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Speaker 1: Turn it up. So songs say, skinny house can't move
Speaker 1: all of those here to one of those. I'm a
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erika, I'm Nila,
Speaker 1: and it's Wednesday, y'all, like for real, for real?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and.
Speaker 1: We're high.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So let's just start by saying that.
Speaker 1: Just a little like that. You know, I just smoked
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we know what I think just in the future,
Speaker 3: we should not smoke until we start, because once in
Speaker 3: a role, it's fine. But if we smoke right before
Speaker 3: you have something on your eye, then it's you.
Speaker 1: Know, but we're smoking these this brand Lowell that we
Speaker 1: talked that we talked about at the top of the show,
Speaker 1: and they have these little joints called Quicks and they're
Speaker 1: actually like made for moms. They're not actually made for moms,
Speaker 1: but I think they should have made for moms.
Speaker 3: They should be on the packaging.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because when I bought them, I went to the
Speaker 1: store in downtown called Medmen.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I.
Speaker 1: Like, Happy Bay smokes those, but they're like longer.
Speaker 3: I've seen the long ones and so.
Speaker 1: I thought that I grabbed those and she was like, oh,
Speaker 1: just so you know, these are smaller. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: how much more. It's like, well, not much smaller, but
Speaker 1: they're just smaller. She didn't tell me they were short.
Speaker 1: So when I opened them, I was like, oh, they're
Speaker 1: like little short, little short baby joints.
Speaker 3: And sometimes you don't need to smoke the whole thing.
Speaker 1: You don't. You forget and then it's all gone.
Speaker 3: Like oh, I'm really yeah, yeah, I need a little
Speaker 3: one to remind me to check youice it's over.
Speaker 1: So yeah, quicks.
Speaker 3: Quicks are the ship and they have really detailed, like
Speaker 3: very artistic packaging.
Speaker 1: I love their packaging. I'm kind of like obsessed with packaging,
Speaker 1: I think because of my work and like something we
Speaker 1: think about all the time. Products. It just makes it
Speaker 1: more exciting to open.
Speaker 3: You know, what, did you see the inside of the jars?
Speaker 3: If you open the box, the jars come in, it's
Speaker 3: like a full, flat out picture.
Speaker 1: It's really it's so dope. I mean, they're packaging is
Speaker 1: they're not? They're spending money on that package. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's worth it. It's really cute. And their weed is
Speaker 1: really good. This is the stimulating sativa. It's really good.
Speaker 3: I think last night smoked them a lemon brulet or something.
Speaker 1: Is that one they gave us?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Tatia, it's really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 3: What's going on? I feel like we haven't been here
Speaker 3: alone for a minute and so much has happened and
Speaker 3: we haven't been able to talk about it because we
Speaker 3: pre recorded for so many weeks.
Speaker 1: And then we had guests and yeah, yeah, guys, we
Speaker 1: had our one year anniversary. Was it last weekend?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Last weekend or was it two weekends ago?
Speaker 1: Two weekends ago? Now? Because yeah, god, it time does flying.
Speaker 1: It was fucking amazing. It was for everyone that came out,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Like me and Jamila were, we
Speaker 1: were so stressed leading up into that moment when we
Speaker 1: walked out, like I I'm now an event planner, I'm
Speaker 1: a DP, i am a sound engineer, i am a
Speaker 1: set designer, editor, creator, podcast, Like, so many hats were
Speaker 1: being worn, and like so many people, so many of
Speaker 1: our friends helped us out. Thank you so much. Shout
Speaker 1: out to Brandon SB who helped us create that video
Speaker 1: Elevated room Events, his wife Anisha SB, and Cynthia for
Speaker 1: helping us put get our like stage decord and all
Speaker 1: that shit together. Jason at Somber Cafe, like, we love you,
Speaker 1: fucking my best friend Jessica Romo, who like paved the
Speaker 1: ship out of the ship at the last hour. Literally
Speaker 1: I text her that day like please, I need your help.
Speaker 3: Come.
Speaker 1: So it was bomb you guys. I like, I'm excited
Speaker 1: to do more.
Speaker 3: Me too.
Speaker 1: I'm just like it was so fun.
Speaker 3: It was so fun.
Speaker 1: And we're like on a high for like days after that, and.
Speaker 3: I'm like, pitch, I'm high and just feels so good.
Speaker 3: I know, Yeah, it was My parents were there, which
Speaker 3: was kind of.
Speaker 4: Odd mine we're not thank god, but I you know,
Speaker 4: I didn't care obviously, but yeah, I thought it was
Speaker 4: really good and I thought I was just so it
Speaker 4: was so cool to see how many people supported us,
Speaker 4: and like how many friends that are friends in your head.
Speaker 3: But then you're like, we're really friends, Like, oh, we
Speaker 3: actually vibe right, I knew it right, So it's just bombed.
Speaker 3: It's just really bond to be able to do that
Speaker 3: and see the see it come together after one year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're definitely already planning our future tour. We
Speaker 1: definitely want to go on tour. We need to connect
Speaker 1: with everyone. Now now that I've connected with like like
Speaker 1: like a good group of people here, I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: what where's next Atlanta?
Speaker 3: Because if we weren't stressed enough in the city that
Speaker 3: we live up the street and we're going to curate,
Speaker 3: we're going to do it and it's gonna be bonded.
Speaker 1: Well. If we have any people in any of these
Speaker 1: cities that want to help us throughout our next live show,
Speaker 1: hit us up, if you have connections to venues, if
Speaker 1: you have homies that want to like help us have
Speaker 1: the video shit together, put the course together.
Speaker 3: You know a group of people who might want to
Speaker 3: come with bars. It would be good with area. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that would be really appreciated.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we really want to come to different cities
Speaker 1: and meet guys. We're going to do Atlanta. We're doing Atlanta.
Speaker 1: I wanted to New York. We got a lot of
Speaker 1: like d C love, But I feel like if we
Speaker 1: do New York, people can come from DC. It's really short,
Speaker 1: it's not.
Speaker 3: Really or we can just go to New York and
Speaker 3: then go to d C. Yeah, there was more of
Speaker 3: what I was. Yeah, why would everybody travel when it's
Speaker 3: two of us?
Speaker 1: That's true, that's the true fact.
Speaker 3: And I and DC's bomb.
Speaker 1: One of my best friends live there and I need
Speaker 1: to go see her.
Speaker 3: So I have one of my close friends is there too. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and they have that bomb ass strip club. What is
Speaker 3: the uh Stadium? I believe is the bomb Ship Club. Also,
Speaker 3: we're talking about Texas, Texas, and then be in Texas.
Speaker 1: That's where that's where my dad's from. We should stay
Speaker 1: at his house he lived, but he's he's like an
Speaker 1: hour outside of Houston. But yeah, it's a cool small
Speaker 1: town shot out of Texas. Sealy, Texas is where my
Speaker 1: daddy's from. I'm just ready, let's just do it. So
Speaker 1: fun and we're planning some more events. We have some
Speaker 1: really cool shit happening. Guys. I can't wait. I'm so stressed,
Speaker 1: but I can't.
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Speaker 3: Thanks, that's a really good that's a really good commercial there.
Speaker 3: We really need that. You know, emails, right.
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Speaker 3: What else happened? What else happened this week? Anything new?
Speaker 3: We also did a really cool event with RCEE at
Speaker 3: Sherman Oaks Dance Studio LA. Yeah, and that was really cool.
Speaker 3: It was like intimate, it was brunch, it was you know,
Speaker 3: it was unlimited emosis. I was having a great time
Speaker 3: drinking momoss from the moment I walked into the moment
Speaker 3: I left. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And they had some cute vendors there selling stuff. They
Speaker 1: had a zumba class and which I did not participate in,
Speaker 1: which I'm so happy I did not because I watched
Speaker 1: the date class and it looked hard as fuck. I
Speaker 1: also don't have I don't have like rhythm like that.
