1 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, the show that takes 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: and culture. Start with headline news and journey into layer conversations, 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: always finding those life lessons that are presented in every 5 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: single story on Marcel's wally. Dad, Dude, what's up, y'all man? 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: It's wrong with l A y'all heard me? What is 7 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: wrong with Los Angeles? Right now? Why is this so 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: damn rainy? It's cold outside. We have a party plan today, 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 1: our championship party from my little Buffalo Bills. That's right. 10 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: Our seven year olds are coming over to tear up 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: my damn house. But it's raining, drizzling. Let's just say 12 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: that it's still wet outside. We had a bunch of 13 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: stuff playing, but we're gonna have the football spirit. So 14 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: no matter what rain and shine, y'all, boy's gonna go 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: outside and play. Let's do it. But that's what I've 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: been up to, you know, cleaning up for that, preparing 17 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: for it, also preparing for some auctions that are gonna 18 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: happen or never shut up More to It. You guys 19 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: just gotta stay tuned, stay in tune with your boy too. Right, 20 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: everything from jerseys to autograph books, playing cards, what I 21 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: got in the first oh some zoom sessions as well. Right, 22 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: So it's gonna be me and you and yours, whoever 23 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: the hell you want on your side and me. We 24 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: all gonna sit there and talk and chop it up. 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,119 Speaker 1: Y'all can record it. It's all good. Have some fun, man. 26 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: I want to be that guy that engages with the audience. 27 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: You guys give me so much in terms of inspiration, comments, 28 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: good and bad. But I just love the relationship, so 29 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I gotta give. Mom always said don't go anywhere, especially 30 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: to a party, with nothing, So I gotta bring something, 31 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: all right? What else I do? Smoke some in and 32 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: out last night. If y'all gonna see my belly, I 33 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: always measure what I'm looking like and feeling like by 34 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: the chest to belly ratio. You know, I'm sure I'm 35 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: not the only one, but I don't care about nothing 36 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: else on my body. But is that belly behind my 37 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: chest or in my chest? That is it? I could 38 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: be fat everywhere else and I don't give a damn 39 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: on that belly behind that chest. Oh, I'm about to 40 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: go out in the press. What else going on in 41 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: the widely world. The wife is preparing this week. She's 42 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: on the five yard line, maybe the goal line of 43 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: an opportunity that's gonna be huge for her and huge 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: for the family. Can't say anymore about it because it's 45 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: not a done deal, but excited to see what happens 46 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: from that. So she's doing her homework, so that means 47 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: a lot of solo time for me, which is good. Right. 48 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 1: You gotta love yourself before you can love somebody else. 49 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the show. We got Jackson 50 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: my Homes WHOA, I haven't talked about this one yet, 51 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: let the dust settle on it partly, and also I 52 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: don't really give a damn about this dude like that, 53 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: so it kind of fell down to run down, as 54 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: they say. But I don't know him, so whatever. He's 55 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: the brother of somebody famous, So let's get to this. 56 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: Jackson my Homes, the popular social media figure and brother 57 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: of Super Bowl winning quarterback Patrick my Homes Beast, is 58 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: being investigated by police in Kansas after alleged assaults. Damn 59 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 1: with an S like three s's assaults ass and then 60 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: another one at the end. Assaults. That's more than one 61 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: person y'all of a restaurant owner and waiter last weekend. 62 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: According to report, all Right, my homes is twenty two. 63 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: This dude Jackson allegedly forcibly kissed the forty year old 64 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: owner and shoved the nineteen year old waiter more than once. 65 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: Damn he was on that drink he saw stout. You 66 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: already know. The owner and waiter told the publication. The 67 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: incidents occurred Aspens Restaurant and Lounge and Overland Park. Whatever. 68 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: Vaughan alleged Mahomes grabbed her by her throat and kissed 69 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: her at least twice in her basement office at the restaurant. 70 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: She said, my homes is advances were unwelcome and shocking. Damn. 71 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: She believes my homes was intoxicated, dub She provided video 72 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: of the incident to the Star and local police. She 73 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: also provided a photograph here we go, showing a bruise 74 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: on her neck after the interaction. What is going on here? 75 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: Obviously that drink is not helping. But I hate when 76 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: people blame it on an alcohol what Jamie Foxx say? Like, 77 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: I swear alcohol because I love the hydrate. Alcohol takes 78 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: you so many places one it takes you to a 79 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: place obviously where your inhibitions you just Hey, what you 80 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: wanted to really do, you're gonna do it now, right? 