1 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Hi guys, and welcome to a new episode of Couch 2 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: Talks on You Need Therapy Podcast. My name is Kat 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: I'm the host, And if you're new to Couch Talks 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: and you don't know it is, it is the bonus 5 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: episode of You Need Therapy where I answer questions that 6 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: you guys send to Katherine at You Need Therapy podcast 7 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: dot com. And quick reminder before we get into all 8 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: that we're going to talk about today that this podcast 9 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: does not serve as a replacement or as substitute for 10 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: any actual mental health services, but we always hope that 11 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: it can help you in some way at some point. 12 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: So I just got back actually yesterday from a wonderful week, 13 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: what was four days at the beach with some of 14 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: my best friends, and I had this moment yesterday and 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: today where I was thinking, how good of a feeling 16 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: it is when you're ready for a vacation to be over, 17 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: Like you've vacation enough and you actually are desiring to 18 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: get back to your life, not that the vacation is 19 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: bad by any means, and not that you don't want 20 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: to go on vacation, but also you really enjoy the 21 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: life you've created and it's not like I was dying 22 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 1: to get back to the office. As much as I 23 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: love my job, it's not the thing that I look 24 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: forward to the most in my life, which has a 25 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: lot to do with the question I'm going to answer today. 26 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: So I'm going to answer the question. Then we're going 27 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: to carry on with why even said anything that I 28 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: just said. And I want to remind everybody that we 29 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: keep the questions anonymous here, so you don't have to 30 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: worry about me saying your name or where you're from 31 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: or anything like that. The person who wrote this question 32 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: actually wrote their question and underneath it gave me a 33 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: little more context, and I kind of pieced some of 34 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: those together without adding any personal information, and that was 35 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: really helpful because it helped me understand really where they 36 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: were coming from, which it's hard to answer these questions 37 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: sometimes because they're so generic, and so I really appreciate 38 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: that and know that you can do that. You can 39 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: send me a question and then you can give me 40 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: more detail to help me understand without me having to 41 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: divulge all of your personal information on I mean, it's 42 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: this the internet, or it's not radio waves because it's 43 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: a podcast to the public. We'll go with that. So 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 1: here's the question. I am working in a profession that 45 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: I have not always hated, but for the past two 46 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: to four years, I've started to dread. I don't see 47 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: this as I went into the wrong field, but that 48 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: it has simply run its course in my life. I'm 49 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: now starting a master's program in an unrelated field to 50 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: leave this profession. It will take me about twenty months 51 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: to complete the program. Unfortunately, I'm the breadwinner and my 52 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: home so I can't just take any other job for 53 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: the next two years. We rely on my income. What 54 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: advice can you give me for surviving my current profession 55 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: until then? Changing jobs will not help me. I know this. 56 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: I left a job two years ago hoping a new 57 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: environment would help, but it did not. Okay, So I 58 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: really like this question, and I think it's a great question, 59 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: And it also sounds like this person is in a 60 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: pretty healthy place. You're not shaming yourself for choosing the 61 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: wrong thing or blaming your workplace environment. You're just noticing 62 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: that you're in need of a change and the current 63 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: job you had as run its course, and it's okay 64 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: to change. And I love that. I feel like so 65 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: many people stay in the same profession or avenue in 66 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: their whole lives because they feel trapped. And a lot 67 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: of times we feel trapped because we believe it's too 68 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: late to start, or we've got start over, or we 69 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: have put too much effort into what we're in. We 70 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: don't want that to go to waste. And while I 71 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: do think it's super hard to somewhat start over in 72 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: a career, I also don't think it's impossible. So I'm 73 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: already really excited for you that you're doing this, and 74 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: it sounds like you're on the right track. You have 75 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: something to look forward to, a way out of your 76 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: current job and the current dread you're feeling, and oftentimes 77 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: knowing there's a way out and knowing that there is 78 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: an end date can alone alleviate some of that dread 79 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: or just like achiness of your current environment. And so 80 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: I hope that that has already kind of helped a 81 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: little bit, knowing that you're doing something so this is 82 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: not just a forever thing. I also think it is 83 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: super super helpful to create a life outside of work, 84 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: and to make that life outside of work super important. 