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Speaker 1: I am Rachel Zoe and I'm Roger Berman, and you're

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Speaker 1: listening to works for us. I'm supposed to say that, Okay, So, okay,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to works for us. And this is where

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Speaker 1: we talk to people about what works for them, what's

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Speaker 1: the magic in their relationships, and what does not work,

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Speaker 1: because you know, there's things that work and things that

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Speaker 1: don't work. Right, Okay, so today we're talking about my

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Speaker 1: favorite subject. I don't know it's your favorite subject, but

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Speaker 1: certainly my favorite subject is love. We're always talking about

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Speaker 1: love on the show, but this time we're really talking

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Speaker 1: about a beautiful, epic love story, finding your person and

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Speaker 1: maintaining that love for a really long time. Our guests today,

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Speaker 1: totally unbiased, are just the most beautiful couple, the most

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Speaker 1: beautiful people. And I know for us, we've been friends

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Speaker 1: for many years, but you know, your relationship seems just

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Speaker 1: so effortless and so beautiful and so magical. Honestly, we

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Speaker 1: have you full This is awesome. Completely. I don't believe that.

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Speaker 1: For one and Rachel, what relationship are we? I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to tell you. You're gonna tell me. Well, we're talking,

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Speaker 1: of course about Jeff Gordon and Ingrid van der Bosch. Jeff,

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Speaker 1: of course, is a legendary race car driver, a four

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Speaker 1: time NASCAR Cup Series champion, three time day total five

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Speaker 1: hundred winner, NASCAR Hall of Fame inductee, But who cares

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Speaker 1: about that his gorgeous wife, Ingrid, who's amazing, is a model,

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Speaker 1: an actress. She's grace the pages of Vogue, Everything, Marie

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Speaker 1: Claire l and most importantly, Sports illustrated with her amazingly importantly,

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Speaker 1: has a gorgeous face, as we all know, and she's

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Speaker 1: also been several films. Can I add to this? He's

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Speaker 1: an extraordinary mother. Oh you know, I'm sorry that was

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Speaker 1: that's the most important. Welcome to the show. We're so

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Speaker 1: excited to have you here today. Well, you know, we

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Speaker 1: this is this is a treat for us. I feel

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Speaker 1: like this has been a really hard year because we

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Speaker 1: We find each other, uh in our travels and stuff,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like this year we've only gone to

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Speaker 1: it's earlier here for us. Well, yeah, because you're on

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Speaker 1: and I probably I probably know, but I don't remember, um,

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Speaker 1: like how did you meet? Like when did you meet?

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Speaker 1: How did you meet? I got the whole story when

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Speaker 1: I had my boys dinner with Jeff and Aspen. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: two There was a meeting and and and then a

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Speaker 1: just put it so much better than I could put it, Roger.

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Speaker 1: But but yeah, let's go. I guess I've actually heard Jeff. Well,

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Speaker 1: we were at a dinner together in New York City.

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Speaker 1: So so one of my good friends and it said, hey,

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Speaker 1: get married totally because it wasn't It wasn't about marriage.

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00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: It was about, you know, being with the right person.

425
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 1: You know, it was meant to be with him, so

426
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,479
Speaker 1: so it wasn't. Unfortunately, this is where I messed up.

427
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 1: So in my mind, I was like, yes, let's let's

428
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: get married. And I didn't go through the whole she

429
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,719
Speaker 1: you know, this was her first time. I didn't get

430
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: down on my knees and Roger Roger thing. He wasn't

431
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: convinced that this is all going to happen, But later

432
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: on he made up. Yeah, we were at dinner at

433
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: Eiffel Tower, years down on to the Eiffel Towers. Oh

434
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: well you can't. I mean three entire restaurant. This is

435
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: the love of my life when you marry me. But

436
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: Leo were there, Yeah, so wait a minute, Hold on

437
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: a minute. So was the wedding in the same parts

438
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: that was the first wedding. No, No, that was renewing

439
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: the vows. Okay, okay, that's what it was. Just because

440
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: I wanted to do this fun renewal with Ella and

441
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 1: Leo and yeah Da carrying the ring and so I

442
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 1: just kind of visually because our wedding we did it,

443
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: it was gonna be big because he knew, you know,

444
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: people that he works with and family and I will

445
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: know half the people that are there that it's just

446
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: not really what I imagined. So we did a really

447
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: small wedding in the sister hotel of Gatsmala Na Siena,

448
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: the San Antonio. It was really beautiful. It was just

449
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: twenty five people. Oh my god, that's so perfect. And

450
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 1: then we did a party, not a whole wedding thing,

451
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: but a party on the Empire State Building in New York,

452
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: the rock, top of the rock. That's where we got married.

453
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: I had the Rainbow room. You did, yes, hire, well,

454
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: we were hired. We're at the top of the rocks.

455
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: We just had the view was like it was. We

456
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: did more of a party party, and so that was

457
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: really fun. I wish we knew you guys. Then we

458
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: had we had like a nightclub going on. Yes, but

459
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: now you have to come to ours this summer. We've

460
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: talked about this. MoMA and Papa need to you know,

461
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: especially with Roger Rage, that's for sure. Um. Speaking of

462
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: speaking of children, why don't you tell everyone, um, you

463
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: do have children? Correct? I know that I spent time

464
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: with your children, but not everyone is uh is aware

465
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: of that. So let me talk about your kid. An

466
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: awesome job playing you know that the host, Yeah, when

467
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 1: did you decide to have children? And that, Yeah, we

468
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: decided to be both want a children first, and then

469
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: he was like, well we can do without it being

470
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 1: getting married and just true. People around him, Yeah, there's

471
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with us for people around him were because

472
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: on top of that, I was from Belgium and complicate

