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Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letta. Alright, nephew, subject. Too much

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Speaker 1: is going on in my house, Dear Stephen Shirley. Here's

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Speaker 1: We had three kids. Then my girl's mom and her

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Speaker 1: I have a job and I'm in school, so that's

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Speaker 1: handle business. I've always believed that I'm a million dollar man,

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Speaker 1: but it's hard when it seems like she doesn't care.

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Speaker 1: she makes good money, but she has no backbone. My

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Speaker 1: I will not let this mess stress me out? Should

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Speaker 1: This is this is such a mess, and your girls

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Speaker 1: she's disrespecting everything that you guys have built together. Uh,

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Speaker 1: It seems you say she has no backbone though, But

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Speaker 1: You should have You have three kids to protect and

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Speaker 1: like this. They they these people have interrupted their home.

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Speaker 1: You as the man, have to step up now, you

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Speaker 1: really have to. You're gonna have to start saving and

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Speaker 1: and no hangers on like you know she is doing.

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Speaker 1: And before that I would let her know that, Um,

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Speaker 1: he's mad because he's saying his girl doesn't have any

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Speaker 1: move on, Junior. Let's let's hear from you. I love here, Shirley.

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Speaker 1: That's the only thing they respect. You run your running prison.

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Speaker 1: Come my mama, do it all the time. Get to

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about how wonderful time y'all have. Like did

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Speaker 1: Then Let'm tell you something. Sure, when they when they're

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Speaker 1: they're gonna do that day. That's how they figure out

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Speaker 1: what to do. That's just called they called flying messages.

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Speaker 1: Why am I in here educating y'all own hood stuff?

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Speaker 1: So when you do they catch them, they fly message,

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Speaker 1: they find out what's going on. Now, Now what they

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Speaker 1: do is they are smart, is they write the message,

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Speaker 1: but they put it in code. Yeah, they don't. You know,

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Speaker 1: we don't have the man we're in the meet up

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Speaker 1: with ribbing them at three thirty. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you can't put that out there. You know. They have

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Speaker 1: to put it in the code. So if you don't

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Speaker 1: have the Dacoda in your in your sale, you cannot

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Speaker 1: figure out what the messages because it has been another

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Speaker 1: educational moment with you. Yeah, thank you right away. We

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Speaker 1: gotta go, Junior, but thank you for all of that

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Speaker 1: email or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: at my Girl. Surely