1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all at all. 2 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: Suit on the down, giving them move like the milking 3 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: buck bus things and its cubs. Y'all good it, Steve 4 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: ha listen to movie together for Stu. Please, Mommy, I 5 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: don't join by join me, be doing me. You gotta 6 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: turn you, you gotta turn the turnout. You got to 7 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: turn them out. Then turn the water the water got me. 8 00:01:55,440 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: Come come on your back. Uh huh, I sure will. 9 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on 10 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a 11 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: radio show. Well, I gotta tell you something everybody, and 12 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: this is great news for everybody that or share something 13 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: with your principle of becoming successful at whatever level you choose. 14 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: It can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family. 15 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 1: Successes may be considered to you becoming a homeowner. It 16 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: could be being dead free. Your ideal of success could 17 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: be sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, one 18 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars a year. Doesn't matter if you're considering it, 19 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: if you're wanting it, if you have a desire to 20 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: become successful. I want to share with you, the very 21 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: beginning of that. If no one's ever done it, I'm 22 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: going to say the beginning of it today. See Scripture 23 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: makes it very clear for us you don't The only 24 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: thing you need to become successful is already inside of you. 25 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: It's not an external need. God wouldn't do that to you. 26 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: He puts the core basis of everything you need inside 27 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: of you. So if you discover it, if you tend 28 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: to it, nurture it, fertilize it, and water it, it grows, 29 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: it branches out. Then it reaches out externally and it 30 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: starts grabbing things outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better, 31 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: lasts longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything. 32 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship 33 00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me 34 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a 35 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: God given gift that He has given to all of us. 36 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: We all possess it. It is all within us that 37 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: everybody has a gift. Had somebody told me what I 38 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: know now back then, I would have saved myself tons 39 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had 40 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: to learn them all well. One of the principles of 41 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: becoming successful is your mind set. You got to get 42 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: your mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision 43 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 1: that you can make. I can't get it for you. 44 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: I can tell you what to do, but you got 45 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: to make the decision. You just listening have to decide. 46 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna go on and get at it. 47 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop wrinting. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You 48 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna stop living check 49 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: to check. I'm gonna put a budget together. I'm gonna 50 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: stop stepping out on my family. I'm gonna go home. 51 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it together. I'm gonna stop using when 52 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: you make these decisions, that's correcting your mindset. Now. The 53 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: closer connection you have with God, the more help you 54 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you started 55 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions have 56 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: you made at the New Year and stop by February? 57 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: Over by me at January? Done in March. Because if 58 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 1: you don't have a clear connection with your creator to 59 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: help you carry out the other force out there, that 60 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: evil force is designed to get you not to reach 61 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: your goals, get you not to come to resolution with 62 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: whatever the resolutions are you made, so he can so 63 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: you can consider yourself not worthy or failure or unable 64 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: to do something. But the more things you are able 65 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So we 66 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: got to get your mindset together. Your mindset is a 67 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: decision that you have to make. When you make the decision, 68 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: you can begin the process. Your mindset is also a 69 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: will of yours, a will along with the decision, a will, 70 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: a willingness to do right, a willingness to change, a 71 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: willingness to be better. It's going to then cause you 72 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,559 Speaker 1: to have to make a decision to make a change 73 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: of direction. Don't go where everybody else going. You got 74 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: to go your way. Now, you can't follow the crowd. 75 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: You got to take a less travel path. You cannot 76 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: do this without changing your direction. You can't keep hanging 77 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: with the people you've been hanging with if you want 78 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: to be different because they're not. Then you have to 79 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: develop an obligation to yourself. You've got to say, you 80 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 1: know what for me and my family, or if you 81 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: don't have a family, for me I owe it to myself. 82 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: I have an obligation to myself to be the best 83 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: me that I can possibly be, to be the best 84 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: self that I can possibly be, to be the best father, 85 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: the best man, the best husband, the best wife, the 86 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: best mother, the best daughter, the best son, the best student, 87 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: the best employ ye, the best owner. You have an 88 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: obligation to yourself to give yourself a shot at the 89 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: best life you can. That's an obligation. You owe that 90 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: to yourself. Why would you not live the best life 91 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: that you possibly could. You have an obligation to yourself. 92 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: Why would you teat yourself like that? Why would you 93 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: take yourself and never allow yourself to see the goodness 94 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: that's already in you, to have the abundance that's been 95 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: promised to you, to go and explore all the riches 96 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: out there that's available to you. And but one of 97 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: the worst ways that you can rob yourself of the 98 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: joy of your obligation is to keep comparing yourself to 99 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: somebody else. Because guess what, Man, that ain't your life. 100 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: You ain't Jay z and Beyonce, You're You're not Oper Instead, man, 101 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: that's not who you are. Quit looking around at everybody 102 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: else that comparison of everybody else to keep you broken. 103 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: It'll keep you unhappy. You won't even be able to 104 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: be grateful for what you have because you steady talking 105 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: about what you don't have. That's not the way, man. 106 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: You have an obligation to yourself to be the best 107 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: you You can be, not the best them. You're not them. 108 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: Stop trying to be them. Be the best you. It's cool. 109 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: You got a nice little house. That's cool. You know 110 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: how many big houses is empty and feel with hate 111 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house feel with 112 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: joy in it than to go to a big house. Man. 113 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: Prince got a line in a song that says, I realized, 114 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: in its best disguise, a pretty house don't make her home. Man. 115 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: Don't you know I know how true that is? So 116 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you now. Another part of 117 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: the mindset is taking dead aim at your life's goals 118 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: and ambitions. What are they? What are your goals and 119 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 1: your visions? What do you see for yourself? What do 120 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 1: you dream about? If you knew you couldn't fail at 121 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: whatever it is you were attempting, what would you go attempting? See? 122 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: That's what we need to be after. We need to 123 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 1: get that. If you're sitting there thinking about it, man, 124 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: it's got to be mold to this. It is, it is. 125 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: That's the God in you crying out. That's the seed 126 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: that was planning in you. That's the gift that's in 127 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 1: there that's been locked away for years. It ain't too 128 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: late to open that door. Man, when is it too 129 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: late to be free? Asking Nelson Mandela when he was alive, 130 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: Nelson Mandela suffered twenty some years man, behind the wall. 131 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: When he got out, he was more powerful, more significant 132 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: than he was before he went in. Ain't ever too 133 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: late to be free. It's a mindset. It's a mindset, y'all. 134 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: It's a decision. It's a will. It's a change of direction. 135 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: It's an obligation to yourself. It's taking dead aim at 136 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: your life's visions and goals. Come on, man, you got 137 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: to get your mind wrapped around this thing. You owe 138 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: it to yourself to live the best life you can be. 139 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: Come on, man, God didn't create you to be an inmate. 140 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: What you're sitting in there? Fall now when you make 141 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 1: your mistaken you do your time, and you come out. 142 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: Don't let nobody fool you. Well, I got this. I 143 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: can't get a job. I guess I gotta go do 144 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: what I gotta do. Are you stupid? For real? That's 145 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: the decision you'd made. Nah man, you're gonna wind up 146 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 1: right back in now. Come on, man, talk to God. 147 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: God got something for you. You just gotta check in 148 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: with him. You're listening show, ladies, a gentleman, man, have 149 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: you undivided attention? Please? I need it all because partial 150 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: attention isn't good. It's not exemplary behavior, and therefore we 151 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: need it all. Okay, now that we have that, let 152 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: me tell you what's happening here. Just here to Steve 153 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. That's what it is. Good morning show. 154 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Steve, Lord Colin for real? What's up? 155 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: Amy Soup Junior? Morning man? Here from you, Thomas Miles. 156 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: What's going on? Steve Harvey? How are you feeling like 157 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: a plow in the process? Yeah? Well, how was it, Steve? 158 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: You're two days off? I'm sure you were working or something. 159 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: Oh girl, please know they wasn't no two days off. 160 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:02,479 Speaker 1: I wish from the radio, wish. Well, yes, little difficulties, 161 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: but you know everything's good. God is good. He's amazing, 162 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: it's awesome. He does incredible things for us, even things 163 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: that we're not even aware of. Man, if you believe 164 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: in him, he's always moving on your behalf. What I 165 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: did learn was on days when I may do this 166 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: for my closing remarks too, On days when it appears 167 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: as though, when it appears as though you're not having 168 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 1: a good day, that things are not going your way 169 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: and you feel that your weakest times, those are your 170 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: times that could potentially be your strongest times, because if 171 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: you're smart, it turns you to God and you become closer. 172 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: So in your weakness, he will become your strength. That's 173 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: what I've learned over these past two days. That was 174 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: supposed to be off. I got a lot of strength 175 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: from God, a lot of strength from me. I ain't man, man, 176 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: can you please do that for your close remark going 177 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:08,719 Speaker 1: through that situation right now? Ah? Man, Man, Well, I 178 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: don't know if I can give you that, but I 179 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:12,599 Speaker 1: can tell you what I went through, and you know, 180 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 1: help me out. I'm here, I'm fine. Yeah, everything is 181 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 1: beautiful and it's a way. I don't know where that 182 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: came from. Its appropriate though, I heard heard that song somewhere. Yeah, yeah, 183 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: I know Stevens group that No, it's Ray Stevens. Uh care, Okay, 184 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: who don't know who that is though? So that was 185 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 1: Ray Stevens, man, and I have no idea where that 186 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: came from. Some country singer Ray Stevens. And don't read 187 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 1: what I'm saying that because the board engineer told me 188 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: that's who it was. I don't know who that was. 189 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 1: It was Ray Stevens. Yeah, I knew the song, but 190 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know who. Clueless you just heard it. Yeah, 191 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: but it's amazing how still pops into your heads quite 192 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: a crazy man. Welcome. I've got a huge memory. But 193 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: what you know, we'll stop popping your head. That's what 194 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: That's what I go to. Oh, I got, I'll go go. 195 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: I gotta go. Good some counseling. And see I'm turning 196 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: into you. I got stopped telling me. Oh, all right, listen, 197 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: we'll be back. Guess what time it is, Steve? You 198 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: came back just in time for your favorite segment? Asked Steve. 199 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: It's coming up at thirty two after the hour, right 200 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: after this you're listening to, all right, Steve, your favorite segment? 