1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: Start at the beginning. Okay, I've all the way back 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: to the beginning. 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: So in kindergarten, my mom sent me to school with 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 2: the underpants when the elastic band was shot, and as 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 2: I was walking off the bus, they slowly started creeping down. 6 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 3: I didn't want to pull them up because I was like, 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 3: everyone will. 8 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: See my bum So I just watched into class with 9 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: the underpants around my ankles. 10 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 3: Calm Down with Erin and Chrissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 11 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 3: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down Podcast mid July. 12 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: My Gal's looking a little Lebron's there with a beautiful backdrop. 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: If you listen to the pregame show this week, we 14 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: have got a lot to discuss. My gal already had 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: a busy day today as well in the big show. 16 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 3: Lots to discuss here. 17 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: I am back on Instagram and I'm not sure my 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: love hate relationship with it because I have to talk 19 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: about people saying the word obsess. 20 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: I got to talk about things. 21 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: This one video that I saw that I sent to you, 22 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: actually I think I sent it off the Calm Down 23 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: Podcast about how you know if your spouse or significant 24 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: other is mad at you. 25 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 3: I never see it. 26 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's so funny, and it got me 27 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: thinking about how we know if Jared or Steve's mad 28 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: atess we'll talk about that. Aaron is taking up a 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: new sport and also starts therapy. So everyone settle in 30 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: the bag week favorite beverage, your coffee, whatever it is 31 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: that you do while you're listening to the podcast, because 32 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: we're going to get into it. So, my darling, start 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: us off. What would you like to talk about first? 34 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 2: I just noticed from one of our friends who was 35 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: in a tennis skirt last week that our legs look fire. 36 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: I have a totally different body shape than hers. But listen, like, 37 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: I'm in a real hit cardio slash pilates era in 38 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: my life, which I'm enjoying, but I also want to 39 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: be out in the elements. I want to be adorable. 40 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: I want to like try different things. I know I'm 41 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: late to the pickleball experience. There's been a couple of 42 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 2: times this week I wanted to try beginner lessons, but 43 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: I just didn't have the courage to do it. So 44 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: I looked at my better half and I said, will 45 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 2: you please take me to the pickleball courts? And we 46 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: could try to get a little rally going. 47 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: So I went. 48 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 2: I didn't love my outfit I showed up with, so 49 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: I went right down to the pro shop and I 50 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: bought a full fledged off it and I don't care 51 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: who's looking, and I did, and I even put the 52 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: balls like up my short so I didn't have to 53 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: run around and get them, you. 54 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: Know, the one that they do. 55 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: I just watched Wimbledon yesterday and I was thinking of 56 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: myself about, like, how's cool that move is And they 57 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: hold like walls and they put in the skirt and 58 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 1: the whole thing and then you bend over and you 59 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: tap tap tap and serve. 60 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: Okay, their legs are a fire. They're cardio like what 61 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: they're able to do cardio. So here's the thing I 62 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 2: am going to take a lesson this week. I'm a 63 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 2: little nervous about. But man, so many things to take 64 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 2: from it. First of all, I haven't showered since I went. 65 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 2: I threw this on because I had another meeting before this, 66 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: so I am ripe and disgusting. I can't wait the 67 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: shower after this cute. I don't know where the weight 68 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 2: placement is like when I'm like bouncing around, I know, 69 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: like I'm supposed to stay back in the middle so 70 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: you can run up. I can also see why people 71 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 2: get really really injured such bursts breaking running. 72 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 3: I want to kind of get good. 73 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 2: I won't have any time during this season to do this, 74 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie to you. Every five seconds, 75 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 2: I kept looking down at my legs, being like, how's 76 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: the tonis going any better? 77 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 3: Getting better? The kitchen. 78 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: You've got that whole area in the front that's known 79 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: as the kitchen. But yeah, there's a lot of and 80 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: you're probably gonna wake up tomorrow and be sore and 81 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: like small little like pitch muscles that you're not. 82 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 3: Used to using. 83 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: But you're very active. You are like the most disciplined 84 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: person I know. When it comes to working out. I 85 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: go through spurts where I'm like, I'm either really into 86 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: it or not. And when I'm at the ranch, I 87 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: don't like have a like I don't have a gym here, 88 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: but I'm like, I don't need a gym because it's 89 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: all manual labor, So like that's my workout. But yeah, 90 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm into the idea of pick aball as soon as 91 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll play with you anytime. 92 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 3: I'm not good. 93 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: I think, well, I mean every now and then, I 94 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: think that's the appeal of pickleball because you don't have 95 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: to be Look, I don't want to paint ourselves with 96 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: this brush. But we are athletic, so this is going 97 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: to be not that athletic. I'm not you are you are? 98 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: You know, A ball, change, one, two, step, all the things. 99 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: So I think that that's something that we could do together. 100 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: I'm happy to go find some courts near us when 101 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: we come back. And here's the issue that I have 102 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: now that we're like, hey, we're in on pickleball, but 103 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 1: now people are talking about this padel or paddle or. 104 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 3: How is that? I'm looking it up real quick. What 105 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: is it? 106 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: It's it's basically like a rich person's pickleball, I think, 107 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: or or a version because they have like you have 108 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 1: to have, like pickle ball. I feel like you can 109 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: play on a tennis court if you really needed to, 110 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: you would like tape off the you know, the difference 111 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: in size. But padel or paddle, whatever the fuck they 112 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: want to call it, has walls and so you have 113 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 1: to like that's a very specific setup and you I 114 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: think it's like a hybrid between racketball. 