Speaker 1: There was the problem, we're taking money.
Speaker 2: What are you saying, Steve, You're saying are you saying,
Speaker 2: Steve that we should just give up on Two Cool
Speaker 2: Moms and not get people that want because there's so
Speaker 2: many podcasts out there. You know who's going to disagree
Speaker 2: with you to show for like that's you know who's
Speaker 2: gonna disagree with you. The people that are listening right
Speaker 2: now that you a listening to Two Cool Moms.
Speaker 3: I'm Joe Gatto.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm Steve. You are freshly cut, freshly cut.
Speaker 2: You get your hand snapped here in the city because
Speaker 2: you didn't have this yesterday.
Speaker 1: I had a hat on Mmm, remember I do?
Speaker 2: You had the Pittsburgh hat on covert Ah, so there's
Speaker 2: a covert.
Speaker 3: Cut, dis guy, Yeah, undercover cut.
Speaker 1: I had a cut, and then uh yeah, I showed
Speaker 1: up at the comedy cell in Surds Small. The first
Speaker 1: thing he said is I hate your hair cut. Good
Speaker 1: to see you. It's been two months, three months. Good.
Speaker 3: Well, he wanted to get it out of the way.
Speaker 3: He didn't want that, you know, floating above you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got to be something. There's got to be
Speaker 1: something that is different about you that you're going to
Speaker 1: get a show off. I said it on absolutely all time.
Speaker 2: How are you did you say they used to have
Speaker 2: long hair right in high school like you did the
Speaker 2: long you were growing?
Speaker 1: Never never even hockey like I played hockey. I never
Speaker 1: had them all itt never. Yeah, Oh that'd be fun.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to grow my hair's like, especially when
Speaker 1: I was younger, so thick so it wouldn't grow down out.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you look like a microphone comes Remember when David
Speaker 1: right on the Mets had to wear that helmet on
Speaker 1: top of his helmet, Like, that's what my head looks
Speaker 1: like here. My face would get smaller, and it's just
Speaker 1: it was like lego head hair, lego hair. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: which is you know, it's a look now people do
Speaker 1: that on purpose. Yeah, I should have been ahead of
Speaker 1: the time. So how about did you ever grow it out?
Speaker 2: Uh? No, I've only had I've only had like three
Speaker 2: hairt three separate hairs in my whole life.
Speaker 3: Like it was a thing.
Speaker 2: When I stopped with the Spike and I went to
Speaker 2: the little come over there, I mean.
Speaker 3: That was a huge thing.
Speaker 2: When I showed up, the guys thought I was kidding
Speaker 2: on set, I did it in like season seven, I
Speaker 2: want to say, six or seven, and I showed up
Speaker 2: to set and they were like, what happened? And I
Speaker 2: was just a bit. I said, no, it's my hair, goes.
Speaker 2: I go, why, he goes, No, it looks good. He's like,
Speaker 2: I just thought you were doing a bit. He's because
Speaker 2: it's like a thing is It's like, we're gonna make
Speaker 2: this a punishment.
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's not. I thought it looked good.
Speaker 1: So so then did you commit to it or were you? Like?
Speaker 1: Because it's one thing to show puts spike ear, it's
Speaker 1: another to be like, Okay, I'm going to go twenty
Speaker 1: two episodes of you guys dumping on me and America
Speaker 1: is going to question my hairstyle. No, I did it.
Speaker 2: And then a boom comments came in like oh did
Speaker 2: Joe wuld Joe change his hair?
Speaker 3: I like his hair.
Speaker 1: I didn't like his hair.
Speaker 3: It was like hairgate. Yeah, people want nuts about it.
Speaker 2: And then uh and then it just went away and
Speaker 2: that's now this is the way I do my hair.
Speaker 3: Now that's it looks fun. Yeah, I don't mind it's nice.
Speaker 3: I don't mind it. Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 1: What would you? What would you like to do me. Yeah, dreads,
Speaker 1: just do you want to steal drummond sandals?
Speaker 3: Just like God?
Speaker 2: I would love that to be a Calypso player.
Speaker 3: Did you uh?
Speaker 2: Speaking of haircuts, the boy you're offspring, Yes, the one
Speaker 2: that you fertilized your wife and he came out.
Speaker 3: Did you put it?
Speaker 1: Did you have?
Speaker 3: Did you cut his hair when he was younger?
Speaker 1: I did? I got the buzzers. Yeah, he wasn't afraid
Speaker 1: of the buzzers. Oh, he was definitely afraid. He didn't
Speaker 1: care you locked him in the noise. My wife had
Speaker 1: a pictures of him crying in her in her arms,
Speaker 1: and then he had you know, just all over him.
Speaker 1: But he looks he looks good with a buzz Yeah,
Speaker 1: it looks good with a buzz He's got a good
Speaker 1: face for a nice short buzz cut.
Speaker 3: My son won't let me use the buzzers, so I
Speaker 3: gotta go straight.
Speaker 2: Sissy's no, and it's it doesn't come out good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I get it done.
Speaker 1: And at the end I have money to the go
Speaker 1: to the mall. Put him in that Tonka truck. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let that girl cut his hair while he watchs, just
Speaker 1: like you know, Ratitue. I mean, that's what they do.
Speaker 1: They just sit there and just like can you turn it? Okay?
Speaker 1: Can you just.
Speaker 2: Because he always does this ah and like this, and
Speaker 2: I'm just afraid he's gonna get cut, so I'm all right,
Speaker 2: I'll do it because.
Speaker 1: He looks so that that's weird that the kids. I
Speaker 1: kind of enjoy it too, though, not scared of the
Speaker 1: that he's scared of the buzzers, but not a scissor.
Speaker 3: And I only use cut I don't use buzzers.
Speaker 1: So how so you cut it? But then you're like,
Speaker 1: we got to get this scared. Then you go.
Speaker 3: Then we take them into the shop.
Speaker 1: Then you learn the most times, yeah, most times.
Speaker 2: This it's so funny because sometimes I have a good cut.
Speaker 2: Sometimes would you cut his hair? Because my hair gets insanity.
Speaker 2: He looks like a vagabond, and I'm like, I gotta
Speaker 2: fix this thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: They take their kids, do time for it. Well, I
Speaker 3: don't have time for it. I'm home for three hours.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 2: You know, he's I'm sorry, he's on for three hours
Speaker 2: after school and he goes to what is the weekends,
Speaker 2: I'm not here.
