Speaker 1: Find Down with Jane Kramer and Michael Coughlin and I
Speaker 1: heard radio podcast. I'm looking at my notes right now
Speaker 1: because I genuinely wrote something down in my notes that
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about. But it's gone. It's disappeared.
Speaker 1: You know, it's funny, it's completely disappeared. And now, But
Speaker 1: it was like one of those things on the other day,
Speaker 1: because I kind of know when Jane and I kind
Speaker 1: of know when we do that, because I'll kind of
Speaker 1: see you're just randomly grab your phone, like after we
Speaker 1: say something that's kind of interesting or funny or controversial,
Speaker 1: and we'll write it down, and I remember you doing
Speaker 1: that the other day. Yeah, but it's gone. It's gone.
Speaker 1: And now I'm really bummed because it was great and
Speaker 1: I want to talk about it because I always want
Speaker 1: to save stuff for the podcast. It was gone. We
Speaker 1: have no idea what it is. No great, Well, that's
Speaker 1: our show. Have a great Monday. Whoa, guys. We need
Speaker 1: to celebrate though. We're nominated for a People's and the
Speaker 1: only reason that we are is because of our Wine
Speaker 1: Down listeners and Amy Sugarman. That is it. Um No,
Speaker 1: We're so excited, it's so cool. I honestly didn't think
Speaker 1: because Amy had texted us, hey, there might be maybe possibly,
Speaker 1: and you and not put the lid on it quick
Speaker 1: with each other because we're like, we're like, okay, whatever.
Speaker 1: We didn't want to get too excited, and honestly I
Speaker 1: forgot about it. You did did until you have you heard?
Speaker 1: Have you heard? Have you heard? Have you heard? Honestly,
Speaker 1: I've forgotten until Amy sent it to us. I was
Speaker 1: genuinely surprised. Though it's a great I mean, it's a
Speaker 1: great list of people. And so now we're like, hey, honey,
Speaker 1: we have no shot in hell. Yeah, we already popped
Speaker 1: our champagne because like, we won what we needed to win,
Speaker 1: we got nominated. But then again, though I mean not
Speaker 1: saying anything because I love scrubbing Antania and but I
Speaker 1: mean I thought for sure Lady Gang was gonna win
Speaker 1: because they have a bigger following mere on e. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I mean you never know. I mean, I know
Speaker 1: we don't have Bachelor Nation, So I think it's either
Speaker 1: going to do what I would like to see is
Speaker 1: Tania in um, oh my god, Becca to do back
Speaker 1: to back back to back, you know, that would be
Speaker 1: that would be the sweetest one of that. But I
Speaker 1: mean it's like, you guys have your mantle at home.
Speaker 1: You got your Heart radio podcast toward People's Choice Award
Speaker 1: right next to it. I mean, look, I would love
Speaker 1: to win. I just think it's but again, I mean,
Speaker 1: who knows if you guys vote, though, if you go
Speaker 1: to People's Choice Award and you vote, you can vote
Speaker 1: times up today for wine. I think if they did
Speaker 1: actually call us up there, I'll just be sitting on
Speaker 1: the table. Nope, Nope, it's wrong. No, no, we're good.
Speaker 1: You like the wine and hanging out and say, way
Speaker 1: too drunk to come on stage right now? Like no,
Speaker 1: I did not think this is gonna happen. But no,
Speaker 1: you can't vote, can but you never know? Who knows?
Speaker 1: But hey, how cool? I mean, who would have thought
Speaker 1: it was funny? Because when I was writing that post,
Speaker 1: I never thought it would be how it is now.
Speaker 1: I just from everything that we've been through, there's no
Speaker 1: chance in hell I would have ever imagined being nominated
Speaker 1: talking about stuff that we talked about, even talking you know,
Speaker 1: It's just it's really truly crazy, especially from the time
Speaker 1: when I was writing my first book Proposal and you
Speaker 1: ripped it up. I'm not I don't want this in
Speaker 1: your book, and but yeah, I mean he ripped it up,
Speaker 1: shredded it out and slammed the door on his way out,
Speaker 1: which I understood, I mean, but at the same time,
Speaker 1: I was just like, but I want to help people
Speaker 1: and I think it could help people. Then no, I mean,
Speaker 1: well obviously I was like, it takes two years for
Speaker 1: a book to come out, but yeah, but I mean,
Speaker 1: get us know it actually sooner than when the book
Speaker 1: came we thought about it, yeah, but still we weren't
Speaker 1: talking about it then. Yeah, but again, I mean, look,
Speaker 1: it's so crazy. It is crazy, very fortunate, a lot
Speaker 1: of hard work, which is why we deserve the award. Please,
Speaker 1: so please go bro Um. So do you want to
Speaker 1: do our five minute weekap? Real quick, let's do it.
Speaker 1: Let's get that one on the way. Okay, we watched
Speaker 1: episode two, episode two of nine seven episodes or whatever
Speaker 1: it is, and uh, what were your thoughts? So what's
Speaker 1: the James Lafferty's character's name, Nathan Scott, Sorry Nathan, So
Speaker 1: he's an ass Yeah, which you know James, obviously guys
Speaker 1: are buds and you just did didn't you do his podcast? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's gotta he's gotta show that he's doing with Stephen.
Speaker 1: I was called Stephen Cavalery. Oh my god, Stephen Stephen COLLEENNI. Um,
Speaker 1: we need to get James on. Can we get him on? Amy,
Speaker 1: James Lafferty, keep trying, trying. I really would like to
Speaker 1: get chat Michael murrayan too, you did. He has one
Speaker 1: of those holiday movies coming up, different network than yours,
Speaker 1: So I am pushing for that. Okay, cool, because I
Speaker 1: would really like I would really because I like to
Speaker 1: have his wife and Sarah on and we can talk
Speaker 1: about relationship and Wintry Hill and recap. But because James
Speaker 1: isn't he his character is so mean. He's one of
Speaker 1: those characters where it's like, um, god, what was his name? Eastern?
Speaker 1: Did you watch Game of Thrones? No, that's remember we
Speaker 1: already had this conversation where he wasn't into that. He's
Speaker 1: not into like the other fairylands, right, the hard fag guy,
Speaker 1: more realistic like avenger stuff. Yeah, I get it, um,
Speaker 1: but it's like one of those characters. There's a character
Speaker 1: in Game of Thrones I don't remember. I can't remember.
Speaker 1: He's like the king. He's a young King, and it's
Speaker 1: one of those you hate the characters so much where
Speaker 1: I felt like if I saw him that person playing
Speaker 1: that character walking down the street, I would want to
Speaker 1: punch him in the face. Yeah, And that's how James
Speaker 1: Laugherty characters face Nathan Scott, Like, if I saw Nathan
Speaker 1: Scott walking down the street, I would want to drop
Speaker 1: kick him in the chest because he's terrible. He's the worst.
