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Speaker 1: Second day. One of our listeners named Lulu emailed us
Speaker 1: for a second date update, saying that she's been on
Speaker 1: a bunch of bad dates recently. Oh girl. Her message says,
Speaker 1: one guy took me to Burger King because it was
Speaker 1: quote what he liked to eat. He ate two full
Speaker 1: meals by himself and talked about himself the whole time.
Speaker 1: At the end, he lunged across the table for a
Speaker 1: kiss while his whole mouth was covered in sauce. He
Speaker 1: was just looking for a burger queen. And she also
Speaker 1: wrote one guy's opening line to me on Tinder was
Speaker 1: if I buy you twenty chicken nuggets, can I do
Speaker 1: it with you in your car? I mean fanatics? Yeah, Lulu,
Speaker 1: I think the problem is you need to get off
Speaker 1: all the fast food dating apps. Taco Bell Match is
Speaker 1: not working for you. Yeah, yeah, that seems to maybe
Speaker 1: be the answer, because finding someone on there is impossible.
Speaker 1: You don't want to run for the border anymore. But
Speaker 1: the reason why we're taking your calls because I'm really
Speaker 1: hoping that we can help you get out of your
Speaker 1: current dating funk. Okay, so tell us about the guy
Speaker 1: that you want us to call today. What's his name?
Speaker 1: Right right? Trent? Trent? Okay? And where did you eat? Trent?
Speaker 1: Should I even ask? On bumble? Okay? Okay? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a normal one, all right? And so what what attracted
Speaker 1: you to Trent was his total lack of interest in
Speaker 1: fast food? I don't know, I feel like at this point,
Speaker 1: I'm just not that he didn't seem super interesting, but
Speaker 1: I was just trying anyone and anything at this point,
Speaker 1: and I think that's where I was kind of running
Speaker 1: into these people that were a huge disappointed thing. Okay
Speaker 1: was good enough, he was fine, he was there. You swiped.
Speaker 1: You have given up? Is what it sounds like, Lulu. Well,
Speaker 1: he was kind of like at the top of my
Speaker 1: list because like he's super cute and there were no
Speaker 1: weird red flags in his bio, So I was like,
Speaker 1: this might be a really positive thing for me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I like how no red flags is like a huge
Speaker 1: green or a means he didn't mess his bio up?
Speaker 1: So what what did you in Trent end up doing
Speaker 1: for your date? So we actually wound up going to
Speaker 1: a local bar. But what was really weird was as
Speaker 1: soon as we saw each other, I recognized him right away.
Speaker 1: He looked super confused and said, I thought you were blonde.
Speaker 1: I did you used to be belonged? No. I was like,
Speaker 1: maybe it's because you know, we both were kind of
Speaker 1: messaging back and forth about how hard it is to
Speaker 1: find people dating online. I was like, maybe you know,
Speaker 1: you had me confusing somebody else, and he kind of
Speaker 1: had like a good laugh about it wasn't a big deal. Okay,
Speaker 1: how did he say it? Did he say it like
Speaker 1: he was disappointed that you weren't or was he kind
Speaker 1: of happy? No, just genuinely confused, like thought he was
Speaker 1: meeting somebody that looks differently, But like I can understand
Speaker 1: because I've just been doing so much dating as well
Speaker 1: that I feel like I could easily make the same mistake.
Speaker 1: It seems like you could just be a blur like you,
Speaker 1: just like you know, swiping on so many people, seeing
Speaker 1: so many pictures exactly exactly. Okay, So what was it like? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was great. So went to the bar,
Speaker 1: grabbed the seat, he took his jacket off, and he
Speaker 1: had scrubs on. Okay, or a nurse. Turns out he's
Speaker 1: a medical resident and he had just pulled a thirty
Speaker 1: five hour shift. Oh oh man, no wonder he was confused. Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah right, it's like where am I at the hospital?
