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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. Whoa holy shit?
Speaker 1: Hi do there girl?
Speaker 2: Hi baby?
Speaker 1: This is Meela, This is Erica, and this here show
Speaker 1: is called Good Mom's Bad Choices. Are you ready to
Speaker 1: talk about the good and the bad and the ugly.
Speaker 2: Don't worry, guys, we won't do this the whole episode.
Speaker 2: Why not?
Speaker 1: I love it here.
Speaker 2: I loved when Mila walked in to Day. I told
Speaker 2: her she looked like Heidi.
Speaker 1: Except I don't know how they from Sweden accent, so
Speaker 1: I just went with Annie from the farm. How do
Speaker 1: you do a Swedish accent? Hello? Hello, Hello, I'm hello Hello.
Speaker 1: It Susie Annie. Yeah. My accent from down south as
Speaker 1: much easy. I gotta work on my Swedish accent from
Speaker 1: the prairie.
Speaker 2: I think we just got to look on YouTube. I
Speaker 2: feel like you could find it.
Speaker 1: Okay, do is that what we need to do? We
Speaker 1: need to work on our accents?
Speaker 2: Maybe Okay, you never know, I might have to bust
Speaker 2: them out, yeah, you know, because we're gonna be voiceover
Speaker 2: actress actresses. Because I'm tired of not being featured on dipsy.
Speaker 1: Yep, I'm putting on my resume.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just put it out there now, dipsy. We
Speaker 2: deserve to be sex actors on your on your virtual
Speaker 2: and not virtual, your audio app.
Speaker 1: Because maybe you guys can like start requesting it for us.
Speaker 1: Maybe if we're like the people are just craving for it.
Speaker 2: We won't do that accent.
Speaker 1: Okay, I promise I'll be sexy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, very sexy.
Speaker 1: It's late at night. It was raining and I was
Speaker 1: sitting in my.
Speaker 3: Car when I got the call. Hello, Oh hey baby, hey,
Speaker 3: oh what are you doing?
Speaker 2: I was just sitting here thinking about you.
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I was thinking about you, and
Speaker 1: so is she. Oh my god, my pussy has been
Speaker 1: wet just thinking about it. My pussy is throbbing. Are
Speaker 1: you home? Yes, I'm coming through. Keep the door unlocked
Speaker 1: and get naked. See you soon, baby, on the way.
Speaker 1: It can get better. We're gonna practice.
Speaker 2: So that's our audition tape. Dipsy, this is it. Any
Speaker 2: other sex abs hit us up.
Speaker 1: If Dipsy doesn't get with the program, we're gonna cheat
Speaker 1: and go somewhere else.
Speaker 2: Tipsy, this is.
Speaker 1: Your final fucking callback. Script. There's a script.
Speaker 2: There's a script.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can't I drop it?
Speaker 2: What the fuck?
Speaker 1: This is the most technical?
Speaker 2: Should read it right now? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We should. How the fuck is may so fucking I've
Speaker 1: been looking for links my whole life. She just find
Speaker 1: them in twenty seconds.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1: I'm great, I'm great. How are are you, honey, I'm good.
Speaker 1: It's been so long since we sat here alone. It's weird.
Speaker 1: I was like getting ready today, I was like kind
Speaker 1: of excited, even though I'm like, I don't know what
Speaker 1: we're talking about, doesn't matter. I can't wait to see
Speaker 1: my friend. Yeah, we just be talking, even though I
Speaker 1: just saw this bitch twenty four hours. Agay, did you
Speaker 1: know but about thirty five?
Speaker 2: Yeah, thirty five.
Speaker 1: It's rarely there's a time we go more than forty
Speaker 1: eight to seventy two hours without seeing each other. It
Speaker 1: never happens without speaking to each other. It just doesn't
Speaker 1: fucking exist morning, noon, and night text messages. Do we
Speaker 1: need to go to fast? I don't know.
Speaker 2: Is that a friend fast?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to do it.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I like the way that sounds. People going.
Speaker 2: I think that's just like when people just don't like
Speaker 2: each other anymore, right, No.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe just people like breaks everything. I think there's
Speaker 1: healthy boundaries.
Speaker 2: I think that like, as our friendship grows, we subconsciously
Speaker 2: create some a little bit, but not really. No, I
Speaker 2: don't know. No, Well, recently Jamila was like, you know,
Speaker 2: her her booth thang is moving to LA and my
Speaker 2: booth thang is potentially moving to La too, and she's like,
Speaker 2: should they move in together?
Speaker 1: I was like, She's like boundaries. I'm like okay. I
Speaker 1: was just like, that seems like too much?
Speaker 2: Can we talking about us?
Speaker 1: That was our first thing. Now they're gonna be talking
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 2: They gonna be get in a fight that the person's
Speaker 2: gonna know about it. It's just too much.
Speaker 1: That's true. I mean, I don't know who's you know,
Speaker 1: just joining us and who's listening. But you know, we
Speaker 1: we religiously get into relationships around the same time with
Speaker 1: similar niggas. They're not no, they're not similar. But the
Speaker 1: last time I got into the last they were nerds
Speaker 1: and these these two are cooler and more like out
Speaker 1: of the box and they get along. We always like
Speaker 1: somehow our entergy is like here you go, these will
Speaker 1: go together, perfect and we're like perfect, thank you. Oh
Speaker 1: it's over. So it's over her too. I'm so sorry
Speaker 1: to do this to you, but Eric had broke up
Speaker 1: with so and so. So you know what that means. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm probably not gonna break up with my
Speaker 1: man for quite some time. So we're safe, okay, good
Speaker 1: or ever not? Sometimes looking at the calendar and you
Speaker 1: know we're good for at least twelve to eighteen months.
Speaker 1: So Hi, Orlando, my boyfriend edits our audio. So there's
Speaker 1: not a fucking I'm not safe anywhere, No rock is.
Speaker 2: I just want to say right now, I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: like Joe, this is all for entertainment purposes. Nothing I
Speaker 2: say can be held against me in the court of
Speaker 2: law or in any form of fashion.
Speaker 1: In boyfriend court, in regular court, in all the courts
Speaker 1: of the land, international court. Anything we say is for entertainment.
Speaker 2: I didn't wink. I'm serious as fuck. This is audio, bitch,
Speaker 2: I know, but it's also YouTube.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So we've so much to catch the people up on.
Speaker 1: How's your your new boo that's now moving to LA
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2: Wow? You're really just gonna put me on the spot, aren't.
Speaker 1: I mean, what kind of show do we have? Like
Speaker 1: the kind of where you like pretend or the kind
Speaker 1: of where you're keep it real? Because last time I checked,
Speaker 1: we tell all our business.
Speaker 2: You know, I am. I'm excited. I'm excited, but I
Speaker 2: also know that he's moving not for me, He's moving
Speaker 2: for things. I'm part of those things. But I'm just
Speaker 2: excited because I feel like we are very much We're
Speaker 2: very different, but we understand each other. We understand how
Speaker 2: one another communicates. I'm a very direct communicator and it
Speaker 2: can be harsh, and he understands that and he lets
Speaker 2: me do that, which is really great because I feel
Speaker 2: like in my relationships generally, like feel I've always felt
Speaker 2: like I had well, my previous longest relationship, I felt
Speaker 2: like I had to kind of like really be so
Speaker 2: careful about how I say anything, like really think about it.
Speaker 2: I couldn't just like say how I feel in that moment,
Speaker 2: and even when I did really think about it, the
Speaker 2: nigga didn't get it, never was received well. So I
Speaker 2: feel like our communication styles I've this is the first
Speaker 2: person I've met where I feel I really feel like
Speaker 2: our communication styles are aligned, which makes me really ecit
Speaker 2: because I feel like that's like the basis for everything.
Speaker 1: And he's beautiful and he's smart and he's a scorpio.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm smitted.
Speaker 1: Oh, I know you're smitting bitch. Oh, I know, I
Speaker 1: know it's my friend we're such water signs. We'd be
Speaker 1: getting smitten and they'd be like, come with us everywhere.
