1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: by clicking submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. And you never know, 7 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 1: this one could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it from all 9 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter subject to the Kitchen 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: and the Bedroom. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty seven 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: year old man and I'm married to a forty two 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: year old woman that I've known for twelve years. We 13 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: got married after we've been apart for about five years. 14 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: I didn't want to let her go again, so I 15 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: rushed in. Before we got back together, I dated a 16 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: great businesswoman that was the total package. She was a 17 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: great cook and she held it down as a small 18 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: business owner. She looked good and smelled good all of 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: the time. She set the bar really high as far 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: as dating goes. But she didn't want to be married, 21 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:08,199 Speaker 1: so we ended up growing apart. I rebound it back 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: to what was familiar and who I was comfortable with. 23 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,199 Speaker 1: The problem is that she's way too comfy with everything. 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 1: My wife is not the woman I met years ago. 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: She's a bit of a slob now, and I heard 26 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: her on the phone with her mom a few days 27 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: ago saying that I love her unconditionally and will drink 28 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: her bathwater if she asked me too. She's so wrong 29 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: about that. I'm falling out of love with her and 30 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: starting to feel stuck. She's got an outstanding body and 31 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: she knows it. She thinks she's putting it on me 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: in the bedroom, but it's always sloppy and all over 33 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: the place. I just want to make love to my 34 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: wife every once in a while, but she's on some 35 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: freaky stuff all of the time. I want home cooked 36 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: meals that I don't always have to cook, and she 37 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: told me that she no longer enjoys cooking, and we 38 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: need to get a meal prep delivered or or her 39 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: mom can cook for us occasionally. She must think I'm 40 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: a fool if she cannot meet my basic nief in 41 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: the kitchen and the bedroom. Why am I in this? 42 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm a Christian and I don't believe in divorce, but 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: I can't keep doing this. How can I fix my 44 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: failing marriage before it's too late? Okay, I'm just a 45 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 1: bit confused about what exactly you want. I mean, you're 46 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: complaining about everything. Well, one of the main things is 47 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: the bedroom action, because you put that in your title. 48 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: You're saying she can't please you. But she wants it 49 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: all the time and you only want it every once 50 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: in a while. There's a problem there. You know, first 51 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: of all, you gotta have an obvious, honest conversation with 52 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: her about your concerns. You've got to communicate with her, 53 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: just like you told Steve and I. You've got to 54 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: let your wife know what's on your mind. I mean, 55 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: you owe to yourself, you owe to your wife, You 56 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: owe to your marriage, and don't let her go around 57 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: thinking she's got it going on and but you think 58 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: she's missing it. I mean, that's not good, and that's 59 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: on you. The kitchen in the bedroom are important to you, 60 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: and you're not getting what you want, which is only 61 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: once in a while. But you're complaining because she wants 62 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: it all the time. You're probably boastitting up. They're frustrated. 63 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: I say, you know, when you do talk to her 64 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: be careful how you say what you say, because you 65 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: could really end up hurting your wife's feelings. If you're 66 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: uncomfortable with doing this, get some sort of counseling because 67 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: your marriage is in trouble and you need to start 68 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: looking at some serious solutions. You said you're a Christian 69 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: who doesn't believe in divorce. Let me tell you something. 70 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Christians get divorced every single day, every day, you know, 71 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: for whatever reason for cheating. Christians cheat all of that, 72 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: all of those things. You're asking, how can you fix 73 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: your failing marriage before it's too late. You got to 74 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: fix yourself, You gotta fix these things together. So again, 75 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: I suggest counseling therapy. You know you're staying in this 76 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: and you're not happy and she may not be happy either. 77 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: Where you are right now. It can lead to cheating, 78 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: It can lead to resentment, disrespect, distance, all those things, 79 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: and before you know it, you'll be a divorced Christian 80 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: if you don't decide what you're gonna do and try 81 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: to fix it now. Steve, Yeah, great response, Sherley. This 82 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: marriage is over, This is a rap. You ain't fixing 83 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: this one. This one is not salvageable. I'm going to 84 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: read you. This is a man who wrote this letter, 85 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: and I am going to show you why this letter 86 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: ain't going. First of all, when a man get down 87 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: to writing, he already done. He just needs to hear 88 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: some other opinions. So listen to this forty seven year 89 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: old man married to a forty two year old woman 90 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: he's known for twelve years. We got married after we 91 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: had been a part five years. This is critical to 92 00:04:55,040 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: the letter. They had been a part for five years years. 93 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: A lot can happen in five years, and a lot 94 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 1: of changes can happen in five years. I'm telling you 95 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: this marriage is over. I didn't want to let her 96 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: go again, so I rushed in before we before we 97 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 1: got back together. Now I rushed in before we got 98 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: back together. Here your problem. I dated a great businesswoman 99 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 1: that was the total package. She was a great cook, 100 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: she held it down as a small business owner. She 101 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: looked good and smelled good all the time. She set 102 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 1: the bar really far as high as dating goals. But 103 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 1: she didn't want to be married, so we ended up 104 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: growing apart. This I will show you later on in 105 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: the letter why this is the whole problem. This is 106 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: why this marriage is doomed because in the five years 107 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: that they were apart, this is what and who he 108 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: got involved with, and this is how he felt during 109 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: the five year period they were apart. This is the 110 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: description of what this man was doing. I dated a 111 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: great businesswoman that was the total package. Great cook, she 112 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: held it down as a business owner. She looked good 113 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: and smelled good all the time. She set the bar 114 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,559 Speaker 1: really far as high as dating goals. She just didn't 115 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: want to be married. So we ended up going part Then, 116 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 1: he said, I rebounded back to what was familiar and 117 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: who I was comfortable with. And the problem is she's 118 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: way too comfortable with everything. Oh, you ain't gonna get 119 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: fixed this, miss Strawberry. All right, we'll have part two 120 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: of your response coming up, Steve, to this letter the 121 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: Kitchen and the Bedroom coming up at twenty three minutes 122 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: after the hour right after this you're listening show. All right, 123 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter the Kitchen 124 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: and in the Bedroom. The name of this letter is 125 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: this marriage is dumed forty seven year old man dating 126 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: to forty two year old woman that he's known for 127 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: twelve years. We got married after we had been apart 128 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: for five years, and so he rushed back in because 129 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: he didn't want to lose her. But during the five 130 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: year period, this is what he did. I dated a 131 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: great businesswoman that was a total practice. She was a 132 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: great cook, she held it down to a small business owner. 