1 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Hey, I do Part two. 2 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 2: It's Kelly Klaren Bensimon, one of your celebrity mentors, and 3 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: today I'm catching up with one of the stars from 4 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: The Valley Persian Style. 5 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: So she's been stuck in the middle of a lot 6 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: of conflict. 7 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: On the show this season, and now she's going through 8 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 2: a divorce. I can't wait to catch up with her 9 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 2: and see how she's coming through this difficult situation. 10 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: Please help me. Welcome Mercedes MJ to the pot. 11 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 3: Hi, Hori, Kelly, it's good to see you. 12 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: I know, it's so good to see you. I know 13 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: that you've been going through a lot, but I want to. 14 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: Tell you your show was fantastic and you are a baller. 15 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you with you know, changing your narrative, 16 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: raising your son, you know, everything you've been through with 17 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 2: your ex house. We're going to get into that, the 18 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: real estate business. You've been doing so well. I am 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: so proud of you on all fronts. Let's get started. Okay, 20 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: So this season's been We've been seeing a lot of 21 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: things playing out between you and your soon to be 22 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 2: ex husband Tommy and attention with you guys, you caught 23 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: in the middle. 24 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: What was that like for. 25 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: You, it's very hard because you know, we're doing it 26 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 3: with this big cast of friends and instead of six 27 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: people who are now twelve. I find a lot of 28 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 3: the episodes to be hard to watch. The scenes between 29 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 3: Tommy and I, I close my eyes, I turn it off. 30 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: I just you know, I was with him for ten years, 31 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: married seven, very in love, with no intention of following 32 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: the footsteps of a divorced family, same age as when 33 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 3: my son, as my son is is when my parents 34 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: got separated. It's the worst thing ever, and I hate 35 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 3: it and I never really got any closure with Tommy. 36 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 3: So we're just a married couple going through communication breakdowns 37 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 3: and then, like you always want to have a healthy 38 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 3: conversation to follow up things, and that's how it feels 39 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 3: when you don't get to do that. 40 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: I really like what you just said about communication breakdowns, 41 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: and I think that that is such a big, big, 42 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 2: big thing that happens in relationships, especially guy. You guys 43 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: have been together for so long and you've been through 44 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: so much together. It's just obviously wildly serendipitous that this 45 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 2: happened at the same time as you know your parents. 46 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: So I'm so sorry for that, so this season your 47 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 2: ex Tommy, he was involved in filming the show less 48 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: than when you guys were on shows of Sunset? Was 49 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: that an effort to save your marriage? Did you just 50 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: not want to film? 51 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: What was? 52 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 2: What was? 53 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: What happened? 54 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 3: I think he hadn't healed at all from the last 55 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 3: time that we were on TV. It was extremely heavy 56 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: on him because you know, we've just had our baby, 57 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 3: and then the falling out with Res it just made us. 58 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 3: It just gutted him. And then coming back. I think 59 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 3: he did want to do the show, but I don't 60 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 3: think he wanted to put himself vulnerable for like getting 61 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: you know, hurt again. I mean, he had to serve 62 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 3: time for even I think it was might have just 63 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: been for a day, to be honest, I don't know 64 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 3: if he had to go more than a day. It 65 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 3: was probation. Sorry, I don't mean to like spread false information, 66 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: but yeah, that's why he didn't. He's he's very fragile 67 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 3: when it comes to what am I going to do? 68 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 3: What's going to happen to me? I think I was 69 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 3: probably afraid too, because I didn't want to have another 70 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: falling out with Resa or Valanessa, so fear. 71 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: Again like another just compliment to you about just being 72 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: so thoughtful for him and his feelings and how that 73 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: was going to play out for him. You know, I 74 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: think you know I was going to ask you, did 75 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,119 Speaker 2: the show contribute to your decision. 76 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: To get divorced. 77 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: I saw you guys in two scenes that were really 78 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: like pop up scenes. Like the first scene was when 79 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 2: you guys were on the podcast and just like the 80 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: back and forth banter seemed difficult, but also you guys 81 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: were like in that conflict resolution mode, which I really 82 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: really loved. But then when I saw you guys at 83 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: the open house where Tommy wouldn't come in, and you're 84 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: at this open house, you're filming, You've got stress, you're 85 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 2: you know, you've got so many things going on. 86 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: You're trying to, you know. 87 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: Show Maricio how great you are, because you are so great. 