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Speaker 1: Start first? Go ahead, motowns we we my older brother

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Speaker 1: We've already spoke today. To take my time and speak

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Speaker 1: come on now, sit down, watch the game. This is

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Speaker 1: his time to show. But you can't tell your mama that.

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Speaker 1: How do you say that to your mama? But you

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Speaker 1: can't say that to your mama. You just can't. You

424
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: just can't say, go sit your lebron did out of game.

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Speaker 1: He did with the fatal point. He did sit down. Yeah, well, tonight,

426
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: light skin will take over tonight. Oh my gosh, it

427
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: will be done tonight tonight. There's too many light skame boy,

428
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Speaker 1: was that there? Fun? It's just too ain't over tonight. Yeah,

429
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Speaker 1: it's gonna get real ugly. Oh yeah, it's gonna get

430
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Speaker 1: real ugly. If the Cows and the Records can win

431
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: this game tonight, it'll be ugly. Can get this thing

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Speaker 1: out of Oakley. Let me tell you some you can't

433
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: come back to Cleveland. Yeah, it's a wrap and then

434
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Speaker 1: see if they lose tonight, all the pressures on Gold

435
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: is oh yeah, because oh god, we don't want to

436
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Speaker 1: get back on this plane and go back up to Cleveland.

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00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: Cleveland gonna be going. Man, We're going home. It's a

438
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Speaker 1: whole another story. And if they can win this game tonight,

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Speaker 1: well look, I know it's improbable. I got it. But Lord,

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00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: if we do, Lord, if we do, these things are

441
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Speaker 1: asking your name, all right, bring her up. Steve is here,

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, ms and trip, thank you, thank you,

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Speaker 1: Good morning. That's right. It's it's possible, not probably, what

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Speaker 1: it is possible, so we can cross our thing. Is

445
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: everybody out there? Good morning, everybody. This is answered with

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Speaker 1: the news. California Democratic Center Diane fine Stein on CNN

447
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Speaker 1: State of the Union is calling again for the jew

448
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: Judiciary Committee to hear testimony involving claims of possible obstruction

449
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: of justice by President Trump. There is an opportunity to

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Speaker 1: look at the law with respect to obstruction of justice,

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Speaker 1: to hold a hearing and also to have um those

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Speaker 1: relevant people come before the Judiciary Committee. Of course, Center

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Speaker 1: find Scenes comment has come on the wake of fired

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Speaker 1: FBI Director James call Mey's testimony last week before the

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Speaker 1: Senate Intelligence Committee, raising questions of possible obstruction by the

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Speaker 1: President and now U S. Attorney General Jeff's Sessions is

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Speaker 1: scheduled to testify before the Senate Intelligence Committee tomorrow. I'm

458
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Speaker 1: gonna laugh. Meanwhile, Trump is expected to announced that if

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Speaker 1: he really has those tapes of his conversations with James Comey,

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Speaker 1: or if he was just saying that just I don't know,

461
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Speaker 1: shake up the tree, or whatever he might have been doing,

462
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: we'll see sometime this week. Okay. The Reverend Jesse Jackson

463
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: slamming the NFL for refusing to hire Colin Kaepernick, not

464
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Speaker 1: even as a backup quarterback. Kaepernick, of course, you remember,

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Speaker 1: opted out of his contract with the forty nine, is

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Speaker 1: becoming a free agent. Chose that he's in't choosing rather

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Speaker 1: to kneel during the playing of the national anthem to

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Speaker 1: demonstrate his ire and sadness about the ever growing number

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Speaker 1: of unarmed, mostly black men, but also black women, who

470
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: were being killed, mostly by black white cops who were

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Speaker 1: getting off when they went to court. If they went

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Speaker 1: to Court. Interracial marriage became legal in the US fifty

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Speaker 1: years ago today, when a white man named Richard Loving

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Speaker 1: and his black wife Mildred, forced to leave their native Virginia,

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Speaker 1: fought for the right to live wherever they wanted as

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Speaker 1: man and wife before the Supreme Court. Before the Loving's case,

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Speaker 1: marriage in this country was prohibited, and at least a

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Speaker 1: third of the states not just between blacks and whites,

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Speaker 1: but between blacks, between whites and Filipinos, Native Americans, Asians,

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Speaker 1: Asian Indians, and basically all non whites. Nick Gordon's in

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Speaker 1: the news again. Nick Gordon, the adopted brother and boyfriend

482
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Speaker 1: of the late Bobby Christina Brown, has been arrested for

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Speaker 1: allegedly beating up his new girlfriend over the weekend in

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Speaker 1: a jealous rage. Hopson and Sanford, Florida say Gordon and

485
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Speaker 1: his lady friend, Laura Leo got into an argument that

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Speaker 1: turned violent, ending up with Gordon allegurely hitting and punching

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Speaker 1: the woman in the facing in the back of the head.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he says he was abused by her, but

489
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Speaker 1: the cops saw the injuries until her to go to

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Speaker 1: the hospital and sad news. Yeah. Adam West, Adam West

491
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: perhaps best remembered for his TV series portrayal of Batman.

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00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: He was eighty eight years old. Tom said the box

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Speaker 1: office for the second weekend and rowe Wonder Woman bringing

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Speaker 1: in another fifty seven million dollars. Wonder Woman has now

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00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 1: made a whopping four to thirty five million dollars globally.

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Speaker 1: Tom Cruise is new. When the Mummy was in second

497
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Speaker 1: place thirty two million, but he made over a hundred

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Speaker 1: forty eight million worldwide, especially in China. Today is National

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Speaker 1: Running Day, National June Bug Day, which I'm a june Bug,

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Speaker 1: and National Chocolate ice Cream Day Janka Chocka Chacka Day.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back with Eugene the Butterfly twenty minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Stay to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Show. Good. Yeah, really does look a

504
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: lot like him, alright, so, Mr Harvey. Last night was

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00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: the season premiere of Celebrity Family Feud and That's not

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Speaker 1: all you own the night, sir. It was also the

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Speaker 1: premiere of Steve Harvey's Funderdome This Yeah, this is the

508
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,720
Speaker 1: seed funding competition reality series were two up and coming

509
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: inventors go head to head an audience vote who will

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Speaker 1: win the money. Okay, the show was fun, it was

511
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 1: clever Steve. There were a lot of winners that we

512
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Speaker 1: didn't see coming. For example, during the soap bar pitches,

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00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: listen to Latania make her pitch for the v smart bar.

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00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: It's an all natural feminine care product. Check it out.

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00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: Nearly ladies will experience yeast affection, urinary track infection, and

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Speaker 1: possibly owner. Okay, brothers, now we know when a cookie

517
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Speaker 1: of shed down, the whole house is down. I know.

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Speaker 1: If you didn't see the show last night, I hope

519
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: you did because you missed Steve Harvey's face. This was

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00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: classic Steve Harvey anyway you look at it. Steve, you

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00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 1: were mortified at that moment. So you don't know who's

522
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: coming out before I do. I just need him for

523
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Speaker 1: the first time, and the audience decides who gets the funding.

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Speaker 1: You have a choice at the end. You don't know

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Speaker 1: who the audience voted for. Five people in that what

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Speaker 1: I paid, You don't know who they voted for. So

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Speaker 1: I'll give you a chance to cash out. Offer you

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Speaker 1: money on this week and you could take the money

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Speaker 1: and walk away, or you can't. They voted for you.

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Speaker 1: If they voted for you and the money. If they

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Speaker 1: didn't vote for you, you go home with nothing. So

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00:39:55,480 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: it was well, yeah, run it was right, Jay. She

533
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: was two soap contenders. LaToya was one, and there was

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Speaker 1: a son and a mom contesting for the other soap

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Speaker 1: um thing pitch. So anyway, when Steve offered them the

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Speaker 1: chance to cash out, the guys on the other team

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00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: cashed out because they said they like Latania's products. Because

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00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: the young man said, my girlfriend needs that. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll cash out because my girlfriend needs that. All right,

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00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: Latania one, she won ten thousand dollars for her products. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she gave a pitch. You tell ABC Trials dot Com

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Speaker 1: how much money you're looking to take your business to

543
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Speaker 1: the next level. Some people looking for ten thousand, twenty thousand,

544
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Speaker 1: fifty hundred. You apply. We put the two together. That's

545
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Speaker 1: looking for the same amount of money, but pitching in

546
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Speaker 1: the same area. And then that's how it works, O lord. Alright,

547
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: coming up next, Jay, Anthony Brown is going to murder

548
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: another hit. Yes, so we'll be back at after you're listening. Alright, Steve,

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Speaker 1: introduce your boy, ladies and gentlemen. As you hired him certainly,

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00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: thank you. Alright. First of all, I got in to

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00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: my little plug. It's going down this weekend the o

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00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: GS of Comedy, Houston, Texas, George Wallace, Dancy's DC care

553
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: usually and Hope Flood. Okay, sounds like a great show.