115 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm probably getting it wrong. Anyways, people 116 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 3: now that I'm a going at it, what's so different 117 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,919 Speaker 3: about it? I don't you wall? You don't. 118 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like it's in a like your like walled situation, 119 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: so you can play off the walls. 120 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 3: How many times can I say wall from the window 121 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 3: to the wall? I never know? 122 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: It's the window over here or is the wall over 123 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: here backside of the wall. 124 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 125 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: So if anyone listening plays this sport, tell me which 126 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: pronunciation we're using, and also why it's better or. 127 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 3: Becoming like a more I don't know. Fancy wow. 128 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 2: Seventy eight countries worldwide, thirty thousand courts worldwide. 129 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 3: I'm looking at this. What is padel get pidell certified today? 130 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, just when we got into pickleball, now they're 131 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: changing it on us. So here's love some pickleball. That guy, oh, 132 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm Chris Maers. I can't wait to see him at 133 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: the Fox Gallery. We're about to have what a tone 134 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: and everybody at that that'll be great. Use me, don't 135 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: put your phone on silent during a podcast. This is 136 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: the first time anyone ring tone. I don't know what 137 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: that ringtone is? Can someone tell me your phone? 138 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. 139 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: It sounds like a UFO someone took over. I don't 140 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: know why. I got a pretty good uh no, that's 141 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: just a spam call. I don't know how to get 142 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: off this fucking spam list. 143 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 3: I swear to god. 144 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: I mean it's like I know everyone on a rant 145 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: about this before, but it's worth saying again. Every time 146 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: you go and buy something, it's like, we need your 147 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: phone number, and it's like oh, and then they like 148 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: shame me. It's like, oh, you don't want to save 149 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: twenty percent today by giving us your phone? 150 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 3: No, I don't. 151 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: And I don't want the credit card. I don't want 152 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: any of that. I want to not give you my 153 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: phone number. I want to not give you my email. Okay, 154 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: well then you can't. 155 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 3: Get a receipt. 156 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: It's like you're holding the receipt hostage. Well you can't 157 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: take it back without the receipt, so now I'm screwed. 158 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: So if I don't give you all my information, fun, 159 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: I'm just going to make up the number. I'm going 160 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: to make up my email. I'm going to make up 161 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: my number, and now you're going to be pissed because 162 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,679 Speaker 1: now I'm just giving you a bunch of bullshit. 163 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 3: So which one do you want? Just print out the 164 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,559 Speaker 3: receipt or I'm never coming back to the store. 165 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: It's crazy. I hate these spam calls. That was an 166 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: incredible monologue. These scammers are getting really good. I don't 167 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: have Guyic insurance. Okay, never had guy Co insurance. I've 168 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: gotten these like print like these things in the mail 169 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: that look exactly like bills that are guy Co insurance. 170 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: It says like, oh, you're overdue on your payments. So 171 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: then I call my insurance guy. I'm like, are we 172 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: sure I don't have Geico? He's like, you don't have 173 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: Geico for anything? And I'm like, the scammers are getting incredible. 174 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: And then there's the one eight hundred number on there. 175 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: So then I call the one eight hundred number and 176 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: there's actually like a customer service person and then it's 177 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: like they're just like, oh, well, just give us your 178 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: credit card over the phone. I'm not stupid, so I 179 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: know not to give my credit card over the phone. 180 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: But what happens to these four innocent people that are like, Okay, 181 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: well my bill's overdue, so here's my information. The scammers 182 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: are getting really good with the information they are and 183 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: with that, we are all out of time today. 184 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but like I feel that was amazing. They're 185 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 3: getting really good. 186 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: The whole thing where they're praying on elders, Like that's 187 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,559 Speaker 2: so sad. It is because it's like I think about 188 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm almost in the elder category and I 189 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 2: know not to do it, but it's like, there's gonna 190 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: come a point. 191 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: Did I ever tell you about the time that someone 192 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: called me. This is when I was really young and 193 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: they're like, oh my god, you haven't paid your taxes. 194 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: You have to get to a target and you have 195 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: to go to the counter and you have to pay. 196 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 3: And yeah, it was like they. 197 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: Say, go to target, I swear to God, And I 198 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 1: was like, wait, what I know. 199 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 3: That's when scammers were bad. Now scammers are good. 200 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: Now they're sending me Geico bills that look exactly like 201 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: it with the get go on it and everything. 202 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 3: No, No, I'm a state farm gal. AnyWho. 203 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: So that's what's going on in my neck of the woods. 204 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: I was playing pickleball. Oh okay, so I'm back on 205 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: Instagram and I've gotta okay something I need to bring 206 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: up here go obsessed, I'm obsessed. You're back on Instagram. 207 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: I am sick. I'm banning the word obsessed. Tell me why, 208 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 1: because that's all people say. I'm obsessed with this. I'm 209 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 1: obsessed with that. 210 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 3: So I'm obsessed with the latest trend over here. Let 211 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: me show you how I do it. 212 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: I'm not obsessed with the voices people are using on 213 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: these Instagram. 