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Speaker 1: Good. All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat gotcha covin locking No, brother, ladies and folks,

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Speaker 2: do you just follow Ann the spirit where it's all

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Speaker 2: the phone over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and

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Speaker 2: the m but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can

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Speaker 2: do it just stop you feel things. This is feeling

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Speaker 2: things with Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy, I'm Cat.

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Speaker 1: And before we get to the feeling of the day,

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Speaker 1: which is coming from Kat, I have a random question

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Speaker 1: of the day, and it's.

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Speaker 3: The questions that don't come up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but I feel like, are we doing questions

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Speaker 1: that don't come up, like in the middle of something

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Speaker 1: like randomly? If it comes up, this is premeditated, Okay,

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Speaker 1: then no it's not. Well, it's something because I was

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Speaker 1: on a call before we were recording and I had

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Speaker 1: to say my credit card over the phone, and I

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Speaker 1: have zeros in my credit card multiple But I realize

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Speaker 1: that's depending on how the numbers are laid out. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: I say oh, and sometimes I say zero. I don't

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Speaker 1: say zero every time, and I don't say oh every time.

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Speaker 1: So my question is when you have a zero, do

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Speaker 1: you say zero or oh? Like, for example, I can

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Speaker 1: say my phone number growing up it was two eight

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Speaker 1: two oh eight four to one. Oh, that's oh. But

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Speaker 1: say zero access your bedroom, like like, what's your extension?

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Speaker 1: You know, like that was because that was my homephone.

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Speaker 1: Do you still remember your home phone number growing up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why do I feel like I shouldn't say it out loud?

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Speaker 4: It so that doesn't even exist anymore?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm probably. I mean I didn't give the area code,

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Speaker 4: I still use it for like certain things that it's

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Speaker 4: and you type it in to get the points.

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Speaker 1: You know, at the grocery store, you can always do

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Speaker 3: Oh nine and get the points.

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Speaker 1: It works for me.

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Speaker 3: So at a grocery store, you've never actually created account.

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Speaker 1: You just sometimes I have some. If I don't, yes,

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Speaker 1: and then all the discounts come up. No way, yeah, okay, okay. Well,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know. I know it's a very random question,

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Speaker 1: In my credit card number, I have multiple zeros, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes I say zero and sometimes I say oh. It

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Speaker 3: So you're asking, do I say yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you ever say oh or zero?

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Speaker 4: Because I don't pay attention to that, But I'm assuming

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Speaker 4: if you said zero, say that phone number and say zero.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that, And it's not like we call

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Speaker 3: So why do I say, Oh, it's an abbreviation.

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Speaker 3: I'm finally hearing yourself.

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Speaker 1: Let's say my credit card number has five zeros? You have,

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Speaker 1: I love how what's the right word here, passionate?

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Speaker 3: How passionate you are becoming over this?

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Speaker 1: I thought you were saying I feel like a weirdo.

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Speaker 4: No, I thought you were saying, like sometimes, like with

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Speaker 4: I say zero now you're saying I mix and mingle.

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Speaker 1: That's all I don't know. I guess I was just curious.

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Speaker 3: Everybody in this room does?

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Speaker 1: Do you mix and mingle in the same flow.

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Speaker 4: I think it's like, yeah, it's a you have to

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Speaker 1: Right, you know, I know I'm with you. I'm very clear.

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Speaker 1: This is short talk, or like shorthand. My mom was

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Speaker 3: Don't you just do that anyway when you're taking notes?

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Speaker 1: They're taking minutes, the minute, the minute, I know, but

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Speaker 3: So it's how their letters, yes words, they're.

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Speaker 1: It just popped in my head. Obviously cool, we send

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're feeling passionate. Would you say that or were

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Speaker 1: I think I more so was feeling insecure that I

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Speaker 4: And that's what this podcast is all about. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: Of rage, okay, because I don't know if I have

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Speaker 3: shared with you on here before recently that we have purchased.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I have shared with you before

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Speaker 1: recently on this here podcast.

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Speaker 3: Ever, in this time, we've purchased a treadmill.

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Speaker 1: And breaking news. Yeah, breaking news.

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Speaker 3: My iPad's talking to me. So we purchased the treadmill.

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Speaker 3: It was a big deal. We shopped around, we tested somehow,

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Speaker 3: I did some research. Great, purchase it. We go to

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Speaker 3: the store. You know, I'm going to say the store

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Speaker 3: because it deserves to be mentioned.

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Speaker 1: Like in a negative or positive way. You can decide, well,

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Speaker 1: I need to know the location before you do, because

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I have an affiliation with them

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Speaker 3: So it's a common store that people buy good sad

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Speaker 1: Sure, okay, we'll give it at that.