81 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: So is that blaming the alcohol to make you actually 82 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: be more of who you are? Maybe the sober version 83 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: of you is the fraud. It sounds like it actually is. 84 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: You're walking around here waiting to get intoxicated, to have 85 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: the reason or the excuse to actually be who you 86 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: really are. Right, But we all know nothing smart really 87 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: happens when you're drunk, not as smart ass obviously when 88 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: you're sober. I always tell my friends, like, the more 89 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: I drink, the more I think I swear. The drunker 90 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: I get, the more i'm like Wise, I write a 91 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: lot of wiling isn'ts when I'm hydrated? Y'all not trapping 92 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: me when I'm drunk, because I already know that when 93 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: I'm drinking, that tends to lead to you not thinking. 94 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: So therefore, protect yourself. You gotta protect your neck, right. 95 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: But there's something else that play here. This is not 96 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: about alcohol. This is about the entourage. This is about 97 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: the other And I'm seeing this happen a lot. It's 98 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: kind of hard to piece them all together. But let's 99 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: have some fun and do it. The entourage gets you 100 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: in trouble more than the actual person, the star, the celebrity, 101 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: the athletes. Seriously, I've seen it a thousand times, where 102 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: you know, the person on the outside who doesn't have 103 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: the same level of talent, discipline, focus, determination, desire, all 104 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: the things that got that star to that place. The 105 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: person next to him, let's be real, doesn't possess that. 106 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: So therefore you mix all of those things up on 107 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: top of the fact that that person also doesn't have 108 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: the same things at stake. I don't have the same 109 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: things to lose. I hate when people say have nothing 110 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: to lose. Everybody got something to lose, but you don't 111 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: have the same things to lose, right, So all of 112 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: a sudden you mix that gumbo up. That's a recipe 113 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: for a disaster, and it happens a lot because pride 114 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: comes before the fall, the downfall, but unearned pride escorts 115 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: you write to that downfall, like the dude who didn't 116 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: really really work and grind for all of this success 117 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: and luxury. Oh, they're gonna be a problem. Let's just 118 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: say it. They're gonna be a problem. I had guys, 119 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: hang around me before. I've had not an entourage, but 120 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: I've had guys who didn't qualify in friendship to be 121 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: around me as much as they were. You get it, 122 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, dude, why are we 123 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: kicking it that tough all? Because nobody else has that 124 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: much free time to go to the club this often 125 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 1: with me except me? Right, So you come to you 126 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: come to. Then that turns into I got you, dog, 127 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: I got your back security whatever, you know what I mean, 128 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: And then that turns into oh you want to haul 129 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: at her, got you dog, You don't need to be 130 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 1: out there in the streets. Then everybody see you in 131 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: your business and that terms and said, oh dog, you 132 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: need your car wash, you need this, You need to 133 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: get some errands. Run. I got you, big dog, and 134 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: look to employ them. Is pennies on the dollar to you. 135 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: So it's a smart play, and you're helping the homie 136 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: out loosely the homie well, in this case, the brother, 137 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: so that ain't even loosely. This is your brother. But 138 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: you gotta understand, especially when he gets drunk, Oh, he 139 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: gonna act out his insecurities when he gets hydrated and 140 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: he going to the game and watching you ball out, 141 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: and his ass just sitting there trying to TikTok to 142 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: get the same level of love, which he will never 143 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: ever get no matter how many TikTok followers you get. 144 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: It ain't the same as being an athlete. Trust me, 145 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm on TikTok and I was an athlete no matter 146 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,119 Speaker 1: how many he gets, because one day don't even scream 147 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: for you. They just write great post. That is not 148 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: the same as somebody almost fainting when he throws a 149 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: touchdown Patrick Mahomes. So he sits there with his insecurities, right, 150 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: who doesn't have insecurities? Patrick Mahomes has insecurities. But guess 151 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: what they don't activate with liquor and watching his brother, 152 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: but Jackson yours does. So here we go. All this 153 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: adds up to somebody and a big pot of gumbo 154 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: that turns into so one peacocking. Y'all have heard the 155 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: turn before. If not, you're gonna hear it a lot 156 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: from me. Peacocking. Right, I'm on display. Look at me. 157 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: I'm the man. Yeah you are. You are certainly a 158 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: human being with rights and people respect you to some degree. 