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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Coco, good morning, Hey, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, gosh, what is going on you?

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Speaker 1: Cal made a good point a couple of weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: or maybe it was last week, I can't remember. Like

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Speaker 1: she sounds a little distraught already, Like some of these people,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, they're being ghosted and they're devastated, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: how you doing well? I'm great, And then they described

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Speaker 1: this really bad thing, you know, how they're being ignored.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, you're not great. Yeah you're not great.

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Speaker 1: You know you're not great. But Coco, you sound you

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Speaker 1: sound upset? What's going on with this guy?

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Speaker 2: Brett?

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Speaker 1: We need the whole backstory. How did you meet?

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Speaker 3: I think it's because he's really he was really dope.

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Speaker 3: And then like I'm like, what happened? You know, like

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Speaker 3: I hate that. It was like we went out twice too.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like a one time thing. So I met

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Speaker 3: him through a distant mutual friend, and you know, they

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Speaker 3: they met a party. Then we met at a party.

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Speaker 3: She thought he was cute, he was super excited.

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Speaker 2: Uh, and then like out of nowhere.

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Speaker 3: It's like, we had two dates.

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Speaker 4: We hooked up, it was good sex.

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Speaker 3: You know, and then I'm just like and now poof,

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Speaker 3: you're Casper. Huh, Like, like, did.

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Speaker 4: You just use me for sex?

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Speaker 3: But it couldn't have been, because like the first date

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Speaker 3: was so good, you know, it was so I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like we connected.

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Speaker 4: I you know, I don't. I don't want to, I

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Speaker 4: don't want to reach out.

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Speaker 3: I'm really nervous, right, I don't know. I just this

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Speaker 3: hasn't happened to me before. So I'm just like, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know what to do.

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Speaker 4: I don't know the protocols.

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Speaker 3: I don't you know, I don't know the whole ghosted

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Speaker 3: you know, standard procedure of operations.

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Speaker 1: We luckily used on the right people because we are

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Speaker 1: the experts in the procedure of operations of ghosting, both

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Speaker 1: our personal lives and our professional lives. So we want

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Speaker 1: to help you and hopefully you straighten this out with

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Speaker 1: Brad and get you guys going on another date or

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Speaker 1: at least, uh, you know, give you some closure here.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna call him. You'll be on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to U say anything right at first,

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Speaker 1: but hopefully he gives us the info that we need

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Speaker 1: and then you can jump in and you know again,

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Speaker 1: if we can set you guys up on another date,

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Speaker 1: we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Sound good, all right?

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Speaker 4: Sounds good?

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Speaker 1: All right, Coco, just a couple of minutes, hang on,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song and then we'll get to it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Let's see what happens next Part two after

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Speaker 1: Luke Colbs. You've got to hear this three minutes the way.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Commercial free, good morning, thanks for

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Speaker 1: waking up with us, Lou Colmes. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Hey, Coco, Hey, I'm here, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Brett. You guys, you went on a date.

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Speaker 1: You guys hooked up. You thought it was a success,

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Speaker 1: You thought there was a connection. But you have not

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Speaker 1: heard from this guy since the date, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know it was he using you?

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Speaker 2: Did he not like you?

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Speaker 1: Really? Has he been busy? Is there some kind of

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Speaker 1: misunderstanding you want to know? You want closure?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, I definitely need it.

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Speaker 4: It's it's wrecking my brain because we had sex, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, and I don't know. I just felt like there

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Speaker 4: So I'm just like, how do you disappear?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Makes sense, let's call him now. Good luck, Coco?

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Speaker 4: Thanks? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Brett? Hey Breg, Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Freend Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that we are

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Speaker 1: just a couple of minutes? I get right to it,

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Speaker 1: But you gotta say yes? Yeah? No, no, Well I

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Speaker 1: always say no, but I don't mean no because maybe

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Speaker 1: you did. We're calling on behalf of a woman named Coco.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember meeting Coco hopefully going on a date

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Speaker 1: and all of that. Okay, yeah, okay, So she reached

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Speaker 4: Okay, So here's this thing.

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Speaker 2: We met at.

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Speaker 4: A party and I thought she was cute. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she looked good, she smelled good, and I guess I

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Speaker 4: And you know, when we met, the conversation went well.

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Speaker 4: And the dates were great, you know, like the first

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Speaker 4: had some dinner. And the second date, we went to her.

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Speaker 5: Place, right, and I was, I was, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: Apartment, okay, which was inquiring minds want to know, right, right.