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Speaker 3: I won't even blame the store. I think they wouldn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why would I ever do that? So we go

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Speaker 3: I thought somebody was going to die.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? And I could carry that upstairs on myself.

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Speaker 3: So we get it up there, put it together. It

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Speaker 1: So you need the mat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And it probably could have, like I don't know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know all of this saga, but I

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Speaker 4: Probably, yeah, probably can't return it at this point. Well,

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Speaker 1: If someone is currently on the treadmill right now, you

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Speaker 4: Literally And anyway, so we had to take the treadmill

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Speaker 4: Then we lifted it up wouldn't you know? Inside the

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Speaker 3: How you don't know? It's a mystery. So now we

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Speaker 1: I can't but they come pick it up. Well, you

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Speaker 3: Do to deserve this? That's what I want to know.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to be healthy. I just wanted to

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Speaker 4: Because if I have to take that thing back downstairs,

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Speaker 1: No, that's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: Our hope is going to be that they're going to

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Speaker 1: and that shouldn't be on you to to have to

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Speaker 3: Just a girl. And maybe I should pretend like I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm a single woman living in that home and I

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Speaker 3: I have no family here, nobody can help me do this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents don't live down the street. And that

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Speaker 3: My brother don't live down the street, and they're like.

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Speaker 1: How did you get up here? You know, just you know,

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Speaker 3: Everybody in this family will not be exercising.

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Speaker 1: Yes, She's like if you're yes, because I'm currently not

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Speaker 3: Do you put like one little piece?

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Speaker 3: I put like or is it like a pile.

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Speaker 3: Not in a bowl and just just like put her

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Speaker 1: No, she can't eat that way anymore. She has to go.

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Speaker 1: She has to like have an ounce here, an ounce

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Speaker 1: I'm spared. I am apparently supposed to exercise with her

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Speaker 3: How do you exercise a cat?

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Speaker 1: I mean you put like a ribbon and they bounce around.

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Speaker 3: But i mean, yeah, why aren't you doing that?

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Speaker 1: Well, I have to start. Car always eats her, chew

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Speaker 1: So then I'm not going to buy another one. Cars

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Speaker 3: You walk car all the time.

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Speaker 1: I know, but I overfeed my pets.

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Speaker 4: Wait sure, I have a question why because I feel

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Speaker 3: So take this with a grain of salt. Why can't

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Speaker 1: This is what the vet told me to do, so

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Speaker 1: The vet said, this is the heaviest she has weighed,

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Speaker 3: It's the oldest that she has ever been. Of course,

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Speaker 1: We No, I think at some point like cats just

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Speaker 3: The heaviest I've ever been because I'm thirty five, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, Maggie, she parks it on my treadmill,

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Speaker 1: and yes it is ironic because she does need to

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Speaker 1: work out. But because you've been through such a difficult

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Speaker 1: time with your treadmill, once it's set up, I will

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Speaker 3: That's really nice. And what I hear in that is

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Speaker 3: that you believe that this will be resolved.

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Speaker 1: It will it will be.

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Speaker 3: And what I've learned is pay for the delivery and assembly. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you can't do everything yourself. Do I deserve this? I

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Speaker 1: You have other things going on that are like magnifying,

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Speaker 3: It makes me it's not about the treadmill. It may

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Speaker 1: Okay, See, I really probably.

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Speaker 3: Wouldn't be this upset.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's like something I'd rather hyper focus on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, if I do that, I'm a sudden fire.

442
00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,040
Speaker 3: But I can burn my house down.

443
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 1: But I can't do that. Cat And if y'all see

444
00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,280
Speaker 1: Cot in the news.

445
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 4: Well my fire alarm speaking of Okay, So yesterday, as

446
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 4: we're working on the treadmill, our fire alarm goes off.

447
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 3: But it was not an alarm. It was a woman's

448
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:18,920
Speaker 3: voice and it's saying, she said, there's smoke in the

449
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:19,920
Speaker 3: master bedroom.

450
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 1: The alarm is.

451
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 4: About to sound. It will be very loud, just so

452
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,440
Speaker 4: you know. And then and then it was quiet, and

453
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 4: I go, Patrick, Am I am? I? My initial thought,

454
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I had walked. I wasn't with him

455
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 4: because we okay, we just found the rest. I walked

456
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 4: in the bathroom and take my contacts out, and I

457
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 4: started hearing the woman's voice, and then I yelled out Patrick, Patrick,

458
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,639
Speaker 4: and I like grabbed my shoes and I also got

459
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 4: about to like run outside because I thought my house

460
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:49,200
Speaker 4: was burning down.

461
00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,960
Speaker 3: Also, I was like, who was that? It reminded me

462
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 3: of Smart House.

