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Speaker 2: That aside, I'm very excited. We have a wonderful guest today,

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Speaker 2: an incredible act or very funny improviser podcast or you

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Speaker 2: name it. Lauren lapkuz Hi, Lauren welcome.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I love that tip. That's nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've only really done that when I've been getting

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Speaker 2: Right, which still feels a little crazy. You don't need

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Speaker 2: But it should little does that person know that they

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Speaker 3: That would piss me off because I feel like every commercial, everything,

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Speaker 4: You have to be the most famous person in the world.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand the mentality of the consumer or the

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Speaker 2: Wait and she's still doing it. She's still she goes

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Speaker 4: I know, everything they do every day? Everything they do.

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Speaker 3: It's like a forum where people just shit on bloggers.

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Speaker 3: Oh perfect, So it's like every category of blog exists

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Speaker 4: How many kids does she had?

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Speaker 4: Do you have like friends from back home who are

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's wonderful. Yeah, it's really fun little gu you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fun for anyone who wants to add that

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Speaker 2: You don't have to do that. You don't have to

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Speaker 4: I don't know. That's a nice little thing you could do.

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Speaker 3: It just felt inappropriate to not bring you something I work,

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Speaker 2: Anything that just improves my life in any way, or

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think this is just about any male

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Speaker 3: We honestly just watched so much TV that I think

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Speaker 2: We know this is something that we're doing, and we

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Speaker 3: We watched TV together every night, like, and we would

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what did you guys watch Home Improvement?

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Speaker 2: We watched that, but that was it, so we didn't

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Speaker 3: I mean I watched everything, but I yeah, Home Improvement.

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Speaker 3: But like the idea of like shitting into a pizza

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Speaker 4: That's a revolted. That character is the worst.

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Speaker 2: And then poor Jill, poor common sense Jill is standing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where's he now? I was just, what is the

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Speaker 3: I'm I don't know. I remember he went to Northwestern.

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Speaker 3: This might just be like folklore that I like have

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Speaker 4: Had to be him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's an absolutely insane person if that's him.

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Speaker 3: But maybe it was his mom. Yeah, so we went

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Speaker 4: I feel like you write it out that's.

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Speaker 4: Just do it. We've all fallen in love with you.

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Speaker 3: it's like you're basically set. So you should just keep

444
00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:58,480
Speaker 3: going until the train runs off the track.

445
00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, and then open a small business with

446
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 2: the cash.

447
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 3: Apparently the oldest brother opened up Buffalo Wild and he

448
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,120
Speaker 3: started Buffalo Wild.

449
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 2: That cannot be true. It's exactly like someone who would

450
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 2: own a buffalo I might be doing like telephone of information.

451
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 2: I'm like just giving you like the weirdest but of.

452
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 4: Course it's now true as mentioned.

453
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 2: Wow, Zachary Tyyler, Yeah, Zachary ty Bryant, Yeah.

454
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 3: Is now the proud owner of a bw W or

455
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 3: the entire chain or something he started.

456
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,879
Speaker 2: Okay, well, you can say a lot of things on

457
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 2: a podcast and they become true, but he is not

458
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 2: the CEO.

459
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 4: Of Buffalo Wild.

460
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 3: Wind out later and then.

461
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 2: We'll see what is that's my new destination. I've never

462
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,360
Speaker 2: been there before me neither. I feel like it's discussed.

463
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,639
Speaker 3: I don't want to go there. I don't think I

464
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,920
Speaker 3: can eat like most things like that anymore. But growing

465
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,120
Speaker 3: up I would eat like all sorts of just throw

466
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 3: garbage in the pit.

467
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 4: So that was the ideal diet, right, But now I'm like,

468
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 4: feel second, I'm not.

469
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,720
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm vicious of everything going on there.

470
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 2: I feel like there's some connection to Pizza Hut that

471
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 2: makes me even wow more scared.

472
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 3: They're like a crossover. I feel like there might be,

473
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 3: But they have one of those like half and half.

474
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I've seen one of those. But

475
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: I could be wrong, and in that case, I apologize

476
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 2: to both parties and to Zach, But yeah, I'm not

477
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 2: into that. I don't mind a buffalo wing about once

478
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,680
Speaker 2: every four years, you had buffalo sauce.

479
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: No you don't like it, but you don't like it.

480
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 3: I would eat like, you know, buffalo cauliflower, Like, I'll

481
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 3: eat that. Yeah, that's fine.

482
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: If you put buffalo sauce on something, I will eat it.

483
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 2: It can't be spicy.

484
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 4: No, you don't like a spicy No, okay, that's.

485
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 3: A little spicy.

486
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 4: What are you eating? I'm eating?

487
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 3: You know?

488
00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 4: I actually feel okay.

489
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 3: So I used to be extremely picky growing up, Okay,

490
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 3: and we ate a lot of fast food in my house,

491
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 3: So I would eat a lot of that, but I

492
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 3: also ate the same lunch every day from like kindergarten

493
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 3: through senior year of high school. What which was a

494
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 3: variation on like a peanut butter sandwich with no jelly okay, chip,

495
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 3: bag of chips, a sort of dessert like a Hostess

496
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 3: cupcake or cookies or something, and then like a coke

497
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 3: or a juice box.

498
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: It's a beautiful little lunch, a classic lunch. For thirteen years,

499
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 2: it was just like a stable, consistent choice. But you've

500
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 2: broken away from that.

501
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

502
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 3: I think as I in my twenties, like I think

503
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 3: being a picky eater started to become like just really

504
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: annoying because people don't really love.

505
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 4: That, Like, oh I live with someone who's a picky okay, yeah,

506
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 4: how do you feel?

507
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 1: Like?

508
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think people start to get annoyed, like with you,

509
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 3: like if you just won't go with the flow.

510
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, So I.

511
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: Was always the person like I needed something very specific

512
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 3: on the menu or like you know, I kind of like,

513
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 3: I mean it would be like chicken fingers and fries.

514
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 3: By the way, It's not like I was like I

515
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 3: had some like salad that I loved. Yeah, it was

516
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 3: like gross kid food. But really over the last few years,

517
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 3: I would say maybe the last like five to six years,

518
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 3: I've really changed And I like eat sushi now, which

519
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 3: I never would have touched, and like pretty much I

520
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 3: can go to any rest I mean no, without a doubt.

521
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 3: I can go to any restaurant and be fine and

522
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 3: not care and not feel like there's any problem with it.

523
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 3: That's a beautiful skill to have. I think it feels amazing.

524
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 3: It's really liberating. So I used to panic about going

525
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 3: out to dinner, of course, because I'm like, what am

526
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 3: I gonna do? Yeah, and I'm gonna look dumb if

527
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 3: I get something like weird, It's like, no one would

528
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: we eat now?

529
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: And so what was the initial step away from that?

530
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: How did you do it? Was it scary or was

531
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: it just like it kind of slowly chipped away, slowly

532
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: chipped away.

533
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 3: I think it was like I kind of just started eating,

534
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 3: like I'll just go, let me just try that thing

535
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 3: that I've been afraid of and just try it. And

536
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 3: if I didn't like it, then final least I know

537
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 3: that I tried it.

538
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 4: It didn't kill you.

539
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so it was kind of like slowly trying

540
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:43,719
Speaker 3: new things and then I started dating someone who was like,

541
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 3: you gotta try sushi, like just try it, and then

542
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 3: I loved it. But it was so shocking to me

543
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 3: because it looks crazy and as someone who's like a

544
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 3: picky eater, like I don't want to eat put that

545
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 3: weird thing in my mouth, but like loved it. And

546
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 3: then that kind of broke open the whole seal, I think,

547
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 3: because like once I was eating like weird looking raw fish.

