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Speaker 1: So throwaway fifteen seventeen zero two says my wife thirty

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Speaker 1: for twelve years. I don't know how to describe it

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Speaker 1: it sounds like maybe it's not.

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Speaker 2: That you should rethink that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's another way we can describe it. I think

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Speaker 1: at twelve years we've only ever gotten to the point

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Speaker 2: Aw, that's pretty good. Ee.

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Speaker 1: We do everything together but always have never had, but

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Speaker 1: always have never had issues allowing each other to lead

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Speaker 1: our own lives and follow our own interests. Huh, that's

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Speaker 1: a double negative there, or a so they have or

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Speaker 3: Ah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it's not a double negative, but it's

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Speaker 1: a sounds weird. We bought a house where we wanted.

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Speaker 1: We both have good, high paying that have great work

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Speaker 1: life balance. Basically it's been everything short of perfect, but

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Speaker 1: until it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're on ready right now.

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Speaker 1: So we've been trying for two years to get pregnant

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Speaker 1: and it hadn't been happening. We were just about to

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Speaker 1: trip and guess what what, he's pregnant. Yeah? Who put

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Speaker 2: Because I think, what but she's that's what they wanted.

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Speaker 2: How long was he gone on the strip for?

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Speaker 1: Be careful what you wish for?

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Speaker 2: How long has he been gone on the shrip?

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Speaker 3: How?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. We need to know

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Speaker 1: about this timeline. I had this weird instant thought of wait,

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Speaker 1: I thought we didn't try during the week last month

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Speaker 1: than a week a month. Wait, forty weeks a year? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so op, he has gone more often than not?

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Speaker 2: What How does that? How does that work? Do something?

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Speaker 1: Something's fishy here?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Over the last four to five years, my wife has

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Speaker 1: Matt's slightly younger, I think thirty four, male or so.

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Speaker 1: I know him. He's married, I know his wife. They've

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Speaker 1: always been around him and I have been friendly. Have

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Speaker 1: I ever thought something was happening. No, But I've always

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Speaker 1: thought you'd be a fool to not think there's even

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Speaker 1: a one percent chance your spouse would go outside the relationship.

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Speaker 1: That sounds super healthy. Maybe I'm naive, but I always

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Speaker 2: H Oh, that's fishy, not out.

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Speaker 1: Of the ordinary. Matt comes by from time to time.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't think much of it. Okay, okay, he

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Speaker 1: We've got We've got Matt and Opie's wife. Yeah, spend

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Speaker 1: They've got cameras that OPI has access to. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: You to electric googloo, as they say in the comments,

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Speaker 1: check them often when I'm not at home. So I

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's just an amateur missuse. We don't need to

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Speaker 1: No jumping. Let's let's let's take this one step at

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, buddy's on the bench and she's calling him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's he knows that they hang out alone often.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just going to keep resenting. Yeah, probably his

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Speaker 1: I think it will definitely damage their marriage.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I mean he damage it right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's get into this update and see what he does.

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Speaker 1: She was out of state on a business trip until

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Speaker 1: I did this on Reddit, hence the new account, because

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to get Matt's wife involved intentionally. I

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Speaker 1: But I don't I don't think this is divorce. I

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Speaker 1: We've talked about it at length. Nothing is being ignored.

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Speaker 1: it's always yes, sometimes not always. In this case, I

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Speaker 1: Oh do you guys think he's, you know, kind of

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Speaker 1: She says, If that's the case, she's never noticed it,

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Speaker 1: We can't go to the bar to grab after work

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Speaker 1: drinks any day like they can. Honestly, I usually go

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Speaker 1: I'm friendly with her CEO because of it too. Is

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Speaker 1: had a reason not to in fifteen years. This is

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Speaker 1: gives a clear description of what happened that day. Opie says,

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Speaker 1: that's not what I saw. She said something, He froze,

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Speaker 1: texted her saying basically, I've caught you guys. He didn't

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Speaker 2: Only.

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Speaker 1: Mmm, you have to remember this is Reddit. I'm not

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Speaker 1: putting every single nuanced detail in this, because that would

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Speaker 1: that's crazy. The reason I have the security system in

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything beyond that didn't happen for sure

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Speaker 1: I don't have any proof. That's what my wife and

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Speaker 1: he already brought that up. But Opie says, she is

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Speaker 1: We aren't besties. Again, what should I go tell her? Hey,

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Speaker 1: in the world would that help my situation? If all

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Speaker 1: I don't know is true yet. I believe you have

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Speaker 1: We were left with questions.

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Speaker 2: I have so many. Is the biggest one?

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Speaker 1: Is he the father?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I just want to know what kind of

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, who is it?

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Speaker 2: Who had you been doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? First question, who are you? Second question? Are you

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Speaker 2: I think we could do a little, a little collin,

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Speaker 2: A little collin so someone. Uh, oh, don't worry. You

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Speaker 2: know them, you know them, I know them, you do

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Speaker 2: know them. I'm gonna get it set up. But this

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Speaker 1: I still haven't like sleep Wise recovered from our Tuesday Street.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. The day after I had to build

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Speaker 1: was so tired on Wednesday and my brother was in

439
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: town and then Riley broke my gnome and I I

440
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 1: just immediately started crying because I was so sleep deprived.