463
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, okay, Disney Channel on ritual movie and

464
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 4: that was a scary movie to me because the lady

465
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 4: was like a robot. That took care of the house,

466
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 4: but she then started taking over the house. And in

467
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 4: my head, I'm like, somebody's invaded our house. We're not

468
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 4: gonna they're gonna lock the doors, like I don't. I

469
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,479
Speaker 4: freaked out. And then the alarm never sounded, but then

470
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 4: there's no smoke. So then Patrick was like, it's fine.

471
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 4: And then ten minutes go by, she does it again.

472
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 4: There's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm will sound,

473
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 4: it's going to be very loud.

474
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 3: Just so you know, was she glitching? She said it clearly.

475
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 1: Well I know, but like glitch like was her system?

476
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 1: Like what was making her fire off?

477
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 3: Like?

478
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 1: Was there smoke in the master bedroom? No?

479
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 4: And so then well, then I went and blew the

480
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 4: he I had a candle. Oh, I had a candle

481
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 4: on downstairs. So I went and blew the candle out,

482
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 4: like surely that's not it. And then thirty minutes later it.

483
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 3: Did it again.

484
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 4: This time the alarm went off. So I opened the

485
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 4: door and I'm like, I'm out of the house, and

486
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 4: Patrick's like in the bedroom looking for smoke. I'm like,

487
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 4: get out. And then I called my dad and then

488
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 4: well I texted him. He said that those alarms are normal.

489
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 4: My first concern was, why is she talking like this

490
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 4: should just be a sound and he said, new alarms,

491
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: fire alarms talk interesting. Never have heard that before ever,

492
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 4: he said, anybody in this room never, So if that

493
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: happens to you one day, just know it can be normal.

494
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 3: It's not a person.

495
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 4: And then he said to vacuum it because sometimes dust

496
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 4: gets in there. And he said, do that, and if

497
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 4: it doesn't work, it could be a spider. Sometimes spiders

498
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 4: crawl into them, so if it still doesn't the vacuuming

499
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 4: doesn't help, then maybe it's a spider, and just to

500
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 4: take it down. And I said, well, what if there

501
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 4: really is a smoke somewhere like in the attic, and

502
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 4: there's smoke somewhere in the night, it's going to turn

503
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 4: into a fire and then we are dead. Yeah, And

504
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 4: he said that it would have already been a fire

505
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 4: by now, right, okay, And then he said, if you

506
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 4: need me to come over, I will.

507
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 3: But I don't think I think Patrick wanted to take

508
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 3: care of it himself.

509
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: He probably did. And you're like, it's cool. I already

510
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 1: texting Dad, No.

511
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 3: I said, is it a Does that make you feel weird?

512
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 4: That I'm texting my dad and he said, no, I

513
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 4: don't really know what's going on either, but you don't

514
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 4: need him to come over here at nine pm.

515
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 3: I can take the fire just so he can take

516
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 3: it off the wall. I can do that.

517
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. That reminds me of one time my ex husband,

518
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 1: early in our marriage, my dad was going to carve

519
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: the turkey, but we were hosting and that didn't go

520
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,959
Speaker 1: over well. I mean he didn't say anything to him,

521
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: but he got upset and he was like, this was

522
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: supposed to this is our Thanksgiving. I'm supposed to carve

523
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: the turkey.

524
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 3: So your dad carved it.

525
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 1: I think my dad started working on the turkey and

526
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: my ex husband was like, that's our turkey. Well, yeah,

527
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 1: he didn't he didn't say anything. It was more internal.

528
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: And then later he've expressed to me that he was

529
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: upset because it was his turkey.

530
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 3: Who did he cook the turkey?

531
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think we did it all together.

532
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: I honestly, this was years ago. I mean I was

533
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: buried seventeen years and that was the really part of

534
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: our marriage. So we're going back actually, like it could

535
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: have been around two thousand and seven, two thousand and eight,

536
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 1: at the seventh, So I don't remember every detail, but

537
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: it just made me think of like a son in

538
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: law father relationship and how it's like newly married. Like

539
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,120
Speaker 1: if this is my house, you're her dad, but I'm

540
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: her husband, and I'm going to protect.

541
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 3: Her and carve her turkey and I carved. That sounds interesting.

542
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 1: It sounds like, I mean, something doesn't have to be sexual,

543
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: but it still sounded it. It doesn't have to be,

544
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: but it sounded dirty. So to be clear, like Bim's

545
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: actually talking about a turkey, yes, like actual turkey, but

546
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: it was. It was an interesting thing. Like some of

547
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: that is just conditioning, as men are wanting to feel

548
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: a certain way in your home, you know.

549
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 4: But I feel like your ex husband was way more

550
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 4: And I could be wrong, but it appeared to me

551
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 4: to be way more like handy and traditionally masculine in

552
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 4: that way.

