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Speaker 1: Welcome everyone to this edition of Amy and TJ.

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Speaker 2: This is actually part two of our fascinating conversation with

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Speaker 2: the dog Whisperer, Caesar Milan, And what struck us the

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Speaker 2: most is you don't have to be a dog owner

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Speaker 2: to actually glean so much information from this man, because

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Speaker 2: he's talking about being a good human and that's how

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Speaker 2: you end up having a good dog. Hadn't really thought

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Speaker 2: about it in those terms before.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all you folks out there and think you got

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Speaker 3: bad dogs, No, those dogs are bad owners. That's you.

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Speaker 3: And that's how he explains it. But we never imagine

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Speaker 3: that a conversation with him, the great famous dog whisper,

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Speaker 3: would turn into a philosophical conversation therapy for a lot

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Speaker 3: of us as well. And of course I know you

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Speaker 3: wondering how many dogs does this guy have? Yeah, we

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Speaker 3: got into that as well. So here now part two

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Speaker 3: of our conversation with the man himself, Caesar Milan. Let

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Speaker 3: us know how many dogs do you have? Are you

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Speaker 3: training or you? How many are on the.

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Speaker 4: Rain right now? I only have ten, only have ten,

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Speaker 4: but I have Lamas, I'll Pacas and EMUs and I

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Speaker 4: have all the I have seventeen different species. They require

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Speaker 4: also to walk, yes, So that's why I slowed down

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Speaker 4: on the dog amount so I can have other species

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Speaker 4: because I like to help people to also achieve for

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Speaker 4: a dog not to have prey drive. So a lot

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Speaker 4: of dogs have prey drive, right, So that's why I

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Speaker 4: bring the farm animals so people learn. Yes, So what

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Speaker 4: happens when a person has an incident or an accident

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Speaker 4: with a squirrel and the dog you know, catches the

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Speaker 4: squirrel that get scared, But they have never had that

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Speaker 4: experience with a lama. So I bring them around the

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Speaker 4: lama so have a new experience and so they can

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Speaker 4: see that they can do it. You see it, because

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Speaker 4: once the person achieved the wrong thing, it's really hard

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Speaker 4: to remove that. They can believe and that's not going

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Speaker 4: to happen, you see it. So I bring a new

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Speaker 4: species that you never had a problem with, You never

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Speaker 4: had a trauma with it, so it's not in your

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Speaker 4: mind because you only become afraid of what you saw.

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Speaker 4: But what you didn't see is a possibility, you see it.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I need to bring different because my

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Speaker 4: goal is to rehablet the humans do right. So at

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Speaker 4: one point I have to become a human whisper.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like it. Now we've talked a lot on

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Speaker 3: this podcast hell and even our personal lives and dealing

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Speaker 3: with a lot of I mean therapy and trauma and

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Speaker 3: people trying to live better and reading. Ekhar totallyan you

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Speaker 3: in talking to you now, and look, I'm familiar with

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Speaker 3: you over the years. You sound like one of those

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Speaker 3: philosophers who is yeah, we're talking about dogs, but you are.

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Speaker 3: You sound to me like you're finding humans a path

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Speaker 3: forward and being more connected to Earth the moment, the environment,

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Speaker 3: what is in front of you is was that I

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Speaker 3: know you need to train the humans to get the

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Speaker 3: dog trained. Yeah, but you sound like more in my opinion,

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Speaker 3: you get what I'm saying along those lines.

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Speaker 1: Of a spiritual philosopher.

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Speaker 4: Yes, but the dog makes it tangible. See, Ekar totally

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Speaker 4: can make it tangible. Right because Kytolia is going to

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Speaker 4: tell you things. They are gonna go to your mind.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you things that you can practice

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Speaker 4: right away, and you can see that that your silence

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Speaker 4: is your spirit. So you're better than that car is no, No,

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Speaker 4: it's a good friend of mine. Yeah, because we all

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Speaker 4: go after the better of the human.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: That's what the new show is called, Better Human, Better

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Speaker 4: Planet or better human, Better dog, you know. But it's

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Speaker 4: definitely my contribution, you know, from all the guys deep

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Speaker 4: At Obrien and Wayne Dyer and er Car Cooley and

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Speaker 4: you know, and Tony Robbins, all of those, they want

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Speaker 4: the human to become the best energy, the best philosophy,

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Speaker 4: the best action. But where are you going to practice, right,

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Speaker 4: So then the dog, because a dog is very forgiving.

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Speaker 4: You can practice over and over and over before you

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Speaker 4: go into the human. The human doesn't forgive as much.

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Speaker 4: So you can make us millions of mistakes with the dog.

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Speaker 4: But the day they do it right, boom. They live

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Speaker 4: in the moment, so they change and they say, oh

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Speaker 4: I finally change. See with a human, they give you

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Speaker 4: two three chances. And that's it. Is that he says

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Speaker 4: he's like a dog.