Speaker 3: You always say that, but when I go to the club,
Speaker 3: I'm not thrown off by you.
Speaker 1: I know, but it's like it's not it's not. I
Speaker 1: can shake my butt in circles on beat, but I'm
Speaker 1: not like a choreographed dancer.
Speaker 3: Okay, my choreography is highs are pretty high.
Speaker 1: I believe it. I could see it. I see it.
Speaker 1: When you're out, I feel like you're gonna break out
Speaker 1: in choreographed dance any moment. Sometimes I'm like, wow, this
Speaker 1: is like a Britney Spears. I'm a slave for you moment.
Speaker 3: That's why when I'm a nation like you get it,
Speaker 3: you get yeah breakout, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I can dance that and like just vibe,
Speaker 1: but I'm not about to like do it one two.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to, but I know
Speaker 3: it's true. I know I do do that really excited,
Speaker 3: Like this is my jam.
Speaker 1: I'm just all about a booty against penis, vibe, tork
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I get it. You like contact, yeah, dancing, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't need to for the fun. No, No, it's
Speaker 1: all about just the grind.
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, take it back to the eleventh grade.
Speaker 1: Then why don't you Oh you did not want to
Speaker 1: see I'm surprised we never ran into each other at
Speaker 1: Clubbling Blank and I'm sure.
Speaker 3: We musted both in there, but there was four thousand
Speaker 3: other high school students there, so we surely missed each other.
Speaker 1: Clubbling Blane was up club in the in Hollywood when
Speaker 1: we were teenager. Is that all the all the all
Speaker 1: the teenagers would go to? Was it like on Friday
Speaker 1: or something?
Speaker 3: Girl, they changed all the time. I think it was Saturday.
Speaker 3: It was Saturday Saturday night. Yeah, in Hollywood. Yeah, it
Speaker 3: was like twelve. It was like it was like eight
Speaker 3: to twelve. I think I've ended up like twelve.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Yeah. The fact that you're just so
Speaker 1: fucking sweaty. You were so excited to be out until twelve.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, we're out till twelve. Mom
Speaker 1: picked me by twel fifteen. Right, We're gonna go get
Speaker 1: some like ice cream after the sushi spot across the
Speaker 1: street that gives like all the teenagers free alcohol, and.
Speaker 3: We would just be plastered up against the wall with
Speaker 3: various guys just basically grinding.
Speaker 1: Grinding doing handstands. Yeah, the hormone levels are handstands. There
Speaker 1: were handstands being done. Teenagers were in fucking handstands. I
Speaker 1: had a change of clothes. I would put in my
Speaker 1: purse like I would leave.
Speaker 3: Why is it fitting kind of purse for you taking?
Speaker 1: You know, I got a bag.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just so I used to change.
Speaker 1: It's my my sexy hoey outfits.
Speaker 3: Afterwards, you're that you're that girl. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: I have these pants. I remember distinctly they Where did
Speaker 1: I get that? Like Melrose or something? My mom dropped
Speaker 1: off on Melrose one down. I bought these slutty ass pants.
Speaker 1: They were they were like that super low cut like
Speaker 1: Frankie bee as like I couldn't wear Frankie, so they
Speaker 1: were as low as I could go. And then they
Speaker 1: were like totally cut down the side and laced with
Speaker 1: like this like that like Swede string. Yes, I was
Speaker 1: gonna say, like the Native American like, wait, it's swayed string.
Speaker 3: I know. I know.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're still in now. I'm seeing in
Speaker 1: my fashion Nova all the time, except now they're like plastic.
Speaker 1: What is that that ship called?
Speaker 3: Oh that shiny latex material that's really in right now.
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. For that material, what do you mean,
Speaker 3: what is it? I don't find anything small enough in
Speaker 3: that pat and lather material that's gonna like you.
Speaker 1: Have custom, custom made, custom Latex.
Speaker 3: What the fuck were we talking about?
Speaker 1: Zoomba? Oh yeah, we got so far.
Speaker 3: So there was zoomba at the event. It was wonderful.
Speaker 3: We didn't take it because we're pussy, I mean, not pussy,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 1: We're just scared.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then we did a talk about, you know,
Speaker 1: how to consider your self. A few ways on how
Speaker 1: to consider yourself, and it was cool. It was dope.
Speaker 1: I think I think, you know, everyone has a good time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm a small piece of that. Five ways
Speaker 3: to consider yourself is to do one thing a day
Speaker 3: for you and even if it's small or big. Get
Speaker 3: your nails done, take a bath, drink some wine, smoke
Speaker 3: some we you know, small gifts to yourself.
Speaker 1: For you know, listen to your favorite playlists in the
Speaker 1: car on the way to pick up your kid from school.
Speaker 1: You know, it's little things like those things make me
Speaker 1: excited when I refinally gets out of the car because
Speaker 1: she controls my radio and then I put on my playlist.
Speaker 1: She does like some of my songs, but like today
Speaker 1: she was listening to Missago and she knew all the
Speaker 1: words and I was very proud. I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: you know, good music.
Speaker 3: Just tired of hearing Kiki.
Speaker 1: Then she asked for Kiki. Immediately after that, she wanted
Speaker 1: Missago like five times in a row, and we were
Speaker 1: just jamming and then she's like, mommy, I like Kiky.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh fucking kek Luna is currently she's late.
Speaker 3: I don't know this song care.
Speaker 1: Like, okay, wait, you set you posted that video of
Speaker 1: her dancing bitch. That song was in my head for
Speaker 1: like two days. I was like, why am I singing this?
Speaker 3: Luna's into it girl. She was. You could not tell
Speaker 3: her ship.
Speaker 1: Irine was gone for like five days, which was she
Speaker 1: was gone with her dad for the first time, which
Speaker 1: was kind of like weird, like he's never taken her
Speaker 1: on his own, like away from me, And at first,
Speaker 1: I have like a lot of anxiety she's gonna be okay,
Speaker 1: is she getting bathed? Like of course she's getting bathed,
Speaker 1: or she's eating I'm just She's like actually she was
Speaker 1: surrounded by women. She was with her aunt and her grandma,
Speaker 1: who I love. And I don't know why I was dressed.
Speaker 1: I just I think it's just because she's never been
Speaker 1: away from me.
Speaker 3: Of course, I.
Speaker 1: Did whatever the fuck I wanted. It was great, and
Speaker 1: then I started feeling guilty about it. The mom guilt
Speaker 1: started to settle in and I was like, what, No,
Speaker 1: not today, mom guilt, Not today today.
Speaker 3: I don't have time for you today, mom guilt.
Speaker 1: I did though a lot.
Speaker 3: Mom.
Speaker 1: You're like, no, no, no, no, you are a mom,
Speaker 1: but your kid isn't here, so get the fuck out
Speaker 1: of here. So yeah, I was just just chilling. All
Speaker 1: I chill. We did a lot of work. What did
Speaker 1: I do this weekend? What did we do? We do
Speaker 1: something this weekend? Oh, we did the thing on Sunday Saturday.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I saw you at Beauty and Essex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went to Beauty and Essex.
Speaker 3: We had a wonderful dinner there the Hollywood being Essex
Speaker 3: from Eric I believe. The marriager was.
Speaker 1: Oh, sorry, Oh we met t I.
Speaker 3: Oh we met t. I. I've been him a couple
Speaker 3: of times. He's so fine and yeah he's married, but
Speaker 3: he's I mean, she knows he's fine.
Speaker 1: That's just fact. He is fine and he's nice. He
Speaker 1: took pictures of us, Oh he did. He offered he
Speaker 1: saw struggling to take to take a boomerang in someone's phone.