88 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: Your open house was amazing. No one comes from an 89 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: open house, by the way, so that was fantastic. There 90 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: was just a lot of variables, and I think you 91 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: handled that really well. 92 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: But I could see at that moment he was just 93 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: like shutting down. What are your thoughts? 94 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, my thoughts are like, you want to be able 95 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: to feel love from your spouse, And if the neglect 96 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: and the isolation outweighs the love and the breakdown, then 97 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 3: it just doesn't make sense. If I would have thought 98 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: that Tommy was willing and open to like working things out, 99 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: then I wouldn't have had a reason to leave. He's 100 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: the one that ended the marriage, not me. He's the 101 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 3: one that stopped participating and checked out for years. It 102 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: had it had just come to a head, I just 103 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 3: had to file the paperwork. He was the one that 104 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 3: stopped being to me like so many things that he 105 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: was when we first met ten years ago. 106 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: Wow, that's big. Usually it's the woman leaving the man. 107 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,119 Speaker 2: I mean, it's very unusual that the man like checks 108 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 2: out and you know, the woman has to leave like that. 109 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: That is I'm so sorry. I mean, I just feel 110 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 2: like I just have so much empathy for you. Just 111 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: I feel like we have a lot of similarities in 112 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 2: our lives. I mean, I just know that for my 113 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: own self, I you know, broke up with a boyfriend 114 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 2: in December because I was going to be filming a 115 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 2: new show and I'm just. 116 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Like I can't, you know, I just can't bring him along. 117 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: I'm afraid, you know. I mean, I've had. 118 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: I had two very very bad situations happen when I 119 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: was filming, and I just was like, I just can't 120 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 2: do this. And I'm just like honestly making me emotion 121 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 2: right now because like, you know, you do work really hard, 122 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 2: and I mean another moment that really like I can't 123 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: even tolerate. 124 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: It was like you know, like, first of all. 125 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 2: Having someone pick up your child is one thing, but 126 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: like not showing up that really like and you just 127 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 2: kind of going back and figuring saying it was fifteen minutes, 128 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 2: it was forty five minutes. Like I could feel, I 129 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 2: could hear the pain in your voice, and I just 130 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: I just know. I know you're filming a show, but 131 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: there are moments for the listeners out there that are 132 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 2: so wildly real, and that was one of them. 133 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: Like because people are like, oh, you're so calm, You're 134 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 3: so calm, like and I was like, yeah, yeah, because 135 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: I have had to learn to be home. There were 136 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: years when I was reactive and I would cry and 137 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 3: I would beg and scream. There were years and you know, 138 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 3: so many Christmases and days and Mother's Days and things 139 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 3: like that where I was like, bro, like please don't 140 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 3: phone it in with me like I care too much 141 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 3: and I had my heart in my hand, and I 142 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 3: eventually had to harden and put on more of like 143 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 3: the brave face and be a healthy mom to your son. 144 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 3: And so I shoved everything that I had for Tommy 145 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 3: so that I could be positive. And then you know, 146 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 3: here we are. 147 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: How's the co parenting going. 148 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: The co parenting? We live a minute away, we see 149 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 3: each other, and we're both one hundred percent in with Shams. 150 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 3: He doesn't miss a beat and he gets the best 151 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: of both of us. And you know, it's that part 152 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 3: is really healthy. 153 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: Thank god, that is That's a huge blessing. 154 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 2: I never had a co parent, so I don't know. 155 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: I was like, this co parenting, I'm like, that sounds fantastic. 156 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: I had no idea what you're talking about. 157 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 3: I raised my. 158 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: Kids on my own, and I have like that is 159 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 2: just something that like is just like, you know, foreign 160 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: language to me. 161 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 3: I can't I even imagine that because when I'm working 162 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 3: and I have days that I come home from work 163 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 3: and I am spent, especially yes, especially at the end 164 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: of the day, I'm like, I am not capable of 165 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 3: cooking a meal. I you know, it's going to be pizza. 