Speaker 1: All right.
Speaker 2: So I met these girls the vip list through social media.
Speaker 2: They're kind of in my community. They follow me and
Speaker 2: vice versa their young girls. I invited them to an event.
Speaker 2: I like them, I respect them. They're smart enough to
Speaker 2: know what they know. They're even smarter to know what
Speaker 2: they don't know. I think they're beautiful. I think they're fun.
Speaker 2: I think they're funny. I think they know food. I'm
Speaker 2: sure they have an opinion on beauty. And I know
Speaker 2: they have an opinion on dating because on the day
Speaker 2: that I invited them to an event, they were talking
Speaker 2: about dating. And I am just interested in their perspective
Speaker 2: on dating. I think it could help a lot of
Speaker 2: young women that think you can help moms who have daughters.
Speaker 2: I just think it's interesting my perspective, their perspective, because
Speaker 2: I've found that this younger generation doesn't know what the
Speaker 2: hell they're doing. And it's shocking because when I have
Speaker 2: better game than young girls, we have a problem.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 1: So the two of you are single.
Speaker 3: Right, yes, yes, very single?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so what what's your do You both
Speaker 2: want to be in relationships now?
Speaker 3: Right now?
Speaker 4: We're while we're building our careers and also we haven't
Speaker 4: found anyone that like matches the energy that we're bringing
Speaker 4: right now. And that's another thing. Like our worst fear
Speaker 4: is settling. I'd rather be alone than be with someone
Speaker 4: that's dragging me down.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like it's hard to find someone who
Speaker 5: can add to our lives at this point, like as
Speaker 5: a partner, Like, and we've both been in relationships before,
Speaker 5: like while we're doing this career and oftentimes, like I
Speaker 5: felt like I was settling or like bringing myself down
Speaker 5: so that I could accommodate like my boyfriend.
Speaker 6: But yeah, I felt like the man, like.
Speaker 4: I'm out of your pain for the meals paying for
Speaker 4: me Like at that like at that point, I'll date myself, Okay, so.
Speaker 2: Let's get it. So you're both beautiful. I found this
Speaker 2: Like I'm going to say this to you both. You're
Speaker 2: twenty six years old. I have better dating game than
Speaker 2: you guys do. And it doesn't make any fuck because
Speaker 2: because then I'm not. Yeah. I was at a dinner
Speaker 2: with a third with thirty five influencers from a brand.
Speaker 2: All of them were kids. It was like I was
Speaker 2: the mom at the table. One more stunning than the next, one,
Speaker 2: more eyelashes more curves, more makeup, more beauty, more. They're smart,
Speaker 2: they're chic, they know everything, and they all were like, oh,
Speaker 2: the men suck.
Speaker 1: I can't find him.
Speaker 2: So, like, it's funny, you guys know everything intellectually, but
Speaker 2: something's going on with your generation's game and I can't
Speaker 2: figure it out.
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna we're so used to dating apps, like
Speaker 4: no one approaches the person anymore, like at all. We
Speaker 4: go to all these restaurants where there's all these eligible men,
Speaker 4: but when you're in a group of girls, now men
Speaker 4: are too scared to approach. Like literally, people say you
Speaker 4: have to go out with yourself or just one other
Speaker 4: person because a guy approaching a group of girls is
Speaker 4: too intimidating apparently nowadays.
Speaker 2: Okay, so what you're describing there's this is like young
Speaker 2: kids and your generation too, that like doesn't how to
Speaker 2: write a letter because they're writing LOL and OMFG and
Speaker 2: roth Lama rolling on the floor laughing whatever so and
Speaker 2: me and gifts and shit that I don't even understand.
Speaker 2: So that's the equivalent to that, you guys don't speak
Speaker 2: the language of dating, so you don't have that muscle
Speaker 2: to you don't know how to exercise that muscle.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: And also I don't want to approach like I want
Speaker 4: to man only talk to me. And I know that
Speaker 4: like Edroin's like, oh well, if you want to go
Speaker 4: chase it. But there's just something so masculine about me
Speaker 4: going up to a man asking him out.
