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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? At your girl a j holiday? What's

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Speaker 1: up to? Dam?

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Speaker 2: I love y'all, Havy Thanksgiving folks, I love y'all. How

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Speaker 2: do we get to?

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Speaker 1: I like to say what you're grateful for this week?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's a good question. I am grateful for good health.

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Speaker 2: I'm grateful for healthy relationships. I'm grateful for bundle deals tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I'm grateful for my side teeth. Yo, I am. I

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Speaker 2: was just looking on I'm grateful for that the Lord,

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Speaker 2: and I'm grateful for we talk about podcasts. What about

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Speaker 2: to hear it?

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Speaker 1: Let me see what I'm grateful for this week? Mmmm? Family? Right?

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Speaker 1: Always grateful for good good health. If you can't find

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Speaker 1: anything to be grateful for, but your ass have have

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Speaker 1: a good bill of health, there goes your reason. Definitely grateful,

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Speaker 1: Definitely grateful for We Talk Back. Okay, grateful for this

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Speaker 1: macaroni and cheese I make because it's really all I

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Speaker 1: have to eat for Thanksgiving. You know, I'm eating a

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Speaker 1: nigga food and yeah, family, friends, all the good things.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm grateful for.

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Speaker 2: Man, what are you cooking? Just mac and cheese? That's it.

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Speaker 1: Cheese is seafood, salad, and I got to make my own.

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Speaker 1: Like I'll probably make like some salmon and something like that,

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Speaker 1: like a filet salmon, because I don't need the meats,

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Speaker 1: some pies and what else am I responsible for? I

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Speaker 1: make a crap some crab rice.

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Speaker 2: M h that's it, and almost some of the up

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Speaker 2: put some in the milk.

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Speaker 1: It be busting too. I put a little bit of

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Speaker 1: coconut cream in there. M hmm.

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Speaker 2: That sounds nice. I'm first of all, I'm responsible for

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Speaker 2: five different family families macaroni and cheese, and I don't

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Speaker 2: know how I set myself like charging it. Yeah, I'm selling.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm about to say, y'all. One year, me and

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Speaker 1: Tammy swapped rare rice for macaroni, Like, but I wait

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Speaker 1: a minute, I actually made the red rice for you,

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Speaker 1: and all you gave me was the macaroni cheese recipe.

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Speaker 1: What wake a minute? What's happening? What that has has

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Speaker 1: tweaked a little bit bit because I'm not putting all

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Speaker 1: that goddamn heavy whooping cream. Y'all. See how many calories

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Speaker 1: and heavy whooping cream?

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Speaker 2: You just only eat it on Thanksgiving and like Eastern Christmas,

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Speaker 2: that's the only time you eat that type of macaroni

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Speaker 2: and cheese cake.

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Speaker 1: Take for us to get them calories off from Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: I'm taking I take a laxative on Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: Mhm. So there's that. Don't do that, folks, though, because

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Speaker 2: I think that might be called laxative abuse. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 2: but I do take one so I can't empty out

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Speaker 2: all of that stuff right right, drink that tea baby. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: I'm responsible for macaroni and cheese, the dressing, a banana pudding,

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Speaker 2: and corn bread, all carbs, heavy carbs. That's so that's

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Speaker 2: all my job.

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Speaker 1: That's all good. How you do your corn brand, I

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Speaker 1: should be damning like a cake girl with a little

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Speaker 1: crusty little top. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Same, It be kind of cakey, it be kind of sweet,

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Speaker 2: and I put a cane butter on mine. Let me

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Speaker 2: tell you what. Let me tell you a secret ingredient.

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Speaker 2: And y'all might think it's bad, but it tastes so good, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's a can of cream corn in there, like Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've seen people make it like that, but I don't

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Speaker 2: want the corn.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't make it extra sweet, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: the corn in there. And then depending on where brand

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Speaker 1: and cream, corn that should be starchy as hell, be

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Speaker 1: sticking to you teeth.

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Speaker 2: It is start teeth, but so good. It's so good.

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Speaker 2: So I'm making that. I got, you know what, this

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Speaker 2: recipe I got from my friend. I haven't tried it yet,

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Speaker 2: but I've tried hers and it was so good. You know,

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Speaker 2: hit her up like can you I have your corn

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Speaker 2: bread recipe and she's sitting mm hmm yeah, kind of

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Speaker 2: like a hush yep. So good. So you have carbub

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Speaker 2: Tanya is doing the greens and yams. I typically do

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Speaker 2: the yams too, but I'm not doing everything. You know,

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Speaker 2: I ain't got my own house yet, so how I'm

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Speaker 2: cooking all the damn food.

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Speaker 1: So that part you ain't put out no Christmas tree

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Speaker 1: yet this year, I guess to be up until March.

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Speaker 2: I can't put up like I don't move into it.

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Speaker 2: So I found a place, but I'm gonna move in

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Speaker 2: till January, so I can't put it. I ain't putting

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Speaker 2: up on Christmas tree. But my mom is. I'm sure

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Speaker 2: she's gonna put up a tree at some point.

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Speaker 1: I ain't putting up shit, bitch. I don't even got

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Speaker 1: a couch in it, so I do have chairs, have

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Speaker 1: a couch that I want yet, So maybe if I

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Speaker 1: get a couch within the next week or two, I'll

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Speaker 1: get a Christmas tree.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you? It's Black Friday sales that like, I've.

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Speaker 1: Seen a so far went from Ashley Furniture yesterday, So

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Speaker 1: I need the black fat Friday sale. Is not black

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Speaker 1: enough for me? Oh yeah, but just enough.

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Speaker 2: The Black Friday sales used to be just on Friday,

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Speaker 2: and they used to be super sales. Now they start

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Speaker 2: on the week before and it just based a regular sale.

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Speaker 1: No I need like this fucking couch is almost five

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars. No, right the fuck? I need forty percent off?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that's how it used to be on Black Friday.

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Speaker 1: No no more, ain't no damn sales. It's finesse.

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Speaker 2: Zara opens up December first, and Charlotte and you know

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be madness, and my friends are.

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Speaker 1: Like, all and Charleston, man, what the hell?

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Speaker 2: My friends are like, we don't want to go into January.