Speaker 1: But Lucas is my man. I really like Lucas and
Speaker 1: I really want Lucas and Peyton to be together. But
Speaker 1: I feel like this is what my this is what
Speaker 1: I feel like Joy's character, Hayley is going to somehow.
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna want to date um, what's his face, Lucas.
Speaker 1: I think Hayley is gonna want to date Lucas and
Speaker 1: Lucas is. Um. Don't you know what happens you were
Speaker 1: I don't know anything. That's the thing. I know nothing,
Speaker 1: But you know what happened in your season's I know.
Speaker 1: All I know is who marries you? That's it. That's
Speaker 1: all I do. So you know the end game. I
Speaker 1: know the n Dish game. I didn't watched last season,
Speaker 1: so I mean I got a lot of catched up too.
Speaker 1: But anyways, two have two things that I wrote down
Speaker 1: my notes a by the episode. First of all, Lucas
Speaker 1: punched Nathan in class right, no mark on Nathan's face?
Speaker 1: What kind of punch was that they could? They couldn't
Speaker 1: even put makeup on him to make it look like
Speaker 1: it had bruised. I mean, I thought it was awesome
Speaker 1: when Lucas took his name off the back of his
Speaker 1: jersey though. That was amazing. That Okay, we probably have
Speaker 1: like thirty seconds left. And the biggest thing we took
Speaker 1: away from that episode was the quote from Uncle Keith
Speaker 1: when uh he took the cover off of car said,
Speaker 1: it's usually the prettier, the prettier the girl, the messier
Speaker 1: the car. And Jan and I just kind of looked
Speaker 1: at each other because Jane's car is usually a mess
Speaker 1: I really do I have a messy car? I don't
Speaker 1: prettier the girl, the messier the car. I mean, And
Speaker 1: that was our five minute O t weecap. But no,
Speaker 1: what here's the thing though, I'd rather have a cleaner
Speaker 1: house than I'm like than having a clean car. Well,
Speaker 1: I got all the kids stuff in my car. I
Speaker 1: have the same amount of car seats in my car
Speaker 1: as you do. Oh contrary, excuse you, there's a car
Speaker 1: seat sitting in the garage, so yeah, you have one
Speaker 1: live one in the garage right now. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: I'd rather have a clean house Eastern clean house in
Speaker 1: a clean car. Yeah, oh yeah, clean house by far
Speaker 1: for sure. But I think I spent as much time
Speaker 1: in my car some days as I do in the
Speaker 1: house because I'm the one that always drives fascinating conversation.
Speaker 1: So yeah, if you really want to hear some more
Speaker 1: fascinating conversations, um, come visit us on the Wine Down Tour,
Speaker 1: which is climbing to city near you. So check Janna
Speaker 1: Cramer dot com. And we would love to hang out
Speaker 1: with you. I'm gonna saying some music, um, so yeah,
Speaker 1: we would love to love to hang and to Also
Speaker 1: we're working on something else new. It's really cool. We're
Speaker 1: doing a talk show. We are doing to download the
Speaker 1: app Telly and you can actually ask your questions on
Speaker 1: our app. So I'm all live interactive at the moment,
Speaker 1: So when you're watching us, that is us right there
Speaker 1: in Eastern and I love it. So yeah, it's really cool.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be able to interact with you guys. Um,
Speaker 1: so download the Telly app that is gonna go next week.
Speaker 1: So that's gonna be exciting. UM. Okay, what else? We
Speaker 1: have an interesting guest today? Like very interesting, is very interesting.
Speaker 1: I'm excited in a way where I don't know, I
Speaker 1: think people might be upset with the view that I take. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm I don't think I'm popular. I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm the popular opinion. We'll find out. Stay tuned.
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Speaker 1: and it's the so Cal country at the brewery, and
Speaker 1: I'm really excited because not only we podcasting from here,
Speaker 1: but I'm hosting an event and there's Heart He's playing
Speaker 1: High Valley UM in all sponsored Miller Light, brought to
Speaker 1: you by Miller Light and I heart Radio UM. But
Speaker 1: we also have a UM a surprise guest that's going
Speaker 1: to be playing performer. Jed why I have a special
Speaker 1: place in my heart for Miller Corps when he got
Speaker 1: kicked out of college. By the way, we do so, Jed,
Speaker 1: Michael and I we had we shared the same car, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, this is actually a funny story. So
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know you were going to
Speaker 1: be on our thing. But and they're Tinnerary kept saying
Speaker 1: like jet, you were attached. I'm like, who the f
Speaker 1: is Jet? And then Tori sends me the thing, um
Speaker 1: like a people interview of you, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this guy. And I was like, oh great, and I'll
Speaker 1: get to you know, my feelings and thoughts in a
Speaker 1: little bit. But um, so I didn't see you at
Speaker 1: the I think I saw you like kind of out
Speaker 1: of the cormab, but I didn't know if you knew
Speaker 1: who I was, So I just I just didn't. I
Speaker 1: played like head down. So then I'm in the I'm
Speaker 1: in the airplane and I was like, Michael, if this
Speaker 1: mother effort checks the bag because we didn't check a bag,
Speaker 1: We're only here for a day, and you have to
Speaker 1: wait because he checked their bag. But it takes four
Speaker 1: ever at l a AX, I mean forever. And I'm
Speaker 1: texting Tori and I'm like, look, I was like, welcome
Speaker 1: to my health. If this guy checks the bag, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be so pissed because I'm like, we purposely like
Speaker 1: I do not check bags. I hate anyone who ever
Speaker 1: travels with Jana in the future. If you're listening, um,
Speaker 1: even if you're gone for a month, do not check
Speaker 1: a bag. She will judge you and hold it against
Speaker 1: you for the rest of your day. I traveled the
Speaker 1: equipment for the podcast. It's like this, you have to
Speaker 1: check that, you have to check it. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: It just drives me creatase, like to land again the
Speaker 1: car and just go. You know. It's just like I've
Speaker 1: been traveling for so many years. I just want to
Speaker 1: get to I just want to get and go and blow.
Speaker 1: And so I'm just like, and he's here for like
Speaker 1: two days. So if this guy brings all of his
Speaker 1: like stuff, you know for two days, I know that
Speaker 1: was all like my internal But then instantly once you
Speaker 1: saw he didn't check I love him. He's great. Which
Speaker 1: is another funny point though, which we talked about in
Speaker 1: the car. But uh, there's a sign that had all
Speaker 1: three of our last names on there. Oh, this is
Speaker 1: fun and I never I didn't watch the season, so
Speaker 1: I didn't know necessarily what you looked like or anything.