554
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:49,919
Speaker 1: And the Arena in Houston this weekend the Arena Theater. Yeah,

555
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: anyway here it is you worse than Tommy. We're not

556
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: no what. Call somebody who lives in Houston and tell

557
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Speaker 1: them that we come in. Don't try to trash my dream.

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00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: We make a phone called Cinete. Here we go. It's

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Speaker 1: about a stale. Is that how you're saying her name?

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00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: Her song was Conqueror. It's a great song. This song

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00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: that's coming up ain't knit like that. It's called it's

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Speaker 1: called Snorer. We all know somebody here we go to

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Speaker 1: am I tiptoe in the house. It's time to lay

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00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: down down. Don't gotta guess. I here exactly where you

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Speaker 1: are on I brought in the bit babies, not that

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Speaker 1: trying to go to sleep. Hi TV left on it

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Speaker 1: like you're bothered by the sound. You're loud, mowake, You've

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00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: got slip on your face. I should wake your ass up.

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Speaker 1: I guess leave that on with you next week. My

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Speaker 1: wom was a story run. I never sleep peacefully sound

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Speaker 1: like a change song that's happened now tree? My wi

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Speaker 1: was a story run. Yes she is a snow or snore.

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Speaker 1: I can't sleave that all? Would you know me? My

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Speaker 1: woman the store run, I never sleep peacefully sound like

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Speaker 1: a chainsaw tapping down tree. My woman's a store run.

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00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: Yes she is a snore, room snore. Fine, but that

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Speaker 1: she person just but man, she shut them eyes. It's over.

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00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: How could you be that fine? And makes sounds like

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Speaker 1: that the first time you hear you like, but you're

580
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 1: so You're so pretty? How did you do that? A

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Speaker 1: new one Friday for your emergency hit? Thank you, Mr

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Speaker 1: Hay see you there? What's wrong? I mean, I don't

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Speaker 1: know the song. Ain't no nothing to do. You have

584
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: to watch to watch the Empire? It was. It was

585
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: a hit. It Empire. I ain't never seen it. Wow, Wow,

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Speaker 1: let's just get Yeah, a single episode come up coming

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Speaker 1: up next, Nephew, tell me is a prank phone call.

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00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: It's coming up right after this. You're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, crazy show, all right, it's

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Speaker 1: time for the prank phone call. This one's called I'm

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Speaker 1: marrying your baby meeting I'm marrying your bed and listen

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00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,400
Speaker 1: up for the strawberry letter too, it's coming up. The

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Speaker 1: subject to that is she was determined to have my child.

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00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: But here's the prank phone called it the nephew. Hello. Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to read. I'm trying to read. Mr. Yes, Mr,

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Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm trying. Let me let me make

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Speaker 1: you I'm calling the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got the right Hey. Listen, well, I wanted to

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Speaker 1: do Mr Ridgard called and introduce myself to you and

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Speaker 1: let you know who I was. My name is Jeff Jell,

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Speaker 1: and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh you know, pretty

602
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: much like the last five or six months, and I

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00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: wanted to, um, let you know that I'm very very

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Speaker 1: interested in and and I know it's kind of crazy

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Speaker 1: for you to get a phone call for me, but

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Speaker 1: I'm very interested in in Crystal right now, and I

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Speaker 1: wanted to, you know, I just wanted to do the

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Speaker 1: man thing and just reach out to your man and

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Speaker 1: say I'm really interested in and uh in marrying your

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Speaker 1: daughter and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what

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Speaker 1: what what do you say? Your name of you? My

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Speaker 1: name is Jell Jell. Okay, ye, Jef listen. I'm very

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Speaker 1: close with my daughter and my daughter has never ever

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Speaker 1: mentioned you. I talk to my daughter every day. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what de's about. But it's been like

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Speaker 1: about five close to six months that me and Cristal

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Speaker 1: being you know, going out, you know, up here at

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Speaker 1: the school. But what I wanted to do is tell

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Speaker 1: you that I really really really like Crystal. Man. Uh

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Speaker 1: and I want to call and tell you that, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm really really interested in May and Crystal. You know,

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Speaker 1: I want, I really do want Cristal to be my wife. Well,

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Speaker 1: I again, I've never heard you before, and my daughter

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Speaker 1: has never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't dating anybody

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00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 1: right now. My daughter doesn't go school. I understand that.

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Speaker 1: And you know, we you know, it's been you know,

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Speaker 1: we've been you know, a little back and forth or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But you know, the main thing is me and Crystal really,

629
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: you know, we really we really do love each other. Mr.

630
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: And I wanna if you love my daughter, she would

631
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: have told me and she was in love with someone.

632
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: But you know what you know, and maybe it's a

633
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: situation where Christal is like a little maybe a little

634
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: uneasy about talking to you about it. You know what

635
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying, My can talk to me about anything. We

636
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: talk every day, right right, you like you I out

637
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: to my daughter every day, your daughter? And how old

638
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: is your daughter? My daughter? Fifteen? Hold? Hold, hold on

639
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: a minute, man, you said your daughter was fIF team

640
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 1: right right? Right? Okay, Well how old are you? I'm

641
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: forty six, forty six, forty six years old. You want

642
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: to man my twenty five year old daughter? A let

643
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 1: me say this right here. Love ain't got no limit, man,

644
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 1: And I understand you know, I was a little shocked

645
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: at first about the age difference between us, but you

646
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: get you know what, man, Okay, and I understand that.

647
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to explain to you, man, is

648
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 1: that it comes a time man when you just you

649
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: just don't know what's gonna happen. Man. Love just love

650
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,240
Speaker 1: is love. Man, And you've been locked up on parole

651
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: at the university on work releasing that my daughter. Yeah, man,

652
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm I'm gonna say this, man, Christal is

653
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: just a beautiful person. Man. Hold on, man, you all

654
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: of me at the Blue Daughter. Look, man, I'll never work.

655
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: I got a lot of work on my damn death.

656
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: And you're calling me telling me you uh uh former

657
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,399
Speaker 1: gentle bird wants to marry my daughter, my twenty five

658
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 1: year old daughter, and you damn that fifty you damn

659
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: it my age. You want to marry my daughter. Man,

660
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to talk to you. But what I

661
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: don't even do is I need to talk to Crystals.

662
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: Get to the bottom of this. That's what the hell

663
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: I need to do. Hey, I don't understand that. Mr.

664
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: She was probably going I want to talk to and

665
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with it. What I'm trying

666
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: to explain to you is that man, little ain't got

667
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: no limit. Man, It's just something that happened. Crystal love me,

668
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: I love huh and and it is what it is.

669
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: I just wanted to try to get your blessings on this.

670
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 1: Love Si Man, he get burn gonna marry my daughter. No,

671
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: my daughter been a private school. I love damn life.

672
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 1: She was on the do just all four years of

673
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: college and she's going to grad school and you're gonna

674
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: marry my daughter. She was You're working lea. Hey, Mr,

675
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 1: I understand that what I'm what I'm trying to explain

676
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: to you that you know what man is outside I

677
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: love is right the second time around? You understand what

678
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying. What the hell you mean a second time?

679
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: I got kids already. What I'm trying to say is

680
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,439
Speaker 1: it didn't work out with me on the first time.

681
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 1: What I wanted to do, man, it just called you.

682
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: It's solidified the culinary experienced doing. Dude, what the hell

683
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: is you talking about it? Look? Look, look, look, look,

684
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: I gotta talk to my daughter. I'm gonna call Crystal

685
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna find on what the hell is going

686
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: on because look, man, I'm not even trying to have

687
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: this conversation with you, and I understand all that. I

688
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. What I want to say to

689
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: you is just right here. Crystal is twenty five. Even

690
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: if you don't agree with this, here, we're gonna eat

691
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: low and make sure that we can look at him.