Speaker 2: Right, all right, So let's break this down. So first
Speaker 2: of all, let's put dating apps to the side. So
Speaker 2: now we're talking about a restaurant. Are you seeing people
Speaker 2: at bars or restaurants ever that you would approach or
Speaker 2: that look interesting or you're not even seeing the people.
Speaker 5: I mean, there's definitely like attractive men who look like
Speaker 5: they could potentially be like of quality out but I
Speaker 5: feel like, what like Mike said, like if I want
Speaker 5: to talk to them, it's me going up to them.
Speaker 2: Right, But you could go up to them through business,
Speaker 2: Like you guys have the perfect thing. Hi, I'm a
Speaker 2: food blogger. You know I'm interested in what you thought
Speaker 2: of this meal like something, or here's my card if
Speaker 2: you'd be willing to because you're you're both beautiful. So
Speaker 2: some in that has nothing to do with being desperate
Speaker 2: and wanting someone to buy you a drink, because I
Speaker 2: could get in touch with so many different men via
Speaker 2: real estate, via business, via all these things, which also
Speaker 2: brings me to the main point is that the two
Speaker 2: of you have something going on, so you have something
Speaker 2: to bring to the table, which makes you way more
Speaker 2: attractive than all these girls that just want to go
Speaker 2: out with someone to get a Chanel bag and think
Speaker 2: them being hot is enough.
Speaker 1: So you guys have that.
Speaker 5: That's brilliant, honestly, because why I pick up line has
Speaker 5: been are you single?
Speaker 6: And that just off the bat is not really giving,
Speaker 6: like and.
Speaker 3: Half the time they lie. Half the time it's a lie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So don't go in with being single and
Speaker 2: that is desperate and it's that is that's you. Let's
Speaker 2: go cry about it. That's not not good. Literally, yeah,
Speaker 2: you have to like have confidence. And also it's also
Speaker 2: like I tell my daughter, I'm like, what like when
Speaker 2: she used to be younger and she's on the beach
Speaker 2: and she wanted friends and meet someone, I'm like, what
Speaker 2: what happens? They say, You're you're horrible, You're ugly, I know,
Speaker 2: never want to play with you. Like what, so you
Speaker 2: go home you have the same bag of shit in
Speaker 2: your hand than you have when you got there, so
Speaker 2: what's the difference.
Speaker 1: But you can't go in with a lame game.
Speaker 5: So I love that so goodness, it's such a brilliant idea.
Speaker 1: Yeah that you haven't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're gonna go that's homework that I'm gonna
Speaker 2: give you. I want you to come back here for that. Like,
Speaker 2: let's put that to the side now. So just overall,
Speaker 2: if you're saying there are interesting men and you just
Speaker 2: feel like a weirdo shark circling, you know, chum, not
Speaker 2: knowing how to go in, find your way in the
Speaker 2: door the window, be the one that's having the most fun,
Speaker 2: because that is very attractive, laughing, like with people at
Speaker 2: the bar, like talking the bar town like whatever that is.
Speaker 2: People are attracted to like that live energy, Like desperation
Speaker 2: is never going to get anybody in the door.
Speaker 3: No, that's no, that's brilliant.
Speaker 4: I also just feel like a lot of people aren't
Speaker 4: looking for anything serious nowadays, Like we will meet God
Speaker 4: and they're like, yeah, I'm just not looking for anything.
Speaker 3: Like I guess we're not looking for anything either, But.
Speaker 1: Hold on, they don't know they're looking.
Speaker 2: That's like that's not true either, Because I dated a
Speaker 2: player who was literally so gorgeous and could get any
Speaker 2: girl he wanted, and he was sleeping with a different
Speaker 2: girl every week, and he literally you hooked and I
Speaker 2: hooked him in because I liked him a lot and
Speaker 2: he was fun, and I played the game for a
Speaker 2: while until he said I'm not looking for a serious girlfriend.
