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Speaker 1: your girl? Dry and a call? And you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk

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Speaker 1: mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guess, Sauday, we gotta guess surday.

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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all. I know y'all be like, oh, y'all, got

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Speaker 1: another guest again. But I'm sorry. We have had some

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Speaker 1: interesting We a good guess. We having a good guess.

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Speaker 1: And I'm ready to talk to you because I look

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Speaker 1: squo the mic up a little bit. Sorry, girl, so

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Speaker 1: I feel like you be talking your ship. So we

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Speaker 1: got o g no knowing about name? Okay, so you've

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Speaker 1: got to give a girls an introduction. Where you are,

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Speaker 1: where you're from, all that good stuff. I'm shy, shut,

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Speaker 1: I know you lie. Yes, just be me and my camera.

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Speaker 1: Oh girl, it's a hope of we like.

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Speaker 3: We like to make people feel comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I'll be shot. We can have fun today, So I'll

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Speaker 1: be shot. Y'all know me.

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Speaker 4: I'm old from New Orleans, Louisiana uptown.

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Speaker 1: I love that. I love you. That's what I said.

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Speaker 3: I love New Orleans.

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Speaker 1: That accent. I love it. Talk a little bit about

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Speaker 1: your background, your podcast and all that this stuff.

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Speaker 5: Right now, I have well, I started online doing videos

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Speaker 5: just well I didn't know it was gonna be nothing,

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Speaker 5: just just talking Branton, you know about girl ship, regular

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Speaker 4: And it happened to go viral and then it became

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Speaker 5: But like in twenty twenty, got taken and I basically

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Speaker 5: the OG Podcast. Right now, I'm wrapping up my last season,

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Speaker 5: I mean, my first season, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: So talk about your first video that went viral and

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Speaker 1: you were like, okay, you know what, I got some

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Speaker 1: because I feel like in this space, people be like

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Speaker 1: Why is it important what she's saying versus what I say?

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Speaker 1: So talk about that first video that went viral.

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Speaker 5: I don't really when I was even now, I don't

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Speaker 5: really give a fuck about what nobody else think. It's

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Speaker 5: about what I think, right right right, So if you

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Speaker 5: if it don't, didn't leave it, I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't think about who else going through this, you know,

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Speaker 5: like because I know like my audience so and I

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Speaker 5: know what I've been through, so I only speak from

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Speaker 5: I think, well, one of the videos that went viral,

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Speaker 5: it was stupid. It was so stupid, and I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I said so much real ship before then, like but

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Speaker 5: you know, this was before I knew it was gonna

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Speaker 5: be something. And one of them was when I was like,

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Speaker 5: stop hitting the bitch up talking about you won't chill

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Speaker 5: like chill like or can I come chill?

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Speaker 5: No, you know we got ship going on, like nobody

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Speaker 5: don't want your cheer and a bitch don't want you

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Speaker 5: I could do it on my own, but come with

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Speaker 5: something like no, bitch, don't just want chill. So that

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Speaker 5: the numbers always for how to count your bodies, but.

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Speaker 1: Because we be saying.

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Speaker 5: It is like three know, if y'all went viral from it,

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Speaker 5: I know they was tagging me under.

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Speaker 1: Yo, don't ask me about that. She threes and the

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Speaker 4: Made you come only count the niggas that you have

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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, everybody knows I don't have kids,

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Speaker 1: like Auntie is so fancy when she comes around. She

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Speaker 1: You know he sees that two tone put on and

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Speaker 1: of your children? Before I asked this question, okay, so

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Speaker 1: how is it being a single mother, like with four

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Speaker 5: It's difficult, you know, especially coming from the background in

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Speaker 5: Man, we are gonna spoil this stuff though, I think, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean I spoil myself. But I talk about this

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Speaker 5: I didn't have me and my mama didn't have a

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Speaker 5: I love you, like I know she loved me, but

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Speaker 1: So as a single parent. I try to.

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Speaker 4: It's just me, like the father of my two oldest

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Speaker 5: Deceased, and I was I'm divorced, and i'm you know,

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Speaker 1: With the other, you don't been married before. I know,

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Speaker 5: And I think the way that I carry it, some

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Speaker 5: but it's not all it's creaked up to be like

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Speaker 1: So that don't count.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I think you only got two kids in a way,

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Speaker 7: I'm not trying to be your business like that, but

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Speaker 7: like you look so good college.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's nineteen, that is I'm a man. You want

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Speaker 8: Yeah, just say headed you know.

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Speaker 1: So talk about though, like like dating though, how is

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Speaker 1: oh I'm above you because I ain't because I feel

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Speaker 1: like I do feel like dating without kids is easier.

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Speaker 1: I do feel like, you know so, but I still

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Speaker 3: But it still suck with us to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So how is it dating

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Speaker 5: It's even more difficult because you have so many different

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Speaker 5: niggas gonna be texting you all day. Oh yeah, we're

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Speaker 5: gonna do this and that, this, that, and it never happened.

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Speaker 5: It's like, for some reason, when it's said, that means

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Speaker 10: I had out what you're doing? Ask nigga, that's gonna

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Speaker 1: I hate it?

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Speaker 3: What are we gonna do? Are you gonna play something?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 5: You know, just look what you're doing at seven? Let's

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Speaker 5: I got to get a baby sitter.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm having a ball. It's a lot of

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Speaker 5: And then I have a little tolerance for just stupid shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: something that you just like don't tolerate when a god

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Speaker 1: texts you or y'all exchange numbers. What is something that's

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Speaker 1: like a red flag that you cut that ship off

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Speaker 1: and did it in the water. Let me when I'm

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Speaker 1: when we're gonna chilling, because you want to.

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Speaker 5: Go it's a bunch of different ship like when we're

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Speaker 1: Oh, you know, if I didn't text you, right right

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Speaker 4: Ship going on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know.

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Speaker 5: You automatically say I'm texting other niggas or some dumb

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Speaker 1: You know, because they don't be having nothing to say.

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Speaker 5: It's not that they care but in the beginning, but

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Speaker 5: that's just still eternal. Also, if I say, you know,

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Speaker 10: I feel like real niggas make plans, real men make

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Speaker 10: plain Then you want to see me, and.

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Speaker 1: You serious about seeing me, and you serious about that, you're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna plan that ship. You're gonna hit me up and

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Speaker 3: be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you ready. I love when the niggas say, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is where we're meeting up. Yes, yes, okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And if it don't even have to be spending money,

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Speaker 5: it could be something different. Let's go meet up at

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Speaker 5: the park some ship, because they always making it about money, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: y'all want somebody to go all out on it. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: especially when it's somebody that you like, because you know

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Speaker 3: So I got a question, do you date niggas weak kids?

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Speaker 5: So if you have children like below five, that's the

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Speaker 5: See, it's different from me for y'all too, absolutely anyway, because.

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Speaker 5: So I really don't feel like y'all should be thinking

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Speaker 10: First, I'm mad, way, It's okay.

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Speaker 5: I'm like this, but sometimes them niggas don't be hating

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Speaker 1: Skin let go. So we'll just say that.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you know what it is.

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Speaker 1: Though, I'm not gonna lie. I don't want a man that,

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Speaker 10: Well, now, if you hate her, I like niggas who

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Speaker 3: I think you could do.

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Speaker 5: This is somebody who had a child for you. When

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Speaker 5: So if it's like he when it's confusion, that's when

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Speaker 1: Nine times out of ten, they're playing both sides. And

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Speaker 1: Now you have one.

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Speaker 5: But you're so vocal about what the fuck he was

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Speaker 1: Not doing with.

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Speaker 5: The first know what he told you?

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Speaker 1: You know what you think you see?

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Speaker 5: We could think we see a lot of ship that

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Speaker 10: For say that, I always say, I feel like when

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Speaker 1: I never he never talked shit about her to me, though,

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Speaker 1: I will say that because he was always very respectful.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that shit. You know why because I've

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Speaker 1: It couldn't be me.

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Speaker 3: Women do be thinking that they be above the bulls.

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Speaker 5: It's just your turn, everybody, just wait a second.

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Speaker 1: And then it kills me.

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Speaker 5: And it kills me because when they turn come, then

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Speaker 1: Yeah like me? Oh I would. I would our children

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Speaker 1: and sisters and they've been bit.

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Speaker 5: He wasn't in a high seat. Now I don't have

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Speaker 5: no hallo for you. They could be sisters.

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Speaker 1: It happens every time, and I think that just happens

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Speaker 1: And then you'd be like, well, he not gonna do

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Speaker 3: But that's what I said.

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Speaker 10: That's why I said with everything, because it ain't even

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Speaker 1: If you're cheating and everything, should just be thinking.

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Speaker 3: That they are.

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Speaker 5: But women hate each other like that's true, we hate

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Speaker 1: She said, she's she don't.

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Speaker 1: I feel like ye. But you gotta think about it.

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Speaker 1: The root of all break ups, the friendships.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna go into it about all this bitch ain't

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Speaker 1: Now, I do agree with that. I did say that

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Speaker 5: The breakups, the pettiness, everything is the competition because it.

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Speaker 10: But that's what I was gonna say. Sometimes y'all don't

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Speaker 3: Like I thinks.

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Speaker 1: About what we talked about earlier today, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about it. I've recently found out that

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Speaker 1: Period. Okay, y'all, let me finish the story because we

462
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Speaker 1: were talking about like women not getting on X y

463
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Speaker 1: Z and we said a lot of times to be

464
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Speaker 1: you know, jealousy. But I recently found out, like I

465
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Speaker 1: found this out like two weeks ago, a girl, I'm

466
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Speaker 1: I'm close with this girl. I'm close with this girl.

467
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Speaker 1: And when I say we close, it was like me

468
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Speaker 1: and this man, now we're friends, it's patonic friends. But

469
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Speaker 1: we dated and it didn't work out. But while we

470
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Speaker 1: were dating, like I really really liked him, and we

471
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Speaker 1: was going through something one time and I actually cried

472
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Speaker 1: to her about this man and me and him, like

473
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Speaker 1: we kicking it one day and he told me. He

474
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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I'm not gonna lie like it was

475
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Speaker 1: on some random ship. She had randomly hit me up,

476
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Speaker 1: like trying to you know, meet up and do. He

477
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Speaker 1: was like, and I'm not gonna I got fucked up.

478
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: I let her come through. We smashed. He was like,

479
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: and this shit got weird. He was like, she did

480
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: some weird shit and then he found out like she

481
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: was like messing with his homie. Which I knew she

482
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: was messing with this because we used to talk about that.

483
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: Long story short, you let me cry to you about

484
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: this nigga, and the whole time you knowing that you

485
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: had fucked this man and I say all that to say,

486
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: sometimes bitches don't necessarily be jealous. They won't show life.

487
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 1: They want what you're doing. I really am jealous. That's envious,

488
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Speaker 1: And we talked about that before on the show. We

489
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Speaker 1: talked about that on the show before. But I feel

490
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Speaker 1: like it was so weird to me because at the

491
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Speaker 1: end of the day, we all been knowing each other

492
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Speaker 1: for years. You've been knowing this nigga for years. I've

493
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Speaker 1: been doing this thing. I've been liked him for a

494
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Speaker 1: long time. But I you know, once we finally connected,

495
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Speaker 1: it was cool. Why all of a sudden now you

496
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: want to fuck him because you see what he doing

497
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Speaker 1: for me, and you see the time we haven't you

498
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Speaker 1: think he finna do that for you. I just had

499
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Speaker 1: this conversation with one of my partners.

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Speaker 5: Now, he don't have no children here, like thirty she'd

501
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 5: be like thirty five, thirty six.

502
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he not scissistic. He's an exactly.

503
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Speaker 5: I'll be trying to want the bitches, but this is

504
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Speaker 5: how I know that, you know, like, and this is

505
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Speaker 5: my real partner.

506
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Speaker 1: Women.

507
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Speaker 5: Bitches is poor, like just straight up bitches is poor.

508
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 5: So he always have this thing, well, you know he

509
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Speaker 5: fucked with. He might fuck with a girl. She'd be

510
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Speaker 5: you know, they be. He know how to date, he

511
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Speaker 5: know how to treat you, you know, but that's he

512
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Speaker 5: not sissistic. So if that girl is, he's he's overly

513
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Speaker 5: obsessed with control, you know, but controlling the way that yeah,

514
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Speaker 5: but control not not where you know that you know,

515
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Speaker 5: where you feel like you.

516
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Speaker 1: Control is like more of a way like.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I love him, you know what I'm saying. That's

518
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Speaker 5: the way he does wants human Yeah, so he he

519
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Speaker 5: have this thing with bitches and their friends and the

520
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Speaker 5: girl I didn't watch them fuck friends over and over

521
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Speaker 5: and I just would just I just couldn't fathom it

522
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Speaker 5: because I'm like me and my homegirls, like I could

523
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Speaker 5: really put.

524
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Speaker 1: My life on the line and say that, right.

525
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Speaker 5: But then at the same time, I be thinking, you know,

526
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Speaker 5: like I'm from the hood, so you know, me and

527
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Speaker 5: my girls probably have a conversation on some shit because

528
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Speaker 5: that's just where we come from. Like not even like, look,

529
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Speaker 5: this ain't no nigga. You did you know you you dating?

530
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Speaker 5: You serious with with this a nigga that you will

531
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 5: be getting money from. But look, he came at me

532
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Speaker 5: some kind of way so I think about you know,

533
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Speaker 5: like we get down like that.

534
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Speaker 1: That's that's think that you should have those conversations with

535
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Speaker 1: y'all friends. Period.

536
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Speaker 10: Me, I can honestly go on the line too inside

537
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Speaker 10: me and my friends, Me and none of my friends

538
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Speaker 10: ain't never the same.

539
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Speaker 1: If Draya even went on a day with a nigga

540
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Speaker 1: and he liked my picture, I'll be like girl vice

541
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Speaker 1: versa or any any any of my friends, like we

542
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Speaker 1: just what's you? What's my friend has went on a

543
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: date with you? You broke? You broke? Period?

544
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 5: Well, he he he's super obsessive with friendships.

545
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: And the girl was like betting him, like.

546
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 5: You could never fuck my friend, and you know, and

547
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 5: and and he fuck him every single time.

548
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: And then they caused them to get.

549
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 5: Into it, and and it's and I watch it happen

550
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Speaker 5: over and over. And then in the beginning when he

551
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 5: used to stay, I used to be like why, you know,

552
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 5: like why.

553
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: Would you do that? But he get a kick out

554
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: of it because bitch is really we really be saying, yes, we.