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Speaker 3: He makes me want to get a dog. Yeah, because

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Speaker 3: to his point, you can practice all these things the

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Speaker 3: tools he's given you. You can see the results different from

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Speaker 3: a cart that is I've never thought about it. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then for guys or ladies who are going to

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Speaker 4: become parents anytime, make sure that you practice with a dog,

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Speaker 4: you said, because pet parent. It requires the same energy

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Speaker 4: and same actions. The only thing that changes is the philosophy,

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Speaker 4: because one is a human the other one is a dog.

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Speaker 4: But a kid or a dog needs patient's calmness, confidence, love,

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Speaker 4: joy to be raised a kid or a dog. A

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Speaker 4: dog needs exercise, di benefection.

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Speaker 1: It's like a starter child.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well you can make mistakes and and and you

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Speaker 4: can always fix it. With a child, you make me

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Speaker 4: mistake that you're traumatized the.

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Speaker 1: Therapy, you gotta spend money later.

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Speaker 4: You spend money in the beginning, and then with a dog,

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Speaker 4: it's just okay, I'm going to get to see myself.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you get a second chance after you've already raised

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Speaker 2: your children and made all the mistakes, and then you

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Speaker 2: can get the dog.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: Can you teach an old dog nu tricks?

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Speaker 3: I have? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It must the dogs not humans.

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Speaker 2: Is it that much harder once they've already had established patterns?

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Speaker 4: Are repetitions right? It's three sixty five repetitions of the

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Speaker 4: wrong thing. So it just takes a little bit more months,

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Speaker 4: but not years. I mean the longest case, I it

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Speaker 4: took me three months and the dog was already six

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Speaker 4: years being aggressive, but aggressive like already being successful biting things.

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Speaker 1: Have you been bit by a dog?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I figured the answer had to be yes. And you

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Speaker 2: have you ever had a fear of dogs? If you're

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Speaker 2: dealing with an especially aggressive dog, how do you handle that?

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Speaker 1: Mentally breathing.

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Speaker 4: And then believing? So I believe that I can change

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Speaker 4: through my breath and my knowledge. See the love and

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Speaker 4: the joy is after. I can only celebrate once I

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Speaker 4: achieved the com surrender because that dog in a fight mode, right,

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Speaker 4: So how you remove chaos? You believe you breathe, you

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Speaker 4: do it. You believe you breathe, you do it, and

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Speaker 4: then thought you get it.

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Speaker 1: That's actually reminding me.

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Speaker 2: So I am a dog owner, but he's this cute,

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Speaker 2: little fluffy multipoo who doesn't look like he would harm

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Speaker 2: and I have experienced multiple times very frightening experiences where

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Speaker 2: a foreign country where they could be rabid, they're not

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Speaker 2: well taken care of, they're aggressive, and I have had

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Speaker 2: what to do. I've solely backed away, but I've how

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Speaker 2: do you how do you give yourself power or be

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Speaker 2: empowered in that moment to find a way to connect

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Speaker 4: Well, you visualize before you actually go in that situation, right,

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Speaker 4: and then you tell your brain, brain, if this happens

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Speaker 4: then you start practicing on the mirror, right, And so

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Speaker 4: you start preparing because you have because remember, the mind

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Speaker 4: believes it's real even though it's not real. Right, So

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Speaker 4: you can start practicing this and Ericause says, so you

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Speaker 4: already saw it. But then you're telling your mind this

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Speaker 4: want to behave next time. So you're running, you're running,

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Speaker 4: the dog is barking.

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Speaker 1: You stop, You breathe, your calm.

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Speaker 4: Then you make the energy bigger because as you're moving

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Speaker 1: Right, I know that's how I feel.

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Speaker 4: Look at the cats when they protect themselves from a dog,

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Speaker 3: Sease. I love you. I don't know if I can

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Speaker 5: Because I've been running on smiling. You know, we have

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Speaker 3: All of a sudden, I hear a dog. That dog's barking,

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Speaker 3: and that dog takes off after me, right, and I'm

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Speaker 3: already mid run. I promise you I've done this on

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Speaker 3: more than one occasion. Try to outrun that dog. I

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Speaker 3: never never crossed my mind. And I'm not going in

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Speaker 3: idea of this whatever dog screaming coming after you full speed,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to stop.

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Speaker 4: Remember you're passing their home. Yeah, because you're passing by

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Speaker 4: So for them for you to stop, they're not expecting

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Speaker 3: They want me to get the hell out of there,

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Speaker 3: and I'm wanting to get out of there, and.

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Speaker 4: You will once the dog turns back and said.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're too strong, okay, all.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Actually I have actually on runs said to myself mentally,

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Speaker 2: I am I'm sending you love. I know this sounds

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Speaker 2: really fun, but I've just I've tried to like put

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Speaker 1: Of love to do to the dog.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well they haven't sort of chased me. They're barking

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Speaker 1: I don't I haven't been bitten yet.

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Speaker 4: Knock on works and you will never get bitten. You

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Speaker 4: got to create that, okay, you have to. You have

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Speaker 4: to send the message of you know, to to to universe,

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Speaker 4: to God and tell how you want to be protected,

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Speaker 4: direction protection love. So you can't just send love, you

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Speaker 4: have to send direction protection energy. That's your calm confidence source. Right,

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Speaker 4: that's the one that's the one that creates the leadership.

