the first time and they shorty.

1180
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 2: I don't know if I will be bag the first

1181
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 2: time the first time. Yes, because not doing it for

1182
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 2: the first time because you saying.

1183
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 3: You said your men, like if you did something, your

1184
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 3: men will probably clean it up because that's your man.

1185
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 2: Y'all are in love, like this is your this is

1186
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 2: your boob.

1187
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 3: Same like if I did that, I'm sure the person

1188
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,919
Speaker 3: that I'm having six we would like be like, it's cool,

1189
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 3: it ain't no big deal.

1190
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 2: But the first time, Okay.

1191
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: Maybe let me take back a little peace.

1192
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 3: A little pee, let's say, a little pee, A little

1193
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 3: pie is fine. What about a little vod me. Oh,

1194
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 3: like if you throw up on up they don't.

1195
00:57:55,080 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: Like that though, Like it depends what you eight thow,

1196
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: because you know sometimes that throw up bestied, especially if

1197
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: you've been drinking or have some seafood. You know, I

1198
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,919
Speaker 1: don't have something that's coming out both fans.

1199
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 2: Imagine imagine doing that and you just ate a crawfie

1200
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 2: boil little seafood boy.

1201
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'll say this, ask yourself. Let's take away

1202
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: the shark. Let's say if I accidentally peed.

1203
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 3: In the bed while having sex with this man, will

1204
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 3: he make me feel bad for the first time?

1205
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, that should let you know your your comfort

1206
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: level with this person for sure, because garden is kind

1207
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: of that's the little deed for the first in common

1208
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: even the first few in cons pussy too good, you

1209
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: ship it all that. I think sometimes I put that

1210
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: pussy on the nigga. He just slid. No, no, no,

1211
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: because what I didn't like. You know how you you

1212
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 1: be giving a nigga ahead and then you climb on top,

1213
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: and you know you he sliding. I didn't got on

1214
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: top of a nigga and a fart that slipped out,

1215
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 1: But no, he did no, no, dookie did. But I'd

1216
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: have made a nigga fart before.

1217
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: I mean, but yeah, him farting is different from you, bitch.

1218
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: This is two different things.

1219
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 3: If you sit on top of a nigga dick, you

1220
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 3: get off top of you still have a ship comes out.

1221
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 2: That's fucking diabolical. Oh fuck, I would not call you tomorrow,

1222
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 2: but it finished.

1223
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 1: The y'all know, it's a going around right now, and

1224
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: it's like explosive diarrhea. If you've ever had diarrhea, sometimes

1225
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: you think you got a fart, but you fart and ship.

1226
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: That's why every time I'm sick, anytime I feel like

1227
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: my stomach grand, I'm like, oh, it's just a fart.

1228
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: I go sit on that toilet, because you got a ship.

1229
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: Anytime you have diarrhea, you never have to fart. You

1230
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 1: always got So what if he got the little stomach

1231
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: bug and he didn't know it?

1232
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 2: Then don't you asking me? What if a nigga sh

1233
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 2: did and I was fucking him?

1234
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, be fucking for real?

1235
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 3: No mm hmmm, Like you said, my man, Like if

1236
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 3: this is my man and we have been in a

1237
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 3: relationship for a long time, and like you end up

1238
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 3: having a stomach bug and something. I'm gonna be so

1239
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 3: fucking disgusted, but you my man, So I'm not gonna

1240
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 3: stop talking to you for that reason. But is this

1241
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 3: the first time that we fucking or the second time?

1242
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 1: Third time?

1243
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 3: And I sit on top of your d she and

1244
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 3: you get up and it's like a dookie staying in

1245
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 3: the bed. That story that's with the one little nugg

1246
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 3: nugget who was No, it wasn't no nugget, she said

1247
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 3: it was you're talking about.

1248
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: No, it was it was Callie. It was Callie, it

1249
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: was Tally.

1250
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 2: But that was on the show.

1251
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 3: What I was talking to you about was something that

1252
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 3: was told to us off here somebody.

1253
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 2: We was cool with, ye but and they was doing

1254
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: anal but yeah.

1255
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: So Talie slapped that nugget against the window.

1256
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: Scream that was a hard nuggie.

1257
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: That's what I said. You need to drink the window like, yeah,

1258
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: that's a little hard. It's crazy.

1259
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 2: Your fool need to be softened.

1260
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I don't know. Okay, let's move on. Let

1261
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 1: us know how y'all feel about being embarrassed in the

1262
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: bedroom shell. Okay, now it's.

1263
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 3: Time to get into about all about Bow Bow wow

1264
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 3: Bow Bow, So.