201 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: Asked Steve, Guess what time it is. Man, ready, it 202 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: is time for asked Steve? What you need? All right, 203 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: here we go. Here's the first question, Steve. Name something 204 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: that you were really really excited about it. I mean, 205 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: couldn't wait. Tell it came out when it came out 206 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: and didn't live up to the hype. Pink Panther, Man, worst, 207 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: damn man, Man, I want to see Pink Panther first time? 208 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: How great that move was going to? Mind? What what 209 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: am I doing in here? You know? You know, man, 210 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: it was a detective movie. It was horrible. I don't 211 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: even it was. Oh it's horrible. Peter Seller's right, I 212 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: hate every minute of that movie. That's the worst movie 213 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: I've gone to that I thought was coming out. It 214 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: was a long time ago. But it's amazing how that 215 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: popped up to because I knew exactly. Man, it's like 216 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: you or the remake? Which one? Oh no, no, not 217 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: the old one? Oh god, oh god? Tell us how 218 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: you really? All right? All right, thank you for that. 219 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: Tell me Let me think, Let me think. What is 220 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: a story that you've been waiting to share? But no 221 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: one has asked the right question? Man? So many that's 222 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: a tough one, man, because I've shared a lot of stories. Yeah, 223 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: your story, and I love telling stories too, So it's 224 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: like it excites me to tell stories because it's just 225 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: in my blood to tellsty That's how my whole career 226 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: has been Comedically. I'm not a joke writer. I'm a storyteller. 227 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm I paint pictures. I got there from Richard Product. 228 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: He was such a vivid picture painter. That story, now, yeah, 229 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: I mean you know, whether you knew what he was 230 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: talking about precisely or if you had it in your 231 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: memory bank, it didn't matter, or wasn't experiencing yours. It 232 00:16:56,360 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: didn't matter his ability to paint the picture of the 233 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: wine standing in the street, that book, the numbers didn't 234 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 1: need paying on paper, stood in the middle of the 235 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: street directing traffic. That that that story he was telling. Man, 236 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: it's like phenomena A right, Steve. At this point, I'm 237 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,479 Speaker 1: going to remind you please to keep your answers as 238 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: brief as possible. So that was his briefs. There was 239 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: a story question. Excuse me, you know, Carlo, your turn, 240 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 1: you're up, all right? Here you go. If you could 241 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: add ten years to your life or ten million dollars 242 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: to your bank account, come on, no, give me the 243 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 1: ten years, hands down, give me the ten years. Yeah, 244 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 1: I'll make that man, give me them ten years. Maybe 245 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: I should ask Tommy, which would you choose? Because I 246 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: asked that for Tommy. Right now, if you gave Tommy 247 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: ten million dollars, here, take it and fake his death 248 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 1: in front of you. Yeah, yeah, start over, Junior. What 249 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: you got carlor Yo? You already as I did? I did? 250 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: All right? Uh, all right, so um, you've been around 251 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: a minute, man, What is something that was way better 252 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 1: about fifteen years ago? Something that you just knew way better. 253 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: I need a little bit more time than that, because 254 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: I would say music. Music. Answer, still a little bit 255 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: more than fifteen and I'll tell you it was music. Yeah, 256 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: that was two thousand and four. Oh no, music was 257 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 1: to me in two thousand and four. I ain't know 258 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 1: what the hill was going. Didn't seem like a wow, 259 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: yeah yo, wow, I was moving it really it's moving really, yes, yeah, 260 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: it's already made. Yeah. You know. I want to remind 261 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: you surely that these questions should come along at a 262 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: lot quicker pace. All right, here we go, Steve, how 263 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 1: do you? How do you? How do you live? Dangerously? 264 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: You know. Is there something you do that's a little edgy, dangerous? 265 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: How do you live that way? I mean, what do 266 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: you do? Yeah, he's pretty safe. You're a pretty safe 267 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: Damn show ain't his Texas. It's not swimming none of that. 268 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: Ain't no sky. You know, you don't learn how to fly, 269 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: no plane. Probably the most interest thing I do is 270 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: I stand on the edge of a boat when he 271 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: is moving about as out there as I give it. 272 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: Boat moving, Steve is slow, but it's moving. Yeah. You're 273 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: pretty safe, though, Steve. Yeah you are? Yeah, yeah, all right, 274 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 1: come on, tell me you're up. Oh, okay, okay, okay. 275 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:07,959 Speaker 1: What bogus award did you win in high school? Did 276 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: you ever win a Bogus award in high school? Yeah? 277 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: I want the most difficult. It ain't bogus. That's that's 278 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 1: on point. Ain't that's only one I want? Ain't nothing. 279 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: How are you difficult in high school? What were you doing? 280 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I ain't get it, man, I 281 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 1: ain't let nobody at my school. So what you know? 282 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 1: Why are we in here? What what is your studying for? 283 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: I ain't learning nothing? And when are we graduating? So 284 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 1: I can turn the page and get on with my life, 285 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: which I went and started destroying it right away. Right 286 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: after high school. I started destroying my life personally. Oh man, no, man, 287 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: throw it up, and I'm telling my win on a towel. 288 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 1: But look at you now, Yeah, thank you Jesus. It 289 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: worked out. I am slowly becoming the person person I 290 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: should have been a long time ago. So damn shame. 291 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 1: Really all right, do we have a time for one 292 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: more quick one? Carla? Come on, all right, here we go. 293 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: What is the one thing that you always fight about 294 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: with your significant other? One thing quickly? What was it 295 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: in my backyard? What is that? Yeah? Baby baby? Why 296 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: do we have that out here? The grandkids? I don't 297 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 1: won't know my grandkid? All right? Coming up, more fun, 298 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 1: run that prank back with a nephew in the building. 299 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, coming up at the top 300 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: of the hour and entertainment news, some sad news. This 301 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: is really sad. Ghetto Boys member Bushwick Bill has staged 302 00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: four pancreatic cancer. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah Bushwick Yeah 303 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: so we're the Ghetto Boys. Yeah yeah yeah, stage four. 304 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: So definitely put him on your prayer list. That's definitely. 305 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: But right now, the nephew is here, would run that 306 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: brank back what you got for his nap? He left? 307 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,959 Speaker 1: He is draw? Did he? Now? Let's say that one 308 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: more time. He left? He is draw. I know I'm 309 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,119 Speaker 1: the only one on the show that has left your 310 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: draw before. But he left, he is gives me I left. 311 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:49,239 Speaker 1: You never get into this? What is it? Y'all never 312 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: asked me that story? That's the one story, right, we 313 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: want to hear that one? Well, trust is, We're gonna 314 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: ask you here, he left this draw. Let's run a 315 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: cat Hello, yes, mister, yes, hey, this is the door 316 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: man mark your building. Okay, I have a mistress in 317 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: here who is trying to get buzzed up to your unit? 318 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 1: Are you Are you at home right now? Sir? No? No, no, sir, 319 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,959 Speaker 1: I'm not a who Yeah? He mister? Um, what's you say? 320 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? What you say? Mister? And he was he 321 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 1: buzzed up? Supposedly he left some articles in the room. 322 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: Are in your unit a couple of days ago? And 323 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: that was out of count A couple of days ago? 324 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 1: What day are we talking about? Uh so? What was actually? 325 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: He said? Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. He was there all 326 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 1: three days. You guys let him into my apartment for 327 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: three days. He was in my place, missip. We don't 328 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 1: let anybody in and let someone in the unit allows 329 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: them to be buzzed up. That's the rules here of 330 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,479 Speaker 1: the building. So we definitely didn't do anything ter him. 331 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: Who the mending, Sir? I hate to say it, but 332 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: I'm assuming your wife wants to bust him up. You 333 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: mean my wife was not there three days ago. She 334 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: was on a business trip. She was not at the 335 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 1: apartment three days ago. No, sir, your wife was here. 336 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 1: I've actually seen your wife come in and out. Okay, 337 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 1: to do that? Is there right now? He's downstair. He's 338 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: here right now with me, Sir. What did he leave him? Okay, 339 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: one second, missus, hang on, what did you actually leave? 340 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: Fair of pants and what else? He says, he left 341 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: a pair of pants, some underwear and a two frush shirt. Sir, 342 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: was still kill hill. He's there right now. Let me 343 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: talk to him. Put him on the phone. Let me 344 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 1: talk some guards. You know, I miss im. Right now, 345 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: we're listening to you, and I rate the way you're saying. 346 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: I don't want to put this cow on the phone. 347 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: Mark if you want to keep your job at the building. 348 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: You gonna put him on the phone now, miss sir. Sorry, missus, 349 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: he's actually leaving out of the building now, he's uh 350 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: you let me, he's walk out. I shouldn't put him 351 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: on the phone. It's your problem. You got video surveilance, right, 352 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: You got video footage that everybody that comes in and 353 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 1: out of the building, right, Um, yes, sir, but you know, 354 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: if if nothing occurs, we I think we should have 355 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: footage that goes back at least two weeks, so we 356 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: should be able to pull some things up for you. Sir. Yeah, 357 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to get that. And I need 358 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: to hit over to me right now. I'm at my 359 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: work email. I need it to day because this is 360 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: some h'all let my apartment and this is it's like, 361 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: what kind of the income people are you? What kind 362 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: of in before are you? Sir? Missus? Missus a second? 363 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: All right, well, let please hear me out, sir, hear 364 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: me out. I have we haven't just let someone in 365 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 1: someone in your unit. Buzz someone up. We didn't just 366 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: let anyone up. Now, I know you don't want to 367 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: hear it, but I'm assuming your wife buzz this guy 368 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: just turned up. We didn't do that. Shu up and 369 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: get me what I asked for and then with done. Okay, Well, 370 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 1: well you know you're saying I am a problem. Maybe 371 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: you have a problem pleasing your wife and that's why 372 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: she's buzzing other people up. You talking to me like that, 373 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: you're being you're respectful to me as well, sir. No, no, no, no. 374 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: The disrespectful is you coming and letting people come up 375 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: in my business. That you know is now. I haven't 376 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: let anybody up here. I can't stop your wife from 377 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: doing what she's doing. Do you like forgetting him what 378 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: you're thinking? It might have packing out on me and 379 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,479 Speaker 1: what you should be saying to your wife. Somebody has 380 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: got to dress up all the time and always buzzing 381 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: somebody up to the room on your guard. That's what 382 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: for me, the man missus you you you know what, 383 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: I'm the only round him busting my head kids, Dawn, man, 384 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 1: I want be working right now to pay for that 385 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: so they job. Well, you might be handling you, but whatever, dender, 386 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: you're not. You're not handling your business at home. That's 387 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: why she keeps buzzing people. Sir, you know what what 388 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: the business. I'm an hindle. When I get home today 389 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: is shown your your wife has been Sir, you're gonna 390 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 1: quit calling me the doorman? Okay? You woman? What's your 391 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: mother position to what you do for a living. I'm 392 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: a doorman, door and thank you missus door man. By fact, 393 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop calling you miss the door man, because 394 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: that's giving you too much respect. Okay, but if you know, 395 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: if you if you stopped calling me from going up 396 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: to your room, you'll be fine. Who the Tommy nephew 397 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your wife got 398 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 1: me the prank phone call you listen, you're crazy, Yes, 399 00:27:50,720 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: about to get you a job. Cussing man, cool man, 400 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: You don't