214 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: Hey, guys, let me just show you what I've been 215 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 3: up to in the kitchen today. I've whipped up this. 216 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna whip you in the face if you 217 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: say this so seductive. It's so sedest. It's like the 218 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: even keel, Like, hey guys, so monotone. I'm over here, 219 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: and I decided to really ramp up my content by 220 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: recording what stop talking like that? 221 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 3: No one talks like that because you guys. 222 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: Okay, So let's power rank annoying things that people do 223 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram. Okay, do not post an attractive picture of 224 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: yourself and write some quote okay by a or to 225 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: say you know whatever, Oscar Wilde, It's like, you know, I. 226 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 3: Looked into the deep blue seat, bitch. No, you just 227 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 3: thought you looked good. 228 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: So post the picture of yourself looking real good, and 229 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: the caption should say I look good. That's it, okay, 230 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: so good, Like enough of these deep seated quotes. I 231 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: think I probably used to do that back in the day, 232 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: where it was like I was like, oh, I'm. 233 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: Just going to be like so demir, no, just say 234 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: you look good? 235 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: Okay, Like enough with this like ridiculous quote that accompanies 236 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: you in a bathing suit, Like you brought this up 237 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 1: last week and you had such a good point. 238 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, just say you know what, it took me forty 239 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: five pictures to find this one. 240 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: Forty five pictures. Yeah, and I look incredible. Say that, yeah, 241 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: because you know what, I will like that post. I'm 242 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: not gonna like it if you give me some inspiration. 243 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: Chicken Soup for the Soul? Is that still a book 244 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: that people are reading? Because I love those books. But 245 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: so that's my issue. You post a picture of yourself 246 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: and you look great, say you look great? 247 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 3: Two. 248 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: Stop saying you're ups with everything, because now I don't know, 249 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: you're obsessed with literally everything, the food, the new pillow, 250 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: the new outfit. No, pick one thing to be obsessed with. 251 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: And that's where you get to use the word. The 252 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: other thing I don't like is these people doing tutorials 253 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: and they're tap tap tapping. 254 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 3: On the product. Now here's what I mean. And they 255 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: do this. 256 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: What is they They hold the product up, Nate, this 257 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: is my moisturizer. I use Why would tappen? And here's 258 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: the problem. This started with one influencer. Now all the 259 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: influencers think that they got to tap on the product. 260 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to tap on it. Okay, tap the 261 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: link and I'll buy the product. But if you're tapping 262 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: on the product, I'm not gonna buy it. I'm not 263 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: gonna use the discount code. And your insights are going 264 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: to be really bad for that company that is paying. 265 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: You to post that thing. Okay, so stop pupping. Hey, 266 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 3: I worked up other words for obsessed, the sourus. 267 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 2: So your mom, I'm captivated, dominated, no strong, matches, bedeviled, beset, bewitch, controlled, 268 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 2: doctor I don't understand is working out. 269 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 3: Those are synonyms bewitch for obsessed. 270 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: Captivated, dominated, haunted, preoccupied, troubled. 271 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 3: What are you sure we're on synonyms? Huh? Okay, Okay, 272 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 3: we'll keep looking. 273 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I apologize if I have done any of these 274 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: things on Instagram. At any point in my fifteen years 275 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 1: on this platform, say the word obsessed, tap on the product, 276 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: and or post a picture and use some inspirational quote. No, no, 277 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:38,839 Speaker 1: and not these times we are It's crazy anyways, That's 278 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: what I've been up to. It's just judging everybody on Instagram. 279 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: This is why I go off of it, is because 280 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: I just need to put my efforts into other things, 281 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: not judging other people. But right now it's like they're 282 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: giving me so much material to work with. 283 00:12:52,000 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 3: I got it, sister, I get it all right. 284 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 2: Tapping pickleball, We've done that. I'm starting therapy this week. 285 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: I'm really excited. I don't know how about you, but 286 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 2: the first week is always top the first couple of 287 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 2: visits because that's the cry session. 288 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 3: I feel like we got to really dig in there. 289 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, as an expert in therapy, I'm obsessed with therapy. 290 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: I do not like the first few sessions with a 291 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: new therapist because you gotta go bring back all the 292 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: things right in therapy. Thinking I already have the answers, 293 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, no, it's not daddy issues. I literally 294 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: said it's to my therapist when I started. I go, 295 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: I love my dad, So pick a different category because 296 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: you're not gonna get anywhere with that one. And so 297 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: thats is like looking at me like, oh, this chick 298 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: thinks she has all the answers. 299 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 3: Why is she even here you need me for? Yeah, exactly. 300 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: So the first few sessions are tough for me is 301 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: because it's just like, it's probably why I stay with 302 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: the same therapists we need. 303 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta go like, you know, deep in. 304 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: The recesses and really sort of set the stage of 305 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 1: why and how you ended up here in this room 306 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: like a little waiting area that you have to wait in, 307 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: and you're like, do. 308 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 3: We mine on zoom? I'm so excited you. 309 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: I think that the room thing, Yeah, that's that'll be 310 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: good for you. I think you talk about the room thing. 311 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: What do you mean the room thing? Anyone that's been 312 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: to therapy, you know the room you go in and 313 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: you have to push the button and let the therapist 314 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: know that you're there, and you're like sitting in the 315 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: room by yourself, and it's just like feels like you're 316 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: about to like go into confessional or something, and it's 317 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: just like lonely and you feel sad and there's like 318 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: these magazines on like how to help your life and 319 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: are you depressed? 320 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 3: Why? So I am excited for you. 321 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 1: For the zoom thing because then you'll be in your 322 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: own element, you'll have your coffee, you won't feel like 323 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: it's sterile. 