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Speaker 1: Wait hold on, I have to wait. I have to

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Speaker 1: It's back and I haven't seen her in a month.

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Speaker 1: The listeners are like, what is happening? So listen. I

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Speaker 1: had this cat, you know, that kept showing up at

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Speaker 1: I freaked out because I literally have thought she was dead.

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Speaker 1: And recently I kept being like, oh my gosh, Universe,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I explored the Bahamas and all the water fun

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Speaker 1: It's like she thought she couldn't get pregnant period. She

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Speaker 1: I really feel like probably the listeners this morning are

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Speaker 1: for me, what I've found in my psychic getings is

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Speaker 1: they're kind of like sensing and energy. They give you

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Speaker 1: these downloads they're getting, whether it's from your spirit, guides

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Speaker 1: or whatever you want to call it, universe, God, any

445
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Speaker 1: of that, and they kind of just give you input

446
00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,199
Speaker 1: or insights. And for me, it's always just validating, like

447
00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,959
Speaker 1: I'm on the right path or you know, this relationship

448
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Speaker 1: is in alignment. It's just that it's more of like

449
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Speaker 1: validation and confirmation and comfort and peace than it is

450
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Speaker 1: this crazy outlandish, like witchy crazy vibe, you know, like

451
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Speaker 1: it actually helps me to be more in touch spiritually.

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Speaker 1: So if you guys are feeling weird energy, I do

453
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Speaker 1: recommend go check out that podcast. I also did a

454
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Speaker 1: really good one with get Sound RX and he was

455
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Speaker 1: super great with sound frequencies, which sounds also kind of

456
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Speaker 1: a little wooboo, but I live by these, like if

457
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Speaker 1: you are feeling anxious, depressed, having trouble sleeping, sound frequencies

458
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Speaker 1: are so so so helpful, So go listen to that

459
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Speaker 1: podcast as well. So with that, we do have a

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Speaker 1: listener voicemail that I thought was a very interesting question

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Speaker 1: and I'm so enjoying going through these voicemails that you

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Speaker 1: guys are sending, So keep them coming. You can hit

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Speaker 1: them up on the link in my bio on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I'll give you that infhone a bit. But this question

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Speaker 1: came to us and it's about friendships. So I always

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Speaker 1: like to do these with you because it feels like

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Speaker 1: we can weigh in based on even our friend group

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Speaker 1: or how we interact with each other. So here is

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Speaker 1: that voicemail for you guys.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Kelly, So I wanted to ask a question about friendships.

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Speaker 5: I am in a different life stage now where in

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Speaker 5: our early thirties, I have noticed that a lot of

473
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Speaker 5: my friends are in relationships, married, have kids all of that,

474
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Speaker 5: and I have been single for probably like the past

475
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Speaker 5: ten years. I've just been living in different cities, my career,

476
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Speaker 5: other stuff, and I just recently started a relationship, which

477
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Speaker 5: I'm super excited about. And I've kind of noticed that

478
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Speaker 5: some of my friends, like because they're so preoccupied and

479
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Speaker 5: have so many other competing priorities with their families and

480
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Speaker 5: their kids, don't necessarily have as much time to do

481
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Speaker 5: some of the other stuff we did when we're in

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Speaker 5: our early twenties, like meeting partners and going on dates

483
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Speaker 5: and all that stuff. And it's hard because I don't

484
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Speaker 5: want to say the word resentment, but I've noticed that

485
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Speaker 5: I have felt a bit like, oh, like it would

486
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Speaker 5: be nice if my friends were asking me questions about

487
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Speaker 5: my relationship, wanting to meet him do things together. And

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of missing that, maybe, like that life stage

489
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Speaker 5: when we were in our earlier twenties or mid twenties

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Speaker 5: and we had time to do stuff together. So I'm

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Speaker 5: curious if you have any tips or advice on like

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Speaker 5: how to navigate that, Like do you have a talk

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Speaker 5: with your friends? It's just this normal. So anyways, thank

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Speaker 5: you so much by chip.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you want me to go or do

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Speaker 1: you want me to go?

