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Speaker 2: Next Fred show is Jason Niner wants at a bar. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: after a few beverages and I made him do straight.

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Speaker 2: Jason to the bartender. Now, we warned her ahead of time,

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Speaker 2: but she was a she was shocked. She was taken aback.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she couldn't believe that there was someone so attractive

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Speaker 4: sitting right in front of her, and she clutched her pearls.

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Speaker 1: She wanted to take me home right then and there.

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Speaker 2: No, she did. That's what I mean when I say

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Speaker 2: it wasn't that she was in shock and appalled by

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Speaker 2: the way that you represent straight men or the way

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Speaker 2: that you believe that straight men represent themselves, which in

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Speaker 2: many cases we do. Wow. It was aggressive. Yeah, she

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Speaker 2: said take me here. No, but I said no one, no, No,

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Speaker 2: taken at the bar.

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Speaker 1: She has been for years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. You said you'd come back and you never did.

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Speaker 2: Like Red Show, Good morning, Thanks for having us on

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Speaker 2: the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime search

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Speaker 2: for a Fred Show on demand. It's one of my

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Speaker 2: favorite shirts. One of you guys gave it to me.

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Speaker 2: It was calem It says a blockbuster on and the

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Speaker 2: question that you had for bela Hemine was bela Hemine.

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Speaker 5: Welcome, get in here, Hey, Fred fel scared.

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Speaker 2: You have your phone? We can just text you right anyway, Okay,

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Speaker 2: oh sorry, No, you don't have to be sorry.

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Speaker 1: What what what is this?

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Speaker 5: What did I do?

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Speaker 2: What is No? I'm asking you what my shirt?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 5: What is that? That's Blockbuster?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And how old are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm twenty seven?

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Speaker 1: And do you know what this is?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 5: I know Blockbuster? Fred I don't think you would you

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Speaker 5: know what this is? Have you been to one? Yeah? When? Well,

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Speaker 5: when's the last time you?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you know what this is? Because Blena was

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Speaker 2: very worried that you didn't know what my shirt said,

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Speaker 2: I just did.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Sol, No, I know what that is. I just

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Speaker 7: I told Katy the other day. I didn't know the

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Speaker 7: difference between Jared what was that?

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Speaker 5: What was that guy's name? Jared Leto? And Jared Leto

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Speaker 5: and j and j Leto?

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Speaker 2: And yes, I was really you didn't know the difference

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Speaker 2: between Jared Leto and Jay Leno? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I was so confused.

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Speaker 1: Me neither girl?

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, good, so just me wildly different people though.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I also don't know the difference between Christina Aguilera and.

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Speaker 5: What and uh, oh god, what's that girl's name? Gwen

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Speaker 8: I don't know which ones which girl? Now you lost

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Speaker 8: me the Jared j Lin will think. Okay, I can

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Speaker 8: see that because the name of how similar?

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Speaker 1: How wait?

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Speaker 2: How could you see that differenween Jared Letto and Jo.

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Speaker 5: If you put them together side by side.

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Speaker 8: Yes, but if like Kaylen, did an entertainment report and

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Speaker 8: brought it up, I might confuse at you?

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Speaker 9: How right?

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Speaker 5: The names are just too similar? Yeah, but now Gwen

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Speaker 5: Stefani and Christina Aguilar are Jared.

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Speaker 2: And j are not the same name at all?

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Speaker 5: JA and j No, I guess it anyways, So probably.

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Speaker 2: Didn't think that you knew what this shirt meant, and

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Speaker 2: I just I was curious. I was hoping, I mean,

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Speaker 2: at twenty seven that you knew when Blackbuster was. But

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Speaker 2: there's probably some someone listening now, maybe some young kid

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Speaker 5: No, we all know what we've been informed.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been to one? You have? So you've

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Speaker 2: rented I assume a DVD?

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Speaker 5: Well, I know ever did, but because I'm too little.

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Speaker 2: But my mom, Oh, I see, so you accompanied somebody

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Speaker 2: inside a Blockbuster.

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Speaker 5: It's like a library.

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Speaker 2: It sort of was like a library, right it what

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Speaker 2: it's getting? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can check them out. That's that's kind of good.

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Speaker 11: Okay, yeah, because my sister, oh, her sister's millennial.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'd like to speak with her three thirty two.

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Speaker 5: I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, and I always get these wrong, but I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm gen X slash millennial, but more I mean, like

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Speaker 2: millennials and your gen Z.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm ninety eight, so this is the list.

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty one. I know Blockbuster. Someone texted, well, that's good.

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty three. I used to go to a Blockbuster. Okay, good,

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Speaker 2: thank god?

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Speaker 5: Okay, felt we feel performed?

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Speaker 2: Well, I do it. Paulina was worried about it, whether.

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Speaker 8: That you knew, because one is like the Netflix era

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Speaker 8: start right, like what age group?

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Speaker 2: I would think it would be hers probably. I think

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Speaker 2: the DVD he's in the mail were like late May

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Speaker 1: Right, I think.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I remember when Netflix only did DVDs and you

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Speaker 7: would get a mail to your house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there are times, yeah, a couple of times, but

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Speaker 2: that was your version of Blockbuster. And I was talking

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Speaker 2: to someone the other day. Fifty million bucks I believe

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Speaker 2: was the number that Netflix offered to sell to Blockbuster

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Speaker 2: for five zero fifty million dollars. And now they're worth

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Speaker 2: like fifty billion. Wow, let me see it again. I

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Speaker 2: looked it up the other day. No, excuse me, five

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Speaker 2: hundred and sixteen billion dollars. So Blockbuster could have bought

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Speaker 2: Netflix for five zero fifty million, and instead they said, ah, no,

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Speaker 2: why would we do that. Well, Blockbuster, we'll need you.

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Speaker 2: Now Blockbuster's gone and they're worth five hundred and sixteen

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Speaker 5: There one Blockbuster left in band Oregon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, h yeah. There was a whole documentary about him.

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Speaker 2: How they like, I don't know how they do it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know where they're getting all the DVDs from. I

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Speaker 2: don't know someone's basement. Yeah, I don't know how it's

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Speaker 7: But don't sell DVDs, you guys like Target, Well okay.

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Speaker 2: But how do you play it? I mean, like, I

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Speaker 2: just actually donated a bunch of DVDs because everyone that's true.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, you don't sure.

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Speaker 2: I always on my he's a huge gamer, but he's

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Speaker 2: more of a switch to guy, now you know more

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Speaker 2: of a switch to not switch one or no, certainly

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Speaker 2: not certainly not you. Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry I

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Speaker 2: haven't sent you three already because you know you're on

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Speaker 2: the cutting edges as a gaming influencer. Gay right, well yeah,

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Speaker 2: the gay Yeah, the game.

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Speaker 5: The game bar for sure, you get that lock that

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Speaker 5: down right.

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Speaker 1: I know he's on.

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Speaker 2: The podcast You're Gaming Game with Jason stream. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: on this eight five five five one three five and

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Speaker 2: you can call him text the same number. But bell

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Speaker 2: stay here because so these are the things, well you

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Speaker 2: you are your gen x why why why? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what all those things are.

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Speaker 2: And then you guys just keep saying letters and now

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Speaker 2: I'm really confused. See, Okay, So these are things that

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Speaker 2: basically that our parents would have most of our parents

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Speaker 2: to get your reaction to like how this would have

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Speaker 2: gone in your house. Then again, your parents are a

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Speaker 2: little while your parents are a little I mean, I've

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Speaker 2: talked to your moms. She's a little while Apparently your

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Speaker 2: dad's trite and believes that he needs airtime now too,

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Speaker 2: to speak, about his mayoral duties, which is not happening

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Speaker 2: because I can't. I can't provide equal time to your

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Speaker 2: of California. There are actual election laws against this. His

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Speaker 5: I don't know, he's not it doesn't have a competitor.

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Speaker 2: Well, he wouldn't. Yeah, so he ran out of post.

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Speaker 1: So he did. He's game to him is opinion? And

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Speaker 5: He's just jealous that my mom is on air. He's

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Speaker 2: I'm sure your dad's a lovely man. But if he

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Speaker 2: ran unopposed, I mean that's like he volunteered basically those

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Speaker 2: here's my question. I want to know from the people

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Speaker 2: at home and the people in the room, and then you,

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Speaker 2: as the youngest member, how this would have gone on

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Speaker 2: in your house? For example, Okay, were you allowed to

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Speaker 2: just well you kind of grew up in it. Did

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Speaker 2: you always grow up in kind of a smaller town.

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Speaker 2: Yeah from maybe maybe this doesn't apply as much to you.

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Speaker 2: But were you allowed to just roam the neighborhood?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 7: It depends, my depends how old I was, if I

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Speaker 7: was in trouble, like you know, like grounded, When you

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Speaker 7: were old enough and not in trouble, could you roam Yeah,

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Speaker 7: for the most part, but like my mom would want

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Speaker 7: to know where.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm not talking about the times where you were

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Speaker 2: grounded or sleeping fellow. I mean like, were you allowed

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Speaker 2: I'm wondering if you were allowed on a time when

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Speaker 2: you were conscious, ungrounded, not in jail, right when the

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Speaker 2: weather was nice, you know, when they were on most

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Speaker 5: Were you able to within the neighborhood? Yeah, okay, you

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Speaker 5: could in my neighborhood at.

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Speaker 2: A different reality, like that wasn't having you guys are

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Speaker 2: having a conversation. I'm having a conversation. She's having a conversation.

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Speaker 2: But it's not the same conversation, okay, because because like

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Speaker 2: as kids, like when I was young, it was and

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Speaker 2: and there was no way really for us to get

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Speaker 5: My parents neglected me.

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Speaker 2: I guess. So were you expected to cook your own food?

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Speaker 7: I always cooked with my parents because my parents are chefs,

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Speaker 5: The thing is I was.

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Speaker 5: Plus I'm the youngest, so my sister was always home.

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Speaker 3: Go to the park, But there's cell phones with locations

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Speaker 5: I know, I was crying up pork chops at teams.

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Speaker 2: which is the thing that your parents always tell you

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Speaker 2: That's the advice I got about bullies. But my parents

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Speaker 2: So like, if you're not equipped for that, then I

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Speaker 1: But I I will.

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Speaker 2: Admit, you know, it's gotten far more dramatic, far more drastic,

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Speaker 2: How did your parents deal with you being bullied?

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Speaker 7: Well, my dad's Italian, so all them there's a big

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Speaker 1: So he said, put me on the ratios.

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Speaker 5: Outside.

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Speaker 2: I put your mother on the air. I let her

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Speaker 5: I know, Jeff.

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Speaker 7: No my dad my mom would give very opposite advice.