473
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 1: a little convinced them that's probably the best thing would

474
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: yeah too. But yeah, so we have two beautiful I mean,

475
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: ellis thirteen now is insane thirteen and a half, which

476
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: is we can get into that with the whole COVID

477
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: and thirteen year old two majors and all that, it's

478
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: been crazy, but uh so and then Leo is ten,

479
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: so yeah we yeah, Leo is just everyone knows Leo

480
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: and Sky there good buddies are Yeah, have been for

481
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: many years. And if you guys remember, but you know

482
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: that we met in Saint Barts first, Yes, I know

483
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: I got stung by being you brought all the medicine

484
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: and we didn't have children yet and life was a

485
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: bit easier correctly. Um, but I do want to say,

486
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: you guys, O Saint Barts without kids, can't remember what

487
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: that was. By the way, Roger and I talk about, um,

488
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: you guys, even just the fullest thing. I think we

489
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: should discuss that, you guys, because I think in quarantine

490
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: as parents, you know, as you know, Roger and I

491
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: work together. We pretty much everything together because there's no

492
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: real separation ever. But I think, like you know, having

493
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: kids in quarantine, and I think to your point having Ella.

494
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: You know, my heart literally just bleeds for teenagers right

495
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: now on quarantine because I think they have it the

496
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: hardest of anybody. Because I think little ones are happy

497
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: to be at home with their parents, you know. And

498
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: I think the tweens, like the ten year olds, they're fine.

499
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: As long as they can play video games with their friends,

500
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: they're okay. I think it's like when you get into

501
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: that teen the thirteen to seventeen, this is so hard

502
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: because those are the years that I think, like we

503
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 1: just die for our friends. We need to see each other.

504
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: We're going out, we're like dating, were this or that?

505
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: It's just all about your friends, right, And the quarantine

506
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: completely that switch you know on the bedroom closed and

507
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: like virshi all day, So that completely happened quarantine And

508
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: it was hard because that's when they want to just

509
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: like you said, beat there with their friends all the time,

510
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: so all they could do is on the phone, and

511
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: we're like, oh my god, you can't be in your

512
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: phone all the time, but we can't take it away

513
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: because that's all you have. So it was really hard

514
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: to understand that. And then, you know, spending so much

515
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: time together, you see everything and it's kind of try

516
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: not to take your personal because she doesn't want to

517
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: hang out with us anymore. So we had to learn.

518
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: But now she it's pretty fun to see her. She's

519
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: just that teenager and she's just we had to kind

520
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: of it was hard because we weren't used to it.

521
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: But now that we can are more relaxed about it

522
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: and see and she's a really cool girl. That it's fine,

523
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: it's it's fun. I heard somebody say this the other

524
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: day that you know when your kids are younger, that

525
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: they come and find you when you come home from

526
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: work or you know their home and you come home,

527
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: and then when they become teenagers, you got to go

528
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: find them. That's so true. That's such a good point.

529
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,959
Speaker 1: And I it's so true, and I think it's I

530
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: think I think it's been a learning lesson for all

531
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: of us. I mean what I mean listen, as I said,

532
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: you guys are one of our absolute most favorite couples

533
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: by far. We just we just die to see you guys.

534
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: You guys have this like light between the two of you.

535
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: And obviously, like everybody fights, we all, I mean Roger

536
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: and I You've heard us, we bicker, will make up

537
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: in thirty seconds. Like wait, what's like what's like your thing?

538
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: Like we always say, like what's your magic? Like what

539
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: is the thing that makes you? You've already mentioned, Like

540
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: it's it's very much like you really respect each other.

541
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: You let each other do your thing. Like to your point, Jeff,

542
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: like Ingrid wasn't like we have to get married or

543
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: this can't go on, or we need kids or this

544
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: can't go on. You were just it. It was it

545
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: was natural because she let you be you, yea, and

546
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: you obviously let Ingrid be Ingrid because Ingrid can only

547
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: be Ingrid right. That's the magic of Ingrid right, no

548
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: one telling how I feel like in the beginning, because

549
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: we did get married later in life, we really had

550
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: to find who we were before this could work. And

551
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: that's why I think that break was so great because

552
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: we needed it and he needed to find what he wanted.

553
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: But I feel honesty and respecting each other and just

554
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: talking everything out and just really getting to know each

555
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: other what we want, and that made it work. And

556
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: I still had still done when we don't when we

557
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: don't have that break or that date or like, we

558
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: are a little bit further apart because we lost that

559
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: kind of connection. And then as soon as we haven't,

560
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: you know, some time together and I was like, oh,

561
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: they are here. It is I'm and I relate every

562
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: thing to racing obvious, but to me, to me, what

563
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: makes a race car great is the balance, right. I

564
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: think the front grip versus the rear grip and the

565
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: power and how it's distributed. I look at a relationship. Yes, now,

566
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: actually you have to be balanced out, you know. It's

567
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 1: it's well, well, that's a funny part because that's why

568
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: my friend explained it to her. You really got to

569
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 1: David Ingrid she's not just a what it was it

570
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: is it's the part of the car. No, she's no,

571
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: she said, she's not just she's like a Ferrari. Just yeah,

572
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: that's how she had explained to him. She's got a

573
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: rental car. She's she's like, she's a Ferrari. He's like,

574
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: she's like, you know, you got to be fully committed

575
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: to it. But she told him that's how she's true.

576
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: You got it. That's how you got But and so

577
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: I to me, it's about and don't trust me. We

578
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: don't get this right all the time, but I think

579
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: it's our goal, is the balance of time together, time away,

580
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: time as a family of work. So let's let's speak

581
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: and I guess the bickering part two. We do, like

582
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: you guys bickering, but we have fun with it and

583
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: laugh at it. It's not totally you know, we don't

584
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: take longer. Takes Roger longer to get over it than me.