Speaker 1: I know it was Danielle's phone. I think it was
Speaker 1: Danielle's phone. Photo by t I. Photo by Troubleman something
Speaker 1: hilarious groupies or TI groupies. Actually I was really mean.
Speaker 1: Me and Jamila saw him. We literally because we're so
Speaker 1: obsessed with our podcast, We're like, how can we get
Speaker 1: we should get him on the podcast, right, Like he's
Speaker 1: a parent, and he's like, you know, he's like, you know,
Speaker 1: very socially aware these days, and very vocal about his opinions,
Speaker 1: which I love, you know, we love that.
Speaker 3: And he's very intelligent. He's very intelligent. I think he's
Speaker 3: just you know, he is.
Speaker 1: I met him one time before when I worked for
Speaker 1: Macy at the studio actually where they were working recording
Speaker 1: what's this to be called record Plant, and he did
Speaker 1: a song with her, and he had like this little
Speaker 1: book of like all his raps, Like it was like
Speaker 1: this little book and all the raps.
Speaker 3: And.
Speaker 1: He was reading Thumb and Ship and he's and then
Speaker 1: after that I was like started listening to his lyrics more.
Speaker 1: And he's actually like a really good rapper.
Speaker 3: He is. He's super articulate. Yeah, I think that's what
Speaker 3: makes him as attractive as he is.
Speaker 1: And he had a suit on. You know, remember when
Speaker 1: he first came out and he did like that song
Speaker 1: with Justin Timberlake. He did a song with Justin Timberlake
Speaker 1: and they're both wearing suits. Oh yeah, I know. And
Speaker 1: he was always wearing a suit around that time. And
Speaker 1: then at some point he stopped wearing suits and I
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing. He's back on the
Speaker 1: suit train. Guys. It's confirmed.
Speaker 3: Aside from us being slight podcast groupies for t I,
Speaker 3: we also met some other gentlemen at the bar. We
Speaker 3: sure did, and it was so interesting and funny because.
Speaker 1: Well, first you weren't even there when we first met them,
Speaker 1: so I was kind of like, I saw them talking to.
Speaker 3: That was my fault. He said hi to me on
Speaker 3: my way to the bathroom, and then you my friend,
Speaker 3: and then said I have to do the bathroom and
Speaker 3: then yeah.
Speaker 1: And then so then they started talking. So then Danielle
Speaker 1: and Tiffany started talking to him, and then I walked
Speaker 1: over and I was like, what are we talking about?
Speaker 1: And then he was like, oh, I really like your hair.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, thank you. He goes, you know,
Speaker 1: have you heard of a place called Shags or some
Speaker 1: shit Shaggy. I was like no, and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I went there. I was, I was there
Speaker 1: and a girl with your kind of hair. Oh, he said.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: It's like, he's like, I met a sister there, a sister.
Speaker 1: And I was I let it go, like I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna say anything because I was just like.
Speaker 3: Wait, he said, oh yeah, I met a sister there
Speaker 3: with your kind of hair. Right now.
Speaker 1: First of all, he didn't even say my hair at first.
Speaker 1: He said I met a sister there.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 1: And then and I was like okay, he really okay.
Speaker 1: And then Tiffany was like, oh wait, what what did
Speaker 1: you say? And he was like a sister. She's like,
Speaker 1: what are you a sister? He's like, you know, the
Speaker 1: club was there's a lot of African Americans there.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, how awkward.
Speaker 1: And then and then I'm just laughing and he goes, anyway,
Speaker 1: so a girl like she had your hair. She flipped
Speaker 1: her hair and hit me in the eye and I
Speaker 1: thought I was blind for like ten minutes, like I
Speaker 1: just like actually thought I needed maybe to go to
Speaker 1: the hospital. And I was like, oh, okay, well I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 3: I was like that's unfortunate.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like these can hurt you even now. So
Speaker 1: then Jamila comes out and I don't even know how
Speaker 1: the rest of this conversation. Did you hear this?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he said it to you, didn't he know.
Speaker 3: Danielle was like, oh right.
Speaker 1: Danielle was tell.
Speaker 3: Her what you just what do you you consider yourself?
Speaker 1: No, Danielle was telling him like I think she said,
Speaker 1: like I'm Israeli and oh and then he was like
Speaker 1: oh oh. At first he called himself a white boy,
Speaker 1: though he did, yes, he said like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm just a white boy. When he was talking about
Speaker 1: the African American shit, He's like, I'm just a white boy, sir,
Speaker 1: you know, like I'm dumb. And then suddenly he wasn't
Speaker 1: a white boy anymore. He was from Palestine, Palestine, and
Speaker 1: he was Turkish. I don't know. And then he said,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like you guys, He's or like what
Speaker 1: did he say? Like I can relate to you guys, because.
Speaker 3: I'm a sand nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm a sand nigga.
Speaker 3: I've heard that term before.
Speaker 1: I've heard it before too.
Speaker 3: I don't know where where are like where in the
Speaker 3: dumb ass places of all people I was when I
Speaker 3: heard this term, but.
Speaker 1: A sand nigga.
Speaker 3: I was just like, what is this? Obviously he was
Speaker 3: trying to be found with the crew he was.
Speaker 1: He said it too, the wrong He said this to
Speaker 1: three black women, Like what, I didn't even know what
Speaker 1: to say. I mean, I'm low key. I just let
Speaker 1: it go. I was not in the mood to argue.
Speaker 1: I was actually hoping t I would have heard it,
Speaker 1: because you know, his ass would have went.
Speaker 3: In come this way. Why didn't this guy just said.
Speaker 1: Sand nigga, you have something to say, you have a
Speaker 1: commentary on.
Speaker 3: This, get your phone out here. We could use this.
Speaker 3: We're gonna use this.
Speaker 1: No, but you you were like you actually kind of
Speaker 1: went in on him that night. What a nice Jamila
Speaker 1: funny but watch your mouth type of boy.
Speaker 3: Over it that you got it dumb. I just where
Speaker 3: he's still here.
Speaker 1: He's still here. We gotta go standing it.
Speaker 3: We'll be back whatever we're not coming back. So that
Speaker 3: was pretty funny.
Speaker 1: That was hilarious, and then that was really That's all
Speaker 1: I really did this weekend. I hung out with Happy
Speaker 1: Bay and waited for my kid to come home, got
Speaker 1: work done, joined the gym. Joined the gym, which is
Speaker 1: I really am so happy I did. Today was like
Speaker 1: a better day. The first the first two times I've
Speaker 1: been I've been like, I hate this, and now I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I feel better.
Speaker 3: I'm good.
Speaker 1: Actually I feel good, you know, because I haven't been
Speaker 1: working out and probably really kind of like a few
Speaker 1: months and i've been I feel like my brain has
Speaker 1: been I could be sharper, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I never thought to correlate my sharpness
Speaker 3: of my brain and working out. But it's an exercise.
Speaker 3: Like I think you're right. And they take vitamins, Yeah,
Speaker 3: this is I don't.
Speaker 1: Know if vitamins really make me feel any different. Take them,
Speaker 1: I do, but you don't know if it makes a difference.
Speaker 1: I mean maybe it's I think it's maybe helping me
Speaker 1: not get sick.
Speaker 3: You take probiotics, you take pre biotics. Pre biotics, Yeah,
Speaker 3: apparently that's the thing now, So what is a pre
Speaker 3: But I needed to get closer. Okay, can you hear
Speaker 3: Jamial Edmond was whispering. That's because I'm high a pre biotic.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is.
Speaker 3: Well, I heard recently that you needed it's the good ship,
Speaker 3: you know. I don't know, so we need to kid. Okay,
Speaker 3: you guys should too, because that's what someone told me.
