1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Find Down with Jane Kramer and Michael Coughlin and I 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: heard radio podcast. I'm looking at my notes right now 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: because I genuinely wrote something down in my notes that 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about. But it's gone. It's disappeared. 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: You know, it's funny, it's completely disappeared. And now, But 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: it was like one of those things on the other day, 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: because I kind of know when Jane and I kind 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: of know when we do that, because I'll kind of 9 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: see you're just randomly grab your phone, like after we 10 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: say something that's kind of interesting or funny or controversial, 11 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: and we'll write it down, and I remember you doing 12 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: that the other day. Yeah, but it's gone. It's gone. 13 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: And now I'm really bummed because it was great and 14 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: I want to talk about it because I always want 15 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: to save stuff for the podcast. It was gone. We 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: have no idea what it is. No great, Well, that's 17 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: our show. Have a great Monday. Whoa, guys. We need 18 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: to celebrate though. We're nominated for a People's and the 19 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: only reason that we are is because of our Wine 20 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: Down listeners and Amy Sugarman. That is it. Um No, 21 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: We're so excited, it's so cool. I honestly didn't think 22 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: because Amy had texted us, hey, there might be maybe possibly, 23 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: and you and not put the lid on it quick 24 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: with each other because we're like, we're like, okay, whatever. 25 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: We didn't want to get too excited, and honestly I 26 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: forgot about it. You did did until you have you heard? 27 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: Have you heard? Have you heard? Have you heard? Honestly, 28 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: I've forgotten until Amy sent it to us. I was 29 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: genuinely surprised. Though it's a great I mean, it's a 30 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 1: great list of people. And so now we're like, hey, honey, 31 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: we have no shot in hell. Yeah, we already popped 32 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: our champagne because like, we won what we needed to win, 33 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: we got nominated. But then again, though I mean not 34 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: saying anything because I love scrubbing Antania and but I 35 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: mean I thought for sure Lady Gang was gonna win 36 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: because they have a bigger following mere on e. Yeah, 37 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: So I mean you never know. I mean, I know 38 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: we don't have Bachelor Nation, So I think it's either 39 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: going to do what I would like to see is 40 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: Tania in um, oh my god, Becca to do back 41 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: to back back to back, you know, that would be 42 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: that would be the sweetest one of that. But I 43 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: mean it's like, you guys have your mantle at home. 44 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: You got your Heart radio podcast toward People's Choice Award 45 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: right next to it. I mean, look, I would love 46 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: to win. I just think it's but again, I mean, 47 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: who knows if you guys vote, though, if you go 48 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 1: to People's Choice Award and you vote, you can vote 49 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: times up today for wine. I think if they did 50 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 1: actually call us up there, I'll just be sitting on 51 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: the table. Nope, Nope, it's wrong. No, no, we're good. 52 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,399 Speaker 1: You like the wine and hanging out and say, way 53 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: too drunk to come on stage right now? Like no, 54 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,959 Speaker 1: I did not think this is gonna happen. But no, 55 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: you can't vote, can but you never know? Who knows? 56 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 1: But hey, how cool? I mean, who would have thought 57 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: it was funny? Because when I was writing that post, 58 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: I never thought it would be how it is now. 59 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: I just from everything that we've been through, there's no 60 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: chance in hell I would have ever imagined being nominated 61 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: talking about stuff that we talked about, even talking you know, 62 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: It's just it's really truly crazy, especially from the time 63 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: when I was writing my first book Proposal and you 64 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: ripped it up. I'm not I don't want this in 65 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: your book, and but yeah, I mean he ripped it up, 66 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: shredded it out and slammed the door on his way out, 67 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: which I understood, I mean, but at the same time, 68 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: I was just like, but I want to help people 69 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: and I think it could help people. Then no, I mean, 70 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: well obviously I was like, it takes two years for 71 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: a book to come out, but yeah, but I mean, 72 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: get us know it actually sooner than when the book 73 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: came we thought about it, yeah, but still we weren't 74 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: talking about it then. Yeah, but again, I mean, look, 75 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: it's so crazy. It is crazy, very fortunate, a lot 76 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: of hard work, which is why we deserve the award. Please, 77 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: so please go bro Um. So do you want to 78 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: do our five minute weekap? Real quick, let's do it. 79 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: Let's get that one on the way. Okay, we watched 80 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: episode two, episode two of nine seven episodes or whatever 81 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,679 Speaker 1: it is, and uh, what were your thoughts? So what's 82 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: the James Lafferty's character's name, Nathan Scott, Sorry Nathan, So 83 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: he's an ass Yeah, which you know James, obviously guys 84 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: are buds and you just did didn't you do his podcast? Yeah, 85 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: he's gotta he's gotta show that he's doing with Stephen. 86 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: I was called Stephen Cavalery. Oh my god, Stephen Stephen COLLEENNI. Um, 87 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: we need to get James on. Can we get him on? Amy, 88 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: James Lafferty, keep trying, trying. I really would like to 89 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: get chat Michael murrayan too, you did. He has one 90 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: of those holiday movies coming up, different network than yours, 91 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: So I am pushing for that. Okay, cool, because I 92 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 1: would really like I would really because I like to 93 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: have his wife and Sarah on and we can talk 94 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: about relationship and Wintry Hill and recap. But because James 95 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: isn't he his character is so mean. He's one of 96 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: those characters where it's like, um, god, what was his name? Eastern? 97 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: Did you watch Game of Thrones? No, that's remember we 98 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: already had this conversation where he wasn't into that. He's 99 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: not into like the other fairylands, right, the hard fag guy, 100 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: more realistic like avenger stuff. Yeah, I get it, um, 101 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: but it's like one of those characters. There's a character 102 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: in Game of Thrones I don't remember. I can't remember. 103 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: He's like the king. He's a young King, and it's 104 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: one of those you hate the characters so much where 105 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: I felt like if I saw him that person playing 106 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: that character walking down the street, I would want to 107 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: punch him in the face. Yeah, And that's how James 108 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: Laugherty characters face Nathan Scott, Like, if I saw Nathan 109 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: Scott walking down the street, I would want to drop 110 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: kick him in the chest because he's terrible. He's the worst. 111 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: But Lucas is my man. I really like Lucas and 112 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: I really want Lucas and Peyton to be together. But 113 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: I feel like this is what my this is what 114 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: I feel like Joy's character, Hayley is going to somehow. 115 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: I think she's gonna want to date um, what's his face, Lucas. 