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Speaker 7: never really listen to my dad in that sense. I mean,

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Speaker 5: When you egged the car. Oh, yeah, that is true.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I am like my dad. I did. I Okay,

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Speaker 2: Like your dad would actually kill people with his bare hands,

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Speaker 2: and you egged the car, so you're not like.

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Speaker 5: You're going to know a car I threw poop at

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Speaker 1: Here's poop.

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Speaker 2: Oh. I thought I thought you were going to say

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Speaker 1: I was worried.

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Speaker 2: In this segment is you're not the person to talk

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Speaker 5: Are you a bully?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 7: Somebody egged my house and I didn't even know who

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Speaker 1: That's what it's giving.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So your parents basically raised you like you were

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Speaker 2: I know, I'd look like and someone's gonna text up

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Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of different things that I've

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Speaker 5: Oh. Yes, my dad taught me how to punch mine.

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Speaker 5: Is that bad?

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Speaker 2: No, But the rule in our house was don't hit

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Speaker 2: If you get hit, then you can hit. That was

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Speaker 5: His first on the butt with a stick. Yeah, when

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Speaker 11: And so my dad taught me how to throw a

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Speaker 2: I mean, if if boys, I guess, if a man

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Speaker 5: A man hits a woman. He was a little boy.

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Speaker 8: He's really fine, that's what I well, that's what I

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Speaker 2: So she was little and it was just she was

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Speaker 2: why did we call Jose?

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Speaker 9: So?

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Speaker 2: Like, why do we call the radio station and then

445
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Speaker 2: we don't say anything?

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Speaker 1: Maybe put him on hold and then pick him back

447
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Speaker 1: up one.

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Speaker 2: More time, Jose, because I hear that there's like a

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Speaker 2: phone on. Okay, Well that was fun, thanks, Jose.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: That was I mean, what insightful? What insightful feedback there?

452
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Speaker 2: And honestly, the middle, the middle part of that call

453
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Speaker 2: touched me the most. I think when he really like

454
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Speaker 2: got into his childhood and.

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Speaker 11: Talked about it was like when he was talking, time

456
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Speaker 11: had no meaning.

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Speaker 5: He could have gone on forever.

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Speaker 2: It was for me, it was poetic, Like the guy

459
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Speaker 2: is a true orator. Like a lot of people say that,

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Speaker 2: like like uh, Barack Obama can speaking Martin Luther King,

461
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Speaker 2: But when Jose talks to me, it's like I'm the only.

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Speaker 1: Person in the room.

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Speaker 5: I'm a different person.

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Speaker 2: You like, Kiki A true speaker. Yeah, he was great,

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Speaker 2: a true orator.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 2: I was totally just locked in on everything he had

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Speaker 2: to say. I feel like Jose, Like Jose, No, your

469
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Speaker 2: mic is very much on and you can speak what

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Speaker 2: an incredible speech. Okay, Well anyway, and I was just

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Speaker 2: I was wondering if any of this related to you,

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Speaker 2: because because you do represent that generation, but I think

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Speaker 2: your parents made it such that none of.

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Speaker 1: Them represent Sorry, no, it's okay, It's okay.

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Speaker 2: You can go now and probably they can come back

476
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Speaker 2: have a nice day, because that's where we're at now,

477
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Speaker 2: is with this if we have to switch people physically

478
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Speaker 2: switch human beings so that can's entertainer report is on

479
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Speaker 2: the Fresh Show.

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Speaker 11: Fifth Harmony reunited on stage for the first time in

481
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Speaker 11: seven years during the Jonas Brothers Jonas twenty tour stop

482
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Speaker 11: in Dallas. The group performed their twenty fifteen Absolute Banger

483
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Speaker 11: Worth It in matching black outfits. Earlier that day, Keaith

484
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Speaker 11: Harmony's official X account posted for the first time since

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Speaker 11: I think twenty eighteen, of course, started some rumors of

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Speaker 11: a reunion. The group's hiatus started in twenty eighteen after

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Speaker 11: Camila Cabello decided to leave two years earlier do some

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Speaker 11: solo stuff, and I think each member has also done

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Speaker 11: some solo stuff as well. But Camilla of course didn't

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Speaker 11: attend this time. I feel like we don't ever really

491
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Speaker 11: see her doing that, but she did post for red

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Speaker 11: heart emojis to give some support. And I love all

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Speaker 11: the guests that they've been bringing out during this Jonas

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Speaker 11: twenty tour. Post Alone debuted his fashion label Austin Post

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Speaker 11: yesterday with a runway show in Paris. The collection, titled

496
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Speaker 11: at First Light, draws inspo from Dallas, Western and Southwest

497
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Speaker 11: ranch aesthetics, which I'm listening this is the vibe, reflecting

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Speaker 11: his Texas roots and long time living in Utah. The

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Speaker 11: show featured models in star and Bellis genes. It's pretty

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Speaker 11: much what you would think swede and velvet jackets, and

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Speaker 11: ended with a model on a horse, because why wouldn't it.

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Speaker 11: Post close the show in a lightwashed gentim outfit in

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Speaker 11: cowboy hat, which I feel like is pretty much his uniform.

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Speaker 11: And Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Coleman's new movie The Roses

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Speaker 11: is getting absolutely roasted for a scene having to do

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Speaker 11: with an allergic reaction. In fact, so the Natasha Allergy

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Speaker 11: Research Foundation called it triggering and dangerous.

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Speaker 5: I guess.

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Speaker 11: In the movie, the actors play feuding xes and at

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Speaker 11: one point he intentionally feeds his wife food that she's

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Speaker 11: allergic to, and then he hides her EpiPen that she

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Speaker 11: until she signs their divorce papers, so he's like obviously

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Speaker 11: pushing her into it. The foundation said the storyline is

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Speaker 11: not remotely funny. They say that life threatening food allergies

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Speaker 11: affect so many people. These portrayals are not only triggering,

516
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Speaker 11: they are dangerous. Excuse me, using food allergies and the

517
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Speaker 11: threat of anaphylaxis.

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Speaker 5: For did I say that right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I think so.

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Speaker 11: For cheap laughs is careless, offensive, and completely unacceptable.

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Speaker 5: So I'm just gonna leave.

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Speaker 1: It's the Frend Show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Thank you so much, Awaken, order to one judge,

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Speaker 2: A taco is a sandwich.

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Speaker 5: Oh not this much. A taco is a sandwich?

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Speaker 2: Eight three five, you can call it text the same number.

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Speaker 2: I mean, let's have it out. Let's you know, this

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Speaker 2: is a forum for the most important conversations to be

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Speaker 2: had in society. That's what you can you can count

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Speaker 2: on us for that. And this is that is a

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Speaker 2: taco a sandwich because a judge says that it is

533
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Speaker 2: a restaurant. Tour said that he has been battling over

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Speaker 2: what type of establishment was being built and going into

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Speaker 2: a now eleven thousand square foot strip mall restaurant space. Previously,

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Speaker 2: the commission that I guess oversees what can go where,

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Speaker 2: zoning or whatever denied a famous taco from being located

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Speaker 2: in the Strip Mall, partially based on a written commitment

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Speaker 2: that he accepted with a nearby neighborhood association limiting any

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Speaker 2: restaurant that did not offer alcohols in not allowed to receding,

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Speaker 2: and only sold made to order or subway style sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: The idea behind the agreement, according to court documents, was

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Speaker 2: to keep national fast food, burger and chicken chains out

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Speaker 2: of the Strip Mall. They didn't want him there, So

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Speaker 2: the court agrees with this guy. The tacos and burritos

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Speaker 2: are Mexican style sandwiches, and the original written commitment does

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Speaker 2: not restrict potential restaurants to only American cuisine style sandwiches.

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Speaker 11: Fam that's a torta, But a torte is a sandwich,

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Speaker 11: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: That's a Mexican sandwich, not a taco.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but this guy really wanted to be in the

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Speaker 2: Strip mall. And I guess you could have sandwiches in

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Speaker 2: the Strip mall, but you couldn't have tacos. And so

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Speaker 2: this guy, Nope, he came to the rescue and and

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Speaker 2: he sued, well, he had to.

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Speaker 5: Do what he had to do to get his little

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Speaker 5: business going. He has three towels for the business.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Bob, whatever is a taco? I mean, are we

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Speaker 2: calling it? I think it's a stretch. But a tortilla,

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Speaker 2: a hardened tortilla, is still a form of bread.

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Speaker 9: Is it not.

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Speaker 5: The bread needs to be separated from me. For it

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Speaker 5: to be a sandwich, there has to.

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Speaker 11: Be two pieces as opposed to the one, because like

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Speaker 11: something folding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my Like they're still connected, right because.

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Speaker 5: They didn't cut it.

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Speaker 2: It's basically just that's like a HOGI is not necessarily

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Speaker 2: Maybe I thought they they don't always the bread down

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Speaker 2: the middle. Yeah, some sandwiches they don't cut all the

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Speaker 2: way through like someone used to do a well cut.

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Speaker 2: If you remember that, they used to cut the bread

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Speaker 2: out in the middle. They used to cut from the

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Speaker 2: top and then stick this stuff in there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's a taco.

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Speaker 8: People say that cheeseburgers or whatever can be a sandwich

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Speaker 8: because there's two pieces of Breadger is.

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Speaker 2: A sandwich, But burger, by definition, is a sandwich.

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Speaker 5: Okay, go to a restaurant and order a burger sandwich.

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Speaker 2: And see what the waitress does the sandwich. But just

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Speaker 2: because you wouldn't say it that way doesn't mean by

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Speaker 2: definition it's not that. But the meaning of a sandwich

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Speaker 2: is two or more slices of bread or a split roll,

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Speaker 2: rely in between. So how is a How is a

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Speaker 2: curved dried tortilla not the same as a split role?

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Speaker 1: It is a tortilla? Is the split roll?

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Speaker 2: Hold on Laura's Laura's chef. Laura calls us a lot

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Speaker 2: of times. Texas called it. Laura, you're a chef, So

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Speaker 2: what what say you? He is a taco a sandwich?

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Speaker 2: Laura calls all the time what it is? You're saying

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Speaker 2: it is? Yes, Yes, a.

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Speaker 12: Sandwich is a vehicle with things inside of it.

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Speaker 2: A cornshell, right, So it's a cornshell, which is a

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Speaker 2: which was originally pliable, which is a vehicle, which is

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Speaker 2: a vehicle, which is a vehicle that Sharon can drive

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Speaker 2: his song through. Yeah, okay, all right, so Laura says

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Speaker 2: that that she agrees with this cord case. All right,

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Speaker 2: thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you too.