Speaker 1: She doesn't want She's like, well, she's like it's Okay,
Speaker 1: it looks cute. It doesn't look cute. It's a smooth
Speaker 1: wave looks cute.
Speaker 3: It looks cute. She's drinking her peant lota peta dog.
Speaker 2: They no, I mean, it's just you know, even Milana's hair,
Speaker 2: my daughter's hair, she cuts her hair.
Speaker 3: She saw, Yeah, she saw this thing. Where on you
Speaker 3: on you on TikTok. Will you take the two ends,
Speaker 3: you put it up.
Speaker 2: In like a in a in a hair tie, and
Speaker 2: you just snip the ends and you let it fall
Speaker 2: and it looks find me ready.
Speaker 1: You have money, you have money, You have money, you
Speaker 1: have money.
Speaker 3: I should take them, all right, one.
Speaker 1: Of your meet and greets could pay for haircuts until
Speaker 1: those kids get out of high school. I mean, what
Speaker 1: are you doing, dude. You guys are doing great.
Speaker 3: We should we should get their haircuts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll do it. I'll do it.
Speaker 1: But your daughter's hair, I would never know that. Okay,
Speaker 1: So maybe it's working because.
Speaker 3: She has she has long hair. That one's working.
Speaker 2: It's easier to do that because she has the long
Speaker 2: hair and whatever. But the sun he gets, like, the
Speaker 2: front is the problem.
Speaker 1: The front banks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the bangs and shitty shitty bang bangs. They look
Speaker 2: like they look like he looks like simple Jack from
Speaker 2: from Traffic thunder something.
Speaker 1: Wait is he four or five?
Speaker 3: Is five going to be sign?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: I told him six years I said six, six year
Speaker 2: olds use the buzzers, And I was.
Speaker 1: Like, does he like the whispy look? He can go
Speaker 1: to he can he can just put his head out
Speaker 1: on the bus just like goes over.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I should probably work that out because I looked at
Speaker 2: him this morning I sent him school and it's like
Speaker 2: it's not even and it's like he's got like a
Speaker 2: half a.
Speaker 3: Bang on one side.
Speaker 1: He looks very silly, I found out. Look, but he's adorable,
Speaker 1: so that helps. Well, your kids are very beautiful kids kids.
Speaker 1: I think I cracked the code on why I never
Speaker 1: did look he could be a multitude of factors. Why
Speaker 1: didn't do well with girls in junior high school? High school?
Speaker 1: Then I cracked the case. I figured it out. I
Speaker 1: part my hair in the middle, you had a middle
Speaker 1: pot part of it hair. You had a Moses and
Speaker 1: went like that. You had the red the sea look
Speaker 1: like a psycho?
Speaker 3: Are you kidding?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I didn't know that who does a middle pot.
Speaker 1: It was the nineties, baby, several times.
Speaker 3: It's not a bar I know I was in the nineties.
Speaker 1: Was no internet. I know there's no internet. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but there was a mirror. You're ready for this?
Speaker 3: Did you comb it? Hold on?
Speaker 1: I have questions about the middle part. Did you comb
Speaker 1: it down or was it like? But here's the thing.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 1: I grew up in a small suburb of north of Pittsburgh. Okay,
Speaker 1: we only had two hundred kids my class. How many
Speaker 1: Asians are excuse how many Asians? No? No Asians. It
Speaker 1: was me and Holly Reid. And every time there was
Speaker 1: a slow song at the dance, you should do it's Holly.
Speaker 1: It's like, because we're both Asian. They're like, yeah, it's dance.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be funny? I'm like, it should be funny.
Speaker 1: But never used. Uh. I didn't know what conditioner was
Speaker 1: all through high school. It wasn't until college.
Speaker 3: Have parents.
Speaker 1: My dad's bald.
Speaker 3: He just skips all that knowledge.
Speaker 1: He had heading shoulders, and I think it was just
Speaker 1: using it for the shoulders because there's nothing on his head.
Speaker 1: But you know, he had like that that that side thing,
Speaker 1: you know, the side thing a little bit on top
Speaker 1: or whatever. But I mean he wasn't And then I
Speaker 1: don't know what palmide was. I don't know what Harris
Speaker 1: Spray was. I know anything was. So what would happen
Speaker 1: is part of down the middle, wedded in the morning,
Speaker 1: part in the middle, and then just kind of like
Speaker 1: streak her down, like slick it down and then go
Speaker 1: out and then slowly over time first period it would
Speaker 1: just it was like baking bread. It would just like
Speaker 1: goes out and that was it.
Speaker 3: Wow, So that's you.
Speaker 2: It took you this long to figure that out or
Speaker 2: you knew that pretty quickly.
Speaker 1: Well, when when I was in college, that's when you
Speaker 1: fixed it. That's when I fixed it. Yeah, who told
Speaker 1: you to fix it in college? This kid Jay, she
Speaker 1: has a good friend Jay, like second week, super nice guy. God,
Speaker 1: I wish i'd remember his last name. Super nice guy.
Speaker 1: He He's like, you don't know what conditioner is. I'm
Speaker 1: like no, He's like, try this Purplus. You went right.
Speaker 1: I went to Purplus and uh. By the way, the
Speaker 1: showers at Kent State University Clark Hall were astounding. It
Speaker 1: was like that that deep pressure that.
Speaker 3: Would hit you and paint off your body.
Speaker 1: It was great and it would get nice and steamy
Speaker 1: and hot, and then the winter there was nothing better.
Speaker 1: I would take a plastic chair from the lounge and
Speaker 1: put it in this shower and just sit there like
Speaker 1: a like a detective that just went through the worst
Speaker 1: case of his life and just sit there like hunched
Speaker 1: over and just let it. Oh my god, I remember
Speaker 1: that was the best.
Speaker 2: So who who taught you about man scaping?
Speaker 1: Manscaping?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like shaving shaving?
Speaker 1: You remember I was in Vegas and I was in Vegas.
Speaker 1: I was I was definitely an adult. I was an adult.
Speaker 1: And and this girl goes, you know whoa And I
Speaker 1: was like what, She's like, pat it down the middle.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, people, do you know? I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I just very slow to come to all this.
Speaker 3: Got it, got it?
Speaker 1: Yeah. But now if it is a film, a film,
Speaker 1: you're great. You're great.
Speaker 3: Now we all know it.