116 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: I think Hayley is gonna want to date Lucas and 117 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: Lucas is. Um. Don't you know what happens you were 118 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: I don't know anything. That's the thing. I know nothing, 119 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: But you know what happened in your season's I know. 120 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: All I know is who marries you? That's it. That's 121 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: all I do. So you know the end game. I 122 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: know the n Dish game. I didn't watched last season, 123 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: so I mean I got a lot of catched up too. 124 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: But anyways, two have two things that I wrote down 125 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: my notes a by the episode. First of all, Lucas 126 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: punched Nathan in class right, no mark on Nathan's face? 127 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: What kind of punch was that they could? They couldn't 128 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: even put makeup on him to make it look like 129 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: it had bruised. I mean, I thought it was awesome 130 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: when Lucas took his name off the back of his 131 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: jersey though. That was amazing. That Okay, we probably have 132 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: like thirty seconds left. And the biggest thing we took 133 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: away from that episode was the quote from Uncle Keith 134 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: when uh he took the cover off of car said, 135 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: it's usually the prettier, the prettier the girl, the messier 136 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: the car. And Jan and I just kind of looked 137 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: at each other because Jane's car is usually a mess 138 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: I really do I have a messy car? I don't 139 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: prettier the girl, the messier the car. I mean, And 140 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: that was our five minute O t weecap. But no, 141 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: what here's the thing though, I'd rather have a cleaner 142 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: house than I'm like than having a clean car. Well, 143 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: I got all the kids stuff in my car. I 144 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: have the same amount of car seats in my car 145 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: as you do. Oh contrary, excuse you, there's a car 146 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: seat sitting in the garage, so yeah, you have one 147 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: live one in the garage right now. I'm just saying, 148 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: I'd rather have a clean house Eastern clean house in 149 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: a clean car. Yeah, oh yeah, clean house by far 150 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: for sure. But I think I spent as much time 151 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: in my car some days as I do in the 152 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: house because I'm the one that always drives fascinating conversation. 153 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, if you really want to hear some more 154 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: fascinating conversations, um, come visit us on the Wine Down Tour, 155 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: which is climbing to city near you. So check Janna 156 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: Cramer dot com. And we would love to hang out 157 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: with you. I'm gonna saying some music, um, so yeah, 158 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: we would love to love to hang and to Also 159 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: we're working on something else new. It's really cool. We're 160 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: doing a talk show. We are doing to download the 161 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: app Telly and you can actually ask your questions on 162 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: our app. So I'm all live interactive at the moment, 163 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: So when you're watching us, that is us right there 164 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 1: in Eastern and I love it. So yeah, it's really cool. 165 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna be able to interact with you guys. 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Jed why I have a special 200 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: place in my heart for Miller Corps when he got 201 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: kicked out of college. By the way, we do so, Jed, 202 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 1: Michael and I we had we shared the same car, which, 203 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: by the way, this is actually a funny story. So 204 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know you were going to 205 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: be on our thing. But and they're Tinnerary kept saying 206 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: like jet, you were attached. I'm like, who the f 207 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: is Jet? And then Tori sends me the thing, um 208 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: like a people interview of you, and I was like, oh, 209 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 1: this guy. And I was like, oh great, and I'll 210 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: get to you know, my feelings and thoughts in a 211 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: little bit. But um, so I didn't see you at 212 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: the I think I saw you like kind of out 213 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: of the cormab, but I didn't know if you knew 214 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: who I was, So I just I just didn't. I 215 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 1: played like head down. So then I'm in the I'm 216 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: in the airplane and I was like, Michael, if this 217 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 1: mother effort checks the bag because we didn't check a bag, 218 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: We're only here for a day, and you have to 219 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: wait because he checked their bag. But it takes four 220 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: ever at l a AX, I mean forever. And I'm 221 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: texting Tori and I'm like, look, I was like, welcome 222 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: to my health. If this guy checks the bag, I'm 223 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: gonna be so pissed because I'm like, we purposely like 224 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: I do not check bags. I hate anyone who ever 225 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: travels with Jana in the future. If you're listening, um, 226 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: even if you're gone for a month, do not check 227 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: a bag. She will judge you and hold it against 228 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: you for the rest of your day. I traveled the 229 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: equipment for the podcast. It's like this, you have to 230 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: check that, you have to check it. I don't know what. 231 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: It just drives me creatase, like to land again the 232 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: car and just go. You know. It's just like I've 233 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: been traveling for so many years. I just want to 234 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 1: get to I just want to get and go and blow. 235 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: And so I'm just like, and he's here for like 236 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: two days. So if this guy brings all of his 237 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: like stuff, you know for two days, I know that 238 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: was all like my internal But then instantly once you 239 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: saw he didn't check I love him. He's great. Which 240 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,319 Speaker 1: is another funny point though, which we talked about in 241 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: the car. But uh, there's a sign that had all 242 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: three of our last names on there. Oh, this is 243 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: fun and I never I didn't watch the season, so 244 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: I didn't know necessarily what you looked like or anything. 245 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: I think Jannah had her head down, but you walked 246 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: by and I was like, you watched you walked right 247 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: by the sign that said Kramer Cosson Wyatt like this guy. 248 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: I asked Janna, I asked you, and I was like, hey, 249 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: it just you looked like you would have been on 250 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: the Bachelor, right or something like that, and you had 251 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: a guitar on your background. I knew you were playing today, 252 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: so I was like, classic, yeah, Judge in the book 253 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: by its cover. I was like, my senses say that 254 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 1: might be Jed and so I so I asked Janna. 