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Speaker 2: Go Dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So often I think about something in my childhood, and

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Speaker 3: it hit me this morning on my way in, and

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Speaker 3: it was the fact that I had a best friend

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Speaker 3: and I would go to sleep over at her house

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Speaker 3: from time to time, and her mom had this very

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Speaker 3: strange rule about the kitchen. So, you know, one night,

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Speaker 3: I was like, hey, you know, it's like eight o'clock.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, let's go get a snack, Let's go

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Speaker 3: get something to drink. She's like, oh no, we can't.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, what do you mean. It's like

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Speaker 3: plenty a juice down in your friends, you know like

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Speaker 3: what She's like, Oh no, the kitchen closes at seven pm.

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Speaker 3: Stop it, no, seriously.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm like, like the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: She's like she's like, yeah, like my mom said, the

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Speaker 3: kitchen closes at seven pm. We're not allowed in the

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Speaker 3: kitchen after seven pm. I could not believe this. My mom,

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Speaker 3: like little twelve year old child KEI was like, girl,

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Speaker 3: I eat snacks all day.

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Speaker 2: You tell me we can't go get a snack. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I gotta go home.

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Speaker 3: So I just thought about it because I'm like, what

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Speaker 3: a sad life At seven pm? You cannot even get thirsty,

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Speaker 3: you know. You know as a kid, I would just

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Speaker 3: go open the fridge just to hang out, like you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, just to see what's in there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, it'll change.

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Speaker 1: That was the best part about going to some of

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Speaker 1: my friends houses because we didn't It wasn't like we

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Speaker 1: didn't have a lot of like food and stuff. We

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Speaker 1: had food and whatever, but uh, some of my friends

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Speaker 1: had the garage fridge that had every every pop imaginable yep,

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Speaker 1: I mean everything, and it was just go out there

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Speaker 1: and just have that, and we didn't really have. My

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Speaker 1: mom went like that. She wouldn't buying, you know, I

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Speaker 1: mean eight varieties of whatever. And then they had like

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Speaker 1: like serious snack drawers and serious candy and stuff, and

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Speaker 1: we didn't really have that. But there were certain friends

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Speaker 1: you knew when you went to their house, you know,

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Speaker 1: it was odd.

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Speaker 3: That was kind of the thrill of sleeping over somebody's house,

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Speaker 3: like you would see their snack variety versus what you

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Speaker 3: have at home.

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Speaker 2: It would always be something different that.

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Speaker 3: They would have and you would clearly take advantage. But

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Speaker 3: not at this girl's house. And I'm just like, And

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Speaker 3: when we actually snuck down there one time, and her

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Speaker 3: mom was like, what are y'all doing?

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Speaker 2: And so I just wanted to see.

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Speaker 3: But her mom actually took the dining room table chairs

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Speaker 3: and like put them up on the table like.

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Speaker 1: A rest of rocket was like the floor.

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Speaker 2: Yes, really, this is crazy.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, what other strange rules did people

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Speaker 3: have for their kid?

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't know. I don't think I had any

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Speaker 2: strange rules in my house.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I knew about people who liked the front

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Speaker 1: room as they called in the Midwest, But there was

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Speaker 1: like the living room that nobody ever went in. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was all on the chairs and the seats and

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Speaker 1: everybody like nobody was allowed to go in that room.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what was the point of having that room? Then? Right?

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Speaker 4: Nana wouldn't let me wash my hands in the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: She would want me to go to the kitchen to

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Speaker 4: wash my hands, so I wouldn't like dirty the sinker,

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Speaker 4: use the towels.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, yeah, wash my hands in the kitchen. Primarily

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to have to use the like

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Speaker 1: the decent towels that I have folded nicely. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: ye in my own house, Okay, because they're nice towels.

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Speaker 1: I have nice towels. Oh you know, it was.

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Speaker 3: The opposite for me, Like we were not allowed, like

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Speaker 3: don't wash our hands in my kitchen.

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Speaker 2: Go in the bathroom and we will wash our hands

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Speaker 2: in newspaper towel.

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Speaker 1: We may have to come back to this, but I

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Speaker 1: would love to know. Did you guys have any anything

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Speaker 1: to come to mind, any rules that like nobody else had. Mmm.