166 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 3: It's going to be like takeout and when when you 167 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: do have somebody, And Tommy is a very good father 168 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 3: and he's very present then and he's become more present 169 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 3: actually since we separated. So I am extremely grateful for that. 170 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: I love that. 171 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: I love that who on the cast has been the 172 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: most supportive during this process, everybody. 173 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not close with Sky right now, which 174 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 3: you know, I know that she feels like she's a 175 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 3: little bit on an island. But I'm really close with 176 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 3: and I feel a lot of love and his support 177 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 3: from Natasha and Amir and Reza and Golnessa and Tanny 178 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 3: and like, they're very, very real. And I've known we've 179 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: known Tanny and you know for fifteen years. She just 180 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 3: was one of those people that wasn't going to do 181 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 3: reality TV. And I know it's a huge risk. You 182 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 3: know that too, But yeah, they're they're amazing. 183 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: They are the whole cast is amazing. The dynamic is unbelievable, 184 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:17,119 Speaker 2: and it's just to hear your storyline is just it's heartbreaking. 185 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 2: I mean it's just heartbreaking. 186 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: Have you thought about dating? Oh? 187 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 3: No, custom Mark, No, I am so actually I feel 188 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: so distrusted, distrusting of men. I have zero faith in men. 189 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 3: If this is what love is, then no, thank you. 190 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 3: I feel so It's been so long since I've been single. 191 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 3: I can't even imagine. I just feel like I will 192 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 3: die a celibate like lady. Maybe if I'm locky enough 193 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 3: to live to like I'm one hundred, you know, for 194 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 3: the kid, right, But no, I don't see it. I 195 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 3: don't see it being naked in front of of anybody ever. 196 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 2: Again, well, you look gorgeous, so do not do not 197 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 2: talk about don't talk like that because that's not fair. 198 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: And I've seen you on the show and you're gorgeous. 199 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: You put that makeup like you are. 200 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 3: Thank you. 201 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: So this is a really good question. 202 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 2: If you do get in a relationship, hypothetically, let's say 203 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 2: you started to date. 204 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: And you get into your relationship. 205 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: Okay, how important is it for that new partner to 206 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 2: get along with your friends? 207 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's important because look, people forget this falling out 208 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: with my husband and I was not because of you know, 209 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 3: him not partying. It's not like that. It's more of 210 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 3: like going to weddings by yourself. That shouldn't be a thing. 211 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 3: Wanting to play tennis and going on a hike and 212 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 3: just experience, like, let's go swim in our pool. We 213 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 3: have a beautiful which in California is you know, costs 214 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 3: a lot of money just to have a pool of 215 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 3: running water. It's a lot. Your husband be like, yeah, 216 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 3: I don't want to go swimming, I don't want to 217 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 3: go to the beach. I don't want to go to 218 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 3: this wedding all you baby, Like that was not fun. 219 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 3: So if I were hypothetically with somebody, they would have 220 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 3: to not just writ and bear it or hopefully I 221 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 3: didn't watch that statement, but that they really really just 222 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 3: think that grinn and bear that you really want to 223 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 3: see that as an adventure, like, hey, this wedding is 224 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 3: going to be so boring. Let's get trashed and have 225 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 3: the best time ever, like Bonnie and Clyde. Let's have fun. 226 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: You just want to create memories. And I love that. 227 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I had so I had that relationship with 228 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 2: my with my first and only husband, he was literally gone. 229 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: I'm the girls. 230 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: You know, I gave birth my first daughter and he 231 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: was gone, like literally came back like once a month. 232 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: So you know, I am so I'm so used. 233 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 2: To being with someone who's not around and all the 234 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 2: memory I was just looking at these memories because I 235 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 2: just sold my department them living in and I was 236 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: looking at all these memories of my girls. 237 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: I'm says, they're all of me and the girls. It's 238 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: a party of three. I'm like, this is not what 239 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: I want. This is not my future. 240 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: So I totally empathize with you. And you're right, like 241 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: you want to create these memories. You want to have 242 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 2: a photo album of like good, bad and ugly, like 243 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 2: you did it together exactly. 244 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 3: We went to my cousin's wedding. It was a destination wedding. 245 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 3: And when I came back and I looked at my 246 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 3: camera role, I was like, you dumb bitch, what are 247 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 3: you doing here? 248 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 2: I'm literally, you're gonna make me cry, Like I'm so, 249 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, I'm so. 250 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: I just I hate this. I hate this. So Okay, 251 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: you're you're. 252 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: A fellow, you're you and you're and now there's a 253 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: new friend of yours, Britney cart Right. She's in she's 254 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: in the valley, she's a resident, and she's gone through 255 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: a similar experience. Are you guys talking, do you guys, 256 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 2: because you're both on similar shows. 