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Speaker 3: Well you can start. I have some I have some thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm sort of a perennially perpetually single person, so

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Speaker 2: I can I can sort of I feel that, but

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Speaker 2: I also feel really lucky because I do have a

501
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Speaker 2: lot of single friends still at my age. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I guess what I think it's if there are people

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Speaker 2: that are important to you that you miss, I think

504
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Speaker 2: it's important to tell them that because we life be life,

505
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Speaker 2: and y'all like, yeah, life be life, and we get

506
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Speaker 2: caught up in our lives and obviously our priorities do

507
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Speaker 2: change for you know, good reason. If you have a

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Speaker 2: spouse or kids or a job that's really important. Do

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Speaker 2: you like things things change? But you know, I think

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Speaker 2: it can feel like a burden to tell somebody, like

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Speaker 2: you're being a burden to tell somebody I miss you,

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Speaker 2: But I like to receive that can actually feel really good,

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Speaker 2: and especially from a friend that you care about.

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Speaker 3: And so I think it's important to.

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Speaker 2: When you do it, don't make it feel like you're

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Speaker 2: putting it upon them. Make it feel like they are

517
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Speaker 2: loved and you miss them. And I guarantee you the

518
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Speaker 2: response is going to be the same, like they miss

519
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Speaker 2: you too, And it opens the door for change, And

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Speaker 2: you know, I do think friends can have dates. And

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Speaker 2: I guarantee you any mother who has young children is

522
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Speaker 2: dying for an excuse, dying for an excuse to leave

523
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Speaker 2: them home with her husband so that she can go

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Speaker 2: get drinks with friends one night. And you could be

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Speaker 2: the person that frees them from that rut that they're in, too,

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Speaker 2: because everyone misses their old life when it changes, especially

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Speaker 2: if their old life was good. So I think it's

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Speaker 2: a I would rea out let people know that you

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Speaker 2: miss them, even start a group text with all of

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Speaker 2: them and be like, girls, I miss all of you,

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Speaker 2: Like let's not let our youth slip away, Like let's

532
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Speaker 2: go out. Let's find a night that works for all

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Speaker 2: of us and go get drinks and catch up. And

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Speaker 2: you know, maybe not everyone can do it, but I

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Speaker 2: think it would reconnect everybody in a fun way and maybe,

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Speaker 2: you know, spark a rejuvenation of the friendship.

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Speaker 1: I think those are great points. I love what you

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Speaker 1: said about saying to just miss you, because I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of times when we start feeling resentment, we

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Speaker 1: go in kind of hostile to people, you know, like

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Speaker 1: aggressive or frustrated or like, well I did all of

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Speaker 1: this for you, and I come back with a boyfriend

543
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Speaker 1: and you haven't even met him yet, you know, like,

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Speaker 1: and that isn't going to go over well probably like

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Speaker 1: if someone's busy, or like you said, kind of you

546
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Speaker 1: just get wrapped up in your own routines, your own life.

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Speaker 1: We all have a lot on our plate at this

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Speaker 1: stage of life. The difference when you're twenty, you just

549
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Speaker 1: don't have the responsibilities that you do in your later

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Speaker 1: thirties and forties. And so it's definitely like something that

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Speaker 1: happens to all of us. And I think you do

552
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: have to be more intentional, but I love leading with hey,

553
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: I really miss seeing you or even like it's it

554
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: would be so important for me, like as someone you're

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Speaker 1: someone who I really care about, and I would love

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Speaker 1: you to meet this new person that I really care about,

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Speaker 1: you know, like that's really important to me. Would that

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Speaker 1: be something you can show up for or you can do?

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Speaker 1: And I think you will probably be surprised with the responses,

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Speaker 1: Like I think, like you said, they'd probably be a

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Speaker 1: lot more open and excited about it. And if not,

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00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: it's also information, like that's good feedback for you. Of

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Speaker 1: maybe those friendships have kind of faded and I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm personally in the stage where I'm like, if it

565
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Speaker 1: is not reciprocal, I do not want it, Like I

566
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,239
Speaker 1: don't have the energy anymore. I don't have even in

567
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Speaker 1: work stuff. I'm finding myself Like there was a sitchuation

568
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: recently where it was like this person was trying to

569
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Speaker 1: get me on the books for a meeting or something,

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00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: and then like we kept kind of going back and

571
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: forth with mixed schedules. We're both equally as busy, but

572
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,479
Speaker 1: then it got passed off to an assistant and it

573
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: was more of like they're my friend. It just felt

574
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: really weird and diminishing, and I was like this doesn't

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00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 1: feel good to me. I'm not fucking doing it, Like

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00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm not chasing you. Everyone is busy in this part

577
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 1: of life, and if you can't even have a conversation

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00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,719
Speaker 1: with me, why are we trying to do like lunch,

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Speaker 1: Like I just I don't know, Like I just I don't.