85 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: For a lot of people, work does not equal passion, 86 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: and I feel like I talk about that quite often 87 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: on here. We live in a society where it feels 88 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: like we have to be so passionate and love our 89 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: jobs and be obsessed with working and want to talk 90 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: about it all the time. It's like a part of 91 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: our personality. And a lot of people don't have passion 92 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: when it comes to their jobs. And I really think 93 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: that's okay. I think it's more than okay. And I 94 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: think it's really unfair to say that you can't live 95 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: a fulfilling life unless you love your job. I personally 96 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: think you can. And this brings me back to me 97 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: talking about my VACA. The thing I was looking forward 98 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: to the most when thinking about getting back home again, 99 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: like I said, wasn't jumping back into work. It was 100 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: jumping back into my routine, my habits, the people that 101 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: I like to see on a regular basis, things like that, 102 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: and the smaller things in my life, not this thing 103 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: that I spend doing eight to ten hours a day. 104 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 1: The smaller things in my life are my favorite parts 105 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: of my life. Making my favorite meal of the week, 106 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: sleeping in my own cozy bed, going to the grocery 107 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: store with Patrick. I really enjoy those little things and 108 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: I want to encourage you to make sure you are 109 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: packing in a lot of small little things that might 110 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: seem mundane but also bring you a lot of joy 111 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: that you might just be like, not even realizing bring 112 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: you a lot of joy. I think we can spend 113 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: way too much time making work the thing that our 114 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: lives revolve around. I mean, we spend what eight to 115 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: ten hours there a day. Sometimes people spend more, and 116 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: then we spend more time obsessing about it, talking about it, 117 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: planning around it. It's just this it again, like I 118 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: said earlier, becomes like our personality, part of our personality, 119 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 1: and I don't think that it needs to be that 120 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 1: way at all. If ever, don't get me wrong, I 121 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: think that it can be very very powerful and important 122 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: for us to process and talk about work outside of work, 123 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: but it doesn't have to be this all consuming thing 124 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,799 Speaker 1: that I mean. I feel like we grow up thinking 125 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: what our lives are going to be is like what 126 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: we're going to do for a living, which makes sense. Again, 127 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: we spend a lot of time doing it, and we 128 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: can think and dream about what kind of life we're 129 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: going to be living too, not just what we're going 130 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: to be doing to make money. Now A lot of 131 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: people do have passion woven into their job, and I 132 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: think that that's okay too. It doesn't mean that's bad, 133 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: but I just feel like it's important to keep talking 134 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: about the fact that that doesn't always have to be 135 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: the case, and you don't have to keep trying to 136 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: find a different job until you feel passionate about yours. 137 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: You can do that, but it's not the only avenue 138 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: to create a fulfilling life, and I just want people 139 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: to know that. So my question for you, and what 140 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: I would suggest is what if you could create more 141 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: life outside of your job that excited you while you 142 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: can't control the current status of your job, and we 143 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: get to be more excited about those things, and we 144 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: can focus on those things more than we focus on 145 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: how much we don't like our job. So if we 146 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: focus on those little things and we look forward to 147 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: those little things, and we start putting our energy in 148 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: those little things, we're going to be spending less energy 149 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: thinking about how much we hate our job. So really, 150 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: to me, when it comes to like, how do you 151 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: survive the current job, the current role you're in while 152 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: you're working to move into something else, is pretty simple 153 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: to me. A lot of it has to do with 154 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: creating things and paying attention to things that don't have 155 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: to do with work, because again, you cannot control that 156 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: right now. The other thing that you can do is 157 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: create some benchmarks you can celebrate, make a countdown that 158 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: celebrates you achieving things. You're in this program, So can 159 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: you start celebrating more of those achievements. Maybe have a 160 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: countdown to when your graduation is. Celebrate when you do 161 