Speaker 1: That's what we all residents did. Yeah, how does he
Speaker 1: have even time to date right now? Yeah? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I was but explained the confusion obviously, I mean,
Speaker 1: he hadn't sleeping over a day. But it was really
Speaker 1: sweet and he was such a gentleman. He was you know,
Speaker 1: he didn't want to cancel because he was kind of
Speaker 1: really interested to meet me. So we got a couple
Speaker 1: of drinks. Did he get hammered on? A couple of
Speaker 1: drinks since he was on no how sleep and I'm assuming,
Speaker 1: like not a lot of food whatever. The vending machine
Speaker 1: and the hospital cafeteria had like creature exactly. I thought,
Speaker 1: it's exactly right. No, it was so good. It was
Speaker 1: so good. It was totally normal, the only thing. So
Speaker 1: I got up and went to the bathroom. And when
Speaker 1: I came back, he was passed out on the bar
Speaker 1: boy and he's, oh no, so he just left him there? No,
Speaker 1: oh god, no, no, no, no, okay, woke him up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was such a nice guy. So I woke up
Speaker 1: him up. I'd put money on the bar, paid for
Speaker 1: our drink, got him at uber, gave him a hug.
Speaker 1: He was so grateful and just that was it. And
Speaker 1: he's still riding around. He's still riding around in the
Speaker 1: back of the Uber asleep, right, that's why he hasn't
Speaker 1: called you. Yeah, so what's happened since that date? Have
Speaker 1: you guys spoken at all? Nothing? Radio silent? And I
Speaker 1: can tell that he's active, like on the app. So
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't really know what happened, honestly, Like
Speaker 1: maybe he forgot about the date and thought it was
Speaker 1: a dream, a total state of lucidness. Yeah, or you know,
Speaker 1: he's just so busy. I mean, maybe he just realized
Speaker 1: that he just doesn't have the bandwidth to fit dating
Speaker 1: in right now, I don't fit. Like everything was just
Speaker 1: so normal and honestly, we didn't even really last that
Speaker 1: long at the bar. There wasn't enough time for anything
Speaker 1: weird to happen. I mean, it could be that he
Speaker 1: just kind of realized after how exhausted he was, just
Speaker 1: to even think if your one date, that he can't dave.
Speaker 1: But like I hope not, because he's the one normal
Speaker 1: guy I've had an experience with and forever we can't
Speaker 1: get away. All right, So let's play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back. We'll call doctor Trent for you, and then
Speaker 1: we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you? All right, hold on second, paging doctor Trent.
Speaker 1: Doctor Trent to the second date update. There's a non
Speaker 1: blonde who needs surgery on her heart. Stat If you're
Speaker 1: awake right now, we really need you doctor Trent. Oh
Speaker 1: what you didn't tell him called red or anything? I
Speaker 1: don't remember. I didn't have time. We lost her. Wow
Speaker 1: A well, if you're just tuning in. One of our
Speaker 1: listeners went on a date with a doctor that she
Speaker 1: met on Bumble. The date, she says, went well except
Speaker 1: for the fact that Trent was exhausted after working a
Speaker 1: thirty five hours shift at the hospital and he actually
Speaker 1: fell asleep at the bar. Still, Lulu says she had
Speaker 1: a good time with him. She thought he was really nice.
Speaker 1: And did I mention he's a doctor? Well he's a resident. Still,
Speaker 1: I mean a resident is a doctor. The still got
Speaker 1: a couple of years before it makes good money. Well
Speaker 1: he's wearing scrubs. Yeah that either way, is hoping that
Speaker 1: Lulu's gone for real. Well, before that can happen, Lulu's
Speaker 1: asking for our help getting doctor Trent back on the
Speaker 1: phone to ask him, what's up? Doc? No? No? No? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: good Lulu, before we make the call, tell us, how
Speaker 1: are you feeling. I'm okay. I just want to know
Speaker 1: what the deal is, I guess. I mean, are you
Speaker 1: nervous because you said, like this is the only normal
Speaker 1: person you've met. I feel like there's a lot writing
Speaker 1: on this. Yeah, there's that, and there's also I have
Speaker 1: hero idea what happened? Okay, and if it doesn't work out,
Speaker 1: you can always go back to Burger Bros. Or whatever
Speaker 1: you're using. I hope he answers and he's like in
Speaker 1: surgery right now. I'm sorry, what would you say? I
Speaker 1: hope he doesn't answer if he's injured. More interesting for us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not very interesting for the person that's on the
Speaker 1: surgery date, but they don't know. Okay, who cares? Okay,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna make the call. You ready to do this, Lulu? Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna down number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: is this Trent? Yes, doctor Trent? Who's this? My name's
Speaker 1: Jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Okay, we're doing a segment called a
Speaker 1: second date update. But before we get into that, I
Speaker 1: just want to make sure you're not working at the
Speaker 1: hospital right now. Right, you're not in the surgery room.
