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Speaker 1: Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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Speaker 1: we love that. Thank you so much. Thanks you're here.

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Speaker 1: You know what, if you want us to invade more

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Speaker 1: of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Your address, I can show up, lose Jose will come

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Speaker 1: to your house and give you hugs.

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Speaker 2: And yeah you give me foods uh huh.

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Speaker 1: And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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Speaker 1: content that apparently you like, which we're really grateful for.

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Speaker 1: You can go for the main feed for the full

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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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Speaker 1: this relationship stuff.

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Speaker 2: Second Date, up Date. We've been doing these long enough

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Speaker 2: to know that people fib on their dating profiles. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and sooner or later they're probably gonna get caught. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if that happens on your first date

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Speaker 2: or four months into the relationship. When you say, hey,

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Speaker 2: so those noises upstairs aren't actually rodents, it's my other

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Speaker 2: secret family. I just gotta go back up there for

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Speaker 2: dessert and like five minutes and then I'll come back down.

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Speaker 2: We can go out holding just like I promised.

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Speaker 1: I thought they were going to be living with their parents.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey not a whole other family eventually.

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Speaker 2: And today our listener Ray says he's worried his lie

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Speaker 2: may come back to Biden and he wants to nip

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Speaker 2: it in the bud today. We're going to figure out

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Speaker 2: what's going on in a second. But first, Ray, welcome

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Speaker 2: to the show.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, oh Man, probably better than you, Ray.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you're coming on to admit that you

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Speaker 1: lied about something, how are you feeling?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I just kind of have like all this guilt and

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Speaker 4: I know this isn't really like the normal process.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking in hush tones because your secret family

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Speaker 2: is in the other room and they're going to hear this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Sorr, just a little nervous.

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Speaker 2: So I guess Okay, this is a safe space. You

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Speaker 2: can be honest with us and we'll try not to

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Speaker 2: judge you. But before we get into the whole thing,

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Speaker 2: what is this girl's name that you went out with?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think she's not calling you back?

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Speaker 3: Well, well, she calling me back, Oh she is, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she wants to definitely continue in.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's her name?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I'm sorry, I heard her name is Zoe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so you're you're excited about that piece, right,

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Speaker 1: that she wants to see you again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, excited about that.

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Speaker 2: We don't do a lot of second date updates where

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Speaker 2: the other person wants to go out on another date

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Speaker 2: but they're calling us anyway. This is like a big,

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Speaker 2: big crazy lie, like I'm a completely different identity. Or

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Speaker 2: is It's like, oh, I have a six toe I

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess you'll have to be the judge of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe maybe we're asking too many questions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted you to be on record that he

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Speaker 1: just asked us to judge him. Okay, So whatever happens next,

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Speaker 1: you asked me save.

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Speaker 2: Let's maybe start at the beginning with how you and

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Speaker 2: Zoe met and what you did for your date.

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Speaker 3: So we met online, Yeah, I mean we started talking

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Speaker 3: and we went out to this like this real fancy

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, So you want to do impress or was

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Speaker 1: that your idea?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? That was kind of the goal. But I think

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Speaker 4: You know, I guess on my online profile, you know,

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Speaker 4: I have this little section that says that I won

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Speaker 4: the lottery.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, and I actually did. I won the lottery

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Speaker 1: How much? How much?

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Speaker 3: Around two million dollars?

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, man, I was expecting like a technicality, like I

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Speaker 2: won the lottery, the genetic lottery.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be like five bucks scratch ticket.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but two million dollars that's some serious cash.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. It was great while it lasted.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, already blown through two million dollars.

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Speaker 3: Well, I wish, I wish I bought a house.

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Speaker 1: Oh so you're one of those lottery ruined my life, Canada.

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Speaker 2: You blew the money on something else.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I bought this really cool hovercraft. It's a boat

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Speaker 1: And water, like one of those swamp boats things.