692
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 1: You ain't doing with my daughter unless it's mine. Look, yeah, man,

693
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: you ain't doing I don't even know your Jill bird.

694
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: You ain't doing. I'm gonna call my daughter final you

695
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,280
Speaker 1: will as lost your mind. You think your old jail

696
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:07,359
Speaker 1: bird is gonna be marry and my daughter, My daughter

697
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 1: has not a future. You ain't got that's wrong with

698
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: rust mind. I'm not gonna sit there and go back

699
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: and forth with you, Mrs Me and Crystal getting married.

700
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: That will not happen under any circumstances, not what you think.

701
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 1: The circumstances are me and Crystal getting married. That's it.

702
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: Not the love. I know what you think. You as

703
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: long to you, how about what that's gotta be. I

704
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: got one more thing I need to say, and then

705
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: me and Crystal just gonna come over there and dry

706
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 1: down there and tell you exactly what's going on in

707
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: our life right now. You got to say to me,

708
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? What you got to say

709
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,240
Speaker 1: to me? I got to say this. That is nephew

710
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

711
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 1: pranked by your daughter, Crystal and her boyfriend. I ain't

712
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 1: the job looking at me like I'm crazy. Man, Your

713
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: baby girl just wanted to put a smile on your face. Man,

714
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you what he is. What is the

715
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

716
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:33,959
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Oh, he's gonna get it one day soon.

717
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: Holding me, I'd have been the gun. Come on, uncle Steve, Hey,

718
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: listen our girl, Mary J. Blige Um. Mary was ordered

719
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 1: to pay thirty thousand dollars per month and spiles the

720
00:53:49,960 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 1: support to her cheating ex husband. What the judgment is

721
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: temporary and it's much less than nine plus a thousand

722
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: that kind originally asked for. The court apparently found that

723
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: he was entitled to the money since he was used

724
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 1: to a certain lifestyle. Mary J. Will also have to

725
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: cough up retroactive spiles of support dating back to September

726
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: and attorney's fees. Dang, does she look kind of lawyer?

727
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: The judge was also uh. Judge also was noted that

728
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: the couple lived beyond their means while they were married

729
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: and have to pay back millions in taxes. Oh, she

730
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: could pay taxes if she didn't have to pay this

731
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 1: child spousal support. Anybody having to pay money? Take my

732
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: mic out. Yeah, this is not right. It's just isn't

733
00:54:53,840 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: this situation? He had a good attorney apparently, you know,

734
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 1: mm hmmm, I don't know. I mean, he's gotta pay

735
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: retroactive sponsible support dating back to September, and she's got

736
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 1: to pay his attorneys fees. This is not right. This

737
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: is just not right now. Is it not right because

738
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: it's a woman or yes, yes, yes I paid. We

739
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: speak on it. But you know, I think because it

740
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,959
Speaker 1: is a woman, that it just reeks of unfairness. I guess, yeah,

741
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:38,399
Speaker 1: you know, And I can understand what people are coming from.

742
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: Good for the goose, and because we love Mary j

743
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,879
Speaker 1: you know, we love we love her. We don't want

744
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: her to have to go through you know. Me as

745
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 1: a guy, you know, I just get going, you know. Yeah, alright,

746
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,800
Speaker 1: coming up the Strawberry Letters subject she was determined to

747
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: have my child. We'll be back. You're listening to the

748
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show. Jears come women to the honors. Absolutely, everybody,

749
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 1: sit back, book up tight. It's time for the Strawberry

750
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: Letter with my girls. Sure to straw Berry thank you.

751
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: Subject she was determined to have my child. Dear Stephen Shirley.

752
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: Three years ago, I decided I was going to leave

753
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 1: my wife because she had some addiction issues. Prior to

754
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: leaving my wife, I'm met a lady at a business convention.

755
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: She was like a breath of fresh air, and we

756
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: got along great. I ended up leaving my wife and

757
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: moving in with her. The only problem was a moment

758
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 1: I got there, she wanted to have a child. I

759
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 1: told her that it was too soon, but she wouldn't

760
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: take no for an answer. After a few months of

761
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: being with her, my wife begged me to come home

762
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 1: and she promised that she was sober. I returned home,

763
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: and my wife has been sober since. Shortly after I

764
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 1: got back with my wife, I got a text from

765
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: the other woman and was a picture of a positive

766
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 1: pregnancy test. I replied, congratulations, and she texted back, it's yours.

767
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 1: We never had sex without a condom, and I know

768
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: they never popped. So I asked her how could she

769
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: be pregnant by me, and she replied. I did what

770
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: I had to do despite my confusion. I was there

771
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: for her throughout the pregnancy. After the baby was born,

772
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: I knew he was mine. I confirmed it with a

773
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: d n A test. I love this child and I

774
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: spend time with him, but I have a lot of resentment.

775
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: I still can't see how this happened, and she won't

776
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: talk about it. I've never told anyone that she stole

777
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: my sperm. I am very angry about this. Is there

778
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 1: some legal action that I can take against her? This

779
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: is killing me inside? Please help? Wow. Well, first of all,

780
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: I have to say to your wife, she has one understanding,

781
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: uh woman, and I hope she stays sober. But um, listen,

782
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: I know you're angry. I know you're hurt. I know

783
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: you feel betray set up, etcetera, etcetera. But but there

784
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: is a baby involved here. There's a baby that's been

785
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: born here, and that's what's most important right now and

786
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: for the next eighteen years and beyond um. And you know,

787
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: come on, you're grown. You know that abstinence is the

788
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: only sure way not to get pregnant. And yeah, yeah, yeah,

789
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: she tricked you, she played you, she used you, she

790
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: stole your sperm. All of that. She was wrong, She

791
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: was deceitful. She was evil for doing this. I mean

792
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: really she was. But you had all kinds of clues

793
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: that this could possibly happen the moment you moved in.

794
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 1: You said that she kept bugging you about having a child. Uh.

795
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: And it takes two to make a baby, I mean,

796
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: no matter how you look at it, and no matter

797
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: how the baby got here. In a court of law,

798
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: the judge will consider the best interest of the child.

799
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: I mean, and so should you at this point. As

800
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 1: angry as you are with this woman, she is now

801
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: the mother of your child, a child who is innocent,

802
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: a child who needs both their parents, A child that

803
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: you love and take care of. I commend you for that.

804
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: So you're going to have to be an adult here.

805
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to move out of your feelings. You're

806
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: going to have to learn how to forgive so you

807
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: can be the best father to your child. Steve, Steve, Oh,

808
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: we obviously read two different women. Mm hmm. I see

809
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: what you're saying. From the practical standpoint, surely, uh huh.

810
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: I do not understand how his wife is an understanding woman.

811
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: He left her because she was a junkie. Junkies get

812
00:59:55,720 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: lim of addiction issues. This is what he said. You

813
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: call it whatever you want to. I'm calling it what

814
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: he called it. Her air was a junkie. He didn't

815
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 1: he didn't want to live with your junk in normal.

816
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: So it went on the business trip and he met

817
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: this woman. Yeah, she was like a breath of fresh air.

818
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: You know what that fresh air was. She wasn't a junkie.

819
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: We got along grade. I ended up leaving my wife

820
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 1: and moving in with her. Now he had four probably forewarned.

821
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 1: His wife said, if you don't get some help on

822
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: my hand to leave, I can't. She never got help.

823
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: He left, but he met this woman at a business convention.

824
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: He don't say how long it was, but she moved in.

825
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 1: He moved in with her. The only problem was the

826
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: moment he got there. Man, she wanted to have a child,

827
01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: and our toy it was too soon. She wanted to

828
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 1: have a child. Now. You didn't think she wanted nothing

829
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: when you moved in. You thought you're just gonna move

830
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:14,919
Speaker 1: all your stuff in. There ain't no rid, nothing, you're

831
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 1: not eating for up at refrigerator. You're laying in bed,

832
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: all that nothing. She wanted a baby. She'd been wanting

833
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: the baby a long time. She didn't mention your business man,

834
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: you have to convention. You it. You are gonna be

835
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: the sperm donor. So you did what you had to do. Now,

836
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: after a few months of being with her, your wife

837
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: begged me to come home, and she promised she was soaper.