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Speaker 2: I'm going right on be out there with the whole

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Speaker 2: the masses on December first, fighting over. I had it first, No,

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Speaker 2: I had had at first, like I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Because I wanted to order some airrings from Zara, like

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Speaker 1: I need a local Zara mm hm, because they be

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Speaker 1: having all a cute shit, last minute shit. You always

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Speaker 1: could find you something Zara. Yep, I'm excited anyway. Weekend,

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Speaker 1: y'all know what it was. Y'all know what time it is.

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Speaker 1: I't do much this weekend. He did max it out again.

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Speaker 1: I did find a comforter that I was looking for

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Speaker 1: last week. Some said, actually go back a home Goods today.

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Speaker 1: I went back in home Goods. I got my comforter. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's all I had going on this weekend, and

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Speaker 1: my boot thing in town for the holidays.

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Speaker 2: So boo boot up m I did. I worked like

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Speaker 2: a Hebrew slave this weekend. You know, right before the holidays.

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Speaker 2: Everybody wants to hurt them when I tell you I worked.

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Speaker 2: I put it in forty eight hours in four days.

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Speaker 1: Mmmm.

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Speaker 2: And that's I feel like. That's all I did was

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Speaker 2: work and sleep for four days straight, like, and not

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Speaker 2: a lot of sleep either, and my feet hurts so bad. Like,

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Speaker 2: I went out and bought me some Hokahs because I

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Speaker 2: can't live.

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Speaker 1: Like six a six They good standing and running.

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Speaker 2: Boy, I went and got them ships because when I

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Speaker 2: tell you, my feet was on fire so bad. I

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Speaker 2: was supposed to apply to New York, I couldn't even go.

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Speaker 1: You know you're supposed to wear them little old lady's shoes.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little They look like penny loafers, a little

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Speaker 1: bit like round the square tow in the front. That's

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Speaker 1: oide of all the ladies who used to do it

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Speaker 1: do here back in the day. Those are the shoes

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Speaker 1: they wore that. Those are for standing all day long,

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Speaker 1: stothing cute.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, I got them ugly, that's hokah them. She's

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Speaker 2: as ugly as hell. But I got them because I

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Speaker 2: will never put my feet to fed again.

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Speaker 1: The so of them Hoka's like four inches.

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Speaker 2: They're urguly fuck but they feel like you're walking on

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Speaker 2: the cloud and I need that. Let's get into Sandy.

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Speaker 1: I know the whole world saw Summer Walker this past weekend.

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Speaker 1: Missus Pizza hut okay sparked a lot of it. Did it?

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Speaker 1: Did I feel like I've been bamboozled with these albums. Right,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been bamboozled because I don't know that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's back up a little bit. Okay, So over this

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Speaker 1: past week, Summer Walker had a lot of controversy right

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Speaker 1: between her and I don't know why the hell I

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Speaker 1: kept wanting to call his boy rich Omi Kwan but

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Speaker 1: Rich the Kid, Okay, Rich the Kid who is who

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Speaker 1: has been in a long term relationship with Tory Briggs. Right, No,

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Speaker 1: they're not married. Do they have one or two? I

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Speaker 1: think they got like two kids together or something like that.

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Speaker 1: But she's been known for having to beat bitches up

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Speaker 1: over him. Okay, going to jail this type of shit.

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Speaker 1: These are the things that have transpired over the years.

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Speaker 1: So Summer Walker. This weekend, Tory Briggs released audio of

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Speaker 1: her basically telling Rich the Kid how he can just

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Speaker 1: just get a second cell phone and save her number

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Speaker 1: as pizza hut. She don't give a fuck like she's

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Speaker 1: cool in the position that she's currently playing, which is

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Speaker 1: side bitch, and she says she has been in this

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Speaker 1: position for many years. At this point, they've been fucking

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Speaker 1: run off and on and if he's opening the wallet,

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Speaker 1: her hands is out like this. Remember that means she

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Speaker 1: had what she was giving her baby, baby daddy back

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Speaker 1: to the niggas, I mean, back to the streets. So

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Speaker 1: she's saying, if the wallet opens, her hands is open

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Speaker 1: like obviously the legs is open to How are you

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Speaker 1: feeling about Summer Walker right now?

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Speaker 2: I'm disappointed in her. You know when she said when

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Speaker 2: she was coaching a nigga on how to keep her

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Speaker 2: a side bitch, like save my number, it's pizza hut.

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Speaker 2: That was just the lowest of the low. You don't

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Speaker 2: think you deserve better than that, baby girl. You are

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Speaker 2: not a pizza place. You are a whole mother, a

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Speaker 2: whole You're a singer with a beautiful voice. You have

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Speaker 2: so much to give to the world, and here you

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Speaker 2: are minimizing yourself. Dude, they got what don't They got

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Speaker 2: five dollar personal pans right now? Like girl get.

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Speaker 1: She's a five dollar foot log. So that made me

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Speaker 1: say why I say side bitches could get beat up sometimes, right?

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Speaker 1: So no, they're not married, they're allegedly engaged Tory Briggs

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Speaker 1: and Rich the Kid. Summer Worker Walker. You notice you

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Speaker 1: make albums about how many and shit, how you know,

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Speaker 1: the heart of a woman is the only reason why

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Speaker 1: these niggas is breathing. But here you are doing the

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Speaker 1: same shit that you sing about to the next woman.

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Speaker 1: That's this is why side bitches have to take accountability. Yes,

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Speaker 1: the homeworkerd is the motherfucker that's in the home. But

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Speaker 1: your man cannot cheat unless there is a nigga. Excuse me,

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Speaker 1: she had nigga too, unless there is a nigga bitch

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Speaker 1: willing to complete, willing to compete, right, so there's always

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Speaker 1: somebody willing to compete. Rich the kid. Now ever since

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Speaker 1: this now I have been tallying up her bodies, I'm

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Speaker 1: now taking a look at the men she has let

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Speaker 1: have access to her box. Right, and y'all that just

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Speaker 1: ain't who y'all think. Y'all are? Rich the kid? God

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Speaker 1: damn uh Low funky Mac, what's the what's the low one? Uh?

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Speaker 1: What's the name? Says musty.