255 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: And this guy near us like younger twenty something, your 256 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 1: old guy overhears us. He was like, oh, yeah, that's him. 257 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: He was like, I was just trying to text my 258 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: fiance but she's in the bathroom but I have her phone, 259 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: but I was going to text her say that jets 260 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: here and you. I was like, thank you random kind sir, 261 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: And now we know. Let's go, guys, let's go get him. 262 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: And we grabbed the driver and I thought it was 263 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: so nice you guys came to get me. And I 264 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: walked right by the sign that I didn't even know 265 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: that toll right now, that's awesome, but I'm like, where 266 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: is he going? And mis well, maybe he checked the back. 267 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: You guys might have checked the bag. That's what I 268 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: was looking for. I figured you guys would be at 269 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: the baggage. Now now I know for a fact that 270 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: you were not there. But then when that guy started talking, 271 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: I was just like, thank you because of him helped us. 272 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: We're good, We're here. So funny. Anyways, okay, let's get 273 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: into it. So for those of you, should I even 274 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: recap or did your name just so recognizable right now 275 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: that you don't even have to recap? So Jed was 276 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: on Hannah's season. He was the winner. But then no, 277 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: oh no no, But then, um, yeah, you guys broke 278 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: up because of a situation because you of some you know, 279 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: the girl and that whole issue. So what I which, 280 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: Jenny came to your defense before I even knew about 281 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: any of this. I actually and this is what I 282 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: kind of told you in the car, but I wanted 283 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: to save a lot of it for the podcast. But 284 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: I actually took your side, and I think it was 285 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: a very unpopular in popular how do you say I'm 286 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: popular there, am on, It's very unpopular thing to take 287 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: the side. But I did take your side because I 288 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: thought that it was totally over I thought it was 289 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: really overly dramatic. And I thought that a ninety nine 290 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: point nine percent of the dudes that go on that 291 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: show have a girlfriend or someone they're talking to, or 292 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 1: someone they've slept with before they left, or someone they've 293 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 1: texted everywhere to Yeah, and I think to go, yeah, sure, 294 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: you want to go in with who knows? Because who 295 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: knows right if the show is going to ever work, 296 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 1: but who if your cousin kicked off week one? You 297 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: want to be able to go back to the your 298 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: girl that you're talking to. And also there was a 299 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: letter apparently that the girl that you were dating at 300 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: the time you wrote, you know, I'm going to come 301 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: back to you or whatever I'm paraphrasing, and you know 302 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: I love you. And to your defense, again, I have 303 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: told plenty of people I love them. Guys didn't mean it. 304 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: It's just you know, I don't know if she means no. 305 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: But I think, you know, maybe your love addict. I'm 306 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: a love addict. He's a love addict. You know. I 307 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: am a hopeless romantic like the same. And you want, 308 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: like you go there, yeah, and you really want to 309 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: feel that and maybe in that moment you did, but 310 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: then you go through the process and you're like, Okay, 311 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: that wasn't actually real. I was just manifesting something that 312 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to be real. But now this is real, 313 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: and both of those things can be I think the same, 314 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: and it can be Okay, sure, no, it's just life. 315 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: I think when it when you bring a reality dating 316 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: show into the picture, then everything kind of gets solved, 317 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: twisted out of context. But like if this happened, and 318 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: like the real world, this kind of thing does tend 319 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: to happen, and that it's an interesting dating a million percent. 320 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: It's weird there, and I like Hannah. She seems very sweet. 321 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: I've met her at an um Wingo tango. But for 322 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: me watching the show, it just felt a little little 323 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: bit overly dramatic, where I just was like, you're upset, 324 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: You're just because of that, Like really, I don't understand that. 325 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 1: I can see how and we haven't experienced it, but 326 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: I can see how that becomes their reality, right, So 327 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 1: it's all distorted, so maybe to that person, but to 328 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: have to give him the gauntlet that bad, Like, Okay, 329 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: he he did end up. Yeah, you should have told her. 330 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: I meant you should have told her sooner, you should 331 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: have said something. You should have. But at the same time, 332 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: but if for him, speaking for jed right here, rest 333 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: of my case, But through the process, you might have 334 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: not felt that, Like you said, you might not have 335 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: felt that anymore. Life you just change, You're you're figuring 336 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: your life out. You're still young. It's like, why I've 337 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: even explained it if it didn't mean anything to him exactly. 338 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: I get that too, That's what I'm saying. I get 339 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: I totally get that point too. But you know, from 340 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: a girl's point of view, I am backing her on 341 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: that point where I think that, yeah, I think he 342 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: should have at least said I told someone I loved 343 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: her once before. So just so you know, I've said 344 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: I love you before. No, I'm no, I do. I'm 345 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: just I'm I'm not trying to most of it. I 346 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: thought it was way too dramatic for what it was. 347 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: I was just like, come on, yeah, that's what you're 348 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: getting upset about. I mean, in hindsight, I can totally 349 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: see where I didn't give Hailey enough closure, Like I 350 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: felt like I had closure because of a phone conversation 351 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: that we had once I landed in l A. And yeah, 352 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: so that's where I felt like I kind of had 353 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: like my my piece. But you know, I can see, 354 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 1: especially like looking back at the note and stuff like that, 355 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: how it could have been like very misleading and in 356 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: a way like hurtful, because you know, she was in 357 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: love and I was feeling it at the time, and 358 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: I thought that that was love. But then I met 359 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: Hannah and that was it. I felt like that was 360 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: so if and Jane and I kind of talked about 361 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: this earlier, you know, we're we're all were in the 362 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 1: car over here together today and if like she did 363 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: really love you, would she and you know, in Janna 364 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 1: and his opinion, it's like, well then if that was us, 365 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: we'd be like, well, if you really love me, then 366 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: stay well. And so I d M Hanna. So this 367 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: is also my beef with her two. I d m her. Well, 368 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: she was really sweet and she d M me a 369 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 1: couple of times, wouldn't from Wango Tango, And I was like, Okay, 370 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: she's really sweet. I like her. After that Rose ceremony, 371 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: because I were the live I d M her and 372 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:15,719 Speaker 1: I said, look, if you truly love him, come you 373 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: can make this work. Don't let the outside world tell 374 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,479 Speaker 1: you what you're supposed to feel and how you're supposed 375 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: to feel. I mean, I literally wrote her a hopeful 376 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: thing something so if jet, if you truly loved him, 377 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: I was like, Michael and I went through you know everything, 378 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 1: and you know, from affairs and all of that stuff. 379 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: I said, if we can get through that, I promise 380 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: you you can get through this and you guys will 381 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: be so much stronger, I said. But I said, so, 382 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 1: don't let the outside world affect what you are, what 383 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: maybe you feel like you have to do, because you know, 384 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: my times, my friends told me to leave Mike a 385 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: million So I'm like, if you truly love him, you 386 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: can make this work. Got nothing response back because I 387 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: was like, all right, whatever. But that bought me out too, 388 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: because I was just like, okay, now, you know, but 389 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: you're trying to be real. Yeah, But when we were 390 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: talking a couple of times too, so I was just 391 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: kind of like, all right, well, I was just trying 392 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: to help, But you know, how has everything been since 393 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: it all like you're you know, you're doing music and 394 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: all that, Like, how has it been when you're out socially? 