838
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: M hmm. You returned home because you love your wife

839
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: and your wife being sober ever since. Well after you

840
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: got back with the wife, you got a text from

841
01:01:56,040 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 1: the other woman picture of a positive pregnancy test. You replied, congratulations.

842
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: She text back and says, yours. Why was she sending

843
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: you the picture or the pregnancy? Tell what are you

844
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: talking about? Some damn congratulate You thought you throw her off?

845
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: I'm happy was gonna throw her off with congratulations. Click

846
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 1: in the text. You're gonna get another damn text if

847
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 1: she yours. We never had sex without a condom, and

848
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: I know they never popped. Mm hmm. I asked her

849
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: how she could be pregnant me. She said, I did

850
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: what I had to do. This is the key in

851
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: this whole thing. I did what I had to do.

852
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: Now let's talk about what she did. Let me ask

853
01:02:54,800 --> 01:03:00,080
Speaker 1: you something, homie. When you was through, what happened and

854
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: with the condom? Now have your attention please? Mm hmm.

855
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: What happened? No, no, no, she didn't steal them. He

856
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: gave it to her. Now what happened to the Also,

857
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: there's some other things that popped off to mm hmm.

858
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 1: I could be more graphic, but I'm not. She got it.

859
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: You turned to DNA tests. It's your damn baby. What

860
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: what is the letter? Fall m is anything legal? I

861
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: tell you what you can do when we come back

862
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 1: and ain't much of nothing. You can stick around if

863
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: you want her. You can gonna hang up, get to

864
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: sit in that child support on what I'm talking about.

865
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: You're listening, Steve Harvey. All right, coming up at forty

866
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: one after the At forty one after the hour, we'll

867
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,959
Speaker 1: talk about ice Cube's appearance on Bill mar this past day,

868
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 1: after all that controversy last week. But up next, right now,

869
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: I should say, come on, Steve, Part two of your

870
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: response to today's Strawberry letter. She was determined, was determined

871
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: to have my job. Had some problems with his woman.

872
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,439
Speaker 1: He's married to a junk and she couldn't. He kept

873
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: getting high, he said, he keep on, I'm gonna leave you.

874
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: He left. Met a woman at a business convention. They corroborated,

875
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 1: collaborated and corrobor reading together. He then moved in. As

876
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: soon as he got in, she made an announcement she

877
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: won't to have a child right now. He said, too soon.

878
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 1: His wife, in the meantime sobers up, calls him back

879
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 1: and tells him she wants him back, and benched him back,

880
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 1: and he loves his wife. He goes back. He went

881
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: back because he was tired of the baby pressure. I'd

882
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: rather go stay with the junking than to be in

883
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: here to keep talking about this baby every day. But

884
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: you're doing baby making things the whole time you there.

885
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 1: She putting it on you. You accepted. After he gets

886
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: back to his wife, she's very sober. It's the call

887
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: from the woman sends a text a picture of a

888
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: positive pregnancy test. I replied, congratulations, thinking that would shut

889
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 1: it down. I'm happy for you, She said, it's yours.

890
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 1: Never had sex without a condom. I know they never popped.

891
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: So I asked her how could she be pregnant by me?

892
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: And she replied I did what I had to do

893
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: that Despite the confusion, he was there for her throughout

894
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 1: the pregnancy. After the baby was born, I knew he

895
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 1: was mine. I confirmed it with the DNA tests. I

896
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 1: love this child. I spend time with him, but I

897
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: have a lot of resentment. I can't see how this happened,

898
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: but she won't talk about it. I never told anybody

899
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: she stole my sperm. You gave it to her. Question

900
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: no more one, what happened with the condom when it

901
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: was over. Question number two, did she do other things

902
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:21,440
Speaker 1: to you? Oh? Man, if she did, there you have

903
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: it's everywhere. Okay, everybody following me. Answer. So now she

904
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: kept hold to it in her hands and in another place,

905
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 1: she went to the bathroom and put it where it

906
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: needed to be. You can stop asking her how she

907
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: did it. She told you she did what she had

908
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: to do because she wanted a baby, and you it

909
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: now the kids. You love the child, and you spend

910
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: time with him. Problem is you have a lot of resentment.

911
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: You're mad at her. She won't talk about it, give

912
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: you no answers. She's not going to so dog, your

913
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: question is is there some legal action I can take? Hell? No,

914
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how you're gonna go to court and explain,

915
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 1: because all she got to do is say I'm pregnant

916
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 1: and his head and we had consensual sex. And what

917
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna say, it's yours. The DNA proved it. See dog.

918
01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: The thing about seeing that I've had to learn in

919
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: my life it costs you more than you want to

920
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: pay and make you stay longer than you want to stay.

921
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: That's the problem with it. Oh, don't we all who

922
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: in here can't bear witness to that sin cost you

923
01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 1: more than you want to pay and makes you stay

924
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: longer than you want to stay and having a good time.

925
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: I can't figure out how to held this baby mine.

926
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: We can't. So that's it, my friend. Stop looking at

927
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 1: It's not. Part of getting past the resentment is acceptance

928
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,840
Speaker 1: that you had sex with this woman and she has

929
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 1: nickeled it, and she has this baby and it is yours.

930
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: The resentment for her may not go away, but the

931
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: acceptance of the child will help, because obviously this child

932
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: was meant to be, whether you meant for it not

933
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 1: to be with the condom, or she told you. She

934
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: didn't tell you what she was doing with your goods.

935
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: But he's here, Yeah, he doesn't know any of this.

936
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 1: He doesn't understand it. You can't even explain it to him.

937
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 1: Love your son, treat him right. Might as well treat

938
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 1: her right, because you remember, now, hold on dog, You

939
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: left your wife at a moment when she was down

940
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:30,839
Speaker 1: and went with this woman that didn't have no problems

941
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: because she was the breath of fresh air. But all

942
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 1: of them is problems. Though then when you found out

943
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 1: the problems was molding, you want it, your wife begged

944
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 1: you back, you went back. Oh you played both sides

945
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: of the fifth The only problem with both sides of

946
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: the fist. Both sides got your footprints in the grass.

947
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: Let the church say, man, oh boy, oh. So see

948
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 1: when you left your wife. You started this when you

949
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: moved in with that other woman and you were still married.

950
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:07,719
Speaker 1: You started this when you want wife got herself together

951
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 1: and begged you back, and you went back, and you

952
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: thought you'd just leave this woman behind because you through playing.

953
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: You started this. See, dog, all this come back to

954
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 1: you making decisions with the wrong head. That's what happened,

955
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: thanking with the wrong Yeah. And I can tell you

956
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 1: for a fact, he's so damn stupid. He has no

957
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: business leading to thinking because he is ignorant. He don't

958
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: care about all the facts. He is ignorant. Fellas, you

959
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. You know how stupid he is. Stupid?

960
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 1: To him? Dog, he when did it become a good idea?

961
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: Do it now? Okay, babe yourself, don't listen. You're listening

962
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, we

963
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: talked about this last week as the first episode of

964
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 1: the comedian show following his controversial use of a racial

965
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 1: slur on air this past Friday night's broadcasts of Real

966
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: Time with Bill Maher. Bill apologized as he discussed the

967
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 1: issue with his special guests, which included author and sociological

968
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: academic Michael Eric Dyson and of course, hip hop legend

969
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: our friend and family member Ice Cube. Cube had a

970
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 1: lot to say. Take a listen to Bill and Cube comedians.

971
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 1: They react and it was wrong, and I apologized, and

972
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:58,480
Speaker 1: you know more than that, I can't do accept your apology,

973
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 1: but I still I think we need to get to

974
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 1: the root of the psyche because I think it's a

975
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 1: lot of guys out there who across the line because

976
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 1: they a little too familiar, or they think they're too familiar,

977
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:17,360
Speaker 1: or it's guys that you know, you might have a

978
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: black girlfriend, the two that made them cool, laid every

979
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:22,600
Speaker 1: now and then, and they think they get cross the

980
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 1: line and they can't. You know, it's a word that

981
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 1: has been used against this It's like a knife, man,

982
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 1: and you can use it as a weapon, or you

983
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: can use it as a tool. It's been used as

984
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 1: a weapon against us by white people, and we're not

985
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: gonna let that happen. Again by nobody, because it's not

986
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 1: cool it now. I know you heard it's in an

987
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 1: it's at Elexicon, everybody talking. But that's our word now,

988
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:03,720
Speaker 1: that's our word now, and you can't have it back.