159 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 1: I don't know. But dog, don't compete, don't compare, prepare, 160 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: you're comparing yourself to Jackson my homes and comparing themself 161 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: to Patrick in this moment. Oh, that's a problem because 162 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: you know, once you get into that, you're gonna have 163 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: to do too much to just keep up. You gotta 164 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: do too much just to keep up with your brother. 165 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: And that's what happens. Though. Then you go out and 166 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: you see somebody and I heard he knew her or 167 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: he knew her daughter, and that was the mom. So oh, 168 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: this is like the mom that the milf. This is 169 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: the Yeah, that's what they called the milf. Oh God, 170 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: that's mama. That's the homegirl's mama. And I don't know 171 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: if they've ever flirted. I don't know if he's always 172 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: fantasized about it. I don't give a damn what you've done. 173 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: You need a permission, slip, at least orally from her 174 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: to do what you did. Now. I watched the video 175 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: like everybody else, and I was like, he did he 176 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: did a lot, and she could have done a little 177 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: more to make sure he knew that he did too much. 178 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: But what am I to say? You could say she 179 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: was in shock, you could say she was fearful of 180 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: what he could have done. He is still a big 181 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: old dude. Blah blah blah. Right, but I've taught my 182 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: daughters that make it clear and present to all that 183 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: you are in dangerous like lose your damn mind if 184 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: somebody ever is coming at you. Now that sounds great 185 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: in theory. Look if it's a six foot six, two 186 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: hundred and eighty pound dude trying to do exactly what 187 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: Jackson was doing, I don't know if that's the smartest 188 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: play either, But the video didn't necessarily suggest the worst 189 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: or as much as you read into this or you 190 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: read from this when you read the articles. But hey, bro, 191 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: that's still a salt. Bro. You can't be going up 192 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: to people, no matter how you know them, who you know, 193 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: Like I got home girls right now, I can't just 194 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: walk up to him and slop them down. You might 195 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: have to be in jail to day to day. So 196 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: man the peacock and caught up with him finally because 197 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: everybody was rooting for it and wishing for it, and 198 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't have that spirit. I don't know. Dude, the 199 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: dude does a lot. He does too much or three 200 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: much for me, but I don't root against anybody. I 201 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: don't give a damn. That's just not my flavor, not 202 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: my taste. But now you see it, and I remember 203 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: this happened a long time ago. Like the outsiders are 204 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: kind of disturbing what the star is really doing and 205 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: building in terms of relationship with the public, Q rating, equity, 206 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: fan base, like building up their portfolio. They're good reputation, 207 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: and all of that is at steak a lot of 208 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: times by the other person who's not the star. Remember 209 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: let's go back to Steph Curry and Aisha. Remember back 210 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: in those days, early days, m Aisha got it straight. 211 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: Now she's way better or way less in the news 212 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: for stuff that's crazy. But in the beginning, it was 213 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: Steph the boy next door who can shoot from next 214 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: door and make it in your backyard, right, and Aisha 215 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: who had issues. Would everybody that seemed like right, they 216 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: were coming to Aisha or she was coming at them. 217 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: They ironed that out. Remember John Legend the homie and 218 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: Chrissy t no homie. I actually see him. Um, A 219 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:42,359 Speaker 1: lot of her kids are in the same class. Remember, 220 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if that was early because I remember 221 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: seeing them way back in like oh seven of some 222 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: oh five ESPN days. Um shout out to the Ivy 223 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: League two as well. Respect brother, And he has an 224 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: amazing concert. Ya gotta see his