555
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 5: Really be saying not not my friend, not my friend,

556
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 5: but bitches our poorus. So I said that to say

557
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 5: the right play you look the right way. You know

558
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Speaker 5: you you looking like he doing.

559
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Speaker 1: Something for you.

560
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 5: Uh you know, uh, he looked like he could change

561
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Speaker 5: my situation.

562
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: If a nigga come at me like that.

563
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Speaker 5: Uh ccumsasses, I might have to do that because the

564
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Speaker 5: only way I myself. You know what I'm saying. Everybody

565
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 5: not like I'm not like.

566
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: That, but because before she been fucking with niggas that

567
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: got money on money on money. Yeah, but that's not

568
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: in you.

569
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 5: But that's that's I watched bitches all day. Look, I'll

570
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 5: be on I have offence that I'll be on bitches.

571
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: Damn my girl.

572
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 10: Well no, and I'll say I never had one of

573
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 10: my friends like fuck the nigga that I fucked before,

574
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 10: But I have had one of my friends going to

575
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 10: day with a nigga then, I I mean fucking nigga

576
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Speaker 10: that I went on to day weed.

577
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 5: I told you before, No after, I mean, if you

578
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 5: ain't care about them.

579
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,719
Speaker 1: I'll be feeling like do it matter though, because why

580
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: you're going for somebody.

581
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 3: Who is interested in me?

582
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

583
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 5: I don't want to talk to them about it this

584
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 5: because you know, like opportunity nigga from based off an opportunity,

585
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 5: like any boy i'd be when we get serious and

586
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 5: then he around and then y'all feel like y'all had

587
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 5: a thing before me, and it is awkward.

588
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I also feel like, like, like I said, with

589
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: my situation, I be posting a lot of stuff in

590
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: my close friends too, So I think it was a

591
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: lot of He was a very like good dater. He was.

592
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: He would always take me to like different spots, very creative,

593
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: and I think she liked that. I think she thought

594
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: that he was about to do that, like yeah, like

595
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: we was like we was was crazy. I don't even

596
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: know if she listened to the show or not, because

597
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: some of my friends listen to my friends don't. I

598
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: ain't even say nothing to her. I just haven't taught

599
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 1: to her. She doesn't text me, she's done d n me.

600
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 1: I don't got nothing to say because anymore, and me

601
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: and him are friends. But I see you, though, but exactly,

602
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: I see you, and I see how we moving forward

603
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: because this is my homeboy at this point, he got

604
00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. It didn't even like that no more, but

605
00:29:59,920 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: I see what type of bitch? Yeah, and I is

606
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Speaker 1: we just hung out like a month ago. We've hung

607
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: out a lot of times because Honestly, me and this

608
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: big used to fuck around. This happened honestly three years ago.

609
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: All this shit went down, like when they fucked and

610
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: me and him was talking. This was like three years ago.

611
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, you've been in my face

612
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Speaker 1: for three years and never said you know what, Lex, Like,

613
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614
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615
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620
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621
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635
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645
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Speaker 5: Not too much though, Okay, sometimes it just be draining,

646
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Speaker 5: what you know, going to something that happened, like repeating

647
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648
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649
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Speaker 3: Know, y'all.

650
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Speaker 10: Maybe I'm just petty because like now beat you gonna

651
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Speaker 10: now you see each other like with the food, Yeah,

652
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 10: we see each other beach and I know, I know

653
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 10: you fuck that, nigga, Why would you do that?

654
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Speaker 1: We are not, and I don't fuck with you.

655
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Speaker 10: But I'm a person I like people to know I

656
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 10: don't with them like one time too.

657
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Speaker 5: I feel like when I when I walk all over you,

658
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 5: I'm not acting like acting.

659
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Speaker 1: Like shit is cool like me. I just feel like

660
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel my absence an explanation. I don't owe

661
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: you nothing because you really in your heart felt like

662
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: that was okay. And one thing about me, I'm a

663
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: very nice person, especially when it comes to my friends, especially,

664
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm a soft heart. I don't have a big family.

665
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: My friends are my family. So with that situation, I

666
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: felt like a lot of times I feel like people

667
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: take advantage of that when it comes to me. So

668
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: you thought that it was gonna be like, okay, if

669
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: she ever does find out, we're gonna work through a bitch,

670
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: we ain't working through ship. I don't have no hello

671
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: for you. I don't got no hallow for you me.

672
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, the Marland stories, girl,

673
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: fuck you don't get into this first topic. We ain't

674
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,959
Speaker 1: even got to the topics yet. This is how I

675
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: know we haven't okay. We got to get a dreamy

676
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 1: look turning up. This is how I love this show.

677
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: It really be like family couch girl.

678
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 3: This is good time.

679
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So today we're gonna talk about for the first

680
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: because I saw a video and basically you were speaking

681
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: about how like titles don't really matter like when it

682
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: comes down to like a relationship, and I.

683
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,239
Speaker 3: Disagree me too a little bit.

684
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about like how you feel

685
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: about like the title and the thing, and maybe your

686
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: opinion has changed. Yeah, I think that video was like

687
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: probably like five years ago.

688
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 5: Okay, but yeah, and I really was being funny when

689
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 5: I say I know what I think.

690
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: I know what video you're talking about. When I was

691
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: like go with the floor.

692
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 10: It was a clip from your podcast podcast.

693
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: Oh, when I was saying about.

694
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 3: If you gotta ask a nigga what we.

695
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: Yet?

696
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Speaker 5: No, I do believe that though, like if cause if

697
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 5: I'm if we're vibing, why gotta constantly ex.

698
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 4: You what were doing?

699
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

700
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't think we have to constantly ask, But I

701
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 1: feel like what men will do though they want they

702
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 1: cake and eat it too. So if you're agreeing to

703
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: suck me, fuck me, I'm taking you on dates were

704
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: going And this is for a lot of men in

705
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: my situations. I can speak for I can't speak for

706
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: all women. I will be in a situation when a

707
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: man he's spending money on me, we going on dates,

708
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: he's taking me out the country, and sometimes they may

709
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: be necessarily like, don't want a girlfriend. So then I'll

710
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: step in. I'll be like this, okay, so what are we?

711
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: What are we doing? Because if not, I'm gonna go

712
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: outside because I know at this age, I'm looking for companionship,

713
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: all right. I'm very straightforward when I date now, I'm like, hey,

714
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,760
Speaker 1: I'm looking for companionship. I want to build something with somebody.

715
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: I want a husband, eventually, I want to have kids.

716
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, but I'm very forward. So a

717
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: lot of times if you don't speak cup and say nothing,

718
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: they're gonna be like, oh shit, well she cool with

719
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: being a friends with benefits. Well I know I gotta

720
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: do X y Z to keep her, but I don't

721
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: mind doing that. And I'm like, no, I need I

722
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: need clarity.

723
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 10: And I do feel like you put the pressure on

724
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 10: a nigga a little bit too, because not saying niggas

725
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 10: ain't still gonna do whatever the fuck they want to do, right,

726
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 10: But I feel like if he know you in a relationship,

727
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 10: he knows that, Like, Okay, if I'm in a relationship

728
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 10: with her, I'm cheating, versus if we just dating and

729
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 10: we don't have no titles, I could fuck with you

730
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 10: and fuck with other bitshites, right, I could make it

731
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 10: be like I mean, well, we didn't never have no

732
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 10: conversation about this, right, But I.

733
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 5: Ain't mean it like I'm saying, Like if you if

734
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 5: we have a conversation in the beginning and you say,

735
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,479
Speaker 5: I see that you just down for fun, you ain't

736
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 5: really ready for commit me, and I go for the ride.

737
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I'm liking all of

738
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: the things that you get, you're doing. We're dating, you.

739
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 5: Know, we going here and now I can't why I'm

740
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 5: not letting it go with why I'm not going with

741
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 5: the floor instead of complicating a situation when he told

742
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 5: me in the beginning that's what it was.

743
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: I agree with you. But a lot of men don't.

744
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't.

745
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: They won't lie because I'm not gonna lie. I feel

746
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: like I'm that bitch I show up on a date

747
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: with a man he been trying to date me for

748
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 1: a long time, or even if he just seen me

749
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 1: x y Z'd be a lot of you know what

750
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying, And I say, I'm sitting in front of

751
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 1: you smelling good.

752
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 5: It is sitting ass spoken.

753
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: I got my chanelle on. You've seen me hair lay,

754
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: make up beat, and I'm like, yeah, like I'm looking

755
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: for x y z. He don't see nothing. This man

756
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: may be looking for something, or he may just be

757
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: looking to fuckack the day. Whatever I say, he's like, Okay,

758
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm looking for that too. They're gonna lie because that

759
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: man wants me so bad. You know, times I have

760
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: sat at a dinner table and a man will be like, man,

761
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: I really like you. You don't even know. Yeah, But

762
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: and that's what I know. Men will sit across from

763
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: you because they want you so bad. And I don't

764
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: even say won't you as far as like really won't you?

765
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: They want to either fuck or they just want to

766
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: be in your world. They want something from you, and

767
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: they will lie.

768
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 5: But that's why I always talk about us being authentically us,

769
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 5: because a lot of times we lie the most regardless

770
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 5: of the situation. Like not not in a relationship, but

771
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 5: in the beginning, when we first started sucking with a

772
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 5: nigga then we see how he is, then we try

773
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 5: to mimic where he likes.

774
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: Now that's true, and we.

775
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 5: Know we not like that, and so it's only so

776
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 5: long that we can do that because it's you know.

777
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 10: But see, y'all feel like everybody do that because I

778
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 10: feel like niggas bring forth the represented in the first

779
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 10: few months like this.

780
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:47,240
Speaker 5: No, no, but they will they show their hand way before,

781
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 5: like they'll say, because.

782
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 1: That's why niggas get what they want.

783
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 5: Niggas be like I do, I want a bad bad nigga, be fat, ugly, cheesy,

784
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 5: but they got money and they get a bad time.

785
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 5: But we tend to their potential and stuff because we'd

786
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 5: be make pretending like.

787
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: We we dad, we this and that.

788
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 5: You bet you know you never cooked, like why you

789
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 5: inside playing on the sto.

790
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 1: You would make a cheese and you add some bacon

791
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: in there? You talk be for real?

792
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 3: I good questioning. I want to know to how do

793
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 3: y'all feel like?

794
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 10: Do y'all feel like sometimes women like be wanting certain

795
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 10: type of niggas or have certain qualifications, but they don't

796
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 10: meet the standard today the type of niggas that they want.

797
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: Yay, okay, I'll say this and maybe this is just

798
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: me trauma dumping. Yes, I do agree, but I can

799
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: always say because I was that girl, I was that

800
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 1: girl that had three dollars in her pocket and a

801
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: bad wig. But I still knew what I wanted when

802
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: it came to a man, I didn't say necessarily I

803
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 1: wanted a nigga worth five hundred million dollars, but I

804
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: wanted a nigga who was gonna put me on some games,

805
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: provide help me upgrades, and that's what I got. I

806
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: always demanded that. But I feel like I knew what

807
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: I had to bring to the table. I knew, like

808
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,800
Speaker 1: you said, sometimes we fought for potential, but my potential

809
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: was real. I knew I was gonna get there regardless.

810
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: So I knew.

811
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 3: But you don't feel like.

812
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: Everybody feel like the potentially. I feel like a lot

813
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: of people, not women. I feel like a lot of

814
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: people be capping. That's why I say, I don't think

815
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: that's a man or woman thing. A lot if you're

816
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: sometimes niggas, No, I'm never gonna be the nigga making

817
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: this money. I'm never gonna be that romantic nigga. Y'all

818
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: be knowing, y'all be trying to stunt. I knew my

819
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: shit was real, so I feel like that's a little

820
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: bit of the difference. Like I knew maybe people felt

821
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: like I wasn't qualified to day the type of man

822
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: I date. But a real nigga saw me, A real nigga,

823
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 1: and I talk about him all the time, A real nigga.

824
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: I was talking about big pop all the time. A

825
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: real nigga saw me upgrade in my life. Yeah, and

826
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: he helped me for real. And I feel like when

827
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: you real and you authentically you, people gonna see that

828
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: and they're gonna relate and they're gonna fuck with it.

829
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: Show me. But sometimes women, yeah.

830
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 10: Yeah, because we talk about potential, were talking about in

831
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 10: real at that moment.

832
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 4: That's you for kids, you know. I feel like that sometimes,

833
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 4: like oh.

834
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I might find a But that's why

835
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 5: it's a certain age that I suk with, you know

836
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. But I attract a younger age, and

837
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 5: that bothers me so much because I know that I like,

838
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 5: I like allis.

839
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: Walk a little because barbecue Sam, you know what I'm saying.

840
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 1: Let me let me, you know, show you some stuff

841
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: like some young ship. Yeah. But you know what, going

842
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: back to your question, I feel like sometimes women they

843
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: want to and I'm only speaking from a woman's perspective.

844
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 10: Because you were saying you this is why you like

845
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 10: to you don't like when young niggas approach you because.

846
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't think we really have nothing in

847
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 5: comment like I'm I'm way too mature, you know, and

848
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 5: I'm my expectations.

849
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 4: Is way above whatever you could do.

850
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 5: But then you know a nigga that, I mean, I

851
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 5: don't I don't feel like I feel like I can

852
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 5: get in a nigga that I won't like we just

853
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 5: regardless of the situation. But I do feel like sometimes,

854
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 5: you know, certain niggas do look at alright, she got

855
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 5: four kids, you know, especially a nigga that don't have nothing,

856
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 5: So you know that that that's that put me out there,

857
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 5: you know, But I might be a nice vibe, you know.

858
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: And then no way, no, I don't know.

859
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 5: I'm saying, like, you know, a nigga that got everything,

860
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 5: you know, but maybe don't have no children, okay, and

861
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 5: then I have four, you know, so that that that

862
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 5: put me out there, you know, because I can understand

863
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 5: that you want us a fresh family. You don't want

864
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 5: a ready made family. And I get that.

865
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: So but we you know, we're friends.

866
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 5: We were still you know, kicking or whatever. But so

867
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 5: I do I agree with what you said.

868
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like with your perspective, it comes from

869
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: having kids, and like you know, sometimes like a man

870
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: will probably, like you said, count you out just because

871
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: of your your kids or whatever, not because of your

872
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: vibe or you know, you do well for yourself and

873
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: x y Z sometimes And like I said, I was

874
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: speaking from a woman's perspective, and that's what the thought

875
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna say earlier. Women sometimes, Oh I hope

876
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: I don't get in trouble. They date out of their

877
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: league because another time they're looking at Instagram. They're looking

878
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 1: with this bitch, they're looking with that. But you're not.