Speaker 1: I think Jannah had her head down, but you walked
Speaker 1: by and I was like, you watched you walked right
Speaker 1: by the sign that said Kramer Cosson Wyatt like this guy.
Speaker 1: I asked Janna, I asked you, and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: it just you looked like you would have been on
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, right or something like that, and you had
Speaker 1: a guitar on your background. I knew you were playing today,
Speaker 1: so I was like, classic, yeah, Judge in the book
Speaker 1: by its cover. I was like, my senses say that
Speaker 1: might be Jed and so I so I asked Janna.
Speaker 1: And this guy near us like younger twenty something, your
Speaker 1: old guy overhears us. He was like, oh, yeah, that's him.
Speaker 1: He was like, I was just trying to text my
Speaker 1: fiance but she's in the bathroom but I have her phone,
Speaker 1: but I was going to text her say that jets
Speaker 1: here and you. I was like, thank you random kind sir,
Speaker 1: And now we know. Let's go, guys, let's go get him.
Speaker 1: And we grabbed the driver and I thought it was
Speaker 1: so nice you guys came to get me. And I
Speaker 1: walked right by the sign that I didn't even know
Speaker 1: that toll right now, that's awesome, but I'm like, where
Speaker 1: is he going? And mis well, maybe he checked the back.
Speaker 1: You guys might have checked the bag. That's what I
Speaker 1: was looking for. I figured you guys would be at
Speaker 1: the baggage. Now now I know for a fact that
Speaker 1: you were not there. But then when that guy started talking,
Speaker 1: I was just like, thank you because of him helped us.
Speaker 1: We're good, We're here. So funny. Anyways, okay, let's get
Speaker 1: into it. So for those of you, should I even
Speaker 1: recap or did your name just so recognizable right now
Speaker 1: that you don't even have to recap? So Jed was
Speaker 1: on Hannah's season. He was the winner. But then no,
Speaker 1: oh no no, But then, um, yeah, you guys broke
Speaker 1: up because of a situation because you of some you know,
Speaker 1: the girl and that whole issue. So what I which,
Speaker 1: Jenny came to your defense before I even knew about
Speaker 1: any of this. I actually and this is what I
Speaker 1: kind of told you in the car, but I wanted
Speaker 1: to save a lot of it for the podcast. But
Speaker 1: I actually took your side, and I think it was
Speaker 1: a very unpopular in popular how do you say I'm
Speaker 1: popular there, am on, It's very unpopular thing to take
Speaker 1: the side. But I did take your side because I
Speaker 1: thought that it was totally over I thought it was
Speaker 1: really overly dramatic. And I thought that a ninety nine
Speaker 1: point nine percent of the dudes that go on that
Speaker 1: show have a girlfriend or someone they're talking to, or
Speaker 1: someone they've slept with before they left, or someone they've
Speaker 1: texted everywhere to Yeah, and I think to go, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: you want to go in with who knows? Because who
Speaker 1: knows right if the show is going to ever work,
Speaker 1: but who if your cousin kicked off week one? You
Speaker 1: want to be able to go back to the your
Speaker 1: girl that you're talking to. And also there was a
Speaker 1: letter apparently that the girl that you were dating at
Speaker 1: the time you wrote, you know, I'm going to come
Speaker 1: back to you or whatever I'm paraphrasing, and you know
Speaker 1: I love you. And to your defense, again, I have
Speaker 1: told plenty of people I love them. Guys didn't mean it.
Speaker 1: It's just you know, I don't know if she means no.
Speaker 1: But I think, you know, maybe your love addict. I'm
Speaker 1: a love addict. He's a love addict. You know. I
Speaker 1: am a hopeless romantic like the same. And you want,
Speaker 1: like you go there, yeah, and you really want to
Speaker 1: feel that and maybe in that moment you did, but
Speaker 1: then you go through the process and you're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: that wasn't actually real. I was just manifesting something that
Speaker 1: I wanted to be real. But now this is real,
Speaker 1: and both of those things can be I think the same,
Speaker 1: and it can be Okay, sure, no, it's just life.
Speaker 1: I think when it when you bring a reality dating
Speaker 1: show into the picture, then everything kind of gets solved,
Speaker 1: twisted out of context. But like if this happened, and
Speaker 1: like the real world, this kind of thing does tend
Speaker 1: to happen, and that it's an interesting dating a million percent.
Speaker 1: It's weird there, and I like Hannah. She seems very sweet.
Speaker 1: I've met her at an um Wingo tango. But for
Speaker 1: me watching the show, it just felt a little little
Speaker 1: bit overly dramatic, where I just was like, you're upset,
Speaker 1: You're just because of that, Like really, I don't understand that.
Speaker 1: I can see how and we haven't experienced it, but
Speaker 1: I can see how that becomes their reality, right, So
Speaker 1: it's all distorted, so maybe to that person, but to
Speaker 1: have to give him the gauntlet that bad, Like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he he did end up. Yeah, you should have told her.
Speaker 1: I meant you should have told her sooner, you should
Speaker 1: have said something. You should have. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: but if for him, speaking for jed right here, rest
Speaker 1: of my case, But through the process, you might have
Speaker 1: not felt that, Like you said, you might not have
Speaker 1: felt that anymore. Life you just change, You're you're figuring
Speaker 1: your life out. You're still young. It's like, why I've
Speaker 1: even explained it if it didn't mean anything to him exactly.
Speaker 1: I get that too, That's what I'm saying. I get
Speaker 1: I totally get that point too. But you know, from
Speaker 1: a girl's point of view, I am backing her on
Speaker 1: that point where I think that, yeah, I think he
Speaker 1: should have at least said I told someone I loved
Speaker 1: her once before. So just so you know, I've said
Speaker 1: I love you before. No, I'm no, I do. I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm I'm not trying to most of it. I
Speaker 1: thought it was way too dramatic for what it was.