585
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: So I just got to leave me a lou don't

586
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: keep poking the bear. Yeah, mama bear, Mama bear. So,

587
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 1: so speaking about this pandemic exactly, um, would you say

588
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: that you guys like each other more or less since

589
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: started Roger I think I think it was. It was,

590
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: and good let me let me ask that any more

591
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: human manner question. I think it more. Um, I think

592
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: what he means is in those moments because I know Roger,

593
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: and you guys know Roger. Well, for those of you

594
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: out there in the universe that don't know Roger, a

595
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: pandemic for Roger, quarantine is harder for some people than others. Roger,

596
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: I have seen him on the ceiling a few times.

597
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: I see him. I hear him pounding, pacing above me.

598
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: He has to get out. It's like a thing. And

599
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: I think, um, you know, I know him almost thirty years,

600
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: so I know I'll literally just be like go like shoot,

601
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: He'll go and do like a twenty thousand step walk

602
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: for like an hour and a half. I don't even

603
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: and he comes back like a totally different person and

604
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 1: he like needs that. I guessed escaping my wife. So

605
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: my question is in those moments you guys, Because Jeff,

606
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 1: you do normally travel a lot for work, right you.

607
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: Obviously you guys have have created this incredible life and

608
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: travel a lot together, But there are moments outside of

609
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 1: the pandemic where you're apart. So I guess my question

610
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: is have there been challenges and have you guys figured

611
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: out how to kind of manage that, like when you

612
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: really don't separate for a year, you know, basically that's

613
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: what also really worked so well because I've been traveling

614
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: since I was fifteen years old every two weeks, so

615
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: if I don't have anything else, just go somewhere, right

616
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: and just one or two nights and I'm recharging. Yeah.

617
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 1: But then, so this didn't work. What we were doing

618
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: and he was working at home. And this is a

619
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: funny story too, so looking at all the American movies,

620
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 1: so when you get married in America, you go to

621
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: the office and bring the husband something at the office.

622
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: And I did that so and that was not pleasant

623
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: and never did again because I got office Jeff and

624
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 1: Office Jeff. It's not that pleasant Jeff. Pretty much of

625
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 1: Jeff is here, Oh my goodness, and so I'm like,

626
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: oh no, so normally goes out and he's very serious

627
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: and what he's doing, and so I'm like, where's the

628
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: fun part. So that didn't work out. So I never

629
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: did that again. And but so now the office Jeff,

630
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: that was that I didn't really want to meet again.

631
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: He came home and she stays here all the time,

632
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: so I had to get used to them. I have

633
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: Office Roger here, and I just had worre co CEOs.

634
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: We're talking about office Roger. I don't like office wrong.

635
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,720
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845
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Speaker 1: we I crashed in poker on this one years, really

846
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: bad crash and hit the wall, and I'm coming out

847
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: of the infield care center. Ye two hundred miles per hour. Yeah, yeah,

848
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: there's the worst thing could have breaks failed during two

849
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: hundred miles per hour in a heartbreaking corner. That was

850
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: a scary moan because at that one I was like, oh, oh,

851
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: it is not even that you can tell right away

852
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: the crash when the way they hit it. I just

853
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: felt I learned so much that I knew when he crashed. Yeah,

854
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: it wasn't, but that one was really scary. So I

855
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: was a little loopy. I get out, I go the

856
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: infield care center and I was finally didn't you know,

857
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 1: having the injuries that I knew of, and I'm walking

858
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: out and a NASCAR offishal comes up and they're like,

859
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: where are you going? I said, I'm going home. They're like, no, no, no, no,

860
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: we got the data from the crash box and you're

861
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: not going anywhere. In a matter of fact, we got

862
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: to get you checked into a hospital or to do

863
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: a scan because you know this the g load was

864
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: like some fifty something geese or something of an impact.

865
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: And so I was like, okay. So we go to

866
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: New York City and they had lined up in a

867
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: hospital New York City to go and get this MRI

868
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: and so Inger and I like, you know, we show

869
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: up the hospital. I'm hungry. What should we get for dinner?

870
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, you know, let's go to I

871
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe Nobu or mister Chow or something. And

872
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: so we up on the Yeah. So we get on

873
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 1: the on the elevator, we get off on this floor.

874
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: We walk up to the to the person to check

875
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: him said, you know here for an MRI. Oh, who's

876
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: the patient. I'm like, I'm the patient and they're like,

877
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: what do you mean? And I said, well, I'm the patient.

878
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,879
Speaker 1: What's your name? I give my name and they look

879
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: me up and they're like, well, the patient can't be

880
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: you because it says here it's a high speed crash

881
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: one hundred and eighty mile per hour impact and and

882
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 1: they're like, so, who's the patient. I said, no, I'm

883
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 1: the patient, and they're like, that's impossible. You know, we

884
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: have people that were doing fifty sixty seventy miles per

885
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,439
Speaker 1: hour and you know, they're they're never going to walk

886
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: again or whatever. And I'm like, I don't know what

887
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: to tell you, man, but I'm the one, and and

888
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: you know, I tend to explain to it because this

889
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: New York City, they didn't know anything. Every step star

890
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 1: there's a wall, the seat and the seatbelts. And finally

891
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: he got it. So then they check us in and

892
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: then of course, in perfect Ingrid style, she's got What

893
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: was was mister no boo, Yeah, it's got no boo.

894
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: Ordered to the hospital. It was mister orders to the hospital.

895
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: First while we're waiting for NIM class literally my favorite thing.

896
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: And you were fine and you walked away completely unscathed.