Speaker 1: You like me, I like you to come with us everywhere.
Speaker 1: Our niggas have literally traveled with us to like all
Speaker 1: of our appearances in the last three months. They're so supportive,
Speaker 1: they're so sweet, the sweetest shit I've ever seen. We do.
Speaker 1: We talk about this in Atlanta when we were in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: We okay, they came to Atlanta with us when we
Speaker 1: did a panel, and we partied the night before because
Speaker 1: good moms. And then the next morning we had to
Speaker 1: be at the panel at like fucking ten am. But
Speaker 1: then we were so extra we got our makeup done
Speaker 1: at like seven am. So we're both like miserable in
Speaker 1: the makeup chair, so pissed off. And then I was
Speaker 1: like telling Orlando, I'm like, you don't really, you don't
Speaker 1: have to come. You could sleep. He's like, I'm gonna come.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be there. So the panel didn't start
Speaker 1: for like an extra hour. They're they're in the audience,
Speaker 1: the only men, only men. It's a women's it's a
Speaker 1: women's conference. They're the only men in the audience. While
Speaker 1: we do a like two hour panel. We're like taking
Speaker 1: pictures from the back, like look at them looking at us.
Speaker 1: That is so cute.
Speaker 2: They had got zero sleep, none.
Speaker 1: It was acute. They were like holding our purses.
Speaker 2: I think I think my guy had sunglasses on the
Speaker 2: whole time.
Speaker 1: He did, he did, but they were so supportive they
Speaker 1: took pictures. It was really sweet. I don't know how
Speaker 1: they did it, because I don't know if I could
Speaker 1: have done the same, But they walked, they did all
Speaker 1: the things with us, and it felt really good. And
Speaker 1: then they came with us again to another panel recently
Speaker 1: and they weren't allowed. They didn't they were they were't
Speaker 1: allowed there. They wouldn't give us a plus fun even
Speaker 1: though we should have snuck them in.
Speaker 2: I would have stood stood out. We even snuck them
Speaker 2: into the party. And you missed that part in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: Oh and Atlanta, we were also because we had to
Speaker 1: go to a panel, but the night before we had
Speaker 1: to do like a gala, like a very like important party,
Speaker 1: and they told us we couldn't bring a plus one
Speaker 1: and we said fuck.
Speaker 2: That no, especially because I told my niggas like kind
Speaker 2: of like fashionable, he's a fashion icon. Who am I kidding,
Speaker 2: and he was like he like got the suit out,
Speaker 2: like he like went and you were like.
Speaker 1: My man bought new shoes. He's gonna get in expensive.
Speaker 1: Should thought we were going to like the top clubs.
Speaker 2: Like he got his Nikels done like he was he was,
Speaker 2: he was right, Yeah, he got them trimmed. He was
Speaker 2: looking and he looked and I was like, I need
Speaker 2: to see him in the suit. And so the niggas
Speaker 2: coming to the party.
Speaker 1: So I was like, Eric, we're gonna get docked if
Speaker 1: they find out we're sneaky niggas into the party that
Speaker 1: they told the specifically told us do not bring a
Speaker 1: plus one. We're like, I literally was.
Speaker 2: I tried to convince them. I'm like, they had a natural.
Speaker 1: Did you say that? Did you say that in an
Speaker 1: actual email? It was fun. I didn't see you send
Speaker 1: an email that said our niggers have natural hair? Can
Speaker 1: they police come? Wait? Can you please just say the
Speaker 1: whole email? Like what the fuck do you mean? As
Speaker 1: if they give a shit like how would I have
Speaker 1: natural hair? Well, let them in.
Speaker 2: I did. What was the email?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't see that email, but I
Speaker 1: can't believe that you tried it anyway, we gotta have a.
Speaker 2: Whole chain from the event. It was the natural Hair show,
Speaker 2: so that was trying to sell.
Speaker 1: That they're never going to ask us to come back
Speaker 1: if they hear this. But oh my god, it was
Speaker 1: a great, beautiful show and apparently they didn't care that
Speaker 1: our boyfriends have natural hair. They did it, but we
Speaker 1: didn't carry either because guess what we did. We get
Speaker 1: to the event and we're like, stay back's stay back,
Speaker 1: let's just feel it out to seem begin sneak you in,
Speaker 1: and of course there's like everyone's inside and there's someone
Speaker 1: at the door with the list. I was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna be able to get them in. She
Speaker 1: was like no. So I was like, I was like,
Speaker 1: our names are Dada da. And then we went to
Speaker 1: the bar and I was like, look on the list
Speaker 1: and see who's not crossed out. To find two male
Speaker 1: names that are not crossed out. She's like, okay, I said,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I thought for sure this. I thought for
Speaker 1: sure she's gonna let it go. No, I said, okay, no.
Speaker 2: She had a full beautiful ass suit on with new
Speaker 2: Christian bluebaton.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how did like when Erica sets
Speaker 1: her mind to do some shit. This ship is getting done. Okay,
Speaker 1: this bitch goes back to the podium where the list is.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she said to these women. She's
Speaker 1: pretending to small talk while looking at the list. I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, so what's in the gift bag?
Speaker 2: Like who are some of the sponsors?
Speaker 1: Oh, that's cool, Oh you have kids? The women who
Speaker 1: are like at the door. Then she comes back Edward
Speaker 1: g Alfred c I'm like.
Speaker 2: What, No, I had their full last name.
Speaker 1: It was Edward Williams Alfred Calhoun. I'm like write it
Speaker 1: to text them.
Speaker 2: I'm like, text them now, texting those names.
Speaker 1: I was like some I'm texting just say you're Alfred
Speaker 1: whatever and Edward Cowhun. I'm like, when if they fucking come.
Speaker 1: So then we get to the table, I'm like, look,
Speaker 1: there's two seats next to us. They can come.
Speaker 2: It was literally like God wanted them to come sit
Speaker 2: next to us. The table was had perfect amount of
Speaker 2: seating open just for our niggas.
Speaker 1: So we told them they use the names and then
Speaker 1: they didn't have these names because my nigga is a
Speaker 1: con artist. He was like, oh, I already made friends
Speaker 1: with men from accounting. He's like, yeah, George McCowen, already,
Speaker 1: I mean, be cool. I told her, I said, Hi,
Speaker 1: don't you.
Speaker 2: Remember I snucked them through the back, bitch, I snucked
Speaker 2: them through the.
Speaker 1: She snugged them to the back.
Speaker 2: And then they made friends, and then they made friend
Speaker 2: They assimilated quick.
Speaker 1: So they had made friends with whoever works at the
Speaker 1: actual company. And we, first of all, it wasn't that
Speaker 1: many people there. We weren't shy about it. They were
Speaker 1: obviously our niggas. Somebody who wrote the email like telling
Speaker 1: us no was like these bitches. If any of them
Speaker 1: realized who we were and all these amount of emails
Speaker 1: we begged to have these plus ones, and then looked
Speaker 1: around one time and saw these bitches and snuck in
Speaker 1: their plus one, then we're so ghetto. We're like taking
Speaker 1: pictures on their lap, like at the intermission.
Speaker 2: Like.
Speaker 1: It was so get out. But by that time we
Speaker 1: were drunk, so it didn't matter. We do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: can we please insert these pictures because they're so fucking extra. Anyway,
Speaker 1: if you're looking to book us for a speaking engagement,
Speaker 1: always give us a plus one. We're great even when
Speaker 1: we sneak people in we are.
Speaker 2: We had a great time.
Speaker 1: We delivered and they were great. We needed the support,
Speaker 1: so they're a.
Speaker 2: Great support system. They're great sidekicks. They just do their
Speaker 2: own thing. It was wonderful.
Speaker 1: Can you tell we're in love. They're great, natural hair, wonderful. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting to be in a relationship two
Speaker 1: years later. Remember this is around the time we got
Speaker 1: in relationships two years ago.
Speaker 2: That I have to tell you. Oh my god, that's
Speaker 2: so crazy.