Speaker 1: I was just like, come on, yeah, that's what you're
Speaker 1: getting upset about. I mean, in hindsight, I can totally
Speaker 1: see where I didn't give Hailey enough closure, Like I
Speaker 1: felt like I had closure because of a phone conversation
Speaker 1: that we had once I landed in l A. And yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's where I felt like I kind of had
Speaker 1: like my my piece. But you know, I can see,
Speaker 1: especially like looking back at the note and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: how it could have been like very misleading and in
Speaker 1: a way like hurtful, because you know, she was in
Speaker 1: love and I was feeling it at the time, and
Speaker 1: I thought that that was love. But then I met
Speaker 1: Hannah and that was it. I felt like that was
Speaker 1: so if and Jane and I kind of talked about
Speaker 1: this earlier, you know, we're we're all were in the
Speaker 1: car over here together today and if like she did
Speaker 1: really love you, would she and you know, in Janna
Speaker 1: and his opinion, it's like, well then if that was us,
Speaker 1: we'd be like, well, if you really love me, then
Speaker 1: stay well. And so I d M Hanna. So this
Speaker 1: is also my beef with her two. I d m her. Well,
Speaker 1: she was really sweet and she d M me a
Speaker 1: couple of times, wouldn't from Wango Tango, And I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: she's really sweet. I like her. After that Rose ceremony,
Speaker 1: because I were the live I d M her and
Speaker 1: I said, look, if you truly love him, come you
Speaker 1: can make this work. Don't let the outside world tell
Speaker 1: you what you're supposed to feel and how you're supposed
Speaker 1: to feel. I mean, I literally wrote her a hopeful
Speaker 1: thing something so if jet, if you truly loved him,
Speaker 1: I was like, Michael and I went through you know everything,
Speaker 1: and you know, from affairs and all of that stuff.
Speaker 1: I said, if we can get through that, I promise
Speaker 1: you you can get through this and you guys will
Speaker 1: be so much stronger, I said. But I said, so,
Speaker 1: don't let the outside world affect what you are, what
Speaker 1: maybe you feel like you have to do, because you know,
Speaker 1: my times, my friends told me to leave Mike a
Speaker 1: million So I'm like, if you truly love him, you
Speaker 1: can make this work. Got nothing response back because I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, whatever. But that bought me out too,
Speaker 1: because I was just like, okay, now, you know, but
Speaker 1: you're trying to be real. Yeah, But when we were
Speaker 1: talking a couple of times too, so I was just
Speaker 1: kind of like, all right, well, I was just trying
Speaker 1: to help, But you know, how has everything been since
Speaker 1: it all like you're you know, you're doing music and
Speaker 1: all that, Like, how has it been when you're out socially?
Speaker 1: You know, any backlash or just how are you feeling
Speaker 1: about it there? Yeah, I mean it's it's been actually
Speaker 1: pretty positive. Most of the people that come up to me,
Speaker 1: I would say, likecent of the people have been like
Speaker 1: really kind and usually just want to take a picture
Speaker 1: and chat for a second and and that's it. But
Speaker 1: as of recently, I had a at a situation and
Speaker 1: at this point, it's it's funny now because oh yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a there's a lot of my friends were right
Speaker 1: there and saw this firsthand. So um, I was yea.
Speaker 1: I was at one of my friend's shows and I
Speaker 1: was ordering a ordering a drink from my friend and
Speaker 1: bringing it back to the seat, and this girl stopped
Speaker 1: me and said, you know, when you take a pick. Sure.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I just one second, let me
Speaker 1: take this back over here, and then I'll come take
Speaker 1: a picture. So I go over to the table and
Speaker 1: I get caught up in conversation and I sit down.
Speaker 1: I completely forgot because I had already taken a few
Speaker 1: pictures that night, and I just I just forgot, you know.
Speaker 1: And this chick came back over to me and she
Speaker 1: kneeled next to me and she says, hey, you remember
Speaker 1: when you said you're going to take that picture, and
Speaker 1: my initial thought was, oh my gosh, yeah, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: You know, like I want to make I want to
Speaker 1: make up. I want to make it up, but like
Speaker 1: I didn't like get to get to that point. She
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well you should, uh well, you should
Speaker 1: take more time to appreciate the people that are still
Speaker 1: your fans, considering you've got dumped on national television. Then
Speaker 1: she dumped a drink over my head in front of
Speaker 1: all my friends. It was like out of a movie audacity.
Speaker 1: Who does that to do that? I don't know, Like
Speaker 1: I haven't even know what. I would love to pour glasses,
Speaker 1: but you just don't do. I had a drink thrown
Speaker 1: in my face once. I probably deserved it, but not
Speaker 1: like a random how did you tell me more? That's
Speaker 1: neither here nor there. No I want to know, there
Speaker 1: no back to jed story here. The fact that this
Speaker 1: is just a fan, a random person, one interaction. He's
Speaker 1: human and what I mean, what is what is this
Speaker 1: person doing? I don't I don't know. It's it really
Speaker 1: felt like it was out of a movie. Like I
Speaker 1: felt like it was a scene like and there should
Speaker 1: be like alright, cut there. That was great like you
Speaker 1: killed it. You killed it backy dry his head, you
Speaker 1: drenched him. Smells like tequila. All right, this may this
Speaker 1: may be controversial, which means it probably will be. Okay.
Speaker 1: We're all about a quality in the world today. It's
Speaker 1: the headlines, all right. Say that happens, right, okay? And
Speaker 1: that happens to jed are you apparently or anybody? And
Speaker 1: out of a reaction, a man does it back and
Speaker 1: pours their drink on a woman's head, that just poured
Speaker 1: their drink on theirs? Is that wrong? Any retaliation is wrong,
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, is that more wrong because a man
Speaker 1: did it to a woman? Why all the women are
Speaker 1: like m just because life isn't fair. That's the only
Speaker 1: reason life isn't here. Yes, of course we would get more,
Speaker 1: but that's not fair. Okay. I think my girl, um
Speaker 1: Emma has to say something. Who's been sitting and listening
Speaker 1: to this. She can't hold back any longer. No, I
Speaker 1: completely believe and agree with what you're saying. You get more,
Speaker 1: way more of a reaction than if it was done
Speaker 1: like like how you. Had they done that, you would
Speaker 1: have had so many people laughing, right, I bet were
Speaker 1: they laughing. Well, I mean I would have it's funny, right,
Speaker 1: but there was the people laughing as well, Like everyone
Speaker 1: just had the exact same expression of like that just happened.
Speaker 1: If you did it to a girl, I bet you'd
Speaker 1: be arrested. Yeah, yeah, I was just there would be
Speaker 1: so much, like, so much stuff would have gone down.
Speaker 1: I think if it was a girl, like and I
Speaker 1: don't and I don't agree that that would be the case,
Speaker 1: but it's just that's what happens. But why in certain
Speaker 1: situations is it still the men that are more fault. Why?
Speaker 1: I mean, look, it isn't it was not okay that
Speaker 1: she threw her drink. We can't be selective about the quality.
Speaker 1: But if a guy did that to you, you all
Speaker 1: would be brawling. Yeah. But I think also like regardless
Speaker 1: of who pours a drink on who and in what
Speaker 1: situation it is, I think it pays more to be
Speaker 1: the bigger person no matter who it is, like if
Speaker 1: it's someone you know, if it's someone you don't know,
Speaker 1: Like at the end of the day, I mean, who
Speaker 1: looks worse me? Who's sat there and let her walk
Speaker 1: off while she had just poured a drink on me?