548
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 3: Why am I saying no to like this like Mexican food?

549
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 4: Of course?

550
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to get you in touch with my boyfriend. Yeah,

551
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 2: it's truly meatballs, Hamburger's chicken fingers.

552
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I relate to that so hard.

553
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 2: I feel like that's essentially what he's eating.

554
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I mean left my own device is like

555
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 3: if I'm cooking spaghetti is like a main Oh sure,

556
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 3: like it's just easy and I like it and whatever.

557
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 3: I'll eat that all the time.

558
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 4: Now, what your mom is Greek? Yeah? Do you like

559
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 4: Greek food?

560
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 3: Not?

561
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: Really?

562
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 4: Wow? No, none of it? Some of it, Like there

563
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 4: are certain I like meat and stuff.

564
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 3: So like that opens up a big like a chick

565
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 3: totally like Euros and like, oh I love a hero. Yeah, like,

566
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,239
Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of good chicken stuff, but

567
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 3: it's not like I would like choose to go to

568
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 3: a Greek rust.

569
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 4: Okay.

570
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 3: I like Italian food the most.

571
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 4: Oh Okay, I.

572
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 3: Like Chinese food. I like Japanese food. But like your people, no,

573
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 3: my mom wasn't like cooking Greek food tup, so I

574
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 3: think that would be another element that's missed. Okay, we

575
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 3: were eating, like I mean, not to throw shit at

576
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 3: my mom, but it was like bird King and McDonald's

577
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 3: and like you know, spaghetti and mom, you could have

578
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 3: changed everything. She's relatively picky too. Though I realized this,

579
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 3: it took me like into my adult years to understand that,

580
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 3: like a lot of the reasons why I had never

581
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 3: tried any like very obvious things like blueberries until I

582
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 3: have a little belt, was because my mom.

583
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 4: Is afraid of blueberries.

584
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 3: She's like, I don't want to eat that. So there's

585
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 3: like so many things my mom won't eat, and that's

586
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 3: why I'm like, this is where it all comes from.

587
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 4: Like I don't like jelly. She doesn't like jelly, Like

588
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 4: I just don't know if I like jelly.

589
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: Wow, So this I mean, I feel like you do

590
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 2: it twenty three and me, and it's going to go

591
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: back generations to somebody who like four hundred years ago

592
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 2: wouldn't eat a blueberry, and it's just been this avalanche

593
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: of just eating peanut butter sand or something.

594
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 4: I did do twenty three and me. Have you done that?

595
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 4: I haven't. What were your results?

596
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 3: They were pretty fairly interesting. There's like it tells you

597
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff, like if you are likely to

598
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 3: ease in the sunlight, and like what I Oh.

599
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that there was this element.

600
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 3: There was like there are a lot of like weird

601
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 3: categories like if you would like sweeter salty, and like

602
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 3: it was right about most of them, or like if

603
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 3: you're likely to have blue eyes or brown eyes or.

604
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. Are you sure this wasn't a horoscope?

605
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 3: Or yeah, it did tell me my birthday even though

606
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 3: I submitted that.

607
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: No.

608
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: There's like it's like cheek dimples, like fifty two percent

609
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 3: chance you do not have dimples, forty eight percent chance

610
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 3: you have.

611
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 4: That's fifty five fifty fifty.

612
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: Don't report that sixteen percent chance that I have sixteen

613
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 3: percent chance that I have a left chin. I don't

614
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 3: have a cleft chin though, right, okay. Sixty one percent

615
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 3: chance I've never had dan druff. That's feels true to me.

616
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 3: Eighty six percent chance you have detached ear lobes. I

617
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: do have detached ear lobes.

618
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 4: What. Ninety three percent chance you have wet, sticky earwax?

619
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 3: I do, sorry everyone. Fifty percent chance of blue eyes,

620
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 3: that's accurate. Fifty nine percent chance your ring finger is

621
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 3: longer than your index finger.

622
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 4: That's true. Oh yeah it is, Yeah, mine's longer.

623
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: Seventy three percent chance you have few any freckles. That's true.

624
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 3: You know it goes I had no idea, Like how

625
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 3: long has it goes on and on?

626
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 4: This is insane. It's kind of fun.

627
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: So it's not just your ancestry. It's like, yeah, it

628
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 2: tells you all about your DNA is doing to you.

629
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 3: And it tells you about like your predisposition or whatever

630
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: for like your chance of like certain diseases.

631
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 4: Like oh wow, you are like. It tells you if

632
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 4: you have the BRACA gene. Did it give you any

633
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 4: scary results? Was there anything?

634
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: No?

635
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 3: Thankfully, But I was afraid to click on them because

636
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: you have to be like you. I agree to this information,

637
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 3: like and this is not from a doctor, and this

638
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 3: you know, it's kind of like it has all these

639
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 3: warnings and I was kind of afraid to click it, but.

640
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 4: Open that door. H oh good great?

641
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, was there anything in particular you were afraid you

642
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: might have?

643
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 3: No, it was just like the idea of like any

644
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 3: of them, right, Like, I'm just like I don't want

645
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 3: any of these.

646
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 4: Sure, A wow, that's terrifying.

647
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 2: I know I haven't done it. I am going back

648
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: to Mormons. I feel like they're kind of the original

649
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 2: family history people. They did all the you know, they're

650
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: doing a bunch of nonsense with that, so my family

651
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 2: has a decent sense of where it comes from or whatever.

652
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: Somehow I've managed to ignore it completely. I have like

653
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 2: a vague, very vague idea Scottish something. Yeah, and that's

654
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: as far as I can go.

655
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: Well, it's kind of interesting because my parents both did it,

656
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 3: but they did ancestry dot com or whatever the other

657
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 3: one is, OK, and they then I had their results,

658
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 3: so I was like, well, that's what I am, right,

659
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: But then doing this like it kind of breaks down

660
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 3: the actual percentage that you received from each so it's

661
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 3: kind of cool.

662
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 2: Well, maybe it's time for me to do it. We

663
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: did it for our dog and that was worthwhile.

664
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 4: Would you find out cleft.

665
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 2: Chin dandruff is all over the place? No, she was actually,

666
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: I mean she's a rescue and something that I didn't

667
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: realize that what would happen when I rescued a dog. Well,

668
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: I didn't rescue. I'm now claiming this. My boyfriend did

669
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 2: about a month before we met. But you're part of that. Yeah,

670
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 2: that's neither here nor there. We got her as like

671
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: a one year old or whatever, so she was basically

672
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: full grown. But every six months I seriously consider hiring

673
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: a private investigator to find photos of her as a puppy.

674
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: Oh all I want in the world to see pictures

675
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: that this dog as a puppy. But we got the

676
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: DNA results back and she is a full American bulldog,

677
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: which is crazy. What so now I'm just like looking

678
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 2: constantly looking up puppy, Yeah, pictures of American bullet dog.

679
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 4: Can't you just tell? Well, no, I guess not. Is

680
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 4: there a wide range of what that can look like a.

681
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 2: Little bit and I think at the rescue they said

682
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 2: she's American bulldog mix, and so that immediately threw us off.

683
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 2: So we were always making assumptions or whatever, and I

684
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: don't know anything about dogs, so I was like, oh,

685
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: part pitbull, part boxer, just taking just saying things that

686
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 2: had no basis in reality.

687
00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 3: Well, my dog, I know her exact lineage because I

688
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 3: got her from like basically, someone knew I was looking

689
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 3: for a dog and their groomer or someone dropped off

690
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 3: like a load of puppies they were just giving away.

691
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 3: They knew the mom and dad of the puppies, okay,

692
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: and it's one parent was a Morky, which is a

693
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 3: Yorkie Maltese.