553
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 3: Then my husband, like Patrick, doesn't have to carp a turkey. Wait,

554
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, stop, this is not so why are

555
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 3: you laughing.

556
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: Like that? I love Oh my gosh, he doesn't listen, right, Okay,

557
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't mean it like that.

558
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 3: So masculine, but ready he can't. Oh you know's how

559
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 3: carbon Turkey.

560
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: He doesn't tell us, tell us how manly he is, like, like,

561
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: name all the ways. Hurry, hurry, name, start saying them. Sorry.

562
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: So he's like, so he loves sports, sports, he loved sports.

563
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 3: Go he loves sports. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, wait stop it.

564
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 4: I don't think that would even upset him because I

565
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 4: think he knows what I mean, like I can't.

566
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 3: Like he can't. He wasn't handy, like.

567
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: He manages money.

568
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 3: Well, I hope he does.

569
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: I don't know.

570
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: We're just giving you a hard time.

571
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but look, hey, guess what. I love you

572
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 3: and you're perfect for me. What I meant was I

573
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 3: feel like Ben would do probably more like building of

574
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 3: things like.

575
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: My dad definitely did not Ben. I mean, I think,

576
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 1: you know he he could be handy, and also he

577
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: was gone a lot, like because he was in the military,

578
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: so I think, yes, could he do certain things on

579
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 1: a plane, Like could he fly an airplane? I felt

580
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: like that was always yeah, that's pretty off women flight airplane.

581
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: It's not like just a man thing. But I think

582
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: I had to learn how to figure out things on

583
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: my own. I didn't do I hire it up.

584
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 3: So did you call it your dad.

585
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad would do a lot, and I don't

586
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: know if that really bothered Ben. To be honest, we

587
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: didn't really talk about it, but things would just get

588
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: done or I would hire people, and then I think

589
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 1: that was sort of our routine. So even when Ben

590
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: would come back from deployment, I'm like, oh, I already

591
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 1: have my handyman who was not threatening, like he couldn't hear. Well,

592
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: I had this one handy man, and I think he

593
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: was like, maybe you know how you're sort of legally blind. Yeah,

594
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: right right, but like you can see.

595
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 3: It's like a, yeah, I'm legally blind, but I can

596
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 3: see like shapes and blobs.

597
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

598
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 3: So anyway, his hearing that just I feel like I

599
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 3: need to get this out.

600
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, Patrick's not gonna listen, I know.

601
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 3: But I wouldn't want that in the ether anyway.

602
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 4: Okay, I met like traditionally masculine in the sense that

603
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 4: like the traditional roles where we kind of ben the

604
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 4: like I can probably hang a picture frame better than

605
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 4: he can kind of thing.

606
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 3: Wow, is that not okay? I'm just hidding.

607
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: So he went, I think my sister is the same

608
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: way her husband can design and help build a house,

609
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: but my sister is going to hang the picture better.

610
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just saying he doesn't get mad about that.

611
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 4: He would never get mad at the I can't say this,

612
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 4: but I wouldn't expect him to care who cuts the

613
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 4: turkey at Thanksgiving because he just is like, oh, your

614
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 4: dad would probably do a better job at that, so

615
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 4: he can do it kind of thing.

616
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

617
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: Yes?

618
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 3: I love my husband, we know you do.

619
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: It's just funny, okay, I thought. And laughter is good

620
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: for the soul. Like we all got a good laugh,

621
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: and I bet you feel better because earlier you were

622
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: like raging.

623
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you.

624
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. I have other ways to reset your day. I know,

625
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: laughter that happens organically. You can't really force that. But

626
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: if you ever need to reset your day again, Like

627
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: if you're ragie, you can take a raid shower.

628
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: What's that?

629
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: So you get in the shower and you blast music. No,

630
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: you can have it hot, but you just blast music

631
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: and you rage all out, Like just jam out in

632
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: the shower and sing and blast it and feel good

633
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: and then yes, at the end, you can do like

634
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: a thirty second to one minute like cold spurt at

635
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: the end. But in it you picture with the water

636
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: like all the rage running down the drain. It's a

637
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: raid shower.

638
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 4: I can't picture my Well, first of all, where am

639
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 4: I getting? I guess you need like a boom box

640
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 4: in the bathroom, your figure, your phone, But your phone's

641
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 4: not that loud.

642
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 3: Okay, if I'm raging, I wanted the music to be

643
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: louder than I am.

644
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: Okay. I mean yeah.

645
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: Also, you mentioned going and throwing ice cubes earlier when

646
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: I was texting you.

