WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: The Shoe Licker

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<v Speaker 1>now brooking Jewbels Second Dato date. Bowling alleys are a

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<v Speaker 1>great way to go on a date. I often find

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<v Speaker 1>myself hanging around bowling allies all the time, just to

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<v Speaker 1>help women on their form. Yeah, helped correct them. I

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<v Speaker 1>might not even know them. I just come from behind

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<v Speaker 1>him and just go, hey, you throw the ball like this? Sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes he gets slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>I put a bull ball in your face if I

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<v Speaker 1>was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm looking for. And Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone right now. I went to a

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<v Speaker 1>bowling alley on her first date. But now she's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you actually know this guy before you went to

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<v Speaker 1>the bowling alley or did he just show up there

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<v Speaker 1>and do my special trick to meet you? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't. He didn't do your special drink. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know him. I actually met him through from friends. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was the bowling alley the first time you

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<v Speaker 1>actually laid eyes on each other. Yes, it was. We

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<v Speaker 1>text a couple of times, like about where we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to meet and stuff, but that was the first

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<v Speaker 1>time we saw each other. Okay, And what's his name? Jay? Jay?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, and tell us a little bit about the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you're not getting to call back?

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know. Guys, Like the date was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of great or so I thought, like we got there,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a really cool place. It was bowling in beers.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was a good time. Like we were

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<v Speaker 1>cheering each other on. You know, we were bowling. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not that good at bowling, but neither was he. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we were both like kind of like mediocre, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was fun. Okay, Okay, So he wasn't like some extreme

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<v Speaker 1>bowling enthusiasts that would like put you down or not

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<v Speaker 1>date you because you got a couple of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was mad because he was not doing that great

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<v Speaker 1>job himself. I mean, can you remember like a moment

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<v Speaker 1>where you're like, oh, this is really going well. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole date was going really well. But I do

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<v Speaker 1>remember a moment where I was like, Okay, I hope

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like screw this up, Like it just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got a little weird. It got kind of out

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<v Speaker 1>of hand. Weird at a bowling alley can never be good.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were like we were playing, we were bowling around,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. We had took a little break and we

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<v Speaker 1>started talking. We were talking about playing some bets on

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<v Speaker 1>the game, you know, and just like that's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet a dollar you can hit a strike, or

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<v Speaker 1>like I bet at five dollars you can't chug this beer,

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<v Speaker 1>and like less than a minute this and stuff like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds funny. I'm yeah, placeful, and I'm always down

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<v Speaker 1>for a bet, Like I don't back down. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>he bet me too, you know, to lick the inside

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<v Speaker 1>of one of the bowling shoes. Oh my god, well

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<v Speaker 1>are you in like fifth grade? I know. At first

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what the hell, Like did I do this?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see him down, you know, So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like I kind of have to no, please tell

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<v Speaker 1>me you didn't actually do that. I absolutely did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I thought he would think I was cool. We've

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<v Speaker 1>done a lot of second date updates. I've got to say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the filthiest thing I've ever heard happening, don't

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<v Speaker 1>They sprayed them, They sprayed the shoes. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>did it taste like? I think, Okay, now that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say that. I don't know it honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to tasted like a wet sock, like a foggy sock.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bad. I think you're kind of badass for

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's what I was thinking he

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<v Speaker 1>would think. But what did he do after you did it? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was cracking up. He just thought it was the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest thing in the world. I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 1>was laughing with me or at me, like he was

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<v Speaker 1>cracking up. But I don't know. Like he hasn't called me,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't they planned for a second date, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that was it. But then I thought, like I

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, I thought we were having a moment. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys kiss? Okay? So no, I mean we didn't kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>But I where there were moments like when we were

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to leave, he walked me out, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're waiting he caught me an ooper and everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where there were so many moments I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna kiss me. But I'm sure he was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about the shoe, because I was thinking about the shoe, like,

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<v Speaker 1>is he gonna want to kiss me? So you guys

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<v Speaker 1>didn't kiss. No, I didn't get my kids. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>that's out there. He's the one that dared her. He