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Speaker 2: Now let's be honest. You said it, Paulina, like, this

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Speaker 2: guy just wants to be in that strip mall. So

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Speaker 2: he was making whatever legal argument he could, but a

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Speaker 2: judge agrees with So whether he agrees with it or not,

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Speaker 2: we don't know. He just wanted to make sure that

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Speaker 2: the ordinance didn't apply to him, so he got a

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Speaker 2: judge you agree with him. But see, here we go, Carrie.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna do this. Now, we're gonna take it one

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Speaker 2: step further, aren't we?

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Speaker 1: Carry? Go ahead? Yes.

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Speaker 13: We had a big debate at my work one day

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Speaker 13: about whether or not a hot.

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Speaker 2: Dog is a sandwich by by definition it is by

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Speaker 2: definition of hot dog is a sandwich.

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guys, yeah, it is a sweat role. Now

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Speaker 2: do you call it a sandwich? No, you call it

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Speaker 2: a hot dog, You call it hamburger sandwich? No, you

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Speaker 2: call it a hamburger. But by definition they are both sandwiches.

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Speaker 5: Crazy, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Carry, you're right, thank you. What do you think do

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Speaker 2: you think it is.

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Speaker 8: I'm kind of.

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Speaker 13: Like we're Yes, by definition it is, but I don't

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Speaker 13: think it's a sandwich.

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Speaker 1: Bye.

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Speaker 2: By vernacular, nobody calls it that. But by definition yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Carrie, have.

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Speaker 2: A good day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: Just like.

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Speaker 8: Just like Caitlin wants you to go order a say,

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Speaker 8: a sandwich, roll whatever, a hamburger, sandwichichurger sandwich, you and

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Speaker 8: I are going to go to your favorite spot at

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Speaker 8: at Oh my god, I love that place.

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Speaker 5: Pick me up. You're in your Handai, and then we're

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Speaker 5: gonna do it.

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Speaker 8: We're gonna drive over Nikiya, and I want you to

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Speaker 8: sit down. I want you to say I would like

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Speaker 8: a sandwich.

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Speaker 5: Just say sandwich.

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Speaker 8: I want to I want to see what they bring you,

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Speaker 8: and it's not going to be a taco.

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Speaker 5: So therefore the argument that's not hold up in court.

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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, but see that's different because we're talking about

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Speaker 2: is it a sandwich not is it? Is that what

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Speaker 2: people call it or is that what you would normally associate. No,

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Speaker 2: I would not normally say I want a sandwich, less

648
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Speaker 2: who get a taco? I wouldn't normally say that, but

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Speaker 2: for legal purposes, like the definition an item of food

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Speaker 2: consisting of two pieces of bread with meat, cheese, or

651
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Speaker 2: other fillings between them, eaten as a light meal. Now

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Speaker 2: someone else, I guess Miriam Webster added a split roll.

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Speaker 2: Now that's the real differentiating factor, you, guys, is we

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Speaker 2: are not a split roll.

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Speaker 1: But it is.

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Speaker 2: A splint roll is a sandwich. It's like a sun.

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Speaker 1: But a split roll is.

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Speaker 2: Not necessarily connected the way that a taco is. Hey, Nick, Nick,

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Speaker 2: thanks for weighing in on this important debate. Is a

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Speaker 2: taco a sandwich?

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Speaker 14: The taco is definitely not a sandwich. Okay, Why I

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Speaker 14: say this because I'm saying which you think of? Let's

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Speaker 14: see what's you An example of peanut, butter and jelly

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Speaker 14: is the two pieces of bread. I think it has

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Speaker 14: bread talking about it. A taco is a shell, and

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Speaker 14: I know it has the things in the middle, but

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Speaker 14: I would never ever consider that.

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Speaker 2: Now, Nick, have you ever had and I did this recently?

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Speaker 2: I think I did it two days ago. Have you

670
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: ever had taco bell delivered via like door dash or somebody? Yes,

671
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Speaker 2: Because I got hard. I got crunchy tacos delivered. It's

672
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 2: part of my I got hard when my crunchy taco

673
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: showed up. But anyway, don't don't don't worry about that.

674
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Speaker 2: Don't worry about that. I met in the mid section.

675
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I became ver, I became stronger. I'm talking

676
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 2: about rock hard my muscles, you know, like my abs

677
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: and stuff. But if you delivered the meat, the meat

678
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: sort of makes the taco shell a little bit like mushy,

679
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 2: such that when you go to eat it, you wind

680
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: up eating it like a sandwich because you have to

681
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: eat it on the side, because if you eat it

682
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: up and down, the stuff just falls through, in which case,

683
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: my taco became a sandwich, did it not?

684
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: Nick, my taco, But it's not. It could be like

685
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: a sandwich, but it is not.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you, Nick. I'm just on the

687
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,239
Speaker 2: I'm on I'm on the poles of what people are

688
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 2: talking about today.

689
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Speaker 5: Have a good day, man.

690
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just see like and you know me, I'm

691
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: always like scrolling through the latest legal advancements, you know,

692
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 2: and so this is what people are talking about. Hey, Michelle,

693
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Speaker 2: i'd hi, Michelle, you're saying not a sandwich, which of

694
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: course is the wrong answer, but that's fine, Like you're

695
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 2: entitled to not be correct.

696
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 12: It's definitely not a sandwich.

697
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 2: But why explain to me.

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00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 12: Why, because like you need bread for it to be

699
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 12: a sandwich, and no bread on a taco.

700
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 15: It's like someone is that it's a.

701
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 4: Corn shell, doesn't want to be a corn show could

702
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 4: be flour, It could be flower and bread too.

703
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: Is there corn?

704
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 2: And is there corn bread?

705
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 6: Can flower tortillas? You're you're wrong? You need to always

706
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 6: eat corn?

707
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: Well, okay, now, I mean there's a lot of things

708
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 2: that are wrong right now, Michelle, this is wildly controversial.

709
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 2: Maps flower, that's a different segment, Michelle. All right, so

710
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: wait your turn. All right, good day, I have a

711
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: good day.

712
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 9: Let me go.

713
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 5: I know to.

714
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Speaker 1: You need a flower?

715
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Speaker 2: I know, do you do it holds more?

716
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: They're bigger. No, but the corn tro makes a bigger

717
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: sandwich with a flowers.

718
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: Yea, Hey, Kayley, is a taco a sandwich? That's where

719
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: the court of law says, that's where the Supreme courts nudded.

720
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: Someone in Florida or somewhere said.

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00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,239
Speaker 10: This, Yeah, okay, So I was getting all riled up.

722
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 15: I was about to say it's not a sandwich, but

723
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 15: then I started thinking of the actual verb.

724
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 5: You're sandwiching things together.

725
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 15: You know, you're squeezing them to get into your mouth.

726
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: Shutters, What an excellent point, you, what an excellent point.

727
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 5: It came to me.

728
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Speaker 6: I don't know. I took a sip of my coffee

729
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 6: and I came.

730
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 5: You're so smart.

731
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes you gotta like marinate on this really heavy

732
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: hitting content before you, like, you got to allow it to

733
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: settle in for a second, before you make your decision.

734
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: Before you're out race. Yeah.

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00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 2: I would always ask people, because we do a lot

736
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 2: of very very serious topics on this show, and before

737
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: we become outrage like, let's take a second to think

738
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 2: about our position. And you did that, kid, and you

739
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 2: were going to call and tell me I was an idiot,

740
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 2: and then you took a sip of coffee and you

741
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 2: were like, now, hold on, I see the lights, you

742
00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: know what.

743
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 11: I zoned out into traffic and I let it come

744
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Speaker 11: to me.

745
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 5: And I was like, when I'm eating a taco, you think.

746
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 10: It as much as I care, I'm rotating it.

747
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, take it into my mouth.

748
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,239
Speaker 2: That's exactly. And yeah, no, thank you, you've you've seen it.

749
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 2: You we're on the same page. Have a great day.

750
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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening.

751
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 10: I've lived it.

752
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, you let me true story.

753
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 2: I survived, you know, David, David, it's a sandwich.

754
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 6: N Yeah, it's a sandwich.

755
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

756
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: And the telling people that don't that don't see our position, why.

757
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 6: Well, because I mean, you can have like an open,

758
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 6: open faced sandwich, right, you just want need one piece

759
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 6: of bread, you need like a piece of cheese on

760
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 6: their piece of meat whatever.

761
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 14: And it's a sandwich.

762
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 6: So then why not a taco.

763
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 5: You have a tardia some fillings in there, it's a sandwich.

764
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: I think by definition it is. I do, but they

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Speaker 2: and I understand no one calls it that. But no

766
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: one calls a Hamburger sandwich. And there's no debate about that.

767
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not subscribing to that.

768
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 9: I'm gonna take a I'm gonna take a step further.

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00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 6: I also think that hot dog is a sandwich.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I do have to control No, I do too.

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Speaker 2: I did to Tony, thank you, No, thank you. I

772
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: like minded geniuses. Have a good day. Hey you too, Okay,

773
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 2: all right, problem solve. No, I mean the court of law.

774
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 2: You know, they said, let's let's take this to the

775
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 2: Supreme Court. Honestly, they got nothing else going on, right,

776
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: nothing is more thread show next well up in the

777
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Speaker 2: city's my last dame retire?

778
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Speaker 5: You don't stop that, boy'd to god.

779
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly I've had enough Sabrina Corporator with that single espresso.

780
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: But Kiki, you got.

781
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 5: What that double express that baby.

782
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: Guy bread show is?

783
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 3: You know, like a thin toilet paper. So if it's wait, no,

784
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Speaker 3: I don't know that those nails you like?

785
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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I don't remember this. You like thin

786
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: toilet paper?

787
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: You would who hurt you?

788
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 12: No one?

789
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 2: No one likes toilet paper right to choose your and them.

790
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: And and wash it?

791
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 3: Yes, girl, that would be so mad if you gained

792
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: my house. But I like a thin toilet paper. I

793
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 3: don't want all that, like a like a cloth like.

794
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 3: I don't want all that. It leaves rights to doing

795
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 3: all that.

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00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't need that.

797
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 2: I need as much distance between my skin and whatever

798
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: is happening there.

799
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 3: Well, so I will buy Scott in and if Scott

800
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Speaker 3: is not there, I will buy the off brand version

801
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: of Scott.

802
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: The show is on. It's stay or go.

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Speaker 2: Brihanna's here, Hi, Brianna, good morning, good morning. By the way,

804
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Speaker 2: when I said to you look up azra by John

805
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 2: if you can spell it. Then someone texted me our

806
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: friend Violetta and said that was funny. It wasn't a

807
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 2: slam though. I don't know how to spell azrab by John,

808
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 2: So if you wanted to know where it was, you'd

809
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 2: have to. I guess you have to get close. Like

810
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: how many words is that? I don't even know it's

811
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 2: one word? But I think if you, I think you

812
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 2: could get close enough that but I don't. I don't

813
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 2: think I would spell it right the first time I

814
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 2: got it by John h.