647
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's something that I got from my therapists

648
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 1: a while back, or maybe even one of my kids

649
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: therapists is one of our mini therapists over the years,

650
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: but it was you take ice cubes and then you

651
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: just throw them down as hard as you can onto

652
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: your driveway or your back porch or somewhere where there.

653
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: It can really.

654
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 3: Safer than rocks. A cold shower, I really just can't wait.

655
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: The cold thing is at the end. You don't have

656
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: to do that. You could take a normal raid shower

657
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: and it's just you're washing the bad mood away.

658
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, a shower really does do wonders.

659
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: I journaled this morning the washing hair.

660
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna say a journal in the

661
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: shower this morning, even with.

662
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: My waterproof journal and my waterproof speaker. No. I I

663
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: washed my hair this morning and then journaled after it,

664
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: right before I had a few minutes before I had

665
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: to leave for work, and I was like, I'm going

666
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: to use this few minutes to journal because I'm trying

667
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: to do my morning pages again. And I what is

668
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: it about fresh hair? It changes everything?

669
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 3: Do you like to wash your hair in the morning

670
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 3: or at night.

671
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: In the morning because it's fresh?

672
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 3: So I okay for the look of your hair, right? Yeah,

673
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 3: so I totally agree.

674
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 4: There is something like recently last couple of months, because

675
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 4: I've either gone on a walk at night or worked

676
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 4: out at night or something that has had me take

677
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: a shower at night. The best getting ready for bed

678
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 4: and going to sleep feeling with wet hair and feeling

679
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 4: like totally clean.

680
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 3: I think for my mental health that is better, but

681
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 3: for like my hair looking good, Yeah, I want like

682
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 3: wash it right before.

683
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: Why I can't wash my hair every day? Now, I'll

684
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: take showers before bed, but I will put a shower.

685
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 3: Cot would wash your hair every day?

686
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't want to. Yeah that would take no, no, no, no,

687
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: that would take so much time to wash my hair

688
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: every single day, my friend, because my hair doesn't air dry.

689
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 3: Did you do it when you were younger?

690
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: No?

691
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: I washed my hair every single day growing up. Is

692
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 3: that not crazy? Well?

693
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: Does your hair air dry normalish?

694
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: You can tell when it's air dry. You'd probably be like, oh,

695
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 3: it's an air dry day.

696
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, some people just naturally can do that. Like

697
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: my friend Luke married a girl and she showers and

698
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: washes her hair every single night and like crawls in bed,

699
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: but then wakes up and her hair is like perfect.

700
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 3: Oh you know, it's like that's not me.

701
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: She's lucky. But every night she cannot no matter what

702
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: time it is where they are, she will be taking

703
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: a shower.

704
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 3: I feel like that's a normal, like a new thing.

705
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 3: Like growing up, I feel like everybody was washing their

706
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 3: hair every day, and then all of a sudden people

707
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 3: are like it's not good for you, or like you

708
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 3: don't have to live this way.

709
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: Well, I sort of trained my hair to go many,

710
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: many days without washing because we heard that's what was

711
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: good for you, And then now I'm hearing the opposite. Yeah,

712
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: do you see how you see on TikTok that now

713
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: that you don't.

714
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I thought your hair girl told you not to

715
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: use your actampoo or something.

716
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: Oh that's a hair Yeah, that was a hairstylist that, yes,

717
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: I've gone to that said that. And also I recently

718
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: saw on TikTok wash your hair more, Wash your hair

719
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: more because of the dirt and sometimes heads that we thought,

720
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: you think about it, it's kind of gross. Yes, we

721
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: thought like it was doing more damage washing it too much,

722
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: but actually keeping that clean is keeping the roots healthier

723
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: and going to give your stronger, better hair. I don't know,

724
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: and like, I'm sure someone will counter that with something else.

725
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: It was just something I saw in passing. But whoever

726
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: told it to me on TikTok, I trusted her.

727
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 3: Did you ever get Lyce as a kid?

728
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: No. Stevenson just asked me that the other day because

729
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: he's had life once and we had to completely shave

730
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: his head and he's like, what if I get it again?

731
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: And I said, well, it's been four years.

732
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 3: But also for a boy, it's not a big deal.

733
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 3: You can just shave your head and you don't have

734
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 3: to have that hair stuff.

735
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: Life's person come to our house and she completely took

736
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: it out and then she looked in my hair and

737
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: to share his hair everybody in the house, and we

738
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: were good to go.

739
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 3: I went to an elementary school at one point where

740
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: we had like weekly life checks.

741
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: I think that's probably animal normal.

742
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 3: Like the nurse would come to our classrooms and they

743
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: would check all of our hair.

744
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: Then what if someone had it? Would they be obvious? Yes, like,

745
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: hey you over there.

746
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: She's coming with me. Yeah, that's found one.

747
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 2: Yeh.

748
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: I do the radar.