Speaker 1: But if it was a guy that, what would you
Speaker 1: have done? Um? I definitely probably would have acted more
Speaker 1: heated towards the whole thing, would you too, Mike? I probably?
Speaker 1: Now I am calm and still reading my how to
Speaker 1: Be an Adult in a Relationship book? Damn right? What
Speaker 1: page man book? Always learning? Really year? Okay, Jed? So
Speaker 1: what's what's next for you? Because God bless you? Amy?
Speaker 1: What what do you so? Obviously do you have any
Speaker 1: singles out right now that the listeners can get? Because
Speaker 1: I really do like you and I think you're When
Speaker 1: we had a great hour and a half car ride
Speaker 1: that we all chatted. You're a nice guy. I think
Speaker 1: you got the end of the deal. I really do.
Speaker 1: So I want to help promote you, so tell us everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I've um with everything that happened. It was kind
Speaker 1: of hard to like lock back into music and stuff.
Speaker 1: So because that's why you came on the show, right,
Speaker 1: but don't I would be like I want to you
Speaker 1: know you whatever, that's just what people do. You don't
Speaker 1: go on the Batchel just to fall in. I don't
Speaker 1: think there was a chance I was gonna love someone
Speaker 1: on that show. There was a way, So I was like,
Speaker 1: this would be good for exposure, and then I went
Speaker 1: there and fell in love and you know, but um,
Speaker 1: now like since all the has kind of settled a little,
Speaker 1: I feel I feel like I can finally be myself
Speaker 1: more and lock back in on the music. So I
Speaker 1: have been in the studio and I do have a
Speaker 1: single that I'm hoping to release some time in the fall.
Speaker 1: Um and really really pushing for an EP but we'll
Speaker 1: see um. But beyond that, I felt super called to
Speaker 1: do some charity stuff. So one of my good friends
Speaker 1: in Nashville and I've been kind of putting our heads
Speaker 1: together and we're hoping to launch our first like nonprofit
Speaker 1: charity event in Nashville in November. I love that so
Speaker 1: much because that's something so different than what I've seen
Speaker 1: some people go off the show and do I love that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's amazing. I just feel called to it.
Speaker 1: Like even when I was going to the student to
Speaker 1: work on the singles, my mind, I couldn't be there
Speaker 1: because I feel I'm feeling like, and it's not for anyone,
Speaker 1: but like people like I want to help in some
Speaker 1: way in what kind don't I just want to give back?
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I feel like so much of
Speaker 1: my life has been like Mimi, me, let me figure
Speaker 1: out me. And when I look back at that and
Speaker 1: I see that, like it really wasn't like filling my
Speaker 1: spirit out that much. And I feel like I want
Speaker 1: to give back in some way. So that's why we've
Speaker 1: been working on this charity and dialing get in and um,
Speaker 1: I think that we're gonna do our best to have
Speaker 1: a pretty big event for St. Jude's Children's Hospital. Well,
Speaker 1: let us know if we can be a part of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I am single. Still looking are we on the apps? Maria?
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't even know what a Riya was.
Speaker 1: One of my friends sent that to me the other day.
Speaker 1: I was like, what is this a game for um
Speaker 1: like celebrities and in the industry. Yeah. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: pretty big platform too. Yeah, yeah, that's right here. Maybe
Speaker 1: I'll promote my music on it. I like it. He's
Speaker 1: got the smarts to what are you looking for? What
Speaker 1: what do you that you haven't had before? As far
Speaker 1: as I like a relationship, I think that communication is
Speaker 1: huge and someone that I can work through issues with
Speaker 1: and openly communicate and not shut each other out. And
Speaker 1: I feel like that's kind of hard to come by.
Speaker 1: So people don't easy to run too. And that's it.
Speaker 1: You want the person that's going to fight with you
Speaker 1: because marriage, relationships it's hard. Then you had kids on it,
Speaker 1: it's just hard. I mean, Michael and I are always like, man,
Speaker 1: this is this is tough, and you have to you
Speaker 1: have to have someone that wants to fight with you
Speaker 1: and not just be like I'm onto the next relationship
Speaker 1: because there's you always gonna find someone that looks shiny
Speaker 1: and bright, but they got stuff too. Yeah, grass aint greener.
Speaker 1: And it's a little moments like even today on the
Speaker 1: fight out here, Jan and I were kind of getting
Speaker 1: at each other a little bit for just no reason,
Speaker 1: and it was one of those things where you know,
Speaker 1: we kind of reached over and just kind of pounded
Speaker 1: it without even having to have a talk around it
Speaker 1: or whatever. But it's just it's those little moments that
Speaker 1: I appreciate so much because we're going through together. Right,
Speaker 1: he said, you know that we're willing to realize that
Speaker 1: it's hard, We're going to communicate, we're going to deal
Speaker 1: with it. And what's the one thing that you think
Speaker 1: you can work on yourself? For a relationship because we
Speaker 1: all come into a relationship with baggage um patience. Definitely,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not the most patient person and that's
Speaker 1: always been kind of an issue of mine. So definitely
Speaker 1: just being kind of more patient two kind of see
Speaker 1: what's going to happen as far as like the relationship goes,
Speaker 1: you know, like letting things play out and not trying
Speaker 1: to take it so much into my own hands and
Speaker 1: like getting it to God and just trusting the person
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Speaker 1: But but you know, not all of them do we
Speaker 1: uh find a lot of you know, genuine authenticism. Um
Speaker 1: and then but just meeting you the short time that
Speaker 1: we have, we really enjoyed your company and we think
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Speaker 1: I think everyone jumped in their cars to this. I'm
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Speaker 1: follow the proper channels. Want to hear your I don't
Speaker 1: get any special treatment. Yeah, but yeah, so I I
Speaker 1: want you guys take on this. My my wife were
Speaker 1: she's okay, every uh yeah, immediately goes to the negative
Speaker 1: of I just don't know how to feel about this.
Speaker 1: Um So, there's a dude my wife works kind of with,
Speaker 1: like she doesn't work with him. They work at the
Speaker 1: same place. I don't work together. They've never like worked
Speaker 1: a shift together. And uh so he found her on
Speaker 1: social media, like on Instagram and started like just casually
Speaker 1: d m NG, like very friendly conversation and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm extremely chilly. This didn't even top of them
Speaker 1: my radar, and uh you know, they had they had
Speaker 1: some conversations and stuff and started getting the messages started
Speaker 1: getting just much more frequent, and then something that yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just you know, again just a regular conversation
Speaker 1: but just like all day and uh then something she
Speaker 1: noticed that she brought to me was that she uh,
Speaker 1: you guys know, she she lost her parents recently. And
Speaker 1: he started asking her questions about that, but she had
Speaker 1: never told him that, so he went like in her
Speaker 1: Instagram and saw that and then like started asking her
Speaker 1: questions about it, kind of like he's always known. And
Speaker 1: I took that as like a weird kind of a thing. Um.
