1 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: All right. 2 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: So I met these girls the vip list through social media. 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: They're kind of in my community. They follow me and 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: vice versa their young girls. I invited them to an event. 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 2: I like them, I respect them. They're smart enough to 6 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: know what they know. They're even smarter to know what 7 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 2: they don't know. I think they're beautiful. I think they're fun. 8 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,319 Speaker 2: I think they're funny. I think they know food. I'm 9 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: sure they have an opinion on beauty. And I know 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:37,959 Speaker 2: they have an opinion on dating because on the day 11 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: that I invited them to an event, they were talking 12 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: about dating. And I am just interested in their perspective 13 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 2: on dating. I think it could help a lot of 14 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: young women that think you can help moms who have daughters. 15 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: I just think it's interesting my perspective, their perspective, because 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: I've found that this younger generation doesn't know what the 17 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: hell they're doing. And it's shocking because when I have 18 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: better game than young girls, we have a problem. 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: All right. 20 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: So the two of you are single. 21 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 3: Right, yes, yes, very single? 22 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so what what's your do You both 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: want to be in relationships now? 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 3: Right now? 25 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 4: We're while we're building our careers and also we haven't 26 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 4: found anyone that like matches the energy that we're bringing 27 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 4: right now. And that's another thing. Like our worst fear 28 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 4: is settling. I'd rather be alone than be with someone 29 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 4: that's dragging me down. 30 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like it's hard to find someone who 31 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 5: can add to our lives at this point, like as 32 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 5: a partner, Like, and we've both been in relationships before, 33 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 5: like while we're doing this career and oftentimes, like I 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 5: felt like I was settling or like bringing myself down 35 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 5: so that I could accommodate like my boyfriend. 36 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 6: But yeah, I felt like the man, like. 37 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 4: I'm out of your pain for the meals paying for 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 4: me Like at that like at that point, I'll date myself, Okay, so. 39 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: Let's get it. So you're both beautiful. I found this 40 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: Like I'm going to say this to you both. You're 41 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 2: twenty six years old. I have better dating game than 42 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: you guys do. And it doesn't make any fuck because 43 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: because then I'm not. Yeah. I was at a dinner 44 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 2: with a third with thirty five influencers from a brand. 45 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: All of them were kids. It was like I was 46 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: the mom at the table. One more stunning than the next, one, 47 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: more eyelashes more curves, more makeup, more beauty, more. They're smart, 48 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 2: they're chic, they know everything, and they all were like, oh, 49 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: the men suck. 50 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: I can't find him. 51 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: So, like, it's funny, you guys know everything intellectually, but 52 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 2: something's going on with your generation's game and I can't 53 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: figure it out. 54 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 4: So I'm gonna we're so used to dating apps, like 55 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 4: no one approaches the person anymore, like at all. We 56 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 4: go to all these restaurants where there's all these eligible men, 57 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 4: but when you're in a group of girls, now men 58 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 4: are too scared to approach. Like literally, people say you 59 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 4: have to go out with yourself or just one other 60 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 4: person because a guy approaching a group of girls is 61 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 4: too intimidating apparently nowadays. 62 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 2: Okay, so what you're describing there's this is like young 63 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: kids and your generation too, that like doesn't how to 64 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: write a letter because they're writing LOL and OMFG and 65 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: roth Lama rolling on the floor laughing whatever so and 66 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: me and gifts and shit that I don't even understand. 67 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 2: So that's the equivalent to that, you guys don't speak 68 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: the language of dating, so you don't have that muscle 69 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: to you don't know how to exercise that muscle. 70 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah. 71 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 4: And also I don't want to approach like I want 72 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 4: to man only talk to me. And I know that 73 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 4: like Edroin's like, oh well, if you want to go 74 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 4: chase it. But there's just something so masculine about me 75 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 4: going up to a man asking him out. 76 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: Right, all right, So let's break this down. So first 77 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 2: of all, let's put dating apps to the side. So 78 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 2: now we're talking about a restaurant. Are you seeing people 79 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: at bars or restaurants ever that you would approach or 80 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: that look interesting or you're not even seeing the people. 