know that was going through my head and 401 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: she was about to get it, y'all. Everybody was about up. 402 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: Hey man, I gotta ask you, man, what is the 403 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,360 Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Man, 404 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: gotta be the Steve Harvey Morning He left his draws? Now, 405 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: I want to hear how Steve left his draws? How 406 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 1: you leave you never asked him that? Man? When I 407 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: was twenty six years man in Colombus, Ohio, all I 408 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: went down there with my boy Ronnie Florida real name 409 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 1: Ronnie Barrett. You should call it Ronnie Florida because he 410 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: used to well anyway anyway, yeah, anyway, he did some 411 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: stuff in Florida he used to do all the time 412 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: and bring it back with him. Yeah, I got and 413 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: so we both took an insurance interest exam together and 414 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: we met to these girls down in Colombus and we 415 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: spent the night, and uh, it was time to go home, 416 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: and I just I didn't know where it was. You know, 417 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: it was so wild up in there. Man, I ain't 418 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: know my damn draws. But and I needed them draws too, 419 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: because I ain't had no money back then. So I 420 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 1: needed your draws because I wore them. I wore them 421 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 1: draws a couple of times a week, so well, thank you, No, no, 422 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: not two in a row. But I didn't have a 423 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 1: lot of underwear, so you know, they getting washed. I 424 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: got to put the's gonna show up twice in a week. 425 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: I knew you, all right, thank you for sharing. But 426 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: don't say don't don't don't try to act like you 427 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: ain't never had no draws on two days in a row. 428 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: Please don't try to act like that. I'm not okay. Hello, 429 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: all right, listen, we'll be back coming up at the 430 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 1: top of the hour. Entertainment news right after that. You're listening, 431 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: all right, Some very sad news out of Houston. Ghetto 432 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 1: Boys founding member bush Wig Bill revealed that he is 433 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: battling stage four pancreatic cancer. He's fifty two year old 434 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: years old now. He says he was diagnosed a few 435 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 1: months ago but kept his condition private, telling only his 436 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,959 Speaker 1: close friends and family. Bushwick says his doctors had been 437 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: concerned about a mass on his pancreas and put him 438 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: through a round of tests, but thought it was benign. 439 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: Then another test back in February confirmed it was cancerous. 440 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: He is currently undergoing chemotherapy. We are definitely definitely praying 441 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 1: for And man, what was that jaim Man oh Man? 442 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 1: That was my cut man? Yes, man, that was my 443 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 1: favorite Jaim oh Man home my mind, playing tricks on me, 444 00:30:51,640 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: hanging on the weekend. Man, that was my jam real, 445 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: that was my favorite James. I love that soul. Yeah, 446 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: dropping bees on man. Ask you guys, because you all 447 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: are all from Houston, did you know? Yeah, I know, Willie, 448 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 1: I know, Brad Jordan. They come to the bab shop. 449 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 1: I see Brad every Thursday. Mana yeah. Wow. Their true 450 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: legends of hip hop now't have time, so they're so cool. 451 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah them in the city that you can speak to him. 452 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 1: Oh wow, dude man Man. Yeah, yeah, Hey Steve and 453 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah play some golf man, Yeah, he goes, oh he 454 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: got yeah, Brad play Brad Geordan. Wow. We saw Willie 455 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,719 Speaker 1: d at your concert, Junior and Tommy when you concert 456 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: being the Green. Well they don't sit out in the audience. 457 00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 1: Will he come in the back? They all? Yeah. Well, anyway, again, 458 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 1: our prayers are definitely going up for Bushwick Bill Um 459 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 1: Yeah and other entertainment news. Michelle and Barack Obama. Remember 460 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 1: back Um, it was a few months ago when they 461 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: signed that big deal for uh for Netflix with Netflix. 462 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: I should say, well, they have finally unveiled the TV 463 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: shows they're producing for Netflix. In a statement, Um, Barack 464 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: Obama said, we're creating the production company Higher Ground to 465 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: harness the power of storytelling. Okay, Steve, you ought to 466 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: be able to relate to this, being a storyteller yourself, Okay. 467 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: He said. That's why we couldn't be more excited about 468 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: these projects, and they're going to be touching on issues 469 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 1: of race and class, democracy and civil rights and much more. 470 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: And he says, we believe each of these productions won't 471 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: just entertain, but they will educate, connect and inspire us 472 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: all And isn't that what we would expect from the 473 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 1: Obama anyway? Nothing the high road, yeire us? All? Yeah, 474 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: just Netflix, don't get the Trump. This is enough real life. Man. 475 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm just amazed that this, you know, Man, I'm I'm 476 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 1: so frustrated with politics right now because man, it's it's 477 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 1: just it's it is. It is really really hard to watch. 478 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: And I'm like you, Shirley, you know, we're talking a 479 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: couple of days. I just took a few days off 480 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 1: from watching and you, oh yeah, because man, it's it's 481 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: it's the same old thing, man, even CNN, Fox is 482 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: it It's Fox is so hard to watch. But CNN 483 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: has gotten hard to watch too, man, because I'm just 484 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: watching the same old story. Is anybody trying to do 485 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: anything for the people? Good question. I don't know if 486 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: there's an answer out there. All right, Steve, we got 487 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 1: to move on, though, timoths Anne, ladies, and gentlemen, miss 488 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 1: Anne Tripp, thank you very much everybody. And yeah, well 489 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: I have to watch the news every day. I don't 490 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: get to take a break, so you know, this is 491 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 1: this is my job anyway, this is the end, This 492 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: is the news. The US Attorney General William Barr testify 493 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: before the Senate Judiciary Committee yesterday, repeatedly defending the way 494 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: he handled the Muller report, the way he summed up 495 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 1: its four hundred pages into just a four page note, 496 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 1: and while he alleged that the Mueller has since let 497 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,800 Speaker 1: him know in a letter that he did not capture 498 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: the quote, context, nature, and substance of his work. However, 499 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 1: Barr claims to see things like this, you know, the 500 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,280 Speaker 1: letters a bit snitty, and I think it was probably 501 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 1: written by one of his staff people. He said that 502 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: they were concerned about the way the media was playing 503 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: this well. Republican Committee chairman Lindsay Graham said that he'd 504 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: sent a letter to Robert Muller asked him if that 505 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 1: was in fact how he views it, but he didn't 506 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 1: go so far as promising to bring Mahlabahore before the 507 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: Republican dominated committee to testify. By the way, the age 508 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: was supposed to appear before the Democratic majority House Judiciary 509 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: Committee today, but William Barr says, I'm not going. Committee 510 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 1: Chairman Gerald Nadler says, well, testifying before Congressional Committee suitie 511 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,879 Speaker 1: is not optional. Bar will be subpoenaed if he still 512 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: refuses to show, and he could face a year in 513 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: jail and a one hundred one hundred thousand dollars fine. Yeah. 514 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,839 Speaker 1: The trime administration has joined a coalition of Republican led 515 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: states in an effort to get rid of Obama Care. 516 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,800 Speaker 1: The group's hoping to get an appeals court to uphold 517 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 1: a lower court ruling in Texas that says the affordable 518 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 1: healthcare requirement that all Americans have insurance without a tax 519 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 1: penalty is unconstitutional. The government over there's still a lot 520 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: of disagreement, and they were shots fired yesterday, a lot 521 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,760 Speaker 1: of street demonstrations against the government in Venezuela over activist 522 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 1: Juan Guido. Thoseistrations, by the way, have been asked for 523 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: by Guido, so they continue now. US passenger jets are 524 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 1: being ordered to fly above the fray in Venezuela at 525 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 1: twenty six thousand feet or higher because of the political crisis. 526 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 1: Some fifty nations, including the US, have acknowledged Guido as 527 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: the new president of Venezuela since January's election. In Georgia, 528 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 1: woman has been sent to die by lethal injection for 529 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 1: starving her stepdaughters to death. In the Atlanta suburb of Lawrenceville. 530 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: Six years ago, a thirty six year old Tiffany Moss 531 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: convicted of several charges including murder, cruelty the children, trying 532 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: to conceal the death of ten year old Imani Moss 533 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 1: by burning her body in a trash cam. Sad news 534 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 1: by Wave Entertainment reporter Caru Daniels, the talented Braxton family 535 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 1: has lost a member. Caru says that according to TMZ, 536 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 1: Lauren Braxton, daughter of the only Braxton brother, has died 537 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: of a heart condition. Michael Conrad Braxton as the Brackton's 538 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: sister's only male sibling, and Lauren Braxton was his child. 539 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: She was twenty four years old. Finally, Today's National Baby 540 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: Day and they're so lovely. Now back to the Steve 541 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to this day show all right. 542 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:11,240 Speaker 1: In today's political news, when Attorney General William Barr issued 543 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: his own four page memo to Congress summarizing the conclusions 544 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:19,240 Speaker 1: of Special Council Robert Muller's probe into Donald Trump's Russian 545 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: meddling in the twenty sixteen election. Some people complain that 546 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 1: Barr jumped to his own conclusions. Robert Muller wrote himself 547 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: that the summary letter the Department sent to Congress and 548 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 1: released to the public late in the afternoon of March 549 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: twenty fourth did not fully capture the context, nature, and 550 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: substance of this office's work and conclusions. There is now 551 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: public confusion about critical aspects of the results of our investigation, 552 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,319 Speaker 1: and this threatens to undermine a central purpose for which 553 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: the Department appointed the Special Council, to assure full public 554 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 1: confidence in the outcome of the investigations. I mean, they 555 00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: kind of just took it and ran with it and 556 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: no collusion and then kind of closed the book on it, 557 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, it's that that whole 558 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: thing is disastrous. Now this guy was barred, refused to 559 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 1: testify in front of the Judiciary Committee. I mean, this 560 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 1: dude is just a Trump puppeteer, and it's it's incredible. 561 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: The guy who's the supposed to be the Attorney general 562 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: for our nation is the attorney general for the president president, 563 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:32,439 Speaker 1: and he's care he's Trump's uh Steve personal attorney as well, 564 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: you know, instead of the attorney general. You're right, that's 565 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: just what I said, this dude is it's absolutely repulsive 566 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: what they're doing in politics now. And the sad thing 567 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,280 Speaker 1: is the Republicans know that this ain't high is supposed 568 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 1: to go, but since he controls their position, power and money, 569 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: they're letting it all fly. We are in trouble, man, 570 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,919 Speaker 1: if this guy gets in another eight years, because he's 571 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 1: changed a parameter for how government has done, and we 572 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 1: may never get back to what it's supposed to be. 573 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: Sad to here, they really, man, could damage this thing 574 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: another four years it is, and I think what we 575 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,319 Speaker 1: call democracy and and and and anything right, I think 576 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 1: will be going out the window. And you're right. So 577 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,880 Speaker 1: what do you think about Joe Biden getting in the 578 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: race then, because he's trying to undo some of the 579 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: stuff that you're talking about. Now, he that's what he says, 580 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,800 Speaker 1: that's what his platform is. I'm concerned about Joe Biden 581 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 1: because of the reaction to Democrats. Yeah, yeah, iily, you know, man, 582 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,800 Speaker 1: this is gonna seem really weird that I'm saying this 583 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 1: but this is what's happening. They're holding him to a 584 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: standard that the Republicans don't hold Donald Trump too. Yeah, 585 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: all right, coming up at thirty four after the hour 586 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 1: that can Hucky Derby is this weekend. We're gonna talk 587 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 1: about it right after this. You're listening to the Steve 588 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve. This Saturday, the twenty nineteen 589 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 1: Kentucky Derby is in Churchill Downs and Omaha Beach is 590 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 1: the four to one early favorite to win. Of course, 591 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: I know you know about the Kentucky Derby because guess 592 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 1: what you're going right as a pimp. You got your 593 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: hats together as the pimps I used to have. Yeah back, yeah, 594 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:38,279 Speaker 1: really all right? Well, game winner is the five to one. 595 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:42,280 Speaker 1: Second choice roaster is the six to one co third. 