324 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 3: True. True, Yeah, we'll see. I really want to keep 325 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 3: it up. I really do. 326 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: I went with the rest while last time I went 327 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 2: was actually before my trial, kind of in the week. 328 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 3: No, that's not true. It was after my dad. It 329 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 3: was after my trial. 330 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: I think it was after my trial because I just, yeah, 331 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: felt like I had had a lot of stuff I 332 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 2: had to kind of unpack. 333 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 3: It was. 334 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very, very helpful, and then my dad 335 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 2: got sick and I went again. I just need to 336 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 2: keep it up, and that's a hard thing to do, 337 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: especially with you know, after next month, it's going to 338 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: be like I don't really have time, but I want 339 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 2: to make time for it. 340 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 3: I will say that. So is it somebody new that 341 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 3: you're going to? Okay? 342 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: Was it a referral from somebody I don't have? Okay, 343 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm ready for a new therapist, so we won't go 344 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: to the same one. I think that's too close to home. 345 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: But if anyone in the Greater Los Angeles actually doesn't 346 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: matter if it's on Zoom, it doesn't I would like 347 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: a new therapist too. I've tried out a few. I'm 348 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: not really clicking with anyone. But I will say for 349 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: your situation for therapy, I think because you're somebody that 350 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: is very dedicated, if you want to do something, you'll 351 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: stick with it. So I don't foresee this being a 352 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: problem for you. But I will also if you're not 353 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: asking me to, but hold you accountable because you will 354 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: be like very diligent about working out or doing certain 355 00:15:58,720 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: things that you want. 356 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 3: So just make it up priority. What are you trying 357 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 3: to do? Yeah, I don't know. I'm gonna I'm gonna 358 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 3: ask the old doc what they think I should. 359 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: Do them the doc or what are they might I 360 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: tell you at the time that Steve and I went 361 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: to couple's therapy together, what even couples therapy was my 362 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: therapist and he was great. 363 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: He was like, hey, I think that you should bring Steven. 364 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: And this is like right when we first started like dating, 365 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: because a lot of my issues was from my past relationships, 366 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,239 Speaker 1: and so Steve. 367 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 3: Had never been to therapy before. 368 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: Well, you can only imagine what Steve O was like 369 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: in the old therapist thing. 370 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 3: So we go in. 371 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: He's like, hey, Doc, how's it going, you know, just 372 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: like jumps in, all jovial. It's convened. He goes, which 373 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: cou should I sit on? Does it matter where I sit? 374 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: Do I put the pillow behind my back? 375 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 3: Do I have it? 376 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna The therapist is like cracking up things. He's 377 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: so funny, and now Steve's asking the therapist questions. Pretty 378 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: soon the session's over and I've gotten nothing out of it, 379 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: and Steve and the therapists are bonding and laughing hysterically. 380 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: And so then when I go to the next therapy 381 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: session and I start bitching about Steve, the therapist goes, 382 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with Steve. It seems 383 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 1: Steve seemed like a great guy. Well, now I've released 384 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 1: I've got a problem. 385 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 3: Exactly. 386 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: It's me, Hi, I'm the problem. It's me because now 387 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: he thinks Steve is so great. Anytime I bitched about 388 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, I didn't get that. I'm like yeah, 389 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: because he was doing his whole stand up comedy routine. Okay, exactly, 390 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: So don't bring Jarrett to therapy. 391 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't bring your significant other. It's about me, not 392 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 2: about how great they are. 393 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:27,199 Speaker 1: I know. 394 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 2: But the woman asked me today, she was like, so, 395 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 2: what do you really want to focus on? 396 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 3: And I said, well, I don't know. I got a 397 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 3: lot of stuff. Let me dive right in. 398 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: So yeah, oh my god, this is so cathartic. Though, 399 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 1: I feel like it's like you, you know, I don't 400 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: hear from the start at the beginning, Okay, dive all 401 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 1: the way back to the beginning. 402 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 2: So in kindergarten, my mom sent me to school with 403 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 2: underpants when the elastic band was shot, and as I 404 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 2: was walking off the bus, they slowly started creeping down. 405 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 3: I didn't want to pull them off. I guess I 406 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 3: was like, everyone will see my bomb. 407 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 2: So I just walked into class with the underpants around 408 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 2: my ankles. 409 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 3: And my mom felt so bad. 410 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 2: Because, oh my god, we just moved from Maine to 411 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: San Antonio and the moving truck wasn't there yet. So 412 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 2: my mom's like, these were the last pair of undies. 413 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 2: They were shot for you. I threw them on. I 414 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 2: thought it a Merina dress. They fall down. I walked 415 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 2: to class underwear around the ankles kindergarten. 416 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm Aaron Andrews. It's my first day. How are 417 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 3: we doing? My god, you're adorable. All hold them up. 418 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,439 Speaker 3: You're fine. You don't want any want to see my bomb? 419 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god? 420 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: You want to know what's funny that was? That was 421 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: you in kindergarten. I'm forty three, forty three years old, 422 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: and here's my therapy. Hi, I'm Carissa. Welcome to therapy. 423 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: This is my therapy session. I'm in a dress, and 424 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: don't worry, I wear shorts underneath them. 425 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 3: You do want a horrible You want to know. 426 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 1: Why I wear shorts on me, because that's from my 427 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: trauma in elementary school when I was on the bar 428 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: and you'd remember the bar that you go on and 429 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: you'd flip over it, and I flipped and then my 430 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: skirt went up because I thought I was gonna flip 431 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: back over and it wasn't gonna be an issue. No, 432 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: it went up and everyone saw my underwear and I 433 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: was so embarrassed. And so to this day, if I'm 434 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 1: wearing a no one's even here at the ranch. 