1265
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: My bop of the week. Y'all know I love my

1266
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: music period and this is why you can't take tell

1267
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 1: me nothing about TikTok. TikTok always puts me on good music.

1268
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 1: I found a song that was going extremely viral, and

1269
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: usually when I see it, hear a virus song, I'm like,

1270
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:07,439
Speaker 1: you actually play it and the rest of the song

1271
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: is ass. But I was pleasantly surprised to hear this

1272
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,919
Speaker 1: oot oot song and it's so good. It's a song

1273
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: called Dance by Slater. Whoever was producing this record and

1274
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:21,200
Speaker 1: produced it was like I ate that I know they did.

1275
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: There was in the big, big, big, big big bag,

1276
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: so dance by Slater. It's called Dance by Slater. It's

1277
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: that type of music like you get ready to but

1278
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: not you don't get ready to this song. This is

1279
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: your final product. So once you're already dressed, you look

1280
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: in the mirror and you're like, you gotta play this

1281
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: song like it's giving vogue, Like I'm a bad bitch. Yes,

1282
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: it's the beat. That beat is just nasty. I gotta

1283
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: go listen to it. It's so good. It's called Dance

1284
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: by Slater, and it's like yes, it's ooz music. It's

1285
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: so good, Like if this song came on to the club,

1286
01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't get my white girl on. Excuse me, I

1287
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 1: know I said had no tokenism, but god, I got

1288
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 1: to dance with the whiteis on that one. But it's wise.

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Speaker 1: So is it like rave music. It's like.

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Speaker 3: It's that kind of like you know, it's a little

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Speaker 3: bit yeah summer, yes, summer music.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's definitely summer music. And I saw I haven't

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Speaker 1: heard the full song, but a Little Baby dropped the

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01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: snippet with forhar Real that for Real produced Little Baby

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Speaker 1: is back, bitch really fire. I like, what is it called?

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Speaker 1: It's called what the song a Little Baby? I don't

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Speaker 1: know the name of it. He played the snippet at

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Speaker 1: the Louis vasn store and I've been seeing a lot

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Speaker 1: of people on TikTok post the clips and you know,

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Speaker 1: a Little Baby popping his ship. You know, he was like,

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Speaker 1: I like when she uh be on Instagram with shit

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01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: that I bought for her, Like, you know, he put

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01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 1: his nanny and Chanelle, he popping his ship. Period. It's

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01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 1: a pop shit song. He's like, I got this beat

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01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:58,479
Speaker 1: from phar Real. You know, he's just popping his ship.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like that's the baby we want to

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01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: hear baby popping your ship like you that nigga pop

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Speaker 1: your ship. That's what we need to close the summer out.

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Speaker 1: Summer is almost over, guys, Yes it is. It's time

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Speaker 1: to whip them boots out another. Well.

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Speaker 3: You know, I like fall though, Fall is like probably

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Speaker 3: my second favorite season.

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Speaker 1: Ball is cool because it's not cold.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, winter, you could put that sheet in the dirt.

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Speaker 3: I'll be over the fucking winter. Honestly, please leave me along,

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01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 3: go away from you with these. And we live in

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Speaker 3: the South. I could not imagine Chicago already know time.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. I know you don't mean winter.

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Speaker 1: I went to Chicago in the winter one time with

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Speaker 1: Killer Never again me too, Yeah awful. I went to

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Speaker 1: Chicago in the winter. Shit it was cold, all right.

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Speaker 1: So that'll be your documentary surviving, yeah, sa idea. Somebody

1323
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: said in my comments, they was like, look, they said,

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01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 1: lovelex P gonna get canceled because Dre is not there

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01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 1: to stop her.

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Speaker 2: It got like a thousand yeah, because their ass is

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Speaker 2: fucking crazy.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 1: They said drug is not here to stop and I

1330
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: was like, Lex please, y'all know that memest scary movie

1331
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:27,439
Speaker 1: when Regina Hall's like looking at She's like, yeah, they said,

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01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna gonna do what he see me gonna gunna

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01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: m M. I'm gonna suw it to you. Y'all know

1334
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, cause y'all seen it. I'm gonna

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01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 1: show you and I see anyway.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Bryson Tiller got a song called Dropped the Load.

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01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 3: I like this song, but I've always been like a

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01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 3: Bryson scholar fan. I have.

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01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 2: It's the whole time you even known me because I

1340
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 2: feel like the you.

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01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: Put me on Bryson tailor honestly, yeah, because I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like the year that we made that was what

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01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 3: twenty fifteen? Yeah, and I think that's when let Me

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01:05:56,520 --> 01:06:00,080
Speaker 3: see Drop Soul. That's when Trapped Soul came out. It

1345
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 3: came my October of that year. So yeah, I've always

1346
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 3: been like a big Bryson til.