concert. Let me just 225 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: stop all these tangents. You gotta go see his concert, 226 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: the one he does where he goes through his autobiography 227 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: like every song is based on his life experiences and 228 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: he goes in like chronological order. Insane, insane. But anyway, 229 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: Chrissy was in the news a lot more than John 230 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 1: for other things, so I remember that it's a dynamic 231 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: at play, right, And look, my sister is not the 232 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: star in our family. I am, but my sister is 233 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: the one that everyone in our family, include me, respects 234 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: the most. So you gotta have love for those who 235 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: play their role properly, like not compete against the star 236 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: less the star shine, because that's what the star is 237 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 1: supposed to do. And then they become the golden goose 238 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: that lays the golden eggs for everyone in the family. 239 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: That's how it's supposed to go. But Jackson, he wants 240 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: to crack those eggs. He doesn't want that to happen. 241 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: All right, Let's talk about somebody else who's been in 242 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: the news for a lot of the wrong reasons. Oh 243 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: my man, John Morant living in the news for bad, 244 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,839 Speaker 1: bad choices, or at least allegedly bad choices. And I 245 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: don't even want to go through the laundry list. It's 246 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: too much. Right now, I don't want to Powleon to 247 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: do because he can turn the corner and redeem himself. 248 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: But damn it, right now with snowfall, right now, it's 249 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: a snowball. Right now, it's an avalanche. Let's talk about 250 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: the parental dynamic at play, though, because Jah is a 251 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: grown ass man, right he's twenty three years old. But 252 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: even being a grown ass man, I've been a grown 253 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 1: ass man before playing a child's game, and it's different. 254 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: A grown ass man playing a child's game is different. 255 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: It takes a different level of maturity, and it takes 256 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: a different construction and dynamic, especially with the family. I 257 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: really want to hone in on his father, team Rent, right, 258 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: and how that dynamic had to flip and it flipped 259 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: upside down when the kid goes pro. Why let's start 260 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: here because it's happened to me, but this is happening 261 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 1: on a much grander scale with T and Jab. You 262 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: get called, you get drafted, You're still in the same crib. Right. 263 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: We've all seen those guys get drafted. You've seen me 264 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: get drafted, right on seeing then and stuff. What happens 265 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: is you get the call and your life changed because 266 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: someone said you're drafted, but your life hasn't really changed. 267 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,959 Speaker 1: You don't have a check from that organization yet. You 268 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: might have got a front from your agent, you might 269 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: have some endorsement deals which already is set you up, 270 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: but largely nothing's changed. You're still in the damn broke 271 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: ass crib that you grew up in, right, and being 272 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: there you look around and you're like, yo, what is 273 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: going on? Why is everybody acting different? Including daddy, including mama. 274 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: You're like, oh man, they're looking at me different. The 275 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 1: questions are different, the tone is different. It's not as firm. Right, 276 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: Instead of telling me stuff, they're asking me stuff. Instead 277 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: of making statements, they're asking questions. Right. You can just 278 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: feel them kind of letting off in terms of reprimanding 279 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: you because you made it. But just yesterday day you 280 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: were on my head, or just before this process started, 281 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: you was on my ass. I still need that why 282 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: because so much is coming at you and so fast 283 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: that you need someone with a greater perspective, life, perspective, wisdom, 284 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: even if it's not basketball I played in the NBA before, 285 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: a perspective. It's someone who knows life because those principles 286 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: apply to what you're going through. You need them to 287 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: stay that person. You need them to stay your parent. Right. 288 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: You need a father, not a fan. Right. You need 289 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: a mother, not a mess. You need somebody that looks 290 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: at you and actually says, hey, sit your ass, damn 291 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: all four hundred million of you. Right. If not, you're 292 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: gonna suck it up. You're just gonna suck it up. 293 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: That's how it goes. Man. You can't have no groupie parents. 