Speaker 1: You're saying that. Okay, I'll tell you something later. You know. Honestly,
Speaker 1: this is like a PSA announcement for women. If you
Speaker 1: if something feels off, go with it. I've dated probably
Speaker 1: at least two to four possible killers. Yeah for sure.
Speaker 1: And I knew it, and I said, you might kill me.
Speaker 1: You might. I could feel it, and it took about
Speaker 1: six to twelve months, but mostly I got out of
Speaker 1: it before I got marked. So if you feel like
Speaker 1: you maybe you're gonna end up on the ID channel,
Speaker 1: just get out and get the fuck out because it
Speaker 1: could happen to you. I could look at the ID channel.
Speaker 1: It happens to bitches every day. You're special, You're not
Speaker 1: people kill Sorry that was the PSA announcement.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I have a good feeling about these men that
Speaker 2: I don't think they're killers. No, no, no, they're not giving
Speaker 2: killer vibe, No, none at all. You're giving just like
Speaker 2: supportive freaky vibes.
Speaker 1: Yep, just like having freak vibes. That's like, that's my
Speaker 1: that's my mom. I like a supportive freaky What was loving? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was. You know, I'm navigating a new and new
Speaker 1: space with this relationship because although I should have all
Speaker 1: my life been in non monogamous relationships, this isn't the
Speaker 1: one that I finally it's been mutual and I haven't
Speaker 1: lied and cheated, so it is non monogamous. So it's
Speaker 1: it has posed a lot of challenges for me because
Speaker 1: I've realized I'm a little crazy and jealous, and it
Speaker 1: does make me check myself a lot, which I do
Speaker 1: not like doing. I don't like to be told what
Speaker 1: to do. I don't like to be told I'm wrong
Speaker 1: even when I am wrong, and I like to rebel
Speaker 1: like I'm sixteen still, which you know I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: now a thirty four, thirty four year old woman, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I was at the light the other day and I
Speaker 1: was like, huh, I don't have anything to worry about.
Speaker 1: M feel so strange. Wow, I have anything to worry about. Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not stressed, I'm not worried about you doing some functionhit,
Speaker 1: not worry about what you're doing when you're not with me.
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about what you're doing another bitch. I
Speaker 1: mean sometimes, but not really. And it was just like
Speaker 1: so odd that I have normalized being worried in relationships,
Speaker 1: and like, I just realized at that moment at the light,
Speaker 1: Like I say, my mom worried about my dad's so
Speaker 1: fucking much, chase him so fucking much. My parents came
Speaker 1: over the other day and she's like, where are you going.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, everybody needs to get out.
Speaker 1: But I realized I told Ashley this. She was like
Speaker 1: standing up in the house. I was like, where are
Speaker 1: you going? She's like, WHOA, Relax, I'm standing up. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have abandonment issues, but I do I get worried.
Speaker 1: And I was like, Wow, this is so bizarre to
Speaker 1: not be worried about the things that I'm usually worried about.
Speaker 1: So like being healthy, insecure and sitting in it is
Speaker 1: very strange because it feels like I should be worrying
Speaker 1: about something, and then I'm like, am I gonna make
Speaker 1: myself worry about something because I'm good for that.
Speaker 2: Too, Or create something to worry about?
Speaker 1: Yeah, create something to worry about and I have, you know,
Speaker 1: and not that I've created it. There are some things
Speaker 1: niggas can get cursed out for, but overall, it's really
Speaker 1: safe and I feel, like you said, like we have
Speaker 1: a good communication and sometimes like I don't like to
Speaker 1: be jealous out loud. I'd just like to do it
Speaker 1: to tell my friends like, oh yeah, it's all good.
Speaker 1: I'm fucking pissed, Eric, piss little help now, I'm fine,
Speaker 1: it's not bad, I'm good. Yeah, tell you back. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: oh no, I'm all good. I'm fine. I'll clie back.
Speaker 1: Fucking motherfucker is like, you're crazy. I'm like, no, i'm not.
Speaker 1: But I don't like to care publicly.
Speaker 2: I care in private.
Speaker 1: I care in private. I'm jealous privately. I'm cool in public.
Speaker 1: If you couldn't tell I'm cool now.
Speaker 2: Everybody knows though, sh shut the fuck.
Speaker 1: But yeah, Like, just learning to be accountable for my
Speaker 1: own actions and recognize when some shit is not healthy
Speaker 1: and where I need to like apologize, which also I
Speaker 1: hate a lot. I don't like to apologize. Better at
Speaker 1: texting apologies, I'm better at communicating in texts in general.
Speaker 2: You did make him get off the phone to text you, huh,
Speaker 2: he said, She's like niggas trying to confuse you on
Speaker 2: the phone.
Speaker 1: These niggas, you know what they do. They call you
Speaker 1: and confuse you.
Speaker 2: Keep it on text.
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 2: It's like, you're not wrong.
Speaker 1: It's true. You don't let me conversations. I've been like,
Speaker 1: what is he saying? I don't know? Huh yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Why back? And then I think about it,
Speaker 1: I'm like, not sorry, Actually this is some bullshit, am am.
Speaker 1: I just trying to be right sometimes, but sometimes they
Speaker 1: be trying to confuse you. So keep it on text
Speaker 1: just so you can. You got to be able to
Speaker 1: analyze the thoughts. You gotta be analyzed what they saying
Speaker 1: because they try to talk backwards. Men talk in a
Speaker 1: different language called Martian, and so you got to be
Speaker 1: able to like show your friends so they can.
Speaker 2: So we can all dissect it and make sure we
Speaker 2: can double check. We can check Google, we can you know,
Speaker 2: check the thesaurus. Research this with synonyms, because some of
Speaker 2: their words mean other things.
Speaker 1: Literally, I tell I show Erica and then she points
Speaker 1: out the things and I'm like, you know what. I
Speaker 1: knew I was missing something. I was like, you're right,
Speaker 1: say that again. What you said the last time. He
Speaker 1: was trying to confuse me. I know that's how I'd
Speaker 1: run it past you, my wife.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's true. They do try to confuse you.
Speaker 2: Because on phone, I'm like, okay, well, hi, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I've had so many have you ever had a fight. High,
Speaker 2: We don't care, there's no fight. Oh my god, I've
Speaker 2: had fights. I'm like people that. They're like, tell me
Speaker 2: what I did, and I'm like, I forgot. They're like,
Speaker 2: you said I did this, Tell me about it.
Speaker 1: When did it happen?
Speaker 2: How did it go? And I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: that's so many questions. I'm like, oh no, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I know it happened. Did it happen?
Speaker 1: I'm high, tell me what to say. Let me call
Speaker 1: you back, yo, I'm Queena. I'm a Cira back. Somebody
Speaker 1: just walked in. I got back, like what we're in
Speaker 1: my conversation. No, I got cooked. Bye, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: don't text something. Don't get in a fight on the phone.
Speaker 1: Don't get in the fight. Hih Hi, You're gonna get
Speaker 1: confused quickly.
Speaker 2: Yeah. But yeah, communication, I feel like that is that's
Speaker 2: like the biggest lesson that I've learned, period in all relationships.
Speaker 2: And I finally feel like I've met somebody that like
Speaker 2: I can like literally was like, hey, when you have it,
Speaker 2: when you have an issue, just like say it immediately,
Speaker 2: like don't hold back. He's like, like, within the first
Speaker 2: five seconds of you feeling like you have one, like
Speaker 2: just say it. And I was like what, And he
Speaker 2: was like, I'm serious, Like just say it. He's like,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you like my love language and
Speaker 2: how I work and how I how I can, how
Speaker 2: we can communicate because that's and I'm like, that's exactly
Speaker 2: what I always want to do, but I can't.
Speaker 1: I've I've trained myself not to me too, you know,
Speaker 1: halmost like don't.
Speaker 2: I didn't. I still like working on believing him.
Speaker 1: But you then resentment grows because you're annoyed. There's so
Speaker 1: much resentment. I did it this weekend. I was so
Speaker 1: fucking irritated till like Monday, and he's like, are we friends?