596 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: Obama Beach enters the three million dollars I'm sorry, Obama, Sorry, 597 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 1: Omaha Beach, thank you. Carla enters the three million dollars 598 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:57,359 Speaker 1: showcase on a three race winning streak, and many are 599 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: wondering when the tradition of the women start wearing hats. 600 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 1: When did it start? Uh? You know, when did that 601 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,320 Speaker 1: tradition start? When they to wear those hats to the 602 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: derbys Now. According to the Kentucky Derby's website, the hat 603 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 1: wearing tradition was started by co founder by founder Colonel 604 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 1: Merriwether Lewis Clark Junior. Will model the race after high 605 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: class European racing events. At races across the pond, many 606 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:22,879 Speaker 1: women are seeing sporting hats as well. So that's where 607 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 1: they got it. Because I was wondering why all the time. Okay, 608 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 1: now say to say the reason why I do short 609 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 1: well because they wore them in Europe. They wore them 610 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,719 Speaker 1: in Europe, so they modeled. Yeah, so they modeled the 611 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: race after them. At all these high class Europepean racing events, 612 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: the women wore hats. So the founder, Colonel Marywether Lewis Clark, said, oh, 613 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,319 Speaker 1: they're doing it over there. Let's do it over here 614 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,919 Speaker 1: at the race. Let's lady, I'm I'm not saying I'm 615 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: gonna be the cleanest dude at the Derby, but I'll 616 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: tell you what. I want to see a picture on 617 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: who we But you're not saying you the cold Oh no, 618 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: I ain't saying that by a long shot. Parlor. I 619 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 1: ain't got to weight. Since we're betting a like we 620 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 1: got side bens on it. Really, man, please put your money. 621 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,959 Speaker 1: I'm gonna why don't you don't you don't, don't don't 622 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,880 Speaker 1: you down? Can't we just have some colors or something? 623 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,399 Speaker 1: Come give us? Going to the derby as a pimp, 624 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:31,239 Speaker 1: I'm saying that what colors are? Yes, pimp color? What 625 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 1: do pimps? Well? Girl girl, it's spring to Oh yeah, 626 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 1: but I don't give them where we going? Ain't no 627 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: water powder? Boy, it's a toss up. I got one 628 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: of my hats. Guess what colored is? Wow? You can't 629 00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 1: guess the colored. I'm it's it's a name. It's a color, 630 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 1: but it's a name. It's a name of a candid. 631 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 1: That's the color of that. Carla said, skittles up. That's 632 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: close calling let me the girl girl, bub bubble girl. 633 00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: I said pink though, but yeah, it's not even pink. 634 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:29,320 Speaker 1: It's bubba dog. I'm talking about after you didn't shoot 635 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 1: it and got slobbal. I got another outfit out. Think 636 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: about when I was gonna pay tribute to the a K. 637 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 1: I got another word. I say, I might do something 638 00:43:48,840 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 1: honor a princes. No what rest Bob? Come on you fine? Stop? 639 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 1: Okay about the odds and the betty what who are 640 00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 1: you betting on? Who you got? I'm betting on me. 641 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 1: You know what you understand? I ain't going down here, 642 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 1: No hauns. What about Omaha Beach though? That ain't ain't 643 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 1: it ain't time me an timmy pimp pimps, don't pet hawnsing. 644 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,360 Speaker 1: I need all my hands on me. You know what 645 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'mnna behind it, MNA be something clean. I'm 646 00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: gonna be like the possible to help it. Is it 647 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 1: possible to have a wardrobe change at the derby? You know? 648 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 1: You know, remember that dude that you used to be 649 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 1: at the CIA, the pimp that used to come through 650 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: with all the color zones and would change cloone. That 651 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: all be me, you know? All right? Up next, this 652 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 1: is the nephews prying phone call for today. Right after 653 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: this you're listening, coming up at the top of the hour, 654 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,720 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today. 655 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:15,799 Speaker 1: The subject he can leave and take his son with him. Yeah, 656 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 1: but right now, nephew Tommy is here with today's frank 657 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got Now We're gonna going on 658 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: and just really push it to the edge. You know 659 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't. I don't know. If I do, 660 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: I go that fall, I'm gonna go the other you 661 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 1: always do every day. Yeah, yeah, but I want to 662 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,399 Speaker 1: get it on where I just got a grown man 663 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,320 Speaker 1: just damn near. You hear that. You hear that whimple 664 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: back to about to cry? You understand I'm saying. I 665 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: want to get it to that point where I just 666 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 1: take a man to that limit. This right here, why 667 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: we have to add fort y'all relationship departure. Somebody grab 668 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 1: some tissue. It's boy about to cry. Let's go. Hello. 669 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 1: Hey Brian, Hey, baby, that I was um. I was 670 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 1: calling to tell you baby. Look, I just I just 671 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 1: can't do it. I got it. Huh what? Oh? Hello Bryan, Brian? Hey, 672 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,320 Speaker 1: this is Greg. I know I know you was just 673 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: talking to voun, but this is this is Greg talking 674 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 1: to this Brian Greg. Who. Yeah, this is Brian Greg. 675 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: I was just talking to my wife. Did you put 676 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,919 Speaker 1: it back on the phone. Uh No, I'm not gonna 677 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be are to do that. Why can't 678 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,880 Speaker 1: you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain something to you. 679 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: Uh all right, there's some things you know, long conversations 680 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 1: about this. Oh well, well how you know my wife 681 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: on the first man basis like that? Man, how are you? 682 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,560 Speaker 1: Who are you? Like I said, man, my name is 683 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: Greg uh all right? At the airport? Okay, well airport? 684 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,760 Speaker 1: Where the airport? And why you were at the airport 685 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 1: with my wife? Four? Hey let me Hey, all of 686 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah, 687 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,000 Speaker 1: make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want 688 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:16,280 Speaker 1: to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann. 689 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,279 Speaker 1: We've had a lot of long conversation about this. It's 690 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:23,359 Speaker 1: something that you what when when was this? Why? Why 691 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: are you ast the airport with my wife's with me? 692 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 1: And why is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? 693 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 1: And we mean leaving leaving me? Oh hell no, put 694 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:40,840 Speaker 1: it on the phone. And I don't even want to 695 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 1: talk to you, man. Put her on the phone. Put 696 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 1: her on the phone, man, and look, you need to 697 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: put her on the phone right now, leaving. I don't 698 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 1: believe that. Now I want to hear her say that 699 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 1: you want to talk to me. Oh here you're saying, hey, 700 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 1: let me talk to my wife, man, because you you 701 00:47:56,800 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 1: see hey, yeah, yeah, yeah, what's up? What they're dude 702 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: talking about? Sweet to tell you this, Phoe will see 703 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,480 Speaker 1: you think everything, but it hasn't been Okay, why are 704 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,200 Speaker 1: you telling me this phone? Why can't you just come 705 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 1: home and tell me? Can't you just tell me this 706 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 1: to my face? Hey? Hey, hey bro? Come on man? 707 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 1: Why are you my wife? Hey? Hey, hey bro? I 708 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 1: know this is painful. Man. Now you don't know, you 709 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:37,719 Speaker 1: don't know nothing, but I noticed. Okay, the ladies just 710 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:42,160 Speaker 1: put my wife on the Oh you if you got 711 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 1: any ounce of a man and you just put my 712 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: wife's back on the phone. Okay, all right, bro, let me, 713 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,920 Speaker 1: let me, let me say, let me, can I say 714 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: something to you? Man? Sitement it left my wife on 715 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 1: the phone, but you ain't got I'm gonna put it 716 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,840 Speaker 1: on in the second. But then you say this to 717 00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 1: you MANI saying, man, and rap with up because I 718 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,880 Speaker 1: need to talk to my wife. I just want you 719 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,320 Speaker 1: to know this, Brian. This let me. This is nephew 720 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:10,840 Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Tommy got me 721 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: to prank phone call you. What's your hold on? So? 722 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: So okay, if you point to me, what's up with 723 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,399 Speaker 1: the airport and stuff? In the back. Then when y'all 724 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 1: at the airport, No, bro, your wife is here at 725 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,840 Speaker 1: the studio. Man ain't not happening. Man, your wife hold on. 726 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you talk you all right? First of all, 727 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: are you all right? Man? Oh? Man? I was about 728 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: to be a murdersing man. Look at now, who's a 729 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:46,399 Speaker 1: big got you? Finally you could have been a little 730 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 1: bit more than you and y'all. Who your brother? You 731 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: think y'all the only one can pranking people? You and 732 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 1: your brother be pranking all the time. Man, man's life stuff? Girl, 733 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: You ain't happy birthday? Baby? Oh you got a birthday 734 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:09,719 Speaker 1: coming up? Happy birthday, Brian? This yeah, man looking great? 735 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 1: Gifts great? Yes, man, Let me tuck my wife. Man, 736 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,760 Speaker 1: I got ain't got no dude. Your wife hold on? Please? 737 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:23,439 Speaker 1: But what woman? You got me all right? Don't don't 738 00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:27,279 Speaker 1: you ain't gotta go this far? All right? Supposed to 739 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: be funny. I did feel bad, but you kind of 740 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,160 Speaker 1: started tearing up. But I'm glad to know you fight 741 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 1: for me like that fight. It was gonna be some fights. 742 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 1: There wasn't no oh girl, just a bring your black home. 743 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 1: Don't even stop at rent like was I wrong, wrong. 744 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 1: Come did you hear that? That whimple hum? That was 745 00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: too far? Right there? Yeah? That way man was too 746 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 1: far y'all leaving? Have you seen him again? But but 747 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 1: but I got that ambiance, I got that airport side 748 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: in the background though I'm playing him. I'm playing him 749 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 1: all the way. You're doing too much for props and 750 00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:17,360 Speaker 1: high five on your sound effect. That's part of my 751 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 1: production comment. That's production too much. Y'all got to show 752 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 1: me some love, now what that home run here? I mean, okay, 753 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,239 Speaker 1: y'all took his side. Just make me nervous, Tommy for 754 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 1: the you know all that hold on they give me phone? 755 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:37,520 Speaker 1: That was it's too much. And if you had any 756 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 1: kind of man, and you you put my woman my 757 00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:44,719 Speaker 1: woman when you when you hit it, when you hit that, 758 00:51:48,000 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 1: wain't put my way that king. You're the king, all right? Hey? 759 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 1: Everything is sold out this weekend, Virginia Beach. I got. 760 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 1: I added the show four o'clock show on Saturday. Already 761 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 1: sold two hundred seasons over there a little bit left. 762 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 1: I ain't adding no more. Y'all getting wady? Getting this 763 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 1: good landing in the cut is the one and only 764 00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,960 Speaker 1: texts are Anna the Nephews coming to town, and you 765 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 1: can get your tickets at special places. You can go 766 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: to Thomasmile dot com and you can get some tickets. Oh, 767 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 1: if you're in the city, you want to get your 768 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 1: hands on the Miracle closet. Yeah, and que fashion Did 769 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,360 Speaker 1: you hear that? Steve? One more time? Miracle closet and 770 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 1: gee Hugh right, tickets fly so they got to go 771 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 1: down to that. Yeah, Steve Earthquakes said yesterday, who you famous? 772 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 1: Miracle close your something baby closet and TQ fast you 773 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: can stop in there and pick up your tickets on it, 774 00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 1: can I say? Do when you're doing a new you know, 775 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,440 Speaker 1: nice little town like that, you know, I mean, I 776 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:05,440 Speaker 1: mean Miracle Closet and GQ fashioned probably two glace store. 