WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Get Silly with Two Milly

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>we love that. Thank you so much. Thanks you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, if you want us to invade more

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<v Speaker 1>of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Your address, I can show up, lose Jose will come

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<v Speaker 1>to your house and give you hugs.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah you give me foods uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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<v Speaker 1>content that apparently you like, which we're really grateful for.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go for the main feed for the full

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date, up Date. We've been doing these long enough

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<v Speaker 2>to know that people fib on their dating profiles. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and sooner or later they're probably gonna get caught. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter if that happens on your first date

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<v Speaker 2>or four months into the relationship. When you say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>so those noises upstairs aren't actually rodents, it's my other

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<v Speaker 2>secret family. I just gotta go back up there for

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<v Speaker 2>dessert and like five minutes and then I'll come back down.

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<v Speaker 2>We can go out holding just like I promised.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought they were going to be living with their parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey not a whole other family eventually.

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<v Speaker 2>And today our listener Ray says he's worried his lie

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<v Speaker 2>may come back to Biden and he wants to nip

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<v Speaker 2>it in the bud today. We're going to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on in a second. But first, Ray, welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, oh Man, probably better than you, Ray.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're coming on to admit that you

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<v Speaker 1>lied about something, how are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I just kind of have like all this guilt and

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<v Speaker 4>I know this isn't really like the normal process.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you talking in hush tones because your secret family

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<v Speaker 2>is in the other room and they're going to hear this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Sorr, just a little nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess Okay, this is a safe space. You

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<v Speaker 2>can be honest with us and we'll try not to

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<v Speaker 2>judge you. But before we get into the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 2>what is this girl's name that you went out with?

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you think she's not calling you back?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, well, she calling me back, Oh she is, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she wants to definitely continue in.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? I'm sorry, I heard her name is Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, so you're you're excited about that piece, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that she wants to see you again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't do a lot of second date updates where

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<v Speaker 2>the other person wants to go out on another date

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<v Speaker 2>but they're calling us anyway. This is like a big,

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<v Speaker 2>big crazy lie, like I'm a completely different identity. Or

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<v Speaker 2>is It's like, oh, I have a six toe I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I guess you'll have to be the judge of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe maybe we're asking too many questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wanted you to be on record that he

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<v Speaker 1>just asked us to judge him. Okay, So whatever happens next,

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<v Speaker 1>you asked me save.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's maybe start at the beginning with how you and

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<v Speaker 2>Zoe met and what you did for your date.

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<v Speaker 3>So we met online, Yeah, I mean we started talking

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<v Speaker 3>and we went out to this like this real fancy

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<v Speaker 3>Italian restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, So you want to do impress or was

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<v Speaker 1>that your idea?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? That was kind of the goal. But I think

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<v Speaker 3>I made a mistake.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I guess on my online profile, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I have this little section that says that I won

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<v Speaker 4>the lottery.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, and I actually did. I won the lottery

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of years back.

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<v Speaker 1>How much? How much?

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<v Speaker 3>Around two million dollars?

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations, man, I was expecting like a technicality, like I

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<v Speaker 2>won the lottery, the genetic lottery.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was gonna be like five bucks scratch ticket.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but two million dollars that's some serious cash.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It was great while it lasted.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, already blown through two million dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I wish, I wish I bought a house.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you're one of those lottery ruined my life, Canada.

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<v Speaker 2>You blew the money on something else.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I bought this really cool hovercraft. It's a boat

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<v Speaker 3>that can like drive on like land.

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<v Speaker 1>And water, like one of those swamp boats things.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would show up to work in a

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<v Speaker 2>hovercraft and feel pretty good about myself. Practical, I mean no,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't say it was practical. Would just feel cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But you don't have a house to store the

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<v Speaker 1>hovercraft at. So what else did you get?

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<v Speaker 3>So when I hit it on a boat and then

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<v Speaker 3>I got sued.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you crashed your craft, okay, okay, and I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't have insurance on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, No, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Oh my gosh, it was kind of a vehicle thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah away, Oh my god, why would you put this

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<v Speaker 1>on your dating profile if you don't have any money left?

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<v Speaker 1>But there's funny prompts like two truths and a lie

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. I think this would be good for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh don't you think it's sending out the message that

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<v Speaker 1>I am rich? Well maybe I'm not financially responsible. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's funny to say you crash something.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good question from Brooke there. Why did you

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<v Speaker 2>put it on your profile?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a lie? I mean I did win it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I guess maybe if I want it once before,

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<v Speaker 3>i'd like be prone to winning it again.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a lucky guy and girls should should know that

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<v Speaker 2>about you. So how does all of this relate to

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<v Speaker 2>your date or whatever happened between you and Zoe?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's the thing is because we went to this

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<v Speaker 3>bougie place and that she might, you know, have this expectation.