Speaker 3: Oh I saw us this weekend. Oh oh, me too.
Speaker 3: That I did too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw us. I was gonna go see at
Speaker 1: the midnight show I did on Thursday and then we
Speaker 1: were too late, so then we saw it the next day.
Speaker 1: That's what it did on Saturday.
Speaker 3: What do you feel? How do you feel about it?
Speaker 3: I really liked it.
Speaker 1: I really loved it actually because I love horror film
Speaker 1: and I like some people always want it to make
Speaker 1: perfect sense. And that's if you go watch a white
Speaker 1: horror film, you know it makeesn't make sense.
Speaker 3: That's what this is.
Speaker 1: It's just a horror film. It is very spooky, weird
Speaker 1: shit happened. I love that, and I thought the acting
Speaker 1: was really good.
Speaker 3: Shit she killed that ship like Lapita.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what it is too. I think
Speaker 1: I've heard a lot of mixed reviews from the movie
Speaker 1: and mostly from black people, and I think m hm,
Speaker 1: and and I think yeah. But you know what it
Speaker 1: is though, and I think why it's because black people
Speaker 1: don't really go see horror films, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's not a genre that we've been really included in
Speaker 1: or that we feel like it's.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's relatable or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not. We don't have a very big horror
Speaker 1: film genre when it comes to likerecting or like this.
Speaker 3: Does that mean because they don't exist or I do agree?
Speaker 3: Don't think black people are.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that.
Speaker 3: I don't think they're like not all but as a
Speaker 3: majority probably.
Speaker 1: Like the shit is already scary enough.
Speaker 3: I kind of know that's it. That's really I don't
Speaker 3: have time to pop in a scary movie if you
Speaker 3: go outside, you know what, That's exactly what it is.
Speaker 3: It's just like, why true, that's exactly what it is.
Speaker 1: Because honestly, like they want to laugh happy. Bay doesn't
Speaker 1: even want to really. I had like kind of low
Speaker 1: key make him go. He was like, can we go
Speaker 1: during the day, like I'd rather not at night?
Speaker 3: Are you scared?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: To god?
Speaker 1: He's like, you know, I'm really happy because we were
Speaker 1: supposed to go that night, Friday night, and then it
Speaker 1: didn't happen and we woke up in the morning and
Speaker 1: I was like, I really want to go see this movie,
Speaker 1: and he was like, you know what, I'm actually I'd
Speaker 1: rather see it now.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, you go outside in the day time.
Speaker 1: Oh well, it wasn't daytime. I was like, well, you know,
Speaker 1: when we leave, it's we would see it like four o'clock,
Speaker 1: like it's gonna be night by the time we leave.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I I think it's because, yeah, horror film
Speaker 1: is not a genre that like we go to. It's
Speaker 1: like we like comedy, or we like like action or
Speaker 1: you know, and rama, like more drama, something relatable to us,
Speaker 1: you know, drama.
Speaker 3: Edy, dramay. Yeah. I just think that I forgot again.
Speaker 3: I had a really good point. Anyway, Lupizza was bombed
Speaker 3: and oh I remember. Oh for me, I just I
Speaker 3: like to see a regular old horror film with just
Speaker 3: black people in it. Yeah, you know, I'm like, why
Speaker 3: are you guys thinking about it so deeply? It's great, Okay,
Speaker 3: it's great. I've seen way worse, non scary, weird, dumbass gory,
Speaker 3: movies like Saw fourteen thousand, five hundred and six, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, why are you? Like it's a good ass
Speaker 3: movie and it's just I like to see black people
Speaker 3: in all different genres.
Speaker 1: It makes it so much more interesting, Like it makes
Speaker 1: I feel more engaged because I felt like I could
Speaker 1: maybe relate. I don't know. I mean, I love I
Speaker 1: love horror in general, regardless of it's black or white.
Speaker 1: I've loved horror as a little girl watching all white
Speaker 1: and I like psychological, that's really what it is. And
Speaker 1: that's what this was for me. And but I you
Speaker 1: know what I But Jordan peels so smart because he
Speaker 1: knows that black people are gonna go see his ship,
Speaker 1: but maybe aren't. So don't really understand horror, don't know
Speaker 1: how to like connect to it. And so the way
Speaker 1: that he connected us to it was through the music.
Speaker 1: So like I got five on it being that like
Speaker 1: creepy ass song, it's still it's still horror because that
Speaker 1: song low Key is like a horror song. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh shit, why didn't we see But you know, black people,
Speaker 1: we know that song. And it's immediately you feel like
Speaker 1: it's like this nostalgia that comes through when you hear it,
Speaker 1: you think of like the what you feel when you
Speaker 1: hear it, where you were when you first heard it.
Speaker 1: You just know, you feel everyone in the club, you know,
Speaker 1: like it's that moment where black people are in the
Speaker 1: club and be like, yeah, I got that.
Speaker 3: But that's true. Even the selection of song makes you more.
Speaker 3: It makes it more relatable. And that's like this smut's
Speaker 3: most minor thing.
Speaker 1: And I think that's like he's so smart that that's
Speaker 1: how he's gonna like capture and make him bring his
Speaker 1: community on this new ride with him.
Speaker 3: And it's it's just broadening the spectrum and like making
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, because when you don't see it,
Speaker 3: you don't realize it's something you can do, you.
Speaker 1: Know, and not even just whack because white people and
Speaker 1: every race they know that song too and it makes
Speaker 1: them excited too. But I think it makes it's more
Speaker 1: it's it hits us even differently, you know. Because it's
Speaker 1: funny because when I was on my way to the movie,
Speaker 1: I was asking Happy Bay. I was like, would you score?
Speaker 1: Like do you want to score a movie? I said,
Speaker 1: would you score a horror movie? Because he's already told
Speaker 1: me like he's interested in like scoring like film, and
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, I don't think so. And
Speaker 1: he was like, I just don't know like that music
Speaker 1: but the creative way. But wait, but but the music,
Speaker 1: and I just was like, you don't like you don't
Speaker 1: think you can just make it your own in some way.
Speaker 1: And he was like, I don't know. Horror music is
Speaker 1: just like it's like stressful, I feel like. And I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, then we saw that movie. No, But
Speaker 1: then he saw the movie and saw how creative the
Speaker 1: music was and it was a different perspective. He was like, actually,
Speaker 1: if it's like that, then yeah, like for sure, and
Speaker 1: and I think even like that like that, just like
Speaker 1: watching him as a black man, he thought Whoror was
Speaker 1: not for him, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: And then he saw that yeah.
Speaker 1: And suddenly he's like, oh I can, oh, I can
Speaker 1: be included in this conversation, right.
Speaker 3: But if you're never really if it's never really relatable
Speaker 3: to you ever, then it's not something you're gonna gravitate towards.
Speaker 3: So it is he's you know, he's doing this fucking thing. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at it at all. I fucking love
Speaker 3: that shit. It was so good and like the cinematography
Speaker 3: has done so well, the like he did it, he
Speaker 3: does this shit good.
Speaker 1: No, it's always done well and like it's always and
Speaker 1: I love like I was reading and like trying to
Speaker 1: figure out because when we when I left the film, Okay,
Speaker 1: so when we left, we saw this girl outside, this
Speaker 1: black girl, and we were like, did you like it?
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't think so. I don't know. So
Speaker 1: I didn't get it, Like what what was the ending?
Speaker 1: And I was like, and I explained it to her,
Speaker 1: like okay, well she was she pulled a little girl.
Speaker 1: The little girl has.
Speaker 2: Been I don't think you should tell like maybe people
Speaker 2: haven't seen it. Oh true. Anyway, I explained it to
Speaker 2: her and she still wasn't sold. She's like, I think
Speaker 2: I need to see it again.