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Speaker 5: My house was the only house that you didn't take

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Speaker 5: your shoes off in, So like when I started going

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Speaker 5: to other people's houses, I was like, wait, why do

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Speaker 5: you take your shoes off? Yeah, like you were just

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Speaker 5: coming to like hang out and grab something like yeah,

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Speaker 5: you would just walk in.

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Speaker 1: Someone just texted my parents closed the kitchen at eight

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Speaker 1: o'clock too. It's so weird. What were the parents doing

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen, Like what were they cooking?

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Speaker 3: She clean and she was like, you are nobody is

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Speaker 3: allowed to go in the kitchen after seven o'clock.

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Speaker 2: And I just thought that was abuse. I thought that

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Speaker 2: was crazy.

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Speaker 1: The number of people are texting saying that that's that

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Speaker 1: was the rule. See their parents closed the kitchen. I

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Speaker 1: mean I had rules. We've talked about this before, but

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Speaker 1: I had rules well into my adult life that I

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Speaker 1: thought like. I mean, I was very much in college.

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Speaker 1: I went to college one thousand miles away from home.

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Speaker 1: I had my own apartment. But yeah, when I was

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Speaker 1: home during college, and I think into my early career,

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Speaker 1: I was expected to be back in the house when

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Speaker 1: I was back home at a decent tower, like a curfew. Basically,

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Speaker 1: I'm like mohamma grown up, and her thing was, well,

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Speaker 1: you're in my house and I'm going to stay up

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Speaker 1: until you get home, and so it would be rude

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Speaker 1: for you to stay out. She doesn't do that anymore.

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Speaker 1: I mean, thank god, but that one. See I don't

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Speaker 1: because I mean, I get the thing where you worry

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Speaker 1: about your kids, but I would be more worried about

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Speaker 1: when I'm a thousand miles away from home and what

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Speaker 1: I can get into then where you can't save me.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing you can do.

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Speaker 4: But you know they're never coming home when you're away,

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Speaker 4: but when they are home, you're waiting for them to

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Speaker 4: come home.

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Speaker 1: I would wait up for you to get in the house. See,

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Speaker 1: I would think it would be harder for me to

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Speaker 1: get past the notion that they can do whatever they want. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you can't do anything about that. You can't do

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Speaker 1: anything about it, I guess. Yeah, I want to know

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Speaker 1: that you're home and asleep.

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Speaker 3: That used to really annoy me. My sister, you know,

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Speaker 3: she raised me. She would be like, it's a respect thing.

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Speaker 3: You don't come in my house at two at three

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Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning. I'm like, but you know, when

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Speaker 3: I'm away, I come in whenever I want. I didn't

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Speaker 3: understand that either. I'm with you on that for it.

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Speaker 1: Someone texted, not allowed on the front lawn, but the

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Speaker 1: backyard was okayh wow, really huh. We're gonna put this

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Speaker 1: on TikTok and put it on the Instagram too, and

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Speaker 1: maybe we'll get back to it on the airs. But

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Speaker 1: that is only two hours of internet in a day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think that's uncommon Back in the day,

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Speaker 1: when you were paying life for a minute.

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Speaker 4: All right, yeah right, or if you had to use

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Speaker 4: the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right after nine, after nine, the minutes were free.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you have to kind of with kids especially.

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Speaker 1: I feel like these days you would have to control

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Speaker 1: the screen time somewhat a little bit. Otherwise, what would

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Speaker 1: prevent your kid from just staring at it all day

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Speaker 1: every day? Like go outside. I have a friend who

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Speaker 1: has a teenage daughter, and it's like, go outside. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: He's like, we live in a beautiful place. Like go out,

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Speaker 1: it's beauty. Take the phone outside, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like go talk to some of these people who you're

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Speaker 1: talking to live down the street where you could go

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Speaker 1: see them. You can speak to them in like face

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Speaker 1: to face. But nobody wants to do that. So I

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Speaker 1: guess that one I could see maybe yeah, but wow,

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Speaker 1: closed kitchen in your own Was it because they didn't

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Speaker 1: want to make it dirty? Maybe?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of reasons, And you know what,

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Speaker 3: it might it may have been a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Somebody should have closed my kitchen.

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Speaker 3: Chow.

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Speaker 2: That's the problem now,