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Speaker 1: about this guy altogether. Yeah, I'm pretty close to that.

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Speaker 1: I just like how you're like, remember the night, but

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Speaker 1: just forget about him. Remember it, but also but also forget. Yeah, Spencer,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time. I appreciate it, all right,

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Speaker 1: Better luck next time and finding a girl who's a

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Speaker 1: little more adventurous. I agree with you. What a kill joy? Right?

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Speaker 1: Life is sure? Right? H