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Speaker 2: Little meach Low meach.

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Speaker 1: Her baby daddy, the two baby daddies, and then the

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Speaker 1: nigga who she was just dating recently, who just came

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Speaker 1: home from prison. It was like he was in her

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Speaker 1: DM for years, and I guess she finally gave him

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Speaker 2: She's just a broken girl, That's what I think. You know,

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Speaker 1: Somemawaka Suki Hannah, Sexy Red, that's her click. Oh they

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I definitely would have tried to like make some

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Speaker 1: Did you wrong as a mother for? And this is

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Speaker 1: Summer Walker got more money to him. You got to

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Speaker 2: It's given like so rich men. You know how some

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Speaker 1: But he don't like you, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: your number. You are a Summer Walker. This is all

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Speaker 1: I'm like, who are you? And now at this point,

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Speaker 1: But she's a fucking at this point, That's how I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at her, Like, girl, what And I love somemer Walker. Man,

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Speaker 1: I love Summer Walker.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I hope she finds a way to

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Speaker 1: This is the bitch story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we've all been wanted once or twice, but

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Speaker 1: Like big lot meech like he was lying saying he

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Speaker 1: like playing with Summer Walker. Right, So when you think

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Speaker 1: your esteem. And I think that's what we're looking at, right,

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Speaker 1: You're not looking at a confident woman. No, that's not

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because you wouldn't be you wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: But she's now she has two kids with him, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So whatever whatever her reasons are

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's gross. But you know what we were

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Speaker 2: talking about them he has He is the problem. He

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Speaker 2: things that she needs to fix. But rich the kid

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Speaker 1: These are people who are in public relationships. And Tory

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Speaker 1: long as you've had these relationships, you know, had a

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Speaker 1: but you know, the man in relationship, no matter what

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Speaker 1: this ship is not fucking cute. Yeah, and you be

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Speaker 1: singing about niggas not being shipped, because oftentimes, if you've

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Speaker 1: you ain't shit either. Anybody you fucked with it ain't shit.

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Speaker 2: That part. What about speaking of side bitches, This side

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Speaker 1: Yeah, their dead nigga, This is she deemed it. My

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Speaker 1: thing is you hopping in the grave. You ain't paid

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Speaker 1: for a bitch, did you? Did you put in on

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Speaker 2: Oh they didn't lower it in front of the family,

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, I just I mean I with my home

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she could have been been theirs because they sounded

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Speaker 1: Know that women were black, right, the white and all

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Speaker 2: You couldn't tell. All you saw was the slither of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a waiting. I'm so glad that her

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: No, she was just so broken by the loss of

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Speaker 2: But they tore her ass up. She learned a valuable lesson.

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Speaker 1: Death, or at least pay for something. If it's if

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Speaker 1: You better not show up at this goddamn funeral empty handed.

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Speaker 1: Need I need of what I spent on this funeral.

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Speaker 1: You ain't just about to come enjoy a damn chicken

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Speaker 2: You can't come to the repair at all, Like, please,

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Speaker 2: I listen, I won't tell you can't come to the funeral,

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Speaker 1: Why would you. Why would you be coming to the

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Speaker 2: Don't come. You can't come to the repairs though you

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Speaker 1: now threatening to sue this streamer he pulled up. You know,

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Speaker 1: you know, recording them on her live excuse me, not

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Speaker 1: She's ritting off all over social media now wanting to

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Speaker 1: because why you thought, why would he want to kiss

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Speaker 2: I'm confused as to why she wanted this stranger to

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Speaker 1: It was kind of weird, right, Yeah, I think it's

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Speaker 1: I guess she might have perceived him as somebody who

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Speaker 1: be a goal too.

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00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 2: To be like, put one right here, boy, If you

432
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 2: don't get out on face, I don't know where your

433
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 2: mouth been.

434
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it was weird, and it was a weird

435
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 1: exchange in her part, and I think that that's why

436
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:12,400
Speaker 1: she wanted the video to be taken down. But it's

437
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 1: already live, sweety, so people saw you getting curved for

438
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: a fake kiss on the streets, and in the video

439
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,880
Speaker 1: looks like she was stopping him to talk. I don't know,

440
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: it's just weird. She got her a little five minutes, right.

441
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 2: So this is gonna take us into our topic today.

442
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all saw, but Candy Birds has

443
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 2: fouled for divorce from Todd Tucker. Candy Birds Tucker excuse

444
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 2: me has fouled for divorce from Todd Tucker. A video

445
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 2: resurface of showing Todd saying women who don't want to

446
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 2: share their wealth will end up by themselves. We just

447
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 2: want to have a conversation about can women be more

448
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 2: successful than their spouse and stay in a relation ship

449
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 2: or stay married? So we're gonna get into that when

450
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 2: we come back. All right, y'all went back? Hey, y'all,

451
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: AJ was making your face? Y'all you crazy? Or the

452
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: topic is kim relationships last if the woman is more successful? Now,

453
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about this. I don't know if

454
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 2: that's why their marriage is dissolving. Let me just say

455
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: that it could be many reasons. Who knows what it is.

456
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 2: But because that conversation that video resurfaced, I wanted to talk.

457
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: About, like.

458
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: Successful women in their relationships with men, if they're with

459
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,479
Speaker 2: a man who is not as successful as them, do

460
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: we know a lot of them? Are they healthy relationships?

461
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 2: Are they happy? Are the men happy? Are they bitter?

462
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 2: Do they resent the woman? Because I feel like a

463
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:54,959
Speaker 2: lot of times we are society, a man's value is

464
00:24:55,040 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: directly tied to what he brings to the table. So

465
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 2: if he's not the bread winner, is he a valuable partner? Yeah?

466
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: I mean just because the everybody, including men, know that

467
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 1: they have to produce. It's just it is what it is.

468
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 1: And I think that sometimes men, instead of working towards

469
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: putting themselves in a position to produce more, they will

470
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: create issues elsewhere, right, like the woman or the relationship

471
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: will become the problem as to why they aren't producing.

472
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 1: Men like men with money, women like men with money.

473
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: It's just, it is what it is. It's one of

474
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 1: those double standards. But I think when you have women.