Speaker 1: And the thing that's like in popping up to me
Speaker 1: is now the messages come at like in the middle
Speaker 1: of the night, like one in the morning, and it's
Speaker 1: never like hey, you want to hang out everything. It's
Speaker 1: it's always like, hey, how's it going, Like wait, way
Speaker 1: up too, and like and well again, I'm a I'm
Speaker 1: a super chill dude. I've got lots of friends that
Speaker 1: are women I work with, you know, I talked tutorial
Speaker 1: all the time that works on this show. But like
Speaker 1: the one thing like I always have a limit, like
Speaker 1: I don't hit these people of it like after like
Speaker 1: eight pm, you know, because I just think it's kind
Speaker 1: of exactly exactly. Hey, usually for the next morning, Hey,
Speaker 1: tomorrow morning, we gotta talk about whatever. Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 1: And if it's like if it's like midnight, then it's
Speaker 1: like definitely like this person is asleep, you know. So
Speaker 1: I've met this guy, I mean like he's he's fine.
Speaker 1: I think he's harm. He's married, uh sons exactly, and
Speaker 1: sometimes he complains about his wife to Allison, and so
Speaker 1: it's it's like I just don't know. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: figure out this guy is, like trying if he has
Speaker 1: like nefarious intentions or if he's just a weirdo or
Speaker 1: like like should I talk to I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: a it's a weird thing. I've never and Allison's obviously
Speaker 1: been she's been transparent, and she would she what will
Speaker 1: she say, like, oh, he's texted again. Yeah, like where
Speaker 1: we were at Disneyland a couple weeks ago and she's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this guy's hit me up again. Like
Speaker 1: she like she brought you in on it. H yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: She losing on all this stuff. Like and it's funny
Speaker 1: because if he'll message her like on Instagram and she
Speaker 1: hasn't respond, then he goes to Facebook and its messaging
Speaker 1: on Facebook. It's like like, my man, Like it's not
Speaker 1: it's not a medium problem. It's like he doesn't wanna
Speaker 1: talk to you. I feel like it she should say like, hey,
Speaker 1: I think it's inappropriate for us to be d m
Speaker 1: NG and chatting. Yeah, unless it's work related, because it's not.
Speaker 1: She's not wanting a friendship there. Yeah, and it's not
Speaker 1: like it's not like, um, you guys are all friends too, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: It's a like if I just started randomly talking to
Speaker 1: a guy like what you know, you can have, you
Speaker 1: can have, we have other like you know, Julie is
Speaker 1: your friend and you know I've um. It would just
Speaker 1: be weird if I randomly started texting Let's say I
Speaker 1: was texting Jed. You know what I mean, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: like that you just don't do that because we're not
Speaker 1: like for why are we? Why are we talking? And
Speaker 1: you and you and I always have a habit of
Speaker 1: like when we meet new people, it's usually like a
Speaker 1: three way texts, a three way where if it's a guy,
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I get Mike's number, you know. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's weirdly, I don't know what. The thing that makes
Speaker 1: me like this sucks about this is like we he
Speaker 1: invited us to he has he has another job, and
Speaker 1: he invited us to like an event at his other job,
Speaker 1: and we went and he was there and he seems
Speaker 1: like a fine dude. But like when I met him,
Speaker 1: like I don't like you right off the bat, you know,
Speaker 1: Like I was like and I could feel myself like
Speaker 1: not being very friendly and like like this sucks. I
Speaker 1: don't like to be this way. But this is like
Speaker 1: the kind of culture this person. You know. I don't
Speaker 1: like the sorry, I don't like the fact that he's
Speaker 1: complaining about his wife. That that's the first When the
Speaker 1: second he said that, I was like, oh, he's he's
Speaker 1: he has wrong and gens because anyone that complains about
Speaker 1: their spouse to the opposite sex is almost wanting to
Speaker 1: get that same reaction back. And yeah, Easton so annoying
Speaker 1: me right now, you know. And then they start bonding
Speaker 1: and then the next thing is it goes into an
Speaker 1: affair and they don't they weren't friends beforehand, Like this
Speaker 1: is all new, Like they just happen to work. They
Speaker 1: kind of know of each other. Yeah, like they you know,
Speaker 1: they see each other around, but they don't work with
Speaker 1: each other. They've never hung out outside of work either.
Speaker 1: That's another thing. I've never got lunch or anything. I
Speaker 1: don't like it. I don't like it either. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: would be different if if they worked like together during
Speaker 1: the day right, and you knew that every now and
Speaker 1: then she worked with them, and they communicate every now
Speaker 1: and then. That's one thing, But the fact that they
Speaker 1: don't work together have no reason to really be talking.
Speaker 1: She doesn't want a friendship there, and he's up on
Speaker 1: Instagram and if you respond goes to Facebook. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: think I think she should be the one to say
Speaker 1: something because if not, it's going to make a really
Speaker 1: uncomfortable work situation. If you inserted yourself, okay, because I
Speaker 1: was wondering if I should, I'm like, should I dam
Speaker 1: and just hey, bro, like what you know? But I
Speaker 1: don't want to go that route. Is she willing to
Speaker 1: say something to him? Oh? Yeah, okay, So she's been
Speaker 1: kind of going like I don't know because she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to be mean, you know, but don't want It's
Speaker 1: almost like the situation that we just had with that
Speaker 1: one guy that kept texting me. Remember he came to
Speaker 1: go do something for us. I don't want to say
Speaker 1: his name, just and kiss he listens, but he kept
Speaker 1: texting and texting and texting, and I'm like, I we
Speaker 1: you should not be texting me this much and this often,
Speaker 1: because why are you texting me this much and this
Speaker 1: stuff like if you're wanting just a friendship, well I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to have a friend of the opposite
Speaker 1: sex that we're not really do you know what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to. So it's one of those things where it's
Speaker 1: like this is and I just ghosted. I should have
Speaker 1: just said, hey, you know, I don't want you. This
Speaker 1: is I don't feel comfortable with you texting me, because
Speaker 1: it became a lot, and so it started to get
Speaker 1: a little both of us, and I don't think there's
Speaker 1: any I don't think there was either. There's still it's
Speaker 1: still a boundary exactly. And it's funny when I actually
Speaker 1: I remember when Janna brought it up to me, like
Speaker 1: maybe he's texting me a lot, and I kind of
Speaker 1: I didn't. I was neutrals, just like because I know
Speaker 1: how Janna is and she makes everyone feel like you're
Speaker 1: her best friend, Like she just makes you feel like
Speaker 1: you've known each other for years right off the bat, right,
Speaker 1: because it's funny, she's personal all this stuff. So I
Speaker 1: get white people, Oh, she like she thinks we're friends,
Speaker 1: you know, or it feels like a friendship. But then
Speaker 1: when but regardless, it's like still no boundaries, right, still
Speaker 1: look at a perspective, it's like, I don't haven't known
Speaker 1: this person along, I'm doing a job for them, you know,
Speaker 1: And then yeah, yeah, it's just there needs to be
Speaker 1: And I think at the end of the day, it's
Speaker 1: whether he had intentions or not, which I don't think
Speaker 1: he did. He was married. But again, I just think
Speaker 1: there just needs to be certain boundaries. Yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: all it is. And I mean he even stopped by.
