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Speaker 1: Subject he hid all of my pajamas. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I've been married for three years, and before our wedding,

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Speaker 1: my husband and I practiced celibacy. We had sex a

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Speaker 1: few times when we were dating, but we decided to

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Speaker 1: save the good stuff for marriage and we stopped having sex.

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Speaker 1: Our wedding night was full of fireworks and magic because

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Speaker 1: we had been saving up for that night. I'm so

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Speaker 1: happy to report that our intimacy is still great and

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Speaker 1: he continues to surprise me in the bedroom. The only

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Speaker 1: thing is that he also has become very calm with

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Speaker 1: his body, which is not all that sexy. He's got

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Speaker 1: the typical forty five year old belly and boobies that

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Speaker 1: come from eating bad and not working out. I'm not

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Speaker 1: one to talk because I've got a tummy in love handles.

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Speaker 1: We are not the sexy couple that needs to be

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Speaker 1: walking around naked, but he loves to be nude. Whenever

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Speaker 1: he's lounging around, he's naked. We each have a throw

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Speaker 1: that we use to protect the furniture from our nakedness.

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Speaker 1: I am not comfortable with it, but I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: please him. I do draw the line at sleeping naked,

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Speaker 1: and he hates it because he is heavier than he's

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Speaker 1: ever been. He gets hot at night and he has

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Speaker 1: the air on sixty eight. He also turned the ceiling

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Speaker 1: fan on during the hotter nights this past summer, so

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Speaker 1: I started back wearing pajamas. I love the feel of

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Speaker 1: my soft pajamas against my skin, but he hates them.

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Speaker 1: He refused to let me wear pajamas, but I put

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Speaker 1: them on anyway because I was cold. Guess what this

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Speaker 1: selfish man did. He hid all of my pajamas from me.

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Speaker 1: He thinks it's a funny prank, and I think it's

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Speaker 1: selfish of him to do me like that. I walk

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Speaker 1: around naked for him, but he can't let me have

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Speaker 1: pajamas at night. Should I buy new pajamas and lock

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Speaker 1: them up? Or should I stop playing the naked game

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Speaker 1: for him? With him? Please advise? Okay, you're already naked.

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Speaker 1: I mean you shouldn't have to be cold at night too.

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Speaker 1: I mean it is selfish of your husband not to

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Speaker 1: take your feelings into consideration. You should be. You should

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Speaker 1: both be getting something out of this situation. You're doing

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Speaker 1: all this for him. He's getting everything he wants, all

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Speaker 1: the naked he wants, but you're freezing at night.

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Speaker 2: You're cold, and you said it's way out of your.

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Speaker 1: Comfort zone anyway, because you guys don't have these sexy bodies.

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Speaker 1: So you got to talk to him, tell him it's

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Speaker 1: too cold without your pjs.

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Speaker 2: You should either walk.

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Speaker 1: Around naked and then at night sleep with your pjs,

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Speaker 1: or sleep without your pjs at night and wear nothing

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Speaker 1: around the house in the daytime. Or what about another

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Speaker 1: a compromise, wears some sexy lingerie instead of being completely

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Speaker 1: naked all the time, or another compromise, sleep naked and

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Speaker 1: just bring an extra blanket at night so you won't

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Speaker 1: get cold when he turns the air on and the

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Speaker 1: ceiling fan. Steve, what what what you come on?

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Speaker 3: They've been married three years. Just let's let's let's just

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Speaker 3: get some bad facts out here right now. Been married

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Speaker 3: for three years. Before I wed, my husband and I

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Speaker 3: practice celibacy. That's it. That's it. Before we got married,

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Speaker 3: we they had sex a few times and then shut

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Speaker 3: it off and saved all sexual activities until we got married.

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Speaker 3: Damn it.

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Speaker 2: Now we married.

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Speaker 3: All this celibacy, you know, I'm hey, this hit game

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Speaker 3: all I'm all the celibacy game. I'm playing. Damn it,

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Speaker 3: let's get it. Nicker naked now naked watching TV, naked

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Speaker 3: standing in refrigerator, naked frying chicken, ouch, naked eating seal,

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Speaker 3: really neckd watching the news. Answer to the dog, picked

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Speaker 3: my AMA's arm box, naked n walk my ass down

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Speaker 3: to that mail box.

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Speaker 2: Nucke, make me proud.

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Speaker 3: I'm rolled in the garbage can at the back. Put

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Speaker 3: it in the front. Nackad. Yes, I greet the mailman

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Speaker 3: at the dog nckond. Nick ahead, your mama, I'm over.

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Speaker 1: I put some on, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So does leave?

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Speaker 3: Nackad. You came up with this, guys, we're gonna be

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Speaker 3: celebrates I've been waiting all this time. Nine you wants

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Speaker 3: to come in here at night and put some down.

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Speaker 3: So now you mad because he and here to put

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Speaker 3: jama I got news for you. What are these pajamas for?

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Speaker 2: Because she's cold.

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Speaker 3: He's slowing this down. He's slowing this down because all

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Speaker 3: this is on button and we ain't even got to

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Speaker 3: do it. You know what, we in hell fault. Let's

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Speaker 3: get started these jem is anyway, Now that's the case

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Speaker 3: at Hayes. Let's review a couple of facts, and we're

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Speaker 3: gonna have to get into this when we come back.

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Speaker 3: But we have a major problem. He got to typical

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Speaker 3: forty five year old belly one that comes from eating

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Speaker 3: bad and not working out. And she got a little

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Speaker 3: tunnet and some love handle, and she said, we're not

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Speaker 3: the sexy couple that need to be walking around naked

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Speaker 3: when we come back to tell you what's going on here? Now,

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Speaker 3: what really happened?