Speaker 3: Well I think a lot of people need to feel
Speaker 3: like they need see it again. But yeah, didn'yell was like,
Speaker 3: I think the acting was really good, but yeah, they
Speaker 3: should have touched more on the backstory of the clone,
Speaker 3: you know. And I was just like, it was great,
Speaker 3: it was funny, it was scary.
Speaker 1: I did you even notice how they spoke, like how
Speaker 1: Lupita and her husband no.
Speaker 3: Because it's how we speak.
Speaker 1: He was like very nerdy, maybe very but all that's intentional,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Quirky black dad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and even that shit is important.
Speaker 3: It may I mean, they may not realize it, but yes,
Speaker 3: it's so you're not conditioned to seeing a certain type
Speaker 3: of proto type of black person.
Speaker 1: People. You don't think black, you just think person. Right,
Speaker 1: there's no like, there's no accent period. You don't think
Speaker 1: you don't think white, you don't the country person, you
Speaker 1: don't think English person.
Speaker 3: It's just person, you know, ny dad. M hmmmm.
Speaker 1: And then like I've been reading articles because everyone has
Speaker 1: their theories about like what it is about, but everyone
Speaker 1: at I think the core of what they were saying
Speaker 1: is that it's just showing the duality in who we are,
Speaker 1: like in us. And how am I supposed to tell
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, well we're supposed to talk about the
Speaker 1: movie without saying anything.
Speaker 3: Well, you didn't have to say the fucking ending, just
Speaker 3: say the tethered people.
Speaker 1: Just lit over here like trying to like talk in
Speaker 1: morse code.
Speaker 3: You were literally able to tell the whole story, though,
Speaker 3: like at the end, like shut the fuck up, just
Speaker 3: we know there's you know, there's identical people that like
Speaker 3: that are like, yeah, that's a given. That's in the
Speaker 3: commercial arca, don't tell the whole goddamn more movie.
Speaker 1: Okay, fine, Anyway, there in the movie, there's like an
Speaker 1: underworld essentially, and then there's like regular world, but they're
Speaker 1: living they're they're having the same experience but in different
Speaker 1: in a different way. They're having the same experience. Like
Speaker 1: each person has a clone, and one of their their
Speaker 1: clone lives in the underworld, the tethered space or the
Speaker 1: tethered world that the tethered people, and then their other
Speaker 1: the clone, was living in the real world, and they're
Speaker 1: literally living their life, having the exact same experience, but
Speaker 1: in the tethered world everything is very dark and sad,
Speaker 1: and above it's you know, it's world happy ish world shit,
Speaker 1: but it's always worse than the tethered world. And so
Speaker 1: Lupita obviously has a clone and all her whole family does,
Speaker 1: and so it's talking. It really is trying to highlight
Speaker 1: the duality. But there's been so many theories like that
Speaker 1: US means us yeah, or or that you know, even
Speaker 1: there's like a lot of symbolism with rabbits in the film,
Speaker 1: and rabbits can be really cute, but they're also really creepy,
Speaker 1: which actually they are kind of creepy. I have a
Speaker 1: red eye.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it's like, and those starts the ship.
Speaker 3: I used to have them. I don't know why I
Speaker 3: had them growing up, because they were never nice to me.
Speaker 3: And sometimes if you put them together, those motherfuckers will.
Speaker 1: Fight, don't eat each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's those rabbits are savage. But yeah, there
Speaker 3: are a lot of reference to rabbits a Bible verse
Speaker 3: eleven eleven German Jeremiah, what was that again? It was
Speaker 3: basically like, don't reach out to me for help.
Speaker 1: I won't help you. Essentially, that was God saying that.
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I can't remember the exact if you
Speaker 1: can look at them on your phone right now. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was. It was good. I
Speaker 1: really liked it. Did anyone else see it?
Speaker 3: I'm sure? I feel like when a film like that
Speaker 3: comes out, when he's doing his things, so have they.
Speaker 3: I feel obligated to go give my black.
Speaker 1: Money to them.
Speaker 3: As opening weekend here you go, you know.
Speaker 1: One is something fun to do.
Speaker 3: I don't really go to see a lot of movies
Speaker 3: these days anymore. I don't like movies that much. I'm
Speaker 3: too active.
Speaker 1: So but you watch Netflix shows a lot, or like
Speaker 1: you watch Netflix when.
Speaker 3: Nils only when I, and then I get sucked in
Speaker 3: and I feel too much, like I'm crying or I
Speaker 3: can't go to sleep because I'm watching it. I can't
Speaker 3: ignore it.
Speaker 1: I know, I really. I think I just haven't been
Speaker 1: really excited about Nobbes lately. But I really do like
Speaker 1: the movies. I love the movie.
Speaker 3: I do like movies. It just has to be something
Speaker 3: that really makes me want to come out, and that's
Speaker 3: I haven't. I don't know that hasn't really happened lately.
Speaker 1: You know, he's also doing The Twilight Zone and apparently
Speaker 1: he's doing what did I say, Candyman?
Speaker 3: I P yeah, wait the Twilight Zone. Isn't that a series?
Speaker 3: So he's gonna do a series.
Speaker 1: It's already done, like it's coming out. I just saw
Speaker 1: a preview fo a Netflix. No, it's on a network.
Speaker 1: It's on like I can't remember ABC something. But he
Speaker 1: is also possibly I think, rumored, to be doing Candyman,
Speaker 1: which would be.
Speaker 3: It's so brilliant. I would have like, I know what
Speaker 3: his brain, why I know when he get in there.
Speaker 1: Things like I know, is he like dark or is
Speaker 1: he like a lot of times like the most like
Speaker 1: those funny comedians or some of the darkest people. H
Speaker 1: wouldn't be surpressed.
Speaker 3: I like to listen a little.
Speaker 1: There's something cute about him, right, Like would you leave
Speaker 1: with Jordan Peele? No?
Speaker 3: No, I mean I would because his mind is so crazy.
Speaker 3: But I like, if I didn't know he had that,
Speaker 3: like that mysterious mind, if it was just based solely
Speaker 3: on him, just on a physical I don't. I mean,
Speaker 3: it's kind I guess it's.
Speaker 1: A little if happening. I got a beard on it.
Speaker 1: He's light skinned. With a beard, you would be on that.
Speaker 3: He did start getting a little shadow, and I just think, hmm,
Speaker 3: that's much better looking on you. It's a little salt
Speaker 3: and pepper too, I think. I think, I now. I
Speaker 3: just saw an image of him and I was like,
Speaker 3: you're like it was but no, not normally, But you
Speaker 3: know what it did make me think of. It made
Speaker 3: me know we're not gonna talk about race today, but
Speaker 3: it made me think about how like how crazy and
Speaker 3: zany he probably is inside and that like, same thing
Speaker 3: with Donald Glover and that I can you know, Donald
Speaker 3: said black girls run into him because he's like weird
Speaker 3: and eclectic. And you know, Jordan Peele's wife is not black,
Speaker 3: and I wonder if he found has the same experience.
Speaker 1: Maybe probably I mean.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe not because I think his mom's not black.
Speaker 1: But I'm surprised. I mean, we're black women, We're judgmental.
Speaker 3: But yeah, saying that, like, and it isn't like we
Speaker 3: have a certain what is that that we have a certain.
Speaker 1: Because we've well we've been we've been trained and conditioned
Speaker 1: to feel like what defines a man is it's just
Speaker 1: it's certain. It's what defines it. Like a good black
Speaker 1: man is is a certain way, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe not even good just a black not even think
Speaker 1: it just a black man. A lot of it is
Speaker 1: like testosterone alpha qualities, you know, not any weird weird ship.
Speaker 1: Don't don't do anything weird shit?