694
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: Okay, and one was a Chiuahua. Oh my god, this

695
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: must be an adorable animal.

696
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 4: It's so cute. I'll show you.

697
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 3: But I was kind of like, it's kind of annoying

698
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 3: to know that because now if someone asks, she's a

699
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 3: Yorki Maltese Chiuahua, it's just annoying to like know that.

700
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: To have to say, I do feel like we've turned

701
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 2: a corner as far as oh.

702
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 4: She's got like a little chicken.

703
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: Legs, Yeah, probably.

704
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 4: That's incredible.

705
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 2: It's like it's almost like another a dog wearing a

706
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: big dog costume.

707
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: I've never thought about it because I'm so used to it.

708
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 3: What's her name, Franny.

709
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 4: Oh, that's a cute dog name Edie.

710
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: Cute.

711
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: She's very cute. But she has started eating just a

712
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: lot of things. She I had a nine page outline.

713
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: I was working on a show and eight the entire thing,

714
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: and there was no evidence to the point that I

715
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: was I felt like I had lost my eyes, like

716
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: maybe I'm just going insane, and where would I have

717
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: missed places? But then it eventually revealed itself on walks,

718
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: you know, Oh my god, she ate the entire thing.

719
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: And then she recently ate ten protein bars. Gee, she's gone.

720
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: Something's happening. And I don't know what. We put her

721
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: on a diet, so maybe that's part for something.

722
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, eating a nine page report, that's like outline, that's

723
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 3: really upsetting.

724
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 2: It's very odd and to leave no trace because I'm

725
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: used to, like our family dog growing up, like would

726
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 2: rip things apart and E would know, right, But she

727
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: just like she did lawn mowered through this thing and

728
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 2: it was in her stomach.

729
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 3: And did you have no other way to access this inform?

730
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: I fortunately had a way to access most of it,

731
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: but I had like network notes on it and stuff

732
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: which just were which I didn't tell my boss at

733
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 2: the time, so I just kind of guessed at it.

734
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: Unfortunately things worked out. But yeah, my dog's trying to

735
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: just destroy my career. Oh yeah, that's where I am.

736
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: My dog doesn't eat stuff, thankfully. She ate like when

737
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: she was a puppy, she ate through my Christmas lights

738
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 2: cord that was plugged into the wall. That just pissed

739
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: me off because they were attached to the tree like

740
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 2: it was like they came.

741
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 4: With the right that's kind of like rodent behavior.

742
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then she never did anything like that again,

743
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 3: so I don't know.

744
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 4: Lesson.

745
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she got electrocute.

746
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 4: Got zad.

747
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: Well, look, we've talked, we've we've mentioned it, we've circled

748
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: this thing. You did bring a gift I did. I

749
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: feel like it would be terrible to send you away

750
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 2: without opening this and see, so let's give it a shut.

751
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 2: It's a wonderful little package. I described it earlier. It's

752
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 2: probably I'm not good at estimating. My spatial skills are bad,

753
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 2: but maybe eight inches long by five inches accurate in

754
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 2: a very fun little wrap, which is like a These

755
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 2: are faces I want to.

756
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 3: See It kind of looks like electrical sockets to me,

757
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: and it's from Ikia wrapping paper for my Kia.

758
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 4: These are all Swedish electrical sock. That's probably what it is.

759
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: There.

760
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 4: You go, okay, I'm opening it up. You're gonna love it.

761
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: Oh what is happening here? Thank you cards? This is

762
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 2: a psychotic thing to bring someone who's but also the perfect.

763
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 2: I feel like there's some other real world equivalent of

764
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: giving somebody a gift that you will be able to

765
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: just give them a thank you. Mean, but you've given

766
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: me thank you, a ten count thank you card. It

767
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: says thank you so very much, Lauren. Tell me why

768
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: you brought me this?

769
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 3: Well, So, okay, so your podcast is called I said

770
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 3: no gifts, which, of course I know you don't want gifts,

771
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 3: but I assume other people are bringing you gifts. And

772
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 3: it's just.

773
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 4: A really useful gift for you.

774
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 3: I thought immediately, who put that to use by thanking

775
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 3: your previous gift?

776
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 2: This is incredible. This is a really an outstanding.

777
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 4: I don't want to thank you card. Okay, so you're.

778
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 2: Not getting it, ok because you've now given me. Now

779
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: I have to give people cards. This is a new

780
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 2: element of the job for me which I was not

781
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 2: planning on. But to have thank you cards is actually

782
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 2: it's something I never think to buy.

783
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm obsessed with stationary, and so this gift actually

784
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,280
Speaker 3: does have meaning to me, and that I think sending

785
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 3: cards and notes is very important and I love collecting.

786
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 3: I buy stationary and pens and paper and stuff all

787
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 3: the time and stickers, and I have many types of

788
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 3: thank you cards at my disposal, okay, at all times,

789
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 3: and I have I try to stock up on birthday

790
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 3: cards every holiday so that when the time comes, I

791
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 3: just have something.

792
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,479
Speaker 2: Right now, Like with birthday cards, where are you buying

793
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: birthday cards?

794
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 3: So a great tip is Trader Joe's because they're a

795
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 3: dollar right now. Because I think it's kind of disgusting

796
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 3: how expensive cards are.

797
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: They've gone to like ten dollars. You know, it's crazyrus.

798
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 2: The Pirates is out of control with their price. But

799
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 2: I'll also tell you what they're out of is business.

800
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 2: They're going out of business. I saw the one is

801
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 2: closing Studio City.

802
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 4: It's funny.

803
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 2: I guess they're just going to be like a at Target,

804
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 2: this sort.

805
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 3: Of thing that makes more sense for them. It's too

806
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 3: much what they're trying to do. They're charging eight dollars

807
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,479
Speaker 3: a card because it has a gemstart. Well, they're selling

808
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 3: pop up books exactly. No, when he wants this, I

809
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 3: don't need that. You don't need it. But I do

810
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 3: think a cheap card is great. These are from Target.

811
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: I think they're probably like four dollars for a pack,

812
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 3: and then you get like I like to buy like

813
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: birthday cards in bulk. I think it's like a pack

814
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 3: of cute ones. I might spend a little more on

815
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 3: like a rifle paper company or something. Right ten, Yeah,

816
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 3: this company, Oh, they do really cute cards. But like

817
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 3: then they'll get like ten of them at once, and

818
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 3: it's like, well, now that's worth the sixteen dollars.

819
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 2: Right ten for sixteen doesn't seem It's probably not like

820
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 2: pirates lelah Okay, Well now we're headed towards that territory,

821
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 2: so you're just stucking up your non stuff Trader Joe's.

822
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 2: Something I really appreciate about Trader Joe's is they're pretty

823
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 2: minimal about what they're writing on the card.

824
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 3: I don't need to have a card that has a

825
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 3: whole long message inside. Mother, you have always been the one.

826
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 3: But it's like, think it's so weird.

827
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: Leave that out, leave jokes out. Just put the message

828
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 2: happy birthday and happy annivers leave some.

829
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 3: Room for some creativity. And now, if you're giving a card,

830
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 3: don't just sign the card. Write a message, yeah, something nice,

831
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: like oh my god, I hate when people just sign them.

832
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,800
Speaker 3: And then what are we doing here, You're just spending money.

833
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: To give me trash? Yeah, something that's literally nothing. Yeah right,

834
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: I mean usually the card is the most thoughtful part

835
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 2: of the gift for.

836
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 4: Me, should be Yeah.

837
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: I try to leave some level of message in every card.

838
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

839
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: But I guess maybe maybe we're the aliens here. Maybe

840
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: the rest of America is like Hallmark, please write my

841
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: Mama poem.