Speaker 1: He's like, why don't you just say how you feel?
Speaker 1: And I was like, right, I'm pissed, you know, but
Speaker 1: it's like because you don't.
Speaker 2: A part of it is like I think, I like,
Speaker 2: we often sometimes get made to feel like we're overreacting
Speaker 2: or like we're tripping or and we.
Speaker 1: Might be we might be, but but welcome it either way.
Speaker 2: So he be like, so part of me is like
Speaker 2: I don't want to look like I'm being curaging, I'm
Speaker 2: trying to control you. I don't want to look like
Speaker 2: I'm trying to like minimize your experience.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want you to do that just to
Speaker 1: me me too, I'm like, don't tell me what to do,
Speaker 1: but I don't like this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like you know, and I want you
Speaker 2: to show up as you, and really that's what it
Speaker 2: is for me. It's like I want my partner to
Speaker 2: show up as themselves because like there's only so long
Speaker 2: you can hide that part of you and it will
Speaker 2: come out and then I don't want to be surprised,
Speaker 2: and I don't want you to be surprised, So let's
Speaker 2: just like really just.
Speaker 1: Lay it out. I know that part of me I
Speaker 1: realize I'm like, I just want you to do what
Speaker 1: you're gonna do, because I'm kind of testing you to
Speaker 1: see if you're gonna do what I want you to do,
Speaker 1: and if you don't, I'm gonna be fucking irritated. And
Speaker 1: I did this this weekend and it does not work.
Speaker 1: Don't do it. Don't be like, just do whatever you
Speaker 1: want to do, because then they'll do what they want
Speaker 1: to do and then you'll be annoyed and you're like,
Speaker 1: why the fuck didn't I just say, don't do that
Speaker 1: because I don't want to control you, because I don't
Speaker 1: want to be controlled. Because you want them to choose you, Yes,
Speaker 1: some of them to choose the right thing.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: If someone is welcoming what you need and want allow
Speaker 1: that to happen, why is it so hot?
Speaker 2: We literally ask for the things we want and then
Speaker 2: they show up and sometimes we have a really hard
Speaker 2: time accepting them. I mean, I think it's part of
Speaker 2: like the fear there's been there's fear, there's like is
Speaker 2: this real?
Speaker 1: Like how long?
Speaker 2: Is this? Is this sustainable? That's what it is for me.
Speaker 2: It's like is this sustainable? Like because I mean inevitably,
Speaker 2: relationships change, right like feelings grow water under the bridge
Speaker 2: may or may not happen, depending on how you deal
Speaker 2: with it, but things happen. And I'm just like, you know,
Speaker 2: I was thinking about this honeymoon period or whatever you
Speaker 2: want to call the beginning of a relationship, and it's
Speaker 2: my favorite part of the relationship.
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 2: I don't wanted to ever go away. And that's not
Speaker 2: because only we like maintain the honeymoon period. And I
Speaker 2: think a big part of it is the communication. I
Speaker 2: think the honeymoon dies because people start feeling they have
Speaker 2: to keep secrets and protect people, and like they start
Speaker 2: realizing certain things that annoy someone about them. So then
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, I can't do that anymore, but I
Speaker 2: like and so the word press it instead of being
Speaker 2: able to express it. So I don't know, I'm really
Speaker 2: trying to like keep all those things mindful in this
Speaker 2: in this situation relation, situationship, relationship relation, CITIP, situationship. This
Speaker 2: is more than a situe.
Speaker 1: Okay, anyway, situation situation special thing I'm doing but with
Speaker 1: the most want boyfriends in denial, not for real, just kidding,
Speaker 1: not serious, kind of serious serious. Claim me, don't claim me,
Speaker 1: claim me forever. No, not from me.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I'm in the journey of accepting claiming ship.
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have smoked before this.
Speaker 1: I told you not to. I'm about to light up.
Speaker 1: I realized though, as a cancer I don't know if
Speaker 1: anyone else experiences I don't know if it's a water
Speaker 1: sign thing. Is this cancer thing? My ability to let
Speaker 1: shit go is low as hell? I will be like,
Speaker 1: m Remember January third, twenty twenty two, Well you did this,
Speaker 1: so that's why I'm doing this in June. Remember, yeah,
Speaker 1: you did it, so I'm gonna do it now. I
Speaker 1: know I said I didn't like it. Yeah, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: literally what I did. I'm like, I know I said
Speaker 1: I didn't like it, and you said you're gonna change it,
Speaker 1: and you have. But now I need to get you back.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know how it feels. You don't like it? Huh.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it five more times? Then, oh my bitch,
Speaker 1: you're nuts. He's like, are you not over it? I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm know, I'm over it. I'm not. I'm like, am
Speaker 1: I ever gonna be over anything? Like? But you gotta
Speaker 1: let go, because then that's why the relationship doesn't work,
Speaker 1: because you're mad about some shit that happened seventeen months ago.
Speaker 1: It's bringing it the fuck up like it's from seventeen
Speaker 1: hours ago. But you know, it's just it's nice to
Speaker 1: be free in a relationship and come as you are.
Speaker 1: And I do think that these men are coming as
Speaker 1: they are, and we are allowed to come as we are,
Speaker 1: which everybody knows. We're a special case of women. And
Speaker 1: so it's interesting to date free men because it's kind
Speaker 1: of like dating yourself, which is a little scary. And
Speaker 1: like I've said before, I'm not that fond of dating me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we both are dating free men. They're
Speaker 2: both free. I never like looked at it that way. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I'm like, when if you're listening, you're thinking free,
Speaker 2: Like what does that mean? Like, like niggas are all free?
Speaker 2: They all do whatever the fuck they want?
Speaker 1: Wow, free free with uh? Free with Uh? How do
Speaker 1: you say when you're like accountable, like free with intention,
Speaker 1: free with I don't know how to say.
Speaker 2: I think they just really stand behind who they are. Yes,
Speaker 2: they just don't try to cover it up. This is
Speaker 2: who I am. I'm not going to try and portray
Speaker 2: to be this nigga to you. This is where I'm at.
Speaker 2: This is it you like it or not? Because like, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's it really and I and I do that, so
Speaker 2: like we do that all the time. I know most
Speaker 2: times men don't do that because they're trying to be
Speaker 2: it's the ego, it's all these things. But to be
Speaker 2: to it's almost like facing your mirror, and that's what this,
Speaker 2: that's what this feels like. It feels like I'm looking
Speaker 2: at myself in the mirror in ways and I'm having
Speaker 2: to be like, okay, well i'd like I do that
Speaker 2: shit too, and I and I don't want to change
Speaker 2: that part of me, and like I don't really want
Speaker 2: you to change that part of you, and like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, can we just do this shit together?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So yeah, so yeah, it's very interesting dating yourself.
Speaker 1: But I'd rather take date a freeman than a fucking
Speaker 1: saved one any day. Not saved, I think against the
Speaker 1: saved man. I love a god fearing man. Actually, me
Speaker 1: and Orlando prayed together the other day. It felt very religious.
Speaker 2: Did you say, like dear God or something like Jesus
Speaker 2: at this moment relaxed mother of Mary Joseph.
Speaker 1: I don't know the mother of Mary's prayer, but I
Speaker 1: went to Catholic school. It's very sad, no I he
Speaker 1: led the prayer. I think there was a dear God
Speaker 1: in there. Maybe we held hands and held touched foreheads.
Speaker 1: It was very romantical and spiritual. I liked it.
Speaker 2: It's beautiful.
Speaker 1: I love that. Did you tell your boyfriend that you're
Speaker 1: a witch? Was okay?
Speaker 2: He said he's a warlock. Oh?
Speaker 1: Perfect. I figured that he looks like a warlock, right, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then more and more I get to know him
Speaker 1: and don't call him my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: I m that he is. I don't think I do
Speaker 2: boyfriends anymore.
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're calling him partners.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I realized that he is a warlock, like
Speaker 2: I see his witch in the way, but he.