Speaker 1: We know it. How about you? When So I had
Speaker 1: an older sister.
Speaker 2: So they told me they always did my hair for me.
Speaker 2: I used moose. My sister used to put moose in
Speaker 2: my hand. My sister Carla used to love to do
Speaker 2: so I use what is so moose is just basically
Speaker 2: the foam, the foamy hair spray. It's like it's yeah,
Speaker 2: it's a phaemy hairspray, so it dissolves. That has the
Speaker 2: same consistency as hairspray.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now that we're talking about this, I can literally
Speaker 1: smell the aussy hair spray in in like ninth and
Speaker 1: tenth grade.
Speaker 3: And I went to the depth, which is the gel.
Speaker 3: I did a whole depth.
Speaker 1: I did the jail.
Speaker 3: So I did the jail, the depths a while.
Speaker 2: Then I got introduced to Palmade, you know, changed me
Speaker 2: up and moved to l A. Yeah, a boy, the
Speaker 2: kid justinrice Lynwood, justin he used to cut hair.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was like, let me fix that for you.
Speaker 2: And he cut my hair in the apartment and he
Speaker 2: put Palmade in it and he goes, use this from
Speaker 2: now on.
Speaker 1: Is that what you use?
Speaker 3: And that's what I used.
Speaker 1: That's what I used here.
Speaker 3: That's so it's great. So it was justin to change that,
Speaker 3: change that for me.
Speaker 1: And then he actually gave me a little bit of
Speaker 1: style from my hair. But so what do you do
Speaker 1: back then? Just go back? Oh you went basket?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I went I went straight like DeNiro good fella
Speaker 3: straight back.
Speaker 1: I never would. I don't know it was. We only
Speaker 1: have a couple options. You have, you know, four options.
Speaker 2: If you're going to talk about it, you go back,
Speaker 2: you poked down the middle like you that's us too,
Speaker 2: and then you do a side or a side.
Speaker 1: I have a friend named Jason Dallas, and I don't
Speaker 1: care I'll say this publicly. I took a picture of
Speaker 1: him at dinner one time. He's eating and I'm like
Speaker 1: laughing to myself, okay, and I'm just kind of like
Speaker 1: laughing and I go like this and he's like silent,
Speaker 1: he's eating. He goes, what the hell you do on him?
Speaker 1: So you know you can draw on your picture arrow.
Speaker 1: So I drew an arrow. His hair goes back this way,
Speaker 1: down this way, up that way, and for that way,
Speaker 1: and I drew an arrow for each saying I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: you like Dog the Bounty Hunter. You have like like
Speaker 1: four haircuts. It's the craziest thing. I mean, so many
Speaker 1: different directions. Sometimes it's just fly away, zip zip zip zip.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like his head's a compass. It could
Speaker 1: just go to print out. I've never seen anything like
Speaker 1: did you have? Well you wear hats. What help?
Speaker 3: Which help?
Speaker 1: I love wearing baseball hat, so I.
Speaker 3: Can't do it. I don't do or can't do a
Speaker 3: cap so live. I just never really got into it really. Yeah,
Speaker 3: like I never like.
Speaker 1: To travel, you don't like to get like a nice
Speaker 1: ball cap for a souvenir. So that's that's what you
Speaker 1: go ape shin Litz. I love lits.
Speaker 3: You love lids. Yeah, every time we see one your stock.
Speaker 1: We could have six more in the mall, I'd be
Speaker 1: I would still go into each one.
Speaker 2: You know, the lids lidzs has cornered is cornered the
Speaker 2: market with their planning.
Speaker 3: The way they do it.
Speaker 2: They always buy two stores, and there was always two lids.
Speaker 2: There's an upstairs and downstairs one by the exit. They
Speaker 2: never the only company that does that.
Speaker 1: Inflation plays a double rent because they only need a
Speaker 1: big room. But do you remember hats used to cost
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks, so now maybe twenty nine now is
Speaker 1: since inflation four hundred six. Just the snapbacks are forty
Speaker 1: that's crazy, that's bananas to me. The fitted baseball ball
Speaker 1: caps would be like forty right, and now it's all
Speaker 1: jumped up. But you you've never won a baseball cap
Speaker 1: now here in New York. I wear them.
Speaker 2: I know, I know it's crazy, but what I do
Speaker 2: I do wear it is a pool side side I
Speaker 2: come out of the water, check her off. Yeah, Taylor
Speaker 2: swift it and then I drop on the BC. How
Speaker 2: about like a something.
Speaker 1: About Irish scully You never got into those or like
Speaker 1: as you see this nose.
Speaker 2: A top aud looked good, but I would kind of
Speaker 2: look like I'm talking to you about, hey man, where's
Speaker 2: my money?
Speaker 3: You know, like that it's not a top ad you
Speaker 3: mean a fedora. Nobody was a top act.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I didn't mean like a top like the Monopoly
Speaker 1: got tops and tails, Yeah, like fred As Stare, But yeah,
Speaker 1: but a Fedora.
Speaker 2: I actually I found a Fedora once I like to
Speaker 2: look of and I wore it on the town a bunch,
Speaker 2: but I played a character. I wore an Ascott with
Speaker 2: and I book glasses that were clear. Diama was his name,
Speaker 2: and I wore the fedora and I used to go
Speaker 2: around and have lunch on the road with q As
Speaker 2: Diamo and nobody would recognize me.
Speaker 1: It was fantastic.
Speaker 3: So I do that sometimes. But I liked that hat.
Speaker 3: But I don't really have to, but I do. Remember
Speaker 3: I had a Charlotte Hornet's hat. Yeah, I don't know why.
Speaker 3: I like the color scheme with the hornet.
Speaker 1: And I used to wear it backwards and my mother
Speaker 1: still wouldn't wear it front.
Speaker 3: No, I wore it backwards.
Speaker 1: My mother. My mother says, she says, thugs, weigh your
Speaker 1: hats backwards. Put it forward. And I hated the way
Speaker 1: it looks. And she's right, she's right.
Speaker 2: Pull up your pants. So I put put the hat on.
Speaker 2: I would, and I hated the way I looked at it.
Speaker 2: So I never wore hats after that. Yeah, it's kind
Speaker 2: of a bump, but I do it on the side
Speaker 2: of the I'll do it on the beach or what not,
Speaker 2: you know near you know near and in your water.
Speaker 1: I guess if I'm on a boat, so you're gonna
Speaker 1: get sun tan.