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Speaker 2: I would I would show up to work in a

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Speaker 1: Okay, But you don't have a house to store the

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Speaker 3: So when I hit it on a boat and then

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Speaker 2: Oh you crashed your craft, okay, okay, and I'm guessing

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Speaker 3: Okay, No, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my gosh, it was kind of a vehicle thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah away, Oh my god, why would you put this

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Speaker 1: on your dating profile if you don't have any money left?

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Speaker 1: But there's funny prompts like two truths and a lie

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Speaker 1: and stuff. I think this would be good for that.

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Speaker 1: Oh don't you think it's sending out the message that

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Speaker 1: I am rich? Well maybe I'm not financially responsible. I

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Speaker 1: think it's funny to say you crash something.

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Speaker 2: It's a good question from Brooke there. Why did you

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Speaker 2: put it on your profile?

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Speaker 3: It's not a lie? I mean I did win it,

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Speaker 3: and I guess maybe if I want it once before,

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Speaker 3: i'd like be prone to winning it again.

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Speaker 2: You're a lucky guy and girls should should know that

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Speaker 2: about you. So how does all of this relate to

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's the thing is because we went to this

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Speaker 1: That you know, did you guys talk about it on

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we talked about it, but you know I

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Speaker 4: didn't say that I'm basically broke now, you know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a cool story, Like how did you

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Speaker 2: win in what was your reaction, what's the first thing

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Speaker 2: you bought?

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Speaker 3: It's a good conversation.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a huge red flag that he spent

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Speaker 1: all the money, that there's nothing last I mean, just

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Speaker 2: It's the cool start of a story, but with a

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Speaker 2: very very sad ending.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I could have done a lot more with that.

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Speaker 2: And so now clearly you're worried that she's going to

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Speaker 2: find this out about you, that you blew your two

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Speaker 1: I hope he's worried that he has to tell her

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Speaker 3: Jeff, Well, yeah, I'm really not worried about any of that.

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Speaker 4: I'm just worried about her expectations more expensive dates that

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Speaker 4: I really can't afford.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so did you actually call it because you know,

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Speaker 1: we give a free gift card at the end of

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Speaker 1: the is that what's going on?

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Speaker 3: They gift card wouldn't hurt right now, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, what are we doing here though? Because she

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Speaker 1: already wants to go out with you, So what's our

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm hoping that when you ask her about the date,

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Speaker 4: she likes me for me and not really my money,

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Speaker 4: and that's the case that we can continue.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm hoping for.

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Speaker 2: A questions, get the vibe.

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Speaker 1: You're trying to read the room, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, So we're gonna call Zoe and try to get

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Speaker 2: her to vastly lower her expectations on you and still

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Speaker 2: want to go out with you when we come back

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Speaker 2: and do your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, all right, man, hold on.

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Speaker 2: Second date update if you're just joining us. We got

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Speaker 2: a lottery winner on the phone with us right now

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Speaker 2: who took home two million bucks a few years ago. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 2: he blew pretty much all of it on quote a

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Speaker 2: up crashing into a boat lost. Yeah, with no insurance.

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Speaker 2: So but look, he seems like a really good hearted

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Speaker 2: dude who met a nice woman recently named Zoe. She

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Speaker 2: already wants to see him again. But he's a little

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Speaker 2: bit worried that the expectations of dating a millionaire because

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Speaker 2: she doesn't know that he blew all the money yet. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that could break them before they even get started on

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Speaker 2: this relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. It does kind of feel like a lie,

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Speaker 1: even though you did win the lottery, Like the way

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Speaker 1: you're portraying it isn't fully honest.

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Speaker 2: But Brooke, he shouldn't be on his profile like, hey,

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Speaker 2: by the way, I'm broke after winning the lottery.

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 2: Facy, but not romantic. Like no girl's gonna swipe on that.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: But don't you feel like I mean, let's be honest.

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Speaker 2: God, see if you have a net worth of under

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Speaker 2: five million dollars. She refuses to remember who you are.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I remember either.

