Speaker 1: In your twenties and thirties and forties, they're your working years.
Speaker 1: Now you're gonna say, but yes, I want to meet someone,
Speaker 1: I want what if I want to have kids, et cetera.
Speaker 1: So yes, that's a factor. Not scared money, which because
Speaker 1: scared money never wins. Another one of my sayings, Scared
Speaker 1: money never wins. And you can't walk into the casino desperate,
Speaker 1: That's what that's about. And so you can't walk into
Speaker 1: looking for a job, dating, any of that scared you
Speaker 1: just can't. And the way to solidify your future is
Speaker 1: to work hard in your twenties, thirties, forties. My friend's
Speaker 1: daughter is twenty three, and she's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm so worried. You know, she's not having fun, she's
Speaker 1: working hard. I'm like, what the fuck? The worst advice
Speaker 1: I ever heard. She's supposed to be working hard. She's young.
Speaker 1: All these kids on social media glorifying getting wasted and
Speaker 1: partying and and drinking, Like, what the hell, that's great, fine,
Speaker 1: you drank. What does it take is as a skill
Speaker 1: set you poured alcohol and got wasted and act like
Speaker 1: a moron. Okay, that's what people do who are insecure.
Speaker 1: You know what you do as a young girl. In
Speaker 1: your twenties, thirties and forties, you keep working so that
Speaker 1: in your fifties when you want to say notice something
Speaker 1: because your back hurts, you're tired, you have kids, you
Speaker 1: have responsibilities, you can say no. And I'm in a
Speaker 1: very rare air example of that, of course, because I
Speaker 1: am a wealthy woman and I have been successful. But
Speaker 1: it's the working on the front end that means you
Speaker 1: can make better decisions on the back end. I literally
Speaker 1: this past month turned down another like business type Shark
Speaker 1: Tank show for multiple six figures. I turned down a
Speaker 1: big TV interview this morning because I didn't want to
Speaker 1: go into New York City on a Friday when my
Speaker 1: daughter just got out of school, do hair, makeup, get dressed,
Speaker 1: when I could just turn this microphone on and talk
Speaker 1: to you. I just there's no need for it. I
Speaker 1: don't want to do. There's a belligerence. And I now
Speaker 1: I know why people that get old or older like
Speaker 1: get a little ornery and belligerent. It's because they don't
Speaker 1: want to. They've been doing their whole life things they
Speaker 1: don't want to do. It's very jarring too for other people.
Speaker 1: Do you want to go. Now why I don't want
Speaker 1: to go? Like it could be a party that's not
Speaker 1: for me. Oh Like someone the other day said, you, you know,
Speaker 1: would you want to go to the SPI's because they
Speaker 1: thought I'd be impressed by that. I'm like, I don't.
Speaker 1: But it's the I'm like, I know, I know I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to be impressed by that. I know that we
Speaker 1: knew the people who owned the team that won the
Speaker 1: Super Bowl a couple of years ago, and that I
Speaker 1: was invited to go, and I could have gone and
Speaker 1: been a big swinging dick there, but I didn't want
Speaker 1: to go. I don't know what it's doing for me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I go, I get on the plane, I go to
Speaker 1: another place. I get an outfit. I go to the
Speaker 1: super Bowl. I go front and stunt and flex. I
Speaker 1: get my picture taken, and I'm somebody, now what Okay,
Speaker 1: what happened? What was the prize? What's the prize? I
Speaker 1: didn't I got on a plane. I had to work,
Speaker 1: I had to get That's why I don't understand. That's
Speaker 1: why I often talk about the exhaustion of like a
Speaker 1: j Lo. She's NonStop, she's in venice, she's in head
Speaker 1: to toe Dulce. She's decked out to go to the
Speaker 1: Piggly Wiggly. She's got nineteen different movies and forty two
Speaker 1: different tours, and seventy five hairstyles and sixty two pairs
Speaker 1: of glasses, and and like, I know you love to work.
Speaker 1: I know you love the dancing, and you're choreographing and
Speaker 1: you're doing the halftime Super Bowl all within this one
Speaker 1: relationship that has six kids, you the Brady Bunch, doing
Speaker 1: international tours, movies, documentaries about the movies, concerts, hair makeup,
Speaker 1: first Row Fashion Week? How why I look at people?
Speaker 1: I don't, but I would love to say, like I
Speaker 1: admire it, Like I admire the work ethic, like on
Speaker 1: a Kim card. And I'm not dissing Kim Ardashian or
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez. Congrats. Enjoy It's a It's an insatiable hunger.
Speaker 1: It's a voracious appetite. What for is it just for
Speaker 1: more money? You cannot take it on in the box
Speaker 1: with you. You could still have a G five, a
Speaker 1: Kashmir plane, all this stuff. Like why It's like an
Speaker 1: addiction that people have and I don't have it. I
Speaker 1: don't want to work that much. I want to do
Speaker 1: things I love, and I can't judge with someone else loves.