879
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 1: You don't. You don't care about that stuff. You ain't

880
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: never seen a Kelly bag of Burking bags. You've seen

881
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: young Miami, and all of a sudden, now you care

882
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: about it. This is not who you are at the core, right,

883
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 1: You're not you. You never even tried what you steak

884
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you want it with the truffle.

885
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: But but now.

886
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 10: To that line, I ain't even about that, though, I

887
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 10: disagree because I feel like as a person who like

888
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 10: I grew up for like the first half of my life,

889
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 10: I grew up in the hood too, and then my

890
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 10: parents was able to like we move to the suburbs

891
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 10: or whatever. But like I wasn't necessarily exposed to certain shit,

892
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 10: either as a child or like grew up liking certain shit.

893
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 10: I know about a wagoof stak till like five years ago.

894
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 10: But when I had that sheit, I was like, I

895
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 10: like it, and they don't have nothing to do with

896
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 10: other btes like this shit.

897
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: Actually, type of men that always attracted out the gate

898
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: was men who wanted to introduce you to more.

899
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 3: But it's not about me.

900
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 10: And the point that I'm making is certain things I

901
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,439
Speaker 10: introduced my own stelf to. I think you can grow

902
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 10: as a person and realize I like this. It does

903
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 10: not have to be influenced always by other people.

904
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm just talking from the perspective that you were talking

905
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: about as far as women trying to date men that

906
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: are the league, That's what I'm talking about. So that's

907
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 1: what I'm speaking on. I agree with you one thousand percent.

908
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: I always tell the story about how I started liking

909
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: Louis time because my mom was into it. I grew

910
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: up very fucking spoiled, and I always and then I

911
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 1: moved Helena, and I was fucking broke. So I had

912
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 1: the strung. I had the both ends of it. And

913
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 1: then I had a man who introduced me to different

914
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: type of things, and then I had friends who introduced

915
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: me to different things, and then I was able to

916
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: introduce myself to different things that I never even knew.

917
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: I like, I get that point of view, but I'm

918
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: talking about what you said as far as a woman

919
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: seeing a man or seeing things that they want that

920
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: you know, like, I feel the same way as far

921
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: as Okay, let me say this, Well, I'm a man.

922
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: When you're out of a man like you feel like

923
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: some niggas don't need to holler at me. You feel

924
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: the same way some of the men don't because I'm

925
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 1: not in your lead. I feel like men have that

926
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: same right.

927
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 10: No, But I'm more so meant just like not material things,

928
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 10: cause I think all women don't even care about material things.

929
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 10: Every woman don't want a man to buy them a

930
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 10: burkin or buy them right Louis a hun bag or

931
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 10: over the case maybe, but.

932
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 3: I think every woman want a man who can't provide.

933
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 10: Every woman wants a man who could take care of

934
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 10: the household and.

935
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 3: All that shit. But I think that women definitely just be.

936
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 10: Sometimes reaching out of their league because it's like you like, oh,

937
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 10: I only want a nigga that make one hundred and

938
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 10: fifty thousand dollars a year, What do you do?

939
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: I mean, no, No, that's what they know. That's what

940
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: they be saying. It's they do help.

941
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 10: But I feel like a lot of bitches got good

942
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,479
Speaker 10: pause these bitches who got money.

943
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: That's true. But like I said, I feel like I

944
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 1: talked to about this earlier, we get in trouble today. Really,

945
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: I don't like the bad bitch mentality. I hate this

946
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:55,439
Speaker 1: show bad Do you feel me a lot of bad

947
00:45:55,480 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: bitches that it's annoying. It's the mentality of a a

948
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: quote unquote bad bitch. Okay. I know y'all about to

949
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: be in kind of what is a bad bitch? Okay?

950
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: To me? This is my definition of a bad bitch.

951
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: A bad bage to me is like, honestly, if you

952
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: scroll back and look at me, Andrea's all pictures of

953
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: things where you suppose the girls in the bikinis, booty eye,

954
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: they always on vacation. You don't know exactly what they

955
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: do for a living. They we know what they do.

956
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: I mean we know, but honestly, I don't even put

957
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: myself in that category, cause y'all know what I do.

958
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: When it's when you see a girl and she got

959
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: all the things, beautiful, small waists, fat ass got on

960
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: the birkins, the red bottles and this and this. I'm

961
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: not talking about. You know, I'm not dissing all these women,

962
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: but a lot of times Dave in town, they will

963
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: fuck with anybody. They don't have a lot of times

964
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm keeping it real. I'm putting y'all too much game.

965
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 1: They don't have morals and don't have nothing.

966
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 5: You know how many bad bitches who houses I went

967
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 5: to empty?

968
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: You know how many babbages I seen who they driving

969
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: around in a Bentley and this is this and y

970
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,760
Speaker 1: z and they just why are you driving a Bentley

971
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 1: in an apartment complex? Make it makes sense? In a CPN. Hello,

972
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: this lifestyle control, it's gotten out of control. We talked

973
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: about this earlier and I really hate to say this,

974
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: and like I said, I feel like all women. I

975
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: don't like to use the word bitch and babbage. I

976
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: don't want to fear nobody. Yeah, but I just I

977
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: really feel like we have lost the plot. Ladies. We

978
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: have lost the plot.

979
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 3: We've lost it.

980
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: We lost it because you know when we talk on

981
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: this show, I feel like we contributed. I say this

982
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: all the time because A B B. But fuck with

983
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 1: somebody who fucks with you at base level. Stop fucking

984
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: with niggas that you really you don't even like this nigga,

985
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: you don't even like this man. But like I said,

986
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: bitch is a poor and you know.

987
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 3: Back so like I was saying, bit I call you.

988
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like, you know, so Instagram is just is

989
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 5: that's right in front of us. So we gonna at

990
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 5: one point.

991
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying that because I don't want to

992
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: feel people. So I know, like I know them.

993
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 5: I know the mental I can look at what you

994
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 5: post all day and I can see exactly what your

995
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 5: mind trying.

996
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,760
Speaker 3: To get you.

997
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: And I say, and I say this all time. Lexpe

998
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: went through that, so y'all ain't got to go through there.

999
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: This is not that's not what your bone. That is

1000
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: really not what I want us to get back to doing.

1001
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: Our own ship and being bosses. Now, I'm not. I'm

1002
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: not an independent bitch. I want to make.

1003
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 5: I want to stay there alone. I'm gonna do my

1004
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 5: own thing. I won't have my own motion.

1005
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: I want to you know. But yeah, y'all call me

1006
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: a pick me all your bone. I don't give a fuck.

1007
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: I want partnership. I want to make, but I'm paying

1008
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: in case that ship.

1009
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 13: Don't you know?

1010
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 5: I could still do my own thing, like nobody can't send.

1011
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: Me back the way?

1012
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 8: Hello, I ain't going I'm not going back Stebee, she's.

1013
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: Out to Justlyn Okay, hond on, y'all we having a time, y'all?

1014
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: Are we already love when we have people on the show,

1015
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: We just be back, Okay. So we had to bring

1016
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: this up because I'm so curious about this because I

1017
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: have somebody that I'm cool with and she has a son,

1018
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: and her son's father is in a new relationship and

1019
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: he's like engaged his new relationship. She's pregnant. You know,

1020
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: they're probably gonna get married whatever x y Z. And

1021
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: he calls the step mom mama blank mama her name.

1022
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: So I want to know, because I have dated men

1023
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 1: with children, how do you feel about kids calling another

1024
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: person mom. I don't like it, even if it's a

1025
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 1: step mom and they're doing everything they treat your kid amazing.

1026
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 3: You.

1027
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: But okay, I agree.

1028
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 10: I don't have kids yet, but my kid ask you this.

1029
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: Come on, Lex, go ahead if you okay, say you

1030
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: have another man that steps here in right and you

1031
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: and your baby daddy stops. I don't want them calling

1032
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:25,280
Speaker 1: them baby.

1033
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 5: But but I mean he still has he can look

1034
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 5: at him as a father figure.

1035
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: Okay, but he can't ever call him that because he

1036
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna say he can't. You know what,

1037
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it back. It's how you feel. Don't

1038
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: coach my children to call you mama.

1039
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna coach my children to call up my

1040
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 5: you know, my significant other daddy. If that's what you feel,

1041
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 5: then that's different.

1042
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: Like my my last son, my little girl daddy.

1043
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 5: He been there for since the birth of my since

1044
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 5: the beginning of my divorce, well since before that.

1045
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: You know, I knew him longer and I knew my husband.

1046
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 5: So he been there for the birth of my son,

1047
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 5: who's ten years old. None, and I mean, he don't

1048
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 5: call him daddy, but he acknowledged him as that. If

1049
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 5: somebody asks who is that, he said, that's my daddy,

1050
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 5: you know, but he don't say he don't call him daddy,

1051
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 5: and I don't make him because that's not what he feel.

1052
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: When he feel that, he'll say that.

1053
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 5: But he acknowledge him, you know, as that without anybody

1054
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 5: saying that. You know, he tell all his friends, Oh,

1055
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 5: I got two days, that's my daddy right there. You know,

1056
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 5: he don't see no difference. He don't see nothing wrong

1057
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 5: with it. Is nothing that raises the red flag to him,

1058
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 5: but he just don't naturally call it to him. It

1059
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 5: could be because all of us call him his name,

1060
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, So that I would never

1061
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 5: just coach him, Oh that's your dad, you know, I

1062
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 5: don't he tell his his biological daddy. Oh my daddy

1063
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 5: did such and such. My daddy brought me that, you

1064
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. So that's fine, but like just

1065
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 5: make it for you know, trying to enforce something a

1066
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 5: title just for the sake of your security is not.

1067
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 3: You feel like, but people be all here doing it like.

1068
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: Theyforce it. But I do also feel like we as

1069
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: humans have bucked up the family dynamic. It used to

1070
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: be one mom and one dad. Now y'all are getting

1071
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: married and people are getting and with us as a woman,

1072
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,319
Speaker 1: even because you're you're divorced. You know, my sister was married.

1073
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: She was yeh beat But it's what happens. We've learned,

1074
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: you know what, you can walk away. You know you

1075
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: know this, this and that.

1076
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 3: We the dynamic. We learned to stay in the situation.

1077
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: We agree. So it just depends how you looked at

1078
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: how you look at it, because it used to be

1079
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 1: this is my family. I got one mama and one

1080
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: dad against what It's not that no more because we've

1081
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: learned to walk away. Now when you learn to walk away,

1082
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: it's things that come with that. It's remarriage. He got

1083
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 1: a step mama, now he gotta so I feel like

1084
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: it's okay to have a bonus mom. And you say Mama,

1085
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,479
Speaker 1: Drea or you know this is this is my mom too.

1086
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: I got this mom, but I'm not gonna forget about

1087
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: this is my mom. But if I want to call

1088
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: you mom, I don't see the problem with it.

1089
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 5: It's not a problem, you know, if it's the real

1090
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 5: family dynamic. Were talking about niggas that just be going

1091
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 5: get a random bitch sometimes got up pregnant and here

1092
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 5: she here for and we we know this nigga, So

1093
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 5: it's not real to me because bitch, it wasn't real

1094
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,880
Speaker 5: with me and you, and we've been together longer than

1095
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 5: you knew this bitch, so I know you know what

1096
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 5: I'm saying. We're talking about patterns for real. So for

1097
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 5: you to just come and want to come in and say, oh, yeah,

1098
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 5: this is mama whatever, and I know this bitch ain't

1099
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 5: gonna be here longer than six.

1100
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 3: Months, right, Niggas be trying it because they do.

1101
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 1: Some niggas.

1102
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 10: I'm like, that's more so we don't know. I was

1103
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 10: because I got a cousin who be doing this.

1104
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 3: She's too.

1105
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 10: Cause I'm gonna say, I think it's more so of

1106
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 10: a nigga thing to like bring women around.

1107
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: Yo.

1108
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 10: He's you know that you might not be in a

1109
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 10: serious situation where her you know, they might not be wrong.

1110
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 3: But I'm like women, women be doing this shit too.

1111
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 1: They I mean women will uh literally, And I don't

1112
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: want to make this a woman and the man thing.

1113
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: I think it's a people thing.

1114
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 3: It just depends.

1115
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, people will do that. It depends on the type

1116
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: of person that you're dealing with, because I feel like,

1117
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 1: if you want your child to call the step mother

1118
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 1: or the stepfather mom or dad, you need to know

1119
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 1: that this person going to be here, because the only

1120
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: person you're hurting is your child. Because I can speak

1121
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,360
Speaker 1: from that point of view, because you know, I lost

1122
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: my dad at a very young age. I don't even

1123
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: remember my dad, but my mom was. She was in

1124
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: a relationship with a guy and she and they had

1125
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: to sit down and talk with us. That was like,

1126
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,240
Speaker 1: and she said the same thing, if y'all feel comfortable

1127
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 1: calling him dad, call him dad. If y'all don't, don't.

1128
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Speaker 1: My sister was like, that ain't my daddy. Because my

1129
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: sister remembered her dad, She's like, that ain't my daddy,

1130
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:49,879
Speaker 1: so she still called him. I was like, I was like, dadadaddad,

1131
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: Dad Dad.

1132
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 5: I lost my dad at an early age too, and

1133
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 5: my mama.

1134
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: Didn't have different men, you know.

1135
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,359
Speaker 5: So yeah, I have a stepdaddy and I consider him

1136
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 5: to be my day. Everybody, that's my daddy. Everybody know,

1137
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 5: that's my daddy. Boy, I don't call him daddy, right.

1138
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: You see, For me, it was a weird situation. Because

1139
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: I called him dad, and then once him and my

1140
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: mom broke up, that nigga disappeared and so about Yeah,

1141
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: and you know, and I think I look at things

1142
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: a little differently because I've been through that. But I've

1143
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 1: also dated somebody, you know with the child, and I

1144
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: was just like, I mean, obviously we never got even

1145
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: close to that point of the child calling me mom

1146
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: or anything like that. But I'm not gonna lie if

1147
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: I was married to a man. I don't care what

1148
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 1: you call me, but I do want you to look

1149
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: at me like a mother figure. I want you to

1150
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: know that I'm here for you. And I think they

1151
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 1: can come with building a relationship. Yeah, I see so

1152
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: many bitter baby daddies and bitter baby mama's. Let that

1153
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 1: person be there for your child. It takes a village, Okay,

1154
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: So if somebody wants to help raise your child, let them.

1155
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: Oh he got a daddy. He does have a daddy,

1156
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: but he's blessed enough to have a bonus dad, right,

1157
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: some people have none. I think, Uh.