395 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: You know, any backlash or just how are you feeling 396 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: about it there? Yeah, I mean it's it's been actually 397 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: pretty positive. Most of the people that come up to me, 398 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: I would say, likecent of the people have been like 399 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 1: really kind and usually just want to take a picture 400 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: and chat for a second and and that's it. But 401 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:38,400 Speaker 1: as of recently, I had a at a situation and 402 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: at this point, it's it's funny now because oh yeah, 403 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 1: there's a there's a lot of my friends were right 404 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: there and saw this firsthand. So um, I was yea. 405 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: I was at one of my friend's shows and I 406 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: was ordering a ordering a drink from my friend and 407 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: bringing it back to the seat, and this girl stopped 408 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 1: me and said, you know, when you take a pick. Sure. 409 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I just one second, let me 410 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: take this back over here, and then I'll come take 411 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: a picture. So I go over to the table and 412 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,400 Speaker 1: I get caught up in conversation and I sit down. 413 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 1: I completely forgot because I had already taken a few 414 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: pictures that night, and I just I just forgot, you know. 415 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 1: And this chick came back over to me and she 416 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: kneeled next to me and she says, hey, you remember 417 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: when you said you're going to take that picture, and 418 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,719 Speaker 1: my initial thought was, oh my gosh, yeah, I'm so sorry. 419 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: You know, like I want to make I want to 420 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 1: make up. I want to make it up, but like 421 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: I didn't like get to get to that point. She 422 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well you should, uh well, you should 423 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: take more time to appreciate the people that are still 424 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: your fans, considering you've got dumped on national television. Then 425 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: she dumped a drink over my head in front of 426 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: all my friends. It was like out of a movie audacity. 427 00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: Who does that to do that? I don't know, Like 428 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 1: I haven't even know what. I would love to pour glasses, 429 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: but you just don't do. I had a drink thrown 430 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: in my face once. I probably deserved it, but not 431 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: like a random how did you tell me more? That's 432 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 1: neither here nor there. No I want to know, there 433 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: no back to jed story here. The fact that this 434 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: is just a fan, a random person, one interaction. He's 435 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: human and what I mean, what is what is this 436 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: person doing? I don't I don't know. It's it really 437 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: felt like it was out of a movie. Like I 438 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: felt like it was a scene like and there should 439 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 1: be like alright, cut there. That was great like you 440 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: killed it. You killed it backy dry his head, you 441 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: drenched him. Smells like tequila. All right, this may this 442 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: may be controversial, which means it probably will be. Okay. 443 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: We're all about a quality in the world today. It's 444 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: the headlines, all right. Say that happens, right, okay? And 445 00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: that happens to jed are you apparently or anybody? And 446 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,159 Speaker 1: out of a reaction, a man does it back and 447 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: pours their drink on a woman's head, that just poured 448 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:13,880 Speaker 1: their drink on theirs? Is that wrong? Any retaliation is wrong, 449 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, is that more wrong because a man 450 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: did it to a woman? Why all the women are 451 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 1: like m just because life isn't fair. That's the only 452 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: reason life isn't here. Yes, of course we would get more, 453 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: but that's not fair. Okay. I think my girl, um 454 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: Emma has to say something. Who's been sitting and listening 455 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: to this. She can't hold back any longer. No, I 456 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: completely believe and agree with what you're saying. You get more, 457 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,160 Speaker 1: way more of a reaction than if it was done 458 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: like like how you. Had they done that, you would 459 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: have had so many people laughing, right, I bet were 460 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,679 Speaker 1: they laughing. Well, I mean I would have it's funny, right, 461 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:56,120 Speaker 1: but there was the people laughing as well, Like everyone 462 00:24:56,440 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: just had the exact same expression of like that just happened. 463 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: If you did it to a girl, I bet you'd 464 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 1: be arrested. Yeah, yeah, I was just there would be 465 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: so much, like, so much stuff would have gone down. 466 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: I think if it was a girl, like and I 467 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: don't and I don't agree that that would be the case, 468 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: but it's just that's what happens. But why in certain 469 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: situations is it still the men that are more fault. Why? 470 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: I mean, look, it isn't it was not okay that 471 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: she threw her drink. We can't be selective about the quality. 472 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: But if a guy did that to you, you all 473 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 1: would be brawling. Yeah. But I think also like regardless 474 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: of who pours a drink on who and in what 475 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: situation it is, I think it pays more to be 476 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: the bigger person no matter who it is, like if 477 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: it's someone you know, if it's someone you don't know, 478 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,959 Speaker 1: Like at the end of the day, I mean, who 479 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: looks worse me? Who's sat there and let her walk 480 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: off while she had just poured a drink on me? 481 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: But if it was a guy that, what would you 482 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: have done? Um? I definitely probably would have acted more 483 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: heated towards the whole thing, would you too, Mike? I probably? 484 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: Now I am calm and still reading my how to 485 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: Be an Adult in a Relationship book? Damn right? What 486 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: page man book? Always learning? Really year? Okay, Jed? So 487 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 1: what's what's next for you? Because God bless you? Amy? 488 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: What what do you so? Obviously do you have any 489 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: singles out right now that the listeners can get? Because 490 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 1: I really do like you and I think you're When 491 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 1: we had a great hour and a half car ride 492 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: that we all chatted. You're a nice guy. I think 493 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: you got the end of the deal. I really do. 494 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: So I want to help promote you, so tell us everything. Yeah, 495 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: so I've um with everything that happened. It was kind 496 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: of hard to like lock back into music and stuff. 