475
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: We kind of talked about this a couple episodes ago.

476
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,719
Speaker 1: What was it was one of your friends we had

477
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: on the show and she was in corporate and we

478
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: were talking about, you know, women, black women with their

479
00:25:56,240 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: degrees and money. Women sometimes yeah, they sometimes, you know,

480
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 1: and not not just tech obviously, right because because Candy is,

481
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: she's been in entertainment since they were, since she was

482
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: a teenager. This like the world has known who Candy

483
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: was for a very long time, right, so her success

484
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 1: did not just start with Todd right right now? What

485
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: they build together, that's it's just separating. Sorry, And I

486
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: even feel the same way if it were the man

487
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: who was was a bread winner. I don't. I don't

488
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: believe in like taking somebody's somebody for everything they are

489
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: they have. I don't believe in that at the end

490
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: of a relationship that ship has kind of fucked up.

491
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: To me, you you leave with what you came with

492
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: or whatever we acquired together. But I think that men

493
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: say that they can deal with that with making a

494
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 1: funny face, I wonder why they say. Men say that

495
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: they can deal with that, But I really don't think

496
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: they can. And as much as a woman will try

497
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: to like coddle them and make them feel like, hey,

498
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: it's okay, it is something in the man, right, he

499
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: wants to produce, he wants to do more, and whatever

500
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: is prohibiting that it has nothing to do with the woman.

501
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: But I have seen this in real life. Okay, women

502
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: making the more more money, the women making moves, and

503
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: then they have this failure to launch as dude. And

504
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's Todd's position, right, I'm just saying,

505
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: in like real life situations I've seen and woman, the

506
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: woman is always like overcompensating for him.

507
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, this one's about to say, do you feel like

508
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: when women are more successful they have to shrink or

509
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: downplay their accomplishments to make that man feel secure. Do

510
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 2: you feel like that's.

511
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,959
Speaker 1: It may not be necessary and men may say they

512
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,360
Speaker 1: don't need it, but there's a reason why this woman

513
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: starts doing that because men will have like little big

514
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: money or I can't you be like trying to clock

515
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: with the woman is spending money on I know a

516
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: guy who was in a relationship with a woman and

517
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: she was a doctor. He's like in tech, like its

518
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: for the government. But this woman she was a doctor,

519
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 1: but and she worked in the emergency room, so she

520
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: just worked all day long, outsourced everything. She even wanted

521
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: to outsource a baby if they were to get married

522
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: and have a kid, Like she's like, I don't want

523
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 1: to have the baby, like I want to pay for

524
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: a zarrogan so because she was in a position to

525
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: spend the money, and she never once said anything to

526
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: him about not making as much as she did it.

527
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: Once they broke up, it played out in all his

528
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: relationships after that. I just felt like he's he always

529
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: felt inadequate in every relationship after that, even though he

530
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: made money, he just never made four hundred thousand dollars

531
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: like this, But she was with, Yeah.

532
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 2: That's what I'm about to say, Like, because he could

533
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: be successful still, but as long as he's not as

534
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 2: successful as his counterpart, there is some type of ego

535
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: thing going on where he can't he doesn't feel like

536
00:28:59,160 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: the man.

537
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: But then we do it, and I think the women

538
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: are like this, this is our as long as we together,

539
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: this is our money. But you're not about to leave

540
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: and take half my shit. No nobody wants that.

541
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: Man don't want, right, but oftentimes women do. When they leave,

542
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: they get a lot, you know.

543
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: Well, because oftentimes the woman leaves with the kids too,

544
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: So you think you're supposed to put three babies in

545
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: and they're not supposed to have the same lifestyle that

546
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: you afforded when we were together. That's where the extra

547
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: money comes in at right, So you still gotta pay

548
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: for the private school. We gotta You have to still

549
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: pay for those kids to live as if they were

550
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: living with you. And you could take Shaquille O'Neil for example,

551
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: when Shannie left, like he he would rather pay Shanni

552
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: all this money than they have to deal with them,

553
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: fucking kidding night. So we got the money to do it,

554
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: why not? Right?

555
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 2: But I can imagine Candy being like, you can get

556
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 2: the fuck out like real quick to tie you know.

557
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: I can't though my mother Candy is a nice No,

558
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: I think Candy is nice. I can't imagine Candy because

559
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: I feel like Candy would be one of those women

560
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: over compensating for him because remember her mama did not

561
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: at some point, Yeah, okay, her mama didn't like Todd initially,

562
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: and you know she was already on house eves of

563
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: Atlanta before even being a house housewife. She had like

564
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: a boyfriend or fiance is somebody that got help club

565
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: or some shit in Atlanta, and now she met Todd.

566
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: Todd is now on the show. What you do see

567
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: Todd doing on the show is presenting all these different

568
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: business ideas and shit like that over the years, and

569
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: like the Old Lady Gang, the restaurant and all that

570
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: shit like that. Those were all Todd's ideas. And that

571
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: ship like up right now and that's a failing business.

572
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: That old a Gang closed down. Yeah, they had like

573
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: a lot of little legal issues. So maybe I don't know,

574
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: maybe invested in these some of the business's ideas that

575
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: he came up with, might have you know, cost her money.

576
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: Their money that she.

577
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: That Listen if if you if you come in and

578
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: cost them money, we'll say that right because that's what

579
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: Todd would would like to say. But if I had

580
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: to use my money for the initial investment on this thing,

581
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: you would have never gotten this thing off the ground

582
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: had it. Now I could take me for a fucking example,

583
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: and it God theren food truck trap veggie Okay, nigga

584
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: kill me with the idea. I'm like, yeah, now, mind you.

585
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: I would be the cook on the truck too, because

586
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: he ain't cooking shit.

587
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: Did it ever come out?

588
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: He probably still eating you probably no, uh huh. I

589
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: still own the business, but he has the truck. So

590
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: whenever I get myself situated, I still want to do

591
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: my business. My business. I had to argue with this

592
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: nigga about my business because I invested the initial like

593
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: how you I've never been able to tell a nigga

594
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: my dreams, and they invested in the day one like here,

595
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: let's go buy the truck. Let's I bought the truck,

596
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: I put the transmission in it. Now I got to

597
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: argue with this nigga about who owns the actual name

598
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: of the business, because people be messaging me wanting to

599
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: buy the business name itself. Hm, you know what? And

600
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: in his mind he thinks he owns something because he

601
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: did like the fabrication of the truck. But you don't.