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Speaker 1: Pick it up. Oh yeah, you used to love that song.

1348
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 2: I need to love that song.

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01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm a fan.

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01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:14,960
Speaker 2: So we need to have bryceon Tiler on the show.

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Speaker 1: See.

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01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 2: I know songs Dropped the Low it came out last month,

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01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 2: and I.

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01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,640
Speaker 1: Really like you shut up to Bryson Tailor. I like him.

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Speaker 4: I do too.

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Speaker 1: All right, now we're moving on to the pour your

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01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: Heart out segment of the show. Make sure you put

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01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 1: in the headline that you're a Patreon remember, and you

1359
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 1: can skip the line. Email us at ask poor Minds

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01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. You want to go first.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Hey, y'all. So I'm eighteen. My name is Andrea.

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01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 3: I'm from Orlando, Florida. But I just graduated high school

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01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 3: and I stopped talking to this guy. He was my

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01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 3: first everything. My friend's advice is to find new dudes

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01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 3: and do stuff with them, and it's like, I want to,

1366
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 3: but I meet him even though we're very, very toxic

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01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 3: and it was a bad situation. My question is how

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Speaker 3: do I really get over someone I really liked and

1369
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 3: I was so comfortable with. Inside note, I love you guys,

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01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 3: real bad unties. Well, girl, you eighteen, so I know

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01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 3: you probably don't want to hear this, but it's gonna

1372
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 3: be so many more people after this person. I get

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01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 3: that he's like your first or whatever, but if it

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01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 3: was toxic, and I think that that's very admirable that

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01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 3: at such a young age, like you know when you

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01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 3: need to not be in a situation anymore, because I

1377
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 3: feel like so many young girls they don't even be

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01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 3: realizing that they be in toxic situations. They be thinking

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01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 3: he's cute, you know, they be thinking he's cute, that

1380
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 3: they be thinking that the toxicity mean he loved you,

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01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 3: you know. So I think the fact that you was

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01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 3: mature enough to leave the situation is very commendable. And

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01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 3: you're gonna find love again. You gonna find somebody else

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01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 3: that you like. You have so much more life to live,

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01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 3: and I think you just need to give yourself a

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01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 3: little bit more grace. But if you know for a

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01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 3: fact it was toxic, you don't need to go back

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01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 3: to that situation. And you know, this said old school advice,

1389
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 3: but they always say the best way to get over

1390
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 3: somebody's you know, start dating again.

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Speaker 1: I agree one thousand percent. And I think a lot

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01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: of times we need to realize as women, a lot

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01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: of times we don't like these men. We just want

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01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 1: them to pick us for our ego. We just want

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01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 1: to feel like he chose me, and he because we

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01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 1: put our value in being a good woman. And if

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Speaker 1: a man picked you or not, and that does not

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01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 1: mean anything. I always tell y'all. These niggas will pick

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01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:31,719
Speaker 1: a bag of rocks if you put enough lube on it. Okay,

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01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: so girl, move on, And that was not the lie.

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01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:37,640
Speaker 1: It really breaks my heart when I see women be

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01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 1: like this was the love of my life. If this

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01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: was the love of your life, it wouldn't be going

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01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 1: down like this. Okay, all right. I'm twenty five with

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01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:50,800
Speaker 1: three kids. God, dig get it down, and I'm in

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Speaker 1: the process of getting a divorce soon. I'm messing around

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01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 1: with my ex from six years ago, and I really

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01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 1: really want to be in a relationship with him right now.

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Speaker 1: He's always treated me like a queen. Shit, i feel

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01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 1: like I'm healed the fuck. What? Oh, I think it's

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01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 1: not no common there. Shit, I feel like I'm already

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01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 1: healed the fuck all. So my question is, do y'all

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Speaker 1: think I'm tripping from one of a relationships so early

1414
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 1: during my divorce? Yes, go take care of them kids,

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01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: get them acclimated to the new environment that they're in.

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01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: And you worried about this ex that you left six

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01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 1: years ago. He didn't treat you like a queen. As

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01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 1: if he did, you wouldn't let them in the first place.

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Speaker 3: Bitch and you're now two different people after six years.

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01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,040
Speaker 3: You are a mother now, he is somebody else like

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01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:34,080
Speaker 3: you don't even.

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01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 2: Know if you really for real like him yet you're

1423
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: thinking of that all chemistry.

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01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: Yes, and she's just doing this because you're going through

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01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: something a little tough right now. So it feels good.

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01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: But now you can do feel good shit when you

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01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: ain't got no kids, thanks, you got other people to worry.

