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Speaker 1: now brooking Jewbels Second Dato date. Bowling alleys are a
Speaker 1: great way to go on a date. I often find
Speaker 1: myself hanging around bowling allies all the time, just to
Speaker 1: help women on their form. Yeah, helped correct them. I
Speaker 1: might not even know them. I just come from behind
Speaker 1: him and just go, hey, you throw the ball like this? Sweet.
Speaker 1: Sometimes he gets slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.
Speaker 1: I put a bull ball in your face if I
Speaker 1: was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm looking for. And Melissa,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone right now. I went to a
Speaker 1: bowling alley on her first date. But now she's not
Speaker 1: getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi? How are you?
Speaker 1: Did you actually know this guy before you went to
Speaker 1: the bowling alley or did he just show up there
Speaker 1: and do my special trick to meet you? Oh no,
Speaker 1: he didn't. He didn't do your special drink. Um. I
Speaker 1: didn't know him. I actually met him through from friends. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it was the bowling alley the first time you
Speaker 1: actually laid eyes on each other. Yes, it was. We
Speaker 1: text a couple of times, like about where we were
Speaker 1: going to meet and stuff, but that was the first
Speaker 1: time we saw each other. Okay, And what's his name? Jay? Jay?
Speaker 1: All right, and tell us a little bit about the date.
Speaker 1: Why do you think you're not getting to call back?
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know. Guys, Like the date was kind
Speaker 1: of great or so I thought, like we got there,
Speaker 1: it was a really cool place. It was bowling in beers.
Speaker 1: You know, it was a good time. Like we were
Speaker 1: cheering each other on. You know, we were bowling. I'm
Speaker 1: not that good at bowling, but neither was he. Like
Speaker 1: we were both like kind of like mediocre, but it
Speaker 1: was fun. Okay, Okay, So he wasn't like some extreme
Speaker 1: bowling enthusiasts that would like put you down or not
Speaker 1: date you because you got a couple of you know,
Speaker 1: he was mad because he was not doing that great
Speaker 1: job himself. I mean, can you remember like a moment
Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, this is really going well. Well,
Speaker 1: the whole date was going really well. But I do
Speaker 1: remember a moment where I was like, Okay, I hope
Speaker 1: I didn't like screw this up, Like it just kind
Speaker 1: of got a little weird. It got kind of out
Speaker 1: of hand. Weird at a bowling alley can never be good.
Speaker 1: So we were like we were playing, we were bowling around,
Speaker 1: you know. We had took a little break and we
Speaker 1: started talking. We were talking about playing some bets on
Speaker 1: the game, you know, and just like that's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I bet a dollar you can hit a strike, or
Speaker 1: like I bet at five dollars you can't chug this beer,
Speaker 1: and like less than a minute this and stuff like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds funny. I'm yeah, placeful, and I'm always down
Speaker 1: for a bet, Like I don't back down. Okay, So
Speaker 1: he bet me too, you know, to lick the inside
Speaker 1: of one of the bowling shoes. Oh my god, well
Speaker 1: are you in like fifth grade? I know. At first
Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell, Like did I do this?
Speaker 1: I want to see him down, you know, So I
Speaker 1: was like I kind of have to no, please tell
Speaker 1: me you didn't actually do that. I absolutely did it.
Speaker 1: Oh I thought he would think I was cool. We've
Speaker 1: done a lot of second date updates. I've got to say,
Speaker 1: this is the filthiest thing I've ever heard happening, don't
Speaker 1: They sprayed them, They sprayed the shoes. You know what
Speaker 1: did it taste like? I think, Okay, now that's disgusting.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say that. I don't know it honestly,
Speaker 1: trying to tasted like a wet sock, like a foggy sock.
