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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I don't come to

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Speaker 1: Stephane never told your production of iHeart Radio. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: welcome to a special episode. It's not a happy hour

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Speaker 1: today because we're gonna make this a bigger thrill. And

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Speaker 1: by bigger thrill, what we're saying is we're doing season

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Speaker 1: one finale today. Bump bump bomb Sex in the City.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I forgot that part. I get one part

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Speaker 1: of this. I always have to build up of the

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Speaker 1: one thing. But because it is season one, season finale

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Speaker 1: of Sex in the City, we had to bring a

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Speaker 1: guest because we couldn't do this alone. We had to

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Speaker 1: celebrate with our good friend Bridget Todd. Welcome Bridget, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. I am so ready to talk Sex

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Speaker 1: in the City. I love this show. I am locked

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Speaker 1: and loaded. I cannot wait. Oh my gosh. We are

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Speaker 1: so happy to have you. Yes, we've been talking about

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Speaker 1: to fruition and we are here. But we do have

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Speaker 1: some traditions to follow. As tradition, Annie, can you please

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Speaker 1: let our listeners have the review of what has happened

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Speaker 1: thus far in season one of Sex and O. I

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Speaker 1: love this. I love that you're here, Bridget, because you're

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Speaker 1: gonna hear me fumble through this. Okay, So, so far

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Speaker 1: we've had conversations around single women versus married women, baby showers, anal, sex, vibrators,

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Speaker 1: I guess, um, farting in front of your boyfriend not

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Speaker 1: So Bridget, you have not been on our little track here,

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Speaker 1: Is that what we call them? Yes? Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: but in that relationship, it was like, well, this is right,

427
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: not gonna work right. Yeah, like if your relationship isn't

428
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: great anyway, and then they're like, yeah, absolutely not. This

429
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: is not the way he's going to go. She took

430
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: a cab to a part of town never mentioned in

431
00:25:55,520 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: the New Yorker. Well I ever get married? Oh, Charlie

432
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: goes to another also telling her she'll never be married.

433
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: I was told once by a lift driver I would

434
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: never be married. But I don't know where that came from.

435
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: Were they the one that like tried to come into

436
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 1: the house too. There was a different guy. Oh my god,

437
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: it's a different guy. But he was like, oh, you'll

438
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: never be married, based on what I think it's because

439
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: he realized I wasn't very religious. He was very religious.

440
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: I was just kind of like and then he was like,

441
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: your soul is in danger. You'll never be married. And

442
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh god, things I find myself agreeing

443
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 1: to things that like lift drivers say just to like

444
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: get home. I'm like, yep, a totally. Yeah, it's a

445
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: great conversation to be having having right back in the

446
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: car right now. I feel great about it. Yeah, that's perfect.

447
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:08,239
Speaker 1: After he left, I cried for a week, and then

448
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: I realized I do have faith, faith in myself, faith

449
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: that I would one day meet someone who would be

450
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: sure that I was the one. Like, these are like

451
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: two moments that I have to wonder. I'm like, was

452
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 1: this really healthy that would make us think that there

453
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: is a one? And then there's a definitive answer at

454
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,959
Speaker 1: the beginning of relationships, Like it was like it's one

455
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: of those types that I'm like, hmmm, what were we

456
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:43,399
Speaker 1: doing here? Definitely not advocating for what we actually wanted

457
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 1: in communicating that clearly. Yeah, Yeah, I feel like that

458
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: idea of the one is very tricky, right. I think

459
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: it can exist, but I think we've like put it

460
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: on a pedestal that it's not healthy, and I think

461
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: it's too much pressure. It's a through line on sex

462
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 1: in the City because I don't want to spoil anything,

463
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: but like, um, we see that with Miranda, and there's

464
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: an episode called the One where it's like, you know,

465
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: it makes it makes it seem as though we're all

466
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: just waiting for the one and there's just like one

467
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: person and you're gonna know and if you screw it up,

468
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: that's it. And I don't I mean, I think it

469
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: can be true for some people, but I don't think

470
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: that's I don't think it's a healthy concept to go

471
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: into relate to into dating or partnership with specifically for

472
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: this show. Again, this is future, but they change the

473
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: numbers around and say you get three great loves in

474
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: your life in order to fit the individual narratives, which

475
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: is still like even in that episode, Carry talked about

476
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: how that's very limiting for her to like it's like, wait,

477
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: so I met three loves in my life? What it