749
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 3: I had lice, but it was in the summer. You

750
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,959
Speaker 3: never asked me if I did have lice. I volunteer

751
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 3: the information.

752
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: Now I want to know. I'm sorry when you asked

753
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: that question. I was like, that's so weird. Stephenson just

754
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,959
Speaker 1: asked me about that, and I don't think I ever

755
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: had it, but I had.

756
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 4: That thought because they say that lice likes clean hair.

757
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 4: I think that might be an urban legend to make

758
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 4: people feel better.

759
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: Oh you're so clean, Yeah, don't worry.

760
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 3: It's because you're so clean. Yeah, but it is annoying

761
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 3: for a girl because you have to get rid of everything,

762
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 3: like every hair bow, every headband, every scrunchy, every anything.

763
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 3: You have to get rid of all of it.

764
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 1: Is that what you do?

765
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, all my headbands. Never wore a headband again. That's

766
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 3: why anyway riveting.

767
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 1: Now, I know you have something for us regarding like cursing,

768
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: which I'm very curious about because I used to not cuss. Ever.

769
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: Ever, when did you say your first curse word?

770
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't even think in cussing. Wait, like

771
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: I just didn't like cuss words didn't pop into my head.

772
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: I was never a cuss until a cursor. How do

773
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: you say it?

774
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: He sounds so sweet. I was never a cuss person.

775
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 3: I didn't even think cuss words. I just did it.

776
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: It was like gotcha, which was good because on the

777
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 1: radio we couldn't cuss. And there were times where like

778
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: one time I spilt my coffee all over the board

779
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: and the mics were recording and I was recording something.

780
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't live. But this was way back in my

781
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: early radio career, so like two thousand and six or something,

782
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: and I said, oh shoot, and like today me now,

783
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: I've probably been like oh ffffff, you know, so like

784
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: that was me then and this is me now. And

785
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: I think the only thing that switched was I don't know,

786
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: I went through a lot and then realized that sometimes

787
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: saying a cuss word helped me feel better.

788
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 3: I vividly remember my first cuss word.

789
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: Okay, when was it?

790
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 3: Me and two of my friends walked to publics. Don't

791
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: ask me why, and then our walk back we were like, okay,

792
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 3: they they were cussers, I.

793
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 4: Was not, and so we all took turns saying different

794
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 4: cuss words. I think they're trying to get me to

795
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 4: be bad join the club. Yeah yeah, And then it

796
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 4: all went uphill from there because according to research, cussing

797
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 4: is a sign of authenticity and people who which goes

798
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 4: along with authenticity. I think they mean like more authentic

799
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 4: in their personality and who they are, but also are

800
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 4: less likely to be liars, more likely to tell the

801
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 4: truth is I think.

802
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: I always wanted to be and I wasn't in my

803
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: authentic self and for all those years because my parents

804
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: told me the story, I don't fully remember it, but

805
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: when I was really little, they were hosting a dinner

806
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: party and like a jet flew over our house, like

807
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 1: a fighter jet. You know, have you ever had those flyover?

808
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: They're so loud? And I looked up in the middle

809
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: of it and I go, what the f was that?

810
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: I mean, and I said it and I was three

811
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: or something, the yeah, I said the effort because my

812
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: parents cussed. Yeah, like my parents cussed. I obviously heard

813
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: the said No. I said, well, I'm not going to

814
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: say it here.

815
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean he's a uthentic.

816
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: He used to good beep it. But I was like,

817
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: what the heck was that? Oh you?

818
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 3: And then.

819
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: My parents loved Heell retelling that story, of course, because

820
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: they thought it was so cute that I did that

821
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: and didn't. And I was like, what, that's so crazy

822
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: because I just wasn't a cusser. And I don't know

823
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 1: if I thought I was being bad if I cussed,

824
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: or I didn't think I was better than anybody else.

825
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,479
Speaker 3: But I just didn't does your did your sister?

826
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't recall her cussing now. My half sister and

827
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: my brother they cuss all the time. Like with my dad.

828
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: They'd be having conversations and they'll be like, cuss, cuss

829
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: as an adult?

830
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 3: Would you curse around your mom?

831
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: No? I didn't cuss so recently my mom passed away.

832
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: Before I became a cuss person. She missed it. My

833
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 1: mom cussing now. She used to cuss. And then when

834
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: she really found Jesus like her, Jesus doesn't cuss. Well,

835
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: she just changed a lot about her. It was like

836
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:14,720
Speaker 1: a dramatic shift like and I think how she spoke

837
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 1: was part of that. I think there were plenty of

838
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: Christians that cuss, that's not the point. I think for her,

839
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: she had to make some changes. And that was one

840
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: thing I saw because I remember one time I missed

841
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: the bus and she was not happy and she slammed

842
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: the dishwasher and said some cuss words. I mean, I

843
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 1: remember my parents cussing for sure, and I've cussed in

844
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:32,720
Speaker 1: front of my kids.