897
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: We totally fine. Kind of skill has some symptoms. Well

898
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: it's hard. Yet it's hard. It's hard to say that

899
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: those were already there or because yeah, so it seems

900
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: like things are going you know, are going wow, things

901
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 1: like things are going well. You know, if we had

902
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: to think about, if we had to think about twenty

903
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: years from now, you know, the kids are off college,

904
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: maybe married, you know, maybe weren't grandparents, maybe just living

905
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: living apart, just the two of you in that big,

906
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: big house of yours. What do you think, um, what

907
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: do you think your life's going to be? First prefaces

908
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: at saying in twenty years, if we're in a house

909
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: in Charlotte, North Carolina. I love Charlotte. Work is here,

910
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful place to live, and our kids go

911
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: to school here. But she's been chasing me, or you know, coming,

912
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: not chasing, but coming with me to the racier. I've

913
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 1: been pulling her to these racetracks and and here to Charlotte.

914
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 1: I lived in New York, I really liked, from Belgium,

915
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: all over the world, you know, traveling, and I've got

916
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: her here in Charlotte. So I'm pretty sure twenty years,

917
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: where will we be? Yeah, where will you be? I'm

918
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: where in Europe? Well? Yea under percental And you know

919
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: what I'm cool with that. I love Europe obviously, I

920
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: love Belgium. It's funny as the younger as I've never

921
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: going back, never doing that, and then you know, now

922
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 1: to get older, just want to go back to my roots.

923
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying necessarily Belgium, just you know, I

924
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: lived in Paris I'm fifteen years old until I was

925
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: twenty five, so that's more my home because that is

926
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: kind a teenager where I made my life. So I

927
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 1: really feel like somewhere sat of friends or something. You guys,

928
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: we can beat grandparents in twenty years. Jeff, do you

929
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: want to buy? Do you want to chip in on

930
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: a compound? Together? Compound the two of us, we could

931
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: just hang out. We can have our own clubhouse. You know,

932
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: we can have our own clubhouse. Oh, kids like go

933
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 1: shopping or do whatever they want to do, and we

934
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: will just hang out in our clubhouse. Well, you know,

935
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: i'm d Jay, so yeah, I'm ready made up in

936
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: his garage now he's a DJ and a shop. Yes, yes,

937
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: he's a great DJ. Of course he was your name

938
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: again seven yea un tortu you DJ Jazzy. Jeff has

939
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: already taken Djan. I'm not a seven. I'm not a

940
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 1: great DJ, but I do love music and it's it's fun,

941
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: and I've got these killer speakers. I love. I want

942
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 1: to feel the basics. How unfortunately where we live and

943
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: we don't have a dedicated room. I'll get a text

944
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: from Inger. I'll be in the garage. We made this

945
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 1: room for the kids of the Pink PA and cable

946
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,319
Speaker 1: to foozeball into TV. And then I'm the one that's

947
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 1: always because I said, exact night, it's like two o'clock,

948
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 1: It's like, where have you been? This is by himself?

949
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 1: Do you think? Well, this one night I was really

950
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 1: feeling it and I had to rank up and she

951
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: I get a text from her. She goes, yeah, I

952
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: can hear that. I'm pretty sure the neighbors can hear

953
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: that you might want to turn the I am pretty

954
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: sure that, um that Jeff, you and Roger. There's a

955
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: reason that you're so close because I'm pretty sure you

956
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: can have a lot of similarities. Well we have yet,

957
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 1: no doubt, no doubt. He and I have talked about this.

958
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: I think there's this burning desired I kind of mean, yes,

959
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: I think you can. Yes, so that's why you and

960
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 1: next so exactly hence my idea for the compound retirement

961
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:52,439
Speaker 1: compound club. Where's it going to be, Roger? How many?

962
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: How many women out there? She's like, wait, hold on, Roger,

963
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: where are you talking about South Frands and Jeff in

964
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: the clubhouse and the fraud? Okay, so you guys, we're

965
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: going to have the Minila cup. Yeah, okay, so you guys,

966
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: this is a really fun part. Okay. So here's the thing.

967
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: I forgot we were even doing a podcast because this

968
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: is this is what we do. But here's the thing.

969
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 1: So so we don't continue for seven more hours without

970
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: realizing it. Um, there's something we do at the end

971
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: which is very fun. Um. We love to ask some

972
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: questions to you guys that you answer about the other person. Okay, okay, okay,

973
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,240
Speaker 1: So I'm going to ask this to Ingrid first because Jeff,

974
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: I feel like you are not going to be able

975
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: to answer it. Okay, Ingrid, what's one piece of clothing

976
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: of Jeff's that you would just be really excited to

977
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: burn or like throw away so many it's this is

978
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 1: I think it's one or two pairs of jeans, but

979
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: they look exactly like and they are gone missing. She

980
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: already rated the closet amazing. But I mean that's the

981
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: thing you talked about her and her style and yeah,

982
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: that's not me. And then now, of course, I think

983
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: in a way it kind of works, works because she

984
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: lets me be me, but she wishes to come home like, hey,

985
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: I got you this, and I'm like, oh, yeah, she

986
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: really wants me to wear that. Well in the beginning,

987
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: you let me more. Yeah, I mean, I just I'm like,

988
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: I gave up. Yeah, you and Grid. I'm pretty sure

989
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 1: Roger has nylon, Like there's these these these track pants

990
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: are I don't. I just angry. I can't. I have

991
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: to be better, as so many things could be better.

992
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: But again that's the part that you know, he lets

993
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: me be me, silly, meet whatever I need to do,

994
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: and I'm fine with however you and that's the magic.

995
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: Well what else would you be fine? If Jeff was

996
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: with his celebrity crush, Jeff, who is your celebrity? Oh no, no,

997
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 1: you're not asking Jeff, you're asking Ingrid who jeff celebrity crushes?

