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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Patrick in morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?

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Speaker 2: Oh, good morning. I'm doing as good as could be, I.

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Speaker 3: Guess as good as can be.

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Speaker 1: Because you met this woman named Chloe and you guys

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Speaker 1: went out and you were hoping to see her again,

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Speaker 1: but you have not heard from her. Why don't you

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Speaker 1: if you could kind of explain to us as the

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Speaker 1: backstory about how you met and about the dates that

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Speaker 1: you have been on or the date or whatever, and

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Speaker 1: where things are now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I met this really cool girl on the apps

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Speaker 4: as they do these days, and we've put back and

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Speaker 4: forth and we were planning on meeting up and then

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Speaker 4: all of a sudden, though she just has the blue

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Speaker 4: just starts just GHO see me with the communication?

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I have no idea what happened. I don't

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Speaker 2: think I did anything wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, and they never do, they never do think that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, tails so, oldest time bully. That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Really, I'm going to do the exercise we always do here,

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Speaker 1: But like Patrick, I need you to look back on

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Speaker 1: this date. I need you to search your soul. I mean,

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Speaker 1: because it's never happened before. But we could wrap this

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Speaker 1: up right now and I can tell you why she

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Speaker 1: didn't call you back, and then we just play a

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Speaker 1: song and be done. But you're telling me that you

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Speaker 1: really think this date went well, and you're truly in

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Speaker 1: your heart disappointed and distressed that you can't get a

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Speaker 1: hold of her for another day, which is fair. I

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Speaker 1: mean everyone's been there, most everyone's been there. Well, that's

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Speaker 1: the thing.

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Speaker 2: We didn't even get a chance to go on a date.

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Speaker 2: It didn't even get past like texting and messaging and stuff,

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Speaker 2: and so I was like extra shock because I didn't

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Speaker 2: even she didn't even see any bad side of me,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: So okay, So then I'm asking you to look back

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Speaker 1: on your interaction and you're saying, hey, everything was going great.

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Speaker 1: I felt there was good chemistry. So you know, we

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Speaker 1: should have met up and we should Who knows what

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Speaker 1: could be, but I guess we don't know, because now

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Speaker 1: you can't get a hold of Chloe. And so we're

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Speaker 1: going to try and get a hold of her. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call her, We're going to ask these questions. You'll

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Speaker 1: be on the phone at the same time. The hope,

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Speaker 1: as always is that we can, you know, rectify what

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Speaker 1: ever's going on, and then in this case, I guess

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Speaker 1: set you up on your first date and pay for it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Patrick, you've got to hear what happens next

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Speaker 1: part too of waiting mantaponi in two minutes after this,

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Speaker 1: so hoose year, we're back on the Fred Show. Here

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Speaker 1: it's the Fresh Show. Good morning. We're commercial free for

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Speaker 1: the next hour. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Patrick,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Chloe. So it turns out you guys,

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Speaker 1: actually you never actually went on a date. You met

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Speaker 1: on the aps. You were talking and texting or you

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Speaker 1: radio silence. You've been ghosted. Now no date and you

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Speaker 1: want to know why. Yeah, all right, well let's call

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Speaker 1: Chloe now, good luck? Patrick? Are you hello?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Is this Chloe? Yes, Hi, Chloe, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: Morning radio show, and I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now, and I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call. Said Okay,

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Speaker 1: up anytime. Oh sure, thank you very much. We're calling

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Speaker 1: on behalf of a guy who reached out to us.

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Speaker 1: His name is Patrick. I guess you guys matched on

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Speaker 3: Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I don't know if I want to talk

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Speaker 3: You don't want to, come on? Come on? We got it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just just sing some friends here. This sounds like

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Speaker 1: a story. Well, I'll explain to you that Patrick reached

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Speaker 1: So he's asking us to find out so you can

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, talking about your love life on

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not going to force you, but I

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Speaker 1: I mean, he asked us to do this. He says,

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Speaker 1: So what happened?

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Speaker 5: The apps, and honestly I was super excited because I mean,

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Speaker 2: But then you know, things got flirty and we switched sure.

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Speaker 1: To text, and I.

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Speaker 3: Did send him, you know, a couple of kind of

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Speaker 2: But you know, nothing nothing too crazy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're kind of building up here to meeting in person.

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Speaker 1: You know, the conversation got a little bit I guess flirty.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you to send him pictures and

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Speaker 2: videos of me with other men and.

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Speaker 1: So we went from sending pictures like flirty pictures of

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Speaker 1: ourselves like, well, I wasn't texting Patrick, at least not

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Speaker 1: this night. I was, but but it was it was

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Speaker 1: and then it transitions to send me material content of

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Speaker 2: I mean, I was in shock.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know not everybody everybody has that, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't let me.

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Speaker 3: Let me bring Patrick.

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Speaker 2: I don't even if I did.

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Speaker 3: It just threw me off.

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Speaker 1: It just well, let me Patrick is here. I got

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Speaker 1: bring it into the call. I'm very forgetful Patrick. That

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Speaker 1: but what you wanted pictures of her with other men?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember asking that really.

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Speaker 3: Text message Patrick, this is this is in text, this

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Speaker 1: Is uh, this is in writing. I mean you obviously

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't need to see all the texts.

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Speaker 1: So are you saying you didn't do it or are

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Speaker 5: I mean, I might have done it, but I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't really recall anything like seriously.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now seriously, So Patrick is the reason there's that

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Speaker 3: That's for Patrick? Oh so what do you like about that? Patrick?

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Speaker 3: If I could ask? Because for me, that's my worst nightmare.

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Speaker 1: Like if I like a woman, if I like her,

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Speaker 1: is what may have happened before me. Is that a

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Speaker 1: weird sort of jealousy thing?

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Speaker 3: Maybe it is?

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Speaker 1: It silly, absolutely, but I definitely don't want you to

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I don't really recall doing that.

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Speaker 1: But you're not, so do you It's crazy you have

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Speaker 1: I don't know that's something you can just like erase

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Speaker 2: I just I was as weird as hell to me.

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Speaker 2: And I mean also, even if.

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Speaker 3: I had the pictures and videos with another guy, I

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Speaker 2: That's not right to be asking me to send else.

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Speaker 3: This has happened to me. I didn't ask for it.

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Speaker 1: People more than one person has sent me videos of

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Speaker 3: And then they.

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Speaker 1: Explain like, well, this is what I want to do

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Speaker 1: Like it would have been great if we just kept

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Speaker 1: to like a little flirty text, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, this is what we can do later.

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Speaker 3: You don't need to necessarily document. Let me make different.

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Speaker 3: Actually go on the date first and then talk.

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Speaker 1: No, I actually actually burned that material and never ever

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Speaker 1: let me see it or know that it exists. But okay,

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Speaker 1: so not going to happen, Patrick, I don't I'm just

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Speaker 1: one more time, Chloe, you don't want to go out

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Speaker 1: Okay, Patrick, I don't know. You know, I guess since

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Speaker 1: this all is a big misunderstanding and you didn't do that,

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Speaker 1: then this is a real tragedy. But if you did,

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Speaker 1: or you know the guy who did, then you might

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Speaker 1: want to, I don't know, pump the brakes on that

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff, because I don't know that everybody wants

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, all right, well good luck to both

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Speaker 1: Thank you, the Entertainment Report and five hundred bucks with

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Speaker 1: showed is Shelley both next back in two minutes.

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Speaker 3: Fred Shaw