Speaker 1: He even stopped by the following time to check on
Speaker 1: something with his wife. You weren't there though. But the
Speaker 1: problem is is that if it just gets blurry, because
Speaker 1: if he was to complain about his wife, I was
Speaker 1: to complain about you, if vice versa, that's when the
Speaker 1: lines get blurred, especially when you have that communication and
Speaker 1: then it's like, oh now we feel safe to go
Speaker 1: the next level because we just kind of both said
Speaker 1: we're not we're we're annoyed with our partner. That's where
Speaker 1: you have to be careful with the boundaries that you
Speaker 1: have with the opposite sex. Yeah, I just think I
Speaker 1: think that in general, I think it's you know, you
Speaker 1: and I have never really had an office workplace, right,
Speaker 1: and like, I mean, my office is being on set,
Speaker 1: which isn't the healthiest of places for you know, no,
Speaker 1: but but I'm saying, like, you know, we're we're nine
Speaker 1: to five. Every single day. You build these relationships with
Speaker 1: people outside of maybe your your marriage or your girlfriend
Speaker 1: or boyfriend or whatever, because you're with these people so much.
Speaker 1: And you know, we've all heard even heard the term
Speaker 1: work wife and all that stuff. Right, even my my
Speaker 1: mom and my parents have introduced me to people. It's like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is my this is your dad's work wife. For
Speaker 1: these two. You know, it's just all jokes and it's
Speaker 1: all within boundaries. But when you meet somebody new, when
Speaker 1: you're already with somebody, it's like it that's where I
Speaker 1: think is is a boundary. It's like how how does
Speaker 1: that where it's a comfortable way around that? Right? Where
Speaker 1: you meet someone of the opposite sex. You communicate at
Speaker 1: work a lot because maybe you have to, but then
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you come home, hey, honey, like I've
Speaker 1: been working with you know, Easton, you know, and he's great,
Speaker 1: what do you think, Mike? And you know this is
Speaker 1: kind of like wait what But if you meet if
Speaker 1: it's like hey, we have a company party or whatever.
Speaker 1: Then you all go together and you meet husband and
Speaker 1: wives and this and that, and you start doing things
Speaker 1: like as a couples. That's one thing. I think that's
Speaker 1: how a healthy relationship can blossom in a workplace or something.
Speaker 1: But one on one. Yeah, and she has friends from
Speaker 1: her work that we've hung out with and that I
Speaker 1: know and that she works with also and and but
Speaker 1: like this dude is coming from this like other weird,
Speaker 1: like like it's one of those things where like she
Speaker 1: didn't like give him her and it's not like, oh,
Speaker 1: you should follow me on Instagram, Like it's like he
Speaker 1: just found it. And that's the thing that makes me
Speaker 1: feel and it wasn't established like before y'all being together.
Speaker 1: Like that's like when I first met Jana, right, and
Speaker 1: she has all her band guys, she had a core
Speaker 1: group of band guys. I never think about anything about
Speaker 1: her beyond the bus with five other guys and her
Speaker 1: band guys texting or whatever, And they would never be
Speaker 1: a solo text even so those guys, I mean maybe
Speaker 1: my band leader, yeah maybe I would never mean as
Speaker 1: much as I love Heath, I don't we don't ever
Speaker 1: text like, hey, how are you doing right? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: but but it's it's one of those My whole point
Speaker 1: is because there's before me, so it's like already established, right,
Speaker 1: so it's not weird, it's not uncomfortable. So I would yeah,
Speaker 1: I would. I would definitely say have her say something.
Speaker 1: And if he continues to that's when you I think
Speaker 1: that's I think that's when Easton can step in and yeah,
Speaker 1: because it's just it's it is not it's not right.
Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, sometimes I try to, like because
Speaker 1: he he does these things that like I remember doing
Speaker 1: when I was like seventeen and didn't have any game.
Speaker 1: We're like when you don't anything to say, but you
Speaker 1: want to keep talking, like so how's your day, what
Speaker 1: are you up to? You know that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: Like he does that kind of thing, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if this gets this conversation, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: he just wants to keep he just wants a reaction.
Speaker 1: He wants to keep a conversation going when he's not
Speaker 1: getting anything right. So that's when I'm like, oh man,
Speaker 1: this guy's trying to like slide it in. But not
Speaker 1: that I'm concerned. I mean because I mean, you know, um,
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Speaker 1: lot of feedback on the last name conversation. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: I found someone someone instagram me and said it was
Speaker 1: She's like I'm a doctor's office or whatever. And one
Speaker 1: of them was she hyphenated her name. She goes, I
Speaker 1: don't know why she did that, but she was Nicole
Speaker 1: white Butts. White Butts. That's amazing. I mean anything, when
Speaker 1: butts is the one you're hyphenating it too. You gotta
Speaker 1: be aware what's exact. I'm just gonna run through these
Speaker 1: really quick because I just think they're funny. Um Beth says,
Speaker 1: I did a guy for I did get I did
Speaker 1: again in college for three years and his last name
Speaker 1: is p peh Hey ms P. I'm a teacher, so
Speaker 1: I was definitely planning keeping my last name. The funny
Speaker 1: story is for Christmas one year, I want to give
Speaker 1: him a personalized Mets jersey and the website would not
Speaker 1: let me use his last name because it was considered profanity.
Speaker 1: Uh and then uh. Amy says, my mom had friends
Speaker 1: when she was younger with the name Doug up the
Speaker 1: Grave and Phil up the Grave. Last name is up
Speaker 1: the Grave. You hear a name like that and you've
Speaker 1: got to think, like, what's the origin or did someone
Speaker 1: legally just just change their name and decided to say,
Speaker 1: well my family from now on from here and I
Speaker 1: was gonna be up the Grave. And she said their
Speaker 1: parents did it intentionally with the last name in my
Speaker 1: name name their kids Doug and Phil. Uh what great parents.