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: well on a test, or you do well on a 162 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: project or something like that, so you're again paying more 163 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: attention to that the thing that you're looking forward to 164 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: than the thing that you're dreading. And then create space 165 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: to not talk about work at all. Maybe you create 166 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: more space in your life to play games with your 167 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: family after work, you start a new hobby, maybe you 168 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: start to cross ditch your garden. But what I'm really 169 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: getting at is fine ways to fill your life after 170 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: work with things that aren't also work. Now. I don't 171 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: know the structure of your job. I don't know the 172 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: ins and outs of what you have to do and 173 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: how taxing it is and how rigid it is, but 174 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: I think it's also an okay thought to think about 175 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: how you can do your job well, you know, keep 176 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: your integrity while you're still employed at this place, while 177 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: allowing yourself grace of not doing your job perfectly and 178 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: to the highest of any standard at all times. And 179 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: I don't mean like be a slacker and like don't 180 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: finish things. I mean maybe you bring lunches into work 181 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:11,959 Speaker 1: that excite you and you actually take a break at 182 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:16,119 Speaker 1: lunch to enjoy eating your food or talking with a coworker, 183 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: or maybe you schedule on some walks during the day 184 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: while you're at work, find some time to break up 185 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: the monotony of the dread that you have, switch up 186 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: what you can and again focus on that versus the 187 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: dread of what you can't switch up. And I would 188 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: add to the end of this, I think one of 189 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: the biggest things is to be super kind to yourself. 190 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: Like I said earlier, I think it's awesome you're already 191 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: on the right track, and I think it's really a 192 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: huge deal what you're doing putting effort in to shift 193 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: something when a lot of people would say, oh, I 194 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: can't do that, it's too late, it would be too hard, 195 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: and that's a big deal. And I think you should 196 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: celebrate that alone and be very kind to yourself and 197 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: celebrate yourself in that own achievement, and when you feel overwhelmed, 198 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: ask for help and let others help you. Going to 199 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: school while working while also trying to find time for 200 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: leisure and to take care of yourself is a lot. Like, 201 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 1: you have a lot of things going on, and it's 202 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: super fair to acknowledge that even though these are things 203 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: that you chose to do. And I guess if you 204 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: could not work the job, you would quit, so you 205 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: don't have complete control in that. But I just want 206 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: you to be giving yourself the attention that you deserve 207 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: and the love and the care that you deserve, because 208 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: what you're doing again is a really big deal. You're 209 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 1: doing a lot, so it feels like a lot. It's 210 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: not because you're doing it wrong. It's because it's a lot. 211 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: It just is. So I hope that helps. I know 212 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: these aren't light bulb, life changing, jaw dropping suggestions, but 213 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: I think that's what's so powerful about them is sometimes 214 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: the most simple, little shifts and changes can be the 215 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: most powerful. And I truly believe when we can shift 216 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: our attention, it takes a while. It's that creating a 217 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: new pathway in your brain creating a new river. If 218 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: you've heard me on here talk about the river metaph for, 219 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: if we create these new pathways that our brains naturally 220 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: go to, we're going to be focused on these good 221 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: things more than we're focused on the icky things. Now, 222 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: the dread of your job, you might not start enjoying 223 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: your job. I don't think that's what I'm I'm gonna 224 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: try to convince you to think it's going to happen. 225 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 1: You're probably gonna not like your job till it ends, 226 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: But the weight of that could feel lighter if we 227 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: put more of our attention and we create more of 228 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: a natural rhythm to pay attention to the things in 229 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 1: your life that you do enjoy and that do bring 230 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: you more energy and fulfillment and enjoy. So again, I 231 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: hope that was helpful, And if anybody else has any questions, 232 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: you know that you can always send them to Katherine 233 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: at UNI Therapy podcast dot com. You can follow us 234 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: at uned Therapy Podcast, you can follow me at cat 235 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: dot Defada, and you can follow my therapy practice at 236 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: three Chords Therapy all on Instagram. We'll be back with 237 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: you guys on Monday with an episode that I'm super 238 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: excited for you guys to hear, and until then, I 239 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: hope that you are having the day you need to. 240 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: Half bye guys,