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<v Speaker 1>dared me exactly if you bring it up and you

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<v Speaker 1>can't handle the actual truth of what happens, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>on you. And have you heard anything from him since

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<v Speaker 1>your date? No? I text him the day after the day,

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<v Speaker 1>just like, you know, hey, what's up. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time last night, thanks for taking me out. Just

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<v Speaker 1>thanking him. I made a little joke about the shoe thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I said something like I used the whole

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<v Speaker 1>Bila list or something. I don't know what I said. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>the shoe licking that did you in? Just listen to yourself. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Like my friend said that he was

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<v Speaker 1>a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it could be like

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<v Speaker 1>seventy percent shoe thirty percent. He's a ladies man. He's

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<v Speaker 1>just like as other girls. Okay, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how many dates I've been where I'm like, if

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<v Speaker 1>I just wouldn't have licked that damn shoe, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have been in this position right now. All Right, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, come back, call him and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, thank you? All right, hang

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning. If you're just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for the second date update, Melissa the Shoe Liquor is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us. Melissa went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy named Jay. They went bowling, They

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<v Speaker 1>had a fun time, and at some point they were

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<v Speaker 1>making bets with each other and he bet her to

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<v Speaker 1>lick a bowling shoe, the inside of a bowling shoe,

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<v Speaker 1>and she did it, And like I said earlier, this

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<v Speaker 1>makes today's second day update the most disgusting in the

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<v Speaker 1>history of second day updates. We've heard a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>really bad things. So she licked the inside of the

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<v Speaker 1>bowling shoe, and she thinks that that's the reason she's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back. Maybe it grossed him out

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Although he did bet her to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't heard from him in a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're about to get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if that is the reason he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back. Melissa, you got the shoe out of your mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready to do this? Yes, it's out of my

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<v Speaker 1>mouth and I'm ready. And I think if that's the

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<v Speaker 1>reason he's not calling you back, it's so unfair because

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<v Speaker 1>guys always say I want a guy's girl, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you give him a guy's girl, and then they decide

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want that. Yeah, I wouldn't even hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, my dude, friends if he did this. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing okay? What's up with you? Not much? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just chilling. I wanted to give you a call because

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<v Speaker 1>we actually received an email about you, about me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's from a girl that you went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with. Are you serious right now? I am. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Melissa. Do you remember going on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Melissa? Oh? Oh yeah, yeah I do. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I figure she'd probably be easy to remember because she

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<v Speaker 1>licked a shoe, a bowling shoe while you guys are out.

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<v Speaker 1>She told you that, Yes she did. We actually talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her about your date, and she's confused because she's

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to get a hold of you for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. But you're not calling her back. Oh yo,

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<v Speaker 1>I could believe she told you about the shoe. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>she did. Hey, I can't believe she admitted to doing

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<v Speaker 1>that either. Man, that was crazy. I would have told

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<v Speaker 1>nobody that you're the one that dared her to lick

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<v Speaker 1>the shoe. You've got to take some responsibility. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell her to tell anybody about it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's something you, you know, take to your grave, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost exited the inside the whole of a bull

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<v Speaker 1>of ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>think Yeah. I think you stopped at the appropriate time.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe actually I think it went too far, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was open to Auntie, but you stopped right there. Wow. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to see her again? Let's just put

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<v Speaker 1>it like this, I date my fishy old lady, and

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<v Speaker 1>certain things are red flags, and I can tell pretty

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<v Speaker 1>easily when I can't and can't trust somebody. Okay, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you say that because what happened at the bullet alley.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't trust her because she licked this sho I

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<v Speaker 1>would think, Hey, if I dared somebody to lick as

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<v Speaker 1>you and they they would have all my trust, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. She had points for that. She was doing

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<v Speaker 1>good up until this other moment that happened and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>changed my entire perspective on him. What happened, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so we would close it out. We're about to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of there, and she ran to the bathroom real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>to ticket shoes and check them back in with the

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<v Speaker 1>front desk. So as i'm dropping the shoes off, the

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<v Speaker 1>cash it guy leans into and say, hey, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that's your girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know, like not yet, you know. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of joking with him, and he was like, well, she

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<v Speaker 1>might be dodging the bollet man. What are you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about so he didn't tells me. He was watching this

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<v Speaker 1>bowl the whole time, and while I was setting up

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<v Speaker 1>my shot, he saw her pick up my phone and

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<v Speaker 1>it actually started going through my phone exactly. How could

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<v Speaker 1>he tell that that was your phone from all the

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<v Speaker 1>way back at the bowling desk. No, he said he

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<v Speaker 1>saw her do it five or six times. It only

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<v Speaker 1>did it why my back was turned? Oh what really?