478
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: is over? Um, But it's kind of funny because it

479
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: does talk very like at the very beginning, it becomes

480
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: obviously Season one is more of bringing you into the

481
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: show and and for a lot of what we were

482
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: raised with in the nineties and eighties, it is the

483
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: concept of the one whether we're talking about love or

484
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: saviors or whatever whatnot. Like that's definitely a theme that

485
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: we have clung to, and I guess we still cling

486
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: to today. Like even in Everything Everywhere, all at once,

487
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: they kind of talk about the one uh in it,

488
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: which I still love that movie, but it isn't interesting

489
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: narrative that we have to have a very specific ideal

490
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: of whatever can save us and whether it's the love

491
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: of our lives or whatever what not. And I found

492
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: it fascinating. Yeah, and I agree, like this is when

493
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: you start realizing, like Karr is not a great person.

494
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe we need to talk about that this is

495
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: really unhealthy and that this shouldn't be about who we

496
00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: should be replicating for ourselves or who we should up

497
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: to as what we should be individually. Yeah, I think

498
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: like the tropes we get around Romance for me, and

499
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: I would say probably for a lot of people listening

500
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: are so like that ticking clock, almost like you said

501
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: Bridget with the plane, Like there's that ticking clock. You've

502
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: got to find this person. If you don't, your life

503
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: has no meaning. I feel like it's like we're trying

504
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: to assign meaning to ourselves and to our lives and

505
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: to procreation and all of these things that might you know,

506
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: if you separate it out, might feel kind of like

507
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: very science. See this is a bigger conversation than perhaps

508
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: a sex and happy but like that idea of like

509
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: we're trying to assign meaning to these things that we

510
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: might not understand and through doing that, I think we

511
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: did that with the one. And for women, I feel

512
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: like a lot of that is you have to save

513
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: yourself for this one. And where the religion conversation comes

514
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: back in right where religion has played a role in

515
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: relationships um, particularly for women for a long time. And

516
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: like I said, I didn't have that so much, but

517
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: I've still felt it nonetheless, Like my church wasn't like that,

518
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 1: but I knew it existed, and I I mean I

519
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: even was like I'm gonna just find somebody in Mary

520
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: and settled down so my parents will be happy. Because

521
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: that I just felt like I'm so important that I

522
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: do this thing, and I would just fake it that

523
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: I've found the one, which is I will admit, terrible

524
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: for both me and the other person involved. And I've

525
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: moved on, but I did, I did think it, and

526
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: I think part of it is you know things like this,

527
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: which I get is good drama, like I'm not mad,

528
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: but also damaging when that's all we see and that's

529
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: what we grew up with, thinking oh, this is what

530
00:31:55,920 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: I need, or else I'm not fulfilled, or else I'm

531
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: just yeah, and it's so that only is it damaging.

532
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: I just think it's you know, I think there's humans

533
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: we want. I mean, not to get to like deep

534
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: on list because they we're just talking about sex in

535
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: the city, but I think as humans we want to

536
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: believe that there is more to our experience than you know,

537
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: the fact that we're just like balls of cells and

538
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: carbon hanging out on our rock suspended in space. Like

539
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: that's the reality, and like you can understand why it's

540
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: comforting to be like, no, there is a design, like

541
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: I meant to meet the one I meant to have

542
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: a life that looks like this, that is my purpose

543
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 1: because that you don't have to I think it can

544
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: be scary to just like be like, oh, yeah, everything

545
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: is random, there is no plan, Like life is life,

546
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: and like this is kind of it, and like you

547
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: make what you make of that what you can and

548
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: try to be happy. It's so much it's so much

549
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: more like perhaps fulfilling to think that like, oh, we're

550
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: put on this earth to meet the One and I

551
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: think everything goes back to like I mean, are you

552
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: just familiar with I think it's Joseph Campbell. The idea

553
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: is like the mono myth, like we we love stories

554
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: and like we have an entire like mythology around the

555
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: human experience that says, like, you know, the one hero,

556
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: like the one hero's journey, like he will the main

557
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: hero will complete their journey, and that like that is

558
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: the point of everything. And I don't know, I just

559
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: think that like life is chaos and random and stuff

560
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: happens and you got to just try your best to

561
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: be happy and there is no supposed to or should

562
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: and anybody that's that tries to like force that is

563
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: perhaps you know, understandably trying to add a layer of

564
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: meaning because it's really kind of scary to think of

565
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: it as like not really being that way. I don't know.