Speaker 1: Doug up the Grave. Jen says she goes to the
Speaker 1: guy after the first date because his last name was Hyman.
Speaker 1: I could not be Mrs Hyman, nor could I do
Speaker 1: that to our future children. Isn't that like them? Hyman
Speaker 1: is a beautiful part of a woman's anatomy. Hyman. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's a hyman? Him? If I'm qualified to talk about tory?
Speaker 1: What's a hyman? Do you not know what? When I
Speaker 1: was editing the email, I met to google it and
Speaker 1: I forgot something for sure? Sexual? No, I need East
Speaker 1: did it's all three girls don't know what a hymen is.
Speaker 1: Eastern please give me your chair, cheeks and tell us
Speaker 1: what a hyman is. It's many you say cherry, because
Speaker 1: that's what it's affectionately called. Really, God, I hate I
Speaker 1: don't want to say this like, yeah, popping the chair,
Speaker 1: you breaking the hymen. It's a it's a wall, not
Speaker 1: a wall. I better make sure I'm saying this correctly.
Speaker 1: But it's a center for hyman, A thin membrane that
Speaker 1: surrounds the opening to the vagina. Thin membrane. And so
Speaker 1: the first time how many people know that? Yeah? Wow,
Speaker 1: I mean three women? That was a common thing like
Speaker 1: that before Eastern Yeah, paid attention. Where is the hymen?
Speaker 1: A thin, fleshy tissue that's located in the opening of
Speaker 1: your vagina. Yeah. Well, by the way, it's so cute
Speaker 1: when Joy says vagina because she she U should learn
Speaker 1: um anyway, Uh, going away from the funny last night
Speaker 1: Hyman from that Yeah, breaking away from the Hymen, break
Speaker 1: away from Uh. Sarah says, I'm thirty years old and
Speaker 1: I have defined myself by my career until it all
Speaker 1: king crashing down and I lost old confidence in myself.
Speaker 1: I haven't been on a date in a while, and
Speaker 1: I'm working on getting back into the game. I'm not
Speaker 1: able to have kids, and I'm wondering when you bring
Speaker 1: that up. Also from a guy's perspective, is that a
Speaker 1: deal breaker? Like not being able to have kids? So
Speaker 1: a couple of questions, they're like, I feel like when
Speaker 1: you go on a date, especially you know when we
Speaker 1: both go and gone on dates within the first couple
Speaker 1: of dates. I'm not the first date. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to scare a guy away and say I want kids.
Speaker 1: But in the second, third, fourth day, it's like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, I really want to have kids. And and
Speaker 1: if you're not to tell them, it's just like you
Speaker 1: talk about what do you want? What you want? What
Speaker 1: do you want all that kind of stuff. So I
Speaker 1: would say within the first couple. But I do think
Speaker 1: it's important if you can't have kids. I think that's
Speaker 1: super important for because what you wouldn't want is to
Speaker 1: be yeah, I want kids. But it then a year
Speaker 1: later it's like, well, I just so you know, So
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I don't think that'd be a
Speaker 1: deal breaker for guys because there's other ways. But I
Speaker 1: don't know, would you would it be a deal breaker
Speaker 1: for you know, it wouldn't be a deal breaker for
Speaker 1: me necessarily, Um, I mean, but some guys are very
Speaker 1: I mean they For example, one of our girlfriend's husbands said,
Speaker 1: I can't adopt because I I want I wanted to
Speaker 1: be mine, which you know, I I don't understand that
Speaker 1: because I think adoption is amazing. But me personally, it
Speaker 1: wouldn't be a deal breaker. Yes, I've always wanted my
Speaker 1: own biological kids, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
Speaker 1: But the tricky thing is is I don't know when
Speaker 1: that window would be to bring up that aspect. If
Speaker 1: I didn't tell you for a long time though, Look
Speaker 1: if I said, hey, I I you know and your
Speaker 1: in love with me, it's like, wait a minute, that
Speaker 1: would have been something I would have liked to know,
Speaker 1: because if if if, Yeah, a little bit, because say,
Speaker 1: you know, we got to the point in a relationship
Speaker 1: with like, hey, you know, I start having kids and
Speaker 1: then you're like, after we're married and fall in love
Speaker 1: and all that, then you're like, oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: I can't give you any kids. I would say that
Speaker 1: would yes, I would feel duped. I wouldn't want it
Speaker 1: to be in the like, Okay, I think you should
Speaker 1: say you want kids if you want kids in the
Speaker 1: first couple of dates, but then it should be a
Speaker 1: couple of months when you're serious about this relationship. That's
Speaker 1: when I think it's that that sweet spot of enough
Speaker 1: you're not going to scare each other away with anything
Speaker 1: anything you say, anything anything anything you say, but also
Speaker 1: not invested enough where you still it's fair to give
Speaker 1: the person the opportunity to decide. Yeah, if you guys
Speaker 1: are going down the I love you path, I think
Speaker 1: it's right before you you know, or after like right
Speaker 1: after that it's like, hey, you know, I love you too,
Speaker 1: and this is I want this relationship. I just want
Speaker 1: you to also know that I may never be able
Speaker 1: to have kids. Yeah, you know, but maybe we can
Speaker 1: find alternative and miracles happen. Man. All the time, I
Speaker 1: was so like, I have kids, Damn two what up? Now?
Speaker 1: I can't have kids? You can? They go this is
Speaker 1: my biggest thing. Jolly learned I can't and it's driving
Speaker 1: I don't know. Somewhere wall some little school said I can't,
Speaker 1: not justly saying it like like I can't, Like I'm
Speaker 1: so I can't. No, I love that can't I can't.
Speaker 1: She was riding her bike and she was getting scared
Speaker 1: because she didn't know how to pull the brakes on
Speaker 1: her handles, and I was trying to show her and
Speaker 1: she's like, I can't, I can't. I looked at Michael devastated.
Speaker 1: I was like, baby, First of all, we don't say
Speaker 1: I can't. Second of all, you can like I don't.
Speaker 1: Like if she learned that a fricing school. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: downside of school, right, school you learned they learned so much.
Speaker 1: They learn these skills and interaction and how to you know,
Speaker 1: because you know, we don't say that, No, we don't ever.
Speaker 1: So that's just one of the negative side effects of school.
Speaker 1: H Yes, you can what are you talking about when
Speaker 1: we teach. By the way, I'm really excited about next
Speaker 1: week's show because we have a special ops officer on
Speaker 1: the show, and he's about us. It's everything I want
Speaker 1: to be, I know, so I'm really excited about that.
Speaker 1: But this has been a really fun show and I
Speaker 1: can't wait to wind down with you guys again next week.
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