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Speaker 1: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Nila, and Happy hump day, bitch, Happy motherfucking hump day.

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Speaker 1: How you doing.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing well. It's a nice day. It was raining earlier,

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Speaker 2: but the sun is coming out. I'm chilling. How are

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I feel well rested. I haven't had my

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Speaker 1: kid in like five days. I'm ready for parenthood again.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, me too. I'm wondering why do I

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Speaker 3: feel so peaceful? Why is everything so wonderful that I'm

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Speaker 3: the same. I haven't had my kid this weekend? Some

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Speaker 3: real chilling, yep, until a couple hours from now.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited because we have a special guest to special guests,

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Speaker 1: and I'm excited because I've known them for a really

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Speaker 1: long time. They're amazing people. One is someone that you

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Speaker 1: guys probably have grown up knowing because you just do

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Speaker 1: because he's that nigga, and his partner in crime is

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Speaker 1: the woman that holds everything together for the nigga. So right, right,

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Speaker 1: So I just want to introduce Damon Dash and Rocky.

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Speaker 1: What's up you guy?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Are you? Quarantine? Staying at home? Sheltering

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Speaker 1: in place.

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Speaker 5: Yes, IM to the gallery.

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Speaker 6: That's it.

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Speaker 1: You went to the gallery.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's my gallery.

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Speaker 1: You have a gallery in.

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Speaker 6: La I call it gallery the sound stage. Oh god, god,

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Speaker 6: great art, So I call it a gallery.

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Speaker 2: I like that this is our gallery.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to our gallery. I am.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty let's that you guys are quarantined because I've

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Speaker 3: been to your house and that.

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Speaker 2: Ship is pop intent your house is. I wish I

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Speaker 2: could quarantine with y'all.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I was like, all those cuddle pockets.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I'm happy to know that's an option.

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Speaker 1: No, your house literally is it has cuddle pockets. Me

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Speaker 1: and me to talk about it all the times, Like

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Speaker 1: there's cuddle pockets everywhere, there's soft, soft surfaces.

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Speaker 2: As soon as we.

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Speaker 3: Went into quarantine, I was like, damn, Erica, they're having

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Speaker 3: so much fun over there.

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Speaker 2: I wish I was quarantine with them.

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Speaker 4: That's definitely a Dame dash a trait for all of

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Speaker 4: his houses. He's like, everywhere should be a cuddle place.

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Speaker 6: Everything is a bit. You have to be able to

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Speaker 6: lie down and lay down comfortably.

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Speaker 2: I like your style.

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Speaker 6: I like warm water a lot.

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Speaker 1: You like warm water a lot.

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Speaker 6: Hubs and so onas and you know places like a

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Speaker 6: sweat and then get wet and then get dry.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, because we just intern did your steam session?

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Speaker 6: Well, I just do it after workout, switch the toxins

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Speaker 6: out because I smoke every day. And then also you know,

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Speaker 6: it's also a trick for the corona.

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Speaker 1: Right, And yeah, how has it been? It just just

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Speaker 1: been chilling, right.

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Speaker 6: You got thing, Mike Man. We've been social distancing for

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Speaker 6: fifteen years now, not fifteen years, I hear that about that.

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Speaker 6: And we have We've always had like a little bubble

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Speaker 6: of people that we work with, but we just still

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Speaker 6: work and we still have our bubble, and it's been

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Speaker 6: relatively the same because we structured our life like a

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Speaker 6: vacation anyway. So it's actually the life for living is

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Speaker 6: the one we've been architecting for a while.

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Speaker 4: Even once his life to always be his office is

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Speaker 3: I mean every time, the more you talk, the more

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Speaker 3: increasingly I want to be recruited to the tribe.

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Speaker 2: This sounds exactly like what I want.

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Speaker 4: Nobody's saying, No.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's saying.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, it's very appealing at this point. The

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Speaker 3: cuddle pockets, the vacation, the warm waters, the steam, the

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Speaker 3: beautiful people over there. I mean, honest, Rocky cooking Rocky,

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you cannot forget Rocky's delicious cooking vegan delicious

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Speaker 2: What the fuck right?

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Speaker 5: And the body is stupid. When I just look at

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Speaker 3: And the body, the body is stupid, I'm like, God, geez,

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Speaker 3: dame got the life I want to live?

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't see why people wait till they retire and

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Speaker 6: get old to live vacation, or why they only go

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Speaker 5: For me, the American.

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Speaker 6: Dream independently is to be able to work two days

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Speaker 6: you know, like three or four times a year, and

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Speaker 6: then between that be on vacation. And I don't see

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Speaker 6: why you have to work during uncomfortable hours. It never

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Speaker 6: made sense to me that we were supposed to be

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Speaker 5: That's not when things grow.

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Speaker 1: And can you teach a class on that?

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Can you agree that the more you like vacation and

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Speaker 3: do leisure things like mushrooms and in the sun and

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Speaker 2: Those are when the creative juices begin to flow.

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Speaker 3: That's when the creation begins when you're in a comfortable space.

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Speaker 3: So you're actually working by vacationing, but you're producing the

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Speaker 3: best quality creative because you're making room.

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Speaker 6: You're making room the way things are structured to control us,

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Speaker 6: to make us think we should be unhappy to get

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Speaker 6: things done, and that's just simply not the case.

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Speaker 5: And if you notice, even when you come to the gallery,

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Speaker 6: You know, that's why I call it a gallery because

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Speaker 6: it shouldn't feel like work. We all smoke in it's

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Speaker 6: like a party, and we're capturing those moments. Just like

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Speaker 6: you said, you can't recreate moments, and that's basically what

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Speaker 6: pure entertainment is is capturing authentic moments, not you know, recreating,

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Speaker 6: And that's what most people have to do.

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Speaker 5: Because I live that rock star life. I don't have

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Speaker 5: to recreate a rock star life.

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Speaker 6: I just have to run the cameras because I'm around

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Speaker 6: intelligent people. All we have to do is have ideas

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Speaker 6: in the moment and make them into tangible things and

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Speaker 6: then go monetize and package them, distribute them and then

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Speaker 6: make some bread. And if you can make things that

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Speaker 6: give you residual income. Then you can truly sick by

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Speaker 6: the pool, while the things that you were doing younger,

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Speaker 5: And that's a lot of what I'm doing now.

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Speaker 6: I'm able to relax and do things as I want

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Speaker 6: which is.

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Speaker 2: Oh, hallelujah, hallelujah in church.

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Speaker 1: You know, Dame just I remember when I first met you,

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Speaker 1: and I don't even know if you remember meeting me

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Speaker 1: this time, because actually we were reintroduced through my cousin

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Speaker 1: Davida A DaVita, But I actually met you when I

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Speaker 1: was personal assistant Macy Gray, and so, yeah, I was

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Speaker 6: I was my homie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I worked with her for three and

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Speaker 1: a half years, and so I came to Poppington at

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Speaker 1: the time, and I think you were I don't know

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Speaker 5: Just remember it might have been d one.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that's what it was.

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Speaker 6: That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy, that's crazy.

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Speaker 5: That's I probably have that on tape.

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Speaker 1: You probably do. Because we were there. We were chilling,

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Speaker 1: and I just remember like it was what what.

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Speaker 4: Was going on when you were there?

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Speaker 1: Coming around? I think we were like upstairs? Was there

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Speaker 4: What was happening? No?

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Speaker 1: No, we were just all chilling.

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Speaker 5: I remember when we were sitting. Were sitting too.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy, I know.

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Speaker 1: And I remember being like, oh my god, that's Damon Dash.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, how does his brain work so fast?

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Speaker 1: He's talking like he has so many things he's talking about,

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Speaker 1: and he's so passionate about so many different things and

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Speaker 1: they all connect that. I'm just like, I just remember

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Speaker 1: I was so used to just being around like like

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Speaker 4: I think it was the evening that you guys came.