Speaker 1: If you are, we obviously have had no medical training.
Speaker 1: Where just where are your fingers right now? I am
Speaker 1: very confused? Okay, hopefully not by the patient. So we're
Speaker 1: doing something called a second date update. Let's where if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with someone and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if that person isn't calling you back, you can email
Speaker 1: our show and we'll reach out to them for you
Speaker 1: to help you figure out the reason why. Yes, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So recently you've gone out with one of our listeners
Speaker 1: and you haven't been speaking afterwards, and she's confused. So
Speaker 1: her name's Lulu. Oh boy, do you remember Lulu? She
Speaker 1: said you were exhausted when you showed up for the date.
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, this is the radio right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you took from everything that we've just said. Yeah, did
Speaker 1: you just get off another thirty five hour shift, because
Speaker 1: that's what she said happened before your date. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm a little surprised that she would call a
Speaker 1: radio station and talk about our date. It's a little
Speaker 1: a little weird, I guess Wait, are you interested? Do
Speaker 1: you remember? I'm really clueless on where you're at right
Speaker 1: now with this. We're doing all the talking here. The
Speaker 1: goal of the segment is to have you talk and
Speaker 1: tell us what's going on in your life. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: guys are overwhelming. We stopped talking for Okay, we're gonna
Speaker 1: shut up and let you explain. I don't want to
Speaker 1: say what I'm gonna say. I'm like overwhelmed with guilt,
Speaker 1: and I feel really embarrassed and bad about this whole thing.
Speaker 1: You have guilt? Yeah, why I'm feeling guilty because I
Speaker 1: completely lied to her. I'm not a doctor. I'm not
Speaker 1: training to be a doctor. I'm not the medical whatever,
Speaker 1: the world of medical hospital whatever. Why were you wearing scrubs?
Speaker 1: The doctor isn't on bumble guys. Why were you wearing
Speaker 1: scrub Yeah? What what's going on? I had a really
Speaker 1: long weekend. Okay. I had been with my best friend.
Speaker 1: He had a bachelor party, and we were like drinking
Speaker 1: all weekend, gambling. I hadn't slept him like days. So
Speaker 1: that's your excuse for showing up in scrubs and telling
Speaker 1: you that you're a resident. That's what I always do
Speaker 1: whenever I have a big bachelor weekend with my bros.
Speaker 1: I just come home and I'm like, oh, I better
Speaker 1: throw on the scrubs, tell somebody I'm a doctor. Listen, listen.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to cancel on her. I didn't know
Speaker 1: what else to do. I had the scrubs from like
Speaker 1: a Halloween costume. Oh so that's what. I just don't
Speaker 1: understand the point of the lie because I didn't want
Speaker 1: to cancel on her and I was a complete mess?
Speaker 1: Are you guys? Guys think either a guy shows up
Speaker 1: hungover to a day or he's a tired doctor. What
Speaker 1: looks better? Yeah, tired doctor. Well I'm not in your case, Alexis.