435 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 3: No one's here. 436 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 1: It's just me. But I'm also like on the ranch, 437 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: no one needs to just be like in a thong 438 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: underneath you, underneath your dress as there's like bugs going 439 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: up my dress. But I'm like, I'm gonna wear boys 440 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: shorts on anytime there's like a like a really short skirt. 441 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,719 Speaker 1: So that's what I'm up to, is still being traumatized 442 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: from the Friday flip up Day, you know. 443 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 3: Pressure with us? 444 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 2: Do you think it all started there Friday flip up 445 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 2: Day in kindergarten? 446 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 3: Your undieser shot? I mean, have I thought about them? 447 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 2: You know the rubber band that kind of comes out 448 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 2: of the elastic, like they were like, yeah, I remember it, 449 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 2: like yeah. 450 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: Couldn't stay up my little skinny bomb. Oh my god. 451 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: So when they're like, oh, is it daddy issues? No, 452 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: it was underwearing underwear issues? 453 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah. 454 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 2: But did there peer pants in school when you were younger? 455 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,919 Speaker 2: Did you ever peer pants in school when you were younger? 456 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 3: In school? 457 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: I peed my pants like five years ago when I 458 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: was drinking too much. 459 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 2: I usually keep my pants when I'm with you, So 460 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 2: that's an issue. 461 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 3: I peed my pants when Here we Go. 462 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 2: When we were filming that show with Ken Jong, like 463 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: we were just laughing so hard and so tired like 464 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: I peed my pants. 465 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 3: I was just like, it is what it is. 466 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: I know, and I'm never I've never birthed a child, 467 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: so I can only imagine I don't have a strong bladder, 468 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 1: as we've discussed it later on this show, hence the UTIs. 469 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: But anyone struggling with UTIs. Guys, by the way, if 470 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:57,199 Speaker 1: you're listening, you're welcomed. I've found out why I was 471 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: getting them all the time is because I don't go 472 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 1: to the bathroom. 473 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 3: I have to go to the bathroom because it's like 474 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 3: I don't want to have to go to that. 475 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: So now when I feel like I have to go, 476 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,479 Speaker 1: I go to the bathroom like a big girl. And 477 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: I don't get uts anymore because my bladder was weakening. 478 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: And that is why not a medical term, but that 479 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 1: is what ended up happening. So you're welcome, everybody. If 480 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,880 Speaker 1: you're having excessive UTIs, and it's not from having sex 481 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: and not going to the bathroom, it's probably because you're 482 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: holding your pee and you're being lazy and not going 483 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: to the bathroom. 484 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 3: You know, we're just in your pants. Sure do what? 485 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 3: I peed my pants in first grade, I think, and 486 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:33,719 Speaker 3: I'll never forget it. 487 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you can tell Brian is really into these stories 488 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 2: that you've reminding of remaining topics. Sorry, Ry, we're just 489 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: talking about peeing our pants remaining topics when your boyfriend 490 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 2: husband knows your mouth. 491 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: Okay, So I saw I thought I sent it to 492 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: you on Instagram, maybe from the Calm Down thing because 493 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 1: it's worth it's worth revisiting. 494 00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:00,239 Speaker 3: But maybe not. Maybe not? Maybe not? Maybe not? Did 495 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 3: I not? I don't know another account? 496 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, here on, I finally got logged into the 497 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: old Instagram account for us calm Down? 498 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 3: Did I not send it to you? Because it's really funny? 499 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on on, hold on, hold. 500 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 1: On, Oh yeah, here it is. Okay. Four signs that 501 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: your girlfriend's got into you. Strength increases by ninety percent. 502 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: We'll put it up on the uh show me okay, 503 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: hold on, I'll start it over. Hold on, hold on, 504 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: strength increases by ninety percent. Oh yeah, that's valid, fifty percent, 505 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 1: desire to be touched decreases eighty percent, and her ability 506 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 1: to listen or to me as zero. So it made 507 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: me laugh. If you guys were listening to that and 508 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 1: it was ambient noise. I'll explain it this guy's in 509 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: the grocery store and he's basically just outlining how he 510 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: knows his girlfriend's like pissed him. And it's so true 511 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 1: because I was anytime I'm mad at Steve, and like 512 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 1: then I'm like, I'm just going to do everything myself 513 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: where it's like if my thumb's even like hurting and 514 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: broken right now, and I'm. 515 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 3: Like, I don't give the fuck. 516 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to lift up that cooler. I'm going to 517 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: do everything I want like to do without asking for 518 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 1: his helf. I got it exactly, and I got it's 519 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: like talking to me, I definitely heard him, and I'll 520 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,679 Speaker 1: pretend like I don't hear him, and he's like, did 521 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 1: you hear me? 522 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 3: I'll wait for him to say did you hear me? 523 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:24,640 Speaker 3: The third time? 524 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 1: Then finally I'm like, yeah, I heard you, So I'll 525 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: ignore him. And I was trying to think about some 526 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: of the other things that he oh, like if he 527 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 1: texts and I'm mad at him, I'll wait all day 528 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: to respond to the point where like he's then called, 529 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 1: he's put a question mark on the text, and I'll 530 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,959 Speaker 1: just completely ignore him. And I'm trying to think of 531 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: some of the other things I do. So what do 532 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: you do when Jared's mad at or you're mad at Jared? 533 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: I just give a look. 534 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 3: Like, oh the look. Okay, are you a. 535 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 1: Silent treatment person, because I'll also give the silent treatment. 536 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 2: I wish I was a silent treatment person. I think 537 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 2: that would help my life a little bit more. Unfortunately, 538 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,479 Speaker 2: I think you need to hear what I'm thinking, and 539 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: that's not great. 