Speaker 2: I said, great, we're not, then, then let's call the fight.
Speaker 2: And he was like, wait, but I was like, no,
Speaker 2: we'll call it. I'm like, I don't need to be
Speaker 2: a serious girlfriend. I'm not twelve. I don't need you
Speaker 2: to give me a fairy princess outfit and in a book.
Speaker 2: But what I do need is to be moving forward
Speaker 2: and evolving forward motion. I'm not looking for, you know,
Speaker 2: a pen pal that I speak to once in a while.
Speaker 2: I'm an adult. I want to evolve with anyone in
Speaker 2: my life, whether it's work or friends. But that hooked
Speaker 2: him to feel like I was he was going to
Speaker 2: lose the rope completely, and then we ended up being
Speaker 2: in a very serious relationship and it was a great relationship.
Speaker 5: Love that.
Speaker 4: Okay, So so play the game, like, let like, if
Speaker 4: they stay they're not interested and not interested in anything serious,
Speaker 4: you like just threaten to leave.
Speaker 1: No, well not if if you're dating them.
Speaker 2: You're casual about it, because you're casual and confidence, like
Speaker 2: you're not like dropping your toys and running away, because
Speaker 2: then that makes you look like a baby. Like that's
Speaker 2: the equivalent of sleeping with someone and then being all
Speaker 2: desperate and needy because they didn't call you, versus like
Speaker 2: you sleeping to someone because you want to sleep with
Speaker 2: someone and you're not calling them, and your energy will
Speaker 2: like seep.
Speaker 1: Through the universe.
Speaker 2: And even if you're not texting or doing anything, it's
Speaker 2: not playing a game. It's like being a game. It's
Speaker 2: who you actually are. So it's a confidence to be
Speaker 2: like I'm looking for anything serious, congratulations, I'm looking for
Speaker 2: a caveaart and tivodka that I can pay for myself.
Speaker 2: Like you're not giving any desperation at all. You are
Speaker 2: coming in. It's like a business deal, Like whoever the
Speaker 2: brands are that you're working with, Like you're bringing the
Speaker 2: same amount to the table, to your point of matching
Speaker 2: your energy, but like maybe you have to find that energy.
Speaker 2: Maybe they're not seeing you that way.
Speaker 5: So basically that you're just like you don't need them,
Speaker 5: and that that's also just like a fact, it's like
Speaker 5: you don't need them, so if.
Speaker 2: But not in a way that's like I don't need that.
Speaker 2: It's literally just confidence. It's like Hi, no, yeah, amazing.
Speaker 2: But you still have to live in your feminine energy.
Speaker 2: You don't want to be you know, if we're talking
Speaker 2: gender roles, which people will get pissed off about, I'm
Speaker 2: just saying you still want to live in your girliness
Speaker 2: and you're you know that you took care of yourself,
Speaker 2: and you smell nice. You make an effort to Barbie
Speaker 2: the matchmaker's point that she gave. But you're bringing something
Speaker 2: to the table, like you're bringing somebody to the table.
Speaker 2: You want you do want to meet someone who's going
Speaker 2: to see that, but they were not going to see
Speaker 2: it if you don't present it.
Speaker 3: Do you meet people in person? Like how do you?
Speaker 3: How do you meet people? Mostly there you on the apps?
Speaker 2: Or Okay, So then let's get to so I I'm
Speaker 2: at a different level now, because then that's another good reason
Speaker 2: to stay single for a while or just play around,
Speaker 2: but be confident about it. No one ever advised me.
Speaker 2: I don't know how you guys got your good advice
Speaker 2: about not you know, wanting to be with someone that
Speaker 2: doesn't match your energy or where you're paying for the meal.
Speaker 2: And I don't think you should be doing any of that.
Speaker 2: I think I think it should be like the way
Speaker 2: you are about food. You'd rather not eat than eat crap,
Speaker 2: so you'd rather not date than date crap. So for me,
Speaker 2: I still have to find tune that because sometimes you
Speaker 2: feel a little. My biggest mistakes have been when I've
Speaker 2: been lonely, not lonely, but like what's going on? There's
Speaker 2: nothing like and then you just sort of fill the void.