Speaker 1: Hasn't intentionally tapped in yet.
Speaker 2: So I'm hoping that I can help him with that,
Speaker 2: and that we can do that together and tap into
Speaker 2: that together.
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Speaker 1: terrible experience on a really stupid platform, and she was like,
Speaker 1: you guys are really good good positions right now because
Speaker 1: you have men that are healthy and safe and when
Speaker 1: you have interactions with people like that that are negative,
Speaker 1: you can come home to them and they can cleanse you.
Speaker 1: They're like, She's like, women aren't internalized and take on things,
Speaker 1: and men have the ability to shoot them out. I
Speaker 1: don't know if she said shit them out or shoot
Speaker 1: them out.
Speaker 2: There was this discrepancy.
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure what she said. I thought she said
Speaker 1: shit them out, but Orlando said, I think she said
Speaker 1: shoot them out, and I said, whatever, it's the same
Speaker 1: shit getting out, it's getting out, and so I was like, hm,
Speaker 1: I feel I could feel that the safety and being
Speaker 1: cleansed and having like a safe space to go back
Speaker 1: after being in a world that I mean, I think
Speaker 1: we've realized in the last three months we've been kind
Speaker 1: of living under a bubble and we've been really protected
Speaker 1: and we are really protected. But like as we get
Speaker 1: more popular on the internet or whatever, like people have
Speaker 1: the ability to leave comments and it's people are ugly
Speaker 1: and nasty and men, I mean really mean, and men
Speaker 1: are really hurt and really hate free women, really hate
Speaker 1: free women, especially free black women. It's insane a lot
Speaker 1: of black men.
Speaker 2: And so she was just you know, right, because when
Speaker 2: they look at white women having or doing the same
Speaker 2: things we do, they're like they almost like admire it,
Speaker 2: or are they like.
Speaker 1: They don't blame white women for the downfall the whole
Speaker 1: white community.
Speaker 2: No, they're like they was like, oh, silly white bitches,
Speaker 2: let me fuck you. Like for us, it's like you're
Speaker 2: maybe I'll even wife you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your You're ruining the entire black community with
Speaker 1: your rhetoric. It's like a super deep attack. I've never
Speaker 1: seen so many men say we are individually as a
Speaker 1: comboat destroying the black family structure. Just me and you, Me.
Speaker 2: And you have destroyed all black family.
Speaker 1: Stru Not the war on drugs, not white supremacy or patriarchy,
Speaker 1: none of that. No, not slavery. Me and Erica.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we bitches from the valley, we alone.
Speaker 1: Are fucking the family structure up. Any healing we had,
Speaker 1: it's gone now between me and her fucking city girls
Speaker 1: and Elizabeth, it's done. We take the cake. We've ruined history.
Speaker 2: You've done it all.
Speaker 1: We don't need men we said that publicly seventeen times.
Speaker 1: We're just going to fuck each other. We're no, we're.
Speaker 2: Just going to be on a big woman commune where
Speaker 2: we don't need men at all.
Speaker 1: We may have said that, Actually I said that it's
Speaker 1: going to happen if men don't. That's and guess what.
Speaker 1: The men are not healing themselves, and that's the problem.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm getting we get in the farm soon.
Speaker 2: And that's why we got our free niggas and we
Speaker 2: getting out of here.
Speaker 1: Get you a free nigga. And they call them, they
Speaker 1: call them a wild man. Like in this book I'm
Speaker 1: reading wild women Women that women that run with wolves,
Speaker 1: they taught so you have to find a wild man.
Speaker 1: And I told you that I'm usually a man with
Speaker 1: a free mom or like just his own his own thinking. Wow,
Speaker 1: can find a man who can think for himself? Good?
Speaker 2: Look basically yeah, but wait, what were we talking about,
Speaker 2: because we were we got caught up on that terrible.
Speaker 1: Oh. Oh if they if they support our witchiness and
Speaker 1: sustainability of the honeymoon stage. Oh, anyway, I was saying
Speaker 1: they do support it, because I told Orlando, go get
Speaker 1: me three eggs from the kitchen and when me and
Speaker 1: er can eat three eggs from the kitchen before we
Speaker 1: get on the flight. And he said okay, And I
Speaker 1: rubbed eggs on me and Erica, and then I said,
Speaker 1: pull over. We're gonna leave him at the crossroads. Jesse said,
Speaker 1: we need to do this for a sue, and he
Speaker 1: said okay. He didn't just blink an eye, So you
Speaker 1: know it seems like a keeper. Yeah, I agree, And
Speaker 1: I've noticed that you're bad. Didn't say shit when I
Speaker 1: was rubbing eggs on you in the parking lot.
Speaker 2: I said, not one word. It's totally normal. I don't
Speaker 2: know what they're doing. I start like sending him my
Speaker 2: my rituals. I was like, hey, so this is something
Speaker 2: that I do, maybe you should try it.
Speaker 1: Well. I think that if we do it together. I
Speaker 1: think that there's we can get richer or faster. Well,
Speaker 1: there's that.
Speaker 2: I just want him to I want him to know
Speaker 2: that this is something that I do. It's important to me,
Speaker 2: and like encourage I want I want to encourage all
Speaker 2: my all my people to have some sort of practice,
Speaker 2: because I feel like once you do, you just tap
Speaker 2: into something so much bigger, like whether that is God,
Speaker 2: whether that's.
Speaker 1: You know ancestors.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like so, I just feel like he already has
Speaker 2: it in him. He just hasn't, like fully like figured
Speaker 2: out what works for him, you know, because it works
Speaker 2: for me doesn't nessarily have to work for him. But
Speaker 2: I think that I'm excited at the idea of being
Speaker 2: able to share with that within my relationship something I
Speaker 2: haven't really didn't.
Speaker 1: I just did a lot of mushrooms in my last relationship.
Speaker 2: That wasn't like it felt spiritual, but that wasn't it
Speaker 2: was an element of it.
Speaker 1: But no, we did a lot of drugs because it
Speaker 1: was twenty twenty and we were nothing else to do.
Speaker 1: There was nothing else to do. We went on trips
Speaker 1: and we did drugs because that was the only way
Speaker 1: to get out a drugs medicine. We took a lot
Speaker 1: of medicine to get through twenty twenty. I'm sorry, right.
Speaker 2: So intense, I know, but yeah, but I do want
Speaker 2: to take mushrooms with him. I haven't done that yet.
Speaker 2: And I asked him, I said, have you ever taken
Speaker 2: mushrooms with intention? He was like, what do you mean?
Speaker 2: I was like, no, do you think.
Speaker 1: That I'm they're gonna give me problems at the border.
Speaker 1: If I take that jar of mushroom powder, I feel
Speaker 1: like I feel like that CanCon is they're looking for
Speaker 1: a party. Like the motor is a bit like no questionable.
Speaker 1: It looks like a smoothie, like something you put in
Speaker 1: the smooth It looks better than like mushrooms.
Speaker 2: It's kind of gray.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe be protein powders.
Speaker 2: Okay, well you got you convinced. Bit you asked my opinions.
Speaker 1: You don't usually use Nature's pocket.
Speaker 2: But that's a lot. That's a lot. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm not that no, no, weird, no, I just want yeah, like,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We won't melt powder like liquefy.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know how warm. Your womb
Speaker 2: is very.
Speaker 1: Very very warm.
Speaker 2: Maybe if you pack other Okay, maybe we should talk
Speaker 2: about this off camera, other vitamins, other smoothie mixes. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna put some fish fry, some grits. Oh yeah, there
Speaker 2: you go.
Speaker 1: Me and my man are going to uh Mexico for
Speaker 1: a month. This will be the longest stretch of time
Speaker 1: we've spent together solo, living together. So this is this
Speaker 1: is gonna be It's gonna be fun. I'm not worried
Speaker 1: at all, though.
Speaker 2: I don't think you've anything to worry about.
