1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: This is from Korinn and Phoenix City. Karenn says, I'm 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: in a situationship with a married man. I'm less than 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: a side piece. It's an arrangement where he sends me 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: a check through his company to have sex with him 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: a few times a month. I'm on his payroll as 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: one of his consultants. Oh yeah, she wrote this. His 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: wife and I are in the same social circles, but 8 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: she's clueless. We hook up in his office and he's 9 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: been requesting more sessions with me, but he's not paying 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: me more. I think he's catching feelings and losing sight 11 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: of our arrangement. I need this extra money, So how 12 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: do I ask for a raise without upsetting him? 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: Good God? Yeah? 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 3: This is yeah, just from a business perspective. If you're 15 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 3: operating under any agreement in business, and in the agreement 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: it states what is expected for the fulfillment of the agreement. 17 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 3: Once the agreement expectations increase, there. 18 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: Should be an increase in the fee. You know, Okay, 19 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: you agree? 20 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 3: I mean if I come to work for eight hundred 21 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: dollars for forty hours, but now you want me to 22 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 3: come in here for fifty hours, then the pay gonna 23 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 3: have to show that cookie. 24 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: Costs too much. 25 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: So that's that's what she wants to know. How does 26 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: she ask him for a raise? 27 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: So you should just go in there and just say, hey, listen, 28 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 3: you can you can do this through your company. 29 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: I'm perfectly comfortable with that. 30 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 3: But all this extra you're gonna have to put, You're 31 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,279 Speaker 3: gonna have to make a deposit or hand me cash 32 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 3: and an envelope. 33 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 2: You know, I quit. It is the secret if that's 34 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 2: what y'all doing. Yeah, you gotta get that double. You 35 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: know what's right. It's a booty raise, cause either way 36 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: you look at it's a booty raise. 37 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 3: You know you won't motey. You got to pay mode. 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 3: That's what this is. You know, this is a high 39 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: level of. 40 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not mad at her, she said, a situationship. Yeah, 41 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: so okay, but is he catching feelings? Is he catching feelings? 42 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: Like she said, yeah, he could be. He could so 43 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: he's sprung huh. 44 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know you and his wife in the 45 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 3: same social social circus. 46 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: Let me just also add this, that's rich. You do 47 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: know your trifling, don't you? Okay, all right, somebody. 48 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 3: Just you stay stay clear with that that you're acting 49 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 3: you're committing an act of triflingism, and but there. 50 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: Is also a price for that too. 51 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 3: Sometimes it's going to be a little bit of offset 52 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 3: in payment due to the triflingism of that you were 53 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 3: entered into. 54 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: So situation, it's hard to get paid for being trifling. 55 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:53,399 Speaker 1: Very hard, although she's managed to find a way. All right, 56 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: we have time for another one. This is from Roland 57 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 1: and Chesapeake. Roland says, I'm dealing with a woman that's 58 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: newly divorced. She keeps telling me she doesn't want anything serious, 59 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: so we're taking our time to get to know each other. 60 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: In the meantime, I'm seeing other people and she knows it. 61 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: I had a date Saturday night with someone new, and 62 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 1: my lady friend called me midday and invited me to dinner. 63 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I was honest with her and told her I already 64 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: had plans. She asked me to change my plans for her. 65 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: I told her that's not fair to ask me. 66 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 2: To do that. 67 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: She got mad. I would be loyal to her and 68 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: her only, But she's the one that said she's not 69 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: ready for anything serious yet. Am I supposed to wait 70 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: until she's ready for something serious? 71 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 2: Well, bruh, Look, you know what you're doing. 72 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: You know, ladies, you can't sign up for it and 73 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: then not unsigned up for it. You told the man 74 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 3: you wasn't ready for none serious you and you all 75 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: so know he's dating other people. She's throwing a bone 76 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 3: out there to see if she's important enough to you, 77 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 3: and you informed her that she wasn't. Now she's mad 78 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: because she's now discovered that she is not a more 79 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 3: higher that she doesn't have a higher level of importance 80 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 3: from you, and she just don't have it. And you 81 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 3: ain't finna give it to him, because girl, you're going 82 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 3: out with Finn to hit you up and break you off. 83 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: You have to go over here and broke his date. No, 84 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: he should have get broke off on this date. He's 85 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: not canceling that. 86 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: One, all right. He's trying to figure this out. 87 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey mort Ignorant Show. 88 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: Col broke Offs maybe maybe Monday when I ain't got 89 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 2: nothing to do. 90 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.