81 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 5: I mean, there's definitely like attractive men who look like 82 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 5: they could potentially be like of quality out but I 83 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 5: feel like, what like Mike said, like if I want 84 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 5: to talk to them, it's me going up to them. 85 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: Right, But you could go up to them through business, 86 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: Like you guys have the perfect thing. Hi, I'm a 87 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: food blogger. You know I'm interested in what you thought 88 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: of this meal like something, or here's my card if 89 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: you'd be willing to because you're you're both beautiful. So 90 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: some in that has nothing to do with being desperate 91 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 2: and wanting someone to buy you a drink, because I 92 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: could get in touch with so many different men via 93 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: real estate, via business, via all these things, which also 94 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: brings me to the main point is that the two 95 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 2: of you have something going on, so you have something 96 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 2: to bring to the table, which makes you way more 97 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 2: attractive than all these girls that just want to go 98 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: out with someone to get a Chanel bag and think 99 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 2: them being hot is enough. 100 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: So you guys have that. 101 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 5: That's brilliant, honestly, because why I pick up line has 102 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 5: been are you single? 103 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 6: And that just off the bat is not really giving, 104 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 6: like and. 105 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 3: Half the time they lie. Half the time it's a lie. 106 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So don't go in with being single and 107 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: that is desperate and it's that is that's you. Let's 108 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 2: go cry about it. That's not not good. Literally, yeah, 109 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: you have to like have confidence. And also it's also 110 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: like I tell my daughter, I'm like, what like when 111 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: she used to be younger and she's on the beach 112 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: and she wanted friends and meet someone, I'm like, what 113 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: what happens? They say, You're you're horrible, You're ugly, I know, 114 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: never want to play with you. Like what, so you 115 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 2: go home you have the same bag of shit in 116 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: your hand than you have when you got there, so 117 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 2: what's the difference. 118 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: But you can't go in with a lame game. 119 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 5: So I love that so goodness, it's such a brilliant idea. 120 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 1: Yeah that you haven't. 121 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're gonna go that's homework that I'm gonna 122 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 2: give you. I want you to come back here for that. Like, 123 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: let's put that to the side now. So just overall, 124 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: if you're saying there are interesting men and you just 125 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 2: feel like a weirdo shark circling, you know, chum, not 126 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 2: knowing how to go in, find your way in the 127 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: door the window, be the one that's having the most fun, 128 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 2: because that is very attractive, laughing, like with people at 129 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 2: the bar, like talking the bar town like whatever that is. 130 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 2: People are attracted to like that live energy, Like desperation 131 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: is never going to get anybody in the door. 132 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 3: No, that's no, that's brilliant. 133 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 4: I also just feel like a lot of people aren't 134 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 4: looking for anything serious nowadays, Like we will meet God 135 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 4: and they're like, yeah, I'm just not looking for anything. 136 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: Like I guess we're not looking for anything either, But. 137 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,119 Speaker 1: Hold on, they don't know they're looking. 138 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: That's like that's not true either, Because I dated a 139 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: player who was literally so gorgeous and could get any 140 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 2: girl he wanted, and he was sleeping with a different 141 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: girl every week, and he literally you hooked and I 142 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: hooked him in because I liked him a lot and 143 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 2: he was fun, and I played the game for a 144 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: while until he said I'm not looking for a serious girlfriend. 145 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: I said, great, we're not, then, then let's call the fight. 146 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 2: And he was like, wait, but I was like, no, 147 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 2: we'll call it. I'm like, I don't need to be 148 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: a serious girlfriend. I'm not twelve. I don't need you 149 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: to give me a fairy princess outfit and in a book. 150 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: But what I do need is to be moving forward 151 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: and evolving forward motion. I'm not looking for, you know, 152 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 2: a pen pal that I speak to once in a while. 153 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm an adult. I want to evolve with anyone in 154 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 2: my life, whether it's work or friends. But that hooked 155 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: him to feel like I was he was going to 156 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: lose the rope completely, and then we ended up being 157 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 2: in a very serious relationship and it was a great relationship. 158 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 5: Love that. 159 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 4: Okay, So so play the game, like, let like, if 160 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 4: they stay they're not interested and not interested in anything serious, 161 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 4: you like just threaten to leave. 