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Speaker 2: Really It suddenly probably made you feel like she needed

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00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: something from you.

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Speaker 1: It did. It felt more like what is in this

583
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: for you? As far as like what are you trying

584
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: to take for me that I'm unaware of? And like

585
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: be straight up if you need something from me, tell me.

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00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: I'm very like open to that, but I don't like

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00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: the way that it was handled, and it was such

588
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Speaker 1: a turn off to me to just feel like, wait

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00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,439
Speaker 1: a second, Like there was a little bit of like

590
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: self importance, maybe because I'm like, I deal with the

591
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: busiest fucking people in this whole entire town for work, like,

592
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 1: and I watch how they deal with people. Everything is

593
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: all about the way you communicate with people. I just

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00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: believe that and treat people, and it doesn't matter how

595
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: busy you are, Like everyone sits on the toilet at

596
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: one point in the day is how I feel, so

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00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: you know you can figure it out, or if you

598
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: are that busy and need to pass it off, communicate that.

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00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 1: There's just a lot of options that I felt, and

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Speaker 1: I just didn't like the way it made me feel,

601
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: and so I was like, this one isn't for me. Like,

602
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: but that's also because I have such great friendships that

603
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm going to pour into those people because

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00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: it's a reciprocal relationship and I've personally just spent too

605
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: much of my life like giving and not receiving back,

606
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: and so it's something I'm working on but anyway, all

607
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: of that to say, if that does happen in this situation,

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00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: it's just information. I know it can be painful, but

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Speaker 1: I think that we all are in, you know, places

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Speaker 1: where it's like we deserve to be given back what

611
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: we're putting in, So right right anyway, So I think

612
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: communicate it's always there. Like what I say to other

613
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: people too, is if you start feeling resentment, that means

614
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: at some point a boundary was crossed for you. So

615
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 1: like sitting with yourself and being like, Okay, what is

616
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: going on here? Like is this a situation where you

617
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: feel like I've been to their weddings, their baby showers,

618
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: and now I actually have something that I want them

619
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Speaker 1: to come to, and no one's like coming to me

620
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: to ask me that. It's really probably just like not

621
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: they're not aware and it's not intentional, but I know

622
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: how that can feel, and so it's just like, but

623
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: just communicate it, and communicate it kindly and see if

624
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: it's met, and that'll give you the information about their relationship.

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00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: Goodwin Chip, he just looked at me and nodded, and

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00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, people can't hear you nod?

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Speaker 3: Remember, I just try to thin and to see if it.

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Speaker 1: Got your hair looks awesome right now? Wow I look terrible, guys. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's Friday TG. If you know what I'm.

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Speaker 3: Saying, g I g F TG I good Friday.

631
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Speaker 1: If you guys do want to leave us a voicemail

632
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: and you want feedback, you can go hit me up

633
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Velvet's Edge. It is the link

634
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: in my bio. You just press the link and it

635
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: leaves you a little voice voice note to place to

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Speaker 1: record what.

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Speaker 3: It takes you to a landing page where you can record.

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Speaker 1: A you can record a voice note. Thank you for

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00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: clarifying for the listeners.

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Speaker 4: Ship.

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Speaker 1: If people want to find you on Instagram, where would

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Speaker 1: they find you.

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Speaker 3: I'm at chip Door sh It's c H I P

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Speaker 3: D O R S c H. And I also have

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Speaker 3: the link in my bio.

646
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Speaker 1: Look at you getting all official and shit.

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Speaker 2: It's actually a link that takes you to two other things,

648
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Speaker 2: or like to more than one. It's one of the

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Speaker 2: I don't know what they're called.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so your sounds confusing.

651
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Speaker 3: It's not. It's not just go come it.

652
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all anonymous. We just like communicating with you

653
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: guys and knowing what you're going through. Also, we'll keep

654
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: telling you what we're going through. And I'll keep you

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Speaker 1: guys posting on when I get my period. I know

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Speaker 1: your own pins and needles and oh my god, if right,

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Speaker 1: I'll keep you positive. I'm pregnant an immaculate conception as well.

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Speaker 3: I hope you have.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not birthing a cat.

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Speaker 2: That's crazier things have happened anyway.

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Speaker 1: Okay, as you guys go into the weekend and you're

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Speaker 1: living on the edge, I hope you always remember too,

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Speaker 1: act catual. Oh my god, I am going to go

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Speaker 1: play with that cat right now though. Okay, act catsual. Okay, bye,