257 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 1: Do you guys have any like connection? 258 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 3: Okay, so Michelle son I and Britney Carr right, and 259 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: I are definitely overdue for a lunch. I'm very funning 260 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: with the Rolls on the Valley and we do DM 261 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: and say like when are we gonna have lunch? And 262 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 3: you know, sunk right now. It's like, it's so painful 263 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 3: that I have to push myself to get out there 264 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 3: more because between working and then being with the baby, 265 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: you just want to you know, he's six, He's always 266 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 3: my baby. You want to be able to like this 267 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 3: that I'm doing here today for you is so new. 268 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 3: I want to literally carve myself back into my life 269 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: where I am not putting my hair on the top, 270 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 3: not for forty five days in a row. I literally 271 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 3: think from December to January, I might have left the 272 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 3: house in ways that people would be looking at me 273 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 3: going like is she okay? Like where it's not okay, 274 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 3: it's not okay. And you can't just you know, do 275 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 3: a slick phony to show up. You have to actually 276 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 3: feel it inside. So connecting with girl Brittany and checking 277 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 3: in with Michelle and having fun is so important. We 278 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: need to support and laugh at the you know, the craziness, 279 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 3: and you know, maybe she has some cheers. I haven't 280 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 3: cried yet. 281 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: I met Brittany at Swim Week at the oh SI Show, 282 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: and she is so much fun, Like she is literally 283 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: hilarious and we had such a good time. I think 284 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: that you'll like her also because she's very authentic like 285 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: you are. 286 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: But she's also just fun doing to me. She's smiling 287 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: and she's just like I'm trying to get through things. 288 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 2: And I think you guys should definitely if you have 289 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 2: the if you have the opportunity to do that, you should. 290 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: Guys should definitely hang out. She's great. 291 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna literally message her right now. 292 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 2: She's sunshine and she'll get you whether or not you 293 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 2: even meet. 294 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: She's just got like a very sunny personal. 295 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 3: No, like like we run into each other all the time. 296 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 3: We see together Michelle as well from her show. We 297 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 3: definitely have intention and should it's really just being on 298 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 3: that like that hamster wheel lifestyle where you're just like 299 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 3: busting your ass trying to get from point A to B. 300 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 3: That's not cool. That's not a way to live. We 301 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 3: have to change that. We will, right will. 302 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 2: And speaking of your top knot and your burnout, What 303 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 2: are you going to do so that we slick the 304 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 2: hair back and we feel good? 305 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: Like, what do you? What do we? What are we 306 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: doing for for your self care? 307 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 3: So I just did. I'm gonna tell you. I just 308 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 3: went to one of the moms from my school. She 309 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: was like, get your ass in here, I'm giving you 310 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 3: a signature facial. She laminated my brows. I went to 311 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 3: my friend's house. She did the hair. I have to 312 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 3: do the spray tand there's nothing that makes me feel 313 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 3: quite as good. I'm very fair right now, and I've 314 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 3: got like pounds of dark like you know, bronze on 315 00:15:56,920 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 3: so that I'm all about a steam room, red light therapy, 316 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 3: my f forty five for muscle tone, and I walk 317 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 3: my dog, you know. So I'm just committed to doing 318 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 3: more of that. 319 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: Do you know the red light therapy? 320 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel so like even just putting that mask 321 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 2: on for a couple of seconds, I'm just like, WHOA. 322 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously there are had so many benefits, but 323 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: I know, even for myself, I'm very like, I'm very 324 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 2: light sensitive, and I'm just like when I get light, my. 325 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 3: Body goes yes, and then when I have no light, 326 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 3: it's like, well, yeah, well I do the thing I 327 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 3: subscribe to the wake up, open the door, let the 328 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 3: sun hit you, and get that vitamin D. You have 329 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: to actually be your skin meets the vitamin D. It's 330 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 3: not just your face and you want to protect your 331 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 3: face from sunspots. But yes, this is an eighty degree 332 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 3: day in La. By the way, we have no excuse, 333 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 3: so I just have to take more advantage of what 334 