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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes the success or failure of a first date all

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Speaker 2: comes down to what you do in one crucial moment,

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Speaker 2: oh man.

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Speaker 1: Like when they ask, oh, so, how soon do you

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Speaker 1: want kids?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, and you answer by unzipping your pants, or

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Speaker 2: soon when he leans in.

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Speaker 1: For the first kiss and you cough directly into.

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Speaker 3: His mouth the timing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it all can come down to one moment. And

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Speaker 2: one of our listener wrote us an email saying she

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Speaker 2: thinks she blew it in the most critical moment of

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Speaker 2: their first date. Y, she feels absolutely terrible about it.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Lola. So, Lola, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, oh man, Lola. It can't be as bad as

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Speaker 4: Jeff's examples, right, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean it was kind of bad, but you guys can

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Speaker 5: judge how bad it was.

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Speaker 3: The invitation to judge.

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Speaker 2: Fine, Yeah, this is gonna be fun. So take us

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Speaker 2: back to the very beginning of the day. What's the

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Speaker 2: guy's name? How did you guys meet?

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Speaker 5: So? His name is Jeremiah. We met online and kind

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Speaker 5: of to set the scene of like what happened, he

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Speaker 5: picked me up. So I got in a car and

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Speaker 5: shot on the radio and it was my favorite artist

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Speaker 5: shaboozy that came on, that's your favorite. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 5: turned it up. He didn't seem to like the song

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Speaker 5: as much. Like I was kind dancing a little bit.

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Speaker 6: You turned up.

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Speaker 1: The volume in his car.

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Speaker 3: That's a big deal. I think.

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Speaker 6: She didn't change the song.

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Speaker 3: I know what.

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Speaker 4: It's just touching someone's stereo when the very first time

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Speaker 5: I just I didn't like think of it that way.

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Speaker 5: I just looked at him with a smile and like

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Speaker 5: I was just like, whooh.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're trying to have fun in the moment.

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Speaker 1: Okay. What was his reaction.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he just kind of like laughed a little. But

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Speaker 5: then like I I was dancing and said, he wasn't

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Speaker 5: like dancing along with the song. Like it didn't seem

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Speaker 5: like it was a big deal for him. I don't know,

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Speaker 5: but that wasn't the big thing.

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Speaker 7: The big thing was.

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Speaker 5: When we got to the restaurant. And by the way,

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Speaker 5: this is like a like a crab shock.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I love those places.

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Speaker 6: Do they pour it on the table and stuff like

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Speaker 6: a boy?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, and you know you get these big swear.

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Speaker 1: This is quite a romantic scene.

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Speaker 6: That's part of the like you have mallets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at your fingers, sucking and slurping noise.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe you don't like that, Jake.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that I don't, but I understand a

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Speaker 2: lot of people. It's it's kind of a strong image

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Speaker 2: for the very first do you see.

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Speaker 6: A girl's like, I head off a croppit.

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Speaker 5: I always wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: Where was the bad part of that?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So Jeremiah like all of a sudden, at one point,

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Speaker 5: he stands up really quick and his chair falls down

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Speaker 5: and his eyes are going really big, And it took

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Speaker 5: me a few seconds. But then I was like, I

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Speaker 5: was like, oh my gosh, she might be choking.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well.

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Speaker 5: I tried a few things. I was like and I

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Speaker 5: was like hitting him in the back, but this other

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Speaker 5: of the way and gave him the high maneuver.

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Speaker 3: It saved him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And it was like crazy, The whole thing was crazy.

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Speaker 5: And his life was flashing before his eyes like mine

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Speaker 5: was too, in a way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, terrifying somebody like choking right in front of you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: not to mention that crab is probably really expensive it'd

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Speaker 6: That was a king crab. You better have picked it

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Was he okay? And was the crab still eat?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 5: I don't know about the crab, but he was okay. Okay,

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Speaker 5: Obviously he didn't feel like eating anymore.

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Speaker 6: He didn't.

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Speaker 1: Just that's where the date ended.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, he basically he paid the bill and we

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Speaker 5: and he's just like still fallingber and he's like yeah,

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Speaker 5: I know, and pretty much just drove home in silence,

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Speaker 5: thrust the way. No, we did not kiss.

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Speaker 6: I'm kidding.

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Speaker 2: No, shaboozie on the drive back, you know, no, okay, whiskey. So,

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Speaker 2: just going back to your email, you think you blew

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Speaker 2: it on the date because you didn't know how to

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Speaker 1: Is that what you meant by your email?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I feel like I didn't

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Speaker 5: know what to do and I just want to redo. No,

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Speaker 5: I was him choking.

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Speaker 1: I think you did that.

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Speaker 3: I mean you didn't do the wrong thing.

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Speaker 4: You did something right, Like you you hit and you

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Speaker 3: I just finished my first aid course.