1158
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 5: I would like to talk about the baby mama baby

1159
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 5: daddy ship and the family dynamics only because it's so

1160
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 5: many different compartments, you know, like everybody's story different. You know,

1161
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 5: it's not like a general situation because then we see

1162
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 5: so many step parents, girls letting men in who doing

1163
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,760
Speaker 5: fatherly seemingly good fatherly dudes and didn't kill any children,

1164
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 5: you know what I'm.

1165
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 3: Saying, molisting them.

1166
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:38,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I can understand why everybody be on high alert. Yeah,

1167
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 5: with you know, different scenarios and stuff. But I do

1168
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 5: agree with you, like, you know, if it's it's healthy,

1169
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 5: then that's a different story. But like, that's why, that's

1170
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 5: the only reason I hate talking about that, because everybody got.

1171
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,360
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1172
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1173
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Speaker 10: So now eat time to get into the b bow

1206
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Speaker 10: bow bow bow a bow bow bow. I look for

1207
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Speaker 10: the bed topic we really wanted to talk about, like

1208
00:58:55,400 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 10: do you think holding out one six holds power in

1209
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 10: twenty twenty three?

1210
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: Like do it matter?

1211
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 3: Or is the nigga still gonna do what he want

1212
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 3: to do. I feel like niggas is gonna niggas.

1213
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 10: If a nigga want the pussy that bad, it's just

1214
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 10: my opinion, he gonna wait.

1215
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 3: In giddy and me and still be a fuck nigga exactly.

1216
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: I don't think it mattered. Honestly, I agree. I'm gonna

1217
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: tell y'all something. These niggas and got smarter and got

1218
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: on my game.

1219
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 2: I hate to say I'm putting niggas off too much.

1220
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: Gay, Hey, the value of pussy has gone down because

1221
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 1: you don't fuck the game. No, they did.

1222
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 5: They fussed up, they said the other day, they made

1223
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 5: a whole video and they're like, bitches, pussy ain't gone down,

1224
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 5: y'all just selling it round.

1225
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, Nah, guess as bad as we all are,

1226
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: as beautiful as we all are, a niggas gonna get

1227
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: a bitch that looks just like us.

1228
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:57,959
Speaker 3: And she gonna she's gonna go now because why she poor?

1229
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: She gonna go. And it's like she looks just like.

1230
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 3: Just like, she looks just like, I can't a difference.

1231
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: All the difference is she got a synthetic.

1232
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 3: Way and he ain't gonna know the difference.

1233
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: And he ain't gonna know the difference. This is the

1234
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: reason I feel like now, I feel like, as far

1235
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: as me I go Lex twenty twenty three. I hold

1236
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: out a little bit sometimes. But let me tell you why,

1237
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: because I want a deeper connection the type of shit

1238
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:36,919
Speaker 1: I'm into. I realized I am turning into the woman

1239
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna be. I have my erarors.

1240
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 1: I didn't know who I was. Now I know who

1241
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: I am. I know what I enjoyed. And for a

1242
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 1: nigga to really get to that, we gotta date, we

1243
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: gotta be friends. We gotta figure this shit out. I can't.

1244
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I'm not trying to hold out

1245
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: to get something. I'm just trying to see where is

1246
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: this going for you? You know what I'm saying. But

1247
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: women be trying to like hold out and use it

1248
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: as like a little like a little bar system a little. Yeah,

1249
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, It's don't matter that these

1250
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: niggas if you don't fuck him because you're trying to

1251
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: get a bad guess what, he's gonna fuck this bitch.

1252
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: You all you just want to go to Noble and

1253
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: Malibu and that's cheaper than he gonna come back and

1254
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 1: he gonna you know, is it saying you because you're

1255
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: gonna see guess what? Oh, he took another bitch to Malibu. Okay,

1256
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: well let me just see what he's talking about. I

1257
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: mean we had fun. Yeah, I mean it was. I

1258
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: don't even think we just think like that. I think think.

1259
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 1: I think no, I think they're just on go period, Like, oh,

1260
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: he you don't a nigga this thing. It is so

1261
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: easy for niggas to do anything these days.

1262
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 5: Like because y'all niggas don't even have to have it.

1263
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 5: You just gotta look like you have talk and bitches

1264
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 5: is gonna go. So it's so easy for y'all to

1265
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 5: to get pussy. It's so easy for y'all homeless motherfuckers

1266
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 5: to get have a place to stay homeless mother like,

1267
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 5: we gotta tight. It's easy for well not we not

1268
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 5: the three of us not good. Listen, it's rough.

1269
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 1: It's rough outside, and I feel like the value of

1270
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 1: it used to be so like you can hold out

1271
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 1: and the nigga gonna bend over backwards like he gonna.

1272
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, A nigga gonna bup, bend

1273
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: over backwards if he fuck with you, like he really

1274
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: got a light. You used to just hold on the pussy.

1275
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: Nigga don't even know your last What happens to chivalry?

1276
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: Like I feel like women don't make men worship what

1277
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: nigga your friend? Hello? Hello girl? Fuck you show up

1278
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: to the show if you want to. I'm a security

1279
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: if I'll see that. Hell, oh my god. But exactly,

1280
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 1: but you said it right, Like I just feel like,

1281
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: oh man, this is really I'm not ragging on women today.

1282
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: That's not what we do. I don't think we are,

1283
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: but I just know I think that.

1284
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 5: I think that women we just need to get to,

1285
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 5: you know, just like the root of our childhood trauma

1286
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 5: and just getting to who we are and what we

1287
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 5: want because we be so focused on what a nigga

1288
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 5: won't right, you know, we go from I think we

1289
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 5: taught different too, Like we taught to find one man

1290
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 5: like into him, you know, because if we date multiple niggas,

1291
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 5: then we hold you know, but niggas all the while

1292
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 5: they're finding who they won't and we lock into one nigga,

1293
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 5: and then we locked into this ride or died. Now

1294
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 5: we felt like we didn't put in so much time

1295
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 5: with this one nigga. Now we gotta stick with it.

1296
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 5: We unhappy as the motherfucker. Now we building on unhappiness

1297
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 5: and all of this other extra shit and the struggle

1298
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 5: and everything else, when really we had ampler opportunity to

1299
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:57,439
Speaker 5: just date, you know, find our our right partner. Yeah,

1300
01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 5: but we really don't free up that space because of

1301
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 5: like society and how everybody is hire. Everybody look at us.

1302
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 5: So then that make us, you know, try to make

1303
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 5: it look like it is what it ain't. We may

1304
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 5: pretend and we be unhappy as the motherfucker. We'd be miserable.

1305
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 5: We don't have ship poor, you know, And then now

1306
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 5: we gotta do on the back end, do ship like that.

1307
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 5: Fuck you know, fuck other niggas, you know, look for

1308
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 5: the show. We because we didn't spend so much time

1309
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 5: on the on the front end, trying to make it

1310
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 5: look like it really ain't right, And.

1311
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: That's why I said, I think we need to go

1312
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 1: back to putting pressure like these niggas need to applot

1313
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: pressure again. Niggas don't want to plot pressure no more,

1314
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 1: because then the benches for real. They want to be

1315
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 1: dating and and and you know, they want to be corded.

1316
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: They want to be courted like girls be like I

1317
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: want to I want roses. I want the fuck You

1318
01:04:56,440 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: don't even know what a tulip is? The fuck are

1319
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: you talking about? You want? You want fucking tulips? Since win?

1320
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: Do niggas care? Do y'all care about getting fucking roses?

1321
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 13: No?

1322
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 7: I don't.

1323
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, I'm not lying to you

1324
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: real ship on the first day, I want a man

1325
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: to bring me roses I do. I want you to

1326
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 1: feel like man, I gotta step up to the fucking

1327
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: plate because I'm going on a date with whoever your

1328
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,760
Speaker 1: whatever your name is. I'm going on a date with Keisha,

1329
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: and I need to show the fuck up. I'm going

1330
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: on a date with Molly. I need to show up

1331
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: for her. I don't care who you are, what race

1332
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: you are. These men need to feel like I need

1333
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: to bring out all the stops and I need to

1334
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: be consistent with it.

1335
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 5: I love that for you because you know what, like

1336
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 5: I be too I be too cool, like you know,

1337
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 5: I think it's where I come from. I be too chill,

1338
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:55,880
Speaker 5: and I don't be worrying about ship.

1339
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: You know, like I need to stop. What do you

1340
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: expect on your first date? I mean, just vibes in fun?

1341
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 5: I don't really expect, like it's not about listening, I

1342
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 5: guess because of.

1343
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: Just experience, It's about the vibe.

1344
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 5: If I cannot vibe with you, I don't really give

1345
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:18,439
Speaker 5: a fuck what we at for real, I'm not even

1346
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 5: gonna hold you like well, you know what I think

1347
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 5: because of my past, the makeup of it don't really

1348
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 5: matter to me. But it's crazy because afterwards it does.

1349
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 10: You don't have something like on your first day because yeah,

1350
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 10: because okay, I don't know if you be on Twitter,

1351
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 10: but it was this list that was on Twitter and

1352
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 10: it had went viral and like basically they were saying,

1353
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 10: like thieves are the place the day's unexceptable for your

1354
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 10: first day, and it was like maybe fifty things on

1355
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 10: the list, but it was like Applebee's.

1356
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna lie.

1357
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:01,439
Speaker 1: I'm down for anything creative. Yeah. Yeah, everybody was getting

1358
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: on my ass because I was like, this is valid.

1359
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:06,439
Speaker 1: The church a family function. I'm not going to church.

1360
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,439
Speaker 1: I'm not going to meet your gym to the gym.

1361
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:13,479
Speaker 1: You gotta know. I feel like, and I'm a gym girl.

1362
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to me too. But you're

1363
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 1: not taking me to the gym on the first day

1364
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 1: because number one, what is you trying to say? Yeah,

1365
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: you're trying to see him fat. I just wanted already

1366
01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 1: and you should pull out all the stocks. And when

1367
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 1: I say pull out all the stocks, it doesn't matter

1368
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: how much money you spent, did you get creative? I

1369
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: don't want to every day?

1370
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 5: Why it's the it's the thoughts. It's not the thought

1371
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 5: that comes because I made a video about that. Like,

1372
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 5: you know, people buy you gifts and with no thought injoy,

1373
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 5: but didn't want you to be grateful for it. Like,

1374
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 5: it's the thought that count.

1375
01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 1: No bitch that I said, I like pink, Why the

1376
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 1: funk would you bring me? You know, like I've been talked.

1377
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 5: You're supposed to listen to what people say, and you know,

1378
01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 5: base your gift off of those things. That's when it's

1379
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 5: the all that con you don't just give a bitch

1380
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 5: what if I give you a tool box?

1381
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1382
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 5: So I don't mean like it's the thought that counts

1383
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 5: like creative, Like you said, if you put thought into it,

1384
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 5: then I'm like okay, because you could be showing me

1385
01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 5: something that I never you know, as a hood bitch.

1386
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: A picnic is just like oh he was I told

1387
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: you this to night, like my favorite thing to do,

1388
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 1: Like we go to the park and smoke like week,

1389
01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: listen to some music because I'm a big music here.

1390
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: It's like we get it's like you really wanted to

1391
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: enjoy my company, like iful day. Yeah, I think that too.

1392
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 3: You know, the standard has become like you gotta take

1393
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 3: me to a steak anywhere fancy.

1394
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:48,759
Speaker 1: But that's.

1395
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 10: Mentality and that's not thoughtful because obviously I think niggas

1396
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 10: have all gathered together, they done have a nigga meeting,

1397
01:08:57,600 --> 01:08:58,719
Speaker 10: and they like, we're.

1398
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 3: Gonna take bitches to steakhouse. What we're gonna do.

1399
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:02,679
Speaker 1: It's not even thoughtful no more.

1400
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 3: Now if you take me to like a candle making.

1401
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: Days, I understand think that bitch is that through standards.

1402
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: I think niggas don't even give up. But that's why

1403
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: that's where I fucked you. Yeah, I'm but I feel

1404
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 1: like a lot of times people look at me and

1405
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: dress certain way because when they released that list, I said,

1406
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: ninety eight percent of this list like it's bullshit, and

1407
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: people's on my ass. They was like, oh my god,

1408
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: But I'm like, y'all didn't. I didn't even go into

1409
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 1: detail what I like my like. I like creative dates.

1410
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: I want to go to a rooftop watching orchestra. I

1411
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 1: told her, Like, my second date with the guy was dating.

1412
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: We went on the second date to see like a

1413
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 1: rooftop WA. Tickets was twenty dollars apiece. He spent forty

1414
01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 1: dollars on the day and we had a ball. I

1415
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:47,000
Speaker 1: don't want to eat. Why every time we hang out

1416
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: we gotta fucking eat? No, I'm for real. Why they're

1417
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: always based around food? Like she said, let's go make

1418
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 1: some candles, Let's go to a painting class, go, let's

1419
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,600
Speaker 1: go to the museum, let's go campfish.

1420
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,799
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm a worrist.

1421
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 1: I'm a leo. What's your son?

1422
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 7: Oh?

1423
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 1: My best friend? I was literally with my best friend

1424
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 1: last night she's set the series too. I love such

1425
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: were best friends. My moon sign is a tour, but yeah,

1426
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:16,880
Speaker 1: I just feel like.

1427
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 3: My back sign is leo.

1428
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: She leo, your mood said your booth. Son. I was like, no,

1429
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: it's not got you said your boots. But anyways, getting

1430
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 1: back to the topic, I do feel like we need

1431
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: to get back to demanding more and wanting more. And

1432
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: it's okay to say I had a girl in my

1433
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:38,600
Speaker 1: mentions because I was talking about the dates. I was like,

1434
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm not accepting waffle House for a first day, and

1435
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 1: she was like, I would love if a man took

1436
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 1: me for a patty milk. She straight up said that,

1437
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I can look up. She said,

1438
01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: if a man took me to get a patty milk,

1439
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: I would be so great.

1440
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 5: But you got to think about the backgrounds you're talking

1441
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 5: to because even.

1442
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: Going back to the baby Mama Baby Dada.

1443
01:10:56,840 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 5: Ship, even when we're talking about that, like they have

1444
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 5: this post it go around every so often, like the

1445
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,600
Speaker 5: beginning of school, the school year, and that shit just

1446
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 5: baffles me cause it's like it's a nigga that it's

1447
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 5: a post.

1448
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 1: You know, people make up all kinds of shit, So

1449
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: it could be real.

1450
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 5: It could be fake, but it's a bunch of like

1451
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 5: ugly shit, like three pair of the shirts tank tops

1452
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 5: but a child, and like three pair of tennis shoes.