540 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm both Actually, I'll give you the silent treatment, but 541 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: then once that silent treatment's over, I just unleash. And 542 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: I actually am trying to be better hence therapy on 543 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: my communication. So like, if I'm mad at him for something, 544 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,719 Speaker 1: I don't want to keep it silent. 545 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: I'll say to him, like I walked. 546 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: In the room the other night and I was like, 547 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: so the reason why I was acting like that was 548 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: because da da da, And I was like, in an 549 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: effort and this is how I started, in an effort 550 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: to over communicate, this is why I was acting like that, 551 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 1: Da da da. And then give him a chance to respond, 552 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 1: and I think it's helpful, But yeah, I don't want 553 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: to have the same bad habits that I've had in 554 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 1: my past. And I like Steve enough to want to 555 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 1: resolve them, but I go through phases where I want 556 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 1: to be really mature about it, and then other times 557 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: I want to just be like and that's not good either. 558 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 2: I want and this also goes back to the therapy 559 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 2: session or therapy that I'm going to start doing. I 560 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 2: want to be able to communicate better. I know that 561 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: I'm not dragging you into this, but you are dragged 562 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: into this right now. 563 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 3: You and I carry a lot. 564 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 2: We are doing a lot, probably more than a normal 565 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 2: person should do responsibility wise. We just have a lot 566 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 2: going on, and I feel like when I am kind 567 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 2: of carrying a little too much, doing a little too much, 568 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: my patience is way too thin and my communication isn't fantastic. 569 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 2: That's not his fault that I've decided to juggle seventeen 570 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 2: things at once. I also get really not frustrated with 571 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 2: the baby, but I just I wanted to go so 572 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 2: well because I know my time is so limited with him. 573 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 2: Like today we got up and Jarrett was sleeping in 574 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 2: and so I got up with the baby and I 575 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 2: was trying to help feed him and so forth. He's 576 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 2: not even a baby anymore. I just say that, and 577 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 2: he's just in a phase right now. I heard this 578 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: happens when you turn two. 579 00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 3: No, no, and union new a lot. We don't want 580 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 3: to eat. 581 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 2: I want to eat because we're going to kids camp like, 582 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 2: and we just don't want to eat, and nothing's making 583 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 2: us happy and we don't want to put a new 584 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 2: diaper on and we don't and I'm like, okay, buddy, 585 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 2: and I hear myself and I would say no to 586 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 2: me too. No, mom, you're annoying as hell. And I 587 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,719 Speaker 2: just want him to come downstairs and help. It's not 588 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,400 Speaker 2: like we don't have help, but I love, like, can 589 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 2: you help me with this too? And today I kind 590 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 2: of did a little bit of a silent treatment and 591 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 2: look on the way out, and he I just said, 592 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 2: how can we get through this easier, like without me 593 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: getting mad at you in the morning, because I understand, 594 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 2: I'm sure that's not a fun place to live. 595 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 3: And He's like, just come up and get me. 596 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 2: I can't come up and get with you because I'm 597 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 2: trying to change a pissed diaper. 598 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: You know that's a good but your awareness to say like, hey, 599 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 1: I don't want to be like that. 600 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 3: I don't want to be frustrated because you guys. 601 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 1: Are a team, and your goal and objective is always 602 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 1: to put Mac first and foremost and to win together 603 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: with him. So it's like even acknowledging that, like you 604 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 1: don't want to be like that, I think is appreciated 605 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: by Jared. I mean I know him well enough to 606 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: know that him just even saying you even saying that, 607 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: he's probably like thank you instead of just getting mad. 608 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 3: Is there. 609 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: I know this is maybe cheesy, and this is maybe 610 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: something you can bring up with your therapist, but like 611 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 1: that code word or like yeah, exactly something, but like 612 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, I find and I know I've talked 613 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: to you know far too well about our nickname Steve 614 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 1: and I with Tommy and Linda, But like it does 615 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: help to have either a nickname for one another or 616 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 1: a code word like if all hell's breaking loose with 617 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: Mac and you really need help, where it is something 618 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 1: like mistletoe or something where it's like kind of that 619 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 1: code word where you guys notice sort of like arm, 620 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: like the temperatures rising, the temperatures rising, George Bush, like 621 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: I need help on something I don't know, because then 622 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 1: that way at least you know you're not we aren't 623 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 1: in each other like heads, Like we don't know what 624 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: significant others thinking. But if you have a common word 625 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: or a common phrase or a sentence or something, at 626 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: least there's commonality in that phrase where at least you 627 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: can be on the same page, If that makes sense. 628 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 3: I don't know. 629 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 1: I feel like right, Steve, I mean we were Steve 630 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: and I were talking yesterday about dog daycare and getting 631 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: frustrated because I was like, well, I need to have 632 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: your schedule and I need to figure out what's like. 633 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: I can't only imagine the conversations that you have to 634 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,919 Speaker 1: have when you have a child. When our conversation all 635 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: Steve and I have to argue about is who's watching 636 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: Willis and Daisy when we're not home. So for you guys, 637 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: it's only understandable and for anyone at home that has kids, 638 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 1: like how you communicate, because it's all new to you too. 639 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: I know. 640 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 3: And I feel like there's this pressure right now. 641 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 2: And we've discussed this before because I have such a 642 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 2: limited time with him that I want my time to 643 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,959 Speaker 2: be great. My kid's teething, like he was super pissed 644 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 2: off last night. We tried to do a fun family 645 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 2: dinner with our friends that were in town with their kids. 646 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,959 Speaker 3: I'm like, Mac just wasn't having it. It's like I 647 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 3: need to. 648 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 2: Learn and I don't get my panties in a wad. 649 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 2: It's more or less like I'm just like, damn it, 650 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 2: this isn't working out. He's teething, nothing's making him happy. 