602
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: You don't own it, like you eventually put more money

603
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: into the business than I did, but it never got going.

604
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: I never got my return on investment. At least you

605
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: still got the truck. So it's it's were you. Would

606
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: you have ever done this without me? That that would

607
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: be my question. Could Todd have opened a restaurant or

608
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what he was doing prior to Candy?

609
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: We know her money was you finial?

610
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: He was working in production on the show because that's

611
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: where they met. He was on like the production team.

612
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: He was in entertainment as well, but so you remember

613
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: that man. They went to Africa and they threw he

614
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: threw them bones, and he told Candy that she was

615
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: gonna get married to somebody who was there with them now,

616
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: and he told Charay she would never get married again.

617
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: Well, is that the same episode? Porschia the persons here?

618
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: Porscha she was gonna be with a woman.

619
00:32:55,840 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 2: Well, I don't remember, but she is dating the woman now?

620
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: Is I will throw some bones from me and tell

621
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 2: me what's gonna happen.

622
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: So she married him and no getting divorced. I guess

623
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: he didn't say they would stay together. He just said,

624
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: you know, I love short man. I love short man, y'all. Okay, go,

625
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: I said, I'm a short man advocate. But I can

626
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: see on Todd's face that that niggas a sassy problem.

627
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: I could see on his face that he would be

628
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: a fucking problem. Like you short, you're short for meau.

629
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: Some niggas be like they really have like the Napoleon syndrome. Right,

630
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: So you short, and on top of that, your woman

631
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: making more money than you.

632
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that could cause a problem ego. So all right,

633
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 2: so how can it actually work?

634
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: Like?

635
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 2: What what would a woman need in a man for

636
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: that ship to actually make sense.

637
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: It work like if she had all the money and

638
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: he hadn't. I don't. I don't think it can't not work, right,

639
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: But I don't think that the men would allow it

640
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: to work. I know another couple who the woman has

641
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: been a breadwinner the majority of the relationship, and I

642
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 1: have heard him say that he's okay with that. He's

643
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: okay with his wife making more money than him. He

644
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: speaks about her for on one k as if it's theirs.

645
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, she allows it. So who

646
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: is you know, anybody outside the relationship to say anything. Now,

647
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: I know for a fact that this woman does not

648
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: emasculate this man, and if she does, it is never

649
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: in public. Okay, So she's saying some shit to him

650
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, like you ain't even pulling you a weight, nigga,

651
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: Like that's not even emasculating. It's like it's the truth, right,

652
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: I would never know if that's happening, right, But the

653
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: way this person, everything he everything that comes out of

654
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: his mouth just sounds like he's just trying to overcompensate

655
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: for not producing.

656
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: And I think that's just it. Think, but it's also

657
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 2: a societal thing because men in this country, men are

658
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: made to feel less than when they can't produce, right.

659
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I think that's all countries. It's just that in other

660
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: countries it's known that a man has to take care

661
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 1: of his family. It's almost like it's up for debate.

662
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: In America, the fuck it's not up for debate.

663
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: But in their situation, they ain't even taking care because

664
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 2: I think he probably could take care of the family

665
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 2: off of what he makes, but they taking care of

666
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,439
Speaker 2: different life. Yeah, there's a different kind of take care

667
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 2: when it comes to Candy Birds and people who have

668
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 2: in that tech record.

669
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: And I don't even see Candy as like super flashy,

670
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, I think Candy probably

671
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: lives made more way more modest than her bank account

672
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: it actually allowed. Yeah, so I don't I don't see

673
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: her just being a super flashy person that he got

674
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: it like she She's just real modest to me. So

675
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: if a man had to be with any woman that

676
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: had more money than him, it would be her. But

677
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: the problem is is that it's the man's ego that

678
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,720
Speaker 1: couldn't deal with that. So I can't say one little

679
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: thing to you about finances without you getting upset. I

680
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: can see that happening, you know what I'm saying, Like

681
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: or just even like you got to pay the cost

682
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: to be the boss. It just is what it is.

683
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: So whoever has more resources, more assets, oftentimes they are

684
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: going to be the one to make the decisions. You

685
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: playing with somebody else.

686
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: Money, right, So here is when it actually can work,

687
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 2: because I mean, I just when I listen to you,

688
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 2: I think about when it's flipped, and I'd be all

689
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 2: for that. You know, when it's the woman, I'll be

690
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 2: like and so and so. Well, when it's the man,

691
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: I'll be like mm hmm. So I know it's like.

692
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: Because I think women accept that my man is a

693
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: brand winner. Women are usually you know, and the women

694
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: are the homemaker, right. And I think men, if the

695
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: man isn't good with the money, he'll give all his money,

696
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: how much ever money he's making to them. He's handling

697
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: a check book, She's handling their lives. Some men do

698
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 1: that even if they're the ones making all of the

699
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: Money's that's what I'm saying. It depends on the man.

700
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: I don't think a woman can do anything different in

701
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: that dynamic.

702
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, unless she is complicit in shrinking and playing

703
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 2: small even though she is a breadwinner. So it says

704
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 2: can it actually work? Yes, when a man is emotionally secure,

705
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 2: the roles are flexible dot rigid. Both partners value teamwork

706
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 2: over power, and communication is honest and consistent, And it

707
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 2: says no when the woman feels she has to shrink

708
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 2: when he competes with her, when money becomes a weapon

709
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: or a scoreboard, or when ego is valued over partnership.

710
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 1: That's pretty much it. There's a lot of women out

711
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 1: here who have invested in men. You know, the Internet

712
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 1: really will be fooling you. Like women ain't shit. We

713
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: just want to We just want to use all these

714
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: men for money, you know, when most men do not

715
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: have as much money as the Internet presents. The average

716
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: man doesn't, average woman doesn't. Most people are in the trenches.