Speaker 1: But there will be sacrifices. There will be relations to
Speaker 1: ship sacrifices, there will be parenting sacrifices. It's impossible to
Speaker 1: not sacrifice when you're working at a clip like a megastar,
Speaker 1: like a j Lo or Kim Kardashian, like you see
Speaker 1: Courtney works less, Chloe works less, like it even seems
Speaker 1: like Kylie once in a while wants to fuck around
Speaker 1: and works a little less sometimes like to work at
Speaker 1: that clip, You're going to sacrifice something. There's just no way.
Speaker 1: And the reason I can say this to you with
Speaker 1: great certainty because you guys may or may not have
Speaker 1: been to red carpets. You guys have an understanding of
Speaker 1: what you think it's like. But I'm a pretty busy woman,
Speaker 1: and I'm a pretty smart woman and a pretty successful woman,
Speaker 1: and I get invited to red carpet things all the
Speaker 1: time and I don't go. It was funny because yesterday's
Speaker 1: some article and that the Daily Mail said because they
Speaker 1: were talking about you know that I am very forward
Speaker 1: facing and like I go to a lot of red
Speaker 1: carpet events. I'm like I do when I went to
Speaker 1: the Feud premiere, because I know Ryan Murphy. That was
Speaker 1: months ago and I'm still tired from it. Like I
Speaker 1: did not go to a lot of red carpet events
Speaker 1: because I know how exhausting it is. I just canceled.
Speaker 1: I cancel somebming today, I cancel somebmy today, I cancel
Speaker 1: something this Friday because my head is going to explode
Speaker 1: about the obligation three days from now, and they were close,
Speaker 1: not far from my own house. Okay, if you tell
Speaker 1: me today that I have to go to a red
Speaker 1: carpet event tomorrow, it starts the minute you wait, you
Speaker 1: wake up tomorrow. And let's say the red carpets at
Speaker 1: six o'clock. Okay, it's gonna take a half hour to
Speaker 1: get there. Mac minimum, it's gonna take an hour to
Speaker 1: get there. Okay, So let's say it's take an hour.
Speaker 1: It's a six o'clock red carpet, means I got to
Speaker 1: leave at five o'clock. Okay, Then we're gonna need twenty
Speaker 1: minutes for social media pictures. You've decked it out, you've invested,
Speaker 1: you've spent the money. You're going to take a picture
Speaker 1: of yourself. If a tree falls and know and heard
Speaker 1: it didn't really fall, I look like a train wreck
Speaker 1: ninety nine point nine percent of time if I fucking
Speaker 1: get dressed up. We're taking some pictures. So the thirty
Speaker 1: minutes of documenting this miracle, this eclipse, this unicorn and
Speaker 1: gazelle jumping through you know, the rainbow, to the end
Speaker 1: of the pot of gold coins. So now we're at
Speaker 1: five thirty. We got to take the pictures of five thirty. Okay,
Speaker 1: so glam is two hours. If they want to do
Speaker 1: a good job, you want them to do a good job.
Speaker 1: You never do hair and makeup. Okay, we got to
Speaker 1: start at three thirty. They got to get there and
Speaker 1: start setting up. That's disruptive, Okay, that's then you got
Speaker 1: a shower. So two thirty you're showering. You're already, but
Speaker 1: by one thirty you're already thinking about it. You're annoyed,
Speaker 1: you're doing it. And then so you're off to the
Speaker 1: races at one thirty for this red carpet event you're
Speaker 1: doing on that night. Then you go. You saw so
Speaker 1: many people, you've got numbers. You looked amazing. What did
Speaker 1: the pictures look like? Let's look online. Let's see. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, look at the picture I took myself. What
Speaker 1: about this caption? Look how cute I am? Or you
Speaker 1: went to the event, you saw the movie. It was great,
Speaker 1: it was a movie. It's coming out on regular television.
Speaker 1: You just went to get your pictures taken on a
Speaker 1: red carpet. See some people flex for no reason because
Speaker 1: you don't even know why you were there in the
Speaker 1: first place. No one's paying you to be there, which, frankly,
Speaker 1: at this point, someone has to be To put makeup
Speaker 1: on me, you have to pay me. That's what you
Speaker 1: have to do. If you want me to get a
Speaker 1: full face of makeup on, you have to pay me.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. I'm like Linda Evangelista, and it's
Speaker 1: literally more than ten I'm not getting out of bed
Speaker 1: for less than ten thousand dollars. I don't think there
Speaker 1: was anything wrong with what she said. She doesn't want
Speaker 1: to get out of bed for less than ten thousand dolls.
Speaker 1: She shouldn't get out of bed. That's what she wanted.
Speaker 1: It was her body and her choice. She didn't want
Speaker 1: to get out of bed for less than ten thousand.
Speaker 1: I applaud that. I agree because then we're gonna get home,
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be activated. You saw everybody, and
Speaker 1: then you're gonna go to sleep, and you'd be exhausted, dehydrated,
Speaker 1: drinking a hydration packet. And that's j Loo's every day.