566
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: This is like to like I just recently watched everything

567
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: everywhere all at once, so I'm very much like the

568
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: Bagel every day. Yes we are religious episode, so I

569
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: think this is appropriate. We're good. I think all about

570
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: this because it doesn't. It ends on a somber note.

571
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: You know, we have a finale where like, oh no,

572
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: well they won't they kind of a situation obviously right

573
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: now that I won't they. Um is you know uh

574
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: Sam who came in and says she is in love

575
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 1: and now she's not because one aspect of something that's

576
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: very important to her wasn't meant to her standard. We

577
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: have Charlotte's seeking uh and being told constantly that no,

578
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: she's not gonna find love. But then you know, we

579
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: see her eyeing a man that she runs into on

580
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: the streets. We have Miranda who decided, you know what,

581
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: Skips not as bad as I thought he was, but

582
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: let's let's let's work this out. We have a lot

583
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 1: of those cliffhangers, but the conversation is the bigger, like, okay,

584
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: so what are we seeking at this point in time?

585
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: What are we looking for? And one of the bigger

586
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: things I see with especially with like the carry big

587
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: story in this portion, she's just begging him and I

588
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: get this, and I feel this to be more significant

589
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: than the people before her, which when when he says, uh,

590
00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not introducing my mother to another girl, friend.

591
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: You know that that wasn't obvious, Like, ow, what, I'm

592
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: just a girlfriend instead of something bigger, more significant that

593
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: I have meaning to your life. And that in itself

594
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: was a blow and I get that that's something that

595
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: I saw too. I was like, okay, yes, that part

596
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: that hurts. You want to be more. You want to

597
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: mean more to him than his exes. Obviously, you want

598
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 1: to be more to that partner than someone that didn't

599
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: work out. So what's the point of this? As many say,

600
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 1: I will say as a person who does not intend

601
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: to gate on get married, and I don't see the

602
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: significance or really care to be married. Like for me,

603
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 1: it's like, it's not a big deal. Move on, y'all.

604
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: If you'all work out, y'all work out. If you don't,

605
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: you don't. It wasn't meant to be. But for those

606
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: who do see that as something they want in their lives,

607
00:35:47,200 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: that's really painful. Yeah, I'm curious because again this is

608
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: my first time for you to like did you watch it?

609
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: Like was this a cliffhanger? Did you have to wait?

610
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: And also like, given what you know happens, is there

611
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: any part of you that's watching this scene at the end,

612
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: or they sort of separate and you're like, yes, I

613
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: I feel vindication and what happens? Or oh no, I

614
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: wish they had just like stay separated. Oh what a

615
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: good question. I don't know how to answer this without

616
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: giving away what happens in like in the culminative, like

617
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: sex in the City universe. I will say this might

618
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: be a like unpopular opinion. I think that, like the

619
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: end of this episode, Carrie has her answer. She is

620
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: interested in a serious monogonous relationship with Big, and Big

621
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: is not interested. And so again, any friend of mine

622
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 1: who was in this situation, if I was in this situation,

623
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: I would say you have your answer. Any time that

624
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: you spend waiting around for somebody who has made it

625
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 1: clear that they don't feel the same way, they don't

626
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: want the same thing that you want, it is not

627
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: worth your time and any extra time that you spend

628
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: on that person, you're blocking yourself from finding the person

629
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: who does want what you want. So I'm a little

630
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: bit of like a hard line absolutist that when somebody

631
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,399
Speaker 1: makes it clear what they're looking for, and you're clear

632
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: on what you're looking for and there's not alignment, it

633
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: is a complete waste of time to like wait around

634
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: for them or like continue to entertain them. I think

635
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: that the majority of sex in the City fans would

636
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: might might and perhaps writers might think otherwise. But if

637
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: if if Carrie was my friend, we would have been like,

638
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: he's a bum, let's move on, Like we're not gonna

639
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 1: spend any more time on him. He made He's made

640
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Speaker 1: it clear how he feels and what he wants, right,

641
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: I think I agree, Yeah, we don't want to get

642
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: too deep into the things that come in the future.

643
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: But I'll never been team Big. I will say that way.