1453
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 5: It wasn't no, it was like off brand or some

1454
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 5: shit like that, and PAGs and underwell packs a T shirt.

1455
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 5: Long story short that mama made a post and was like,

1456
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 5: looking what this nigga bought, you know, and all of

1457
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 5: this stuff that I bought and this is and so

1458
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 5: under the post is a bunch of women saying you

1459
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 5: should be grateful for that because and I'm looking at

1460
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 5: that shit like, bitch, I have four my children father,

1461
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 5: the two oldest ones are deceased, but I mean all

1462
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 5: of them are very taking care of He take care

1463
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:56,759
Speaker 5: of but while he's deceased, So I the fuck.

1464
01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 1: Rich somebody came.

1465
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 5: I'm not about to accept that. And it's not about

1466
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 5: the brand. It's about the fact that you knew school

1467
01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,679
Speaker 5: was coming around this horse. So it's about the people

1468
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 5: that were talking to the audience were talking to that's

1469
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 5: gonna say stupid shit.

1470
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: You know that's stupid to us.

1471
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 5: But it might be really something to them because who

1472
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:16,839
Speaker 5: or you would have tell me be great, Oh, be grateful,

1473
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 5: because some niggas I don't give a fuck with Some

1474
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 5: bitches don't have if they don't have a baby, I

1475
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 5: do so I know who I slept with you.

1476
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: I require this from you and you know that. So

1477
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 1: this is not this is inacceptable.

1478
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 10: But going back to what she was saying earlier about

1479
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 10: the childhood trauma stuff, I feel like that be what

1480
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 10: it be too, doll like, I feel like people went

1481
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 10: through childhood trauma and so then as an adult, it

1482
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:44,640
Speaker 10: makes you like accept the beer minimal sometimes because you

1483
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 10: don't feel like you deserve what we talking.

1484
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: About cracker.

1485
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:51,160
Speaker 5: Calling it cracker and they and they sit up there

1486
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 5: and it would really make you feel like you asking

1487
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 5: for You.

1488
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: Gotta watch the men, because that's how you know.

1489
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 5: That's another red flag when a man come around and

1490
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 5: EG like you too much, bitch. If I'm too much,

1491
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,640
Speaker 5: go find less because you've been fucking with bitches that

1492
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 5: ain't never had nothing.

1493
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:12,599
Speaker 1: And I would say this for me is not nothing.

1494
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 1: It's not about the amount of money that they're spending.

1495
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: It's the effort. Just give an effort, and it's the intent.

1496
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: And going back to that point you made about the post,

1497
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: black women. This is some Black women only that are

1498
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: watching this. Black women, please stop creating content, creating skits,

1499
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 1: creating things that make us look bad. Y'all are participating

1500
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:37,560
Speaker 1: in these skits that are fake and people are believing it.

1501
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:43,760
Speaker 1: A lady did something with a day and talking about

1502
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,639
Speaker 1: bad on cheesecake factory. Now everybody talking about cheesecake factory

1503
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: the forty eight Oh that was all that stuff was fake. Ladies,

1504
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 1: especially black women, we unfortunately do not get the freedom

1505
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 1: to create content like white women do. Stop doing it.

1506
01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:01,320
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck how many followers this white man,

1507
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 1: this Asian man, this Latino man has, and he's gonna

1508
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 1: try to upgrade you, because guess what You're gonna get

1509
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 1: talked about for a week on Twitter, a week, two

1510
01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: weeks on Facebook, and nobody's ever gonna remember you. Stop

1511
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: creating this fake ass. Stop creating this.

1512
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 5: Ycause stop even't have anyone to go down for them.

1513
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:27,759
Speaker 1: She was married and she was there with her husband.

1514
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: Stop creating this fake ass content for conversation because we

1515
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 1: already have it hard as black women, and now people

1516
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: are looking at this content. You gotta realize these are

1517
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 1: people online who believe everything they see if I post

1518
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,000
Speaker 1: right now the sky is purple, people and be like,

1519
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:48,400
Speaker 1: oh my god, y'all, now you know if you look

1520
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 1: at it from this angle. Because the next people was right,

1521
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:53,679
Speaker 1: she said, if you look people, you can say anything

1522
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: on the internet. Black women, stop falling into that content

1523
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:02,679
Speaker 1: creating that is like sensationalized to make us look bad.

1524
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 1: Please stop it. It's not worth it. Y'all be wanting

1525
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,840
Speaker 1: this famous. It is not about to fame. It's not

1526
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:12,519
Speaker 1: making you no money. It's not making no money. It's

1527
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 1: not making a people care about money no more. And

1528
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:16,480
Speaker 1: that's why we losing recipes.

1529
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 3: I think people care.

1530
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,600
Speaker 10: People care more about being famous and being seen and

1531
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 10: getting popular, and they care about the actual dollars.

1532
01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 1: Hello.

1533
01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, talking to a person that was asking me about

1534
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:33,640
Speaker 5: what you think about this then, and I'm like, well

1535
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,560
Speaker 5: that doesn't make sense and make more sense to do

1536
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 5: this and that, And they're like, oh, okay, I see

1537
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 5: what you're saying.

1538
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 1: But and then do it.

1539
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 5: Because what I'm focused on is dollars, and you focus

1540
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:47,840
Speaker 5: on fame, So I see why you went that.

1541
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:50,920
Speaker 1: Being famous.

1542
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 10: First of all, I don't even feel like I'm famous,

1543
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 10: let me say that, But I think that we're know.

1544
01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 10: I feel like I needed to say that because people

1545
01:15:59,000 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 10: Gonta in the comments like you.

1546
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,760
Speaker 1: Ain't famous, they talk about me.

1547
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 3: I don't feel like we're famous.

1548
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 10: I do think that, like the podcast is popular, like

1549
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 10: we're both popular on social media, but like I'm not

1550
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,640
Speaker 10: even a celebrity yet or anyhing like that. But I

1551
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 10: feel like people are already so mean and so invested

1552
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 10: and care so much about what you got going on.

1553
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 10: They always got a comedy. It's always some bullshit every

1554
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 10: time I get online, and it's just like.

1555
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 3: That, shiit sucks.

1556
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 1: It's me.

1557
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 3: You understand why people want it.

1558
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 1: How do you deal with backlash? Just how of curiosity?

1559
01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: Because I know me and Dre react different.

1560
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 5: People sometimes paget took every time I fuck with that,

1561
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 5: so not page they put me in live jail for

1562
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 5: six months.

1563
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't even be saying ship for real.

1564
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 5: I might speaking so kissling and be like, oh you know,

1565
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,400
Speaker 5: and then everybody else will come up under there and

1566
01:16:58,439 --> 01:16:59,280
Speaker 5: say a bunch of shits.

1567
01:16:59,439 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1568
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:03,640
Speaker 5: No, I don't be saying ship. It just depends on

1569
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:06,960
Speaker 5: who it is. Because bitch, if you play with me

1570
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:07,559
Speaker 5: and I know you.

1571
01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 1: About to make me retorted, do you feel like people

1572
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 1: be trying to play you because I'm from well, New Orleans,

1573
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: you're from New Orleans. That's not a small town. But

1574
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 1: I'm from a very small town. But I feel like

1575
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 1: New Orleans is one of them cities where everybody know everybody.

1576
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes people from my hometown be trying

1577
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 1: to play me a little bit. I don't jealous want

1578
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: to react. Do you be like when you said, people

1579
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 1: like be trying to play because they know you. They

1580
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:29,600
Speaker 1: don't fuck with me.

1581
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 5: You don't beat the New Orleans Now, I don't be

1582
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 5: New Orleans people. It be people that be wearing fucking guatemalas.

1583
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 1: Why you're sitting on the island.

1584
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:45,640
Speaker 5: Like I'm like, bitch, I know who the fuck you

1585
01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:46,759
Speaker 5: aren't about medsuck.

1586
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:50,599
Speaker 1: They'd be like your eye rise, like even oh my god,

1587
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: look like and.

1588
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 5: But you know what's crazy? Most of the time it's men.

1589
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:58,679
Speaker 5: Most of the time it's men. And that ship freaks

1590
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:00,679
Speaker 5: me out. And I used to be going back and forth,

1591
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,599
Speaker 5: but like not, I spend more time on my fence

1592
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:07,800
Speaker 5: than on my Instagram. So it's like I post and

1593
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 5: then I get old. But in the first couple of

1594
01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 5: minutes I might react to the comments or whatever you know,

1595
01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 5: engage and that's it.

1596
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:16,360
Speaker 1: We got a social media girl. I can't wait till

1597
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,120
Speaker 1: you start making more money because I come to pay.

1598
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,639
Speaker 3: Her more to run Instagram.

1599
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to be on that whole. I hate it.

1600
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 5: Because if you get on on the wrong day for real,

1601
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:27,799
Speaker 5: you'll really be going crazy.

1602
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:36,839
Speaker 1: And they was un warranty sheep they And I'm sensitive.

1603
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm sensitive as like I take everything to heart.

1604
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 5: People be saying ship just because once I realized that,

1605
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 5: like they don't really know, they don't know too much

1606
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 5: about They just know what they think once a.

1607
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:53,720
Speaker 1: Week and they know what because you know, I used

1608
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 1: to be that girl like I was on the show.

1609
01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 1: Like I didn't have a lot of money. I was

1610
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,879
Speaker 1: when I first moved here. I have a bottle synthetic.

1611
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:02,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't afford to get my hair done. I used

1612
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 1: to I shave my hair and.

1613
01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 5: Me, I just you know, I'm a single parent, so

1614
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 5: i'd be a football break. I backed up point and

1615
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 5: like three football.

1616
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're giving a fuck.

1617
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 5: If I got something to say and I get on here,

1618
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 5: this is what I have to do because of you know,

1619
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,640
Speaker 5: my content or my job or whatever. I get on

1620
01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 5: there and say whatever I gotta say. I look, and

1621
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:28,439
Speaker 5: I'd rather do that than to have them make me

1622
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 5: feel like I have to be made up every single

1623
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:34,439
Speaker 5: time i'm on because then now y'all making me be

1624
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 5: a character.

1625
01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 1: And I'm a real So sometimes I'm gonna get on

1626
01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 1: here fucked up, you know.

1627
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 5: Sometimes I'm a you know, but that's what I do,

1628
01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:47,360
Speaker 5: Like that I have created you know that I you know,

1629
01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 5: I look back at video.

1630
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, bit you looked fucked up. Girl.

1631
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 10: You need to gonna look at some of our first

1632
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:54,600
Speaker 10: videos gonna be.

1633
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 3: Like, whoa, I'm alone.

1634
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: The cost so much there was like do this bitch

1635
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 1: have a house? I'm like, yop, it's just noisy. It's

1636
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 1: at least you have one like I have. The next

1637
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 1: now we can't.

1638
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 10: But I did kind of want to talk to you though,

1639
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:20,479
Speaker 10: because earlier you were just talking about like childhood trauma,

1640
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:23,640
Speaker 10: like with your with your situation with your mom. I

1641
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,559
Speaker 10: feel like I be having a similar situation like that too,

1642
01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:30,640
Speaker 10: like because I am the only child but I'm adopted

1643
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:34,320
Speaker 10: and so like me and my real mom do not

1644
01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 10: have a good relationship, but I know her and I

1645
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 10: just be feeling like, do you feel like your relationship

1646
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 10: with your mom affect your dating relationships and like how

1647
01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 10: you treat men and how you deal with me? Because

1648
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 10: I feel like my relationship with my biological mom, even

1649
01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:49,400
Speaker 10: though I have a great relationship with my mom that

1650
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:53,040
Speaker 10: raised me from birds, my relationship with my biological mom

1651
01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 10: really be fucking me up when it comes to like

1652
01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:58,599
Speaker 10: dating relationships and shit, because I be like, like, that's.

1653
01:20:58,439 --> 01:20:59,120
Speaker 1: The core of it.

1654
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:02,080
Speaker 5: I always say that because when I make videos and shit,

1655
01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:03,720
Speaker 5: I talk about relationshipshit.

1656
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:06,560
Speaker 1: Niggas be under there. They be like, who hurt you?

1657
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 1: And you know, nigga, that's the niggas you fuck with.

1658
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:12,880
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, it's nice. I won't even let.

1659
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:16,360
Speaker 5: A nigga get close enough me either to nothing. It

1660
01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 5: don't matter what I pretend. It don't matter what I said,

1661
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 5: It don't matter what I cried about. You know what

1662
01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 5: I'm saying A garrison, So you know, it don't matter

1663
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 5: about none of those things I might I ain't gonna say.

1664
01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 5: I'm just be acting because I might really be hurt,

1665
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 5: but it don't hurt me to the core, like those

1666
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 5: things that I get counted with my mama.

1667
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:36,919
Speaker 3: So she'll tell you because she I don't not be giving.

1668
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 5: Good I don't be giving up about it. Be just

1669
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:42,479
Speaker 5: the principle. So I'm ana make of ruckers about I've

1670
01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 5: probably seen.

1671
01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 1: Dred crowd eight times in my life and say they

1672
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 1: hate because of my daddy. Well, yeah, you know what

1673
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 1: I mean. But you hold up a certain relationship CLO.

1674
01:21:53,920 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 3: That's how am I don't be giving a fuck about

1675
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:56,599
Speaker 3: these niggas.

1676
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 10: Like the dudes that I'm dating now, I really do

1677
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:01,800
Speaker 10: care about him, but I feel like because of like

1678
01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 10: the blockie, because of like the childhood trauma and sit

1679
01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 10: it's really it's hard for us to have like a

1680
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 10: healthy relationship because I always feel like even if he

1681
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 10: being genuine, even if he really is.

1682
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,920
Speaker 5: And I that do come from Mama, like cause she

1683
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:21,600
Speaker 5: the first nurturer. You know, your first and you know

1684
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:23,600
Speaker 5: when you don't. When you don't get that, then you

1685
01:22:23,680 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 5: don't know. Like my first marriage I was. I didn't

1686
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 5: realize how cold I was.

1687
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: Like it was like you not, I'm not affectionate.

1688
01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 5: I'm not affectionate, and like it's so fucked up because

1689
01:22:39,320 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 5: like my oldest son who's nineteen, he I see the

1690
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 5: same thing. So I would love languages different when you know,

1691
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 5: I know, when you know he won't see I love

1692
01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 5: you and stuff like that, because you know he won't.

1693
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:52,760
Speaker 5: He spent time with me coming across the bed. We

1694
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 5: talk with check for hours or whatever. You know, We

1695
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 5: crack jokes, we send video shit like that.

1696
01:22:57,920 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 1: That's his way. But that's because that's what.