162 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: No, well not if if you're dating them. 163 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: You're casual about it, because you're casual and confidence, like 164 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: you're not like dropping your toys and running away, because 165 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: then that makes you look like a baby. Like that's 166 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 2: the equivalent of sleeping with someone and then being all 167 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: desperate and needy because they didn't call you, versus like 168 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 2: you sleeping to someone because you want to sleep with 169 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 2: someone and you're not calling them, and your energy will 170 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: like seep. 171 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: Through the universe. 172 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: And even if you're not texting or doing anything, it's 173 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 2: not playing a game. It's like being a game. It's 174 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: who you actually are. So it's a confidence to be 175 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: like I'm looking for anything serious, congratulations, I'm looking for 176 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,239 Speaker 2: a caveaart and tivodka that I can pay for myself. 177 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: Like you're not giving any desperation at all. You are 178 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 2: coming in. It's like a business deal, Like whoever the 179 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: brands are that you're working with, Like you're bringing the 180 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: same amount to the table, to your point of matching 181 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: your energy, but like maybe you have to find that energy. 182 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: Maybe they're not seeing you that way. 183 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 5: So basically that you're just like you don't need them, 184 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 5: and that that's also just like a fact, it's like 185 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 5: you don't need them, so if. 186 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: But not in a way that's like I don't need that. 187 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: It's literally just confidence. It's like Hi, no, yeah, amazing. 188 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: But you still have to live in your feminine energy. 189 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: You don't want to be you know, if we're talking 190 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 2: gender roles, which people will get pissed off about, I'm 191 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: just saying you still want to live in your girliness 192 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 2: and you're you know that you took care of yourself, 193 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 2: and you smell nice. You make an effort to Barbie 194 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: the matchmaker's point that she gave. But you're bringing something 195 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: to the table, like you're bringing somebody to the table. 196 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: You want you do want to meet someone who's going 197 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 2: to see that, but they were not going to see 198 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 2: it if you don't present it. 199 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 3: Do you meet people in person? Like how do you? 200 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: How do you meet people? Mostly there you on the apps? 201 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 2: Or Okay, So then let's get to so I I'm 202 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: at a different level now, because then that's another good reason 203 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 2: to stay single for a while or just play around, 204 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: but be confident about it. No one ever advised me. 205 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: I don't know how you guys got your good advice 206 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: about not you know, wanting to be with someone that 207 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: doesn't match your energy or where you're paying for the meal. 208 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 2: And I don't think you should be doing any of that. 209 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: I think I think it should be like the way 210 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: you are about food. You'd rather not eat than eat crap, 211 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 2: so you'd rather not date than date crap. So for me, 212 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: I still have to find tune that because sometimes you 213 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 2: feel a little. My biggest mistakes have been when I've 214 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 2: been lonely, not lonely, but like what's going on? There's 215 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: nothing like and then you just sort of fill the void. 216 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 2: And that's bad because then you're in the wrong car, 217 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 2: sitting in the wrong car, or you're almost there, and 218 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: to your point, dating down, it's almost good enough, so 219 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 2: you might not be able to really pick up on 220 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: the fact that you're settling, but it's you're almost got there, 221 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 2: so you're like, Okay, that's good enough, Like it's so close. 222 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: Whereas now at this level, with my level of success 223 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 2: and I you know, confidence and kind of understanding men, 224 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: I won't there's zero there will be literally being alone 225 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 2: or going big or going home, so there will be 226 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: no settling. 227 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: So this is a different game. 228 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 4: Now, Yeah, our standards go on sale after like a month, 229 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 4: We're like, okay, it's because. 230 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 6: Sometimes I just wanted attention. 231 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 2: But put that in that bucket. That's just eating junk 232 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: food and then you just know it's junk food. That's fine. 233 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so your. 234 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: Standards go on sale. So I like, okay, So don't 235 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: do that if you want a relationship. If you don't 236 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 2: want a relationship, peep it in check. But then the 237 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: drinking and the getting depressed and the going low, like 238 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 2: all those levels need to be balanced out. 239 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: Particulate your age. I didn't do any of this at 240 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: your age. 241 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: I was. 242 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 2: I made all the mistakes, said no one guiding me, 243 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: had no parents. So I'm saying that I'm teaching Britn 244 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: all of this young like for the future, which means 245 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 2: she'll be It'll be great hopefully. So the apps, the 246 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 2: apps are great, but you have to be focused when 247 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: you're doing it, and you've got a really deep, deep 248 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: dive and not get discouraged and then come out when 249 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 2: you get full and you've been at the buffet and 250 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: you've seen too many gross things on that buffet and 251 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: like your plate looks gross, like then like pull off, 252 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: like you like you get your burners full on your 253 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 2: stove and something's on boiling and something's on simmer, and 254 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 2: then you pull something off and then you may be 255 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 2: like I don't want to eat it all right now, 256 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 2: Like you gotta do the dance otherwise you'll make bad decisions. 