651 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 2: It's not on you, girl, like get over yourself. But 652 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 2: I just like I build it up in my head. 653 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 2: The other day, we were out with our friends. We 654 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: were doing some stuff and the kids were at a 655 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: camp and it was like, okay, when we get back, like, 656 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,480 Speaker 2: let's take them to dinner. And the kids were pissed 657 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: and the dinner like went up and smokes like. Mac 658 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 2: was like, I'm over it. I want to go home, 659 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 2: and so we brought him home and it was like 660 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 2: damn it. And it was so funny because I was 661 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 2: being so hard on myself in the morning, being like, 662 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 2: what are we giving the kids for dinner? 663 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 3: What are we doing? And then the dinner didn't even 664 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 3: freaking end up happening. We came back and had macaroni 665 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 3: and cheese. 666 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 1: It's like that, well, that's but that's your desire because 667 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: you I'm not a therapist, but I'm just listening to you. 668 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: You have such high expectations for yourself and your life 669 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 1: and everyone, and that's what's made you wildly successful. But 670 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: with kids, and again I don't mean to speak out 671 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: a turn not having one, but it's like they don't 672 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 1: the rules don't apply to them. 673 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 3: Like you said, like everything's going out the window. 674 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: So what have you learned about yourself though in those 675 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 1: moments where like you have to devate plans or you 676 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: have to adjust and not everything is going to be 677 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: exactly how you had envisioned it, Like it's just. 678 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 3: Not going to be perfect. 679 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 2: And I think, like and during football, I think this 680 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 2: is another reason why I have to go to therapy, 681 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,959 Speaker 2: is like because I have such limited time, Like I 682 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 2: want this lunch and this school drop off to go 683 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 2: perfect because I'm not going to see you for three days. Girl, 684 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 2: it's not you have to relax. 685 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 3: But you know that. But I'm not executing it. Okay, 686 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 3: I'm third and four and I'm fumbling. Man. 687 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but guess what you've called the right play You 688 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: just haven't executed it, so you're on the right track. 689 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: That's way different than just being like, fuck, this whole 690 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 1: playbook needs to go out the window. 691 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,959 Speaker 3: I have no idea what I'm doing, and we're going 692 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 3: to lose the game. 693 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: Like, you just have to find that one little thing 694 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: in you that goes goes quote with the flow quote unquote, 695 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: like all right, fine, yeah, I don't know if it's 696 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: like you're big on levity, find something that's funny, like 697 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: that's where I think like you and Jeri having that 698 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: thing that can make you laugh in those stressful situations. 699 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 1: That's a good point, really good because you once your 700 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: turn from frustrated to laughter, like now we're good. 701 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 3: Now you're fine, right, all. 702 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: Right, Well, if your therapist is unavailable for zoom, let's 703 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: just get your gun here and work through our problems. 704 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: But no, it's always easier to diagnose somebody else's problems 705 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: than look at your own. But I'm really proud of you. 706 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: I think therapy is going to be amazing, and it's 707 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: a reminder for me to get back out there as well, 708 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 1: because we don't have all the answers. Even though I'd 709 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 1: like to think that I am the self help guru, 710 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: but I. 711 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 3: Want to be. 712 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 2: I want to be easier to live with than married 713 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 2: too as well. I'm wound so tight anyways that I 714 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 2: just know, with everything coming up in the season and 715 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 2: all these extra things, I just don't want to be. 716 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: Like, ah, that's right, that's very good self awareness, and 717 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: I'm with you because I can work on that too. 718 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: I think that my issue is, like, I'm very self 719 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: aware of what my strengths and weaknesses are, but I 720 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: just need to find the solution instead of continuing to 721 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: make the same mistake. 722 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 3: Over and over again. 723 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: So all right, well we'll give ourselves some grace. Anyone 724 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 1: that's listening out there, we love you thirty years ago. 725 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: You's your house on fire. 726 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 3: Real quick. Have you watched the quarterback at all? I 727 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 3: have not. I have not. I am excited to watch 728 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 3: it though. 729 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: On this season we've got Jared Goff, Kirk Cousins is back, 730 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: and then who else is on. 731 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 2: It Joe Burrow. Joe Burrow wonderful. So you don't know 732 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: much about We don't get to cover him really. We 733 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 2: do have a Bengals Bills game this year, which I'm 734 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 2: excited about. But yeah, it's kind of cool to I 735 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 2: watched him with his stylist pick out his outfits. That 736 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 2: was very interesting, very cute. 737 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 3: There was this part where Jared Goff. 738 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 2: They were talking about the tree and so forth, and 739 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 2: he got a little teary, and I thought it was 740 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 2: so nice. 741 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 3: He's a good guy. 742 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 2: And there's just something about Kirk Cousins that's just like 743 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 2: the dad next door. 744 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 1: It's very so likable. Yeah, that's on Netflix. I'm excited 745 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: to see that. I feel like, especially on the Joe 746 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: Burrow part, because he is so private and does you 747 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 1: don't get to see like a lot of him. So yeah, okay, okay, 748 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: watching right now HGTV. Right, Oh yeah, I mean, you 749 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: know me and my design shows. I'm watching one right now. 750 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: That's this couple in England and they're restoring a manner 751 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: they bought this place and it's this time about this Yeah, 752 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: King Henry the thirteenth I think was the only other 753 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 1: person who lived in it and they're gutting it and 754 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: every now that I'm done with renovations, because I've been 755 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: on a three year even with house and homes, it 756 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: was like in a minute, two year full in on 757 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 1: like fifty projects for anyone that's wondering, No one's wondering. 