845
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,760
Speaker 3: Now, was you being authentic?

846
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 4: I want to read this because just to give the

847
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 4: whole picture, it says multiple studies have shown a positive

848
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 4: correlation between higher profanity use and honesty and authenticity, though

849
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 4: the link is not absolute. Cursing is often described by

850
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 4: researchers as an unfiltered and genuine expression of emotion, which

851
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 4: can signal a person's willingness to prioritize candor over politeness.

852
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 4: So what I hear in that is people that cuss

853
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 4: are more willing to prioritize being themselves than being nice

854
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:07,720
Speaker 4: and polite.

855
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 3: You know, which I appreciate.

856
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: I think that there's a i mean over use of

857
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: it at times that can be a bit much, but

858
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: for me occasionally it's just very fitting.

859
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like nothing else works as well, nothing, you know, nothing, nothing. Well,

860
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 3: I'm proud of you that you're now a customers.

861
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: I'm now a customerson. I know. My mom doesn't know.

862
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: My dad maybe knew a little bit.

863
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because how recent was this transition.

864
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of when it really started. It

865
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: had to been twenty twenty, twenty twenty one.

866
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 3: Was your ex a cuss person?

867
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: Not really, but we have become cuss people together. Okay,

868
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: like sometimes in our co parenting, will say it. One

869
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: time he called me out for like, oh one time, okay,

870
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: say this because he wasn't being He was kind of

871
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: I need to keep this in my side of the street. Street,

872
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: you know how sometimes I want to make sure I

873
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: tell it my side. I was being a little overly

874
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,959
Speaker 1: colorful with my language, but I was fired up about

875
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 1: something and he had to let me go and I

876
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know now you're too good.

877
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 3: Oh he was like, I'm hanging up.

878
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: Well, he was like, we just need to talk later

879
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:34,280
Speaker 1: like I don't appreciate your energy, and I was like, what, okay,

880
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: next time you say a word or two, remind me

881
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: of this because you're not going to It was around

882
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: then that we decided we have our code word, which

883
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: is pickle, so we haven't had to use pickle in

884
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: forever in retrospect. In retrospect, I do think I was

885
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: a little heightened. Okay, like I was here and I

886
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: could have brought it down to Hero could have, but

887
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: he didn't need to be all, you know, holier than

888
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: now on me, which that's me, my defensive self talking.

889
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna say on my side of

890
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: the street. That was not my side of the street.

891
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: I take it back. I would say all of this

892
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: to his face. I think I was defensive in that

893
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: moment of like, well, who do you think you are?

894
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: And you say these words too, so just wait. But

895
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: now I don't feel that way like he does it.

896
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: There's not gonna be revenge.

897
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 1: No, that was a while back.

898
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I remember this.

899
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't do the best job of saying on

900
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: my side of the street.

901
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 3: That was the thought that counts.

902
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: Right before I told the story, I'm like, stay on

903
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: my side of the street, and then I still called

904
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: out his because I was still I guess when I

905
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: think back on it, I'm still perplexed by why he

906
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: went that route. But that's okay. We all have this moment.

907
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 3: Is Alex a cuss person?

908
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: Occasionally when it's right, I probably throw them in a

909
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: little more than he does. But he's dabbled well good.

910
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 3: That means that he's authentic.

911
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,919
Speaker 4: He is, And this isn't on encompassing obviously, Like you said,

912
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 4: sometimes people will overuse. There is a too far. And

913
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 4: also if you don't cuss, it doesn't mean that you're

914
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 4: a liar, yeah at all, but it is.

915
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 3: It's just interesting. I have a book called Swearing Is

916
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 3: Good for You. I've been meaning to read it for

917
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 3: like ten years.

918
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: Oh you haven't even read it yet.

919
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 4: I did start it, but then it was just a

920
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 4: lot about the research of cursing in language, and it

921
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 4: just I think I got the gist of it from

922
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 4: the title.

923
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: You know, another reset? I know I shared the raid shower,

924
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: But another thing you can do for a reset is

925
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: eat something cold and crunchy.

926
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 3: That would not do it for me. It wouldn't not

927
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 3: rage if I'm overwhelmed.

928
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, but let's just like you're real mad and

929
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: you get a carrot and you dip in some honeys

930
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: hummus and then you bite down like that. Wouldn't you

931
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: be like, oh, nothing chips?

932
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 3: So do you think that would be? So?

933
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 4: I don't think that if I'm angry, I want to eat.