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Speaker 6: We did.

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Speaker 1: It was the evening and like you had a desk.

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Speaker 1: I think you were sitting behind the desk. We were

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Speaker 1: were a few people there, and I remember Rocky, you

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Speaker 1: I don't know, ten years ago something like that. And

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Speaker 1: then my cousin Davida then reconnected us when I moved

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Speaker 1: and you always had like the dopest parties and everyone

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Speaker 1: Dame and Da and she connected us and you know,

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Speaker 1: the rest is history. We've been cool ever since. But

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Speaker 1: watching you, like even in those moments, like watching you

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Speaker 1: ideas and execute them, because you execute everything you do

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Speaker 1: and like there's no limit, like it's really it's an

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Speaker 1: amazing thing to and I know, and then Rocky I see,

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Speaker 1: like I think I see the way you think too,

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Speaker 1: Like there's no limit. You guys just have an idea,

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Speaker 1: everything on your own which is so dope because you know,

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Speaker 1: a lot of times we feel like we need people

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Speaker 1: to do things like creating projects or whatever it may be.

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Speaker 4: So Damon's one person that likes to learn everything, single thing,

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Speaker 4: So you'll dive into something just to learn how it works.

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Speaker 6: I like being the plug. I don't like being so

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Speaker 6: I could grow it. I'd rather grow it to be

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Speaker 6: a customer. You know, absolutely, men.

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Speaker 1: So we have a game that we like to play

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Speaker 1: with guests, and it's called Trigger, and basically, we say

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Speaker 1: that comes to your mind, like don't hesitate the first thing, okay,

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Speaker 1: And just a quick way for our listeners to kind

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Speaker 1: of get to know you guys better and us to

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Speaker 1: get to know you better too. So I guess we'll

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Speaker 1: go on and off, like I'll ask you one dame,

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Speaker 1: and then Rocky you answered the other one, Okay, got it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: this to be nervous, this is trigger, this is trigger, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I'll start with you, dame, marriage, vagina, vagina love

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Speaker 1: Rocky Damon favorite sex position it's yours with Rocky, Doggie

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Speaker 1: donkey a doggie doggy.

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Speaker 6: A couple other ones, but they're like black belt stuff.

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Speaker 1: We have to talk later black belt Oh wow, maybe

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Speaker 1: like a like we needed wow? Okay, instructional instructional guide. Okay,

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Speaker 6: Three times every level. When I get lucky, when I

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Speaker 6: The biggest regret, My biggest regret is uh not making

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Speaker 5: I should have been like, not on that.

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Speaker 1: You should have told her not to get on.

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Speaker 5: I did tell her not to get on.

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Speaker 5: So forceful about it.

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Speaker 6: That I should have been more being dash about it.

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Speaker 4: Loyalty is respect, Yeah, more loyalty is respect for me

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Speaker 5: It shouldn't exist once you got to cheat.

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Speaker 6: And that's not your best friend.

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 6: Okay, wait, I'm going to consolidate child And I think

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Speaker 5: There's a time and a place for child m hm.

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Speaker 4: Yah. Some people have to grow up too fast and

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Speaker 4: some people don't grow up. So childhood is for me.

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Speaker 4: I had a great childhood, and I'm fortunate for that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have a few more wealth, happiness and health,

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Speaker 1: health and laughter, Therapy important.

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Speaker 4: Mental It's hard. Sometimes.

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Speaker 6: Therapy means identifying your triggers and dealing with them.

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Speaker 4: Which is this triggers talking sometimes too much?

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Speaker 6: Just hard?

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Speaker 2: Why would why can't I see you? I need to

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Speaker 6: It's not it's a process.

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Speaker 1: Like a process.

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Speaker 4: Mom, I swear, I hope you never listened to this.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome for putting all your business on the internet.

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Speaker 6: Rocky definitely not.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure there's plenty more.

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Speaker 6: A lot more.

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Speaker 1: I know, so Rocky, So you are what is it?

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Speaker 1: What do you call yourself?

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Speaker 3: A mom plus mom plus mom, mom plus mom plus.

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Speaker 1: So obviously we have really young children. We haven't You

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Speaker 1: haven't ventured into that world yet of having a partner

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Speaker 1: and introducing kids and stuff. How how has it been

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Speaker 1: because I know, Dame, your kids are you know, older,

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Speaker 4: You become a teenager, there's a certain tolerance because you

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Speaker 4: understand that. Well, I was a teenager, so I kind

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Speaker 4: I thought everything. So once the it depends on the kid.

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Speaker 4: But once it's like fourteen to sixteen, once they hit

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Speaker 4: They're too old for you to do anything.

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Speaker 6: She was in a situation where the emotion was clear,

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Speaker 6: It wasn't no snart. We knew exactly where the energy

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Speaker 6: So you know something's coming and could brace your face.

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Speaker 6: It don't hurt so bad.

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Speaker 4: YEA true.

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Speaker 6: So everything we knew was coming, we already talked about

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Speaker 6: it in a very therapeutic way, and we already knew

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Speaker 5: And that's what we would do.

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Speaker 6: We would take to she would learn how to laugh

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Speaker 1: How long have you and Rocky been together? You've been

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Speaker 1: together now for like over ten years, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been around each other for ten years, every

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Speaker 1: What do you think that you've learned, Like, if you could,

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Speaker 1: good amount of times as a young woman too, you know,

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Speaker 1: and trying to and navigating that space. I'm curious, like,

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Speaker 4: For me, I try not to interfere with teaching the kids' lessons,

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Speaker 4: being like, you know, someone that's scolding or somebody who's

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Speaker 4: But for me, I get to have all the fun.

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Speaker 4: It's like for me, I feel like Tulula thinks I'm

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Speaker 6: Just like she's the one that teaches them how to

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Speaker 6: will set up their dance Like she's the one that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I get to have the fun. That's what I

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Speaker 6: Like she's not trying to be a mom. She's more

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I've never really have never scolding is not

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Speaker 3: It doesn't come one incident where maybe the parents blood

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Speaker 6: Not that kind of It's not like there's like visiting

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Speaker 5: Whis why I look forward to having a child with

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Speaker 6: So when I see my children, it's intense time with

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Speaker 6: to do.

454
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 4: I mean, it'll be like conversations, but it's never I.

455
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 5: Can't cook a lot of cooking.

456
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's more like conversations and telling them my opinion.

457
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 4: But I can't. I don't feel like I'm obligated or

458
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,199
Speaker 4: I don't feel that I'm in the position to.

459
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 6: Actually, my kids ain't bad like that, right, My kids

460
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 6: do stupid shit when they adults. When their kids, they're great,

461
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 6: and once they're adults, that's when they do dumb shit.

462
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 6: They're not kids no more.

463
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so that's funny, dam, I don't really know

464
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: much about like how you grew up and like I

465
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 1: don't know if you had your father in the house

466
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 1: or like if you grew up with with you know,

467
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: what was your example, Yeah, what was your example of

468
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: fatherhood and how is it influenced to you now as

469
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: a parent.

470
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 6: You know, he got married when I was young. We

471
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 6: married and that's on there weekend. And my mom was

472
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 6: the entrepreneur and made things happen. And you know, my

473
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 6: pops wasn't really so present, you know what I mean. Son.

474
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 6: When my mother died when I was six sixteen, I

475
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 6: had to grow up relatively fat, you know what I mean.

476
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 6: But like I was on some drug dealer shit. So

477
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 6: and I've been an adult for a while. You know,

478
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 6: my daughter came fast, but not through so much traum

479
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 6: or just threw wanting to be independent.

480
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 2: So when your mom passed, you didn't go live with

481
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 2: your dad. You did your You did your own thing.