815
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Speaker 5: John right.

816
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Speaker 2: I just wouldn't get it right the first time anyway, Brihanna,

817
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 2: I don't know worry about that. So see here go.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your note. You can dm us you

819
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 2: can hit us up Fretshire Radio dot com. So you

820
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 2: are in a new relationship with a boyfriend of about

821
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: six months. This has been going on, yes.

822
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 12: And I want to just preface by saying we are

823
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 12: very happy, We're very into each other, and everything is

824
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 12: great except one thing.

825
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 2: Great nice topic this. Thanks for calling. You'd want to

826
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 2: call here and brag I'm so happy in my life scrus.

827
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 2: She said stark that yeah, that relationship well, so what

828
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 2: is the one thing though?

829
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 12: Well, so we have a very big age yap. So

830
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 12: I'm twenty four and he is fifty.

831
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so we get a nice, nice twenty

832
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: six year age gap. Now I need to hear both

833
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 2: of Now, I'm not quite fifty. In fact, I'm not

834
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 2: anywhere near fifty. But but but you know, let's defend

835
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 2: the older let's defend the older men dating the younger

836
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 2: women thing for a moment until I hear the old thing.

837
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 2: So how did you meet? And like, why are we talking?

838
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: If you're happy? I get that it's a huge age gap,

839
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 2: but like what's the insecurity? Like where does it come from?

840
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: Why are we talking?

841
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 12: Well, we met while we were both out, and this

842
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 12: is not like a thing for me, Like I don't

843
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 12: seek out men that are older than me. But we

844
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,919
Speaker 12: met at a bar. I thought he was much younger

845
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 12: than fifty. He does not look fifty, and I approached

846
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 12: him and then we got along and after talking for

847
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 12: a while, he was like, by the way, how old

848
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 12: are you? So I wasn't like looking for this, but

849
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 12: it just kind of happened.

850
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 2: And we've been.

851
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 12: Dating for six months now, so it's like kind of

852
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 12: getting to be time to introduce him to my family.

853
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 12: But I'm very afraid of how they're going to react.

854
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 12: They know that I'm dating someone.

855
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: But they don't know his age, does he have kids,

856
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 2: how old are his kids?

857
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 5: He does not have kids, okay, because.

858
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: That could get a little weir h you know if

859
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 2: I agree, if his kids were, you know, close to

860
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: your age. And there was my dad, right, yeah, that's right,

861
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: your dad's dated and when you're one of your friends.

862
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 11: Right, well, I'm not her friend, but we did attend

863
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 11: the same high school at one point.

864
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not friends now, are we?

865
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 5: We never were?

866
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 1: But I can't.

867
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Speaker 5: Help no, mom, right, Oh my goodness.

868
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: So weird.

869
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 2: And so your family's like, oh, this is so exciting,

870
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: Brianna has met someone or whatever. How do you I mean,

871
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: is your dad? Let me see, if you're twenty four

872
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 2: your dad your dad could very easily be close to

873
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: his age, which could make things kind of weird. I mean,

874
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 2: are you worried about what they're going to say?

875
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:33,439
Speaker 1: I am.

876
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 12: I mean, I don't think they're going to tell me

877
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 12: to break up with him, but I don't think they're

878
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 12: going to be like jumping for joy about it. And

879
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 12: my friends know about him, and they're concerns. They've told

880
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 12: me that they're concerned.

881
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 2: Well that says a lot, now why it's a huge

882
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 2: age gap, right, But like why if you're happy, why

883
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: are they concerned?

884
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: Would be my question?

885
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 12: Well, none of them have met him, and I think

886
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 12: they're just like, why is a fifty year old man

887
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 12: dating a twenty four year old? Like they think it

888
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 12: reflects badly on but he's such a great guy and

889
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 12: they don't know him.

890
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 2: So I have a lot of questions. First of all,

891
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: eight five, five, five nine one three five, you know

892
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 2: you know what? What what do you think when you

893
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 2: hear this this twenty four year old fifty year old dynamic?

894
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 2: I also would ask the question like why is it

895
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 2: necessarily a bad look? Like if you're a mature twenty

896
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: four year old and he's a decent guy and he's

897
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 2: not a perver, a weirdo or creep, then I guess

898
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 2: I don't know why this couldn't be a thing, Like, yeah,

899
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: it's unorthodox, but like why, I don't know, I don't

900
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean I've dated people of all ages.

901
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: I'm forty four, I've dated people anywhere from twenty five

902
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 2: to over fifty, so I've gone both ways. But like,

903
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 2: if I date someone who's over fifty, no one says

904
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 2: anything about that. I've dated people who are twenty eight

905
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: and the next person I date is my age, and

906
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: they think that they think I'm disgusting for that? But

907
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 2: is am I disgusting for that? Or is there an

908
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: insecurity about that? It's like, well, you were dating someone

909
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 2: so much younger, what are you doing with me? It's like, well,

910
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: because as I can like both things, right, Like, I'm

911
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 2: not necessarily I'm not targeting twenty twenty somethings. But if

912
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 2: I meet someone that I connect with you, then I'm

913
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 2: not really sure that I care about the age necessarily.

914
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: But your priorities may differ. I mean, he's fifty, Like,

915
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 2: do you want kids to? He may not want kids,

916
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 2: he may want not want to start now, Like, I

917
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: feel like that's the kind of stuff that might get

918
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 2: you in trouble, eh heard, I mean do you want kids?

919
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: She's like, received, yeah, yeah, yeat, you know, do.

920
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: You want kids?

921
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 12: I think I do?

922
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:37,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

923
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I mean I get on it. Do you

924
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 2: I mean, have you had that discussion with him? I

925
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: feel like It's that kind of stuff that where you're

926
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 2: you might have an issue because you might very well

927
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 2: be very mature for your age and and find that

928
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: this guy offers security and money, a parental figure, you know,

929
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: or somebody that maybe Well, I'm just saying, like, you're

930
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 2: a You're allowed to be to gravitate towards whatever you need, right,

931
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 2: and maybe and there's something wrong. You're both adults, right,

932
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: I mean, there's nothing inherently wrong about this, But I

933
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 2: guess I wonder, like, do you do you think that

934
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 2: you will align on all of the principles and all

935
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: of the goals that you have for one another?

936
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 12: Yeah, those are valid concerns, But I am also just

937
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 12: kind of like living in the moment of this relationship,

938
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 12: and for the moment, it's very good.

939
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 2: Is he rich?

940
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 12: Hell?

941
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 6: Yeah?

942
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, when leaving me, because I want to say that, like,

943
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 2: you know, when I was twenty four, I'm surprised that

944
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 2: anybody went out with me. When I was thirty four,

945
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: I'm surprised that anybody went out with me, to be honest, Like,

946
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 2: the difference between the human being that and I'm not

947
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 2: sure of that's saying much, but the difference between the

948
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 2: human being I am now and I was twenty years

949
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 2: ago is significantly different. And I don't know, I'm much

950
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: more settled. I'm much more kind of like, you know,

951
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have anything to prove to

952
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 2: anybody anymore.

953
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: I am who I am. I don't know.

954
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 2: I think I'm a better version of myself. You know,

955
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: back then, I thought I was hot stuff, and I

956
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, I had a lot to prove. I

957
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 2: didn't have any resources. I didn't know, you know, my

958
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,479
Speaker 2: butt from a hole in the wall, you know whatever.

959
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 2: I just so, I guess I can see why younger

960
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: women gravitate towards older men. I just wonder, I just

961
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: wonder how long you're you're sort of you're gonna be

962
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: on how many points you were aligned? Or hey, are

963
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: you happy not having kids and being with a guy

964
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 2: who's much older, who's rich and there's security there, And

965
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, I guess this all depends on

966
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 2: what your priorities.

967
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 6: Are, right, God, lots to think about. Geez.

968
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, let me take some calls on this, Brianna,

969
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 2: and I will have to follow up. I can't wait

970
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 2: to hear and let me get let me guess, Brianna,

971
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: he's got money, he's he's he's mature and confident, and

972
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 2: the sex is really good.

973
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 1: Right, what's.

974
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 2: Brianna? Thank you, good luck, have a good day, and

975
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 2: keep the radio and we'll see what people have to say. Bye, Caln.

976
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: You've done something like this.

977
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, twenty was where I maxed out, maxed out.

978
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 2: Excuse me, I choked up there thinking about it. Emotional Yeah, yeah,

979
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: when beneath my wings.

980
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, twenty is where I maxed out. But I don't know.

981
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 11: I mean, I do also have concerns, Like one of

982
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 11: the reasons that I'm not still in that relationship is

983
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 11: like I and this is dark, but like I took

984
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 11: care of my grandpa as he was dying, and I

985
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 11: was like, I'm about to do that in like ten

986
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 11: years for this man, you know what I mean, Like

987
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 11: I just found I can't do it again.

988
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 2: He was in his fifties.

989
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, he was.

990
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 2: I think you had a little bit more time than that.

991
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 2: Hopefully I hear what you're saying.

992
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 5: It was like, I can't do that.

993
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 2: You're going to be a caretaker at some point you

994
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 2: marry this guy.

995
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 11: Yeah, So that was part of it, honestly, I was like,

996
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 11: I need, I need a little because I want to

997
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 11: have kids.

998
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: But I think I.

999
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 2: I don't want to say anything. I think that generally

1000
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: women think that men who date women who are much

1001
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: younger are doing it like it's only to their benefit,

1002
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 2: like it's just about sex or just about a young body,

1003
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: or just about just about or or somehow it's like

1004
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 2: navita or lack of maturity or manipulation or something. Not

1005
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 2: every twenty something I've gone out with appealed to me right,

1006
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 2: like they could be banging in every way, but like

1007
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 2: we couldn't connect because we didn't have similar priorities because

1008
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 2: they were I mean, I've met very mature late twenties,

1009
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 2: early thirties people who you know, they're not into the partying,

1010
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 2: they're not into the things that are traditionally stereotypically young stuff,

1011
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: stuff that we all did go out and going out

1012
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: every weekend and going out and getting crazy, stuff that

1013
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 2: you maybe don't do when you get a little bit older.

1014
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 2: So it hasn't always appealed to me, right, Like, sometimes

1015
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: I've noticed the maturity gap and it doesn't work. So

1016
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: I don't think it's in. And sure, I think there

1017
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: are guys out there with a boat and they're rich

1018
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 2: and they're old, and they're divorced, and they just want

1019
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: hot chicks and they don't care about talking to them

1020
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: or connecting. Fine too, And that's all right too, if

1021
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 2: that's if you're transparent about that. But I don't know

1022
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 2: that it's I don't know that it's always as it looks.