294 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: Now you get all the money that your parents have 295 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: made in their entire life, both of them combined, so 296 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: lives in one installment of one check Yes it happened 297 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: to me, so I know it happened. A job morant 298 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: like one check up, Mama, how much you made in 299 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: your tire of life? Oh your W two's and ten 300 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: nine of nine? You two daddy W two's and ten 301 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: nine of nine. Get them to me. Oh look at this. 302 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: This ain't enough, This ain't enough, This ain't enough to 303 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: tell me shit this ain't enough to tell me nothing. 304 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: I wait till I get my money. Right. Oh and 305 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: when you hear that in your own head without Kanye 306 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: singing it, it's a rap. It's tough on tuhuh. It's 307 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: tough on t because Tea like, look, the boy made it, 308 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: the boy is legally an adult, and the boy looking 309 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: out the boy taking care of me. This is my 310 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: house that he bought, This is my card he bought. 311 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. I'm living a life I never could afford. 312 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: But t and I know you're doing it. Let me 313 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: not say I know. I just hope you're doing it, 314 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: but you also are projecting that you're not doing it. 315 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: You're wearing the sunglasses inside. I don't give a damn 316 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: if you do it or not. But stuff, what stuff happens, 317 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: and stuff goes wrong. That's what they point at. Right, 318 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: you could be a straight AS student if you sag 319 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: and you know, your pants off your ass and you 320 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: get straight as. They're like whatever, Like, he just he's 321 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: part of the culture. That's how he dresses. Oh, he's 322 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: just trying to be stylish. I don't agree, but that's 323 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: what they'll say. Let your ass get an f oh 324 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: you gang banging. He going to jail till he ain't 325 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: gonna be shit, right, same dude. Just it's it's by 326 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: the results. It's by the success. So your success and 327 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: what your son does. Your son is amazing on the court, 328 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: not so good off the court of late right, So 329 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: you gotta fix this. It's the same thing that beauty 330 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: pageant mamas go through. They they all of a sudden 331 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: want to be the star like they they Oh, sure, 332 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: man working at the post office, my whole life, not 333 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: my son in the NBA. What you know, let me 334 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 1: get a double. You're drinking everywhere you go. I don't 335 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: have a problem with that. I do the same, sunglasses inside. 336 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 1: I don't even saying. But then you also get loud. 337 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: You cross onto the court, you and Shannon Sharp going 338 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: at it, whatever that was. You just become the center 339 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: of attention. You've gotten to shouting matches with other players, opponents, 340 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 1: the hell sit down. So that's when it goes. Maybe 341 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: he's not being led the right way. Maybe he's being 342 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: led astray. Huh, because your kid becomes a lottery ticket 343 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: and we all see it. You go to Pop Warner 344 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: game right now, you go to AU game, right now. 345 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: Why and then that same parent that that kid goes 346 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: home from school, big backpack full of stuff, don't care 347 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: about nothing in there. Not one screen for one of them, tests, 348 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: not one screen for any of them, books or you 349 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: do screen for those. He just screamed louder for the 350 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: basketball games. I get it. I even fall victim to 351 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: that sometimes, like, oh mj Obese, I better make sure 352 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: that boy knows his ABC. You know what I mean? 353 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,199 Speaker 1: You got to balance that out, parents, But there's no 354 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: balance in that when it comes to your son is 355 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: taking care of you and you're supposed to be the parent. 356 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: You gotta be out of balance. You gotta be the 357 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: parent first. Fuck it if he cuts you off. Oh well, 358 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 1: and I know it's happened because Kobe Bryant went through this, 359 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 1: right Remember with Vanessa you'uring issues before I heard or whatever. 360 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into the rumor mirror, but Vanessa, 361 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna marry what an eighteen year old video girl win? Huh? 362 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: How this soon? Kobe lived? But Kobe did what he did. 363 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: Parents obviously weren't giving that blessing fully and other things. 