998
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh it doesn't have to be a celebrity.

999
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: But it's like Jeff's like free pass, who's this hall pass?

1000
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: If any She's like, nobody, you changed a few times.

1001
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: That's okay. It could be current. It could be current,

1002
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: it could be from I don't know, isn't Oh yeah,

1003
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: I heard, okay, what's what's so? So she got hooked

1004
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: on the show called Lucifer, and she I thought she

1005
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 1: just liked the concept of the show. Then you know,

1006
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: I started, I'm like, hey, you've been watching several episodes

1007
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 1: of Lucifer. And I sit down five in the morning,

1008
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: I've just and I and I'm like, I mean, that's

1009
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 1: a good looking guy. The main characters, Like, you know,

1010
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: is that why you're watching this show? She's like, yes, Ingrid,

1011
00:58:57,360 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: So wait, okay, so on that note, and I have

1012
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: the same thing with bridgeton I've watched it seven times.

1013
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I should watch it together. I did not allow

1014
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: Roger to watch it with me, But you guys should

1015
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: watch it together minus children. But it's an incredible show.

1016
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: The man happens to be probably the most handsome man

1017
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: to ever hit television. I'm just I won't see her

1018
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: for another couple of days. Well, I'm just gonna say

1019
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: it's really good Bridget Netflix. And then I turned out

1020
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: I was not crazy that it's actually the most watched

1021
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: show that's ever. It's so good. What do you have?

1022
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: Because it's so sorry? Okay, so don't celebrity trash. Okay, yeah,

1023
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: she just threw out his name, Selma, Hi it used

1024
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 1: to be. By the way, she looks exactly the same,

1025
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: She's magnet. I'm sure. Yes, yeah, I've got Ingrid, which

1026
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: is better than all. Okay, right, this is a good one.

1027
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: I also feel like Ingrid will be able to answer

1028
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: this about Jeff, and Jeff will not be able to

1029
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: answer this. Maybe maybe, Yes, it's going to be simple,

1030
00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: Ingred is Jeff for arrested? What would it be? What

1031
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: it means for road rage? Yes? Yes, Roger thinks mine

1032
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: would be yelling at someone at the airport. Definitely thinks

1033
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: that all the time. With the stomach, I can't take

1034
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: stuff with Oh my god, she has no patience for security.

1035
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: And and like if they asked the simplest question, you know,

1036
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: do you do you have your back? Why? I can't

1037
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: ever bottle what I said. No, no, no, it's not

1038
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: that's what I said the criminal. Are you yelling at me? Yes?

1039
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:47,200
Speaker 1: I know, yes, And then I get mad. That's literally

1040
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: why would I be nice to me? What is it

1041
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: if I would road range road rage, I could see that.

1042
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: Supposed to be a calm, cool collected driver. No, you're

1043
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: not road right now. You're like a nast when people

1044
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 1: do moves you don't you think I have a little

1045
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: a few pet peeves on the road, like I can't.

1046
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: You're in the fast lane and you're going slow. I'm

1047
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: gonna ride an inch off your bumper. So yeah, he

1048
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: does one of those looking like wos in there? Yeah,

1049
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: I do that. I hate that about myself. Actually I

1050
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: do that thing where I drive by them like like

1051
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: people stare it down when they've done something I don't like,

1052
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: like this morning, yester, Yeah I did it yesterday, Like,

1053
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: don't do it. Don't that I have problem with bad drivers.

1054
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't imagine that like that. That's so shocking.

1055
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys actually do this a lot.

1056
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: So that's why I want to ask Jeff, what would

1057
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: Ingrid's What does Ingrid's go to karaoke song? Oh my gosh, No,

1058
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: we're terrible singers, terrible. I just wanted to know. It's

1059
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: my greatest life fear, So I don't do it. Roger

1060
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 1: couldn't answer that at least we thought we were singing.

1061
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: What was that song? I don't know. We actually bought

1062
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: machine for home that like changes your voice and all this. Okay, okay,

1063
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 1: you know, because our voices are so bad, Sam, there

1064
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 1: is a cool little diet, I think. But if you

1065
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: don't think us, what would I think? Prince? Yeah, definitely something, Prince,

1066
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 1: definitely okay. I mean she knows every word to to to,

1067
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 1: like nineteen oh, I love that for you. You did,

1068
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: thank you, You're right. I will say. We went to

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01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: this party, uh in New York one time where they

1070
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: had karaoke, and Inger and I we had the microphones

1071
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: and we were just I mean we were standing on

1072
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: the on the chairs like we're actually good. We're like

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01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 1: really good, right, and everybody's loving it. And we realized

1074
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 1: that our microphones were off and then turned them and

1075
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: then we turned them on and then we could hear

1076
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: our voice and everybody looked, Okay, that's amazing, that's amazing. Okay.

1077
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: So then all right, so Ingrid I could see that, okay, Prince, okay.

1078
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: And then Jeff, I feel like I know what your

1079
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 1: karaoke songs would be. I feel like it would be

1080
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 1: like eighties like would it be some good eighties rock

1081
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: right now? Yeah? Probably? I mean it would have to

1082
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: be set with very few words, you know, like like ACDA.

1083
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: That's where I was going with it. I don't even

1084
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 1: know the other words. I'm literally where I'm seeing you.

1085
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: I'm seeing you doing a CDC like in my mind. Okay,

1086
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: so I was I was dead on there. I forgot. Well,

1087
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: I think they're very foody. They are, so I think, Um,

1088
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 1: it's about each other. Ask Jeff about Ingrid and Ingrid

1089
01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: about Jeff. Jeff. If it was Ingrid's last meal, what

1090
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: would she request? Oh, this is so easy at time.