1023
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: I think there are examples where it's like that, and

1024
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 2: I think there are examples from the other way where

1025
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 2: the girl has do really no interest in the guy.

1026
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: He has interest in the money and the resources and

1027
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: not getting messed with, you know, or not being with

1028
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: an F boy, a younger F boy, right, and like her.

1029
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 11: Like, who's asking I mean, I'm not asking ages, so,

1030
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 11: you know, like for my ex for example, he looked

1031
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 11: he didn't look his age.

1032
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 5: So who's like going, wait, how old are you?

1033
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 2: No, Well, Diane, you say this is too big of

1034
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 2: an age gap. This is a hard nol for you.

1035
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 12: Yeah, and when he was twenty four years old is

1036
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 12: born she was, I mean when he was twenty four

1037
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 12: she was born.

1038
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: It's no, absolutely not.

1039
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 6: I have a daughter that's almost that age, and I

1040
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 6: would absolutely not be on board with this.

1041
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: So she comes home with. I mean, let me ask

1042
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: you this.

1043
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: She's she's around twenty four of your.

1044
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: Daughter, Diane, she's twenty five, okay, And I'm.

1045
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 2: Sure that in her life you've seen her dates some

1046
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: real douchebags that are her own age, right, And they're douchebags,

1047
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: maybe not because they're inherently bad people, but because they're

1048
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: young and stupid and naive and and and and immature,

1049
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 2: because we all are before we know better, right, So like,

1050
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 2: would you there's no way that you could see this

1051
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 2: for what it is, which is maybe he's a decent

1052
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: guy and they connect and he's and he's got his

1053
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: act together more than somebody her own age might.

1054
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:17,959
Speaker 6: I can't.

1055
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: It's my husband' date.

1056
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 10: It's it's inappropriate because by the time she's going to

1057
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 10: have babies with him, he's going to be ready for bad.

1058
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: Another wrong with that?

1059
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 2: You ready for let's say the big time?

1060
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: All right?

1061
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 9: Like they're going to be falling apart.

1062
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 1: Come on, now, I see the concerns.

1063
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: I see the concerns, But I guess I take it

1064
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 2: more to are their lifestyles going to align? Are their

1065
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: goals going to align? Because I do think it's possible

1066
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 2: that they both could be good people. And yeah, okay,

1067
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 2: thank you, Diane. I know what I know. Yeah, yeah, okay,

1068
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 2: well thank you Diana. Have a good day.

1069
00:45:59,000 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: You may not want to have kid.

1070
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 2: You may want to, I don't know, travel the world

1071
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 2: and be secure and and maybe that guy can offer that,

1072
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: and someone your own age can. I mean, I think

1073
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 2: I think we all assumed that everybody has similar priorities,

1074
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 2: and maybe this woman doesn't. I don't, but she did

1075
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 2: say she was thinking about kids, and so that's an issue. Hey, Liz,

1076
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 2: hi high Liz, So you this resonates with you. You've

1077
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: been on the on her side of this.

1078
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 15: Yes, not such an huge age cap.

1079
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 6: But I dated someone who.

1080
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 10: Was fifteen years older than me years ago. I'm thirty now,

1081
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 10: and I dated this person when I was twenty two,

1082
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 10: and my parents were not on board with it. They

1083
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 10: didn't they didn't like it. It was more like I've

1084
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 10: never looked my age, so I look way younger than

1085
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 10: I actually am, and they just thought it was weird.

1086
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 10: And I've dated that person for two years and.

1087
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: We were like, uh huh, why did it all? I'm

1088
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 2: sorry interrupt you, but why did it ultimately not work out?

1089
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 10: I think it was like I had a different mentality

1090
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,280
Speaker 10: back then, Like I wanted to go out and party

1091
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 10: and do all this stuff. When you're like twenty and

1092
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 10: he's always here trying to like settle down and start

1093
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 10: a family and everything.

1094
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: It was more like that type of thing. I see.

1095
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so you were attracted to each other and there

1096
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 2: was like a connection maybe physically or whatever, but again

1097
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 2: that your priorities were different. Yes, yeah, yeah, Okay, Well,

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00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,919
Speaker 2: thank you, Liz, have a good day. It's glad you called.

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00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 2: That's what. That's where I think ultimately they may align.

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00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 2: I don't know, not every twenty four year old wants

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00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 2: to go out and get hammered every weekend that every

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00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 2: fifty year old is like, you know, in a recliner

1103
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 2: on AARP website, you know, I mean, I think there's

1104
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 2: probably a compromise in there somewhere. Hey, Diane, another diet.

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00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 2: Diane number two certainly no less important than Diane number one,

1106
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: just the second one to call in this segment.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 6: What this is?

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00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 2: A woman who called in Stay or Go she's twenty four,

1110
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 2: did guy who's fifty her friends a concern her family

1111
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 2: doesn't know and she'd been with him for six months

1112
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: and is happy, but isn't sure.

1113
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: What do you think, Well, I think.

1114
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 15: If she were confident in knowing that this is a

1115
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 15: good relationship for her, it's really healthy and strong. It

1116
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 15: doesn't matter what other people think. But I'll tell you

1117
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 15: I think her parents might pick up on that and say, wow,

1118
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 15: this could be really good for you, because that's what

1119
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 15: happened with me. And I was forty five. He was

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Speaker 15: twenty three years older than me. He was the age

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Speaker 15: of my father, and of course they had some you know,

1122
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 15: like a second thought, but when they met him, they

1123
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 15: could see how he related to me and how I

1124
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 15: related to him, and it was wonderful. My mom actually

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00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 15: cried when we broke up.

1126
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 7: Oh wow.

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00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: And what ultimately was the demise of the relationship. What

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00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 2: ultimately happened, Well, what happened.

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Speaker 15: Was it was an energy difference where he actually had

1130
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 15: more energy than I did. I was more of a thinker,

1131
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 15: profound meditation, spirituality kind of a person, and he was

1132
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 15: more of a let's go travel, let's go here, let's

1133
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 15: go there, and I'm the world's worst traveler. So I

1134
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 15: wanted him to be free to do what he really

1135
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 15: felt like.

1136
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 12: He wanted to do, and I said.

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00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 5: You know this, I really need to let let you

1138
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 5: go oh wow wow.

1139
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 2: And Diane, I think I feel like when people hear

1140
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: these age gaps, all they're thinking about, or at least

1141
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 2: the first thing that comes to their mind is sex.

1142
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,800
Speaker 2: The first thing that comes to their mind is this

1143
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,720
Speaker 2: is this is about sex, This is about the physicality

1144
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 2: the old guy wants young girl. And I don't that's

1145
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: certainly probably an element in a lot of these cases,

1146
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: but I don't think it is in everyone.

1147
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 5: No, oh, no, gosh no.

1148
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 15: I mean that was part of it, and we both

1149
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 15: had kind of like wounded backgrounds in that area. But

1150
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 15: the other part of it was that we were so

1151
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 15: deeply connected in a just a fundamental way that we

1152
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 15: had no matter what we did.

1153
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 2: Yeah and so yeah, and in which case, it had

1154
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: nothing to do with age. Really, it had more to

1155
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 2: do with your interests and what you guys wanted to

1156
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 2: do in life. And and I think that the situation

1157
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 2: you ran into could happen if you were the same age,

1158
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 2: or if you were thirty years apart.

1159
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 5: So sorry to think about that, oh all the time.

1160
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 15: And we still stay in touch. He's a lawyer, He

1161
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 15: did my mother's papers before she passed. He was at

1162
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 15: my dad's funeral. I mean we cried together. He's still

1163
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 15: a wonderful friend.

1164
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 2: But you won't reconcile. There's no way that that you

1165
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 2: can see, you know, finding some common.

1166
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 12: Grounds at this point he's in his nineties.

1167
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm you know what.

1168
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:49,320
Speaker 2: I want to get some papers of your own, you know. Okay, yeah, okay,

1169
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 2: I mean you did the hard work, you know, time

1170
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 2: for the payoff, you know. Oh god, we're terrible. All right,

1171
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 2: thank you, Diane, have a good day, Thank you, thank

1172
00:50:59,920 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 2: you for sharing. All right, I only have time. It

1173
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 2: really was sweet.

1174
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 5: No, man, no, I mean yes.

1175
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: I will also say forties and sixties I think are

1176
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: probably less of a maturity difference than twenties and forties. Yes,

1177
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 2: in any case, so I can see them.

1178
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: But listen from the male perspective. Here comes big Rich.

1179
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: Ben Rich is here.

1180
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:21,720
Speaker 2: He's forty seventy.

1181
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,240
Speaker 1: His girlfriend's twenty five.

1182
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 5: My man, congrats, dude, come on, we don't have to

1183
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 5: make a sound like that.

1184
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: Fred, Is it like that?

1185
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 2: Is that what it is?

1186
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 6: I mean that those are the numbers, Yes, those are

1187
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:35,879
Speaker 6: the numbers.

1188
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: And how did you meet?

1189
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 9: We met at a mutual friend's house.

1190
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 6: But when we were in sure, she told me she

1191
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 6: was twenty eight years old.

1192
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 2: Well that's a big difference, rich twenty.

1193
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: Twenty.

1194
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 6: Come on, man, so you hello, you been together prime

1195
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,399
Speaker 6: at the time, she was twenty three, and she told

1196
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 6: me she was twenty eight, and every time I saw

1197
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:57,879
Speaker 6: her after that it went down a year.

1198
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 2: Okay, right, so she's eighteen, So you've been for two years.

1199
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 2: It says on the screen, you've been together for two years. Yeah,

1200
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:07,359
Speaker 2: so what's the future.

1201
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 6: Living together for two years, dating for like just a

1202
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 6: little over two years.

1203
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and so what is it?

1204
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: Wow?

1205
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 2: She pulled she pulled adjasent on you and this moved

1206
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: in and never left Ainty, Nothing wrong with that. What

1207
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 2: what's the endgame here?

1208
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 1: Like?

1209
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 2: Are you gonna get married and have kids and do

1210
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 2: all the things that you would do with you?

1211
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1212
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's that's what we're that's what we're hoping for.

1213
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,959
Speaker 6: I mean, we're obviously trying to get some stuff ironed.

1214
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 9: Out, uh, each of us in our in our lives.

1215
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 6: And then you know, her thing is is she wants

1216
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:34,959
Speaker 6: the white fence.

1217
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 9: Pick a fence, and then she'll get married.

1218
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 2: Rich has to get divorced and she has to graduate

1219
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 2: high school. So there's a luck going on.

1220
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 9: I've been divorced for seven years.