441
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: I I did apologize.

442
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 1: No, yeah, it's okay, it's again.

443
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,880
Speaker 2: Actually, no, we can we can do it. I am gonna.

444
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 2: I'm getting getty her another.

445
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 1: Don't give me another news. I just want glue.

446
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 2: Just give me glue I'm getting. Please, don't give me that, dude, like, oh,

447
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 2: it's a dinosaur nome with a cat on the back

448
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 2: with a crossbow and American flag. Tell me you don't

449
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: want this, tell me, tell me you don't want that.

450
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 2: That is so patriotic.

451
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 1: Okay, but like I'm not patriot.

452
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 2: Could be what?

453
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: I like my gnome. We just need to cool.

454
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 2: I was going to get you that gnome and that's

455
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:13,119
Speaker 2: very sweet.

456
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: I'll take that name. Sure, I'll take the gnome. But

457
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 1: let's call this caller.

458
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 2: Okay. Op Show convinced me to ask my new boyfriend

459
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,719
Speaker 2: out who is this?

460
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: Who is this?

461
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 3: Hello?

462
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 1: This is Sophia and Riley on. Okay, O, p Riley

463
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 1: hasn't told me who this is?

464
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 3: Yes, uh, he wanted to surprise you. Of course it's

465
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 3: your is his favorite person sleepless night.

466
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 2: It's stupid.

467
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 1: I knew it from your voice. Yeah yeah, tell us

468
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 1: about your your new your news. So, uh, before you start,

469
00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,400
Speaker 1: is this the is this the situation ship thing?

470
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 3: Actually no, So I because of the Sunday video that

471
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 3: came out. It basically convinced me to ask my new

472
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 3: boyfriend out.

473
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 2: Who who said the magical quote that was like what.

474
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,880
Speaker 1: What happened on Sunday?

475
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 3: The The quote was basically that guys also want to

476
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 3: be asked out. And I was like, okay, say let's

477
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: I'll do it.

478
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: And how did it go? So you asked about how

479
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 1: did you say it and how did it go?

480
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: I originally I was coming up with, like, you know,

481
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 3: being mean to him because something along the lines if

482
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 3: you'll usually say like uh, he's out of my league

483
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 3: or something, and I don't believe that, and so I

484
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 3: was going to use that, but I think very many

485
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 3: that are on the Okay He show understand that, like

486
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 3: once you're in that person's arms, everything just melts away.

487
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 3: So I just was like, oh, you know, made in

488
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 3: his arms? Was just like, you know, why don't you

489
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 3: just become my actual boyfriend?

490
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: At that you were in his arms. You were in

491
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: his arms, he was cradling you, and you said, why

492
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: don't you just be my boyfriend? Yeah? And then what

493
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 1: did he say?

494
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 4: He said, yes, of course, of course, yes, it's hard

495
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 4: to get a boyfriend nowadays or anyone in a relationship.

496
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 3: Agreed, But like he's been around me for almost two

497
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 3: years now, and it was it was inevitable. He's the

498
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: sweetest person, and I think I've looked in on such

499
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: the sweetest person in the entire world.

500
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: Oh, such great news.

501
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, so out of this he was. He was there

502
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 3: during the situationship, watching me second guess myself a lot

503
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 3: and stressed out about everything.

504
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So there was a situation going on, not with him,

505
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: the situation.

506
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: Not with him.

507
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: He came unrelated, okay, okay, understood, okay, And.

508
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 3: I didn't fully pursue him until, like I felt that

509
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: I was getting out of that situationship. He's actually technically

510
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 3: the reason why I got out of it. So but

511
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 3: like it was my choice in the first place.

512
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: Like a get rid of him and get what he's like.

513
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's lots of other guys that would.

514
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 3: He Yeah, he said something along the lines of, like

515
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 3: you should get out of this for yourself, but like

516
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 3: there might be somebody out there for you.

517
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: God him, he was playing the long game.

518
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 2: I mean.

519
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 3: Because he he was there. He knew my little sister,

520
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 3: he knows my other sister like he's been a part

521
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 3: of my circle for so long.

522
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing your story. This is

523
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: fantastic news.

524
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

525
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: I hope it continue. I know will continue to go out.

526
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 3: Seems that I have a better love chronicle than Sam.

527
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 2: So he's getting there.

528
00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: It's not that's what they all say. No, he's working

529
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: on it. He's working on it. He's doing well, sleepless.

530
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling us. We appreciate it.

531
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, anytime. But it assumes that I'll probably be

532
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 3: boring for the rest of the year.

533
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 2: Hey that's Hey, you don't need to have a usually

534
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: bad thing. What's that saying. It's like, bad decisions make

535
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 2: good stories. Sometimes you don't need a good story.

536
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you don't need a good story. You can

537
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: just have a sweet one.

538
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just have a sweet one. Yeah. Awesome. I

539
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: have a great night.

540
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you guys.

541
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 3: I'll be back in the live.

542
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: So alright there bye. What a cute story. Cute sweet

543
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: amazing story. I love that. Yeah, we love love, love love,

544
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: but let's get into this messed up story.