1091
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: This girl loves pasta. What specific we have a specific?

1092
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:06,439
Speaker 1: Maybe penny rabbiata or yeah, honey that yeah, I would

1093
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 1: say that. Or and sweets. She likes a good a

1094
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: good dessert. Oh yeah, oh Tiara massoup because she's super

1095
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: for dessert. Yeah, maybe a Bolonis or a Penny a rabbia. Yeah,

1096
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: you're right, that's all right, the one. Jeff very nice? Okay,

1097
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 1: all right? Angered what would Jeffs last meal be? Uh

1098
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: A good steak? Oh yeah, grill I love Oh yes,

1099
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 1: oh my god, you think in the middle. Okay, So wait,

1100
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 1: So there's actually, um, you know because we have been

1101
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: now we go out in the restaurants, we've been searching

1102
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 1: for finding good meat. And there's this place that we

1103
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: found it delivered Kobe beef. And I was like, oh

1104
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 1: my god. You know it's like this this one time

1105
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: and you're cooking it and you're making it Jeff. Right, Yeah,

1106
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: I go look it all up and figure figure out

1107
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: how to cook it. Right, And so is there a

1108
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: Jeff Gordon Instagram coming of like cooking with Jeff? I'm

1109
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: you know what's going on? What are you? Are you

1110
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: so you're broadcasting what's going on with career wise? Are

1111
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: you still racing? You're not racing? We know that, right,

1112
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 1: I'm not driving. Yeah, But I feel like, Jeff, I

1113
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: feel like you still getting back Jeff. I feel like

1114
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 1: when you told me you were done driving, you still

1115
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 1: went back in the car. Like I remember. I remember

1116
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: kind of everyone comes out of retirement. It's like Selene

1117
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: Dion or like Barbra streisand like I'm done, I'm done.

1118
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm never getting back in and like it's over. And

1119
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: then I felt like you were like, um, I just

1120
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: have one more race. So I so the last race

1121
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: that I was a part of. Is this twenty four

1122
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 1: hour race where you have teammates and you swap drivers.

1123
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: It's a sports car race. It's a very famous race,

1124
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: and you us called the Daytona Rolls twenty four hours,

1125
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 1: and so that was in twenty seventeen. So tired of

1126
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 1: fifteen had to do a small stiff for Dale Earn

1127
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: when he was injured. Sixteen that was you were called. Yeah,

1128
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:09,960
Speaker 1: we were in France, we're in Santra Pei. Got a

1129
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 1: call and he was done driving, completely done point and

1130
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 1: then he gets called and he got, oh you need

1131
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 1: to come home. This this driver, Dale Earn, our junior,

1132
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 1: got injured. You have to come and you have to

1133
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 1: drive and get in the car in two days. I'm like, oh,

1134
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: I'm like what. So we had to leave santra Pe. Yes,

1135
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: so we left and did about eight racist. But but

1136
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: my last race was that the endurance race and me

1137
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: and my team won it. And he get this beautiful

1138
01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: role X watch for and yeah you get a Daytona

1139
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 1: of course, and so I got, you know, and so

1140
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: when that watch went on my wrists, I looked at

1141
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't ever want to race again.

1142
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 1: I've won I've got a role x. I'm good and

1143
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: now I had a lot to drive a race car

1144
01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 1: in competition anymore. But yeah, how to drive? What's that teaching? Yes, exactly,

1145
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: she's Oh my gosh, talk about scary. Teaching Ella to drive?

1146
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: Well she yeah, she's done a little bit of racing,

1147
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 1: and Leo a little bit also when they were younger.

1148
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: But I'm just I want to get her prepared. She's

1149
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: thirteen to me, you know, prepared for thing. No, No,

1150
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 1: I want to get her prepared for driving. Okay, I

1151
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 1: just died inside. That scares me more. Race car, it

1152
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:31,479
Speaker 1: really does. Well, Um, I have a question though. You guys,

1153
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: they say that our kids won't even be driving. Have

1154
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 1: you heard this? They say that they they say that

1155
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: they're going to have cars that actually drive forward them

1156
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: that actually kind of stars more because I prefer humans

1157
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: over Yeah. I mean, I think the technology is still

1158
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 1: a long way away from from being you know, where

1159
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 1: we can trust it, and I think it'll probably start

1160
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: transportation like trucking and stars down the highway. But I

1161
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 1: actually went to Google a few years ago and I

1162
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: wrote in their autonomous car and it was wild, you know,

1163
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 1: to to just sit there and let go and give us,

1164
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: especially for me and and it was pretty amazing. But

1165
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,919
Speaker 1: I can still see, you know, to be completely failsafe

1166
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: um and have all the backup systems and things to

1167
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 1: to really do it right. It's it's going to take

1168
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,960
Speaker 1: a long time. I mean maybe you know, okay, so

1169
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: Leo's Leo's ten. Yeah, I think I think we're still

1170
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: looking at you know, ten to fifteen years. I think

1171
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: before that's gonna now. Electric vehicles, I think you know

1172
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: that is totally coming in a hurry. Well, all right,

1173
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: you guys, Roger's dream is gonna flow. No more stiction.