1221
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: Richie was too easy. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but no,

1222
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 1: I hope, Look, I hope it works.

1223
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 2: Out if you guys connect and everybody you know and

1224
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 2: you're on the same page, and that I don't know

1225
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: who would who should judge?

1226
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: Rich?

1227
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 2: Right?

1228
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, we get we get a lot of chargument online

1229
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 6: and stuff like that. And she posts a lot of

1230
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 6: one of her TikTok says which we met earlier. And

1231
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 6: then it shows a picture of me and two thousand

1232
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 6: and two and her in two thousand and.

1233
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 9: Two, and I love doing that.

1234
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not that's certainly going to feed that narrative. Hey, Rich,

1235
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: good luck, man. I appreciate you calling.

1236
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: Have a good day. You're good sport.

1237
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 9: You guys have a good day, all right.

1238
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 5: Not good for rich.

1239
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Fread Show.

1240
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 11: MTV is going back to its roots ahead of the

1241
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 11: VMAs this Sunday. The channel will air current and classic

1242
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 11: music videos NonStop on MTV two, MTV Live, MTV Classic,

1243
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 11: and their Pluto channel leading up to the actual show. However,

1244
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 11: the main MTV channel will not air music videos like before.

1245
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 11: The lineup features more than seven hundred music videos and

1246
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 11: some that haven't even aired in over a decade, like

1247
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 11: the Best of the Eighties, most VMA victories, and craziest

1248
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 11: videos of all times, So look out for that if

1249
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 11: you used to be a music video girly.

1250
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 15: Like I was.

1251
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 11: French, Montana proposed to Shika Mara, the Princess of Dubai.

1252
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 11: We talked about it, but we didn't talk about the ring,

1253
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 11: which is valued at one point one million dollars. The

1254
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 11: custom designed ring, crafted by celebrity jeweler Eric the Jeweler,

1255
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 11: which is a great name for a celebrity jeweler of

1256
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 11: Mavanni and Co, features an eleven point five to three

1257
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 11: carrot emerald cut diamond set on a diamond encrusted band.

1258
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 11: The proposal took place in June, like I told you,

1259
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 11: during Paris Fashion Week, shortly after French's runway debut.

1260
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 5: The couple announced their engagement on Instagram.

1261
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 11: Last week, which I'm sure it got lost in the

1262
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 11: sauce of all the other engagements.

1263
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 5: Kiki first, then Taylor Swift second. She is the daughter

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00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 5: of Dubai's ruler. By the way, we're on the street.

1265
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 11: Is that Sidney Sweeney is dating a man who's not

1266
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 11: very liked and his name is mister Scooter Brawn, you know,

1267
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 11: like that Scooter with the Whole Masters and Taylor Swift.

1268
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 5: YadA YadA.

1269
00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 11: Rumors started with a resurface video that's now going viral

1270
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 11: from Venice that shows Sidney walking with Scooter and a

1271
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 11: model shortly after Jeff Bezos wedding, which, like I said,

1272
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 11: is all over TikTok right now. Scooter is also apparently

1273
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 11: telling his friends that they're together, but neither has commented.

1274
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,280
Speaker 11: As far as I've seen, Sidney split from her fiance

1275
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 11: Jonathan Divino recently, while Scooter divorced Yale Cohen in twenty

1276
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 11: twenty one, and that was a fumble because she is

1277
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 11: amazing and beautiful. Cindy Lapper concluded her farewell tour over

1278
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 11: the weekend with a star studded final performance at the

1279
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 11: Hollywood Bowl. The evening featured surprise appearances by Joni Mitchell, Chaer,

1280
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 11: John Legend, and Sizza. Joni performed, Carrie John joined for

1281
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Speaker 11: time after time, Scissa saying true colors and share closed

1282
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Speaker 11: out the show with Cindy and girls just want to

1283
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Speaker 11: have fun, which is amazing. By the way, if you

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Speaker 11: missed any part of our show and you want to

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Speaker 2: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 2: the iHeart app Live and anytime search put a fresh

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00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 2: show on demand. The most annoying thing that someone can

1292
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: do in an email, I know, Jason, Oh, I know, Jason.

1293
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:16,720
Speaker 2: Probably you probably receive and send more emails at times

1294
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 2: fifty than anybody on this show. But eight five five

1295
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 2: five three five what comes to mind immediately, because there

1296
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 2: is one phrase that apparently sets people off more than

1297
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Speaker 2: any other. Now for me, there are a few, and

1298
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 2: I'm guilty of some of them too, and I have

1299
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: the best intentions. But the ones that I think I

1300
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: do that probably annoys people is some kind of salutation

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Speaker 2: at the beginning, like Hey, I hope you're well or

1302
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 2: hope everything's good or whatever, you know, Like I try

1303
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,919
Speaker 2: to set the mood like hey, I hope you're great.

1304
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 2: And then here's the thing I want you to do

1305
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 2: that you probably don't want to do, or here's the

1306
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 2: thing I'm asking from you that you don't want to

1307
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 2: that you probably you're not gonna want to do. Yeah,

1308
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 2: And I think that annoys people.

1309
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 4: I've stopped that because I used to think like, oh,

1310
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 4: I have to like open I you know, but now

1311
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, just get right to it because I

1312
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 4: hate when I have to like read through multiple paragraphs.

1313
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 4: But I think, like I hate and I think it's

1314
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 4: like super condescending is when someone puts like the dot

1315
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 4: dot dot after something, because I feel like you're eluding,

1316
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 4: like I'm stupid, Like I feel like you have like

1317
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 4: an attitude if you're like, okay, dot dot dot dot,

1318
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 4: Like why why are you hitting the dots so many times?

1319
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 2: Like you are saying that like that you're you're the

1320
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 2: dots are imploying a dramatic pause.

1321
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like what all right?

1322
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 2: But I need you to know there's like an all right,

1323
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 2: and then it's sound afterwards, right like hello, I did.

1324
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 4: See this in an email that was not directed on me,

1325
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 4: but I love it and I kind of want to

1326
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 4: like utilize it. But it's said thank you in advance

1327
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 4: for your comprehensionstanding yeah, but like no, it was thank you,

1328
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 4: like in advance, like you're going to read this and

1329
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 4: comprehend it.

1330
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: And I'm thinking you in advance because you're going to

1331
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 2: do it. I'm like, yeah, is sapid you want? That

1332
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 2: drives me on that note one? The other one drives

1333
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 2: me crazy. Is action required?

1334
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 9: Oh?

1335
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: With a little the little what is the exclamation point?

1336
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: Action require? Oh?

1337
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 2: Oh, so your email requires me to actually do something?

1338
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: But like all the other emails, I get nope, but

1339
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 2: apparently I don't do anything with.

1340
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 4: You said right in line, and when I get to you,

1341
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 4: I get you can put whatever you can put exclamation

1342
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 4: points start it.

1343
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 2: Why I don't want you to do action required? Okay, Well,

1344
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 2: a lot of emails that people send me throughout the

1345
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 2: day require me to respond or do something. So why

1346
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 2: is your Why does yours have to say action required?

1347
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 1: Every one of them does? It's annoying? Action needed?

1348
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 6: Urgent?

1349
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got me going now here, you got me

1350
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 2: going out? Just checking in is consider one of the

1351
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 2: worst phrases to put in an email, isn't it kind

1352
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 2: of implied by the fact that I sent the email

1353
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 2: just or or if I'm circling back, just checking in

1354
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 2: is like, hey, dumbass, why didn't you read the other

1355
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 2: email I sent you? Why haven't you responded to the

1356
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 2: other thing I sent you?

1357
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 8: That's what you're saying, you think, So I like saying

1358
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 8: just following up because sometimes I think people don't read

1359
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 8: or em as maybe as much as I do. Like

1360
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 8: I'll say, hey, just following up, and sometimes they see

1361
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 8: appreciative because I'll say, oh, thank you so much, like

1362
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 8: I believe we're got to respond.

1363
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 5: And I don't think no one's mad at me, but

1364
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:09,479
Speaker 5: now I'm.

1365
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 4: Reconcerned I don't follow up with me. That's the biggest fact.

1366
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 4: I read it, and if I when I have it,

1367
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 4: I will get it to you. I promise I'll stop.

1368
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 5: Oh wow, I wouldn't mind it follow up like, because

1369
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 5: I'm going.

1370
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 8: To follow up if I get that, and I'll be like, well,

1371
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 8: thank you so much for reminding me. But I think

1372
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 8: I'm just wired that way. I don't know where to meet.

1373
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 5: Doesn't it doesn't bother me because I do it to

1374
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 5: other people.

1375
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would just ask the question again. I don't

1376
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 2: think I would say.

1377
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 4: I copy and paste, I copy the previous message and

1378
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 4: just repast it like two days later and be like, hello,

1379
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 4: just a little bit.

1380
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 2: I'm not ultra sensitive, as you know about these kind

1381
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 2: of things, but like the the like, I don't, I don't.

1382
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 2: I don't read too much into it. But it's just

1383
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 2: following up. It's kind of like, Hey, what it says

1384
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 2: to me is, hey, remember I sent this to you already,

1385
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 2: and apparently you didn't. You know, I wasn't important enough

1386
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 2: for you to say anything. So here I am again.

1387
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 2: So I think I would just ask the question again,

1388
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 2: just be like, hey, still needing answer. I only in

1389
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 2: an answer on this or whatever. Just be very direct.

1390
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 2: I think just checking in, according to one expert, doesn't

1391
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 2: accomplish the task it seemingly needs to, which is to

1392
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 2: force the issue or expedite the to do item. Other

1393
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 2: things that people drive them crazy and they're texting. I

1394
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 2: hope this email finds you well. I feel like I've

1395
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: written something like that before.

1396
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 1: And I mean it. I mean it. It never does that.

1397
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 2: I'm I'm not gonna I'm not gonna well, neither of mine,

1398
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:28,919
Speaker 2: which is why I'm hoping you're well.

1399
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1400
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 2: I'm not well, and I can there's no boyd and

1401
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: asking me if I am, and most people don't, but

1402
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm hoping that you are. Thanks in advance, please advise

1403
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 2: all the best or best. I don't know why that's annoying.

1404
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 2: Best and sincerely, and that's like I've something, nan I

1405
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 2: would write a handwritten letter to my grandfather and who's

1406
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 2: at war or something. Sincerely. I don't know, you know, no, No,

1407
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 2: I guess that thanks in advance is like I'm asking

1408
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 2: you to do something. So I'm thanking you now because

1409
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 2: it's an email and I won't necessarily see you to

1410
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 2: follow up to tell you thank you again. So I

1411
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 2: guess I don't know why that one's so bad. Thanks

1412
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: in advance for your comprehension, impatient repetition, per our conversation,

1413
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: confirming receipt, just checking in any updates on this. Again,

1414
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's unfair, because I get if

1415
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 2: you're if you're emailing someone and record and you require

1416
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 2: information from them to complete the task you're supposed to complete,

1417
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 2: then I guess I don't see a problem with saying hey,

1418
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 2: I need this, Yeah, Like that doesn't hit me as

1419
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 2: bad as following up or circling, as per my last email.