Speaker 1: It was bad. I think you're kind of badass for
Speaker 1: doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's what I was thinking he
Speaker 1: would think. But what did he do after you did it? Oh,
Speaker 1: he was cracking up. He just thought it was the
Speaker 1: funniest thing in the world. I don't know if he
Speaker 1: was laughing with me or at me, like he was
Speaker 1: cracking up. But I don't know. Like he hasn't called me,
Speaker 1: we haven't they planned for a second date, so I'm
Speaker 1: thinking that was it. But then I thought, like I
Speaker 1: was okay, I thought we were having a moment. Did
Speaker 1: you guys kiss? Okay? So no, I mean we didn't kiss,
Speaker 1: But I where there were moments like when we were
Speaker 1: getting ready to leave, he walked me out, you know
Speaker 1: you're waiting he caught me an ooper and everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's where there were so many moments I thought he
Speaker 1: was gonna kiss me. But I'm sure he was thinking
Speaker 1: about the shoe, because I was thinking about the shoe, like,
Speaker 1: is he gonna want to kiss me? So you guys
Speaker 1: didn't kiss. No, I didn't get my kids. Come on,
Speaker 1: that's out there. He's the one that dared her. He
Speaker 1: dared me exactly if you bring it up and you
Speaker 1: can't handle the actual truth of what happens, and that's
Speaker 1: on you. And have you heard anything from him since
Speaker 1: your date? No? I text him the day after the day,
Speaker 1: just like, you know, hey, what's up. I had a
Speaker 1: great time last night, thanks for taking me out. Just
Speaker 1: thanking him. I made a little joke about the shoe thing.
Speaker 1: I think I said something like I used the whole
Speaker 1: Bila list or something. I don't know what I said. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay,
Speaker 1: Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's
Speaker 1: the shoe licking that did you in? Just listen to yourself. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like my friend said that he was
Speaker 1: a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it could be like
Speaker 1: seventy percent shoe thirty percent. He's a ladies man. He's
Speaker 1: just like as other girls. Okay, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know how many dates I've been where I'm like, if
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have licked that damn shoe, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: have been in this position right now. All Right, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call him and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. All right, thank you? All right, hang
Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. If you're just tuning in
Speaker 1: for the second date update, Melissa the Shoe Liquor is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us. Melissa went out on a
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Jay. They went bowling, They
Speaker 1: had a fun time, and at some point they were
Speaker 1: making bets with each other and he bet her to
Speaker 1: lick a bowling shoe, the inside of a bowling shoe,
Speaker 1: and she did it, And like I said earlier, this
Speaker 1: makes today's second day update the most disgusting in the
Speaker 1: history of second day updates. We've heard a lot of
Speaker 1: really bad things. So she licked the inside of the
Speaker 1: bowling shoe, and she thinks that that's the reason she's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back. Maybe it grossed him out
Speaker 1: too much. Although he did bet her to do it,
Speaker 1: she hasn't heard from him in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 1: So we're about to get him on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if that is the reason he's not calling
Speaker 1: her back. Melissa, you got the shoe out of your mouth.
Speaker 1: You're ready to do this? Yes, it's out of my
Speaker 1: mouth and I'm ready. And I think if that's the
Speaker 1: reason he's not calling you back, it's so unfair because
Speaker 1: guys always say I want a guy's girl, and then
Speaker 1: you give him a guy's girl, and then they decide
Speaker 1: they don't want that. Yeah, I wouldn't even hang out
Speaker 1: with him, my dude, friends if he did this. All right,
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From
Speaker 1: the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm doing okay? What's up with you? Not much? I'm
Speaker 1: just chilling. I wanted to give you a call because
Speaker 1: we actually received an email about you, about me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's from a girl that you went out on a
Speaker 1: date with. Are you serious right now? I am. Her
Speaker 1: name is Melissa. Do you remember going on a date
Speaker 1: with Melissa? Oh? Oh yeah, yeah I do. All right,
Speaker 1: I figure she'd probably be easy to remember because she
Speaker 1: licked a shoe, a bowling shoe while you guys are out.