Speaker 3: No, like it's like when I come out of the water.
Speaker 3: I just don't like my hands. Ahole crazy. I just like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: I guess it comes from vanity a little. I think.
Speaker 1: I think I think I would rather look bad with
Speaker 1: a hat on than bad with bad hair. You would
Speaker 1: look good with the DENIERO. Just the slight swish back,
Speaker 1: pull in it backyard yeah.
Speaker 3: With a grease though with like a with a gel.
Speaker 1: See that's the thing I don't know how to do too.
Speaker 1: There was, uh, maybe three months ago my hair was
Speaker 1: pretty long, and I was like, you know, you just
Speaker 1: come out of the shower, you go, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I could the slick back yeah, but I uh, I
Speaker 1: don't like it.
Speaker 2: I just started I just started realizing remembering my father
Speaker 2: was balding and he had the Saint Anthony very thin hair,
Speaker 2: very similar to my style here. And I used to
Speaker 2: remember he used to get out and blow dry his
Speaker 2: hair and use a brush, and he used to blow
Speaker 2: dry his hair for an extended amount of time.
Speaker 1: And I was always like and they said, I was like,
Speaker 1: wellhy are you doing it that long? For?
Speaker 3: I was like, it must feel good?
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: The other day, I swear I'm blow drying my hair.
Speaker 2: I saw a blow draw my hair because I needed
Speaker 2: for the volume with the palmade. So I'm blow drying
Speaker 2: my hair. I don't brush it though, I'm blow dry
Speaker 2: my hand. I was blow dryning and it felt good.
Speaker 2: When I was rubbing my hand, I was like that
Speaker 2: and it just clicked. I was like it felt good.
Speaker 3: That's long.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3: I shouldn't. I blow dry my hair longer than I
Speaker 3: have to.
Speaker 1: Remember, remember Ron pop Heel we were growing up. He
Speaker 1: would have all those crazy inventions, the infomercials, oh.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah, and he had yeah, the flow be.
Speaker 1: Well, he had the flow be which was a vacuum hilari.
Speaker 2: It was a dustbuster scissor. That's what the floby was.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like a recipe for like kits lose
Speaker 1: her fingers, right, it's it's.
Speaker 2: A vacuum that sucked up the hair and then blades
Speaker 2: ran inside it and it cut your hair.
Speaker 1: It cut your hair, So there was there was crazy,
Speaker 1: but people bought it.
Speaker 3: People bought it.
Speaker 1: Remember the hair thing he did, the hair thing you
Speaker 1: would you would hair spray your hair, yes, but it
Speaker 1: was never like it was filling. It was just black
Speaker 1: or brown. So it was like it looked like somebody
Speaker 1: just took a sharpie to your hair or hair shoe polish.
Speaker 1: There's no different tones or anything like that.
Speaker 2: Murray Season one used for the shoot he was getting
Speaker 2: his hair downe. You know, we were in hair and
Speaker 2: makeup and the woman goes, do you want me to
Speaker 2: fill you in. And we didn't know what that was
Speaker 2: because we were hair and makeup. We're never in hair makeup,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: Sure, right, So.
Speaker 2: She's like, do you want me to fill you in?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, yeah, sure, and she takes
Speaker 2: out this like spray fake hair. Yeah, like filled in
Speaker 2: his hair and I was like and then I looked
Speaker 2: at him and I went, he goes, no, she filled
Speaker 2: me in.
Speaker 3: I'm like, you don't want that, you don't want it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I know what don't want to do?
Speaker 2: I said, I said no, I said, we're gonna fill
Speaker 2: I said, can we unfill him?
Speaker 3: She like wiped it off, but it was like a
Speaker 3: weird like spray.
Speaker 1: It's so yeah, they like stick glom onto.
Speaker 2: Because when I did showing fibers that attached to your
Speaker 2: existing hairs, yeah, she would do it to me in
Speaker 2: the in like the frontals here.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: And I was like, because you're because you're receding hairline,
Speaker 1: thank you.
Speaker 3: We all know you have it.
Speaker 1: I mean you know it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, receive longes.
Speaker 1: I got, I got these. You don't have this, though,
Speaker 1: right do you? You don't have a Saint Francis. I
Speaker 1: don't have san Francis.
Speaker 3: No, you won't get it.
Speaker 1: You would have it now, really, yeah, you would add
Speaker 1: it by now just the forehead, just the forehead. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I've had a big for it in sayh grade though,
Speaker 1: so I'm used to it.
Speaker 3: Well, you put it down the middle. That's it was
Speaker 3: like a pair of a pair of curtains.
Speaker 1: Shows over, it shows over. Okay, So so dying did
Speaker 1: you ever die your hair? No?
Speaker 2: And people I started turning salt and Peppa here hello
Speaker 2: early early, like thirties.
Speaker 3: You can see it happened on TV.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like late thirties. I didn't when we start the show,
Speaker 2: I had a little bit, not a lot, but by
Speaker 2: thirty four thirty, by thirty six, thirty eight. Yeah, my
Speaker 2: mom was silver fox fox. Oh, she went with it,
Speaker 2: went with it fifty years old, boom didn't care.
Speaker 3: Look great.
Speaker 1: My I have one aunt silver fox, one uncle silver fox.
Speaker 3: They were all like that in my on my mom's side.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And my dad really wasn't gray and he didn't dye
Speaker 2: his hair. He didn't really get that much gray, but
Speaker 2: I definitely got some of that mom stuff.
Speaker 1: My barber, who I I love this guy Ross, He's
Speaker 1: the best. He cuts my hair. And he's like, he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you care, And I'm like, I don't, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't really care because it's it's coming in here
Speaker 1: the grayest I get him rarely, you know. But but
Speaker 1: he he's like, you know, just for men, they make
Speaker 1: this comb. You could brush it in. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh really, so I I picked it up and I
Speaker 1: just combed it right there, right ye, so you put
Speaker 1: it in and then it gets really dark real quick,
Speaker 1: like I like the I guess it ferments or something
Speaker 1: like that. Once is at the bottom wine and I
Speaker 1: was looking at I was like, holy shit, what the
Speaker 1: fuck's going on? Then I washed it out. This is
Speaker 1: why you should go to This is why you should go.
Speaker 3: To a pro right because of money, Steve.