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 3: we have here, which I am. 335 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 2: But I literally I had a when I after I 336 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 2: broke up with my my boyfriend, I literally had a 337 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,959 Speaker 2: Carrie Bradshaw moment and I darkened my hair and I 338 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 2: was like inside it was like the semmer and I 339 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 2: was like, oh. 340 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: Oh this is this is my name. I mean, everything 341 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 3: is okay. 342 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:18,959 Speaker 2: I am not like that though, by the way, I'm 343 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 2: always like okay, you know, maybe this isn't right, okay. 344 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 2: I mean granded never had anyone break up with me. 345 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: I've always been the one that's like no, no, no, no, 346 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: no no no, And this I was. 347 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: Just like no. 348 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: But I was just like, oh, I've never like thought 349 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 2: about going back with someone, right, No. 350 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: But I mean I know that you were when we 351 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 3: ran into each other at Jeff's at radio, you were 352 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 3: with somebody, and then when it ended, I was like, God, 353 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 3: I wish I should have reached out to you at 354 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 3: that time too, because I know it wasn't it wasn't 355 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 3: what you were expecting. 356 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: That was awful. 357 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 2: Okay, So being this is not being on Europe, being 358 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 2: on our own, being on our own. 359 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 1: You know, what's it been like for you? I mean, 360 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: what's I mean? I know that you've. 361 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: You're doing some self careac your friends, you know, have 362 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 2: done so many nice things for you. 363 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: But have you like made over your house? Have you 364 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 1: like done something different? 365 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 2: Is there anything that you've done for yourself that like 366 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: the you can help our listeners kind of go through, 367 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: you know, how to make themselves feel better, you know, 368 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: because you do look so great by the way, you 369 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 2: look really great. 370 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 3: Thank you. I you know, we moved out of the 371 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 3: house that we were married in. I moved into a 372 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 3: townhouse which was the polar opposite vibe, full of white light. 373 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 3: It was just like the place that I moved into 374 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 3: is so bright and high ceilings and everything that I'm 375 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 3: choosing to put in this new home is a very 376 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 3: conscious choice of and I there were things that I 377 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 3: just said, can't come in, they can't go with me. 378 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 3: So I purged probably eighty percent of what we had. 379 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 3: I only kept the things that felt one hundred and 380 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 3: if it didn't like belong, then I just said like 381 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 3: thank you and goodbye. Because I saw Lala Kent when 382 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 3: she separated from her marriage their engagement, and I saw 383 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: her put like every single piece back into her house 384 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 3: and I was like, that was that should be there, right, 385 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 3: and then goodbye to the out with the old, in 386 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 3: with the new. It's also a huge part of Persian 387 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 3: culture is symbolism and how things feel. And you know, 388 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 3: we've all heard of the Marie condo. So it's like 389 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 3: when you have to connect with your body, you have 390 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 3: to connect with your womanhood, you have to connect with 391 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 3: like the shower is an extra luxurious shower, Like I 392 00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 3: would slather on everything that made me feel spoiled as 393 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 3: possible on a daily basis, like take time, extra extra time, 394 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 3: and that is you know, it's fun, it's fun. Plans. 395 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 1: I actually did that. I put on this like really 396 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: really nice lotion today. 397 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 3: I was like, I feel like I deserve that's actually good. 398 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 2: Advice for your clients because you can say when they're 399 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 2: when they're you know, buying or selling, that you can 400 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 2: say that these are the things that you've done, and 401 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 2: this is something that people are always looking for to 402 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 2: They're looking for advice and how to like navigate that 403 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 2: next chapter of their lives. And so, I, you know, 404 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 2: I feel like that's just like such a good you know, 405 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 2: also takeaway. Before I let you go, I want to 406 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: ask you about the Traders because you were such a 407 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 2: superstar on. 408 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,479 Speaker 3: That show, Thank You. 409 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 2: Would you ever like want to go back or come back? 410 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: I mean, is there everybody loved you on Traders? 