482
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 6: An option for me, you know what I mean, which

483
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 6: is fucked up, And it was that those are the

484
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 6: type of fuck up things that he would do that

485
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 6: if I let it define me, it would probably made

486
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 6: me a bad parent, but it made me a better one,

487
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. So I'm the type of

488
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 6: person I You know, two brothers could have an alcoholic

489
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 6: as a father. One could be an alcoholic and he'll

490
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 6: say it's because my father was an alcoholic, and the

491
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 6: other brother will say, I don't drink because my father

492
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 6: was an alcoholic.

493
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,360
Speaker 5: So I always try to find the light, not the duk.

494
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 4: You know.

495
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 5: I don't take people's bad habits.

496
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 6: I take their good ones and then I learned from

497
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 6: their bad habits and make sure my children don't have

498
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 6: to feel the same pain. So I can imagine what

499
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 6: made me uncomfortable when I was young. What made me

500
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 6: uncomfortable when I was young was that my father would

501
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 6: have presents for my little brother because he was with

502
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 6: my little brother's mother, and I'd be there for Christmas

503
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 6: and even have presents and I wouldn't have no presence.

504
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 6: That made me feel like shit. So I would never

505
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 6: let that happen to my kids ever.

506
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: So that it's important, I mean, because I know you

507
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: have you had you have three kids with your four

508
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 1: kids and then with three different women, right, so it's

509
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: important that they it's important for you that your kids

510
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 1: are close. Is that like something that you like prioritize

511
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: or it just kind of happens, or like for people

512
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: that do have multiple kids with different people, like I wonder, like,

513
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: is that hard to balance?

514
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 6: It's hard to balance when the mothers aren't cooperating, or

515
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 6: you know, they're not on the same sheet of paper,

516
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 6: or when the mothers are still in love with you,

517
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, it doesn't work out.

518
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 5: So that's the way my struggle has been. I'm a

519
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 5: hard drug to kick.

520
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 6: You know, And you know, I'm trying my best to

521
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 6: keep my family together, and sometimes it seems like people

522
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 6: are trying their best and not have them together or

523
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 6: keep it one sided. So I just make sure my

524
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 6: children know that I want to be in their lives

525
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 6: and it's their choice that they're not. When they are,

526
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 6: but anytime then they can come. At any time I

527
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 6: want them, I'll come get them. They know that I

528
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 6: call them. I'm the one that does. Like you know

529
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 6: that the father usually be the usually be the kids

530
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 6: looking for the dad, and the dad's looking for the kids.

531
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 5: The kids ignore the dead. They did that. But at

532
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 5: least I'm doing much.

533
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm occupied, So I'm like, I'm GOODA could

534
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 6: keep thinking it hurt me if you want it, don't,

535
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 6: but you know, I'm good. But I'm still going to

536
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 6: do my job. That's why I'm always up the block

537
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 6: for my daughters. I came to La because my daughters,

538
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 6: you know, Rachel moved to LA out of the left,

539
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 6: and I had to do it, liquidate everything and come

540
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 6: out here.

541
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 4: And as soon as he can have all the kids together,

542
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 4: he makes it a priority. Though, as soon as they

543
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 4: can be in one room, but it's been harder since

544
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 4: they get older.

545
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 6: Older, and since we moved it two different coasts.

546
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 5: It hasn't been the easiest.

547
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: Were you at any of the births of your kids? Like,

548
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: did you see your child? All of them?

549
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 5: All of them but one because I didn't know he

550
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 5: was mine?

551
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 1: Oh what do you like? How? What was your favorite?

552
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: Not your favorite? Mind story?

553
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 3: But like, how did experiencing birth firsthand change your perspective

554
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 3: on women and vagina and did it change at all?

555
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: Did you have any terrible experiences a great experience? Was

556
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 2: it life changing?

557
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 6: I mean I saw my first vagina explode when I

558
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 6: was about explode.

559
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: Can we just make it a little more magical?

560
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: What do you mean explode?

561
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 2: It's a little bit more magical, a little more better

562
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 2: than that.

563
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 6: I'll cut my first ambilica when I was twenty, you know,

564
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 6: I just the best moment is that you're the first

565
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 6: person they see. I like that a lot. And then

566
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 6: you'll just lock eyes and ships for a while. So

567
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 6: I've had that connection with all my children whatever, we

568
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 6: just have that eye lot. It's like you know, they

569
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 6: know them, they dad as soon as they come out.

570
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: Ah, did did it scare you did it change your

571
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 3: perspective on women witnessing that at twenty and did witnessing

572
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 3: again and again.

573
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, knowing what women go through that and

574
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 6: you know, I don't know that I would ever do

575
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 6: that to my body to create another life. You know,

576
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 6: it definitely makes me. You know, I'm the one that

577
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 6: says that I'm a firm believer that women are God.

578
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 6: They're the only things that create life and that's the

579
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 6: closest thing to God. So I just feel like it's

580
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 6: been like a big like, you know, men that were

581
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 6: created to just be slaves for women so that the

582
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 6: women can create life, because that's more important than anything.

583
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 6: And I think men a man's world is all fucked up,

584
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 6: like look at us now and even down to like

585
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 6: you look at the countries that are being that are

586
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 6: doing the best with corona or run by women. So

587
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 6: you know, I think it's been this big jake that

588
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 6: you know, men have taken their physical and made it

589
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 6: like they're the ones that are running shit just because

590
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 6: they're insecure. And that's why I don't surround myself with

591
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 6: men too much because they all looking for Miami. Women

592
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 6: are strong. I see that women have to raise children

593
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 6: by themselves. You know, if a woman's in a compromising situation,

594
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 6: she can't just start swinging. She has to use her

595
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 6: brain and her energy to get out of there. So,

596
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 6: you know, as I've gotten older and look at the

597
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 6: things that women have to deal with, especially birth and creating,

598
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 6: my respect level is definitely going.

599
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 5: You know, yeah, yeah, like ten, ten, fifteen years ago,

600
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 5: I apologize for big Pimper.

601
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 6: You know, it's magic.

602
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 5: That the two movement. I did that ten years before

603
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 5: me too. I was like, yo, I was bugging. I

604
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 5: told my son, I better never catch you doing that

605
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 5: type of ship. I was tripping.

606
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 6: Having the daughter is really changed things, really because it

607
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 6: becomes karma.

608
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 5: Like my daughter now, Ava is straight karma.

609
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: Man, Why do you say she's straight karma?

610
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 6: But she wants to walk around in a bikini and

611
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 6: she likes to play with me and ship.

612
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 5: You know what I mean.

613
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 6: It's like she knows what makes me uncomfortable.

614
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: Well, she's a woman, dame. I mean, she's a woman, and.

615
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 5: Bring over some shorts. I don't want to see it

616
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 5: with my daughter.

617
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, she's grown.

618
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 5: I want to see I'm not saying that she's wrong.

619
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 5: I'm saying she's karma.

620
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

621
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not.

622
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 5: I don't. I don't get mad.

623
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 6: I just be like, damn, having beautiful daughters is definitely karma.

624
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 4: It was really funny when she was like, you know, twelve,

625
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: and she was trying to wear the swim chunks. He

626
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 4: could at that time give her the long board shorts,

627
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 4: but he could demand it at that time.

628
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 2: But are overas a long time, and when.

629
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 6: We teach them things, they take it to another level.

630
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 6: So I taught us some dang dash and she's like

631
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 6: trying to use it on me.

632
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: Well, you know, that's interesting that you say that, because

633
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: you know, when we ask you and trigger about like,

634
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: for example, monogamy and you both guys, we both obviously

635
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: have you know, views on that that you know, it

636
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: doesn't really exist and it's not women.

637
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 5: We're a couple that doesn't cheat on each other for sure.

638
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: Right, But I'm curious, like, how do you talk about

639
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: you Is this something that you talk about with your

640
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: daughters or your kids? Like how do because I think ultimately,

641
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: like we are shaped so much by you know, how

642
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: we see our parents' relationships, and.