777 00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,000 Speaker 1: I ain't they hustle? That's beautiful. But if that's why 778 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 1: you got to get your tickets though, Yeah, Hold you 779 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 1: ain't down the bottom Miracle clause. Hold you got there 780 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: by targingin't they ain't they ain't they ain't they ain't 781 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 1: they ain't they ain't it target? I know, couldn't here 782 00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: where they ain't that target been? Big ups to k 783 00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 1: m j I Magic ninety two point three. That's how 784 00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: I affiliate in texts up nice. All right, all right, 785 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,800 Speaker 1: well thank you neu up. Next if you if you 786 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:40,880 Speaker 1: want to go ahead and brain let the Strawberry let 787 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 1: up go. I was doing just that. Thank you, n 788 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,240 Speaker 1: up next. It is the Strawberry Letter for today's subject, 789 00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,279 Speaker 1: he can leave and take his son with him. We'll 790 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:54,919 Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening Stry Morning Show. 791 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, 792 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 1: and listen. If you needed on relationships, dating, work, sex, 793 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:07,480 Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please please please submit your Strawberry Letter 794 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,840 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Do 795 00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,760 Speaker 1: it because we've been getting some really great letters lately, 796 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 1: so we want to thank everyone who's been sending in 797 00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: those letters. And we are here for you. We're trying 798 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,120 Speaker 1: to help you. Okay, we could be reading your letter 799 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,360 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this 800 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,960 Speaker 1: one today, right margolu, hold on tight, we gotta fell 801 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,640 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject he can 802 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,400 Speaker 1: leave and take his son with him. Here's Stephen Shirley. 803 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,280 Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for over twenty 804 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: years and we have four children, three daughters and one son. 805 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 1: My husband is a truck driver, so he's gone a 806 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 1: lot and I'm left to care for the kids. When 807 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,239 Speaker 1: my husband is home, he tries to step in and 808 00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,640 Speaker 1: take over the father role, but we argue constantly about 809 00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,960 Speaker 1: disciplining the kids. My husband has been driving trucks for 810 00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:58,120 Speaker 1: ten years, and that's when I started noticing problems with 811 00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,800 Speaker 1: our son's behavior. I used to stay I used to 812 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 1: stay up at the school because of his bad attitude, 813 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,880 Speaker 1: poor grades, and fighting with classmates. And at home he 814 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: was unruly too. When he was fifteen, he got so 815 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,000 Speaker 1: angry with me I thought he might hit me, so 816 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 1: I call the police on him. My husband got upset 817 00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,359 Speaker 1: with me and told me that I was overreacting. Now 818 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,320 Speaker 1: our son is eighteen years old and he has graduated 819 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,920 Speaker 1: from high school. He does not work, and he has 820 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,759 Speaker 1: been arrested for smoking marijuana in public. My husband does 821 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,080 Speaker 1: not think it's a big deal, and he told me 822 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,279 Speaker 1: that I need to back off of him and let 823 00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 1: him find himself. We got in the biggest argument, and 824 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: I told him my daughters and I don't feel safe 825 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,400 Speaker 1: with my son around. My husband threatened to leave me 826 00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:47,840 Speaker 1: if I keep making our son feel like he is 827 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 1: a problem. I told him to go ahead and leave 828 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 1: me and take his son with him. This has been 829 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 1: going on for years and I will not take it anymore. Steve, 830 00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,040 Speaker 1: how can I get this man to see that he 831 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,440 Speaker 1: is raising a sorry man that's going to end up 832 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: in jail. Please help? Wow. Well, of one of the 833 00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: worst things you know that parents can do when you 834 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:14,080 Speaker 1: have kids is to not present a united front in 835 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 1: front of them. Your husband and you are supposed to 836 00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 1: be on the same page. This is not happening in 837 00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 1: your household, in your marriage, and you're right. Your your 838 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,000 Speaker 1: son probably did start acting up because your husband is 839 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,600 Speaker 1: always gone. That coupled with the fact that your husband 840 00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:35,359 Speaker 1: doesn't support you when you when with the discipline, UH, 841 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,920 Speaker 1: makes for a bad acting son with an even worse attitude. 842 00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 1: That's why he probably is up at school fighting and 843 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 1: being unruly at home and things like that. Well, I 844 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,759 Speaker 1: say shame on your husband for letting your son be 845 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,279 Speaker 1: so disrespectful to you and to his sisters. Uh. This 846 00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 1: is a lot to be afraid of your own son 847 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 1: in your own home. Clearly, your husband and your son 848 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:03,400 Speaker 1: need to spend some serious time together, and your husband 849 00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:06,719 Speaker 1: needs to let him know that in no way it's 850 00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: his behavior acceptable towards you and your sister and his sisters. 851 00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,520 Speaker 1: I just think he should be a real father to him, 852 00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 1: not a friend, not let him get away with this stuff. 853 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: Maybe your son can go on the road sometimes in 854 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 1: the truck with your husband for a while, since he's 855 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,160 Speaker 1: eighteen now and not doing anything. I mean, maybe they 856 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,920 Speaker 1: can figure this thing out. But right now, this is 857 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:31,440 Speaker 1: not a good look at home, and you know you 858 00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 1: your husband is just wrong for not supporting you. Steve, 859 00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:39,480 Speaker 1: you know what, man, thisster sletters really like. It's bad 860 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 1: from top to bottom. You know, this woman has been 861 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 1: married for over twenty years. They got four kids, three 862 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:51,439 Speaker 1: daughters and one son. My husband is a truck driver, 863 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,560 Speaker 1: so he's gone a lot. Man trying to take cares 864 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 1: for him. But I got it, and when my husband home, 865 00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: he tried to step in and take over the father role. 866 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 1: But they're always arguing about the discipline and their kids. 867 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 1: That's because the man ain't there and you got a 868 00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 1: certain right way that you do stuff, and now it's 869 00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,560 Speaker 1: at odds because he come in and he got a 870 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 1: different way. It's kind of tough now because he hadn't 871 00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:19,440 Speaker 1: left you at the house to handle everything. Then he 872 00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:24,400 Speaker 1: want to come home and run everything. That's a tough 873 00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,280 Speaker 1: one partner. I'm not gonna be able to help him 874 00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: with this one right here. Can't be on this side 875 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,280 Speaker 1: right here, because you leave her at home to fend 876 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,480 Speaker 1: for everything. I got you making the money, but that's 877 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 1: all you're doing, all right. So now ten years you've 878 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 1: been driving this truck, and you started noticing problems with 879 00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,560 Speaker 1: your son's behavior because he's smelling himself. Now, this is 880 00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,640 Speaker 1: the age, and this is where a man gotta get 881 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 1: real active in these boys life and girls lives too. Though. 882 00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 1: Now you stayed up at the school because the boy 883 00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:04,440 Speaker 1: got fun cass attitude, okay, now pole grades and fighting 884 00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 1: with classmates. Then at home here and ruly too. When 885 00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 1: he was fifteen, he got so angry with me, I 886 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: thought he might hit me. So you call the police. Owner, 887 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,640 Speaker 1: your husband got up set, told you you was overreacting. 888 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 1: Not a boy eighteen years old, he didn't graduated him 889 00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,160 Speaker 1: high school, he ain't working, and he'd been arrested for 890 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,600 Speaker 1: smoking weed in public. Not a husband. Don't think that's 891 00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,600 Speaker 1: a big damn deal either, And I need to back 892 00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: off him and let him find himself. Let me stop 893 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,560 Speaker 1: right here, right, let me let me, let me back up, 894 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 1: and let's talk about the back up, and let him 895 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:38,120 Speaker 1: find himself well. Fact, while he'd been finding himself at fifteen, 896 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:40,160 Speaker 1: he'd been in all kinds of trouble up at the school. 897 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 1: She stayed up at the school. The boy been in trouble, 898 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 1: having a bad attitude. He got pole grades, and he 899 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 1: fight all his classmates. You won't hurt to back off. 900 00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:53,240 Speaker 1: Let him find himself well. Now he eighteen, he didn't, 901 00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 1: got arrested and went to jail for smoking weed. Okay, 902 00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 1: I guess he's still looking for herself. But see the 903 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 1: older you get when you start making mistakes. Why are 904 01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: you finding yourself as some other people come find you too? 905 01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: Now then came down and arrested him, monk as Now 906 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:14,080 Speaker 1: he'd been fifteen, fighting, cussing out classmates, po grades. Ain't 907 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 1: doing right. You got to stay up at the school. 908 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,760 Speaker 1: He eighteen here in jail now he hadn't graduated, He 909 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:24,000 Speaker 1: ain't working. He got up in your face so bad 910 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:28,120 Speaker 1: one time you had to call the police. Your husband 911 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 1: come home and says you are overreactive. You need to 912 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 1: back up and let him find himself. You see how 913 01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: he'd been finding himself. Dog, He didn't found himself down 914 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 1: with bad grades. He didn't found himself at the principal's office. 915 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 1: He didn't found himself in fightful classmate. He hadn't found 916 01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 1: himself eighteen. He didn't found himself down there arrested in jail. 917 01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:57,920 Speaker 1: He didn't found himself out of work. Right. Have you 918 01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 1: ever thought that this boy ain't looking for and he 919 01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,960 Speaker 1: ain't looking for nothing? And instead of you telling the 920 01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 1: woman that she need to back up, dog, you need 921 01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 1: to step up. Right. You didn't left this woman holding 922 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:21,680 Speaker 1: the bag. And here's the perfect male answer if you 923 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 1: don't back up off him, letting find myself getting the 924 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 1: big My husband threatened to leave me if I keep 925 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,960 Speaker 1: making our son feel like he's a problem. He is 926 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,760 Speaker 1: a damn problem, all right now, making this little stupid 927 01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,800 Speaker 1: ass feel no kind of weight. Hang on, ass ball, 928 01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:38,400 Speaker 1: Hang on. We'll be back with part two of your 929 01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 1: response coming up at eight twenty three Strawberry Letters. Subject today, 930 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 1: he can leave and take his son with him. We'll 931 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening, let's 932 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry Letters, Steve, he can leave and take 933 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,480 Speaker 1: his son with him. And that's what it looked like, 934 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:01,680 Speaker 1: this going little boy fifteen. The man been driving trucks 935 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 1: for two years. She'd been at the house. Then when 936 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,280 Speaker 1: he do come home, they get into arguments about the 937 01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,880 Speaker 1: parenting style. He don't like the way she raised in 938 01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,320 Speaker 1: the family. But you truck d out for boyd. That's 939 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,400 Speaker 1: a tough job. Good good men out of here. Good 940 01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,160 Speaker 1: men and women drive trucks. Everybody don't have these problem. 941 01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:17,720 Speaker 1: But when you come home, you got to realize you 942 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,600 Speaker 1: ain't been at home. Now. Now you're jumping all over 943 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,680 Speaker 1: the system about the way she raising things and doing 944 01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: stuff at the house. You ain't had no input for 945 01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:28,520 Speaker 1: ten years. Now, the boy starting to smell itself. He 946 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,000 Speaker 1: misses daddy. He ain't got no direction. He tired of 947 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,360 Speaker 1: being around all these women, living the house with four women. 948 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 1: Now he down at the school, fighting, cousing out classmates, 949 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 1: getting in trouble, getting suspending. Naw, he didn't got so much. 950 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 1: He didn't bucked up to the mama. She got scared 951 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,080 Speaker 1: and called the police. She can't do nothing with this boy. 952 01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,000 Speaker 1: You think the boy trying to find itself, Well, he 953 01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,680 Speaker 1: eighteen now. So he didn't found himself smoking weed with 954 01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:57,120 Speaker 1: some friends and he didn't got arrested for that. Now 955 01:02:57,240 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 1: he finds himself out of work, and now you think 956 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:05,120 Speaker 1: that she needs to back up and let him find himself. 957 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,240 Speaker 1: You don't think it's a big deal. He's smoking weed 958 01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,680 Speaker 1: dog now and this could get somewhere else. Ain't saying 959 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: everybody smoke weed, leader say, but just could lead the 960 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: other thing. Right now? His pattern is he's getting worse. 961 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 1: It's what I'm hearing in the letter. He's not getting better. 