1697
01:22:59,880 --> 01:23:01,840
Speaker 5: I I taught him. I grew up with him, so

1698
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:04,920
Speaker 5: I wasn't. I only taught him what I learned, which

1699
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 5: was what my mama taught me. It wasn't no affection,

1700
01:23:07,439 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 5: It wasn't no hugs, no kisses, no I love you, no,

1701
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:12,200
Speaker 5: none of that I knew because yeah, I had everything.

1702
01:23:12,240 --> 01:23:14,680
Speaker 5: And it's so crazy because everybody around me look at

1703
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 5: me like, oh, well that you had everything. You know,

1704
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 5: you had this, you had that, you had all neghbor.

1705
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 5: But none of those things don't even matter to me.

1706
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 5: It's about relationship and you know, like emotional support, and

1707
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:29,720
Speaker 5: I didn't feel like I got that. And as an

1708
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:33,840
Speaker 5: adult now me just working on those things. It is

1709
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:37,839
Speaker 5: very difficult to open up those doors after being closed

1710
01:23:37,880 --> 01:23:41,600
Speaker 5: for so so long. So like with you know, my

1711
01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 5: other children, I'm more open with them. Oh I love yeah,

1712
01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 5: you know and I'm just starting to learn myself.

1713
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:51,880
Speaker 1: Oh I love you, you know. So they do it

1714
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:52,640
Speaker 1: to me all day.

1715
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 5: I don't even have to do it to them, but

1716
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 5: my oldest one, you don't even really like touch and

1717
01:23:56,720 --> 01:23:57,559
Speaker 5: all those things make.

1718
01:23:57,479 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 1: Them uncomfortable, because it makes me uncomfortable. It was so crazy.

1719
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 5: Is I leave here and see, Oh I love y'all

1720
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:06,320
Speaker 5: with no question because I've worked on me, but with

1721
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 5: my mama, I would never see. I'm not natural at all.

1722
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 1: Under no circumstance, I'm not gonna live. So I'm glad

1723
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:17,600
Speaker 1: you said that, because I think I got to a

1724
01:24:17,720 --> 01:24:20,640
Speaker 1: point to where you probably don't even remember this. I

1725
01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: think when me Andrea like we are, that's my best friend,

1726
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 1: it's like my sister. But we had a time where

1727
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:29,640
Speaker 1: we did not get along. Listener, No, but it was

1728
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:32,360
Speaker 1: one time we left I can't remember. We were going

1729
01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 1: somewhere and we were leaving somewhere, but I seen like

1730
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 1: we and you were hugging everybody, and we didn't hug

1731
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 1: each other because I was like, I was like, I

1732
01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:45,840
Speaker 1: hugged my friends, I don't hug Drea. I don't tell

1733
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:48,760
Speaker 1: Dre I love her because I was just like we

1734
01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 1: just got in a weird space and then it became

1735
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,519
Speaker 1: a habit. And then but I realized, like I was

1736
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 1: like that when my sister, my real sister as well,

1737
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 1: because she said she and my sister s she said,

1738
01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:00,160
Speaker 1: but she brought it up to me. She was like,

1739
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:02,960
Speaker 1: you ever hugged me when you leave? And I was like, damn,

1740
01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: she never hugged me for real. I never. But I

1741
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 1: make a point to tell you I love you because

1742
01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 1: I do love her, and I do, but I'm like, I.

1743
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,640
Speaker 10: Think now, but I do think it's different than like,

1744
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:17,880
Speaker 10: like I think we've been friends for seven years, eight

1745
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 10: years at this point, I think you got some friends

1746
01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 10: you innately, when you get off the phone, you'll be like,

1747
01:25:22,360 --> 01:25:25,240
Speaker 10: I love you. But me, it's like every once in

1748
01:25:25,320 --> 01:25:28,040
Speaker 10: a while we say it's because you know how.

1749
01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 1: I am, yeah, but also it's because it was like

1750
01:25:32,960 --> 01:25:36,240
Speaker 1: the trauma in our relationship, Like even when I wanted

1751
01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 1: to tell you, I'm not hugging that hole, but now.

1752
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:42,720
Speaker 10: I'm just like, I also don't think I'm really I

1753
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 10: love you personally. It's not natural like my Sagittary's.

1754
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 1: Best friend or when I was just because Lex is my.

1755
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 10: Best friend too, but my Sagittary's best friend. She be

1756
01:25:53,040 --> 01:25:55,439
Speaker 10: I love you, I love you every day.

1757
01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 1: My best friends is sad.

1758
01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 3: So I think that we have that.

1759
01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:00,599
Speaker 10: Type of relationship where I say that to her all

1760
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:02,600
Speaker 10: the time because she say to me, I have a

1761
01:26:02,680 --> 01:26:05,920
Speaker 10: male based friend. He a pisces, you know water signs.

1762
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:08,600
Speaker 10: They emotional as fucked. He say that she to me

1763
01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:10,960
Speaker 10: all the time. So we just have that relationship when

1764
01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:12,640
Speaker 10: we get off the phone, I love you, I love you.

1765
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:15,680
Speaker 10: I feel like me and Lex we never really had that,

1766
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:18,960
Speaker 10: but like as we grow as friends, we try to

1767
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 10: be conscious of say anymore because you're not really an

1768
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:24,600
Speaker 10: initiator for that.

1769
01:26:25,160 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1770
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:26,320
Speaker 3: I'm not either.

1771
01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:29,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not an initiator because I just feel like,

1772
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:37,800
Speaker 1: you know, I'm a le I mean like, you know, yeah,

1773
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:40,560
Speaker 1: so I feel like that. But that goes with I

1774
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 1: grew up in a tourist household. My sister's a tourist

1775
01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 1: and my mom was a tourist, so it was always

1776
01:26:46,520 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 1: so much of me initiating things, and then I became

1777
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:50,840
Speaker 1: a dunk. I was like, no, y'all need to be

1778
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 1: looking on it's that Oh Jesus. Her mama has the

1779
01:26:57,240 --> 01:27:00,960
Speaker 1: same as birthday. My sister's birthday is two weeks after that.

1780
01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:06,040
Speaker 1: I've been around torses, but I do feel like one

1781
01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:08,760
Speaker 1: thing about me I'm learning is I need to be

1782
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 1: with Okay. I'm like I said, I'm coming a woman

1783
01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 1: and I'm okay with expressing my love. This is who

1784
01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 1: I am. I'm a lover and I'm tired of trying

1785
01:27:17,160 --> 01:27:18,760
Speaker 1: to fight it and trying to pretend. I just need

1786
01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:21,920
Speaker 1: to surround with myself with people who understand it and

1787
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 1: accept it and don't take advantage of it. You know,

1788
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:28,960
Speaker 1: it's safe space because that goes into that childhood trauma.

1789
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:32,120
Speaker 1: Like I won't say my sister and my mom traumatized me,

1790
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: but they were just.

1791
01:27:34,280 --> 01:27:37,360
Speaker 10: Like she said, I mean, people do always say torses

1792
01:27:37,439 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 10: are It's hard.

1793
01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:41,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, y'all stubborn, just when you think you got a

1794
01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 5: wal down, because you's know how to tell a truth,

1795
01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:48,760
Speaker 5: tell the truth without telling the whole story, like.

1796
01:27:52,040 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: You to tell me. Okay, y'all, we got we got

1797
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:09,519
Speaker 1: to move on. Okay. So now it's tithing to get

1798
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:17,679
Speaker 1: into a bow bow Bow bow bow. Okay, I'm gonna

1799
01:28:17,680 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 1: talk about my bobs first, cause y'all know I'll be

1800
01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:22,479
Speaker 1: on some different ship. Okay, So I found a new artist.

1801
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:25,440
Speaker 1: I actually found him from TikTok. His name is a Goldberg.

1802
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:28,720
Speaker 1: He has a new song called Orange Blossom. Now, if

1803
01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 1: you're like a person who likes the vibe and energy

1804
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:35,000
Speaker 1: and feeling things, this is the song for you. Like

1805
01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:37,559
Speaker 1: if you want to pour you up a glass of wine,

1806
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:40,639
Speaker 1: smoke a little weed, get on a little shrown. Oh

1807
01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:42,360
Speaker 1: my god, this song is gonna put you in the

1808
01:28:42,400 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: field and the feels. So the song orange Blossom is

1809
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 1: just basically how he feels like it's fall time. He's

1810
01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:51,759
Speaker 1: seeing different colors because he's a lit Oh my gosh.

1811
01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:54,679
Speaker 1: It's like you like, he's explaining how he's seeing different

1812
01:28:54,760 --> 01:28:58,400
Speaker 1: things and feeling different things because he loves this girl

1813
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,920
Speaker 1: and you know, he's just It's a beautiful song. He

1814
01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 1: has a beautiful voice. And it surprised me because when

1815
01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 1: I first heard a snippet of it, I didn't know

1816
01:29:07,400 --> 01:29:09,839
Speaker 1: he was white. It's a white man singing the blues.

1817
01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 1: I know he was going through it. So, yeah, Goldberg,

1818
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 1: Orange Blossom. That's my bop of the week.

1819
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:20,439
Speaker 10: Okay, so my bob is and it's actually okay, so

1820
01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:23,960
Speaker 10: it's off of off sense album Fires, but it's the

1821
01:29:24,040 --> 01:29:25,679
Speaker 10: song with Offset and Don Tolliver.

1822
01:29:26,200 --> 01:29:28,200
Speaker 1: And you was actually the person who put me.

1823
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:29,519
Speaker 3: You put me.

1824
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 10: Know, you put me on Done Tollivery from Houston, like

1825
01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 10: you was the first person I ever heard that listened

1826
01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:42,439
Speaker 10: to him. So that's my bob Worthy And like you said,

1827
01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:44,559
Speaker 10: it's the butt of rhymes b fire.

1828
01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:48,519
Speaker 1: I'll say this Offset album is fire. Y'all not talking

1829
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:49,320
Speaker 1: about this shit enough.

1830
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:53,360
Speaker 10: First of all, she think that done she said, I

1831
01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:55,840
Speaker 10: mean not Done Tolliver. She thinks that Offset album is

1832
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:56,640
Speaker 10: better than dre Yo.

1833
01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:09,320
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Aubrey makes amazing music. Album is fire, but

1834
01:30:09,600 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 1: Offsets album is better than Drake's album. After further review, Okay, I.

1835
01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:16,479
Speaker 4: Don't listen to Offset, but I'm gonna have to try.

1836
01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:20,000
Speaker 1: It's a fucking second of all him and that song

1837
01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:22,920
Speaker 1: Cardi Being Offset. It's time for y'all to do a

1838
01:30:23,160 --> 01:30:26,360
Speaker 1: joint album and do a tour. Y'all need to do it.

1839
01:30:26,479 --> 01:30:29,519
Speaker 1: They make amazing fucking music together. Like you know, some

1840
01:30:29,600 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 1: people just make good like how Meg was with the

1841
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,280
Speaker 1: Baby or Megan even money Bag. Y'all make great music.

1842
01:30:35,439 --> 01:30:40,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes people just mesh well, Cardi being Offset make that freak,

1843
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:44,600
Speaker 1: that song freak that they got together freak freak freaking.

1844
01:30:45,880 --> 01:30:47,840
Speaker 3: Comedy eating the track up.

1845
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:50,320
Speaker 1: So yes, Offset CARDI, y'all need to do a joint

1846
01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:52,760
Speaker 1: album and y'all need to go on tour. Af set

1847
01:30:52,800 --> 01:30:57,120
Speaker 1: album is fire, So yeah, it is so fucking good.

1848
01:30:57,240 --> 01:30:57,599
Speaker 3: It's good.

1849
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:00,680
Speaker 1: The intro is fucking fire. But anyway, Okay, what you

1850
01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:01,799
Speaker 1: were listening to, Bookie?

1851
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:04,040
Speaker 5: I don't really know the names of the songs, because

1852
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:08,360
Speaker 5: you know, I'm just play.

1853
01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:11,599
Speaker 1: I ever on Spotify list and then I learned them.

1854
01:31:12,040 --> 01:31:18,760
Speaker 1: But I've been on show. Okay. What was the song

1855
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,880
Speaker 1: that he first had when he first came out Your Friend?

1856
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:24,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't know. Listening to the one with

1857
01:31:25,120 --> 01:31:29,960
Speaker 1: the video your girl glass, Gloss and Glasses, a couple,

1858
01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: no love and yes there are a couple, see I

1859
01:31:34,280 --> 01:31:44,519
Speaker 1: that was just for the video follow up. Oh, he

1860
01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:47,760
Speaker 1: had the song Let's get It, Let's I don't want

1861
01:31:47,800 --> 01:31:50,320
Speaker 1: to play because but how do we go? I can't

1862
01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:51,640
Speaker 1: remember that was.

1863
01:31:51,880 --> 01:31:55,760
Speaker 5: But I've been listening to seven Am and yeah, they

1864
01:31:55,840 --> 01:31:58,120
Speaker 5: hold the friends with with Glass.

1865
01:31:58,680 --> 01:32:03,280
Speaker 1: Okay. I like shout Out Show and I don't really

1866
01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:05,920
Speaker 1: care for new artist like that because they be annoying. Yah.

1867
01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:09,439
Speaker 5: I like to listen to the same so they hate

1868
01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:11,559
Speaker 5: getting in my coat, and then I'll be singing them

1869
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:14,439
Speaker 5: like they it be like the alls like I'm talking

1870
01:32:14,439 --> 01:32:15,800
Speaker 5: about like I'm a Drake fan.

1871
01:32:16,439 --> 01:32:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm a Drake fan and Fabulous.

1872
01:32:18,520 --> 01:32:19,240
Speaker 3: Fan me too.

1873
01:32:21,080 --> 01:32:24,000
Speaker 1: Girl. Let's look, she was wrong with the eyes.

1874
01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:27,120
Speaker 3: Like she does not listen to Fabulous.

1875
01:32:27,160 --> 01:32:29,479
Speaker 1: I do not listen to Fabulous love Fabulous.

1876
01:32:31,080 --> 01:32:33,160
Speaker 3: He make good music, he really do.

1877
01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:36,280
Speaker 10: He He always back in the day, he was always

1878
01:32:36,320 --> 01:32:41,200
Speaker 10: gonna have a one bar caption. Yeah, I'm just saying,

1879
01:32:42,439 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 10: but now.

1880
01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:54,360
Speaker 1: Let me move on some of my ass. Oh god,

1881
01:32:57,120 --> 01:32:59,679
Speaker 1: I only like the song because she was imagining herself

1882
01:32:59,760 --> 01:33:06,800
Speaker 1: in the video. I want a shanty. I used to

1883
01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:14,920
Speaker 1: look it up. I do that when I was younger.