1174
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, I'm so pissed off. I've been looking

1175
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: for a stick shift No not no, you can't. I

1176
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 1: mean also here with all the holes you guys make,

1177
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: they make very very few. They make very they make

1178
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 1: some title shift now, but the very few actual stick

1179
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: shift cars, very very few. All Right, we love you

1180
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: so much. I'm worre so hard. Well, you guys are also,

1181
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: like I have to say, because you know, works for

1182
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:07,680
Speaker 1: us is not just going to be married couples. It's

1183
01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 1: going to be all kinds of relationships. And we really

1184
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 1: wanted to have you guys on because we really have

1185
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: to say, of we know a lot of couples and

1186
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:20,679
Speaker 1: not so many not so many. Habit kind of work

1187
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 1: the way you guys do, and we try to be

1188
01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 1: as you are. That seems just so fun to see

1189
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 1: you guys the West. It's been zars. Okay, babe, seriously,

1190
01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,560
Speaker 1: can we talk about Jeff and Ingrid? So I just

1191
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 1: wanted to know something I didn't know because obviously I

1192
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 1: don't necessarily follow race car driving. I when we were

1193
01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: first friends with Jeff, I'm pretty sure I didn't realize

1194
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 1: like kind of who he was and how big of

1195
01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: a deal he was. And then when I would mention him,

1196
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: everyone just was like floored because he's actually like the nicest, funniest,

1197
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:08,560
Speaker 1: sweetest guy ever. No, yeah, he definitely doesn't seem like

1198
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,959
Speaker 1: a one of the most famous race car drivers see

1199
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 1: me like the most of this time. Yeah, I don't

1200
01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: know of another one. Tom Cruise in Days of Thunder,

1201
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 1: which I'm pretty sure was based off Jeff card. No,

1202
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 1: he actually said it wasn't bad. I know, but I

1203
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 1: kind of don't believe based off that other gentleman that

1204
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,719
Speaker 1: do you believe in? Though he gives me Tom cars, Jeff,

1205
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: he seems very earnest. I mean, although I don't know

1206
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:35,639
Speaker 1: if I could trust a DJ. I mean I love

1207
01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: that over quarantine, Like you lost all this week, you

1208
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: got in the best shape of your life. Like I

1209
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: started cooking like a lunatic. Jeff started not just cooking,

1210
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,240
Speaker 1: he actually became a d He showed me pictures of

1211
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: his DJ equipment. He's serious, and he goes out in

1212
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: his garage and like dances in DJ's by himself. Almo,

1213
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: I think that's totally normal, don't you think. No. I mean,

1214
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,760
Speaker 1: maybe maybe outlet. You know how our kids need to

1215
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 1: like run in circles to get their energy out. Maybe

1216
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 1: this is just like his outlet. He's been driving a

1217
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: race car for so long now he doesn't know, That's

1218
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, I feel like race car driving

1219
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: is a little bit like he just needs loud noise

1220
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: in his ears. Oh god, Oh maybe isn't that true?

1221
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:20,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that needs like that. And then it's like,

1222
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: oh God, please don't ever make that again. I do

1223
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:26,560
Speaker 1: want to also point out that ingrid you know, the

1224
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 1: hard thing about podcast, which hopefully will change at some point,

1225
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: or maybe not hopefully change at some point, you actually

1226
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 1: can't see how beautiful Ingrid is, and she is so

1227
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:37,720
Speaker 1: breathtaking that it's actually ridiculous. I'm going to say this

1228
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 1: in a non creepy way. Okay, good. If I walked

1229
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 1: up to the pool and saw Ingrid, there's a chance

1230
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 1: I also might approach and want to talk to her

1231
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 1: and also be intimidated. I actually think if you didn't

1232
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 1: I get your head examined, I might go up to

1233
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:53,040
Speaker 1: her and approach her or not, because you know she

1234
01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: is indeed intimidating. Okay, well, guys, this is one of

1235
01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 1: my favorite episodes because I love their story. I love

1236
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: their love story, and I love how kind of funny

1237
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: it was and that it wasn't immediate that this was

1238
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 1: jeff second wife. I didn't know anything that we talked

1239
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 1: about on the podcast, and they've been our friends for

1240
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: what ten years? Yeah, to show you how surface we are,

1241
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: or it goes to show you that we're not nosy,

1242
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 1: and maybe we didn't dig that deeply. But I'm glad

1243
01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 1: they shared it with our listeners because I think it's

1244
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:28,120
Speaker 1: nice to know that not every story is like we met,

1245
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: we filmed love and the rest is history. They were like,

1246
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: oh no, there was a lot of stops and starts,

1247
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 1: so anyway, Okay, guys, if you liked what you heard

1248
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: so far, please make sure you're subscribed on Apple Podcasts

1249
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:43,680
Speaker 1: and give us a rating obviously a great one, and

1250
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: a review. Five star rating. Yeah, five star ratings only please,

1251
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: that's the only thing welcome. Add a nice review would

1252
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: be a bonus, So especially if you point out how

1253
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 1: amazing I am. Prestas Rachel Okay, awesome, but Jeff, keep listening.

1254
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they know who is the talent around here.

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Speaker 1: experts if you think about it. I don't know people, sweetie.

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Speaker 1: I think some people would say being together for thirty

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Speaker 1: I mean, he just needs so much credit all that time.

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Speaker 1: So we have two boys in a baby dog that

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Speaker 1: love their mommy. He's so jealous of my puppy. It's

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Speaker 1: so before we go, I want to leave you with

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Speaker 1: a little highlight and low light from our week. In relationships,

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Speaker 1: the bad comes with the goods, so this is our

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Speaker 1: time to mention a little bit of both of those things. Okay,

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Speaker 1: should I go first? Bab? Sure? Okay, So I have

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Speaker 1: a really good highlight. What is it? I got a

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Speaker 1: clear mammograms. Nice. And for those of you that don't know,

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Speaker 1: I have a very bad family history of breast cancer.

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Speaker 1: My mother and my sister are survivors, so I get

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Speaker 1: checked your grandmother My grandmother had a yes as well,

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Speaker 1: so very much in my family. I am brockagene negative.