364 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure that happened. And let's just say the relationship 365 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: is different on her right. So the moral that story 366 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: is be a parent and stay a parent. If you 367 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: raised the right kid, they're gonna respect you for being 368 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: a parent all the way through. Right, that's not an 369 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: eighteen year old job. And you know with zero to eighteen, 370 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: and then after the eighteen year let's trying to retire 371 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: as a parent. Kid, do what you gotta do, you 372 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Hell now, especially when your kid 373 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: is living a life you haven't lived, you better apply 374 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: that wisdom to that kid, or that kid's gonna fall 375 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: from most of those traps. And that's what we see 376 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: right now. Mmmm. It reminds me. I remember that video 377 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,479 Speaker 1: of that lady who had a son that I had. 378 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: I think Florida, Alabama's some other big school to pick from, 379 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: and she had on Alabama gear head to toe, which 380 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 1: is already a violation. Like, lady, you ain't the star, mama. 381 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: I get it you you you made me mama, but 382 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 1: you ain't the star right now, let me choose, and 383 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: he chose Florida, and she walked away. I'm gonna slow 384 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: this down. She walked away from her son's biggest moment 385 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: to date. I would assume she walked away because her 386 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 1: son didn't pick the school she wanted. It's okay to 387 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 1: be disappointed, it's okay to be mad, but it's not 388 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: okay to walk away from your son and his decision, 389 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 1: especially when the world was watching. We have not seen 390 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 1: you before that, and I don't think we've seen you 391 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: after that. That's the moment that you want to record 392 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: for the world. A little bit of that, Jackson, Mahomes, 393 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 1: and you lady, and a little tea Morant, y'all get 394 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: this stuff straight. Man. I do too good, too great 395 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: to go down like this. All right, Now, let's talk 396 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,719 Speaker 1: about one more story. My man Bryce Young, and I 397 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: saw this story of how he went from one hundred 398 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,719 Speaker 1: and eighty four pounds to two hundred and four pounds 399 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: at the combine. How did he do it? Well? I 400 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: call it fake weight, and I am a person that 401 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: knows the fake weight process. Let's talk about it because 402 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 1: I did it. One. I went from six ft one 403 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: eighty two sixty four two eighty in my years at Columbia. Two. 404 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: I was two fifty seven when I finished my last 405 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 1: game at Columbia the senior year. By the time I 406 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: was at the combine, which is what Two months later, 407 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: I was two seventy one. I'm gonna say it, even 408 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: though y'all gonna see me in disagree, pure lean muscle. 409 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: And then I went from two seventy one to two 410 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: eighty two for my pro day. Why because it rigs 411 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 1: the metrics. If you run a four six, which I 412 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: did at two fifty seven, oh good good, you're running 413 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: at two eighty two, which I did. Oh my god, Becky, 414 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: look at his button? Don't you like? They lost their 415 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: damn mind? When I ran at two eighty two or 416 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: four six one, they were like shit. All my numbers 417 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: was crazy because I had two eighty two as the backdroup. 418 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: Now what is fake waight? Fake weight to me is 419 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 1: you don't need to be eating that, but you're eating 420 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 1: that to gain weight. Fake weight to me is you 421 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 1: can lose it if you want to, but it's a 422 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: lot of water weight. What I started doing was peanut 423 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 1: butter and jelly sandwiches every night, right before I went 424 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: to bed, in a glass of milk. I think a 425 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: lot of people have heard of that. Right right before 426 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: you go to bed, right before you go to bed. 427 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you can't metabolize nutget all right, right, right, Robert, 428 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: and then wake up. That's lean muscle if you're working 429 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: out grinding right. I started doing that, but then I advanced, 430 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: so between the combine and actually pro Day, what I 431 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 1: end up doing, let's be real widy raw baked potato 432 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: like is that what they call them? Baked? No, it's 433 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 1: not cooked. But it's the big boys. So the big 434 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: boy I don't know, I should be from my Idaho. 435 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 1: So the big old ones what are they called them? 436 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: Rusting some the gigantic, not no normal as French fried potatoes, 437 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: the big ones. You're gonna use to bake a potato, 438 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: eat that. I wet it and then just like that, 439 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: nothing else, don't cook it, nothing wet it. Who so good, 440 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 1: and it's got a little salt in there, I don't 441 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: know what. And that along with chugging. I mean I 442 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: had a jug memory sports Nation, like that big jug 443 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: jug of water that I would drink four or five 444 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: of those a day, go co co co, Coco and man. 445 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: In one month, I gained eleven pounds of muscle. And 446 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: that's why my numbers went up, Like combined numbers went 447 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 1: up from pro Day numbers. They just kept going up 448 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,360 Speaker 1: and it was more impressive because I had gained that weight. 