643
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 6: You have to remember that there's a there's an next

644
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 6: wife that's going to say the worst anyway.

645
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 2: So there's a what an ex wife that's going to

646
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 2: say the worst anyway?

647
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 6: So according to my ex wife, you know, I've been

648
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 6: living with three four girls my whole life, and I

649
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 6: missed that and the third, and they paint a certain

650
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 6: picture regardless. So you know, kids usually know everything that

651
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 6: they think, but they try to make it seem like

652
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 6: they don't, so that they make you uncomfortable, you know

653
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 6: what I mean. So my daughters of all asked me

654
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 6: about where you know, how kids have made and I

655
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 6: know they know. I mean, like, yo, your mother already

656
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 6: told you why you want to play with I don't

657
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 6: feel like doing. You know what I'm saying, go ask

658
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 6: your mother so you don't answer.

659
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 5: I answered it, but I answer it.

660
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 6: What I'm saying is I'll answer it in a way

661
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 6: that'll make them uncomfortable. My daughter might say some ship

662
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 6: the other day she was like, this other girl used

663
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 6: to be around, and she was like, yeah, that was

664
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 6: a daddy and Rocky's girlfriend.

665
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: And we were like yeah, so what right, right right?

666
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 5: It wasn't even our girlfriend, but so what.

667
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 2: Mind your business?

668
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,959
Speaker 1: Like they don't think they're gonna they don't think you're

669
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: going to rebottle them in that way.

670
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 4: Right fine?

671
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 6: And oh, this girl has sent me a naked picture,

672
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 6: like sent me up, you know, doing naked stuff. And

673
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 6: Tula went through my thing and I'm like, why are

674
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 6: you going through much?

675
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 5: You know why you got a girl? And then I'm like,

676
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 5: I'm a grown up.

677
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 6: I could do that. And she's like, I've been a

678
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 6: grown up. How are you gonna tell me how a

679
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 6: grown up feels and what a grown up supposed to

680
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 6: be doing? She said, she said, that's why. She said,

681
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 6: that's why mommy left you, because she didn't. And I'm like,

682
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 6: that's mommy's choice, you know, like we made a choice. Like, yo, God,

683
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 6: I like girls. I'm a rock star. Rocky likes that

684
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 6: I'm a rock star. I'm not going to hide that

685
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 6: from you. To stay out my phone, you know, make

686
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 6: me uncomfortable. And I was like, yo, so what I

687
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 6: got naked girls in my phone? I'm a rock star.

688
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 6: That's what they do. That's why that's why you was born,

689
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying.

690
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: Well, she sounds like she might have she might have

691
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: an idea of what a what a typical relationship.

692
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 5: No, you don't understand. We talk about what I'm like. Yo.

693
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 6: Everyone has their version of a typical relationship. But who's

694
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 6: alone and who's not?

695
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

696
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 6: I just we've been. We've been. We've been together for

697
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 6: longer than most people, and we not it's no, it's

698
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 6: not doing no time soon because we have such a

699
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 6: respect for who we are.

700
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: You know, how did you get there? Did it start

701
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 2: like this? Did you, dame?

702
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 3: Have you and all your relationships with most of your women?

703
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 3: Have you been like this is why I am. I'm

704
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 3: a fucking rock star. I might be doing this.

705
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 2: And how have you evolved to this place?

706
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 6: We working together so she to see me be a

707
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 6: rock star, and that's what she liked. So she liked

708
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 6: the devilish one, not the one that you showed, not

709
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 6: the car salesman that tried to sell you the call

710
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 6: she saw, the one that she saw, the rock star,

711
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 6: and she used to like it and she still does.

712
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: Do you still like it, Rocky?

713
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

714
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 3: Blink twice if you like twice?

715
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 2: Are you really okay? I'm okay, okay.

716
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: Appreciate that she.

717
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 6: Likes my game right, and she likes how uncomfortable used

718
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 6: to make her, so she likes to see me make

719
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 6: other women uncomfortable. So if she saw a girl that's cute,

720
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 6: she'll be like, go, go get it, just so she

721
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 6: could witness me playing. She just likes my She devilish.

722
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 2: That's why she looks like an angel.

723
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 4: You were friends, I would be like, oh, here we go.

724
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 5: You know, girls walk through walls and their head.

725
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 4: All throughout the night, because you know, Damon and I

726
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 4: were just friends. So I'll be like, okay, people, go,

727
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 4: let's see how this works. So you know, I kind

728
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 4: of found the joy in watching it.

729
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 5: And I have to have pressure on her because I

730
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 5: should put it on her too.

731
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: But I will say though, like Dame you you and

732
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: Rocky's relationship, like you shower her, You shower her with

733
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: love and and I think that obviously, I mean, I

734
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: could be wrong, Rocky. I'm assuming it plays a part

735
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: in the security that you know that like he's not

736
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: going in.

737
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've witnessed it. It's beautiful. I think that's the best.

738
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:26,919
Speaker 3: That's the only way to have it. That you could

739
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 3: only be entertained in other visches and playing if you

740
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 3: I'm the number one showered.

741
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 5: Absolutely like you see.

742
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 6: She don't even care, Like she walk in and she

743
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 6: was like, Oh, it's girls in the hot tub and

744
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 6: then walk back out and be like I'd be like,

745
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 6: I'd be like, yoh.

746
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 5: What's up with you? Like you know what I'm saying.

747
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 6: She doesn't care.

748
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: Do you think had you had you guys not work

749
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 3: together and you witness it without within just friendship first, Like,

750
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 3: do you think you could have approached the relationship the

751
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 3: same way had you not known him in a friend

752
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 3: way first?

753
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 4: It would be completely different now because I wouldn't have

754
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 4: the tolerance. I wouldn't be able to except who he but.

755
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 6: I wouldn't have the time to know you and be

756
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 6: like all life has just been like a slumber party

757
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 6: that nobody left.

758
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 4: I wouldn't have the tolerance to know who like the

759
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 4: real person was, you know, I wouldn't you just.

760
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 6: Be having too much fun to even like I don't

761
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 6: even remember days and shit was every day is just

762
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 6: a big fun day.

763
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: Oh wait, so rocky. Before in your pre relationships, previous

764
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: to Damon, had you ever been in like a relationship

765
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 1: like the one you're in now? She has it always

766
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: been like traditionally monogamous and like.

767
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 5: You're my boyfriend I don't even run the wrong bugging.

768
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: I just don't check black man, you know what I mean?

769
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Damit?

770
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 6: Yes, Yeah, she came from South Carolina. She had never

771
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 6: been around a real black man before, so this was

772
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 6: her first real nigga.

773
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: There's no black people in South Carolina.

774
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 5: What do you mean?

775
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 6: She had never been around a real black She's from

776
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 6: hilton Head, South Carolina.

777
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: Oh, Helton Head. Oh girl, that is very, very country.

778
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 6: And she's Spanish, so you know all the things that

779
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 6: most men are out there might be like, oh, you know,

780
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 6: we don't love such a big butt or whatever drive

781
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 6: a black man like me nuts. So it was like

782
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 6: weird to have a Spanish girl that doesn't know how

783
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 6: Spanish she is and me being like, yeah, I had

784
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 6: to discover it. And then her having like such a

785
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 6: different perspective on life, a hilton Head perspective was like

786
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 6: an escape from the jungle. So it was like I

787
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 6: get the escape, but I don't have to have a

788
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 6: flat butt with it.

789
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. It's all good.

790
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 4: Definitely no flat flat Rocky.

791
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: Do you find it hard like as a woman to.

792
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 6: Every morning?

793
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 3: Well, that's good to know that you're still you know,

794
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 3: everything's going strong over there, very healthy.

795
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: That vegan diet is really doing good for you.

796
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 6: I chase around the house every day. She can tell

797
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 6: you that she's.

798
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 2: Like, I wish this thaga with age, leave me alone,

799
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: chill okay, Like.