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Speaker 4: That's the one that moved things.

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Speaker 3: What does it say about why does a dog bite

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Speaker 3: in the first place? We usally all they're misbehaving or something,

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Speaker 3: But why is the dog bite?

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Speaker 4: But when it bites naturally, like when a mom bites

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Speaker 4: their children, is to correct them because they broke a

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Speaker 4: rule bond limitation. So by it I mean they don't

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Speaker 4: have hands, right, so they do that. It's just to

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Speaker 4: let them know, hey, you broke a rule, boundary limitations.

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Speaker 4: That's a normal bite, right, that's not aggressive bite, that's

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Speaker 4: a discipline bite.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: But when the dog is you know, like and your

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Speaker 4: if you're passing by their territory and you don't stop

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Speaker 4: and they go after your ankles, it's because you're passing

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Speaker 4: by their territory, right, or the dog. You allow the

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Speaker 4: dog to overprotect food and then you come close back bites.

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Speaker 4: That's because you let him become too dominant.

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Speaker 1: You do travel with your dog.

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Speaker 4: It's not the dog.

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Speaker 4: So AI can help. I mean a smart technology. The

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Speaker 4: That's what you know, A long long time ago, that's

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Speaker 4: because the energy is wrong, the philosophy is wrong, and

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Speaker 4: You see when people are at the beach with the dogs,

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Speaker 1: That's so true.

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Speaker 4: See, that's freedom and that's what I want people to get.

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Speaker 4: For peace? How do you want to feel safe? What

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Speaker 4: Why because you're practicing trash respect?

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Speaker 4: Why because your dog nows rules by the limitations? Why

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Speaker 4: because you have connection, communication, relationship, That's what happens naturally

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Speaker 2: You mentioned that it didn't matter. I was talking about

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Speaker 2: But are there better breeds for certain families who have

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Speaker 1: Do you suggest different types of breeds?

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Speaker 4: I suggest middle of the pack dogs, and then you

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Speaker 3: You identify middle of the pack.

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Speaker 4: I mean they're literally worn like this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So the back of the pack a little bit

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Speaker 4: Then the rest when you come and meet and you're

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Speaker 4: And you can see.

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Speaker 3: Well, but even to a lay person, we'd be able

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Speaker 4: Now you're looking for it, Now we're looking for you said,

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Speaker 4: you need to know what you're looking for, right, which

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Speaker 4: You need to make money, but you know where, how,

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Speaker 4: But once you know, once you have very clear what

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Speaker 3: On the family. Since she was talking about and how

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Because so if you raise a dog first,

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Speaker 4: So then you bring a baby human into the picture,

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Speaker 1: But people get emotion.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because look at your brother. Oh look, just gonna

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Speaker 2: But I get nervous when I see people who don't

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Speaker 1: Do you as well?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Of course you have to be because you're doing

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Speaker 4: But the baby is going to be the pack leader

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Speaker 4: right because if you will have a gorilla, what would

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Speaker 1: But do dogs get jealous?

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Speaker 4: it's because you let them. I raised my kids. I

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Speaker 4: Well, no touch, no talking right contact right, that's no touch,

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Speaker 4: Your scynth is your name. But if you go how

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Speaker 3: Look at me?

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Speaker 4: It's like, oh, I wanted to smell. The dog can

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Speaker 3: And when when Brody interacts or they come upon another

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, not excited dogs, because they can

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Speaker 4: they let him go. So it's from zero to ten,

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Speaker 4: not from ten to one hundred.

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Speaker 1: It's about the calmness ahead of time and throughout the.

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Speaker 4: Walk everything in life, you know, as we grow, Oh

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Speaker 4: it's about silence. Oh it's about commonists. Oh, it's about surrendering.

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Speaker 4: And then it's the happy, go lucky. And then it's

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Speaker 4: the calm confident. Right now, we don't want to be

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Speaker 4: in a camp confident all the time. You know. The

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Speaker 4: way you learn is by silence, come surrender. The way

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Speaker 4: you celebrate is happy, go lucky. The way you make

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Speaker 4: things happen is calm, confident, But then you got to

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Speaker 4: turn that thing off.

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Speaker 2: Caesar, I had no idea that we were going to

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Speaker 2: learn about human philosophy as we were talking about dogs.

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Speaker 2: That was amazing, SERI, that was phenomenal. I learned so

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Speaker 2: much things I probably should have learned a decade ago.

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Speaker 2: But I am going to be applying this into my

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Speaker 2: personal life.

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Speaker 3: I was reading Gaby Bernstein and we had her in

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Speaker 3: studio not long ago. I need to talk to the

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Speaker 3: dog to get my life.

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Speaker 4: Simple. I make it simple. You know, English is not

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Speaker 4: my first language, so I have to life simplify words, natural, simple, profound, trouserspect, love,

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Speaker 4: ruled by limitation. Everything has a formula, rituals and symbols.

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Speaker 2: Well, congratulations on all your continued success. Just and it's

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Speaker 2: it's no surprise after having this conversation. Why you are

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Speaker 2: who you are?

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Speaker 1: The dog whisperer.

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Speaker 4: Yeah,