Speaker 1: But but I got brown because the thing it looked
Speaker 1: like dark and I didn't realize how many different variations
Speaker 1: the colors there are. And it literally looked like like
Speaker 1: I was going to have a Juliani moment where it
Speaker 1: was going to like, you know, it looks like somebody
Speaker 1: took a ship on the side of my face driven down.
Speaker 1: It was like it was like brown here and then black.
Speaker 1: It just it looked how long did it last? Well,
Speaker 1: I took it right out. Oh yeah, I got Alcohl
Speaker 1: rubbing alcohol and alcoholic, just rubs it out like if
Speaker 1: it's sat dude, I wouldn't go anywhere. I'd shave my
Speaker 1: I'd shape my head.
Speaker 3: That's a great prank to do on somebody when they
Speaker 3: fall asleep drunk. You grab that. We should do it
Speaker 3: to Jiggy, just excise, he's not here today. We should
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 1: He doesn't listen to either.
Speaker 3: We should do that.
Speaker 1: We should do like well, I see him, get the
Speaker 1: j justpinh mencombe and get like brown and just just
Speaker 1: do one, just.
Speaker 3: One, just one, and that's it. That's funny.
Speaker 1: He's a heavy sleeper too, is he You're a heavy sleepper.
Speaker 1: Now he knows how his audience feels. Listen. I can't
Speaker 1: defend himself. I was thinking of trying to what's saying
Speaker 1: Japanese to him? You know what was surprising to me.
Speaker 1: I talked to Sal one time. He was telling me
Speaker 1: he was a rocker back in the day.
Speaker 3: Back in the day.
Speaker 1: I always thought he was just total hip hop all
Speaker 1: the time. And he said he grew his hair out.
Speaker 3: Grungey volcano all the way down. Really, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I think that's that is you would think you would
Speaker 1: be that right, one hundred percent, yeah, one hundred percent
Speaker 1: so afro no. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So Sal was like full yeah, he was full well
Speaker 2: Nirvana T shirts, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: So he made a hard pivot. He did because he
Speaker 1: was a rocker, and then he went straight like just
Speaker 1: so he took the scales off and it just tipped.
Speaker 1: And now he's all hip hop, mostly hip hop. But
Speaker 1: he's like he likes like old Lady Jazz. Like Sal's
Speaker 1: one of those guys he's like you, It's like I
Speaker 1: have a certain.
Speaker 2: Group of friends, you Zach Him, Nico that are like
Speaker 2: you never heard of Beanie Pops and the pop Pops,
Speaker 2: and you know, they they sing Beaver Club three thousand
Speaker 2: and you're like, what are you talking about? And they
Speaker 2: get like an annoyed at you that you don't know
Speaker 2: it Sally's pop. They're so indignant about it. Sal's musical prowess,
Speaker 2: if you will, it's probably unmatched by many.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's only a couple of people I would
Speaker 1: put in the same conversation as Sal.
Speaker 2: But he's got such a breath and he's got the
Speaker 2: memory like an elephant, Like he remembers like the names
Speaker 2: of people who have the songs so like, and he
Speaker 2: just loves music.
Speaker 3: So he's got like a full thing.
Speaker 2: So whenever we're like in the bus or whatever, he
Speaker 2: would put on the music and he would be playing
Speaker 2: these deep cuts and hits.
Speaker 1: He had speakers playing music great the whole time, got
Speaker 1: those music and I must have shazammed like thirty songs
Speaker 1: that weekend. He Yeah, and he's got a great he's
Speaker 1: got a great palette. Yeah, he's not one lane. No,
Speaker 1: but you know, I just always associate him with h
Speaker 1: hip hop. Yeah, hip hop. Yeah, you knows so much
Speaker 1: about well.
Speaker 3: Well perform hip hop a lot.
Speaker 2: Whenever it's a karaoke there's a stage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, doing hip hop.
Speaker 1: Hip hop's not good for karaoke. Though. If you're done wrong,
Speaker 1: people don't done wrongly. I agree, people don't get into it.
Speaker 1: If you make him get into it, you're the difference maker. Okay,
Speaker 1: he we. This seems to be a recurring theme from
Speaker 1: The Young Ladies. This kminos from Samantha Samantha Joe exclamation point.
Speaker 1: If it didn't have their smash pote, just.
Speaker 2: Go jump Joe, right but themation jo or it could
Speaker 2: be Joe Joe the next sentences?
Speaker 1: What is your favorite tea swizzle song slash album? Also,
Speaker 1: please make Steve listen to Taylor so he can be
Speaker 1: a Swifty too. Can't wait to see you soon on
Speaker 1: the road. Do you have a favorite Tailor Swift song?
Speaker 1: I think it's love Story. I think it always got
Speaker 1: it always hits.
Speaker 3: Me in the heart strings.
Speaker 1: The you know ROMI that one of her original ones.
Speaker 3: Well, yes, it's older.
Speaker 1: It's why she was like a country singer.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 2: I love that one, that one. That one's a real
Speaker 2: banger for me. But I also, you know, it's a
Speaker 2: really good one for.
Speaker 1: Me that I really like.
Speaker 2: And I don't know if many people know it, but
Speaker 2: I'm a huge I love songs about New York and
Speaker 2: I think are Welcome to New York is really fun
Speaker 2: and the messenger behind it is pretty cool.
Speaker 3: So I like those two or two of my favorites.
Speaker 3: But I think you should listen to Telos Swift. I
Speaker 3: think you might enjoy it.
Speaker 2: It's weird, I was your daughter doesn't listen to Telo
Speaker 2: Swift at ten years Okay, so then why don't you
Speaker 2: want you in on it?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: So she listened to around you. I mean that's how
Speaker 2: I really found it. I mean, my uh nanny and
Speaker 2: U daughter listened to it together. Yeah, and it was
Speaker 2: always on the house and that's how I really started
Speaker 2: to get into it. But my nanny was like a
Speaker 2: huge Swifty fan and really like always listened to it
Speaker 2: and brought Milana into it. And Milana would always be like,
Speaker 2: we listened to one before we go to bed, and
Speaker 2: we'd always listen to And then I realized she started
Speaker 2: knowing the music when it was on the radio, because
Speaker 2: you know, it's always on the radio, and she'd be
Speaker 2: singing along.
Speaker 3: So she was listening to it on herself, listening to
Speaker 3: it by herself.