Speaker 1: You would want someone that's hung over and can party.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'd like the whole comb. I would go, honest, dude,
Speaker 1: is the best person to show up? No du to
Speaker 1: Burger kid. But Trent, if you liked her, then why
Speaker 1: are you completely avoiding her just because you're a shame
Speaker 1: that you lied? I mean it's not like a little
Speaker 1: white lie. It's a good, gigantic, huge lie. Yeah. We
Speaker 1: all tell gigantic, huge lives to our partners, though, I mean,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell her the truth? Because he can't
Speaker 1: recover from that, Like, hey, I lied about it. He
Speaker 1: doesn't know that. He doesn't know how she'll react. He's
Speaker 1: not her, Like, give her a chance. Yeah, let's find
Speaker 1: out how she'll react. Because I need to tell you,
Speaker 1: non doctor Trent, that who was on the other line listening,
Speaker 1: and she wants to talk to you. Please tell me
Speaker 1: your kidding? Trent's your real name, right, Yes, it's my
Speaker 1: real name. I'm really sorry, Lulu, I'm really sorry. So
Speaker 1: what do you do? What do I do from work? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm in sales. Okay, that's fine. Okay, where are you at? Emotionally?
Speaker 1: Lulu confused? Okay, so that's not mad, that's not mad, Trend,
Speaker 1: that's l I mean, you can imagine what she's going
Speaker 1: through right now, Trent. She feels like this is the
Speaker 1: first person in forever that she's had a genuine connection with,
Speaker 1: and it turns out it was a total lie and
Speaker 1: none of it's true. Something was a lie except for
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm not a doctor. But I mean,
Speaker 1: if you're like me at my lowest, then maybe we
Speaker 1: should go again, because I was really not a new complaint.
Speaker 1: Way to sell it, if it makes you feel any better.
Speaker 1: I've been avoiding you because I actually really like you
Speaker 1: and I think you're a great person, and I just
Speaker 1: couldn't face you anymore. Yeah. I just don't get it, Trent,
Speaker 1: Like you're you're like on this day with this woman,
Speaker 1: you started a lie, you start to like her like,
Speaker 1: why didn't you come clean that night? Like that's the
Speaker 1: red flag for me. I feel like this is a
Speaker 1: normal thing that people do, Like what did you want
Speaker 1: me to do? Halfway through saying this is a costume?
Speaker 1: I mean halfway through? Honest? Yeah, I want to do
Speaker 1: and actually, Trent, this could be your moment to actually
Speaker 1: be completely truthful, to show your vulnerability, to say something
Speaker 1: true and embarrassing. More vulnerable? Could I be? What do
Speaker 1: you guys want me to do? Get naked? Sure? If
Speaker 1: that's if that's your truth, I guess Okay, Well wait,
Speaker 1: you guys have cold, like five fast ones on me.
Speaker 1: I don't know how much more vulnerable I can get.
Speaker 1: It makes a lot of sense now because every time
Speaker 1: I was asking you about medical school and being a resident,
Speaker 1: you kept like kind of falling asleep. Is that because
Speaker 1: you were trying to avoid answering the question? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: well he's a terrible liar. Yeah yeah. Hopefully here's a
Speaker 1: question that you can not fall asleep before you answer,
Speaker 1: because we would like to send you out on one
Speaker 1: more date with Lulu and we'll pay for it. Fell asleep, right,
Speaker 1: you're asking me? I think it's up to Lulu. No, no,
Speaker 1: I'm asking you. I'm asking you if you're going out
Speaker 1: with Lulu again, and we will pay for that date.
Speaker 1: Swallow your pride, like your wounds and move forward. Bro
Speaker 1: I love to I don't think it's him that has
Speaker 1: any wounds. It's for Lulu. I want to go out
Speaker 1: with Lulu. Are you still interested in Trent? I just
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe I should give him a second chance,
Speaker 1: only because I feel like I like his personality, but
Speaker 1: like it was kind of a wash because I didn't
Speaker 1: really get no real information about him exactly. And what
Speaker 1: else is out there? Burger guys, Yeah, just go with
Speaker 1: Trent the fake doctor. Things are that bad out there. Luo,
Speaker 1: what is the burger you talking about? I'm sure we'll
Speaker 1: find out about that with you on date number two.
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