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Speaker 1: But for those of you out there, I just want

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Speaker 1: to say that we've all neglected taking care of ourselves

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Speaker 1: and doing the medical things we commit to every year

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Speaker 1: because of COVID. So now that it has lifted, if

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Speaker 1: you are feeling more safe, please go and get your

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Speaker 1: mammograms and get check because it will save your life.

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Speaker 1: So please do that. So that was my highlights, always

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Speaker 1: an incredible feeling. Can I ask question, how long does

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Speaker 1: that last for? You're supposed to go once a year.

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Speaker 1: I go twice a year because of my family history. Gotcha? Okay,

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Speaker 1: because things can happen over a few months to um. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So my low light was my lowlight. Okay. So here's

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Speaker 1: a thing you know on Instagram and in photoshoots, I

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Speaker 1: think everything is seemingly perfect but in real life, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes it is, but rarely. But I would like to

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Speaker 1: say that yesterday I had to do a photoshoot and

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Speaker 1: I do not want to sound it all ungrateful, but

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Speaker 1: it was with my boys, and you know, kids are

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Speaker 1: kids naturally, and literally Caius on the entire shoot, which

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Speaker 1: by the way, it was an hour, but it was

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Speaker 1: after school, and he was exhausted and he was over it.

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Speaker 1: He was angel, Yes, our sweet little angel who does

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Speaker 1: nothing but smile, was whimpering and weeping because he was

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Speaker 1: done and I could not get him to smile. I

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Speaker 1: gave him gummy bears, I gave him kit kats, I

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Speaker 1: bribed him as any stage momo. No, he actually looked

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Speaker 1: at me and you want to know what he said?

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Speaker 1: What do you say? And by the way, I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to know my intentions were good. This was a

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Speaker 1: campaign for sustainability and how families and children what they

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Speaker 1: do is like to sort of set examples as a

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Speaker 1: sustainable family in our greenhouse and all of these things.

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Speaker 1: And he was really excited, but I just think the

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Speaker 1: exhaustion just took over and he basically looked at me

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Speaker 1: with those big green eyes filled with water and I said,

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Speaker 1: can you smile for five minutes and we'll be done?

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Speaker 1: And he said, Mommy, how do you expect me to

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Speaker 1: just change my emotion? And I asked, such a piece

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Speaker 1: of work and I actually didn't have a good response,

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Speaker 1: and just just do what I do. Fake it? He wouldn't,

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Speaker 1: he couldn't. I think, do you know, at age seven

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Speaker 1: and deeply emotional, just take a pillow? Fake it? Nope, Nope,

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Speaker 1: there's no fake. Yeah, that's your son wears his heart

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Speaker 1: on his sleeve, just just their babe. Yep. So that

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Speaker 1: was my low light because I felt horrible even though

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was doing something good and it

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Speaker 1: was supposed to be fun and one child loved it,

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Speaker 1: one just really didn't. Just didn't happen. So anyway, babes,

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Speaker 1: what's your highs and lows? You always have them? Can't

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Speaker 1: wait to hear I'm a little scared. My highlight? Why

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Speaker 1: am I always so scared of your highs and lows?

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Speaker 1: My highlight, Well, because they're scary. My highlight is I'm

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Speaker 1: freaking looking forward to getting out of Dodge. And what

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Speaker 1: I mean I mean by that is like I love La,

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Speaker 1: I love La, but I really need to leave La

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Speaker 1: for some amount of time so I could go somewhere else.

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01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 1: I have like COVID cabin fever, and I'm looking forward

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Speaker 1: to going to Vegas. Yes, I said it. Do you

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Speaker 1: want to hear in a lower voice, I don't know

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Speaker 1: how we're married Vegas, or maybe in a medium voice.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to Vegas. Well, the highlight is that I'm

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Speaker 1: going to Vegas, and I'm looking forward to spending three

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Speaker 1: nights with ten of my best friends in Las Vegas. Literally,

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Speaker 1: me going to Vegas with ten of your best friends

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Speaker 1: is how I define hell, well, Rachel, One person's hell

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Speaker 1: is another person's heaven. It really is, and that's really

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Speaker 1: what works for us. One person's trash is another person's treasure.

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Speaker 1: Just all I want to know is how many gifts

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Speaker 1: are you buying me while you're there too? You're leaving

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Speaker 1: me with our puppy, Yeah, puppy? Does it mean you

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01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 1: know what? Goldie lives here with us? She's she's our puppy.

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Speaker 1: Cannot be used in the court of law, please, she

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01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 1: can actual in admissible evidence. Please move on. You're leaving

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Speaker 1: us with our true it doesn't matter. You don't do

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Speaker 1: anything anyway. Anyway, go on, so so I'm looking forward

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Speaker 1: to it. Okay, great, what's your low light that I

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Speaker 1: have to come home? Bump? That was a worse low

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Speaker 1: light ever, not convincing at all and no oppressing. It

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Speaker 1: is when you're doing I'm doing an anticipated low light. Okay,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing worse than I'm going to crawl your ass

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Speaker 1: out of bed in vague? Can I have to? Can

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Speaker 1: I just remind come home and listen to you like that?

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Speaker 1: You right here? We can take the dog outde hey?

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Speaker 1: So can I Can I just say something? She shouldn't

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Speaker 1: go away? I think the low light might be worse

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Speaker 1: than the highlight? Can I just say something? Can I

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01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 1: say something? Can I say something? You're gonna say it? Say?

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01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: You might as well just come out with it. Okay, ready,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure the last October you went away on

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Speaker 1: this amazing boy's trip and came home early and said

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Speaker 1: that was my last one. You know what, babe, I

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Speaker 1: just love our family. I miss you, I miss us,

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Speaker 1: I missed the kids. That was so annoyance. That was

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Speaker 1: before I was cooped up with you freaking crazy. Okay, bye,

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