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Speaker 2: No, it's uh, I got this. It's Ray.

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Speaker 1: Had to look at his notes.

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Speaker 2: I wrote it down, Ray job.

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Speaker 1: Ray, I heard lottery winner, and everything else went blank. Ray.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they have to see most people, that's all they

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Just for the record, I never lied.

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm just saying you kind of misrepresented the fight.

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Speaker 1: She thought he only won ten dollars.

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Speaker 3: We did.

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Speaker 2: We'll stop doubling down on Ray here and called Zoe.

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Speaker 2: And remember, we're trying to figure out if she really

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Speaker 2: likes Ray for Ray or if she was just mesmerized

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Speaker 2: by the lottery.

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Speaker 1: Winner, if she thought she won the dating lottery meeting

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Speaker 1: a lottery winner.

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Speaker 2: All right, So here we are I'm in the dillary

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Speaker 2: number right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking for Zoe. Hey, Zoe.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: On the air with us.

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Speaker 2: You might see my face up on a billboard in

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Speaker 2: a city near you.

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Speaker 1: We have been on billboardside down on the billboard one time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was an.

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Speaker 1: Accident, but you know what, I thought, I got more

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Speaker 1: attention than when we're right side.

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Speaker 2: Everyone remembers that one, but Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: And we're good friends with a guy that you know

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Speaker 2: named Ray.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Yeah, hello, Hi.

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Speaker 1: I know Ray, cute Ray that you went on a

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Speaker 1: date with.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, and we heard a little bit about

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Speaker 2: the date. Ray said he had a blast with you

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Speaker 2: at dinner the other night and wants to see you again.

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Speaker 5: Well that's great, but he's not showing it because I've

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Speaker 5: been trying to hang out with him again and he's

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Speaker 5: not respondible.

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Speaker 1: I seek. Yeah, I know, he actually had a really

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he knows that you've been wanting to see him.

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Speaker 2: Ray is just kind of like a reserved type of

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Speaker 5: So you guys are like his assistance like for him.

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Speaker 2: And this is free, but yeah, we're doing this out

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Speaker 1: He just seems like a nice guy who's interested in you.

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Speaker 2: And so what do you think about Ray?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I had a good time. I've been wanting

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Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask what did you like about him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? He just like was nice and normal and he

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Speaker 5: had some really interesting things about himself that you know,

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Speaker 5: that way. Well, it was cool. He told me that

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Speaker 5: he won the lottery at some point, and you know,

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Speaker 5: I placed thresh off like every week, and I was

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Speaker 5: just like, oh, that's so cool that someone actually won,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't find that part very interesting about him.

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Speaker 2: I was more focused on like his personality, Like if

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Speaker 2: first thing that I would mention about Ray.

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Speaker 1: Really, I feel could come up when I'm drunk if

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Speaker 2: That's just speaks to the type of person. That's the

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Speaker 2: thing is Zoe. Ray has had some bad experiences before

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, at this age in our lives, we've all

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Speaker 2: And sure, so let's say that Ray was the same

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Speaker 2: other night, but he did not have the lottery attached.

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Speaker 2: Would you still like him?

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's like part of who he is, and

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Speaker 2: Like I true, that's a small part. Though if you

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Speaker 5: For Ray, I don't love anyone yet. Let's just get clear.

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Speaker 5: I enjoyed getting to know him and I wanted to

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Speaker 1: So but if you took I think what Jeffrey is

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Speaker 1: asking is if the lottery wasn't involved at all, would

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 5: Are you telling me that he didn't win a lottery?

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Speaker 2: No? No, No, that's totally true. He won the lottery

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Speaker 1: Some of the expectations that come with winning aren't what

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: It's it's complicated. It's kind of hard for us to

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Speaker 2: tell you. It'd be easier to just let Ray explain

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Speaker 5: What in the world is going on? This is like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the second day calls do get kind of weird sometimes,

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Speaker 2: but Ray really is there and he wants to speak

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Speaker 2: with you.