842
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 3: I mean that's true, because we're interested in writing and

843
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: sure stuff. So, like, you have a natural tendency to

844
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 3: have something funny you want to put in the card

845
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,439
Speaker 3: or whatever, something to say, something you want to say.

846
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 3: I guess it's true that most people probably don't want

847
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: to have to exert that extra effort. I don't know.

848
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 2: I feel like a natural human thing to do is

849
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: to say how you feel.

850
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: Just you know what, if you're out there and you

851
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 3: don't know, let's give a few tips. I think inside

852
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 3: joke classic. Of course, it could be I just sent

853
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 3: my Grandma and inside joke and her Valentine that I

854
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 3: sent her in the mail, which I do send Valentines.

855
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 4: Oh that's wonderful.

856
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 3: I like doing that. But I think you could write

857
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 3: a little memory of the person, like, oh, one of

858
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 3: my favorite memories with you is like the time we

859
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 3: did this. It doesn't have to be like that special,

860
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,280
Speaker 3: but people really will like, oh, it's very touching.

861
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: You have no idea, yeah, so yeah, just share a

862
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: little extra something, and you know, if the occasion calls

863
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: fort say I love you.

864
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 4: That's nice too. Everybody likes to hear that. It's nice write.

865
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: Them a card, say something nice, just a little effort.

866
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 2: So you're sending Valentines some things, giving cards?

867
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 3: Okay?

868
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 4: On Halloween cards? Wow, what is a Halloween card?

869
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 2: Actually? I need to know what a Thanksgiving card is?

870
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 3: First?

871
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 4: What are you who? Are you sending them to? Relatives distant?

872
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 3: You know, people far away Okay that I don't get

873
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: to see for the holiday.

874
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 4: Maybe a friend if I feel like it.

875
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 3: But usually just like Grandma, for sure, Grandma really expects

876
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 3: the cards. So I send her card first and foremost,

877
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: and then my family and then aunts and stuff.

878
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: So how many cards total are you sending on like Thanksgiving?

879
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 4: I would say maximum six?

880
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, but I'll buy a pack, right and they

881
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 3: will say like I'm grateful for you something like that,

882
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 3: and then you just send like I wish we could

883
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 3: be together, blah blah blah, that kind of thing. And

884
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 3: so then Halloween just boo, yeah, it's a spooky kind

885
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: of like have a spooky you know, it's a it's

886
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 3: a sillier one, right, Yeah, Well, I have nephews, I

887
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 3: send them cards and stuff.

888
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: How many cards totally? I mean what other holiday, Let's

889
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 2: say Christmas.

890
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 3: Probably, so I do Christmas, Valentine's Day, Easter. Okay, then

891
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 3: we're getting into what summer months, there's not really anything.

892
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 2: Sob oh, your god is the fourth of July and

893
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: if you're sending a fourth of July, I don't I

894
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 2: want to tell you, that.

895
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 4: Would be I'm proud you're an American. I don't know.

896
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 3: When we jump to Halloween, right, then we're at Thanksgiving

897
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 3: and the.

898
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: Okay, that's like six six So you're sending probably fifty

899
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 2: cards a year in the middle of Actually, this feels

900
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: you're keeping a postal service fully in business. Birthdays. Yeah,

901
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: I mean I wouldn't complain. If I got a Thanksgiving card,

902
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: I would be thrown probably initially, and I would accept it.

903
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: But you're kind of, I mean, a real ray of sunshine, and.

904
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 3: You're I think getting mail is so fun.

905
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:50,479
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, of course.

906
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 3: So that's part of why I like to do it

907
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 3: and put stickers on them and like, because mail is

908
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 3: so boring.

909
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: Often, like I love to get a nice, nice little

910
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: piece of mail. Think the most memorable piece of mail

911
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: I got from Jake Weisman years and years ago. I

912
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: got a kind of anonymous looking envelope, just no return

913
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: of dress. I opened it up. It was kind of puffy.

914
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 2: I opened it up and it was a Yamica. It's

915
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 2: sent in a regular business envelope.

916
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

917
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 3: That's fun.

918
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

919
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 4: So what was that for?

920
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 1: That was?

921
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 2: I think just to throw me off. You just kind

922
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: of give my life some level of uncertainty. And it did,

923
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: and I, as far as I know, I still own it.

924
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 4: But that's fun. To do more of that sending random things, Yeah,

925
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 4: to just.

926
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 2: Get something truly non non holiday related, just in the middle.

927
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe that's around July for you because you

928
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: do have that dry spell.

929
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 3: I do there's something going on. I yeah, that's a

930
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 3: good that's a good ideas really confused.

931
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, people have no idea what's going on at that point.

932
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 2: But that's fine. That's what that's the element of that. Yeah,

933
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm very bad at thanking, sending thank

934
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: you cards.

935
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 4: I feel stressed by this gift.

936
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: I'm not stressed by it because I think the problem

937
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 2: is that I never have thank you cards. Yeah, that

938
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: the idea of like having to go buy them. But

939
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: if I have them at the handy, is that something

940
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: something people say?

941
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 4: It works for me. It sounds real.

942
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 2: I think that makes sense. People know what I'm talking about.

943
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 2: If I receive any criticism, I'm going to freak out.

944
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: No.

945
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 2: If I have them, I'll definitely write a thank you card. Yeah,

946
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 2: but if I don't, I'm grateful.

947
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 3: You know what's funny is when I when you first

948
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 3: opened this gift, you said it was like an insane

949
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 3: gift to give somebody, which it is. But I have

950
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 3: done this before my cousin when she was graduating college

951
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 3: and she's younger than me, like nine years are going

952
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 3: to be.

953
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 4: I gave her a.

954
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 3: Bag of like cards because I was like, you're gonna

955
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 3: have to write shit to people, and she was going

956
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 3: high school and she was going to college. I was like,

957
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 3: you're going to be writing to all the people who

958
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 3: gave you gifts, and you're gonna be going to college

959
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 3: where you're going to be lonely, and you're gonna want

960
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 3: something to do when you're gonna write letters people, and

961
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 3: she I sort of I didn't get I never got

962
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 3: a single.

963
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask, Okay, this this person is a

964
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: bad person. I hope she's not getting any more cards

965
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: from you.

966
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 3: I have never done it again. I mean I do

967
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 3: send her cards back. Oh, I should be very grateful. Honestly,

968
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 3: I've regretted the gift ever since because I thought, Wow,

969
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 3: was that a crazy gift because she didn't ever send

970
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: me one, which makes me think anyone, which makes me

971
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 3: think she just kind of threw them in the closet.

972
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 4: She probably threw them away. And plus I.

973
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 3: Also gave a gift card with that. It wasn't like

974
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 3: it was the only thing I give her an incredible

975
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 3: gift to give her. This was a cousin.

976
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, my cousins aren't getting alike on Instagram. I'm giving

977
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 2: them nothing, and you're out there like setting her off onail.

978
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 3: She's younger. It's like I want to like kind of

979
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 3: like set an example, give a gift, and like this

980
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 3: is what you should do, and like.

981
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 2: I wonder if that gift should have waited until she

982
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 2: graduated from college when she had a little bit more

983
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:50,479
Speaker 2: under her belt.

984
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 4: Look, she's back in grad school. Now she do again.

985
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 2: Oh there you go. Give her another chance. Don't give

986
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: up on her yet.

987
00:42:56,320 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 4: I have. I hope she hears the and I want.

988
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 3: Do you hear this? You show me a card in

989
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 3: the mail?

990
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 4: That's all.

991
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, send your poor cousin a card. Do you get

992
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,720
Speaker 2: cards from other people?

993
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 3: I do, not, as bananas i'd like I do, though.

994
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: My grandma always sends me cards. That's the main one.