497 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 1: So because that's why you came on the show, right, 498 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: but don't I would be like I want to you 499 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: know you whatever, that's just what people do. You don't 500 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: go on the Batchel just to fall in. I don't 501 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: think there was a chance I was gonna love someone 502 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: on that show. There was a way, So I was like, 503 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: this would be good for exposure, and then I went 504 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 1: there and fell in love and you know, but um, 505 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: now like since all the has kind of settled a little, 506 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: I feel I feel like I can finally be myself 507 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: more and lock back in on the music. So I 508 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: have been in the studio and I do have a 509 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: single that I'm hoping to release some time in the fall. 510 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 1: Um and really really pushing for an EP but we'll 511 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 1: see um. But beyond that, I felt super called to 512 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 1: do some charity stuff. So one of my good friends 513 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: in Nashville and I've been kind of putting our heads 514 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: together and we're hoping to launch our first like nonprofit 515 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,959 Speaker 1: charity event in Nashville in November. I love that so 516 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 1: much because that's something so different than what I've seen 517 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: some people go off the show and do I love that? Yeah, 518 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: I think that's amazing. I just feel called to it. 519 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: Like even when I was going to the student to 520 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 1: work on the singles, my mind, I couldn't be there 521 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,719 Speaker 1: because I feel I'm feeling like, and it's not for anyone, 522 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 1: but like people like I want to help in some 523 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: way in what kind don't I just want to give back? 524 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I feel like so much of 525 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: my life has been like Mimi, me, let me figure 526 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 1: out me. And when I look back at that and 527 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,439 Speaker 1: I see that, like it really wasn't like filling my 528 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: spirit out that much. And I feel like I want 529 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: to give back in some way. So that's why we've 530 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: been working on this charity and dialing get in and um, 531 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: I think that we're gonna do our best to have 532 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: a pretty big event for St. Jude's Children's Hospital. Well, 533 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: let us know if we can be a part of it. Yeah, 534 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: I am single. Still looking are we on the apps? Maria? 535 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't even know what a Riya was. 536 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: One of my friends sent that to me the other day. 537 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: I was like, what is this a game for um 538 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: like celebrities and in the industry. Yeah. Yeah, it's a 539 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: pretty big platform too. Yeah, yeah, that's right here. Maybe 540 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: I'll promote my music on it. I like it. He's 541 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: got the smarts to what are you looking for? What 542 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: what do you that you haven't had before? As far 543 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: as I like a relationship, I think that communication is 544 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: huge and someone that I can work through issues with 545 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: and openly communicate and not shut each other out. And 546 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: I feel like that's kind of hard to come by. 547 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 1: So people don't easy to run too. And that's it. 548 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: You want the person that's going to fight with you 549 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: because marriage, relationships it's hard. Then you had kids on it, 550 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 1: it's just hard. I mean, Michael and I are always like, man, 551 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: this is this is tough, and you have to you 552 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: have to have someone that wants to fight with you 553 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: and not just be like I'm onto the next relationship 554 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: because there's you always gonna find someone that looks shiny 555 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: and bright, but they got stuff too. Yeah, grass aint greener. 556 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: And it's a little moments like even today on the 557 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: fight out here, Jan and I were kind of getting 558 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 1: at each other a little bit for just no reason, 559 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: and it was one of those things where you know, 560 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 1: we kind of reached over and just kind of pounded 561 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: it without even having to have a talk around it 562 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 1: or whatever. But it's just it's those little moments that 563 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 1: I appreciate so much because we're going through together. Right, 564 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: he said, you know that we're willing to realize that 565 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: it's hard, We're going to communicate, we're going to deal 566 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 1: with it. And what's the one thing that you think 567 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: you can work on yourself? For a relationship because we 568 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: all come into a relationship with baggage um patience. Definitely, 569 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not the most patient person and that's 570 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: always been kind of an issue of mine. So definitely 571 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 1: just being kind of more patient two kind of see 572 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: what's going to happen as far as like the relationship goes, 573 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: you know, like letting things play out and not trying 574 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 1: to take it so much into my own hands and 575 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: like getting it to God and just trusting the person 576 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: and more. You know, I like that. Jed Wyatt on 577 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 1: Instagram at ed At jed Wyatt says at Cramer girl, 578 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 1: final words. Now, I'm just thankful to be here with 579 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: you guys. I'm going to get the final meet you 580 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 1: and got to hang out with you guys today. So 581 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: it's been fun. And we're Nashville neighbors. So yeah, well 582 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: we've enjoyed it. And this is um true. You know, 583 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: Jane and I meet a lot of the Bachelor alums 584 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: and Bachelorrette alums and stuff like that, and we've because 585 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: of our wonderful producer Amy Sugarman Jsu surrounded surrounded by him. 586 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: But but you know, not all of them do we 587 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: uh find a lot of you know, genuine authenticism. 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Sorry? 624 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: I think everyone jumped in their cars to this. I'm 625 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: sorry all swerved. WHOA oh what was your question? He 626 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: texted me, He goes, Hey, I have a question for 627 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 1: the podcast and should I email it into wind down 628 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: at I heart radio dot com or should I just 629 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: ask you live? So I just want to sure I 630 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: follow the proper channels. Want to hear your I don't 631 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: get any special treatment. Yeah, but yeah, so I I 632 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 1: want you guys take on this. My my wife were 633 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,760 Speaker 1: she's okay, every uh yeah, immediately goes to the negative 634 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: of I just don't know how to feel about this. 635 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: Um So, there's a dude my wife works kind of with, 636 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: like she doesn't work with him. They work at the 637 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,800 Speaker 1: same place. I don't work together. They've never like worked 638 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: a shift together. And uh so he found her on 639 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,600 Speaker 1: social media, like on Instagram and started like just casually 640 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: d m NG, like very friendly conversation and you know, 641 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: I'm I'm extremely chilly. This didn't even top of them 642 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: my radar, and uh you know, they had they had 643 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 1: some conversations and stuff and started getting the messages started 644 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: getting just much more frequent, and then something that yeah, yeah, 645 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: it was just you know, again just a regular conversation 646 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: but just like all day and uh then something she 647 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: noticed that she brought to me was that she uh, 648 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: you guys know, she she lost her parents recently. And 649 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 1: he started asking her questions about that, but she had 650 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: never told him that, so he went like in her 651 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 1: Instagram and saw that and then like started asking her 652 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 1: questions about it, kind of like he's always known. And 653 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: I took that as like a weird kind of a thing. Um. 654 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,839 Speaker 1: And the thing that's like in popping up to me 655 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: is now the messages come at like in the middle 656 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 1: of the night, like one in the morning, and it's 657 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: never like hey, you want to hang out everything. It's 658 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,359 Speaker 1: it's always like, hey, how's it going, Like wait, way 659 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: up too, and like and well again, I'm a I'm 660 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 