Speaker 2: And that's bad because then you're in the wrong car,
Speaker 2: sitting in the wrong car, or you're almost there, and
Speaker 2: to your point, dating down, it's almost good enough, so
Speaker 2: you might not be able to really pick up on
Speaker 2: the fact that you're settling, but it's you're almost got there,
Speaker 2: so you're like, Okay, that's good enough, Like it's so close.
Speaker 2: Whereas now at this level, with my level of success
Speaker 2: and I you know, confidence and kind of understanding men,
Speaker 2: I won't there's zero there will be literally being alone
Speaker 2: or going big or going home, so there will be
Speaker 2: no settling.
Speaker 1: So this is a different game.
Speaker 4: Now, Yeah, our standards go on sale after like a month,
Speaker 4: We're like, okay, it's because.
Speaker 6: Sometimes I just wanted attention.
Speaker 2: But put that in that bucket. That's just eating junk
Speaker 2: food and then you just know it's junk food. That's fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so your.
Speaker 2: Standards go on sale. So I like, okay, So don't
Speaker 2: do that if you want a relationship. If you don't
Speaker 2: want a relationship, peep it in check. But then the
Speaker 2: drinking and the getting depressed and the going low, like
Speaker 2: all those levels need to be balanced out.
Speaker 1: Particulate your age. I didn't do any of this at
Speaker 1: your age.
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 2: I made all the mistakes, said no one guiding me,
Speaker 2: had no parents. So I'm saying that I'm teaching Britn
Speaker 2: all of this young like for the future, which means
Speaker 2: she'll be It'll be great hopefully. So the apps, the
Speaker 2: apps are great, but you have to be focused when
Speaker 2: you're doing it, and you've got a really deep, deep
Speaker 2: dive and not get discouraged and then come out when
Speaker 2: you get full and you've been at the buffet and
Speaker 2: you've seen too many gross things on that buffet and
Speaker 2: like your plate looks gross, like then like pull off,
Speaker 2: like you like you get your burners full on your
Speaker 2: stove and something's on boiling and something's on simmer, and
Speaker 2: then you pull something off and then you may be
Speaker 2: like I don't want to eat it all right now,
Speaker 2: Like you gotta do the dance otherwise you'll make bad decisions.
Speaker 2: So I don't think I can find the level that
Speaker 2: I'm looking for now on the apps, the level of intelligence, the.
Speaker 1: Level of success, the rock star. But there there there.
Speaker 4: If they see if Finance Bros. In New York City,
Speaker 4: that's all that's on the apps. It's a bunch of chats.
Speaker 1: Chat and chats they talk. It's pempals.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like yeah, it's time consuming.
Speaker 5: Like there's so many just average men and on the
Speaker 5: apps that I don't even know.
Speaker 6: I've never found a man that's like a quality.
Speaker 2: There are good ones there, but it's TJ Max. You
Speaker 2: can find in why cell bag, but you also find
Speaker 2: a mabeling crack compact and more amabling crack. So you
Speaker 2: have to like do you have to be? You have
Speaker 2: to focus on it. And I wouldn't say any or
Speaker 2: better than others.
Speaker 3: It's hinge? Are you on Hinge?
Speaker 2: So I'll tell you about all them. I know about
Speaker 2: all of them for different reasons.
Speaker 1: And I've been in it. I've tried.
Speaker 2: I've dipped in but then dipped out and been incognito
Speaker 2: because I don't want him to see me, and then
Speaker 2: felt like gross.
Speaker 1: And someone knows who I am and they I don't
Speaker 1: know who they are.
Speaker 2: And so the league is like you could hit the lottery,
Speaker 2: but like that's the odds of that, Like it's not
Speaker 2: it's really not great. And also I'm at a different age,
Speaker 2: so it might be better for you. When I did
Speaker 2: it was like, you know, several years ago, and then
Speaker 2: it was better. But it's not good. It's a brand
Speaker 2: that is suffering. Bumble's Walmart. It's a volume business. You
Speaker 2: can get quality things in Walmart and Target, but you
Speaker 2: have to go through every frickin' aisle.