995
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 3: And then sometimes some of my aunts will, But that's

996
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 3: kind of tapered off now that I have nephews who

997
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 3: are little and they.

998
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 4: They're getting the attention, of course, but I.

999
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 3: Will get it sometimes for my sister in law because

1000
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 3: now she knows that's a meaningful communication style for me.

1001
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 4: She'll send it on behalf.

1002
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 3: Of my nephews or from her as like a thank

1003
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 3: you for something I've done, so I really appreciate it.

1004
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 4: Just like a very healthy family dynamic for that, I.

1005
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 3: Think relatively, Yeah, there's I'm sure there's a bunch of

1006
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 3: And do you just have the one sibling brother? Okay,

1007
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: how about you? I've got three. I've got two older

1008
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 3: brothers and a younger sister. And are you in touch

1009
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,919
Speaker 3: often with my sister? Absolutely? We talk maybe once a week.

1010
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: She has two daughters now who are getting the bulk

1011
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 2: of the gifts and this sort of thing. Oldest brother

1012
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 2: and not that often other brother occasionally. Isn't that interesting

1013
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: with siblings?

1014
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,479
Speaker 3: How like you have I mean I only have the one,

1015
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 3: but from my friends, you have multiple siblings. You have

1016
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: like these totally different dynamics with each other.

1017
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 2: Oh it's weird when you become when you're all adults

1018
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: and you're just like, oh, that's just another adult in

1019
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,720
Speaker 2: the world that we just happen to share the same gene.

1020
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I know, may not have stuff in common

1021
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 3: with you or.

1022
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, we don't have anything to talk about except

1023
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: for like the fights we would get in as kids

1024
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: or whatever. But yeah, I'm like I'm friends with my sister.

1025
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 3: That's nice.

1026
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 2: And then I'm brothers with my brothers. Yeah yeah, are

1027
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 2: you friendly with your brothers?

1028
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1029
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 3: We get along, well, we've always gotten along. We don't

1030
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 3: like talk on the phone. That's just not that's never

1031
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 3: been a thing we do. We text, okay, and we

1032
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 3: are on a chain, me and my husband and then

1033
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 3: my brother and his wife are on a group chain

1034
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 3: that we often will write on okay, And I like

1035
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 3: that dynamic. I kind of like a group text.

1036
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, a good group text is uh my, I've

1037
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 2: never been on a good group text with my family.

1038
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1039
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: Those are always they're not. Nobody seems happy in them all.

1040
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 3: My mum will start them with like nine people and

1041
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 3: it's like it's the group is too random.

1042
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 2: Yes, and then the core we need a focused mission. Yeah.

1043
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1044
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 2: I whenever I'm in a group text with my family,

1045
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: I'm just immediately I don't we're all bringing a weird

1046
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: energy to it. And I mean I think that speaks

1047
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: to just our communication in general, about our communication in general.

1048
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, I guess you're lucky. Yeah it works out,

1049
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 2: that's okay.

1050
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 3: Now, you got married pretty recent, Yeah, like we've been

1051
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 3: we got married a year ago.

1052
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so I assume you received gifts for.

1053
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 4: This we did. It was interesting.

1054
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 3: It's my second marriage, so I didn't have like a

1055
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: registry or something. Okay, and I'm hat a small wedding,

1056
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: but we one thing I think is interesting and it's

1057
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 3: not I It's totally fine.

1058
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 4: But not everyone brought a gift.

1059
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 3: Oh and I felt like, even though I didn't say

1060
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 3: I said no gifts, you know what I mean, it

1061
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 3: wasn't It wasn't exactly like that.

1062
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 4: I didn't write anything about the gifts.

1063
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 3: I just didn't.

1064
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 4: There was no registry, but I didn't says the assumption.

1065
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 4: We are getting messed. You know, it's normal to right.

1066
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 3: There are a handful of people who didn't bring even

1067
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: a card, and I found it interesting. But there's this

1068
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 3: one element to the situation that makes it a mystery.

1069
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 3: So my friend, my best friend from childhood, made a

1070
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 3: had everyone emailed everyone who was invited. It was like

1071
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 3: fifty people to write a card for each year anniversary.

1072
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 4: Okay. So my belief, what I'm thinking.

1073
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 3: Might happen is that a year twenty, I open up

1074
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 3: and there's a hundred bucks from someone who din't give

1075
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 3: me a gift, you know what I mean, Like, I'm like,

1076
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 3: there might that might be.

1077
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: A thing, which could I mean, if things go badly,

1078
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,479
Speaker 2: you might need that hundred bucks.

1079
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 3: I might be glad that it's there, but I'm like

1080
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 3: kind of like, let's see.

1081
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 4: How that plays out.

1082
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 3: Wow, that's yeah, And maybe the card that they brought

1083
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 3: was that card and so they didn't consider that.

1084
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 2: I just didn't like even think oh interesting.

1085
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 3: So I don't know. So I can't really be mad

1086
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 3: at anymore, right, but I do think it's weird you

1087
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 3: have to bring and gift to a wedding if you're

1088
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: this is my belief, if you if the person is

1089
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 3: like really rich, it does throw things off. I'm not

1090
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 3: that person, but I have been to weddings where the

1091
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 3: person is really rich and I'm like, what do they

1092
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 3: want a hundred bucks from me? I don't know. This

1093
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 3: is kind of mirror but so you can get something

1094
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 3: weird for them or like I had friends like have

1095
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 3: a painting made of me, like from someone that they

1096
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 3: knew who was a good artist. So that was a

1097
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 3: cool game. Yeah that's very yeah, and I'm sure it

1098
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 3: wasn't that expensive. I love it, though it hangs up

1099
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 3: in my house, and it's like great.

1100
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think with like a rich person, you're just

1101
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 2: like you just get them something that's going to throw

1102
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 2: them off, something that's strange, because otherwise it's like you

1103
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 2: might as well just I mean, you're essentially not getting

1104
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 2: them anything. If you get them that's just like a

1105
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: nice gift totally because it's something I probably already have

1106
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: in their giant mansion.

1107
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 4: You could get it, no problem. Yeah, it is weird.

1108
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 3: I feel like as I get older, I'm more inclined

1109
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,760
Speaker 3: to give a weirder present. But when I was younger,

1110
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 3: it was like right off the registry or something that just.

1111
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 2: Cash sure, something that like through college, h friends and

1112
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 2: I would get, which I think is a good wedding

1113
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 2: gift is we would all pitch in to buy a

1114
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 2: kitchen aid mixer, which I think is an incredible thing

1115
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 2: to happen.

1116
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a really nice gift.

1117
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 2: And but since then I'll just go to the registry

1118
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: and find whatever thoughtless nonsense.

1119
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1120
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 2: The weirdest thing I've seen on a wedding registry somebody

1121
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 2: requested an Xbox on their registry and I remember thinking,

1122
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: this is your birthday party, just do whatever you want. No,

1123
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 2: you don't just know. They need to be things that

1124
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 2: you use in your life.

1125
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 3: Your wife might want to act that she's not playing

1126
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 3: that well, I don't know.

1127
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 2: If it's twenty twenty, she could be a gamer, she

1128
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 2: could be I guess what it was. I thinking it's

1129
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: maybe it isn't the husband. Maybe this wife wanted to

1130
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: play Halo. Yeah yeah, but uh no, that's inappropriate.

1131
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 3: Sometimes people put weird shit on there, and it's like

1132
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 3: a little crazy. I've seen people like where you know,

1133
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 3: I've been invited to a few weddings, like through actually

1134
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 3: this is kind of interesting through people who know me

1135
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 3: from like podcasts. I've been invited to weddings from like

1136
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 3: a fan, a listener. Sure, and I will send a gift. Actually,

1137
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 3: you do.