Speaker 3: Are you gay? That is weird? He's weird.
Speaker 1: He pants are tight, and I don't know weird ship.
Speaker 1: He's in't that weird ship?
Speaker 3: Yeah those scary movies. He's weird. Yeah, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not like that because I'm weird. But
Speaker 3: I can see, I can see I understand that.
Speaker 1: I hear it all the time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what else us Jesse?
Speaker 1: Jesse's Jesse is charges dropped?
Speaker 3: Well, we did some research and I don't know, correct
Speaker 3: me if I'm wrong. It was dropped.
Speaker 5: But he says to community service, he has to do
Speaker 5: two days community service and surrender his ten thousand dollars
Speaker 5: bail money to the City of Chicago, basically pay chicar
Speaker 5: I go to ten thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that seems so, I don't understand. I'm confused still,
Speaker 1: like I'm happy. I think I think I'm happy. I
Speaker 1: don't know, because I still have so many questions and
Speaker 1: I feel like they're not answered. I don't have any answers.
Speaker 3: I don't really care. I think I'm with Jesse. I mean,
Speaker 3: I don't see I don't know him personally, but I
Speaker 3: just think it's so ridiculous to lie about something like that.
Speaker 1: I know, but some people do ridiculous shit. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying I support him too, of course, like I wanted him.
Speaker 1: I felt like he was telling the truth. But it's
Speaker 1: just like, why does he have to do community service.
Speaker 1: Then what is that about it?
Speaker 3: But they don't want to look so stupid. I have
Speaker 3: no fun.
Speaker 1: It just doesn't make sense, Like why should he have
Speaker 1: to do community service if he didn't do the shit
Speaker 1: Like that's the thing, Like I would be like, fuck you,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing community service and I'm not and I'm
Speaker 1: getting my ten thousand dollars back, fuck you.
Speaker 3: I doubt he's gonna get He's gonna do community service,
Speaker 3: but I just I don't know. I'm really he's gonna
Speaker 3: write a book. It's like, I just feel like there's
Speaker 3: something more important going on that.
Speaker 1: This isn't a distraction for her, of course, But I'm
Speaker 1: just saying like there's things are important. But I mean
Speaker 1: this man's life is important too, it's just and how
Speaker 1: it affects it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm saying his reputation now oka. I mean, I
Speaker 3: don't know for how long be associated it. It's a
Speaker 3: dumb shit. My nails are already tripping.
Speaker 1: This is bullshit?
Speaker 3: Is that Gila? You have to get the powder? This bitch,
Speaker 3: give me the powder and the jail and anunds kind of.
Speaker 1: Chunky or like my nails really like thin.
Speaker 3: I don't want them to be skinnier. But yeah, these
Speaker 3: are kind of thick, but sometimes in their tooth and
Speaker 3: they break.
Speaker 1: Anyways, Oh, today's the last day of International Women's Month.
Speaker 1: Today's last day of the month, last Wednesday of Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, last Wednesday. It's coming to an end International
Speaker 1: Women's Month.
Speaker 3: Do you have any final words for its ending?
Speaker 1: Every day is International Women's Month. That's what I have
Speaker 1: to say, the end. Okay, did I do anything to
Speaker 1: honor international? I mean I had a show. We killed
Speaker 1: our shit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's lots of women there. There's a lot of
Speaker 3: amazing women there. There were a lot of amazing women
Speaker 3: we got, like, we met somebody from Texas. We met
Speaker 3: somebody from Wisconsin, right, Oh, speaking of Wisconsin.
Speaker 1: We have these oh we do. We have some topic
Speaker 1: suggestions that we were given at our show, and some
Speaker 1: of them are pretty interesting, like this one cash rules
Speaker 1: nothing around me. I don't really know what that was. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's a question. What if your baby father marries marries,
Speaker 1: what would you want or expect from the new wife.
Speaker 1: I don't Okay, well this is what she wants our
Speaker 1: anonymous mississ submission. I don't want to do the most,
Speaker 1: just want to be her bonus moms from Wisconsin. Wisconsin.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's all you can be is be
Speaker 3: the bonus mom. Like that's that's Being a stepmom is hard,
Speaker 3: you know, it's it's it's a lot. It's a constant
Speaker 3: reminder of the previous relationship. Depends on their relationship.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but the word mom is triggering me.
Speaker 1: I'm like in here, like thinking, like what if a
Speaker 1: woman came started dating my baby daddy and said I'm
Speaker 1: the bonus mom. How would I feel about that immediately?
Speaker 3: Like bonus mom?
Speaker 1: You know, but I know, but I know trigger thing
Speaker 1: I want whoever is with him, I want her to
Speaker 1: love my daughter, you know what I mean, of course
Speaker 1: I do. So then I'm like, that's is that just
Speaker 1: my ego?
Speaker 3: I think maybe? I mean, I guess people get uncomfortable
Speaker 3: period with either kid calling anyone else mom.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just a fucking name.
Speaker 3: It's just a name. Yeah, it's not the I mean,
Speaker 3: but but I kind of get it right. I don't know, what.
Speaker 1: If your baby father marries, what would you want or
Speaker 1: expect from the new wife.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just yeah, I guess there's nothing you could do
Speaker 3: except let me handle the heart stuff and she your
Speaker 3: like she's your own but better.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I just love her. Yeah, don't overstep boundaries. Boundaries,
Speaker 1: and if you have questions about what those are, ask.
Speaker 3: Me, like talk to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah's be on the same page. It's not a competition.
Speaker 3: But I don't know if your baby father's wife or
Speaker 3: whatever fiance is.
Speaker 1: Like that, it's cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's assuming she's normal. Yeahsane.
Speaker 1: I would say I think that like the why you
Speaker 1: should kind of treat you know, how like you how
Speaker 1: nice you are when you meet like or like how
Speaker 1: you might go out of your way a little bit
Speaker 1: for like your boyfriend's family, like mom. I feel like
Speaker 1: there's some sort of like olive branch respect that needs
Speaker 1: to happen, right, Like if you are entering into someone's
Speaker 1: else's child's life, like you have to like make an
Speaker 1: effort at least try to make an effort.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I think should try to make it
Speaker 3: EpoR for sure, you know, to be nice, and I
Speaker 3: mean absolutely that's not me nice.
Speaker 1: But like I don't know. She don't want to say
Speaker 1: go above and beyond because that sounds really extra.
Speaker 3: Patient, but.
Speaker 1: Maybe I would be, like I would like maybe reach
Speaker 1: out and ask if you want, like let's go to lunch.
Speaker 1: You know that's that I would really appreciate that, like
Speaker 1: if someone did for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like of Stepma, let's go to lunch and let's
Speaker 3: just chat like catch up.
Speaker 1: So I want you to know who I am. I'm
Speaker 1: going to be around your child, so I should.
Speaker 3: Know who you are so I can trust whatever you
Speaker 3: know who this is.
Speaker 1: Who I am. I also would want to be clear,
Speaker 1: like I'm not trying to be your mom, your child's mom.
Speaker 1: I just want to like do whatever I can to
Speaker 1: make you, know, my husband's life easier, your life easier,
Speaker 1: and like to be of assistance, of assistance and and
Speaker 1: love your kid, you know, and you know that's all
Speaker 1: you really can. Yeah, but I think I think a
Speaker 1: conversation needs.
Speaker 3: To be had and maybe lunch is a good way
Speaker 3: to do it. Another topic we have is good sex
Speaker 3: with people you're not attracted to?
Speaker 1: What about it?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: Can you do this? Says good sex with people you're
Speaker 3: not attracted to? I don't know if I can have
Speaker 3: good sex with someone I'm not attracted.
Speaker 1: Sex when you're not attracted? Well, does this mean like
Speaker 1: sex for money when you're not attracted?