Speaker 1: When I when I've met Orlando, like three weeks later,
Speaker 1: I was like, do want to go to Mexico with
Speaker 1: me for a week? And he said yes, and we
Speaker 1: stayed together for a week and it was fine. So
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we're safe.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you guys are gonna be fine. You
Speaker 2: guys are best friends, you guys get along.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna come visit me?
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I'm sorry. Now this will be
Speaker 2: our Is this our friend break? This is our friend Cleanse?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Is that the episode title friend Cleanse
Speaker 1: for friend de talks? No, not at talks. No.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna go to Mexico, but I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna go to that part of Mexico, and I'm gonna
Speaker 2: come back and then I'm gonna stay either in La
Speaker 2: or I don't know. I want to spend time with
Speaker 2: my boo. He doesn't live here yet, so I don't
Speaker 2: know if he's gonna come visit me in La or
Speaker 2: if I need to go to New York and then
Speaker 2: we're going, then then then I'll see you again in
Speaker 2: another city because that's our lifestyle now.
Speaker 1: It's so great. I was made for this lifestyle that
Speaker 1: I know. I'm ready, bitch, are you ready ready? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we've been We've we've been ready, We've been ready. So
Speaker 1: I am. I'm excited for this shift. I feel like
Speaker 1: we're in like this crazy transition phase like right now,
Speaker 1: like our lives are changing right in this moment when
Speaker 1: we're in DC, we're at the club because we're we
Speaker 1: do this now, and there's a sign and bottles and
Speaker 1: all of our bitches are with us, and like, hey,
Speaker 1: out shout out to everybody who met us in d
Speaker 1: c our tribe. Like I met so many bomb ass women.
Speaker 1: I partied with so many women and it was great
Speaker 1: and I feel like I knew you bitches forever and
Speaker 1: every time, right, shout out to my Leah, just Tina, everybody.
Speaker 1: And there's a point where like our bottles came, we're
Speaker 1: like working, and then she looked over at me across
Speaker 1: the table and she's like, this is it. This is
Speaker 1: the shift right now. I was like, you're right, who
Speaker 1: were at the club. We've made it, bitch, our face
Speaker 1: is on a club flyer.
Speaker 2: This is what dreams are made of.
Speaker 1: Four years working hard just to get to the club
Speaker 1: with her name on the battle and a flyer.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, though that was I think, Oh yeah, that
Speaker 2: was pretty. I was like, wow, this I get it.
Speaker 2: I like this. Thank you baby Jesus. Yes, and shout
Speaker 2: out to my boo for hooking that up because they
Speaker 2: we had our name on a flyer thanks to the connection.
Speaker 1: Not one night, two nights. Yeah, we were the after
Speaker 1: party of the mom friends, the official after party off.
Speaker 1: Somebody said that I was okay, right, we are, not
Speaker 1: that anyone had that much samina because it was difficult
Speaker 1: even for us. But yeah, I'm excited and I love you.
Speaker 2: I love you too. You have an amazing trip.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm looking forward to it, looking forward to
Speaker 1: getting like healthy, drinking water, taking my time writing this book.
Speaker 2: Long breaths, deep breath.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a lot of that. I realized, just because
Speaker 1: just from the time we've spent in Costa Rica, Like
Speaker 1: I really need that. I mean we both do, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes separately. Sometimes we're not working.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like not working yea, yeah, but yeah, I'm really
Speaker 2: excited for the I mean, like this, this marks the
Speaker 2: middle of the year.
Speaker 1: Like, this is the rest, This is the final, the
Speaker 1: medior check in. Yeah, this is the midior check in.
Speaker 1: How are you guys doing over there? What's going on?
Speaker 2: There's still time to shift whatever it needs to be shifted.
Speaker 2: It's never too late. You haven't ruined or failed in
Speaker 2: your New Year's resolution. You know, we put so much
Speaker 2: pressure on ourselves to like change our lives January first
Speaker 2: every year, and then like the year passes and we're like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, did I do any of the things
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do? Probably not, not all of them, But
Speaker 2: this is your reminder right now, bitch, get your eggs together,
Speaker 2: figure it the fuck out. You can do it. You
Speaker 2: can start over, you can do it.
Speaker 1: What are some things that you guys.
Speaker 2: Are doing to check in with yourself.
Speaker 1: In November? I, in like October, committed to going to
Speaker 1: therapy for minimal a year, for at least once a week.
Speaker 1: And I've done that. I've gone to therapy basically once
Speaker 1: a week. I've probably missed a couple weeks when we're
Speaker 1: like traveling or something, but I have. I've gone. I've
Speaker 1: committed to it, and so I'm really proud of myself.
Speaker 2: I'm proud of you too. That's amazing And I'm like,
Speaker 2: even if that was all you did, like that, oh
Speaker 2: it is, hude, it is.
Speaker 1: My house has probably been dirty like ninety percent.
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like, even like for women listening,
Speaker 2: because a lot of times we feel like we have
Speaker 2: to have these major goals and things that have to happen,
Speaker 2: but like just deciding to go to therapy is over.
Speaker 2: It's a whole year when just showing up every week
Speaker 2: to just work on something.
Speaker 1: Like yes, I'm not saying like I've had any like
Speaker 1: crazy breakthroughs, and of course I have. I've cried, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Sometimes I'm like I have time
Speaker 1: to sit here and talk for fucking today, and then
Speaker 1: I do, and then I'm happy about it. But like
Speaker 1: every time I do the shit because I know myself
Speaker 1: and I know in the past I haven't committed, you know,
Speaker 1: because I'm just doing all the time with add But yeah,
Speaker 1: that feels really good and I just feel the progress
Speaker 1: and I see the progress and I'm proud. What about you?
Speaker 2: I think I like reconnecting with Iri and not that
Speaker 2: like we've had a disconnect with my daughter, but like
Speaker 2: I think there's like a shift that happens between ages,
Speaker 2: and like between those ages, like I've been so consumed
Speaker 2: with like working and wanting to achieve my goals, so
Speaker 2: that like something can shift for us, and sometimes like
Speaker 2: I felt, I felt really imbalanced in that. And I
Speaker 2: had a wake up call a few months ago that
Speaker 2: like really put it into perspective for me and how
Speaker 2: like this is it. Like I just realized this is
Speaker 2: like their first grade is done, Like we're not getting
Speaker 2: this back like last month is over right talking to
Speaker 2: us like, well, because I have these are things. These
Speaker 2: are conversations that I have to have with myself to
Speaker 2: sometimes like sit my ass down and like focus. Like
Speaker 2: last night we were working and we were like I'm
Speaker 2: this call late or whatever, and like it was bedtime
Speaker 2: and I was tired, but she just wanted me to
Speaker 2: like play a game of Uno with her. She was like,
Speaker 2: can we just play one game of Uno? And like
Speaker 2: I really want to be like, no, you need to
Speaker 2: go to bed. And I was like it's just little
Speaker 2: things like that where I just like say yes more
Speaker 2: because it's easy for me to say no because she
Speaker 2: has doesn't have a choice in my no, you know, really,
Speaker 2: like that's what parents do We're like nope, because I
Speaker 2: said so, No, I don't feel like it. No, we'll
Speaker 2: get to it. No, I'll do that later. No, like
Speaker 2: you'll get that play date next time. No, No, because
Speaker 2: it's easier for my life, and like, I just I
Speaker 2: just need to get I'm just trying to get through
Speaker 2: the day, you know, and so really trying to just
Speaker 2: be more mindful of that, and like it's been feeling
Speaker 2: really good and like like I feel like I'm just
Speaker 2: I want to always be mindful of like remembering how
Speaker 2: I felt like I couldn't share things with my mom
Speaker 2: and like I don't. I so desperately don't want that
Speaker 2: for me and my daughter and the connection, like just
Speaker 2: rebalancing I guess motherhood and work essentially, and I feel
Speaker 2: like I'm doing a better job at it and just
Speaker 2: having more boundaries like no, I can't do that because
Speaker 2: I need to. This is what has to happen, Whereas
Speaker 2: before I'd be like, Okay, we'll figure it out. Like no.