800
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 4: He's like an energizer, bunny. I wish you sometimes would

801
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 4: lose energy.

802
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: Just start dragging him.

803
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 2: It's fine, give him some melotonia.

804
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 4: Girl, he's an alcohol all the day.

805
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 6: I don't.

806
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 4: I don't know what else.

807
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 5: To do, and I'm still up before everybody.

808
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 3: Is it difficult for you to explain your relationship to

809
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 3: like maybe your parents or you grow up with, or

810
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 3: other girlfriends who are like, bitch, you're tripping, you.

811
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 4: Know, maybe friends, my parents, my mom. I guess I

812
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 4: don't really have to explain to my parents because they

813
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 4: can see it.

814
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 5: Everybody knows how much I love her, so that's all.

815
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: That matters, obviously.

816
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, has she gotten any grief?

817
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 6: It's nothing agriefa about because that's you know what I mean,

818
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 6: Like we're talking about it now, but it's okay. That's me.

819
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 4: I think for other girls maybe that that aren't happy

820
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 4: in their relationships, it's harder for me to explain because

821
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 4: they just want to hear the negative or they want

822
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 4: to hear certain things like that. So it's you know,

823
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 4: in every relationship, you have your good times and you

824
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 4: have your bad times. So like if you are only

825
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 4: one of those girls that you talk to somebody when

826
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 4: you're having a bad moment, they only want to hear

827
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 4: the negative shit on your relationships. So then when you're

828
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,720
Speaker 4: having something great and you're doing all this great stuff

829
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 4: for ninety percent of the time, ninety nine percent of

830
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 4: the time, they don't really want to feel the beat

831
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 4: you feel the good shit, because it then they don't

832
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 4: like their relationship.

833
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 3: So sometimes absolutely, wait, I feel like I can relate

834
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 3: to I can relate to that because people want to

835
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 3: project what they think is how it should look or

836
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 3: what it should be. And I mean, I've had that

837
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 3: with my friends, and I love you guys' relationship and.

838
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 2: I aspire to have one just like it. Okay, I'm

839
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 2: taking notes what happens.

840
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 6: This is what happens a girl trying to get at me, right,

841
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 6: and I'll be like, yo, you got to go take

842
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 6: your application in rock or I can't do it, And

843
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 6: then they might end up being friends and because of

844
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 6: the fact that I won't do anything without her, then

845
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 6: they start hating on that.

846
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 5: You understand what I'm saying, Maybe you shouldn't just.

847
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 6: Stand in the there and it be like but that's

848
00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 6: those be the only ones that hate you, the ones

849
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 6: that I'd be like, I'm not doing it without my girl.

850
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 2: That's what that's well, like you mean, like sneaky bitches.

851
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 6: You know, a lot of girls have the intent of

852
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 6: being like, I'm down, but they intended to really have

853
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 6: me violate, you know what I mean, So like have

854
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 6: a walk out. That's that's the one her one rulers

855
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 6: don't do it unless I'm around, and I respect that.

856
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,240
Speaker 6: I've slipped a couple of times and got my ass whipped.

857
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 6: But you know what I'm saying, it's like on a drunk,

858
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 6: you know, in the house and she might you know,

859
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 6: but that's the thing. She leaves me in the room

860
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 6: by myself a lot, you know what I'm saying, So

861
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 6: that would be the only time and she'll be like, oh,

862
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 6: like literally, I'd be like, yo, it's like girls and

863
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 6: the thing and they aggress them and she's like, do

864
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 6: what you want to do and go to sleep. And

865
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 6: then come back out to refrigerator and be like, Yo,

866
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 6: what the fuck are you doing what you want that?

867
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 2: I don't want that? Did you not just say he

868
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: was What did you say that? He did say?

869
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 5: She said do what you feel said? So what did

870
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 5: you say?

871
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 4: I don't think I said anything.

872
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 5: Anyway?

873
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, wait, wait one more question.

874
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 5: Huh, I'll make a mistake, I'll wear it.

875
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 2: Okay, No, absolutely, that's what men do it. Can Rocky

876
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 2: have a side of the frond?

877
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: Okay?

878
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 2: So there's no other dicks in this equation.

879
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 5: I'm not you think I'm gonna watch another dick?

880
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: My girl, I didn't say you had to watch.

881
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 1: You don't have to watch.

882
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 6: I'm not allowed to have a side piece. It's like me, okay, well,

883
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 6: got no side pieces around.

884
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 3: I'm your side piece. I'm the side piece for the couple.

885
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 3: I've already signed myself up.

886
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 5: We're a single couple.

887
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm coming over for the vegan dinner and the

888
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: warm the warm water.

889
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: The water.

890
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 2: I'm stuck on the warm water, the kettle pockets.

891
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 6: I'm addicted to the kettle pockets ship So come on,

892
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:56,879
Speaker 6: we did it to the same stuff.

893
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 2: Exactly my point.

894
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 3: That's my point, no sneakiness here exactly.

895
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, she's my queen.

896
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 5: I do anything for whatever make her happy because she

897
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 5: makes me so happy, you know what I'm saying.

898
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 6: And that's the reason why you have such a great

899
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 6: relationship because I accept the food she is and she

900
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 6: accepts me before I am.

901
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 5: And I'm not that bad and she's not that bad.

902
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 5: So it's great.

903
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 3: You told me something in the jacuzzie once and I

904
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 3: literally have led with this and they have in dating.

905
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 3: I'm like, my friend told me his theory is if

906
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 3: you take care of you show a woman you can

907
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 3: take care of her.

908
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 2: A man should always take care of you. So you know,

909
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 2: like you have no problem taking care of your woman

910
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: because you expect to be taken care of.

911
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 3: And I think in this younger generation, these niggas are

912
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 3: like dumb and they want to split. I want to

913
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: like go half on shit, and I'm just like, maybe

914
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: you need to talk to my friend, damon, because there's

915
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 3: fucking some shit missing here.

916
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: You want to be taken care of, but you want

917
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 2: to split some shit.

918
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 6: Uh uh, So you can't expect any tolerances. You're not

919
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 6: doing what you're supposed to do. The should be no

920
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 6: if I make Rocky every dream she had, and I

921
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 6: ask HER's any voice in your life, so I could

922
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 6: make it anything she wants. I'm gonna make it happy

923
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 6: anything she want on her terms. And that's the reason

924
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 6: why she and again the reason why I'm inspired to

925
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 6: do that is because she does so much to make

926
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 6: me happy, like she does everything to make sure I'm

927
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 6: happy twenty four seven.

928
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 5: To where I don't want to go out.

929
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 6: The problem with cheatings for me is to me to

930
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 6: go and be with another girl means I'm not with her,

931
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 6: so I when I'm with it. Like literally, when we

932
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 6: first used to start seeing each other, she used to

933
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 6: send me like, yo, you got to get out, go

934
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 6: go see a girl once we can leave me to

935
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 6: fuck alone. And I'd be at the girl's house, go

936
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 6: see a model or something.

937
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: I go.

938
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 5: I'd be like, yo, all right, I do what I

939
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 5: to do. Can I come back home? And she'd be

940
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 5: like in the morning, But she would always make these

941
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 5: boundaries and.

942
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 2: Shit, okay, Rocky, well I need more time. I'm killing.

943
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 4: We had established what our relationship was, and I because

944
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 4: I knew who Damon was in his past relationships, I

945
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 4: did not want to get too attached to where the well,

946
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 4: my heart was too broken, so I had distance myself

947
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 4: in that. It was never the attachment was so there to.

948
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 6: Where me in certain times of the morning. I couldn't

949
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 6: get no cuddled a whole night until until we committed.

950
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 6: The things that I really wanted were kisses in the

951
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 6: mouth and cuddles, and she wouldn't get it.

952
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 1: This is in the mouth.

953
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 2: Wait, so you would not. You would only cuddle on

954
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 2: your terms and kiss it on the mouth.