1: a super chill dude. I've got lots of friends that 661 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: are women I work with, you know, I talked tutorial 662 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 1: all the time that works on this show. But like 663 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 1: the one thing like I always have a limit, like 664 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't hit these people of it like after like 665 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 1: eight pm, you know, because I just think it's kind 666 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 1: of exactly exactly. Hey, usually for the next morning, Hey, 667 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: tomorrow morning, we gotta talk about whatever. Yeah, something like that. 668 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 1: And if it's like if it's like midnight, then it's 669 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: like definitely like this person is asleep, you know. So 670 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 1: I've met this guy, I mean like he's he's fine. 671 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 1: I think he's harm. He's married, uh sons exactly, and 672 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: sometimes he complains about his wife to Allison, and so 673 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: it's it's like I just don't know. I'm trying to 674 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 1: figure out this guy is, like trying if he has 675 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 1: like nefarious intentions or if he's just a weirdo or 676 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 1: like like should I talk to I don't know, it's 677 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,840 Speaker 1: a it's a weird thing. I've never and Allison's obviously 678 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: been she's been transparent, and she would she what will 679 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 1: she say, like, oh, he's texted again. Yeah, like where 680 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: we were at Disneyland a couple weeks ago and she's like, 681 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, this guy's hit me up again. Like 682 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 1: she like she brought you in on it. H yeah, yeah. 683 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: She losing on all this stuff. Like and it's funny 684 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: because if he'll message her like on Instagram and she 685 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 1: hasn't respond, then he goes to Facebook and its messaging 686 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,839 Speaker 1: on Facebook. It's like like, my man, Like it's not 687 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,319 Speaker 1: it's not a medium problem. It's like he doesn't wanna 688 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: talk to you. I feel like it she should say like, hey, 689 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 1: I think it's inappropriate for us to be d m 690 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 1: NG and chatting. Yeah, unless it's work related, because it's not. 691 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: She's not wanting a friendship there. Yeah, and it's not 692 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 1: like it's not like, um, you guys are all friends too, Yeah, exactly. 693 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 1: It's a like if I just started randomly talking to 694 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: a guy like what you know, you can have, you 695 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 1: can have, we have other like you know, Julie is 696 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 1: your friend and you know I've um. It would just 697 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 1: be weird if I randomly started texting Let's say I 698 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: was texting Jed. You know what I mean, Like, you know, 699 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: like that you just don't do that because we're not 700 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,319 Speaker 1: like for why are we? Why are we talking? And 701 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 1: you and you and I always have a habit of 702 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: like when we meet new people, it's usually like a 703 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 1: three way texts, a three way where if it's a guy, 704 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:24,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I get Mike's number, you know. Yeah, yeah, Yeah, 705 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: it's weirdly, I don't know what. The thing that makes 706 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 1: me like this sucks about this is like we he 707 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 1: invited us to he has he has another job, and 708 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 1: he invited us to like an event at his other job, 709 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,720 Speaker 1: and we went and he was there and he seems 710 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: like a fine dude. But like when I met him, 711 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 1: like I don't like you right off the bat, you know, 712 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 1: Like I was like and I could feel myself like 713 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 1: not being very friendly and like like this sucks. I 714 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: don't like to be this way. But this is like 715 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: the kind of culture this person. You know. I don't 716 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 1: like the sorry, I don't like the fact that he's 717 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: complaining about his wife. That that's the first When the 718 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 1: second he said that, I was like, oh, he's he's 719 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: he has wrong and gens because anyone that complains about 720 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: their spouse to the opposite sex is almost wanting to 721 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 1: get that same reaction back. And yeah, Easton so annoying 722 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 1: me right now, you know. And then they start bonding 723 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: and then the next thing is it goes into an 724 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 1: affair and they don't they weren't friends beforehand, Like this 725 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,840 Speaker 1: is all new, Like they just happen to work. They 726 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 1: kind of know of each other. Yeah, like they you know, 727 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: they see each other around, but they don't work with 728 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: each other. They've never hung out outside of work either. 729 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: That's another thing. I've never got lunch or anything. I 730 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 1: don't like it. I don't like it either. Yeah, it 731 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,239 Speaker 1: would be different if if they worked like together during 732 00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:37,800 Speaker 1: the day right, and you knew that every now and 733 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: then she worked with them, and they communicate every now 734 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 1: and then. That's one thing, But the fact that they 735 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: don't work together have no reason to really be talking. 736 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: She doesn't want a friendship there, and he's up on 737 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 1: Instagram and if you respond goes to Facebook. Yeah. I 738 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 1: think I think she should be the one to say 739 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: something because if not, it's going to make a really 740 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 1: uncomfortable work situation. If you inserted yourself, okay, because I 741 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 1: was wondering if I should, I'm like, should I dam 742 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: and just hey, bro, like what you know? But I 743 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 1: don't want to go that route. Is she willing to 744 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,359 Speaker 1: say something to him? Oh? Yeah, okay, So she's been 745 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,959 Speaker 1: kind of going like I don't know because she doesn't 746 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 1: want to be mean, you know, but don't want It's 747 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: almost like the situation that we just had with that 748 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: one guy that kept texting me. Remember he came to 749 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: go do something for us. I don't want to say 750 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,439 Speaker 1: his name, just and kiss he listens, but he kept 751 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 1: texting and texting and texting, and I'm like, I we 752 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,920 Speaker 1: you should not be texting me this much and this often, 753 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 1: because why are you texting me this much and this 754 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 1: stuff like if you're wanting just a friendship, well I don't. 755 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to have a friend of the opposite 756 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: sex that we're not really do you know what I'm 757 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 1: trying to. So it's one of those things where it's 758 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: like this is and I just ghosted. I should have 759 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: just said, hey, you know, I don't want you. This 760 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: is I don't feel comfortable with you texting me, because 761 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,840 Speaker 1: it became a lot, and so it started to get 762 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 1: a little both of us, and I don't think there's 763 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 1: any I don't think there was either. There's still it's 764 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,320 Speaker 1: still a boundary exactly. And it's funny when I actually 765 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 1: I remember when Janna brought it up to me, like 766 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 1: maybe he's texting me a lot, and I kind of 767 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: I didn't. I was neutrals, just like because I know 768 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,919 Speaker 1: how Janna is and she makes everyone feel like you're 769 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: her best friend, Like she just makes you feel like 770 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: you've known each other for years right off the bat, right, 771 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 1: because it's funny, she's personal all this stuff. So I 772 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 1: get white people, Oh, she like she thinks we're friends, 773 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 1: you know, or it feels like a friendship. But then 774 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: when but regardless, it's like still no