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Speaker 1: Sometimes he gets slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.

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Speaker 1: getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi? How are you?

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Speaker 1: Did you actually know this guy before you went to

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Speaker 1: Why do you think you're not getting to call back?

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Speaker 1: I honestly don't know. Guys, Like the date was kind

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Speaker 1: So we were like we were playing, we were bowling around,

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Speaker 1: are you in like fifth grade? I know. At first

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Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell, Like did I do this?

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Speaker 1: They sprayed them, They sprayed the shoes. You know what

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Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. If you're just tuning in

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Speaker 1: for the second date update, Melissa the Shoe Liquor is

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Speaker 1: You're ready to do this? Yes, it's out of my

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Speaker 1: they don't want that. Yeah, I wouldn't even hang out

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From

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Speaker 1: the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing okay? What's up with you? Not much? I'm

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Speaker 1: we actually received an email about you, about me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's from a girl that you went out on a

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Speaker 1: name is Melissa. Do you remember going on a date

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Speaker 1: with Melissa? Oh? Oh yeah, yeah I do. All right,

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Speaker 1: I figure she'd probably be easy to remember because she

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Speaker 1: She told you that, Yes she did. We actually talked

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Speaker 1: I could believe she told you about the shoe. Yeah

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Speaker 1: it like this, I date my fishy old lady, and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do

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Speaker 1: it actually started going through my phone exactly. How could

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah? I If anything, he was looking out for me,

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Speaker 1: you're shorty. That's none of your business. We're not together. Look,

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