449 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 1: So I saw that and I was like, damn, that's crazy. 450 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: He put on some weight. And it made me start 451 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 1: thinking about some freak stories out there, like people have 452 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 1: done some crazy stuff just to get drafted, or you 453 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 1: just saw some crazy cats in the process of the draft. 454 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: You know, on this podcast, I can say stuff that 455 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: is colorful and people like, oh my god, you said that. 456 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: But we used to say, don't look like Tarza and 457 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 1: it played like Jane. And now they say, don't say that, 458 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say that because that's a real thing. 459 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: Don't look like Tarsa and it play like Jane. Oh 460 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: what do you mean about women? All right, who's in 461 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 1: the pros? That's a woman? Go okay, that's what I mean. Like, 462 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: look like you are the biggest, battest, strongest dude and 463 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 1: your ass ain't playing in the pros. That's what I mean. Goodness, 464 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 1: don't take everything so personal. Most interesting prospect of the 465 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 1: combine this year it was Anthony Richardson, Right, that beast, right, 466 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: bla bla bla bla big dog, big dog. But we 467 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: also saw some other cats. Uh. Nolan Smith ran at 468 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: four to thirty nine. Good Lowe from Georgia. He's a beast. 469 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: Austin Mark I saw was talking about it. He was like, 470 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: this dude was ninety nine percent down to forty in 471 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: the vert in ninety six and the broad jump amongst 472 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: as Russia's goodness, that's talk about win it. Um. I 473 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 1: saw a couple of other cats. A d N from 474 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: Northwestern he was two eighty two. He ran a four 475 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: to four nine. Okay, Um, everything I just told you 476 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 1: about me being two eighty two, erase it retracted. This 477 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: dude killing me. Goodness, minds me of Mike mcmoula, remember 478 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: his times. Um, I just gotta just spitball some crazy stuff. 479 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 1: Michael Mueller destroyed the combine I was. I was in Dallas. 480 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: I saw Larry Allen left seven hundred pounds in the 481 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 1: weight room before six something. I think it was like 482 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: seven hundred. I mean I stopped counting how many plates 483 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: and wheels were on that thing. But it was like, ah, 484 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 1: like you a man, My elbows would have broke off 485 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 1: like like up cap if you put that butch way. 486 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: Nobody chests hell nah Javon curse the freak, especially rookie 487 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 1: year because that was the first time I saw him. 488 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it when I saw him at the 489 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: Pro Bowl, like how long his arms were and how 490 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: muscular he was. He and I actually saw him about 491 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: a year or so ago. He looks better now than 492 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: he did then, and then he looked insane. It's crazy. 493 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: This dude's a freak for real. But I remember at 494 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: the Pro Bowl, coach said running ten yards, So everybody 495 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: lined up. I think it was like John Abraham and 496 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: him and me and maybe Jason Taylor, all these cats, 497 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 1: and he says said, up, we all took one step 498 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: in the air of the next step for to get 499 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: to like five yards of a ten yard run. Javan 500 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: curse was finished. Javan curse finished. We were on our 501 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: second step to get to the fifth yard Javan curse. 502 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: The freak was finished. I was damn well. That boy 503 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: was ranging. That boy was special, man. I saw my boy, 504 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: Antonio Bryant before he was a beast. A lot of 505 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: cast didn't know, but Antonio used to live like he 506 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,479 Speaker 1: was like one of them. He I don't know if 507 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: he was streeked, but he had street tendencies, like you know, 508 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 1: yacking and smoking, blacks. You know, we all did that, 509 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 1: but he would do it right before workouts. Antonio didn't 510 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 1: one one time. He did it one time before like 511 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: our combine tests or whatever. We had our workout tests, 512 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: a conditioning test, that's what it was. And this sucker 513 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: beat everybody on the team. And I swore he was 514 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 1: just blazing some some blacking miles in the car right 515 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 1: before and had a little drink. I was like, Antonio 516 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 1: was different. He was special. Flitnikoff winner too as well. 517 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 1: So I saw a bunch of crazy stuff in the combine. Man. 518 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 1: You know people who hate the combine, people love the combine. 