Speaker 1: So that's what Bumble is. It's Walmart.
Speaker 2: Hinge is I think what like Barney's was, like there
Speaker 2: are some things that you could get at Walmart, some
Speaker 2: things you probably could get at the other places, but
Speaker 2: Hinge is just it's low volume. They have no merchandise,
Speaker 2: so it's like now you're on Bumble but with no merchandise.
Speaker 2: And it's like with Barney's it was like obscure and
Speaker 2: it's like, don't why bother going in there?
Speaker 3: I don't care.
Speaker 4: I don't like you have to shoot your thought birth
Speaker 4: like I don't want to shoot my thought as the
Speaker 4: woman like I want the man to DM me.
Speaker 2: No, just say hi. It's they know you shouldn't you
Speaker 2: should just say hi. It's it's two letters hi. Okay,
Speaker 2: Like it's not that doesn't matter, that's not it doesn't
Speaker 2: count as you make in the first move.
Speaker 3: It's hard. Okay, it doesn't okay because that's what that's
Speaker 3: what it was giving to me. Hinge is just the amount.
Speaker 4: Of catfishes on that app like it needs to be studied.
Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't even know that amazing data I was.
Speaker 4: I went out with this photographer. He was like this,
Speaker 4: like rock Nation photographer. I thought he had such a
Speaker 4: cool job. Rarely get like impressed by someone's job. I
Speaker 4: thought that was cool that he was in the creative
Speaker 4: space six three. Like I'm thinking, I'm pulling up to
Speaker 4: like this beautiful Greek goddess. He pulls up with a hunchback,
Speaker 4: talks like this with his eyes squinted and like like
Speaker 4: with a claw like I'm like this, Like he like
Speaker 4: talked with a claw like the whole time like this.
Speaker 2: Well, here's okay, So let me say something to you.
Speaker 2: Why would you leave your house with a good outfit
Speaker 2: and go before facetiming someone FaceTime?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Why is this in the loophole that no one? It
Speaker 2: seems weird and dorky and awkward. And that's what you're
Speaker 2: gonna say. It's called we're about to go out. Hey,
Speaker 2: I just I'm excited. I'm so excited. Can we FaceTime before?
Speaker 2: Like you, you've already caught them with the text. You've
Speaker 2: gotten over to text on phone. You got the app
Speaker 2: text going. Here's the way it goes. You got the
Speaker 2: app text going. You take it over to the main text,
Speaker 2: you take it to a phone call. You're not in
Speaker 2: sixth grade. You take it to a phone call, or
Speaker 2: skip the phone call and just go to the FaceTime.
Speaker 2: But because phone game matters and text game matters, if
Speaker 2: someone is a bad text game, you're not going because
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to leave with them on text, you
Speaker 2: don't go.
Speaker 1: People are weird.
Speaker 2: As a text, They don't know how to text like
Speaker 2: they have just weird banter and text. That's that means
Speaker 2: you're not gonna like them and you're not gonna be
Speaker 2: able to deal with that.
Speaker 3: And when they have an Android, it's an automatic.
Speaker 4: Now for some reason, when I text, I'm like, nah,
Speaker 4: this is right, it's.
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty four, So just casually throw it into the
Speaker 2: FaceTime so you can get eyes on them. Because I
Speaker 2: had a guy who wanted to fly from Florida to
Speaker 2: take me for dinner in Westchester, a very very wealthy man,
Speaker 2: very successful. Let's just say that he was not going
Speaker 2: to be he was when I got on FaceTime. It
Speaker 2: was it was physically not my type, to say the least,
Speaker 2: and not what the photo was giving. And I don't
Speaker 2: know if I could fully categorize it as a catfish.