962 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: Charlie had a great suggestion. You're a truck driver, he 963 01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:23,560 Speaker 1: an't working. Put him in the truck taking with you. 964 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,520 Speaker 1: That's what you do. Put the boy in the truck 965 01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:29,280 Speaker 1: taking with you. Learn, Let him learn something, let him 966 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:30,920 Speaker 1: see what his daddy do. He might just want to 967 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:37,560 Speaker 1: be a truck driver. That's cool. But he eighteen. Now. Oh, 968 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,320 Speaker 1: we got into the biggest argument, and I told him 969 01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,720 Speaker 1: my daughters and I don't feel safe with my son round. 970 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,919 Speaker 1: My husband threatened to leave me if I keep making 971 01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,760 Speaker 1: our son feel like he's a problem. No, she's not 972 01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 1: making your son feel like he's a problem. Your son 973 01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:56,600 Speaker 1: is a problem. And the woman don't know how to 974 01:03:56,760 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 1: handle the problem. But see, dog, you you so, why 975 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 1: don't you do like Shirley say and take the problem 976 01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:09,560 Speaker 1: with you? Since it ain't a problem, you take that, 977 01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 1: yeah see, you take that, remove that threat from your house, 978 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,880 Speaker 1: and put that threat in the truck and take the 979 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,439 Speaker 1: non problem with you. You might find out he talked 980 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 1: to you crazy. Yeah see. But since you ain't home, 981 01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 1: you don't know. Now. My husband threatened to leave me 982 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:30,480 Speaker 1: if I keep making our son feel like he's a problem. 983 01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:31,960 Speaker 1: I told him to go ahead and leave me and 984 01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:35,080 Speaker 1: take a son with him. This has been going on 985 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,400 Speaker 1: for years and I will not take it anymore. Steve, 986 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,080 Speaker 1: how can I get this man to see that he 987 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:43,040 Speaker 1: is raising a sorry man that's gonna end up in 988 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:48,120 Speaker 1: the jail. Well, hold on, our sister, this sorry man 989 01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:54,600 Speaker 1: that he's raising is your son, Shirley said. Another thing 990 01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 1: that was important. Y'all got to get on the same page. 991 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: But you recognize a problem that your husband don't see 992 01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:05,840 Speaker 1: is a problem. He needed to put that boy in 993 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 1: that truck, take him with him, spend some time with him, 994 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 1: let him help out. You know, y'all get up, pump gas, 995 01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:19,160 Speaker 1: make him pump gas. You know, y'all get out, Make 996 01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:21,360 Speaker 1: him go get the food out there. That ain't even work, 997 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:25,800 Speaker 1: but hell, he got to do something. Let him sit 998 01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:27,360 Speaker 1: up in that seat and go to sleep while you 999 01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:30,640 Speaker 1: get in the back cab and take sleep in the bed. Oh, 1000 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:36,640 Speaker 1: y'all go back there, lay down together. Yes, you need 1001 01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,680 Speaker 1: time with your boy, man, because your boys are sorry man, 1002 01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 1: because he ain't got no leadership from his father. Now 1003 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,480 Speaker 1: you do work hard, brother, you're driving trucks. That's hard work. 1004 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:51,080 Speaker 1: But he don't see you and your absence. He tired 1005 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: of them girls. Man. Yeah, he acting out. It's a 1006 01:05:55,280 --> 01:06:00,280 Speaker 1: cry out for his father. So now you you got 1007 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:03,480 Speaker 1: to step up. So the best way for you to do, ma'am, 1008 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,520 Speaker 1: I would take the approach like this, Smitty, we need 1009 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:11,680 Speaker 1: to talk. That's the son's name, Smitty. No, that's a husband. 1010 01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:25,080 Speaker 1: Oh that's too older. Now, Smitty, we need to talk 1011 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:30,320 Speaker 1: about Deonte. Okay, all right, this is what I want 1012 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:34,040 Speaker 1: you to do. You're working, he's not. I want you 1013 01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:37,160 Speaker 1: to take him on the road with you. That's your son. 1014 01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 1: Put your son in that cab next to you because 1015 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,080 Speaker 1: he needs you. And your son needs to be around 1016 01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,560 Speaker 1: his father so he can see how hard a real 1017 01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:49,600 Speaker 1: man works, So you got to stop arguing with your husband. 1018 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:53,280 Speaker 1: You got to make a plea to your husband. Take 1019 01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 1: the argument of tone out. Now. You may not think 1020 01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,400 Speaker 1: he's a problem Smitty, but he's a problem for me 1021 01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:07,480 Speaker 1: because I can't handle him. What's her name, Dolores? Yes? Yes, 1022 01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:17,320 Speaker 1: and bidding on a sniff? Yeah, and them three girls 1023 01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:25,160 Speaker 1: is Lexus Mercedes? Why ain't gotta be Yes? Yes, they 1024 01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:28,520 Speaker 1: called because that's what he always wanted when he was 1025 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 1: driving the truck was a call, but he got that 1026 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:41,680 Speaker 1: damn truck. Lexus got sadies in Porsche Deonte. And you 1027 01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 1: need to change your tone and get into a pleatne. 1028 01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: Why don't you cry? I can't do it. He too 1029 01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:52,680 Speaker 1: strong for me, he too big for me. He don't 1030 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:57,800 Speaker 1: listen to me. He needs his father. We all need 1031 01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,960 Speaker 1: his father. M M. But I need you to take 1032 01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:02,960 Speaker 1: your son to help me turn him into him man, 1033 01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:06,840 Speaker 1: because we're gonna lose our boy. Yeah, we're gonna lose 1034 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 1: our child. See sayin't gonna take you and your son. 1035 01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:13,120 Speaker 1: That's your son too. And that's the plea you got 1036 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:16,080 Speaker 1: to make. Keep it soft, cry and tell him that 1037 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 1: all y'all need him. Come on, Dolores. You can do it, 1038 01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:27,320 Speaker 1: girl Smith. All right, listen A Smith. We gotta get 1039 01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:34,439 Speaker 1: out of here. Guys, Dad, Yeah, you can close your 1040 01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 1: thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey F. M. Smith. 1041 01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:44,120 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up 1042 01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,200 Speaker 1: in ten minutes. From the talk, it's our girl Cheryl Underwood. 1043 01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 1: Right after that you're listening. Coming up at the top 1044 01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:56,559 Speaker 1: of the hour, Carla's Reality Update. But right now from 1045 01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:59,920 Speaker 1: the talk, Steve, let us have it. Ladies and gentlemen, 1046 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:05,720 Speaker 1: put your hands together, the one and oldest ship. So 1047 01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,640 Speaker 1: we all right. Now, you got all the names in 1048 01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:13,759 Speaker 1: the Steve office, all of them. Listen, brothers and sisters. 1049 01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need y'all to get your tickets. Go to 1050 01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:19,240 Speaker 1: Constitution all for the pre Mother's Day comedy Jam. It's 1051 01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:22,800 Speaker 1: gonna be rod Man, John Witherspon, Bruce Bruce on as 1052 01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:26,680 Speaker 1: J Smoky Suarez and I'm hosting. So we got a 1053 01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:28,760 Speaker 1: few tickets left. So we want to want people to 1054 01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,840 Speaker 1: come on over and enjoy theirself, like the Jackson, get 1055 01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:35,000 Speaker 1: your laugh phone before Mother's Day weekend, Bring your mom, 1056 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:37,280 Speaker 1: you know, just bring somebody that you love. And we 1057 01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:39,920 Speaker 1: gonna have a lot of fun shirls. So yes, Dollar, 1058 01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:42,240 Speaker 1: when you get to Constitution Hall, the big dude let 1059 01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:46,280 Speaker 1: you back with the bid named Reggie. Uh huh, asking 1060 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:50,920 Speaker 1: about me? Ask Reggie about you to do it the 1061 01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:54,200 Speaker 1: Constitution Hall little thing. He's still over that and Reggie 1062 01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:59,280 Speaker 1: go a long way back, Oh, a long way back. Yes, Lord, 1063 01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:07,559 Speaker 1: we're good friend. M I want to say, I want 1064 01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:17,679 Speaker 1: to retract my statement. No, why what a mess. He's 1065 01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 1: a good friend. He's a good friend. He kept me 1066 01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:21,800 Speaker 1: out of trouble when I first started coming to d 1067 01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:24,800 Speaker 1: C with them, back when Republic Garden DC Live club 1068 01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:27,519 Speaker 1: you in you know that we back back back back 1069 01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:29,400 Speaker 1: in the day. You know what I'm saying. So he 1070 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:30,680 Speaker 1: kept me out a lot of trump because you know 1071 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,479 Speaker 1: I was, you know, young, dumb, you know, naive everything, 1072 01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:36,640 Speaker 1: follow everybody around, you know, go home, Cheryl. You know, 1073 01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:38,840 Speaker 1: you know I was that person back when we was 1074 01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,200 Speaker 1: doing clubs. You know when we used to do, um, 1075 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,280 Speaker 1: what's the club out in green Belt? You know, we 1076 01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: used to club out there. And that was when uh 1077 01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 1: uh Huggy Lowdown, remember Huggy Lowdown and remember all the 1078 01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,679 Speaker 1: different DC comics. That's how I met Mike Washington, who's 1079 01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 1: still on the road with me to this day. Um 1080 01:10:57,360 --> 01:11:01,639 Speaker 1: going out DC. You know, Tony Wood, Yeah, Teddy carving Up, Martin, 1081 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:05,240 Speaker 1: Wanda Sykes, all of them was DC Maryland. You know, 1082 01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:08,360 Speaker 1: comics out there. So you know, we man, we long 1083 01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:10,280 Speaker 1: time in the game. But Reggie kept me out of trouble. 1084 01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,200 Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. We go a long way back. 1085 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:13,920 Speaker 1: He kept me out of a lot of trumble. So hey, 1086 01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: you know, we gotta really talk about brothers and sisters. 1087 01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:20,760 Speaker 1: Well okay, see, I don't know if I really want. 1088 01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,880 Speaker 1: I just want to wait and let Joe Biden handle 1089 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,280 Speaker 1: it because Trumps is scared now he tweeting. You know, 1090 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,640 Speaker 1: he's scared because Joe Biden getting endorsements and everything. You know, 1091 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:32,880 Speaker 1: he gonna get it right, he gonna get the campaign right, 1092 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:34,599 Speaker 1: and we just gonna let him do what he need 1093 01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,519 Speaker 1: to do. I think barring them was caught. I think 1094 01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:40,519 Speaker 1: they caught because the Mulla dude then put out his 1095 01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:44,679 Speaker 1: letter shutt scrub. Yeah. You know when white folk write 1096 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,160 Speaker 1: stuff down, you in big, big trouble. When they write 1097 01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:54,360 Speaker 1: down Yeah, when they write down memos and stuff, you 1098 01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:58,120 Speaker 1: misrepresented what I said or it's on and Papa Man, Yeah, 1099 01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 1: it's about it's about to go down. I told you, y'all, 1100 01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 1: I've been in the Republican Party for years. When they 1101 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:04,920 Speaker 1: gonna go white man, the white man, we just gotta 1102 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:08,080 Speaker 1: step aside, let the chips fall where they made, and 1103 01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:11,840 Speaker 1: everything is going to work out. But last, but not least, 1104 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:15,480 Speaker 1: I need all black men out there to start exercise 1105 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,040 Speaker 1: and eating fruit and vestivals and get that stress off you. 1106 01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 1: We lost John Singleton, and you know we love John Singleton. 1107 01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:24,360 Speaker 1: You know, everybody talking about boys in the hood. That's 1108 01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,760 Speaker 1: the first time you heard somebody talk about gentrification. In 1109 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,200 Speaker 1: that movie. You saw a lot of young actors. But 1110 01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:36,320 Speaker 1: my movie was Rosewood. That was mine. That yeah, And y'all, okay, 1111 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:39,280 Speaker 1: what did y'all love about Rosewood? What y'all love about it? Tommy? 1112 01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 1: What you love about it? Being rained bad boy? Ye? Yes, yes. 1113 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:54,080 Speaker 1: And you know it was a combination because Rosewood was 1114 01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,599 Speaker 1: a real place. But also when they were talking about 1115 01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,880 Speaker 1: they had a history of burning down Black Wall Street 1116 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:04,800 Speaker 1: in different locations because segregation. Carla was pushing us in 1117 01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:07,759 Speaker 1: the location. We had our own businesses, we had everything 1118 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,479 Speaker 1: our own because we were segregated. And when we would 1119 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:13,360 Speaker 1: grow it, they would come in and burn down over 1120 01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:16,519 Speaker 1: some flimsy accusation. You know what I'm saying. But to 1121 01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,040 Speaker 1: remember the part in Rosewood where they was trying to 1122 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: take all that trouble over to another town and the 1123 01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:27,000 Speaker 1: mother white dude said, now we ain't doing that over here, right. 1124 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:29,880 Speaker 1: That's why I'm telling you. Sometimes you got to let 1125 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:32,439 Speaker 1: them fight each other. What is to say, the enemy 1126 01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,560 Speaker 1: of my enemy is my friend. So you got to 1127 01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:37,599 Speaker 1: let it have it, let it go down. But John 1128 01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,280 Speaker 1: Singleton made a lot of movie Higher Education. I learn 1129 01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:43,479 Speaker 1: it High Learning out of the USC made that movie. 1130 01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:46,160 Speaker 1: You know. Did you know that he had directed billions 1131 01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:50,840 Speaker 1: for Showtime? He we directed too fast, too furious. He 1132 01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:55,879 Speaker 1: was doing mainstream stuff. Empire, you know, see John Singleton 1133 01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,000 Speaker 1: got more to do an empire. Well I was gonna 1134 01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 1: say just small at but you know that's kind track, 1135 01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:04,800 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, Man, listen, Tommy, you already know what 1136 01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:07,680 Speaker 1: to do the show coming back. I think Thirsty Is 1137 01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 1: might be in the casket, but I'm ana wait from Carla. 