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Speaker 4: So we went back to her place when I was pumped,

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Speaker 4: and bro, I mean we even we even hooked. I mean, I.

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Speaker 5: Don't want to put too much out there, but we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she told us that you hooked up. So what

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Speaker 2: what did you see? My man?

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Speaker 5: I glanced at a shelf in her room and noticed

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Speaker 5: she had not one, but two frame photos of me.

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Speaker 2: They were free of you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, man, and like, listen, the first photo with someone.

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Speaker 5: It was a picture that someone took of us at

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Speaker 5: the party. So I'm like, okay, well whatever, But then.

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Speaker 4: The second one she took from my social media. I

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Speaker 5: On on on online, and this this is getting me

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Speaker 5: stokers lives and I.

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Speaker 2: After, yeah, yeah, yeah, you asked her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I asked her about it, but she made it

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Speaker 2: Second, great, So this is second date.

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Speaker 1: You go to her house and she's already got frame

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Speaker 1: photos of you guys, like you're like you've been together forever?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like you guys, how did she even have time

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Speaker 4: to get these prid drut stores even do that anymore?

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, Brett, I know just the person

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Speaker 1: you ask, it's Coco. I forgot to mention that Coco

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Speaker 1: is here. Coco, really, girl, we got we got frame

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, one, you're making me sound really really crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm not weird.

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Speaker 4: Sorry not, it's not weird.

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Speaker 6: Staples was having a deal where it's fifty cents for

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Speaker 6: a print out.

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Speaker 3: I was like, boom, it's already on my phone.

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Speaker 4: I'm right here.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't fifty dollars. Fifty dollars, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: It was the deal too.

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Speaker 4: What about family or a dog.

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Speaker 6: No, the first photo of us, I looked really cute

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Speaker 6: in that photo. I don't have I don't know if

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Speaker 6: you scoured the rest of my apartment, but I don't

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Speaker 6: have a lot of photos up of myself, and that

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Speaker 6: So the second Yeah, the second photo, though, you just

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Speaker 4: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: But life, Yeah, Brett plus Coco and the date they

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Speaker 4: Serious.

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Speaker 2: It's not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 6: It's just it's so if it was in my phone,

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Speaker 6: it would have been fine.

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Speaker 3: But because I printed.

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Speaker 1: It out everyone everyone, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: If I somehow i'd seen your phone and saw that

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Speaker 5: me saved to your favorites in your phone, that that

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Speaker 4: But having the extra step of them printed and how

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Speaker 4: that's that's the tread. And I've been with girls that

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Speaker 2: I have a question, Parannoya, that's not me.

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Speaker 1: I have a question, homie, did you see those pictures

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Speaker 1: before or after you smashed That's my question is after,

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Speaker 1: It's definitely after it Like, well, tails so old as

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Speaker 2: It and then I left.

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Speaker 2: And then after I got some time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, afterwards, I had some time to just kind of

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Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa, whoat I would I would be I

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Speaker 1: would think it was a joke or so. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what I think, but it's that's a lot. Look, Brett,

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Speaker 1: can we look past that. She's excited to meet you,

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Speaker 1: everything was fine and still then I mean, I'm asking.

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Speaker 2: The man not look past that. Save yourself.

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Speaker 5: Man, I can't be having her asking me to get

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to pass on that one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well, I mean.

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Speaker 4: Coco you're beautiful, you look good, you smell good. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you take care of yourself. I just you got it,

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Speaker 4: dished those stalkers five and I'm not gonna be able

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Speaker 4: to forget this one. You got ditch it for the

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Speaker 4: next one. I'm not the one. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If it were one of those like digital photo frames

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Speaker 2: Something, no no, no, no, no, here's I could.

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Speaker 1: You could make an excuse. You could be like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: they put some pictures from my phone on here. You mean,

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Speaker 1: do you You could come up with something. You you

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Speaker 1: went and you had this, You went to the Walgreens,

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Speaker 1: you had you found the wall Greens and still doesn't

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Speaker 1: right start Center instantly printed out.

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Speaker 3: Naples was having a deal.

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Speaker 2: I was ready, yeah, right, because you were there buying

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Speaker 2: pantils and erasers and one off social media probably has

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Speaker 2: this handle on there. You know what I'm saying, creeps

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Speaker 2: out of it.

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Speaker 1: Hey, look, I'm sorry, Coco, it's not going to work out,

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Speaker 1: but I wish you guys both the best of life.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for your time. Thank you,