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<v Speaker 1>And you didn't like think to ask her about it

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. It was the first date. If it was

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend, cool, we didn't have it out right through

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<v Speaker 1>the day. But the first date, you already going through

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<v Speaker 1>my phone? So you believe this dude that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who said she was going through your phone? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah? I If anything, he was looking out for me,

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<v Speaker 1>if the unwritten rule guys look out for guys. He

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<v Speaker 1>helped me Dutch a bullet. Kay. So, I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed really cool when we talked to her. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that there could be another explanation like she accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>picked up your phone instead of hers five or six

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<v Speaker 1>times with my back turn. No, and what she did

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<v Speaker 1>in some straight shady I don't need that in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious if she was actually going through your phone though.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know the answer to that and why

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know that. I mean she did in

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<v Speaker 1>the first Dame, what do you think will happen on

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<v Speaker 1>the second? Well, I just say that because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask her, and I forgot to let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that she's actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>no way, Melissa, Melissa still kay, wow, Okay, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were. I am not sneaky at all. You got

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<v Speaker 1>it all along that story, his side of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not how it looks. It's not what it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like. Really, So you weren't going through his phone,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not like that. It's not like I hacked

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<v Speaker 1>into his phone and was looking through every little detail.

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<v Speaker 1>No wait, Melissa, I was like standing up for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually were looking at his phone when it's gay Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting there, He's bowling his phone buzz loud

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<v Speaker 1>as hell. I just so happened to look over and

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<v Speaker 1>it's right there. I can it's you. I'm not blind.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see what it says. So just leave it there.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't pick it up and then start reading all

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<v Speaker 1>his messages. I just well, I saw I saw a

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<v Speaker 1>name and it looked like a female's name. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was Sammy or something like that, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>leaned the phone over to see what's The tech said,

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<v Speaker 1>he's the one who has the message right there on

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<v Speaker 1>the screen, and it said are we still on? For

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<v Speaker 1>sce matter? You still picking me up? Something like that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like at nine, like right after our date. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really it was weird. So I was just like, what

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<v Speaker 1>what's that? That was? It was you looking at my messages?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but your messages were sitting next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>so I looked over. I wasn't trying to be sneaky

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like we're having a good all right, all right? Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, so you saw something on my phone?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you going back to my phone? Against five

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<v Speaker 1>or six times after that picking up my phone? It

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<v Speaker 1>was not It was like two or three times. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you picking up my phone? That's that's the point

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to get you. Why are you picking up

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<v Speaker 1>my phone? It kept going off like the whoever that

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<v Speaker 1>girl was, she kept texting you. So I'm just trying, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>wait you the phone monitor or something. No, but me

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<v Speaker 1>and you are on a date, and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know if you're involved with someone else. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>really I'm sure you know your own damn reputation, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're shorty. That's none of your business. We're not together. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a reputation. You know your reputation. I know it,

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<v Speaker 1>our friends know it. You're a ladies man, So don't

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<v Speaker 1>act like it's all out of the blue. Why a

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<v Speaker 1>female because I'm sure they've done it in the past,

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<v Speaker 1>looks over and checks your phone, especially if they're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you and your phone's just getting blown up.