1138 01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:13,439 Speaker 1: They switched it. Wait a minute, Wait a minute, I'm 1139 01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:19,479 Speaker 1: gonna let Carla tell me yesterday. Go ahead, they renew 1140 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:23,920 Speaker 1: doing the Empire for season six, but just Smollett's contract. 1141 01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:29,280 Speaker 1: They didn't renew his contract and Jamal they kind of 1142 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,439 Speaker 1: wrote out the character Jamal. But then they told Jesse 1143 01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 1: that it's like they're to be on the show. Yeah, 1144 01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,960 Speaker 1: they exercised, they extended the option Steve on his contract. 1145 01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,840 Speaker 1: But the show is coming back. I think they trying 1146 01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:49,120 Speaker 1: to wait out to see how the court cases. That's right, Yeah, 1147 01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,400 Speaker 1: that's what I think they're trying to do. And then 1148 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:53,880 Speaker 1: Bill copy is still trying to get bail. I didn't 1149 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,960 Speaker 1: notice it was still going through the court system and everything. 1150 01:14:57,640 --> 01:15:02,640 Speaker 1: It's been a million a month, that's right. Well, that 1151 01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:08,240 Speaker 1: that I heard somewhere. And then I heard he was 1152 01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:12,240 Speaker 1: spending a million dollars a month on legal calls and fees. Man, 1153 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:16,000 Speaker 1: he needed to get a public defender. Yeah, that's that's 1154 01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:19,200 Speaker 1: what I heard. Y'all. Y'all don't know how much money. 1155 01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:24,200 Speaker 1: Bill got money. He got money. Now he got he 1156 01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:27,559 Speaker 1: got money. All right, we gotta wrap this thing up, Cheryl. 1157 01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:31,799 Speaker 1: We listen. Conversation. This was like this was like being 1158 01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:36,200 Speaker 1: in you know, black Negro news. We just all right, listen, 1159 01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:38,599 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. Thank you, Cheryl, 1160 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:42,840 Speaker 1: We love you. It's Collin's Reality Update. Right after this 1161 01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:49,840 Speaker 1: you're listening, get ready to get ready to get ready. 1162 01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 1: It's that time. She is here. It is Call of 1163 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,639 Speaker 1: Ferrol with what reality Update? All right, thank you, nephew. 1164 01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:58,479 Speaker 1: Here we go. We're just gonna talk about loving hip 1165 01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: hop Atlanta. Um Shaemack. She was a DJ, she's a DJ, 1166 01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:10,120 Speaker 1: and she was there wrong. She had her friend, this 1167 01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:13,160 Speaker 1: lady named Pooh who was actually married to him, hickste 1168 01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:20,640 Speaker 1: his wife. He has been on an episode. I've seen him, 1169 01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:25,720 Speaker 1: his wife from back in the day. Yeah. Anyway, she 1170 01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:28,679 Speaker 1: was mad at carly Red, so she kind of talked 1171 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:31,840 Speaker 1: to this girl Shay, who was actually DJ and carly 1172 01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:35,240 Speaker 1: Red's engagement party, to throw some shade and say how 1173 01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: old she was. It was just ugly. You just don'ta 1174 01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:40,120 Speaker 1: do people like that after they hire you to be 1175 01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:43,000 Speaker 1: at their event and then you just put him on blast. 1176 01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:45,120 Speaker 1: It was just ugly. It was ugly. So she got 1177 01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:48,280 Speaker 1: escorted out of the party. Long story short, this is 1178 01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,120 Speaker 1: what I'm want to talk to you guys about. So 1179 01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:58,400 Speaker 1: Carly Red and her man Mo they are engaged. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 1180 01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:02,040 Speaker 1: So you saw this right, so terrible. Yeah, they had 1181 01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,240 Speaker 1: a big engagement party and he told his fiance carly Read, 1182 01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:07,639 Speaker 1: that he had to go to Arkansas to take care 1183 01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:12,639 Speaker 1: of some business. So he goes and then he comes 1184 01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 1: back and then he tells her that a woman from 1185 01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 1: his past basically saying that she had a baby and 1186 01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,479 Speaker 1: that the possibility that the baby could be his. So 1187 01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:25,200 Speaker 1: he said he wanted to do a DNA test and 1188 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,360 Speaker 1: you know, make sure that the baby is his. And 1189 01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:30,639 Speaker 1: he told his fiance, listen, if this baby is mine, 1190 01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:33,519 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do the right thing now. Meanwhile he's 1191 01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:36,160 Speaker 1: talking to her, his fiance, and he seems being very 1192 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,040 Speaker 1: it seems that he's being very genuine and honest about 1193 01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:43,200 Speaker 1: what happened, where he's been and what he's been doing. 1194 01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:46,800 Speaker 1: And she's upset. One reason she's upset because they're trying 1195 01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: to have a baby as well, carly Red. Yeah, and 1196 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,400 Speaker 1: then she had a miscarriage while he was gone. So 1197 01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:57,120 Speaker 1: she's very emotional, very hurt, very upset about what he's saying. 1198 01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:01,080 Speaker 1: So when he came clean and told her everything, she 1199 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:07,120 Speaker 1: went off and she she went off on this man, 1200 01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:11,439 Speaker 1: and I just was like, Yeah, she was thrilled with 1201 01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,439 Speaker 1: him she broke off the engagement because of she had 1202 01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:16,800 Speaker 1: baggage from the past and men have cheated on her 1203 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:19,880 Speaker 1: in the past and had babies. So she looked at 1204 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:23,360 Speaker 1: her fiance and said it was it was over. But 1205 01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:26,920 Speaker 1: he was straight up with it. Man, he really was Tommy. 1206 01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:29,280 Speaker 1: He was straight up. It seems like he was honest 1207 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:31,559 Speaker 1: and genuine. Man. He got up. He said, I will 1208 01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:34,760 Speaker 1: not be disrespected like this. He did not. It was 1209 01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:38,799 Speaker 1: like he did not play into that reality TV drama. 1210 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:40,840 Speaker 1: He was not having it. He took his he was 1211 01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:44,200 Speaker 1: taking microphone off and everything. He said, I will not 1212 01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 1: be disrespected like this, and I was like, I don't know, 1213 01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,439 Speaker 1: I want But even her girls told her she was 1214 01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:54,240 Speaker 1: kind of wrong for this. See, that's why you can't compare. 1215 01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:57,720 Speaker 1: You know, you gotta judge every single person on their 1216 01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:01,120 Speaker 1: own marriage. You can't compare him to your bad baggage 1217 01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:05,559 Speaker 1: from the past. You can't everybody baggage. Everybody has baggage 1218 01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:09,519 Speaker 1: from the from the past. I was just wrong. That 1219 01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,160 Speaker 1: was wrong. He was wrong for not telling her at 1220 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,080 Speaker 1: first what he was dealing with. But he said the 1221 01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,920 Speaker 1: reason why he didn't bring it toward because he wanted 1222 01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:21,200 Speaker 1: to find out more he wanted to get more information 1223 01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:24,360 Speaker 1: that come I'll come back to her his fiance with 1224 01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:28,080 Speaker 1: the facts to say I may possibly have a child. 1225 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,080 Speaker 1: I know we're still trying to have a child, but 1226 01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:32,960 Speaker 1: he's like, we're building something here. What are you talking 1227 01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 1: about over? You know? Over? Stand up? Yeah, he was 1228 01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:39,680 Speaker 1: really a stand up guy. So I want you guys 1229 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:42,240 Speaker 1: to hit me up on social media at left by 1230 01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,840 Speaker 1: Carly Do you think Carly Red do you think she 1231 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,280 Speaker 1: was wrong for that? I do, I really do. I'm 1232 01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:49,760 Speaker 1: just gonna say I felt that. I'm like, did you 1233 01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:53,439 Speaker 1: really even love this man yelling at the TV? Car Yes? 1234 01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,559 Speaker 1: I was like, what I ain't see it, but I'm 1235 01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,679 Speaker 1: gonna go with y'all and I think he wrong? Yeah, yeah, 1236 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:07,640 Speaker 1: opinion or you just well, you know, I don't know 1237 01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 1: how people think. Look, I understand that women have baggage 1238 01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:15,479 Speaker 1: and memories of what hurt him before. I understand that 1239 01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:20,440 Speaker 1: that's those are real, feeling normal. Yeah, I got Technically, 1240 01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:24,760 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to bring baggage into a new relationship. Yeah. 1241 01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:31,880 Speaker 1: You You cannot be with somebody and not think they 1242 01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:37,439 Speaker 1: don't have some history somewhere. Now, the dude, I think 1243 01:20:37,520 --> 01:20:41,160 Speaker 1: he did it right. Why bring this subject up and 1244 01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:44,360 Speaker 1: you don't have proof. I may have a child some 1245 01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 1: where he just found out, right, and that's what And 1246 01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:49,720 Speaker 1: let me and let me come because if I really 1247 01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:51,840 Speaker 1: don't have a child, I ain't got to even bring 1248 01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:54,840 Speaker 1: this mess up. Right now, this woman is insistent that 1249 01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,640 Speaker 1: is mine. I got to have DNA tests, we got 1250 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:03,160 Speaker 1: to take paternity tests. And let's go. Yeah, what how 1251 01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:08,880 Speaker 1: do you think I got good at this practice? Baby practice? 1252 01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:14,000 Speaker 1: Loveless man? Yeah, I got it right there there. Yeah 1253 01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,760 Speaker 1: she was. She was so out of line. Yeah, she 1254 01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:18,679 Speaker 1: really was to hit me up at lips by Carla. 1255 01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:22,400 Speaker 1: Let's talk about it socially on the Graham Twitter Facebook. 1256 01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:27,000 Speaker 1: And it is time now, mister Dave, if you could 1257 01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:31,160 Speaker 1: bring up the got music, It's time for me to 1258 01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:34,680 Speaker 1: introduce my partner in crime during reality update. He is 1259 01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:37,799 Speaker 1: here with I Game of Thrones update, ladies and gentlemen, 1260 01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:45,200 Speaker 1: mister Steve Harvey, thank you, thank you, Colin, all of well, 1261 01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 1: I'll come to an evening of God's Morning. In the 1262 01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:59,679 Speaker 1: words of the last episode, you got to be monk. Hell, 1263 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:04,720 Speaker 1: we are with the recap of Game of Thrones. I 1264 01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:07,560 Speaker 1: don't know if my listeners out there have been following it, 1265 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:12,320 Speaker 1: but we have just concluded last week episode number three, 1266 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:16,559 Speaker 1: hopefully if you haven't seen it, this is what's called 1267 01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:25,000 Speaker 1: a spot. Oh my god. The white Walkers are hell. 1268 01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:31,400 Speaker 1: They came from the tree line, the forest line. They 1269 01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:36,160 Speaker 1: were prepared everybody and went to fell was holding ground. 1270 01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:40,360 Speaker 1: But oh they had no idea the Horde of Beast 1271 01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:45,680 Speaker 1: that while it was a blimy ugly site. Well, the 1272 01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:50,560 Speaker 1: lady that owns the dragons shit first off into the 1273 01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:55,360 Speaker 1: line of fire. Her men, the Colisi tribe, whoever he is, 1274 01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:01,679 Speaker 1: out of nowhere came in white walk called white which chick. 1275 01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:06,839 Speaker 1: That turned all the swords into flames and they dashed 1276 01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:12,320 Speaker 1: off into the darkness brave men, and all you saw 1277 01:23:12,560 --> 01:23:18,559 Speaker 1: was damn candles going out flick flickle to It wasn't 1278 01:23:18,560 --> 01:23:24,880 Speaker 1: the last damn flickle first trap down. Do you have more? 1279 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:35,320 Speaker 1: Have more than more to come back? You're listening? All right? 1280 01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:39,600 Speaker 1: Here we go part two of the GOT recap with 1281 01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:44,639 Speaker 1: with your great Steven. It is music that is nod. 1282 01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:50,920 Speaker 1: Have me said, are you listening, Shirley? She's not well 1283 01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:55,519 Speaker 1: this episode because I've got to tell you if you 1284 01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:57,960 Speaker 1: want to see it, get off the phone. In the 1285 01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:02,240 Speaker 1: ridio right now, turn it down, because I'm telling the truth. 1286 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:07,240 Speaker 1: I can't maintain this gothic voice tone because too many 1287 01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:12,639 Speaker 1: black things happened in this episode. Dass was coming from 1288 01:24:12,720 --> 01:24:20,200 Speaker 1: everywhere else, says Bard, out of the tree line. They 1289 01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:26,240 Speaker 1: fish us. I've never seen anything like it, but I'll 1290 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:30,240 Speaker 1: tell you what. They came against some men who are 1291 01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:33,360 Speaker 1: willing to put it on the line. The eunix them 1292 01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:41,000 Speaker 1: dudes without penises. Damn damn dudes can bug man, scrap 1293 01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:44,200 Speaker 1: it and strap it anyway. I dare say that I 1294 01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:48,080 Speaker 1: was a wonderful fight in the front. They were battling. 1295 01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:52,519 Speaker 1: It was something to behold. I've never in my life 1296 01:24:52,600 --> 01:24:55,439 Speaker 1: seen a fight scene last this long. For those of 1297 01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:59,320 Speaker 1: you didn't say, Dass was buggling for sixty seven minutes. Anyway, 1298 01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:05,559 Speaker 1: I've never seen a fight seeing in a movie, trailer, 1299 01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:08,240 Speaker 1: theater in there where I lasts as long as it did. 1300 01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:11,519 Speaker 1: On the third episode again, six or seven damn ministers, 1301 01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:19,719 Speaker 1: straight down. That was blood, everything going everywhere. I said, 1302 01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:24,639 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we won't have went to fail. Is falling. 1303 01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:28,760 Speaker 1: It's falling. At first I thought they were holding. Then 1304 01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:31,799 Speaker 1: they got past the moat, they came over the trenches. 1305 01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:34,519 Speaker 1: Damn damn, Dad ask people was climbing on each other. 