257 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: So I don't think I can find the level that 258 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 2: I'm looking for now on the apps, the level of intelligence, the. 259 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: Level of success, the rock star. But there there there. 260 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 4: If they see if Finance Bros. In New York City, 261 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 4: that's all that's on the apps. It's a bunch of chats. 262 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: Chat and chats they talk. It's pempals. 263 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, like yeah, it's time consuming. 264 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 5: Like there's so many just average men and on the 265 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: apps that I don't even know. 266 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 6: I've never found a man that's like a quality. 267 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: There are good ones there, but it's TJ Max. You 268 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: can find in why cell bag, but you also find 269 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 2: a mabeling crack compact and more amabling crack. So you 270 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: have to like do you have to be? You have 271 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 2: to focus on it. And I wouldn't say any or 272 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 2: better than others. 273 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 3: It's hinge? Are you on Hinge? 274 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: So I'll tell you about all them. I know about 275 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 2: all of them for different reasons. 276 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: And I've been in it. I've tried. 277 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: I've dipped in but then dipped out and been incognito 278 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: because I don't want him to see me, and then 279 00:11:59,240 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: felt like gross. 280 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: And someone knows who I am and they I don't 281 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 1: know who they are. 282 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: And so the league is like you could hit the lottery, 283 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 2: but like that's the odds of that, Like it's not 284 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: it's really not great. And also I'm at a different age, 285 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 2: so it might be better for you. When I did 286 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: it was like, you know, several years ago, and then 287 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: it was better. But it's not good. It's a brand 288 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 2: that is suffering. Bumble's Walmart. It's a volume business. You 289 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 2: can get quality things in Walmart and Target, but you 290 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 2: have to go through every frickin' aisle. 291 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: So that's what Bumble is. It's Walmart. 292 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: Hinge is I think what like Barney's was, like there 293 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: are some things that you could get at Walmart, some 294 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 2: things you probably could get at the other places, but 295 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: Hinge is just it's low volume. They have no merchandise, 296 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: so it's like now you're on Bumble but with no merchandise. 297 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 2: And it's like with Barney's it was like obscure and 298 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 2: it's like, don't why bother going in there? 299 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 3: I don't care. 300 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 4: I don't like you have to shoot your thought birth 301 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 4: like I don't want to shoot my thought as the 302 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: woman like I want the man to DM me. 303 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: No, just say hi. It's they know you shouldn't you 304 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: should just say hi. It's it's two letters hi. Okay, 305 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: Like it's not that doesn't matter, that's not it doesn't 306 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 2: count as you make in the first move. 307 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 3: It's hard. Okay, it doesn't okay because that's what that's 308 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 3: what it was giving to me. Hinge is just the amount. 309 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 4: Of catfishes on that app like it needs to be studied. 310 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't even know that amazing data I was. 311 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 4: I went out with this photographer. He was like this, 312 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 4: like rock Nation photographer. I thought he had such a 313 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 4: cool job. Rarely get like impressed by someone's job. I 314 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 4: thought that was cool that he was in the creative 315 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 4: space six three. Like I'm thinking, I'm pulling up to 316 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: like this beautiful Greek goddess. He pulls up with a hunchback, 317 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 4: talks like this with his eyes squinted and like like 318 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 4: with a claw like I'm like this, Like he like 319 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 4: talked with a claw like the whole time like this. 320 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 2: Well, here's okay, So let me say something to you. 321 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: Why would you leave your house with a good outfit 322 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 2: and go before facetiming someone FaceTime? 323 00:13:59,320 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: Why? 324 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 2: Why is this in the loophole that no one? It 325 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 2: seems weird and dorky and awkward. And that's what you're 326 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: gonna say. It's called we're about to go out. Hey, 327 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 2: I just I'm excited. I'm so excited. Can we FaceTime before? 