1420
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 5: I got something for you below that you can see.

1421
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 4: It that lazy that you can't actually type your question

1422
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:53,919
Speaker 4: you want to read through a five threat?

1423
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: Why not?

1424
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 5: But the per conversation is that bad?

1425
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 8: Because I feel like if you have a conversation with

1426
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 8: let's just say your cowork or your boss in person, like,

1427
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 8: wouldn't you want to put up in an email or Recapitin.

1428
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 2: Theory, I could just I could just keep going with

1429
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 2: the subject matter and I don't have to be, Hey,

1430
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 2: dumb ass, remember what we talked about. I could just

1431
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 2: I don't have to say. I could just keep going

1432
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 2: or or give them what they asked for. If they're

1433
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 2: too dumb to remember the conversation that we had, you know,

1434
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 2: five minutes ago, then is that really a me?

1435
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 8: I think it's more of just like paper trailing yourself

1436
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 8: of just being like, hey, we spoke on this day,

1437
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 8: kind of just for your own record.

1438
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: This happened. Yet, what is that?

1439
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 14: Yeah?

1440
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 5: I don't work in corporate, but that seems like it

1441
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 5: would be.

1442
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 2: People don't like cheery responses Happy Monday, Happy this emojis

1443
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 2: colored fonts. I I don't like when people colors. I

1444
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 2: don't and God bless my mom. But she uses like

1445
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 2: your teen font. It's like blue or pink or red,

1446
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: and it's like not standard font. And I love my

1447
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 2: mom so much, but it's like there is a standard

1448
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 2: format for writing emails and it's where our eyes are

1449
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: used to seeing and it's easy on the eyes. But

1450
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 2: she uses like a cursive fond and like and it's

1451
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 2: like another right right, yeah, she uses htmo, I will

1452
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 2: bold something.

1453
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: That one thing about me is I will bold.

1454
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 5: Oh I've noticed condition, but you don't want to take it.

1455
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: You know you can bold back at me.

1456
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, but we can't follow up today.

1457
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: Let me see here.

1458
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 2: Lack of targeting, Like if you were to say, if

1459
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: you write an email to me that says to whom

1460
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 2: it may concern, then I automatically know that you don't

1461
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 2: know who you send the email to. You automatically, this

1462
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 2: is not an email that was even intended for. You're

1463
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 2: hoping I'll respond, but you don't know who you sent

1464
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 2: it to because you send it to like a mass

1465
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 2: list or something.

1466
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: So no concern.

1467
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:47,240
Speaker 2: No, I'm not, I'm not.

1468
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1469
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if I'm in the CC line, I'm not answering,

1470
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 4: So like, don't ask a question that you want to

1471
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 4: answer for me, put me in the two line.

1472
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying specific Yes, Oh.

1473
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: I see, yeah, I guess, I guess yeah yeah, if

1474
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 2: I if I'm if you're supposed to be included versus

1475
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 2: just seeing it, then you're in the two line. If

1476
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 2: you're on the CC line, that's these people are doing

1477
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 2: it and I need you to make sure that you

1478
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 2: saw it right. That's right.

1479
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, people just willy really put people in boxes and

1480
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 4: it's like no, like there's a reason.

1481
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that. And then cap caps. People

1482
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 2: annoyed by caps. They don't want capital letters on stuff

1483
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 2: because it does come off like you're yelling at me.

1484
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 2: So I would argue the same. I would say, how

1485
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 2: about we don't we don't want the caps. But yeah,

1486
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 2: the one that gets everybody is just checking in.

1487
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 5: I'll stop checking in. I don't that the city.

1488
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 1: Is how does your Urban Dictionary name go?

1489
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 2: Again? Kailin one of the most attractive people of all time? Ahways,

1490
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 2: high standers, I'm one of the hottest people of all time,

1491
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 2: and it wasn't it. That's what Urban Dictionary says about Fred.

1492
01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 2: Fred's show is on. I'm wearing like a lattice, flannelss

1493
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:02,919
Speaker 2: plaid shirt. I'm trying to look manly today.

1494
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: It's given, is that what it is?

1495
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 2: Well, I'm looking for an AX so I can go

1496
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 2: cut a tree down or something, you know, because I'm

1497
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 2: out of firewood at the cabin. Oh wow, So we

1498
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 2: don't have electricity or running water out there, so I

1499
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 2: probably a head out to the well A little bit

1500
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 2: like I'm trying to think of, like what are like

1501
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 2: manly stuff?

1502
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the French show.

1503
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 2: Hey, Mike, good morning, Welcome to the show.

1504
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: How are you?

1505
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: Hey?

1506
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: Good morning?

1507
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, you sounded distraught. I mean people call in

1508
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 2: here sometimes for waiting and they're like all up eating stuff.

1509
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 2: It's like you got ghosted man. Oh yea, I'm so

1510
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 2: happy about But Mike didn't sound that happy. What happened

1511
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 2: with this woman, Becky? I want to hear about how

1512
01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 2: you met, about any dates you've been on, and then

1513
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 2: kind of where things stand now.

1514
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean I thought it went well and I

1515
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 16: feel like I have a good read on this kind

1516
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 16: of stuff, you know, I have, but went on to

1517
01:05:57,240 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 16: two dates and been at a bar, turned out to

1518
01:05:59,880 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 16: the same uh college and you know which atted it up,

1519
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 16: went out, got some drinks in this mess cow place,

1520
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 16: and then met up for dinner a couple of nights later, and.

1521
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 5: They even went back to their place.

1522
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 2: Okay, And and then what happened then like PG, But

1523
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 2: what happened then like good stuff, all the good stuff,

1524
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 2: some of the good.

1525
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: Stuff, would say all the good stuff.

1526
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 5: But uh, and I feel like it's did a pretty

1527
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 5: decent job.

1528
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 1: If you do.

1529
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 2: As far as I'm concern, I did a great job.

1530
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 2: It was a great effort from me.

1531
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 6: Uh.

1532
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: A couple of like weird moments. There's a couple of

1533
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: weird moments where I felt like there was a reset.

1534
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 2: But you know, you know, Okay, But overall, you met

1535
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 2: in the wild, So so that's a good start. So

1536
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 2: you saw each other in person, you were able to

1537
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 2: gauge chemistry, you have some stuff in common. You went

1538
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 2: on two dates. These are all usually good signs. You

1539
01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 2: hooked up. This is all usually good stuff. Except you

1540
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 2: have not heard from this woman Becky since the second date. Correct, Okay,

1541
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 2: And you want to know why, of course, and I

1542
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 2: would too. So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna

1543
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 2: call Becky. You'll be on the phone. We're gonna ask

1544
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 2: these questions at some point. You're welcome to jump in

1545
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 2: after we get you some info. And the hope, as

1546
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 2: always is that we can set you up on I

1547
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 2: guess a third date in this case and pay for it.

1548
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 2: Sound good?

1549
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, sure, that sounds great.

1550
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,440
Speaker 2: Hey, Mike, welcome back.

1551
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 6: Mike.

1552
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: Let's call up Becky. You guys, you met out, you

1553
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 2: went on two dates. The dates went really really well.

1554
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 2: You haven't heard from her since the second date, and

1555
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 2: you want to know why. Sure, I mean, that's what

1556
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 2: we're doing, right, That's what you asked me to do. Yeah,

1557
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 2: you called us, you know. Okay, all right, Mike, let's

1558
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 2: just I gotta talk to Becky now, so just good luck. Hello,

1559
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 2: Hi Bey, Hey Becky, good morning. My name is Fredam

1560
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 2: calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. I

1561
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 2: have to tell you the whole crew is here and

1562
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now, and I would

1563
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call. Can which

1564
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 2: have for just a second?

1565
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:13,919
Speaker 9: Oh my god?

1566
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 12: Yeah?

1567
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: Sure, well, thank you very much.

1568
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 2: We appreciate that we're call on behalf of a guy

1569
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 2: that we just met, a fascinating young man named Mike.

1570
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 2: I guess you went out with Mike. You met him out,

1571
01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:25,679
Speaker 2: he went at the same college a couple of dates.

1572
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 2: You remember this guy, I hope, Oh yeah, I do. Okay, Well,

1573
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 2: he reached out to us and he told us that,

1574
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 2: you know, kind of how you met and about going

1575
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:35,560
Speaker 2: to the same college and a couple of dates that

1576
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 2: he thought went well. But he says he hasn't heard

1577
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 2: from you since the second date, and he feels like

1578
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 2: you're ghosting him. I mean, is that what's going on

1579
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 2: back here? Are you ghosting him?

1580
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 1: And if so, why?

1581
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 6: Oh?

1582
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1583
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, and Mike was very nice. I just I'm not

1584
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 5: I don't think I'm really interested in seeing him again.

1585
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 1: Okay.

1586
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 2: So he's a nice guy that you went on two

1587
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 2: dates with and you met in the wild, which is

1588
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:00,400
Speaker 2: a big deal. I think that makes a difference because again,

1589
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 2: you know, you kind of got it. You saw what

1590
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 2: he looked like, he had a vibe for the chemistry,

1591
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 2: You had a kind of a pre date conversation. So

1592
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 2: I think there's a little more, you know, a higher

1593
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 2: chance of things going well. But why isn't it going

1594
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 2: to work If he's a nice guy and there's all that. Then,

1595
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 2: then why don't we want to go out with him anymore?

1596
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 13: Okay, you really want me to say yeah.

1597
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:26,440
Speaker 1: We want you to say oh yeah, Okay.

1598
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 2: Well I was.

1599
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 13: I was very excited to meet him. It is really

1600
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 13: rare to meet somebody in the wild like that. And

1601
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 13: I had a really nice time on our dates. Basically

1602
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 13: on our second date, we went back to my place

1603
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 13: and just some things happened, some things legis things and.

1604
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 5: Well, okay, he he is waxed from like eyebrows.

1605
01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 13: To the tips of his toes like bald as a newborn.

1606
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 5: Maybe feel.

1607
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:04,520
Speaker 2: Every everywhere, like every.

1608
01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:12,560
Speaker 13: Hard like every not just hardwood floors like arm pits, arms, fingers, toes.

1609
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 5: Legs, fingers like wow, wow, we watched the toes.

1610
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 2: We're waxing toes. You work your toes.

1611
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 5: You never watch your toes?