644
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: And when I was watching how I watched this was

645
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: never in its original intent. It was not cool enough

646
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: to have HBO. I didn't have HBO forever. I think

647
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: it came in my adulthood. I was like, oh I

648
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: can have this cool. Uh. It was definitely the edited

649
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: on CW during the daytime so episodes, so I don't

650
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Speaker 1: remember my initial reaction. I did feel that heartbreak also

651
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: because I was like, oh man, what's happening to all

652
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: of them? But I think it is like, like you said,

653
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: Bridget is a precursor to everything else. I'm like, you're

654
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 1: just digging yourself deeper and you kind of have your answer,

655
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't. Maybe maybe this is just me being

656
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: selfish and tired. I would never work that hard for

657
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: this type of relationship. I'm like, God, I'm done, it's over.

658
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 1: It's done, it's done, moving on next labor you could

659
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: be putting into, like find anyone else who was actually

660
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 1: anything else, anything else, Like, yeah, I I have in

661
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: my twenties. I definitely entertained some relationship that took a

662
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: lot of work to not even get them to be good,

663
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: just to get them Like kind of fine. I feel

664
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Speaker 1: like if you're doing that much work like a certain way,

665
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't you be better off by herself? Like you know, yes,

666
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,760
Speaker 1: And I really wish she we got. We do explore

667
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: her a little bit as single, but she can't be

668
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: single and do her column as well. I guess you're

669
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: kind of supposed to be sex in the city kind

670
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: of thing like dating around anyway or whatever. But yeah,

671
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: I think in itself, like it builds up to something

672
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: obviously better. Again, like I said, I was never a

673
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: team big um. That was not my my thing. But

674
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: at the same time, it did build up to a

675
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: good like tug Pole I guess of who you are.

676
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: Alliance is our would but also like when you kind

677
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: of come back to the story, like they kind of

678
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: deserved each other. At the same time, I don't know

679
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: if I wouldn't want to put Carrie with anybody else either.

680
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Carrie is like a little bit of

681
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: It's kind of like one of those characters. I see

682
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: this a lot, and like Laura, like Gilmour as well,

683
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're a little bit of a narcissist,

684
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: aren't you, like yourself obsessed and have bad boundaries? Okay,

685
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: well I have another question, Um, have you ever had

686
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: maybe not the airport, the Romcom airport thing, but something

687
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: that resembles the Romcom airport. We're just saying, yes, I'm

688
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: not cool like that, so I definitely don't. Oh, I

689
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: guess mine was negative. It wasn't like someone running through

690
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: an airport to like stop me from getting on a plane.

691
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: It was the the disillusion of a relationship someone that

692
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 1: I was dating. We were dating long distance. They had

693
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: come to see me and thinking it was going to

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00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: be like a sweet time, that romantic time. We ended

695
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: up breaking up. On that trip. He was getting back

696
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,479
Speaker 1: into his car to drive the like six hours back

697
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: home to where he lived after we broken up, and

698
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: I was helping him pack his car, and he had

699
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: a hatchback, and I shut his hatchback, and I didn't

700
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: realize there was a tennis racket sticking out of a box.

701
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: And so as we're like ending this like messy relationship,

702
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: I go to shut his car in the back of

703
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: the back windshield chatters. And then when he got back

704
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: to his home, somebody had kicked in his back door

705
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: and broke it into his house. So it was just

706
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,439
Speaker 1: a bad time for him. It was a bad Oh,

707
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: it was good for me. I didn't good through all that.

708
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: Who in mind, I probably thought it was like an airport,

709
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna come down there and confess my love,

710
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: and it's like I'm gonna drive back with some cardboard

711
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: taped up. Wow, very much like I don't know why,

712
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: but to me, that feels like what romance actually is.

713
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: That's compared to what we're seeing in the reality. The reality. Okay,

714
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: so obviously Bridget you knew what was going to happen.

715
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: You were ready for it. Uh, Annie, Yeah, you were

716
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: half right, because there was a come to Jesus meeting

717
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: she needed an answer and she was done. She needed

718
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: a commitment. She needed to know that she was the

719
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 1: one and he couldn't say that, which, by the way,

720
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: future episodes will have a throwback to that. But yeah,

721
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: so congratulations. I'm gonna give you a C because I

722
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: don't have an actual marker as to degrade you because

723
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: you were completely right, but you weren't wrong. You're not failing,

724
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: so you're no. See he's not failing. He was failing, yo,

725
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: A W A W do no matter how in my

726
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: family then you know, my brother was able to get

727
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: like dollars for his CE when I was making A

728
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: and B. So I wait what because he wasn't an

729
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,800
Speaker 1: f So they were very happy and he could pass