Speaker 2: So that's been like a good check in and like
Speaker 2: something that like I'm glad that maybe in this year
Speaker 2: I didn't realize that was a lesson I was gonna
Speaker 2: be brought and then it happened, and then I was like, okay, so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm realizing like there's always more work to
Speaker 1: be done, you know, and we're We've grown a lot
Speaker 1: since the beginning. I've listened to like our first episode
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can hear their little voices
Speaker 1: in the backgrounds. Yeah, like Mama, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like literally I want to cry. But it's just interesting,
Speaker 1: like we've grown a lot, and in ways, there's so
Speaker 1: much growth to still be done, Like I'm not done,
Speaker 1: and yeah, even with motherhood, like I'm feeling really guilty
Speaker 1: also about going being gone for so long. I also
Speaker 1: know I need to do this to do what I
Speaker 1: need to do, and like just like my mom's gonna
Speaker 1: bring her out while I'm there, but yeah, also re
Speaker 1: calibrating my time so that she does it, like because
Speaker 1: of these years are going by so fucking quickly, so quickly,
Speaker 1: and it's like and well, you know, of course we're
Speaker 1: great mothers, but there's always room to do better, you know.
Speaker 1: And it's like it's okay to say that. I think
Speaker 1: as moms were like and a great mom, I do everything,
Speaker 1: And it's true, we do everything but if there's always room,
Speaker 1: I feel like to be like, yeah, I think from
Speaker 1: their per perspective, be software be more playful because we
Speaker 1: get caught up so often. And like I think I'm just.
Speaker 2: Like growing in my motherhood, Like I'm growing up in
Speaker 2: this space too, because like no one teaches you how
Speaker 2: to be a mother, Like yeah, it's like innately in
Speaker 2: you in ways, but like there's so you don't know
Speaker 2: what kind of child you're going to receive, and you
Speaker 2: don't know like you maybe never met this person before
Speaker 2: and you're in your life pre child like a person
Speaker 2: that is similar to their and it's like who are you?
Speaker 2: How do I cater to this personality? How do I
Speaker 2: like you know, and encourage it and rich it, like
Speaker 2: you know, give it space, not over be overbearing. But
Speaker 2: also like you know, so I think I'm just really
Speaker 2: starting to I'm just I feel like there's been a
Speaker 2: shift in who I am as a mother as of late,
Speaker 2: and like the mother that I want to be and
Speaker 2: I want to continue to be from here on out.
Speaker 2: So it's just like such a cool job we have,
Speaker 2: you know, And like these years are so I could
Speaker 2: like cry thinking about it. These years are so like important,
Speaker 2: you know, And like I just remember being a kid
Speaker 2: and how like there were so many moments and I'm like, wow,
Speaker 2: like we're things could have been could have been shifted,
Speaker 2: or like there was an opportunity for me to be
Speaker 2: more open, had someone just been okay just having a
Speaker 2: conversation with me, And like I just want to make
Speaker 2: sure that I am that for her, that I'm at
Speaker 2: least trying, because sometimes it's easy to just be default,
Speaker 2: do the default thing that like you were taught that
Speaker 2: you receive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and I feel I feel you, And.
Speaker 2: So I'm just excited that I get the It's like
Speaker 2: an honor to be able to do it. And like
Speaker 2: my daughter is like fucking amazing and I just can't
Speaker 2: wait for her to like go out in the world
Speaker 2: and like take all the things and just do it,
Speaker 2: you know. And like even though I'm like sad she's
Speaker 2: growing up, I think about that too, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, what.
Speaker 1: Does that look like? What is that? Like?
Speaker 2: What is she going to actually be into? Like what
Speaker 2: are her and Luna gonna look like together as teenagers?
Speaker 2: Like hanging out and going out out, like we'll be back,
Speaker 2: We're going out, Like what like I'm gonna throw up,
Speaker 2: but also I'm so excited over I know.
Speaker 1: I know that's how I.
Speaker 2: Feel, and like I've been having these like thoughts about
Speaker 2: it so much lately, and especially like even you know,
Speaker 2: we stayed at a house this weekend or last week,
Speaker 2: oh yeah, and I was looking at our girls together
Speaker 2: and just they've grown up together, like literally, I know,
Speaker 2: just like like first best friends, like really, you know,
Speaker 2: and it's crazy to watch it and to see how
Speaker 2: it's like literally like growing from the ground in front
Speaker 2: of my face.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, and I'm scared, Like I'm like,
Speaker 1: am I doing it right? Am I being gentle enough?
Speaker 1: I just like sometimes she acts so ungrateful. I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: you just spent the weekend at a four million dollar house,
Speaker 1: prancing around naked with your mom and her friends eating
Speaker 1: pizza and like you're living the life, okay, And She's
Speaker 1: just like I wanted this and I wanted that, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, you need to be grateful. Do you know
Speaker 1: gratefulness it is? And I'm like, do I need to
Speaker 1: read a book about fucking gentle parenting? Because I want
Speaker 1: to be like you're on I'm like, that's not like
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's not being grateful, Like people don't have shit,
Speaker 1: you know, you're very lucky, and like I remember my
Speaker 1: parents telling me that, and I'm like, you know, but
Speaker 1: like just being gentle and loving.
Speaker 2: I only know what they know, and they know is
Speaker 2: what we show them, and so what we show them
Speaker 2: is bomb shit, So they always want more bombshit. And
Speaker 2: that's the plate. That's why we got to drop these
Speaker 2: kids off in the hood for like three weeks every year.
Speaker 2: That was that's that's the balance. So if anyone has
Speaker 2: a hood, we can drop our kids off.
Speaker 1: Contact is a safe hood. Safehood. But you know, my
Speaker 1: dad did that to me when I was like nine
Speaker 1: in the hoods of Philadelphia West Philadelphia. I it was
Speaker 1: like a number's house and which is like a gambling house,
Speaker 1: you guys, so there's probably a lot of gang shit happening.
Speaker 1: And I came back with flea bites baby. My dad
Speaker 1: picked me up and they're like someone like hit me
Speaker 1: in the face. I think, like a boy, like hit
Speaker 1: me in the face, like look she can fight now,
Speaker 1: And I was like, literally like what the fuck? Child abuse?
Speaker 1: But I came out tougher because of it.
Speaker 2: It's my dad dropped me off in the country, which
Speaker 2: I've loved, Like I loved the freedom of that, and
Speaker 2: just like it was just not It's just so different
Speaker 2: than what I was doing here, you know, and I
Speaker 2: think that was really important. But yeah, so if you
Speaker 2: have a hood or a country farm, then we can
Speaker 2: drop our kids off.
Speaker 1: At we will compensate.
Speaker 2: But I'm also really proud to like, I of course
Speaker 2: want my daughter to have balance, but like I work
Speaker 2: hard so she can have certain things. I don't work
Speaker 2: hard so that she can have mediocre shit. I don't
Speaker 2: want mediocre shit because there's also that narrative like the
Speaker 2: kids need to have less, they need to understand, they
Speaker 2: need to get it. And it's like, well but I don't,
Speaker 2: but I want all those things, so she should have
Speaker 2: all those things.
Speaker 1: Absolutely. That's why I need to read a book about
Speaker 1: fucking general parenting because I'm like, I'm I realized, I'm
Speaker 1: like I'm pretty tough. I'm not tough. I'm soft, but
Speaker 1: like I'm not as soft as I'd like to think
Speaker 1: in life that's true. Like I'm like I'm kind of
Speaker 1: rough around the edges, Like sometimes I'm just like chill out,
Speaker 1: be quiet, do what the fuck, I said to do.
Speaker 1: Why the fuck do I have to keep asking to
Speaker 1: clean your room every day forever? Like she just do
Speaker 1: it like it's just But I realized, like that's how
Speaker 1: my parents treated me, Like that's how I was talked to,
Speaker 1: so like even I told you, which is the point,
Speaker 1: like sometimes other people are very like motherly to their kids.