989
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 1: I know they're trying to get it back this guy.

990
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about you, Bill. I'm not talking

991
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:12,799
Speaker 1: about you Bill, but I'm talking about guys cool cross

992
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 1: the line every day because they got some black homies,

993
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: they got some friends. They think it's cool, and it's

994
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 1: not cool because when I hear my homies said, they

995
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: don't feel like venom, when I hear a white person said,

996
01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: it feels like that knife stabbing me, even if they

997
01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 1: don't mean it. So you know, I like this show

998
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 1: and it's a great show. All right. Yeah, I think

999
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 1: he explains it. I mean, I'm with him, with him,

1000
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 1: I forgive apology. We disagreed, Jack, Yeah, I mean, we

1001
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 1: can't keep singing it and have a little white kids

1002
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 1: by music with the word in it. And don't think

1003
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 1: ain't not going to use it. It's a double sided sword.

1004
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 1: We're singing it. White kids are buying a large majority

1005
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: of the black music, and so they think they can

1006
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 1: say it. How are we gonna put it to rhyme

1007
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: into music and then get mad when people use it

1008
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: back at us. It ain't going nowhere. Ever, It's never

1009
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 1: gonna be stopped being used on both sides. That's I mean,

1010
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:33,080
Speaker 1: here's here's the deal. What you're saying is true, and

1011
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 1: I've always said that myself. We can't give it to

1012
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 1: him and then want it back. What cubas saying is

1013
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 1: the word is ours now, we're not giving it back. That.

1014
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: I understand where he's coming from, because it does sound

1015
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 1: totally different when a white says it that black. It

1016
01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: sounds totally different because he knew that we know the

1017
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: origin of the word, what it's dimmed from. Now black

1018
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 1: people have took it and use it like Hugh say

1019
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 1: when his homies said it don't sound like venom to him,

1020
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,720
Speaker 1: it don't. I use the word all the time. I'm

1021
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 1: not hypocritical about it at all. I use it all

1022
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 1: the time, but I use I use it around people

1023
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 1: that I know. You know, I've got a lot of

1024
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 1: DVDs out there, a lot of comedy specials. Ain't never

1025
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: heard me said one time on it. Because of the

1026
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: way Jay is explaining it. I don't want to give

1027
01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 1: it to you in the joke for him, and you

1028
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 1: give it back to me what you think as a

1029
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:41,639
Speaker 1: joke for him, because I ain't gonna think it's funny. Conscious. Yeah,

1030
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 1: as comedians didn't Richard Pryor say, I'm one of his

1031
01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 1: standards and he said he wasn't going to use anything.

1032
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: He went to Africa and he said, no one called

1033
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:53,600
Speaker 1: each other the N word, and he decided that he

1034
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't use it anymore. See, everybody got to come to

1035
01:15:57,160 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 1: the realization of their own now deprived. Stopped saying it

1036
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:03,720
Speaker 1: in his day to day. I don't know, but he

1037
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 1: stopped saying it on his specials. I never said it

1038
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 1: on the special, but I say it in my day

1039
01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 1: to day. But like like Cube say, when my boy said,

1040
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:15,759
Speaker 1: I don't feel no venom. You know what, when somebody

1041
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:20,759
Speaker 1: white says you're right. Most of my friends that's older,

1042
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 1: like Rico and Butcher, I hardly ever see them saying no,

1043
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: they got insurance agencies and stuff. I hardly ever hear

1044
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 1: them saying me. On the other hand, I'll let him

1045
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: have it. You know, I'm not gonna be hypocritical, but

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Speaker 1: I don't do it on TV on the radio. I

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01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 1: don't do it on my comedy shows because it's an

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01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:48,559
Speaker 1: internal thing and I don't want nobody saying it back

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01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 1: to me because I ain't gonna handle it the same way. Right?

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Speaker 1: Is it a term of endearment, Steve, when you say

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01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 1: it to your boys? Is that? And I think that's

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01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: what man on. I think that's what missing every month,

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01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: that's what they're missing that you know, we turned such

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01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: a hateful word, you know, such a racial word, a

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01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: racist word endearment. And my mama's funeral, I cannot count

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01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: the time hustles and hood cats and pimps was hugging

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01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 1: me and while we was hugging, that word came up.

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Speaker 1: It was an endearment. And you always been mim man,

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01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:36,640
Speaker 1: then you're gonna be good man hanging there in I mean,

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01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 1: just at my mama funeral, the tears on their face

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01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 1: and then your mom was good men show sorry by

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01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 1: miss hearty man, man, I do that my mama fun him. Man,

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01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 1: y'all need to pray for it. Man, I ain't doing.

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01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm I'm going, hey 'all ain't cool with none of it.

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01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 1: But what Cuba saying is a fact, like he said,

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01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 1: and never had it this way, but it's ourd now

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01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:07,560
Speaker 1: we're not giving it that Internet, but there are. But

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01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 1: then he threw a jam at Bill mar too. He said,

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01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:11,720
Speaker 1: some people think because they got a couple of black

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01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: girlfriend because you know, Bill mar Day, black chick. Yeah, comfortable.

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Speaker 1: That's why I truly believe he said it because of that,

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Speaker 1: because theftability level. Yeah, and he's a good guy as

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01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:31,720
Speaker 1: a comedian. He crossed the line, you know. But he's

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01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 1: all right, let's go to this jam right now. You're

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01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this

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01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 1: is your time right here, one of your Yeah, one

1077
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: of your favorite segments. You love, asked Steve. Call us

1078
01:18:50,040 --> 01:18:53,840
Speaker 1: if you have a question for Steve. Eight seven seven nine, Steve,

1079
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 1: you're ready. Let's go to the phones. Let's talk to um.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to line one. Talk to g G out

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Speaker 1: of New York. Kay. Hello, Hello a voice somebody? Hi?

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01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: You called me right on that. Hello, Mr Hardy in

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01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 1: the morning Club. How are you? We're doing wonderful? H

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01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: what's your question of coming? I just have a quick

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01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: um story to tell you. Um. My dad told me

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01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:28,600
Speaker 1: the story when I was a teenager. It was in

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01:19:28,680 --> 01:19:32,600
Speaker 1: reference to his family working on the farm as a

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01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 1: young boy. Um up in the South and the farm

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01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: was owned by a white man, of course, so um

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01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 1: he said his dad had gotten ill while they were

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01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:47,800
Speaker 1: working out in the film, had became ill. So my

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01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:51,040
Speaker 1: dad wanted to take him, his father to the hospital,

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01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 1: and the owner of the farm said to him, get

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01:19:56,800 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 1: your ass back to work m hm, at anywhere. And

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01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 1: my dad answered him with for me that again, I

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01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:12,919
Speaker 1: will kill you where you stand. So why I don't

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01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:18,679
Speaker 1: understand why is this such a word that's used as

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01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:23,920
Speaker 1: a term of endearment for black people? M Well, I

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01:20:24,040 --> 01:20:29,000
Speaker 1: can't answer that question for you, because, um, I think,

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01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 1: almost as Cube said, we a lot of us took

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01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: the word back and we reinvented it. That don't make

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01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 1: it right or that don't make it have to be

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01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:44,600
Speaker 1: acceptable or agreeable to anyone. It's just the way it is.

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01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 1: I didn't, um, you know, from from my personal standpoint,

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01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 1: it's what it is. It's not a derogatory term amongst

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01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: me and my friends. And I'm just being just you know,

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01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: just saying it just not to be hypocritical. Um. I

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01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:09,800
Speaker 1: think the public use of it is different. It shouldn't be.