730
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: the next grade. So yes, that is passing. Technically the

731
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: college is a little different. They were like, not as

732
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: just failing. Sorry, um, but you get to see. So

733
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: we have finished season one. What are your thoughts any

734
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I've said the same thing every time,

735
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: and I apologize for that, but it continues to be

736
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 1: true that I think it's odd to me. It's odd

737
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: and kind of upsetting, but also exhilarating that these conversations

738
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: still feel new to meet um like they still feel

739
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: and that's that's probably due to what I'm watching, But

740
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: like I'm constantly like, we do these episodes and then

741
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: we'll get into a big conversation about things we're still

742
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: talking about now based on what they were talking about then.

743
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: I mean, like even this, perhaps we went deeper than

744
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: they intended, but we talked about like religion and dating

745
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 1: and the one and all this stuff that is still

746
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: conversation topics and relationships, and I think relationships are so

747
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: messy that it makes sense to me that it is ongoing.

748
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: As I've said, this is not like the thing I

749
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: would have sought out, but I am enjoying it, and

750
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm especially enjoying watching it with people and having these conversations.

751
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: I'm very curious what's going to happen next. Yeah, Actually, Bridget,

752
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're gonna remember, because I don't

753
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: honestly remember. Can you kind of give her a preview

754
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: of what's coming in season two? Like a trailer I

755
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: remember if I like, don't kill me if this is

756
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: not right, But my memory is is that it's it's

757
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: pretty relatable because not so like obviously Carrie and Big

758
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: didn't work out of the episod we just saw, and

759
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: so next season is really begins with her processing that

760
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: reality and a lot of like the normal ups and

761
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: downs that come with processing a breakup, really venting to

762
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 1: your friends, going on some dates. Like I think, like

763
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: it's it is. I like the next season because I

764
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: think I honestly think the show is more interesting when

765
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: it's not like focal pointed around her relationship with Big

766
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: and so I think the universe gets a little bit

767
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: more complex in a way that I find interesting. Yeah,

768
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: I mean it's definitely the friendships that I like the

769
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: most and the nerd references. Did I keep pointing out

770
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: that You're like, yeah, she gets me. I'm like, what's happening? Yes,

771
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: So we do get to get to see it at

772
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: the beginning, and I really I think this is the season.

773
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: Especially Episode one is when I love Miranda the most.

774
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, Miranda, Like she is harsh and to

775
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: the point, but I've felt that way before, Like you'll see,

776
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: but it's like I relate to what Miranda is saying

777
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: so hard right now and in her book Algie, but

778
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: it's like she's someone someone finally said it. But yes,

779
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 1: I think that's the first episode of season two, right, Yeah,

780
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: you know, friends, she is really like a truth dropper

781
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 1: and you know she could have been the mayor of

782
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: New York. So thank you so much for coming on, Bridget.

783
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say we're gonna have to have you back

784
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: on for season two. Sometimes. Well, this is good. It's

785
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: so fun to watch with people. It is. It is. Yes,

786
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,240
Speaker 1: you should definitely come back. If you have any favorite episode,

787
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: you should just like slip us a note like yeah,

788
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: that would be amazing. Yes, thank you so so so much.

789
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: As always, Bridget. You can find Bridget at least once

790
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: a month on here, hopefully in future Sex in the City,

791
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: watch Party, happy Hour, or whatever we're calling it. But

792
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 1: you can also find Bridget in other places. Bridget, can

793
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: you tell the good listeners where they can find you. Yeah,

794
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: you can check out my podcast on iHeart Radio called

795
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 1: There Are No Girls on the Internet, where we discuss

796
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: all things tech, Internet, nerdy, pop culture, gender identity. It's

797
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: super fun. You can find that wherever you get your podcast.

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00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: You can find me on Instagram at Bridget Brandy c

799
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: or on Twitter at Bridget Marad. Yes, and go do

800
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: that if you have it already uh and we are

801
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: very much looking forward to having you back Bridget anytime. Yes.

802
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 1: In the meantime, if you would like to contact us,

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00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: you can our emails Stephanie and mom Stuff at I

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Speaker 1: hurt me dot com. You can find us on Twitter

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00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: at mom Stuff podcast or Instagram at Stuff whatever told You.

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00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: Thanks as always to our super producer Christina. Thank you, Christina,

807
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: and thanks to you for listening. Stuff Whenever Told the

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00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: production of I Heart Radio. For more podcast from my

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