955
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 3: Never until you it was the relationship was on your terms.

956
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 4: Okay, that was like, but when I was asking, okay, whatever.

957
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I think, Rocky, you do have this

958
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: unique like if you had this unique opportunity because you

959
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: did see how he was, you saw his patterns, you

960
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: saw what you were gonna you were signing up for

961
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: if you wanted to do that, So you could kind

962
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: of navigate that space and be like, Okay, this is

963
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: where she fucked up. Let me not do that, and

964
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: like check in with yourself and decide, okay, I want

965
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: this Now I'm gonna start kissing you in the mouth.

966
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 4: Yeah. I just seem like, you know, so many women

967
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 4: kind of go crazy but by being the man that

968
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 4: he is, and he he loves women, love living around

969
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 4: lots of women, so like in that sense that would

970
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 4: drive some women crazy. And his other relationships that we

971
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 4: witnessed while being in different relationships but still being friends.

972
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 4: I learned from that, I guess, and I was just

973
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 4: in the beginning. I would try and take it slow

974
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 4: because I did not want to be I did not want.

975
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: To go crazy.

976
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 2: So do you think it took practice?

977
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 4: Definitely? Okay, that's fair my whatever he calls it was

978
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 4: my practice.

979
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 3: And I took practice for me too to have some

980
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 3: kind of boundaries and some kind of limitations.

981
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 6: I know, I know.

982
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm the one that changed more than anybody.

983
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 2: You did the most compromising here, Okay, not compromising, Like

984
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 2: changing wasn't the compromise because I got stuff.

985
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 5: I did have to be.

986
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 6: Like like usually if a girl gave me an open door,

987
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 6: I was taking it and I just don't do that

988
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 6: no more.

989
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 2: Right, Like an inch and a mile because I have

990
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: a SERI.

991
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 3: You give them these niggas an inch, they will automatically

992
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 3: take a mile.

993
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 6: If I caught you slipping for a second, your ass

994
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 6: was out. You know that boom. I'm an assassin. I'm

995
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 6: gonna get it done. But I don't do that anymore.

996
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 5: I have to do with it. It's all different now

997
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

998
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: Do you?

999
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 5: I'm scared of herpes.

1000
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 3: That's a good reason because herpes, they're thriving and if

1001
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 3: they're alive, and well.

1002
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: What advice would you give to, you know, men who

1003
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: are trying to navigate relationships and also love women like.

1004
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 6: You a woman and be honest. Yeah, because the thing

1005
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 6: about it is, I don't know a relationship with niggas

1006
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 6: don't cheat.

1007
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 5: I don't know. It doesn't exist.

1008
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 6: So I'm not gonna be in a relationship where I'm cheating,

1009
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 6: cheating me as you lying to your girl.

1010
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 5: It's like if you got your homeboy.

1011
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 6: You don't lie to your homeboy, like to your men,

1012
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 6: like you go a lot of your men that violate

1013
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 6: your whole business, relationship, everything in the street, all of that,

1014
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 6: you don't lie. So you got a lot of your girls'

1015
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 6: supposed to be your best friend, and then she doesn't

1016
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 6: and then she can't catch you lying, but she knows

1017
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 6: you lying, so that it justifies her going.

1018
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 5: Off and doing some other violationship because.

1019
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 6: I've been the guy that's been that that that person

1020
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 6: that's punished.

1021
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 5: The girl punishes their boyfriend by fucking with me.

1022
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. And it happens all the time.

1023
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 6: I be and they don't know nothing. I'll be like, damn,

1024
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 6: you slick. God damn, you're on the phone with the nigga.

1025
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 6: That'd be like, well, they don't, man, you get it

1026
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 6: to me, and I'd be like, God, damn, that's from

1027
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 6: fucked up shit, you know, so don't. I would never

1028
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 6: give a girl the the the excuse to play me

1029
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 6: if I'm doing everything right, taking care of her, making

1030
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 6: sure all dreams come true. Like I said, if the

1031
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 6: girl got a man in the bank and I got

1032
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 6: five hundred thousand.

1033
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 5: I'm still paying all the bills.

1034
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: Mhm.

1035
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 6: That's what I think a man's job is to do,

1036
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 6: and I'm and I'm doing.

1037
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 5: I do that so that my daughters.

1038
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 6: Won't accept anything less if their man's not a slave

1039
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 6: like their daddy, at least as a slave like your dad,

1040
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 6: because that's what her father has to understand. A girl's

1041
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 6: gonna accept what their father is like if your father

1042
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 6: was yelling at their moms are not there and all that.

1043
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 6: She's gonna accept that because that's what she used to

1044
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 6: see it, right, But my daughters used to seeing me

1045
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 6: get played by them, and I'm the victim. I mean,

1046
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 6: I let them do things to me, like say ship

1047
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 6: to me and and play me, just.

1048
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 5: So they're they're all right with them doing that to

1049
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 5: a dude.

1050
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 2: That's why I want to you consciously take the beating.

1051
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: You're taking the beating so that they it's not the

1052
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 1: other They're not the ones taking the beating relationship.

1053
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:30,959
Speaker 2: But I think that's good.

1054
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 6: They're never gonna stay in relationship number one because they

1055
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 6: have to be scared of their quality of living. They're

1056
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 6: always gonna be able to leave when they want and

1057
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,919
Speaker 6: have the same call. Like my daughter is so ill

1058
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 6: that her last boyfriend, she had him like, Yo, you

1059
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 6: know you gotta take my last name, dad, she was

1060
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 6: telling him, and he was contemplating, they're gonna take my

1061
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 6: last name.

1062
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 2: I think I want to take that. I'm gonna take

1063
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: that from her. That's some cold ship.

1064
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 4: No. No.

1065
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 6: I strategically let Rachel keep her last name so that

1066
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 6: my daughter could say the same thing.

1067
00:47:59,320 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 5: That's why I did it.

1068
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 6: So you keep your last name, Ay, you better keep

1069
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 6: your your mother kept our last name, keep that dash.

1070
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 6: Don't on her. Your mother's not a herb. That's why

1071
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 6: I made a mother, big business man. I make a

1072
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 6: lot of mother do so much shit to me.

1073
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 5: If you want which shot to keep, we have.

1074
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: You know, I know you've talked a lot about therapy

1075
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: on on your on your platform.

1076
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 5: And therapy shows on my network.

1077
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: Right and which I think is really important, especially as

1078
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: a black man, because I feel like most unfortunately in

1079
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 1: our community, therapy is looked down upon. It shunned its

1080
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: first of all, people don't even know it's an option,

1081
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: or it's looked down upon, or it's considered yeah, weak.

1082
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: We don't tell our business.

1083
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 6: The problem with therapy as it stands is most of

1084
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 6: the research is done on white.

1085
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 5: People and not on Black people. Well, the punt therapy

1086
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 5: that's available is not the one that's for us. It's

1087
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 5: far white.

1088
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 6: It is white males, and we have different problems, a

1089
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 6: different set of circumstance. So that's the issue is it's

1090
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 6: a different kind of therapy and it needs to be approach. Yes,

1091
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 6: sometimes it could be looked at the sign of weakness,

1092
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 6: but it also could be looked at as a sign of

1093
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 6: the course that you're not ready to pay for, like

1094
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 6: I'm not paying to talk to so much, you know

1095
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 6: what I mean. So that's why we try to make

1096
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 6: it available for freeesha, because see what everyone every gangster

1097
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 6: has a concilarity that's a therapist.

1098
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 1: Have you guys had like a couples therapy ever or

1099
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: and then definitely and then also saying you've had therapy

1100
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:34,919
Speaker 1: on your own like singularly kind of mean ye, yeah,

1101
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: I will say like getting there. Yes, therapy can be

1102
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: really expensive and.