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01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 1: It shouldn't exist. But like j Anthony Brown said, I mean, man,

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01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: come on, we can't keep putting it to a song

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01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: and to joke and didn't expect when somebody tell the

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01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 1: joke not to repeat it, or when they sing the

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01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 1: song or the rap not to repeat the rap the

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01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 1: way you wrote it. It's kind of hard. So I

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01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. I definitely do. You're absolutely correct

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01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:36,639
Speaker 1: and feeling what you feel. I think correct. I think

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01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 1: you touched on something too, Steve, thank you, Guji that

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01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 1: maybe it shouldn't be in music anymore because I think

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01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:45,880
Speaker 1: off the air Carlo made the statement that you went

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Speaker 1: to a concert and uh, it was in the songs

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01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 1: and there were a lot of white people in the audience,

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01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,880
Speaker 1: and they were singing the N word because that's the

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01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 1: word that was in the song, and you were feeling

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01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 1: some kind of way. You know, me and my husband

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01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 1: we were they're uncomfortable with that, ready to fight, ready set?

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01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 1: We looked around and yeah, yeah. But I think also

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01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 1: what Cube was trying to say was that or what

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01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:22,560
Speaker 1: he said so eloquently, let me just say that was

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01:22:22,640 --> 01:22:25,840
Speaker 1: that when we use it like that, or when you know,

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01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 1: black people use it you take the power, you diminish

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01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: the power that negativity. What it's good for, you know,

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01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 1: back from back in slavery times. Let's go to line

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01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 1: three and talk to Benita out of North Carolina. Yes,

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Speaker 1: good morning family, how y'all doing good? Question or comment?

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Speaker 1: Darling comment in reference to the N word. Um, you know,

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01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 1: everybody's taking it so personal, but if you look at

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01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 1: the dictionary, it doesn't anybody statistically it's a lazy person. Well,

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01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 1: I don't see, you know, I understand in reference to

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01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 1: the slazy times in this that the other. But we

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01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:05,920
Speaker 1: know who we are, then it really shouldn't be that

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01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 1: big of the issue. Mm hmm. She's right about the definition.

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01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:17,040
Speaker 1: You mean, lazy ignorant person in the in the dictionary

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01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:19,040
Speaker 1: is a lazy ignorant person. And I have to like

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01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 1: friends myself well as I will. You know, I called

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01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 1: up the N word, you know, because I know I'm not.

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01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm not ignorant. You call your wife friends the N word.

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01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm not being worried. I'm not I'm not lazy, I'm

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01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:37,599
Speaker 1: not ignorant. I'm not you know. So I've been right

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01:23:37,720 --> 01:23:43,600
Speaker 1: by my uncle the whole time. Here, Junior, I'm just

1150
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 1: that I called that all the time my uncle he

1151
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:55,719
Speaker 1: another not just next question show, Let's go to line forward,

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Speaker 1: Dr Rowland, Hello rolland what should comment on question? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Kind of both. First of all, I want to say, uh,

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01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 1: the morning to the Crew's my first time going. I

1155
01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:09,479
Speaker 1: tried many times to get through. This's my first time

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01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:14,040
Speaker 1: once a good wanting everybody, UM my thing is UM,

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01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:15,680
Speaker 1: I don't I don't use it. I used it as

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01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 1: when I was young coming up, and then you know,

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01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:20,040
Speaker 1: after seeing a lot of things on TV, and you know,

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01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:23,439
Speaker 1: just watching stuff like The Underground, and I just don't

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01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 1: use the word anymore. And when people, you know, say

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01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:27,640
Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends that do use it,

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01:24:27,920 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 1: and when they say it to me, I always tell him,

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01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not that, and I wish that you

1165
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 1: don't call me that, you know, And and I teach

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01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 1: my kids that please don't use that word. My son

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01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 1: is a rapper and it's hard for him. You know,

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01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: he uses it. I asked him not to, but he

1169
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: still used it because you know, this is what rappers do.

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01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:47,880
Speaker 1: And I think that if it's just taken out of

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01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:51,200
Speaker 1: like everything is nobody used it. It was making so

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01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:54,040
Speaker 1: much better because I think that we've we've gone gone

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01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 1: through this so much, and there's so much pain and

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01:24:56,040 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 1: involved in it. And I think that if if a

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01:24:58,200 --> 01:25:00,519
Speaker 1: person says it to me was black, it hurts just

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01:25:00,680 --> 01:25:04,439
Speaker 1: as much as a white person. That's just me, Yes, wow,

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01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 1: that's interesting. We will do a thousand. I think if

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01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,320
Speaker 1: we could all stop saying it, I would stop saying.

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01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,640
Speaker 1: But it's eight dudes, don't we just go when we

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01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 1: see each it's just going. There's just eight of us

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01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 1: in that circle. In that circle's old site. They get it.

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01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:29,639
Speaker 1: I'm one of them. It hasn't started with you. I'm one,

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01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,560
Speaker 1: I know, so stopping of it has to start with

1184
01:25:32,720 --> 01:25:39,880
Speaker 1: you rolling the thing and just don't be around. He'd

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01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 1: be glad to see me too. Scan us for one.

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01:25:45,160 --> 01:25:49,160
Speaker 1: All right, when we come back more, asked Steve. All Right,

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01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:54,639
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, we're

1188
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 1: in the middle of asked Steve. Call us if you

1189
01:25:56,960 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 1: have any questions for Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,

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01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 1: I've we've been talking about the use of the N word,

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01:26:04,080 --> 01:26:06,519
Speaker 1: the usage of the N word this point. You can

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01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:09,280
Speaker 1: ask him about anything, though, I'm Steve, you ready to

1193
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 1: take more calls. Yeah, all right, what do you want

1194
01:26:15,880 --> 01:26:22,000
Speaker 1: on Instagram called Spice Adams he's doing the NBA Finals.

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01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:29,519
Speaker 1: Uh well, I'm holly, I'm HOLLI man, alright, go ahead,

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01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:31,320
Speaker 1: let's all right, Yeah, I'm gonna need you to pay

1197
01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 1: attention to it right now. Let's go to line seven

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01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: and talk to us. Sing out of New York. She's

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01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 1: been holding for a while, thing seeing hello, Okay, Hello, yeah, hello.

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01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 1: What's your question or comment? Okay, okay, I want to

1201
01:26:49,479 --> 01:26:53,639
Speaker 1: make a comment about this N word thing. I'm hearing

1202
01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:58,080
Speaker 1: people and celebrities in general, and including you too, Steve,

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01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: You are saying the terms of endearments. This is a

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01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 1: word that it's acceptable. This is a word that says ignorant, unteachable, dumb, dumb.

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01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:16,000
Speaker 1: That's why I interpret that word. We have other rappers

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01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:20,400
Speaker 1: and other ethnic groups. They never Spanish people don't use

1207
01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:24,000
Speaker 1: the S word, Chinese people don't call themselves the C word,

1208
01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 1: and on and on. But we choose as a people

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01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:33,120
Speaker 1: to adopt this word and said, is okay because it's

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01:27:33,160 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 1: a term of endearment. This is a word that is

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01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:41,200
Speaker 1: a disgrace. I wouldn't call you an a whole and

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01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:44,560
Speaker 1: call it okay a term of endearment. How dare I

1213
01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 1: call you an n and say it's okay and you

1214
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 1: mind that is insane? Okay, Well, I mean, I I

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01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 1: accept what you're saying, brother, that's fine. But I'm just

1216
01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:02,320
Speaker 1: talking about me I do. I'm just saying without being

1217
01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:05,760
Speaker 1: hyppo hypocritical. I'm just telling you how I do it,

1218
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 1: how I am. I'm just doing it without being hypocritical.

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01:28:09,160 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 1: I could lie to you and tell you I'll never

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01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 1: use it, because you ain't never heard me saying it.

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01:28:13,560 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 1: Ain't on under my tapes, TV shows, videos, stand up

1222
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:19,920
Speaker 1: thirty two years of stand up, ain't nobody heard me said.

1223
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. In my personal life with my

1224
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:26,360
Speaker 1: dear friends, we talked like that all the time, and

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01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:28,639
Speaker 1: I got it. People don't have to agree. You don't

1226
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:32,120
Speaker 1: got to do it. I'm okay with that. I understand.

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01:28:32,200 --> 01:28:34,800
Speaker 1: I respect what you're saying. I think you're absolutely fine

1228
01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 1: thinking what you're thinking. I really do. I'm just making

1229
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:42,360
Speaker 1: a statement. I ain't saying you got to accept it

1230
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:45,600
Speaker 1: like where I am handle it the way I handle it.