133 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: She looked good and smelled good all the time. She 134 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: said the bar really high, as far as high as 135 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: dating goals. But she didn't want to be married, so 136 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: we ended up growing apart. Ah, here we go. That's 137 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: the problem of this whole letter. Now here's other problem. 138 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: I rebounded back to what was famillion, who I was 139 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: comfortable with, and the problem is she's way too comfory 140 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: with everything. So here is the beginning the second part 141 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: of the problem, which is why I say this marriage 142 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: is due. My wife is not the woman I met 143 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: years ago. She's a bit of a slob now. And 144 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: I heard on the phone with her mom a few 145 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: days ago saying that I love her unconditionally and would 146 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: drank her bathwater. She asked me to guess what he said. 147 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: She is so wrong about that. I ain't taking a 148 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: teaspoon and your little fucking bathwater drinking bath water from you. 149 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: Didn't you just hear him describe her as a bit 150 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: of a slob right now. And then the man said, 151 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: I'm falling out of love with her and starting to 152 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: feel stuck. You're not starting to fall out of love. 153 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: He out of love. This is not a letter of 154 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: something that's declining. This is a letter about something that 155 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: has declined. Because he said I feel stuck now, he 156 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: tried to bring it back. She's got an outstanding body 157 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: and she knows it. She thinks she's putting on me 158 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: in the bedroom. But it's always sloppy and all over 159 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: the place. Well, now, ladies, you're probably thinking, what does 160 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: he mean when he says it's always sloppy and all 161 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: over the place. It means she doing too much? She 162 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: doing too much, she doing the most, And that ain't 163 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: what he won't it's sloppy and it's all over the place. 164 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: Ify time he gets a little rhythm going, she won't 165 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: jump up do something else that's sloppy. Love it. Every 166 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: time we get somewhere before I can get a good 167 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: rhythm going here, you won't jump up and do something else. 168 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why, because listen to this 169 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: line right here, I just want to make love to 170 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: my wife once in a while. But she on some 171 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: freaking stuff all the time. And you know where she 172 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: got this freaking stuff from the five years, y'all was 173 00:09:54,840 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: a part while you was dating Superwoman. She found Ron 174 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: the mac and he didn't put it on her. Now, 175 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: she thinked, that's the way it goal sloppy and all 176 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: over the play do it like they flip over here, 177 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: give me that that that stand up over here? Okay, 178 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: doing everything, Okay, now on your back, okay, now hold 179 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: on to the shiney and that swaying crossed me one time. 180 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: Hold on right there, going there branks some water in here, 181 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: throws them, throws them all on me. It's just too much, 182 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: she told me. Yeah, okay, but she's on some freaking 183 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: stuff all the time. I want a home cooking meals 184 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: that I don't always have to cook, she told me. 185 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: She no longer enjoys cooking, and we need to get 186 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: a meal prep delivered or her mom can cook for 187 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: us occasionally. She must think I'm a food. And you 188 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 1: know why he says, you think I'm a food because 189 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: of what he had before. He said, I dated a 190 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: great business woman that was a total package. She was 191 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: a great cook, she held it down to a small business. 192 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: She looked good and smelled good all the time. She 193 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: was not a slob, and she was not sloppy. She 194 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: must think I'm a fool if she cannot meet my 195 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: basic needs in the kitchen, in the bedroom. Why am 196 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: I in this? See he wants He just wants us 197 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: to tell him why he in it? Then here's the 198 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: line of lines. I'm a Christian and I don't believe 199 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: in divorce, but I can't keep doing this. So how 200 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: can I fix my failing marriage before it's too late? 201 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: What do you mean before it's too late? Dog, it's 202 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: already too late. First of all, I'm a Christian. I 203 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: don't believe in What did that got to do with it? 204 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: Shennon did say something that made all the sense in 205 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 1: the world. Christian get divorced all the time? No damn 206 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: what you believe in? I believe in the Bible. I sin, 207 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: I believe in the weather channel. But sometimes I don't 208 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: brain my jacket. The problem with this is the comparison. 209 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: The comparison is the whole problem in this relationship. Right now. 210 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: The five years they was apart, he ran up into 211 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: the real deal, the rebound. He got back with her 212 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: and things have changed. It is no way to fix this. 213 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: You can bring it up if you want to, but 214 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 1: she's already convinced that you love her unconditionally and you 215 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: would drink her bath water. She is wrong about that. 216 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: He's not drinking her bathwater and he'd drank that other 217 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: girl bel that day, fixing his shut because what he 218 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: won't he had and what he went back to is 219 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: not what he had or what he won't anymore. As 220 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: she is slob now as she on on a cook 221 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: and she doing too much in the bed that she's 222 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: showing what she learned in the five years he was off, 223 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: and he won't what he had before. This is a wrap. 224 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: You can try to fix this if you want to. 225 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: Mister A Right. Please leave your comments on Today's letter 226 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and check out the 227 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next, it is 228 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to 229 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: the Stave Harvey Morning Show