1138
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: Happen to out of control as a gift gift or

1139
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 2: this is insane. I had no idea, but.

1140
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 3: I've been I look at some of these registries and

1141
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 3: I'm like, some of the things people put on these

1142
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: things are so expensive that it's like, what do you

1143
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 3: think is happening here? Like some two thousand dollars thing

1144
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 3: or something. It's like what, who? Who's giving you?

1145
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 2: That is like buying a lottery ticket is like, well,

1146
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: maybe somebody will buy some like expensive ass chair or something.

1147
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, what is this couch?

1148
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: It's crazy, it's too much unless everyone that you've invited

1149
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 2: is a billionaire, right, and you're at that point. Yeah,

1150
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 2: what's happening?

1151
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 4: I don't even know.

1152
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 2: Wow, you're just really buying people gifts.

1153
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 3: I really love to buy gifts.

1154
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think with that in mind, we're going

1155
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 2: to play a game.

1156
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 4: Great.

1157
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 2: This game is called gift Master. Oh, gift Master. I'm

1158
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 2: going to name three celebrities, three famous people. I'm going

1159
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 2: to name three objects, items, whatever, and you're going to

1160
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 2: tell me which of those you'll give to which celebrities. Oh,

1161
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: I love this game, but I need a number between

1162
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: one and ten. Okay, six, Okay, I'm going to calculate this.

1163
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,959
Speaker 2: In the meantime, I want you to promote whatever you want, pod,

1164
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: your current podcasts, whatever you have. There's no telling how

1165
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 2: much time you have. Great, So and you said six, Yes, okay,

1166
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 2: I have a Patreon podcast now call. If you go

1167
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 2: to patreon dot com slash Lauren Lapis, you can follow that.

1168
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 2: I'm doing different things every week. It's like improv. Sometimes

1169
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 2: it's a conversation with somebody. Sometimes it's a solo episode.

1170
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 2: There's video of the podcast that you can watch watch

1171
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 2: us improvising, and my short film that I made is

1172
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: also up there so you can see that. I have

1173
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: a podcast called Newcomers with Nicolebyer where we watch Star

1174
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 2: Wars for the first time. Neither of us have ever

1175
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 2: seen it. This is free and available to everyone on

1176
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: every platform. And we even have a bonus episode with

1177
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 2: the first movie where you can sync it up to

1178
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 2: the movie and here are commentary over it like Mystery

1179
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: Science Theater.

1180
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:17,720
Speaker 3: It's very fun. And beyond that, I have a movie

1181
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,919
Speaker 3: coming out in the spring called The Wrong Missy. It's

1182
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 3: me and David Spade and you know, essentially a rom com,

1183
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 3: so that'll be on Netflix. This is more time than

1184
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 3: I was expecting. So well, you've I mean, I feel

1185
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 3: like you fieled it perfectly. Okay, great, we've got the results.

1186
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 3: We've got the results. You're about to be challenged in

1187
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 3: a way that I mean could break you. Okay, Okay.

1188
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 3: The three gifts that you are going to be giving

1189
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: m m are I've already lost them, but I'm going

1190
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 3: to find them, and everything's going to be fine.

1191
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 4: I trust you.

1192
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 2: Okay, an indoor water fountain, kind of a decorative indoor.

1193
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:57,760
Speaker 3: Water fountain that's really interesting.

1194
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 2: A crock pot, okay, And the band Franz Ferdinand. They

1195
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 2: are for sale at this point. Yes, yeah, So those

1196
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 2: are the three gifts you'll be giving to the following people.

1197
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 2: Number one Sigourney Weaver, Number two Metallica drummer and internet

1198
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 2: hater Lars Ulric Okay, and finally Korean pop sensations bts.

1199
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1200
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. I think and you've

1201
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:39,919
Speaker 4: got to tell me why.

1202
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:45,720
Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, I think Sigourney Weaver gets the crock pot

1203
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 3: because I imagine maybe she's had a point in her life

1204
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: where she's relaxing more okay, and cooking, might be taking

1205
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 3: a step forward in her life. I assume she had

1206
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 3: a chef at some point. You know, I don't know.

1207
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 3: I don't know how rich she had.

1208
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 2: That Alien's money, Yeah she had. I mean, let's be honest,

1209
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 2: that Avatar.

1210
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 4: Money, I've never seen it.

1211
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 2: Well, if you're the one person that made the right choice, I.

1212
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 4: Think she might think that's like quaint in a way.

1213
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 3: And I do think she's really she has a very

1214
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,760
Speaker 3: like tough vibe, so there's a chance she'll think it's shit. Yeah,

1215
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 3: but I also think like I can't please her, and

1216
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 3: the giving her the water fountain and the band are

1217
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 3: both going to be issues for her. So I think

1218
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,399
Speaker 3: the crock pot is like a straight down the middle,

1219
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 3: like what you know what it is like you might.

1220
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 2: Like this and I might unlock some new part of

1221
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 2: her personality.

1222
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 3: Totally, get a crock pot cookbook and you just see

1223
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:42,760
Speaker 3: what's up, you know, throw.

1224
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 2: Like a roast beef in there or is that something

1225
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 2: you throwing a crock pot Jones? Right? Uh, what do

1226
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 2: you make in a croc.

1227
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1228
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 4: I have one.

1229
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 3: I've only made like a couple of things in it

1230
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 3: because I got it my friend, Like was she never

1231
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 3: used it? She probably got it for a wedding.

1232
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, gave it such a real wedding gift. Totally.

1233
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 3: I got a waffle maker for my first wedding. That's

1234
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 3: oh a garment I have. I use it one time

1235
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 3: and that's that's the thing that I put on the thing.

1236
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 3: And it's like, no one should have given me that. No,

1237
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,760
Speaker 3: that's unnecessary. I'm opening a waffle restaurant. It's so stupid,

1238
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 3: but I'm not going to throw it out because I mean,

1239
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 3: you know, if I ever want.

1240
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 2: Well, you might have your Sigourney moment where you have

1241
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 2: the time and waffles stake that step forward sounds.

1242
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 4: Kind of fun right now, maybe I will make them

1243
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 4: so but okay, so.

1244
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 3: That's for her.

1245
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 2: Sigourney is getting the crock pot. Set it and forget it,

1246
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 2: set it forget. Is that a crock pot? I think

1247
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 2: that is a crock pot.

1248
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: It is set and forget. Okay, So here's my dilemma, Lars,

1249
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 3: all right, all right, oh yeah, what now that I've

1250
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 3: said it, who knows? I don't know, Lars.

1251
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: Our friend like attacking Napster, okay, and then maybe you know,

1252
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 2: and then and then band Metallica.

1253
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 3: So my first thought was he should have the band

1254
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 3: because he'd be able to like do something with them.

1255
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 4: Right because they're second drummer.

1256
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 3: Thinking that he hates like the internet makes me think

1257
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 3: like he would be annoyed by that idea and think

1258
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 3: that I was being like really like trying to be

1259
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 3: funny and it's like not cool, right, or.

1260
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: Being like, well, get rid of your old band. Here's

1261
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 2: a new this is what we're.

1262
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 3: Looking for now in two thousand, of course, yes, but

1263
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 3: I think the water fountain is the is the thing

1264
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: because he's kind of like old school then, so maybe

1265
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 3: he would like maybe that would remind him of like

1266
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,720
Speaker 3: his childhood or something right and like going to school,

1267
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 3: and like it would be kind of quirky and interesting

1268
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 3: in his house. And someone who is like that might

1269
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 3: appreciate something weird.

1270
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 2: Sure, and he does seem like somebody who needs a

1271
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 2: relaxing white noise and maybe the dribbling sound of water.

1272
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 3: Now, wait, are you talking about a water fountain, like, Oh,

1273
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 3: we're on a very different patre drinking fountain, Lauren.