1231
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:49,559
Speaker 1: I think you should continue to feel exactly the way

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01:28:49,640 --> 01:28:54,200
Speaker 1: you feel. I really do. I think it's healthy. I

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01:28:54,320 --> 01:28:56,640
Speaker 1: wish more people felt like you. I'm just telling you

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Speaker 1: I don't with the use of the word with my

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01:29:00,200 --> 01:29:01,920
Speaker 1: cats that I grew up with the way we are.

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01:29:02,160 --> 01:29:04,240
Speaker 1: That's that's how we talk to each other. And I

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01:29:04,400 --> 01:29:07,160
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. I appreciate it. I wish everybody

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01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:09,920
Speaker 1: felt like that. Hell, I kind of wish I felt

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01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:17,720
Speaker 1: like that. I just don't. Okay, Okay, he's saying celebrities

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01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:21,240
Speaker 1: and you once you say me, then you know this.

1241
01:29:21,800 --> 01:29:23,479
Speaker 1: I didn't give damn what you thought about the rest

1242
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:27,439
Speaker 1: of he said. You see. See, See the one thing

1243
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:30,880
Speaker 1: I like. I like personal confrontation, and I respect a

1244
01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:32,600
Speaker 1: man to call in on the show and say what

1245
01:29:32,720 --> 01:29:34,960
Speaker 1: he said. And I've had a most respect for him,

1246
01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:37,840
Speaker 1: and I think he's want her to present correct. I

1247
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:40,080
Speaker 1: would rather a man talk to me to my face

1248
01:29:40,360 --> 01:29:44,080
Speaker 1: and like these cowards that's got these keyboards and typing

1249
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,640
Speaker 1: stuff about me and don't even know me. I'm an

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Speaker 1: uncle Tom, a coon and all that. I'd rather you

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Speaker 1: call in and say it, because I bet if you

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01:29:52,240 --> 01:29:55,320
Speaker 1: call me and you get through saying it, I bet

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01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:59,240
Speaker 1: when we get through talking, I bet you feel different. Okay,

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01:30:02,560 --> 01:30:09,719
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I'll flip it about something about

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01:30:09,760 --> 01:30:22,120
Speaker 1: your personal sea. Yeah, alright, everybody, Yeah, everybody calmed down

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01:30:22,560 --> 01:30:28,799
Speaker 1: and we'll be back. You're listening to all right, Um, Steve,

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01:30:29,400 --> 01:30:34,439
Speaker 1: tomorrow's the day I got here fast huh where I'm

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01:30:34,479 --> 01:30:39,240
Speaker 1: talking about mentoring of course? Um, your mentoring camp opens

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01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:48,080
Speaker 1: tomorrow first day. Wow, right after the radio showed in

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Speaker 1: that evening, they'll come in. Yeah, it's only were changing

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01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 1: Boys Live. That's real cool. Yeah, we started changing boys live.

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01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:02,599
Speaker 1: Two boys. Well, that's a love. Give up your game.

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01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 1: I think what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:12,280
Speaker 1: create a program walk and do thousands. Mm hmm. Outstanding Steve.

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Speaker 1: It's coming, it's coming. I'm gonna get it done. I'm

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01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,360
Speaker 1: determined to get it done. It has to done. We've

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01:31:21,439 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 1: got to help these young boys change the line. That's right.

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01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:27,439
Speaker 1: And if you'd like to help, if you'd like to

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01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:31,280
Speaker 1: help and support and everything. If you want to help, Steve,

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01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:35,360
Speaker 1: tell them how to do that. They can text hut

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01:31:35,960 --> 01:31:37,920
Speaker 1: and hit like you want to text somebody, hit the

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01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 1: little right a text button on the line to text

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01:31:43,680 --> 01:31:46,719
Speaker 1: on the line that says to just type of nine

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01:31:46,880 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 1: one in the block. That says message type of Stephen,

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01:31:53,040 --> 01:31:56,479
Speaker 1: press seeing and tell you what to do. Any donation

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01:31:56,560 --> 01:32:00,640
Speaker 1: will help man. Anything you can give another goal to

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01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:04,479
Speaker 1: change the boys and girls period. I do not take

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01:32:04,520 --> 01:32:07,679
Speaker 1: a salary. I have to pay people to do certain things.

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01:32:07,760 --> 01:32:09,599
Speaker 1: Of course, you know you can't put up a tent

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01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:12,280
Speaker 1: for free. Everybody don't care. Everybody don't care about the kids.

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01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 1: I asked him people to bring all in portable showers

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01:32:15,960 --> 01:32:21,880
Speaker 1: and bathrooms out there. They charge. The people who make

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01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:28,400
Speaker 1: the t shirts charge, camping equipment charge, beds, cots charges charge.

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01:32:28,439 --> 01:32:31,559
Speaker 1: I gotta bring in three hundred beds. Man, I bring

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01:32:31,640 --> 01:32:36,080
Speaker 1: in a lot. Man's see for someone who doesn't know,

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01:32:36,240 --> 01:32:39,240
Speaker 1: who's never been to the mentoring camp before, just tell them,

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01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:41,479
Speaker 1: just you know, give us a little overview of what

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01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,840
Speaker 1: it's like. I mean, I bring two fifty boys. I

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01:32:43,960 --> 01:32:47,599
Speaker 1: bring their mothers. They're all single mothers who are raising

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Speaker 1: boys without the help of a man. I know that's hard,

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01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:52,760
Speaker 1: So I get the women in hand. I keep their

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Speaker 1: boys for a week. The mothers get off, they go

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01:32:55,520 --> 01:32:58,800
Speaker 1: over to UH We feed them to come to the

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01:32:58,880 --> 01:33:02,840
Speaker 1: first dinner together, the boys and the moms. We give

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Speaker 1: them an overview of what's gonna happen a little bit

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Speaker 1: later on. We separate them. The moms go to hotels,

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Speaker 1: the boys stay at the camp. I pitched tents. I

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01:33:14,240 --> 01:33:17,439
Speaker 1: had facilities last year, but I lost that place. So

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Speaker 1: I after pitch tents, bring in showers, bathrooms, everything. Um,

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01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:26,120
Speaker 1: you know, I gotta bring everything in. I got these

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01:33:26,160 --> 01:33:27,960
Speaker 1: boys out here, they got a shower every day, they

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01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:32,320
Speaker 1: got used bathroom. I gotta feed them. Uh you try

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01:33:32,400 --> 01:33:34,559
Speaker 1: feeding two and fifty boys and two and fifty mothers.

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01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:37,560
Speaker 1: Very expensive. And we get them in there and we

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01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:42,160
Speaker 1: teach them about two things, manhood and dreams. That's it.

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01:33:42,960 --> 01:33:45,080
Speaker 1: When you do some to all types of successful men,

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01:33:45,200 --> 01:33:48,000
Speaker 1: from the military to IBM, to Ford Motor Company, to

1308
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 1: stay farm everywhere, and they just and every boy leaves

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01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:54,080
Speaker 1: with the mentor a phone number of a man that

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01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:58,960
Speaker 1: they've you know, built a bond with. All Right, I

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01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:01,719
Speaker 1: will talk more about it. For details, go to Harvey

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Speaker 1: Foundation dot com. You're listening to all right, Steve, I'm

1313
01:34:08,000 --> 01:34:09,880
Speaker 1: gonna do something like that too, And I'm gonna do

1314
01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do your life story. I might just do

1315
01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:19,800
Speaker 1: a comeback tool just called something real crazy, some like,

1316
01:34:20,040 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 1: you know, a comeback to coback because all eyes on me.