1103
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 3: It's not accessible for everybody, especially now, and shit, and

1104
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,439
Speaker 3: I think it's important. Everybody needs to talk. Everybody needs

1105
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 3: to talk shit out, even if it doesn't make sense.

1106
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: I got it, have to like to discuss it is

1107
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 3: to be therapized, right.

1108
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,399
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of different platforms now, thank god,

1109
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: we're in the digital age where it's more accessible. Like

1110
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: there's betterhelp dot com, which you know we've used for

1111
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Speaker 1: and it's actually a virtual therapy platform that you can

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Speaker 1: get therapy on and.

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Speaker 3: You can pick your therapist, so you can say, like

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna most probably relate to this black

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Speaker 3: woman because she might come from a place like me

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Speaker 3: or from this place.

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Speaker 2: You can literally go through.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like a dating app and look and pick,

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Speaker 3: you know, and they even have like a membership program.

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Speaker 2: It's like sixty five dollars a week. So I think

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Speaker 2: that's dope.

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Speaker 3: And it's there's less pressure when it's on the screen,

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Speaker 3: you know, because you don't feel it's very it's gonna

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Speaker 3: be awkward. It's like a first fucking date going to

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Speaker 3: go tell your all your business to the stranger.

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Speaker 5: So I love telling them all my business. So my

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Speaker 5: business is out anyway, But.

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Speaker 1: You guys should definitely check out Better Health, Betterhelp dot

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Speaker 1: com slash g MBC if you guys are looking for therapy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we want to tell you. We have this

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Speaker 2: segment on.

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Speaker 3: Our show generally like either our guests will share our

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Speaker 3: erica and I will share.

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Speaker 2: It's called hories, oh stories.

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Speaker 3: Horror stories, so like you gotta think of your best,

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Speaker 3: top most horrish experience. It needed to be very horrish

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Speaker 3: and scary something went terribly wrong. It could be just

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00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 3: horrish and spectacular and great, but horrish like hory, Like.

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Speaker 5: Like we're gonna tell one of our horror stories together.

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00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be it can be, it can be together.

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00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: It could be from one back in the day and

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Speaker 1: the Rockefeller days, and we have we.

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Speaker 2: Haven't had a couple tell a horry together. So I

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Speaker 2: would really like if you guys could find a hurry

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Speaker 2: together one.

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Speaker 1: I have one that's not but you have to be

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00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: like scary or just horrish, so you're just like, damn,

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Speaker 1: we just.

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Speaker 6: Were was scary to me, Okay, Detroit because I don't

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00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 6: really do the strip clubs or nothing. Right, So once

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00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 6: I was in Detroit and finally my mom was like,

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Speaker 6: you know, just see what some strip was just like.

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Speaker 6: So they came to my room and they had strip

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Speaker 6: a pole. They had bumps in their butt and I

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00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 6: was like, you.

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Speaker 1: Mean they have bumps on their butt?

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Speaker 6: They were like little they were like pole bumps. They're

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Speaker 6: called pole bumps and and and that. That was horrifying

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Speaker 6: to me.

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Speaker 5: And I never wait.

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Speaker 2: So there's a there's a there's some kind of disease

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Speaker 2: called strip her booty pole. But and it develops bumps

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Speaker 2: on the butt of.

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Speaker 5: Because all the different oil asses.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and like sliding up and down the pole.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've seen I've seen bumps on some strippers asses,

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Speaker 3: but I didn't know it was like a universal disease

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Speaker 3: it was. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just not that wasn't horrific.

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Speaker 3: It was horrific, but I just didn't think it was

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Speaker 3: like all the shippers suffer from it.

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Speaker 2: I do in Atlanta though, I.

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Speaker 1: Love the strip club. I do. It's favorite pastime of mine.

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Speaker 5: What do you like about it?

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Speaker 1: I just like looking at women and they're so friendly

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Speaker 1: and they're so nice to me, and they usually.

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Speaker 2: Have good food and there's drinks. I mean, like naked bitches, food, drinks.

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Speaker 4: Good music.

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Speaker 6: A girl strip for you that's not a stripper that

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Speaker 6: you know, or like the fact that she's a stranger

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Speaker 6: and other people are paying her as well.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that other people are paying her

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Speaker 1: and that she's a stream. That's the whole point. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. If if a girl came over here and

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Speaker 1: if I dance dance, you're.

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Speaker 2: Like thanks, but like, what the fuck are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Little risque?

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Speaker 2: I've tried. Just know she doesn't care.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 1: I like the element of money being involved for sure,

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Speaker 1: me too.

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Speaker 5: For me, I don't I feel like if I got

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Speaker 5: to pay for it. I'm a Johnny, so I like

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Speaker 5: you know, I like to finess.

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Speaker 1: I like to be with other people that pay are paying,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm encouraging them to pay her and give

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Speaker 1: me their money to pay her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's supporting the youth.

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Speaker 3: It's supporting the youth, it's supporting their kid, the youth,

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Speaker 3: the youth, the young women.

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Speaker 6: Actually, if we had another adode with you and he

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Speaker 6: was like, yo, mad this girl come over that you

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Speaker 6: don't know what's stripped for you real quick as supposed

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Speaker 6: to going and paying.

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Speaker 2: For it, well, I would think that he's trying to

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Speaker 2: put me.

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Speaker 3: He's trying to pressure me into a threesome, and I

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Speaker 3: need to see her first. Yeah, I feel like there's

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Speaker 3: more part. He's gonna think it's gonna go. He's he's

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Speaker 3: the press.

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Speaker 5: He said, Oh Dan, I want to go to strip club.

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Speaker 5: I'm like strip club.

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Speaker 6: I just called a girl over real quick, and I

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Speaker 6: call a girl she starts stripping.

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Speaker 1: That's no, it's but I like the element of many women,

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Speaker 1: not just like one.

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Speaker 6: Call five women over there get book like that.

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Speaker 2: I just think do they have special outfits? I don't

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Speaker 2: want them to come over their regular ship.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the element of just also like the men.

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Speaker 1: Seeing men so entranced by women, and I feel like

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Speaker 1: there's there's element of control that she has that I

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Speaker 1: like to You like to see men week I like

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Speaker 1: to see.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what you won't see me doing.

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Speaker 5: That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: I get it all right, Sorry to get it over.

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Speaker 5: You like the play man a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I don't like the play man.

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Speaker 5: You got one right here take make a dance on

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Speaker 5: me too?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. Yeah, like give her somebody to

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Speaker 2: make or dance on me. You take this one. Yeah

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Speaker 2: it's kind of bossy too, for as like tell her

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Speaker 2: over here.

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Speaker 6: When you haven't spend that money on you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actually I would because I have a moved.

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Speaker 1: The one this used to be like, hopefully there's enough

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Speaker 1: for that for that too.

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Speaker 6: Right, none it is.

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Speaker 5: I'd be like I need all mine.

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Speaker 2: I need every single.

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Speaker 3: Every Well, if a guy gave me the options like loud,

1245
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 3: we could go we go eat and then the strip club,

1246
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Speaker 3: or we can go eat and you could take the

1247
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Speaker 3: strip club, I'd be right at the house.

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Speaker 5: He stripped for the guy and made it rain on you.

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00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, for sure, if I'm gonna do that, that's what

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Speaker 6: I would do.

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Speaker 2: But then also there's that pressure then he thinks it's

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Speaker 2: going down. But this is not the v I P.

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Speaker 6: You know, you'd be taking niggas that take you to

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Speaker 6: the strip club and they don't get they don't get

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Speaker 6: the big payoff at the end.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that. You don't just got you to the

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Speaker 2: srip club doesn't mean need to payoff at the end.

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Speaker 1: You just leave.

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Speaker 6: Are these guys named Johnny.

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Speaker 1: Herb Herb, Herb, Herb, Johnny?

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Speaker 2: He has an idea with the guys to just pay

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00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 2: the strippers who they are. It's Herb and Johnny.