934
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 4: I'm one of those people who I have a lot

935
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 4: of emotions. My appetite isn't there. What I'm hearing from

936
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: you is that like the like crunch in the bite

937
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 4: of it is going to be like oh oh, but

938
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 4: I think I'd rather throw ice or the scream in

939
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 4: the shower or something.

940
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: What about chew ice? Do you chew ice?

941
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,399
Speaker 4: No, but my husband is always chewing ice. If there

942
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 4: is a cup somewhere with ice in it, he's gonna

943
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 4: eat it.

944
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: That's so manly, that's yeah, what a man? What amen?

945
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 3: I hear that chewing ice also gives you gas? So really, yes,

946
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: why you're sucking down a lot of air?

947
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 1: Oh well, that's a good deterrent. Yeah. I don't have

948
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: to stop my husband with chewing ice if you don't

949
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: tell him like, hey, baby, that's gonna give you gas.

950
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 3: I think I've told him that before, and he's like,

951
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 3: I can't stop. He loves it. He gets it from

952
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 3: his dad. His dad's choose.

953
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 4: Like if you go to a restaurant and you get

954
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 4: a drink with ice in it, they drink the drink,

955
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: but then they eat all of the ice.

956
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

957
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, And like if we go to like especially

958
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 4: somewhere with good ice, Like I'm pretty sure Chick fil

959
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 4: a has good ice.

960
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, if we go there, yeah, and sonic.

961
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 4: If we go there and both get drinks and he

962
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 4: finishes his ice and my ice is sitting there, he'll

963
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 4: have my ice too.

964
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 3: Yes, his dad just got a sonic ice maker, like

965
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 3: an ice maker that makes oh pellets.

966
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

967
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 4: So probably because he wants to eat the ice. That's

968
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 4: something that like pregnant people are supposed to like, which

969
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 4: I don't.

970
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 3: Know why that is, but I do hear they do

971
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 3: like it. Probably is the crunch nothing sounds good?

972
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, and he gives them maybe the cold

973
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: coldness feels good? Do you pop your knuckles?

974
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 3: Yes?

975
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: Okay, me too. And one of the things that my

976
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 1: boyfriend really really is holding on too, even though the

977
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: Internet says otherwise, is that popsy knuckle causes arthritis, and

978
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: like he won't let his kids do it, and he's

979
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 1: anytime I do it, he's like stop, and I'm like,

980
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: have you researched this? And he's like yeah, and what

981
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: did he find? Well, he finds that it gives arthritis.

982
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: And I'm like, but I see here it doesn't. It's

983
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: a myth.

984
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 3: I feel, so what do we believe?

985
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he's just so he doesn't let

986
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: it go. It's not budging on it. It's just not

987
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: a couple thoughts. I won pop my knuckles like twenty

988
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: times a day.

989
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 3: I love it.

990
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 4: It feels so good to not do that would have

991
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 4: you'd have to have so much self control. I also

992
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: love when my husband cracks my knuckles.

993
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 3: You do that, you do so, But also I feel

994
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 3: so good at cracking my knuckles. Tell us more anyway.

995
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 3: What I also was gonna say is that if it

996
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: really did cause arthritis, I think more of us, more

997
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 3: of us would have it, or well, sometimes I do

998
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 3: think I have arthritis, but it's beside the point. It's

999
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 3: not from cracking my knuckles. Can't be. But I just

1000
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 3: feel like there'd be more warnings about it, Like I

1001
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 3: just feel like that's something we heard when we are

1002
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 3: little and like we grew out of it, believe.

1003
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1004
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if that really was and I feel like

1005
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 3: at our physicals, our doctors would be like, and.

1006
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: You're not cracking your knuckles right, you know, do your

1007
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: wrists pop? No, that's my party trick. It'll do it

1008
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: every time.

1009
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 3: You're like the lady at church that they do the bells.

1010
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, they both will pop. This one's sounds loud,

1011
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: but it's still popping. Wow.

1012
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 3: So if you are in mister geniality, that's what.

1013
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: You do for your talent. No, my talent would Okay,

1014
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 1: that could be one of my talents. My other one

1015
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: would be you can line up a lot of different

1016
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: ketchups and I will tell you which one is hines.

1017
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 3: That's pretty it's pretty sick. Yeah, so you have a

1018
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 3: backup talent.

1019
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Well that's cool.

1020
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 3: That's in there.

1021
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: However you're feeling today, if you need to take a beat,

1022
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: throw some ice cubes, take a raid, shower, eat something crunchy.

1023
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 3: Curse, curse, be a cuss person.

1024
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that what I said?

1025
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1026
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 1: You know, just know that you're not alone. If that

1027
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: is you, We are with you and we hope you

1028
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: have the day need to help.

1029
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 3: Bye.

1030
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 1: Bye,