411 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 3: Thank You? The first time is always the best time. 412 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 3: I love the experience. I felt like sleep away camp 413 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 3: but I never got to do when I was a kid. 414 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 3: But if I were to go back this time, I 415 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 3: would really be extra worried about spending time away from 416 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 3: my son. I've been hearing like maybe there will be 417 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 3: an All Stars. I think I would play the game 418 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 3: differently in some ways because it is getting like no disrespect, 419 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 3: but every season is evolving. There is like a very 420 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 3: high level of respect and decorum on the set of Traders, 421 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:28,919 Speaker 3: Like with this overseas English production Company. They're not as 422 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 3: they don't have tolerance for anything vicious, so I you know, 423 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 3: never say no to the universe. But also like it was, 424 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 3: it was a very unique, intensely positive experience. I loved it. 425 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: I would go on Traders with you. We could be 426 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 1: like the two pieces in a pod. 427 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 2: I'd be like, I'm very I'm very like fluffy bunny, 428 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 2: but then on the inside, I'm super strategic. 429 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,120 Speaker 3: Right, It's true. And I don't know how you feel 430 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 3: about like crawling into dark holes. And you know, there 431 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 3: are a lot of like no, no me, Me and 432 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 3: Phedra Chary, even Kevin from Bling Empire, like none of 433 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 3: us were willing to go into a pitch black tunnel 434 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 3: that had like rats and worms. I don't know what 435 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 3: was in there. It was so slimy, and it smelled 436 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 3: like horse piss. It was at the horse. 437 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: The horse piss. 438 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 2: I'm a usedup, but like and I'd bend in the catacombs, 439 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 2: which sounds very bougie in Europe, but I am now 440 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 2: there's certain I am so there are certain things I cannot. 441 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 3: I can do anything. 442 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 2: She can jump from She's like they're always like, you're 443 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: so sporty I'm like, just because I can run and 444 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 2: ride a horse and play a little tennis and hit 445 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 2: some golf balls, does not make me one to like, 446 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 2: you know, jump off the cliffs Like that's a no. 447 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 3: Oh, no, you would repel because we did the repelling 448 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 3: down the line. We did a lot of like physical things, 449 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 3: but no, you don't think you could repel. It was 450 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 3: the scariest thing. I have like very sensitive hands, so 451 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 3: I'd be like, and then you had to like not 452 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 3: look down. And then I never used the repel before. 453 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 3: I was like, look what happens if I just slide? No, dude, 454 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,719 Speaker 3: there were a lot of things that were very challenging. 455 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:18,199 Speaker 3: But if the I will give props major props to 456 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 3: Trishall and ct. They did the disgusting things that took 457 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 3: thirty minutes, like to get through the tunnel, Like give 458 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 3: that up to the challenge people. The Bravo people were 459 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 3: making it entertaining and the people were earning the dollars. 460 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 3: I guess the Bravo. 461 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 2: Paper are always like, oh my god, I'll talk about 462 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: exactly well. 463 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 1: We love you so much and I support you. I 464 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 1: am here for you. 465 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: I know this is not the easiest time in your life, 466 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 2: but you're doing such beautiful work for your family, for 467 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 2: your son, for the fans, for your business, for your 468 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 2: ex husband. I mean, you're wearing a lot of hats 469 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 2: and we're just like, we're here for you. And I'm 470 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 2: going to speak on behalf of all the fans. 471 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: We love you. 472 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 3: I love you, Kelly. Thank you. I am going to 473 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 3: call you. 474 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: Yes, please do. I'm in la a lot. I would 475 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:10,959 Speaker 1: love to see you, and I'm here for you. 476 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 2: I know that it's not easy, but like I mean, 477 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 2: even like you know, I talked to Brittany about it, 478 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: and I've talked to some other you know, people you know, 479 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 2: Bravo friends, and you know, they're all like. 480 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: What happened and how did you get through? 481 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 2: It's like, all of a sudden, it was like a 482 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 2: badge of honor and now like people are like help me. 483 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, but we do. We love 484 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: you so much and we're here for you. 485 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 3: If that's all one of the best things about us 486 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 3: being in this Bravo community. We have like this family 487 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 3: family with each other. We've got to take advantage of it. 488 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 2: And the show, the value person style is fantastic, Thank you. 489 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: It is fantastic. I hope everything works out with a 490 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: friend group. I am like literally watching and cannot wait 491 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 2: to hear more and more and more about what happens. 492 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 3: Thank you, honey, see you soon. 493 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 2: Are you single and in your chapter two and need 494 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: some advice? Call us or email us. All the info 495 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: is in the show notes, follow us on socials, and 496 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 2: make sure to rate and review the podcast. I do 497 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 2: part two in iHeartRadio podcast, where falling in love is 498 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 2: the main objective.