Speaker 3: And you're just having nothing about money.
Speaker 1: Well, appear it looks like she crossed it out and
Speaker 1: said sex when you're not It looks like it was
Speaker 1: gonna say attracted to the person. Right, Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: I think she's saying. Or good sex when you're not attracted.
Speaker 1: I mean I've never had part of good sex is attraction.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's like kind of like the biggest at
Speaker 1: least for me. Me too, for good sex, I mean sex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can have sex with anybody, but like good.
Speaker 3: I guess unless you slipped up one time and you're like, whoa,
Speaker 3: that sex was good? Is it getting a little more attractive?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've never had that happen either.
Speaker 3: Next, oh, pregnant. See in birthing stories, I'll go refer
Speaker 3: back to episode.
Speaker 1: I don't know at all of them. We talk about
Speaker 1: that a lot.
Speaker 3: Okay, masturbation and feeling intimate with oneself. I'm working on that.
Speaker 3: Maybe you should?
Speaker 1: Are you working on it? You have a vibrator now, right?
Speaker 1: Didn't you get one? Didn't they give you one at
Speaker 1: the event?
Speaker 3: No? That was the girls that came.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, you need to go hit up the guy
Speaker 1: and have him deliver that shit too.
Speaker 3: Let's maybe he can come over here today.
Speaker 1: You need to get.
Speaker 3: Maybe can you pick get my vibrator for me. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna have my friends drunk it. Hey, hey girl, whatever
Speaker 3: you are you in Okay, someone's gonna drop ye my
Speaker 3: new vibratorut my vibrator for me. Okay, I'm texting Craig
Speaker 3: right now. I mind dropping my vibrators off too.
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys know, if you've listened, I'm a
Speaker 1: big advocate advocate of masturbation and being intimate with oneself.
Speaker 1: It helps you understand your needs more and what you want,
Speaker 1: and you're the most comfortable with your self. I mean
Speaker 1: when I'm intimate with myself, like I'm literally probably in
Speaker 1: the most comfortable state I can be because it's just
Speaker 1: me and I can I can release in a way
Speaker 1: that like I can't sometimes with a new partner or
Speaker 1: something you know, someone new. So I highly recommend that
Speaker 1: everyone masturbate and get intimate with oneself. It doesn't always
Speaker 1: have to be sexual. You can be intimate with yourself
Speaker 1: in other ways, but masturbation is a good way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really I mean I don't really masterate. I
Speaker 3: haven't been working on it. But the odd thing is
Speaker 3: these last couple of days again, the things have been
Speaker 3: coming out and I'm feeling full throttle crazy. That sucks now,
Speaker 3: But then I'm realizing, like how much, like how do
Speaker 3: I get control over that? And how much asturbation? No,
Speaker 3: but how much is that the controlling my crazy mind?
Speaker 1: Oh crazy? When you were having stuff? Yeah, like just
Speaker 1: if this is the first time you're tuning in, which
Speaker 1: I don't know if it is, but Jamila is on
Speaker 1: Dick Talks and it's day one hundred something, so that's
Speaker 1: what she's talking about.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that my things come out at night. Sometimes.
Speaker 1: I think if you masturbated, it would really help curve that,
Speaker 1: and it might like unleash something else inside of you.
Speaker 1: You have to really just I think I'm going to
Speaker 1: keep encouraging you to.
Speaker 3: Try this weekend. At that event, member, we were talking
Speaker 3: without Morgin about masturbating with like aligning your chakras and
Speaker 3: manifesting while you masturbate an orgasm, and how it's like
Speaker 3: way more powerful.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, she was talking about like connecting to your
Speaker 1: heart chakra while you masturbate, and how it like unleashes
Speaker 1: someone like opens up something else.
Speaker 3: Inside.
Speaker 1: That's like beautiful and probably emotional. I feel like I
Speaker 1: would cry a lot. Oh my god, imagine crying during masturbation.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. No, no, yeah it does. I mean in
Speaker 1: like a blissful way, you know. Yeah, that would be yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, manifestation while masturbating. That's a great.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's what she was saying.
Speaker 3: Manifestation masturbating, manifestation masturbation. I ware through some YouTube.
Speaker 1: So if I just like masturbate on thinking about it,
Speaker 1: like twenty million dollars seven? Why am I so under.
Speaker 3: Seven hundred million? And yeah? And I think you guys.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can we go on? Can we have
Speaker 1: like a masturbation pack? Guys, let's all try tonight this Sunday.
Speaker 1: I'm seven pm.
Speaker 3: It will be a good mom masturbation. Each your own home,
Speaker 3: but all putting energy together to our master goals.
Speaker 1: Master goals. Focus on whatever it is that you want
Speaker 1: to attain. Pull out that vibrator Sunday at ten, wash
Speaker 1: those hands and get that cucumber link up, and we
Speaker 1: shall masturbate. We'll send a reminder mid run our stories, guys.
Speaker 1: Countdown begins two.
Speaker 3: Hours two hours until tonight's masturbation.
Speaker 1: People are rushing home. I'm not gonna make it.
Speaker 3: Let's really do it.
Speaker 1: Manifest masturbation at seven pm on Sunday seven or like
Speaker 1: what should be later. Well, people also live in different places.
Speaker 1: Twelve ten is like one am in York.
Speaker 3: It's a good time masturbation, right.
Speaker 1: The kids are sleeping, kids are sleeping in LA, the
Speaker 1: kids are sleeping New York. You're good. No one's going
Speaker 1: to fucking interrupt you.
Speaker 3: It's time you can rent connect.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 3: I feel like orgasm has power. I feel like we
Speaker 3: like go somewhere else like our you know, we're opened up,
Speaker 3: so it's easier to manifest harness the energy.
Speaker 1: It's literally it's I think over the last year, I've
Speaker 1: realized how like masturbation is. So like I was feeling
Speaker 1: like I remember, like a few months ago, I was
Speaker 1: feeling there was a moment or something that was happening
Speaker 1: at the time, and I was feeling really anxious and
Speaker 1: really stressed, and you have to leave soon, and I, uh,
Speaker 1: I'm masturbated. Literally everything felt better, like everything I was like,
Speaker 1: what am I stressed about? I feel fucking great? And
Speaker 1: that's kind of how I felt the other night. I
Speaker 1: even told you I was like, I masturbated and felt
Speaker 1: like I.
Speaker 3: Need to go.
Speaker 1: I want to do the sexualop immediately I wanted to,
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I was like kind of low key, like
Speaker 1: I want to do it again and again, but like
Speaker 1: only because the feeling, like not even the feeling of
Speaker 1: sexual it's like this high. I don't know how to
Speaker 1: describe it, like you just came that high that, but
Speaker 1: it's more like it's even more than that. It's like
Speaker 1: euphoria and but not in like a temperary. It is
Speaker 1: euphoria in a sexual way, but it's euphoria and like
Speaker 1: an all around euphoria type of way, Like can I
Speaker 1: just maintain this state of like lightness and like peace
Speaker 1: and joy all the time?
Speaker 3: Are you masturbating? Creatorial stimulation and internal? It depends and.
Speaker 1: It depends, but most of the time it's outer.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think most women are that. Yeah, obviously I'm
Speaker 3: missing out a big part.
Speaker 1: You're missing acol. I'm gonna get it together.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, maybe you should like commit to one masturbation
Speaker 3: a week, one just one. Anal sex is a topic
Speaker 3: you guys, I already know who wrote this.
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Speaker 3: I even say I'm in the Postmates, but then I'm like,
Speaker 3: what am I gonna park?
Speaker 1: Bitch?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 1: There's parking everywhere?
Speaker 3: Sometimes there is.
Speaker 1: You put the housards on, you make them come down.