328 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: Like you, you've already caught them with the text. You've 329 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: gotten over to text on phone. You got the app 330 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 2: text going. Here's the way it goes. You got the 331 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 2: app text going. You take it over to the main text, 332 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: you take it to a phone call. You're not in 333 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: sixth grade. You take it to a phone call, or 334 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 2: skip the phone call and just go to the FaceTime. 335 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 2: But because phone game matters and text game matters, if 336 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 2: someone is a bad text game, you're not going because 337 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to leave with them on text, you 338 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: don't go. 339 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: People are weird. 340 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: As a text, They don't know how to text like 341 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: they have just weird banter and text. That's that means 342 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: you're not gonna like them and you're not gonna be 343 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: able to deal with that. 344 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 3: And when they have an Android, it's an automatic. 345 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 4: Now for some reason, when I text, I'm like, nah, 346 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 4: this is right, it's. 347 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty four, So just casually throw it into the 348 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 2: FaceTime so you can get eyes on them. Because I 349 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 2: had a guy who wanted to fly from Florida to 350 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: take me for dinner in Westchester, a very very wealthy man, 351 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 2: very successful. Let's just say that he was not going 352 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 2: to be he was when I got on FaceTime. It 353 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 2: was it was physically not my type, to say the least, 354 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: and not what the photo was giving. And I don't 355 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: know if I could fully categorize it as a catfish. 356 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 2: But photos don't have to be in date. They could 357 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 2: be five years ago, like you could. They could have 358 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: been on that app for so I like avoided that. 359 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: You've got a. 360 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: FaceTime and I know you feel bad because then they 361 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: realized that it wasn't the right physical match. But like 362 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 2: time is precious, you have to face girls. You must 363 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: FaceTime before you're gonna go leave your house and meet 364 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 2: someone that is brilliant. 365 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 5: Because I've wasted a lot of outfits in a lot 366 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 5: of hours on men that could have been avoided. 367 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I also feel like whenever I. 368 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 4: Get into the texting stage with a guy, like from 369 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 4: an app, like when we've been talking for too long, 370 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, I'm over this. Like if I'm talking 371 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 4: to a guy, there's like a three day turnaround, like 372 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 4: I better see you in like a week to go 373 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 4: on a date or else I'm like, I'm over this. 374 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 3: You're just another number, I feel like. 375 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 2: But be bubbly and cute about it, like, oh my god, 376 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: I made I just made a martini. Let's FaceTime Like 377 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 2: you're cute, like I just made a martini and caviar. 378 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 2: I need to show you let's FaceTime, like get into 379 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: the thing so you could just get eyes on them, 380 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: because men aren't as vain as we are. You'll be 381 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 2: looking cute, You'll have just shot of video. They don't care. 382 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: So that's what I suggest, Like, I think we need 383 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 2: to bring the FaceTime into the dating because there's a 384 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 2: person that wants to fly me across the country and 385 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 2: it's another setup from an incredible source that and we've 386 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 2: already spoken and it's an extremely high profile, successful person. 387 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 2: But I need to FaceTime them. I need to get 388 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 2: body language. I need to see if there's sexual chemistry. 389 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: I'm not flying to another location on an airplane in 390 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: the middle of the summer, which is valuable time, unless 391 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: I have chemistry on FaceTime. So I said, yeah, all right, 392 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: I'm considering that this is fun, this is my adventure er. 393 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: I'm considering that Brinn was all about it. I ask 394 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: our opinion now, and I just want her respect and opinion. 395 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 2: And she's old enough now that I like like that 396 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 2: she knows what we are doing in our girl summer 397 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 2: and she's gonna be at camp and she said yes, 398 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 2: And I said, all right, I'm into this. I can 399 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: stay in my own hotel room like it's all above 400 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 2: board and it's a person that people would know, it's 401 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 2: not some criminal. So I said, all right, let's FaceTime 402 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 2: and then I'll go. Then you can, then we can, 403 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 2: then we can book the transportation vehicle. But going out, 404 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: you also shouldn't waste time by going out on a 405 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 2: date with an outfit with a person you've never laid 406 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: eyes on. That's just not happening anymore. So I think 407 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 2: you should go do some dating homework, is what I think. 