1274
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 4: I'm well, I don't know what because that's a fizzure.

1275
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 3: Because if it's a fountain like you would find in

1276
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 3: a park, then I want to give that to Sigourney.

1277
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: Oh everything has been thrown off. I okay, so this

1278
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 2: is my failure as a host.

1279
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 4: Well, water fountain might be a like a local, you know, regional.

1280
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: I was thinking, so that's that's something. I would call

1281
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 2: it drinking fountain. Okay, I call it water fountain. But

1282
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: I but I've made the mistake. A water fountain does

1283
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 2: sound like something you would drink from. I should have

1284
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 2: said a decorative fountain with the water being implied. And

1285
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 2: so now everything has been thrown off. Sigourney's getting a

1286
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 2: crockpod that she's not gonna use. No, exactly, I can't

1287
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 2: give her that. Lars is I mean, he now has

1288
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 2: like a Schroden what is it cat? Which is could

1289
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 2: be a water fountain to drink from, or could be

1290
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 2: something that's nice and everything I've said.

1291
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 3: Sigourney gets the decorative fountain, Okay, Okay, that's just gonna

1292
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 3: make her house look nice. It's that simple, right, she

1293
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 3: can relax listen to the noise. Lars gets the crock pot. Okay,

1294
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 3: because he hates modern stuff, right right, so he would

1295
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 3: like that. That actually makes more sense. Makes my job

1296
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 3: a lot ease. Okay, Okay, Now the band would find

1297
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 3: it really like quirky and american to receive this band

1298
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 3: as a gift.

1299
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 4: Of course.

1300
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 2: And also the band is so large that you know,

1301
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 2: the five four members of Franz Ferdinand might just kind

1302
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 2: of blend in totally.

1303
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 3: They could start learning the dance moves and just be

1304
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 3: on stage with them and not even know what's.

1305
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 2: Going exactly, or they play is the backing band. Yes,

1306
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 2: or I feel like that that's a crossover America is

1307
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 2: looking for.

1308
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 3: Anyway, we would Oh my god, if Franz Ferdinand just

1309
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 3: teamed up with a band like that, Oh my god,

1310
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 3: I would love oh.

1311
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 2: For them to be they should produce the next BTS.

1312
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 2: That's really smart BTS fan base reach.

1313
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 4: Out to me. Does BTS stand for something?

1314
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 2: I've wondered about this. I mean, it can't be behind

1315
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 2: the scenes. I'm gonna guess bat tell star, that tells star.

1316
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:46,959
Speaker 2: That's that makes sense. Boys that sing that's the best?

1317
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 3: Oh, you really found that?

1318
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 4: I like that.

1319
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 2: I think I If that's not it, then they've made

1320
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 2: a huge mistake. I think it has to be boys

1321
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 2: that saying boy that stings. That one's a little more

1322
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 2: con he is a little more confusing. But that could

1323
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 2: potentially boys twelve, but there are probably twelve of them

1324
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 2: boys twelve.

1325
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 3: Sorority Yeah, yes, they fraternity. Yeah translates close enough.

1326
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, h Stephen, do you have any idea what BTS

1327
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 2: stands for?

1328
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 3: Believe this since for Bankton boys literally meeting bulletproof boy scouts.

1329
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 4: What bulletproof boy scouts? I love that that's white cooler,

1330
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 4: possibly expect.

1331
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 3: I don't know where the te comes into play.

1332
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 2: But boy scouts, that's great. Bless them. I mean that's uh,

1333
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 2: you know, that's a lot cooler than I expected. BTS congrats,

1334
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 2: I mean behind the scenes or boys that sing are

1335
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 2: still available for other bands?

1336
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, any bad.

1337
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 2: Telstar is a beautiful I feel like that's like maybe

1338
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 2: kind of a an indie band or something that'd be

1339
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 2: cool up and coming. Pitchfork be on the lookout. Okay,

1340
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 2: well you've what happened here is you. I threw you

1341
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 2: a curveball with the water found thing and you've totally

1342
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 2: adjusted to And I think that just speaks to the

1343
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 2: fact that you're giving people gifts constantly and know how

1344
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: to work the system.

1345
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 3: You know, if you have a pile of gifts in

1346
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 3: your house, you could figure out how to give them

1347
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 3: to anyone. This is like you got to just work

1348
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 3: with what you got. I do have a basket of

1349
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 3: like things that will be used for gifts in a punch.

1350
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 3: I haven't really had to dip into that, but I

1351
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 3: like the knowing that it's.

1352
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 4: Just that little safety.

1353
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and a lot of it's like stuff I've gotten

1354
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 3: for free that I think people might think is fine,

1355
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 3: of course, that I just don't want like things like

1356
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 3: swag stuff from like TV shows sure that.

1357
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 2: You're not going to be using in any other context.

1358
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 3: Sometimes I give them on stocking stuff first, Like I

1359
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 3: gotta I went to a ninety Day Fiance, just started

1360
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 3: watching it. That's show on TV. I'm so excited for

1361
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 3: you. You're so much ahead of your first episode. I I'm

1362
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 3: not kidding, had trouble breathing. I didn't know what was happening.

1363
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 4: Are you starting from the beginning or.

1364
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 3: Like episode one? I love that episode one, and then

1365
00:59:58,200 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 3: all the spin offs are going to come Ino play.

1366
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 4: You're gonna have to I just heard about ninety days.

1367
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 4: Before the ninety.

1368
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: Days, we got niney days. Happily, ever after a question

1369
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 3: Mark we got ninety days pillow talk. This is thousands

1370
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: of episodes. There's too much. It's so so so good,

1371
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 3: it's so funny. You'll get obsessed. But I got invited

1372
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 3: to a ninety day Fance mixer which was for talent

1373
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 3: from the show, and then just like.

1374
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 4: TLC employees, and then somehow I was there.

1375
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 3: I don't know. It was very rare, and Jerry O'Connell

1376
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 3: also got oh sure, sure. So we were there and

1377
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 3: I got to meet a handful of them. But one

1378
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 3: of the best things was that there was a gift

1379
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 3: bag at the end, and it came with a pillow

1380
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 3: talk I'm asked to sleep with, and then a ninety

1381
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 3: day fance like Loomy for your phone that lights up

1382
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 3: to your selfies are better Okay, And I think that

1383
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 3: was it. But I gave those to my family and

1384
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 3: they really enjoyed it.

1385
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 4: Oh, I bet they were thrilled. Yeah, the show is insane.

1386
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 3: It's so insane that people are I just met someone

1387
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 3: who knows one of the people from it, and I

1388
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 3: was like, that's my dream. I could know someone from

1389
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 3: my high school or something who's on that show.

1390
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 4: That's their ultimate fantasy. I would watch it over and

1391
01:00:57,480 --> 01:00:57,919
Speaker 4: over again.

1392
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Yeah, we're gonna move on to the final

1393
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 2: thing here.

1394
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: An.

1395
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 2: I feel very happy to have you now that you've

1396
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 2: demonstrated so much gift giving knowledge. This is called I

1397
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 2: said no questions. People are writing in they're asking I

1398
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 2: said no gifts. At gmail dot com. They're asking for

1399
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 2: help giving gifts. We'll do one, maybe we'll do two.

1400
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: We'll see what happens. I'm gonna read this and then

1401
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna help me here. Bridger, My fiance is impossible

1402
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 2: to shop for and never says he wants anything because

1403
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 2: if he did, quote, he would just buy it for himself.

1404
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 2: What do I get him for our anniversary?

1405
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 4: Thanks? Laura in Los Angeles.