boundaries, right, still 775 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: look at a perspective, it's like, I don't haven't known 776 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: this person along, I'm doing a job for them, you know, 777 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: And then yeah, yeah, it's just there needs to be 778 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 1: And I think at the end of the day, it's 779 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 1: whether he had intentions or not, which I don't think 780 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: he did. He was married. But again, I just think 781 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 1: there just needs to be certain boundaries. Yeah, yeah, that's 782 00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: all it is. And I mean he even stopped by. 783 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,600 Speaker 1: He even stopped by the following time to check on 784 00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 1: something with his wife. You weren't there though. But the 785 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,360 Speaker 1: problem is is that if it just gets blurry, because 786 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: if he was to complain about his wife, I was 787 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,840 Speaker 1: to complain about you, if vice versa, that's when the 788 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 1: lines get blurred, especially when you have that communication and 789 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,719 Speaker 1: then it's like, oh now we feel safe to go 790 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,919 Speaker 1: the next level because we just kind of both said 791 00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: we're not we're we're annoyed with our partner. That's where 792 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: you have to be careful with the boundaries that you 793 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 1: have with the opposite sex. Yeah, I just think I 794 00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 1: think that in general, I think it's you know, you 795 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,480 Speaker 1: and I have never really had an office workplace, right, 796 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 1: and like, I mean, my office is being on set, 797 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 1: which isn't the healthiest of places for you know, no, 798 00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,399 Speaker 1: but but I'm saying, like, you know, we're we're nine 799 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 1: to five. Every single day. You build these relationships with 800 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 1: people outside of maybe your your marriage or your girlfriend 801 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: or boyfriend or whatever, because you're with these people so much. 802 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 1: And you know, we've all heard even heard the term 803 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: work wife and all that stuff. Right, even my my 804 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 1: mom and my parents have introduced me to people. It's like, oh, 805 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: this is my this is your dad's work wife. For 806 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,839 Speaker 1: these two. You know, it's just all jokes and it's 807 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 1: all within boundaries. But when you meet somebody new, when 808 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: you're already with somebody, it's like it that's where I 809 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: think is is a boundary. It's like how how does 810 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: that where it's a comfortable way around that? Right? Where 811 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: you meet someone of the opposite sex. You communicate at 812 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 1: work a lot because maybe you have to, but then 813 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,399 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you come home, hey, honey, like I've 814 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 1: been working with you know, Easton, you know, and he's great, 815 00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 1: what do you think, Mike? And you know this is 816 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 1: kind of like wait what But if you meet if 817 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 1: it's like hey, we have a company party or whatever. 818 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 1: Then you all go together and you meet husband and 819 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: wives and this and that, and you start doing things 820 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: like as a couples. That's one thing. I think that's 821 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 1: how a healthy relationship can blossom in a workplace or something. 822 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 1: But one on one. Yeah, and she has friends from 823 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 1: her work that we've hung out with and that I 824 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: know and that she works with also and and but 825 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 1: like this dude is coming from this like other weird, 826 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 1: like like it's one of those things where like she 827 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,239 Speaker 1: didn't like give him her and it's not like, oh, 828 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,800 Speaker 1: you should follow me on Instagram, Like it's like he 829 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 1: just found it. And that's the thing that makes me 830 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: feel and it wasn't established like before y'all being together. 831 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,759 Speaker 1: Like that's like when I first met Jana, right, and 832 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: she has all her band guys, she had a core 833 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,439 Speaker 1: group of band guys. I never think about anything about 834 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 1: her beyond the bus with five other guys and her 835 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 1: band guys texting or whatever, And they would never be 836 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: a solo text even so those guys, I mean maybe 837 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,640 Speaker 1: my band leader, yeah maybe I would never mean as 838 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 1: much as I love Heath, I don't we don't ever 839 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: text like, hey, how are you doing right? No, no, no, 840 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,399 Speaker 1: but but it's it's one of those My whole point 841 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 1: is because there's before me, so it's like already established, right, 842 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: so it's not weird, it's not uncomfortable. So I would yeah, 843 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 1: I would. I would definitely say have her say something. 844 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,160 Speaker 1: And if he continues to that's when you I think 845 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,600 Speaker 1: that's I think that's when Easton can step in and yeah, 846 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: because it's just it's it is not it's not right. 847 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,879 Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, sometimes I try to, like because 848 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: he he does these things that like I remember doing 849 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 1: when I was like seventeen and didn't have any game. 850 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 1: We're like when you don't anything to say, but you 851 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: want to keep talking, like so how's your day, what 852 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 1: are you up to? You know that kind of stuff. 853 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: Like he does that kind of thing, and I'm like, 854 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if this gets this conversation, yeah, exactly, 855 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 1: he just wants to keep he just wants a reaction. 856 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 1: He wants to keep a conversation going when he's not 857 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 1: getting anything right. So that's when I'm like, oh man, 858 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: this guy's trying to like slide it in. But not 859 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 1: that I'm concerned. I mean because I mean, you know, um, 860 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 1: but thank you guys because that helped a little bit 861 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: let us specially keep us updated. I absolutely will. Look, 862 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,640 Speaker 1: we all love a good subscription box, right from food 863 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: boxes to wellness boxes. 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I mean anything, when 899 00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 1: butts is the one you're hyphenating it too. You gotta 900 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 1: be aware what's exact. I'm just gonna run through these 901 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,720 Speaker 1: really quick because I just think they're funny. Um Beth says, 902 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 1: I did a guy for I did get I did 903 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: again in college for three years and his last name 904 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 1: is p peh Hey ms P. I'm a teacher, so 905 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,760 Speaker 1: I was definitely planning keeping my last name. The funny 906 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,239 Speaker 1: story is for Christmas one year, I want to give 907 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 1: him a personalized Mets jersey and the website would not 908 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: let me use his last name because it was considered profanity. 909 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,919 Speaker 1: Uh and then uh. Amy says, my mom had friends 910 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,880 Speaker 1: when she was younger with the name Doug up the 911 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,879 Speaker 1: Grave and Phil up the Grave. Last name is up 912 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 1: the Grave. You hear a name like that and you've 913 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: got to think, like, what's the origin or did someone 914 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 1: legally just just change their name and decided to say, 915 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 1: well my family from now on from here and I 916 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 1: was gonna be up the Grave. And she said their 917 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 1: parents did it intentionally with the last name in my 918 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: name name their kids Doug and Phil. Uh what great parents. 919 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: Doug up the Grave. Jen says she goes to the 920 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,800 Speaker 1: guy after the first date because his last name was Hyman. 