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<v Speaker 1>That you know, did you guys talk about it on

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<v Speaker 1>your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, we talked about it, but you know I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't say that I'm basically broke now, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a cool story, Like how did you

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<v Speaker 2>win in what was your reaction, what's the first thing

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<v Speaker 2>you bought?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a huge red flag that he spent

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<v Speaker 1>all the money, that there's nothing last I mean, just

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not very fiscally responsible.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the cool start of a story, but with a

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<v Speaker 2>very very sad ending.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, I could have done a lot more with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And so now clearly you're worried that she's going to

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<v Speaker 2>find this out about you, that you blew your two

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<v Speaker 2>million dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he's worried that he has to tell her

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<v Speaker 1>the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff, Well, yeah, I'm really not worried about any of that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just worried about her expectations more expensive dates that

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<v Speaker 4>I really can't afford.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so did you actually call it because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we give a free gift card at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the is that what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>They gift card wouldn't hurt right now, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, what are we doing here though? Because she

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<v Speaker 1>already wants to go out with you, So what's our

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<v Speaker 1>question for her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm hoping that when you ask her about the date,

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<v Speaker 4>she likes me for me and not really my money,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's the case that we can continue.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm hoping for.

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<v Speaker 2>A questions, get the vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to read the room, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So we're gonna call Zoe and try to get

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<v Speaker 2>her to vastly lower her expectations on you and still

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<v Speaker 2>want to go out with you when we come back

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<v Speaker 2>and do your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, all right, man, hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update if you're just joining us. We got

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<v Speaker 2>a lottery winner on the phone with us right now

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<v Speaker 2>who took home two million bucks a few years ago. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>he blew pretty much all of it on quote a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of dumb crap, including a hovercraft that he ended

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<v Speaker 2>up crashing into a boat lost. Yeah, with no insurance.

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<v Speaker 2>So but look, he seems like a really good hearted

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<v Speaker 2>dude who met a nice woman recently named Zoe. She

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<v Speaker 2>already wants to see him again. But he's a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit worried that the expectations of dating a millionaire because

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't know that he blew all the money yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that could break them before they even get started on

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<v Speaker 2>this relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. It does kind of feel like a lie,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you did win the lottery, Like the way

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<v Speaker 1>you're portraying it isn't fully honest.

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<v Speaker 2>But Brooke, he shouldn't be on his profile like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, I'm broke after winning the lottery.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Facy, but not romantic. Like no girl's gonna swipe on that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you feel like I mean, let's be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>God, see if you have a net worth of under

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<v Speaker 2>five million dollars. She refuses to remember who you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I remember either.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's uh, I got this. It's Ray.

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<v Speaker 1>Had to look at his notes.

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote it down, Ray job.

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<v Speaker 1>Ray, I heard lottery winner, and everything else went blank. Ray.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they have to see most people, that's all they

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<v Speaker 3>could think about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Just for the record, I never lied.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm just saying you kind of misrepresented the fight.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought he only won ten dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>We did.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll stop doubling down on Ray here and called Zoe.

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<v Speaker 2>And remember, we're trying to figure out if she really

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<v Speaker 2>likes Ray for Ray or if she was just mesmerized

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<v Speaker 2>by the lottery.

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<v Speaker 1>Winner, if she thought she won the dating lottery meeting

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<v Speaker 1>a lottery winner.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So here we are I'm in the dillary

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<v Speaker 2>number right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking for Zoe. Hey, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>On the air with us.

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<v Speaker 2>You might see my face up on a billboard in

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<v Speaker 2>a city near you.

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<v Speaker 1>We have been on billboardside down on the billboard one time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was an.

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<v Speaker 1>Accident, but you know what, I thought, I got more

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<v Speaker 1>attention than when we're right side.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone remembers that one, but Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're good friends with a guy that you know

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<v Speaker 2>named Ray.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, Yeah, hello, Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Ray, cute Ray that you went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, right, and we heard a little bit about

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<v Speaker 2>the date. Ray said he had a blast with you

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<v Speaker 2>at dinner the other night and wants to see you again.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's great, but he's not showing it because I've

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<v Speaker 5>been trying to hang out with him again and he's

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<v Speaker 5>not respondible.

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<v Speaker 1>I seek. Yeah, I know, he actually had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he knows that you've been wanting to see him.

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<v Speaker 2>Ray is just kind of like a reserved type of

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<v Speaker 2>guy though, and he needs like a third party to

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<v Speaker 2>come and help engage, like what you really think about him?

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<v Speaker 5>So you guys are like his assistance like for him.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is free, but yeah, we're doing this out

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<v Speaker 2>of the kindness of our hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>He just seems like a nice guy who's interested in you.

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<v Speaker 2>And so what do you think about Ray?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I had a good time. I've been wanting

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<v Speaker 5>to get together with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I ask what did you like about him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? He just like was nice and normal and he

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<v Speaker 5>had some really interesting things about himself that you know,

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<v Speaker 5>other people don't have, and so he was unique in

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<v Speaker 5>that way. Well, it was cool. He told me that

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<v Speaker 5>he won the lottery at some point, and you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I placed thresh off like every week, and I was

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<v Speaker 5>just like, oh, that's so cool that someone actually won,

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<v Speaker 5>like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't find that part very interesting about him.