Speaker 1: She told you that, Yes she did. We actually talked
Speaker 1: to her about your date, and she's confused because she's
Speaker 1: been trying to get a hold of you for a
Speaker 1: second date. But you're not calling her back. Oh yo,
Speaker 1: I could believe she told you about the shoe. Yeah
Speaker 1: she did. Hey, I can't believe she admitted to doing
Speaker 1: that either. Man, that was crazy. I would have told
Speaker 1: nobody that you're the one that dared her to lick
Speaker 1: the shoe. You've got to take some responsibility. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I didn't tell her to tell anybody about it. It's
Speaker 1: like it's something you, you know, take to your grave, right.
Speaker 1: I almost exited the inside the whole of a bull
Speaker 1: of ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude, I
Speaker 1: think Yeah. I think you stopped at the appropriate time.
Speaker 1: Or maybe actually I think it went too far, but
Speaker 1: it was open to Auntie, but you stopped right there. Wow. Um,
Speaker 1: So what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do
Speaker 1: you don't want to see her again? Let's just put
Speaker 1: it like this, I date my fishy old lady, and
Speaker 1: certain things are red flags, and I can tell pretty
Speaker 1: easily when I can't and can't trust somebody. Okay, oh wait,
Speaker 1: so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No,
Speaker 1: I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do
Speaker 1: you say that because what happened at the bullet alley.
Speaker 1: You can't trust her because she licked this sho I
Speaker 1: would think, Hey, if I dared somebody to lick as
Speaker 1: you and they they would have all my trust, you
Speaker 1: know what. She had points for that. She was doing
Speaker 1: good up until this other moment that happened and maybe
Speaker 1: changed my entire perspective on him. What happened, all right,
Speaker 1: so we would close it out. We're about to get
Speaker 1: out of there, and she ran to the bathroom real quick,
Speaker 1: you know, And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: to ticket shoes and check them back in with the
Speaker 1: front desk. So as i'm dropping the shoes off, the
Speaker 1: cash it guy leans into and say, hey, you know
Speaker 1: that's your girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no,
Speaker 1: and I know, like not yet, you know. It's kind
Speaker 1: of joking with him, and he was like, well, she
Speaker 1: might be dodging the bollet man. What are you talking
Speaker 1: about so he didn't tells me. He was watching this
Speaker 1: bowl the whole time, and while I was setting up
Speaker 1: my shot, he saw her pick up my phone and
Speaker 1: it actually started going through my phone exactly. How could
Speaker 1: he tell that that was your phone from all the
Speaker 1: way back at the bowling desk. No, he said he
Speaker 1: saw her do it five or six times. It only
Speaker 1: did it why my back was turned? Oh what really?
Speaker 1: And you didn't like think to ask her about it
Speaker 1: or anything. It was the first date. If it was
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, cool, we didn't have it out right through
Speaker 1: the day. But the first date, you already going through
Speaker 1: my phone? So you believe this dude that you don't
Speaker 1: know who said she was going through your phone? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hell yeah? I If anything, he was looking out for me,
Speaker 1: if the unwritten rule guys look out for guys. He
Speaker 1: helped me Dutch a bullet. Kay. So, I mean she
Speaker 1: seemed really cool when we talked to her. You don't
Speaker 1: think that there could be another explanation like she accidentally
Speaker 1: picked up your phone instead of hers five or six
Speaker 1: times with my back turn. No, and what she did
Speaker 1: in some straight shady I don't need that in my life.
Speaker 1: I'm curious if she was actually going through your phone though.
Speaker 1: I want to know the answer to that and why
Speaker 1: I don't really know that. I mean she did in
Speaker 1: the first Dame, what do you think will happen on
Speaker 1: the second? Well, I just say that because I want
Speaker 1: to ask her, and I forgot to let you know
Speaker 1: that she's actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Yo,
Speaker 1: no way, Melissa, Melissa still kay, wow, Okay, I thought
Speaker 1: you were. I am not sneaky at all. You got
Speaker 1: it all along that story, his side of the story.