717
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: So the situations you find like the people who I know,

718
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: like in medical profession, like doctors like that, and they

719
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: get with regular niggas who'd be watching video games and

720
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: shit like that. It is a recipe for the like

721
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: for disaster, because first of all, you can't give somebody

722
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: drive either, right, you still want to find somebody.

723
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: That's equally Yeah, I agree, but you gotta find somebody,

724
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: because I definitely have a friend who left her husband

725
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: because he just was not financially ambitious, right, So she

726
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 2: decided to move on, and then she ultimately went back

727
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: to him because he was an excellent dad. He was

728
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: so good with the kids, He loved her fully, he

729
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 2: never cheated on her, he never did anything wrong, and

730
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: he was a good dad. But he just wasn't He

731
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 2: was okay with working a simple nine to five like

732
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 2: that didn't afford him a lot, but he would work.

733
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 2: He just wasn't trying to be the CEO of the company.

734
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 2: That was not his ambition. And she ultimately went back

735
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 2: because she felt like the value he did bring outweighed

736
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: any money that anybody else could have brought to her ultimately,

737
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 2: and I thought that was beautiful. And they're still married

738
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: now and they're happy. I mean, I'm sure they have

739
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: their issues like any other couple, but overall they're happy,

740
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 2: you know, And I admire that so much because I

741
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: don't know if I would have went back, you know,

742
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have, but it worked

743
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 2: for her and her family, so it can work. I say,

744
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: all of that to say that can work.

745
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he, to me, he's still in the position

746
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: of just think about women who get left by men

747
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: and the men the man is the provider, and the

748
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: man can come and go when they want to. That's

749
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: essentially what she did to her husband mm. Like she

750
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: left them, went to see what was outside, realizing shit

751
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: out there, and came back home. How many men can

752
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: you really play with like that, whether they got it

753
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 1: or not. Not many? So, like, he's definitely in a

754
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what role he playing. I don't know.

755
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what role it is that he's playing.

756
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: M H.

757
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: Great, So I have him advice to offer for our

758
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: listeners male and female. For the women, don't dim your

759
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 2: life ever. Choose emotional mature men, emotionally mature men, because

760
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 2: if not, they're not there. They're always going to resent

761
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 2: you if you make more money than them. And attention

762
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 2: to his reaction to your success.

763
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: Well, that's a big one, y'all. I talk about this

764
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: on this show before, y'all. Our first episode dropped and whatever.

765
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: January twenty twenty one, and I'm so happy, tell me happy,

766
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: Like I'm on a computer, I'm looking at analytics, like

767
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see, like what kind of numbers were doing.

768
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: And my fiance at the time comes downstairs and the

769
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: first thing he says to me all day that day

770
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: is you a hope.

771
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 2: But it's on the show.

772
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: You a hoe. I'm like, Yo, this nigga he took

773
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: me to lunch, He's say congratulation. Oh nothing, that is

774
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: that's the And he was already walking around the house

775
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: with a whole fucking attitude. I'm not knowing why not,

776
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: mind y'all. This nigga wanted to produce our show, like

777
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 1: he wanted to be hands on involved with our show.

778
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you don't have time, Like we're trying

779
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 1: to start one business. You already own a business that

780
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: you're running one hundred percent of the time yourself. Right,

781
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: it's not like you can step away from that shit.

782
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: You don't have the time to fuck with my shit.

783
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,720
Speaker 1: But that was his way to control have some control

784
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: over or something I was trying to do outside of him.

785
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: You gotta be careful with people like that, right, Because

786
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: he didn't know me prior to knowing me, right, so

787
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: he didn't like when we met, I wasn't on my

788
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,959
Speaker 1: shit I just wasn't. It took me a long time

789
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: to get back on my shit. Bitch. I feel like

790
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: I was rich in my twenties, Jeremy, and then it's

791
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: the ebbs and flow of you know what I'm saying.

792
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: Shit fucking happens. And this is when I met this man.

793
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: So I don't know if he where he thought he

794
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: was on a totem pole in comparison to where I was.

795
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: But the moment I started operating outside of his fucking program,

796
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: it was a problem. And I ain't never somebody you

797
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: can control, like I'm not programming. Okay, I'm not controllable,

798
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,479
Speaker 1: so it's gonna be an uphill battle when you fuck

799
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: with me. So back to him asking me if I'm

800
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: a hole? Okay, listen, depends on the week.

801
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 2: No more.

802
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm talking about not even what is a hole? Okay,

803
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: there's my question? What is a hole? So I took

804
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: myself to lunch. I took myself to get me a

805
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: nutting but cupcake, cause what the fuck? Okay, to celebrate myself.

806
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: And he was still harassing me, calling my cell phone

807
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: and I finally answered, and he I said, you know what, motherfucker,

808
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 1: I am a hoe. Now what Now, what you're gonna

809
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 1: do that you're engaged to this whole You were living

810
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: with each other day in and then out day out. You

811
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: see my moves, So to even ask me some shit

812
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: like that. Because of the commentary we have on the show,

813
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: Tammy and I were trying to find ourselves. We were

814
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: trying to see how we wanted to present to the world.

815
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: Were talking about the very first episode and our first

816
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 1: few episodes is raunchy as a motherfucking for no damn reason. Okay,

817
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,439
Speaker 1: but we have sense grown, right, and I just wasn't

818
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: given a space to do that in that relationship. Like

819
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: I was being fucking censored in a real in a

820
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 1: real way. But yeah, like that was the first thing

821
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: he said to me, and it really was, you know,

822
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 1: to make me feel a way about myself. But when

823
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: you know thyself, can't nobody do that to you?

824
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 2: Right?

825
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: So self awareness is number one. So if you in

826
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: a marriage, you're making more money than your man, right,

827
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: it's making like nobody should ever be making you feel

828
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: like you and you because.

829
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 2: Bitch, and you should never shrink it. And the last

830
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 2: one for women is to set boundaries early and for

831
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 2: the men, your value isn't only financial. So that's that's

832
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: the biggest one for men. Your value is not only

833
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 2: connected to your money.

834
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: Largely though unfortunately it's just one of those things. It's

835
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 1: just and I think men know that innately. They know

836
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: that they have to have money, and they feel happy

837
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: when they do. Men feel happy when they can take

838
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: care and do stuff for people without blinking an eye

839
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: like that is that they don't even that is their

840
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: fucking sweet spot. They don't even realize it. This is

841
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: why you focus on the fucking money before you start

842
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: having kids. Yeah, but focus on getting the bag first.