921 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: I could not be Mrs Hyman, nor could I do 922 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 1: that to our future children. Isn't that like them? Hyman 923 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,800 Speaker 1: is a beautiful part of a woman's anatomy. Hyman. Yeah, 924 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 1: what's a hyman? Him? If I'm qualified to talk about tory? 925 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 1: What's a hyman? Do you not know what? When I 926 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,319 Speaker 1: was editing the email, I met to google it and 927 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,439 Speaker 1: I forgot something for sure? Sexual? No, I need East 928 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 1: did it's all three girls don't know what a hymen is. 929 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 1: Eastern please give me your chair, cheeks and tell us 930 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,240 Speaker 1: what a hyman is. It's many you say cherry, because 931 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 1: that's what it's affectionately called. Really, God, I hate I 932 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,520 Speaker 1: don't want to say this like, yeah, popping the chair, 933 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 1: you breaking the hymen. It's a it's a wall, not 934 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 1: a wall. I better make sure I'm saying this correctly. 935 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 1: But it's a center for hyman, A thin membrane that 936 00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 1: surrounds the opening to the vagina. Thin membrane. And so 937 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 1: the first time how many people know that? Yeah? Wow, 938 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 1: I mean three women? That was a common thing like 939 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: that before Eastern Yeah, paid attention. Where is the hymen? 940 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 1: A thin, fleshy tissue that's located in the opening of 941 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,439 Speaker 1: your vagina. Yeah. Well, by the way, it's so cute 942 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:53,320 Speaker 1: when Joy says vagina because she she U should learn 943 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 1: um anyway, Uh, going away from the funny last night 944 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 1: Hyman from that Yeah, breaking away from the Hymen, break 945 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 1: away from Uh. Sarah says, I'm thirty years old and 946 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 1: I have defined myself by my career until it all 947 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 1: king crashing down and I lost old confidence in myself. 948 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 1: I haven't been on a date in a while, and 949 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm working on getting back into the game. I'm not 950 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: able to have kids, and I'm wondering when you bring 951 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 1: that up. Also from a guy's perspective, is that a 952 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 1: deal breaker? Like not being able to have kids? So 953 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 1: a couple of questions, they're like, I feel like when 954 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,360 Speaker 1: you go on a date, especially you know when we 955 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,120 Speaker 1: both go and gone on dates within the first couple 956 00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:35,719 Speaker 1: of dates. I'm not the first date. I'm not going 957 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 1: to scare a guy away and say I want kids. 958 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,000 Speaker 1: But in the second, third, fourth day, it's like, hey, 959 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 1: you know, I really want to have kids. And and 960 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 1: if you're not to tell them, it's just like you 961 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 1: talk about what do you want? What you want? What 962 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,440 Speaker 1: do you want all that kind of stuff. So I 963 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,839 Speaker 1: would say within the first couple. But I do think 964 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,919 Speaker 1: it's important if you can't have kids. I think that's 965 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 1: super important for because what you wouldn't want is to 966 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 1: be yeah, I want kids. But it then a year 967 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,520 Speaker 1: later it's like, well, I just so you know, So 968 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I don't think that'd be a 969 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,320 Speaker 1: deal breaker for guys because there's other ways. But I 970 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,200 Speaker 1: don't know, would you would it be a deal breaker 971 00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 1: for you know, it wouldn't be a deal breaker for 972 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 1: me necessarily, Um, I mean, but some guys are very 973 00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,719 Speaker 1: I mean they For example, one of our girlfriend's husbands said, 974 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:22,239 Speaker 1: I can't adopt because I I want I wanted to 975 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:27,200 Speaker 1: be mine, which you know, I I don't understand that 976 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: because I think adoption is amazing. But me personally, it 977 00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't be a deal breaker. Yes, I've always wanted my 978 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 1: own biological kids, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. 979 00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 1: But the tricky thing is is I don't know when 980 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:47,800 Speaker 1: that window would be to bring up that aspect. If 981 00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,839 Speaker 1: I didn't tell you for a long time though, Look 982 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 1: if I said, hey, I I you know and your 983 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: in love with me, it's like, wait a minute, that 984 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: would have been something I would have liked to know, 985 00:51:55,719 --> 00:52:00,719 Speaker 1: because if if if, Yeah, a little bit, because say, 986 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,280 Speaker 1: you know, we got to the point in a relationship 987 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,120 Speaker 1: with like, hey, you know, I start having kids and 988 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 1: then you're like, after we're married and fall in love 989 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,320 Speaker 1: and all that, then you're like, oh, by the way, 990 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 1: I can't give you any kids. I would say that 991 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 1: would yes, I would feel duped. I wouldn't want it 992 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,879 Speaker 1: to be in the like, Okay, I think you should 993 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 1: say you want kids if you want kids in the 994 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,400 Speaker 1: first couple of dates, but then it should be a 995 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 1: couple of months when you're serious about this relationship. That's 996 00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 1: when I think it's that that sweet spot of enough 997 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 1: you're not going to scare each other away with anything 998 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:38,280 Speaker 1: anything you say, anything anything anything you say, but also 999 00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,279 Speaker 1: not invested enough where you still it's fair to give 1000 00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,080 Speaker 1: the person the opportunity to decide. Yeah, if you guys 1001 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 1: are going down the I love you path, I think 1002 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:50,319 Speaker 1: it's right before you you know, or after like right 1003 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 1: after that it's like, hey, you know, I love you too, 1004 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 1: and this is I want this relationship. I just want 1005 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,440 Speaker 1: you to also know that I may never be able 1006 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 1: to have kids. Yeah, you know, but maybe we can 1007 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 1: find alternative and miracles happen. Man. All the time, I 1008 00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 1: was so like, I have kids, Damn two what up? Now? 1009 00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 1: I can't have kids? You can? They go this is 1010 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,120 Speaker 1: my biggest thing. Jolly learned I can't and it's driving 1011 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:21,759 Speaker 1: I don't know. Somewhere wall some little school said I can't, 1012 00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 1: not justly saying it like like I can't, Like I'm 1013 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 1: so I can't. No, I love that can't I can't. 1014 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 1: She was riding her bike and she was getting scared 1015 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:34,799 Speaker 1: because she didn't know how to pull the brakes on 1016 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: her handles, and I was trying to show her and 1017 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 1: she's like, I can't, I can't. I looked at Michael devastated. 1018 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 1: I was like, baby, First of all, we don't say 1019 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,439 Speaker 1: I can't. Second of all, you can like I don't. 1020 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: Like if she learned that a fricing school. Yeah, that's 1021 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,399 Speaker 1: downside of school, right, school you learned they learned so much. 1022 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:52,680 Speaker 1: They learn these skills and interaction and how to you know, 1023 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,759 Speaker 1: because you know, we don't say that, No, we don't ever. 1024 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: So that's just one of the negative side effects of school. 1025 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,879 Speaker 1: H Yes, you can what are you talking about when 1026 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:08,120 Speaker 1: we teach. By the way, I'm really excited about next 1027 00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 1: week's show because we have a special ops officer on 1028 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,399 Speaker 1: the show, and he's about us. It's everything I want 1029 00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: to be, I know, so I'm really excited about that. 1030 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,040 Speaker 1: But this has been a really fun show and I 1031 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 1: can't wait to wind down with you guys again next week. 1032 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:29,800 Speaker 1: Don't forget to voute, okay by