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Speaker 4: You're supposed to bend someone over at a ninety degree

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Speaker 3: On the back five times and then you bring him

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Speaker 2: Then you Okay, that's CPR after dark. But everyone's supposed

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Speaker 2: to wear leather for it, right, Okay, I've been I've

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's it. Maybe he just doesn't want to like

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Speaker 3: rehash that night. Yeah, you know, like you're forever connected

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Speaker 3: to it. We shouldn't pull your phone and start taking

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Speaker 3: a video.

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Speaker 1: No did we? Did she not take out her phone

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Speaker 1: and take a video?

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Speaker 5: No? I did not?

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Speaker 1: You hesitated for a second now to think about it.

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Speaker 5: No, No, I thought that image and I was like,

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Speaker 5: who would do that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, fair.

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Speaker 2: We have been burned before by not asking these types

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Speaker 2: trying to cover all the bases here. And how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since Jeremiah's choking incident.

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Speaker 5: It's been a week and a half.

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Speaker 3: Let's call it their first date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fire, we'll rename the segment.

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Speaker 6: Then sounds like we get a second date that we're

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Speaker 6: gonna need us in a lifeguard with him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, possibly somebody to step in just in case and emergency.

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Speaker 3: They can take Brooks course. Yeah, everyone should get CPR

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 2: First We just need him to say yes to a

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Speaker 2: second date when we come back, call him and do

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Speaker 2: it right after this hold.

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Speaker 1: On second date update.

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Speaker 2: Most of the time, when somebody's like, hey, let's head

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Speaker 2: over to the choking party, it's a good thing, at

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Speaker 2: least in my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you get a little.

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Speaker 2: Shaboozy going restrict some airways, just see what happens. But

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Speaker 2: the reason I bring it up is because Lola went

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Speaker 2: on a date that wasn't supposed to be.

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Speaker 1: A choking party.

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Speaker 2: It turned out to be, though when her guy what

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Speaker 2: I'm serious, They exist, they exist, and you guys just

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Speaker 2: aren't being invited to them.

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Speaker 1: And I'm glad you're not because I don't like your

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Speaker 3: Had his life flashed before his eyes.

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Speaker 1: John Maya is the man. He got a little crab

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Speaker 1: meat stuck in his throat.

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Speaker 2: Lola didn't know what to do, so started hitting him

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Speaker 2: on his back until another woman shoved in and gave

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Speaker 4: It's always so amazing when there's someone with medical experience

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Speaker 6: It's amazing.

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Speaker 5: Sure.

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Speaker 2: The positive to that is the woman saved Jeremiah's life.

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Speaker 3: That's a pretty positive.

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Speaker 2: The negative, though, is she kind of stole Lola's thunder. So, Lola,

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Speaker 2: is there anything that you want to say to the

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Speaker 5: No, No, I'm grateful that she saved him.

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Speaker 1: Are you because he's not calling you back now?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean, Lola, have you reached out to him? I

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Speaker 4: mean it's an easy like, oh my god, how are

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Speaker 5: I did, and no response.

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Speaker 1: You said.

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Speaker 2: The date ended pretty quickly after that. Does any part

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Speaker 2: of you think maybe he choked on purpose as an

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Speaker 5: Call No, No, I don't think so at all.

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Speaker 4: He flew up and the chair flew back, and he

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Speaker 4: wasn't crazy on out right grabbing his throat and turning.

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Speaker 1: Purpose describing another choking party to liking it. We will

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Speaker 1: assume that he.

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Speaker 2: Choked for real and that something is going on in

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Speaker 2: his life that's making him not want to call you back.

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Speaker 1: Here we got I'm at dial Jeremiah. Let's see if

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Speaker 1: he answers. Thank you all, right, hold on, here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, is this Jeremiah Yeah speaking. Hey man, you are

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Speaker 2: speaking right now to an entire radio show called Brook

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: This is probably pretty random, but we're doing a segment

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Speaker 2: on our show.

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Speaker 1: It's called a second.

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Speaker 2: Date Update, and we'd really like to hear your side

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Speaker 2: of the story that we just got.

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Speaker 7: What are you guys talking about?

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Speaker 2: Basically, we know somebody that you went on a date

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Speaker 2: with recently, a woman named Lola.

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Speaker 7: She called you guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because she just wants to know why after

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Speaker 2: your hangout you don't want to see her again, or

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Speaker 2: she says you're not really making an effort in like

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Speaker 2: the week and a half since it happened, and we

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Speaker 2: don't know what's going on on your end.

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, we haven't talked since that night, right.

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Speaker 3: Were you planning on colin her?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, is there something specific that's holding you back from

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Speaker 7: I mean I don't I don't really know what she

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Speaker 7: told you guys about what happened, but it was a nightmare.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we heard some pretty crazy stuff happened that night. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but Lola just wants to know why after all of

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Speaker 2: it went down, you don't want to go out with

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Speaker 2: her again, or you're not really making an effort to

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Speaker 2: talk to her anymore.

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Speaker 1: She's just a little bit confused.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she tried to kill me?

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Speaker 3: What what? What is a huge, huge accusation?

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Speaker 7: Are No, I'm dead serious. I started choking on a

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Speaker 3: Excuse me?