Speaker 2: And what was really funny was that she became a
Speaker 2: fan and was like learning words to songs right, And
Speaker 2: it was the first like thing she was singing along
Speaker 2: that wasn't like Disney, right, you know.
Speaker 3: I thought that was really cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm in the same boat my daughter.
Speaker 1: I remember hearing that song Lover Yes, and my daughter
Speaker 1: was singing that she you know, other than Disney. It
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she's like, it's not Disney, it's like
Speaker 1: something else. I don't like Taylor Swift I just don't
Speaker 1: know enough. But every time in a story I hear,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's a pretty cool song, and you
Speaker 1: can tell it's her. But I do like there's one
Speaker 1: song I like called Getaway Car. That's the only song
Speaker 1: I have in my oh rather than like the cheerlead,
Speaker 1: the oh my god leader and shake it off, shake
Speaker 1: it off because my kids love that song car, so
Speaker 1: I have that one. But then get Away Car I
Speaker 1: hurt somewhere. I was like, that's a fucking cool tune.
Speaker 1: I like, yeah, I like her. She seems like to
Speaker 1: be a greater entertainer from every thing I read, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's that's what she puts them, like a two hour shows.
Speaker 3: Yeah, three her first her first show, the Eras.
Speaker 1: Tour, was three hours, three hours, which is crazy, goddamn.
Speaker 3: Puts on a whole so it's a whole thing.
Speaker 2: But I've seen her perform live in those like compilation
Speaker 2: concerts like whatever, and I remember it was phenomenal, phenomenal,
Speaker 2: Like I had seen her and I saw her sing
Speaker 2: love Story live and I was like, and I just
Speaker 2: felt like she'd like yeah, I felt like she loved it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm gonna lose my ship. When I see
Speaker 2: it what I'm going to see with my daughter, you'll cry. Oh,
Speaker 2: I think so really watching my daughter sing along with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's not Taylor, you're my daughter. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: cried to Imagine Dragons me and my daughter. Me and
Speaker 1: my daughter were singing, uh.
Speaker 2: Radioactive together, and then on Top of the World came on,
Speaker 2: which is one of their like it's about, you know,
Speaker 2: how one person makes the other person feel whatnot, and
Speaker 2: it's like it's a little bit more boppy whatever. My
Speaker 2: daughter was like singing and dancing and she I picked
Speaker 2: her up when we're danceing together, and it was a puddle.
Speaker 3: It was great, you know.
Speaker 1: I went to a macare Greasely and I pulled in
Speaker 1: the mechanic. I said, my car is making horrible noise.
Speaker 1: He took out the Imagine Dragon CD. Sorry, that's a band.
Speaker 1: I know you love him. It's I don't understand them. Well,
Speaker 1: that's I don't understand it. I don't like I hear you.
Speaker 1: There's certain bands ignorance, like you hear cold You don't
Speaker 1: get play.
Speaker 3: Oh you don't like Coldplay?
Speaker 1: I fucking cannot stand cold Play. Really, I think it's
Speaker 1: dog Ship. I think.
Speaker 3: Do you like warm work?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 3: Warm work?
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 3: War work?
Speaker 1: Can you spell that? W A? Use it as a sentence?
Speaker 1: W A R M W work?
Speaker 3: The opposite of cold Play. I can't believe you walked
Speaker 3: into that one. Oh Jesus Stephens, the complete opposite of
Speaker 3: cold If you hate, You're gonna love. The lead singer Luke.
Speaker 2: Luke, Oh god, picture salam my head being like, you
Speaker 2: don't know Walmart.
Speaker 1: He probably would have like their their album on vinyl.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, Coldplay? People hate on Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: I just don't understand it.
Speaker 3: Nickel Back.
Speaker 1: What's other ones people hate on?
Speaker 3: Nickelback?
Speaker 1: People love Adele To me, it sounds like divorce ye
Speaker 1: element that should be played in like a divorce attorney's office.
Speaker 3: For sure, it's the soundtrack to divorces.
Speaker 1: Cold plays play nickel Back.
Speaker 3: Who's the other one that gets a lot of well?
Speaker 3: Who is not hooting in the Blowfish?
Speaker 1: Dave Matthews band?
Speaker 3: They do now they don't?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Is it who against you? Then?
Speaker 2: No? No that people like them because Darious Rucker, Yeah,
Speaker 2: Darius Ruckers could be racist.
Speaker 3: No, wait it there's another band I'm thinking?
Speaker 1: Who? Oh No, who's the guy that did the whole
Speaker 1: Shrek soundtrack. Oh count and crows.
Speaker 3: Oh no, count of cruises one too, but uh, train
Speaker 3: is the other one too.
Speaker 1: People hate trained, some people hate train. Really, but train
Speaker 1: had a cruise. You know, the train had like a cruise.
Speaker 1: They used the same boat we did.
Speaker 2: Really, and the train crews will get in and the
Speaker 2: train people get off, and then practical jokers people will
Speaker 2: get on.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 3: And there was two couples that did both cruises.
Speaker 1: We met them. I took a train for my favorite
Speaker 1: band called Cruise. That's out of control. That was my
Speaker 1: that was my warm work. That's my warm work. I
Speaker 1: see what you did.
Speaker 3: I put control on the end of control. Sure to
Speaker 3: help you. We who sings all the Shrek songs?
Speaker 1: Uh oh your thinking is smash thing. That's right. And yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys had a crazy experience. Okay, I just want
Speaker 1: to say thank you, Josie. Josie just wanted to say thanks,
Speaker 1: appreciate the show and send me a picture of her
Speaker 1: and her family. Oh really, and that's it. Oh that's nice.
Speaker 1: A joke, question, no question, Like Josie, you have a
Speaker 1: beautiful baby, and that's pretty awesome. That's sweet. See I
Speaker 1: like that some fans. She wanted to let you know
Speaker 1: that she was a cool mom too. I think that's
Speaker 1: why the picture came. Yeah, okay, this is a good one.
Speaker 1: Robbie asks, how do you feel about AI art? Is
Speaker 1: it already better than humans? And many asshole? Is an
Speaker 1: ethical or is it an inevitable and do we need
Speaker 1: to accept it like the transition from horses to motor vehicle?
Speaker 2: This is a heart that's a big stretch first, but second,
Speaker 2: this is a hot button topic and the mommy's going
Speaker 2: to get into it.
Speaker 1: If we're going to lose we I'm going to lose
Speaker 1: fans here.
Speaker 3: I'm not afraid to speak on things.