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<v Speaker 1>I think anybody with you that actually it was my

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<v Speaker 1>phone and you were sitting down and I'm bowling and

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<v Speaker 1>my phone's just going out. Buzz buzz, buzz, buzz buzz.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell me you wouldn't look over, like who's

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<v Speaker 1>hitting her up so much? Who wasn't over? It's like, yo, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>do you hear what you're saying right now? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you say? I would never go through

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's phone. Will we're on a date, a first date

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<v Speaker 1>at that, Well, that's you. I want to know who

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Your craziness and trying to tell me what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to do on a date. I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>rationalize it. I think any sane person would do what

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<v Speaker 1>I did, And I'm not like mad that I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel bad for doing it. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know who you were, what was going

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<v Speaker 1>on with you, And if I talk something suspicious, then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna look into it. I don't really blame her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's just trying to look out for herself

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit with boy, like buzz buzz buzz buzz

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<v Speaker 1>buz for you, you had two dates planned in the

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<v Speaker 1>same night, ja, I mean yeah, I kind of had

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<v Speaker 1>a point. All right. All right, wait, all right, lookout,

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<v Speaker 1>we about like just squashed all that nonsense. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you this right here. The name that came up

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<v Speaker 1>send me that's a dude. That's a dude, Sammy, really

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<v Speaker 1>guy Sammy. In his phone, it was spelled s A

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<v Speaker 1>m M. I no guy spelled Sammy like that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, Sammy for a guy. It's Sammy, sweetie. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that. So it wasn't like that in your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a girl. Okay. So all right, so now now

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<v Speaker 1>there's rules to how I had to sell my boy's

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<v Speaker 1>name in my phone Okay, can you get any further

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<v Speaker 1>in my business? Melissa? Why did you even call for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with this dude if you think that

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<v Speaker 1>he's a player and like planning dates after you? I

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<v Speaker 1>spell thought the date went good, and I asked my friends, like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys know anybody knew Sammy? And nobody knew

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<v Speaker 1>a Sammy, So I'm like, maybe it's nothing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that he knew that I looked. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we got affect the day I just got card. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well, Jay, I have to ask this question.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I don't know the answer. I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 1>right and wrong anymore? Jay, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Melissa? We will pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>but really, yeah, yes, I'm asking would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again? It sounds like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have the perfect foundation for a great relationship. Nachi, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the pass. But if I need to way to check

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<v Speaker 1>my phone messages, I know who to call. I'm sorry, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>no second date for you. That's okay, guys, thanks for trying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't sound like it was meant to be. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's that bad, you know what. I'm actually kind of

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<v Speaker 1>glad this happened, though, I'm I'm dodged a hell of

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<v Speaker 1>a bullet. Man. Yeah, well, good luck to you both. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys, ah Man, thank you, and Jay tell Sammy,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Hi. However you spell her name? Dude, not

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<v Speaker 1>a girl? Text in at seven eight five to nine

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<v Speaker 1>two says who lets their phone out of their sight?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very good question. Talking about today's second eight

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<v Speaker 1>update if you missed it, Melissa wanted to call this

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jay. They went bowling, but he wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back, and we got him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>he told us that he didn't think he could trust

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa because as they were closing out their tab, she

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<v Speaker 1>went to the bathroom and the cashier revealed that she

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<v Speaker 1>saw Melissa going through Jay's phone, and she admitted that

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<v Speaker 1>she did look at his phone multiple times while they

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<v Speaker 1>were on the date. She said it was because it

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<v Speaker 1>kept buzzing over and over, and she argued that anybody

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<v Speaker 1>would look at the phone if it was ringing that much. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, that's sketchy. I mean, it's basically on par

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<v Speaker 1>with reading your diary, you know, yeah, pretty much. So

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<v Speaker 1>she was opening his phone and going through it to

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<v Speaker 1>see who was contacting him, come on on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date maybe for still, she still shouldn't do it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I trust somebody. So he said no to another date

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<v Speaker 1>because he's not interested in going out with her, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably only going to get worse. Yeah. Hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, though, I'm proud that people saw red flags

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<v Speaker 1>and actually paid attention to exact That doesn't happen very

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<v Speaker 1>often in this It's true a lot of times people like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess I kind of understand, and then

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<v Speaker 1>fast forward to like two years later and it's like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just jealous going through my phone all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see it coming, had no idea. Remember, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second day update, all you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.