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Speaker 1: I know this is all you. I loved that intro.

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Speaker 1: Love it, love it. Gandhi's reminding us Rita, it was

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Speaker 1: it was just fitting perfectly to the current. And then

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Speaker 1: she sang a song and all the you know, all

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Speaker 1: of us, all the queens are like hey, and then

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Speaker 1: she's like, well, what's your grandma doing tonight? So it's

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Speaker 1: easy to the question. I mean, can you see grandma Rita?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you gonna do this until you kick?

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Speaker 1: Is it? I mean yes, if I have that choice

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Speaker 1: and that opportunity, I am not sitting down unless I

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Speaker 1: have to. You know, I think if you have those

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Speaker 1: moments in life, just take them. Then why are we

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Speaker 1: sitting now? I don't know. I feel like it just

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Speaker 1: feels like that moment that morning SIPs tea. I would

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Speaker 1: love I won't be around when you're a grandmother, so

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Speaker 1: I don't know, scary. What's the tech saying? Rita? Aura

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Speaker 1: is giving me life this morning. I could feel her

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Speaker 1: energy through the radio and I feel like it could

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Speaker 1: sit and talk to her. Believe, I love thank you,

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Speaker 1: I love it. I feel like it's nice we get

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Speaker 1: to give people a bit of life in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a final round of questions for reader?

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Speaker 1: I do, but I feel like we've had such a

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Speaker 1: good flow. I want to go back to something. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: we can reach around. Okay, reach around? So this song

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Speaker 1: the balls on the ball to reach around and it's

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Speaker 1: all happening this morning. Are you stick room? So, when

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Speaker 1: you were contemplating talking to your now husband about are

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Speaker 1: we exclusive? How long into your relationship? Was that for

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Speaker 1: all the single girls out there who want to know, Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it is such a hard read, isn't it, Because you've

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Speaker 1: got to really like read the room almost and you

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Speaker 1: never want to scare them off. It was such a tricky,

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Speaker 1: scary question, and I think every girl kind of goes

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Speaker 1: through it where it's like, do we say are we exclusive?

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Speaker 1: Do I wait for him to ask me how long? Well,

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Speaker 1: for me, it was really quick because I've known him

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Speaker 1: for so long. We were friends for so long before

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Speaker 1: that it didn't feel like, let's getting awkward because I

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Speaker 1: built that friendship with him for so many years, like

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Speaker 1: six years before we sort of got together, and then

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Speaker 1: it was almost like he was in front of me

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Speaker 1: the whole time. So I don't know if that helps

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Speaker 1: anyone else, but building a friendship I think really helps.

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Speaker 1: Friendship is the work. Yeah, absolutely, how many people are

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Speaker 1: in relationship right now and you really love them, but

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Speaker 1: you're just not friends with them, Maybe investigate that, take

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Speaker 1: a look. That's a great question. Lift the bonnet and

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Speaker 1: take a look. As they say, live on the bonnet,

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Speaker 1: and take a look exactly. It balls on the wall.

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Speaker 1: So the husband has connections to Marvel, so maybe I

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Speaker 1: feel like I need to see you in the Marvel

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Speaker 1: and oh well, listen, that's amazing. It's what's great about

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Speaker 1: what we do is that we have separate, incredible lives

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Speaker 1: and we really lift each other. And I think that's

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Speaker 1: the start. I mean, listen, I'm a big fan of

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Speaker 1: his work, So that's that's another thing as well. With

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Speaker 1: respect and uplifting one another, I think is really important.

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Speaker 1: You know what relationships are challenging enough. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to work or I think we're okay? Well, I feel

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Speaker 1: like relationship it is sort of that it is work

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Speaker 1: in this way, in its own way it is. I

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Speaker 1: can't explain it, but just having the ability to like

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Speaker 1: respect and give each other space is kind of work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's way, but it doesn't feel like it. It should

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Speaker 1: never feel like it should never. My husband Alex, at

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Speaker 1: one time, I should just come work with you and

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Speaker 1: be your assistant. I mean never, never, never. I'll save

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Speaker 1: you all sorts of money on airfare. We'll put you back. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't want you anywhere near my business, but I'll

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Speaker 1: be here because now you know she's a card key. Yeah, Rita.

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Speaker 1: I hate. I hate to say, hey, to watch me leave.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to watch you leave. Don't watch me leave. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I want to stay. But I'm actually going to do

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Speaker 1: the Drew Braymore show after this. We love her, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I want to say to Drew. Let you guys say hi,

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Speaker 1: She's lovely and we're doing fallon. So anyone watching watch

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Speaker 1: me on all these shows when you were driving uptown.

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Speaker 1: This is my favorite thing to see every morning when

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Speaker 1: I'm coming from downtown to uptown to work. The city

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Speaker 1: is asleep when we get here, and they're right there,

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Speaker 1: right there is Rico City Music Hall, right next to

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Speaker 1: m BC Studio, my future residency. There you go. How

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Speaker 1: does that right there on the in the knee on

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Speaker 1: us is the Tonight Show starring Jimmy Fallon. He's he's

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Speaker 1: a good friend of ours. Two we love him. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're on. We're on your I'm on your screens, America,

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Speaker 1: so check it out. Yeah, make sure you watch it

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Speaker 1: this night show. Tell Jimmy we said, hi, I will

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Speaker 1: all right. You can't go anywhere? Do we play you

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Speaker 1: only love me? Or you can go as we play it?

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Speaker 1: I guess yeah, you only love I love it. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for playing the record. Thank you, thanks

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Speaker 1: for warming up the studio. I love you, and thanks

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Speaker 1: for going balls deep with us. There we go, I

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Speaker 1: love you. It's such a great way to start your day. Day.

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