Speaker 1: And we're gonna draw the party lines here. It's going
Speaker 1: to get divisive, very so get ready to I think
Speaker 1: you and I are on opposite ends of this as well.
Speaker 1: AI art.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh this is real.
Speaker 1: This is a real crossfire. Here we go, let's get
Speaker 1: into it. Okay, Okay, I have seen some aa.
Speaker 3: I AI art thou.
Speaker 2: I've seen some AI art and I've been like, wow,
Speaker 2: that's fantastic, right right, a robot.
Speaker 1: And then you find out, well, even the gentleman that
Speaker 1: just won the photo, there's a photography competition. Uh and
Speaker 1: then he he laughed and he said, no, I'm just joking.
Speaker 1: It's AI and it kind of takes away from obviously,
Speaker 1: but I had come across Did you see the Disneyland
Speaker 1: AI horror? No?
Speaker 3: I didn't.
Speaker 1: Okay, dude, I saw this and I was so absolutely
Speaker 1: freaked out by these pictures. I showed it to my kids.
Speaker 1: Myself is like no. My daughter's like, oh my.
Speaker 3: God, that's freaky.
Speaker 1: It is absolutely mind blowing that they that this computer generate.
Speaker 1: I got to show it to you. Fine, are you
Speaker 1: have you ever seen it? Disney AI whore Disney? It's
Speaker 1: mind blowing, how like terrifying it looks.
Speaker 3: It's freaky.
Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it in my life.
Speaker 2: I I've I mean, the AI art, the AI think
Speaker 2: doesn't necessarily freak me out. I believe it is a
Speaker 2: a next step, and I'm not worried about being replaced
Speaker 2: by robots. Maybe I'm ignorant to the fact that we
Speaker 2: could be, but I'm just I just think, like, it
Speaker 2: isn't progression of technology.
Speaker 1: This is something that's going to be People will be
Speaker 1: into it or people won't.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'll still there'll still be people will be
Speaker 2: handpainton artin I would be one of the teams that
Speaker 2: appreciates that, and people would si appreciate that.
Speaker 1: I think, well, it's the same thing with live entertainment.
Speaker 3: Right onred percent.
Speaker 1: You think of all the streamers you have, you think
Speaker 1: of everything you have access to, but people still want
Speaker 1: to go out and see a live show. They want
Speaker 1: that connection. So AI went in, Oh my goodness, isn't
Speaker 1: that fucking freaky?
Speaker 3: That is bizarre?
Speaker 1: Man. Oh, so zoom in on that. But you'll see
Speaker 1: look at this, zoom in on these so look at
Speaker 1: the teeth and then the parents in the background, and
Speaker 1: I mean this is bananas, that's bazonkers man. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: And then and then you have like parents they have
Speaker 1: like yeah, look at this one. Look at their faces
Speaker 1: on the kids and the and the people. And then
Speaker 1: if you'll if you look at notice you'll see that
Speaker 1: they have like six fingers or like seven fingers.
Speaker 3: It's just like so that freaks out.
Speaker 1: I mean, look at that. That is the that's what
Speaker 1: you'd see in a nightmare. Yeah, buzz and what do
Speaker 1: you look at that? Look at the one with the
Speaker 1: blue face and the girl taking the selfie. Oh, my god,
Speaker 1: So this is all I I These isn't real? Those
Speaker 1: are all AI generated.
Speaker 3: Uh craziness.
Speaker 1: That is I would have that as a nightmare and
Speaker 1: wake up for sure a cold sweat and go what
Speaker 1: the fuck? I couldn't I would try to explain that
Speaker 1: to people and I couldn't represtode. But that is that?
Speaker 2: Is that more impressive to you that a computer made that?
Speaker 2: Or what if a human made that? Would you be
Speaker 2: more like, oh, this is a messed up human or
Speaker 2: you're like, is it freaking you out more because it
Speaker 2: was made by computer? Yes, right on, that's because that
Speaker 2: means a computer knows how to scare you. Yeah, great
Speaker 2: premise for a horror film.
Speaker 1: The wheels are turning.
Speaker 3: Call it reboot.
Speaker 1: All right? This is this is you in a pitch meeting, like,
Speaker 1: we love all your ideas, Joe Jude. You do you
Speaker 1: have an idea for a horror film? Of course it don't.
Speaker 3: Of course it do.
Speaker 1: Here's right, here's right reboot.
Speaker 3: Like you're scared the computers? Most people are.
Speaker 1: Boo, it's it's reb tsoboot nice, there you go.
Speaker 2: Could also be a story of a cobbler who finds
Speaker 2: a pair of shoes brom com a cobble who finds
Speaker 2: a pair of shoes that belong to a woman who
Speaker 2: lives overseas, and he finds her and gives me eat
Speaker 2: you from the feet up.
Speaker 3: That's a reboot.
Speaker 1: That's a horror I wasn't making. And then oh, that's
Speaker 1: a eats you.
Speaker 3: Would you call that reboot? Hunger hungry, hungry boot?
Speaker 1: Here we go, it's coming us from Jason Short and Sweet.
Speaker 1: Does your and we've had this discussion we should does
Speaker 1: your podcast have merched? By chance? Was hoping for sure?
Speaker 1: You know, people keep asking for we should really make it?
Speaker 1: Why haven't we?
Speaker 3: Nobody?
Speaker 1: Neither of us are doing it.
Speaker 3: That's the problem.
Speaker 1: Get Jiggy.
Speaker 3: You should get Jiggy on it.
Speaker 2: Get jig He already tell me about like some sights
Speaker 2: that would do it. But he's in Tokyo right now.
Speaker 2: So when you gets back from Tokyo, we'll put him
Speaker 2: on it. What would you what would be?
Speaker 3: Because this is a fun shirt you have on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like this. I want a cool design. Yeah
Speaker 1: if I if I, if I were to do it,
Speaker 1: it would, But you wasn't.
Speaker 3: I mean, we're not just gonna put the logo on
Speaker 3: a t shirt.
Speaker 1: No, no, it's not no.
Speaker 3: What is okay besides the T shirt now and anything?
Speaker 1: Anything?
Speaker 2: What do you think would make the most sense, Not
Speaker 2: that we would do it because it could be expensive,
Speaker 2: of course, don't worry about any of that. What would
Speaker 2: be the best merch item out of the episodes? Like,
Speaker 2: what would you think would be a great merch item
Speaker 2: that would sum up to cool Moms?