758 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 3: Corisa. 759 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: That's the other thing. That's the other thing that just 760 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: made me think about it when people on Instagram go, oh, 761 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 1: for all of you that have been asking, No, no 762 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: one's been asking. Okay, no, show me the receipts of 763 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 1: all the people that have been asking for your skincare 764 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:15,320 Speaker 1: of potages you paid for and that are everyone's been asking. 765 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: I need some receipts. Show that better be a CBS 766 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: sized receipts of all the people that have been asking 767 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 1: for you. To jump on here and be so self righteous. 768 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: I know I sound like I'm being a hater on 769 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: these people. I think it is wild that this like, 770 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: oh yeah, everyone cares. 771 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you back I received. Oh my god, 772 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 3: I'm obsessed. 773 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 2: Hey, CHRISA went down a real tutorial for me one 774 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 2: night in the French Riviera when we were having some 775 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,839 Speaker 2: songs from Mama's Wall. He was showing me how you 776 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 2: can tell people have paid for follower Yes, yes, my god, 777 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 2: I had no idea. 778 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes. 779 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: So I had somebody that I dated back in the 780 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 1: day and they have millions of followers. There ain't no way, 781 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: okay that this has millions of followers. And I called 782 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 1: this person out on it one time and I was like, bro, 783 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 1: we know you bought your followers, and. 784 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 3: They got so all these followers. Where do you buy anyone? 785 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: But this is like the dead giveaway when people buy followers. 786 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 1: You could have like millions of followers and then you 787 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,320 Speaker 1: have like five likes on your posts. It's like, well, okay, 788 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 1: and then Steve mister marketing, Steve who knows everything, He's like, yeah, 789 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: but then you can pay people to comment, you can 790 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: pay people to like, And I'm like, I would be 791 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 1: so deathly afraid of being caught in this, Like you 792 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 1: buy followers, you buy comments, you buy likes, like how embarrassing. 793 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: Forget you in your underwear falling down at the bus 794 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: stop in kindergarten. 795 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 3: I would be caught. 796 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 1: And literally be like, oh my god, I've just been 797 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: exposed that I buy followers, Like yeah, but that's a thing, 798 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 1: And I'm like, how do these I don't understand how 799 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: these brands hire these people to whatever promote stuff, and 800 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: they're not looking at like the correlation of the likes 801 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: versus the followers. So if any people know on how 802 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: this all were, I just know that you can buy them, 803 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: and I would. I would rather lose all my followers 804 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 1: than buy one and be exposed for that be like, 805 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,440 Speaker 1: this bitch is buying some likes. 806 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 3: Where do you buy them? 807 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, but by followers dot com, boat dot com? 808 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,840 Speaker 3: Are you buying this? I am such a loser. I 809 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 3: don't know anything. 810 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: No, you don't need to know this because you have 811 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 1: real followers, and look, I lose that. 812 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,960 Speaker 3: If that's important, well, I'm gonna tell you why I'm losing. 813 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 1: I lose followers by the day because if you're not 814 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 1: active on Instagram, there's so much pressure. 815 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 3: You got to stay active. You got to respond to 816 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:42,799 Speaker 3: the comment. 817 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: Steve goes, you better start responding to some of these 818 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 1: comments on here, but you rather nolde yeah, he goes. 819 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 3: If you don't respond, then they take it. They doc 820 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 3: you on that. 821 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, is this an uber rating where it's 822 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 1: like I don't know what my Instagram rating is and 823 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: it's like because my engagement is not there and I 824 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: don't follow up on. 825 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:03,280 Speaker 3: Things, It's like, oh my god, this is so much pressure. 826 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I just want to post madelon down 827 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:13,359 Speaker 2: in kindergarten and buying followers. I don't know what to do, 828 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,720 Speaker 2: and I've got a cold in the middle of July. 829 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,799 Speaker 3: All hell's breaking loose. I love you. 830 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: We don't even need to get to the headlines. Oh literally, 831 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: okay my goal. Well, I'm very proud of you. I 832 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: love you very much. 833 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. Guys, train with me. Come on, let's do 834 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:31,479 Speaker 3: this again. 835 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to I actually would love any referrals. Uh, 836 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: they don't have to be anonymous on a good therapist, 837 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: somebody I have only Oh fun fact, I've only had 838 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 1: men therapists, So maybe I should try a woman. 839 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. 840 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: I'm open to all things, but I will definitely get 841 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 1: back on the therapy train because I could use a 842 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: little fine too. 843 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 2: Hey, what do you think the headlines are going to 844 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 2: be on? You and I talking about therapy? 845 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: Irish Sharp, Aaron and Carissa in a deep dark depression 846 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: seek therapy. Carissa piece her pants, seeks therapy. Carissa mean 847 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 1: to her word, can keep her pants on. Aaron can't 848 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 1: keep her pants on, Carissa can't keep a man seeks therapy. 849 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: He's not the one seeks therapy. I mean, I don't 850 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 1: know the headlines right themselves. It's so good Erin and 851 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:31,720 Speaker 1: Carissa buying followers question Mark, Nope, don't know how bye. 852 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 3: I love you, I love you Calm Down with Erin 853 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 3: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 854 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 855 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.