1612
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 9: No, my good.

1613
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 5: And it's once we flip up season.

1614
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 2: I guess I don't know. I got harry legs to

1615
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 2: go with my hairy toes here. Wow. Okay, so this

1616
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 2: dude made a concerted effort to make sure that like

1617
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 2: everything was gone, and I mean, you have an appointment

1618
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:38,560
Speaker 2: for that.

1619
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 1: You got to get me.

1620
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 2: You got to contort yourself I mean, there's a lot

1621
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 2: going on there. I can't even imagine the pain and

1622
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 2: the expense. And I've heard of people maxing, you know,

1623
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 2: certain things, but not everything. Let me bring you yeah, no,

1624
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,720
Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead, no please, well you.

1625
01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 13: No, I appreciate the certain things, right or like a

1626
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 13: little bit of like trimming or some sort of uh

1627
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 13: huh aly effort to be tidy. But this was something

1628
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 13: else I've never I it's a lot of my girlfriends

1629
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 13: aren't that.

1630
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, not that conscious about it. Well, I mean,

1631
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 2: Paulina is clearly, But let's bring Mike in. I forgot

1632
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 2: to mention that Mike is here. I'm very forgetful. Mike

1633
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 2: had to tell huh had to tell all right? Well yeah,

1634
01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 2: for the most part.

1635
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 16: Sure, yeah, but you know, my eyebrows, I don't wax

1636
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 16: my eyebrows, okay, like they just never.

1637
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 9: Grew in that.

1638
01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:31,640
Speaker 2: Well okay, well, and you don't wax the hair on

1639
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 2: the top of your head. It sounds like so. But

1640
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 2: everything else, I mean, yeah, yeah, I mean it's that

1641
01:11:36,880 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 2: like a monthly appointment, a weekly thing, Like how often

1642
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 2: do you have to attend to that?

1643
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm usually every couple of months. Huh.

1644
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 2: Okay, and you just that's just sort of you feel

1645
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 2: like that's I don't know, you look better, you feel

1646
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 2: better when you do that. I mean, I'm not judging

1647
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 2: it seems aggressive, but you know, I mean, hey.

1648
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 5: I mean it's an element of like, you know, it's

1649
01:11:58,040 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 5: got to you know, look a little bit better.

1650
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 16: But is also I have this weird, you know, kind

1651
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 16: of unique theory about it, where like too much like

1652
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 16: hair on your body, like you.

1653
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 1: Know, it attracts like germs, like he gets sick easier.

1654
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 2: What I don't know about that. We'll have to look

1655
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:15,720
Speaker 2: into that scientifically.

1656
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 5: But no, your hair has a purpose on your body.

1657
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, you're right, it's supposed to be. Yeah, most

1658
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 2: doctors would tell you that where the hair where is

1659
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 2: supposed to be there, and that we have decided as

1660
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 2: a convention to remove it in some cases. But so Becky,

1661
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 2: for you, this was what it was, just like it

1662
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 2: was just a little off putting.

1663
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 1: Are you looking?

1664
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 2: You're looking for someone like you're in Some people are

1665
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 2: into the hair, they're into like you know, Matt that

1666
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 2: they think that that's masculine. I don't know if that's

1667
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 2: right or wrong, but that's just is that kind of

1668
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 2: what where you're at.

1669
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm embarrassed because I don't I don't.

1670
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 5: Want to hurt his feelings. But yeah, it was a lot.

1671
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 10: It was.

1672
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 13: It made me self conscious that like, am I going

1673
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 13: to be am? I not smooth enough for you. I

1674
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 13: made an effort, but.

1675
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I mean to go with him.

1676
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 2: You know, he knows the per and y'all could just

1677
01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:02,719
Speaker 2: you know, fade in wax and whatever.

1678
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 3: Yea, he torn because I feel like we're giving him

1679
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 3: a hard time, like.

1680
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 11: We what's wrong?

1681
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 5: He want to be clean, He wanted to be smooth,

1682
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,759
Speaker 5: you know, like you think that should be a deal breaker.

1683
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 5: So it was so smooth, it was like incantile.

1684
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 13: It was like it was like if you've ever like

1685
01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:26,759
Speaker 13: overexfoliated your skin, and it's like off puttingly smooth.

1686
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 6: I got a guy that's good.

1687
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'm not going to offer up the guy

1688
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 5: that's not going to do a great job.

1689
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 2: Like he knew that it was date night, and so

1690
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 2: maybe he just went to the guy, you know, in

1691
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 2: anticipation of the date night. All right, but I'm not

1692
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 2: convinced that if Big Tim came home head to toe.

1693
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:52,920
Speaker 5: And Big Tim came home and Jason was his guy.

1694
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 12: Yeah.

1695
01:13:55,880 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently Jason's voluntary to be the guy runs off

1696
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 2: to Astetuian school right now to do this. Okay, Look,

1697
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 2: that's his choice. He feels good about it, that's what

1698
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,599
Speaker 2: he wants to do. Becky, you're saying that you weren't

1699
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 2: attracted to it. You thought it was I don't know

1700
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 2: it was abnormal for you. You went into it exactly.

1701
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,719
Speaker 13: I've never met a straight man do that in my life,

1702
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 13: and so it's it's a pass for me. But I

1703
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 13: know that somebody is gonna appreciate all of that.

1704
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 6: Euffart.

1705
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Hey, Mike, look you do you You

1706
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:38,800
Speaker 2: know they call you smooth on the streets. I heard. Yeah,

1707
01:14:39,120 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 2: she's not into him. It's all the man, dude his

1708
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,679
Speaker 2: his time. He shaves some seconds minutes off the time.

1709
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 2: The guy can swim so fast like lightning.

1710
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 1: All right.

1711
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know, Mike, she's not into it. It

1712
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 2: can't make her be into it. I'm sure someone will

1713
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 2: appreciate this, and and I wish you both the best

1714
01:14:57,439 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 2: of luck. I don't even have to, I assume, just

1715
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 2: to be sure you are no second date, Becky or.

1716
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 5: Third I mean, would you ever consider not being sole Hairwin?

1717
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, so now all of a sudden, you'll

1718
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:12,760
Speaker 2: grow your plait a minute, You're so, yeah, you wait

1719
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 2: a minute, you says. Now, You're like, I'll just grow

1720
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 2: it out for you, right.

1721
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:17,799
Speaker 5: What about the appointment with the guy.

1722
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: He's gonna go out of business?

1723
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 16: You do, man and be if the guy thought Becky,

1724
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,720
Speaker 16: he would understand, Oh, okay, you know what.

1725
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm gonna let you two work this out,

1726
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 2: because this is I am you. If y'all want to talking,

1727
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 2: y'all to.

1728
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 1: Callon's Entertainment report, He's on the Fred Show.

1729
01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 11: Bill Belichick's highly anticipated debut as head coach of the

1730
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 11: UNC tar Heels turned into kind of a nightmare as

1731
01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 11: they were overwhelmed by TCU with a final score of

1732
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 11: forty eight to fourteen. Despite an early touchdown, the tar

1733
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,839
Speaker 11: Heels allowed forty one unanswered points, and the game, attended

1734
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 11: by celebrities like Michael Jordan, failed to deliver on all

1735
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:02,200
Speaker 11: of this expected excitement, leaving fans and analysts questioning the

1736
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 11: team's future under Belichick's leadership.

1737
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 5: In other college news.

1738
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 11: College football News, I should say sorry, Jason Brown, the

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Speaker 11: third ranked Ohio State Buck Guys beat the top range

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Speaker 11: Texas Longhorns on Saturday, fourteen to seven. The Book Guys

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Speaker 11: were led by their defense, which stopped Texas four times

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Speaker 11: on forced Down.

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Speaker 5: So there you go. Let's move on to some you know,

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Speaker 5: fun stuff, shall we.

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Speaker 11: Fifth Harmony reunited on stage for the first time in

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Speaker 11: seven years during the Jonas Brothers Jonas twenty tour stop

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Speaker 11: in Dallas. They did their twenty fifteen banger worth It

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Speaker 11: in matching black outfits. Earlier in the day, the group's

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Speaker 11: official X account posted for the first time since twenty eighteen,

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Speaker 11: I think, fueling reunion speculation. The group's hiatus started a

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Speaker 11: few years after Camilla Cabello left the group, with each

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Speaker 11: mover pursuing solo projects as well. Camilla did not attend,

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Speaker 11: but showed some love online with four red heart emojis.

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Speaker 11: The rockshock fans at the Venice Film Festival with a

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Speaker 11: much slim look, having reportedly dropped around sixty pounds for

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Speaker 11: his role as MMA fighter Mark Kerr in The Smashing Machine.

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Speaker 11: The film earned a fifteen minute Standing ovation at the festival,

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Speaker 11: moving the Rock and Mark Kurt to tears. Actually the

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Speaker 11: Rock called the transformation a personal and professional shift towards

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Speaker 11: more dramatic roles. The movie will hit theaters October third,

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Speaker 11: and speaking of movies, Weapons took the top spot at

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Speaker 11: the Labor Day weekend box office, while Jaws, Yes like

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Speaker 11: the old movie Jaws in honor of the fiftieth anniversary,

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Speaker 11: beat out two new movies made ten million and came

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Speaker 11: in second, Caught Stealing that crime thriller I Really Want

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Speaker 11: to See It with Austin Butler and Zoe Kravitz that

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Speaker 11: came in third. Fourth went to Freaky Friday, the sequel

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Speaker 11: to the twenty or two thousand three Excuse me Disney

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Speaker 11: movie with Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis.

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Speaker 5: Freaky Friday.

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Speaker 11: Of course, the weekend's other new release, The Roses, came

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Speaker 11: in fifth with only an estimated eight million through Labor Day.

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Speaker 11: By the way, way, if you missed any part of

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Speaker 11: our show and you want to catch up, it's all

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Speaker 11: up there. Just type the Fred Show on Deman and

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Speaker 11: said us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Fred's Fun Fact fredlun.

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Speaker 5: So much, learn.

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Speaker 1: So much.

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Speaker 2: Guys, did you know the first ever alarm clock could

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Speaker 2: only ring at four am, which that would have worked

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Speaker 2: for most of us. Yeah, would have been perfect. So

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Speaker 2: my alarm goes off the first time. The seventh time

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Speaker 2: is around four fifteen, as I hit snooze over and

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Speaker 2: over again. The first American alarm clock was invented by

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Speaker 2: Levi Hutchins in seventeen eighty seven. It took sixty years

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Speaker 2: for the French inventor Antoine Redier. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I said the right to a patent an adjustable one,

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Speaker 2: but yes, the very first alarm clock would only ring

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Speaker 2: at four block in the morning.

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Speaker 1: More Fred Shall next