1884
01:33:15,200 --> 01:33:19,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't want to know you? I love

1885
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:20,160
Speaker 1: to believe it.

1886
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:23,640
Speaker 3: Solutional.

1887
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:27,679
Speaker 10: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

1888
01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:29,320
Speaker 10: of the show, which is Pour your Heart Out. I

1889
01:33:29,360 --> 01:33:31,920
Speaker 10: don't know if y'all have any questions that y'all want

1890
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:33,479
Speaker 10: to send us, y'all can send them to ask Poor

1891
01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 10: Minds at gmail dot com.

1892
01:33:35,280 --> 01:33:37,720
Speaker 3: That's a s K p o U R in my

1893
01:33:37,880 --> 01:33:39,800
Speaker 3: n B s at gmail dot com.

1894
01:33:40,160 --> 01:33:44,160
Speaker 10: Send the show questions, send us your testimonials, because sometimes

1895
01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:45,280
Speaker 10: we be sucking.

1896
01:33:45,080 --> 01:33:46,840
Speaker 3: Y'all life up, and y'all be telling us about that too.

1897
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:52,080
Speaker 3: I want to know about all of it. Come come

1898
01:33:52,160 --> 01:33:54,760
Speaker 3: on there with the t you said, which one? This one?

1899
01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:56,280
Speaker 1: Me?

1900
01:33:58,520 --> 01:34:00,600
Speaker 3: Come on there you are, let flood to give me

1901
01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 3: the long question.

1902
01:34:02,600 --> 01:34:06,120
Speaker 1: Go ahead, little dress. Oh this is what the fuck? Okay,

1903
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:09,080
Speaker 1: that's how they be doing it. Yeah, that's an essay.

1904
01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:09,479
Speaker 10: It is.

1905
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:13,439
Speaker 3: It's okay, Hi, ladies.

1906
01:34:13,680 --> 01:34:16,800
Speaker 10: I am a faithful fan, twenty eight years old and

1907
01:34:16,880 --> 01:34:18,080
Speaker 10: a working single mother.

1908
01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 3: I need some bad advice, girl, What you mean bad advice?

1909
01:34:23,280 --> 01:34:25,200
Speaker 8: Not mine?

1910
01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:29,120
Speaker 10: She said, I need some bad advice. So I have

1911
01:34:29,240 --> 01:34:31,439
Speaker 10: been dating this guy. I met it my job since

1912
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:35,200
Speaker 10: twenty nineteen. Mind you, I was pregnant when I started

1913
01:34:35,240 --> 01:34:37,639
Speaker 10: talking to him, and his BM was also pregnant.

1914
01:34:37,720 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1915
01:34:38,800 --> 01:34:41,400
Speaker 10: I should have never entertained it, but I did because

1916
01:34:41,400 --> 01:34:45,040
Speaker 10: I was lonely, hormonal, and more so lonely. He had

1917
01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 10: a really good conversation, so we was talking on the

1918
01:34:47,479 --> 01:34:50,880
Speaker 10: phone every single day at work, all day to this day.

1919
01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 10: Fast forward twenty twenty. We both have our children literally

1920
01:34:53,960 --> 01:34:56,920
Speaker 10: a week apart. Me and my child's father didn't last

1921
01:34:57,000 --> 01:34:59,799
Speaker 10: after six months because he cheated, but I was pregnant,

1922
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:02,439
Speaker 10: so it was very complicated and I wanted my baby.

1923
01:35:03,360 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 10: Fast forward to now, me and my baby daddy not together,

1924
01:35:06,720 --> 01:35:08,760
Speaker 10: but he has been trying to get his family back

1925
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:11,120
Speaker 10: for the past year now. But he is but he

1926
01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:15,160
Speaker 10: is not dependable financially like at all. Hence I said

1927
01:35:15,280 --> 01:35:17,640
Speaker 10: single mother. But I know he loves me and his

1928
01:35:17,800 --> 01:35:20,200
Speaker 10: genuine and the nigga I fuck with at my job

1929
01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:24,120
Speaker 10: is and in fact a BDB. My bills be paid, honey,

1930
01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:27,559
Speaker 10: But he lives with his baby mama, claims he can

1931
01:35:27,680 --> 01:35:30,320
Speaker 10: move back, claims he can move with me, but I

1932
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:32,800
Speaker 10: don't know if that's the right answer either. And here

1933
01:35:32,880 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 10: we are four years later in the same limbo.

1934
01:35:35,520 --> 01:35:36,120
Speaker 3: What should I do?

1935
01:35:36,360 --> 01:35:39,519
Speaker 10: Continue to fuck with him in this horrible situation or

1936
01:35:39,920 --> 01:35:42,439
Speaker 10: I love him and feels he loves me, or am

1937
01:35:42,479 --> 01:35:46,040
Speaker 10: I being delusional fuck with my baby daddy again? Or

1938
01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:49,160
Speaker 10: just move on Loel like I probably should have did

1939
01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:50,080
Speaker 10: five years ago.

1940
01:35:50,280 --> 01:35:50,640
Speaker 3: Helped me.

1941
01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:53,160
Speaker 1: If he's a bad B, why he gotta move in

1942
01:35:53,320 --> 01:35:56,320
Speaker 1: with you? Because you was like, oh, he want to

1943
01:35:56,360 --> 01:35:58,240
Speaker 1: move in? He's not a bad B if he gotta

1944
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:01,439
Speaker 1: move in with you first? The ball So I feel

1945
01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:05,840
Speaker 1: like even your side other nigga option and then stop, y'all.

1946
01:36:06,000 --> 01:36:08,120
Speaker 1: Why are y'all stop fucking with people that you work with?

1947
01:36:08,439 --> 01:36:11,400
Speaker 1: It's never gonna work out. You know how much money

1948
01:36:11,439 --> 01:36:13,720
Speaker 1: he makes, So it's like, can he really get you

1949
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:18,120
Speaker 1: out of predictament? Because honestly, I feel like I'm not

1950
01:36:18,160 --> 01:36:19,720
Speaker 1: saying y'all on the same level because he could be

1951
01:36:19,800 --> 01:36:21,960
Speaker 1: your boss, he could be somebody above her. But I

1952
01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:23,880
Speaker 1: feel like, if I'm working for you, why am I

1953
01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:24,960
Speaker 1: working for real?

1954
01:36:25,040 --> 01:36:25,360
Speaker 2: For real?

1955
01:36:25,479 --> 01:36:27,960
Speaker 1: Like I should be doing something else at another company

1956
01:36:28,000 --> 01:36:30,160
Speaker 1: and we're doing the same ship making the same amount

1957
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:30,519
Speaker 1: of money.

1958
01:36:31,320 --> 01:36:31,720
Speaker 14: It was just.

1959
01:36:33,240 --> 01:36:35,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm saying, like, girl, you need to stop

1960
01:36:38,880 --> 01:36:42,360
Speaker 1: because y'all shouldn't have gave me that both of them

1961
01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:51,519
Speaker 1: sister what we call we always say blame it on time.

1962
01:36:55,720 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 3: A whole episode called on time because she gonna have

1963
01:36:58,600 --> 01:36:59,760
Speaker 3: you fuck the But.

1964
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:01,760
Speaker 1: I don't like your baby daddy ain't ship?

1965
01:37:03,160 --> 01:37:07,000
Speaker 5: Asking why you asking them? Because I mean, you know

1966
01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:07,960
Speaker 5: how the nigga treats you.

1967
01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:10,320
Speaker 4: Your baby daddy ain't ship like you started it off

1968
01:37:10,360 --> 01:37:13,280
Speaker 4: with that, so like what and we don't.

1969
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:14,160
Speaker 3: Have no baby daddy.

1970
01:37:14,240 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 1: But honestly, a lot of that's a that's a flex.

1971
01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:22,639
Speaker 5: Y'all don't be using it, but that's a I feel

1972
01:37:22,680 --> 01:37:25,519
Speaker 5: like that's a because y'all the.

1973
01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:30,840
Speaker 3: One we don't sprinkle that baby.

1974
01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:40,600
Speaker 1: She got some bad But I'm like a lot what

1975
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:42,920
Speaker 1: I've realized with this show too, Like I'm not sure

1976
01:37:43,000 --> 01:37:44,640
Speaker 1: I love when y'all right in, but a lot of

1977
01:37:44,720 --> 01:37:46,880
Speaker 1: times y'all be asking this question because you already know

1978
01:37:46,920 --> 01:37:50,880
Speaker 1: what you want to do. I'm not confirming that ship.

1979
01:37:51,880 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 1: Don't ever let a nigga move in with you. A

1980
01:37:54,040 --> 01:37:56,080
Speaker 1: nigga supposed to be moving you in and you're supposed

1981
01:37:56,080 --> 01:37:59,120
Speaker 1: to stack up your ship go wrong, you can dip.

1982
01:37:59,760 --> 01:38:01,400
Speaker 1: Never let a nigga move in with you, because if

1983
01:38:01,439 --> 01:38:04,080
Speaker 1: y'all move in together, everything gonna depend on you. When

1984
01:38:04,160 --> 01:38:08,800
Speaker 1: he decided to bounce, I need hell, I need you

1985
01:38:08,880 --> 01:38:13,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Stop doing that. Stop doing that.

1986
01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:15,760
Speaker 3: You need to be able to leave.

1987
01:38:15,960 --> 01:38:17,960
Speaker 1: You need to be able to leave. And your baby

1988
01:38:18,040 --> 01:38:22,439
Speaker 1: daddy ain't ship. You know that your baby daddy ain't ship.

1989
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:24,320
Speaker 1: He had you and his other baby mom pregnant at

1990
01:38:24,320 --> 01:38:26,320
Speaker 1: the same time. He shouldn't even be in the Why

1991
01:38:26,320 --> 01:38:29,719
Speaker 1: are you even still talking about she said it five times?

1992
01:38:30,560 --> 01:38:32,720
Speaker 10: Said they started sucking with each other when she was

1993
01:38:32,840 --> 01:38:36,599
Speaker 10: pregnant a nigga. They ain't fuck with a pregnant lady.

1994
01:38:36,800 --> 01:38:43,880
Speaker 10: You don't care about you. You you wanna fuck with

1995
01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:46,600
Speaker 10: somebody who was pregnant with someone else's.

1996
01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 1: Was in the beginning. Oh my god.

1997
01:38:51,760 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 3: Well maybe you're right. Maybe he didn't know yet.

1998
01:38:55,760 --> 01:38:56,559
Speaker 1: You like.

1999
01:38:58,240 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 6: It.

2000
01:38:58,400 --> 01:39:01,200
Speaker 3: We know we be like, no, no he what if

2001
01:39:01,240 --> 01:39:01,800
Speaker 3: he enough?

2002
01:39:01,920 --> 01:39:03,320
Speaker 1: But she knew? Yeah.

2003
01:39:03,760 --> 01:39:05,400
Speaker 3: It ain't about talking about.

2004
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:09,880
Speaker 1: How dare you let another nigga not on another nigga?

2005
01:39:09,920 --> 01:39:14,439
Speaker 1: Baby head? I take to talk too far too far?

2006
01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:18,760
Speaker 3: Okay, that's what a saft spot be coming from.

2007
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:24,280
Speaker 1: That's see. This is why we gotta wrap this whole.

2008
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:28,080
Speaker 1: We gotta wrap this month. No, we're don went over

2009
01:39:28,240 --> 01:39:33,120
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. Man, Oh my lash coming up?

2010
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:33,599
Speaker 9: Then.

2011
01:39:35,160 --> 01:39:37,639
Speaker 1: I can't stand this motherfucking show.

2012
01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:40,280
Speaker 9: This is why we never gonna get said the king.

2013
01:39:41,560 --> 01:39:49,519
Speaker 9: We never said. Okay, next question, Hi, ladies.

2014
01:39:49,640 --> 01:39:51,640
Speaker 1: I am twenty three years old with no kids and

2015
01:39:51,720 --> 01:39:53,880
Speaker 1: the dude I mess around with is thirty six and

2016
01:39:54,000 --> 01:39:57,040
Speaker 1: he has two kids, one boy and one girl. We

2017
01:39:57,160 --> 01:39:59,400
Speaker 1: have been messing around and hanging out for the past year.

2018
01:39:59,520 --> 01:40:02,400
Speaker 1: Now we have bomb ass sex. He is always there

2019
01:40:02,479 --> 01:40:04,960
Speaker 1: for me. He comes through for me when I need him,

2020
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:07,960
Speaker 1: but usually he doesn't talk about his little girl. He's

2021
01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:10,600
Speaker 1: always talking about his little boy. I caught him with

2022
01:40:10,680 --> 01:40:13,040
Speaker 1: a hickey on his neck, and when I brought it up,

2023
01:40:13,160 --> 01:40:15,080
Speaker 1: he admitted a drunk girl did it at a bar,

2024
01:40:15,200 --> 01:40:17,800
Speaker 1: but he didn't fuck her. I still continue to fuck

2025
01:40:17,840 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 1: with him afterwards. Plus I got my get back. He

2026
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:24,920
Speaker 1: haven't told me he loved me, but he wants me

2027
01:40:25,040 --> 01:40:28,120
Speaker 1: to move in with him. I recently confessed and told

2028
01:40:28,360 --> 01:40:31,400
Speaker 1: I had someone paying my bills and sending me money,

2029
01:40:31,439 --> 01:40:33,519
Speaker 1: and he got mad and said he didn't want to

2030
01:40:33,560 --> 01:40:36,479
Speaker 1: deal with nobody who's getting tricked on. But I told

2031
01:40:36,560 --> 01:40:38,759
Speaker 1: him it is what it is, and we haven't spoken

2032
01:40:38,840 --> 01:40:41,360
Speaker 1: since I like him a lot. My questions to you

2033
01:40:41,520 --> 01:40:44,360
Speaker 1: girls is should I reach out or should I move on?

2034
01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:46,200
Speaker 1: What should I say if he reaches out to me?

2035
01:40:46,320 --> 01:40:58,160
Speaker 1: First room reason? Why the would you tell on yourself?

2036
01:40:58,240 --> 01:41:03,640
Speaker 1: Stupid beach? Why you yourself? You and you getting your

2037
01:41:03,680 --> 01:41:06,880
Speaker 1: bills paid? Guess what? I'm mad because guess what you

2038
01:41:06,920 --> 01:41:09,040
Speaker 1: should have did? You should have told a nigga who

2039
01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:11,920
Speaker 1: was paying your bills that hey, I got something going on.