Speaker 1: Maybe she loves it, but I'm saying it's not being
Speaker 1: that present. And I wasn't going to the met gala,
Speaker 1: the Feud premiere. That's the last event to me. That
Speaker 1: was my mecal. They're gonna a bunch of gays there.
Speaker 1: I got decked out in a velvet bow man extravaganza
Speaker 1: and I nailed the look to go to the met Gala.
Speaker 1: Slow drip of anti anxiety medication starts the day I
Speaker 1: get the invitation. You gotta go to fittings. What do
Speaker 1: you fucking mean, I gotta go into Manhattan and do fittings.
Speaker 1: I didn't see those designers coming to Kim Kardashian's house.
Speaker 1: She had to fly to wherever she was going. Now,
Speaker 1: you gotta go into the city meet with designers only
Speaker 1: because I know them that they think I'm funny and
Speaker 1: they like me, not because I'm big enough to be
Speaker 1: there and I'm not invited to the Mecala. Don't worry,
Speaker 1: I'm invited to the meat Gala. I'm gonna go to
Speaker 1: a ribbi, strip, steak, flank steak, a meatball, a cheeseburger.
Speaker 1: That's the gala that I'll be invited to on the
Speaker 1: first Monday in May. I think it's what it is.
Speaker 1: But so you gotta go to fittings and all that shit,
Speaker 1: and then it's not two hours of makeup they're putting
Speaker 1: on it. They're putting on like a frickin' Jennifer Lopez
Speaker 1: mask and like four acres of hair extensions for Kim.
Speaker 1: They're they're taking you know, chain link and putting taking
Speaker 1: one link smaller than her actual waist is and like
Speaker 1: indenting hardware into her body so she can train her
Speaker 1: waistline to get ready for the metcal. Like she's losing
Speaker 1: sixteen pounds and you know, going to a clone doctor
Speaker 1: to become Marrin and Row, like it's not easy. So
Speaker 1: they're doing this all the time. The a Dulce thing
Speaker 1: I keep remembering, like Jennifer Lopez walked was in Venice.
Speaker 1: You can't take a spaceship there. You gotta fly there. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're on a private plane gotta fly there, Gotta leave
Speaker 1: your kids for that, Gotta leave your fiance for that,
Speaker 1: Gotta go shmoo's the designer, gotta do all that. It
Speaker 1: is fucking exhausting. Then you're producing a movie. The movie
Speaker 1: she did looked like the greatest show on Earth. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like a knot. It was like a movie with costumes.
Speaker 1: Every time she got her hair wet in that movie,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, then she's gonna have
Speaker 1: to fucking blow to her hair again. She's gonna do
Speaker 1: damage to her hair. It's gonna be dead ends. I
Speaker 1: mean the things that I think about, Oh, the makeup,
Speaker 1: the makeup all day every day. Now she's gonna break out.
Speaker 1: You couldn't pay me ten thousand dollars to break out.
Speaker 1: So I'm the Linda Evangelista of my generation. Now, I
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck it to put on makeup and
Speaker 1: deal with all that torture and not be able to
Speaker 1: not be around for my daughter to squeeze into a dress.
Speaker 1: It's not for me. So it's it's all encompassing and
Speaker 1: all time consuming, and I don't want to do things
Speaker 1: I don't want to do. So I'm a curmudgeon. Say
Speaker 1: whatever you want. I don't care. I just want to
Speaker 1: go to where I want to almost want to walk
Speaker 1: on the beach, be with my puppies, be with my daughter,
Speaker 1: jump on the water, eat some fried food, eat a
Speaker 1: donut once in a while, have some good pizza, laugh
Speaker 1: a little. That's all I want. Eat a bagel, eat
Speaker 1: some caviar on it. For the few times that you know,
Speaker 1: I get paid to ten thousand dollars to leave the house,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna eat the caviar. So anyway, just telling you
Speaker 1: to work twenties, thirties and forty, so on your fifties,
Speaker 1: you can say no, because I can't imagine a life
Speaker 1: of NonStop exhaustion and work. But then again, I just
Speaker 1: described a bunch of people that like doing it and
Speaker 1: want to do it. But you see, like I see
Speaker 1: a lull in Beyonce, Like you see she comes in
Speaker 1: on fuego and like blows it out, but then you
Speaker 1: kind of see her disappear for a minute. She's probably resting.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell they were feeding Taylor
Speaker 1: Swift in her house. But she's also young, she's in
Speaker 1: her thirties. People talk about her work ethic. I no
Speaker 1: disrespect to Taylor Swift. She's in her thirties. I was
Speaker 1: working like a fucking animal my thirties, like an animale.
Speaker 1: When you get older, you don't want to work as hard,
Speaker 1: to work hard and press your bets and dig your
Speaker 1: heels in and crush it when you're young, because you
Speaker 1: are not going to want to work at that clip
Speaker 1: when you get older