Speaker 1: It is not how it looks. It's not what it
Speaker 1: seems like. Really, So you weren't going through his phone,
Speaker 1: I mean not like that. It's not like I hacked
Speaker 1: into his phone and was looking through every little detail.
Speaker 1: No wait, Melissa, I was like standing up for you.
Speaker 1: You actually were looking at his phone when it's gay Listen.
Speaker 1: I was sitting there, He's bowling his phone buzz loud
Speaker 1: as hell. I just so happened to look over and
Speaker 1: it's right there. I can it's you. I'm not blind.
Speaker 1: I can see what it says. So just leave it there.
Speaker 1: You don't pick it up and then start reading all
Speaker 1: his messages. I just well, I saw I saw a
Speaker 1: name and it looked like a female's name. I think
Speaker 1: it was Sammy or something like that, and I just
Speaker 1: leaned the phone over to see what's The tech said,
Speaker 1: he's the one who has the message right there on
Speaker 1: the screen, and it said are we still on? For
Speaker 1: sce matter? You still picking me up? Something like that?
Speaker 1: Like at nine, like right after our date. It was
Speaker 1: really it was weird. So I was just like, what
Speaker 1: what's that? That was? It was you looking at my messages?
Speaker 1: I mean, but your messages were sitting next to me,
Speaker 1: so I looked over. I wasn't trying to be sneaky
Speaker 1: or anything like we're having a good all right, all right? Cool?
Speaker 1: So all right, so you saw something on my phone?
Speaker 1: Why are you going back to my phone? Against five
Speaker 1: or six times after that picking up my phone? It
Speaker 1: was not It was like two or three times. Why
Speaker 1: are you picking up my phone? That's that's the point
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you. Why are you picking up
Speaker 1: my phone? It kept going off like the whoever that
Speaker 1: girl was, she kept texting you. So I'm just trying, okay,
Speaker 1: wait you the phone monitor or something. No, but me
Speaker 1: and you are on a date, and I want to
Speaker 1: know if you're involved with someone else. I know you're
Speaker 1: really I'm sure you know your own damn reputation, and
Speaker 1: you're shorty. That's none of your business. We're not together. Look,
Speaker 1: you have a reputation. You know your reputation. I know it,
Speaker 1: our friends know it. You're a ladies man, So don't
Speaker 1: act like it's all out of the blue. Why a
Speaker 1: female because I'm sure they've done it in the past,
Speaker 1: looks over and checks your phone, especially if they're on
Speaker 1: a date with you and your phone's just getting blown up.
Speaker 1: I think anybody with you that actually it was my
Speaker 1: phone and you were sitting down and I'm bowling and
Speaker 1: my phone's just going out. Buzz buzz, buzz, buzz buzz.
Speaker 1: You can't tell me you wouldn't look over, like who's
Speaker 1: hitting her up so much? Who wasn't over? It's like, yo, yo,
Speaker 1: do you hear what you're saying right now? All right?
Speaker 1: You know what you say? I would never go through
Speaker 1: somebody's phone. Will we're on a date, a first date
Speaker 1: at that, Well, that's you. I want to know who
Speaker 1: I'm Your craziness and trying to tell me what I'm
Speaker 1: going to do on a date. I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: rationalize it. I think any sane person would do what
Speaker 1: I did, And I'm not like mad that I did it.