2040
01:41:12,080 --> 01:41:14,720
Speaker 1: I can't like you're doing a lot. I'm about to

2041
01:41:14,760 --> 01:41:17,320
Speaker 1: move back in with my mom, but I still need

2042
01:41:17,479 --> 01:41:22,439
Speaker 1: to send me x y z mo. Run up, God,

2043
01:41:25,920 --> 01:41:30,599
Speaker 1: running up. You taught on yourself? What should you do? Bitch?

2044
01:41:30,720 --> 01:41:32,560
Speaker 1: Fire some new tricks because you lost it.

2045
01:41:32,920 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 10: And it's him admitting to him getting a hickey in

2046
01:41:35,280 --> 01:41:37,040
Speaker 10: a bar from a random girl.

2047
01:41:37,040 --> 01:41:40,400
Speaker 1: For me, a lot of a lot of women the uh.

2048
01:41:41,400 --> 01:41:45,080
Speaker 1: For some reason, we like to let niggas s trink

2049
01:41:45,160 --> 01:41:46,880
Speaker 1: us into being real.

2050
01:41:48,920 --> 01:41:52,679
Speaker 5: They'll never be, but talk about it though the whole time.

2051
01:41:54,240 --> 01:41:56,400
Speaker 5: But it's like, you gotta tell you tell the ship.

2052
01:41:56,479 --> 01:41:59,240
Speaker 1: That makes sense. You don't tell every single thing. Hello,

2053
01:42:00,960 --> 01:42:01,719
Speaker 1: let me tell you something.

2054
01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:04,040
Speaker 3: You ain't gotta tell a nigga nothing to interest me.

2055
01:42:04,120 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 10: Y'all be thinking they gonna find out that nigga ain't

2056
01:42:06,080 --> 01:42:07,320
Speaker 10: gonna find out they don't.

2057
01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:14,000
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. I'm all for being honest,

2058
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:17,240
Speaker 1: but this is what this was not your man. First

2059
01:42:17,280 --> 01:42:19,240
Speaker 1: of all, y'all been in with each other for a

2060
01:42:19,439 --> 01:42:22,800
Speaker 1: year and some change. He never told you he loved you.

2061
01:42:23,120 --> 01:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Y'all are not in a relationship. Why are you telling

2062
01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:28,960
Speaker 1: him the truth? Like? Why, I'm just I'm really trying

2063
01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:31,280
Speaker 1: to understand. Maybe I'm being. Why are you telling me.

2064
01:42:31,320 --> 01:42:34,120
Speaker 5: That's when you tell her best stories in the beginning. Hello,

2065
01:42:36,200 --> 01:42:39,280
Speaker 5: I still have one of my niggas be imaginary nigga.

2066
01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:42,880
Speaker 5: You say you still have a nigga beefing with an

2067
01:42:42,920 --> 01:42:45,680
Speaker 5: imaginary nigga that treated me so fabulous, but I.

2068
01:42:45,800 --> 01:42:56,400
Speaker 1: Just didn't want it the story. Lie mean with somebody imaginary? Now?

2069
01:42:56,520 --> 01:43:01,240
Speaker 1: If this is your man, no, yeah, no, no, this

2070
01:43:01,320 --> 01:43:02,720
Speaker 1: is a nigga. Y'all been there with each other over

2071
01:43:02,720 --> 01:43:03,920
Speaker 1: for a year. He ain't never told you.

2072
01:43:03,960 --> 01:43:06,519
Speaker 5: You play games with the niggas that won't play games.

2073
01:43:06,640 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 5: If you want to play, let's play.

2074
01:43:09,960 --> 01:43:10,640
Speaker 3: Play, let's go.

2075
01:43:13,960 --> 01:43:17,280
Speaker 1: And you told on yourself. Man, I'm on y'all ass.

2076
01:43:17,479 --> 01:43:18,280
Speaker 3: Let me tell you how.

2077
01:43:20,200 --> 01:43:22,280
Speaker 1: P versus the women to day. I've been on y'all

2078
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:25,120
Speaker 1: ass all day. I'm tired of y'all because y'all making

2079
01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:27,479
Speaker 1: it hard for me. I'm trying to find a husband.

2080
01:43:27,560 --> 01:43:29,960
Speaker 3: Bitch, y'all embarrassing us for the new news.

2081
01:43:30,000 --> 01:43:34,120
Speaker 1: Why is y'all a question y'all? We're supposed to show out?

2082
01:43:37,800 --> 01:43:44,280
Speaker 1: Was like, these are questions they find you your podcast

2083
01:43:44,360 --> 01:43:46,600
Speaker 1: where they jost's what you got going on? All that

2084
01:43:46,720 --> 01:43:47,120
Speaker 1: good ship?

2085
01:43:48,360 --> 01:43:51,080
Speaker 5: I don't have nothing going on but the O G Podcast.

2086
01:43:52,960 --> 01:43:58,760
Speaker 5: Find it on YouTube, Apple Music, iTunes. Oh yeah, what

2087
01:43:58,880 --> 01:43:59,120
Speaker 5: it is?

2088
01:44:00,040 --> 01:44:06,000
Speaker 1: Oh the O G cod blaming on fucking time, blaming

2089
01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 1: on time. Yes, so O G code. They can find

2090
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,879
Speaker 1: out on Instagram and then what's yours? Your personal Instagram?

2091
01:44:12,320 --> 01:44:16,320
Speaker 5: O G dot new dot og and this n E

2092
01:44:16,600 --> 01:44:20,719
Speaker 5: W Right Well you know, and it's the same on YouTube.

2093
01:44:21,360 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 5: Everything the same on everything.

2094
01:44:23,400 --> 01:44:25,559
Speaker 1: Okay, so they're gonna they coming for you now, girl.

2095
01:44:25,600 --> 01:44:27,000
Speaker 1: They want to know where you be at, what you

2096
01:44:27,080 --> 01:44:30,040
Speaker 1: got going on now. I'm not for fussing with y'all.

2097
01:44:30,680 --> 01:44:34,320
Speaker 1: Now we're going. Uh. We were on tour right now,

2098
01:44:34,479 --> 01:44:36,439
Speaker 1: so y'all make sure you go the poor Minds dot

2099
01:44:36,520 --> 01:44:39,559
Speaker 1: com and get y'all tickets. It's up and it's stuck.

2100
01:44:39,680 --> 01:44:42,360
Speaker 1: Were having a ball, so y'all gonna make sure y'all

2101
01:44:42,400 --> 01:44:45,559
Speaker 1: want to come through. We got Atlanta and Houston next.

2102
01:44:45,760 --> 01:44:48,000
Speaker 1: You know, we're closing it out, so y'all make sure

2103
01:44:48,080 --> 01:44:50,400
Speaker 1: y'all come through and fuck with us. Thank you so

2104
01:44:50,560 --> 01:44:53,680
Speaker 1: much for coming. Joy y'all, even though my eye was

2105
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:56,719
Speaker 1: killing men, but look, but you love.

2106
01:44:58,640 --> 01:45:00,040
Speaker 3: And I hope that's hill.

2107
01:45:02,600 --> 01:45:08,040
Speaker 1: Almost we got. Let's say we got a little fun

2108
01:45:08,160 --> 01:45:09,360
Speaker 1: let's see y'all next week.

2109
01:45:09,280 --> 01:45:11,840
Speaker 3: By y'all, what's up y'all?

2110
01:45:11,880 --> 01:45:14,240
Speaker 10: Show Girl next Greek and it's sure girls right in

2111
01:45:14,280 --> 01:45:20,120
Speaker 10: the call, and I got some really good news. But y'all, yeah, period, y'all,

2112
01:45:20,760 --> 01:45:24,240
Speaker 10: We are about to revamp our whole Patreon. We got

2113
01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:26,840
Speaker 10: so much new ship coming soon for y'all, Like we

2114
01:45:26,880 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 10: about to be doing challenges, we about to be doing

2115
01:45:28,880 --> 01:45:31,680
Speaker 10: in blog. Were really about to be dropping a lot

2116
01:45:31,680 --> 01:45:34,519
Speaker 10: of exclusive content for y'all. So if one episode a

2117
01:45:34,560 --> 01:45:36,640
Speaker 10: week is not enough, y'all about to get some more

2118
01:45:36,720 --> 01:45:37,719
Speaker 10: content on patent.

2119
01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:41,040
Speaker 1: Yes y'all be saying, oh, say episodes longer, I mean

2120
01:45:41,160 --> 01:45:43,320
Speaker 1: twice a week. Well, this is your opportunity to see

2121
01:45:43,400 --> 01:45:45,720
Speaker 1: us twice a week. And also you wanna get you're

2122
01:45:45,720 --> 01:45:47,840
Speaker 1: gonna get a look into our lives. No one's on

2123
01:45:47,960 --> 01:45:51,120
Speaker 1: a personal level, So make sure y'all sign up at

2124
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Speaker 1: Patreon dot com backslash, poor mind sign up today. There's

2125
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Speaker 1: different tiers, so if you want audio only, you can

2126
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Speaker 1: just listen. If you want video and yo, we have

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Speaker 1: that too. And also we have a top top tier

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Speaker 1: where you get exclusive access to merch show all that

2129
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Speaker 1: and sign up today.

2131
01:46:13,840 --> 01:46:16,880
Speaker 6: Hey, hey, I want to saw way you got it

2132
01:46:16,960 --> 01:46:20,120
Speaker 6: on the hottest around looking no and see it when

2133
01:46:20,200 --> 01:46:23,280
Speaker 6: the is around you. A soldier with the top down,

2134
01:46:23,400 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 6: feeling in the south, quaking and vibrate your thighs right

2135
01:46:26,479 --> 01:46:27,759
Speaker 6: a harder the guy.

2136
01:46:29,080 --> 01:46:33,400
Speaker 1: Come on EA signed with them? Laden, tell him don't

2137
01:46:33,439 --> 01:46:36,360
Speaker 1: even try to shoot it. Shoot it with shell Kelly,

2138
01:46:36,640 --> 01:46:45,439
Speaker 1: how be you gotta be geez you out of the league, glea,

2139
01:46:46,720 --> 01:46:48,800
Speaker 1: can it pankeep that with cleaning.

2140
01:46:49,880 --> 01:46:52,800
Speaker 3: Always be talking that coutry saying we like that.

2141
01:46:52,960 --> 01:46:56,640
Speaker 2: Be that be in the bag being I'll get so

2142
01:46:56,800 --> 01:47:00,519
Speaker 2: long from the cheese love when he keep my body

2143
01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:05,360
Speaker 2: screaming a row boy that's good to me with stream incredibility,

2144
01:47:07,280 --> 01:47:08,880
Speaker 2: I ain't checking for better be.

2145
01:47:09,040 --> 01:47:10,519
Speaker 3: Street if he's looking at me.

2146
01:47:10,880 --> 01:47:13,680
Speaker 1: I need a soldier that ain't gonna stand up for me.

2147
01:47:15,000 --> 01:47:17,400
Speaker 3: Big things, if you know what I mean, I.

2148
01:47:20,000 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 2: Shaking, better be streaming and be looking at me. I

2149
01:47:23,479 --> 01:47:26,080
Speaker 2: need a soldier that ain't gonna stand up for me.

2150
01:47:27,000 --> 01:47:31,760
Speaker 2: Carry on the boys up the top front of bee

2151
01:47:31,840 --> 01:47:35,320
Speaker 2: can remember you know how to flip that money three way?

2152
01:47:35,920 --> 01:47:39,000
Speaker 1: Yo. Always want to be on the freeway with.

2153
01:47:39,160 --> 01:47:42,679
Speaker 14: That East soul and those country girls with like low

2154
01:47:42,800 --> 01:47:46,600
Speaker 14: cut caesars, with the deep way, with the stash of

2155
01:47:46,720 --> 01:47:52,240
Speaker 14: y'all beyond your bay women down poppa noway telling us

2156
01:47:52,320 --> 01:47:53,120
Speaker 14: that country.

2157
01:47:52,880 --> 01:47:55,200
Speaker 3: Girl the kind of girls they like, and.

2158
01:47:56,960 --> 01:48:00,280
Speaker 1: I ain't shaking for better be streeting and leaking at me.

2159
01:48:00,600 --> 01:48:16,639
Speaker 1: I need a soldier. Yeah, hold yeah, girl, what hey,

2160
01:48:16,840 --> 01:48:25,599
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I hate that up. I'm sorry.

2161
01:48:26,560 --> 01:48:28,240
Speaker 3: Okay, you just go ahead.

2162
01:48:32,160 --> 01:48:35,960
Speaker 13: So well that they want to spend that on me.

2163
01:48:37,680 --> 01:48:41,800
Speaker 13: I know some soul doesn't here? Am I putting that

2164
01:48:41,960 --> 01:48:48,240
Speaker 13: on me? This is the part you wanted so bad,

2165
01:48:50,120 --> 01:48:50,960
Speaker 13: Oh to y'all.

2166
01:48:52,120 --> 01:48:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. We don't remember this verse.

2167
01:48:55,880 --> 01:48:57,200
Speaker 1: We wait on lo wayne part.

2168
01:48:59,520 --> 01:49:01,800
Speaker 10: Okay, they don't see me on the block. I ain't

2169
01:49:01,920 --> 01:49:05,120
Speaker 10: trying to hide or being bleaned with the hood. I'm

2170
01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:09,000
Speaker 10: cameouflaged band in the tie. So Mammy joining my truth.

2171
01:49:09,160 --> 01:49:09,280
Speaker 1: Now.

2172
01:49:09,360 --> 01:49:11,400
Speaker 3: Every time she see my name, she's the look.

2173
01:49:12,960 --> 01:49:13,479
Speaker 1: The look.

2174
01:49:15,920 --> 01:49:17,719
Speaker 3: Might be one of Pound the Knight.

2175
01:49:19,400 --> 01:49:22,800
Speaker 1: And my zone, and you don't know, it might be

2176
01:49:23,000 --> 01:49:25,719
Speaker 1: on the night looking good.

2177
01:49:25,640 --> 01:49:30,000
Speaker 3: And he's talking round that might change my life.

2178
01:49:31,240 --> 01:49:36,080
Speaker 1: I look at him, my girls that one tonight.

2179
01:49:42,680 --> 01:49:46,480
Speaker 10: No, no, lie, let me say this's on camera. Michelle

2180
01:49:47,240 --> 01:49:49,400
Speaker 10: used to have the hardest verses.

2181
01:49:51,400 --> 01:49:55,280
Speaker 3: On every like they do. She used to have the

2182
01:49:55,400 --> 01:49:57,160
Speaker 3: best part period