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<v Speaker 2>I was more focused on like his personality, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>him and I were like friends, that wouldn't be the

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<v Speaker 2>first thing that I would mention about Ray.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I feel could come up when I'm drunk if

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<v Speaker 1>make money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just speaks to the type of person. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>thing is Zoe. Ray has had some bad experiences before

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<v Speaker 2>with women who maybe were in it for the wrong reasons.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, at this age in our lives, we've all

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<v Speaker 5>had bad experiences with people.

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<v Speaker 2>And sure, so let's say that Ray was the same

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<v Speaker 2>exact guy that you went out with to dinner the

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<v Speaker 2>other night, but he did not have the lottery attached.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you still like him?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's like part of who he is, and

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<v Speaker 5>that's like part of his story.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I true, that's a small part. Though if you

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<v Speaker 2>cut that part out, would you still love Ray?

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<v Speaker 5>For Ray, I don't love anyone yet. Let's just get clear.

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<v Speaker 5>I enjoyed getting to know him and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>go on another date with him.

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<v Speaker 1>So but if you took I think what Jeffrey is

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<v Speaker 1>asking is if the lottery wasn't involved at all, would

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<v Speaker 1>you still want to go out another day with him?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you telling me that he didn't win a lottery?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, No, that's totally true. He won the lottery

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<v Speaker 2>a while ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of the expectations that come with winning aren't what

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's complicated. It's kind of hard for us to

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<v Speaker 2>tell you. It'd be easier to just let Ray explain

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<v Speaker 2>it himself, because he's on the other line. Listening right now?

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<v Speaker 5>What in the world is going on? This is like

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<v Speaker 5>super weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the second day calls do get kind of weird sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>but Ray really is there and he wants to speak

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Ray, how you doing super confused?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you doing right?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry for all this, you know, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to really just try to, you know, understand how genuine you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are in liking me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's true I did win the lottery, but I

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<v Speaker 3>also you know, I don't have any any of the

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<v Speaker 3>money left over.

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<v Speaker 1>And blow it not a lot you we're just going

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<v Speaker 1>to drop that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, I don't. I don't have any of it

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<v Speaker 3>at all.

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<v Speaker 1>There's the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. We put it all out there for you, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, which is admirable that he lost.

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<v Speaker 2>All his money. I guess that's fun money anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>That he's coming clean, Zoe, he's coming clean.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's nice, Like I appreciate that he's coming clean,

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<v Speaker 5>but like, why did you lie to me? Yeah? It's

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<v Speaker 5>like if I put a profile picture up of me

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<v Speaker 5>weighing fifty extra pounds and I do now like at

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<v Speaker 5>one point I was that skinny.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean less?

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<v Speaker 2>Should he have sent you a picture of his wallet

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<v Speaker 2>before you guys met up, just to prove with nothing

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<v Speaker 2>in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's saying he's just sending himself wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, it's more of like a fun story

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<v Speaker 3>that I have. You know, I never once said that

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<v Speaker 3>I still had the money.

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<v Speaker 5>You took me out to a beautiful restaurant and acted

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<v Speaker 5>like you had a bunch of money, and I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not trying to say that I'm after your money,

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<v Speaker 5>but like when you sweep a woman off of her feet,

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<v Speaker 5>you're giving her an expectation.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you can't be after my money because I don't all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she said she wasn't after her bucket.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm being honest, I'm more concerned about your character.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why are you serious?

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<v Speaker 2>Because he's a former millionaire and not a current millionaire.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's representing himself as a millionaire and he's not.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got a nice first date.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want, Well, she's take it to Chipotle.

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<v Speaker 1>How much of the conversation was about the lottery?

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't like the first thing that we talked about,

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<v Speaker 5>but you know, you talk about things that are on

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<v Speaker 5>the profile. It was like, how did you win. What

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<v Speaker 5>game did you play?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>What were your numbers?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>I play? I want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a fun game to play even when you don't win, guys, Like.

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<v Speaker 5>If you want to know what it's about though, Well, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm just letting you know I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not done playing the lottery. I mean there's a

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<v Speaker 3>chance that I still really could win again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your selling point.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna win again, bro, Well you know, I mean

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<v Speaker 3>a couple hundred bucks a week or something so much.

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<v Speaker 1>You told us you were broke.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I broke after I buy the tickets, but not before.

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<v Speaker 2>You're putting all of your financial future into the lotto.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I said before, I got lucky once, it'll

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<v Speaker 3>happen again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what they say. Lightning always strikes in the same

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<v Speaker 2>place two times every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Always, And I'm sure that's what any financial advisor would

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<v Speaker 1>would tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is just like your first date. It's going

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<v Speaker 2>to strike a second time as soon as we offer

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<v Speaker 2>to send you guys out on another date.

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<v Speaker 3>And they promised to get cards too, so we don't

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<v Speaker 3>have to worry about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if I'm being honest, like Ray, I would want

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<v Speaker 2>you to become an adult before we ever want on

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<v Speaker 2>a second date again. Oh okay, well Ray, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks like she doesn't want to go out with you

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<v Speaker 2>after all.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I called. I kind of figured should be

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<v Speaker 3>a gold digger.

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<v Speaker 1>You're an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>It's brooked Jeffrey in the morning.