1306 01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:40,840 Speaker 1: You couldn't hold them off. I dare I say, I said, 1307 01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:44,599 Speaker 1: oh my god, there they're invading ever these Dad asks 1308 01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:49,880 Speaker 1: people as everywhere they were, and then surprising to me, 1309 01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:56,519 Speaker 1: the hound killing this hound. Yeah, wall scared. I can't 1310 01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:00,920 Speaker 1: beat them there everywhere. I give up, kid be man, 1311 01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:06,400 Speaker 1: what is your podcast? Down for something? I forgot something 1312 01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:08,920 Speaker 1: shook into him. They saw he saw someone that he 1313 01:26:09,040 --> 01:26:12,439 Speaker 1: was protecting being harmed, and he snapped out of it. 1314 01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:18,240 Speaker 1: And the hound was barrio. Yeah. But when they got 1315 01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:22,160 Speaker 1: inside the castle, I thought it was over. Little Tryan 1316 01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:26,599 Speaker 1: was down now with his ex wife holding hands, thinking 1317 01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:32,080 Speaker 1: it was nearly over. And Denny dad people coming through 1318 01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:38,519 Speaker 1: the wall, I dare say, what's going on? Hell a 1319 01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:43,759 Speaker 1: real well? But to make a long story short, oh really, 1320 01:26:45,680 --> 01:26:49,639 Speaker 1: They finally caught the raven boy under the tree. Yes, 1321 01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:53,960 Speaker 1: the Ray of the Dead Walkers was there staring at him. 1322 01:26:55,280 --> 01:27:01,479 Speaker 1: He had came to kill the raven boy. He come 1323 01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:06,759 Speaker 1: down a little sauce swinging. Hell Aria and Ariil came 1324 01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:10,400 Speaker 1: and slured at all that that hell broke close on glass. 1325 01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:13,599 Speaker 1: Whatever whew they were that they were falling, they were trembling, 1326 01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:17,240 Speaker 1: they were going to the ground. That's no one left. Hi. 1327 01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:25,120 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1328 01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:30,639 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to Steve Show. 1329 01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:34,160 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, your favorite segment, asked Steve, guess what 1330 01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:37,040 Speaker 1: time it is? Man? Ready, it is time for ask 1331 01:27:37,120 --> 01:27:39,439 Speaker 1: Steve Hey, what you need? All right, here we go. 1332 01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:43,080 Speaker 1: Here's the first question. Steve names something that you were 1333 01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 1: really really excited about it, I mean, couldn't wait until 1334 01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:51,280 Speaker 1: it came out. When it came out, aunt didn't live 1335 01:27:51,400 --> 01:28:00,760 Speaker 1: up to the hype. Pink Panther, Pink pan Man, Man, 1336 01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:04,040 Speaker 1: I want to see Pete Panther first time? How great 1337 01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:06,280 Speaker 1: that movie is going to? Mind? What what am I 1338 01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:10,760 Speaker 1: doing in here? You know? You know, man, it was 1339 01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:14,439 Speaker 1: a detective movie. It was horrible. I don't even it 1340 01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:18,639 Speaker 1: was Oh it was horrible. Peter Seller's right. I hate 1341 01:28:18,760 --> 01:28:22,679 Speaker 1: every minute of that movie. That's the worst movie I've 1342 01:28:22,760 --> 01:28:25,000 Speaker 1: gone to that I thought was coming out. It was 1343 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:27,120 Speaker 1: a long time ago. But it's amazing how that popped 1344 01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:33,160 Speaker 1: up to because I knew exactly. Man, It's like which one, 1345 01:28:33,320 --> 01:28:40,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, the old one? Oh god, oh god, 1346 01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:47,040 Speaker 1: tell us how you really all right, Okay, all right, Tommy, 1347 01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:49,760 Speaker 1: thank you Steve for that. Tommy, Let me think, Let 1348 01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:54,400 Speaker 1: me think. What is a story that you've been waiting 1349 01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:59,519 Speaker 1: to share but no one has asked the right question? Man, 1350 01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:03,840 Speaker 1: there's so many. That's a tough one, man, because I 1351 01:29:04,040 --> 01:29:09,240 Speaker 1: shared a lot of stories. Yeah, and I love telling 1352 01:29:09,400 --> 01:29:13,000 Speaker 1: stories too, So it's like it excites me to tell 1353 01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,680 Speaker 1: stories because it's just in my blood to tell us 1354 01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:18,040 Speaker 1: to it. That's how my whole career has been Comedically. 1355 01:29:18,360 --> 01:29:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm not a joke writer. I'm a storyteller. I'm I 1356 01:29:22,280 --> 01:29:26,040 Speaker 1: paint pictures. I got there from Richard Pride. He was 1357 01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:31,439 Speaker 1: such a vivid picture painter that now, yeah, I mean 1358 01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,880 Speaker 1: you know, whether you knew what he was talking about 1359 01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:37,360 Speaker 1: precisely or if you had it in your memory bank, 1360 01:29:37,479 --> 01:29:40,559 Speaker 1: it didn't matter, or it wasn't experiencing yours. It didn't matter. 1361 01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:45,280 Speaker 1: His ability to paint the picture of the Winos standing 1362 01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:49,080 Speaker 1: in the street, that book the numbers didn't need peeing 1363 01:29:49,240 --> 01:29:52,839 Speaker 1: on paper, stood in the middle of the street directing traffic. 1364 01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:58,080 Speaker 1: That that that story he was telling, man, was like phenomena. 1365 01:29:58,720 --> 01:30:00,760 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, at this point I'm to remind you 1366 01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,040 Speaker 1: please to keep your answers as brief as possible. So 1367 01:30:03,240 --> 01:30:09,559 Speaker 1: that was his brief as there was a story question. 1368 01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:15,160 Speaker 1: Excuse me, Carlo, your turn, You're up all right here? 1369 01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:18,760 Speaker 1: You got if you could add ten years to your 1370 01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:25,160 Speaker 1: life or ten million dollars to your bank account? Come on, no, 1371 01:30:25,360 --> 01:30:29,840 Speaker 1: give me ten years, hands down, give me the ten years. Yeah, 1372 01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:34,080 Speaker 1: I'll make that man, give me them ten years. Maybe 1373 01:30:34,120 --> 01:30:40,439 Speaker 1: I should ask Tommy, which would you choose? Because I 1374 01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:43,400 Speaker 1: asked that for Tommy right now. If you gave Tommy 1375 01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:47,120 Speaker 1: ten million dollars here, take it and fake his death 1376 01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:53,280 Speaker 1: in front of him. Yeah, yeah, start over, Junior. What 1377 01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:56,240 Speaker 1: you got? Oh Carlo, you already ask you. I did, 1378 01:30:56,320 --> 01:31:01,040 Speaker 1: and I did it, all right? All right? So, um, 1379 01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:04,560 Speaker 1: you've been around a minute, man, What is something that 1380 01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:07,960 Speaker 1: was way better about fifteen years ago? Something that you 1381 01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:14,840 Speaker 1: just knew way better? I would say music, Steve. All right, 1382 01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:16,760 Speaker 1: we'll be back with our last break of the day 1383 01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:19,719 Speaker 1: and some fresh closing remarks from the one and only 1384 01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:27,519 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening to all right, Steve, 1385 01:31:27,600 --> 01:31:29,840 Speaker 1: here we are last break of the day. What do 1386 01:31:29,880 --> 01:31:33,360 Speaker 1: you have for us closing remarks? Let's get it. You know, 1387 01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,040 Speaker 1: something I've been learning y'all, and I guess I've been 1388 01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:38,960 Speaker 1: sharing because I've been doing these morning meditations has really 1389 01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:43,080 Speaker 1: been helpful to me, you know, so really really been 1390 01:31:43,360 --> 01:31:45,760 Speaker 1: having a really profound effect on my life. And I 1391 01:31:45,880 --> 01:31:47,720 Speaker 1: just don't want to share with you all because of 1392 01:31:48,800 --> 01:31:52,839 Speaker 1: it's happening to me currently. And there's something that's happening 1393 01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:56,240 Speaker 1: that's really really had an impact on my life. I 1394 01:31:56,320 --> 01:31:59,720 Speaker 1: didn't know now I started doing these morning meditations, right, 1395 01:32:00,400 --> 01:32:04,000 Speaker 1: and so part of it is I got this app, 1396 01:32:04,120 --> 01:32:06,320 Speaker 1: this Bible app. You know. Look, I ain't no preacher, 1397 01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:08,439 Speaker 1: so you can take the message from it. I'm just 1398 01:32:08,520 --> 01:32:11,439 Speaker 1: telling you what I'm doing and how it's improved my life. 1399 01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm not a perfect person, so I don't even really 1400 01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:17,720 Speaker 1: you know, kind of be really honest. I don't even 1401 01:32:17,760 --> 01:32:20,680 Speaker 1: think I'm trying to be perfect. I'm just trying to 1402 01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:24,599 Speaker 1: be a good person. Man. Some of the mistakes I make, 1403 01:32:26,120 --> 01:32:28,280 Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't know, man, some of the 1404 01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:32,360 Speaker 1: mistakes I make, I ain't really you know, I don't know. 1405 01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm a little confused about myself sometimes it's kind of place. 1406 01:32:36,520 --> 01:32:39,280 Speaker 1: I guess I am improving and trying to be better. 1407 01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:41,960 Speaker 1: But I'm not making the same mistakes over and over. 1408 01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm just finding out that it's it's not as easy 1409 01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:49,759 Speaker 1: to be a great person all the time because we're humans, 1410 01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:51,839 Speaker 1: you know, right, you know we're gonna all make mistakes, 1411 01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:55,760 Speaker 1: and so I've definitely made my share. But I keep 1412 01:32:55,800 --> 01:32:58,160 Speaker 1: on climbing and I keep on striving, So I guess 1413 01:32:58,200 --> 01:32:59,760 Speaker 1: I am trying to get a lot better. So I 1414 01:32:59,840 --> 01:33:02,400 Speaker 1: tell that back I am. But a friend of mine 1415 01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:09,360 Speaker 1: sent me a scripture and the scripture is Psalms five, five, 1416 01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:15,240 Speaker 1: and three. But I started reading from one all the 1417 01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:18,400 Speaker 1: way down to four and he said, hey, man, before 1418 01:33:18,479 --> 01:33:22,760 Speaker 1: you start your day in your morning meditation, he said, 1419 01:33:22,800 --> 01:33:24,479 Speaker 1: I want you to add the scripture. So part of 1420 01:33:24,560 --> 01:33:30,240 Speaker 1: my morning meditation is I have these like daily words 1421 01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:32,920 Speaker 1: that I read from a gift that someone gave me 1422 01:33:33,000 --> 01:33:36,200 Speaker 1: for my birthday. And then I have a King James 1423 01:33:36,600 --> 01:33:40,040 Speaker 1: Bible and I have a New Living Version of the 1424 01:33:40,120 --> 01:33:43,400 Speaker 1: Bible because I can't understand the King James version sometimes 1425 01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:46,200 Speaker 1: while I had these two side by side. So whatever 1426 01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:49,439 Speaker 1: script I'm reading in the King James, I also have 1427 01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:52,720 Speaker 1: a you know, New Living Testament with modern English in it, 1428 01:33:52,840 --> 01:33:56,760 Speaker 1: so I can really get an understanding of and inside 1429 01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:02,719 Speaker 1: one of my notes two pages one sheet of paper 1430 01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:06,400 Speaker 1: has things that I make sure that I read off 1431 01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:09,320 Speaker 1: every morning to thank him for, because I don't want 1432 01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,760 Speaker 1: to be ungrateful. I want him to know that I'm 1433 01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:14,240 Speaker 1: grateful for what all he's done for me. And I 1434 01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:16,360 Speaker 1: do this every morning, whether I'm having a great morning 1435 01:34:16,479 --> 01:34:18,559 Speaker 1: or not, whether I got some bad news the night 1436 01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:21,000 Speaker 1: before or not, or whether somebody said the answer to 1437 01:34:21,080 --> 01:34:23,519 Speaker 1: your question is no, you gotta try something else. I 1438 01:34:23,640 --> 01:34:26,960 Speaker 1: read the thank you list anyway, and some of the 1439 01:34:27,040 --> 01:34:30,000 Speaker 1: stuff on my thank you list it's stuff that someone 1440 01:34:30,120 --> 01:34:32,600 Speaker 1: has told me know about, but I thank God for 1441 01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:35,360 Speaker 1: it anyway, because what I've learned is I remember I've 1442 01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:37,519 Speaker 1: often been told no a bunch of times and it 1443 01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:40,360 Speaker 1: turned out to be a yes. So I thank him 1444 01:34:40,800 --> 01:34:44,639 Speaker 1: even when I get some disappointing news about a request 1445 01:34:44,680 --> 01:34:46,800 Speaker 1: that I put in, So I put in my thank 1446 01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:50,160 Speaker 1: yous first, then my next sheet of paper that's about 1447 01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:52,599 Speaker 1: fifty things I thank him for every day, and then 1448 01:34:52,640 --> 01:34:55,120 Speaker 1: I have another people with about fifty so things on 1449 01:34:55,200 --> 01:34:59,360 Speaker 1: it that I'm asking for. He said, before you read 1450 01:34:59,479 --> 01:35:01,639 Speaker 1: that list, Steve, he said, I want you to read 1451 01:35:01,760 --> 01:35:08,200 Speaker 1: Psalms five and three. And then it was so crazy 1452 01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:10,760 Speaker 1: because he said, Man, since you're doing this every morning, 1453 01:35:10,960 --> 01:35:14,880 Speaker 1: do this five and three, says Lord, in the morning, 1454 01:35:15,680 --> 01:35:20,120 Speaker 1: you hear my voice. In the morning, I pray to you, 1455 01:35:21,200 --> 01:35:25,639 Speaker 1: and I wait for you in hope. And so when 1456 01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:28,679 Speaker 1: he's sent me the scripture, he sent it from another version, 1457 01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:33,920 Speaker 1: and he says after he God hears him, hears him 1458 01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:36,080 Speaker 1: when he pray in the morning, he cries out to him. 1459 01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:42,120 Speaker 1: He waits expectedly throughout the day. And so you know, 1460 01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:44,720 Speaker 1: I've often talked to y'all about living your life as 1461 01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:47,840 Speaker 1: a life of expectation. That the only way to draw 1462 01:35:47,880 --> 01:35:50,479 Speaker 1: a great life is to expect a great life. The 1463 01:35:50,720 --> 01:35:54,120 Speaker 1: only way to think to be a great person is 1464 01:35:54,160 --> 01:35:56,800 Speaker 1: you have to think great people thoughts. If you want 1465 01:35:56,800 --> 01:35:59,760 Speaker 1: to be successful, you have to have successful thoughts. If 1466 01:35:59,800 --> 01:36:01,960 Speaker 1: you have negative thoughts, you're gonna be a negative person. 1467 01:36:02,040 --> 01:36:04,519 Speaker 1: So I've often said, you know, a man is as 1468 01:36:04,560 --> 01:36:07,440 Speaker 1: he's thinking, and you have to live your life in expectation. 1469 01:36:07,920 --> 01:36:10,360 Speaker 1: But this really clear to love for me. Man, I'm 1470 01:36:10,400 --> 01:36:15,840 Speaker 1: giving it to y'all. Psalms too through four, And I 1471 01:36:16,000 --> 01:36:20,040 Speaker 1: just started reading this and well it's three through four, 1472 01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:22,160 Speaker 1: but I read two through four. It said, my King 1473 01:36:22,280 --> 01:36:24,639 Speaker 1: and my God hear me. When I cry for help. 1474 01:36:24,760 --> 01:36:27,120 Speaker 1: I pray to you Lord. In the morning You're hear me. 1475 01:36:27,400 --> 01:36:29,720 Speaker 1: And then that morning I pray to you and I 1476 01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:35,200 Speaker 1: wait on you in hope. That's that expectation, y'all. That 1477 01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:40,000 Speaker 1: has changed the game for me because it's taught me 1478 01:36:40,200 --> 01:36:44,840 Speaker 1: so many things. Man, about how my mindset should be 1479 01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:49,240 Speaker 1: to begin the day. And even if you're not getting 1480 01:36:49,320 --> 01:36:52,840 Speaker 1: the things on your request list, be thankful for him 1481 01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:57,960 Speaker 1: because just because somebody told you no, that ain't necessarily 1482 01:36:58,080 --> 01:37:00,679 Speaker 1: God telling you know. And a lot of times people 1483 01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:03,719 Speaker 1: get off, they hustle too quick before the real blessing 1484 01:37:03,800 --> 01:37:07,000 Speaker 1: come through just because that person said no. Maybe God 1485 01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:09,599 Speaker 1: working on it from another angle. But as soon as 1486 01:37:09,640 --> 01:37:12,080 Speaker 1: you hear no and you stop wanting it or hoping 1487 01:37:12,160 --> 01:37:14,640 Speaker 1: for it, now your faith is gone. And now you 1488 01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:16,400 Speaker 1: can't get it because God don't give you what you 1489 01:37:16,520 --> 01:37:19,519 Speaker 1: won't He give you what you believe. So from now on, 1490 01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:23,479 Speaker 1: when you hearing no, leave it on your list. You 1491 01:37:23,560 --> 01:37:25,960 Speaker 1: don't know. That's that person told you know. You don't 1492 01:37:26,000 --> 01:37:28,880 Speaker 1: know what God doing on the other side, but he 1493 01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:31,720 Speaker 1: hear you every morning. He do here. I just want 1494 01:37:31,840 --> 01:37:34,400 Speaker 1: y'all to know that, so try to try to script 1495 01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:38,559 Speaker 1: your TI. Let's say, y'all have a great weekend. Drop 1496 01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:46,719 Speaker 1: it all right, up, It's dropped for all Steve Every contests. 1497 01:37:46,760 --> 01:37:50,040 Speaker 1: No purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 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