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Speaker 3: Ray, how you doing super confused?

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Speaker 5: How are you doing right?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry for all this, you know, I just wanted

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Speaker 4: to really just try to, you know, understand how genuine you.

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Speaker 3: Are in liking me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, you know.

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Speaker 3: So it's true I did win the lottery, but I

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Speaker 3: also you know, I don't have any any of the

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Speaker 1: And blow it not a lot you we're just going

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Speaker 1: to drop that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I don't. I don't have any of it

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Speaker 3: at all.

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Speaker 1: There's the truth.

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Speaker 2: Okay. We put it all out there for you, Zoe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, which is admirable that he lost.

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Speaker 2: All his money. I guess that's fun money anyway.

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Speaker 1: That he's coming clean, Zoe, he's coming clean.

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Speaker 5: No, that's nice, Like I appreciate that he's coming clean,

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Speaker 5: but like, why did you lie to me? Yeah? It's

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Speaker 5: like if I put a profile picture up of me

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Speaker 5: weighing fifty extra pounds and I do now like at

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Speaker 5: one point I was that skinny.

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Speaker 1: You mean less?

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Speaker 2: Should he have sent you a picture of his wallet

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Speaker 2: before you guys met up, just to prove with nothing

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Speaker 1: I think she's saying he's just sending himself wrong.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it's more of like a fun story

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Speaker 3: that I have. You know, I never once said that

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Speaker 3: I still had the money.

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Speaker 5: You took me out to a beautiful restaurant and acted

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Speaker 5: like you had a bunch of money, and I'm not.

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Speaker 5: I'm not trying to say that I'm after your money,

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Speaker 5: but like when you sweep a woman off of her feet,

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Speaker 3: Well, you can't be after my money because I don't all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said she wasn't after her bucket.

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Speaker 5: Like I'm being honest, I'm more concerned about your character.

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Speaker 1: Why why are you serious?

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Speaker 2: Because he's a former millionaire and not a current millionaire.

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Speaker 1: Because he's representing himself as a millionaire and he's not.

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Speaker 2: She's got a nice first date.

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Speaker 1: What do you want, Well, she's take it to Chipotle.

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Speaker 1: How much of the conversation was about the lottery?

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like the first thing that we talked about,

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Speaker 5: but you know, you talk about things that are on

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Speaker 5: the profile. It was like, how did you win. What

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Speaker 5: game did you play?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 5: What were your numbers?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 5: I play? I want to know.

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Speaker 2: It's a fun game to play even when you don't win, guys, Like.

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Speaker 5: If you want to know what it's about though, Well, hey,

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm just letting you know I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I'm not done playing the lottery. I mean there's a

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Speaker 3: chance that I still really could win again.

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Speaker 1: That's your selling point.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna win again, bro, Well you know, I mean

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Speaker 3: a couple hundred bucks a week or something so much.

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Speaker 1: You told us you were broke.

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Speaker 3: Well, I broke after I buy the tickets, but not before.

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Speaker 2: You're putting all of your financial future into the lotto.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I said before, I got lucky once, it'll

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Speaker 2: That's what they say. Lightning always strikes in the same

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Speaker 1: Always, And I'm sure that's what any financial advisor would

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Speaker 2: And this is just like your first date. It's going

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Speaker 2: to strike a second time as soon as we offer

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Speaker 3: And they promised to get cards too, so we don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if I'm being honest, like Ray, I would want

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Speaker 2: you to become an adult before we ever want on

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Speaker 2: a second date again. Oh okay, well Ray, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 2: Looks like she doesn't want to go out with you

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Speaker 2: after all.

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Speaker 3: That's what I called. I kind of figured should be

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Speaker 3: a gold digger.

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Speaker 1: You're an idiot.

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Speaker 2: It's brooked Jeffrey in the morning.