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01:34:28,520 --> 01:34:42,439
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, uh huh okay, uh one more thing, one

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01:34:42,560 --> 01:34:46,120
Speaker 1: last thing, just one more thing, Steve, French fries, it

1319
01:34:46,240 --> 01:34:49,240
Speaker 1: says may kill you. This is according to a study

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01:34:49,320 --> 01:34:53,120
Speaker 1: published in the American Journal of Clinical We all love, love,

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01:34:53,439 --> 01:34:57,400
Speaker 1: love fries. Come on now. Yeah. This is a study

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01:34:57,439 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 1: published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. It's suggesting

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01:35:01,320 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 1: that if you eat fries at least twice a week,

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01:35:04,360 --> 01:35:07,240
Speaker 1: it could increase I don't know if you're ready for

1325
01:35:07,360 --> 01:35:14,559
Speaker 1: this could increase your risk of death. Wow, wow, well hey,

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Speaker 1: this is an eight year study. They've been studying this

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01:35:17,640 --> 01:35:21,400
Speaker 1: for eight years. It followed the fried potato eating habits

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01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:25,559
Speaker 1: of forty four volunteers between the ages of forty five

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01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:29,679
Speaker 1: and seventy nine, and found that those who ate fries

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01:35:30,240 --> 01:35:33,040
Speaker 1: twice a week increase their risk of death more than

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01:35:33,560 --> 01:35:36,160
Speaker 1: double those who didn't. There is one bit of good

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01:35:36,240 --> 01:35:38,160
Speaker 1: news in the study, though. It turns out if you

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01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 1: don't want to die, you don't have to give up

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01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:44,800
Speaker 1: potatoes altogether. Just the fried ones. Okay, you can boil them,

1335
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:47,759
Speaker 1: you can bake them, you can mash them. They showed

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Speaker 1: no increased risk of death at all at least until

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01:35:51,800 --> 01:35:54,519
Speaker 1: another study, of course tells is differently. But right now,

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01:35:54,920 --> 01:36:02,439
Speaker 1: twice a week eat other stuff. There's not yell yeah burgers, yeah,

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01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:05,360
Speaker 1: fried chicken. But once a week it's cool. Who do

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01:36:05,400 --> 01:36:08,839
Speaker 1: you have to study? Like I said, it was published

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Speaker 1: in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, if they study

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Speaker 1: forty people? Fries? Hell yeah, my very case. And I

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01:36:21,360 --> 01:36:25,920
Speaker 1: was going to use him every day, but you got

1344
01:36:26,040 --> 01:36:36,160
Speaker 1: to come back. Sorry, But yeah, there's yeah, baked fries, fries,

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01:36:36,520 --> 01:36:41,000
Speaker 1: but they don't it's not like French fries. You you get,

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01:36:42,560 --> 01:36:47,360
Speaker 1: you just have to fry. Chicken is one of them. Yes, chicken,

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01:36:50,400 --> 01:37:02,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, baked wings, it's all right, yeah right,

1348
01:37:03,640 --> 01:37:09,080
Speaker 1: but you fried in things. Get that hot sauce. If

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01:37:09,160 --> 01:37:11,400
Speaker 1: there was a big chicken and waffle, they'd go out

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01:37:11,439 --> 01:37:17,840
Speaker 1: of business. I'm gonna be oh this week, barbecuing and

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01:37:17,960 --> 01:37:20,840
Speaker 1: grilling and stuff. My two famous sandwiches will be on

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01:37:21,000 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 1: display all week. What what is your favorite? What is

1353
01:37:26,520 --> 01:37:30,320
Speaker 1: your favorite sandwich? I can't tell you how doing because

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01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:34,760
Speaker 1: people are trying to steal them? Okay what either? No,

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01:37:34,880 --> 01:37:37,040
Speaker 1: I can't do it until I register because people would

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01:37:37,040 --> 01:37:40,200
Speaker 1: take my stuff. I made a mistake already. I said

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01:37:40,320 --> 01:37:42,760
Speaker 1: something on the radio. Next thing, I know, somebody pick

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01:37:42,880 --> 01:37:48,080
Speaker 1: made it the domain name that after that, so he

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01:37:48,240 --> 01:37:52,320
Speaker 1: can't please please, Steve, I sent you a lot of it,

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01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:59,640
Speaker 1: lots have different level pepper, And when did you send it?

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01:38:00,120 --> 01:38:04,599
Speaker 1: It's gone, it's then it's then at the camp, hats

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01:38:05,680 --> 01:38:11,240
Speaker 1: waiting on you? Is this your to this didn't get

1363
01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:13,640
Speaker 1: them to my house? What what was I supposed to say?

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01:38:14,520 --> 01:38:26,200
Speaker 1: Said to who? You has so much going on? Much

1365
01:38:26,280 --> 01:38:29,120
Speaker 1: going on, man, it's crazy. But I would just get

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01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:32,320
Speaker 1: on off because I got some packing to do. No,

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01:38:32,640 --> 01:38:35,160
Speaker 1: you can't get off. I got to go right now.

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01:38:35,280 --> 01:38:40,360
Speaker 1: I got man, because you want to be ready for

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01:38:40,439 --> 01:38:46,120
Speaker 1: the boys. You know, Steve looks like Indiana Jones when Hyeah,

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01:38:46,320 --> 01:38:49,800
Speaker 1: he has a hat, he has the slacks, he has

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01:38:50,560 --> 01:38:57,320
Speaker 1: the machete, that's all of that. Yeah, looks crazy Indiana

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01:38:57,479 --> 01:39:02,400
Speaker 1: Jones in front of the house. Huh, what'd you say?

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01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:04,720
Speaker 1: See at this camp I'm doing this year, there's a

1374
01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:06,920
Speaker 1: lake right in front of the house that I'm staying in.

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01:39:07,600 --> 01:39:09,400
Speaker 1: I'm staying in the house last year. Didn't have a

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01:39:09,479 --> 01:39:13,320
Speaker 1: lock on that dough Yeah, it wasn't no lock on

1377
01:39:13,400 --> 01:39:17,080
Speaker 1: the door. I mean, wasn't even a doe knob just

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01:39:17,240 --> 01:39:19,479
Speaker 1: to even make you. You didn't have to turn. Then

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01:39:19,520 --> 01:39:21,560
Speaker 1: you just push these double doors open, and now I

1380
01:39:21,640 --> 01:39:27,719
Speaker 1: will there laying up their naked you sleep, nude? Yeah, sleep.

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01:39:28,800 --> 01:39:33,880
Speaker 1: I bet the mosquitoes ten yell, and I know what

1382
01:39:34,000 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 1: to do. I'm a country boy. Mosquitoes int y'all house country,

1383
01:39:37,800 --> 01:39:39,240
Speaker 1: But I'm know how to get rid of all that

1384
01:39:40,680 --> 01:39:43,720
Speaker 1: answer all, I ain't dealing with that. Man, Well, how

1385
01:39:43,760 --> 01:39:46,439
Speaker 1: do you get rid of mosquitoes? Hang that water bag?

1386
01:39:47,479 --> 01:39:50,920
Speaker 1: That water bag? What water band? Put that water in

1387
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:53,240
Speaker 1: and drop them pennies in there like a little ziplock

1388
01:39:53,280 --> 01:39:57,439
Speaker 1: band ziplock. Wait a minute, await from where y'all sitting there,

1389
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:02,040
Speaker 1: eyes away from your food. Here's another tip of you

1390
01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:05,599
Speaker 1: outside of the cookout. Keep flies away from me. Take

1391
01:40:05,680 --> 01:40:10,000
Speaker 1: a bowl, put all apple side of vinegar in it

1392
01:40:11,120 --> 01:40:13,360
Speaker 1: and then sprinkle all over the top of it. Then

1393
01:40:13,439 --> 01:40:18,160
Speaker 1: crushed red peppers, you know, a little pepper flakes, sprinkle

1394
01:40:18,200 --> 01:40:20,000
Speaker 1: at on top of the vinegar. Set that in meddal

1395
01:40:20,080 --> 01:40:22,519
Speaker 1: table won't have a flow over there when your head.

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01:40:23,240 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 1: How do you know? I'm country as dude, man, We

1397
01:40:26,520 --> 01:40:29,840
Speaker 1: country people. Hey, we gotta eat outside. I got no

1398
01:40:30,000 --> 01:40:38,120
Speaker 1: time for this. Hire them sent and sent Tonella Canta,

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01:40:38,240 --> 01:40:42,840
Speaker 1: I love him. Hey y'all, y'all have a great day.

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Speaker 1: God loves you. Have a wonderful weekend, I said, I

1401
01:40:49,439 --> 01:40:56,280
Speaker 1: have a wonderful weekend. For all Steve Harvey contests, no

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01:40:56,400 --> 01:40:59,720
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1403
01:40:59,760 --> 01:41:02,400
Speaker 1: RED than at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.

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01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:05,519
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