519 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: I love the combine. I'm a small school player who 520 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 1: needed to combine because it's a level playing field. Therefore, 521 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 1: you get to see the athlete you're drafting, not necessarily 522 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: a football player, but the athlete that can support the 523 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 1: football player. I needed that. I can understand a guy 524 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 1: who could just play football but looks and is built 525 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: like a bathtub and built like a water balloon hates 526 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 1: the combine because he's not gonna perform well at the 527 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 1: drills and perform well in the test. But you put 528 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 1: me between the white lines and snap that ball. You're 529 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: gonna see something different, So it's different schools of thought. 530 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 1: All that said, Combine was a blessing to me. Brother 531 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 1: helped me out tremendously, and I see us helping out 532 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 1: some players this year, in clude my man Anthony Richardson. 533 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 1: That dude might get drafted number one overall. What do 534 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: he complete fifty three percent of his passes? Insane? That's 535 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: how the game goes, all right, let's finish up what 536 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: the while he is at Big Dog. The struggle to 537 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: the top of the ladder is getting through the crowd 538 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: at the bottom. I remember hearing this. I think O'Dell 539 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 1: Beckham told me this one. The struggle to the top 540 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: of the ladder is getting through the crowd at the bottom. 541 00:28:55,400 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: That's right, man, So much of life and its difficulties 542 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: is beginning, is starting. It's the struggle at the bottom 543 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: with everybody because everybody got ideas and thoughts, but not 544 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: a lot of actions and pathways, right, So everybody's sitting 545 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: there just exchanging ideas, but no momentum, right, and really 546 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: no where with thought because we're all at the bottom. 547 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: I mean, that's why the rich get richer and the 548 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: poorer get poor, because you need somehow, some way, some 549 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: inertia to get out of that, and boy trying to 550 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: get out of that when everybody else's been waiting to line. 551 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: You ever go to six Flags a disney Land, I 552 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: still can't say that word disney Land, and and your 553 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: family's in front of you, but you had to go 554 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: to the bathroom, and then there's time to meet up 555 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: with your family again in line, so people think you're 556 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 1: cutting They think you're cutting them. You ever see people 557 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 1: who acting like trying to get bigger and bow out 558 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: their shoulders and elbows. It's so you can't get by, 559 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: like no, no, no, my families up there, and then 560 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 1: they let you through. Or when you see you a 561 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: bunch of people on the off ramp and you're like, 562 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,479 Speaker 1: why y'all waiting two miles off the off ramp. I'm 563 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 1: gonna just go to the front of the line and 564 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: cut in. Oh they almost erect their car to not 565 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: let you in. People hate for you to get ahead 566 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: of them. Crabs in the bucket, And I hate when 567 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 1: that term is labeled for black people or poor people. Know, 568 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: it's all people. Every nobody wants somebody to get in 569 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: front of them. But it's how you manage that when 570 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: it happens, right. So the struggle to the top of 571 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: the ladder is really getting through the crowd at the bottom, 572 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: not just physically like it's a gang of people and 573 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 1: it's only a few runs right here to grab. Oh, 574 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna do It's more than that. It's also not 575 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: getting lost in the mentalities at the bottom because everybody 576 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 1: guessing everywhere, well, nobody has experienced there, and everybody got 577 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 1: a theory on what it is, and then you all 578 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: do it, and they realize all y'all theories sucked, Like 579 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 1: all y'all theories were wrong, Like what are you talking about? Dog, 580 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: Calm the fuck down. So Nan, I could keep going 581 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: on this one, but I'm gonna save it because this 582 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: one is actually like really getting me into a lot 583 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: of other wiless. But always remember, y'all, especially when you 584 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: start something new, it's not just the bottom. It's especially 585 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: when it's new and everybody got guesswork to struggle to 586 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: the top or that ladder. It's getting through the crowd 587 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: at the bottoms. All right, y'all, that's gonna do it. 588 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 1: For more to it, check the show notes for all 589 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: the information on our topics today. To day. You want 590 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: to keep the conversation going. I know you do. Let's talk. 591 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 1: Find me on all socials at Marcella's Wiley. 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