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Speaker 4: What way?

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Speaker 2: Way?

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Speaker 4: Way?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 6: What you.

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Speaker 4: That she came over after a few seconds because she

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Speaker 7: I mean eventually she came around behind me and started

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, we heard that she was trying to help

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Speaker 2: you hit you in the back.

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Speaker 1: We didn't hear about using a crab mallard.

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Speaker 3: You didn't ask again after before the kissing.

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Speaker 7: That was after because like I, she's blowing air into

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Speaker 4: She's doing like mouth to mouth, doesn't know that's out

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Speaker 3: Now, well it's actually back in. You're certified.

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Speaker 2: And she even told us this directly, that she was

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Speaker 4: Yes, it sounds like it's not a sexual makeout session.

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Speaker 4: It's just a she was trying to help.

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Speaker 2: Like.

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Speaker 3: I don't think she was actually trying to kiss you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell she was doing. Okay, well,

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Speaker 2: The best thing to do probably is just ask her

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Speaker 7: Are you serious?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's there.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 5: It sounds really bad, and I guess it was like

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Speaker 2: What he was saying that when he started choking, you

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, I was trying to give him CPR.

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Speaker 3: I'm never standing up CPR. That's not with you, CPR.

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Speaker 5: I just froze.

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Speaker 3: I just panic. Well you didn't freeze, you did something.

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Speaker 6: At least you didn't run away too. That would have

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Speaker 2: We did go super smash Bros on his back with

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Speaker 5: I mean, I needed to do something, but I knew

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Speaker 5: I couldn't hit him that hard, so I just you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but why were you just blowing into my mouth

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Speaker 5: No, I I heard that like if you blow the

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Speaker 5: I thought. I don't know, you're.

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Speaker 1: Trying to blow it down into into your tummy.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Ula told us that the ride home was very silent

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Speaker 2: just shocked by what had just happened.

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Speaker 7: I was totally shocked. I had never choked before in

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that serious.

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Speaker 3: I thought he was in the car with this killer

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Speaker 1: The more chances I have.

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Speaker 5: A moment, Jeremi, I'm just thankful you're alive, even if

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Speaker 5: we don't do a second day like, I hope you

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Speaker 5: know that that's not what I was trying to do.

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Speaker 5: I was I was trying to save you.

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Speaker 6: That she may not have, but she tried.

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Speaker 1: That is sweet it.

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Speaker 3: Actually she's sincere on that, Jeremiah.

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Speaker 4: I mean you could understand, like if you were in

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Speaker 7: I completely understand. I was panicking too. My life flashed

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Speaker 1: I did it, Okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean we all agree. Even Lola is

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Speaker 1: But the effort was there.

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Speaker 2: And if it hadn't been for her clubbing your back

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't have known to run over and give you the heimlick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like fun girl in the car that likes

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Speaker 4: to dance.

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Speaker 1: To Shaboozie something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, less person that will save your life.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I hate that song.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, take out the Shaboozi then, And now that

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Speaker 3: Gosh, Jeff hasn't made a promise like that in a

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't know who would want something like that,

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Speaker 2: but maybe you do, Jeremiah, what do you think about

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Speaker 2: giving Lila one more chance. I mean, she sounds genuinely

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Look, I appreciate that. I just I kind of feel like,

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Speaker 7: if you're on a first date and you almost die,

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Speaker 3: You on that one and it experienced goold bond people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we could send you to one of those air

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Speaker 1: Oxygen bar.

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Speaker 3: Those were huge in the twenty ten.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeremiah, you're saying that this was a sign from

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Speaker 7: I think it was a sign from God.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, all right, Well, Lola, is there anything that

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Speaker 5: No, I just want to say, seeing that you think

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Speaker 5: this is a sign, you're right, and I would want

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Speaker 3: Oh that's your son.

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Speaker 1: God speaks in weird ways, sometime.

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Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: A lot of lessons we could take out of that

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Speaker 2: phone call. Uh, maybe number one most importantly, don't try

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Speaker 4: I mean, unless they've already passed out and they're on

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if they're still standing, mouth to mouth isn't if.

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Speaker 1: They're still conscious.

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Speaker 2: Number two, if they don't like Shaboozi, that's a sign

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Speaker 3: You can't take a first aid class to fix that.

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Speaker 2: And finally, if you start choking mid dinner date, that's

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Speaker 2: God's way of telling you you deserve to find someone better.

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Speaker 3: This second day was so divine.

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Speaker 1: It really was a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of cosmic signs happening. And if you're listening to

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Speaker 2: this right now, that's probably God telling you you need

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Speaker 2: to subscribe to our podcast.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, unless you choke.

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Speaker 4: If you don't believe in God, then it's just us

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Speaker 4: telling us that you should subscribe to the.

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Speaker 5: We like that.

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Speaker 1: Don't make God or us angry.

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Speaker 2: The universe will come back to bite you if you

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Speaker 2: don't find us online wherever you get your podcasts at

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Speaker 2: Broke and Jeffrey