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll have heart two of Steve's response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter subject he hit.

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Speaker 2: All my pajamas. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening, Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: The subject is he in all of my pajamas.

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Speaker 3: Very quickly, let's go over this couple's been married three years.

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Speaker 3: Before they got married.

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Speaker 2: They practiced cellabus.

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Speaker 3: She didn't say how long this celibacy going on, but

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Speaker 3: we married, so homeboy got it in his mind. Ain't

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Speaker 3: no more sellabus. We ain't practicing folk play. We ain't

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Speaker 3: doing none of that. It's own and cracking. So now

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Speaker 3: he has decided that they gonna walk around niked, and

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Speaker 3: you have decided to walk around nicked with you, and

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Speaker 3: y'all got throws to protect the furniture when you're sitting

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Speaker 3: up neck He do everything, nickd. We went over a

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Speaker 3: bunch of stuff on the previous break. He go to

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Speaker 3: dot Nicky roll the garbage out. Nickas sitting up on

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Speaker 3: that toe Roe riding lawn. More, Nickad O all our

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Speaker 3: back by the pool, nickad sunbathing on the back poachnked

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Speaker 3: garden it naked, Nicked, just naked, because he is making

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Speaker 3: up for lost time. Now you naked too. But now

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Speaker 3: here's what the fout In your letter you said the

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Speaker 3: only thing that he has become awfully comfortable with his

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Speaker 3: body open. Well, what kind of body were talking about him?

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Speaker 3: According to her, he's got the typical forty five year

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Speaker 3: old belly and booby that come from eating bad and

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Speaker 3: not working out. Now, I'm not wanting to talk because

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Speaker 3: I got a tummy and love him. We are not

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Speaker 3: the sexy couple that needs to be walking around next.

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Speaker 3: Oh so now let's get into real beauty. See what

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Speaker 3: that really got wrong? Is he done got comfortable?

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Speaker 2: Fellas?

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Speaker 3: I wanna make you aware of what naked comfortable look like.

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Speaker 3: Talk to me when you're sitting on the couch comfort

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Speaker 3: You ain't paying attention to your postum when you slump

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Speaker 3: your stomach, that's what's happening. You're hiding body parts. Now,

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Speaker 3: you got boobies?

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Speaker 2: Can't what can't believe me?

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Speaker 3: The booby that's what she says. He got boobies. That's

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Speaker 3: another word for mad boobies. Uh so, now, y'all don't

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Speaker 3: look sexy. You even said you got a little tony

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Speaker 3: in some love. Y'all's fat ass and got comfortable. Oh

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Speaker 3: I know how he feels. Forty five fat ass probably

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Speaker 3: going up step squeezing lord lord girl, don't have no company,

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Speaker 3: because company will come over and put your ass on

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Speaker 3: blasts next thing you No, you think you being kind

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Speaker 3: to people and they walk around passing judgment on your head.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what we're doing.

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Speaker 3: That's sitting up in here, can't even walk up steps.

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Speaker 3: We he'z because he's big.

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Speaker 2: He wheeze it.

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Speaker 3: And she's sitting over there. She got a little Tommy

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Speaker 3: in love handles. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Lady got

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Speaker 3: a little thing going on. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: But now y'all done got comfort and here's the problems.

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Speaker 3: So now they say, but I do draw the line

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Speaker 3: at sleeping nicked and he hates how you thinking we're

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Speaker 3: not gonna sleep nexta she said, because he's heavier than

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Speaker 3: he's ever been. He get hot at night and he

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Speaker 3: got the air on sixty eight big boy, and swollen

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Speaker 3: his ass up to the point where he brings He

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Speaker 3: got sleep at in there too. He wheezing, he's snoring.

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Speaker 3: He fat, he overweight, and he don't want you to

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Speaker 3: have on no clothes. He lord have mercy. He's also

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Speaker 3: turned the ceiling fan on doing the hotterid nights this

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Speaker 3: past summer. So I started wearing pajamas. I love the

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Speaker 3: feel of my soft pajamas against my skin, and he hate.

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Speaker 3: He refused to let me wear pajamas, but I put

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Speaker 3: him on anyway because I was cold. Guess what this

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Speaker 3: selfish man did. He hid all my pajamas from me.

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Speaker 3: He thinks it's a funny print, and I think it's

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Speaker 3: selfish for him. Do me like that? I walk around

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Speaker 3: naked for him, but he can't let me have pajamas

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Speaker 3: at night. Should I buy new pajamas and lock them up?

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Speaker 3: Or should I stop playing the neked game with him? Please?

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Speaker 3: Advic if you stop playing the neked game with him?

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Speaker 3: What game y'all go play? Y'all gonna play the clothes games.

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Speaker 3: Y'all can turn that into something next, you next something

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Speaker 3: real second, or you can have bite it and tag

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Speaker 3: off nights. You can you can buy Tailway pajamas like

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Speaker 3: pajamas made out a tall let tician. He's her on

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Speaker 3: easy all. You could try another table. But I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: just be honest with you. We are so uninterested in

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Speaker 3: this letter, that's what you We really don't give it.

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Speaker 2: Then this really ain't even like it sounds like you're

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Speaker 2: into it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm all for the dude. I support him

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Speaker 3: one hundred.

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Speaker 2: Right, and I don't want her to be cold.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't give it down. Get your ass in here, Sureley,

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Speaker 3: you came to a little even advice bring an extra blanket,

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Speaker 3: so let her do that. Yeah, your neck to the

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Speaker 3: ass in this bed.

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