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01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 2: Heay, it's a lot of moles to feed.

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01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need to slow it down, figure

1430
01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: out the situation with your ex husband and your kids

1431
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: and how y'all gonna do all this because this is

1432
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,600
Speaker 1: gonna be a long journey co parenting and stuff. And

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01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:07,559
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking from experience, but again, I have nephews

1434
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:09,680
Speaker 1: and things like that that I had to work through

1435
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,600
Speaker 1: with my sister and her situation and things like that.

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01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: It's a long journey and a long road. I think

1437
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 1: being in a relationship should be the last thing that's

1438
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 1: on your mind. I'm not saying, don't you know it's

1439
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 1: that scratch when you gotta you know, scratch the eage,

1440
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:28,599
Speaker 1: same thing she says she's in the process of divorce.

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01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 3: Yes, and then I would just be worried that that

1442
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 3: could come back in court too that they did. I

1443
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,720
Speaker 3: don't know how spiteful your husband might be, but they

1444
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 3: can bring up that you talking to this other person

1445
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 3: and that could just be a lot more messier too, right,

1446
01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:45,759
Speaker 3: I would just proceed with caution there.

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01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 1: I agree. So you have to be careful out here

1448
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: in nise streets. What Bobby B said, slow down, that's

1449
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 1: all he said, though we can't sing the rest of

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01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 1: the lyrics.

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Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, this has been a great episode. Make sure

1452
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 3: y'all tune in next week, and yeah, make sure y'all

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Speaker 3: shop musbaty collection dot com.

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Speaker 1: Make show.

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Speaker 3: Make sure y'all follow lex at love Lisp on YouTube.

1456
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,799
Speaker 3: Make sure y'all watch you on Mondays in the Morning's

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Speaker 3: a team rate Yes, Yes music videcollection dot com. Make

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Speaker 3: sure y'all pull up to the Linding Show cause I

1459
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 3: don't think this is gonna air after gonna air before.

1460
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 3: Make sure if you're in London, you pull up to

1461
01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 3: the London Show and come see your girls, and yeah,

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01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:42,599
Speaker 3: we'll see y'all.

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Speaker 1: Song Bye bye, like get caught up in a maze.

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01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 3: Keep on going in circus, girl, you're trying to find

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01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 3: your way out. But it's time I put on my

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01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 3: cave and put that that's on my chest. God, I

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01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:00,680
Speaker 3: want to come and save you. I'm so fucking the

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Speaker 3: middle scene.

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Speaker 4: You hurt, knowing when you love him and you want

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01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 4: to make it work, And I can't help but think

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01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 4: that I knew you first. It's getting louder, girl, can't

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01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 4: he know it no more?

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Speaker 1: Can you hear your crying out for me? I can

1474
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 1: hear your home crying out for me. He keeps on sing,

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01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:37,439
Speaker 1: go one in and save me. I can hear your

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01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 1: home fun me, Babby.

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Speaker 4: I never never caught your feelings, but baby, heaving late

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01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 4: night conversations on your sofa telling me how he played

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01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 4: you out, over rendover, over rendover, let him suck in

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01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 4: the middle of seeing you heard knowing when.

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01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 1: You love him and you want to make it work.

1482
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 1: And I can't help but think that I knew you first,

1483
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 1: that is I used NC. I can't ignore no more.

1484
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: I can hear your home crying out for me. I

1485
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 1: can hear your home.

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01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:30,600
Speaker 4: Crying out for me, in going in and shave me,

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01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 4: Come on in, come on in, coing in and shave me.

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01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 1: I can hear your home right for me. I don't

1489
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: want to confuse thing, but I.

1490
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 4: Just can't keep lying to myself, wearing your holding me me.

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01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 1: I can feel your pain.

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01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:59,360
Speaker 4: Oh, baby, baby, your dream.

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01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm the answer.

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01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 4: Come see me and you don't have soup cry no more.

1495
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 4: I can hear your home, yeah, yeah, I can hear your.

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01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: You hearry to listen to your heart. I can hear

1497
01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 1: crying now from me. I can hear your home crying

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01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: out from me. On in, come on in, come on

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01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 1: in and save me, Come on in, going in and

1500
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:55,759
Speaker 1: save me. I can hear your home crying out from me, girl,

1501
01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: I can hear it, hear you crying from me, for me,

1502
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:03,640
Speaker 1: for me, for me, me.

1503
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 4: Oh in the air, ladies, lady, your hands in the air.

1504
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 1: I crying for me, crying for me, crying for me. Oh,

1505
01:15:41,760 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 1: I said, yell on it. Same, same