Speaker 2: But photos don't have to be in date. They could
Speaker 2: be five years ago, like you could. They could have
Speaker 2: been on that app for so I like avoided that.
Speaker 1: You've got a.
Speaker 2: FaceTime and I know you feel bad because then they
Speaker 2: realized that it wasn't the right physical match. But like
Speaker 2: time is precious, you have to face girls. You must
Speaker 2: FaceTime before you're gonna go leave your house and meet
Speaker 2: someone that is brilliant.
Speaker 5: Because I've wasted a lot of outfits in a lot
Speaker 5: of hours on men that could have been avoided.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I also feel like whenever I.
Speaker 4: Get into the texting stage with a guy, like from
Speaker 4: an app, like when we've been talking for too long,
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, I'm over this. Like if I'm talking
Speaker 4: to a guy, there's like a three day turnaround, like
Speaker 4: I better see you in like a week to go
Speaker 4: on a date or else I'm like, I'm over this.
Speaker 3: You're just another number, I feel like.
Speaker 2: But be bubbly and cute about it, like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I made I just made a martini. Let's FaceTime Like
Speaker 2: you're cute, like I just made a martini and caviar.
Speaker 2: I need to show you let's FaceTime, like get into
Speaker 2: the thing so you could just get eyes on them,
Speaker 2: because men aren't as vain as we are. You'll be
Speaker 2: looking cute, You'll have just shot of video. They don't care.
Speaker 2: So that's what I suggest, Like, I think we need
Speaker 2: to bring the FaceTime into the dating because there's a
Speaker 2: person that wants to fly me across the country and
Speaker 2: it's another setup from an incredible source that and we've
Speaker 2: already spoken and it's an extremely high profile, successful person.
Speaker 2: But I need to FaceTime them. I need to get
Speaker 2: body language. I need to see if there's sexual chemistry.
Speaker 2: I'm not flying to another location on an airplane in
Speaker 2: the middle of the summer, which is valuable time, unless
Speaker 2: I have chemistry on FaceTime. So I said, yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: I'm considering that this is fun, this is my adventure er.
Speaker 2: I'm considering that Brinn was all about it. I ask
Speaker 2: our opinion now, and I just want her respect and opinion.
Speaker 2: And she's old enough now that I like like that
Speaker 2: she knows what we are doing in our girl summer
Speaker 2: and she's gonna be at camp and she said yes,
Speaker 2: And I said, all right, I'm into this. I can
Speaker 2: stay in my own hotel room like it's all above
Speaker 2: board and it's a person that people would know, it's
Speaker 2: not some criminal. So I said, all right, let's FaceTime
Speaker 2: and then I'll go. Then you can, then we can,
Speaker 2: then we can book the transportation vehicle. But going out,
Speaker 2: you also shouldn't waste time by going out on a
Speaker 2: date with an outfit with a person you've never laid
Speaker 2: eyes on. That's just not happening anymore. So I think
Speaker 2: you should go do some dating homework, is what I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah, noted, Yeah, I need to. I need to study up.
Speaker 4: You need to drop a masterclass, like.
Speaker 6: You really do.
Speaker 1: You're in it. This is it. We're on it. It's
Speaker 1: called date, it's called jes B dating. We're on it.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 6: We're getting great advice right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so.
Speaker 2: Go go do the homework with all of it, and
Speaker 2: we'll have you and we'll do a real file like
Speaker 2: take copious notes. I'm being serious, Like, let's do like
Speaker 2: a couple of months, like three, like summer summer dating,
Speaker 2: but like, go do you know, be of value, do
Speaker 2: the FaceTime program and approach if out, but go through
Speaker 2: the apps with a different filter.
Speaker 4: Yeah okay, Yeah, we definitely need to get on that.
Speaker 3: We need to get these rosters turning.
Speaker 4: I will be violently swipeing on Hinge for the next
Speaker 4: few days and I will get back to you with
Speaker 4: the full report.