408 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, noted, Yeah, I need to. I need to study up. 409 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 4: You need to drop a masterclass, like. 410 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 6: You really do. 411 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: You're in it. This is it. We're on it. It's 412 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: called date, it's called jes B dating. We're on it. 413 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 3: Now. 414 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 6: We're getting great advice right now. 415 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so. 416 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 2: Go go do the homework with all of it, and 417 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 2: we'll have you and we'll do a real file like 418 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 2: take copious notes. I'm being serious, Like, let's do like 419 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 2: a couple of months, like three, like summer summer dating, 420 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 2: but like, go do you know, be of value, do 421 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: the FaceTime program and approach if out, but go through 422 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 2: the apps with a different filter. 423 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 4: Yeah okay, Yeah, we definitely need to get on that. 424 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 3: We need to get these rosters turning. 425 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 4: I will be violently swipeing on Hinge for the next 426 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 4: few days and I will get back to you with 427 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 4: the full report. 428 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, get back with the full report and violently swipe 429 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: on Bumble too, because you know, go on all go 430 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: on a get bumble go on bumble too. Yeah, no, 431 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 2: bumble hat there was. I did see the six or 432 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 2: four finance whatever guy and very successful how because I 433 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 2: vetted him through my Merril inch guy A fuck around. 434 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 3: Okay, I have five. 435 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: Different people, five different people that I send. I have 436 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 1: like a board. 437 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 2: I have billionaires that have built industries that I will 438 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 2: send people. 439 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:54,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, this is a great one. 440 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 2: And finally I got the Okay, He's like, no, this 441 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 2: is this is your going And that was very unusual 442 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 2: the other ones. He was like, nope, nope this nope 443 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 2: checked it out. Have my guys checked it out? So 444 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: get your advisory board. 445 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, we need the advisory board. 446 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 4: We need yeah, we need we need a board, board 447 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 4: of directors everything, like damn. 448 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, get get an advisory board. And being I'm one 449 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: hundred percent. 450 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 4: And you get set up by like your you say 451 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 4: you like get introduced through mutual friends? 452 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 3: Like are you meeting a lot of people that way 453 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 3: as well? Not a lot? 454 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: Another hot take, Women who are in relationships with very 455 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: successful men gate keep other successful men. I think they 456 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 2: want to be the only ones in the relationships with 457 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 2: the successful men. I think they want to be the 458 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 2: queens that everybody looks up to. It's giving very housewives. 459 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 2: Women gate keep their their successful men's husbands or friends 460 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 2: unless they want you to be in their couple group 461 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 2: and someone to travel with. Unless it benefits them. 462 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 6: So where do you find the successful men? Like? Are 463 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 6: you finding them on the apps? 464 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 2: You can find them on the Yes, I've found I 465 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 2: did meet someone. I'm not. You guys are twenty six, 466 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 2: so understand that a lot of the men, you guys, 467 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,479 Speaker 2: need to be in a relationship with someone who is 468 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 2: someone or is going to be someone and both are 469 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 2: equally attractive. At your age, you can't you're not finding 470 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 2: you don't want to trust fun guy because they're not 471 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 2: motivated to build anything. So you have to find the 472 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 2: guys that have potential and already interesting and on the road. 473 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 2: So it's not going to be the same level of 474 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: success that I would be looking for because but it 475 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 2: is at your age. It's that level of success at 476 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 2: your age. So, yes, you can find those guys are 477 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 2: on the apps, but you guys have to make sure 478 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 2: that they realize that you guys are boss bitches, not 479 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: just basic girls worrying about eyelashes and Chanel bags. 480 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: That's that's what every girl's doing. 481 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 3: What do you go for? Like? 482 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 4: Do you like entrepreneurs or do you like a guy 483 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 4: who was a boss? 484 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 2: Like what's your I like a person who energetically travels, 485 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: in a similar circle, like they're going to be going 486 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 2: to the same places. But again again you guys don't 487 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 2: have kids, and but no you can't. You like to 488 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: go to certain places. And I don't mean I mean 489 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 2: you may not want to go to a waspy sailing 490 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 2: club in Rhode Island like that New Hampshire that may 491 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 2: not be for you. 492 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: Or Virginia or Ohio. You may not be into that. 493 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: So you have to think about something that might be 494 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: attracted to. 495 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: You, like like they're the patterns, the way they move, 496 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 2: how do they migrate. They could be very successful, good looking, smart, 497 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 2: but they migrate in different patterns than you migrate. And 498 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 2: if you don't care about your patterns, but you might 499 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 2: care about your patterns, you know what I'm saying, So 500 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: think about what you really that's the first how do 501 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: you move? 502 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 3: You know? 503 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,120 Speaker 1: So try to figure out that. 504 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 2: And then it's not just about height and color of 505 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 2: eyes and is it they a finance or a doctor? 