Speaker 1: It irritates me. And this is not popular statement. It's
Speaker 1: because I didn't get that as a kid, and so
Speaker 1: I'm constantly having to work against that like mentality to
Speaker 1: just be like kind of like tough love, you know,
Speaker 1: because I've maybe i'm like resentful that I didn't receive that
Speaker 1: still as a fucking because I can't let shit go
Speaker 1: with my cancer fucking thirty four years old. But it's
Speaker 1: it's been challenging. But also I'm lucky that I'm aware
Speaker 1: enough to check myself sometimes in the moments and hug
Speaker 1: and get in the like do all the things. Because
Speaker 1: I am a very affectionate person anyway, and so as
Speaker 1: my child, like we we are affectionate, we are loving,
Speaker 1: and I know she gets it. And I only talk
Speaker 1: to her in a way where I know because she's
Speaker 1: she's she's mature, in ways, like emotionally, Luna is very
Speaker 1: very evolved. She's been here before, for sure, So there
Speaker 1: are things I can talk to her about that I
Speaker 1: know she's she's understanding. But also she's fucking seven, you know,
Speaker 1: And I have to remind myself all the time to
Speaker 1: be kind, you know, to be softer with her and
Speaker 1: even with my own parents and my own family. And
Speaker 1: it's just, yeah, it's constantly like being a mother is
Speaker 1: being a student all the time. It's true, I'm in
Speaker 1: school student and a teacher in first grade, just like Iri.
Speaker 1: It's first grade of motherhood. Mother. It's true. True, I'm
Speaker 1: only even doing your mother what the well, well, listen,
Speaker 1: and I'm only in first grade in mother school. So
Speaker 1: what do you want from me? Honestly, I haven't even expectations.
Speaker 1: Have you got to college grade? Help me? I need
Speaker 1: a tutor.
Speaker 2: Just leave me where I'm ad.
Speaker 1: I'm good here one year at a time, honestly. And
Speaker 1: when she gets a second grade, I'll be a second
Speaker 1: grade and make me take the SATs in first grade. Crazy,
Speaker 1: let's have all the fucking all the answer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, people ask us questions, I'm like, bitch, I don't
Speaker 2: know his grade. Mother I don't have the masters.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not a mother expert. I'm a first
Speaker 1: grade mother expert.
Speaker 2: That's all I got.
Speaker 1: I'm not expert. I'm not kindergarten.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe birth. I'm a more infant expert. Give me an infant.
Speaker 1: I'll keep it alive. Great, Now you get a little
Speaker 1: bit beyond that. That's not my expert ears not.
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Speaker 1: mother and the Two Pinnacles. A young man dances well,
Speaker 1: juggling two coins in his hands. The infinity symbol links
Speaker 1: the coins, suggesting this man can handle unlimited problems so
Speaker 1: long as he manages his time, energy, and resource as well.
Speaker 1: In the background, two ships sailed the high seas, bobbing
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Speaker 2: Oh, what do you have an affirmation for the day?
Speaker 1: Actually, I'm always both a teacher and a student of life.
Speaker 1: I am always a teacher, both both a teacher and
Speaker 1: a student of life.
Speaker 2: I have a horry. I have a horri So why
Speaker 2: are you laughing?
Speaker 1: Just wondering if it's the hurry? I think it is.
Speaker 2: So me and my boo, we you know, we're both
Speaker 2: scorpios and you know, we were very wild sexually. We
Speaker 2: are explorative. That's also why this is going so great
Speaker 2: as well, because I found someone that I feel like
Speaker 2: is open to just it sees the fun insects, you know,
Speaker 2: and that's like what I what I've been wanting recently.
Speaker 2: You know. We he'd been talking about that he had
Speaker 2: a surprise for me, and I was like, what is it?
Speaker 1: You know, and.
Speaker 2: We we'd like been having fun a trip and you know,
Speaker 2: fucking doing our thing. But on the last night, uh,
Speaker 2: we're pretty drunk and we were hooking up and he
Speaker 2: pulled something from under the bed and he was like,
Speaker 2: are you ready? And I was like yes. And actually,
Speaker 2: let me preface this because prior to this, like a
Speaker 2: few trips before this, we were having sex. I'm pretty
Speaker 2: sure I don't know if it was a dream or not,
Speaker 2: but like he had mentioned that he wanted me to
Speaker 2: make him jealous, like I want to see you, like
Speaker 2: I want to see you suck a dick and make
Speaker 2: me jealous. And I was like what And may be
Speaker 2: so wet because you know, the male male female experience
Speaker 2: is something that's high on me and Jamila's list. I
Speaker 2: have semi experienced it, but not quite in the form
Speaker 2: of massaging. But when he said this, I was like,
Speaker 2: what the fuck A man, like a man that is
Speaker 2: fucking me is saying this to me. So then like
Speaker 2: the next day, I was like, did I dream that?
Speaker 2: Because I was also drunk that day, And then I
Speaker 2: asked him and he just kind of like didn't answer.
Speaker 2: He was just like hm, and I was like okay,
Speaker 2: and then we didn't really talk about it again. So
Speaker 2: then fast forward to this night. He pulls something from
Speaker 2: under the bed and he pulls it out and it
Speaker 2: is a what is it called, like a suckable dildo
Speaker 2: suction cup dildo and thankfully, I mean and he told
Speaker 2: me too, He was like, you know, I didn't want
Speaker 2: to like have it out of the package because I
Speaker 2: wanted you to know like something was coming. Yeah, So no,
Speaker 2: that was unused.
Speaker 1: Oh smart, smart man.
Speaker 2: So he cuts it out and like he just like
Speaker 2: sticks it on the wall like so aggressively, but like
Speaker 2: he'd like he just knew what the fuck he was doing.
Speaker 2: And I was like, what is.
Speaker 1: This were standing or it was on the bed. We
Speaker 1: were in the bed, Okay, So he put it on
Speaker 1: the wall.
Speaker 2: And then he told me to turn around, and so
Speaker 2: of course I turned around and he started eating my
Speaker 2: pussy and then he started fucking me and then he
Speaker 2: was like, suck that dick, and then we started sucking.
Speaker 2: I started sucking the dick. I was getting so into it, bitch.
Speaker 2: He pulled the thing off, he was putting it in
Speaker 2: my mouth. He was like fucking my mouth.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like it.
Speaker 2: It was like the male male female, like not the
Speaker 2: well yeah, the male female, Like I didn't know that
Speaker 2: I needed, like I always envisioned it really happening, but like,
Speaker 2: I think this might be. This might suffice a happy medium.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a happy medium because I don't
Speaker 2: know if I don't know, like I don't know if
Speaker 2: he's gonna let me do that. I don't know if
Speaker 2: I want to, but I know I kind of dore. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but this this was definitely an experience, and I think
Speaker 2: it's like a It's something so simple that I never
Speaker 2: really thought about, you know, like anyone, Yeah, you just
Speaker 2: go get a dose. I have one, but I've never
Speaker 2: I've never thought to pull it out in front of
Speaker 2: a guy, almost because it's like, is it disrespectful.
Speaker 1: Right, because they're already here. Yeah. No, there's not the
Speaker 1: more the merrier.
Speaker 2: I know, but like I feel like men already feel
Speaker 2: worried about toys, So actually pulling out a whole ass
Speaker 2: dick that is in competition with his dick, maybe it's bigger,
Speaker 2: Like I have to make sure it's like comparable.
Speaker 1: I don't know anything that is too big.
Speaker 2: Imagine pulling out your section cock like it's just like
Speaker 2: it's huge, and he's just like what the fuck?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's why I need a freeman.
Speaker 2: Guess why I get you a freeman Because that freeman
Speaker 2: I was very pleased. So this is just a quick tip.
Speaker 1: Horey tip brte that down for Mexico's pack suction tick.
Speaker 2: I spit on it. Oh, use those things on it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got these new dick sucking mints.
Speaker 2: We found them on TikTok.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we found them on TikTok. I can't think they're
Speaker 1: called right now, but yeah, thank you guys, We love
Speaker 1: you and we will talk to you next week.
Speaker 2: Him