1406
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 3: Wow, we don't have any information about what he's into. Yeah,

1407
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 3: zero information, But you know what I hate? And tell

1408
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 3: me if you agree with this. When you google like

1409
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 3: gifts for men, there's like such a small breadth of

1410
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 3: what they will have. You considered a shaving kit, it's

1411
01:01:56,280 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: like shaving kit, anything that's brown, leather, all listened leather,

1412
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 3: keychain thing like it's like so boring, or like something

1413
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:07,920
Speaker 3: technological like a charger. How about a Bluetooth speaker exactly,

1414
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 3: And it's like they have all of those things. Men

1415
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 3: are like, already you have a keychain, a wallet, a speaker,

1416
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 3: Like you're done. So those are not helpful. I hate

1417
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 3: those kinds of things. Here's a suggestion, Zappo's gift card.

1418
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 4: Oh not a bad, very cool.

1419
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 3: They're from me.

1420
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 2: Well, this is this podcast is becoming very pro gift

1421
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 2: card because I think that there were those few years

1422
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 2: that we were all saying that gift cards are thoughtless.

1423
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 2: They're fantastic, They're wonderful. Everyone loves one, especially when it's

1424
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 2: to a specific type of buying. Shewline all the time.

1425
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 2: If it could be free, why would you not want that?

1426
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 2: Of course, it's great got a new pair of shoes

1427
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 2: that you weren't expecting.

1428
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,960
Speaker 3: But I think Zappos could be good like specific in that,

1429
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 3: like everyone wants new shoes, it's really hard to pick

1430
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 3: out shoes for someone. Yes, the only person I ever

1431
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 3: have bought shoes for is my sister in law because

1432
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 3: she always buys the same shoes I have. She always

1433
01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 3: likes my shoes. If I pick out something I like

1434
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 3: and she has feet there half the size of mind,

1435
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 3: so I'm like, it'll look even cuter on her.

1436
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 2: How did you let me ask you? How did you

1437
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 2: find out her shoe size without giving away the surprise?

1438
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 2: Asked my brother. Okay, yeah, see that's the one thing

1439
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 2: that you run the risk of. But if you can

1440
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 2: find a third party to get the information for you,

1441
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 2: then you can get the surprise shoe. But yeah, they

1442
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 2: are a hard thing to buy for people. So yeah,

1443
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 2: Zappa's gift card is not a bad idea and coming

1444
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 2: up on my fifth anniversary with my boyfriend, and he's

1445
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 2: out of town, and so we've promt well, he made

1446
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 2: me promise we wouldn't get anything for each other until

1447
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,439
Speaker 2: he was He said no gifts. He literally said no gifts.

1448
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 2: He demanded no gifts, and I'm staying true to that.

1449
01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 2: But I'm I guess I'm going to make him a

1450
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 2: little playlist, just something, just a little something too. I

1451
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 2: love Yeah, And I'm also going to give him the

1452
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 2: upfront knowledge that he has to listen to it or

1453
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 2: it's going to break my heart absolutely.

1454
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1455
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 4: If that goes on listening to.

1456
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a real devastating little yeah five years in,

1457
01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 2: no listen to my podcast playlist.

1458
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 4: I love a playlist.

1459
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 3: I do think for someone like this when my next

1460
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 3: inclination is to give something like that, where it's like

1461
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 3: not something you could buy, but something meaningful to your relationship.

1462
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 3: I once drew a comic strip for a partner that

1463
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 3: was like of a moment that we shared. It's not

1464
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 3: even that great of an artist, but it was kind

1465
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 3: of fun.

1466
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 2: Okay, just something. It doesn't matter if this skill is

1467
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 2: that high. It's like you know, the old cliche. It's

1468
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: the thought that counts totally. It's true for you. Hear

1469
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 2: it all the time for a reason. Yeah, and then maybe,

1470
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 2: as we've talked about, write a thoughtful card, move on,

1471
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 2: you've shown you've done your work.

1472
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: Also another idea for this a gift card to a

1473
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 3: restaurant that he has been wanting to try as a

1474
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 3: date night for you both. Oh, but then it's like

1475
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 3: you pick the day and we'll go do that. That's

1476
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 3: not and that's already set. Like it's not like you're

1477
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 3: just going to pay at the end of dinner.

1478
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 2: Like right, it becomes an event.

1479
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 3: And you went out of your way to get the card,

1480
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 3: like shows effort. Yeah, you really want to show effort.

1481
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 3: You want to show that you sweat.

1482
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 2: And then it was difficult and this person is kind

1483
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 2: of just a burden and they're just going to keep

1484
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 2: needing things.

1485
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have another idea. Oh, I want to hear

1486
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 3: it if he likes his computer, if he cares about

1487
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 3: his computers. My husband recently got like a cover for

1488
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 3: his keyboard, like has his has all the shortcuts for

1489
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 3: like things that you can do on your computer. I

1490
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 3: don't really care what that, but there are fun, colorful

1491
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 3: ones and it like keeps your keyboard.

1492
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 4: And this is going on a laptop.

1493
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, it's like a thin sheet. It's like

1494
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 3: silicon that sounds kind of nice to touch. Yeah, it

1495
01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 3: makes typing field funds kind of softer.

1496
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 2: And all these shortcuts like for control, taking a screenshot,

1497
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 2: this sort of nonsense on there.

1498
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a more expert level. But yeah, yeah you

1499
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 3: really just maybe you just take over the podcast.

1500
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 2: On ideas. These are just I am happy to just

1501
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 2: go away. Lauren Lapus, a new host. Well, I think

1502
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 2: we've answered enough. Yeah, that was we really just nailed.

1503
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 4: Well.

1504
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 2: I'm taking credit for what large largely you put the

1505
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 2: work in here.

1506
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 3: I'm honestly, I'm feel pretty good about my suggestions. I

1507
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 3: hope one of those is helpful.

1508
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 2: If they aren't, then I don't know what to tell

1509
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 2: you about that relationship, because these all feel like solid gifts.

1510
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 4: If he doesn't like it, he's.

1511
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 2: At Yeah, he's a real dickhead, and it's time to

1512
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 2: say goodbye. He's still the fiance, so there's a chance

1513
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 2: you just break it off now, get out clean gov

1514
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 2: On Lauren, I mean you, I'm not going to, but

1515
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I should be writing you a thank

1516
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 2: you card. I don't want one right now, and you're

1517
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 2: not going to get one thank you, But somewhere down

1518
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 2: the line you're going to get a thank you card.

1519
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 2: Who knows for what? Yeah, but I really appreciate you

1520
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,959
Speaker 2: being here and just shining like a star.

1521
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 3: This was a blast.

1522
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,080
Speaker 4: I loved it. I think we're done here. I think

1523
01:06:58,080 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 4: that's the end of the show. Great.

1524
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 2: Remember the tip about the pharmacy. That's a good one. Yeah, yeah,

1525
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: all right, Nie I said no gifts isn't exactly right.

1526
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 4: Production.

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01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 2: It's engineered by Earth Angel Stephen Ray Morris. The theme

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Speaker 2: song is by Miracle Worker Amy Mann. You can follow

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Speaker 2: the show on Instagram and Twitter. At I said no gifts,

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Speaker 2: And if you have a question or need help getting

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Speaker 2: a gift for someone in your life, email me at

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Speaker 2: I said no gifts at gmail dot com. Listen and

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Speaker 2: subscribe on Apple podcast, Stitcher or wherever you found me.

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Speaker 2: And why not leave a review while you're at it?

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Speaker 1: Hello? And why did you hear thot a man myself

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Speaker 1: perfectly clear? When you're a guest to me, you gotta

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Speaker 1: come to me empty. And I said, no guests, your presences,

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Speaker 1: presents And I'm already at him stop. So how do

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Speaker 1: you dare to surbey me?