Speaker 1: I would think that, okay, if we're going to do
Speaker 1: a two cool Moms, like, I would think a shirt's
Speaker 1: pretty easy to sell.
Speaker 2: Right, But I'm saying a non shirt, not hat, like
Speaker 2: something specific to what and that encompasses or what we
Speaker 2: spoke of, something that's.
Speaker 1: Like, oh oh, it would be a hat, a cool
Speaker 1: mesh cap like Jiggy cells, but it would say bzoncres, bazoncres.
Speaker 3: Yeah, boncers is a great term.
Speaker 2: I would sell gum cold bazancers because like a gum game,
Speaker 2: gum name doesn't have bozonkers.
Speaker 3: Gum game, gum game, gum name.
Speaker 1: Bizok, what did you just say there, gum name. It
Speaker 1: didn't sound like it gum name. No, if we went back,
Speaker 1: I mean if I go back right now, I mean
Speaker 1: out of this episode.
Speaker 2: Band March from warm work. It would be a pretty badass.
Speaker 1: I think, you know. I'd read Colin Joe's book years
Speaker 1: ago when it came out like two years ago whatever,
Speaker 1: and it was so funny. I told him, can I
Speaker 1: sell your book as my merch because it's so good.
Speaker 1: It's just such a fun read.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well all right, well we'll make some March. We
Speaker 1: should make some March. What do you think would be
Speaker 1: the I.
Speaker 3: Mean we've had, We've had lots and lots of episode.
Speaker 1: Oh my, that is that's a I generated two cool
Speaker 1: mom's horror. Wait did you just type that in? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I just had that made two cool Moms horror. Wait,
Speaker 1: what sider you want to do that? That's deep ai
Speaker 1: dot org. Oh my goodness, do you type in Joe
Speaker 1: gatdo horror and it's just my head shot? Get you
Speaker 1: with your spike hair? Yeah? Oh my fucking god, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, oh my god.
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to put that up.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, put Steve? Why is everything is Spanish? Though?
Speaker 1: I don't know because Gatto is Spanish and that doesn't
Speaker 1: necessarily know me.
Speaker 3: Pus Steve Burn, Oh that does look like you. It's
Speaker 3: hand patted down the middle it's hand potted down the middle.
Speaker 1: Is that me the middle? I look like Crispin Glover.
Speaker 3: I mean, oh my god, that's exactly what it looks like.
Speaker 3: It looks like Crispin Glover. That's hysterical. All right, stopped
Speaker 3: this next question.
Speaker 1: This is coming us from Lexi. Okay, Hell, I am
Speaker 1: always I hope you're both doing fantastic. Joe, I'm super
Speaker 1: stoked to be going to your show on May thirteenth
Speaker 1: and Steve coming to Florid against him. Anyways, I'm having
Speaker 1: a bit of a family issue that I was hoping
Speaker 1: to get your opinions on. So my parents got divorced
Speaker 1: when I was in first grade, and all my life
Speaker 1: all they've done awesome job co parenting and always tried
Speaker 1: to maintain a positive professional attitude between each other, and
Speaker 1: they only communicate with each other in subjects regarding my
Speaker 1: sister and I. My mom got remarried about eight years ago.
Speaker 1: My dad got remarried in twenty twenty one. I love
Speaker 1: both my stepparents. Although my stepmom, bonus mom, has changed
Speaker 1: a lot since right before her and my dad got married.
Speaker 1: She always seems really insecure, but the past few months
Speaker 1: has gotten to extreme. She's basically cut off my dad
Speaker 1: from getting to see spend time with his best friends,
Speaker 1: and he's been friends with all his life, and his
Speaker 1: mother and even his real mother. And my stepmom has
Speaker 1: come to me to vent about the dad, my dad
Speaker 1: and his temper issues, and I don't really know what
Speaker 1: was going on, so I tried to reasure her and
Speaker 1: help her understand him and calm down. She seemed to
Speaker 1: like my dad, his mom and his friends were all
Speaker 1: the problem, and they were all out to get her
Speaker 1: and ruin her marriage. But I recently have come to
Speaker 1: the realization that her mental health is the problem, and
Speaker 1: she's just so insecure and anxious she is almost illusional.
Speaker 1: And if someone like my grandmother makes a slightly negative
Speaker 1: comment or says something that rubs my stepmom in the
Speaker 1: wrong way, she takes extreme offense and it goes talk
Speaker 1: from talking a bad about the person to everyone else
Speaker 1: in the family. For example, his best friend who was eighteen,
Speaker 1: just had a baby. He's getting married in the same
Speaker 1: venue that my dad's stepmom got married, which is a
Speaker 1: small town hall building in her neighborhood, and my step
Speaker 1: mom is gonna really shifted her view on the girl
Speaker 1: simply because step mom one doesn't agree with her. My
Speaker 1: choice in two think she they're getting married in the
Speaker 1: same venue and it's gonna make it less sentiment to her.
Speaker 1: And she told my father that because she gets Stana's father,
Speaker 1: she's either gonna go to my sister graduation the friend's
Speaker 1: wedding because she can't stand being around my grandmother. Their
Speaker 1: ride is like family, and she loves my step mom,
Speaker 1: who would crush her if my step mom didn't go
Speaker 1: and she found out how my stepmom felt. Anyways, my
Speaker 1: dad wants to get a divorce funny, is scared of
Speaker 1: being alone and losing money in the process. I want
Speaker 1: them to stay together because my step mom can be
Speaker 1: really fun. She's just funny. She's nice to be around,
Speaker 1: although she has insecurities have gotten worse. My dad seems
Speaker 1: to really unhappy. I don't want to talk to her
Speaker 1: or my dad both. I want to just try to
Speaker 1: see if I can help work things out, but I
Speaker 1: just don't know how to go about it doing this.
Speaker 1: I'm scared that if i I'm out to my stepmom
Speaker 1: basically say hey, you need to relax because because you
Speaker 1: say what you want and you want us to be happy,
Speaker 1: and you want everyone to stop being mean to you
Speaker 1: and causing you problems when you're really stressing about nothing.
Speaker 1: Nobody's intentions are here to break up your marriage or
Speaker 1: abears you or anything. You're coming out with all these
Speaker 1: negative things in your head and it's just not true.
Speaker 1: Stop smoking all that weed. It's taking you baranoid. I
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