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for doing it. I was just
Speaker 1: I wanted to know who you were, what was going
Speaker 1: on with you, And if I talk something suspicious, then
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look into it. I don't really blame her.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's just trying to look out for herself
Speaker 1: a little bit with boy, like buzz buzz buzz buzz
Speaker 1: buz for you, you had two dates planned in the
Speaker 1: same night, ja, I mean yeah, I kind of had
Speaker 1: a point. All right. All right, wait, all right, lookout,
Speaker 1: we about like just squashed all that nonsense. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you this right here. The name that came up
Speaker 1: send me that's a dude. That's a dude, Sammy, really
Speaker 1: guy Sammy. In his phone, it was spelled s A
Speaker 1: m M. I no guy spelled Sammy like that. That's
Speaker 1: a girl, Sammy for a guy. It's Sammy, sweetie. I
Speaker 1: know that. So it wasn't like that in your phone.
Speaker 1: That's a girl. Okay. So all right, so now now
Speaker 1: there's rules to how I had to sell my boy's
Speaker 1: name in my phone Okay, can you get any further
Speaker 1: in my business? Melissa? Why did you even call for
Speaker 1: a second date with this dude if you think that
Speaker 1: he's a player and like planning dates after you? I
Speaker 1: spell thought the date went good, and I asked my friends, like,
Speaker 1: do you guys know anybody knew Sammy? And nobody knew
Speaker 1: a Sammy, So I'm like, maybe it's nothing. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't know that he knew that I looked. I thought
Speaker 1: maybe we got affect the day I just got card. Guys,
Speaker 1: all right, well, Jay, I have to ask this question.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know the answer. I don't know what's
Speaker 1: right and wrong anymore? Jay, would you like to go
Speaker 1: on a second date with Melissa? We will pay for it,
Speaker 1: but really, yeah, yes, I'm asking would you like to
Speaker 1: go out with her again? It sounds like you guys
Speaker 1: have the perfect foundation for a great relationship. Nachi, I'm
Speaker 1: the pass. But if I need to way to check
Speaker 1: my phone messages, I know who to call. I'm sorry, Melissa,
Speaker 1: no second date for you. That's okay, guys, thanks for trying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like it was meant to be. No,
Speaker 1: it's that bad, you know what. I'm actually kind of
Speaker 1: glad this happened, though, I'm I'm dodged a hell of
Speaker 1: a bullet. Man. Yeah, well, good luck to you both. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you guys, ah Man, thank you, and Jay tell Sammy,
Speaker 1: I said, Hi. However you spell her name? Dude, not
Speaker 1: a girl? Text in at seven eight five to nine
Speaker 1: two says who lets their phone out of their sight?
Speaker 1: It's a very good question. Talking about today's second eight
Speaker 1: update if you missed it, Melissa wanted to call this
Speaker 1: dude named Jay. They went bowling, but he wasn't calling
Speaker 1: her back, and we got him on the phone and
Speaker 1: he told us that he didn't think he could trust
Speaker 1: Melissa because as they were closing out their tab, she
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom and the cashier revealed that she
Speaker 1: saw Melissa going through Jay's phone, and she admitted that
Speaker 1: she did look at his phone multiple times while they
Speaker 1: were on the date. She said it was because it
Speaker 1: kept buzzing over and over, and she argued that anybody
Speaker 1: would look at the phone if it was ringing that much. No,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's sketchy. I mean, it's basically on par
Speaker 1: with reading your diary, you know, yeah, pretty much. So
Speaker 1: she was opening his phone and going through it to
Speaker 1: see who was contacting him, come on on a first
Speaker 1: date maybe for still, she still shouldn't do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I trust somebody. So he said no to another date
Speaker 1: because he's not interested in going out with her, because
Speaker 1: it's probably only going to get worse. Yeah. Hey, you
Speaker 1: know what, though, I'm proud that people saw red flags
Speaker 1: and actually paid attention to exact That doesn't happen very
Speaker 1: often in this It's true a lot of times people like, well,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess I kind of understand, and then
Speaker 1: fast forward to like two years later and it's like, dude,
Speaker 1: she's just jealous going through my phone all the time.
Speaker 1: I didn't see it coming, had no idea. Remember, if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second day update, all you
Speaker 1: have to do is email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back.