Speaker 2: Yeah, get back with the full report and violently swipe
Speaker 2: on Bumble too, because you know, go on all go
Speaker 2: on a get bumble go on bumble too. Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: bumble hat there was. I did see the six or
Speaker 2: four finance whatever guy and very successful how because I
Speaker 2: vetted him through my Merril inch guy A fuck around.
Speaker 3: Okay, I have five.
Speaker 1: Different people, five different people that I send. I have
Speaker 1: like a board.
Speaker 2: I have billionaires that have built industries that I will
Speaker 2: send people.
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is a great one.
Speaker 2: And finally I got the Okay, He's like, no, this
Speaker 2: is this is your going And that was very unusual
Speaker 2: the other ones. He was like, nope, nope this nope
Speaker 2: checked it out. Have my guys checked it out? So
Speaker 2: get your advisory board.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we need the advisory board.
Speaker 4: We need yeah, we need we need a board, board
Speaker 4: of directors everything, like damn.
Speaker 1: Yeah, get get an advisory board. And being I'm one
Speaker 1: hundred percent.
Speaker 4: And you get set up by like your you say
Speaker 4: you like get introduced through mutual friends?
Speaker 3: Like are you meeting a lot of people that way
Speaker 3: as well? Not a lot?
Speaker 2: Another hot take, Women who are in relationships with very
Speaker 2: successful men gate keep other successful men. I think they
Speaker 2: want to be the only ones in the relationships with
Speaker 2: the successful men. I think they want to be the
Speaker 2: queens that everybody looks up to. It's giving very housewives.
Speaker 2: Women gate keep their their successful men's husbands or friends
Speaker 2: unless they want you to be in their couple group
Speaker 2: and someone to travel with. Unless it benefits them.
Speaker 6: So where do you find the successful men? Like? Are
Speaker 6: you finding them on the apps?
Speaker 2: You can find them on the Yes, I've found I
Speaker 2: did meet someone. I'm not. You guys are twenty six,
Speaker 2: so understand that a lot of the men, you guys,
Speaker 2: need to be in a relationship with someone who is
Speaker 2: someone or is going to be someone and both are
Speaker 2: equally attractive. At your age, you can't you're not finding
Speaker 2: you don't want to trust fun guy because they're not
Speaker 2: motivated to build anything. So you have to find the
Speaker 2: guys that have potential and already interesting and on the road.
Speaker 2: So it's not going to be the same level of
Speaker 2: success that I would be looking for because but it
Speaker 2: is at your age. It's that level of success at
Speaker 2: your age. So, yes, you can find those guys are
Speaker 2: on the apps, but you guys have to make sure
Speaker 2: that they realize that you guys are boss bitches, not
Speaker 2: just basic girls worrying about eyelashes and Chanel bags.
Speaker 1: That's that's what every girl's doing.
Speaker 3: What do you go for? Like?
Speaker 4: Do you like entrepreneurs or do you like a guy
Speaker 4: who was a boss?
Speaker 2: Like what's your I like a person who energetically travels,
Speaker 2: in a similar circle, like they're going to be going
Speaker 2: to the same places. But again again you guys don't
Speaker 2: have kids, and but no you can't. You like to
Speaker 2: go to certain places. And I don't mean I mean
Speaker 2: you may not want to go to a waspy sailing
Speaker 2: club in Rhode Island like that New Hampshire that may
Speaker 2: not be for you.
Speaker 1: Or Virginia or Ohio. You may not be into that.
Speaker 1: So you have to think about something that might be
Speaker 1: attracted to.
Speaker 2: You, like like they're the patterns, the way they move,
Speaker 2: how do they migrate. They could be very successful, good looking, smart,
Speaker 2: but they migrate in different patterns than you migrate. And
Speaker 2: if you don't care about your patterns, but you might
Speaker 2: care about your patterns, you know what I'm saying, So
Speaker 2: think about what you really that's the first how do
Speaker 2: you move?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: So try to figure out that.
Speaker 2: And then it's not just about height and color of
Speaker 2: eyes and is it they a finance or a doctor?