506 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 2: It's like how you know, are they live? Do they 507 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 2: like to live? Like that's why people do ask dorky 508 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 2: questions like what kind of sports. 509 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 1: Do you like? 510 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 2: Like figure out are they the guy who's eating the 511 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 2: chicken wings at the sports bar. Who you're going to 512 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 2: be like a football widow on Sunday? Or do they 513 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: want to go brunch with you know, mimosas? Like what 514 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: do you want? And figure out how they have they vibe. 515 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 2: That's more important than every box checked off. 516 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 6: Wow, I have a lot of work to do. 517 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's getting me more hope in the apps because 518 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 4: I was honestly ready to delea after my two hind 519 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 4: shaates last week. 520 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 3: I was like, I've had enough. But it sounds like 521 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 3: there's some hope out there for. 522 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: You yet nuance? Are they very into? 523 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 2: Do they mention like, well my mom and I'm gonna 524 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: be seeing my parents and are they Is that not 525 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: for you? Are they very religious? That's a nuanced thing 526 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with their height. That's are 527 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 2: you gonna like? Because it's all cute in the beginning 528 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 2: until you're with their parents at their parents' house every 529 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 2: other weekend that you don't want to be like whatever 530 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: the thing is, So figure out who you are, what 531 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 2: you like, how you flow, and then go. Don't waste 532 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 2: any time there unless you just want to sleep with someone. 533 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 2: That's your own business. But I'm saying, if you're looking 534 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 2: for boyfriends eventually or husband's eventually, look for what you like. 535 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 2: And you know, you might think you don't want someone 536 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 2: under six feet, but you might end up being with 537 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 2: some of five to ten because they roll the same 538 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 2: way you do and they're funny, Like are they funny? 539 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 2: You guys need people with someone who has a sense 540 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 2: of humor. 541 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, that is rare too. I feel like, find them. 542 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 2: On the matter, so get out if they don't get 543 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 2: your dumb jokes. So that's the type of stuff I 544 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 2: think you should do for your homework. 545 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm taking notes right now. 546 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, and also just the finance pros of it all. 547 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 4: Like they get off at like ten pm at night. 548 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 4: It's like they like don't have any time, And it's 549 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,880 Speaker 4: like do I want to date a corporate slate? 550 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 3: Like do I want that? Like it's like. 551 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 2: Also there too, that stock is too hot right now, 552 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 2: it's going to crash, it's too much with that song. 553 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 1: You don't want to be with that anyway right now? 554 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 3: You want that's not appealing at all to me. It's 555 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 3: like you're one of a ten million, like so many. 556 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't mean if someone's cute and nice 557 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: and an exception. But also don't take that babe of 558 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: being like, oh, you're a finance bro, like you don't 559 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: even notice. 560 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: You don't notice what they do. They work in a bank. 561 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: You don't care, Like, you don't need to be leaning 562 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: into the in or out of the finance bro thing. 563 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 2: You don't just talk about it, but you don't need 564 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,880 Speaker 2: to be excited about it because they don't really they're 565 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 2: just they're all a cookie cutter person. 566 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, they're all the same. 567 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 4: I honestly don't get the appeal, like, yeah, ideally I 568 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 4: want someone you need to like I do. I do 569 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 4: like someone like whether it's like entrepreneurs, like someone in 570 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 4: the creative space. 571 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: I just think it's cool on like to have something in. 572 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: Common, right, But people can be creative in business, So 573 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 2: look at that. Someone could be investing in other companies 574 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 2: and so figure all that stuff out. Do your homework 575 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 2: about what you want. If you want someone who's self made, 576 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 2: who's doing it on their own versus mommy and Daddy's money, 577 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: like you figure it out for yourself. 578 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 3: Okay, oh boy, all right, I will get on that. 579 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 2: All right, amazing ladies go back, but really do the homework, 580 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 2: and we'll have you guys back and we'll talk about 581 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 2: what happened. 582 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 6: We literally will