843
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: But you know, some people are going to have a

844
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: regular nine to five and that will be their life.

845
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: It's gonna be some worker bees out here. And I

846
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 2: don't want a worker bee person listening to this and

847
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 2: feeling like he ain't worth nothing because he ain't the CEO.

848
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 2: That's not true because your value is not really financial.

849
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: M So I feel like I'm a worker bee. You

850
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 1: a worker bee, no, and we produce it. You don't

851
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 1: think you no?

852
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 2: No, I don't.

853
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 1: So what are you? What's your what's your? What is

854
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: the CEO? I just ain't They're just working.

855
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 2: I'm a CEO. I'm just not there yet.

856
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:43,959
Speaker 1: Oh that's a great example set, right. I can't fuck

857
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: with a poor man. I cannot fuck with somebody who

858
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: has a poor mindset. So I feel like most women,

859
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: I always say this, We're not expecting you to have

860
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: it today, but you have to have a mindset of

861
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: a millionaire because if you keep that mindset, you will

862
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: get you in your family to where you want them

863
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: to be at. And you can't blame anybody else on

864
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: the way there because you don't have yet. I feel

865
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: like that's what I was experiencing. A nigga didn't have

866
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: a million dollars yet, and he was laming me for it,

867
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: like you ain't have a million when I met you,

868
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 1: and I accepted you where the fuck you were, and

869
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 1: in my mind we were going to build the million

870
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: dollars together. But what I realized is you can't really

871
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: help men build.

872
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 2: And but here's the thing. You can help man build.

873
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 2: You can. I've seen a lot of people get a

874
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 2: man and it was turn to turn that man into

875
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 2: the powerhouse that he It was somebody when he met her,

876
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 2: and then when she got into his life, he turned

877
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 2: into somebody different. But everybody, how many people got it.

878
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 2: I ain't got a lot, but the man stay, he exists.

879
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 2: But everybody go ain't to be a millionaire. Some people

880
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 2: just want to have a car, food, take a vacation

881
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,399
Speaker 2: every now and then, and that's it.

882
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta know your person Yeah.

883
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: And and I don't want people to listen and think

884
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: that they have no value because they not. They don't

885
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 2: aspire it to that.

886
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: When people listen to things. First of all, you gotta

887
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: have some discernment. You also have to know that this

888
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: the set, these these conversations are way more vast than

889
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: we could put into an hour long episode. Right, So

890
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: of course I'm not saying like women, if you got

891
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: a man, you gotta build, but Bill wouldn't leave him,

892
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: absolutely not. But you gotta know your personnel. You gotta

893
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: have discernment, understand who it is that you're dealing with.

894
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: Are you dealing with a man that you can help

895
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: build and he's not going to resent you for having

896
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: seen him when he haves shit, because that's usually what

897
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: the first babe mom experience or the woman who went

898
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: through the trenches with this man. And then he go

899
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: on and get a woman who never saw him struggle

900
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: and that's who he marries. Mm hmm, this is what

901
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. You gotta be careful. You can't just

902
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: do this this thing for anybody.

903
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: No, I agree, you have to choose why. The next

904
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 2: one for men is learn emotional contribution. And that's a

905
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 2: huge one, I think because I know a lot of

906
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 2: women who are in relationships with men who can give

907
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 2: them the entire world financially, but when it comes to emotionally,

908
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: it's a drought and they're suffering in that area. So

909
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 2: it's important to learn emotional contribution because your your partner

910
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: needs that as well. Yeah, and when when you have

911
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 2: a partner who's doing well, celebrate her, don't resent her.

912
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 2: I know that's hard when you're not feeling adequate, but

913
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 2: you got to celebrate because your time will come if

914
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 2: you if you practice that energy. And then, like I know, I.

915
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: Was about to say, I know a couple. You know

916
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: the couple too, and I can just see that he

917
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: is not operating in the energy he would like to

918
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: be in.

919
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 2: You. I know exactly who you're talking about.

920
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 1: And it's so sad for me to see because I

921
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: can almost see like his light them and down because

922
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: he hasn't gotten his opportunity. Yet, like I said, your

923
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: partner's wins are your wins. That should be your momentum,

924
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: like your like battery to get you to do your right.

925
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying not to get behind because everybody

926
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: could do a jay Z and what's jay z best friend.

927
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: Niggas got behind jay Z Ta ta right. All the

928
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: niggas got behind jay Z because they realized jay Z

929
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: was that nigga who was going to take them to

930
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: wherever they was going at right, and they all employed,

931
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: they're all millionaires now because they support it this person

932
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 1: the head. Yes, you gotta sometimes do that for your partner.

933
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: So if it's your wife in a position or if

934
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: it's your husband in a position, if they win, you win.

935
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: That's how you got to look at it, so you

936
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: can keep like the gratitude going. But I do strongly

937
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: believe that everybody should have their own little shit separate

938
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: outside of relationship too. You try to put all eggs

939
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: in a basket, she can get real messy, especially in

940
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: divorce and separation, depending on who's making all the money.

941
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: Now this person like you're trying to take all my

942
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: money and this person likely when you ain't made no

943
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: money like it can get.

944
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 2: You can get real, real ugly. The last one I hope, Yeah, me.

945
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 1: Too, I said, I hope candy shit don't get nasty.

946
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And then the last one is practice partnership

947
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: not competition. It ain't nothing worse than two people in

948
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: a relationship that are in competition with each other. Oh

949
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:32,399
Speaker 2: have you ever seen that?

950
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: Absolutely? And you know, one person could be saying I'm

951
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: not in competition with you verbally, but all your actions

952
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: show that you are in competition. That part, right, So

953
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: make sure you're going off of actions and not what

954
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 1: they're saying out their mouth, because they may be gas

955
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: like you. So bitch, you know what you know. You

956
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 1: feel how you feel for a reason, and ask somebody

957
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: make sure you're not tripping. But yeah, that's essentially what

958
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: I was what I was saying, focusing on the partnership part.