Speaker 2: It's like how you know, are they live? Do they
Speaker 2: like to live? Like that's why people do ask dorky
Speaker 2: questions like what kind of sports.
Speaker 1: Do you like?
Speaker 2: Like figure out are they the guy who's eating the
Speaker 2: chicken wings at the sports bar. Who you're going to
Speaker 2: be like a football widow on Sunday? Or do they
Speaker 2: want to go brunch with you know, mimosas? Like what
Speaker 2: do you want? And figure out how they have they vibe.
Speaker 2: That's more important than every box checked off.
Speaker 6: Wow, I have a lot of work to do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's getting me more hope in the apps because
Speaker 4: I was honestly ready to delea after my two hind
Speaker 4: shaates last week.
Speaker 3: I was like, I've had enough. But it sounds like
Speaker 3: there's some hope out there for.
Speaker 1: You yet nuance? Are they very into?
Speaker 2: Do they mention like, well my mom and I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be seeing my parents and are they Is that not
Speaker 2: for you? Are they very religious? That's a nuanced thing
Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with their height. That's are
Speaker 2: you gonna like? Because it's all cute in the beginning
Speaker 2: until you're with their parents at their parents' house every
Speaker 2: other weekend that you don't want to be like whatever
Speaker 2: the thing is, So figure out who you are, what
Speaker 2: you like, how you flow, and then go. Don't waste
Speaker 2: any time there unless you just want to sleep with someone.
Speaker 2: That's your own business. But I'm saying, if you're looking
Speaker 2: for boyfriends eventually or husband's eventually, look for what you like.
Speaker 2: And you know, you might think you don't want someone
Speaker 2: under six feet, but you might end up being with
Speaker 2: some of five to ten because they roll the same
Speaker 2: way you do and they're funny, Like are they funny?
Speaker 2: You guys need people with someone who has a sense
Speaker 2: of humor.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that is rare too. I feel like, find them.
Speaker 2: On the matter, so get out if they don't get
Speaker 2: your dumb jokes. So that's the type of stuff I
Speaker 2: think you should do for your homework.
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm taking notes right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and also just the finance pros of it all.
Speaker 4: Like they get off at like ten pm at night.
Speaker 4: It's like they like don't have any time, And it's
Speaker 4: like do I want to date a corporate slate?
Speaker 3: Like do I want that? Like it's like.
Speaker 2: Also there too, that stock is too hot right now,
Speaker 2: it's going to crash, it's too much with that song.
Speaker 1: You don't want to be with that anyway right now?
Speaker 3: You want that's not appealing at all to me. It's
Speaker 3: like you're one of a ten million, like so many.
Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't mean if someone's cute and nice
Speaker 2: and an exception. But also don't take that babe of
Speaker 2: being like, oh, you're a finance bro, like you don't
Speaker 2: even notice.
Speaker 1: You don't notice what they do. They work in a bank.
Speaker 2: You don't care, Like, you don't need to be leaning
Speaker 2: into the in or out of the finance bro thing.
Speaker 2: You don't just talk about it, but you don't need
Speaker 2: to be excited about it because they don't really they're
Speaker 2: just they're all a cookie cutter person.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're all the same.
Speaker 4: I honestly don't get the appeal, like, yeah, ideally I
Speaker 4: want someone you need to like I do. I do
Speaker 4: like someone like whether it's like entrepreneurs, like someone in
Speaker 4: the creative space.
Speaker 3: I just think it's cool on like to have something in.
Speaker 2: Common, right, But people can be creative in business, So
Speaker 2: look at that. Someone could be investing in other companies
Speaker 2: and so figure all that stuff out. Do your homework
Speaker 2: about what you want. If you want someone who's self made,
Speaker 2: who's doing it on their own versus mommy and Daddy's money,
Speaker 2: like you figure it out for yourself.
Speaker 3: Okay, oh boy, all right, I will get on that.
Speaker 2: All right, amazing ladies go back, but really do the homework,
Speaker 2: and we'll have you guys back and we'll talk about
Speaker 2: what happened.
Speaker 6: We literally will