Speaker 3: Lashes is a good one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you get like a good you have to trade.
Speaker 3: You have to trade is good. I'm all about a trick, yea,
Speaker 3: because you.
Speaker 1: Can do that at home home, like microplating.
Speaker 3: Lashing micro ben is a really good one because if
Speaker 3: you're like an artist, you don't with with lashes, you
Speaker 3: have to be an esthetician with microplating. You just have
Speaker 3: to play that one time school fee whatever. You find
Speaker 3: a good one. I could teach you too, one on one,
Speaker 3: but they but you don't. All you need is like
Speaker 3: a forty dollars pathology, like a license for blood born
Speaker 3: blood born stuff, and that takes an hour online. So
Speaker 3: use practice really, oh wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, practice because you don't want to be out here
Speaker 1: fucking people's eyebro it literally frames your face.
Speaker 3: Just get just learn agro tattoo.
Speaker 1: It's really simple, right, some of you guys are not artists,
Speaker 1: so don't don't do that.
Speaker 3: That's not.
Speaker 1: What else. What else is good? Oh?
Speaker 3: You know one of our good ones is Buffalo I
Speaker 3: mean the Buffalo Exchange or Crossroads selling your own ship.
Speaker 3: That's good for you to spring clean. And it's also
Speaker 3: Facebook Marketplace Facebook Eric because speaking of which, does somebody
Speaker 3: need a dining room table? And Los Angeles serious beautiful wooden.
Speaker 1: Jamila has been trying to sell this table for literally
Speaker 1: like eight months.
Speaker 3: Solid. Nice.
Speaker 1: I don't know why no one has purchasing Solid? Would
Speaker 1: you have it too overpriced?
Speaker 3: You you want two hundred one hundred six share Solid?
Speaker 1: Okay, you're right?
Speaker 3: Solid? What also have a California you do?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I know, Okay.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say one more thing. Oh, you know
Speaker 1: there's this thing that my oh my friend does this.
Speaker 1: He's a train He's a teacher, oh Jared, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: he's a teacher. He teaches students in Asia and on
Speaker 1: an English on an on his computer. He makes like
Speaker 1: twenty something twenty five dollars an hours.
Speaker 3: But he has to be up add the hours and
Speaker 3: he's like has to be like Jipper. Yeah, but he's
Speaker 3: at the party, like I gotta go, I gotta go
Speaker 3: teach the kids. I'm like, it's one a.
Speaker 1: Wait, how about I call it because he lives in Germany.
Speaker 1: Now he's the hours are better because now he's overseas.
Speaker 1: And he I called him FaceTime and he had like
Speaker 1: these like letters above his head and it was like
Speaker 1: it looked like a preschool like chalkboard. And I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I was like, what are you doing? You
Speaker 1: in class? Like, oh no, this is a requirement. I
Speaker 1: have to like make my my background of my computer
Speaker 1: screen look like school.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, so it says like I am teacher Jared.
Speaker 3: I just it's an app or it's actually say no, it's.
Speaker 1: Like he set designed a room in his apartment, so
Speaker 1: like it.
Speaker 3: Has to be a gold member level mastery teacher because
Speaker 3: what he Anyway, he makes a good, little solid check
Speaker 3: from that ship. I forgot about that. Yeah, it's just English. Good,
Speaker 3: you could do it, but.
Speaker 1: It's just weird hours. And if you like are late,
Speaker 1: you're like you can get suspended from the program.
Speaker 3: Yeah, or if you don't have any kids, just go
Speaker 3: to another country and teach him English in person.
Speaker 1: Yeah. True, but this was for mom.
Speaker 3: Oh that's true. Next, cheating have you been cheated on?
Speaker 3: Are you a cheater? Yes, I've been cheated on. Yes,
Speaker 3: I've cheated Pharma same, I guess it's no. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: have been cheated on.
Speaker 1: I haven't cheated. I think the first but first boyfriend
Speaker 1: cheated on me.
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, a lot of boyfriends.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's like set the tone for my like not
Speaker 1: non trust.
Speaker 3: Yeah, not to be trusted. I haven't had a lot
Speaker 3: of boyfriends. But this lesbian relationship is very serious less
Speaker 3: relationship I was in. She was my friend, first fucking
Speaker 3: cunt cheated on. My heart was broken. I was like,
Speaker 3: I was listening to Eda James.
Speaker 1: What wait, did she want to be with you afterwards? No,
Speaker 1: she was she left you for the.
Speaker 3: Girl for the girl, like move out of our house.
Speaker 3: She stole my my I was in college, she stole
Speaker 3: my tax return check.
Speaker 1: What. Yes, she's a bitch. Well, I have definitely been
Speaker 1: a cheater for sure. Actually a historical cheater too. My
Speaker 1: friends used to know me as Rika, why are you
Speaker 1: in a relationship because I love him, but I also
Speaker 1: want to know what that's like. But I also I've
Speaker 1: also not been a cheater, and I've been cheated on.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, look, and I think that's why
Speaker 1: I'm in the space now. Where it's like, I can't
Speaker 1: the ownership thing, it's just too much. It's like I
Speaker 1: want like the like the possessive side of me wants
Speaker 1: to own the person I'm with. But then the other
Speaker 1: side of me is like, well, I don't want to
Speaker 1: be owned, so I can't relationship. No, I don't think
Speaker 1: so that's too much for me. I could be in
Speaker 1: a relation and open. I think. I think I'm in
Speaker 1: an open relationship right now. Essentially, Yeah, that's what I'm in.
Speaker 1: So I'm doing that and I'm even and I'm even
Speaker 1: having to work through that because I'm so can to,
Speaker 1: you know, believing that relationships are about you know, this
Speaker 1: ownership or not even just ownership. But just like we
Speaker 1: only are with each other, we only share certain things
Speaker 1: with each other. We only share our bodies with each other.
Speaker 1: That's really what it comes down to. The body is
Speaker 1: the body thing is. It is emotional though, too, but
Speaker 1: body always seems to like overpower. You can forgive emotional cheating,
Speaker 1: but once it gets to sex, that's when people get crazy.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Well, if it's all the time, last maybe no, that's
Speaker 3: the last one. How can we help each other be billionaires? Sunday,
Speaker 3: ten pm Western time, seven pm. We're doing the masturbation manifestation.
Speaker 3: That's how we can all help each other becompany's whatever
Speaker 3: we manifest think does anything we want to? Were all
Speaker 3: focusing on one thing, in particular being billionaires. Yeah, well,
Speaker 3: I think we can all agree we want to be billionaires.
Speaker 3: Where we could just go we could just start at
Speaker 3: seven hundred mil right right under? A billion will settle
Speaker 3: God for seven hundred milk. I hope you're getting this
Speaker 3: loud and clear all of us. Should we do one.
Speaker 1: Thing or no? I think everyone should just focus on
Speaker 1: what they want? Yeah, how can we all hep each
Speaker 1: other be billionaires? Also support each other? Support your friends
Speaker 1: like it's so? You know what bothers me so much?
Speaker 1: Is Like? Why is it so? Why it be your
Speaker 1: friends that don't support you? You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Luckily that actually though, I have to say though, I
Speaker 1: have some really amazing friends that really do support me,
Speaker 1: but I've been but I also have people that fake
Speaker 1: support me, you know what I mean? And maybe I'm
Speaker 1: guilty of it too. Shit, I don't know, Like I
Speaker 1: really I try to support my friends in what they do,
Speaker 1: and people have different definitions of what support is to
Speaker 1: like posting an Instagram post or coming to the event,
Speaker 1: which one is right? You know you need both.
Speaker 3: You need it all, you need it all.
Speaker 1: I mean, but I'm just saying, like, don't you notice,
Speaker 1: like it's it's when you post something like a like
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