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00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 6: Herb and Johnny. Sounds like straight cousins.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, anyway, now that we've really established stars on strippers and.

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Speaker 6: Urban Johnny, I'm not mad at I just don't like

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00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 6: strip with pull bumps on girls butts. That was a

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Speaker 6: horror flick for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that seems pretty horrible in such close quarters too.

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00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 6: M hmm.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that that was like a level one

1273
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: hory for you. But I'm gonna let you slide this

1274
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 1: time because I know you and I know there's more

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00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 1: than just bumps on bitches acurious positions. Okay, that's why

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00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: I don't believe it. I know you and Rocky have

1277
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: seen some ship. So but it's cool. You can keep

1278
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 1: it secret.

1279
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 6: No horror, not a horror. Good.

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00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 2: It could be good too, It could be great. Just

1281
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 2: has to be like maybe there was six bitches.

1282
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 3: Maybe it's just going like I don't know something out

1283
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 3: of the ordinarily horrors and regular traditional sex doesn't consist of.

1284
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 5: Hornish. I think you exchange horror stories. You'd have to like,

1285
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 5: tell me one thing.

1286
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:53,840
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll send you some.

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00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 5: You send me something, I'll send you one to. Okay,

1288
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 5: let's get naked in your what type of we can naked?

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00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: Our whole podcast is us being essentially there's a lot

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00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:07,919
Speaker 1: of ship on here, a lot of horries, a lot

1291
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 1: of horries from us.

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00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 6: We've stripped down to want to see it. When you

1293
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 6: will show you us, when you show us, y'all?

1294
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: All right, all right, okay, well, thank you so kind

1295
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: of you, So glad you guys came on.

1296
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,959
Speaker 6: Thank you.

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00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 2: That's a rap for today.

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00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 1: We miss you guys. We want to come over someday again.

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00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: You have been what you call quarantine quarantining together essentially. Yeah,

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00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: but uh, thank you, thank you guys for coming on.

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Speaker 1: You can you know where you can find Damon what's

1302
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: your Instagram at Damon Dash. Let's go popping Let's go.

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Speaker 5: Poppington and go to James Studios in order to yet

1304
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 5: this is on my live right now. Ways they've been.

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00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: Checking out and Rocky where can we find you.

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00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 4: Rock Hill m Horn Instagram and studios, health as well

1307
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 4: and yoga show.

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00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 3: Yes, gos a network and you can have a subscription

1309
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 3: and see all the amazing ship they're doing over there

1310
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 3: at that gallery because he is dropping. There's cooking and

1311
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 3: Rocky can cook. There's therapy, there's.

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00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: Any music, they all everything is beautifully shot.

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00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 6: Action.

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00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 2: There's a ship over there, so always be going on.

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00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 4: They're shooting.

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Speaker 5: About to start a new movie. Yeah, yesterday I'm about

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00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 5: to start a zombie movie. If you want to be in.

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00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was just telling somebody I wanted

1319
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Speaker 2: to be in a zombie movie.

1320
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Speaker 3: Yesterday I literally was watching a zombie show on Netflix.

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00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 2: I finished the entire thing and I said, this is

1322
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 2: part of my life's work. I need to do at

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00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:49,919
Speaker 2: least one zombie movie.

1324
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Speaker 1: Well, when you find a man and make sure you

1325
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: stick with him.

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00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 2: When you find a man, that what make.

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00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 5: Sure dreams come to make sure you stick with him.

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna lead with that. When you find

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Speaker 2: a man and make your dreams, I'm true, stick.

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Speaker 1: With him, got it?

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 5: Even if he has a roll one in shades.

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Speaker 1: Even if he has what a robond in shades? A

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Speaker 1: rob You look pretty cool right now? Allright, you guys,

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Speaker 1: well you know where to find us. Add Good Mom's

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Speaker 1: Underscore Bad Choices on Instagram, follow us and make sure

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Speaker 1: you rate this episode to leave us five star reviews.

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Speaker 1: And uh, you can watch this.

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Speaker 5: More people on the zoom so like they could ask questions.

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Speaker 2: We didn't think about.

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Speaker 1: We could do another one.

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Speaker 6: Let me say you when you do we could, but

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Speaker 6: you could do your zooms with Q and A and

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Speaker 6: have people just invite people.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's do that. Let's schedule that.

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Speaker 1: That'll be fun. Maybe we'll do that on Patreon, you guys,

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Speaker 1: make sure you go follow our Patreon. You can watch

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Speaker 1: this entire episode. That's patreon dot com backslash Good Moms,

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Speaker 1: Bad Choices and maybe we'll do a smoke out with

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Speaker 1: with Dame.

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Speaker 6: Yeah we should.

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Speaker 2: What Patreon is a subscription base where you can put

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Speaker 2: more content.

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Speaker 3: And your people. There's like we have it, there's tears.

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Speaker 3: So there's like five dollars a month, ten dollars a month,

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Speaker 3: twenty dollars a month, and they get extra extra content

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Speaker 3: outside of the outside of the podcast. Yeah, just like

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Speaker 3: some exclusive ship.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what's the extra content?

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Speaker 2: Is like only fans, not like that, not quite only fans.

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Speaker 1: We have some videos that's rolling blunts.

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Speaker 2: We have some rolling blunt segment.

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Speaker 3: We also have a segment called sex Positions one on

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Speaker 3: one where Eric and I demonstrate.

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Speaker 1: Reenact sex positions.

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Speaker 5: Network.

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Speaker 2: We're professionals, so.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I mean I would only want professionals.

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Speaker 4: Do you guys recreate the sex position?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we do.

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Speaker 6: It's like it's this it is only fans.

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Speaker 1: It's not we're not naked.

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Speaker 3: We're in clothes sometimes in lingerie, very educational, sometimes in lingerie.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes in some suits.

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Speaker 1: We'll do extra content, what kind of positions, Like we.

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Speaker 6: Don't do it.

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Speaker 2: We haven't done any scissoring. Maybe we'll add that to

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Speaker 2: the thing.

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Speaker 4: So like when you is somebody a man constantly, No,

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Speaker 4: we will, We'll switch.

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Speaker 2: It depends who got the position.

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Speaker 3: If I got a new position from one of my experiences,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'll just do the demonstrating it.

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Speaker 5: What were your favorite position?

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Speaker 1: I do like doggie too.

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Speaker 2: I like Doggie too. I mean, I think it's universal.

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Speaker 2: Everybody really likes doggy.

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Speaker 1: But I also like to look deep in your eyes,

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Speaker 1: so I got to turn around.

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Speaker 2: You could look back.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what's your what are your?

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Speaker 6: What are you?

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Speaker 1: Guys?

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Speaker 5: As signsius.

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Speaker 6: And like to have sex every single day.

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Speaker 3: Really, maybe it's just Damon Dash every single day, every day,

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Speaker 3: must have sex, Tauris. I agree, though, the more sex

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Speaker 3: a day the better. It's like laughing. It's good for

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Speaker 3: your soul. It's also therapeutic.

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Speaker 6: I just like looking at Rocky Field.

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Speaker 2: Good, Rocky looks like she needs a break, Like no, please, please.

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Speaker 1: You guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I saw the blank. We're on our way, you know,

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Speaker 2: I know where you live? On our way be outside.

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Speaker 1: Way outside Rocky Well, can we got you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Bye?

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Speaker 1: All right, guys. We love you guys. Thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for coming on you soon. Bye, Thank you guys so

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Speaker 1: much for joining us. Make sure you rate and review

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Speaker 1: And we're sorry for the sound. We're still trying to

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Speaker 1: navigate this whole Zoom life situation with guests and Mike's

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Speaker 1: we're trying to get it together, trying to get together.

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Speaker 1: Be patient with us anyway. We hope you guys have

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Speaker 1: a wonderful week and we'll catch you guys next Wednesday.