959
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be a competition no matter who's winning, right,

960
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: if you and I win, that's how it should be.

961
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree. I just don't know, man. I

962
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: think that the sweet spot for men is being a

963
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: bread winner. I just think that's where they are more comfort.

964
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: Yes, then you ain't never gotta worried about her.

965
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,439
Speaker 1: Well, they don't want that. This is why I say

966
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: men are more shallow than women. Men are two once

967
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 1: to ten. Like I feel like women are finding a

968
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: little space, like we'll make something out of nothing. But

969
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: if a man is what a woman that's doing worse

970
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: than him, please believe me. Like men are herpergamas, especially

971
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: black men. Them niggas is dating up. Fuck with y'all

972
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: talking while they try to make us feel bad for

973
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: dating up, you know a black Like when when when

974
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: a black woman dates like a other, a white person,

975
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,439
Speaker 1: a white guy, whatever you say, When a black woman

976
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 1: dates a white guy, she probably got her life together.

977
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: She probably got the fucking bag too. And in her

978
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: mind that person that particular woman's mind, right, maybe this

979
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: white guy is her who she's equally yoked with. Right.

980
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: When black men do it, oftentimes they think they sticking

981
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: it to the man by fucking the white girl. And

982
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: also you know, they trying to get their credit straight.

983
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 1: They're using her as what I'm saying, they're the ones

984
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: that are dating up to get a leg up in

985
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: society for sure, while we get looked down on for

986
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 1: digging for gold that ain't there.

987
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 2: Right, that's the crazy part. I hate when a nigga

988
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 2: like or a man let me saying that a man

989
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 2: who will call a woman a gold digger and they

990
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 2: ain't got no gold.

991
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, what are we talking about? What y'all? Why

992
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: is this discussion about a woman taking everything you got

993
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: and you don't have nothing? What are we talking about that?

994
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: Y'all never even experienced that, So it's just be cool.

995
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: That is that man's experience. He has millions of dollars

996
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: to pay all this money and child support.

997
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 2: You don't.

998
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: That's not your situation that the judge will. The judge

999
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 1: will assign whatever is good for your pockets if you

1000
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 1: were able in this situation, if you were ever in

1001
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: this situation, for sure, I promise, Oh no, everybody, get

1002
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: the fucking bag. Would I take care of man? I

1003
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: think my comfortable place is knowing a nigga got more

1004
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: than me too. That's I'm comfortable with that.

1005
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 2: I think I'm comfortable with that as well. However, I'm

1006
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: not in a I don't right now. I don't think

1007
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 2: I'm in a position to be with someone making lesson

1008
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 2: than me. But if I was, if I had candy

1009
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 2: Birds money, I don't know if I would care at

1010
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 2: that point.

1011
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,399
Speaker 1: It depends, man, because people who Okay, you haven't accumulated

1012
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 1: this wealth, right, meaning you don't know how to manage

1013
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,280
Speaker 1: it either. Because the one thing like, once you accumulate

1014
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: the money, you have to then figure out how to

1015
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: manage it because you'll go back and broke. I was

1016
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: just reading an article with this basketball player who ran

1017
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: through seventy million dollars or some shit like that. Seventy million.

1018
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 2: Was it seventy or was it twenty twenty? I think

1019
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 2: it was twenty million.

1020
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: Same thing, bitch, you give me twenty or seventy right now, like,

1021
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about me for the rest

1022
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: of my life and the next generation because I'm going

1023
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 1: to flip it, right. But you have to have the

1024
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 1: financial literacy to do that. So you you get with

1025
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 1: a person I'm unna say, man and woman you're the breadwinner.

1026
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: You get with a person who doesn't even know how

1027
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 1: to manage money, and they just think that they just

1028
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: have free access to do whatever the fuck they want

1029
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: to do with your money, and they fucking it up,

1030
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: you'll go broke. And that could be why she's trying

1031
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: to separate herself separate finances with a divorce, same thing

1032
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: what Porscha did. Porsia did with Simon. You know, Simon

1033
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: did appear to have all his money, but obviously it

1034
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: wasn't legal some of it probably.

1035
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 2: Well, I don't even want to get it to portion

1036
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:55,720
Speaker 2: to sign me because then it was just a miss

1037
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,320
Speaker 2: how it started and had ended.

1038
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 1: Yeah it was, but she had had to sever times

1039
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: before she get caught up in his bullshit and whatever

1040
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: else he had going on that she knew of her.

1041
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: So maybe that's what they might just be getting divorced

1042
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: on paper for tax purposes.

1043
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 2: I don't know, right, we won't know all right, what's

1044
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 2: your final takeaway at your last last for this?

1045
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 1: I think I already said it, really, I don't know.

1046
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: Know your personnel. Don't be shitting on your partner is

1047
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: the reason why you got with this person. Okay, don't

1048
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 1: be shitting on them. But again, ebbs and flow of life.

1049
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,839
Speaker 1: You might not always be up and you're not gonna

1050
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 1: always be down. Spect you know who you with, especially

1051
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: if y'all got kids together, she can get real nasty

1052
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: and ugly, like this girl had in Vitro. Two babies

1053
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: and no one in vitrol right, and another one they

1054
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 1: did a surrogate to have mm right. So she had

1055
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,399
Speaker 1: been she's been doing life with him, just still using

1056
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: her as an example for the conversation disrespecting people. Man,

1057
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, and find a nigga who make more

1058
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: money than you. That is still the standard in case

1059
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 1: you could avoid all this so you can avoid problems.

1060
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: Is going to be a problem if you make more

1061
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 1: money than him.

1062
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 2: It's just his Yeah, I think my last last week.

1063
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 2: Success doesn't kill relationships. Ego does. So until you work

1064
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 2: on your ego, it can fail. It can and will fail.

1065
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: Ego death.

1066
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's in every relationship, man, you say, that's

1067
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:38,320
Speaker 1: every relationship. That's every relationship that ego. Yeah, ego definitely

1068
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: has shit fucked up. Yeah, with your mama, with your lovers, work,

1069
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: all of that. You know, sometimes you check it at

1070
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 1: the door.

1071
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 2: Period.

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Speaker 1: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: And never hold y'all Turkey, y'all.

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